Passion Struck with John R. Miles - Oli Raison & Boris Maguire on Leadership Beyond the Boardroom | EP 703
Episode Date: December 16, 2025What if the leadership answers you’ve been searching for can’t be found in another keynote, framework, or performance review but only by stepping completely out of the world you know?In E...pisode 703 of Passion Struck, John R. Miles is joined by Oli Raison and Boris Maguire, founders of Safarini Leadership, for a conversation that challenges everything we think we know about growth, leadership, and belonging.At a time when we are more globally connected than ever—and yet more polarized, distracted, and disconnected—leaders are facing pressures no playbook prepared them for: AI acceleration, climate anxiety, generational fracture, burnout, and a deep erosion of trust.Oli and Boris believe the problem isn’t a lack of leadership training. It’s that we’re trying to become wiser leaders without changing the environments that shaped us. Their work takes executives out of boardrooms and into the Kenyan bush, immersed in nature, culture, and relationships, walking alongside Samburu elders to rediscover leadership as a lived, relational practice rather than a performative role.This episode is part of The Season of Becoming series, following conversations with Brent Gleeson on the danger of comfort and Henna Pryor on why awkwardness is the frontline of growth. Listen. Watch. Go Deeper.👉 Read the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/safarini-leadership-cultural-immersion/🔗 All links in one place — books, Substack, YouTube, and Start Mattering apparel: https://linktr.ee/John_R_MilesIn this episode, you will learn:Why today’s global challenges require elevated leadership, not louder leadershipHow cultural immersion rewires creativity, self-awareness, and decision-makingWhy nature sharpens focus, learning, and emotional regulationWhat Samburu elders can teach modern executives about belonging and purposeWhy leadership cannot be developed in isolation—or in comfortHow stepping out of familiar systems reveals who you actually are as a leaderWhat it means to lead when connection isn’t optional—it’s survivalAbout the GuestsOli Raison has spent over a decade founding, leading, and selling businesses in Kenya. He specializes in organizational culture, leadership development, and cross-cultural teams. Oli is fluent in Swahili, holds an MBA from Aston Business School, and a Certificate in Executive Coaching from UC Berkeley.Boris Maguire has worked in over two dozen countries and lived in five. He has led teams across ten African nations, served as a startup CEO and Managing Director of a solar firm, and now leads global operations for one of Africa’s fastest-growing HR fintech companies. Boris holds an MPA from Columbia University, a BA from Duke, and a certificate from the African Management Institute.Support the MovementEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter.Wear it. Live it. Show it. 👉 https://StartMattering.comDisclaimerThe Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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calling us forward, a season where certainty dissolves, where old identities stop working,
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I knew that this was a conversation you needed to hear during the season of becoming.
My guests today are Ollie Raisin and Boris McGuire, the co-founders of Soffernian leadership.
Their work is built on a powerful idea, that cultural immersion and time and nature fundamentally
change how we think, create, and lead.
Ali has spent more than a decade founding, leading, and selling businesses in Kenya.
He's fluent in Swahili, holds an MBA from Aston Business School, and is trained
as an executive coach through UC Berkeley.
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of organizational culture,
cross-cultural leadership, and human development.
Boris has worked in more than two dozen countries
and has lived in five.
He's led teams across 10 African nations
served as a CEO and managing director
in fast-growth companies
and now leads global operations
for one of Africa's fastest-growing HR fintech farms.
He brings a systems-level understanding of leadership
shaped by real complexity.
Together, they don't just teach leadership.
They re-contextualize it.
They take leaders out of the environments
that condition speed, ego, and certainty
and place them alongside some borough elders,
where leadership is practiced as listening,
patience, stewardship, and responsibility to the whole.
In today's conversation, we explore
why immersion in nature increases creativity, focus, and learning,
why cultural humility is a prerequisite
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How are you, Ollie and Boris?
Fantastic.
Thanks.
How are you doing, John?
I'm doing fantastic.
And I was so excited that our...
our mutual friend, Bill Von Hipple, introduced us because your work really sits at the intersection
of wilderness, indigenous bush wisdom, and modern leadership. And for me, it's a combination that
feels a little bit both ancient, but at the same time radically fresh. And I think we live in this
world today that's just overwhelmed by webinars, boardrooms, things like that. And you take
leaders on treks through Kenya to help them transform. I'd love to start with the story behind this.
Maybe, Ali, I'll turn it to you first. Sure, thank you. I was always cautious of us talking over
each other. Yeah, great. Safarini leadership was really borne out of two passions that Boris and I
both share. Boris and I have been both expatriates living and working in Kenya, leading cross-cultural
teams for about the last 10 or 12 years, respectively. And we got to thinking, what would our perfect
business, if we were going to start a business, what would it look like? And we knew that we
were interested in leadership. And we also knew that we had this shared passion for the north
of Kenya in particular, where over the past sort of eight or nine years, we've gone on many
adventures together. We've done a lot of trekking and climbing mountains and really building
relationships with warriors and elders from the nomadic Samburu tribe up in northern Kenya.
