PBD Podcast - Fresh & Fit | PBD Podcast | EP 136

Episode Date: March 23, 2022

In this fun episode, Patrick Bet-David is joined by Adam Sosnick along with Life & Wellness instructors Fresh and Fit to discuss their hugely popular red pill podcast and how they came to their unique ideologies. TOPICS Fresh & Fit background Where 'Fresh & Fit' got their philosophy Fresh & Fit controversial points Will Fresh & Fit ever get married The influence of your parents What is the code of conduct for men vs. women The problem with feminism If you want options, increase your market value How Tinder has changed the dating game Fresh & Fit advice for their daughters Fresh was going to be a pastor Men are bad Fresh & Fit: Myron Gains and Walter Weekes host a men's podcast where they provide insight on relationships, fitness, and, finances. Check out their podcast here: https://bit.ly/3JvOjeJ Follow Felix on Instagram: https://bit.ly/3D3Qm7u Subscribe to Fresh & Fit's YouTube Page: https://bit.ly/3JvOjeJ Support Fresh And Fit on Patreon: https://bit.ly/3ulMLOa Follow Fresh and Fit on Instagram: https://bit.ly/36C5oFI Follow Walter on Instagram: https://bit.ly/3qptkmy Follow Myron on Instagram: https://bit.ly/3Nea6tO To reach the Valuetainment team you can email: [e-mail] Download the podcasts on all your favorite platforms https://bit.ly/3sFAW4N About:  Patrick Bet-David is the founder and CEO of Valuetainment Media. He is the author of the #1 Wall Street Journal bestseller Your Next Five Moves (Simon & Schuster) and a father of 2 boys and 2 girls. He currently resides in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. About Co-Host: Adam “Sos” Sosnick has lived a true rags to riches story. He hasn’t always been an authority on money. Connect with him on his weekly SOSCAST here: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4s_zB_R7I0VW88nOW4PJkyREjT7rJic --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pbdpodcast/support

We're live. Okay folks. So we're officially live with fresh and fit today our special guest Okay, fresh am iron and if you're not following their podcast, they're absolutely Grumped getting big, you know, just making a lot of noise piss on a lot of people off which is good and controversy Some people swear by their philosophy some people go after but regardless we're gonna have a good time To my right, we have Adam Sosnik here and to his right. We have the legendary White Knight, White Claw Warrior, aka Future Mayor of Austin, aka a friend of mine when I was in the Army 25 years ago. We were stationed at Ford Campbell, Kentucky together from 97 to 99. If you follow the podcast, you've heard him call in

and tell some stories about his 20 years in a military. And FYI, here's what everybody needs to know. I've married happily four kids, 12 and a half years married. Felix is married. How many kids you got Felix? I have three boys. Three boys and Adam happily single But somewhat undecided and you guys are definitely single yes or no yes, that's an understanding

Change by the day Okay, however, there's one thing you guys got to know about Felix To manage expectations here if Felix was 28 today He would probably have a fresh and fit podcast Absolutely If Felix was 28 today, he would probably have a fresh and fit podcast. Absolutely. You guys, because he had a reputation. I don't know if we're going to get into those stories or not. But what we do is today's about you guys. Appreciate you guys for coming out.

It's you. If you don't mind taking a moment and maybe tell your background, tell everybody about your podcast and then we'll get right into it. Yeah. You want to go first? You go first. Me first. Let's go.

Look at that. Yeah. Oh, they pick your rock papers. Often he's never duplicating. You go first me first. Let's go look at that Yeah, so they call me fresh I'm 29 years old I used to be in tech used to do a programming and coding as well and basically I used to do YouTube prank videos so I started doing videos on YouTube like go through your pranks all these prank videos stuff like that and I did interview with what a friend of ours and

Can I mess together? He's spoken our long phone call regarding dating lifestyle money success and he said hey You know what? Let's go podcast You guys had never met prior to this phone. Never met before and this is how long ago by the way this is for like You're not yeah gone on almost two years now. So you guys have only known each other less than two years. Yeah, well, much. Yeah, well, we met through another YouTuber shout outs our guys solo TV 84.

He linked this up together. Okay. All right, as you were, wall. Yeah, and then we spoke for our heads and learn like mindset. And we did the first podcast. It did pretty well, you know, we did one week and then two week and then three week and became what you know today, a fashion fit. And then our after hours show,

we went on a double day late night and we were like, lit, we're like, oh, you know what, we're in the studio, two girls, let's do a late night podcast with some girls. And so, by the way, blew up from there and started the after hour special that we have today. So the one time we were like lit because we had fresh, though, really drunk, but on this night, we were drinking in fresh was like, bro. You know what, he's like, look at me, like all like, blinking like this. And that's how you know he saw,

he's like, we should go live right now. I was like, what? I was like, bro, we don't have our producer here, because he likes the one I switched the cameras around everything, we're just us, he was like, let's just do it, man. I was like, all right, fuck it, all right, I guess we'll do it, all right, whatever.

So we did it, and people really enjoyed it, and then we just kept going. And this was back, I think January of 2021, because we started the podcast October of 2020, and then we just kept going. And this was back, I think January of 2021, because we started the podcast, October of 2020, and then we did that first episode with girls January of 2021. And then yeah, with girls, and then that's what people kind of like, that's what made the channel grow really fast.

And then from there, people came for the girls, right? They came for the tips in the ass, and then they stayed for us after. So, you know, people have been like, they'll come in, watch the girls, they'll be like, oh wait, you guys have content on like making money and, you know, also like getting girls and how to be a better man in general. Cool. Let me stay around for this stuff. And, you know, hold on. Are you saying that people tune in because

they like hot chicks that talk about drama? Hold on. What? That's apparently so. I didn't know. Yeah. I didn't know. You took formula for years. Wow. Yeah. Wow. So, but, but my rent, what'd you do before, before doing this? So, my games, 32 years old, I was a former Special Age of Homeland Security Investigations, HSI, and I did Chrome Investigations for, from 20, I came on as an intern in 2010, I became an agent in 2013, I resigned in 2020 of December,

because basically, my YouTube, they were like, hey bro, you got a chill, what are you doing here? I was like, they were telling you. Yeah, they brought me in, they were like, hey bro, you got a joke, what are you doing here? I was like, they were telling you. Yeah, they brought me in and they're like, hey, you got a joke with this YouTube, whatever, because at that point we have like 10K and we're starting to build some traction. And I kind of had to make a tough decision.

Am I gonna resign from the government, a job that I really did love and enjoy? Or am I gonna pursue this entrepreneurial venture and I decided to go with the latter because I had people depending on me. Freshers get ready ready quit his job We had a guy our YouTube guy was moving from Chicago to Miami So I was like I can't just like tell him oh go back to bro go pack back up

So I was like you know what I'll resign if you know if it doesn't work I can always go back to the government But you know it was it was a great career. I have nothing bad to say. I loved it like I actually started YouTube channel Why I break down cases? You know big celebrity cases everything like that. Yeah, it's called Fed 1811. I talked about it. I did the Boston Marathon bombing. I did the Rolo drug trafficking case and I break it down. I actually read the court documents and go through it and give people a different perspective from like a former agent's perspective. Because I used to do these cases myself. So I'm able to give a little bit of insight.

But yeah, that's what I did before. And then I started the YouTube channel. Freshfield was originally unplugged fitness. It was like a fitness channel. And then we started talking about dating. We started talking to whatever and then we noticed, hey, we have similar mindset. We're both womanizers. Let's do a channel and then a group of podcasts. If you start doing podcasts, we really enjoyed it. Talked about dating tips and how to get girls and everything

because we're in Miami, but both pretty go with the ladies. But we figured it out. We weren't natural. You know, a lot of people say, oh, look at these two alpha meals. Actually, you know, we never talk about being office. We're nerds. We're guys that just figured it out. So who were you in high school? Both of you guys who were you in like 10th grade 11th grade? Who were you in high school?

Man well from Barbados, right? So I'm a island boy coconut, you know, and in the win I'm a land boy on the beach, but I'd be in Saif on the most part playing video games like in online games Smash Brothers, my record with friends and I was my life man, and then well, I was over time Started to get into like more partying, more like lifestyle and high school. Yeah, okay. And then after that, it's when I went to like,

this area in Barbara just called the gap, right? It's like a tourist area. And every day, there's different girls from like Canada, you know, UK, from all over Germany, whatever, right? So I'm like, yo, these girls are pretty hot. I started dating those girls They're a tourist and then open up my mindset. You know what? There's more to life than just being on a small island I can go to the States whatever. I say, you know what? I made a goal at least in the next five years

I want to move to America and so it's had so done against America You know me and my way worked at Chick-fil-A basically and AT phone call, tech support. And now we're here today at the biggest podcast in Miami, Question Fit. So, for me, I was a big nerd, man. Like, I didn't lose my Virginia till I was 18. Like, I played UGIO cards growing up, Pokemon, video games, all that stuff. Like, you know, I just was a guy that kind of like figured it out

and threw a lot of trial and error, you know. And when I hit like senior high school, that's when I started to like figure out girls. I read the mystery method, you know, and obviously the game, these are books I think a lot of trial and error, you know? And when I hit like senior high school, that's when I started to like figure out girls. I read the mystery method, you know, and obviously the game, these are books, I think a lot of guys start out with this show. I was like figuring out how girls operate and think. I also saw the pickup artists, which brought me,

which was what like back in 2007 on VH1, that's like kind of brought me into this whole arena. I was like, oh wow, this is crazy stuff. And it was like groundbreaking stuff that I had not known. Like you got a net, girls, all this other stuff. And people talk about PUAs and make fun of them and whatever. But a lot of the stuff that they say is legit and it plays on female psychic

to put you in a position of advantage to be more attractive. So I read that stuff, was fascinated. Then I went off to college. I went to Northeastern, and I was in Boston. I was a D1 athlete. I rode.

And I started understanding the importance of social hierarchies and being on a team or having some kind of social status on campus is very important. And then once I got out of college, I was like, okay, well, now I don't have the social status like that anymore. What am I gonna do? And that's when I kind of had to relearn everything as far as operating it in the real world.

And then I went off to Texas. That's where I was doing my career. I spent several years just like working season drugs and season legal firearms, a lot of stuff. And then it wasn't until I came back to Miami, I came to the Miami field office at 28 and that's when I like really like started dialing in on like trying to like learn how to do cold approach again, learning how to get really good women again. And then, you know, at that point,

I think we had met when I was like 29 or 30. And I was like, you know, pretty much at that point doing really well with the ladies. And you're in the scene at that time. Yeah, I was at the scene because when I was in Texas, people don't, I was in the radio Texas, which for those that don't know, it's on the Mexican border. There's nothing there. No, I'm saying.

Like absolutely nothing there. It's a small, tiny, old town. Tiger was like it. He would love it over there. It's a tiny, old area. No, he not. But I loved it, man. I loved living in Texas.

I love the radio. It's like a little part of me is still there. But when I was there, I was really focused on working. And then the other thing too is a small town. So like you to rest someone and like everyone was connected in some way. So I just didn't go out into the bars like that, whatever. And you stick out like a sore thumb

because as someone who's not Mexican, you know me, I'm six three, my parents are from Sudan. I have a weird look. Like you don't forget me, right? So you'll see me in court, like, oh, hell, I know what you do. So I just stay in inside most of the time playing video against being a loser.

And then when I came to Miami, I started like getting back out there, getting back in a dating game. And you know, I applied some of the principles I had learned from college, then from reading, and then Troll and Air figured it out. Then by the time me and him linked up, we were full-fledged woman eyes, we were figuring out, but like, people try to say like,

oh, y'all run around and say, you're alpha-mails, whatever, it's like, no, actually we're the opposite of that. We're just two guys that figured it out. That makes a lot of sense. I mean, I kind of hear a story, you said, you know, hey, I was a nerd. I was a nerd too.

I think this might be a nerd convention. For sure. We're friends with nerds. Yeah, exactly. Great movie, by the way. You know, kind of the thing is, you talk about, you know, you kind of grew up and you had this perception that we're giving.

I grew up Catholic and Roman Catholic. Went to a private school, played on the chess team, you know, kind of those same things. You play in video games. You know, we used to play Nintendo back in the day. I don't know if that was the kind of date myself. You know, PS1, those type of things. Yeah.

Anyway, one of the things you kind of mentioned too as well, you know, you know, kind of coming to your own, you know, I kind of laugh. One of my first kind of experiences was when I was in Germany in 1991. April 1st, 1993. I never forgot the date. The guys are, hey, we just got our paycheck. Patrick knows this type of stuff. It's payday, you got your ballad right?

I'm payday. Hey Felix, you're new to Germany because I just arrived there in February of 1993. He said, let's go down to the red light district in Frankfurt. I'm like the red light district. What's that all about, man? Trust me, just come and hop in the car.

We're gonna school you. I don't know if you've been to the red light district. You've heard those stories. I don't need to go into too much detail because my wife will be divorcing me. I'm gonna be out. And it's probably because my wife will be divorcing me every day. And it should probably have me checked out. But you have the rights of her man signing things,

say, can't it will be a decision? Exactly. So kind of like what Fresh was saying, you know, kind of I had this view of the world. And of course, you know, that's really fine. But when you kind of get out there when I was in Germany, I was in Saxon House and I'm in the red light district, it's just completely different.

If you've ever been, I'm not saying to go, but if you've ever been, it is absolutely insane. It's like going into a hotel and just picking a flavor, and you just go in there and you negotiate a price and they got the black lights, they got the music, they bring you in, they do the whole, make sure you're clean type stuff. And these people, they have to get tested and stuff.

It's crazy. I don't even want time now. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. So, but going back, so for you guys, your philosophy, Yeah, I'll even one time now That's my story. I'm sticking to it But going back so yeah for you guys your philosophy because the philosophy with women with men with dating with marriage with kids with money with finance with Health everything it's inspired through certain things you talk about the mystery you talk about the pickup artist the book the game All of that and then you know what you did in college when he kind of learned a little bit about the game three years ago, he comes to Miami, Ireland, who had the biggest influence on your philosophy, and what is really the core foundation of your philosophy? You know, shout out to our guy, Rollo Tomassi, man, good friend of ours, the rational

male, obviously was a great book. It connected a lot of dots for me personally. And then, you know, because the thing is with the mystery method, fantastic book gives you a great insight as to, you know, how female psychology works when it comes to attraction and what they are roused by. But, you know, a lot of the techniques in that book are a bit dated. You know, we're talking about using K&O partners doing cold approaches in the club and bar. You know, we live in, I mean, that phone came out, I'm sorry, well, that book came out in the early, earlier 2000s

before cell phones and everything else like that. So the game is obviously changed, but the fundamentals are still the same when it comes to what is attractive to women. So basically, from taking that knowledge, from taking the red pill awareness, from reading obviously, like the rest of them, or whatever, it connected a lot of dots for me that I already knew and kind of put things in perspective. But we kind of have our own strategy on how we deal with things because times have changed. The data marketplace has changed significantly versus 20 years ago, thanks to the smartphone

and technology and everything else like that. So, we kind of have a different spin on how we operate, how we deal with women in general with modern day marketplace. But yeah. Yeah, me personally regarding my influence would be experienced because I watched and I learned. So, I have questions. So, see people like, how do you get this girl? How do you have in this car? How's that?

