PBD Podcast - Ray Lewis UNLOADS On Shannon Sharpe Rift, NFL Fake Leadership & Podcast Clout Chasing | PBD Podcast | Ep. 641

Episode Date: September 4, 2025

NFL legend Ray Lewis sits down with Patrick Bet-David to share untold stories from his career: Tom Brady’s ultimate compliment, hunting Barry Sanders, the rivalry with Shannon Sharpe, Peyton Manning...’s near-Baltimore move, and the locker room code that built a dynasty.------Ⓜ️ CONNECT WITH RAY LEWIS ON MINNECT: http://bit.ly/4lXIuJR🎫 THE VAULT 2025 | SEPT 8TH - 11TH | THE GAYLORD PALMS | ORLANDO, FL: https://bit.ly/40lR90L 🍋 ZEST IT FORWARD: https://bit.ly/4kJ71lc 📕 PBD'S BOOK "THE ACADEMY": https://bit.ly/41rtEV4 🎙️ FOLLOW THE PODCAST ON SPOTIFY: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4g57zR2 🎙️ FOLLOW THE PODCAST ON ITUNES: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4g1bXAh 🎙️ FOLLOW THE PODCAST ON ALL PLATFORMS: https://bit.ly/4eXQl6A 📱 CONNECT ON MINNECT: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4kSVkso 👔 BET-DAVID CONSULTING: https://bit.ly/4lzQph2 📰 VTNEWS.AI: ⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3OExClZ 🎓 VALUETAINMENT UNIVERSITY: https://bit.ly/3TEWlZQ 📺 JOIN THE CHANNEL: ⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4g5C6Or 💬 TEXT US: Text “PODCAST” to 310-340-1132 to get the latest updates in real-time!ABOUT US:Patrick Bet-David is the founder and CEO of Valuetainment Media. He is the author of the #1 Wall Street Journal Bestseller “Your Next Five Moves” (Simon & Schuster) and a father of 2 boys and 2 girls. He currently resides in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Tom Brady said the only player he ever feared was Ray Lewis. Men made up their mind that another side that had different colors on was not going to beat us one-on-one. It's impossible, period. It's not hard. But Shannon Sharp, did you think he was one day going to be a good TV guy personality? I'm shocked at his content. I would, in a million years, the things that Shannon has said now or did now, I would never believe it's. and will save or do anything. The devil has the ability to make you popular.
Starting point is 00:00:33 This was personal. One thing about her career that was just crazy is we couldn't find one solid quarterback. I was 30 seconds from Peyton Man and saying yes to come to Baltimore. There's no way in hell
Starting point is 00:00:51 he was coming into Baltimore and getting an eye on in Baltimore. We had an entire life-size picture of Bear's hand. before when you walk into me period it's not it's not hard we had an unwritten rule never leave your brother never leave your brother I know this life myth for me. Adam, what's your point?
Starting point is 00:01:33 The future looks bright. My handshake is better than anything I ever size. Right here. You are a 101? My son's drive there. I don't think I've ever said this before. Ray Lewis. We're finally doing this, huh?
Starting point is 00:01:50 We're finally doing this. It's finally happening. My man. So, to the audience that I went up there, I said, give me the biggest, you know, information on Ray Lewis. So first, is it the first
Starting point is 00:02:05 defensive player to be on the cover of Madden, right? You got multiple chips. You came up with, you know, on any list you're put on as the greatest linebacker of all time, UNLT on all lists. Tom Brady
Starting point is 00:02:22 said the only player he ever feared was Ray Lewis. Is there any compliment above, you know, Tom Brady's saying something like that about you. That's like a pinnacle. But it's good, too. We've had many conversations,
Starting point is 00:02:35 but this is good at front of we're doing it with camera. But I wanted to start off, you know, right? Someone makes sure that your NFL's IQ is still there. Rob, if you don't mind pulling out the recent jersey of, I don't know if you've seen this or not, if you can pull this up, Shador Sanders jersey. Did you see this clip here with, have you seen this or no?
Starting point is 00:02:54 No, I haven't. You have to see this. Okay. You have, so this just happened a few days ago. Okay. Drewski, Stephen A. Smith, ESPN, and I want you to see what question she asks, and the media fans have gone after her.
Starting point is 00:03:08 So you see who's Jersey that is, right? I see who's Jersey that is. Go for it, Rob. Good morning. Good morning. I'm good, man. Excited. You know, feel here for this.
Starting point is 00:03:18 I'm up. I'm up, though. Well, it's a blast for us to have you here. Thank you so much for joining us. All right, so the jersey. Let's get into it. Because obviously this ties to one Shador Sanders who bowled out in his first place.
Starting point is 00:03:33 No, no, no, no. No, I'm sorry, I was very excited. Barry Sanders. What are you thinking about that? How do you? How quickly will forget Barry Sanders? How can you miss that, though? That's impossible to miss.
Starting point is 00:03:48 That jersey is like, that jersey is a, you know, one of those where, even now you'll see guys wearing that jersey, Barry's jersey. Oh, man, too many freaking people. Yeah, you played against him, right? Yeah. What was he like? Yeah, he didn't have a good day against us.
Starting point is 00:04:06 No? No, it was a bad day. How bad was the day? This is when we were just starting to build a bully, and he came to us in 98. I think it's last year, and he needed something like 48 yards to, like, and it was, like, personal. I was like, he's not getting those shots.
Starting point is 00:04:28 It's like, I love Barry, but he's not good in those yards. And we hunted him. Like, we hunted him. It was tough. What was the game? I want to know the stats. He's probably the last game we played, what? Was it 98?
Starting point is 00:04:41 Come on, pull up me some stats. It was 98. He played against us. Is that the record year? If it's the record year, it's 97, because you came in 96. I came in 96, right? I think we played him in 98. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:04:56 Whatever day he came to Baltimore, that was his. last run and it just did not end well yep that was it December 27th trust me this December 2798 yes sir what did he do let's let's see the stats Rob can you pull that up December 2798 what did Barry Sanders so in that game so I have won November 9th 97 Barry Sanders played against you during that incident C he rushed over 2000 in that game and Barry Sanders ran for 81 yards, 20 carries. What, 97? In 97.
Starting point is 00:05:32 97. But you're saying you guys also played 98 or you're thinking. What? 27. Did we play them in 98 in Baltimore? How shifty was he? Oh, man. That was his greatest gift.
Starting point is 00:05:47 Wow. What was it? 19 attempts for 41 yards. Oh, my God. Listen, man. Oh, my God. 2.2. It's serious business, man.
Starting point is 00:05:58 And that's when we was building up to it. Oh, my God. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Personal. So right before the game, you're like, we're going to, we're not going to let him get it.
Starting point is 00:06:07 No, we had a, we had a whole. Barry, no, I love them. I love him to death. But we had an entire life-size picture of Bear Sandus before, when you walk into me. Period. It's not, it's not hard. He will not get what he's trying to get. And so, so what has the mindset going into the game?
Starting point is 00:06:26 Are you just looking for a reason to increase the temperature in the room? Yeah, yeah. We were, we were bullies, man. This is when you can beat people up, like, and just literally beat them up. And when he came in there, we was like, look, I told the D-Line, I said, look, keep them boys off of us. We're going to hunt him. And, man, it was, that group started to build something that ultimately ended up being 2000. 98 was kind of the break
Starting point is 00:06:56 in that. Rod Wilson had just came to us, Sam Adams, Tony Saragusa, Peter Bullwell, Michael McQuary, Corey behind us, Duane on one side, Chris McCallis on the other side, and we're looking at each other's and how are we going to lose? Right? Like who
Starting point is 00:07:12 can actually move the ball against us? So by the time we got to Marvin Lewis, Marvin was like, I was like Marvin, stop coaching us, unleash us. Like you're trying to coach us. Don't coach us. Because if you coach us, you're going to have us thinking.
Starting point is 00:07:28 We're not thinkers. Like half of my guys on my D-line, they can't think like that. In what setting are you saying this to the coach? After almost every game. Like, stop. Like, so what would happen is we would put in certain defenses. And I'm like, Mark, we don't need to blitz. Nobody.
Starting point is 00:07:46 Like, we can beat them in a four-man front, seven-man front. Trust me, Sam and Goose, they're going to take two. somebody going to have to find a way to block me and somebody going to have to find a way to stop Pete we was tough we were a bad matchup for a lot of offenses so when Marvin came to meet
Starting point is 00:08:05 I told Rob Wilson I said Rod there's one rule don't let the ball get over your head we win it's that simple there's nobody that can stand in front of us now remember we started piecing this team together 96 we got rid of a lot of guys 97 my second year
Starting point is 00:08:20 we were like ah you know we was 4 and 12 we were six and ten right six nine and one right then um um nine and nine we got to eight and eight but we started to feel this thing started to move early 98 but then we was kind of struggling offensively so we couldn't put no pieces together and then that's about the time i went to to oz and i was like oz man to man you just got to trust me like like the culture like who we're going going to bring in here like it means everything the locker room It's everything. And he was like, look.
Starting point is 00:08:55 And this is why I think me and his relationship is what it is. He says, look, it's your locker room. You tell me what you want. You tell me the pieces. And this is who, Oz? Oz and Lousin. Oh, wow. So let me ask you, though, would you go and say, we got a trade for him?
Starting point is 00:09:11 We got to get for him. Yes. Yes. I was recruiting because we were horrible. When we got to Baltimore, there was no identity at all, right? In our division, P, it was Jacksonville, Eddie, Eddie George Steve McNair was in that division, and they were having their way with us.
Starting point is 00:09:33 We were just a very unbalanced team. We had a lot of old Cleveland Brown mentalities still on the team. How do we win? How do we lose? Right? We had older guys who really, they just stopped. Who were the pessimistic guys on the locker room? We're like, we've got to get rid of these guys.
Starting point is 00:09:50 Me. you you were pessimistic I was young I was young and I was pessimistic I was like look man I'm not I come from where we win every time we step on the field we win we're not stepping on the field negotiating if no bro so I'm looking at all this and I'm like what not we got to change this we got to change that we need this we need that so then that's one that honestly it was probably 98 99 actually the end of 99 where I actually started to ask real hard questions. Like, why do we run this? Why do we play this defense? Why do we play him? And why do we make him do this on this? No.
