Passion Struck with John R. Miles - Ciera Rogers on Why You Don’t Need to Fit in to Win EP 470

Episode Date: June 20, 2024

Ciera Rogers, the creative force behind the women's wear line, Babes, shared her inspiring journey on the Passion Struck podcast. Growing up in challenging circumstances, Ciera learned valuable lessons from her experiences, including the importance of leveraging disadvantages into assets. Ciera's approach to building her business, focusing on inclusivity and body positivity, has resonated with her audience, leading to significant success. Ciera's story serves as a testament to the power of resilience, hard work, and authenticity in achieving success, despite facing obstaclesOrder a copy of my book, "Passion Struck: Twelve Powerful Principles to Unlock Your Purpose and Ignite Your Most Intentional Life," today! Recognized as a 2024 must-read by the Next Big Idea Club, this award-winning book has earned multiple accolades, including the Business Minds Best Book Award, the International Book Awards for Best Non-Fiction, the Eric Hoffer Award, and the Non-Fiction Book Awards Gold Medal. Don't miss out on the opportunity to transform your life with these powerful principles!Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://passionstruck.com/ciera-rogers-why-you-dont-need-to-fit-in-to-win/In this episode, you will learn:How to identify the intersection between what you're good at and what you're passionate aboutThe importance of using your uniqueness in the service of othersThe impact of behavior change on future successThe significance of turning disadvantages into assetsAdvice on taking the first step to invoke changeTips on building a personal brand image and company brandingStrategies for running a business cost-effectivelyLessons learned from challenging life experiencesThe value of living within or below your means for financial stabilityOvercoming obstacles related to upbringing or background to achieve dreamsAll things Ciera Rogers: https://cierarogers.com/SponsorsBrought to you by Clariton, fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Ask for Claritin-D at your local pharmacy counter. You don’t even need a prescription! Go to “CLARITIN DOT COM” right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear.--► For information about advertisers and promo codes, go to:https://passionstruck.com/deals/Catch More of Passion StruckCan’t miss my episode withJamie Kern Lima on the Power of Believing You Are WorthyListen to my interview withJen Gottlieb on How to Create Your Own Success by Being SeenWatch my episode with Rusty Shelton on How You Build Your Authority AdvantageListen to my solo episode on Find Your Matter Meter: Create Belief in Why You MatterSee my episode with Hilary Billings on the Psychology of Attention, Mastering Short-Form Video, and Personal Brand BuildingLike this show? Please leave us a review here-- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter or Instagram handle so we can thank you personally!

Coming up next on Passion Strike. A lot of times we're passionate about things that we're not good at. We're good at things that we're not passionate about. There's a lot of people working in jobs that they have no passion for. And there's a lot of people that have passion for something that they're not good at all. And they can never make money. With me, I got really lucky that I just have a knack for women's bodies. I have a knack for fashion and making things look good. I got look good. sense. So a list would he if you wrote down things things you're passionate

they meet, I think that's never want to go into a b just passionate about it at all. Welcome to Passio your host john R. Miles a decipher the secrets, tip and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turn their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself. If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays.

We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, visionaries, and athletes. Now let's go out there and become passion struck. Hello everyone. Welcome back to episode 470 of passion struck. Can't believe we're already at 470 interviews. What an amazing ride it has been. And we also just crossed 40 million downloads overall.

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We have episode starter packs, which are collections of our fans' favorite episodes that we organize in a convenient playlist that give any new listener a great way to get acclimated to everything we do here on the show. Either go to passionstruck.com or Spotify to get started. I am so excited to announce that my book Passionstruck won the gold medal at the non-fiction book awards and also is a winner of the Eric Hoffer book award where it was also on the short list for the grand prize. And you can pick up a copy of my book which is now out on audiobook at amazon, passionstruck.com or wherever you order books. In case you missed my interview from earlier in the week, it featured the brilliant Morley Robbins who is an expert in mineral metabolism. In this episode, we'll explore Morley's root cause protocol and the incredible journey

into the world of minerals, his groundbreaking insights on the root causes of chronic health issues, the power of copper in our diet, and the transformative power of understanding our body's mineral needs. From debunking common health myths to practical tips for optimizing your well-being, it's an episode you do not want to miss. And if you liked that previous episode or today's, we would so appreciate you giving it a five-star rating

and review, which goes such a long way in strengthening the Passion Star community where we can help more people create intentional lives. And I know we and our guests love to hear your feedback. way, and strengthening the Passion Star community where we can help more people create intentional lives. And I know we and our guests love to hear your feedback. Today we have the incredible Ciara Rogers, who's the creative force behind the women's wear line, babes. Ciara has carved a unique space for herself in the fashion industry and beyond, sharing

her journey and empowering women around the world. Ciara's life story reads like a novel. She went from spending nights in her mom's car, struggling with homelessness, to advising celebrities and seeing her designs on stars like Kim Kardashian. It's a testament to what you can achieve with grit and a fresh perspective. Today, she's here to talk about her new book,

