PBD Podcast - Frank Rodriguez Explains The Danger With Drag Shows In Front of Children | Ep. 249 | Part 2

Episode Date: March 22, 2023

In this episode, Patrick Bet-David and Frank Rodriguez will discuss: If you can scientifically know if you're gay Child predator admission of grooming fatherless children School libraries banning LGTBQ books in schools Florida expanding the "don't say gay" law Drag shows in front of children FaceTime or Ask Patrick any questions on ⁠⁠https://minnect.com/⁠⁠ Want to get clear on your next 5 business moves? ⁠⁠https://valuetainment.com/academy/⁠⁠ Join the channel to get exclusive access to perks:⁠⁠ https://bit.ly/3Q9rSQL⁠⁠ Download the podcasts on all your favorite platforms⁠⁠ https://bit.ly/3sFAW4N⁠⁠ Text: PODCAST to ⁠⁠310.340.1132⁠⁠ to get added to the distribution list --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pbdpodcast/support

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Is there a scientific way to figure out what it means to be gay? Like meaning, there is a scientific way to say, what is it to be a man, right? Scientific. I'm born with a dangling, right? Yeah. There is a scientific, I think that's what they call it, right? Somebody clip that please.

Yeah. Yeah. Somebody is going to. That one's done. There's a stem on the apple. Yeah, that's funny. A girl is born with a vagina. Right, like that movie, what was it? Kindergarten cop.

Hey, when he tells Arnold Schwarzenegger, he says, you know, boys have penises and girls have vaginas, right? Okay, that is a scientific way. And we can even go deeper to look at the chromosome count to say this, is there a scientific way of defining what it is to be gay, or do we all just have to say, well, you said you've been gay since you were kids, so we have to believe it.

Do you know what I'm asking Tom? Is there a scientific way to say, based on your chromosome count and where you're at, you're at, your gay? I haven't seen anything like that. On my end, it's something that I would foresee being very hard to determine, because people go through these life experiences

and you see it all the time where someone will be like, 55 and say, you know what, I'm really gay and then they start liking men. And it's like, how do you really gauge, you know, how do you quantify that experience to be able to make a determination on it? So, you know, you see that a lot with too, truthfully in my experience.

I've seen a lot of women who go through life, they have a family, they're married, they have kids, and then at 50, they're lesbian, which is, and I reason that this is an interesting point that I know you brought up a couple of times, Pat, I think is because if you look at the stuff like with Bill Mar that we talked about before, the numbers are exploding.

If you look at the numbers of when you talk about trans, how many people you know who are legitimately have body dysphoria or have all of these issues, those are also ballooning. So there has to be a way to gauge like what is real, what is happening in someone's body versus what is societ, what is happening in someone's body versus what is societally induced in someone, particularly with respect to, you know, I'm a boy, I'm

a girl on this. It's, you can't just treat people based off nothing, right? They're now getting drugs and stuff. It has to be grounded in some science here. Have I told you the story about the gay bar? We went to a national Tennessee. I know you don't know the story. Do you know the story about the gay bar we went to in Nashville Tennessee. I know you don't know the story. Do you know the story? Okay. So I'm the army and one of our guys his name is Chip. He says, when you're ready,

I want to take you to the best underground club in all of Nashville. I'm like, I'm ready. I've gone to all the clubs. I've gone Vegas. I've trust me. I'm ready. He says, no, you're not. I'm telling you, I've been to a lot of crazy clubs. I guarantee you've never been to a crazy club like this I said do it. I'm I'm from LA. He says, okay, let's see. Anyways, three months later He's like the guy that's been there longer than us. He takes me and this other guy Jeff to this club. We go to this club it's Studio 54 on steroids and by the way when I tell you studio 50 if you've seen the movie Where people are going at it

on the floor, they're doing this over here, they're doing that, they're doing this, trans drags all of it, is going at this club, okay? And there's a couple thousand people there. It's bonkers, how crazy this club was. So we go in. We go in, and obviously, you know, gay men will come up to you and say,

hey, handsome, hey, this is a lot of voice. Yeah, it's flirting in their own way. And then there's those that don't have the deep voice. And they talk to you as well, right? All right, cool. So I'm like, listen, man, I'm just here for the girls. And it was great because girls would go there

to not be bothered. Right. Because they just want to be left alone. Well, this allowed us to go there and if they change their minds by 11.30, there's an option. Like, it's kind of... It's cool.

Oh my gosh. There's plenty of play that have that same outlook. Right, sure you, I agree. So I'm like, you know what? What a brilliant strategy by the sky. So I'm like, why does the sky always around these beautiful girls? Anyways, here's what happened on the drive home.

One of our guys, ghosted a bathroom and the sky approaches them. And he says, you know, you gays is not straight. He says, you have been with a man before, he says no. He says, how do you know you're straight if you've never been with a man before, Kai? And in the 45 minute drive back from Nashville to Fort Campbell, Kentucky, this guy was struggling with that question.

Really? And I'm like, I'm like, bro, what are you doing? He's supposed to do that. That's kind of like how we flirt with girls. We use our, like, you know, the line from Top Gun, he says, you know, whatever, I don't date pilots. Well, if the government can trust me why can't you Cool, I'm listening to the lines. I'm like dude. That's his pickup line to convert straight guys He's like no, but what if he's right? Like you know what you're doing bro right now. You're gonna go in a very bad place here going down the rabbit

Dude into our mirror. Yes all in sales. Guess what rabbit hole he ended up going to, to the rabbit hole to find out for himself. Oh. I'm not even kidding with you. So he goes back, I was like more than a rabbit hole. Yeah, well it is. Well he goes back and he fully wants to find out. And then anyways, I don't want to go into because some of the people that listen will know what I'm talking about.