Starting point is 00:10:29 One-on-one or in group settings? Group settings and one-on-one. So in front of your peers, teammates, you're asking, why is he running this? Oh, we, this was the transparency on what we had in that locker room is what made that locker room. When did that become that transparent?
Starting point is 00:10:44 Right in 98. In 98? In 98. Who revealed that, who allowed that? So, Marvin. Marvin allowed what we started to do on the field. Marvin was at the house for your birthday, by the way. Yes, absolutely.
Starting point is 00:10:57 That's what I'm telling you, like, the way we thought. I spoke to him for 45 minutes about it. I was telling you, him and I had a lengthy conversation together. Listen, that guy, he, I give all credit to what it means to actually know what you're doing. A lot of people could come to work and they can have awesome talent, but to know what you're doing, I came upstairs. So DeMonte Dawson was a problem for me. Problem.
Starting point is 00:11:27 Hall of Fame Center for Pittsburgh. Had the ashes of hands I've ever seen in my life. Did not care about the freaking hands. And I'm like, wow. So I come in my first two, three years, and we're like really not good on the defense line. And this man is jumping, climbing up to me so quickly.
Starting point is 00:11:45 And I'm like, what the fuck if I got? You know, and you're talking about the pulling, center. It's very rare, right? But you have that many centers that can actually pull and do all these things he was doing. And there was one game where he made me take some real gambols that hurt our defense. Bad. And it gassed us, Jerome, hit us down the pipe. And Marvin comes in the meeting and he's cursing me from ear to ear while everybody's in the room. He's like, I could never have a great defense. If my linebacker cuts the middle of the defense, I said, look man so he cursed me a couple times too many and I got up and walked out I was like
Starting point is 00:12:21 straight up like man I ain't never had a father in my life bro so the last thing you're gonna do is curse me you can coach me you can coach me hard but don't curse me you'd say that to marble oh man this is this is why our relationship turned to be much more than just coach player wow yeah he he really started to understand what I was trying to do and it wasn't selfish it was build a culture and the culture had to be built off accountability. Do your job, right? And know what the hell you're doing. Now, when you started to learn,
Starting point is 00:12:56 when I did that against De Mani, he says, he says to me, you can't do that. I say, well, I don't know how to beat him. I don't know how to beat him. I'm young, Marv. Like, that dude is good. Who's this? Demandada, right?
Starting point is 00:13:10 I said, the way this guy comes off the line and climb to that second level, man, my gosh. That's the center you're talking about. Yes. I'm telling you, P.B. He was rough, man. Domining, yeah, Hall of Fame. Hall of Fame.
Starting point is 00:13:21 Just technical, technique-wise, just so skilled. And then... This is a 300-pound guy, 320-20-pound guy. Yeah, yeah. So Marvin says, I says, I don't know how to beat him. Help me beat him. He said, do you want me to help you beat him? I said, absolutely.
Starting point is 00:13:43 He said, start meeting me upstairs. every morning, 6.30. Every morning. I was like, before camp, he was like, yes. Because I want you to go to install. I want you to go to anything. You say you want it. Come get it all. The rest of my career. From that moment, the rest of my career. The rest of my career.
Starting point is 00:14:01 6.30 in the morning. The rest of my career. Wow. I knew it the way coaches knew it. There's nothing that I did not know from a scouting report, from an offense, a coordinator, or players' statistics, whatever they was. Oh, man, P, there was moments where I got through
Starting point is 00:14:20 in my career where I was, I became the one to write up the first 15 plays. So before every game, because I started to understand my players, not better than the coaches, but I was out there in battle with them. So I know how they think. I know how they react. And, man, I, was there moments where you're like,
Starting point is 00:14:42 this guy doesn't belong on the team anymore we got to get rid of him? There was a moment that that happened. There was a moment that says we're not using him right. Oh, okay. Right? I give an example. Terrell Suggs, right? Terrell Suggs probably coming off the ball I saw a lot of people with that first step.
Starting point is 00:14:58 JJ Watt, Derek Brooks, they got steps coming off that ball. But his power and the way T. Sizzle comes off the ball is unseen, right? And next thing you know, we're in the defense we're in the meetings and we're calling the first two three plays of him dropping in the flats trying to fool somebody i'm like what no no no no no no so that's when i went to the
Starting point is 00:15:24 coordinator personally i said look just give me a chance i'm a right now 15 plays give me the first 15 of any game based off my study and to know how my guys hunt for what like 12 years, like 14, like 11 years. Like, and it was a competition with me and coaches because they used to always say, how do you know, how do you know this right? How do you know the way it's going to happen? I said, I don't, but I'm dictating what won't happen.
Starting point is 00:15:56 Right, because every defense, every defense has holes in it, right? So if you come and you try to disguise a certain thing and you plan against Peyton Manor, you plan against Tom Brady, cover one, you know, you got an out route, you got a curl, you got a backside seam route, You got so many things. Cover two, you know, check, check, run the ball
Starting point is 00:16:12 because you got a light box. Cover three, your safety going to cheat down when he wanted to cheat down. But how do you disguise that enough so they don't see it? You stop disguising and just beat the hell out of them. How much of it was talent? How much of it was psychological games with the opponent?
Starting point is 00:16:28 How much of it was preparation? Where would you rank those three? Yeah, talent-wise, we had a lot. We had a lot. We was loaded. And we started to load up as we started to go. Remember, Sizzel wasn't even there in 2000. We made that run with 2000. Mike McCrary and Rob Burnett.
Starting point is 00:16:47 And I won't even say it was talent. I would just purely say men made up their mind that another side that had different colors on was not going to beat us one-on-one. It's impossible. When we came in defense, we clicked the button and we say, why is he blocking you one-on-one? We're not here to get, we're not here to be blocked one-on-one. All right? We're going to play a four. man rush, which means we're going to be light in the box, which means you got to beat your
Starting point is 00:17:12 man, then go do something else. Then I started this thing at practice where we got to touch the ball every play, every play. And that lasts until I retired. Every defensive player on that field from 98 to the time I retired, every play. Yeah, practice this was longer because I don't care if it was a pass, we're running to the ball. Goose, I need you run into the ball. Sam, yeah. It was a culture.
Starting point is 00:17:38 It was a coacher. Break that down for me. Everybody's got to run to the ball. Why is that important? Because it's a mentality. Turn go. Turn go. Don't turn it.
Starting point is 00:17:48 I can show you football. If you ever watch the game with me, you'll be like, why you're so mad? Because it's disgusting what you see. Nobody on the same page. Everybody, one running this way, run running this. That's why so many big plays happen. If you're a great defense, a great defense, you can be totally wrong as a great defense. And if they run a play that y'all, they never seen, if everybody wrong, you're right.
Starting point is 00:18:16 That's how tough a great defense is. If we're all playing past, then you're going to get past. It was just, when the thing that you miss, I think now in today's games, back then there were coaches on the field. Rod Wilson was one of the smartest people I probably ever played in my freaking life play with. Steelers? Yeah. Then he remember he came to Baltimore. And then I was blessed, right?
Starting point is 00:18:45 He was fun to watch. Oh, gosh. Oh, gosh. I'm telling you. He was so much fun to watch. He was an assassin. Yeah. Right.
Starting point is 00:18:54 He didn't think about nothing else. You know, Blackbell and all that stuff. Like, he was, and he was the one when he first got to Baltimore, he says, I've never seen leadership. from a young man like this. So what do you want to do? What do you want to do? And I said,
Starting point is 00:19:14 Paco, I called him Paco for a reason. I'm going to keep him. I won't disclose that right now. He said, what do you want to do? I said, I'm going to say straight up. I would be the greatest, I would be the most dominant defensive player that would play this game.
Starting point is 00:19:27 He was like, really? I was like, trust me. But then off the field had to align with the mentality. So Rod I knew, I was, what, 22, 23 years old So he knew every Friday The younger guys would go out, right?
Starting point is 00:19:44 We would get cars and go to D.C. And whatever, whatever. And two times He walks up to him and he says, get in the car. He said, meet me in the wait room. And I go in the wait room. And he's like, we're going to meet in here
Starting point is 00:19:59 every morning after camp, before camp. I said, what? You work out before practice? He was like, absolutely. He said that next Friday, when you go out, when you go to D.C., I'm going with you. I was like, all right, come on. Now, you guys are 10 years apart. We're 10 years apart.
Starting point is 00:20:17 We go to D.C. We get to D.C. Probably 9, 45, 10 o'clock. He's tapping me on my shoulder 11th is time ago. I'm like, really? We just got here. Like, this is horrible. This is Friday night.
Starting point is 00:20:33 This is Friday night. So you can at least rest Saturday for game Sunday. Yes, before game Sunday. So he's like, he did it twice with me. And then I said, you know what? I get it. I get it. I'm done.
Starting point is 00:20:45 Because I get it. You're basically saying I'm wasting my time going all the way down there, trying to drop all all the way back. Okay, great. And that was the last time I went. He went that one last time with me and I was like, all right, I get it. I got to be a professional. Done, done.
Starting point is 00:21:00 Done. So the crew, because this is a bunch of alphas in the same team together, right? But how did they know you, what did you do to earn the moral authority of I'm the leader of all these alphas? How did that happen? So I was very vocal by 98. 98 I had took over to culture. And coached was cool. Like Marcha Broda was our first coach and then Brian Billet came in.
Starting point is 00:21:28 By the time Billet came in, our culture was set. That's our leader. That's who we're following. And it ain't changing. from there once you started to add pieces like rod and all these other pieces it started to become really attractive because we was like from an IQ level we was like man do you know nobody cannot move the ball on us like PB we was actually negotiating in in film rooms they will not get a yard I'm talking about one yard give somebody this football and run that same play and I'm looking at Sam and goose saying and you think he's He's going to block you, come off, slip you, climb up to me, and you let him? No way, bro. No way.
Starting point is 00:22:10 So I'm going to say, Marvin started to realize I don't have to coach him. I really don't. He used to be a mean sometimes, and sometimes we'll do some stuff crazy. And I would like, I say, Mark, coaches, man, y'all going, y'all going here. Coaches get him and walk out. I get up there, bro. Y'all, are you freaking kidding me? And it used to get, like, heated, but we love these.