The Outsider Advantage, because you don't need to fit in to win. It's all about using what makes you different to get ahead. Sarah will share how she turned every setback into a step forward and why she believes that not fitting in can actually be your biggest asset. We'll delve into her practical advice for anyone starting from scratch. How to use what you have right now to get to where you want to be and she'll tell us why waiting for the perfect time is the biggest mistake you can make. Sarah's story isn't just inspiring, it's a blueprint for making your own way when the

usual paths don't work out. So whether you're an entrepreneur, a creator, or someone who's just trying to figure it out, this is one episode you won't want to miss. Thank you for choosing PassionStruck and choosing me to be your host and guide on your journey to creating an intentional light. Now let that journey begin. I am absolutely thrilled and honored to welcome Sarah Rogers to Passion Struck. Welcome Sarah.

Thank you. Thank you for having me. Excited to talk with you today. Today, we're going to be talking to you about your brand new memoir, The Outsider Advantage, because you don't need to fit in to win. Congratulations to you on its release. Thank you so much. I'm really excited to present it to the world and I hope it helps a lot of people. So as you were writing this, was there an audience that you had in mind that you

hope the book would resonate with? Definitely. It's a business memoir. So I wanted a business memoir that catered to people like me, outsiders, people that felt like they didn't have the answers. Maybe you didn't grow up in the right family. Maybe you didn't have any money, connections, resources, any internships, education, experience at all. I wanted to make them feel seen and heard and give them a way to find success. Well, I appreciate that. I have two children, 25 and 20 now, and I know my son is finding himself in this stage where he continues.

He's the older one where he's been doing these portfolio jobs that aren't really bringing him fulfillment and he has this aspiration that he wants, but he's having trouble figuring out how to go from point A to point B. So I'm hoping your story will be an inspiration to people like him and other listeners. I always think it's important to start these things off by giving people some backdrop into who you are and how you got to where you are. But for you in your case, I'm going to start out by talking about your childhood and you grew up in less than ideal circumstances. Can you describe that?

We moved around a lot by moving around. I mean like hopping from couch to couch or car to car. I never really had, I technically didn't have my own room until I was in high school or a door to close. So we, yeah, less than ideal situations, definitely for my childhood. Yeah, and I know that creativity plays a huge role in your life. Were there early signs of creativity being important

that you found? Early indicators that fashion was something you would be passionate about? Oh, 100%, none of this comes from me. All this comes from my mother. It's interesting because being an adult, I'm like, yeah, all of these things, all of these attributes I have came from me.

But no, they came directly from my mother. She was heavily influenced by fashion. She always had a magazine in her hand. We would go in and out of their stores just looking at clothes. So it definitely came from her and passed down to me. Well, you and I have something in common. We both have lived in Houston. I was there for a short time, but it's definitely an interesting city, depending

on where you live in that greater metropolitan area. I happened to work right downtown and I, at the time was working for Arthur Anderson, which meant that I was getting to work right downtown and I at the time was working for Arthur Anderson Which meant that I was getting to work with a lot of the energy companies around town but what I found not growing up there was that It was easy for me to make connections and a lot of people would give me opportunities to meet with them But I found it much more difficult to break into the community after you had that initial meeting if you weren't a well-known person or

related to them or somehow Introduced to them. Did you find the same thing? Yeah, definitely I think it's much easier if you grow up in the family where the job is handed to you or you already Have been given all the answers if you're just out on your own and you feel like you're an outsider, it can be really disheartening, but I'm hoping that by using what's in my book, it will help you gain success faster. So as I opened up your book, I love the initial pages which had career timeline and you illustrate on one side what the typical person goes through

and on the other side you indicate your path and then you end it by showing the same thing but what path is the reader going to take themselves. I find this interesting because I mentioned to you that I came out with my own book this year and you and I are in many ways talking about the same thing. I went down this conventional path that you lay out is what most people do is that they go to college. I ended up going to the Naval Academy.

So mine was a little bit different. But when I got in the business world, it was all climbing the corporate ladder and then getting the possessions, retiring, et cetera, dying. And I think it's this path that's been meaningful. And I think it's this path that so many people find themselves on, but I was in the middle of this journey and completely unfulfilled.