And during those adventures, we really got to get a really interesting insight into how these
people think, their values, how their values show up in leadership, and how their definition
of leadership is so starkly different to what you might consider to be more typical in a kind of
conventional Western business setting. And then we got to asking ourselves, what if we were to bring
Western executives over to Kenya and expose them to some of this way of life and immerse them in
this culture. And so that's what we've been doing for the past two years or so. And the clients that
we've brought over have given us really positive feedback. And so that's where we are.
A hypothesis that we have benefit, there's a benefit to really being exposed to a radically different culture has been proven out.
And Boris, Saffirini means on a journey.
Why is that concept so central to your leadership philosophy?
Thanks. That's a good question.
So people are typically familiar with the word safari, which does mean journey in Swahili, which is a lingua franca of this part of the world.
And Saffirini just means to be on a journey.
that was important to us for well fundamentally leadership is a journey so that was the initial
thinking behind that name leadership is a journey we're constantly growing developing learning
and that journey doesn't typically end but oftentimes we can't see the journey for what it is
we're bogged down in the emails you mentioned the webinars the meetings the calls the day to day
and it's quite hard to disconnect from those things and a big part of our philosophy is to
disconnect. Literally disconnect. We're traversing areas that have very little mobile network. We
don't travel with devices, but also disconnecting with those day-to-day responsibilities to reflect
on the bigger picture of belonging, values, purpose, and mattering, as you like to say.
The other reason is because, as Ollie mentioned, the cultures and the communities that we're
working with, they are semi-nomadic. So their life experience is a sort of constant journey
in and of itself. They are on the move. And we wanted to move with them.
in a way that felt authentic to their life.
And that really lined up with a lot of research
that we've come to understand
psychological, neuroscientific research
that suggests that to learn while walking,
to be shoulder to shoulder rather than eye to eye
is to learn in a deeper, more focused,
and more impactful way.
So all of that speaks to a literal and figurative leadership journey
and that's what we take people on.
And I wanna take a step back
because you brought up a whole bunch of things.
They're connectivity
in connection and mattering, of course,
which I'm very concerned about.
But I think what you guys are doing
is almost a 180 from the way that most
of Western civilization works today.
Because as so many people know,
despite high levels of global connectivity,
we've never been more polarized or disconnected.
I think in the entire history of civilization,
I call it the disease of disconnection.
And we are so disconnected on so many levels that it is, I think, amounting to huge levels
of mental illness playing out in younger generations that we're seeing now.
But I think this is also playing out in leadership that we're seeing across various industries.
So I wanted to focus this on leadership.
What do you guys, and again, I'll turn this to Ollie, what do you see are some of the limitations
and conventional leadership development methods that are going on today,
you know, things like hotel conferences, your weekend seminars, online courses,
motivational keynotes that have flaws.
And what are you guys trying to do that's different?
Yeah, I think the first thing is we put a really heavy emphasis on almost going back to basics
and encouraging people to really consider what are their values and how.
How do their values show up in the way they lead others?
And I think that seems obvious, but it's not something that gets a lot of focus these days.
And we're able to do that.
We're able to go back to basics because it's quite a long period of time that we're out in the bush.
Our experience is 10 days.
And the core of that 10 days is a six-day camel trekking or camel-supported trek through the deserts and mountains of northern Kenya.
So we really slow everything down.
And like Boris says, we don't have any technology.
We really get off of technology.
We provide people with a pretty substantial amount of time
for deep reflection that I think most of us
just don't get a chance for in our day-to-day lives.
The other thing is, like we talked about technology,
the technology is actually causing our brains
to operate on a frequency that is not really conducive with creative thought. And so
being out in the bush, slowing everything down, our brains actually operate on a frequency
that enables us to be more creative. And I think it creates an opportunity for people to really
have revelations that they wouldn't normally get if they were just trying to achieve something
in two days in a conference or in a boardroom, whilst simultaneously conscious of the
fact that their email inbox is filling up. So I think it's a number of different things that
really create the impact that our experience delivers. Could I add to that, John? One of the ways
we like to think about our approach is like a three-way Venn diagram. And those three boxes, one of
them is, if you mentioned, wilderness immersion, where there's a lot of science to support that getting
out of the familiar and getting into nature does change your brain frequency. It changes how we
focus, how we learn. The other is indigenous immersion. So like we said, immersing ourselves
within a culture and a community that's radically different from where most of our clients are coming
from has radically different perspectives, views, and approaches. And confronting those and through
that, confronting your own assumptions or preconceptions or perspectives. And then the third is our
unique coaching methodologies. So there are lots of outdoor adventure leadership experiences that one
might do over the course of a couple days. There are, of course, different coaching opportunities
out there, but we think the real special sauce is a combination of those two things with this
indigenous immersion. Yeah, and I was hoping you've talked a little bit about this, but can you
walk us through the structure of a safarini journey? Like what happens before, during, and after
the trek? Sure. We've been talking to, I don't know if you're familiar with Joe Pine, who wrote
the experience economy is now coming up with the transformation economy. And transformation is a word
that we probably weren't super comfortable using early on in the sort of rollout of Sofriene leadership.