Starting point is 00:22:33 other so much that we had to go through the hard corrections. How do you call each other out? What's the method of call out? Oh, you call out exactly what it is. Bro, don't you ever sell me out like that again? Like that? Just like that. It's simple. So if a guy fights back and says, what are he talking about? No, no, no. If it's fighting is one thing. I'm talking about guessing. I'm talking about doing something that you know is totally against the defenses, the defense's mythology. Like we had a defense and we built the defense. You got to.
Starting point is 00:23:03 Remember, we went 50 straight games without seeing 100-yard rushing. And you guys in 2000 broke that one record, right? The fewest points given. Ever. Yeah. Yeah, and yards. We were a problem. Did you say 50 games, no 100 yards?
Starting point is 00:23:22 Yeah, straight. Stop. Look it up. 50 games, no 100 yards. Look it up. Oh, my God. And you know who that streak started with? Who?
Starting point is 00:23:32 Barrett Sanders. You know who it ended with? Who? Cory Dillon. Wow. Cincinnati? Corey was Cincinnati? Yes.
Starting point is 00:23:38 And Corey had a 278 game. Did he have a two, I think he had a 278 game, 250 games. Yeah. 50 games. Yeah, straight. Look at it. Write it down. Holy shit.
Starting point is 00:23:53 Write it down. And so, Rob, can you do me a favor? 50 games in a row over three plus seasons, man. Are you? And by the way, who did you guys face? So you face Barry. Hold on. Corey Dillon, who would have a running back?
Starting point is 00:24:06 Jerome Bennett's twice. Corey Dillon twice. Eddie George twice. That's an important one. Very important. Very important. Yeah, man, we had that, we had that bullet. And the other one was Fred Taylor.
Starting point is 00:24:22 Is he Jackson? Yes, Jackson. We had a dog conference when you talk. And then back in the day, they were running the ball 45 times. It's no secret. This is old school, I back, give me a full back. Yeah. Damn.
Starting point is 00:24:35 See, I don't know this. I didn't know the 50 games in a row in no 100 yards. No. Who did you face yourself where you're like, ah, shit. These guys are not only capable, but they're also smart. And they impose fear as well. Who was that opponent? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:52 Yeah, so I think one of the thing we always got to, because I played in three different eras. So it's kind of like what era are you? Totally. Right. 17 years of played. Yeah. Yes. And when I first got there, our Nimitz was like Jacksonville.
Starting point is 00:25:07 You know, they had Keena McCardo, Mark Puneal, Jim Jackson. Oh, man, they had Fred Ted. They had, Jesus, Tony Buselli. They were loaded. They went to the F.C. Championship their first year. And then it started to switch into like Tennessee became this thing. But Pittsburgh, we just hated Pittsburgh naturally. And then I think the biggest rivalry
Starting point is 00:25:33 Then it turned into the Colts for a while Because we was, you know, in the AFC, NFC championship I mean, AFC championships And then Then it just became Whoever thought that they could actually have a good day on our defense So that's what the whole thing was Like 2005, 2006.
Starting point is 00:25:53 2006 stats, stupid sick I gave Peyton Man at five field goals in the division around and lost. yeah yeah we had a rule we had an unwritten rule never leave your brother never leave your brother that's why i think like when you watch the game now man it suffers because the way when i when i transition from rod wilson and then was blessed with ed reed jesus i'm like lord you gotta be looking out for me. If that's the football players
Starting point is 00:26:30 you got me playing with. But it was a mentality. Ed was also fun to watch. Yay. He was fun to watch. Oh, gosh. But are you, I ask Kobe, I said Kobe,
Starting point is 00:26:39 how many time would you go to, you know, management upstairs and say, hey, we got to go get Barnes. We got to go get this. We got to go get that. How many times did you recruit in the game? It's like, hey, Ed, when are you coming down here? Would you do that?
Starting point is 00:26:52 Would you recruit players during the game? Every year. Every year. Who? Everybody. I did most of my recruiting at the Pro Bowl. So that's when the Pro Bowl was the Pro Bowl, right? So a lot of the guys was coming up,
Starting point is 00:27:08 their contracts was coming up, a lot of the guys didn't want to play. I was literally 30 seconds from Peyton Man and saying yes to come to Baltimore. Me and him sat in. We sat in Hawaii. And we're sitting at the bar, and we stayed there for hours. And I'm saying, look, if I put you on one side, you leave me on the other side,
Starting point is 00:27:37 and me and you go at this thing together, what the fuck? I sold him, I sold him, I sold him, I sold him. And then at the last minute, he ended up staying on. But so I, and I did it. Did you follow up with him on the other side? Yes, man. I follow up with everybody, P. God darn it.
Starting point is 00:27:54 That was the one thing. So the one thing in my whole career, there's another statute, you'd be crazy about it. The one thing in my whole career that was just crazy is we couldn't find one solid quarterback. When we were dominant, dominant, we had journeymen in and out. I almost want to say in my career, probably 20, 21, 22 quarterbacks. Wow. Yeah. Wow.
Starting point is 00:28:22 I remember you guys nobody looked at you guys from the offense side defense would win the championships with you and if you guys had a decent quarterback rate let me let me put it to you this way if you had
Starting point is 00:28:36 if you had a Peyton if you had a Rothesberger if you had one of those guys how many would you guys have won in those 17 years? Yes that's you know what like that's always the tough thing with sports right because what made us even
Starting point is 00:28:50 hungrier is because what we didn't have. So we knew we wasn't going to score. You know, like, yeah. So see, that's 13. And that's just, and that's just pure, that's just guys who were just, like, named the starters. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:05 That you're actually seeing. But the guys that was under them that actually started. Trent Dillfer was a good, when I, when I watch him do his, what do he call it, commentating. Yeah. He does actually very good job. But you'll see guys take shots at him as a guy that won
Starting point is 00:29:20 as a starting quarterback, you know, I don't know how many yards yet that season, $2,800. Can you pull up that season what Trent Dillfer's stats look like for that year? Type in 2000 Trent Dillfer stats. And by the way, he seems like the nicest guy. I don't want to feel like we're taking shots at the guy. And this is why I'm going to, you know, yeah, I'm going to make sure I. There's no way that's the stats.
Starting point is 00:29:43 Yeah. No way that's the stats. Wait. No, no. But see, you've got to, so understand, but you got to understand something. Go a little bit lower. I'm not trying to be funny. Don't do my boy like that.
Starting point is 00:30:05 Don't do my boy like that. In four games, he threw three touchdowns, one interception, 590 yards. Completion is 49.4. Yeah. He's got a rink. So, look. This is why it worked. He was the perfect person at the right time, right?
Starting point is 00:30:31 We knew what we were limited at. We knew it, but we had two animals. We had Jamal Lewis, fresh off his rookie year. We had Priest Holmes backing him up. Our offensive line was steady as they can be. We had the right tight ends. We had quadri outside. We had Jermaine Lewis on the inside with special teams.
Starting point is 00:30:52 So two out of three categories, we're going to win every week, which is special teams in defense. Guaranteed, we're going to get one punt return to the career, but we're going to beat you up on offense, right? I think we gave up, well, four shutouts. We had four shutouts that year and probably gave up another six points. By the way, I got Corey Dillon right. Corey Dillon was 278. Jamal Lewis had a 295 game. 295, yeah, against Cleveland.
Starting point is 00:31:14 So Priest Holmes was... With us. What era of his career was he with you? The first part of it, we, we, priests came us first. And then he went to KC? Yes. We let priests go for. Why did you let priest go?
Starting point is 00:31:28 God darn it, Patrick, you're going to give me a headache right now. Wow. Seriously. Priest was a freaking monster. So, so remember this, though. He was, he was spotty because Jamal was so dominant. So he was spotty. So he was used, but never really utilized the way.
Starting point is 00:31:48 They let him lose his C. Yes, in C.C. So by the time he got the KC, he had so much knowledge, so much experience, playing behind Jay Lou, we're us going to win a Super Bowl. Then by the time, they got a complete football player by the time. Now, by the way, nothing to take away from Jamal. It's not like Jamal wasn't, he was maybe the best running back that year with the type of numbers that he put up.
Starting point is 00:32:09 So, so interesting. So, again, opponents-wise, who did, go back. You know, because, you know, winners, they don't necessarily remember the victories. remember that one game that got away that they should have won. Who did you lose to where you're like, you know, we should have never lost to those guys? And maybe now you're 50 years old, you're at a different age, life is at a different age, you know, you're looking at a different way.
Starting point is 00:32:32 But as a competitor, you know, your highlights are public. Everybody sees them. Clips on any given they can go viral, right? What was the game or two where you're like, we should have never lost that one? Thanks. See, that's what I said, man. It's so many, I played in so many games and so many meaningful games.
Starting point is 00:32:49 that, like the one I told you about against Payton. So Rex was the Rex Ryan. Five field goals. Five field goals. So Rex Ryan was the coordinator, man. The foot fetish, Rex Ryan? Yeah. And I come in, so I tell Ed, I said, bro,
Starting point is 00:33:06 I just got to watch a film before I promise you 19, straight, 19, 19, 20 hours straight. He was like, bro, why are you tearing up? Because I was like, Peyton ain't scoring. He's like, bro, you that mad? I said, bro, listen to me. There's no way in hell. Payton is coming into Baltimore
Starting point is 00:33:26 and getting an eye in zone in Baltimore. So Ed was like, show me what you're talking about. So I sat ahead down. Started breaking it down. I said, look, when he do this, da-da-da-da. When he shifts, oh, man, Ed was like, oh, my gosh, we got it. Next thing I go to Rex, I said, Rex, listen to me.
Starting point is 00:33:47 I guarantee you if you trust me, with the defenses that you're going to call and I'm gonna call they will not get in the end zone he says if they don't get in the end zone I give you my paycheck said Rex they won't score we get on the one yard line
Starting point is 00:34:05 we get on the one yard line with Steve McNair and Jamal Lewis in the backfield and we pop pass and throw an interception stop I'm not exaggerating I'm not exaggerating wow my heart
Starting point is 00:34:26 my heart has never been broken in a game that I know we dominated him at his in his prime man it was it was poetic what we was doing on defense and it was like what
Starting point is 00:34:42 like just stick to the strip run the freaking ball see how to run the ball against New England And what the freak? This is still football. You need one yard. I'm going to trust Jamal Lewis and Marshawn on Lins touching that ball every time.
