On Display with Melissa Gorga - Am I Missing Something? (w/ Joe Gorga)

Episode Date: February 16, 2023

Melissa and Joe sit down to talk about recent reconciliations, dinner with their latest Bravo friends, and why it's strange that some people work so hard during the off-season.

You're at slices now. You're slices. I don't I've never seen a pie this big. Yeah. What's up, everyone? Welcome to another episode of on display with Melissa Gorgah. I don't know if you

guys caught this or not, but we were Melissa Gorgah on display. And I just like the on display first Melissa Gorga. I don't know if you guys caught this or not, but we were Melissa Gorga on display. And I just like the on display first. So now we're on display with Melissa Gorga. And I hope you guys all like my new cover art. We did a new

photo shoot for season two. And first of all, I just want to say I'm so grateful to all of my listeners because you know, you guys have been listening like crazy. And I couldn't do this without all of you to all of my listeners because, you know, you guys have been listening like crazy and I couldn't do this without all of you and all of my listeners and I know I like had a dark week a couple weeks ago and everyone was like, where are you? What's happening? And it makes me happy that you're like waiting for this, you know, podcast to come out, which I'm very grateful.

You are going to introduce me. You just can't keep talking. Why do you do this to me all the time? The beginning is about me. Hey, home, I'm not just sitting here. Look at how you're here. I was telling people I'm here. Because this is like the factual part. I didn't introduce my guest yet.

What the hell? OK, guys, I have a very special guest with me today. It's my husband, Joe Gorgher. Go ahead, Joe. Say hello. What's up, guys? Melissa Knows. I'm here again.

Oh my God. Here he has to have his introduction. I was just giving them a little bit of a rundown about the podcast and how it does keep growing and the numbers keep going up and up. And I am very grateful for it. I can't. I can't. Yeah.

And I can't not thank everyone because they're listening. You know, they're listening on a Thursday morning. And I can't. Yeah. And I can't not thank everyone because they're listening. You know, they're listening on a Thursday morning. And I love that. So I just wanted to say, thank you guys for that. Um, anyway, should we talk about what just happened? So anyway, listen to this guys. We were today's Saturday for us. I know that you listened to me on Thursday and the reason we're recording this podcast on Saturday is because we are going away on vacation this week, which we are very, very excited about, right? And wait, it's just, yeah, just a nice little vacay with some good friends that we go away with them like once or twice a year. It's such a great like couples trip,

right? Yeah, outstanding crew. The best shout out to the Berman, Berman law team out there in Boca Raton, the best injury attorneys out there. They're amazing. But Russell gave me a challenge. He gave me a challenge on Instagram. I saw that who has the best body challenge. He's like, I'm doing this, I'm doing that. I'm beyond this.

It's not fair. You live in Florida. It's hot there. You get into the mood to doing that. I'm beyond something. It's not fair. You live in Florida. It's hot there. You get into the mood to work out. We're freezing here. It's so dark at four o'clock. I said, I'm not into it. So I don't know.

I'm not looking too good. Well, you worked out once this week. I've been eating a lot too late. I don't know what's up with me. Sometimes I go through my stages of working out and healthy eating. And I don't know what it is. Right now I'm on the down low.

I'm on the, give me the food. I know, but it's went through. That's why. Look at it. Look at how it's all dark and cloudy and... No, some, but what's the sunshine? You feel good. Yeah, and in Florida, it's 80 degrees

and they're working out, probably doing sit-ups outside right now. They're totally going to beat us. Now he did text me, goes, listen, I'm not doing too good. I've been eating a lot and I'm stressed out with work. That's a good, because I'm doing terrible. We haven't even tried this. I feel like we're not trying,

because we're gonna talk about the premiere guys too of the Real Housewives of New Jersey. I know we touched on it a little bit with Jackie. Now you guys have also seen episode two. It just getting better and better. I mean, lots of lots of drama, but we want to tell you what just happened on the way here. So rewind for a minute back to the fact that it's Saturday, right? So I'm driving over to my podcast office and obviously Joe and I are together and we're just like in the car gossiping talking about I actually was telling him what a great day and We had today like I was going through some of the numbers and this literally was our conversation So we're in a good mindset right coming in. I'm reading numbers to you at 5 a.m. I'm very

