PBD Podcast - “They Cut You Off From Everyone” - Cult Deprogrammer Breaks Down 764 Network, Scientology & NXIVM | PBD Podcast | Ep. 699
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His question is very innocent.
How does one start a cult today?
Well, the times have changed.
So if you wanted to start a cult today, you would do it online.
You'd have your social media accounts, you'd stream,
and all of these things that I'm describing have, in fact, been done by cult leaders.
This is the new way in which cults thrive.
But what is the point where they go to now sacrifice your life?
The leader starts telling you that the outside world is evil.
This is when it starts.
getting very dark. And then the leader can say things like, let's attack the Tokyo subway
system. Or you can have a situation which recently happened. Paul McKenzie told his people to
fast and pray because the end of the world was coming. And over 400 bodies have been recovered
in Kenya. Are you following anything with Diddy? Yeah, I followed it a bit. I don't necessarily
see him as a cult leader, but I see him as using cult-like techniques of coercive control
to dominate and manipulate women.
Cassie felt he loves me, he's going to take care of me,
and then it changes and morphs into something entirely different.
Here's a conclusion I've come up with.
Somebody may listen to you and say,
what are you talking about, Rick?
Jews don't doctrinate?
Like, it's full-on cult-like to convert.
Let me just finish, and then you'll see where I'm going with this.
Everybody is an occult, including you.
I think you're an occult.
Did you ever think you would make it?
I said I'm supposed to take sweet this life myth for me.
Adam, what's your point?
The future looks bright.
My handshake is better than anything I ever size.
It's right here.
You are a 101?
My son drive, I don't think I've ever said this before.
I don't know what the name of the movie was, but maybe score is what it was called.
Score with Robert De Niro.
Anyways, we're having conversations about how much we both respect Edward Norton's movies.
But he was not a cult leader, right?
He's not a cult leader.
No.
Maybe Fight Club.
Yeah.
In Fight Club, he played...
Maybe Fight Club.
He kind of played a cult leader.
and also in the movie that he followed a man who led a hate group.
What was that?
Primal Fear?
No, in X.
American History X.
Yeah, in American History X, he followed a hate group leader,
and that leader was charismatic,
and he was enthralled with him, and he followed him,
and eventually realized that it was a mistake.
but I think that's a typical
a typical story of someone
who becomes disenchanted in a cult
And then the story ends with him
trying to get his brother out of him
And his brother ends up, you know how the movie ends
where
It's a wild ending to a movie
But okay, we're not going to talk about movies today.
Today we're trying to learn how
you identify as a deprogrammer, right?
You're a cult specialist
and a deprogrammer, and you've done this
to over 500 patients
of yours, right? Over the years.
So, you know, we have
one of our guys in the back who's
Humberto, he came in this morning
and he's begging me to ask you this one question.
He said, Pat, please start with this question.
His question is very innocent.
Some may call her a dumb question, but
they say there's never a bad question.
He said, how does one start a cult today?
He's interested in starting to call today.
He wants to have a cult like following.
He wants people to be crazy about him.
and he's wondering if you wanted to do that, how do you do that today?
Well, the times have changed, and so if you wanted to start a cult today, you would do it online.
This is the new way in which cults thrive and recruit people and raise money.
So you'd have your social media accounts, X, Facebook, TikTok, you'd stream, you would have websites, you'd have a YouTube channel, you might book
a retreat through Airbnb. And all of these things that I'm describing have in fact been done by
cult members, excuse me, cult leaders to pull in members. And so they recruit online, they get
money online, you know, PayPal, VEMO, and everything happens online. And that is the new world of
cults. Almost any of the old cults that were established have now
reinvented themselves or rebranded themselves online.
And people who are aspiring to become cult leaders begin typically online.
So, okay, and I want to talk about that because the question that becomes,
is it easier to be a cult leader today or 50 years ago, pre-social, pre-cell phones,
pre-all-that stuff.
But prior to that, is the word cult, where does the word cult come from?
Does it come from culture?
Because it's a bunch of different words that it comes from.
Where does cult come from?
Well, you know, it's a, I believe, you know, from a language standpoint, it would go back to Roman times.
But the word cult has a range of meaning.
So, for example, you could have a cult following.
You could have a podcast and have fans that are very devoted to you, and that could be called a cult following, like Taylor Swift and the Swifties.
or you could be obsessed with shopping at Trader Joe's,
and that could be called a kind of cult following.
But when we use the word cult,
typically what we're talking about is a destructive cult.
And there are three core characteristics
that form the nucleus of virtually every definition of a destructive cult.
And that would be number one,
that you have this dictatorial leader
who becomes an object of,
worship. And that leader is the defining element and driving force of the group. So it could be like
David Koresh, Keith Ranieri, Jim Jones, Charles Manson. And whatever the leader says is right is right.
Whatever the leader says is wrong is wrong. And the leader dominates and controls everything.
And then number two, that leader uses identifiable techniques of coercive persuasion and thought
reform to gain undue influence over his or her followers. And then once they have that undue
influence, they use it to exploit and do harm to the people that follow them. And that varies
by degree from group to groups. Not all groups are mixing the Kool-Aid, as they say, to poison
and kill their members through some kind of mass suicide or engage in criminal activity.
Most cult leaders are really interested in cash, adulation, and maybe sexual favors.
So that is what defines a destructive cult, those three core characteristics.
Cash, adulation, and sexual favors.
All right, Humberto, there you go, buddy.
So I'm sure, you know, sex.
All right, so cash, adulation, and sexual favors.
Okay, so the word cult comes from culture.
the word by itself is not a bad word
is the people
who have, who use their cult-like following
to harm and take advantage of people
rather than those, like I would say Joe Rogan's got a cult-like following
I'm sure you would agree.
Yeah.
I would say, you know, Rinaldo has a cult-like following, right?
A massive cult-like following.
There are many actors and singers and comedians
that have cult-like following.
Podcasters have cult-like followers.
but what's the switch like if you look at the pattern of a guy that uses their influence
and they're cult-like following to turn it into hurting somebody harming somebody
what is that switch what is where are those guys willing to go to that others with high
influence don't what's the difference what's the place they're willing to go to
where we're going is that basically the leader takes control
of critical thinking and decision-making and value judgments.
And the followers become increasingly socially isolated
because the leader influences them to cut off family, old friends,
and to embed in this, if you will, bubble or alternate reality controlled by the leader.
So as the leader takes his following further and further away from their moorings,
their family, their community, and isolates them, they become very easily influenced because they have
no other frame of reference. And everyone around them, by a deliberate process, is a member of this
group. So if, for example, you look at someone else and say, hey, I think what the leader's saying
sounds kind of crazy. The person next to you, what are you talking about? He's all
powerful. He's wonderful. We should just go along with him. So there's no way to get accurate
feedback as you become more and more embedded. And then once you lose your friends, your family,
you're socially isolated in this group, and the leader starts telling you that the outside world
is evil. Everyone is really negative. They're awful. And only the people with
in this group are right and good, and we need to protect ourselves. We need to defend ourselves
against the persecution and the onslaught from the outside world. This is when it starts getting
very dark. And then the leader can say things like, let's attack the Tokyo subway system,
which Shoko Asahara, the leader of Amshin Riccio did, and thousands of Japanese in the 90s were
hospitalized, many died, or you can have a situation which recently happened in Kenya where
the leader of this group called the Good News International Church, Paul McKenzie, told his people
to fast and pray because the end of the world was coming, and over 400 bodies have been
recovered in Kenya. So once... How did they die? How did they take their lives? They died from
starvation, and hundreds of them were children. And so not only did the adults fast and pray
and starve to death, but their children did as well. And this is one of the most horrible things
about destructive cults. Can you pull up the picture of the leader? Please continue. Go forward.
Yeah, this is one of the most horrible things about destructive cults is we can talk about the
process of undue influence and coercive persuasion and how people are bent to the will of the
leader. But, you know, their children are simply brought in by their parents who think the
group is good and the children then become captives, if you will, of the cult. And many times
children are hurt terribly. I recently have been involved in helping the children of a group
called Lev to Hore, which is a spin-off of ultra-Orthodox Judaism.
This is a group that has members from New York, from the United States, Canada, and Israel,
and after fleeing multiple investigations for child abuse, they ended up in Guatemala,
and they created a compound outside of Guatemala City.
Eventually, the authorities rescued over 150 children from that compound who were being horribly mistreated
and sexually abused, physically abused, not receiving proper care, food, medical care.
And this is what happens in destructive cults is the children suffer because they were brought
into this group or born into this group and they have no other.
choice. Yeah, but what I want to know is, what is the, everything you said at the beginning,
you know, they tell you the world is negative, stay positive, you know, so, okay, that to me could be
a Tony Robbins. That could be some motivational guys. You know, you have to protect yourself from
negativity from the outside. Sometimes your own family doesn't want the best for you. You know,
it's not about, you know, the family isn't just about blood. It's about who's with you today when you
have big dreams and you want to do some. Okay, all of this stuff we've heard a million times
from a lot of different people, right? Okay. So all that's good. Some of that stuff has some
truth behind it. You know, when you're going out there, people, even parents would probably
teach that to their kids. But what is the point where they go to now sacrifice your life and
what would the three words you said, cash, agulation, and sexual favors? What is that tipping point?
that tipping point is when you become so socially isolated within the group unlike a motivational
speaker you go to their seminar you leave you rejoin the world you take with you whatever
principles they may have taught you and to some extent some of the themes used by cults can be
seen in in other areas in the world and that's part of the facade of destructive cults is that
they are going to project a positive image, they're going to put forth a kind of mask that
doesn't let you see what is behind the door, what the more dark demands might be of the
group. So unlike a seminar, you know, let's take Nexium. Nexium was a seminar selling company
that did a self-help motivational kind of seminars. People would go off, they'd do a 13, 14,
day intensive. They would be assigned a coach. They would go through a training process that was
dictated by a manual. And behind all of this was Keith Renary, who they called Vanguard. What the
difference is... This is from Nexium. Yeah, this is the leader of Nexium, which really was
congregating around Albany, New York. And Renary would eventually be...
arrested, tried for sex trafficking, fraud, various things, and now he's in prison for 120
years. But when the people became involved, they had no idea what Renary's darker intentions
were, where he really wanted to take them. They thought it was like other self-help groups,
motivational speakers, etc. Where it changed was it became more
more demanding, and it became a complete way of life. In other words, you don't just come here
and learn what we have to teach you and then take it home and then use it and goodbye and get on
with your life. We become your life. We consume your life. We expect you to move to Albany,
New York, so that you can be close to Vanguard, Keith Ranieri. We want you to recruit people. We want you to
recruit people. And if anyone in any way, shape, or form is criticizing what we're teaching,
we want you to cut them off, disconnect from them. And so that's very different than a Tony Robbins
or some type of motivational speaker. Tony Roberts certainly has his critics, but I don't
think anyone would say that, you know, he has a compound. People have given up their lives to
be with him and live near him and that their life becomes completely controlled by him.