So I understand now why there are hundreds of millions of people who feel unfulfilled because this path that we think to becoming the dream that we're told to become, I don't think is the path to fulfilling living. And you certainly didn't find that to be the fact. What allowed you to veer from that historical path and to carve out this unique path that you've taken. Honestly, I tried to do the traditional path. I mean, I'm from Texas. I thought I was gonna go to school,

get my degree, get married, have two kids, send them off to college and eventually die, like you said. So I did try but it just wasn't working. So I was forced off the path, which a lot of us are. It definitely wasn't like a choice for me. Looking back in hindsight, I wish I would have moved off that path sooner. If I can give any advice to anyone, the traditional path is BS. We're not all taking the path. We're all carving our own course. So the quicker you realize that, the quicker you'll find your own success. Yeah.

And this leads me back to that discussion I was having before with my son, because he is taking this path. Similar to you. He got into this desire to want to get into PR to get into kind of the social media work, helping brands grow. But his real passion is in music. And so now he's working on it. And where we live in Tampa isn't the easiest place to pursue music, but it's difficult when you're in that position to just pick up and go to Nashville or LA

or wherever you need to, but you found yourself in the similar place. You were living in Houston and you couldn't find a job and it wasn't due to the laziness factor It was you didn't find that there was an opportunity for someone like you who had a degree but no experience What gave you that courage? To go to LA Where really you went with the clothes on your back and nothing much more. I Honestly don't know. I feel like I, it feels crazy now that I did it.

Whoever that girl was, she had no other choice. It's funny, like it's funny the things that you're able to accomplish when your back is against the wall. So I felt like that gave me the extra push. Like I have nothing here, nothing is working. And the longer I stay here, I'm just gonna lose time and get older.

So I just decided to just go and that gave me that push. And in those early days when you were in LA, there were many times where you were close to homelessness. What motivated you when you found yourself in those places to keep going? I talk about this in my book, using trauma as a motivator. I was poor the majority of my life, in and out of homelessness the majority of my life. So whenever I feel like I'm getting close to that,

there is a trauma sense in me that motivates me to work harder. I'm the hard, one of the hardest working people that I know because I refuse to go back to the way that I was. Yeah, that's how I got through that. So one of the things that we cover a lot on this show is the power of our choices and shaping our future. Was there a critical moment when you realized

that your choices impacted how you were going to live your life and why being intentional about them was so important? See, the funny thing is none of this is like super intentional, which is something that I always say. It's like us as outsiders or anyone that's like really been through something, it's like a reflex. it's hard to explain. It's not a written thing. I think it's not something that is on the surface that I'm planning, it's just something I'm reacting to.

And yes, it is a bunch of small choices that have been, have led me up to this moment. There's no long big out plan that I have made for this. One of the things that I love that you wrote was everything I knew about styling. I learned by watching my mom. I realized that it's not what you have in your closet. It's how you use it.

You realized in that moment that you would become successful by using what you did have. Can you explain? I didn't have anything at that time. So at that moment in LA, I felt like I didn't, I knew what I didn't have. I mean, we all know we don't have, I didn't have the money. I didn't have a car. I didn't have connections or resources. So it's about focusing on what you do have.

And what I had was my experiences. I had what I learned from my mother. I had literally the clothes that I brought to LA. So I use those things as resources to get me to where I'm at today. Instead of feeling like a victim or feeling sorry for myself, I decided to look for what I actually did have. And it's so interesting.

I always found in the corporate world that people are reading your resume and oftentimes they're spending 30 seconds a minute looking at this thing that is supposed to define your life but really defines so little of you. And in the book you write, suddenly the resume I held onto so tightly with a mangled mix of embarrassment and pride

felt like just a piece of paper. It didn't define me or sum me up. Just as being turned down time and time again for jobs I knew I could do quite well didn't sum up who you would be. And you write here that I think something that is so profound, their short-sightedness did not determine my potential. I did, and you're right to the audience, you do. Can you explain this and why it's so important to the audience? You're not a piece of paper. I mean, I'm sure you know that.

You're not your education. I mean, hell, sometimes a lot of those things on those papers are lies. We've all done it, like, or fived. You're definitely not defined by those things. It's about what you're capable of, what can do and that's definitely hard. That's why I wasn't getting hired I think that's definitely hard to portray to someone that's looking at you as a piece of paper or based off of your experiences So it's best to just know what you're capable of and go from there

yeah, and one of the things that I love to explore is this whole idea of life crafting the life that we want and this is this chasm that we often find ourselves into in exploring the relationship between what we're good at and what we're passionate about and making the two become one and this is something that you absolutely did. How did you go about figuring that out? to become one and this is something that you absolutely did. How did you go about figuring that out? I got lucky. A lot of times we're not, we're passionate about things that we're not good at,

or we're good at things that we're not passionate about. There's a lot of people working in jobs that they have no passion for. And there's a lot of people that have passion for something that they're not good at all and they can never make money. So I think with me, I got really lucky that I just have a knack for women's bodies. I have a knack for fashion and making things look good.