He ends up saying, no, you know, I'm not. I'm straight, okay? Buddy Fulbrone went everywhere, okay? He was all ed. Like, did you really have to do this to go there? He said, well, yes. So the reason why I asked that question is because I think it's uncomfortable

to talk about this today, because I know what's gonna happen after this podcast today. I'm gonna get emails, why are you even doing this, stick to the business, stick to that, I'm talking to you talking politics, why are you touching this? You know these guys are gonna come,

and they're gonna do that, and they're gonna do this. I'm asking a simple question. If you're saying 75%, 25% because of life, 75% they were born that way. I'd love to know the scientific formula on what categorizes a person to be gay and then we will, I mean, I think it's like, dude, what do you want to say? That person based on that. Or it's just a choice and individual is making that later on, a lot of it could have been persuasion by somebody else. Because from my experiences, I've been, you know,

I've been to many different places and I've been around straights, gays, buys, all of this stuff. And I understand, I understand what the approach of trying to convert and baptize the other individual to get them to think. So my question is more, I would love to research exactly what that number is.

And I would love for scientists who are Republican and Democrat to work together, fund the budget to find out exactly what needs to be the scientific formula for us to say people are born gay. I'd be so curious to know that. I think that that's something under the wheelhouse that we can definitely, you know, deep dive into as an organization.

We're definitely just, you know, got nonprofit, you know, for the IRS. So we're definitely seeking large funding to be able to, you know, pull things out and accomplish things like this because they think that there is a great area that, you know, that isn't being investigated. And that's something that, you know, Gag could definitely look into because it goes under the grooming wheel. You know what I would want to know? I would want to know if you can pull up if you can for a fact get to the bottom of it and fund this with scientists I'd love for your organization to come back and tell us how much I

would cost okay. You got it. Yeah I would love for you to come back and say we can fund it with this scientist that scientist and I want it to be both sides because I don't want to be any bias. They're all Republicans or they're all Democrats or they're all this. I want it to be people at our for the vaccination. They're not for the vaccination. I don't want all of them to be, well, the Vax wasn't a good thing. You took, well, I don't want all of them to be. You should have taken a Vax for COVID because you know, Vax became political. This LGBT is political. Everything's now political. Of course, yeah. If you tell me how much it would cost to find that to get to the bottom of it, I don't know. Maybe I'll yeah. If you tell me how much it would cost to find out to get to the bottom of it,

I don't know, maybe I'll either contribute or we'll go hope you raise the funds, but I'm really, really curious. And what I'm even more curious about, has this study ever been done? Rob, can you even pull it up? Like, is there what is like a, what would be the word, by the way,

to even search for it? Is it gene? Is it chromosome? What would it be? I feel like it would be something like in your brain activity would probably be like where you would want to target certain receptors. I would assume if you were going to gauge. At the end of the day, it's based on your attraction, right? PBS. So pull up that one. Let's see what PBS says. Can you pull that up? There is no

gauging. There is no straging. Sexuality is just complex. Study confirms. Can you zoom in a little bit? So we obviously know this is PBS. So we know what side they're going to be leaning through. There's no single gene possibility. The first thing you need to know about the largest genetic investigation of sexuality ever, which was published Thursday

in science, the study of nearly a half a million people closest the door on the debate around the existing of the so-called gauging. In it, instead, the report finds that human DNA cannot predict who is gay or heterosexual. Sexuality cannot be pinned down by biology, psychology, or life experiences. This study or other shows because human sexual attraction is decided by all these factors. This is not a first study exploring the genetics

of same sex behavior, but the previous study were small and under-powered. The studies co-author and genetics research fellow at the Broad Institute and Mass General Hospital on Wednesday just to give you a sense of the scale of our data. This is approximately 100 times bigger than any previous study on the topic. The study shows that the genes play small and limited role in determining sexuality.

Genetic heritability, all of the information stored in our genes and paths between generations can explain 8 to 25 percent of why people have same sex relation based on study results. Are they going to give it to us or no? Can track down single gene? Keep going now? Let's see if there's like points What they're gonna say is a word keep in mind of course ethical concerns? Yeah, I don't know if if I know what? Physically I can say somebody is straight somebody is a man or somebody is a woman

I'm not talking about straight or gay. I'm talking about what is a man and what is a woman. We can physically look at somebody when they're born, when they're someone your baby's born, they will say, you have a boy. And when we see the picture, they'll say, this is a boy because of, you see the picture, there's a dangling, right? Or this is a girl, right?

And you go, you got a girl, you got this, okay, great. No, it's a boy, phenomenal, you celebrate. But is there a way to say your kid's gonna be gay because his chromosomes numbers this, and test this, this is what's gonna happen? Great, let's celebrate it. Right, yeah, I think that's gonna be a really hard thing to accomplish because I did read a study

like through the National Library of Medicine that kind of reinforces a little bit here that there are many influences that can help determine or someone's sexuality. And I think that that would probably be most accurate, that sexuality isn't just something that is so binary that, oh, you can only be straight and you will always be straight.

I think we have enough people in the world that have changed that we spoke about. But when it comes down to like... But why though? Why? But why though? So let's go to that. So a 55-year-old man is married to kids. All of a sudden says, I'm gay. Okay. We had a very, like you talked about earlier, right? Okay. We had a very good friend, dropped at gorgeous girl, married to a very famous guy in LA who's done very well, billionaire money guy. All of a sudden one day she's like,

no, I'm lesbian, I like women. She left her husband with two kids and one end got what another girl and they got married and now she's lesbian, right? Okay, but what causes that? What causes a 55 year old who has been married with kids? Like the movie whale, right? You saw the movie whale, I don't know if you've seen

the movie whale or not with the, the guy that, didn't he just win the Oscar? He won the right, Brandon Frazier. Brandon Frazier, that he was a married guy with a daughter. And when she's eight or nine years old, he's a teacher, he falls in love with a student who's 23. He leaves the wife and a daughter to go be with him. And then the guy he falls in love with a student who is 23. He leaves the wife and a daughter to go be with him. And then the guy he falls in love with ends up having AIDS.