Got it. I just found a clip of his most recent thoughts he shared before he went away
sentenced to 120 years in prison. Is this it, Rob? Can you go back to the one you just had? I just want
to know how the guy speaks. What's his tone the way he?
speaks. Can you press play? They called him Vanguard, the founder of Nexium, a shadowy self-help
organization described by federal prosecutors as cult-like. Keith Ranieri has not spoken publicly
since his arrest more than two years ago. But now just days from being sentenced on federal
charges, he is talking. You know, one of the things that's most important in our country is
the justice system. And although, you know, people can hate me and do and think I'm an O.D.,
type of a character, you know, awful, actually.
Both the devil and the saint should be able to get the exact same treatment under our justice system.
Today, Ranieri spoke with, of all people, the man who helped bring him down.
Webb journalist Frank Parlato, a former nexium spokesman.
Parlato himself has pleaded not guilty to tax and other charges that originated from his nexium involvement.
You plan all 14 steps ahead on.
If you have seen the HBO docu series The Vow, Parlato's name may ring a bell.
Parlato broke the story that a group within nexium was treating women as sex slaves and branding them with Ranieri's initials.
You've got to be kidding.
Reneery was convicted in 2019 of sex trafficking, forced labor conspiracy, and racketeering.
Do you intend to make a statement at your sentencing that you are innocent?
Yes.
I am innocent.
And although it is, this is a horrible tragedy.
We can pause it right there.
You've spent a lot of time with Keith.
Oh, yeah.
How many hours have you spent with Keith?
Many hours.
I sat through his deposition.
He sued me.
Interesting story.
Basically, I deprogrammed people that were involved in Nexium for families.
I worked with victims.
And I facilitated reports being.
written by a clinical psychologist and a forensic psychiatrist analyzing the seminar training
that Keith Rennary used, which, by the way, he ripped off Scientology.
He was really a plagiarist because many of the things that he taught were lifted directly
from Scientology.
For example, calling people that were critical of nexium suppressive people or suppressive persons.
SPs.
SPs, urging people to disconnect from SPs.
This was right out of Scientology.
So Rennary, what he did was he put together something that took a little bit from
landmark education and seminar structure.
That was from 40 years ago, 30 years ago.
Landmark and PSI and there was a couple programs like that back in the days.
And they would call you at the end crying.
I'm so sorry what I did to you.
I'm like, why is this person calling me?
I'm at this thing called Landmark Forum, and, you know, I just really messed up.
I should have never said that.
Please, you just took me back 30 years, 25 years.
So, Landmark just recently went bankrupt, but they were ongoing up until very recently.
And by the way, they also sued me and lost.
But the point is that Ranieri was not an original thinker.
He cobbled together, and many cult leaders do this.
They copy other groups.
They may have been in another group before.
they created their own.
And so what you end up with is a composite.
Rennary's composite was a little bit landmark, Scientology,
Einrand, the philosophy of objectivism,
and the multi-level marketing he learned as an Amway distributor,
and later he created his own MLM called Consumer Byline,
which was sued out of existence by attorney generals of various states.
Rennary was soft-spoken. He seemed like an introvert. He lied about his background. He was a genius. He was a stellar student at university.
And he said he had like a 240 IQ or something like that. You know, he had a 2.26 GPA.
The man was an average student. This came out in deposition and sworn testimony. He lied about all that.
So what he really was was not a very smart guy because he ended up in prison for 120 years.
He could have done a correction along the way and avoided that.
Instead, like many cult leaders, he fed on his adulation,
and it led to a kind of hubris and arrogance that ultimately meant that he kept escalating his bad behavior,
you're hurting more and more people, thinking he could get away with it forever, and eventually he was held accountable.
And I would agree with him. He is odious. He is a very negative person. But the way he projected himself was as a kind of philosopher king, quiet, soft-spoken, not the brash, charismatic kind of extroverted cult leader that you typically see.
but he was able to pull people in
and the people who were pulled in
they went through intensive
after intensive after intensive
so by the time the women were branded
and there were quite a few of them
that were branded with a cauterizing iron
and no anesthetic
and Keith Ranieri would watch
remotely
and these women
they had been through so much
by the time that that event occurred, that you have to rewind it and understand that this took
years of what we would call brainwashing before they reached that point.
And in fact, it was a medical doctor, a DO, that eventually lost her license that did
the branding with the cauterizing iron.
And she was that caught up in Renary's alternate reality.
and of course you had the actress Alison Mack
and she was brought in by another actress Kristen Kruke
from the series Smallville
and these were successful women who had very good careers
and thought that Nexium would improve their lives
and then I worked with Catherine Oxenberg
who is best known from the series Dynasty in the 80s
and her daughter, India Oxenberg, was also brought into the group.
And at that time, Catherine Oxenberg's husband, Casper Van Diem, also went to some of the training.
But eventually, Catherine and Casper Van Diem would drop out of nexium.
But the problem was India was still in.
And she would eventually be branded and go through a horrible...
She was branded?
Yes.
and she would go through a horrible process of being separated from her family,
turned against her family, you know, incommunicado.
And Frank Parlato, by the way, was originally hired by Keith Renary as a kind of fixer
and PR guy.
I think, as I recall, part of what his job was was to deal with me.
And let me backtrack and say that there were these two doctors,
a clinical psychologist, a forensic psychiatrist who wrote three reports about nexium that were withering
in their analysis. I put that online and published it. That is why Rennary sued me. He wanted to
shut down any kind of discussion of his training online. He wanted me to remove those reports.
And I refused to do that. And he sued me for 14 years.
And eventually, that suit was dismissed, and then subsequently he was arrested.
In fact, I testified at his trial.
You testified at his trial.
Yes, I did.
You had a one-on-one conversation with him.
Oh, yes.
You know, we went through what's called court-ordered mediation.
The lawsuit was in federal court, and the federal judge ordered that we get together
and try to negotiate a settlement.
And I'm telling you, that was an interesting experience, sitting with a cult,
leader trying to negotiate a settlement from this harassment lawsuit. And I can remember that very
well. What vibes did he give you? Like, you know, think movie characters. Like, when you think
about movie characters, you know, the character Kaiser Soce from the usual suspects, right? I don't know if
you know, Kaiser Socee in a movie Usual Suspect. Think about, you know, Edward Norton from
Primal Fear. What character can you tell us what he was like when you were negotiating?
with him? I don't know. He was like a little, he's a very short guy. I mean, I'm not very tall. I'm
5'7. And he was quite a bit shorter than me. Not impressive at all. And by the way,
he literally stank. I mean, the guy didn't. Stank? Yeah. He smelled. He smelled bad. He wasn't
too big on showers. He was ill-kept. He was an odd guy. And he tried to come across as a deep
thinker, very quiet, but when he was confronted, he would blow up. So what happened in the
negotiations that we had was he kept running his philosophy, which is called rational inquiry,
which is a bunch of junk, that he used to subdue people their critical thinking. And he kept
throwing that out at me and saying, you don't understand, listen to this.
listen to that. And I looked at him at one point and I said, look, Keith, I don't care what you
believe. I'm not interested. What I'm here to do is court-ordered mediation and settlement.
And that's what we're here for. And he would keep starting up. And finally, I looked at him and I said,
Keith, you know, what I think is you're a cult leader and you brainwash people and you're
destructive and you hurt people. And that's who you are. And nothing you say is going to change.
what do you say to that? He kind of blew up. You know, he got very red-faced. His voice shook,
and he was very upset. And I could tell that in the bubble that he inhabited, where no one ever
criticized him, that was just, that was the cardinal sin. So he went directly from that into a deposition
in which he was asked many questions about his life, his past. By the way, those depositions are now
online. And I also met Nancy Salzman, who was the second in command of nexium.
Can you hold that thought? This is a clip I found of Keith from 1980s. I just want to know how
this guy speaks. Can you play this clip, Rob?
What is Pac-Man fever and who's likely to get it? Now, just about anyone.
What does this have to do with Keith in Iraq? Do you know?
Is you about to come up?
Fast forward a little bit.
See, if he's anywhere there.
Right there, okay, let's see it.
Major from RPI, Keith Wineer,
who has scored over 2 million points with a single Pac-Man.
This is like the Ruby Cube to certain extent.
A lot of people play just competitively, but it's actually like a puzzle.
And because the game appeals to women, there's a new version on the scene.
What a way.
So, okay.
Yeah.
Seems like a regular guy.
I don't know about that.
In that?
I mean, there were stories.
that were reported about Keith Ranieri, harassing little girls and terrorizing them at the
age of 10. So I think that, in my opinion, and I think, you know, this can be borne out,
he was really bad from a very early age. He was harassing people, terrorizing people,
manipulating people. What do we know about his parents?
From what I gather, they were pretty good people. And he would at times imply that he was
somehow an abused kid, that he had suffered and whatever.
But in reality, from what I gathered, from talking to people that knew the family,
he had nice parents, his father in particular.
And so you could argue that this man is a psychopath.
I think mental health professionals would see him as that.
And that he was born that way, perhaps.
It's in his DNA, you know, as they say, bad to the bone.
And many of the cult leaders that I've dealt with over the years, they seem to be that way.
They seem to form a pattern where they're insensitive to the suffering of others.
They're incapable of empathy.