But we've had sufficient feedback that this is a transformational experience to be comfortable
using that word. And talking to Joe, we've come to understand why. And it's because we've
structured this experience in actually three parts. Ali mentioned the core of it is 10 days in
Kenya, but prior to that, we actually have a lot of lead-up and discovery work. So we have a
group kick-off call, if this is a mixed cohort group or a team. We have a kick-off call where we
come to understand everyone's intentions. We give a lot of briefings. We answer a lot of questions.
And we also then introduce a couple of leadership assessments. So people do these assessments.
We work with the intercultural development inventory. We work with the Apparian Globesmart,
depending on the nature of the group. And we have people take these assessments.
which really begins this process of self-reflection, self-awareness, understand where they are,
how they show up as leaders. And we introduced them to a kind of unique activity that we've come
up with called the Journey Line. And the Journey Line is an opportunity to visualize one's life.
As a journey, it could be a river or a mountain or a path or a graph, whatever metaphor people
want to come up with. And we ask people to reflect on why their leadership values are what they are.
What do they think their leadership values are? How do they show up?
they come from, what experience is or cultural programming has led them to follow those values
as leaders and also why do they show up on these different assessments in the way that they do.
So before they even show up in Kenya, people are really going deep.
And when they arrive in Kenya, before we get out into the bush, they have the opportunity
to meet our team of some Buru elders.
And together, all of us present our journey lines.
So even before we're walking, we're in the bush and we're doing our kind of formal
leadership programming, as it were, people are being quite reflective, we're getting
quite vulnerable, and we're coming to know people's background and life experiences. So there's a
lot of preparation and discovery that goes into this experience before it really even truly
begins. Then we have our six-day experience, and that typically looks like we wake up with
the sun, we have coffee and biscuits around the campfire, and Ali and I will often offer prompts
or open questions that kind of emerged from the day prior on the assumption that people have had
a chance to sleep on it, literally reflect in their journals, and might want to dig into those
topics with a little bit more depth along the morning's walk. And then we'll usually walk for
anywhere from three to five hours through the morning. We have breakfast on the way and we set up
camp around lunchtime. And after everyone's been fed and had a little chance to rest up,
we have a leadership circle in the afternoon. And these are never more than 90 minutes. They involve
games, different activities. They're quite interactive. And this is the chance to hear from the
elders about a specific topic. So we'll look at what is resilience to the San
Brew? How is it defined? What does it mean and where does it come from? And we'll hear
from the elders on that topic. And then Ollie and I facilitate an opportunity to explore
applications in the participant's life. And that cycle kind of repeats itself for the next six
days. We're in the morning we offer a prompt. We have walk and talks. We then have leadership
circles in the afternoon. And on the final day, we ask everyone to make a commitment to action.
what are the insights, the aha moments, the revelations they've had about themselves or the culture
or the team in which they lead? And what fundamentally do they want to change and do differently?
We don't expect that everyone is going to come here and go back and try to create a Sanbrou
leadership structure within a sort of corporate office. But there are elements that can be very
powerful to people. And so then we hold them accountable. We hold ourselves all accountable to what
those commitments are through a group coaching process that then takes place after the experience.
And this is what Joe Pine would call integration. We're keen that this isn't a distant memory,
a fun story you talk about at parties or in meetings, but actually something that shows up in
your day-to-day leadership has true practical application to your work and to your leadership
and therefore has a lot of value that lasts. And so this through the group coaching, we ask people,
how are you doing? Your commitment to action was X. How is that going?
And the group format is really powerful we find because sometimes people might struggle to find
application or they might actually find a new application.
And by hearing how other people are applying their experience in Kenya, they can try different
things.
They can experiment and they can maximize the value that they achieve.
So it's really three parts, but the core is obviously the Kenya experience.
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Now, back to my conversation with Ollie Raisin and Boris McGuire.
Yeah, so if I had to encapsulate that, it sounds like the three phases are you go through a diagnosis phase,
then an experience phase, and then a follow-through phase that you take them through.
And then is there, I know you've been doing this a couple of years now, but on that follow-through,
are there repeat things down the line that you reconnect with leaders on so that some of the
things that they're learning don't fade away as time goes on?
Yeah, some of our cohorts actually continue to want to meet.
If I can just take a step back, the San Bura society is very collectivist.
They have a philosophy called Navajo.
which is essentially a kind of we are because they are.