I'm very proud and I want to inspire it This is what I want to say and I don't want to talk exact numbers because you know, I don I want to inspire it. This is what I want to say. And I don't want to talk exact numbers because, you know, I don't want to do that. But I do want to inspire other women out there who are mothers that are thinking about it. I promise you, it can hit big. It can hit big.

And these are in its six, almost seven years now. Okay. And it's doing amazing. I employ a lot of people. We feed families. It's I'm proud. Yeah. And it's it's it's the bottom line is when you go into business, you got to just have the balls to do it. So anybody out there that wants to get into business, you want to open up a candle shop or you want to do cell t shirts or whatever you want to do, have the balls to do it. And if it fails.

And it was even just me switching stores, I was scared to come over into this bigger store, but I literally tripled my numbers this year from last year. Tripled, not doubled. Tripled my numbers by moving my store, double the size to Ridgewood, New Jersey, and how scared was I to do that? What meant, do you remember?

I used to say, Joe, if it's not broke, don't fix it, right? If it's not broke, don't fix it. And you were like, try it. And I was like, I don't know. It's a bigger rent. It's a bigger this. It's a bigger that I did it. And I tripled my numbers. So my point is, once again, not to brag, not to say I like, but to inspire and to say like, to brag, not to say I like, but to inspire and to say like really challenge yourself. If you're scared, do it. If you're not making any movement, then you're not making any change, right? So get out there and try the change. Level up if you can.

If you fall, you can pick up the pieces, but I'm telling you, I did it. I moved out of my comfort zone where I was very comfortable in my other smaller store We were doing great and I just stepped out of the comfort zone and it worked So I just want to tell people to try it because you know I don't it's not all every day that I just go really looking at the numbers and really making comparisons and I was like blown away Yep, so go out there and throw some shit against the wall and whatever sticks go with it because some of it's gonna fall and you're gonna fail and it's

okay to fail. The biggest entrepreneurs and billionaires and millionaires have failed a lot. Trust me. So go out there and go make some money. Right. Can you just admit on a wrap of this that there are no longer crumbs being made? No. What? Yes. I admit it. No, I said, can you admit? Oh, yeah, no, you're down to you're just you're at slices now. You're slices. I don't I've never seen a pie this big. You've had to slice slices. Yeah, the slice bag. Honey. Yeah, keep trucking. Come on, babe. You're doing good. That's just slices. These are not slices, guys.

I don't know what slices that cost us much money. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Exactly. Seven figures. Anyway, I don't know what slice costs that amount. But moving forward, my whole point of his conversation is that we were driving to the studio today.

Let me get back to our point because we just like wander off on tangents. And we're happy, right? We're having this like happy conversation. Well, talking about that, we're going to the movies tonight, with our kids. We're taking our kids to the movies tonight, like Avatar maybe, so we decided.

And I am so excited about that. We love the movie. No, really, no one understands this little thing that we can go to a red carpet event or whatever. I want to go to the movies with my children. And I'm waiting for, I can't wait all day. No, really. That's because I'm happy doing that.

And the fact that Gino and Joey both agreed, like they're coming to the movies with us tonight, I'm very excited. That's what it's exciting. When you tell you a 15-year-old on a Saturday night, you say, go, we're going to go to movies. No, I'm very excited. That's what it's exciting. When you tell you a 15 year old on a Saturday night, you say, go, we're going to go to movies. He's like, uh, I told him yesterday, don't make plans tomorrow night.

Like he was going out last night. I'm like, I want like movie night with you guys. He's like, all right, mom. And that is an amazing achievement in life that we have children like that. We have that I love to be with you at a movie. And that's my excitement, you know, and I love that. So, but on another note, what happened?