And when they hurt people, they just don't feel anything.
Interesting.
And that their idea of right and wrong is what's good for me is right.
And what's wrong is what's bad for me.
So do what I tell you and cooperate with me to get.
Give me what I want, and you're good, and we're good.
But otherwise, it's bad.
And so that's how Keith Renary was.
Was he obsessed with video games, whatever?
I mean, what came out in his deposition was he never really had a real job.
He was either a student or he was running an MLM.
He was always taking advantage of people.
What MLMs was he in?
Who was, it was Amway?
What else was he?
He was an Amway distributor, is my understanding.
and then he created his own MLM called Consumer Byline.
And it was a scam, and that's why it went under.
And then he created Nexium with Nancy Salzman, his second in command.
And Salzman was a nurse.
She had a background in what's called Neurolinguistic Programming, NLP.
And she shared that with Renary, and together they designed his training,
which I think anyone who read,
through the manual and looks at the study notes will recognize a pattern of coercive persuasion
and manipulation that is evident in the way the course curriculum was designed from the very
beginning. So Salzman knew that, though she might argue today that she's a victim. I don't see
Nancy Salzman as a victim. In fact, when they raided her house, they found $500,000 in cash in the
house. To me, if you have that much money stashed, you're not really a victim. You're
you're a co-conspirator.
And Nancy Salzman would eventually go to prison
for withholding information in the lawsuit against me,
which is a crime in a federal lawsuit.
And also they would find files in her basement
of the perceived enemies of nexium, including me.
And I saw this file when I testified in the criminal trial
of Keith Rennary.
They showed it to me, did you know they had a file on you?
on you yeah and they showed this is very similar to Scientology so far what you're saying
every time I've interviewed somebody that said something bad about Scientology I've got an email
and a website about why that person's wrong and history of that person's wrongdoing over their
lifetime whatever it is that's their dead agent file is that's what it's called for for a
Scientology in Scientology if they put together a file on
a perceived enemy. It's called your dead agent file. I think mine is hundreds of pages long.
It's been thrown around.
You're famous in Scientology.
Well, I'm certainly considered an SP. I've been labeled an SP for decades, yeah.
And I've- Boy, you're a troublemaker. It's to them. That's not...
And their lead counsel, Kendrick Moxon, and I have crossed swords in court.
So I think, yeah, Scientology is an example.
of a group that goes after its enemies.
Keith Ranieri, I think, learned from that example.
Did they ever meet that? Does he have any, as I just tapped right in, if there's any
affiliation, there's nothing connected between the two?
I have been told that one of the inner circle in Nexium was a former Scientologist.
And I was also told that at one time when Keith Renary was suing me, he exchanged ideas or
thoughts or had some kind of input from Scientology in regards to going after me.
Certainly, my dead agent file was used by Nexium.
And by the way, Nexium had me under surveillance.
At one point, they were actually buying my garbage in a building that I lived in.
That's Scientology.
Well, very similar.
And they went into my banking records and phone records.
and I would eventually sue and settle with the PI company that was hired by Nexium.
So, you know, Nexium was, they were brutal.
They were very insidious in the way that they went after people.
But let me just share this.
The key to understanding Nexium is that Keith Rennary was able to recruit two heirs to the Seagram's liquor fortune.
And that is Claire and Sarah Bronfman.
these sisters reportedly gave Keith Rennary over $100 million.
Stop it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
He was, when he was arrested, there were...
Her?
Yes.
She looks like somebody that would waste that money.
Well, she went to prison for almost seven years over Nexium.
That's a terrible muck shot.
Is that a muck shot, or is that just a picture?
I...
Can you see if that's a muck shot, Rob?
Doesn't say down here.
Oh, that I mean, she...
To be honest with you, I think that...
That's kind of a flattering picture because I've...
Stop it.
Yeah, because I've seen Claire Bronfman.
You've met her?
Yeah, I didn't meet her face-to-face, but at another court-ordered mediation,
she was there representing Nexium.
She was an officer of Nexium, the corporation.
And she was scurrying around, talking to different mediators,
former federal judges, trying to follow through on whatever Renary's plan was at that
mediation. But she really was a pawn of Ranieri for years and years and went to prison for seven
years. And to this day, I think she would still say positive things about Keith Ranari.
She would? Yes. Okay. I'm trying to think about another guy that 20 years ago, he had this blue
CD set that I listened to every one of them. And he had, he's, he, but I don't think he,
he ended up going this far.
I think to him he was just a guy that,
trying to pull up his name to see if I have it or not.
I'm not talking about the great ones
that change a lot of people's lives.
I'm not talking Napoleon Hill, Jim Rohn, Nightingale,
Brian Tracy.
I'm not talking about any of these guys.
It was a different guy.
But, okay, Scientology.
You know, I've worked with Scientologists,
and I will tell you, from my experience,
I've never had a bad experience with Scientologists.
They work very hard.
I recruited people from the C organization.
It would work 16-hour days.
They were not my agents.
We shared an office together, selling insurance.
So they ran their own agency.
I ran my own agency, but we were overlapping each other.
And I would help them grow their business
because one of the guys, you know, became a friend.
And when we're at the office late at night, midnight, you know,
11 o'clock, I'm finishing up my day.
And I would say, well, you know, do you know what assist is?
Let me, let me, we do something called the cyst.
We do something, and I went to the facility, I got some of the books.
I read some of the material, dynetics and other things.
I probably have a couple of dynetics copies in my office.
And you see some things that are interesting.
Then you read about the founder, then things get a little bit suspicious.
And like, wait a minute, what's, and then you read Leah Romini and watch the stuff she did or Presley.
Is it Leslie Presley, if I'm saying it correctly?
One of the Presley's, right?
Who was the one that was?
Priscilla Presley joined and she brought in Lisa Marie Presley, her daughter.
That's right.
So what patterns do you notice with Scientology like this?
However, they've never gotten in trouble.
Not they've never gotten in trouble.
They're still around.
They're still there.
They still have their religion exemption.
They still have the tax benefits.
What patterns do you notice there?
Well, I think what you see is worship of the leader.
I mean, Elron Hubbard is considered sacrosanct, really, and his writings are sacred.
In fact, they have them written in metal and stored in a mountain to preserve them.
So I think what you see typically is a kind of worship of El Ron Hubbard, though he is dead.
He was succeeded by his secretary, David Muskevich, who now occupies a similar
position in Scientology. Very powerful. He's a virtual dictator, in my opinion.
And so what you see... Have you ever met him? No, I have not. Never met him. I've met their lead
counsel, Kendrick Moxon. I've met quite a few Scientologists over the years and former
Scientologists. There's a division of who is what could be called a public or a member of
Scientology, but they are not a full-time member. The people that are in C-org, the C-Orgization, are
full-timers. There are thousands of them, and they staff buildings and so forth. I would question the
way those people are treated, because I've talked to former C-org members, and, you know, what is their
health care benefit? What is their retirement benefit? How much are they actually paid? Why do they
have to sign billion-year contracts for this life and successive lives, you know, are they
or are they not treated fairly? There are allegations that they're not based on what people have
said that have left. Then there's the whole celebrity crowd, you know, John Travolta, Tom Cruise,
Jenna Elfman, the people who are treated very well within Scientology. Scientology has celebrity
centers to cater to celebrities. So I would say that you could divide Scientology up and you could
say, well, the celebrities are treated in one way, in which they would say Scientology is great.
We're being treated very well. And then at the bottom, you have these Seorg members. Many of them
brought into Scientology as children raised within Scientology, schooled by Scientology, and they become
the backbone of Scientology, you know, the worker drones that keep everything going. So
Scientology also, the families that call me will talk about how a loved one became involved
in Scientology and the deeper they became involved, the more control Scientology had over
their life and as the family questioned that and question what was happening and how it was affecting
their life, Scientology would say, well, they're a suppressive person and you need to disconnect
from them. So I have done interventions to get people out of Scientology. In one case, which I
recount in my book, Cults Inside Out, was a man who had been in Scientology for 27 years. He was almost
50 when I met him. And he had a wife, he had two children. He had always functioned as someone who would
take courses and be active with Scientology, but had his own home, his own life, his family,
and his wife would take courses and his children to humor him, as they would tell me,
but they never became fully immersed. At one point, Scientology says to this, to the
this guy, we want you to become a full-time Seorg member, divorce your wife, leave your family,
move into Seorg housing. Because Seorg members, you know, they eat, sleep, breathe, Scientology.
And he was going to do that. And then his family contacted me, we did an intervention, and he decided
to leave Scientology, which for him was really very difficult because all of his friends were
Scientologists and he had grown up in this organization. So when he walked away, he thought,
can I still have these friends or will I have to let them go? And it ended up where he had to let them go
because they kept trying to pull him back in and he had to leave. And I can remember at one point
his children literally getting on their knees in front of him. He was sitting in his living room
and they were crying and they were saying,
Dad, don't do it.
Don't go into Seorg.
Don't leave us.
We love you.
We want you in our lives.
Please don't do this.
And of course, his wife was crying.
He started crying.
I think what finally helped him to get out of Scientology
was realizing that the writings of Elron Hubbard were flawed.
Hubbard believed that toxins could reside in the fatty tissues
of the body indefinitely.
And so Scientology has a routine called the purification rundown in which you go through
saunas.
Lake Arrowhead is one of their main facilities.
And you take large doses of niacin and so on, and you're supposedly going to sweat out
whatever toxins are in your body.
And Hubbard would propose, or he wrote, that let's say you at one time,
did LSD, or at one time you took antidepressants or whatever.
They're in your fatty tissue indefinitely until you do the purification rundown,
which, of course, Scientology collects money for.
You know, they can collect thousands of dollars for somebody doing the purification rundown.
At one point, they were through an organization called Narcanon,
which is, in my opinion, a front for Scientology.
It's an anti-drug program, and Narcanon runs drug reabs, but it's based on Scientology, and it's controversial.
And so Narcanon approached the California school system, and they said, let us do an anti-drug program for your schools to help kids say no to drugs.
And they asked them specifically at that point, is this religion?
Because we can't have you teaching religion to the kids.