This lifestyle has questions and from there I play some myself and I learn from experience and also as well Yeah, so the rules are the best so yeah, so but what are the core foundations? So give me an idea what some of your philosophies are so I the biggest thing that I tell guys is You got to put yourself first right like you got to put like your mission first like Like, because if you put women first, a lot of guys are more concerned, well, like, who's where? I don't know if I should. Yeah, okay, okay. A lot of guys are more concerned, like, Jason asks,

versus, like, you know, Jason's success. And, yeah, that's great. You know, obviously, you know, you got to play the volume game, talk to a lot of girls, whatever, but the problem is that your retention level's not going to be that high when you don't have your stuff together. You know, I'm saying, if you really want to be like,

the best man that you can be, you want to be the best man that you can be, and then have women be a byproduct of it versus chasing the women and like, yeah, you'll get a lot of girls from going out and cold approaching all day and all that other stuff, but are you going to be able to retain them and most importantly get them to respect you? And what I've learned from Dale, what you know, at this point, we've interviewed like a thousand girls on our show, respect is a foundation. And that respect doesn't come unless you're, I always say, leads to accomplishments which leads to confidence. And then that confidence is what the girl respects because you've already built a foundation

upon from that confidence. That confidence that got mad at Thunder. You know, girls say all the time, I want confidence, I want confidence, translation and woman needs. I want someone that's established and able to assert his will on the world. And I want to be able to follow that man's lead in that company's success. So those three things again? So you got confidence leads to accomplishments which then leads to confidence. And that's what the girls be able to follow that man's lead. And that culture is a success. Say those three things again. It's a confidence. So you got competence leads to accomplishments, which then leads to confidence. And that's what the girls are attracted to is that confidence.

And but that confidence has got to be genuine. That's why we tell guys a lot of time you got to be congruent to who you are. Because if you're congruent to who you are, girls are going to be able to notice it. You know, women have way more a better perception of social calibration than men do. So they're going to be able to tell if you're about it or not.

You know, you can play the game for a bit, but if you're a cab, eventually they're gonna figure it out. So if you're really about it and you're that guy, she's gonna be attracted to you because you have that confidence from your accomplishments. So that's what we tell guys, is focus on yourself because it's inherently gonna make you attractive

in the first place and then second on top of that, you're gonna be winning. And then women are a byproduct of that success versus chasing the women and making them the metric of success. So far, what's controversial so far? I'm sure. So where do we have it? We haven't metric of success. So far, what's controversial so far? I'm sure. So where do we haven't gotten that? Yeah, okay.

So where do people, because what you just said, is you have two choices, right? You have a choice to date women through desperation, which is what a lot of guys do. Or you have a way to manage expectation by setting the tone on what kind of value you bring to the marketplace, then your pool and your options widens. That's just how it works, right? Okay.

Same thing works with business as well. If your business is predicated based on one client, you are screwed, you're slaved to that one client. But if your business is, you have multiple options, you have, you have, you know, you can have a little bit more leverage and you actually offer better customer service when you are because you're not, you're not leading that customer based on desperation. You're not begging them. They feel confidence from you. But where are some of the philosophies

you guys got where you lose people? Not maybe you lose people, but you get some people triggered. I think it's not cheating. What that really means, what loyalty is, what trust is. Yeah. You want to go into detail about that? Yeah, I mean, so a big reason why people get triggered is that we have a lot of, as you guys know, we do a podcast. We have a daytime podcast that we do Monday, Wednesday,

Friday, and then we do our nighttime show with the girls. And what, since we're longer form content, we're podcasts goes easily between from two all the way to five hours sometimes. And you know, we have discussions with women. A lot of girls from all different types of walks in life. We're talking anywhere from like educated women to only fans, girls, the strippers, the models,

whatever may be. Attractive girls, not so attractive girls. Girls in all different types of demographics. And people take clips from these conversations and they take obviously something that's like crazy of that. I say, put it as a clip and then put it out there, and if you put it out there, it might look wild, right? So then people, oh my God, you guys are messengers.

Whatever, but if you saw the entire context of the conversation, what led to that portion of that clip, you'll see, okay, now that makes sense. So a lot of people clip our stuff in general. Or like for in some terms. For virality. Sometimes you'll kick a girl out. Yes, that's it.

And obviously people want to focus on the fact that, all right, get the hell out. But what were the five minutes before that? You've asked them repeatedly, hey, stop disrespecting the podcast, stop doing side chat, I've been there. I've been on the podcast. I've seen what's going on. Well, let me, let me, let me, okay, so let's go,

let's go a little bit deeper. Let's go a little bit deeper because so far, I don't have a lot of things that I have, everything makes and so far to me. Define to me how you view what an alpha is and what a beta is, right? I heard Rola's definition, maybe you guys got a different one that you have.

But how do you see, what would you define as somebody that's an alpha versus a beta? So man, these terms, man. Yeah, we typically don't even really use those terms, man. I know a lot of people use it from a place, but you say, you say, what would you call them? You said something about the white night.

The white night. Who are you talking about? David, so David. Sorry. David and the best. Tyler, so funny. One of our supporters, it's a clip, right? Of him talking about us.

And it's funny because they're like, yo, this is white night. It's him just trying to talk about fresh and fit, but he's a sim. And it's like, yo, real talk. I don't know the dude, but how is Sunday? It's kind of, I don't talk. I don't know the dude, but how he's sounding is kind of, I don't know. I don't know. So a simp basically if I'm going to define it as basically a guy that gives

his attention resources, energy, whatever it may be to a woman that isn't necessarily reciprocating for what he wants, which is what nine or 10 times intimacy. So that's if I'm going to boil it down, that's a simple. I will say that David is not a sip. I will for the audience out there. He's actually a beautiful person. That's dude is maybe a white night David is not a sip. I will for the audience out there. He's actually a cool pick up dude. He is maybe a white knight, but not a sip.

What's your what's your long term game? Meaning do you guys have any plans of one to getting married, having a family, having kids? Oh, no. Okay, so there we go. So not at all. Well, you can head first. So we have different, different views on this.

So honestly speaking in the West In our opinion marriage for men it doesn't benefit at all It's many for women and as a result most guys they come into it blindly Hey, this girl loves me likes me for me went quink and you know they get into marriage with this woman And before you know it she's leaving because her emotions thinking half for whatever you own and you're back to square I want or even worse So in our opinion regarding marriage like You have to know what way again into first and be aware of all the laws

Again for against men because if you look at it from a legal standpoint and like a logical standpoint regarding the actual Contract of marriage. It's like a contract that says hey, you know what at any point in time the woman says I don't feel like anymore. She just leaves take half your stuff. And as a result, man are like either left to the women or for example, the mercy of them. So we just say, Hey, you know what, if you're going to do it, probably do it without the state, maybe in church or say the US, because the laws are not made for men to actually win. And I did it before in the past, so I'm actually married when I first came to the States. And that whole experience, man, I'm not gonna hold you. It was good, but also I understood it.

Hey, you know what, right now my life is not for me. And I have to actually- So could change, so could change one day. Meaning one day we can wake up and we got a podcast from fresh about how to keep your marriage together. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. I said it! I'm not sure if that one. I said 17 keys to a healthy marriage from a I said it. I'm not showing you that one.

I said 17 keys to a healthy marriage from a former playboy. Zero views. I'll say it. I'll say this. I'm open to change. However, if I do get married, again, it's probably going to be a Columbia. Columbia. Columbia.

Columbia. Columbia. Columbia. And when you stay in Columbia, would you come here? I don't know. I'll come back. Okay. So you would get, I'll leave her over there. I'll leave her over there.

In the paperwork in Columbia, the regulations of Columbia. Yes. And why is that? Because the laws, what's the laws in Columbia? It's lax. I don't know what's else to work. I don't know what's the word, but being the worst grade, because at that point, I'm not going to be held under the US standards.

And US standards are not made of for men. So you can't use our word. We grapefines are you more concerned about the legal ramifications of getting married or actually the institution of marriage one woman or is it a combination of both is both I'll say this let's be real here though in the West There's not a lot of quality leads you would say to want to marry Yeah, really and all of the West what do you mean? In America and the Western hemisphere? You can't find out. You can find good women. However, the likelihood is very slim for you see nowadays. Social media was going on, you know, the feminist movement

is like, bro, they're Americanized. Yeah, exactly. But first of all, you know, you're in line, though, the feminist movement, I agree agree, but you know, there's a big push for that about being equals. I mean, somebody said something, David right now said something interesting about this whole story with a girl who tried to, the guy who was ranked 456 in front of men, and goes and becomes a woman, you know, apparently transgenders ranked first. And then he says, that's another perfect sign that, you know, apparently transgenders ranked first. And then he says, that's another perfect sign that no matter women try to be men, they can't beat them, but if men try to be women,

they beat them at their own game. So that's what David said. That's David's comments, right? But the point is, you have a point about what direction it's going. And it is a bit of the current societies also probably discouraging younger men of getting married because there's a lot of fears and concerns.

You want me to go build up my own wealth to eventually have somebody take it away from me. That's a risk. But also at the same time I can address on that part is you can have a job. You can be a 1099 realtor and a lot of guys just want to be one man shows. You can go be a realtor and you just sell homes, right? I don't want to have, I don't want to start a realistic company with another guy because I've heard

a lot of horrible stories. If you start a realistic company with another guy, one guy leaves, takes after and don't know what's on it. That risk is in business, that risk is in marriage, that risk is in every single thing you ever do. So you're right, the risk is there 100%, but there's also very good lawyers if you have money to have the right kind of pre-nuptial agreements,

which I'm fully forward if you got the right lawyers. How about yourself? Yeah, so my take on it is, I definitely, so we believe in nuclear families and institution of marriage, we think it's a fantastic institution. To be honest with you, to raise children in the best light you need, nuclear families, that is the backbone of any strong nation,

that's how the United States was built, that is how superpowers were built on the backs of nuclear families, right? We know the statistically speaking two-parent house will disappear, yep, for child rearing, right? However, since we, even though we know that marriage is a great institution for raising children and everything, we just don't agree with the way that is done in the West in general. The laws have not caught up to feminism, it has not caught up to women making their own

money, it's not caught up to all the social climate that we have now, right? So we know, you know, about half of marriage is end in divorce. We know 70 to 80% of those marriages are divorces are initiated by women. We know that about 90% of the Alamone is paid for men to women. So knowing these numbers, we tell guys, if you're going to get married, you need to get married in a way where you can kind of come in from a defensive standpoint to protect what you have because quite honestly, when you get into a marriage, you're signing a contract with someone that is incentivized to break it

and they will be rewarded for it, which is dangerous, right? To get it under their premise. So our thing is, if you can get married and not have the state be involved, that's the best way to do it. So like we understand the importance of it, but we also acknowledge that, hey, there's a lot of dangerous situations here

that can really mess you up from a financial standpoint if marriage doesn't work. And it's a very, it's a crazy risk. And if someone's willing to take it, I just want them to go in knowing what's gonna happen if things don't work out and put yourself in a position. Like you said, have the lawyers, go talk to a family attorney before you even think about walking down now

with a woman, get a good, strong, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good, a good if a guy takes these precautions and then somehow finds a way

whether it's going to Columbia, going to Dominican Republic, whatever it may be, getting married where the state is not involved in your affair. So the woman isn't incentivized to break up with you and destroy you financially and or take the kids and use this as some kind of like leverage point,

I'm off for that. Because families are needed, you know? For sure. That's a good argument. Again, I don't see a challenge with that argument because if you're getting married and most people who get married, they believe in some kind of a higher power denomination, whether they're Jews, Catholics, Christian, Muslim, it doesn't matter. So you want to get married by the church.

So why do I need the federal government to say that I'm married? The only benefit would be what tax benefits is what you get, which is some benefits that you get. It's not a lot of tax benefits that you get. Yeah. So maybe is that it? Is that the only benefit that getting it's like? But you have to realize the argument of by the government is a very good argument.

So if I'm getting married by the church, that's why I'm getting married. Why do I need to get married according to the government's laws? Yeah. Because you're going to lock me up. I also understand that part as well, that argument. But let's go a little bit deeper. Okay, so.

And I will say this real quick too, just to finish up. And the reason why I say you need to be in this defensive position when you're thinking about marriage or any type of a serious relationship with a woman is because women, here's a problem. And this is where I guess we can get a little bit controversial. Women want traditional men, but they themselves are not traditional.

So what we're saying is that you're basically, a lot of the times what guys do is like, they get into a relationship with a girl, they might not necessarily understand intersection of the dynamics. They don't understand how women think and operate, especially in today's day and age where women are more experienced actually than ever before. And they get into relationship thinking it's going to be a Disney fairy tale and the next thing they know, you know, the world flips upside down because they don't understand how women move today.

Things have changed significantly, you know. Women are no longer traditional. However, a lot of guys come into relationship thinking, I'm gonna be traditional, I'm gonna be this guy, I'm gonna be the nice guy, I'm gonna be chivalrous, a gentleman, all that, whatever. And that just doesn't work anymore. Women have changed significantly, right? They've been liberated, they make more money

than they've ever made before. A lot of women in general, from what we've seen in our interviews, a lot of women don't respect most men. Most girls look at the average guy and be like, 50k per year, five foot eight, not good enough for me. You know, a lot of girls overestimate their sexual market value as I was to say.

As far as like what they think they deserve when it comes to men. And we've asked girls, right? We've even done polls. What do you consider yourself one out of 10? Bro, if I had a dollar for every time a girl said 11, I'd be a billionaire at this point. You know what I'm saying?