Starting point is 00:34:57 Wow. But people want to get smart. But that game, I drove home with my kids, man. I got a life lesson out of that game. I drove home with my kids, and my mom was so mad at me. She got to the house, and my kids walked in. And she pushed me up against the garage. She said, look at me.
Starting point is 00:35:14 And I was like, Mom, not right now. She said, you better look at me, boy, stop playing. me, I was like, okay, ma'am, what's going on? She was like, do you understand what you just done to your kids? And the whole family? Nobody in the car said a word because how mad you were. She said, did you do everything you did you do, did you prepare at every level? Were you prepared?
Starting point is 00:35:37 Did you give everything you had? I said, yeah, ma'am. She said, well, then hold your head up high. Oh. Better said than, than swallow. But I met your mom. Your mom was at the house, no?
Starting point is 00:35:53 Yeah. Yeah, I met your mom. We, she played a very big role in your life. Yeah. And what happened with that. But yeah, interesting, when you think about these types of moments as a competitor, because as a fan, you know, you're like, oh, man, they shouldn't give them that. But at least we won the game.
Starting point is 00:36:11 Right. You know, but as a coach or a player who spend the 17, hours preparing before the game. We're like, no, no, you don't understand. I didn't want that touchdown. I wanted to make a statement because this guy, is this after he said no to coming to Baltimore, or is this pre? This was after.
Starting point is 00:36:28 So this is, so this was personal. Oh, my God. By the way, is it true that, you know, why, is it true about the Rex Ryan foot fetish stuff? He talks about it, you know, he says something. Does he say stuff like that around the players where? Let me just say this, man. That's the one person that whatever he thinks,
Starting point is 00:36:47 He's going to say it. Seriously, it doesn't matter. He's made for TV, by the way. He's made for life, period. I'm telling him he's on a lot of my coaches, man. If a chick got great feet, I'm looking. Did he say that right? He didn't say that.
Starting point is 00:37:05 Did he really say if a chick's got good feet, I'm looking? There is no way he said that. Yes, he did. Reg said it said, I promise that he said. Wow. I think there's a clip. my wife's feet like i don't know what it is but if a chick's got jacked up feet i'm out i don't care how gorgeous i'm out i don't know what the hell it is but it's like some people are boom guys
Starting point is 00:37:33 was he fun guy too yes was he yes yes who was the toughest who had the highest expectation who was like you know nothing was ever enough marvin really marvin yeah Marvin built Marvin built that like because he he didn't take nothing like from no one and that's why I say that's why I think we we grew into like respecting each other a certain way as men and that's why I think everybody in that locker room started to kind of feel that halfway through the season for sure did he win a chip or no he didn't win it Marvin yeah he was so Marvin's the one he was the general but but then when did bill uh coach right up so who did you win with you won with the two coaches that one were who billick and harbour billick came in 99 2000 remember
Starting point is 00:38:28 tad marchibrola was gone right bill it came in i remember him when he came in yeah left marvin the same i mean left all the defense the same we we was picking up a bully by the time he got there and then 2000 that was the year that was so so he never won a championship though Marvin never never one as a head coach. Oh no, not a head coach, no. Never as a head coach. No, because then he went to Cincinnati. Right. Yeah. And so he is kind of like a, would an example of Marvin be a Mark Jackson or a dungee? Yeah. Yeah. More on the dungeon side, but yeah, for sure. He's just, he's just one of those brains, man. Like his brain was dedicated and he was more of, even to men, he was more of a father than he was a coach.
Starting point is 00:39:17 I know he was. Yeah. Quiet strength. Yes, Lord. Yes. TD, my God. He built Tampa Bay, right, before he left him. Then Gruden came in.
Starting point is 00:39:26 Yeah. So that's interesting when you think about these coaches. So I found a clip. Rob, if you want to find this clip, the clip on one of the best clips from Hard Knocks. Remember when we would watch this as fans. You want to play this one here? Maybe you haven't seen this in a while. Go for it.
Starting point is 00:39:44 Look at this. Too many times. He did he do it out, man. Big boy moving like that. Damn. He was so funny. See, and that, so that's what I'm telling you about. what had happened to the culture.
Starting point is 00:40:20 It was a culture shift. When those young guys got there, they were like, it's five lions over there that we do anything they say. Anything they say. And that's what I say by the time we got to probably the fourth game,
Starting point is 00:40:33 people we had figured it out. Once Jacksonville put up, Jimmy Smith put up 222 yards on us, and I was so pissed off because we put our smallest corner, Duane Starks, in a bad position playing a couple ones
Starting point is 00:40:49 and all these different things and after that game probably the rest of the year we may have blitz what maybe seven to ten times if that if that yeah
Starting point is 00:41:00 what was Shannon Sharp like as a teammate what Shannon was the hardest worker him and Rob was very similar because they came from the old school culture and him already winning Super Bowls From an offensive perspective, he became Mr. Automatic, right? Like, when Trent needed a play, they're going to Shannon, right?
Starting point is 00:41:24 Because, you know, our receivers was good, quadry and Stokely and all those boys. But when you needed a play, she going to get you a play. Yeah. Was he like 24-7 in the gym? Was he like non-stop training, like more than anybody else? Yeah, yeah. I'm telling him and Rob were identical. And definitely in my young career, they were like, it was a.
Starting point is 00:41:46 It was more of a, their standard was already set. So who they are, how they train, the reason why they train, the reason why they get up every day has none to do it for football. It has everything to do with who they are as a man. And him and Rob was very similar now. The problem with him and Rod is, and because me being so young, because us three started rolling really hard
Starting point is 00:42:08 when the way we was there, I was the mediator because those two could not have a conversation without a full-out fight, a full-out fight. that they argue about every who him and rod every day about what every anything anything like real argument yeah yeah like it's it's the craziest thing you've ever seen in your life and then five seconds later i jump in and say guys stuck cutting this out we can't do this we go back they go back okay so even back did you have an idea like when you're playing with guys and you're thinking post-nifel career do you sit there and say this guy's going to be a coach
Starting point is 00:42:46 this guy's going to be a commentator, this guy's going to be a business guy, this guy's going to be trouble after football because I don't think he has anything to do after football. Did you guys think about that or never crossed your mind? Yeah, yeah, it's two-pronged, but back in when I first got in the league,
Starting point is 00:43:04 the one thing that was, I think, common around the league or common thread was, the only thing on your mind was football because it was a battle that you enjoyed because on Saturday mornings you used to get up and say who I'm knocking out today like who's getting knocked out today
Starting point is 00:43:22 who's not getting 100 yards today right so everything else may have been talked about but in one and out the other it was it was old school man like for me to play in Pro Bowls with Junior Seale Derek Thomas
Starting point is 00:43:41 Dale Carter's Reggie like Wow. It was a different culture. Oh, geez, yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, so I don't think it was.
Starting point is 00:43:51 Reggie, Reggie was. Grown man. Yeah, Derek Thomas had six sacks in the game. I think in college, right? He had six saxony, some number like that. But Shannon Sharp, did you think he was one day going to be a good TV guy personality? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:05 So you knew he was made for TV. Yeah. And would he say he's going to do it? Yes, he had already started prepping. How much before he retired did he tell him? He'd been and started. Oh, so he's known he's going to be doing that. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:17 So you're not surprised by the success he's having with his podcast and TV and him and Skip and Stephen A, all that stuff. No, I'm not surprised. I'm shocked at his content. I would, in a million years, the things that Shannon has said now or did now, I would never believe that Shannon will say or do anything. Like what? Simply, I take drinking. Shannon in my entire career. I've never saw Shannon with a drink.
Starting point is 00:44:47 Ever. Like it was against the law, right? Because he had some, you know, some stuff in his family that he didn't want to follow that. And yeah, and then so I kind of started to watch him and then we kind of went on separate ways because I'm like, hmm, you're going to take that route. I can't go that route. Never can go that route. and that route is to become so worldly that you become popular
Starting point is 00:45:17 because you're talking about ignorance right a lot of times a lot of these gossip conversations that they happen and bringing up all this stuff I'm not going to do that to nobody I'm not in the business for that I'm in life to try to teach people what does it mean to be a better man
Starting point is 00:45:31 or get back to the kingdom you know and a lot of times like and a lot of the guys get in trouble with these podcasts and things man because everybody wants to follower everybody wants to be popular everybody wants to make money but that's a that's a tight that's a tight rope into what you call influence and popularity and the devil has the ability to make you
Starting point is 00:45:56 popular god has the ability to give you influence that when people see you they see an image of him and that's the thing for me that started to switch with not just shannon but just a couple of people I'm like, wow, you would switch out like that? Really? And I would never, ever, why? Because of the respect that I have for my mother, my daughters, my granddaughters, life, period. And I think men, given these new platforms, we've overrode what the platform is actually for. The platform is supposed to help somebody find a new direction.
Starting point is 00:46:35 We don't help. Everybody just gets on. Like, everybody's talking now. Everybody got a podcast. Everybody is the new marriage coach. Everybody's the new relationship coach. And ain't nobody coaching themselves. Because if you were coaching yourself,
Starting point is 00:46:51 when it says power of life and death is found in the tongue, then go back and check out a couple of episodes and ask yourself, do you give life or do you give death? And that's why me personally, yeah, I kind of do my own thing, stand my own lane. When you saw the, I'm sure you saw this incident, OnlyFans, the 19-year-old girl, 50 million, ESP and all the stuff that happened.
Starting point is 00:47:14 Did you and him at all spike? Did you reach out? Did he reach out to you for counsel, Lauren? No. Mm-mm. I didn't. We're not, we don't have that relationship like that. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:47:24 When I was younger, we had that relationship. But, you know, Shannon, Shannon just kind of did some really awkward things, right? And he, and I told him years ago when we was doing TV together, Some stuff came up. And I said, bro, you know me. I'm the last one to get in anything, bro. But for you to do that, yeah, I wouldn't trust you again.