And they said, no, no, Narcanon is separate from Scientology, and this is not us teaching Scientology.
So they let them in, and then they had complaints, and they brought them back in.
And they said, we're getting complaints.
The kids are having nightmares.
They're telling their parents they've got drugs in the fatty tissue of their bodies that could be let out at any time without warning and could cause them harm.
Why are you teaching that to kids?
it's not true.
Science has proven that drugs do not reside indefinitely in any part of the body
and that they are dispelled from the body in a certain period of time.
And you know, you know that from people taking drug tests.
How many days before did you use drugs?
It's going to come up in the test.
And if it's distant, it won't come up in the test.
So Scientologists said, well, this is a truth.
this is what we say is the truth and the school said no it's not the truth it's a belief and it's
and now you're teaching religion you're not doing a typical drug anti-drug program you're teaching
something and so i shared this with the man who had been in scientology for 27 years and i said
i can understand that l ron hubbard had some quaint beliefs that seemed very
valid at the time that he wrote, which was in the 1950s and 60s.
So he wrote and he thought that this was true, but science has proven it is not.
So it was a theory that was disproven.
And if what you believe in is science and the name of the organization is Scientology,
implying it's kind of scientific, why can't the group,
acknowledge that this was a mistake, this theory has been proven false, and then move on,
which is what science does. Science through evidence will move beyond a theory that has been
disproven. And he really struggled with that because he realized, yeah, what he's saying
is true, and I showed him the documentation and everything, and what had happened. And he realized,
Well, if when Hubbard is wrong about something, what do we do with that?
Can't we realize that that theory has been disproven and move on?
And so that was the crack that opened up, that let everything else in, and then he left Scientology.
Yeah, the last time he did an interview, Miscavage, was with Ted Koppel.
And I believe it's a 94 or something like that.
It could be, Rob, can you see what year that was, the Koppel?
interview. It's a long time interview. And people have had a hard time finding his wife. They
don't know where his wife is. She's been located. She is in relatively comfortable setting.
Good shape? Yeah. In northern California, I think somewhat near. She was missing for 20 years,
though, 15 years. Not really. I think there was a point where people question, where is she, where is she?
but eventually it would be established that she had been assigned to a Scientology branch in California
and that's where she works and she lives and it's relatively secluded and she is somewhat isolated
and you could even go so far as to say well David Miskevich did the equivalent of woman get thee to a nunnery
because I mean it says since her disappearance in 07 she has been the subject of
speculation and inquiries with her whereabouts.
In 2012, attorneys who said they represented her, responded by saying she was leading
a private life devoted to the Church of Scientology.
In 2013, Leah and Romani, a former Scientologist and critic of the organization, filed a missing
person reporting, Ms. Gavage with the LA department.
LAPD closed the investigation within hours and described the report as unfounded.
Has she showed herself?
Have people seen her?
Yes.
She has.
Yes.
And where has that been documented?
I think she was seen at a restaurant eating out outside of the...
That's great news.
Outside of the compound.
She also has...
The compound that she's in is in Northern California.
It's relatively secluded.
It's actually quite nice from what I've heard.
So she is basically comfortably living, devoted to Scientology, in seclusion.
And you could argue that David Muskevich wanted to get rid of her, that he put her there to take her out of the limelight, that he didn't want to share the limelight with her and that he wanted her out of his life.
Be that as it may.
She's not unaccounted for.
She lives in this relatively comfortable place in Northern California, albeit at a full-time Scientology facility where she's worked.
for Scientology day in, day out.
And this is her life.
This is the only Scientology in Northern California.
I can find the Petriola.
Is that correct?
They say it's a giant compound with a hidden bunker underneath.
And says what, that she is there?
That's the only Scientology headquarters
that I could find in a remote, secluded location
in Northern California.
I am not really sure which facility it is
by name but you know it is in northern california and it's not a huge facility uh but it's where she is
that may be the facility in fact there but um she's people know where she is i mean it's not a mystery
uh she has been there for a number of years yeah the niece was on news nation just a few months
ago did you see that interview uh yeah i i'm aware of it yes
She claimed that she has been seen but doesn't want to give proof.
So, you know, obviously she was critical of Scientology,
but, you know, the niece herself says, I'm not sure.
Let me just have this, Rob.
I'm going to send this to see if you want to take a look at this.
But if you're telling me this is breaking news for a lot of us,
because, you know, most people didn't know if she was,
out there or not. But that's phenomenal news, that she is good.
Can you just watch that to see what she says about her being around,
and that being the most recent thing, credible source coming from Denise?
Hi, I'm Rick Allen Ross, cult expert, intervention specialist, author of the book Cults Inside Out.
You can find me on Manect.
Okay, so now let's kind of somebody from that community could,
say, well, on the Scientology side, Tom Cruise is how old, Rob, can you look up how Tom
Cruz is? Tom Cruise is 63 years old. Go to Grand Cardone. Okay, Grand Cardone's age. He's probably
got to be late 50s, early 60s. 67 years old. Can you go to images of Grant Cardone? He does not
look 67 years old. Okay. That's an older picture.
but a recent one, the guy doesn't look 67 years old.
It's probably a two-year picture, one-year picture, something like that.
So somebody may say, why do these two guys, why do they look so good in their 60s?
Maybe they have figured something out that others haven't.
What would you say to that?
I think that they live very healthy, productive lives.
And I think that what we should disabuse ourselves of
is the notion that intelligent, success,
people cannot get caught up in cults. I have personally deprogram five medical doctors. One was an
orthopedic surgeon, another was an anesthesiologist, very respected physicians. And each one of them,
at the time that I work with them, and each intervention, thankfully, was successful, they truly
believed in the group that they were in. And only through an intervention where they brought out,
when their family supported that intervention.
So it is possible for someone very intelligent,
very successful in life to be caught up in a group
that has been called a cult.
In the case of Tom Cruise,
he became involved in Scientology
through his first wife, Mimi Rogers,
who had been herself raised in Scientology.
After her parents left,
I think Mimi Rogers probably wanted to continue to have a life with her parents.
And she feared the process of disconnection, I believe.
And so she ended up leaving Scientology.
And Tom Cruise, ironically, who had been introduced to Scientology by Mimi Rogers, he divorced her.
And I think it's fair to say that the reason, or at least it's been reported, that the reason behind each
of his three divorces has been Scientology. Mimi Rogers left. Nicole Kidman wouldn't go
all in. Katie Holmes wanted to protect her child from Scientology. Tom Cruise's only biological
child, Surrey Cruz. So what has happened with Tom Cruise is an interesting thing. Here's this man
who is a very accomplished person, very successful, arguably brilliant when it comes to producing
movies, understanding, you know, what are the vehicles that he wants to back. People often call him
the last big movie star in the world. But if you look at his personal life, how has Scientology
affected that? He doesn't seem to have a relationship with his daughter, Surrey. His two
adopted children with Nicole Kidman are involved in Scientology, but they have largely been separated from
Nicole Kidman, who is very careful what she says about Scientology in order to preserve her
relationship with her two adopted children. So even though you can look at Tom Cruise and say,
what an incredible guy, incredibly successful, but Scientology has had an effect on him,
and the effect has been three failed marriages. And that must be very painful for Tom Cruise.
Also, the recent relationship with the actress Anna de Armas apparently ended when he wanted her to become involved in Scientology.
That's been reported.
So to the extent that Scientology can be a negative influence in your personal life and cause divorces, family estrangements, that's a problem that even the celebrities in science,
entology deal with.
Yeah, makes sense.
Yeah, I mean, it's, I've heard stories and the business model of when they get so much
intel from you and your personal life mistakes you made, that when you want to leave,
it's a very difficult thing to do.
But that business model of confession is a business model from the Catholic Church.
It's actually, if you think about where does confessions go to?
If you're a Catholic and you're confessing, you're, there's a,
a curtain. You don't know who the priest is on the other side. The priest has quite a few...
Are you a Catholic? No, I am not. I'm Jewish. So a Catholic priest has, you know, ethical standards
that he must adhere to. He cannot reveal a confession. He's still a human being. He's a sinner.
Yeah, but let's contrast that with what Scientologists do, which is auditing. And this is a form of
of what they call spiritual counseling.
So you're sitting across the table from your confessor or your auditor.
You are holding two metal cans connected by wires to a box called an e-meter,
which is actually what could be seen as part of a polygraph.
It measures nervous tension in your hands.
And the needle moves when you're nervous.
So you're being asked questions by the auditor about your personal life,
your business life, whatever, and he has the advantage of not only looking you in the eye and
reading your body language and so forth, but seeing on the e-meter when you are nervous.
And so at that point, when he sees, oh, the needle's moving.
So this is confessions with the use of technology.
Yes, and then drilling down into whatever makes you nervous, supposedly to help you,
but also this is revealing your secrets,
revealing your inner life and your private life.
And then they're taking notes that go into a folder
that might be called your pre-clear folder
or the records of Scientology.
And routinely, people that become involved in Scientology
sign releases regarding their records and so forth.
So Scientology, then, they've got the good
goods on you. They know about what makes you tick. It's an organized form of confessions.
It's organized in a methodical way, and there are copious notes and records that can be used
ultimately to your detriment. But it's confessions. It is confession, but I would call it more like
an interrogation. I would like it to be. They're cousins, though, right? Confessions and
interrogation if they're asking you a question you know I understand like you can even you can ask
people that have left religions of what they were uncomfortable with because there was a church in
LA called the Los Angeles Church of Christ oh yeah and Los Angeles Church of Christ a guy named
Edward once came up to me and I was introduced to it by a guy named Fernando who was one of my grooms
from a good guy and he says come meet this guy named Edward I go meet the guy Edward nice guy and he
He meets my girlfriend, and he starts asking me questions.
He says, so when's the last time he guys had sex?
And I said, probably 30 minutes ago, prior to meeting with you.
And he says, really?
I said, yeah.
He says, you know, you're going to hell.
I said, what's your point?
Where are you going to go with this?
He says, well, I'm just telling you, you're going to hell.
I said, I already know I'm going to hell.
What's the purpose of me meeting with you?
Like, I'm trying to see if I have a shot at going to heaven.