It's like, girls tend to grossly overvalue themselves and there's a bunch of theories as to why that is. But it's just not a good marriage market for most guys in today's day and age in the West. So they need to go in with their eyes wide open and come in from a position of defense to protect their assets if they are gonna get involved in an marriage because a lot of girls

are not traditional anymore. And you said that, my question is, so you've now been in this market now, if we wanna talk it right, for a decade? Yeah, yeah. Okay, so like, it's kinda a defeat back with Patrick. We're the original fresh and fit from the 90s, he's the Armenian, and I'm the,

I'm the, he's kinda a virgin. You've got to go to a podcast back in the day. What would it have been called? In the Army, what was the name of the podcast be? You tell me, Patrick. I would say it be, well, you would be the hustler That's for sure you'd be the hustler Felix was a guy that would go to pull here's how it was we'd go to a pool hall Felix was a best pool player and in what he called it four Campbell Kentucky the guy kicked everyone's ass

Paul Newman. He was Paul no more money. Well, here's what he would do We'd go to a place where he's playing pool He's in a corner talking shit to like four or five guys. And then he would say, say something. Say something because that's my friend right there. And I have no idea what's going on. Four guys are looking at me. So you would be the hustler. I would say you're in the thing would be the husband. What does admire in by the way. He's got all the shit. But I want to go. I want to go a little deeper with you. Tell me about, because philosophy comes from different places, right? One of them comes from parents. Tell me about your mom and dad.

What is your mom's philosophy about what you're doing? That are they still together? Give me that dynamic. Yeah, so I came, my background is my parents are from Sudan. They came here in the 1980s. I grew up in a Muslim household. I wouldn't admit I'm not the best Muslim, but I'm going to get there eventually. Be a better one. But yeah, I came grew up in a Muslim household. I wasn't meant to be the best Muslim, but I'm gonna get there eventually, be a better one.

But yeah, I came from a two-parent household. My parents are together to this day. And it was actually my mom that warned me about Western women in general, like, hey, don't make sure you don't marry an American girl. I'm gonna blow a blind. I always wondered, like, mom, what's wrong with you? Like, what are you talking about?

And then, as I became older, I started to see she would always tell me things, like, she's gonna cook for you, she's gonna clean for you, she's gonna chase her career more than you, she's not gonna care about the kids, she's gonna put him in daycare, you don't want that shit. Blah blah blah blah, and I'm like, I was like, what's wrong with me things like, she ain't got a cook for you, she ain't got a clean for you, she's gonna chase her career more than you, she's not gonna care about the kids, she's gonna put them in daycare, you don't want that shit blah, blah, blah, blah. And my head, I was like,

what's wrong with you, like, get outta here. But as it became older and older, I was like, damn, okay, she ain't lying. You know, and it's a lot of the times, you don't grow to appreciate your parents' advice until you get in a position where you can actually see it with your own two eyes. And it wasn't until I was like,

in my late 20s and 30s, I was like, damn, my parents weren't lying. And my mom had warned me about this, my aunt, my dad, you know, in damn, my parents weren't lying. And my mom had warned me about this, my aunt, my dad, in general, about how Western relationships are. And seeing how my parents operated, as a kid growing up, stable two-parent household, we didn't grow up rich or anything like that,

but my mom was always made sure there was food on the table. And my dad worked, and he's the main breadwinner. So it was good to, I'm really happy, especially nowadays, with so many people, don't come to broken households. You suck good example of what Americans can be yeah, would you consider yourself still a Muslim or no? Yeah, yeah You would so so you still are yeah, that's your faith. Yeah, I'm not the best one But I'm gonna get it I'm not practicing

So I'm not practicing So here's here's what here's what I would say. But long term, you may, we may one day find you be and married with kids. Oh yeah, yeah. I would definitely take like my steps and I'm going to take our, I'm not going to lie, are probably pretty extreme of what I'm going to do.

My strategy, but you know, that's just kind of where we are now. Are you going to be married before 40? I don't know about that maybe a little bit later But I plan to like leave the United States to do that like I'm probably gonna go to like you know I'm gonna get somebody from your Not so damn but like somewhere from the Middle East that has like a Muslim background and everything I tell you so far to me I'm I get all the stuff, but here's one thing I will tell you. There's a one thing I will tell you so far to me, I get all the stuff,

but here's one that I will tell you. There's one that I will tell you that I think we don't pay enough attention to. So, okay, so I'm not the best Muslim, but I'm a Muslim, right? Like for me, my parents were Christians, but I'm like, I'm an atheist, there's no way in the world I believe in a God would what I've seen with bombs,

people dying, blown up, here on all the spokes, I'm like, there's no God, what are you guys are, that's for naive people, but fine. If I say I'm the spot. I'm like, there's no God. What do you guys are? That's for naive people. But fine. If I say I'm a religion, I'm a Christian because the lineage is just the parents, right? Here's what you gotta realize. If your mom says what she said to him, that's the Bible.

Meaning your mom becomes your God. Let me unpack that a little bit and I may be wrong, just hear me out. If a mom says, be careful with these Western girls, be careful with this, and be careful with that, we careful with that. And the form of affirmation was like not once, not she's probably told you that many, many times.

Affirmations work and then it sticks. So for me, when I was, my dad and my mom got a divorce. It's a slightly different story. I don't know. They got divorced twice. They're like legit wanted to get a divorce, but they keep coming back because maybe this is gonna work out, but they finally got a divorce 20 years later. And my dad is a similar philosophy to your mom. So my dad and your mom are very similar. Okay. What he says, don't waste your time with all these girls. And let me tell you all the girls lie to all the girls and you gotta realize my dad and your mom are very similar, okay, with what he says. Don't waste your time with all these girls and let me tell you all the girls lie to all the girls and you gotta realize, my dad is my hero and I love my dad.

My dad's probably listening to this right now, cracking up with you. He's saying, saying my best. At the house, yeah. We got a great relationship together, but one day he kept saying this, you know, woman are this and woman are that and woman are this and a relationship goes bad, relationship goes bad, relationship goes bad, relationship goes bad. And I'm finally like screw this, I'm just going to go play in all this other stuff and I'm like 26, 27, 28. And then we had a moment and here's what the moment was.

I start reading God knows how many books. I'm devouring books left and right. That became my, like, if I'm not going to church, my books became my God. At 25 years old, I eventually went to church and I, 25, 26, whatever it was, 2004, is when kind of started putting my life a little bit more together trying to live by some values But here's what what happened one day my dad and I had a moment. I said and I said okay We give a little bit too much credibility to our parents to know everything and they don't we give a little bit too much

Credibility to our mom and dad that they know it all. And at one point, we have to question, like, even my kids, they have to question some of my philosophies and say, daddy, I don't know what the hell you're talking about when it comes out to XYZ. Fine, question it, right? So I said to them, I said, do my parents love me? Check. Okay. Do my parents, without them, there's no way I'll be in America, I'm indebted and for the

rest of my life. Check. My parents food, do I love it? One million percent check. Do I enjoy their company? Check and I went through all this thing. Do they know how money works? Hell to the know.

So that's an X, right? Okay, do they know the 17 keys to marriage? No, okay. Do they know how to eliminate their in-laws from getting involved? Hell no, because their in-laws were a little bit too involved and they kind of screwed the whole thing up. Do they know the keys to how to find a right husband or wife? No, because back in the days it was more to your range. You know, hey, you made

the, you know, you come and, you know, kind of do that. And one day I come on my dad's like, let me tell you, all girls are just, I said, that stopped and we had to see, you know, he knows the scene exactly. So that, I don't want to hear it anymore. I don't want to hear this anymore. Don't pass down your limiting beliefs to me. You gotta stop. That's your limiting belief, okay? If that was your limiting belief and you had a bad marriage or a bad life,

I don't wanna hear about it. That's yours. I love my mom, I love you. But I don't want that to be me. Do you want me to also go through the same life and he let's say no, then stop saying that to me. So we had a very, and I'm underestimating what this was.

It was a very heated moment. We didn't talk for a week. We collated, this is why my dad's my hero because he's able to do this. He comes to me. And my dad's an April 10 baby. So he's like very much to himself independent. He doesn't run on anybody else.

He's his own man. And when they were sitting there, he's quiet. He says, you're right. I said, what? He says, you're right. And my dad won't say that. He says, you're right. I said, what am I right with? He says, you're right. And my dad won't say that. He says, you're right.

I said, what am I right with? He says, you're right. I've thought about it for a week. You shouldn't let my fears pass down to you. You're right. And I'm like, holy frickin' moly, right? I got the chills all over my body. Because I love this man.

I love my mom. I want to live a good life. I want a one day, give you grandkids. But my dad also said the following thing, which which is exactly I can't say the whole thing What he said? He said listen before he get married Date every single nationality Dude in every place you possibly can he would say if you can do it under phone booth I said that's it's not the 60

He said he said you know you've made it when you've done it in the phone booth and you know playing all the others Have he goes through then when you get that out of your system Then it's a little bit more where you're not gonna be sitting there saying hey, you know, playing all the stuff he goes through, then when you get that out of your system, then it's a little bit more where you're not gonna be sitting there saying, hey, you know, I kind of feel like I missed that, then later on you're like, ah, I kind of missed a party life, I'm definitely not gonna have a reputation, I have a missed a party life.

So that's the part, so for your, for a mom to say that, I mean, in your religion, my religion, where we come from, from the Middle East, Iran, mom is like, you know, for mom to say that, so I fully understand that, but I think there's a, there's a lot of depth in your philosophy, mom is like, you know, for mom to say that. So I fully understand that. But I think there's a lot of depth in your philosophy. I don't think you got to where you are right now, accidentally.

Yeah, no, well, so going back to what you were saying there. So like, no, 100%, like, you know, obviously you can't let your parents viewpoints like shape your world without necessarily experiencing. But what I was saying was like, when I was younger, I was like, I challenged it then. I was like, well, what's wrong with you? Like, what the hell?

But as I became older, I just saw it through my own natural experience. What she said was true. So it was a little bit more profound for me because I saw it through my own experiences. Because at first, I was like, I don't know what to talk about. Could that be selective, though? Could that be selective?

Could that be just accident? I wish it was, man. But it's like, you're young though. You're 32 years old. You're still young. So here's the thing. So we, we, so at this point, we've interviewed well over a thousand girls. Yeah. So we, at this point, we've interviewed

well over a thousand girls. And we've noticed that there's certain trends and certain mindsets, certain beliefs, so far, yeah. And we always say, you know, just because the hardware is different, does not necessarily mean the software is gonna be different. The software is almost always the same,

but the hardware is different, right? And what I mean by that is that in general, there's a belief system in first world countries, you know, where feminism is strong, where women think that they're equal to you, or a lot of the times, they don't necessarily want to do certain duties that women used to do before. In other words, your roles as a man are static. You're expected to be masculine, the protector, the provider, etc. The leader, but her roles are negotiable. She can pick and choose when she wants to cook. She can pick and choose when she wants to be feminine. She can pick and choose when she wants to cook, she can pick and choose when she wants to be feminine, she can pick and choose when she

wants to be a lady. And my thing is, you know, I wasn't until I became older that I realized that and then from interviewing all the girls that we do going on dates, my anecdotal experience, and then in general talking with, we also talk with thousands of men as well, because we talk with both men and women. If you ever watch our show, we get super chats and donations from all over the world. And, you know, it's always English speaking for us. Well, country's a lot of times, you know, South Africa, Australia, all over the world. And it's always English speaking first. Well, country's a lot of times. You know, South Africa, Australia, New Zealand, whatever. And all these guys are dealing with the same issues.

So I was like, damn, okay, so it's not just, you know, what my mom said, it's like, now I actually see it, well, my own two eyes, what from any of the girls, from guys coming to us. And it's just like, it's been reconfirmed a million times over and over. Now, is that to say that every girl is terrible in the West or America?

No, I'm not saying that, but what I am saying is that there's, tends to be this very similar mindset when it comes to intersection dynamics with a lot of modern day women that don't necessarily, that won't lead to a fruit for a relationship if you don't know what you're doing.

I think if anything, guys really gotta be on their peas and cues in today's day and age, you're more so than 20 years ago. No, I mean, listen, in regards to that, I fully agree with you, but I will also tell you this. Listen, being in the investment world for 20 years, I don't know how many times I gave 100,000 orders to this deal,

50,000 orders to this deal, 200,000 orders to this, and nothing happened. And also, one of them, boom, 28 million, boom, you get them and you're like, oh, shit, so none of this stuff work, you know, screw the entrepreneur to help with the investment, none of these guys are workers, but you got to have a little bit of that. So I think the part where, you know, on regards to the parents when you're saying mom,

that all that, all that other stuff, they have, I watched this video with this guy on Wendy Williams. He was in the movie Black Panther. Who's the guy one the actors very good actor Tyler can you pull up black panther anyway this guy's a Chadwick Boseman not not the other guy no no there was another guy from Creed no not him there's another guy let me see can you go to the IMDB anyways he's on Wendy go to the top because the pictures of the uh... Daniel and I don't know who was anyway a guy was on Wendy Williams

and when he's telling Wendy Williams when I tell you to make a sandwich you make me a sandwich oh yeah I forget his name but I know it's what a great back and forth to you when I tell you woman when I tell you to make me a sandwich you make me a sandwich he's being that serious who there's a woman to Wendy Williams she says when I tell you to make a sandwich woman you make me send me serious. He's being that serious. Oh, there's our woman. I'll say to Wendy Williams. She says when I tell you to make a sandwich woman,

you make me a sandwich. I'm not going to make you a sandwich. Oh, okay. Okay. Let me get the straight. So if we go out to dinner, do you expect me to open the door? Yes. When we go out then take care of the bill. Do you explain going to pay for? Yes. So when we go out there and fight breaks out and somebody says something, do you explain me to go, I expect you to punch them in the face. Well, then when I expect you to make me a sandwich, you make me a sandwich. Do you agree with him? I do.

I do when Jen and I went on our date and we did the 100 and one questions, I told Jen, what do we went through this whole question to get it because I've done this exercise. You familiar with this book? TV and then he mapped it. The book. That's the guy.

He crushed it to this. He crushed it when he gave, but he was in eight miles. I don't know if we can play it. He's still half a play it don't play But this is something that people have to see but anyway, Jen and I go to we go through the 101 questions and I said look What what is your expectation of me boom boom boom boom boom check check no prom no prom no prom no prom Here's what I expect from you. I don't care if my wife is black. I don't give my wife is white I don't give my wife is Hispanic Filipino whatever.'t give my wife is white, I don't give my wife is Hispanic, Filipino, whatever.