Starting point is 00:47:51 What's going on, everyone? This is your man, Sugar Ray Lewis. Listen, I'm on my neck. I'm trying to connect. I don't care what it is. Let's say sports. Let's say life. Let's say leadership.
Starting point is 00:48:02 Let's say hope, faith, worry, fear, whatever it is. Let's chat. Let's do it. I'm looking forward to seeing you soon. Period. You know, because that's a man. A brother, a brother don't do the stuff he's done. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:48:20 Like, no brother does that to a brother. You're always looking out for each other. So that's why me and him ain't even spoke. And what was funny was when this podcast got ready, when he got ready to do this podcast, the first person he called was me. It's the first person he called I never forget I was sitting in Dallas My son had just
Starting point is 00:48:42 Passed from my overdose And he was like Brough Man I'm thinking about doing this podcast You want to do this podcast with me And I'm like Bro look My mind I'm going through a lot
Starting point is 00:48:56 I got a lot going on And more than that Just personally I don't think our messages match Not on this side of life like they just don't you want to do other stuff and talk about gossip stuff i want to i'm trying to bless people yeah so yeah i ain't talk to shannon yeah however long since that's been 10 plus years um we saw each other at um we saw each other at um the bullies where we was filming
Starting point is 00:49:27 baltimore bullies and we saw each other and we spoke but cordial yeah come on i don't care who you are I forgive my enemies. I pray for my enemies. His name is in my Bible. You know what I'm saying? I don't try to be rude to somebody. Did you see the Sterling Sharp on stage finally going into Hall of thing? What was that moment for you when you see?
Starting point is 00:49:48 Because he talked about it three years ago or something. And then boom, the brothers on stage. But he was so we, oh my gosh. So Sterling, man, to somebody that was that great. Right? And actually just get washed in with the eras. That's all that happened. A lot of these older guys,
Starting point is 00:50:06 they just get washed in with the errors where guys are seeing so much young talent that you forget about somebody who was that dominant. He was a monster. Man, he was a monster. Was he number 85? 84.
Starting point is 00:50:18 84. 84. Man, I'm telling you. But he might, Sterner was probably one of my favorite people to watch. Definitely out of Green Bay. What is that, Rob? I believe those are his career stats.
Starting point is 00:50:32 No, that's not career. because he would do more 17 game average 17 game average damn that's actually that's insane you break down his career and you break it down to 17 game that's what he averaged oh my god that's great that good for him yeah I mean he do you think he gets in if Shannon doesn't give that speech at the Hall of Fame he says how's the field known I'm a Hall of Fame
Starting point is 00:50:57 and I'm the second best player of my family you think Shannon still gets in three years later you mean Sterling gets in and Shannon doesn't say that speed? Yeah, I think he does. You think he still does? I think he does. Okay, got it. When he gave that speed, Shannon, I'm like, look, that was, you know, it was a great message to hear him give with what happened there.
Starting point is 00:51:17 By the way, I looked up the other day. I didn't know this. Again, as we're going through this, I'm going back and digging up a bunch of different things. I said, did he ever play against Dion? No, but you were teammates. I didn't know you guys were teammates. Were you and Dionne Sanders' teammates? Yeah, Prime came to Baltimore.
Starting point is 00:51:34 That was another recruit I had. When he came in, you know, was he still, when you would watch him, he like still has it? Or was like 80%. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, he was way over 80. Yeah, he was still at about 90%. He was still at 90%. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:53 What was he like as a teammate? Oh, man. Yeah, listen. What was beautiful is where he was in his career. And to come there was a blessing to him. Because me and Ed at this time, come on, we're assassins over there, bro. Like, we are magical on designing defenses up to do this. And he came up.
Starting point is 00:52:19 He was like, man, y'all, y'all got full ownership like this? Like, yeah, bro, we play a different style of defense over here. I was like, said, look, stop playing. That's why he started him. because he loved playing all the time. I said, Prime, stop playing. We're not playing. Like, this is serious.
Starting point is 00:52:39 But he was such a, me and him have a really different relationship, which is the most amazing relationship ever. But I think playing with him was, it was dynamic to see someone that can look at you and say, today won't be a good day for you. He, yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:57 Yeah, he would look at somebody and be like, bro, don't worry about it. I got that. You've seen him say that. Listen, man, he's wired differently. Prime. Our language is so similar because we... That's what I...
Starting point is 00:53:11 Yeah, we think. It's like me and Kobe. Me and Kobe sit down, man. Neither one of us are blank. We play guitar hero. And right before we... We're just sitting there looking at each other. I'm like, bro, I'm not blanking.
Starting point is 00:53:24 And he just started laughing. I'm like, bro, we're the same. We don't know nothing. You guys played guitar hero? Yeah. Seriously? Yeah, I flew out of the L.A. The mess with him would get to our heroes.
Starting point is 00:53:36 See, that is right there. Man. Oh, man. But that combo that me and him had in that back, man, I'm telling you, like, you know, because we came in together 96, and we started to actually go into the mental of what he really was thinking about.
Starting point is 00:53:57 And I said, I guarantee you there's no difference in what you're thinking and what I'm thinking. You're telling that to Kobe. You guys came 96. He's picked 13th. I think you're 26. But both of you guys
Starting point is 00:54:09 become the best of that era. Yeah. I'm telling you. And then what was crazy was it's like every time we saw each other, it was always this certain thing we had for each other.
Starting point is 00:54:20 It was like, and he used to whisper something or I whispered something and they would look at each other and just laugh and walk off. I was like, bro, he's like, you still do.
Starting point is 00:54:30 bro, you know what I'm about. Give me a Kobe story. What Kobe's story do you have? My man, it's not a story. It's more of a, it's more of something that confirmed that when you're that guy, go be that guy. So he was in, they played, and I came to the game, and I went in the locker room, whatever. And I walked in and he looks at me and he was like, assassin
Starting point is 00:55:02 I said, bro, it's one way I said, I tell you what let's see who has the longest career with the same team and nobody don't know this but that was crazy because that was one of the things that we discussed
Starting point is 00:55:25 don't ever leave home no matter what So I remember telling him two of the stories that broke my heart, which was Joe Montana, leaving, going from the 49th to Casey, broke my heart. Serious. No, I, I, 90, you got to think now, this is before I had made it in anything. Joe Montana was my favorite player on the football field.
Starting point is 00:55:55 A defensive guy has the offensive guy's favorite player? You got to remember, my defensive prowlitz started fully in college. I played offense 90% of the time in high school. Yeah. Come on, Pete. Full position. Running back. Kick off return.
Starting point is 00:56:14 Punt return. If I touch it, I'm scoring. Pee, I was a bad boy. Yeah. But that's how me offensively. And then by the time, We got on, like, from the defensive side, it was just like, what the break? Because I play safety.
Starting point is 00:56:35 I never played linebacker. In Miami? So my sophomore year, my senior year in high school, my sophomore junior year, I play safety, right? Strong safety. We get in the jamboree, guy get hurt, and my coach comes to me and says, I need you to go play linebacker. And I says, I don't know how to play linebiker. he said, just finding the football. See, I don't know this story.
Starting point is 00:57:02 Yeah, yeah. This is a senior. Yes, this is my senior year. I'm coming off my junior season, safety. I was a little slim, so I wasn't the lineback of prototype because I was 180, right? Because I wrestled 189. You're 180 in college? 180 in high school.
Starting point is 00:57:20 Oh, yeah, 180. But what are you in college senior year? My junior year, I left my junior year. 2.220? Okay, so you're a big boy now. 220, yeah. I was still too skinny for that league. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:57:34 Remember, that league was running the ball 45 times. You needed to be 250 or better. Seriously, you could not. Who's the coach that said, go play linebacker? Coach Ernest Joe. Because we lost the linebacker. Jason Bamberger went down, and he says, go play linebacker.
Starting point is 00:57:56 And I went to the jamboree, was one that we only played in one half. And I think I had like 17 tackles. So I came back to, yep, that's my guy. That guy right there. Lakeland. When I tell you, that guy right there changed my life, he, oh man, he was the toughest coach ever, ever,
Starting point is 00:58:17 coach earned his Joe. And then after that, man, I said, I came to the sideline and I said, I'm never going back to safety ever again. Why? You fell in love with the position? Because I was like, I am close to the, to the freaking football.
Starting point is 00:58:30 Like, that's where I'm born to, that's where I'm made to be. And he was like, okay, stay there. So I stayed there. So two things you said. One Montana switching teams. Who's the other guy that switch teams? Oh, Michael Joy.
Starting point is 00:58:48 Oh, really? Oh, Washington. See, I was die hard. like because I didn't have nothing else but to go watch somebody do what they do right you don't have nothing to eat at night right you're starving I'm starving I don't have dad I don't have none of that so there are certain people on that other team of Joe Montana my favorite was Roger Craig right but Michael Jordan in what he had done and I'm watching what he's done I said to myself like wow and then the news
Starting point is 00:59:25 coming. They say, man, Jordan just got released and traded on the book. I said, what the one of the way? Who does that? Yeah. And crazy stat, crazy enough stat since Michael Jordan departure, since Joe
Starting point is 00:59:40 Montana, Joe Montana departure, neither franchises ever won a Super Bowl or championship since. San Francisco. You ain't got to think of it. No. Steve Young was the only one.
Starting point is 00:59:55 yeah yeah so so you're telling this to Kobe you go 17 he goes 20 but there is a story I don't know if you've shared a story or not you got a phone call from a guy another team who's a very rich guy who Denzel Washington just called out a few days ago saying you haven't won one since 96 or whatever the year is he's talking about 95 95 so did he you told me this at dinner I think a couple months yeah man that was it was a it was a quick free agency thing for me Steve, the owner of the Ravens, basically just said, look, I know what you're going to do. You know, take seven days, you know,
Starting point is 01:00:35 go hang out of my place and just relax, you know, whatever. And I got a, you know, famous, you know, just like opportunity. And I think that's why me and Jerry is just, I think he respects it because I was like, do I leave Baltimore? Do I leave my legacy? to come playing Dallas for three years? Nah.