Yeah. Right. And so listen, you guys DM me a lot. Yes, me a lot of questions when things go on. I know I recently just came out on DM. I'm not, you know, I put it out on my stories on Instagram. I had to answer some of your questions about these text messages because number one, I don't play in the mud. You guys know me, you know me for many years. I'm not one to play in the mud. It doesn't ever benefit me because haters are going to be your haters or going to be your haters, right? So you can prove them wrong time and time again. They won't see it. They will twist it. They will turn it and bring it back to like, no. So I don't play in the mud, never will,

just I don't play in the mud, but I have to answer every once in a while because you know, if it was a legit concern and if it looks wrong, then I need to come in and answer the question, right? And clear it up. And I'm very glad I was able to clear this last thing up. You guys get my point now. My point remained the same. We don't

need to get into it because I feel like we kind of did last week but you guys know it is what it is. So today I'm getting a bunch of text messages obviously like that Teresa flew to Vegas and is cheering with Louis and Jacqueline and Chris LaRita. Okay. I'm going to just reference this now because it happened as we were driving here. And if anybody wants to go back and check the timing, it was today. Okay. I know that there was going to be, there's already 100 messages saying,

how do I feel about this? What's going on with this? What the hell? Everybody's writing to Reese's constantly trying to just attack and whatever it may be because Jack and LaRita just said something bad about me. So here's my thoughts on this. Good for them. They were friends.

Good for them. They were friends, good for them. Do I think that it took her to rekindle her friendship, her to say something negative about me, and also have Dina who just kind of is no longer friends with her, didn't show up to her wedding. I am trying to explain to you guys that like it is frustrating sometimes when you have family members, or I don't even know at this point if you even call them family anymore because I just don't to hurt or I just I don't get it and I know a lot of my fans out there and a lot of you listeners are listening. You know we aren't getting paid for this right so we're on the offseason you got me someone is working around the clock.

Over time. Over time. And the funny thing is from seeing these last two episodes, I know you both know she is being led by a very strong force. It is extremely obvious. It is getting more and more clear by the day. We have all known Teresa for many years. We have gone in and out of arguments with Teresa Judice for many years, the family, right? Never has she ever gone this hard off camera in multiple ways,

whether it be press, podcasts, Instagram, any avenue possible to say negative things about us on the offseason when she is not getting paid for it at all, and just out of the clear blue sky 24, 7 bring them down. It's very obvious she's being led. I didn't want to believe that at first, but as each episode airs, it's becoming more and more clear. You have to look at that because she's never done this before. We've definitely had a little maybe Twitter thing here or there 10 years ago.

Never has she ever taken all of this energy away from whatever she's doing right taking her precious time To just prove a point on us. What point? I don't know whoever she can get in her corner to say something negative is what's happened What could you say but what can anybody really say? I don't know because I don't know. What are we bonding to? We're talking about the moon going to the movies tonight. And people are like meeting off to have drinks. And it's only, and that's fine. It could be a very innocent like meeting, right? It could be a very innocent friendship rekindling.

But I mean, are we all like, come on, are we going to just like stop giving, we got to stop giving excuses? Literally Jacqueline came out and said something like nasty about me with a week two weeks ago tops. Within two weeks she flies to Vegas. They want to rekindle. I mean, guys, you don't have to be a genius to realize what's going on here. And history does repeat itself. The same way it did when she found my old friend that was a bride that made sat her down

and let her, you know, maybe 10, she didn't want to hear it. But my ex-friend said anything bad and that she could, right? Then there was Kim D. What did she say, baby? Everything Kim D would say. I'm still angry with him. I'm still mad about that, you know? Anything Kim D would say, she would go on and on about that. Anything this, my old boss, oh, I'm a, I'm a mad about that. You know, anything Kim D would say she would go on and on about that.