It's this concept of interdependence, interconnectedness,
and that we are all necessary to society.
And so that whole kind of philosophy gets continued on.
And some of our groups, after the initial coaching,
naturally just want to stay together.
They want to connect on a monthly basis
and continue to support each other,
which obviously has the added benefit of creating a kind of a really special
sort of alumni network that we hope we can really build.
them. Yeah, can you talk a little bit more, Ali, about that interconnectedness because I think this is
one of the most striking things about the San Borough lifestyle. Like, when they see each other's
worth in the community, like, how is that different from what's happening in other parts of the
world? Because I think this is in many ways the community that we are losing today. And one of the
biggest causes why so many people feel so detached. What's different about it?
I think if I could summarize at high level, I would say a very strong sense of shared
values. Okay, the values in the San Buru community are very much around sharing of resources.
So just to give a little bit of context here, the communities that we work with are very
marginalized, very poor, actually. They are very, they're a long way from Nairobi. They're underrepresented
in Kenyan politics. They are living in a very harsh environment. We're talking about a semi-arid
kind of desert. We're talking about a livestock economy where their wealth is really
dependent on the health of their livestock, and that can be wiped out in a drought. So life is very
fragile and they can only really survive and thrive by depending on one another and in terms of
their values their values that people are grounded in the society's values from a very young age so
if we can just focus on the life's path of a young boy in the samburu culture once he gets to
about the age of about 10 or 11 he will be assigned a mentor and a mentor is another man typically from
the generation above. And that man will be responsible for schooling that boy on how to be a
warrior. And around the age of 13 or 14, that boy goes through a circumcision ceremony where he
becomes a warrior. And then for the next 15 years of his life, his sole purpose is to be of
service to the community. Okay. So his job is to protect the tribe and do all of the kind of heavy
lifting and really be at the disposal of anybody elder. So if an older woman who he may never
have met before in his life gives him an order, it's disrespectful to deny it or to refuse it.
So they are really of service to the community. And then after that 15 year period,
they then collectively on mass graduate to become junior elders. And the junior elder period is a
really a it's a real shift in in the way of life they settle down they build a house they accrue
their own livestock they get married they have children and they are really educated on how to be an
elder and then after that 15 years they become senior elders and at that point they have
collective responsibility for the welfare of the whole tribe and they make decisions collectively on
mass. And so from a young boy, he knows what his destiny is going to be. His destiny is ultimately to
be a leader for the welfare, the collective flourishing of the tribe. And I think that shared sense of
purpose gives everybody a very strong sense of belonging that I feel that we're lacking in Western
society these days. And as a result of that, one of our clients who came away with us is a
psychologist. And she noticed that she was talking to some of our Samburu colleagues, and she realized
just from asking them, what is the word for anxiety in Mar, which is the language of the Sambru?
They don't have a word for anxiety. They don't have a word for depression. And you won't meet a
single Sambru who has ever known or heard of anybody who's committed suicide. These things just
don't exist in their society. And so that's when we got in touch with Bill Von Hippel and we realized that
This is a society that despite their challenges, despite their marginalization and their apparent
poverty, are really very kind of content and happy and thriving in life.
And their leadership shows up in that.
Yeah.
For them, what is their average lifespan?
Yeah, I don't think it's much shorter than ours.
We've met people who are in their 80s in the San Buru society.
I wouldn't actually know.
Yes. Yeah, I'm not sure what it is. From the data, you have, you have a higher level of
childhood mortality, infant mortality, with a lot of indigenous tribes. And I believe Bill Von Hipple
talks about this in regards to the Hotsaba as well. High levels of infant mortality,
and that is largely driven by nutritional challenges, right? This is not a farming community.
It's in a very, a very arid, beautiful, but challenging area subject to droughts and floods and
the rest. So nutritional challenges often affect maternal and infant mortality levels. But after
childhood, average lifespan, the likelihood of an 18-year-old to get to 80 is actually pretty
similar to any other society. But it is a much more, yeah, there are higher rates of mortality in
those younger years. So I understand that one of the things that you do while you're on the
excursion itself is that you incorporate daily walking tracks.
with San Borough elders, using movement as a vehicle for learning and reflection, but also having
the elders paired up with those who are on the journey. How did these walks and talks differ
from sitting in a typical classroom or conference room that so many of these leaders are accustomed
to doing? Ollie, maybe you can take that. I think one thing I would talk about is just the challenge.
there's we're in an area of the world where there's a lot of uncertainty we can be traveling we can be trekking up a mountain we don't know how long it's going to take one journey that we recently took people on there'd been a lot of rainfall that meant there was a lot of growth these are forested mountains surrounded by desert it's really quite a remarkable part of the world but we got to the top of the mountain and we had to really bushwhack our way through with pangas or machetes as you would probably know them
And that slows everything down.
We don't know when we're going to get into camp.
There's a lot of uncertainty.