What's the, anyway, so we start kind of going through the process,
and it was such a controlled environment.
And Fernando was dating a girl, I won't say the girl's name,
that that relationship ended up very nasty
because she was fully in,
that he had to do certain things that he didn't want to do,
that he was forced to do, that he did.
Anyways, long story short, can you find out who was the pastor?
Was it guy named Kip McKin?
Was it Steve Sapp or Kit McKin?
Well, Kip McKin was at the top.
And eventually he would step down from leadership.
Right.
And he came up and he said, I've been wrong, what I've been saying.
One of the guys gets up.
Actually, it's Steve Sapp.
Can you type in Los Angeles Church of Christ and type in Steve Sapp?
But this was actually called the International Church of Christ, not to be confused, by the way, with the United Church of Christ, which is a mainline denomination, or the independent churches of Christ, which this group broke away from.
So Kip McKin started this group back in the 70s with just a handful of people.
in Massachusetts. And at its highest point, it's estimated that there were about 250,000 members worldwide.
They had Hollywood. They had celebrities. They had actors. I would go in there. I'm like, holy moly,
they got everybody. Yeah. And it was all based on a concept of discipleship in which every member
was assigned a discipling partner. And there was an ascending hierarchy with Kit McKean at the top,
the one person who wasn't being
disciples
and they worshipped him
as a kind of prototype
of the perfect Christian
and they also believed
that every other Christian church
was lost
only their church
the only way to go to heaven is through their church
under their leadership
that's right and so when you see a Christian church
that is saying look
I'm not just saying that Christianity
is the way I'm saying
that Christianity writ large is not the way. It is my organization that I run, that you must
belong to in order to be saved. And that is what Kit McKin taught until he stepped down. Now
he has restarted recently, and he again has followers, not very many, and the ICOC, as it's often
called the International Church of Christ is now greatly diminished. I don't know how many members,
but I would speculate 50,000 or less. So they've toppled quite a bit. But when they were in
their heyday, I was doing interventions to get people out. I was talking to my friend. I'm like,
buddy, I don't know. This doesn't sound like a good church you're a part of. He says, no, you don't
understand. I said, all right. I mean, do your thing. But this is why.
I don't want to go to church because of churches like this.
They were very good, though, very organized, very systematic.
Very much so.
Very much so.
And I once did a news program with Fox News, and producers for Fox News infiltrated in the late 90s,
the church in Atlanta, Georgia.
And they actually were able to get recordings of what that discipleship was like
and how they would talk to you.
And specifically they're training
and they're saying to someone,
you need to consider leaving your boyfriend.
They're telling a female producer at Fox
because he isn't coming along with the program
and therefore you need to get rid of him.
And that kind of inner discussion
that is not heard by the general public
and not known when you become involved with the church,
is what really makes it tick, that kind of control.
And I can remember I was retained by Fox as an analyst and consultant,
and the producers would actually call me to be debriefed.
Because even though they knew that the group was a cult,
they would say to me, Rick, I feel like I'm getting taken in.
I feel like I'm starting to become a believer.
Help me here.
What's wrong with what they're saying?
With these guys.
Yeah.
And so I had done.
They were good. They were very good. I did 80 interventions. Did you find sexual things? Did you find? Because I didn't find anything there. Like the adulation and the sexual stuff. I didn't see the sexual stuff at all. So they were all actually very good people. The leaders were living large. A lot of the leaders were the financial part. The finances were which were exposed. Well, if you take the three, the cashed the adulation and the sexual, I didn't see the sexual. The adulation I saw. I know nothing about.
the cash because I wasn't at the higher up level. I was in my early 20s to see what was going
out. Let me just say that when Kip McKin stepped down, he did so for sins in his life that
remain undisclosed. So I don't know what that involved. If was it, he wasn't faithful to
his wife. He was excessively controlling. He used money in a questionable way. I don't know. He did
not disclose. And certainly there were wonderful people that were involved in the ICOC. And I think that's
part of the phenomenon or the situation you're in in a destructive cult. You're in this group and the people
around you are very idealistic. They're very positive because they believe that the group is good.
And they're there feeling that they're promoting something that is positive, that is good for people.
And so you are mistaken by these people around you.
You look at them and they're smiling and they're loving and they're kind and you think to yourself,
this is a great group.
But if you sat with Kip McKin in a situation where he had to answer for himself, you probably would say,
what the heck am I in here?
And so many people, when they leave cults,
they leave because something happened.
There was a revelation.
There was something shocking that they witnessed.
That was not according to what the group said they were about.
And they were disturbed by it.
Or they're just plain exhausted, worn out from working so hard for the group.
And they leave.
And I think that many people, when they leave,
leave thinking, well, there's something wrong with me.
I'm ashamed of myself, I failed, I let God down, etc.
And they don't really understand, no, it wasn't about me doing something wrong or me being to blame.
It was the group and that the group had predatory practices and that the group leadership wasn't ethical.
And there were conflicts that I had as a person wanting to be ethical and
reasonable with what I was being told to do in the group. And so I think for everyone that leaves a
group, you have to go through a process of unpacking your experience, looking at it, understanding it.
And I would say it's very similar to being in an abusive controlling relationship. Initially, you fall in
love. The person who is the abusive partner is very effusive and they tell you how much they love you.
and you go through this honeymoon period
but then comes the abuse
and you don't want to believe it
and your partner is telling you
it's your fault it's your fault
why did you make me have a meltdown
why did you make me hit you
I did it because of your behavior
and so the cult member
feels the same way
and I know I know that people often
say about women
that are in abuse of controlling relationships
well you know love is
blind. But when the perpetrator, the partner is constantly manipulating you and there's all
this smoke and mirrors, how can you see clearly? And it's the same way with a cult. They're not
giving you accurate information. They're playing with your head. They're gaslighting you. How can you
think clearly when they don't let you? Yeah. Both ways, by the way. I've seen guys also caught up
with a controlling woman.
I mean, it's very easy to always just say men.
I saw a guy that he lost himself, married a girl.
And afterwards, I'm like, buddy, you've lost yourself.
I don't know what just happened to you.
He's happily married now.
It's got a beautiful family.
But for about three years, nobody could recognize him.
He was controlled by her.
Vice versa.
Of course, I've seen more stories with men than I've seen with women.
It's two to one on a number of stories
because men are more the aggressive, the assertive.
but women have a way of controlling in a very different way.
I just message my guy to see who we were talking about
and regarding to this KIP guy from Los Angeles Church of Christ.
This is a clip from 1993 where he is a CBS reporter,
a reporter is trying to interview him.
And go ahead, Rob.
Last month, we found out that the man who some followers called God's greatest living treasure
would be coming to this New York hotel for an annual.
meeting with his world sector leaders.
Mr. McKean, I'm Trish Wood from Fifth Estate.
I believe you were talking to our researcher on the phone.
Could we ask you a couple of questions?
Well, you know, we have no comment.
I appreciate.
Could you just maybe explain to us why so many of the ex-members of your church
are suggesting that there was mind control involved in their time in the church?
Can you explain why people are saying that?
We have no comment this time.
But the questions really are about you and your role in the leadership of the church.
And many of the ex-members would like to know why these things happened to them.
Well, I think you've talked to many of the ex-members, so you have the information.
But they would like, and I think some questions are appropriate for you to answer.
Why are all these people suggesting that they're with mind control being done to them while they were in your church?
Mr. McKean?
So the question then becomes the following.
It's easy to demonize these guys, right?
To me, sometimes, you know how they say offense wins,
you know, you have a lot of teams that have great regular season records,
and they suck in the playoffs.
Because they're an offensive team with not a defensive, you know, strategy.
And you'll see these football teams that were decent offense season.
but their defense was ridiculous
and in the playoffs they crush
I have four kids
to me I like to play
prevent
preventative and
what's the word
anticipation
so I'd like to anticipate things that could potentially
happening on ways for them to try
to divide the family
on ways that people in the future
will try to divide us or say things
because you know all your father
cares about is this or your brother
brother is this and your sister is this and they'll try to come in between them and you know the
goal is I want to keep the family and I'll tell them you guys are the most important to each other
it's even more important in your relationship with me you guys got to stay buddies forever because
we're not going to be around but you guys are going to be around you guys got to stay so you're giving
them these messages reaffirming messages for them to stay strong so maybe give me because right now
first thing you talk about in the first two minutes when I ask you a question about
homberto who aspires to be a cult leader uh which maybe he's changes
aspirations, who knows. Maybe you've changed his mind.
He's probably very disappointed
right now. Maybe even left for the date to call
us sick. So let's just say
for
those who
are
going through it. In the first two minutes
you said, social media today
are cult-like leaders.
Right? They're using all these things.
Give me
the defense. How do I know
if I have been infected
and I am in the delusional community?
Because it's always the other person that's part of a cult, right?
It's never us.
It's always the other person that's delusional.
It's always the other person that's brainwashed.
Not us, you know.
Rick, it would never happen to you because you're a guy that deprograms people.
It can never happen to you, right?
Never.
Can never happen to me.
I'm successful in this.
What can you tell people to anticipate signs to not fall for the trap?
Well, first of all, are you,
becoming involved in a group that has a leader that is worshipped by the group? I mean, are they
constantly talking about the leader? Are they extolling how wonderful the leader is? And how is that
leader accountable? What are the checks and balances in the organizational structure that address
accountability? Is there financial transparency in the group? Do they disclose their annual budget?
I like that. In detail.
in which they explain all compensation paid out to whomever.
And how do they regard people who have left?
Do they say, oh, yeah, you know, so-and-so left, and we had coffee.
We still have coffee with him.
We talk with him.
Or do they stigmatize people that leave and they're critical of them and they cut them off?
And then what's happening to you?
What's happening to you?
are you becoming socially isolated?
Are you withdrawing from old friends and family?
Are you becoming preoccupied with the group?
Because a typical church or organization would say,
hey, you've got to have a life outside of our church,
outside of our organization.
Sure, you belong to our club, our church,
but you need to also spend time with your family,
and have a balanced healthy life.
So is the group drawing you into imbalance,
or are they also encouraging you to have a balanced life?