So I found that was I got lucky in that sense. So a list would help. Basically, if you wrote down things you were good at, wrote down things you're passionate about and see where they meet. I think that's best because we don't ever want to go into a business where we're just passionate about it, but we're not good at it at all. So it's best to make those things meet if you're smart. Yeah. Well, I think the way that you write about in the book is a smart way for people to think about this, because you said in the list, you had things such

as film music and art, and then in the margins, you started to jot down notes on what sort of hard skills are required to do these jobs. And I think that is a really important thing because either you're gonna have the skills or you're gonna have to learn the skills. And sometimes when you understand what that gap is, it gives you an opportunity to realize what you're up against.

And you realize that you were as an example passionate about film production But one of the hard skills required to do video editing, which is something you didn't do right? It gave me the opportunity to learn it, you know, that's definitely right Like even when you talk about your son being passionate about music, is he good at it? That's the question. You know, I mean like do other people think think that you're going to, can you actually do this for a business? So it's important to, yeah, find out what those skills are, what the things that you're passionate about and either get, learn those skills or you may already have them. Yeah.

So it's basically carving out the intersection with your experiences that you've had so far and the goals that you want to accomplish in life and then figuring out how you get from point A to point B, which is very difficult for people to do. Was there an initial person like a mentor or an influencer that you ran into that inspired you on this journey? The only person I say is my mom. I wasn't lucky enough to have a mentor. Sometimes I wish I would have. I don't know if my journey would have been different.

I think they're great if you can find one. I didn't have that. I had to make a way for myself, but I definitely, my mom is my main inspiration. She taught me everything that I know now that I'm realizing as an adult, like all of this came from her. Yeah. I also understand in addition to your mom, that you had a chance to meet Spike Lee. What influence or advice did he give to you?

At the time, my business wasn't together. I just got here in LA, so I was just calling myself a stylist. I think that's what people do when they get here. They're like, I'm a singer now. I'm a stylist. I was calling myself something. But he took it serious. He's like, a minute, I need like actual proof.

You need a website, you need a business card. So you need to get your stuff together. So that kind of motivated me because I admire him so much in all the work that he's done to push me further and at least look professional, look the part instead of just saying what I was. Yeah. And where did you think that gap was?

Because oftentimes you hear people say you've got to manifest what you want to be. You need to start acting the part. You need to start showing up as if you want to be a millionaire, you need to start acting the part, you need to start showing up as, if you want to be a millionaire, you need to start acting like a millionaire. If you want to be a record producer, you got to start up acting like you're a record producer. In your case, you want to be a fashion mogul, you got to start acting like it, but that's much more difficult to do than it sounds. And it's difficult to get into some of those circles that you need to surround yourself with in order to accomplish it

How did you bridge that gap? I think it was the audience too. He's like Spike Lee so he's wanting proof, you know what I mean, like it depends on who you're talking to if you're in a Room where you're just networking. Yeah, I think you should definitely act the part Like you're if you haven't styled one person, act like you've styled one person because that's gonna get you more work. With Spike, he was like, no, I need proof. So it really depends on your audience.

It depends, you gotta cater your message to your audience. So I was talking to Spike Lee. I needed to have my stuff together a little better. So I've started a few businesses myself and there's always a bunch of hurdles and getting them off the ground and then gaining momentum. And I find oftentimes when people start to struggle with some of the hurdles, they often lose the emphasis on the core thing that they were trying to solve for in the beginning.

Did you ever find yourself in that type of situation and how did you get through it? Yeah, definitely. I talk about this in my book too. When I lost my core, I started, I think it's good to look at competition, but I started comparing myself to competition and I felt like Babes, my business, didn't look like a lot of the other businesses that I admire. Babes started by just relating to the everyday girl. I used everyday pictures.

I use a lot of my customers' pictures. So my site or my website didn't look like other sites did, but that's how I gained my success. But as I got more successful, I started comparing. And whenever I compared, I changed my aesthetic and that did not work out for me. That was some of my lowest cells to date. So I had definitely was forced to get back to my core.

Yeah. This is something that I wrote about in my book. I actually borrowed this from a Benjamin Hardy, who's a psychologist, but he calls this the gap versus the gain. And so many of us live in the gap where we are making incremental progress, but we keep comparing ourselves to others that we see and for me it would be as a podcaster trying to compare myself to Jay Shetty or Joe Rogan or someone who's been doing this a long time and I'm constantly going to be living in the gap as

opposed to looking at the gain, which is my past self compared to my actual self who I am today and the progress that I've made. Why do you think it's so difficult for us to look at the gains and we always fall back on the gaps? It's hard. It's hard for me now. Even though I know it's wrong, I still do it. It's hard. It's hard for me now, even though I know it's wrong. I still do it. It's hard. And social media, it's a great tool, but it's also like a dangerous tool because you can find any and everything around the world to compare yourself to. So it's definitely hard to look at the game. It's definitely easier to stay in the gap. But I always, I try to remind myself, do I want to be a watered down version of what I'm copying or what I prefer it should just be me?