Starting point is 01:01:01 I'm never doing that. Ever. Did you at all think about it? No. Oh, really? No. So no chance to change your mind. All the money in the world.
Starting point is 01:01:09 Listen, when I came into this business, me and J.O. got off the plane in 1996. We walked in the Owens Mills Boulevard, and I stood right on that. And J.O. I'll tell you this exact story. I said, boy, can you imagine if we had the, If we're at the beginning of something that's legendary, but we at the beginning, this is brand new.
Starting point is 01:01:30 You guys really had that, though. You guys really had that, though. And that's not easy to create. Yeah. And it's like, so for me to ever even think about now, when I started to see certain people, like die hard, I was a Jordan fan, but I was more of a Lakers fan because I was James Worthy was my favorite player of all the time, right?
Starting point is 01:01:51 Big Play Worthy. and when I saw the Lakers start to make all of these different trades with people that I would be like, what? No, don't do that. Like, so then I was like, I, yeah, yeah. Me staying at home was the greatest thing that you will ever appreciate after 50. You don't have to wonder. 17.
Starting point is 01:02:18 How many, what's the most the player played with one team? Is it, what did Brady do with New England? 20. Oh, he did do 20? I think so. Wow. Okay. So, by the way, going back to, did he do 20?
Starting point is 01:02:31 He could, he probably did something like that. He played there for quite some time. Yeah. Sanders, going back to Dion Sanders. Even when he was there, was he still the fastest guy you ever saw in your life? Or had you seen somebody faster than him live, live? Yeah, yeah, but we had... You guys had a wide receiver that was...
Starting point is 01:02:54 Germain Lewis, man. Yeah. I ain't never saw nothing like Jay Lou move. But, you know, Prime was running different then, but I'm telling you, I don't care what it's running different than or not. He was still Prime. That's a different dude. He's a different dude. He's built different. He thinks different. He sees life. It's all... Yeah, it's just different. So, Ray, I'm watching you, and here's what I'm thinking to myself. I had a meeting with a guy today who just sold his business. He's got a painting business that he sold. 20 million bucks made money. He's down here, Florida.
Starting point is 01:03:28 He's, you know, wanting to go into the consultation, starting the consulting firm. And he says, you know, I'm thinking I'm starting consulting firm. I said, tell me the knowledge of how much you have with the painting industry, commercial painting. And he just starts explaining it like science. And I said, you sure you want to leave this business? He says, yeah, I'm done. I say, you sure you don't want to go out of one more time?
Starting point is 01:03:52 Yeah. Do you have a non-compete only in the two states? The other 40 states, I don't have it. I said, so if you took your knowledge to another place, could you start him? I would do it even bigger. Okay. Your know-how.
Starting point is 01:04:05 You broke the record for the least amount of points scored as a defense. 50 games in a row, no 100 yards. Prime goes and becomes a coach. Massive story with him becoming a coach. you're not going to use all that knowledge to go and be a deep like even single a bunch of these guys went in as defensive players became coaches
Starting point is 01:04:25 you don't want to go do that I know there were rumors don't don't don't I wouldn't take this the wrong way I've had too many offers and what God has called me to do is bigger than just football
Starting point is 01:04:40 it's bigger and so the locker room now is bigger right it's global because now I travel the world preaching the gospel I have a different recruitment of knowledge of what does it mean to to overcome redemption fight grit worthiness you know and so I've entertained it too many many times and I've always said I got so much to give to the game but then I realize I really got so much to give to life and that is why I do everything that I do you know through philanthropy and all that other stuff you don't think you could do that with younger players coming
Starting point is 01:05:31 up you don't think you could a hell of a college football coach or NFL coach you could and you press conference doing prayers yeah these opportunities with limelight oh the locker room is it's amazing it's amazing you don't want to get back into it which is why I'm recreating it again I'm doing it I'm building the whole new locker room in business because that's what we're
Starting point is 01:05:55 so put it like this if the game suffered from one thing it's just me the game suffers from just I think the integrity of let men be men right so that's just my perspective right you're talking about like the new cheerleaders or what yeah well no I'm talking about
Starting point is 01:06:12 like let men be men like You can never take a jab out of, out of boxing. Oh, I thought you were talking about the cheerleaders because they got male cheerleaders. No, I thought that's where you're going. Another issue will not go down that road. Okay, got it. Never, never my concern.
Starting point is 01:06:27 But it's a certain lack of leadership that's missing. And when you watch these kids and when you watch all the things that's going on, they have nobody to reach out to. Nobody. right if you if you if i just if i started screenshot and half of my request to you a week you will be like there's no way because that many players in the game players men yeah kids they're broken they are absolutely broken which is why you you see why so many of them
Starting point is 01:07:07 are committing suicides and going down the game life route it's just a bad cycle of out there. And so I've entertained football and I'm going to entertain it again, just not at what the level you're talking about. You don't think so. You would entertain college? Would you entertain college? I'll entertain anything when it comes to the game. I like, I just, I'm just listening. A part of it for me is maybe, and by the way, for the people that are watching this, if you got questions, you can Manette Ray, race on Manette, then I'm sure it gets flooded with a bunch of messages. is Rob, let's make sure we put the link somewhere around here. But, you know, for me, it's, to explain it the way you explain it in a form of science, defense, if you did, let's just say you did get a team, and a, and a team allowed you to give you the controls. Yeah. And you know how you had the rule, which was what, give me the first 15 plays.
Starting point is 01:08:08 If I don't screw, if I screw it up, I'll take your plays, right? And you were able to do that for 11 years, you said. said, right? Give her take. All right. So coach, let me, you know, let me do the thing, Marvin, and I'll do what I'm doing with defense. Okay, great. You know, hey, don't talk to me like that. Please, if you're going to do this, this is my story. What if you find a team and a team says, whatever you want to do with defense, do it your way. We'll give you three years. But you can't. Why not? Because you can't tell somebody to go punch him in the mouth and don't care about what comes next. In college, you kicking kids out for making what you
Starting point is 01:08:40 call targeting. That's not a target. A target is something that's not on the field that you target and you just, that does not supposed to be a part of that. No, hell no. I am built to do that. Don't penalize me. And then kick me out of the game and then tell me I can't come back for the
Starting point is 01:09:02 second half either. Are you freaking kidding me? You're doing that to kids for making a play. Do this homework. If you don't do nothing else, every kid that's been kicked out of a game, tell me how many made it to the league. It's their only chance. Some of them are, it's their only chance, P.
Starting point is 01:09:26 And you take away the physicality of football. And you tell me, I'm sitting in a spot too many times. And this is the narrative now. Oh, that's a terrible player. He's too aggressive. P. I don't know what that mean. I don't know what that means. So as a coach, you think somebody like Nick Sabin and walk away if that was the same?
Starting point is 01:09:52 NIL? No. All of these things forever change what the locker room was built for. The locker room taught integrity. It taught true character. And now it's a free flow, right? Guys can get in the portal anytime they get ready, they can transfer. Oh, if you get mad at the coach and you don't want to stay.
Starting point is 01:10:10 they there, I'm out. Man, what the freak? So you're talking about the way they're just letting players go from team to team to team where you can't build a legacy the way you guys build it. Build it. So you don't like today's game on the way it's set up. I got it. So in a way you're thinking, all right, I'm going to pour into these guys for four to five years.
Starting point is 01:10:29 And you mean to tell me I can lose a two guys because, you know, they're going to say they don't want to be here and they're out. Got it. So don't you think you could be able to shape the mindset of those guys to be locked into you saying, guys, I want 10 years from you. Yeah, you could. but once they let money in, you change that, right? Because now you get a text from your homeboy, which my sons, we sit around all the time,
Starting point is 01:10:51 you get a text from your home boy, he said, hey, man, they're willing to give you a $2 million. And before you even talk to the coach anyway, you're like, I'm getting in the portal tonight. That's how, that's how, that's how, that's how bad it is, right? If you think, if you listen to what Nick Saban said on, like, kind of like, why he's walking away, like there's no relationships or there's no more loyalty in relationships because loyalty
Starting point is 01:11:18 says you come to work every day my job is to challenge you if a coach ain't talking to you that's when you should have a problem but nowadays when coach talked with coaches talk or scream at a player now you take that personal i never took it personal outside of saying don't curse me right i'm good with everything else coach me mike singletary came to me the first thing thing Mike Singleton said to me. I don't know how to coach a person like you. You know everything. I said, yes, you do. Teach me everything you know.
Starting point is 01:11:47 He was like, what do you mean? I said, I'm going to stay out the practice. I met with Mike Singatari every Monday after every practice and we did two things. We watched film and corrected any of the smallest mistake I made and the first thing we did was Bible study.
Starting point is 01:12:05 Really? Every Monday night. Wow. Wow. Wow. Yeah, man. Good for him. No, I asked him. I'm like, I need you to teach me how to be a better man. Right? And what, what, who, as a coach, where was he at?
Starting point is 01:12:21 Was he in a system? Was he a defensive coach? Oh, he was, he was linebacker's coach. He was linebacker's coach? In Baltimore. And then later on he went to San, was it a same friend? Yep, yeah. After that, yeah.
Starting point is 01:12:29 Yeah. Yeah. So, so then would you see yourself more as a college coach or more as an NFL coach? P, I'm telling you, it is. Because I'm thinking longevity. Like, if I build something, they're out. So college, you're only going to get me for two years, right? And then I'm out.
Starting point is 01:12:44 So you can't really build a legacy. You would need to have more of a Nix playbook, right? Yeah. But in the NFL, you may have me for five to 15 years. Yeah. So I don't get emotional a lot, right? But I get emotional when I see one of those players walking off that field. Because I know what 90% of them going back to.
Starting point is 01:13:09 Either you're going to give me a chance to make it through college, or you're going to send me to the streets. And so every time you take away that, and the game ain't going to change now. We've got gambling involved in it. So why is the game going to change? Players get hurt now, and your bet doesn't even void out.
Starting point is 01:13:28 You have to keep the bet, but this is this guy's career. They don't honor us for what we've done for the game. We made the game You know That's the difference of me and billionaires You can be a billionaire And I can guarantee I can do what you've done But there's a fact
Starting point is 01:13:50 You can never do what I've done That's what makes us different That's why so many people are attracted to people Who sacrifice everything Bruce Lees Michael Jordan Carl Lewis Usain vote
Starting point is 01:14:06 Patrick Mahomes, Lamar Jackson. You can't, you can't, you can't, you don't make those. They make themselves. Remember, Michael's a billionaire supposed to watch your language.