Anything this one, my old boss, oh, I'm a, I'm a old boy. Like anyone, anywhere. And all I have seen, okay, is from day one, you threw Monica, season three right out of our house because Teresa was uncomfortable with her being there. It was the attorney that was on her case, right? We've left, we left Napa with Teresa because she got in a fight with Caroline Manson, walked out. We've, she had a huge fight with Margaret. Teresa was so in the wrong. She even came back this season to say I was

wrong. We get up, we walk away with your sister. Like, am I missing something here? I get into like a brawl basically in Jaclyn's, not in Jaclyn's backyard, in Jennifer Aiden's backyard. We're Jennifer literally physically puts her hands on me. We leave Teresa Steadham has a glass of wine. I mean, what, in what planet? Like, I don't, at this point, I don't know what to say. We're sneaky, we got something behind me. I don't know, people want to get it. We must be bad people. I don't at this point. I don't know what to say. We're sneaky. We got something behind me. I don't know. People want to. We must be bad people.

I don't know. Who are you? Superwoman? Are I a Superman or are we're Bonnie and Clyde? Or what the fuck are we? They want to let's take them down. They're going to let's go. Let's go. Let's go. There. This is vindication.

It's all happening. Guys, like what the fuck is happening? We're going to see Avatar tonight to watch a movie, guys. We'll let you know how it went. Fendication, like what the fuck? Sorry for my language, but like, am I missing something? Am I missing something, Joe?

Please tell me what is happening. It's fucking crazy. I am lost in the Bravo sauce. How about Louie? Like even Louie, the first episode, he's calling us. It's a cure. Both of us, I mean, I don't know. Multiple times.

Right, magic. We're ripping us together. It's a very second episode. Wait, and then? It's fine. It's so good. Wait, and then it's like, you talk about Teresa in every episode.

Her fans will just like, is there relentless? They're very similar to her personality You you talk about Teresa Every scene they're in my brother my brother and Melissa my brother Melissa, but they just ignored that like Hello, it's the Gorgah Judy show they talk about us cut. We talk about them They what do you think the show is just Melissa and Joe talking about Teresa, but then they don't give their opinion back.

I think Louie talked about us multiple times, called you insecure, called me insecure. She's like, that's a far fetch. Joe Gorga. And I'm gonna, because I'm a little cocky. You don't even need to defend that. No, I'm just saying, no, but I'm insecure. As you rub, and it cuts to, it cuts to you rubbing literal olive oil on your skin to pose.

I couldn't wait to pose, boys, Showtale's pecs. You know? I actually appreciate that. I mean, insecure. I mean, this is for my people. I'm done. For all my people out there, I know you're loving this right now, because I'm saying what you're thinking, and it's really just baffling to us as well.

I don't know what kind of indication we're talking about. I don't know. I don't know, man. I am just so shocked. I said the other day, and I'm baffled. And I'm so baffled. And I said, I cannot believe. It's like really. No, but really, that my sisters became my biggest enemy. Baffled and I'm so baffled. I said I cannot believe

But really that my sisters became my biggest enemy. I know that I know I said I am fucking shocked I know babe like what is going on? No, I mean that I know I don't know like I I don't know it's I am you know and I'm not gonna mention names, but somebody's going around digging about me and and is getting real. I hear things. Yeah, we actually have proof of Some things a lot of proof that you know like where you digging like what do you Gary? I'm being honest guys. There's some scary shit and like a lot of the stuff we previously read that we discarded. I am now no longer gonna discard because I'm starting to believe that this may be true.

And it's actually very scary. It's something that we wanna stay very far away from. I think even the writing is on the wall with just the actions I have never seen your sister act this way on this show. Outside of the show, ever. She's never rallied like this. She's never talked about me. She literally speaks about me on every single one of her

thing, her podcast like negative. I've never seen her do every press just talking about me like, I've never seen anything like it. And just to wrap this up, this section, guys. Joe, guys, I'm the one that's supposed to be mad. Okay, and I'll tell you why we've been saying in all the press, you guys all obviously know at this point, right? We filmed this season, you saw the reunion, right? Teresa was trying to be a polygetic after the reunion, which she's not like hiding because you saw the text, you saw what's going on. Joe and I were really sick of taking the apologies because we've taken them a thousand times.