Because people like original things. What's the point in copying someone that's already them? I don't want to be a watered down version. So it's just, it's smarter to be yourself. Yeah. And I think a great example of that is everyone's heard of Groupon, but when Groupon hit the scene, there are like eight different companies that came out of the woodwork that were doing the same thing that Groupon did. And to me, I think one of the superpowers that people don't utilize enough is our originality.

To me, the key to success is utilizing your uniqueness in the service of others and the service of how you can use the unique talents that you have to make a difference in other people's lives. Have you found that to be true yourself? Yeah, absolutely. But I think there's a balance, right? I don't think you should not look at other podcasts or should not look at your competition

because if they're successful, like looking at what they're doing can possibly help you, but you also have to know yourself if you're a copier or you get, or if that would make you insecure, maybe lay off of it. It's a balance of sticking to your core, eyes on your own paper, remembering like who you are, staying original,

but also looking at competition, looking at how and why people are successful and seeing how you can make those two things meet Yeah, you're absolutely right when I started this podcast I remember I must have listened to 250 different podcasts because I was trying to get My wits are about me about what made a great podcast. What didn't how did the host behave? How did they not And so that was really important. But like the first six months I was doing this, I found out that I was asking questions

and emulating other hosts that I had seen. And I realized that no one's going to listen to this because I'm trying to be someone else. They're going to either love it or hate it by me being myself. But it's a difficult thing to come into because oftentimes you don't have the confidence to trust that what you're doing is actually gonna take off. Did you ever feel that way?

Oh yeah, I'm still working on my confidence. I know it sounds weird, but being yourself, especially on camera is very vulnerable Like we take the internet lightly like we're putting ourselves out there our faces out there our thoughts out there So it's much easier to try to be someone else so you can be in a corner just in case they judge that person So yeah, it's definitely it's a very emotional vulnerable And if you're not like super confident, which I'm not, I'm still working on that now, it'd be difficult for sure. Yeah, one of my favorite videos I saw of you

as I was researching for this was a short video that your sister made of you a few years ago. What video? I'm not sure if you remember this, but it was great. She goes to the Starbucks and she orders you a Maca. And then you take her on a day in the life of Sierra. And it was really just interesting for me to see the interplay that the two of you had

and how your decisions and what kind of models did you want to use for these shows? How were they going to represent your brand, et cetera? Can you describe that relationship that you have with your sister? Because it seemed like from watching this, you two were really close and supportive of each other. Oh, we're definitely close.

I mean, it was just me and my mom and my sister my entire life, me and my sister only a year and three months apart. So we were on top of each other. We talk every single day. She's one of the hardest working people I know. I mean, we have all of the same life experiences. So we definitely are super close. We still work together. If I have any business advice or questions or need anything, she's going to be there. And she's the person that I trust the most because she knows me the most.

And I respect her worth ethic and her honesty honesty and yeah, I'm obsessed with her. Yeah, well something that caught my eye as I was learning more about your business is earlier in the year I got to interview Jamie Kern Lima, who I'm sure you and what really struck me is when she made the transition to do it cosmetics people were telling her to showcase models Who looked beautiful and models who we see on magazine? Covers and when she made that fateful decision when she went on QVC and she decided To take the chance that would define

Who she's become now She made the decision to really double down on showing women who had flaws Who had imperfections and how the product was helping them? But it was a risky move and many people told her not to do it. But Similar to that approach you've taken a similar approach with your brand. What led you down that direction and to double down on it? I just so happened to post a picture. So this was back in 2012 when Instagram first started, when everyone was smoothing out their skin and over photoshopping themselves.

So I made a decision to just not. I said, you know what? I'm just going to put it out there. I have cellulite and throw that out there. And I got so much feedback, positive feedback about people feeling seen that it was refreshing and that kind of catered my aesthetic. Yeah, definitely. That's how it started. Yeah. And maybe you can help the audience Yeah. And maybe you can help the audience by helping them understand your design process. How do you decide which ideas make it from concept to creation when you're designing fashion in my office?

Cause I have two plus size employees. It's will it fit me and will it fit someone that is Forex and still look good? That's the decision that I have to make. And a lot of brands don't take that time. and will it fit someone that is Forex and still look good? That's the decision that I have to make. And a lot of brands don't take that time. They're just like, this is the body type that I want and this is what it's gonna fit. But those are the decisions I have to make.