I expect her to know how to make Middle Eastern food because my mom and my dad are only gonna be here for a while. You gotta make my favorite dish that I like. And she's like, okay, I didn't have a lot of requests. My requests were like three to five requests. Oh, your requests. I have the book, I'll bring it one time, we'll go through the requests that I had.

But I said, this is one of the things I the number of kids I wanted to have the role the relationship you got to have a support Anyways, I went through said but I said the I want the middle eastern I want my wife to know how to cook middle eastern food Because if the house smells like food kids will kids will stay home if it doesn't kids believe so next state She makes she goes on Google makes makes an Assyrian dish. And I'm like, it was horrible. I mean, it was the worst meal I've had in my life. But I sat there and I'm like eating the food

just to say I'm eating the food. And I told I said, babe, this is not good. My mom and I can make it a million times better, but I have so much respect for the fact that you didn't jump to and say, oh my, I don't need to come, I need to come. I'm like, you know what? hats off to you, but, but I tell you, I can tell you 10 other stories where that wasn't the case. Of course, you're right. Yeah. I can tell you.

With other women. Yeah. I'm not going to do that for you. We're going to go out there and do this. No problem. By the way, some people are listening to this and they'll say, well, I still don't cook. And my husband cooks. No problem. That's part of your arrangement. Not my, I'm not in our house, I'm not the handyman. So I'm not the handyman. I'm not the guy. If you come to my house and I send a tico the other day, we had a conversation, it's like,

Dad, you know, in school, we have the same name. People think when I grow up, I have to be a businessman like you said, no, you don't. He says, well, why not? I said, dude, you're gonna be whoever you wanna be. I only wanna see you do what you want. I'm gonna 100% support you on what you wanna do. As long as you're not breaking the laws,

as long as you're not hurting people, I got your back. He says, okay. He says, but no, that's not how it works. I'm expected to be like, he said, no, you're not. He says, so tell me why? I said, let me ask you a question. In the house, when toys break, how often do you guys come to me? He says, daddy, you have no clue how to fix toys.

That's who do you go to? Papa, he fixes all the toys. I said, I can never be a handyman like Papa. As an, I'm totally comfortable with that. We all have a certain strength. Meaning there is that understanding of what you expect from a girl that may be different than his, let me ask this question.

Yeah sure, but it seems to me that your guys are defined, because you're finding common ground here. There's not a lot that you've said that has been disagreeable. Yes. What are the code of conduct of the rules like for instance I asked these questions on sauce cas on on the show that I host that you guys have been on who pays on the first day well the man you know if a fight breaks out you want a man to

protect you okay man hold the door shivery all that what are the code of conduct that women need to abide by do these things like the sandwich example, and what are the code of conduct that a men need to bring to the table? There seems to be that the men have to do this. Bing, Bing, Bing, Bing, make more money. Do this. Protect the household. You know, bring home the bacon.

What are the code of conduct that men need to do, and what is the code of conduct that women need to do? And if there's a agreement here, I'd love to hear it. Yeah, I mean, the biggest thing is that, you know, men have to always bring something to the table. There isn't invisible burden performance on men to bring certain things to the table. And society, you know, applaud, yeah, man up, do this other stuff, but if I say,

hey, well, ladies, we need you to do this, this, and this. We get a lot of backlash for that. In other words, what men want is typically almost always demonized, whereas what women want is considered preferences, but what we want is considered discrimination. So if I were to say, for example, I don't want to date no fat hose. Oh my god, that is so fat, shaming. That's fucked up. But if I was to say, oh, but if a woman was to say, I don't want no broke iron, no ugly guy or no small dick energy guy or whatever the hell it is, no one bats high.

Perfectly acceptable. It's completely, it's completely social acceptable for one time. There's some things about it. Shame men, no one ever wants to know one minute man, no one's, you know, yeah, small dick man, all that. So in other words, it is okay for women to have standards and not men. And that's what I'm saying, like where guys need to kind of come in and put standards on women because a lot of girls just think I'm going to show up on a date and be pretty and that's it. And I don't got to worry about nothing else.

And this guy's got to impress me. And I'm telling guys, no, you got to make girls perform too because too many girls are used to getting attention and validation for nothing more than breathing. So what do they need to do to perform? So I would say the biggest thing is every guy is different, right? They're going to have different things, but most of them are easy to please. As long as a woman is compliant, submissive, feminine, attractive, pleasant to be around, not annoying, like you're going to have a lot of guys happy, just with that.

You know what I'm saying? Then every other guy, depending on what they want, you know, maybe they're not going to need help or whatever, but a lot of women come into the relationship thinking, what can you do for me versus what they need to do is come into the relationship thinking, what can I do for you? Because at that end of the day, I think women always make a really bad mistake where they think, oh, well, I have a bunch of guys hitting me up, whatever.

No, your game is, can you retain the guy that you like in my own respect? The guys game is, can I attain the girl? The girls game is, can I retain the guy after I fuck him? And if you were to ask a lot of modern day women, they can't retain these dudes. That's why a lot of them are chronically single. Guys ain't shit, blah, blah, blah. It's because they're retention value sucks because they come in from the perspective of, let me get what I can. I'm gonna come in as a liability versus being an

asset. A lot of girls are liabilities for going to be honest. So here's the biggest problem, right? I see it from the podcast, from dating, I should be on other fields, and it's scary because most women never think about it. They know what they want, to an example, six feet, six inches, six figures, you know, the typical, the six roll, top percent guy. However, they never ask question, what does that guy really want? And as a result, they'll do the most.

Oh, I'm a boss babe, I have my own money, I can buy a car, I can do this or not. It's like, no, I don't want another me, I want a girl's feminine, plus this beer round is peaceful, right? May want peace. However, here's the thing that most women need to understand as well.

What do you need to do to bring value to the guy? And it can be anything, for example, let's say I own a piece of shop, right? And for me personally, all I need is someone that you're on Saturdays, when my staff is not available To take phone calls It's just really into me guess what she's gonna say you know what damn my man He's this on Saturday. I'll make time and adjust for him because he's my man and I care about our respective as a result

That's adding value like for example, it could be even in a gym You know what he needs his protein shake at 10 a.m. She says you know what I'll wake up early make it for him I'll go back to sleep. That's adding value. So we're just saying for the most part, most women, they don't even care or want to know what men want. It is the way I want this guy,

because he's high value, but. It's amazing. We've brought girls on the show and they'll say, I want this and I want that. We actually have something called the Duzian Calculator, it's kind of funny. And we have, one of our supporters actually made any pull stats from the US Census Bureau

and from the National Health Organization, right? That has a composite of like all the men in the United States, et cetera. And they'll will say, okay, I want a guy to be six feet tall. So we have, yeah, that's that's one of the kind of. So we have our own. We have an updated one. We have a new updated one. We have a new updated one.

Let's see the new update. I don't have the link here, but we've used it before and like Almost every time without fail when we asked the girl to describe the guy from height at standpoint How much money they make whatever they're almost always the scrap of a guy on a top two or three percent of men say over six V tall hundred thousand plus whatever and then we ask okay, so this is what you wanted the guy What do you bring back fucking crickets man? They don't really know what to say They'll go ahead and sometimes say something like what he was saying like oh well. I bring my own money I bring my own stuff to and a lot of women don't understand that attraction is not symmetrical It's asymmetrical many women are attracted to completely different things and a lot of girls don't understand this

Which is also scary because they think why make my own money? I'm successful. I'm ambitious blah blah blah blah That's great. That sounds great on paper for you But men don't necessarily care about these things and they're like what are you talking about blah blah blah? And I'm just like well if I decided you know, I'm gonna do my nails on Saturdays and wear heels every now and then and be, you know, be very pretty and stuff. You look at me like, I'm crazy, right? Yeah, that's not attractive.

Okay, well, that's how I feel every time you come up and say, I'm a boss, I make this much money, whatever. Because whether you want to accept it or not, making money, being successful, et cetera, you tend to have masculine traits when you are a go-getter and a type personality. And a lot of guys don't find that attractive and the men that they're competing for don't find these things attractive because once a man has

money the last thing he cares about is a girl that has money like that. If she does have it it's a plus but it's not necessarily a requirement. Pat, you've got thousands employees or general independent contractors that work for you. A lot of them are couples, right? Some of them are single. Some of these women make hundreds of thousands of dollars. Have you found that what they're saying is accurate, meaning the single women,

like I'm not talking about the power couples within your company, the single women who are making quarter million bucks and up, or even a hundred grand and up, are having a harder time retaining a man, or is it, are they off? No, I think it's purely what he's talking about makes a lot of sense, but it's purely values and principle. I have one of my one the ladies I used to work with. She was the type a personality in the marriage. He was not. He was the passive.

So if you did the star personality thing, she's probably an SA, T and R would be all the way at the bottom, 1%. She was all S and A. Okay. And he was more our personality relationship. Hey, love you. And maybe a little bit of S and a little bit of T and a little bit of A, right? But she was like a powerhouse. Guess what? She never cook. She never did anything, but she was pretty. She took care of herself. She made the money, but she also supported him. And she was a face of the business, and it worked for them because he didn't want to be the face. Go to talking about who we just had on Jedadaya. She's the face of the family, husband's the supporter. It's working out very well. Dynamics are different. The challenge when somebody

listens to me or listens to them or listens to whoever that's given their philosophy, everybody thinks this is the only way to do it. It's not. There's a hundred different ways to get married and make and work, but by the way, there's a hundred ways to do it the wrong way. People marry often for the wrong things and it's just not a it's not a ways to do it the wrong way. People marry often for the wrong things. And it's just not a, it's not a, a track to think. By the way, I watched this one way, lady, she's 60 years old. And she says, you know, let me tell you guys about my life. In my 20s, the feminist moon was taken off. I joined it.

I wouldn't become a career woman. And I did so well. And all I wanted to do was be better than men, be better than this. And I bought into that philosophy. Today I'm a millionaire, today I'm a C-suite executive, today I've been able to have all this shares, I live in a nice house, I have all this other stuff, I don't have a husband, I don't have kids because I bought into this feminism concept and she's now living in regret. Sure she regrets it. Because the value of life, you gotta invest into things that have depth. Depth is not, I met you, we go home, we have a good time, and then I never call you again.

That's just a release, that's just science, that's just biology. But the stuff in life that have depth is a lot of risk. It's a knowing, it's challenging. It sucks your energy out of you sometimes. So she eventually had to figure out for herself, but it's too late for her. Not necessarily it's too late for her, she's 60,

but she definitely doesn't have the market value of wrong time for her. That's what she's doing. She's doing right. She doesn't have kids. But she can't have kids. So that's what I'm saying. Sometimes, the, that, but she bought into someone's philosophy.

Yeah. That's the problem. We're buying into someone's philosophy. You know, I'm buying it. You're buying it. She bought it. You buying to the wrong person's philosophy. Yeah. Yeah. That's the problem. We're buying into someone's philosophy. You know, I'm buying it. You're buying it. She bought it. You buy it to the wrong person's philosophy. You lose your life, by the way. Yeah. It's gone. So I'll say this, right? There's philosophy. There's also facts and truth. And at the end of the day, yes, generally speaking, you can't find a way out. However, exceptions don't make the rule. And as a result, we have to speak in generalities because the general population, they don't know for the most part what they're doing. So just to be safe, hey, here's some

facts, here's some data, you make yourself aware and then chose for yourself. We're not seeing you as to what we say, we're just saying, hey, here's the fact here's the data, you make a choice, but in reality speaking, you can see in real time how women respond, how we respond, and make for yourself a decision based off of that. And we also always talk about, you know, probabilities versus possibilities. And we debate what girls lot at the time. They're so in the possible, like, well, it's possible for me to find my guy

and we bear a power couple and he's gonna accept me and my, you know, masculine attitude as you would say when I'm like, yeah, it's possible, but is it probable? No, actually, let's pull up this calculator and see how prevalent this guy is. And we pull up the calculator and it ends up, you know, they get this score, they have a catback score at the bottom.

All these girls be scoring five out of five catbacks, perfect, you know what I'm saying? So it's as far as like the delusion goes. So like, is it possible to find this guy that's six foot three, a good looking bubble, blah, is gonna be monogamous to you whatever, potentially, but is it probable? No, and the other thing too is that, like,

as far as like the dynamics you were mentioned before, is like women that are power and they have, very strong face of the business or whatever in the husband and this is the background. Though I've definitely seen those, you know, couples work and it happens every now and then. What I've realized is that most women don't want to be in an authority position

when they're with a man. They want the man to lead. Some girls are okay with it, with okay, I'll lead and I'll have this guy behind me, but most girls want the man to lead. So we tell guys, listen, just be comfortable being a leader because you're gonna be most attractive to a majority women by being this way

Now is there a woman out there that will be okay with you being on the back seat? Absolutely. There's always those girls There's a challenge with that. Here's a challenge with it. Yeah, sure is the following and and Adam actually got a question for you because there's only one person here That has your experience and here's what it is your experience you've partied in multiple decades being singles I'm curious and what's changed with you in a marketplace, but going back to that, we were talking about what? Okay, we're talking about probability, possibility, all that, this is what's gonna give you the highest chances.

Here's my experience. You give a guy a dating book on how to be a player. Okay, he reads the book on how to be a player. He reads the game. He's like, are you doing that pretty? Okay, you know, whatever. And so, oh wow, I'm not that pretty. I have had better than you. Oh my gosh, well, one of the that pretty, okay, you know, you know, whatever. So, oh, wow, you mean I'm not that pretty. I have had better than you.

Oh my gosh, well, one of the, and then I'll also go, wow, this works, you know, all of her stuff, that kind of works. Man, you know, I, Hey, Mary, how you doing? My name's not Mary, it's, it's, oh, I'm so sorry. I confuse it with somebody else. Who's you, you know, so that, you're not that stuff. Fine, that's a work, yeah.

I like Pat, I've never read that book. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. But, but here's the point though, here's the point. If you're acting, eventually people gonna know who the real you, if that's the problem. So meaning, if I have to act like a gangster, but I'm a wankster, I'm a wankster, I'm not a gangster, there's someone's gonna, what are you bro?

You know, what are you talking about? You ain't that tough. Why acting so tough? Be kind closer, so you can only do that if it's really you. Yes. Eventually, if you're going to be serious with a girl, she's going to realize, you can are pretty weak. You ain't that guy. So you have to also balance that part out. Then the divorce is definitely around the corner because she married a different guy. Yeah. So for me, when I went on a date, before we would ask, oh my gosh, man, you know what,

I was just walking by, smelled those roses. Oh, they smell so good. And you know, it's just love flowers. My favorite movie is Notebook, you know, it's just love story. Fake, fake, fake, fake, fake, fake. Listen, what's your favorite movie, dude? I freaking love old school.