He dies and then later on, he eats so much and he kills himself right in front of the daughter. This whole story, I don't know if you've seen this or not. The pressing story at the highest level, don't recommend watching it. Brandon Frazier crushed the acting, but the storyline makes zero sense on how depressing of a story this is, right? But why does a 55 year old man, all of a sudden, choose to be gay? I wouldn't have the answer to that. I mean, I feel like the biggest proponent, if you wanted to take a guess on that, is

social influence, is what is going to groom someone into behaving or seeing something in a different light. I would be a fool to say that, you know, when you idolize something that people don't want with your idolizing. And so that's marketing. And so I would argue that it would based on that person's individual life experiences

that brought them to that decision. I know many of women that face like sexual assault and that is a reason why that they go down the journey of each and every event. It's a matter of event though. It is. And so I'm not genetics. No, but it would pre-approponent of that mental state and changing your mental outlook because of the what happened to you. But you see, I don't have a problem with that. Then that to me becomes a religion, you change your religion is what you did. Meaning, there's a lot of people that are atheists at 55-year-old, they become Christians.

Well, why'd you become a Christian, right? You read about CS Lewis, I don't know if you know who CS Lewis is, with the book, Mirror Christianity, or Chronicles of Narnia, they made a book about this guy. It's a phenomenal movie, the movie they made about him. It divorced letters. I think he's got all these great books that he wrote, right?

The great divorce. He's got all these things books that he wrote, right? The great divorce. He's got all these things that he wrote, screw tape letters, if you've read it, it's a phenomenal book, screw tape letters. So he was an atheist, Oxford. Then he becomes a Christian. You're a pretty smart guy. What happened?

How do you change? Yeah, I joined a faith and I found God. How do some of these boxers, I was born a Christian, now I'm a Muslim. What happened? Well, a life'm a Muslim, what happened? Well, a life changing event happened, right? That's a religion, that's not genetics, that's not how you were born.

I am born a man, okay? But people influence me to say, wow, I like that guy, he asked the questions, he converted me, right? That is a religion I'm joining, but it's not how I'm born. That's the question I'm putting out there. Right. And would you argue then that straight would be a religion too?

No. To me being born a man, okay, is gay gender, is gay a gender? No. What is gay? Gays a sexuality. Gays a sexuality. And so straight would also be a sexuality. Man and woman are genders.

So male and female and woman. But I didn't have them. And in application on the application, you know how I put, you know, male, female, now there's like other distaste that. That's, no. So it's not like male, female, straight gay. It's male, female, those are your two binary genders.

Yep. And that's the way I see it. And then you have these people that are going to determine their sexual orientation. And now from there you're going to take someone that could be a man or could be a woman and they could be lesbian or straight or gay. And so I could definitely see the lens that if we wanted to claim sexuality as some sort of religion, some sort of belief, it would have to be blanketed across everyone. Yeah, but I'll show you here. These are, I'm giving you applications

where they say, what is your gender? And then it says female, male, trans, female to male, male to female, intersex, other, and then you have the sexual orientation which you're talking about. Which is completely different to my trans. Okay, totally get it. So you're saying gay is a religion,

then straight is also religion. Yeah, because they're both sexual. If we're gonna paint gay as being a religion, then I feel like on the, because I'm the guy that you would have to flip at the same one on the other coin, and if gay is a religion, then so is straight, because then what you're arguing for gay,

you can also argue for straight. And it has to be same on both ways for it to be factual. Right, I can go to a place right now that would really get me in trouble right now if I wanted to go there. Maybe we can talk offline when I bring up my thoughts on this year. But to me, an event has to happen for me to become gay.

An event doesn't have to happen for me to become gay. An event doesn't have to happen for me to be straight. An event has to happen for me to be gay, right? A crisis, a life-changing event, a person I meet, a conversation, a groomer, a person that does something for me to question myself to say, maybe I am, and I don't know. And then I shift. Versus I want to know naturally are there symptoms and genetics or studies that I can say this person's going to have signs of being gay. That's what I want to

know. Because you know, if it is, if the statement, specifically going back to the statement of, I was born this way. Cool. I actually wanna do studies to see what that means. You know what people say? I was born this way. So that's so interesting because this trans movement definitely abolishes that I was born this way mentality. And that's why I argue like the LGBT community is very full of a lot of contradictions.

Because if you're born this way, if you're born gay, then why are people born in the wrong body? And it's like, it's to me, I'm very logically consistent with the statements that I make and making sure that they are the same on both sides of that coin. And I think that that's why you're seeing a big shift in people saying things like LGB without the T,

Gays against groomers, we definitely include the T. We just don't think that this is something for children to be influenced by, but consenting adults is different. Yeah, this is, we went through a whole different rabbit hole. We did it. And trust me. It was interesting, yeah. Frank, trust me when I tell you this. Off camera at 11.30 at night, having a cigar, this conversation gets a lot more comfortable when you're talking to

home team and everybody is saying then a place like this because in a in a society like today, we have to be forced to think a certain way that somebody wants to tell us to believe and have a very hard time with that. I got kicked out a Bible study from seven to 10 years old because I would say how to help is a if you tell me God exists and we just got bombed 167 study from seven to 10 years old because I would say how to help is a if you tell me God exists and we just got bombed 167 times, explained to me how God exists and all these people died. So I was kicked out a Bible study. They wouldn't even send me back.