And that creates an opportunity for a lot of coaching moments.
Because I think that in the West, we are over-sheduled.
We expect that, okay, well, by this time, I'm going to be in camp,
and by this time, I'm going to have my dinner, and by this time, and et cetera, et cetera.
And that's just not how things roll necessarily in these rural parts of Africa.
So I think that's an aspect of it.
But also, I think that just it's really remarkable.
seeing the strength of the relationships and the friendships that grow out of bringing
radically different people from completely different cultures together and seeing them connect
on a really human level. I think that's that inspires people and causes them to reflect on
what are they doing to foster human connection in their teams? What are they doing to create
work teams or workforces that are really flourishing? That's the most.
satisfying thing of what we do, in my opinion. Okay. And Boris, I'm going to turn this to you.
We talked a lot about the Samburu concept of community and identity and core values. But in their
worldview, what does it mean for them to live a good or successful life? Because in the Western
world, if we had to wait on that track to become an elder and then a senior elder, it's
counterculture. And so many, and I am living proof of this, we strive for.
for success as quickly as we can possibly get it.
We push the limits to get to things much quicker
than we often should.
I know for me getting to those places so quickly,
I sometimes wish in retrospect I had a longer time to wait
because there were critical skill sets
and learnings that I wish I would have made
that happened after the fact.
I'm really curious about this.
What does it mean for them to live a good life
a successful life.
It's a great question.
I think it's one of the like fundamental points of differentiation maybe.
And I guess if I could summarize it, a good life is a life of a Semburu.
And that sounds like a non-answer, but it's a question, what is it to be a Semburu?
And we've often said, would you rather, or people have asked our elders, would you rather
die or would you rather no longer be a Semburu?
And like to a man, to a woman, the answer has always been death.
And I know that sounds quite morbid, but it speaks to the importance of identifying with the collective, right?
It is not about Bill von Hippel had spoke about this balance of autonomy and connection.
And there are elements of autonomy, but connection to the tribe and being of service to the tribe and to the community,
rise above almost any other, any other thing, short perhaps of the family unit of having a family.
So to be a Sam-Buru is to have a family to create more San-Buru, but also to fulfill your role and purpose
to serve your community. And in almost everything that people do, it is never, one can never see
someone doing something solely in service of themselves. Even parenting is collective. We always say
it takes a village. But in the Sembrough community, this is true. And children are literally considered
the children of all. And likewise, leadership to become an elder comes with no material reward.
There's no bigger salary, car, off corner office, watch. There's the title, I suppose, of being an elder,
That's not seen as a reward in and of itself.
It's seen as a responsibility, a cultural responsibility to serve the community and make good decisions for others.
And through those good decisions, the collective, the group, the tribe flourishes and continues.
So yeah, I think that's the answer.
And our insight on that really comes to resilience.
What is it to be strong?
Is it to be resilient?
Is it to be gritty to power through to wear the heavy crown, so to speak, to blaze your own
trail or whichever metaphor you want to pick that you might be familiar with, none of them really
apply. To be resilient is to be supportive, to be served by others, and to serve others. And it's
all in my observation, and I think Bill Von Hipple's research would support this, that the society
flourishes and the society is inherently resilient because they are so supportive of one another.
Yeah. Yeah. I could talk for days about that.
Can I just add one thing?
Because you mentioned about time.
And I think in the West, we are obsessed with time, right?
And we're obsessed with who's first and who's the youngest.
We can all name entrepreneurs like Mark Zuckerberg, who became billionaires at 19 or 20.
There are many successful entrepreneurs who build multi-million dollar businesses,
but they don't achieve it until they're 50 or 55.
and that's just not interesting to us.
It's not sexy.
It's almost like we're over.
We fetishize this idea that speed is the most important thing.
And I think it speaks to the fact that in the West, we are destination driven.
Whereas the San Buru, it's much more about the journey.
It's the life's path and how you get there is more important than where you end up.
I've had the opportunity of spending some time with Native American tribes.
And as I'm hearing you talk about a lot of the Sambura culture, a lot of this really reflects also on what Native American tribal life was like for centuries.
And in some reservations, what it's like today, especially as they're going through the rites of passage, the role that elders play, how they hold their elders in such high esteem.
One of the things I was wondering, though, about is spiritual beliefs and connections to nature, because those two things play a huge role in Native American life.
I'm wondering what type of role they play in San Buru life.
I think with spirituality, they have a belief in God, Enkai they call is their God, but Enkai is represented in nature.
And he's also represented in the past and in the future.
and they think on a much longer-term basis.
They believe if they don't live a good, wholesome and respectable life,
the ramifications of that are not going to be visited on them as individuals,
but rather possibly their descendants.
They want to live a good life because they want to set their descendants up for success.
And so they take a much longer-term view.