Damn, I love it. Frank the tank, Frank the tank, Frank the tank, Frank the tank. What are you doing tomorrow? I gotta go to bed. Don't apologize to me. Okay, you apologize to Frank. You apologize. But the point is, so Jenna and I go on a date.

Yeah. And I want a conference call coming back. She's listened to me on the conference call. It was probably the most heated conference call I had. And she's like, who the hell is this guy? And I get off the conference call, I said probably the most heated conference call I had. And she's like, who the hell is this guy? And I get off the conference call and say, listen, if we're going to have series, you need to see all sides of me. This is kind of me. Okay. All right. Let me see. And then boom, we have arguments for a week, not waiting six months to have arguments. Yeah. Then there's

all this other stuff. I'm like, who the hell is this guy? I said, listen, I can act. But eventually, you're going to know who I am. Yep. This is who I am. Yeah. Do you like it? If you don't, please don't fight it, because this is kinda how I'm wired. And I wanna get better. So that's the part where I mean what,

if a guy tries to act to be like you, but it doesn't fit, it's not gonna work, cause it's not my run. And that goes back with what I was saying before, the top of the show is talking about how, you know, your competencies, the confidence, the least of confidence, right? And then you gotta be congruent based on that,

that swear to the law, right? You gotta be congruent. And girls are able to, like I said before, right? And then you gotta be congruent based on that swagger. That's what I'm gonna be. You gotta be congruent. And girls are able to, like I said before, they're very socially receptive. So they're gonna be able to tell, okay, this guy's faking it after they deal with you a bit, right? And that's why it's very important to be who you are and say who you are and don't put on an act.

Like, I get it, like, some guys have to learn attractive traits or whatever, but that's why we tell guys, become the best version of yourself because after you become the best version of yourself, you're gonna be in the best position where you're going to be the most attractive because you're gonna be confident in yourself.

And then when you deal with women, they're gonna be able to feel that, it's gonna radiate off you without you even having to try, and then it's gonna be congruent. And then you don't have to purport yourself to be semi that you're not, and this is how I am, and we tell guys all the time, you need to operate with girls,

there is no negotiations, we don't negotiate with terrorists, it's take it or fucking leave it. You know what I'm saying? This is how we operate with girls all the time, we tell them, like this is how it no negotiations. We don't negotiate with terrorists. It's take it or fucking leave it. You know what I'm saying? This is how we operate with girls on a time we tell them. Like this is how it is. Like we don't negotiate women. This is what I'm doing. You can come along for the ride,

but I'm not following you. And I know a lot of people are like, oh my God, that's a misogynistic. Oh my God, that's a woman. I do not know. But what we say, the reason why we say that is because we understand most women, not all, but most women want a sort of dominant man

that's a leader that knows what path he's on and she wants to come along for the right. There's a reason why 50 shades of gray is like the most popular book. It's because that man exemplifies so many different attractive and arousing characteristics that women look for. And if a guy can exemplify that and be congruent with, you're going to be a very attractive to a lot of women. And then on top of that, a lot of women find you attractive, you have a abundance mindset. Your girl is going to be in line because she's going to see other girls looking at you

We know the importance of pre-selection when it comes to women and I've always said it when you have other women in line The girl that you're with is going to get in line and that's why it's so important to be congruent like you were saying before I got a quick question for you because of course you talk about the delusional calculator I need to get that by the way is that an app? Yeah,? Yeah, so that's the one website. We have our own calculator. I'll get the link for you all and you guys can use it. I guarantee you, if you talk to Patrick, about delusional Calculator, especially now that he's had a lot of success and very proud of what he's accomplished, there's probably

a lot of people that come to you just in general. And I don't think that's necessarily a relationship thing. I think that's a society thing. You've played sports, you've realized it's Florida State. Oh, I'm going to be the next wide receiver, next neon, Dion, I'm sure Patrick Poon comes to you. I'm gonna be the next podcast person, but they haven't put the work in, right?

You talk of the competence, you talk about accomplishments and confidence. How many times Patrick and society someone's come up to you and you're like, come on, realistically, like really? You know what I'm saying? I think that's really a society thing in general, man. Everyone just has this perception

that they're more worth than what they really man. Everyone just has this perception that, you know, they're more worth than what they really are. And you keep talking about that market value, right Patrick? I think the main thing is what they're doing right that's working for them. Gentlemen, if you can get anything out of what they're doing that's working for them, they're managing expectations up front.

The opposition either likes the expectation or it doesn't. It's not their problem. Yeah, it's the opposition's problem. You don't like it, don't like it. You like it, you like it. There's nothing else you can say about it because it's my life. So if somebody comes a like Tyler, okay, Tyler,

why don't you tell us your philosophy because you very upset a fresh and fit. I asked him off before you guys came in. I said, so what do you think about these guys? I don't know, I don't know. So why don't you tell us your philosophy? It's slightly different. Well, so maybe I got some of the viral clips, right? But there's, there's like you said, there's nothing that they've said today that I've disagreed with at all. But like I've, I've been with the same girl since I was 18. We have a kid together. Like I, and she's a partner

of mine. We, I get better as she gets better. She helps out. I pick up the slack where she can't, she picks up my slack. Like, it's a partnership. It's something we want to grow and foster and nurture. And that's, I think a lot of people have lost that idea that if you want to take over the world, you don't need a boss bitch or a bad bitch or whatever it is. You need somebody that's going to pick up where you leave off. And likewise, and you guys can conquer the world together. That's what they're saying as well. Yeah. Well, yeah.

And they're saying that the bad bitch is not the model is what they're talking about. They don't want that. That's what the fresh was talking about. So it was mentioned, but we went out. Yeah. Well, you're single. Do your thing.

Go have your fun. But again, man, going back to it, manage an expectation upfront. 99% of relationships that I've had, that haven't worked, I'm telling you right now, the relationships that haven't worked, where it was my fault, and I look back, so I only look at the stuff that I screwed up with, and I screwed up many of them.

You know what the hell I'm in common? I did not manage expectations upfront, it's my fault. I don't sit there and say what the other person, so eventually I'm like, yeah, this relationship didn't work out, why, you didn't manage expectation, you just sold Google Gaga over the fact, oh So eventually I'm like, yeah, this relationship didn't work out. Why? You didn't manage expectation. You just sold Google Gaga over the fact, oh my gosh, she's so hot. You screwed up.

So rather, here's where I stand. Is that good? If you like it, it's not going to change. This is where I stand with this. And it works out. That's what I think they do right. And by the way, that's how we were in the military. It was kind of like, look, I'm not looking for.

Why if I'm not looking for this? But if you want to have a good time, no problem. Anything outside of that, I have no desire to get married while I'm in the army. And the girl either said, no, I don't like that, or she said, cool, I respect that, great, then let's go. And if it's fun, we'll do it again, if it's not, this will be the last time.

But it was all upfront managing that expectation. And how long you been married now, Patrick? 12 and a half years. But you know what I say? You know what I say about marriage? What I say about marriage? The day I've got married and I've given a speech at in front of our wedding,

I said, let me take something about marriage. I don't know whether we're gonna be married for 50 years, but I do know we're gonna be married for one year. We're gonna take it one year at a time. I said this in front of 500 family members. I said, we're gonna take this one year at a time. And none of you guys can create unnecessary pressures for us because I don't want to.

I said, number two, at my wedding day, I said, do not ask my wife if she's pregnant. You're gonna have a problem with me. Nobody can ask my wife if she's pregnant. There's a lot of extra pressures for having kids. You're not gonna come to my wife saying you guys have kids or not. When we do, you'll find out about it.

I want a lot of kids, but if it doesn't happen, it's none of your business. I looked at both sides of the family. Don't ask my wife about kids and don't ask us about, you know, all this other stuff. And, you know, marriage one year at a time. We've been married 12 and a half years. We're about to be 13 years. I think we can make it at 13. The reason why I say this is the following reason. Some people say, man, he's got an agenda. He's got this, or he's got that. No. Life changes, people change, situations change. I can't control the other person. I can control myself. I don't walk on water. I don't have the expectation of walking on water. My standard is not to be perfect. That standard of perfection, room's relationship, the standard of perfection, room's relationships, the standard of perfection, room's friendship, and all of that.

So listen, here's where I am. I respect you. We're going to play the game. I love you. I'm going to protect you. I'm going to be my best, but at the same time, stick it one year at a time. It's worked out well. Yeah, I think the biggest thing, that's a very good point you made earlier.

The biggest thing for guys, especially is that like, okay, this is who you are, right? Just the core of foundation is make your money. Focus on your mindset, your fitness, and as a result, becoming a better man, guess what? If you're in the best position as possible for yourself, like for example, I'm not Marin. Marin's not me. You see flashy jewelry lifestyle, that's just me. That's why we're all right.

But guess what? Regarding women and dating, this is who I am. I'm not trying to be somebody I'm not. I like Grace. He's very upfront, very masculine, very who he is, but guess what? That's who he is. What's the result?

If you are who you are, you put yourself as a guy. I'm telling you right now, that's all you need to do. You don't need to be me or me. Just be yourself. By the same time, I'll agree yourself mentally, physically, and also, money wise. Yeah, I don't know. I don't, again, I thought there's gonna be a shit ton of things.

But everyone takes our clips and like, oh, I disagree with this, but then when you get the full context, it changes. No, what you're saying is for men to be men, by the way, if you want options, increase your market value. You have to. Simple as that.

Like the days of just being able to like, you know, kind of have game or having, like used to be where you can have like, do one thing like well and like, do really well. One of the like nowadays, man, with the pickiness of women and how the dating marketplace has changed,

women have more options than ever before, you really have to be a complete package if you wanna be able to get the dating options that you want and on top of that, be able to retain girls, keep them in rotation, whatever, because if you got, like let's say you got a game, right, but you don't got any money or you don't,

not the best looking guy, right? You'll be able to get girls, you might get laid once or twice here, whatever it may be, but you're not gonna be able to retain that girl long-term. You're gonna lose her to some dude that has a shit together, whatever it may be, that might have less game than you.

Or let's say you're a very good looking guy, you might get laid every now and then, but you're not able to keep girls around or take them on dates, give them a good experience, and retention goes down. Or let's just say you have only money, while they're not gonna respect you, because you don't understand how to cognitively stimulate

her and get her to be aroused by you, and actually genuinely attracted. She's dealing with you just as a means to that because you have financial stability. So we tell guys, you need to be the complete package. You need to be in shape. You need to have gaming. You need to understand female nature. You need to have your money on point.

So you can go ahead and be the most marketable to the largest demographic of girls. There's some girls that only want good looking guys that are in shape. Cool. Now you're in shape. There's some girls that only want guys that have money. Cool. You can get them chicks as well. There's some girls that want guys that, you know, have a talking, talking, good talking games.

Cool, so that way you're the most marketable to the largest amount of women because we talk guys all the time. In today's dating game, you got to work volume. You got to be talking a lot of girls. And to be able to talk to the most girls and have the highest potential of success, you have to have the most attributes will make you attractive to the largest demographic women. And having all these things in place.

Not only will make you more attractive, make you happier as a man in general, but you're going to have an abundance mindset and you're not going to operate from a scarcity mindset. So many guys operate where it's like, oh my God, I hope you like me. Hope you like me. Let me try that pressure. I'm like, no, fuck that shit. I hope she likes me game. It's take it or fucking leave it game.

Come pler, goodbye. This is how I am. And when you have that abundance mindset, even if the girl doesn't like you or she gets offended by it, she's going to respect you. And I tell guys all the time, a girl's respect is more important than her liking you. Because if she respects you, she's going to be like, okay, you know what? This guy isn't kissing my ass. This guy isn't all about it, you know, putting me on a pedestal, whatever. This is different. This is refreshing. Let me figure out what's going on here. Because most girls are used to getting their

asses kissed for nothing more than them being a being a being a female and having a vagina. So when you come in and be like, oh no, that's not how I operate or you got to do this or you impress me. Finally, it puts her in a position where she actually wants to be in. She's finally chasing a man's validation for once and that makes you more attractive. And if it doesn't fuck her, find another girl. What you've been in at 20 some years, yes? Yeah. Okay. And you've been single for 20 some years. You've been in relationship. Yeah. But you have unlacked, and you've been single for 20 something you've been in relationship Relationship but yeah, but you you have unlacked relationships where you've seen How much of its change? How much how different is it today because I don't know what it is to swipe right?

I don't know what it is to have what he called it online access to all these apps that are out there that makes it a lot easier Believe it or not. Does that does that mean a Guys ability to have a mouthpiece today doesn't matter as much as it did 15 years ago. You know, do you know what I'm asking? Yeah, yeah, yeah. If you know like back in the days, like me, I have to go up and say lines. Well, here's what I'll tell you with that.

Yeah. You guys tell me, cause I'm cool. Yeah. I'm gonna talk about this. I'm gonna talk about this. They get to different perspectives. Yeah, go for it. I remember being an eighth grade liking a girl

and I had to call up her freaking landline the dad picked up the phone I had to say hello mister so and so can I speak with so and so who's this? Well, it's like I had to get through that barrier Okay, do you know the freaking balls you need to have as a 13 year old boy to get through the dad That's hard to speak to the girl And that's before she even got on the phone then I got to be able to spit some game and then get what like do you understand the barriers to entry are so ridiculous insanely easy now you need to

have to be able to talk and you'd have confidence enough swag and you'd have respect you need to have just a good head on your shoulders you You need to understand the difference. Wait, today you do? No, no, back there. Oh yeah, yeah. Now you could be a fucking schmuck, slide into a girl's DM with a subgirl you up, like, and a girl will respond. Like the game that you need to have back then is so much stronger than it is today. Now with that being said, it's so much easier now.

You can go on any different app, you can go on Instagram, you can go on anywhere, and you can start making your move. And the last thing I'll say is, here's what I will say. What I've learned in my 20 years, I've been partying in Salpeed for 20 years. College after college, now in my early 40s,

when you're in your 20s, you're focused on your boys. Okay, the boys wanna have a good time, we're going out. In your 30s, now all your friends are getting married, you're focusing on the girls' perspective. You're putting yourself in the girls' shoes. The most liberating thing now is being 40, and you're like, all right, you focus on yourself.

And this is basically what you're talking about. You're not worried about your boy's opinion. You're not worrying about appeasing any particular female or like trying to, you know, be someone you're not. The realest thing you could be is who you are and be what you want. And then from there, what do you call it, hold frame and say, now this is what I look for.