We like, you know what? This is never going to get better unless we take a different route. We need to worry about our family, our kids. So that's the route. You're going to see this season is a different route. So it's not more of the same guys, just you know for anyone who's saying the real housewives of New Jersey this season is gonna be more of the same and more of Teresa and Melissa fighting it is extremely different you can definitely bet that because Melissa does not react the same as she has in all the the previous years if you're

and you're gonna see that and I'm not going to say anymore, but, but we're the ones outside of the show. Why aren't we mad? Like, we're the ones that are me specifically and your wife and when everyone hears what really happened, we should be living. We should be working over time to prove to the world how bad they are. Why are we not? Why don't we give a shit though?

Because here put this out there. Help me please. FYI people were really happy. We don't care. And everything they're trying to do they're wasting their time. Literally wasting their time. Because what can you expose us of? I don't know. Tell me. I don't know. Maybe we're Bonnie and Clyde and we don't know it. And everybody knows we're Robin Banks. Oh my God.

And we're stashing all the money. And we're money laundering. And we're cheaters. Yeah, and we're cheaters and we're doing all this stuff. I mean, case in point is what I was talking about with Jackie last episode, the more desperate you are to correct your story in public, the more it hints as to what is going on privately. Yep.

I got a bone. Right. You said that or you really did. I mean, and look at this. Look, I just even opened Instagram, Bravo and cocktails, who is an awesome Bravo account, by the way, if you guys don't follow Bravo and cocktails, you should. Awesome account. She literally just put up, see, right now,

all it took for Teresa to rekindle her friendship with Jacqueline was Dean at a cutter off their friendship and Jacqueline had talked bad about Melissa. No, wow. There you go. We're not the only ones that feel this way. I feel like, like, what is going on, man? Stop. You know, even what is going on, man? Stop.

You know, even when we were filming, right? And we had a big problem with Jennifer Aiding. I mean, we were terrible, right? You, when she came after you, both came after each other. We didn't talk for three months, whatever. I mean, three episodes, three, four episodes. But then we finally, let's forgive.

We all work together. But I want to just put a wrap on all of that, if I being honest because it's one of those things where it's like good for you Like spend all that energy doing that. I just want to go see Avatar tonight with my kids like oh yeah, I can't wait. I don't know how they do it. I'm telling everybody we don't get paid for it. So it's I'm exhausted watching All of the like point proving going on like it's exhausting So we also had by the way we had an awesome event last night with Some summer house people Lindsay and Carl we had Dolores and her new man with us Paulie Yeah, and we had who else was with us? Oh

Gurdie Gurdie and her husband from Miami who Joe like absolutely loved. She's so outspoken. Yes. She is, she's awesome. I tell you, the whole group, and we are Carl, and did you say to him? Carl Lindsay, yeah.

Carl Lindsay. I mean, what is, see that, that goes to show. That's the type of people I love to be around, because they're all in love. I mean, and let's talk about the Lord's, which can't keep her her hands off Paul. I know and they're very cute together. I'll just say this guys you're gonna see more of Paulie throughout the season. But I love him. I love his accent. I love how he says folk. Yeah, folk. Yeah. So great. They have like a really great relationship and I'm telling you he like not that she needs to be tamed. I don't want to say no. She needs to be tamed.