And I think that, again, is something that we can learn from,
in the West. I think that, again, it goes back to time. It goes back to everything being in a
hurry. A CEO is judged on the next quarter's profitability. A president or a prime minister is
really judged on what they can achieve in the next four or five years. And that's not necessarily
conducive with making the smartest long-term decisions. And so I don't know whether that
answer your question, John, but I think that they think much longer term than we typically do
in the West. Well, another thing that you guys were talking about earlier is how the Samburu
make choices. And you were saying that it really comes down to community decisions are made
amongst the tribe. As you've seen this compared to how hierarchical Western systems are,
how do they differ? And why have you found the San Buru community decision making to be successful
compared to some of the hierarchical systems that exist in other parts of the world? And maybe
Borisi can take that. Yeah, sure. Well, I feel to some extent, yeah, this theme of time comes
back. And you mentioned the walk and Ollie just mentioned the role of time and kind of spiritual
thinking. One of the things that our elders always say, and they often tell the clients,
particularly when clients are a bit worried that the walk might be taking long, and do we have time
for this? And one of them, Stephen, always says, in Semburu, there's always enough time. And people
laugh, but that does reflect a philosophy that there isn't a rush. There is not a rush to reach
camp, to get through our program today, to have dinner, or to have any kind of conversation along the
way. So your questions about what do we get out of the walk and spirituality?
and living a good life as a Sembrew, I think does in many ways come back to this fundamentally different
perspective on time. And again, we never expect that people are going to just fully adopt this
philosophy towards time and in their Q3 reporting say, oh, there's always going to be enough time.
But it does enable a mindset shift when you start to see this, you start to see this kind of applied.
And you see it in decision making as well. So the elders do not have either kind of a pure
authoritarian structure nor a purely democratic one. I would describe it as
consensus driven. So the idea is really like a decision can be made and can become final when no one is
really dissenting to it. And so there isn't a clear kind of you've got to reach a 70% threshold or
anything like that. But it requires a real super majority of the elders. And the elders can convene
in different kind of sizes. Typically at a village level, this might be a dozen men or a few dozen.
And fundamentally, if someone is not happy with the direction that the decision is taking, even if it is two of the 12, then the meeting is adjourned.
And there is a chance for private conversations to take place and for the group to re-adjurn later down the road and see if either everyone is now bought in or whether a different decision needs to be made or of more time needs to be taken.
And I think, you know, again, that doesn't work perfectly in a business context.
But if you can extract a theme from it, for me, it's prioritizing harmony over dissent.
I recall in school, or at least in college, being graded on participation.
And so feeling like at the end of a class, I had to raise my hand and disagree with someone
just to have the teacher check a box.
And that reflects our focus on autonomy.
And there's great value in that, for sure.
But one is more judicious in their dissent when you can be the loan,
outlier, and that can delay the decision from being made.
So I think it's a slower process, for sure, but it's one that prioritizes harmony.
And again, when you have a society living and really facing real constant challenges,
harmony is really important.
And I think there's something to be said in a business context for that as well.
Ali, I've got an interesting question for you.
If you did the reverse and you took a group of Sanbrough elders to visit London,
what aspects of Western life do you think they would find most confusing or surprising to them?
I think probably the hierarchical nature of things.
Just having one person who ultimately is accountable and gets to make the final decision
would be the most alien thing to them that they could possibly.
imagine. I also just think, and maybe we're repeating ourselves here, but the obsession with getting
everything done quickly. I think speed is overvalued over making the right decision. And maybe that's
because we live in such a competitive context, but I think they would struggle with that.
Okay. And I did want to ask just one more thing about it. Homelessness as well.
Oh, homelessness. Yeah. Yeah, for sure.
so obviously their life is dependent on the terrain that they occupy how sacred did they hold
the land and tending to it as part of their culture like how does that play they're not agriculturalists
so it's not necessarily the land that is their way of life it's very much their livestock that is
everything. And it's not just a source of wealth. It is a source of wealth, but it's not just that
their livestock and sacrificing livestock is a key part of their ceremonies. They give livestock
when somebody gets married, but they share it openly. Like one of the things that we,
maybe I'm deviating a little bit from your question here, but one of the things that we found
most surprising is the San Bure are incredibly resilient to people. We've already talked.
talked about the environment that they live in is very harsh, they're very marginalized,
they're very core, and yet they're incredibly resilient and incredibly happy.
And the source of that resilience is a dependence on one another, this interdependence
on one another. And I think in the West, when we talk about resilience, that word is quite
often considered to be synonymous with toughness, mental grit, broad shoulders, pushing on
through. And actually in the Sunbury culture, it's really quite the opposite. They have this kind
of quiet confidence that if they were facing hard times, if there was a drought, then their neighbor
would step in. And their neighbor wouldn't resent them for it. You know, we've even had stories of
one of our team, actually, a guy called Stephen. His brother-in-law had a really difficult time and
lost a lot of his camels and was told that another family who he'd never met,
was actually gifted 13 camels by his great-grandfather.