This is what I want. And if you can't reach that, all good. I don't want to waste your time. The number one thing is not being able to waste time. I'd rather invest my time than spend time anyway. Okay, so I'll forget our records. We're in the game right now and it's funny because a lot of us change since you know,

you're back in the day, now as you know. And my opinion, our opinion is the biggest thing out now in the world is Instagram. Yep. He has guest what? Celebrities, influencers, athletes, stars, movie stars, right? Guess what?

Don't use platforms. And girls are actively on these platforms every single day. Guess what? I can have a girl with Idaho, Tennessee. I don't know Alaska, right? I can't say, yo, come on, Miami. Guess what? First of all, L, she's in Miami.

But here's the problem, right? Back in the day, they'd have that because if you're in those states or you're in these cities, no one know who you were, when people around you actually see you in real life. Now because of social media, the climate has changed. I could damn go anywhere in the world and get her here. So, picture this, right? As easy as a damn, you said earlier, I guess I'm gonna it to today And if you verify even better, you could guess what now you're a valid person of I want to say

Status status right so regarding brand awareness having a brand and being that guy now a social media you win So look for example, I started all right. I'm not really the most I want to say talk as person because I don't talk that much But my band awareness is on point because my lifestyle, what I do, and then for example, just me being a social meter president, guess what? That's enough for me to get what I want. As a result, this might be a controversial,

I used to date three girls a day. So I would literally wake up at like 8 a.m. go to work, lunch time I'll go on like a little date, and then after work I'll go on a date again and then then then at night But guess what? over social media. I'll be at home on my Instagram. Center at DM yo, we know tonight. Home free. Cool.

Link up. Or for example, hey, we do during during the day, link up. And it's not easy. Now here's the problem right? With this much access and options, it's hard to say, you know what? Damn. I'm gonna be with this girl because she has these, these are our traits because there's so many girls now you could hit up, it's like, yo, what's up for one? However, I'll say this regarding this whole lifestyle being a player, all options, is it fulfilling?

No, because at the end of the day, I've realized from experience, the best thing you can do as a man is show your time someone that you care about and actually wanna be around because all these girls, oh yeah, you you could smash whatever, have that experience, but in rally speaking, how about one person you connect with, physically, spiritually, mentally, that's important over everything. But regarding the data marketplace, yeah, it's super easy nowadays. All right, so I'm very disappointed that you went that deep and really, you got me emotional right now. You make him wanna watch an old book and fall in love. Nah, brother.

So it was very sweet. I was taking some notes on this. So like this is kind of, this is the current dating marketplace right now at a glimpse, right? So like, if you got this cup, right? So let's pretend that this is a woman's validation meter, right? So it used to be where a woman had to go outside

to be able to get attention and or validation from men, right? She didn't have the advent of the smartphone and all this other stuff. She had to go outside and or put herself in a position going to nightclubs, be social, whatever to get attention from men. So men's attention was not as easy to gain as it is nowadays, right?

So that, wouldn't she walks outside the house? The cup is empty, right? Because now she's got to, she walks outside the house, the cup is empty, right? Because now she's gotta go out there and get her ego pulled or whatever, and get her brought up. But nowadays, thanks to social media, by the time she steps out the house, this cup is full with validation,

because she opens up her Instagram, she has a bunch of DMs, she opens up her dating apps, has a bunch of options, and what happens is, they start to have an abundance mindset. And I always say, women naturally having an abundance mindset

might have to earn their abundance mindset. So just by a girl existing looking at her phone, whatever it may be, I know girls that will turn on their tender. I've seen them before on TikTok as well. Turn on their tender, get a bunch of matches, not go on, they win you them, and then just close it down just to get their validation, just to get that balance. Just to feel good about themselves.

And just keep it going. Because women, whether they want to admit it or not, they have, a lot of them have low self-esteem. There's a reason why the makeup industry is never going to go out of business, why hair salons, nail salons to admit it or not, they have, a lot of them have low self-esteem. There's a reason why the makeup industry is never gonna go out of business, why hair salons, nail salons, even during a pandemic, they were still in business to some degree, because women understand that their primary agency

comes from the way they look, right? So getting attention from men, reconfarms in their mind, I'm pretty, I can still get a guy because a woman's value is based on her beauty. I don't care when none of them say, even the strongest, most independent woman is gonna wear heels and makeup and lipstick, right? So they had to actually go out to get this validation.

Nowadays, thanks to social media, dating apps, whatever, when we get this attention to validation without having to do anything besides be at home, and I didn't experiment on this, right? So a couple of years ago, I released a dating course with my buddy. And when I was doing the testing, right, we used to attend or teach guys that,

use Tinder, sugar apps, whatever it may be. When I was doing the testing to see which to attend or teach guys that use Tinder, sugar apps, whatever it may be. When I was doing the testing to see which, the best way to get matches and everything else, like that's how the algorithm goes, I had two phones, I did an A, B test, right? So on one phone, I basically did a boost, right? On all the accounts, on another one, I made a fresh account, didn't do no boost, right?

And I turned the phones off for about 24 hours. Turned it back on and both phones have a bunch of notifications, right, and I'm like, oh yeah, this is fucking awesome. This is great. I'm like, yeah, I'll get this attention. Woo, you know what, then hit me. Imagine getting this amount of attention every single day

for nothing more than the fact that I'm alive. It would probably make me a piece of shit, wouldn't it? And then I realized like, damn, wait, hold on. This is what a lot of modern day girls go through every single day. And the studies show it like women find most men almost Over 90% of men on tender and bumble all these sites as unattractive below average and unattraction Most women don't match worth and or look at profiles unless the guys on the top 5% of dudes

One in three men right now is either a virgin and or sexually enacted between 18 to 30 So it's become harder from majority of men to get girls with the new social media age because women have more options before and a girl that would have been, you know, constrained to her own sexual marketplace. Let's say she lived in Iowa, whatever, maybe Idaho, right? She had that area and we talked about this in deep with Rollo Tomassi. It was a localized sexual marketplace, but now with the internet, the data and so on, etc. She can go and talk to someone in Miami. She can go ahead and talk to someone in LA. And there's a lot of girls flying out all over the place

because now they have access to men that they would have never otherwise had. So in other words, when they wake up, this glass is full every single day, which is why a lot of guys are invisible to most women, right? So, and this is because dating apps and Instagram in general, so what's basically happened now is that the top men are getting a majority of the girls.

Right, the majority of girls are chasing a very small select men. And with the advent of the internet, it's become even more pronounced and women have become even more selective because with them getting the evaluation that they get on their phones, they're like, fuck this. I can, I'm getting hit up by a future.

I'm getting hit up by whatever. Oh girl, literally came on our pond and talked about, yeah, I banged future and he just didn't mean he was gonna give me a feeling but it didn't end up happening. But this is, right. The rapper. Yeah, the rapper.

He on the air. Yeah, but it's on our show. Okay, no, they know what time it is, but like, that's the dating marketplace win. Average women now, right? Have access to top tier guys. And that's just what happens. So like a regular high school.

The first guy goes a top. Three girls a day, who's that man? Yeah, he's covered here taking a soul. So it's basic, long story short, a lot of guys are struggling because women have higher, higher standards now and male attention is worth nothing now in this. So in other words, the dating sites

made the rich, richer the poor poor. Yes, yes. It's like stimulus checks. Interesting. Yo, you know the scary part. I got it. There's a darkest side that is. You want me to go there?

Go forward. Go forward. Yeah. You know what I'm gonna say Go with it. Go with it. Yeah. You know what I'm gonna say, right? Sugar. So guys, nowadays, right? Girls have a boyfriend, a sneaky link. Got it, it just fuck.

And, would you call it? A sneaky link. Like in a late night, hit him up. Sneaky link. I'll come over and we'll just flash and then you go back home to your boyfriend and whatever, is what it is. And then the third one they might have is a sugar daddy. So the whole culture now is, okay, cool.

How do I get these things in life without working for it for girls? And it was the best way? Sugar daddy, I just show up, look pretty. I might fuck her or not, but I'm gonna get my rent paid, I'm gonna get either a new car, or I'm gonna get money to go shopping or just have fun.

And think about it, right? Who are sugar babies nowadays? Girls in college, that has no money. It could be even a boss paid that just wants a better man. And it's funny because a lot of girls would say, I won't be caught down, I'm tender, I'm bumble because that's below me. But I'll be on a sugar site, we didn't find a right, I gotta take care of me. And as a result, guess what? Now, for an experienced, they expect all men to be on a level. So the average girl you see, you're not, you're going next door, right?

Even though she's cute, pretty, she's very to herself. Whatever. You don't know she might have two sugar dotties They're paying for a lifestyle. You come to our third. Hey Susie, you all on take you out They go, who are you? Guess what you're not on his level and the result is good because once again social media It could be a guy on there that's high profile. It could be a sugar daddy You never know we compete with so we say for most guys on some level become the best version of yourself because at that point you could kind of play the game but even then you may not because either they're millionaires they're sugar daddy's you never really know. So as a result most men will never get the option or even chance to play the game of the dating

parties. And the scary part is a lot of guys don't even know what they're up against in the current dating marketplaces to like why is so competitive. So what I've always said, like feminism, what it's inadvertently done, it's actually given all the leverage to the top 5% of men. Yeah. Because what happens is women earns or gets her own career, makes more money, becomes successful. Well, now a large pool of candidates that would have been

a great husband and a potential boyfriend, this guy doesn't make the time. That could be fact, if you say. They want to date their equal or above. Exactly, right? So women, we know women on a bounce probabilities, do not date below their socioeconomic status. They want to date their equal or a buck. Exactly, right? So women, we know women on a bounce probability do not date below their socioeconomic status. They want to date at least bare minimum where they're at or preferably above.

So as women make more money and become more successful, now their pool of men drops down with it and they want to date up. So it's given their leverage, inadvertently, to a lot of the higher status men. These women that fresh was talking about, how does it affect their psychic? Because you said somebody very profound earlier, you said, you know, fast money comes slow problem. Yeah. So breakdown that mindset for these women. So a lot of women out there, they're like, I'm independent. I don't need no man. I get my own money, the boss bitch thing. It's like, okay, how are you getting that money? So a lot of your career woman, A, but maybe you're more that sugar daddy with

three boyfriends type. Yeah. and I don't think guys understand. Like if you see a bad chick on Instagram or she's very attractive, you best believe, bro, that she's getting crazy offers. She's getting rappers under her up, sugar daddy's, whatever it may be. Like I always tell guys,

if you guys really want to see the dating marketplace, if you're friends on by a hot chick, ask her to see her Instagram and look at her at DMs. You guys are gonna see what I'm talking about. Or look at her dating inbox, her dating profile inbox, or whatever site she has. A lot of girls live a double life

where they're, whether they're on only fans, they're selling fee pictures, they're on Snapchat premium, they have a sugar daddy, they're getting flown out by a certain guy or whatever, a lot of attract women have this thing going on. They're obviously not gonna talk about it. How are they all ending up in Dubai? Exactly, you know what I was saying?

Or it's a chick that's like, you know, like what the hell, you, you, you, you're, you're already at the school, how are you, a fucking Ireland right now? And then you want to do it by after like, so a lot of girls live this double life, thanks to internet, whatever it may be. So I always say, you know, fast money comes with slow problems.

A lot of girls that do, you know, they're strippers, only fans, whatever, don't make this money out front or sell fee picks or whatever, they'll make this money out front. But what they don't realize is that's going to have dire consequences on them in the future when it comes to marriage and or some kind of stable relationship because we know how men are men are

Man are very territorial women if you are about a married chicken She's your girl and you find out that she did some function in the past You're more than likely going to call off the wedding because men have a serious point of issue with a woman's past I always say women want a man with a future a man wants a woman that doesn't have a past and that's just the way It's always been to the beginning of time men are very territorial So a lot of girls what they don't realize is they're doing this stuff, right? And they kind of know some conscious that it is gonna mess me up in the future But if it ever comes out they don't care it a lot of girls, what they don't realize is they're doing this stuff, right? And they kind of know subconsciously, it's gonna mess me up in the future,

but if it ever comes out, they don't care. It's gonna mess with them. And some don't even care. They're just like, I'm just gonna be a baddie. I don't care, except me how I come. But it fast money, a lot of time, does come with slow problems,

which is gonna be being able to find a guy. And we know a big predicate or a female happiness and fulfillment typically comes from a family and children, not necessarily a career and make them money. Hey, fresh and fit. I have a quick question for you guys. So you've talked about kind of this change of the dynamic that's happened in America. So just to let you know about me, just in general, like I was you 18 years old, was single, I was with Patrick

for Fort Campbell, we, you know, the stories we could tell are crazy. But, you know, I went on a run for 10 years, kind of, you kind of hear your story, right? You know, I'm saying, kind of going to figure out and told my wife and I've been married for 19 years, you know, things have changed, right? I mean,? I'm gonna ask Patrick this too at the same time. I mean, could you imagine if we had all this technology, this resources at Scanner's, right? It really is. It really is.

And so for the other demographics, I'm sure you have males from all sorts of age groups. I'm probably sure in the younger's, the 20's, the 30's, maybe even the 40's and above that, like if something were to happen, life has changed, you know, my house cat. You know, Felix the cat, house cat above that, like if something were to happen, life has changed. You know, my house cat, you know, Felix the cat, house cat. You're like, you're gonna throw me back out there.

It's almost can't have feelings in the wild. Is it? Are they inspiring you? Is this the best thing? No, no, it's not like. It's just, it's just, I need us listening to this saying, please get Felix off the podcast.

No, I need you. I'm just gonna answer. I'm gonna answer why. Hey, I got, hey, but I will say, my wife definitely compliments me. Like you were saying, you know, kind of the weaknesses were being, you know, my strengths and vice versa. So that's what makes us work.

And it's a different definition. Like you said, I think our society has it where you have to do it this way, like Patrick said, or the Bible says this or says that. And I make my own rules, right? Your society does have laws and rules, but at the same time too. Hey, I have my own rules of how I perceive my happiness.