Will it fit me and will it fit someone bigger than me and still look sexy, still look good, still make her feel confident? If it answers that question, then it's a go. still make her feel confident. If it answers that question, then it's a go. And have you had examples where women who are wearing your clothes have reached out to you and expressed. Thankfulness, et cetera for maybe how it's helped their body image.

Yeah, definitely. Because our sizing is so inclusive. I don't make you feel bad. Once you go to my site, you're going to have your size and you're going to feel sexy. And it's not going to just because you're bigger, it's not going to look like grandma clothes or a bunch of prints or I'm not completely covering you up. I'm showing off your body and I'm framing it to make you feel sexy. So yeah, I've gotten those comments since the very beginning.

I get messages all the time. Women stop me in the street. They tell me how me showing my flaws and my imperfections have made them more confident to showing themselves because we do have flaws. We do not look, no one looks like these people on TV. Even the people on TV don't look like that. So it's like, let's stop putting that out there

because it's difficult to accomplish. It makes people feel bad about themselves. So it's best to put our flaws out there because it's difficult to accomplish. It makes people feel bad about themselves. So it's best to put our flaws out there and be real so we can all see what the world actually looks like. Yeah. And I just have a hypothetical question for you right now. These weight loss drugs that people are taking are the rad. I mean, and they are just growing more and more in popularity. Yeah. But I wonder, do you think it's a help to the body image movement or do you think it's a negative impact to it?

I don't like it. I didn't like it from the beginning. I don't like it. I think that health from the inside is more important because I've learned that even like a skinny person versus like a skinny person would be super unhealthy inside. Like you could have all types of medical issues. It's about starting taking a drug just as a quick fix.

I don't trust it. I think the old school way of eating the right foods and moving your body, even if you don't like the gym, I hate the gym. I prefer to walk or stay active in my regular life. So just take care of your body in the way that you're supposed to. Those quick fixes, I don't think they're smart. I don't think they're a good idea because you end up getting the way back and it's just like a I don't trust it personally. I'm not a doctor, but I don't trust it. Yeah, I'm always just worried about the long-term

Yeah, I'm always just worried about the long-term implications because there's so much we don't know about how these things are going to impact people. And it's starting to come out that there are some negative side effects about them. So to me, the jury is really still out. I've seen it really help some people lose weight, but the vast majority of people that I've seen who take it once they get off it, put the weight back on. Oh, a hundred percent. I have a few friends that were on those epic last summer that have gained all the weight back.

It's because you have to train yourself to eat right, eat correctly. So if you don't have a routine with anything, you're going to go back to the way that you were, unless you're going to be on these drugs your entire life. And who wants that easier said than done? I can't tell someone that needs that quick fix like you don't I don't want to be the person don't do this if you need a Quick fix then very well, but you need to create a lifelong routine. That's the healthiest way to do it No, i'm 100 and it's interesting because I interview a ton of medical professionals and behavior scientists on this podcast.

And what I have come to the conclusion now that I'm 460 episodes in and that it's behavior change, that's really the future of medicine. It's you taking, it's you becoming the CEO of your own journey and understanding that it's your lifestyle choices, meaning what you becoming the CEO of your own journey and understanding that it's your lifestyle choices, meaning what you put in your body, the sleep that you get, et cetera, that are going to dictate your health span. Yeah. And it feels better too.

If you're anything like me, accomplishing the goals feels good. So if I change my eating habits for a week and I start to feel like I lost a little weight, like, yeah, I did that. You know what I mean? Like, it's not just a quick fix. It's working hard and accomplishing those goals. It feels good to take that into your own hands. And it's much more healthy, by the way. Yeah, absolutely. Well, in your book, The Outsider Advantage, you discuss as a key component how you turn disadvantages into assets.

And I was hoping you might be able to expand on that concept because it's one of the most profound things in your memoir. I guess with me, my main disadvantage was being poor. So I've used that trauma and I've used that experience of basically being able to make a way out of no way. You gave me $50. I feel like I can either flip that or I can survive off that because I'm so used to surviving on so little.

So that has definitely become being poor or having that type of background has. Brought a lot of skills in me right now. Yeah. I have a friend, Rory Vaden, who has this saying that we are best positioned to serve the person we once were. Do you think that rings true for you? Oh, definitely. I'm hoping that I'm serving people, people like me.

That's, I mean, that's the whole point of this book. I'm sorry. I wish I would have had a mentor like me when I was growing up. I wish I would have had this book when I was making my way through LA and feeling insecure and feeling like nothing was going to work for me. So yeah, I definitely agree with that. Definitely serving the person that I once was. And for someone who's out there who might have been a person that

you used to be and they feel like they're an outsider, what advice would you give to them on how they take that first step to invoke change? What do you have? Stop thinking about what you don't have. We know what you don't have. What do you have? What natural skills do you already have

that you feel like you feel like that other, the world may view a lot of the things that you're going through as disadvantages or limitations, but a lot of the things that have happened to you have really prepped you from where you are. People go to school for stuff that you already know how to do. People are getting hired every day and they're putting things on resumes for skills that you naturally have. It's just about opening yourself up and figuring out what you're good at.