And so he went off and said to this family,
I've heard that my great-grandfather gave you some camels.
Would you return them to me, to my family?
And they said, yes, no problem.
Because they had been told in turn this story that when their family was facing hard times
four generations ago, they were gifted some camels.
And so they returned the favour.
So it's very reciprocal.
I can't imagine that happening in the West, this idea that somebody that you've never met before would just turn up on your doorstep and say,
hey, my great-grandfather gave your great-grandfather some camels, would you return the favor?
But that's how these people operate. They take it on face value and they support one another.
Boris, I'm going to switch directions here. You both run workshops and everything from harmony and dissent to resilience and cross-cultural communication.
Can you share a story or a moment in one of these workshops
where one of the leader's perspective shifted dramatically
and how that unfolded?
Sure, you really put me on the spot.
Let's see.
Like in the moments during the trek had this kind of revelation?
Like a powerful transformation that you saw happen.
Maybe someone talked to an elder, you did a workshop,
and they had just like a light bulb moment
where how they'd been operating changed.
Yeah, sure.
You can talk about the cow game that we play, Boris.
Let me let you talk about that.
I'm going to give two examples of an individual.
So as much as this is principally,
we talk about leadership, it's leadership development.
Who we are personally and what we're going through
outside of work directly impacts how we show up at work.
I don't really believe you bring your whole self to work,
but you try to bring your best self to work.
And to be your best self, it depends on your whole self.
And so people often get very deep and vulnerable into their personal situations, not just
what they're experiencing in the office.
And there was a woman on one of our trips who, during her journey line, had spoken to
having been in what she described as an emotionally abusive relationship.
And that didn't seem to us initially connected to her work, which we had learned a lot about
during the discovery process. So I wasn't necessarily sure how that was going to show up during the
experience. And at one point, she's told us this and talked a lot about in the testimonial, I believe,
as well. She was walking and she enjoyed walking alone and used that as a chance to reflect. But one of
our elders approached her and said, you're always looking down. Why are you looking down? There's so much
beauty around you. And this kind of ties into your prior question about nature. There is great reverence for
nature and the Sembrew culture. And to kill and eat a wild animal under any circumstances is to
bring a curse upon your family. So there are like cultural tenets and spiritual beliefs that
necessitate protecting the resources around you. Because while they don't farm, they do depend
on the land for their livestock. And our elders said, look around you. There's mountains, there's desert,
there's trees. Why are you looking down? And it sounds like a very simple thing. But what she had said
to us is she felt that she was inclined to look down for different reasons connected to the relationship,
she'd been in and that this showed up and how she showed up as a leader at work. She was in a very
male-dominated industry and she tended to, as she's described, absorb negative energy from
others and just carry on. The classic like woman working in a very like masculine field, not
wanting to rock the boat or disrupt things, but actually, and like, therefore taking a lot of crap
maybe. And this was something she talked about every day in the rest of the trip and every day since.
And I think and has had this, she has described a total transformational impact on how she shows up with her family, with her friends, and at the office, and that she seeks connection, not to absorb negative energy, but to deliver positive energy and to see the purpose and others and find the good and connect and keep her head up and look for beauty, not to look down to avoid kind of negativity.
So that always struck me because it's so simple, and one might think that you could get that insight.
anywhere and anyone could give you that keep your chin up kind of insight. But I think the Sanbru,
this lack of obsession of time and rushing and goal orientation, this feeling of connection to
others, to nature, to the past, to the present, and to the future allows for that kind of
perspective to be there always, whether in a time of challenge or emergency or what have you.
And it's had a truly life-changing effect on this woman. I have another example, but I feel
like I've talked to too much also up there.
Yeah, Ali, did you want to give the other example that you were thinking of?
Sure.
I'm cautious of going into too much detail just in case somebody listens to this and then decides
they want to come on one of our experiences.
But one of the workshops that we do, we play a game where we break the participants
that the clients into different teams and we give them instructions.
They each have eight cows.
And without going into too much detail, the goal of the game is to maximize the herd.
And you maximize the herd by grazing the appropriate amount of cows.
If you overgraze, if you send too many cows out to graze, then you risk actually causing the grazing area to deteriorate.
And that reduces your herd, the size of your herd.
And it's very interesting because once you split people into teams, they typically start
thinking in a we're going to win we've got to maximize our herd for our team and the instructions
that we give are deliberately vague it's quite ambiguous we just say the goal is to maximize the
herd and the catch of the game is you can't win the game right you can only really maximize
the herd if you work collectively together as teams as a whole and that kind of aha moment that
even though we didn't say the goal is for your team to win, that's the mindset that people
enter into the game with. And I think that's quite a revelation for people. And then I think
a program like this, I always think knowledge is important, but applying that knowledge is the
most important aspect going forward. So I understand that you have a capstone called the
commitment to action exercise. And I was hoping one of you could walk us through that. Do you
want to take that for us?