How do you tell me what makes me happy? So I definitely love, you know, your perspective. I think sometimes maybe like you said, you know, get those clips Tyler was talking about that kind of get lost in the snippets, right? I think you have Lagoyavitch on here just a couple of weeks ago and he said the same thing. They were taking snippets of his conversations

and then changing the verbiage around to fit their narrative. And a lot of people do that with our content. That's easy to do when you have a longer form content. Oh my god, we have so many crazy things that they say. Like, I'll be making a point that like, that's, oh, that's why I'm going to clip that and, you know, go viral. But yeah, I always say like with the, you know, with the way, you know, online dating is expanded and dating apps

and Instagram, et cetera, it's really put women in the position of advantage when it comes to dating. Women have all the leverage in dating nowadays, I would say, right? And that's why I always say, guys, you know, your, your game is the guy to attain the girl, her game as the woman is to retain you after she fucks. But a lot of girls don't understand this. I think, well, have even more suitors in my inbox,

I got all these guys coming after me, but they don't realize that those guys just want sex. But a lot of girls can flate sexual attraction, where relationship attraction, that's a fatal flaw a lot of modern women make as well. And would you, I'm gonna say that's like a vicious cycle because that makes it worse like you said, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

Yeah, because guys are gonna get pissed off now and say, damn, man, I really think I'm a great guy. I'm pretty marketable. You know, I know I'm not a 10, but I'm a 7 or 8. There's a big divide what's happening here. Like my friends said earlier, where the top percent of guys are getting all action and the guys in the middle are kind of squeezing like, oh, wait, why won't you talk to me? Like what's going on is because guess what? They had a taste of the high life or they want a taste of it and as a result you can't provide that. So they want to they want to give you a chance It I've always said it like it's very difficult for women to regress from a relationship standpoint once you deal with a certain caliber of man

It's like oh man Can I go back to dating an average guy? We've had girls come on the pot like I've dealt with a rapper or celebrity whatever It is athlete put whatever excuse their their perception and the reality of what kind of man they can actually attract Because I think well I fucked this guy hung out with him for a weekend. This is a caliber of man that I should be able to get all the time. And they don't realize, no, you just smash news, not that serious. But girls will hold onto that and be like, this is the caliber of man I deserve now. Myron, crazy question for you guys.

Yeah, crazy question. Fast forward. 10, 20 years, you're grown up, you get married, you have kids. Let's say you both have two daughters. Oh god. Okay. That's a curse. Yeah. Well Pat, he has two boys have two daughters. Oh God. Okay. That's a curse. Yeah. Well Pat You guys have two boys two daughters.

portion. Wait. What? Let me tell you, Karma's a bitch and I can see you both having some daughters. I'm just letting put that out there. Yeah, hopefully they're healthy and beautiful and amazing. I want to hear the advice that you would tell your daughters. Break a, break a question. So I'm just speaking, now fresh. If you need to take a second, bro, and take a sip of water, go ahead. Oh no, I wanted the advice that you would tell your daughters. Man, okay, so you won't be a hoe.

You want a truth? I want it all. Get as graphic and as insightful as you possibly can. I wish you were a boy. But let me not start there. No, because, damn it, man. No, you possibly can. I wish you were a boy. But let me not start there. No, because, damn it man, no you go first. But yeah, maybe you help not Patrick.

I'll just tell the truth. Like I would tell her like a lot of the things I tell the girls on a pod, you know, like understand that your past defines you as a woman. Unfortunately, that's just the way it is. Like, you know, men do care about the car facts. You know, you wanna man with a future, he's gonna wanna woman that doesn't have a past

so that she doesn't fuck up his future. And that's just the way men are, especially a guy that's worth it, future, he's gonna want a woman that doesn't have a pass so that she doesn't fuck up his future. And that's just the way men are, especially a guy that's worth it, damn. He's gonna have a lot of stake in your pass. So that's number one. You know, I would tell her, go to school and obviously get your career and everything else like that. But understand that, you know, you also need to take

that same vigor and apply it to finding the right guy. And I would be involved in her finding a guy's, well, I think that's a big mistake that a lot of my women make is that they don't involve, you know, I always say to really get the best, how do I, to find the best guy, you need a male on your team, right? That has your best self interest. No, not a guy from this trying to smash you. That's on the side, like your dad, your brother, someone that is related to that doesn't have a sexual interest in you. That actually likes you for you and loves you for you. The closest to, you know, to ideal

love. And they will tell you this guy isn't worth shit, this guy isn't worth it, whatever. And a lot of girls don't involve their brother, or their father, because it's awkward, or I don't wanna involve whatever. And then they'll pick in the fuck boys that don't wanna take them seriously, because women run off of motion. This guy makes me feel a certain way,

so I'm gonna deal with him, even though he's a terrible example, so, or a terrible potential mate. So, I would be involved in that. I would also let her know the uncuffed reality is that, yo, your past doesn't matter. Your career doesn't matter that much as well. As well, you can go to school and everything to be.

It's efficient to understand that that's not gonna make you more marketable or attractive to a man. And I'll just give her the uncomfortable realities about men and women are very different. I think we live in a world now where we tell young girls whatever tastes of career, you're the same as a man, you can do anything a man can do. Well, obviously we know that's not true

because when a transgender man enters the NCAA as a swimmer, now he's a champion. He was ranked 400 some and now he's beaten the shit out all these girls. It's like men and women are not the same. We're different at certain things. Men excel certain things, women excel certain things. And for you to use a male metric of success is going to make you miserable. Long term. How about you, well? Yeah, so definitely, I'll tell you the truth, you know, because I don't know later her. I'll give her two options. If you want a man, here's what you do., you know, because I don't allow to her. I'll give her two options. If you want a man, here's what you do.

If you want to be a hoe, it's what you do. As a result, I can't force her to be what she's gonna be. She's gonna choose her on her own. But I'll say this, I'll tell her, look, I didn't in day, may want sex. But what do you want? Do you want a family? Or do you want to be flying out here, doing your thing?

As a result, choose the path you wanna take. And I'll just say this as well. You're gonna get fucked over. However, how you react to it is gonna determine in what you do. For example, some girls would get heartbroken and they'd go on a spiral way to go like, fuck every guy that they see because they're just mad

or whatever. And I'd say, yo, at this point, what do you really want, daughter? Do you wanna be successful? Do you wanna be with a man? Do you wanna have have magic kids? Follow that path. So.

But most women, when they're, you know, look, the girls that are 21 to 24, they operate completely differently from the girls who are 27 to 32. Totally like, it's not even close. So they're having fun, yolo, and then it's a girl. It hits that other thing, it's like, okay, you know, I need to slow down and find a guy.

So yeah. See, here's problem, right? You can tell your daughter what to do, but bro, when it comes to like, what she sees in front of her, bro, like, Nika's got a game. Nika's got money. Nika's lifestyle.

That programming you give to her is for a period of time. What you can say in ages, like, what is this fun? My friends are doing it. I'm gonna have fun and live my life down. Yolo. Now Pat, you've got four kids. I assume the conversations you have

with the boys are gonna be different than you're gonna have with the girls. I mean, Santa's five, Brooklyn's a baby, but walk us through how you're processing this as a father. It's a risk. I mean, you just have to know you're facing a risk. You know, when you were talking about your call

in 13 years old, did that's picking up? If a 13-year-old guy calls me to want to talk to a girl, I'm calling Sammy the Bullets today. You know, I need a favor, but no, all jokes aside. I think the dynamics varies based on who's the oldest and the youngest. Let me explain.

If you got a boy first and then you have a girl and the age difference, you have two examples, two layers of security. If you got two boys and then you have two girls, you now have three layers of security for the girls, which is the oldest and the young. So like for example, Tiko is not that protective. Tiko's personality is more chill with how he is. But Dylan, Dylan is the, Dylan's gonna be like, you do something to set up. You're gonna have to deal with Dylan,

and Dylan's gotta have a different personality. But at the same time, he get very good advice. He said, someone's gonna screw you over. Then what are you gonna do? Cause it's gonna happen, right? It's gonna happen. What are you gonna do when somebody screws you over?

Your boyfriend does this to you. You're gonna go in revenge and go hook up with every single one of his friends and trying to get back at him is that what you're gonna do? Because that's when you really learn. It is gonna take place to you. I think the other party got to think about as well as your values and principles and how you treat them all. The way you treat the mom she's watching and the way you treat her,

she's gonna think that's how I want to be treated one day. Because odds are my dad, my daughters are probably one of them's going to date a guy like me. And if they date a guy like me, and I know who I am, I know that dynamics of how he's going to want to be leading that family, and she's going to watch you see here, so you take care of mom, here's how I want him to take care of me as well. Those dynamics are going to be, you can say whatever you want, manual book, 28 keys to being this and that, she's listening to nothing. In fact, she's just watching to what you're doing, period. She's going to duplicate and go after the way you live your life.

That example is going to do more for you than having her read 22 books. It goes on the show that have a better grasp on like dating and what they really want from Imagine Kids. Their father was a good example to them, and that's what they saw. Not what they saw. The old daddy issues. What they saw.

So that does help in terms of getting them in that direction. That's so important, man. Yeah, it's amazing how like dads are not respected in the Western Journal. Oh, you're not a man, I don't need kids. Like I always say, a strong dad will keep a girl off a short pole and sons out of jail. You know, your dad is the first line of defense

to keep you from becoming a degenerate to society. Yeah. Well, the main job of a man is to keep his daughter off the pole. Yeah. Yeah. And I have a father. Mission number one. And Patrick, no lie, I remember the story way back when his daughter,

oh, not daughter of his sister. Sister Polette. He said, hey, if my sister Polette's going to visit, potentially this had the other, I'm like, oh, you got a sister. Right? And, where? Patrick was like, listen, man, I'm gonna tell you this, you're my brother and I love you.

You do anything or look in the wrong direction of my sister, you're gonna have to deal with me. So, I can imagine, you know, Tiko or Dylan would be the same thing. So, those layer of defense, I definitely know. He's not lying with some out saying that. One day, she'll tell some of the stories publicly and you're gonna crack up with some of the stories

of what happened to her boyfriend. One One time she was dating this one guy and she told she the guy told her you know what she wanted to hear which is I love you The guy knows oh and then he screwed up royally Well, he went to world's gym which one of my friends was working out there and my friend knows that guy who the guys and I said listen If you guys seem in the street, I don't care where you are. Beat the living fuck out of this guy. And I rarely say that word on podcast. But he went there. It was a bad setting for him. The guy was walked out. He had a bad situation. Never went back to the gym. Never went back to that gym again. And then we had a Christian

might I come back for Christmas. This is when my I was bad at that time. I was not in good. You knew me at that 18, 18, 18. We go to church. My dad said, I want you to go to Syrian church. I said, I'm not going to Syrian church. He said, I want you to dress in your military uniform and come to church.

So I'm wearing my greens. Okay. And I go to church. Paul, standing right here, he shows up. Damn. He shows up. So my dad at this point is like, he says, you can't do anything.

Everybody said that. It's not how I'm wired. You can't do anything. I said, that's not how I'm wired. He said, I'm at church. I'm at church. He says, you can't do anything. Promise me.

That's my present. That's why you're here. I said, Dad, I'm not wired like that. He shows up. So the brother first shows up. His name is similar name is is me and then he shows up I'm just holding him and I'm just pulling him inside. I'm pulling him aside I whisper something in his ears and he walked out. Here's the craziest thing nine years later

I recruit him to be an agent pull it recruiter to not be kidding with you Wow 11 years ago and I'm training And I'm 32 years old. He's sitting in front of me. I'm like What what are you doing here? He says hey, bro. I said dude. It was. I'm like, what are you doing here? He says, hey, bro, I said, dude, it was a long time ago. How you doing? How you feeling? He says, just, man, I just remember us. And now we're cool, man, I gave my hug.

It was a very unique situation. I should have ever heard of it. But you know, there's a dynamic sister. We have to protect and you gotta teach the kids that. They have to know that. But it's a sensitive topic when you have girls and no matter what you do, you ain't got you. Not around them.

They're gonna make a lot of mistakes. But I will say this because I have a younger sister and she was the girl when I was a senior and she was a freshman all the boys. Yo, I'm a sister like. Yeah. Oh man. If you tell a girl, you can do whatever you want.

Just don't do this one thing. She's gonna do this. That is exactly what the girl do. Yeah. I had my friend Jenny, she was on the show. Her older brothers would tell her, these are the guys that you cannot date. She goes, I dated every single one of them. There's something in a female.

I don't even know it's human nature. You tell someone, don't put your hand on the stove. It'll burn, it'll burn. It's not, they're gonna put their hand. It's both men and women. They're gonna put their hand on the stove. She's like, how we are. But go back in time.

Adam and Eve, what was the one things you can do? Don't need the apple. What's the thing? I knew there was a pastrin' this guy. Listen, the more I listened to fresh, this guy's like a closet pastor about to be, gonna run one of the biggest churches, 5,000 members you see on stage.

PBD exclusive. I was actually gonna be a pastor in Canada. So funny story, man. Barbados. I didn't even know that. So my grandmother's having a church. I got out in not so much. And every Sunday I'll go to church.

I was in a Christian school. And I was raised to be this good guy, generous guy. Most stories short, I was trying to figure out what I wanted to do in my life. I wanted to really buy more of a psychological accident. And my grandma was like, hey, you know what? Maybe you should be a pastor. And I'm like, I haven't tried that.

Let me give it a try. So I'm learning how to be a pastor. I'm gonna start in the school, going to classes and stuff like that. And there's a program where you can go to Canada for I think period of months and then you become a pastor. And I was like, you know what?

Come to Miami, I become a pastor. I thought about it. I can't just tend this cold. There's no girls. I don't lifestyle. I'm going to be teaching people about God. What did it choose? Miami lifestyle or pastor? Yeah. I told Miami.

Yeah. That's crazy. Well, I'm right there with you because my mom to this day thinks I'm going to be a rabbi. So wow. Why aren't you a rabbi? Ma, it's not. It's going to have to be. Let me read this story.

I think this story has a little bit to do with. And by the way, we appreciate you for being vulnerable and emotional here on the Why don't you wrap them up? It's not, it's gonna have to be. Let me read this story. I think this story has a little bit to do with, and by the way, we appreciate you for being vulnerable and emotional here on the podcast and talking to us. Can we get some nice, you know, new international version Bible for the guy as a gift. So here's a story from a good men project.

Women are not choosing bad men. Men are choosing to be bad, okay. I like Steve Harvey, I like him as a person as a character, but as a dating coach, I don't know. I watched a clip of him from last YouTube on YouTube. And on it, a young woman expressed she was struggling to find a good man. Steve Harvey solution, well, why don't you stop dating bad ones? The advice was so brilliant, I started sharing the kind of wisdom with men when they complained about their dating, Rosewood women. Oh, she cheated on you.