They would tell my mom and dad, your son doesn't need to be in class because he questions everything in a Bible. So they finally said, your son can't come to Sunday school. So I've been that guy my entire life to question because I'm curious if I'm born this way prove it to me I will trust science from both sides not just PBS not just Fox I want to pew research gallup those who supported the vacs those who didn't support the vacs those who voted for Republican those who voted for Democrat scientists let's put some money in there get to work and argue it and tell us. You know what? Here's what happens. 99.8% of people will become gay, we're converted because somebody groomed them. Cool. Or no, there's 12% that are born this way. Fine. Now

we have the science to go based off of that, rather than all these other things that are being forced down our throat. I don't want to upset you. Just, oh no, you're fine. I'm going through it myself right now. So be patient with my level of curiosity. Oh, you're totally okay. So why don't we, if we can go to this next thing. This is a disturbing video. Before we play this parent, the reason why I'm showing this is because I think parents are not aware of this enough.

Here's a guy who's a convicted child predator, be an interview. Tom, have you seen this before or no? Jet, have you seen this before? No. Okay. Frank, have you seen this? No. It's so disturbing. It's not even funny, but it's so necessary because the interviewer gets exactly how he groomed young boys before molesting them. It's a two-minute clip. Again, a brace for impact parents. I highly recommend you watch this for your own self and start teaching your kids before they come across somebody like this. Go ahead Rob.

How did you get them alone? I would check out their family situation. I would check out their clothing to see how well they were financially. I would check out their social interaction with other kids. You know, when we were on the ball parks or on the gym floor, you know, I would make sure which ones I wanted to molest, I would give them special attention, congratulate them, talk to them when I know that I would never be allowed

to talk to anybody else, you know, aside from everybody, I would give them the attention that an official is not supposed to give anybody and it made them feel like, wow, he's paying the attention. You know, it is a direct form of grooming. Were there certain characteristics that you'd looked for in children before molesting them? In children, yes, but more I also looked at their families. If I thought the father was a threat, I would not approach the child.

If I thought that the child had friends, that he would tell, I would not approach him. If I thought the child had friends that were in the same capacity he was, I would approach him. For the simple fact that if I could molest him, I could lure him into believing, grooming him into believing that he would enjoy it. And therefore, I could manipulate him into having his other friends come and be molested by me as well. So perhaps a child that doesn't really have a whole lot of friends, maybe not really a strong family, things like that? Yes, no spiritual values. No spiritual values. Week in education, you know, needs help in many ways. Even from split parenting, you know, has a mother who may be having problems with the family, you know, well, here comes superhero into help out, you know, wow, well thank

you very much. No problem. You ever need me to take him away for the nights that you have a night out? Oh, my God. No problem. It works. B problem. It works. Bingo thoughts. That's why I said that about the fatherless homes. It happens all the time. And it happens with everything. I mean, you have to think about like a dad in a home and what

what that means. I mean, even if you say you have a daughter and she's going to date somebody, that guy's out to do no good, comes to the front door and meets PBD. Or meets my husband. Good luck. You know, or meets Tom. GoodD. Or meets my husband, good luck. Or meets Tom, good luck. Or any dad out there. So a dad is really like a check on really some bad stuff. A dad has really good strong radar.

A dad who is wired properly and has his masculinity and all that in tech, which is what I talk about all the time, is going to say, no, stop, and people will read that. People out to do harm will read that. And if they see a home where there is a mom who's home, who's alone, who's struggling financially, where there's a lot of holes there, that creates an opportunity for some really terrible stuff

to happen. So that's very interesting that we just went on. By the way, he went to jail for 12 years for molesting a number of kids in 80s. Go ahead, Tom. Yes, please. You know, which really just just shows you just how busy and how much the citizenry isn't paying attention, not all of them, and all of us are into this.

I'm not putting anyone above any others in terms of parents. Everybody gets busy. Everybody doesn't pay attention. You have today groups that are coming to high schools to talk about the dangers of social media. And they're talking about predators because predators are bad. And you've got same-sex couples there. They're just that are coming to their concerned about their kids being on Facebook or kids being on social media and meeting predators and going off and having bad things happen. And they're concerned about that. But then 10 minutes later, right? Nobody, no, you see when we go on, Jed, it's like they have this concern for the safety of their child. They have this

concern for it. But then when they come back to what is the school teaching, what is the average guidance counselor doing, what are people not doing, and what are they not telling you? They're not connecting the two dots there. They say, listen, grooming is grooming. You're concerned about predators over here. You're concerned about social media safety. You're concerned about really terrible things happening on one hand, but on the other hand,

you've kind of not turned a blind eye, but you haven't been paying attention to see it's come in on the other side. You know, this video points out some really good topics when it comes to who has access to this information easily. Who has the profession where they can determine these types of things that this individual did to attack children? And I would argue that teachers have all this information and abundance of all of their classrooms. And when you pair something like that knowledge with pride flags happening in classrooms,

which I'm a huge proponent that we should ban pride flags out of classrooms, you are opening up the door for these teachers to have sexual conversations with students that is highly inappropriate, that is not effective to their education. I argue that if you're hanging a pride flag in your classroom, I want you to explain that to me as if I'm a six-year-old, and it's going to boil down to sexual preference, and that is no conversation for a stranger

and outside entity from the family home to have that discussion with the child. And this video fully proves that when you look at an educator, as a parent, you should be questioning teachers more so than any person that your child is parent, you should be questioning teachers more so than any person that your child is around. You should be very involved in the things that your child is learning because they have access to ultra-sensitive information that can jeopardize your child's well-being positively or negatively. That's 100% true because I used to be the dean of a school and I would, you know, academic dean and I would would work with kids, age seventh grade through high school. And I knew everything about their families.