Yeah, sure. So the last night, the core kind of five to six nights is trekking through an
incredibly remote and beautiful part of the world. And it's very comfortable, but it's
certainly not luxury. We are camping. It's a sort of glamping experience perhaps. But the last
night we typically spend in a much higher end nicer community run lodge or camp somewhere where we
have hot showers and things. And so it's at that dinner that we typically, we give people a form to
fill out, to think about, and that kind of hours before that dinner. But at the dinner, we ask
people to share out to what have they reflected on in those final kind of 24 hours as they say
goodbye to the elders, as they say goodbye to the mountains, and they start this process of reintegration,
what are the things that stay with them? And so it's not particularly any more sophisticated than
that. But we ask them to fill out their forms, to share out with us. We take notes. We collect
those forms. And then we use that as the basis for coaching down the line.
Okay. And then, Ali, for leaders who might be watching this, or maybe they bring this up to
their organization or a manager about bringing the whole team, what's the best way to engage with
you or explore Saffirini leadership in more detail? Sure. We have a website, Saffirini Leadership.com.
com. We have an Instagram, Safarini Leadership. We have a YouTube channel, which is also
Saffirini Leadership, where particularly on our YouTube channel, there's a number of short
sort of 90-second snippets of client testimonials talking directly about their experience.
But our principal sort of social media is LinkedIn, which again is Saffirina Leadership.
People can find out a lot of details there. Our email.
are obviously on our website.
We're very open to talking to anybody that may even just be curious.
We don't give anybody the hard sell.
It's really important that anybody that is thinking about coming away with us
has a really good understanding that it's the right fit for them
and that they really think that they can work with us
because they're going to be out in the bush with us for six days.
That's important.
So yeah, any one of those social media platforms,
they can learn a lot more about what we do.
Okay, and maybe what is the typical team size that goes out with you on one of these tracks?
It's quite, well, minimum of six and really a maximum of eight.
We can take more than eight people, but we have to change how we operate a little bit.
What I mean by that is it's quite a heavy undertaking.
We fly people way up into the north of Kenya, and then we embark on a six-day trek where every day we're moving.
moving, we're setting up a camp, we're cooking lunch, we're cooking dinner, and then the following
morning we decamp and we move again and again. So logistically, it's quite an undertaking
and we need to keep it to a very small group. So maximum eight clients plus myself and
Boris plus our three San Buru cultural co-facilitators. So that's 13 people. And we actually really
like the intimacy that small group creates. People really do foster very strong.
relationships over the 10 days that they're together. Well, Boris and Ollie, thank you so much for
joining Passion Struck. It was such an honor to have you on today's program, and I'm so intrigued
by what you both are leading here. Thank you for having us. Yeah, I'm honored to be with you.
We appreciate it. That's a wrap on today's conversation with Ollie Raisin and Boris McGuire.
And what stayed me the most from this episode is this truth. Becoming doesn't require more
information. It requires a different environment.
When we change that context, we change what becomes possible.
Here are a few reflections worth carrying forward.
First, leadership isn't a position.
It's a responsibility to the collective.
Second, speed is not the same thing as progress.
And wisdom doesn't always come from the newest framework.
Sometimes it comes from the oldest ones.
The Sanburrow elders don't rush decisions.
They don't lead alone.
And they don't separate success from service.
That's a powerful mirror for the world we're living in right now.
If today's episode expanded your thinking, please share it with someone who leads or wants
to lead differently. And thank you for helping this season of becoming reach more people than ever
before. If you want to go deeper with these ideas, join me at the ignitedlife.net, where each
episode is paired with reflection tools to help you integrate what you're hearing into how you're
actually living. And next week, we continue this journey with a conversation I'm especially
excited about. I'm replaying a live conversation that I did with Joshua Green, the Harvard
moral philosopher and Rick Hansen, my friend, psychologist, and senior fellow at the Greater
Good Science Center at UC Berkeley for a powerful dialogue on expanding the circle of moral
concern. In the conversation, we explore why humans divide into us and them, how moral reasoning
shapes conflict, compassion, cooperation, and what it takes to widen our sense of who belongs
in leadership, society, and everyday life. Because becoming isn't just personal, it's collective.
All living systems are built on a combination of cooperation and competition, right?
So cooperation at multiple levels, being starting with primordial soup, you have molecules come
together to form cells, and cells come together to form more complicated cells and colonies
and individuals with organs that are worked together in complementary ways.
And then we have individuals forming small-scale societies, villages, chiefdoms, nations,
and sometimes even United Nations.
And all of that works because the parts are able to accomplish more together than they can separately.
And so they form a whole.
I'm John Miles, and you've been passion-struck.
Until next time, keep choosing growth over comfort, connection over certainty, and live like you matter.