And then using those things as skills to conquer your dreams. And I know one of the areas when you're starting out a business, that's really important is creating your personal brand image and then the image and branding for the company. And you've done a really great job at this. As I was doing research, you're up to over 2 million followers. What are some of your biggest pieces of advice for others if they're starting from scratch on how you do this? Because that gap can seem huge. I got lucky. So as I started me, I'm like, because I'm not a can seem huge. I got lucky.

So as I started, me, I'm like, because I'm not a super confident person, I need proof. So when I first got my first comment, oh my gosh, Sierra, you showing your flaws has helped me. You know what I mean? You making clothes that fit body types like mine helped me. That's when my brand was born. Listen to your audience

They will tell you like what your brand is and go from there It's great. It's great to start off with your brand, but if your audience disagrees with it, then you don't have a business But your audience will tell you and you just have to take the journey from there And what do you do when you reach those points? I know I've been there when you're putting out post after post and I was talking to Tim Denning, who's like a master in this. And he tells me if you want to make a difference, you got to post on Twitter and threads at least four times a day. You've got to do two LinkedIn posts. You've got to do Instagram and you can't miss a day. And it just sounds like it's so much.

It's so much. Yeah. It's so much, it's stressful. Social media is stressful. I have to do it because I have a business that survives off of it, but it is stressful. I don't think there's one because the algorithm is so messed up, even on Instagram. I'm sure you are, if you have an Instagram, you can put out the best content in the entire world and follow all the rules and no one sees it. Just don't get down on yourself. Know that you still put out good content.

Don't let social media define you, but it's definitely hard. I have no rules for that. Social media has Instagram, the app is different now. In the beginning, when I first started Instagram, if you posted something, your friends would see it. Your followers would see it. You would see people that you follow. But now it can be a definitely a very stressful thing. I'm not the expert on that. We may want to cut this, but social media stresses me out.

Honestly. No, it stresses me out too. And I'm there with you and it's just so hard to post every single day, but you have to do it. And so, yeah, to me, I've got, I got the content and I keep putting it out. And it's just so interesting because pieces of content that I think are going to play so well, get nothing. And then things that you don't expect to take off and I can never figure out.

What's working and what isn't at times. It's not up to you. It's the algorithm. It's what's happening. The pieces that you think are great are still great. It's just the app is not showing it and it's not your fault They're still great. So sometimes I repost I mean a lot of the influences that I know they'll literally take that down and they're like, oh wasn't the right time Reposted an hour or reposted tomorrow because it's great content and it should be seen or boost it.

I mean, you'd have to pay for it, but yeah, it's still great content. I wouldn't view it as less than the other or this just so happened to maybe it wasn't the wrong time to post it. So Sarah, are there any future projects that you're currently working on that you're excited about besides the book? I'm hoping to get a physical store for babes. Because I think I love online shopping, but I'd like to have somewhere where people can actually

try on the clothes. It's moving backwards. I know everything's going e-commerce, but I'm missing, I don't want to call it the old days when people used to walk in stores and try on things. But I'm hoping that's next for me, at least for my company at least. So if that was the case, like in your mind, five years from now, where would you imagine babes being if you could create it exactly the way you want it to unfold?

I'd like to go into maternity because I feel like babes has been such a trajectory of my own life. So if I start a family or if I have kids, I want it to grow with me. So while I'm pregnant, I want to miss her in line when I have kids, I would like to start a kid's line. So that's what I see for the next five years, wherever my life takes me, I want to take bigs. Okay, and I know looking back, there are so many lessons that I would have told my younger self, which is part of the reason I wrote my book for my younger self in the form of dedicating it to my two kids and people who are coming up in their careers. I love that.

Looking back, what would you tell your younger self about the journey ahead that you've had to face? Stop comparing. There's no traditional path. There's a lot of hardship to come. There's a lot of hardship that you face, but you can handle it because you've been through it all already. You've already got all the skills and all of the... You've already learned all the lessons

to get you through what's coming in the future. You have a unique perspective on the way that you want the world to look like. So if you stay true to that, and if you do that quicker than what I did, we can become successful much quicker and move to LA quicker. You can do it. Stop being so hard on yourself and be yourself when you get there. So another part of the book that I enjoyed reading is you wrote that I'm addicted to getting things for free.