I knew everything about their parents. I knew what was going on in their home. I knew if that child was troubled. I know if they're on medications, ADHD medication, whatever it may be. I know what their academics looks like. I know how many times they're in and out of the office. If there's an emotional trauma or emotional problem,

I know some of what's been discussed with the guidance counselor. This is 100% true. And this is why I think you've seen this blow up in homeschooling because there's such a deep concern about what's going on in schools. Now, and parents think that they can't monitor it adequately. They're like, well, I'm not there all day. Ultimately, you are giving your children away to an institution for a period of time in the day.

You can try to be as present as possible. You can do those parent teacher conferences. You can have those in person interactions, but many parents are feeling like, especially if they have no choice but to put their kids in public school right now, they're feeling very, very concerned and afraid, which is why the home school industry is blowing up the way that it is. And this is for you. I'm sorry.

Go ahead. Oh, everything. Go ahead, Tom. And, you know, the BizDoc babe, she's a teacher and she'll tell you, she said, you know that there's this odd chasm that gets formed. Parent calls you, I said, the kid was in a fight. She'll say, here's what we know, here's what we observe.

And so the witness has said, there's another teacher on the playground said, you get chapter in verse, you know, in little kids, you get the little things called an out report, if they got hurt. Number one, they'll tell them about the grades, they'll tell them about the tests, they'll tell them if they stole from another kid,

they'll tell them if they cheated on a test. You can go through the whole thing and says, as you've been acting out, you can't tell them, then you're not supposed to tell them the next parts. And she said, you know, this is really troubling to a lot of teachers. Teachers are not unified on this.

They're troubled. They're saying, listen, the parents should know everything. And there's a difference between kid that's got a very bad step mother or an abusive relationship or something odd is happening at home. And there's some intervention eventually is going to be needed, maybe not CPS.

But there's a difference between that and then suppressing information. You can share everything and anything. And by the way, the schools are, we gotta talk to the parents, because this kid is disruptive and all the other parents are complaining. So we need to talk to this parent

so that they're a little boy who's just ADHD, will stop disrupting the class. And there's this urgency to do it. But in the parent, then once you get a briefing on everything, you tell the parent everything except and it's, parents now are reacting to this saying no wait a minute, this is kind of crazy. And we shouldn't paint all teachers like this because there's a lot of teachers out there that are saying no, we shouldn't be putting the limit on this. But those teachers, some of them who are, it doesn't matter,

their political affiliation, their're liberals and they're saying, listen, we gotta get the parents involved in this because, but I can't say anything and I can't say that that's my feeling. And so certain teachers are being kind of pushed back from expressing it by what is being characterized as a very loud minority. Yeah, they have no power.

Those, some of those teachers have no power because they're working within the confines of a system that prohibits them. They can either lose their job or they can go teach it a private independent school, which I worked at where there's a little bit more flexibility because there aren't these top-down government mandated procedures that people have to follow, but it is an increasing problem. I want to read a couple of these stories to you. Here's one from AP News. School library, books, book bands are seen as targeting LGBTQ content. Iowa, Republican, Governor Kim Reynolds pushes and especially sweeping crackdown on content in Iowa school libraries.

The bill she's backing could result in the removal of books from schools, libraries in all of the states, 327 districts, if they're successfully challenged in any one of them, under a bill back by Reynolds, the titles and authors of all books available to students and classrooms and libraries must be posted online, and officials would need to specify how parents could request a book's removal

and how decisions to retain books could be appealed. When any district removes a book, the State's Education Department would add to removal list and all of Iowa's 326 school districts would have to deny access to the book unless parents gave approval the parents are the governing authority and how their child is educated period said Senator Amy Sinclair parents are responsible for their child's upbringing period. Terry Patrick a mother of two express express a be funniment

about why anyone would want to make sexually explicit books available to children. What are your thoughts on this? Yeah, you know, we put in a lot of work, especially here at my home, an orange unified school district. We actually were able to flip our board to be more conservative,

and they actually terminated our superintendant and are in the process right now of replacing that individual. They did this because of a lot of the sexual things that were happening to children within these books. And so our board actually had to make drastic decisions and often loading an app to get rid of these books. And the question really comes is all of these parents

for the last year or two that have been complaining about these porn style books that are available to students. Why hasn't anyone with their right mind saying that this should not be available to students? This should not be available to five year olds. And if you're going to make it available to your students, it should be at an appropriate age. But here's the part, I'm open to being sold if you can logically sell it to me. How are they selling that that's normal, that you should be okay with that? How are pain selling?

They're pain selling to parents. Yeah, so there's this thing, I call it gay privilege. When you paint something as inclusivity, you paint it as pride, you paint it as love, as my community, you automatically get this precedent that if you do not go along with this, then you're homophobic or you're transphobic and no one wants to fall under that category based on how our society perceives these people.

Now you have people like us, like Gays Against Grimers that says, oh no, no, no, no, no, this book that is showing two children have sex, this has absolutely nothing to do with pride and inclusivity. This has everything to do with indoctrination. They associate it with book banning now, those people. You know, they'll say that people, these are like conservatives, you want to book and books and that. And the meantime, if you looked back, I mean, would you put Playboy magazines from back in the day into a child school library?