And how do they view other organizations?
Do they negatively characterize them,
or do they have a sense of community?
For example, a church that says,
yeah, we work with other churches to feed the homeless
or to help the elderly,
or we do community projects, and how are they regarded?
And if you go online and you do a search looking for any information about this group,
what is their history?
Have they been controversial?
What was the controversy about?
What are people talking about?
Have they been sued by former members?
Have there been criminal prosecutions?
Many of these groups that I deal with,
they have a troubled history. And I think before you become committed, before you become embedded,
find it all out. And a healthy group with healthy leadership will not question that. They will
say, sure, check us out, whatever. We're, we are, we have, here's our budget. This is how our bylaws
hold our leadership accountable through our incorporation. And you realize that they have,
they're not hiding anything from you, and they're being forthcoming.
And how is criticism regarded in the group?
When you go to group meetings, if someone says something critical about a practice of the
organization or group, how is that taken?
Is it seen as being really negative and, oh, you're a suppressive person, and there's
something wrong with you?
Or are they saying, well, gee, that's interesting.
interesting, we can use that, you know, because we have room to grow, room to evolve. And we like
feedback from members that help us to make this organization a better organization. Or are people
being attacked for criticizing? So if you see that dynamic, that's a warning flag. And there are
others that I've outlined. And you look for those and then you know what you're dealing with.
So are you active on X?
Are you active on Twitter?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah.
So, you know, today's political climate is a very, if I were to ask you right now,
in your 20s or your 30s, okay?
Who would you have said was somebody that you looked at
that influenced you politically or philosophically?
What names would you give?
In your 20s or your 30s?
Hmm.
Well, Barry Goldwater.
Okay. I grew up in Arizona and Barry Goldwater.
Wow, what a name, Barry Goldwater.
Yeah, he was, his father was Jewish, and the original family name was Gold Vosser.
And they created a department store in Arizona called Goldwater, and of course, Barry Goldwater went on to become a United States Senator.
He ran for president. I greatly admired him.
Who else would you say?
Well, I think, that's a pretty heavy name.
Yeah.
Yeah. I would think, well, the first time I voted, I think I voted for Richard Nixon. But he ended up being a disappointment, you know, when he left office. And the same meaning he should have never left office. That's what you're saying. No, I'm saying that there was a scandal. He decided to leave office. I think he probably made the right decision. In fact, Barry Goldwater, I think talked with him at one point and said,
If this goes to impeachment, we don't have the votes to stop it.
You're going to lose.
And so Nixon decided to leave the White House and he resigned.
And I think later apologized belatedly for some of the things that he did in the David Frost interviews.
So I would say when Richard Nixon was president and he opened the door to China, he created the EPA.
He was a very anti-communist, and he had his famous debates with Khrushchev.
I greatly respected Richard Nixon and thought he was, and he was also a self-made man who came from nothing
and made a great career for himself.
He was a vice president under Eisenhower, who I greatly respected as a great general and a great president.
And so I think that growing up those were very important figures in my life
and also John F. Kennedy and the way in which he led the country at one point, that he...
Inspired you. He sold a vision to you.
Yeah.
We're going to land on the moon. We're going to do this. We're going to do that.
It was an inspirational guy.
But here's kind of where I'm going with.
Barry Goldwater, by the way.
Some will say he's the reason why Republicans lost the African-American vote.
In 1960, I think, if I'm not mistaken, 64% of African-Americans voted Democrat.
The rest was Republican.
After Barry Goldwater, and it's 64.
92% of African-Americans voted Democrat, and they lost them.
And the story is two different things.
Of course, one of the things has to do with the African-Americans,
but the other part is also MLK's wife when they wanted to meet with
Nixon, Nixon's camp never got back to him.
John F. Kennedy's camp did.
From that moment on, they said, we're going to be voting Democrat because Kennedy heard us out,
but Nixon didn't.
And then, African-Americans have been voting Democrats since then and the stories when you hear
about it.
You read about it.
They're documented.
They're all over the place.
But who did you fall for that spooked you and you were disappointed afterwards outside
of Nixon?
Who was your guy when you were watching and you're like, oh, my God, this guy's, and this
is when you were impressionable.
think from 16 to 28 who was the person where because I'm thinking for myself as well with names right
who did you fall for where you're like man but later on like what he I fell for this trap did you have
anybody I what the name that comes to mind for me is Nixon because I can remember when
Watergate started I felt that he was being persecuted that he was being wrongfully harassed
and I felt very strongly about it.
But as Watergate unfolded, and it unfolded, you know, it was on television.
And so I watched the hearings, and I remember thinking, how can this be?
And it was a very gut-wrenching, difficult thing,
because here was this man that I had voted for and I had believed in.
And it turned out he had made some pretty bad calls, which he would admit himself later.
Did it cause you to no longer want to vote that way?
No.
Okay.
No, I continued to vote for Barry Goldwater, and then later I voted for John McCain, who I greatly admired as well.
I think Arizona has produced, this is my state that I grew up in, though I spent quite a bit of time in New Jersey before moving back to Arizona.
Arizona, given our population, we've produced some really big people.
that have been very prominent in American history.
You know who else said that in his book, Rob,
can you pull up Billy Graham leadership?
Type in Billy Graham leadership.
There's a few questions I still got before we wrap,
but we got time.
Yeah, that one right there.
I think it's in Chapter 11,
where he talks about betrayal.
Can you go back and type in the leadership secrets of Billy Graham
and then type in betrayal,
type in betrayal, I think is Chapter 11 or Chapter 12.
Check to see which one it is.
I'm going to go to PDF.
Which chapter is the one where he talks about betrayal?
Keep going down to see the content.
Okay, chapter 12 is betrayal.
In chapter 12 of that book,
you know who he talks about that betrayed him and let him down?
Nixon.
To Billy Graham was also Nixon.
Because it was the first time that he got behind the president.
I think, Rob, can you control F. Nixon and see if that's what he talks about?
I don't want to misquote him.
There you go. Yep.
Want to Bill Graham was painful experience,
was filming betrayed by Nixon during the Watergate scandal.
Graham had a close relation with Nixon
and felt deeply affected by the revelation of Nixon's true character,
which contrasted sharply with the image he held of him.
Okay.
So how old were you at the time when you went through this?
Teenager.
Okay, teenager.
Perfect.
That's great.
Because bring that teenage Rick Allen Ross today.
And back then it was news once a day.
whatever six o'clock eight o'clock i don't know what it was but i was in iran so i wouldn't know
okay i don't even know if i was born yet i'm born 78 so so let's just say teenager
you're getting the news once a day now bring that rick allen ross today teenager 16 17 years old
twitter youtube rumble instagram tick tock how the hell do you know if you're falling for this
trap with some different people that are out there were messaging the way in which they were
respond to criticism. I think that if they are a reasonable leader, a good leader, that they will
respond to criticism thoughtfully. They will answer directly about what they're being accused of
or what issues are being raised and they will put it to rest and they will provide meaningful
documentation and they will deal with it. I think what disappointed is, I think what disappointed
me with Richard Nixon at one point was that he was attacking the messenger and he wasn't
dealing with the story itself. I mean, what happened? Did they, were you involved in this
break-in? Were you involved in the cover-up? I think there are some questions as to how deeply
Nixon was involved in the actual break-in, but no question about how he would eventually be
involved in the cover-up and other things. So I think the way in which a leader responds to
criticism is a good way to understand who and what they are. Barry Goldwater, for example,
he would acknowledge criticism. He would deal with it head-on. I think he was a really good man,
in my opinion, Barry Goldwater.
Sure. Meet him. I never met him, but I met members of his family. And at one time, you know, there were people in my community, the Jewish community, that were saying that Barry Goldwater was not good to the Jewish people, that he was somehow they implied, you know, he was anti-Jewish or whatever. Nothing could be further from the truth. His best friend was a Jewish man that he grew up with.
Harry Rosenzweig, who at one time was a leader in my own synagogue congregation, and he greatly
admired Barry Goldwater as well. I think that what is so important is to not characterize people
who don't agree with you as being somehow evil or terrible, but in
Instead, looking at what they have to say and considering it, and then taking it apart and explaining why you're opposed to it.
Yes. So some younger influencers today on X would say you can't criticize Jews, for instance. And you're going to be called anti-Semitic. You're going to be called this. You're going to be called that. And for many years, that was scary to have that, you know, label.
which today younger kids social media they no longer feared that label that adults feared 10 20 30 years ago
I think the most important thing that I have come to realize as a Jew is that if you
disagree with the political policies of the state of Israel that does not mean that you are
anti-Jewish that it is possible to disagree with the government
of Israel and have political disagreements, but not be anti-Jewish.
So at what point does one graduate to actually be an anti-Semitic?
When you begin to say, you know, for example, that Jews are involved in a global conspiracy,
they're linked to the Illuminati and whatever, and you go along with that kind of a narrative
where you're characterizing an entire people negatively.
You're not just disagreeing with the policies of the government of the state of Israel.
And likewise, I find myself in an interesting position
because there are many young Jewish people who greatly object to what is going on in Gaza.
And I don't agree with them.
I think that what Hamas has demonstrated,
and they're very cult-like in their indoctrination process
and their extreme leadership.
What they demonstrated to the Israelis
is no matter what we do, we really can't trust you.
And because you attacked, unprovoked,
you murdered all these people, you took hostages,
and at the same time, we were hoping
that by you getting money for infrastructure
and everything in Gaza,
that we could somehow come to terms with you in a peaceful way.
And Hamas struck out, and then the Israelis felt, well, we can't really trust you.
And they took this action to be essentially a declaration of war against Israel,
and they went after them.
And there are many young people that are Jews that are on college campuses across the country
and who feel very negatively about the way in which Israel has responsible.
responded to Hamas and how the collateral damage, that is the, all of these Palestinian people
who are completely innocent and had nothing to do with supporting that, and many of whom have
themselves doubts about Hamas and grievances with Hamas are suffering disproportionately.