Starting point is 01:14:18 I don't want you to upset him because he's going to call you. But did you what I said? I know, I know what you said. So Jordan, so Jordan basically said the same thing. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:14:24 You cut me out of it. So I'm going to be able to do what you've done. Yeah. Which is he go built the billion dollar empire. Yeah. But they can never do it.
Starting point is 01:14:32 Jordan done. Yeah. How's your relationship with them? Oh, we're a brother. or make a sci-fi to I die we got we brus man we me him shack we all brugs Steve Harvey said the entertainer we all we all brus D.L. Hewley we got a very very unique fraternity that's cool yeah King's a comedy man I don't know how many times I watch and piss on myself every time who's your favorite out of the four maybe you can't say
Starting point is 01:15:03 it because you're your friends but is there one you start off with it? I can tell you exactly who mine is. Mine is the best one because not the best. I mimic him. So when I came through. I know which one it is. Who? Bernie.
Starting point is 01:15:19 Yes. I was moving. I kill Bernie. He died too young, man. He died too young, man. When they first started the first Kings of Comedy, where do you think the first place was? Before they filmed it.
Starting point is 01:15:35 the first place. I'm assuming Baltimore. It was in Baltimore. And it was my birthday weekend. So this is not the video. This is... This is not the video. This is before they filmed it.
Starting point is 01:15:47 It was the first one in Baltimore. And I walked backstage and my security says, he says, Bernie wants to meet you, you know? So I go backstage. And as soon as I walk back here, I say, I'm looking for this mother hug. You know, somebody needs to tell me something, you know? he pulled from my pocket out of my house and said you know and I did I did that in front of Bernie and he cried he cried he's the best he's so oh my gosh have you ever saw soul man of course Jesus yeah no he is yeah he he did what was the baseball 3,000 he yeah yeah yeah what was a mr 3,000 but I think he was also in Transformers 1 if I'm not mistaken he was the car salesman in
Starting point is 01:16:35 Transformer 1. Was he? Yeah, he's the, if you go to Trent. That's him. Yeah, he sold the car. Yeah, that's right. That's right. That's right.
Starting point is 01:16:43 He sold the car when the car is. I love him. Yeah, he is. He's, uh, he's, uh, he'll ever be a legend. He's one of a kind. He is. He's one of a kind. So the chances of you going back, quote, coaching.
Starting point is 01:16:55 Maybe, maybe not. So if I have some friends that are texting me saying, hey, should we call them? Should we not call them? Should they call you? Yeah. They should call you. I entertain it. You should call him.
Starting point is 01:17:07 He's willing to take the call. You should call him. I would call him if I'm you. I think, I think, by the way, do you believe in dirty plays in the NFL? Do you actually, in your era, do you think there were dirty plays? Helmet to helmet. Do you consider that dirty play? No.
Starting point is 01:17:25 You don't think helmet to helmet is dirty play. No, you don't control a missile. You launch him. You can't control that, pee. You can't tell a man in middle of that. action oh guess what i'm going to do i'm going to make the biggest play of the game but i'm going to turn my head to the left i'm going to make sure my body does not fall on his body no way you don't think like that let me let me give an example i see a running back you don't saw most my hits i see a
Starting point is 01:17:51 running back i don't see him i want his soul p i'm not p i want his soul p i believe you right so when I go through him, like I'm trying to make an impression that he will talk about me every Thanksgiving for the rest of his life. Somebody going to ask him a question. How does it feel the player against Ray Lewis? Yeah, man. Like, so anyway. But go back to it.
Starting point is 01:18:20 So to you, Romanovsky, not a dirty player. Yes, yes, he's done some dirty things for sure. I mean, he will poke the guys and he's done some dirty stuff. I'm not that type of player. Okay, so what do you call it, the fellow who? hit Antonio Brown, Cincinnati Bengals. Yeah. Dirty play? Dirty play. So that's a
Starting point is 01:18:40 dirty play. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Things that's outside of the context of the game. Now, he may say it was a missile. I'm a missile. What do you do I'm going to do? No, no, no, no. Missals. Missals have a job. What they're doing? Targeting. Yes. Okay. So you're not for targeting.
Starting point is 01:18:58 No, I'm not for targeting. But what I am for is the fairness of the game. I can show you I'm telling you, P, if I sat with you for 10 minutes, I can show you at least 30 hits that the helmet never touched the crown. Pure shoulder, but you threw the flag anyway. And 80% of them stands as a targeting rule
Starting point is 01:19:21 which kicks those kids out of college. You're going to kick my kids out of college. They're babies. No, don't do that. But you respectfully, a referee can make a wrong call and stay in the game, what's the difference? We make the game. So you're going to take the people
Starting point is 01:19:39 who make the game out of the game. Why can you take them out? Because they're replaceable, but only by a number. They don't replace you by integrity. They replace you because of the position. Oh, I need another safety. Yeah, it's crazy.
Starting point is 01:19:56 Yeah, I had Antonio Brown here. We talked about the CT, and he got upset when I asked them about it. I was like, so tell me, you know, no, I'm good. Why would you ask me about that? Why would you ask me about it? And listen, I understand it's a sensitive subject. So I'm not one that sitting here.
Starting point is 01:20:13 But it's so interesting that a guy like you who is in the game defends the game, even though you have peers that were affected by it. But it's almost as if a military, you know, Delta Force is saying, Navy SEAL is saying, dude, this is what we signed up for? What do you think this life is? is that kind of how you view it you you you can't when somebody hit somebody in boxing and they knocked them clean out right you can call that barbaric right you can call that bad you can't take out you you can't take out the cross you can't take out the jab you can't take out the uppercut why
Starting point is 01:20:53 it's a part of the game hitting somebody is a part of the game which is why you put on your helmet and you take both of your chin scraps and they always tell you make sure both of your Both of them are buckled up. Why? Because they're assassins and missiles out here. Right. I'm not, I want the game to be healthy. But we're not, respectfully, we don't buckle up and say to myself, I'm going to hold back
Starting point is 01:21:22 on him a little bit. What? Nah, bro. Yeah. It's, it's, I see this clip, which I'm sure you've seen. Which one. It's Ocho Cinco is narrating. Rob, I don't know if you have this one as well.
Starting point is 01:21:37 It's one of the funniest ones I've ever seen. First of all, he's hilarious. But Rob, I just send it to you if you want to go to text. He's talking about that he tried to hitch you. Yeah. And you didn't even see him. And you dropped him. And he's telling his coach.
Starting point is 01:21:54 Here's narrating. Go ahead, Rob. I hit Ray by accident. I thought I were going to win because he didn't see me coming. I tried to hit Ray when he wasn't looking. Hey, I thought I got a good shot, but I failed. Something ain't right. When that play, when Rudy's coming,
Starting point is 01:22:32 I tried the blindside race. He ran me over. In that moment, it's going that fast. Are you even feeling that? Like, when you saw this. Absolutely not. You don't feel, Chad. How are you going to feel Chad?
Starting point is 01:22:46 Me and him. You know what was interesting about our relationship? So I played it when we started to play them, right? And so he came to me one game, and he says, would you pray for me? And I said, absolutely. every game I was saying about a Bible scriptures to read every Saturday night every Saturday night
Starting point is 01:23:11 yeah and I had about 50 60 70 guys I used to do that too every day yeah he seems like he's a family guy I know he's doing the stuff with Shannon but he seems like he's crazy and lost their mind both of them they're crazy they have lost their mind crazy well to me it sounds like Shannon is is been having fun for a long time but he sounds like he settled down a little bit now look I I don't know that you know he seems like he's got some stories a lot of days a lot of yeah I'm gonna leave it at that so let's talk let's talk a couple of the things and I will wrap it up westmore you said you were a
Starting point is 01:23:54 fan of Westmore uh Baltimore we grew up together I met West Jesus what 20 26, 27. So he's from here? Or you're saying you grew up in America. I got it. I got the Baltimore in 19. I met West that same year. What was he doing then?
Starting point is 01:24:13 Actually, running around, Baltimore coming to games. That's when we was like, I think one of the first pitches we had, like, with Johnny United's and the guys was on the field a few times. And then we kind of, you know, just always stayed in contact from that standpoint. and then yeah and so there are you will see a lot of pictures of me and him and sitting with each other and hanging out of the games and so what was he doing then i mean if you met him at 90 so you guys are a couple years apart what what was he doing what job did he have yeah yeah into politics or not yet okay not yet yeah yeah i think he got wrong yeah i think yeah definitely definitely came
Starting point is 01:24:55 later on yeah and did you know right off the bad there was some special about this guy like Did you feel it? Does he... Yeah, his energy. His energy is incredible. His faith is even better. But who he is as a person, I adore him. Wes.
Starting point is 01:25:11 Yeah, he's just one of those guys. Politically, I think you one time, you and Jim Brown went to the White House who were with Trump. Got fried. Yeah, you got fried. That's back then when you would get fried. Today you won't get fried.
Starting point is 01:25:25 But back then, I mean, it was the first term. We got fried for simple. asking, I wanted to ask him one question. This is when he was president, president-elect at the time. And when I went up there, I said, Papa, I'm following you. So whatever we're going to do, let's do it. And I said, and he says, well, what's the first question you wanted to ask me? And I said, I want to ask a personal question.
Starting point is 01:25:48 I'm going to get fried either way. So let me just get this out of the way. Is there a plan that you have in place to help black communities? Like, you need to talk to my sister, Amorosa, and then let's talk about that later. I ain't got to answer since. So, yeah. He did a lot for the black.
Starting point is 01:26:14 Yeah, that's what I wanted to know. You may have influenced us the question. I wanted to know. Got it. Right? He said, he asked me and Jim. He said, didn't one of y'all vote for me? Absolutely not.