Well, stop. No, like he just like. In a good way. He really grabs onto her and they spend every like waking minute together and she probably likes it. Which I love, I love a good couple into each other. Like we had a, like last night those couples. We had so much fun with them at the end. And they, everyone truly for the record people,

everyone truly loves each other. Cause everyone, they're, like when you got, when you're sitting on each other's lap and you're hugging them and you know, even Gernie, we were sitting across from the table, she just wraps her arms around her husband and kisses them and looking in her eyes and car on Lindsey the same thing

and Dolores and Paul, Paul and I, it was, that's what I love to be. I love to be around love. I love to be shining couple. Like everyone was legit in love. And we were, it was a great pick by Page Six to pick the four couples because it was good. We all had interesting stories to tell about how we met,

how our relationship works. I think you have a little TMI talking about sex as usual. You know, you always have to bring in your... Well, sex is, sex is my comedy. It's my funny thing. Ha, ha, ha. You know, people get annoyed with it. It's not that bad.

It's funny. Get, enjoy life a little and laugh. You know, ones that don't like it, everyone's that are really like, you know, are missing it. So they're mad about it. So true story. Well, yeah. So anyway, it. So they're mad about it. So true story. Sorry.

Yeah. So anyway, it was so much fun, right? I mean, even we all went to dinner. We all went to dinner after we were doing shots. We were drinking wine. We had dinner together. Gerny came in and she's like, Joe, my husband, Russell, get them to do shots.

I said, OK, Russ, come on. And we started doing shots and it was fun. And he's cool. He's a firefighter in Miami. He's a very good, dirty, baby. Gerny, yeah cool. He's a firefighter in Miami. He's a very good-y, babe. Gerdy, yeah. He's a firefighter, good-looking guy, you know, a couple, beautiful couple.

They are beautiful couple. I loved her. She was a firecracker. And it just shows to show you how all of our shows are different. Like, she would say, she said whatever she wanted on the stage about her cast members, like without even blinking an eye. And I was like, I don't like to do that. I prefer not to like you know dig in when they can't defend themselves But she Joe you laughed at her all night like she is very

She made a lot of money but that's what I like if you want to say something about somebody go ahead Because you're on a TV show together say something and then react on camera and it's over Not that you wanna kill somebody because they said something. Oh my God, that's ridiculous, man. Well, I will say that is a little problem on our show. It's very hard to remain like this amazing cast when you have people who do not forgive

and they come back each season trying to revenge for the season before when they fake made up with you, but then they really didn't make up with you. They just do it, right? And then they come back the next season with their blood boiling ready to talk about what happened to seasons ago. It makes, it doesn't work, you know?

And it's like, I really hope that they get that, that like, you have to be, it's about conflict resolution, right? So we, I get that we're gonna have conflict, but we need to resolve it. And when we resolve it, it has to be a real resolution. It can't be that you're gonna come guns of blaze and for your next season with the same conversation, like you're boring me ladies, like move forward.

And FYI, being happy and forgiving is you feel better. You are happy. So that's why you got to just love and enjoy people and have fun. You can have an argument. It's okay. You have kissed Alora's off right now for anything. Like she is totally in love. Yeah, it's cool. Jennifer really said some things and Alora's like letting everything go because she's so in love. She's like, I don't even have time for this bullshit. She doesn't even want to hear it.

And that's what true love is. Like, she thinks she's out there trying to seek revenge on Jennifer. Like, no, Dolores is like happily probably sitting at home with three dogs on her and her Irishman, like pouring her cocktail. Like, that's what love is. That's what happiness is. Well, we're very lucky that we live a good life and we're, we have lived a happy life

and we're lucky for that. And we have to keep it that way. And that's not by chance, right? We didn't just get dealt those cards. We live in the mindset to keep our lives happy by choosing not to hold on to hate and even an argument between you and I, you gotta let it go.

I mean, I don't get it. Let me tell you something. We've argued, right? Ever since we were been together, we've had a lot of arguments, guys, right? Because I read a couple for 19, we're going on 19 years. And Melissa, I would always hold a grudge, little longer.