No, you wouldn't. There was some moral barometer of what was acceptable. There was a barometer. If you sent your kid into a neighbor's house and we had a, we found out in our neighborhood when I was growing up There was a guy that was a little strange and a friend of mine found it out because she went babysat there And they were just playboy magazines everywhere and these were all young and the parents said you're not going in there anymore You're not babysitting you're not doing any of that stuff

But we had a moral barometer of what was acceptable You have a school library and you have kids of a certain age bracket every book in that library should be pertinent for kids of that age bracket. I don't know why this has gotten so complex and so hard. And it seems to me that what you're saying is accurate, that everyone's afraid to challenge just this immoral stuff or this stuff that's just not appropriate for that age group because they're afraid of how they're gonna be labeled, then they're gonna be ostracized,

then you know someone in social media is gonna make a video about them, then they're gonna have a problem at their job. It's gonna balloon and that person's suddenly gonna lose their job, their financial stability. Say everyone's like, let me just shut up. And who's getting hurt are the kids? Because then they go into that school library and as a 14 year old reading a book that's appropriate for a grown adult

and not for them. So ultimately you have to speak up. People like you who run these organizations, parents have to walk into these school libraries and say, I'm going to rip my kids out of this school if you don't stop putting inappropriate content in this library. And if a whole school of parents showed up and did that,

they'd have to change. What are all the schools going to be empty? No, it doesn't work like that. You band together and you do something about it. That kid must have lived in a high-end community where the parents had Playboy magazines. We found LA Express. We couldn't afford playboy magazine when we were 14, 15 years old,

but I don't know if you know that. Little kids though, she was going to babysit five and six year olds, you know? But you know, even with that, the responsibility of that is still parent screwing that up, which is fine, let the parents screw it up. But we knew it was wrong, right? Of course.

We knew it was wrong. Now, a teacher doing that and thinking it's appropriate to put it in a book to say, you know, picture two boys, what, that's the part of how are you selling these parents for some parents to say, yes, Tom, do you have any thoughts on this? Yeah, I think it goes both ways.

And I think, you know, from... Yeah, a lot of them do go both ways. That's a different community. That's a bisexual. Is that... That's next different community. That's a bisexual That's next Thursday Go ahead. I'm sorry. I thought you were already the B. That's what the B stands for there. Yeah, we're all learning here No, I mean You never know though unless if you time try but go ahead you were saying I think it's important to make to make that point

right as you know, appropriateness for all because the point, right, is, you know, appropriateness for all, because the, you know, you don't want any one community to say, oh, we're being single out, being discriminated against. Well, they can claim the field that way, but frankly, for libraries, we want age-appropriate, you know, material all across spectrum, you know, heterosexual, homosexual, all that stuff. We don't want any of that to be in front of kids. You know, that's the point. And it's not, you know, banning just gay books or banning just this. It is basically saying, hey, there's an appropriate age for this, you know, parents for the longest time helped me out, because you were an administrator, could opt in or opt out

of certain videos that they would do for health for girls. Yeah, you should sign a form. And seventh grade, hey, let you know, next week, April 11th, we're going to do this. This is the film, the socials it's about. It's been used since 1985, and so parents, and have a phone. You know what? No, I'm going to have the conversation with my daughter. Don't she's not gonna watch that film with you

Fine and so for the longest time it there is this more brawmerter and sensibility, but it was on both ways It's like sexualized content Not gonna be in front of kids at an inappropriate age period So nobody is singling out LGBTQ books. Nobody is banning books in the name of McCarthyism on one side of a political line here. This is kids or kids and adults or adults and there's content for either.

They sell it by the way to parents because the same way they sold condom distribution in schools. They say this is happening in society. So we're just showcasing what's happening in society. They also say, well, not every kid has parents. Some kids don't have the structure at home to explain these things. So it's our job now to stand in and have these conversations

with kids. That's how it's sold. I just want to point out. They're going to do it anyway. Let's make sure that they're doing it safely. And they use safe. I just want to point out these books that we're talking about are not simply a dad and a dad raising a kid taking them trick or treating in a coloring book.

We're talking about a book that is showing kids sexual fetishes, how do you sexual objects having sex in these books, all cartoon pieces. This is joke, are you being... I am not joking, no, you're not. The speech you saw me give in Poway unified people district, we blew up these pictures in two feet by three feet and displayed them for the school board

and said, these are pictures you have in your classroom books that is available to students. And when you look at these people and they say, you're homophobic, it's like this has nothing to do with sexuality. We just don't want porn in classrooms with kids. It's inappropriate. And they're using my, this is why when we were talking, my community, the LGBT community has been hijacked.

Well, let me go to the next story here with what's going on in Florida. Florida said to dramatically expand its don't say gay laws. Here's what they will do. This is time magazine article, obviously, uh, uh, or else it has nothing to do with don't say gay laws. That's just what they're promoting. Republicans, lawmakers, and Florida are planning to expand provisions in their parental rights in education act or don't say gay law, which will restrict what teachers can and cannot say in their classrooms about gender, sex, and sexual orientation. The bill would heavily restrict in school discussions

about sexual orientation or gender identity until ninth grade. And that teacher, band teachers from addressing students by pronouns that differ from those they were assigned at. Birth, the advocates for and against these bills that time spoke to believe this legislation will pass LGBTQ and advocate plus advocates, especially fear that the bill would have adverse effects on LGBTQ families and more than 16,000 Florida youth that identify as transgender, research by the Williams Institute

at UCLA School of Law found that more than half of the LGBTQ parents surveyed, considered moving out of Florida because of the don't say, yay, law. Jet, would you be hard-broken if these parents left Florida? We've, see you later. Bye.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out. This is why it's important to choose where you live right now. This is why it's state-to-state. You see massive differences, by the way, in terms of what governors are and aren't willing to tackle. I mean, look at what we just saw there. They want what? Third graders getting this information.