Even now I get this nauseous feeling in my gut when I have to spend actual money. So I was determined to build this business as inexpensively as possible. How have you learned to run a business like that where you're you're basically trying to stretch things as far as they can go Because oftentimes we want to pour so much money into something but it really is a balance to build something and to try to do it in as Cost effective manner as we possibly can me because of my trauma and because I don't want to go back to being poor, I'm always thinking I'm about to be poor. If I have a bad sales day or if I make some wrong money decision, my trauma is telling

me, oh, you're about to be poor or you're going to be homeless or that insecurity pops up. So I try to always either live at my means or below my means. I never live above my means. And I know that sounds crazy. And I know a lot of people do it. Just me personally, that's just how I move. I always have to be set up for a rainy day.

I stretch things as far as they can go. My sister is like, yeah, you made it. You can buy like better toilet tissue for your house. And I'm like, yeah, but it's going in the toilet. Let me just save my money. That's just my personality. That's how I've made it this far. And that's how I've built a savings account

and built a business. And I managed to pay my employees, whether I have a bad sales day, bad sales month, I'm always prepped up. Okay. And then one thing that I liked also about the book is you were talking about the time where you were living in your mom's car, basically. And you say you don't look begrudgingly at your years of living in a vehicle. Instead, you look at it at what you learned from that phase in your life.

And you said it was an intentional and active choice to take ownership of the lens I chose to view who I am, where I've come from and what I'm capable of becoming. And it really made me think of the story of Hillary Swank, the actress, because I'm not sure if you knew this, but she and her mom lived in a van when they first moved to LA and she was going to audition and she finally got her breakthrough role, which she won an Oscar for, but it literally paid her like $3,500.

But in hearing her talk about it, she says if it wasn't for those humble beginnings and learning that viewpoint, she wouldn't be the actress that she is today. Do you think it's the same thing with you? Oh yeah, definitely. Even hearing like how much she got paid,

any other actress would have probably been like, oh, that's not enough for me. But she's like, you know what? I'm like living in this van, I need to make a way. So she was hustling. Those types of people are just built different. If you've ever lived in your car or been homeless or been through anything at all, like you're just built different. You're a hustler You're ready to conquer life. So there's no I'm not surprised that is like when you tell me your background makes the most sense

Because she's an incredible actress. I think you're talking about boys don't cry as her first role I'm trying to remember what her first role. Yeah. Yeah, that was the first Amazing so it makes the most sense. Like she's a hustler. Like that background has sharpened you and it has made you like just, you're just built different and you're ready to handle anything. So yeah, I look at that lens proud, like not proudly, but not, we were safe. Like when people say, oh, you live in your car.

I'm like, well, at least we had a car. My mom always made me feel safe and children adapt. My mom made it fun. We always had somewhere to go. During the day we had food, the windows rolled up, the heat worked in the car. So yeah, I look back on it. At least I was lucky enough to have a mom and a sister and I was safe. Sierra, one of the things that I've loved about this discussion and about your book is we often look at the zip code that were born into the family who raises us. And some people get stuck by that. I mean, it can be a completely negative thing that people have a difficulty breaking out of, or sometimes it immediately positions them to go to an Ivy League school.

But I've really come to the fundamental belief that those zip codes and that early upbringing don't define you if you're willing to make the choices to live your life differently. And so for those listeners who are dreaming big, but are facing obstacles, maybe because of that zip code or family that they were born into, what final words of encouragement could you offer them? If you have a family, cause that luckily I was support. My mom supported me, but I know a lot of people that are with families that don't support them or that feel like they need to go on some sort

of path that they are either not capable of, it's not possible, or they're just not interested in. But you're like carving out your own life with respect to your family and where you came from. Cause obviously like they built you. Thank you for raising me, whoever you are. That definitely doesn't define you. You can carve out your own version of success. You can raise your family different.

You can have your own path. It's about just looking ahead. Okay and then for the listeners who want to know more about you and your brand, where are the best places for them to go? They can go to sierrorodgers.com and everything is there, you can shop there, you can get my book there, yeah. And the last question is, if someone picks up your memoir and reads it. What is the most important thing that you want them to take away from it? There's nothing I can give you.

There's nothing that you need to go and get. You already have everything that you need inside of you that you're already built with to help you find success. And I just want to shine a light on that. That's all I want to do. Okay. Well, Sarah, thank you so much for being here. It was truly an honor to have you. Thank you so much. What an incredible honor that was to interview Sarah Rogers. And I wanted to thank Penguin Random House and Sarah for the honor and privilege of joining us on today's show. Links to all things Sarah will be in the show notes at passionstruck.com. Please use our website

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You have to get into the habit of doing that. So we want all these great things policy-wise, changes, but we need to just focus on what we control in our personal lives and to start with that. And I think a lot of the quote problems will actually go away. Remember that we rise by lifting others. So share the show with those that you love and care about. And if you found today's episode with Sierra inspiring, then definitely share this episode with family and friends.

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