Starting point is 01:26:26 He asked you that. Absolutely. me and Jim said at the same time absolutely not no but I because of what Jim started and me being mentored by Jim for about 15 plus years to see what he's done with America program is similar to my solar program
Starting point is 01:26:48 is similar to everything that why I go in prisons why I help all the communities the way I do why I give back so much why I have a new locker room right that's just it's much bigger and more personal when it talks to like human development and mental health and all these different things that people are going through
Starting point is 01:27:08 and so when Jim introduced me to that side of life like everything changed with me you know because he started to understand like I go in prisons and 50% of the prisons hate me and 50% love me why do they hate you because 90% of them say things that it's everybody else's fault
Starting point is 01:27:32 where you are right like it's somebody else if somebody else had a similar situation whatever yeah it turns it in being whatever it is but that's life though yeah people like you people hate you yeah when you're at the house
Starting point is 01:27:46 birthday party your friends are there you're up there you're you're praying right you were you were emotional you were given an incredible powerful message you're listening to you and I think your prayer went viral if I'm not mistaken
Starting point is 01:28:00 it was all over the place I don't know where it's at but it wouldn't be hard to find it but you know from talking to a lot of your friends you know that were there is that the one I think that's the one
Starting point is 01:28:11 yeah that's what you were wearing you had that hat on yeah is that you no yeah this is that's Jimmy that's Jimmy singing right now though
Starting point is 01:28:19 right right right but when you were up there when you were up there and you're doing what you're doing. I went around and I probably spoke to 70 of your friends. 60, 70, I spoke to Eddie, spoke to Marvin, spoke to a bunch of guys were there, spoke to,
Starting point is 01:28:39 but mainly the pattern I saw, and maybe this is different, I got the feeling most of your friends were conservatives. Yeah. Yeah, I could say that. For sure, actually. And the way you live your life, you, you, you, you, you, you don't like excuses, right? You, you just explained, you joined the NFL.
Starting point is 01:29:04 You're going to get hit. You're going to take that kid out. You chose to play this game. So it's not even like, hey, it's not fair. You know, you chose to this is not this. This is not that. Straight up having that type of conversation of high standards, right? On, on the, would you say yourself, you live more of a conservative life?
Starting point is 01:29:22 Yeah. Faith, values, principles. of course my mom's a pastor and what she's done for me the direction that she gave me for her to introduce me to God so young and for me to fall in love with God was I wait on it every day and I think I just saw so much bad when I was younger that I said I don't want to I don't want to make my mother ever feel like that and that still holds true to this day. That's why at 25 years old,
Starting point is 01:30:00 I stopped cursing. I stopped going to clubs. Never been to a script club since. Don't. Last time I had any type of taste of brown liquor, even when we was out, give me a glass wine, I'm good. Yeah, you put that one thing in there.
Starting point is 01:30:16 Yeah. Like, let me get a couple. But I think it was it was me, P, actually saying that, I was going to do something young, and nobody believed it. And so I said, I'm going to continue to do it. And it became such a thing that you were so alienated
Starting point is 01:30:40 because most kids started disrespecting their moms and their parents. And I'm like, I would never do that. I would never curse in front of my mom. I would never drink in front of my mom. Are you kidding me? No. And that thing is starting to pick up. And then me being a stutterer, I stuttered so bad.
Starting point is 01:30:59 And then for me to travel the world now, I just got through speaking about five, six countries. And I've always had that calmness inside of me. I've never, I used to have to be forced to fight. Like if you wanted to fight me, you had, like this dude would almost hit me in my jaw three times before I fight. So you control your emotions. Oh, man.
Starting point is 01:31:24 the greatest in it because I will tell you I witnessed something with my mom that I promised myself that I would never do anything to ever hurt her because of what she had already endured to see my mom go through the stuff that she was going through man that's tough and I'm like I'm not adding more to that so my motto my lifestyle started at 10 like my lifestyle read my Bible praying every day 14 chasing sunsets reciting our father's prayer I'm 50 years old every day I see a sunset
Starting point is 01:32:04 I still recite our father's prayer and that's when I had one pair of jeans no shoes duct tape wrapped around my shoes same turf afroterves that I had to wear the school
Starting point is 01:32:15 practice and everybody knew it you know kids back in day was harsh oh you don't got no daddy you broke you wear the same clothes of school every day Yes, I do. Then what?
Starting point is 01:32:27 Then what? It still doesn't define who I am. Still to this day. That's why you had never seen me with what I used to do when I was in my 20s and 20s like two years old. Right, when you see, I'm a Middle Eastern myself, you know, family, divorced, the whole nine, 1.8 GPA, trajectory for me was nothing good.
Starting point is 01:32:47 What saved me was military. When I went to the military in boot camp because I had one, the top three high scores for PT, I was able to go to camp with this man's house, and he ended up giving me his Bible that his parents gifted him December 24th of 1974 that I have till today. I'm like, don't give this to me. Trust me, I'm not worth you giving it to me.
Starting point is 01:33:05 So, son, I think you need this more than me. Great. I started praying three times a day, from then till today. I watch my community. I watch, I'm Armenian, I'm a Syrian from Iran. I watch the community. I watch what's going on. When you see community-wise,
Starting point is 01:33:21 and you see single mothers, you see fatherless homes, you see, you know, the stats that comes up, you know, where do you go to? Do you say, well, it's the government's fault? Do you say we should do something about it? Do you say it's systemic? How do you process that for somebody that seems like you're fairly reasonable?
Starting point is 01:33:42 Yeah, it's a lot of different verticals and values inside of all of them, right? So when I got my doctorate just recently in humanitarian, it's what I've been studying the most, which is the dysfunction of communities. Like we're teaching everything about money, but we're not teaching history. Like we teach how to fight.
Starting point is 01:34:07 We don't teach how to love. We stop parenting so iPhones and iPads takes over. We have done everything. the complete opposite of what does it mean to help an individual. We, we, there's, when you think about the structure of what we were not supposed to do, the reason why when I was growing up, you was growing up, the reason why a man was not supposed to see a woman's nipple is because your brain can't process that at five years old. Now, you tell a five year old, I can give you the same gadget with every bit of porn and
Starting point is 01:34:46 every bit of nudity and every woman as a stripper and everybody, what the freak? No, it's broken. All of this fast technology and all of this cute stuff, you're killing our kids and you're destroying our communities. We don't even know what human connection means anymore. Somebody lose somebody, somebody, somebody get killed, somebody die, you send a text. My condolus is great. I appreciate that, but I can't use it.
Starting point is 01:35:16 yeah there's no more connects right a person who really cares they're going to find you they're going to call you they're going to let you hear their voice they're going to let you see them bro i'm with you that so man it's like when you go through the phases of what has happened last year from age 22 to 55 years old we had more men commit suicide than we had the last 100 years those are not just play play numbers one out of 12 children have a suicide plan one out of six carry it through before 10 and the number now of them commit suicides our kids are the ages 10 to 24 that's the most alarming age because they're checking out what so what do you think is missing you think something is wrong with the kids absolutely not is what we're feeding them right
Starting point is 01:36:15 you got half of our country, 78% is obese in our country and these brands that has this legendary following feeds you garbage but we wonder why so many cancers and so many diseases are
Starting point is 01:36:31 just running through our country and we're okay with that? I want to know truthfully I want to know what a man is I want to know what the purpose of a man is I want to know when a man
Starting point is 01:36:46 falls down, how does he get back up? Because my kid's checking out because they don't have those answers. So I don't judge nobody, P. Whatever you go do, go do what you want to do. But I do take a hard stand and saying I won't be a part of it. You think hip hop at a negative impact?
Starting point is 01:37:10 I think all phases of every time technology took off we another wound another wound think about it think about where hip hop is went think about where television has went
Starting point is 01:37:28 think about where video games has went everything shots to the brain full clip you're teaching them how to do it so what do you think you're going to raise What do you think you're going to create?
Starting point is 01:37:46 It's war. It's all that war. And once again, the leadership of that is where that should have been controlled. There's no way that a seven-year-old should be playing call of duty. Are you kidding me? There's no way that our top people are rapping or saying the things they're saying as if they don't got grandmothers, as if they don't have grandfathers or children. The movies, everything, the most violent movies ever,
Starting point is 01:38:18 is probably the most popular ones. So we're desensitized. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know what you're going to do long-term, Ray. I'm curious to see what you're going to be doing because I think, I told you the other day, I said, I don't know if you're starting a podcast, I don't know what you're doing,
Starting point is 01:38:36 you've got to do something more than what you're doing now. Because your method of delivering message is extremely important. I hope you pursue it. I hope you do something with somebody on a panel where you can voice your opinion on current events. I think a lot of times, at least we go back when he was a president-elect.
Starting point is 01:38:55 I think Steve Harvey also went up there. Maybe it was it in 20, I don't know when he went, but Harvey went there and visited it as well. Yeah. When he went, he got crucified too. But there was a time you couldn't talk about this stuff. I think after COVID now,
Starting point is 01:39:08 25, I think everybody's free today to talk. I think there's, And what I mean everybody, today, Chris Pratt was a big-time actors on Bill Maher talking about what's going on. You've got a bunch of guys that are willing to use their platform to talk about it. I hope you do.
Starting point is 01:39:22 I'm doing it. I hope you do. I'm doing it. I hope you do it regularly because, you know, you can have a very different kind of an impact, like what you said earlier, not just entertainment way.
Starting point is 01:39:35 I'm talking actual true impact to kids. And I'd like to see you coach as well for selfish reasons. I just want to see what your defense would look like if you went up there. I think the level of pride would be intense. But anyways, gang, if you're watching this, if you want to ask the man a question, he's on Meneck. Ray, I can talk to you for hours, brother.
Starting point is 01:39:51 This has been a blast as usual. My guy. One of these days, what we've got to do next is do this cigar thing and bring up the... Let's do it. A bunch of guys are asking. We'll figure out part of us both here soon. Let's do something.
Starting point is 01:40:02 Take care, everybody. Bye-bye, bye-bye. What's going on, everyone? This is your man, Sugar Ray Lewis. Listen, I'm on my neck. I'm trying to connect. I don't care what it is. let's say sports, let's say life,
Starting point is 01:40:14 let's say leadership, let's say hope, faith, worry, fear, whatever it is. Let's chat. Let's do it. I'm looking forward to seeing you soon.

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