That is talking about up until ninth grade. They're trying to make stuff age-appropriate for kids. They're also trying to say, if you're a boy, you can't just leave the house at home a boy. And everybody's, you know, this is Jimmy, and then you go to school and somebody calls you a girl all day long. The parents don't know about it. Nobody knows what's going on. These are parental rights bills. These are places that you can live by the way, states like Florida. And there are a lot of red states. Some red states, by the way, are slacking behind on this stuff, but there are a lot of red states you can go to, and you just know, listen, if something's going

on with my kid as a parent, the school is going to inform me. My kid's not gonna have a whole separate life at school, then they have it home, and there's not gonna be this big black hole of nonsense going on at school that's completely inappropriate for my eighth grade, or let's say, totally normal. Anybody with their head on straight would not have a problem with this stuff.

Frank, I love the parental rights and education bill. I think it would do tremendous positive things for my community. When it comes to addressing kids by their pronouns, you're seeing a big push of this happen. The reason this law, which I am going to say that I support if they do implement this, is they are affirming these genders. They are affirming these pronouns outside of what their parents are calling them. And so now you don't even have the parents included in this conversation and teachers are doing this behind their back. And so you have, you know, Ron DeSantis coming in and saying, you know what? No,

you shouldn't be doing this. You shouldn't be guiding. You should not be grooming these children. You should be referring to them as they were born because no child, the reason Gays against groomer says no child is born in the wrong body isn't to disavow that gender dysphoria exists. It's to put force light on that children do not have the mental capacity to make these decisions fully formed and educated decisions. So that is why no child is born in the wrong body. And you can never, well, I shouldn't say you can never, but where it stands right now, it's very likely that you would not be able

to convince me otherwise because children are too innocent and the reason why that they are going down this journey is because of the outside influences. And we're seeing these ramifications like with that article with children dying. I think that article said 6,700. Yep. And it's a shame.

And you know who that falls on? If we want to blame someone for that, that's going to be on the teachers. Because the teachers are affirming these things all across our country without their parents knowing, and they're not even getting the guided assistance that they need. They're just going to school saying,

hey, Mr. Lopez, can you call me a she instead of a he? And then Mr. Lopez is like, sure. And it's like that is so toxic and dangerous. And confusing. They've got the kids living two separate lives. Talk about confusion and a kid in a child's mind. One whole life at home, as Jimmy goes to school and gets acknowledged as whatever.

Now they're thinking of their parents as the enemy, they're confused, they don't know who to trust. I mean, that is a mess. Did you see the, what is it? Cabo, Babo, Rave, did you see the Cabo, Babo, Rave, the drag queen Rave for the little children, perform for the kids? You haven't seen this?

Do you have that, Rob? I've seen so many of these things. I don't know exactly. What would you do? It's horrible. I want to wrap up with this for if you haven't already had enough of these videos, folks, this right here.

I mean, make it a little bit bigger. Yes, I see. Forgive me. Make the video wider, there you go. So if you want to play this, this is disturbing to say the least. These are kids, parents took them to this, the audience taken out on Twitter,

don't worry about let it keep playing. You know what's also discussed in this? She's a sister by the way. She thinks that this is okay, the person doing these moves, look at this, like it's disgusting. I don't care if he thinks it's okay, the parents think this is okay.

Let him think this is okay, I'm okay with that. I don't have a problem if he thinks it's okay. The parents think this is okay. Let him think this is okay. I'm okay with that. I don't have a problem if he thinks it's okay. Those parents who have their kids in there, tell me what the kid is learning. Like what form of entertainment is this? It is not entertaining to me at all. This is like what adults used to go and a bachelor at party, grown adults and see this stuff.

And now you have small children. Well, because again, you have to, you have to, you have to not, it's not about normalizing the behavior. Like, these are grown adults can do whatever they want. grown adults can also go and spend money to go see whatever they want. It's about normalizing exposure of these things

to small children, and it's deeply sick. But what is wrong with that generation? Like, what is the age bracket of parents that have lost their minds here? I think it's like parents in there, what, 20s, 30s and maybe even early 40s that are doing this stuff because I can't think of anyone above that age bracket

that I know of that thinks this is sane, but I do know some people in places like New York City who are in their 30s and what are, oh yeah, this is just what's happening in the world and would take their kids to stuff like this. So I don't know, man, something's deeply sick going on. Tom, what does somebody have to pay you for you to take your kids to that entertainment to see something like that?

How much money? There's no amount of money you give me. Same here. What is the outcome of something like that? You know, like... Confucian? Confucian in the mind of those kids, you know, because you see something like this, there's, you know, it's like a sentence, there's got to be a subject or predicate, and, you know,

a dot at the end of the sentence. And so, what do you tell the kids when they're going in to see this? What are they seeing? What are they interpreting? What do they think it's all about? And who's who's talking with them later? You know, which really interesting is, you take third graders, second graders, into a school play, and the school play is about the Revolutionary War. And then what do we do? You go back to the classroom, we talk about the play,

we saw and we debrief a little bit. It's called learning, right? Something at the front of the class, then reflective discussions, and then write something, take a test. All those things, you don't understand, they're just walking out with confusing PBD confusion. You know what I mean?

There's no debriefing. How many of your kids see something at school? They say a film on Ben Franklin. They come home with a book on Ben Franklin. They debrief on Ben Franklin. And then they sit down and they write a little piece of homework. So there's this full circle coming around.

When kids go into watch that, what did you tell them you were going to watch? What did they think when they saw it? And what did you debrief afterwards? I want to finish with this. I want to finish with this. I appreciate that time. I want to finish with this, Frank, from you, from Jed, from Tom. So somebody's watching this and they're saying, this is freaking ridiculous.