You would forgive so much faster and Going through these years over the years she has taught me to forgive So really you have because I did hold grudges and my thing was I really don't like to talk and like to fight So I would hold it in and I would hold it and hold it and hold it in and on one day I just explode and then you would be like what the hell are you talking about why are you so mad over that but I held so many things in but that's what you do become who you marry a lot of the time and you know you do sway into their ways a little bit. Let me finish my point was I don't I don't like to fight so I

hold things in so I don't say to fight. So I hold things in. So I don't say nothing. So I'll allow you to talk dirty to me or say something to me. And I just sit there and accept it because I just don't want to fight. And over the years, even being on a show with my sister and whoever and her husband's, I wouldn't say nothing because I wanted to keep the peace.

I'm mostly always kind of defended myself. And then when I would snap is because I can't take it anymore. And right when I had my- No, you are so emotional and you know everyone tells me that. Even by the way, at the event last night, every fan I spoke to was like, your husband wears his heart honestly. He's so emotional.

He's such a good guy. Like everybody knows who you are. They know when you explode, you're exploding from hurt, not nasty. Like, you're not exploding because you're a raging lunatic, like, mean person. You explode from like your emotions and your passions and like, it's very obvious that you're not a nasty bad person. You're an emotional person. And there's two, that's two different things. Because I get so offended. And you can't control your emotions. I can't because that you are guilty of.

I get offended because why are you treating me this way? I'm not treating you this way. I don't think to treat you in that way. So then I get so angry at that emotional, you know, I don't know, I don't insult it. There's a word. But that's why this year, this year, I'm a little different now. You know what? I talk now. I'm starting to talk where I used to not, I used to hold it in. I don't want to hold it in now. Now if I have something to say, I say it.

You know, I'm a little bit too many. No one likes that. No one knows. They don't like that anymore. It's just that I don't like that anymore. Well. Now I'm going to tell her, I used to sit there and I don't want to say nothing. You would let her win.

I don't want to, I let her win. I'm not going to argue with her. Okay, okay, okay. Okay. Now I'm gonna talk and that's what she don't like now I don't know. There's no reason not to talk anymore. She she laid it out Even with Louis when Louis first came around right and say anything about the videos I just say anything about that these are my brothers like all of the things that were going on like all of these weird things We could have had a field day. I just wanted to say we could a ran with it right if you knew the DMs that I get from mold like you have no idea So then people came up to me in restaurants sit down next to me and warned me crazy things I've never said anything but now you know I have no reason not to say my truth and I will I

Respected them. I gave them I gave him a lot of love and respect. But you know what, you see the first episode this season? First chance he gets, he's staying where he's secure. Look at your brother. You should have called him a bitch boy before. Yeah, you know, honestly, it doesn't bother me. I don't care, but it just shows his true colors that he constantly sits there and talks about.

I want to make this family better. You know, I love peace Whatever he says, you know a Kumbaya. What does that thing go? No, what is that? I don't even know about namaste because I you know why I don't even know about namaste because I my my normal life is Being good done. It's not namaste these days. It's not my rage Coming from the other side right for real. I'm like what is happening am I on another planet? You know people who know Like and I'm gonna wrap this up with this, people who know Joe Gorgah and Joe,

we've known you for a very long time, right? There's no, we can't hide. If we've been on TV for the last 13 years, it's all out there, guys. It's there. It's you can find and reach and do. And like, anything is could be out there would be at this point. We all know who you are, we all know you're a good guy,

we all know you don't want to hurt and the problem is we don't know that about everyone right, we don't know that about some of these new men that we're meeting, we don't know who they really are. And we're getting letters and messages and texts. And a lot of things telling us to be very, very afraid, right? And it's scary. It's scary. And at this point, it's just one of those things where you're like, you just sit back. So I'm just going to like end this podcast with everybody knowing as well that I played in the mud a little bit guys. I'm answering some questions here and there because it's gotten to the point where it's like I almost have to once in a while, but just note

Silence, okay, is very strong silence is strong and the fact that Joe and I can remain silent while everyone is fusing and proving, okay, is a very strong thing. So do not mistake the sign lengths for guiltiness or anything other than we're going to sit back and watch how this plays out. Well, look, you just saw my last post, right? And it's, don't assume that loud is strong and quiet is weak. The fiercest storms rise from the comases. Right.