Well, why did she date a cheater? Oh, the woman you ask out, one day to you, maybe stop asking out women who aren't attracted to you. Somehow the men got angry about the dating advice. They found it, it's kind of dismissive and thoughtful, and thoughtless. Off the guys I fell in love with, off the guys I fell in love, I don't regret dating them.

And I probably would love, would fall in love with a similar man in the future. I didn't date the abuse of lie or the guy who didn't understand sexual boundaries. I date them. Anyways, so the moral of the story is the following. So it is, is the idea of dating a bad guy. Like man, I'm attracted to these guys. Is that what they're looking for?

And is that what they marry? Hmm. You want to know? From a pastor. Why don't you take the lead first? Yeah, that's not a pastor, bro. Pastor the word chill like this. But I'll say this.

So, bad women, bad men, right? We want Obi-Wan. However, there are some key things that women attracted to. And these traits, some of these bad guys have. And let's build here, right? There's not really a lot of men today. These guys are just wake up, go to the flow, they don't really be a man.

So as a result, most masculine men are guys that are like bad boys, outlaws, guys that are doing like crazy stuff. And let's turn on by that. It's the truth. No matter how you look at it, you can tell them, hey, you know what, this guy's good for you. He's gonna take care of you.

Now I want the guys gonna have fun with, have a good lifestyle. So as a result we're not gonna not really go go towards those guys now regarding um bad guys I would say guys who they are and They'll they'll let you know up front so you choosing a bad guy you literally know what you get into but guess what their Motions what they think is possible how they can change the guy. Look at the shot. And as a result, they go into these bad scenarios and then they say, oh, he hurt me. But you saw the red flags at the very beginning,

but guess what? He looks good, he's tall, he's crazy. I'll give it a shot. I might be able to change him. But you were saying about being a bad guy. I mean, isn't it easier to be a bad guy than it is to be a good guy? I mean, if you're a good guy, you're going to school,

you're working out, you're working on your career and stuff like that, you know, you're spending time, you know, maybe if you're a single father or something like that with your kids. I mean, that is something that's considered, you know, honorable and something that you're doing, it'd be a bad guy, it'd just be a jerk and you know, don't even have any thought process.

I mean, what do you think about that as far as, I mean, Adam, you're single, you can comment on that. Well, the, what they're talking about these, I think there's three types of guys when it comes to cheaters. There's number one serial cheaters. They just, they don't, whether they're upfront about it, whether it's hidden, whether they're like, look, I'm a polygamist, I like multiple chicks,

or whether they're just like, kind of dude in secret. So that's number one, that's the serial cheater. Then there's the number two, there's the opportunist. Well, look, I wasn't planning on cheating, but I'm here at a business trip and Vegas and some chicks talking to me and it's like, you know what it is? What is it?

Exactly, whoops, how the hell, you know, different area codes, whatever it is. You know, so that's an opportunist. And then there's the number three person, it's like, I would never. Yeah. I would never. And then that person, I would, number three person. It's like I would never. Yeah, I would never and then that that person I would never when they meet that opportunity. It's whether they will yeah or they won't yeah, so that's how I kind of define most men, but it's

Most men are in that number two category. They're not complete scumbag cheaters, you know liars and they're not 100% all always be faithful to the rest of my life. They're opportunists and if the opportunity meets, you know, liars, and they're not 100% I'll always be faithful to the rest of my life. They're opportunists. And if the opportunity meets a woman and... My regard is... The thing is, is that... So there's attractive guys and there's arousing guys.

And the thing is, is that a lot of women are really focused on the arousing guys, especially when they're younger and more attractive and they can actually negotiate for these higher status men that are actually arousing. Because the thing is, is that as we make more money and become more successful and have their own career, they don't necessarily care about provisioning as much,

especially when they're younger and more attractive. It's like, okay, does this guy do it for me? Does he arouse me? Does he do it for me like mentally? And unfortunately, the things that make you arousing to a woman, a lot of the times also are terrible traits to have when it comes to a long-term relationship. You know, you're not being non-committal. You're not showing that much attention. You're treating

her like crap. You're putting her like on the six on your party list, everything else. And these things make you arousing to women because women respect men that don't necessarily chase their validation and the woman has to chase their validation. And that's for you as a guy, that's exactly where you want to be. You always want the girl chasing you, feeling like she's getting the best deal, because that's what's going to keep her and check that's going to give her, keep her giving you the best treatment, not cheating on you, not doing stupid shit because she's like, damn, okay, I'm fighting to get this guy. I know he has other girls.

This is what arouses me. But how, from a relationship standpoint, it's terrible, but here's the problem. Women are slaves to their emotions. If a guy makes her feel a certain way, right? And it takes her through the emotional rollercoaster, she's going to go ahead and sigh with that guy. So, the thing is, is that a lot of girls, I'm just going to be honest, don't like to take accountability for the type of men that they pick.

And I tell girls all the time, if you're going to date a man that's attractive, tall, has money, whatever, be prepared to share him. But a lot of sexually, I mean, and a lot of girls don't want to hear that. No, I want him to be monogamous to me, men ain't shit, blah, blah, blah, why can't he just be loyal? Men, male loyalty, and female lot of girls don't want to hear that. No, I want him to be monogamous to me. Manage shit, blah, blah, blah, blah. Why can't he just be loyal? Man, male loyalty and female loyalty is completely different. Male loyalty is, is he gonna protect you in times of danger? Is he gonna provision for you?

Is he gonna take care of you? Female loyalty is sexual fidelity, but when, again, we're going back to women think men or women are the same. They think, well, you should also exercise sexual fidelity. No, men and women are different. For a guy, right? We show our loyalty differently than you do. You show your fidelity by not fucking other people. I show my fidelity by being willing to different for a guy, right? We show our loyalty differently than you do. You show your fidelity by not fucking other people.

I show my fidelity by being willing to die and protect you, right? But a lot of girls don't understand and they don't like it. And I've always said it. As a man goes up and up the socioeconomic tone and pull the more rare the more rare of a catch he is, the higher the likelihood he's going to cheat on you. And it's kind of this delicate balance that girls don't understand is a catch 22.

You are going to become a slave to the very man that you want But you can don't have any negotiating power and that's nothing women forget too is that as you go up with the total Pull as a woman you lose leverage You're not able to control this guy the same way, but here's the problem That's woman arose arise by arouse by they want a guy that they can't control But then they get mad when they don't have the control But then they come and run it back to him. This is why toxic guys do so well because women can't necessarily control them But that guy can control our emotions, but men also have

Some sort of a piphany moment like let's take a look at the George Clooney's of the world Yeah, in the Leonardo DiCaprio's of the world the Derek Gators there you know There's there's there's baseball diamonds, you know, you've seen this thing the Derek Derrick Jeter's hit list, and it's like, so and so in left field, and Halle Berry in center field, and the name after name after name, model after model, but at some point even a man will say, look, I've had enough. Yeah, but here's the thing, they'll say, I've had enough, and they'll get a girl

and take her seriously for a while, they'll be their main chick, but I've always said it. High status men, nine out of 10 times, are gonna fuck other girls regardless. Like a lot of the times, are there guys that are gonna be monogamous? For sure, but out of possibility, if I lined up 100 high-value men

that have options, whatever, athletes, leaps, whatever it may be, I would argue probably 95 of them are gonna go out and smash other chicks on the side. These are the perpetrators. These are the perpetrators, women? Yeah, I mean, it's a who's who, a woman. And I think women don't understand and or like that

when I tell them that if you're gonna have a high value man, you're not gonna have them to yourself. He's gonna exercise options to have sexual other girls. So just make peace with it in your mind that you are going to, like, it's great. You have this high guy and status guy that's your boyfriend, but he's also gonna have sexual other girls.

And that's not that big a deal, honestly. Like, sex is not that big a deal for men. It's like taking a piss. Patrick. Yeah, no, so he's telling the story. It made me think about something. We were hanging out with Seattle Supersonic players okay years ago I'm talking I'm 25 years old and they're telling stories and he says let me tell you what the life is like what's the life like you know

Sean Kim to let me tell you what the life is like you go through here's this city here's that city here's this city here's this city here's that city and I said so I got a question for you what's that why do MBA players get married why if you're a star what are you getting married for if you're a Hollywood star what are you getting married for in your 20s if you're a actor actress what are you doing getting if you're a star and you got a limelight on you, the idea of you getting married, man, again, this is my opinion, that number needs to probably stop with a four,

not even a two, not even a three, it's probably more closer to four. But we were in a military. Like, why are you getting married in a military? It's not a good idea to get married in a military. Why? You're gonna go deploy for 18 months. Yeah.

What do you think you're doing? You're gonna come back with a Popeye forearm on this side? Like, oh, look at this guy. Oh, look how freaking mighty both of them are. You know, it's vision of that. So what is that? What is that? What is that?

18 months. So don't get married in a military. Three deployments. Oh, yeah, three deployments. What do you think happens in a situation like that? I think you gotta have a system for yourself as you get bigger. One of the best things I, look, I've been married 12 and a half years, you look at my Instagram, it's as if being married as a bigger target and being single,

being married, it's more interest because can I break you? Can I do this? There's a target for that, right? And your supporting cast is number one, not saying what the third guy says, because you're a big like that guy right there with the four. So, but, but this is what I was going to tell you is the supporting cast. Here's how our supporting cast works. I read a book one time from Billy Graham. This is back in the days in 60s, 70s, 80s when all these pastors have in stories with girls, left and right.

And he's like, wait a minute, what the hell you guys doing? So Billy Graham said, when we travel, we share rooms. He says, I used to do one of our guys. He says, now when I travel, we have to be in a room with three of us. And they'll be like, why would you do three?

Why not just have a buddy? He says, because when it's just you and a friend, you can convince your friend, listen, no one's gonna know. He says, but when it's three of you, one gonna say, no, guys, we can't do it. Yeah, that'd be one voice of reason. Yeah, he says one time they went into hotel room. He says that girl was waiting in the room, half naked.

He says, we just ran out. He said, we left it or we just ran out because you know, that's our stories are written. So you gotta be careful now this. There's a target on everybody. And the more you said, you can be a target, the bigger of a target you really are. Does that make sense? The more you say, oh, it'll never happen to me.

Oh, really? Oh, you're Mr. Perfect? No problem. Here's 88 people that are gonna try to break that. I mean, oh, but they can't happen. That's why I, uh, I'm not going to say all this is attractive. So it's funny, I made an Instagram post, right? It's clearly satirical here.

I said I'm celibate. Yo, you would not believe it's response to call us again. Yeah, they were like, really? I'm gonna challenge, I'm gonna break that tonight. Gonna break it. Yo, dude, girls are going crazy. And I was like, yeah, imagine if you were married, bro. How much target you are?

Like you said earlier. It's crazy, bro. Girls get mad, but I always say, like having other women makes you more attractive. There's a reason why women want to be in a VIP with a rapper when he has a bunch of other Chicks there why are you going a music video set like you see girls have different shapes colors and sizes like men like Variety it's been that way since beginning of time and even if a guy has a main girl

He's gonna want to have you know something different every now and then now do most guys do our all guys gonna be able to enact on it No, probably not but if you give a guy I would say you take the most loyal guy, give him $2 million, a fucking blue check on Instagram, a Lamborghini and a mansion for a couple of weeks. He's probably gonna start smashing some chips. That's the best of luck. You know what I'm saying, so let me do this. Let me do this. 11 o'clock.

Okay, so you said quick question. You got to go ahead. If there's one song that every woman in the history of women likes, what's the first song that comes to mind? Girls, just one and a half thought. Yeah, exactly. So I want to get your thoughts on why every girl likes a song

and what they mean by just want to have fun. And obviously the more money you have to sponsor this type of fun, the more opportunities you have. So quick thoughts on this song. It embodies what girls say, for example. I don't want to be bored. You know? You guys are fun.

They just say that my wife, karaoke, It might have house the other for New Year's So thanks a lot, man. So what is it? It was just to be quick basically in and bodies what girls want one of a good time They want stress. They don't want to be annoyed this one. I have a good time. They won't be bored and the result All I guys are boring. So this song means to them. Hey, you know what? This is my anthem leaves it earlier. I'm gonna have fun, don't mess it up. And I want a guy who's gonna give me not fun, but don't any stress.

Yeah, I mean, if I'm gonna boil it down to two words, it's plausible deniability. You know, girls always want to be able to reserve the rights to have that plausible deniability. Like, it just happened, it was natural, it just manifested. So why so girls are so into spirits or whatever. Like, you know, let me get the privilege of like being able to say, oh, what's your sign?

And also other shouldn't imagine stuff. But guys, we actually gotta go out there and make it happen because I always say men live in a fact-based rally, women tend to live in a Disney fairy tale. So girls just wanna have fun, creates plus with the night ability, it's ambiguous enough for you to not really know what they mean by fun, but let's be honest.

It typically means partying, meeting other guys, hanging out, doing shit, and it may or may not lead to having sex, but, you know. I'm not being judged. And not being judged and not being judged There you go. Go ahead, Todd. All right real quick super chat from CC Do you guys ever miss your old life where you were more private and weren't a target? Good one you want to head first?

You know it's funny bro I got way more girls and I was more happy when I wasn't anybody because it just felt like I could do what I want I don't be in look with a mind of my glass now. It's kind of like oh he's on her Let me see look at her pass. Oh he's doing this is like I'm just having fun man like leave me alone boys Just want to have fun as I say Thank God you're celibate now, so you don't have to worry about it that bro, right? Not anymore, but Go ahead my run. Yeah, no thoughts. Fellas, go ahead. My run.

Causing thoughts. Yeah, I got, I definitely got more girls before. And for me, it's different because I used to, I used to be a federal agent. So like you, you know, you have your privacy, I was very important, right? So like now being in the limelight, it's like a 180 change.

So I got more girls and definitely was fun. I like what I'm doing now. I love it, but it was a complete different lifestyle from what I was doing a couple years ago. All right, so here's what we're doing. So take away today is the following, okay? Fresh as a pastor, okay? Myron's eventually gonna be married with kids.

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Find out about a fellas. I really enjoyed having you guys on No, it was great. I was great. How many guys on? Thank you Felix. It was great having you on as well I'm sure we'll come in back and having said that, we don't podcast Thursday or no. Yes. Podcast Thursday with Leon Cooperman. Perfect. Oh, Leon, here's a guy that's worth a few billion dollars that they said, what did I do wrong

to an interview with WAPO? And I called them up, I said, listen, I know you're worth three billion dollars. Can we talk about why they're giving you so much shit for you being rich? He said, let's talk about on the podcast. On Thursday, don't miss it. Take care, everybody.

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