I got two kids, let's just say, four year old and an eight year old. Okay. I got three kids, nine, a 12 and a 15 year old. But I only make $73,000 a year. I can't afford to put my kids in private school. And I can't afford to stay home because my job doesn't allow me to work from home. I have to go to my work. I don't have a lot of choices. And I'm starting my part-time ruleistic gig to try to make some money so I can put my kids in private school. But I don't have any say.

When I go to my school, I'm in such a liberal left community that there's nothing. I feel like there's nothing I can do. There's 20 of us parents that we all know each other because we go to the same church. What can I do? What do you say to those parents, Jett? Honestly, what do I say? Yeah. Move.

That's what I say. I know it's hard. I know and I understand. I grew up with very little money. My parents didn't have a lot of money. They had to work very, very, very hard to get everything that they have in life. And they made decisions based on, sometimes you just have to go.

If you are in a very liberal place and the school districts are terrible, you got to figure out a way to get out. If you can't do the private school and you can't do the homeschooling some families, you know, are able to make sacrifices and say the dad goes to work and there's a stay at home mom and she says, I'm going to take this responsibility on. Not everybody can do that. Some people are in situations where they need two incomes coming in. I understand it all.

I also understand that moving is not easy. That there is, you know, you have families where you are, you have your home, you have this a lot, but this is not going, this is not gonna get any better in these blue cities, these blue states. It's moving in this direction of these videos that we've seen today and worse. So you have to make a decision at some point of what matters. And ultimately, if you

are stressed every single day that you send your kids into a school and you're coming home with a different kid, you've got to consider picking up and going to a state where there's at least some parental right protections where you know you have a saying your kids life when they're not in your home. Frank. Yeah, I would argue and I would just advise them to, if you can move, do so. And then you also just have to play an active role in what your child is learning. I'm a huge proponent that you should ask your children and be involved in the things that they're learning

so you can course correct these actions. And the earlier that you can course correct it, it's very important. When it comes to what happens in your hometown, gaze against groomers is expanding so quickly. We get so many applications for volunteers. Go to our website and see if we have a chapter there. We will deploy someone over there to advocate for you

and shield you from these things like we do all across our country. Just definitely just play that active role and make sure that they're a great feedback. Tom. And the answer is, once you have kids, you have to decide what you're going to do with any spare minute of time. Is it your hobbies, is it your desires, or are you going to invest in this wonderful child that you've been trusted with? And being as close to them as you can so that you can guide with frameworks is point one. Point two is, I won't repeat it, it's everything judge has said.

But I think point one is just making an avowed commitment every spare minute, I don't have hobbies. It's one of the things my kids have noticed. When we were living in Dallas and say, you know, dad, you don't go with your friends to the OU football game. That's not a bad thing. But I knew a lot of guys,

we got these big RVs that would go up and be gone for the weekend for the OU football game. Now, remember, there was only, what, five, six home games for OU? It wasn't happened every week. But they noticed that my time was with them. Not dope. Tom, what a thing you just said.

So everybody hit a different point. Yours was move if you can because the fear of going to school and every day you're like, my kids gonna change when they come home. That's a real sincere fear that people have. Yours is get active, be involved. Yours is drop some of the happy's that are hobbies

that are not necessary. You have to go to this, you have to go to that. I'm gonna go to this game. I'm gonna drive to this and you miss an 18 hours of being with your kids. All great feedback. I will say this to you. And this is not gonna be popular.

All parents love their kids. I'm convinced. Of course, some of them that go and they don't want the responsibility, the father leaves and does. Parents that are in their kids' lives, they love their kids. Let's face it, parents. You ain't gonna like what I'm telling you,

this just kind of receive it. Sometimes you're a little lazy to wanna do your job as a parent. It's an, as a leader, as, believe me, I was a sales leader and I didn't wanna do accountability calls. How many calls did you make this? I forget about it.

I was a lazy leader in my 20s. Then I realized accountability is necessary to develop better leaders parents. How was your day today? What did you talk about? What did they bring up? What did you watch? Who did you befriend?

Did you have any tea? Did you think, do this? Do you play them stuff for them to kind of give you feedback and realize, you got to keep an eye out for this. You got to choose this. What about this? Talk to the teachers, email teachers. Trust me. If I were to get a leader's bulletin of how many times parents email teachers to say what happened to

you, the more teachers know that the parent is involved, just like that abuser said earlier, the more involved the father is, the less I do my thing. The more involved you are, the less the teacher knows that they can't mess with that family, they got to know that this stuff is important to you. So I think some of it is also on parents not being lazy to be involved because your life is so busy, would assure you're watching, would a Netflix, would a sports team, your loyal to, etc. There's nothing more valuable for you to be loyal to than the future of your kids that you brought on to this world.

You're going to need God's help, you're going to need communities help, but most importantly, I'll set those two. You also need to lead them properly by being involved. Phenomenal podcast, I enjoyed it. Thank you for coming out. This was great. Thank you. It's a very different angle we took on the topic today. I hope you guys keep doing what you're doing. Rob, if we can put that below gaze against groomers, what you said was important that if you guys want somebody to come to your community and speak in lobby,

go to our website, let us know. We will send somebody to your area, put the link in the description, put it in the chat so people can go find out about it as well as I think you're active on Twitter, right? If you can put this handle as well on Twitter, he's very active on Twitter. Frank, thank you for being courageous, being brave and doing what you're doing. It's not an easy job. I'm sure it's tough. You guys get targeted all the time, but someone's got to do it and you've chosen to do this and I appreciate you for doing, it's not an easy job. I'm sure it's tough. You guys get targeted all the time, but someone's got to do it, and you've chosen to do this,

and I appreciate you for doing that. Thank you. Thanks for coming out, Jed. Thank you for being on as well. BizDoc, thank you as well, Rob, thank you. Thanks for rocking. Gank, have a great day. I think we're doing it again on Thursday.

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