Well, it's a fact. So I think nothing is stronger than silence. Sorry, like for me, it's the ultimate. I honestly, you want to know the truth? I honestly don't care to dig or to find out anything about any. I don't feel like karma to me. Right. So if I, if you start digging, because we can find we don't really have first of all, we don't have to really dig hard. But like if we wanted to do that game I feel like that comes back to you, right? And then you end up a miserable person. Karma's a real thing And I don't want you or my family are us to play in that sandbox

But I feel like lately they're almost like asking us to play in it, but we we're gonna rise above I'm gonna rise above who cares a shot. Oh, this the right above. Listen, you don't, people, I always say I sit back, I'm being me and Karma will take his course. That's it. I'm just be happy. I just want to sit there, be happy, enjoy my friends, enjoy you, enjoy my children, and that's all I want to do. I've done.

Right. So, tonight we're gonna go see Avatar. We're gonna enjoy our kids. We're gonna go see Avatar we're gonna enjoy our kids we're gonna have popcorn we've addressed this guys so that way you don't ask me 1,000 times what I think of it I think good for them if they're rekindling wonderful enjoy that. Jacqueline is she moving back to New Jersey. I have no idea.

I come on a show. Yeah, I know she's fine. What's going on a show again? It's okay. Everybody has an angle here. All good. I love Jacqueline. You love Jacqueline. I always did. I don't crush them either. She just got like, I don't get it. But whatever. All good. Keep talking. I'm good over here. So it's like whatever the angles are, the angles are. If it's anyone, God bless. That's my answer. So you guys don't have to ask me 1000 times that's that I will let you know how

avatars we're very late going to this because it's I feel like it's been out for a while and we're like really a couple weeks behind I mean we really are so we're gonna hit the movies tonight we love you guys we want to thank you for your support always and one more thing one One more thing. It's Valentine's Day. So guys, go out there and do something special for your women. Really, it's special, man. Take the time to do something. Even if it's a card with a nice message, you know, women, you go out there and do something for your guys. Be happy. Because when you give something that makes somebody smile and giggle and laugh, it feels good. So go love each other.

Because that's what happiness is all about. Well, it's bound times. Can I say something nice to you? I know in the 19 years and I'm so proud of you. And every which way, I'm proud of us that we've weathered this storm on this crazy as life that we live on this crazy show. It's been hard.

Listen, this is hard, right? But true love will overcome and will overcome. So happy Valentine's to you, my love. I still look at you. Yeah, whatever. I still look at you. And I get those little like butterflies. And I hope that I continue to, to like 90 doing the same thing we have. So let's lift to 98. I like that number. Yeah, 98, 98's good. Yeah, it's good.

Yeah, we'll call them day at 98. Good. I'm good there. So you got anything nice to say about me? You know, you always set me up. Like I told you, when you're giving a compliment, you can't fish for another one. You could say something nice.

I'll say something. I always say nice things about you What do you want to say you know guys don't forget we're recording this on Saturday so Valentine's Day is coming up, okay? I just want to say I just think you're so wonderful and so amazing We don't really celebrate Valentine's Day. Let's be honest. We don't really do that We used to we used to like we don't do that. Like, if anything, everybody can't use for the kids and stuff. I sometimes think it's cheesy. It's like, Oh, it's Valentine's Day. We're getting

about to dinner. Like we go out to dinner every night of the week. We really do. Right? It's like we, I don't know. You were saying. Think you're so amazing. I think you have the most beautiful eyes. And I think that you just love a compliment. Yeah. And I'm here to give it to you. I love you have the most beautiful eyes. And I think that you just love a compliment. And I'm here to give it to you. I love you very much. Love you. Alright guys, we love you. We'll talk to you soon. Have the best week and we'll catch up with you guys next week. Hasta la vista, baby. Ciao. Ciao. Arrivederci. ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا ھا Yeah!