And so it's a very, and I think what you have to do in situations like that is,
not broadly characterize an entire people in a negative way, be it the Palestinians or be it the Jewish
people. And you can't conclude that all Jewish people support the state of Israel because
many Jewish people don't support certain actions of the state of Israel. And then you have to
recognize that the Israelis themselves are arguing, for example, as to whether or not the ultimate
Orthodox will serve in the military, which is a very contentious issue right now in Israel.
So I think that cults and cult-like thinking tends to paint everything black and white,
no shades of gray.
And our lives are often in shades of gray, much more nuanced than, you know, that.
You know what conclusion I've come up with?
Here's a conclusion I've come up.
And by the way, I want to ask you about a couple cults with kids, 7, 6, 4, a few things before we wrap up.
But here's a conclusion I've come up with.
Somebody may listen to you and say, what are you talking about, Rick?
Jews don't doctrinate and they don't send all their kids to Israel
and they don't ask them to go into IDF and APAC doesn't recruit people to bring them to Israel
and Israel doesn't prevent negative media in Israel.
What are you talking about?
Like it's full on cult-like of what Israel.
is doing to convert. Let me just finish, and then you'll see where I'm going with this.
Okay. So, and then you're going to come back and say, well, no, because of this, because of that,
and I'm not trying to put words in your mouth, but what I'm trying to go to is the following.
Here's where I'm going to. What I'm going to is the following. Everybody is an occult,
including you. I think you're an occult. I think I'm an occult. I think you're also a cult leader.
because I think as a cult leader
you're leading the cult of people
who want to expose evil people
who do harm to others.
So you have a following of people
that can't wait to see who you're going to take down next
and you have a cult like following
where people follow you because they're like,
I can't wait to see him take.
Who was the guy that was getting the pedophiles
with pizza that would go to a kid's house
and he would do the interviews?
He had a big show,
I think we had him on this, Chris Hansen.
Chris Hanson was like, oh, my God, who's he going to get next?
Who's it going to get next?
Right?
We had them on the podcast once.
So to me, I don't know if, like, my position, I lived in Iran 11 years, almost 11 years.
So I saw what it was like to live with Hezbollah when you're a Christian family.
I witnessed it.
I lived it.
And in Germany at a refugee camp, I was with Afghans, Pakistanis.
everybody that was leaving a Muslim, you know,
driven country to escape to somewhere that gave him freedoms,
but they were also Muslim themselves.
So I've witnessed it firsthand.
And I've spent a lot of time with Jews,
spent a lot of time with Scientology.
You notice I was complimentary of Scientologists.
People get upset.
He's shilling for Scientology.
I've never had a bad experience with a Scientologist, ever.
I've never had a bad experience with Jews, ever.
Do I think Scientologists are part of a cult?
Yes.
do I think so are Jews? Yes. Do I think they're very proud of their background? Yes. Do I think I am as well? Yes. The crossing of the line to me is when it becomes about what the words you said. The cash, the adulation, the sexual favor, take the sexual favor out. The cash. Okay. Yeah, some of these guys are doing it for cash. Okay. You know, what percentage of billionaires in America are Jewish? 9.
26%. Oh my God. But what percentage
the world population is Jewish?
15 million on 8.5 billion.
Where are you at? You're not, you're not
you're point something percent. Small, small
community. It's a very small community.
So, and so
it's more my position
with this is more, let's stop
acting like we don't all admire somebody.
Let's stop acting like we don't have somebody.
Like Nixon gets, you know,
two sides of the story. There's a part of Nixon
that he did a lot of good. The other side of
Nixon is he empowered China.
to be able to equalize Russia because USSR was so powerful.
They needed somebody, China, that was number eight, number nine, economy
to come and take after Russia that was number two or number three
because they were a threat, and Russia wasn't negotiating,
so they were using triangular diplomacy with Kissinger to bring that guy up
and then boom, and then we got off the gold standard.
All the rich get richer, poor, get poor, the middle incomes getting destroyed.
It's because of Nixon.
If we didn't get off a goal, we probably wouldn't be in a situation we're in today.
The moment we got off the gold, then it's all about what?
Hey, trust me.
This is the American dollar.
You can trust us.
you can trust us. But then Nixon also did a lot of good stuff. So to sit there and see both sides,
tear apart anything I just said. Well, I just want to focus on a couple of things.
Please. First of all, deception. Is there a bait and switch con with the group that you're involved in?
For example, I went to religious school. I was bar mitzvahed. I went to Hebrew school. There was no deception.
what my family believed or thought I was going to go through in indoctrination is in fact what
happened. It wasn't like a group like Kip McKin, which we discussed, the ICOC, where there was
this mask, we're just Christians, when that isn't really what they're all about. And the indoctrination
was locking you into a discipleship system controlled by Kip McKin. That was not the case in my
religious education. And I think that, for example, when a Catholic priest or a nun is expected to
take vows and they become involved in a religious order, they know what they're getting
involved in. And the order explains to them, this is what we're all about. These are the
sacrifices that you will have to make. Celibacy, vow of silence, a devotion system that they may
have. So is the group deceptive? Is there a mask that they wear to the public in order to pull
people in? And then once you become involved, it's something completely different. Is it a bait
and switch con? And then second, what I would say is, I really don't care how a group believes.
They can believe whatever they want, but they may not behave in whatever way they wish
under the guise of beliefs.
So, for example, when they cross the line criminally
and they're doing things to defraud people,
abuse people, et cetera,
that's where they step over the line
and it becomes an issue of criminal prosecution.
And I've been involved in a number of cases
testified as an expert witness.
And again, it's not about belief, it's about behavior.
So we may not like what another group believes,
but as long as they behave in a way that is not criminal and they are not hurting people,
then we can say, well, I don't agree with your beliefs, but you're entitled to them.
So if they want to believe that, you know, Scientology is largely kind of a science fiction space opera,
their belief system, you know, Xenu and intergalactic.
We're all being indoctrinated. That's kind of what I'm trying to say.
And the part that we have to be careful with is what I'm trying to get from you is.
I'm trying to say, at what point, you know, at what point is it a, there's a going to a bad thing?
You said something earlier.
The organization lacks accountability, right?
There's no open financial, where you, you know, employees or people are going on with the money.
Where do the money go to?
People don't know the finances.
So, hey, be open about where you're at financially with the company,
lack of accountability, force pushing you away from your own family.
You know, some of those things, I'm tracking with that.
I'm with that part.
You know, but also at the same time, like you mentioned the organization earlier.
I've never heard of it before.
Love to whore.
Love to whore.
Am I saying it correctly?
Lev to whore.
Lev to whore.
It's a Hebrew for essentially the pure ones.
Yeah, and this was a Jewish cult, right, that you were talking about earlier.
It was a spinoff from ultra-Orthodox.
It was started by a man named Shlomo Helbruns in Israel.
And then he came to the U.S., went to Canada, ended up dying in Mexico.
What does Guatemala have to do with this?
They were constantly running from authorities, and they would eventually end up in Guatemala
and create a compound outside of Guatemala City.
And the issue was not what they believed.
The issue was how they behaved.
So they were having children as young as 12 married.
They were abusing the little girls in the group.
There was sexual abuse of little boys in the group by alleged against the leader,
Shlomo Helbruns.
They weren't being properly fed.
They weren't receiving proper medical attention.
They unearthed a child's body in the compound when they raided it.
and the children, and I went through their testimonies because I prepared a report for the court,
they were beaten brutally. The corporal punishment in the group was very excessive.
And of course, Helbruns was a virtual dictator, and then his son, who succeeded him,
occupied that same position. And I would work with children in the group and families affected by the group
and see how anyone that left was labeled in a very negative way,
and you had to let go of them, disregard them, and so on.
So, again, it wasn't about what the group believed.
There were beliefs of the group about how women had to dress,
that they were different and more extreme than even the most orthodox Jews.
The issue was, how do they behave?
How are the children being treated?
Are they being treated abusively, illegally, criminally?
And so the group was investigated again and again,
and it would flee from one country to another
to evade those investigations.
And the issue for them, they would say,
oh, we're being persecuted.
We're being persecuted.
No, they were being prosecuted
because of their behavior, and it was criminal.
Yeah, and this guy,
I even went to, because when you're saying 12-year-olds,
I mean, that's normal in many Muslim countries.
You hear stories about that, right, in there.
So they even seek, he wrote a letter to Ali Khomeini.
Did you know about this or now?
Yeah, apparently he wrote a letter to Ali Khomeiniy seeking asylum.
The son did after left-hold.
the founder died.
So leadership shifted to figures
including Nachman Helbrands, his son,
and Mayor Rossner,
beginning in 2018, 2019,
their leadership attempted to seek political asylum in Iran
out of all the places.
Why would you want to go to Iran?
Enroll letters pledging allegiance to Ayatollah Khomeini.
Declared the desire to establish
a love to Hoar community under Iranian protection
were intercepted while trying to travel
through Central America towards Iran.
U.S. court filing later revealed that they attempted to smuggle children internationally,
planned to flee to Kurdish-controlled region en route to Iran,
held an ideology that revered Iran as safe haven.
Can you imagine the link between this Jewish organization that felt safe going to Iran
because they had younger children that they felt safer over there?
Now, this you would call a cult.
Most definitely, and most recently there were,
a number of children that were taken out of Guatemala, and they were then apprehended by the
police in Colombia. So this group has a history of evading investigations of child abuse
by moving from country to country. And again, whatever the group says, the leadership says
is right, is right. Whatever the group says is wrong is wrong.
regardless if it conflicts with the law and this is the issue really I mean this is the
difference between what could be seen as a benign cult and a destructive cult
is the group criminally hurting people how is the group hurting people what is it
doing its behavior and of course what Lev Tohor would say is we're doing what the
Torah teaches they would
themselves in Judaism, the Torah, the Talmud, whatever, and say this is what we're about.
Well, speaking as a Jew and someone who has worked with the ultra-Orthodox community to help
children escape Lev Tohor and be reunited with relatives where they are safe, they're not
practicing ultra-Orthodox Judaism.
I've met with rabbis that are leaders of the Hasidic communities, and they abhor what Lev-Tah
has done, and they have supported helping these children.
In fact, one of the children that I worked with was later kidnapped by Lev Tehor at the time
she was 14, and Nachman Helbruns is now in prison, and that is one of the reasons he's being
held as a prisoner, is that he flagrantly broke the law.
Well, see, these groups that have often been called cults or destructive cults,
yeah i think i think that's that might be shlomo helbruns or one of the leadership so he would
oh excuse me nachman helbrins so what happened was the leaders were being held accountable for
their decisions how they affected families how they affected the lives of children
and it wasn't about their beliefs
because the ultra-Orthodox
Hasidic rabbis I've spoken with
would agree with some of their beliefs
but not their beliefs regarding
how they treated children
or for that matter
how they often treated women
and so
groups like Lev Tehor
hide behind the mask
of religion but the question is
how do they behave? Do they behave
criminally do they hurt people what are they doing to the children what are they doing not what are they
praying but what are they doing and and so the issue of accountability is about behavior not about
belief and i would not propose that groups be labeled destructive cults because of their beliefs
but rather because of their behavior and lack of accountability got it makes sense and i'm with that but to me
a lot of times when you go through this
we ourselves forget that
we also have an ideology and something that
indoctrinated us
you know you're not a Christian
you're a Jew why your parents probably were
and your grandparents probably so that's form of
indoctrination but was it
but was it deceptive and
no it's not deceptive no again to me
that's like I'm a Christian
why am I a Christian I went to Scientology
I went to Mormon Church I went and studied
Gordon B. Hinkley. I wanted to find out why Mormons are so united with each other,
why they work together. I wanted to find out what was going on with seven-day Adventists.
I wanted to find out. And then I went to a non-denomination. I was going to Los Angeles Church
of Christ. I went there, God knows for how long. And I'm like, no, I never got baptized there.
I'm like, no, this is not me. And then I found my home. And then it was a journey that I went through.
But that is a form of indoctrination. The only part that it goes away is the deceptive part.
I'm going to Bible study in 2019, 2009, 2001.
And one guy said something very powerful.
He said, if you ever judge Christianity, horizontally, you will always be disappointed.
But if you judge it vertically, you will never be disappointed.
What is he talking about?
Man fall.
We sin.
We are tempted.
We do some stupid things.
Everybody.
And anybody that acts like they walk on water.
they're really hiding some stuff.
It's typically the person that acts like their life is perfect,
and then you dig deep, like, whoa, I pushed a button, didn't I?
So what's there?
So all of us act like the other person is the bad guy.
We all have some things.
Now, don't get me wrong.
I'm not talking about criminality, 12-year-old girls.
Forget about it.
There's not even a place for that.
If you watch our podcast, we get in trouble for calling out certain communities
that practice certain behaviors like that.
We're not for it.
But to me, that's a, that's the black and white that we have to be careful with.
Meaning sometimes it's okay if somebody is, I don't mind the fact that my dad brainwashed me
to say, man has to work hard.
Man has to have money that his own family doesn't know about that when crisis happens,
you can still protect them.
A man who doesn't make money is not a real man.
He's a weak man.
He does stupid things.
He has a hard time looking at his wife.
his face and in her eyes because he doesn't feel like he's a man. He's not a provider. A man has to
protect. This is brainwashing, but I'm glad he washed my brain. And the detergent he used was good
things, right? There's an element of the reaffirmation of some of these positive, you know,
affirmations that are good for you. There's a difference between indoctrination and what could be
called brainwashing or thought reform. There's a great book written about this called thought
reform in the psychology of totalism by Robert J. Lifton, who died not too long ago. Lifton
interviewed POWs in North Korean prisoner camps or that had been interred in North Korean prisoner
camps. And he laid out in the 22nd chapter of his book, Thought Reform and the Psychology of
totalism, how they were able to manipulate and change people. So one of the key elements...
Can you send that to me, Rob, please?
One of the key elements is, is there deception?
Is there a bait and switch con?
And is there a claim of what Lifton calls the sacred science?
That is that our ideology is faultless.
We are faultless.
We present it.
It is perfect.
You cannot question anything.
When my dad raised me, and he was a hardworking plumbing contractor,
and he raised me very similar to what you just described.
If you don't provide for your family,
if you don't live the right kind of life,
you will be sorry.
But my dad would often admit mistakes.
He would say to me, you know,
I trusted that general contractor.
He was supposed to pay me.
He didn't.
Our family is now suffering for it.
And I learned I can't do that anymore.
And likewise, my rabbi who mentored me,
in my early career, Rabbi Albert Plotkin, he was a liberal Democrat, and he knew that I was a registered
Republican. And he recognized that that was different from him, that that was okay. He did not,
he did not take me to task. I love that. And in fact, at one point, the leader of our congregation
was a Barry Goldwater best friend, Harry Rosenzweig, who was very prominent.
in our community. And he also, he was, I think, a leader in the Republican Party of Arizona.
So our rabbi could tolerate differences. And he could understand that people had different opinions.
And one of the things that I think is so important for all of us is if someone thinks you're
wrong, that doesn't mean they're brainwashed. If someone doesn't agree with you, that doesn't
mean they're brainwashed. And, you know, because families will come to me and I get calls and
emails every day and people will say, well, I think my kid is in a cold. I think my father's in a
cold. I think my cousin's in a cult. And about half the time I'm telling them, no, that's not,
that's not what's going on here. And just because you don't agree with your family member does not
mean that they're brainwashed. It just means they have a differing opinion, and I give them the
criteria that they can determine that with, and I can tell them, I cannot deprogram your family
member because your family member wasn't programmed in the first place. This is who they are.
These are their sincerely held beliefs. What we're looking at in deprogramming is someone whose
beliefs have been radically changed by an authoritarian leader using identifiable techniques of
coercive persuasion and thought reform. And in my book, I explain all of that in a chapter
titled called Brainwashing, in which I incorporate Lifton, Edgar Schein, who taught at MIT,
and wrote the book Coercive Persuasion. And you look at these techniques and ask yourself,
you know, if it quacks like a duck and it walks like a duck, maybe it's a duck.
But if it doesn't fit that profile, admit to yourself, okay, my family member has peculiar beliefs that I don't agree with.
I think they're nuts.
But that doesn't mean they're brainwashed, and that doesn't mean they're in a cult.
And let's not use the word cult indiscriminately.
I would say there are destructive cults, benign cults.
I would say there is such a thing as a cult following that would not fit the profile of a destructive cult.
and we need to make those distinctions.
I agree.
I totally agree.
By the way, are you following anything with Diddy?
Yeah, I followed it a bit.
Yeah.
Would you put him as a...
Because a lot of the stuff you talk about,
cash, he wanted to make the money.
Agileation, he had to be in every music video.
Sexual favors, are you kidding me?
He did that with men, women, you know, by force, you know,
all this other stuff.
how do you profile Did he in regards to being a cult-like leader?
I don't necessarily see him as a cult leader,
but I see him as using cult-like techniques of coercive control
to dominate and manipulate women.
And in particular, there were various women
that talked about their life with him and what it was like.
I believe there was one video of him dragging a woman, beating a woman.
Cassie, El-Aid.
And so I think what you could honestly say about him,
he fits the profile of an abusive controlling partner
and that the women that he controlled were somewhat isolated
and manipulated by him and made to feel that whatever bad happened to them
was somehow their fault and that he was not to play.
and that he was not to blame.
And so he kind of follows in the footsteps of O.J. Simpson
in his relationship with Nicole Brown Simpson, which was very similar,
where the woman was degraded, the woman was socially isolated,
the woman was mistreated,
but lived in that kind of an abusive situation.
Another example would be Ike Turner, Tina Turner,
which has always fascinated me,
because Tina Turner, as we saw her in her later career,
was such a strong woman and such a dynamic woman.
But what I've seen over and over in my casework
with families that I've worked with,
interventions that I've done, trials that I've testified in,
is that even the most independent thinking,
intelligent person can step,
by step, slowly but surely, be pulled into this kind of trap. And I've often said that people are
tricked and then trapped by abuse of controlling partners. I like that. Tricked and trapped.
Tricked and trapped. Not I like that. I like the structure of the way you're saying it.
Tricked and trapped. Makes sense. Tricked first. That makes sense for this guy.
Into becoming involved, thinking probably that Cassie felt. He loves me. He's going to take care of me. He's a
wonderful man. He's very talented. I admire him. And then it changes and morphs into something entirely
different. Yeah, she was 19 apparently when he got a hold of her. And the rest of his history.
By the way, kids, I asked a couple of the guys here, one of our guys said, Pat, you may want to ask
him about 764 come, COM. It's a self-harming cult group started in 2021, that decentralized
Are you following what's going to, they're making kids kill, you know, it's some, it's radical.
There are leaders now being charged with child pornography.
Who is the leader, by the way?
I couldn't find a leader.
There was one man arrested that there were claims that he might be the leader or that he is alleged to be the leader.
This Bradley guy?
Bradley Caddenhead?
Yeah.
Yeah, I think that would be the person they arrested, that they characterized his.
being in a leadership position and a number of people have been arrested and what's interesting
about this group is how they recruited young people online and that some of those people were in
the gaming video gaming community and that adjacent to that there would be areas online where
they would recruit these people these minor children and then they would get incriminating information
they would coerce them and basically exploit them.
So this is typical of what we're seeing online.
And so if someone is a parent today,
how much more challenging it is than in my father's day
when there was just a telephone on the wall,
there was no internet.
Today, your kid can be on a smartphone in their bedroom
texting with a cult leader or cult members and being recruited and indoctrinated in a cult online
while they're in your own house.
And I have been involved in getting minor kids out of groups like that.
Yeah.
So the guy's name, Rob, if you want to pull them up, is Prasan Nepal.
If you can pull up Prasan, because I said, what does 764 come from?
Apparently it's the area code that it started from San Mateo, California.
But this is the guy who got arrested.
His name, online handle, is known as Trippy, 20-year-old man from High Point, North Carolina,
who has been arrested and charged as one of the leaders of 764,
Global Child Exploitation and Violent Extremist Network.
The network is a nihilistic, violent, extreme group.
I think they just got categorized as a terrorist group, if I'm not mistaken.
Nepal is accused of being a leader and a founder of the core subgroup.
He allegedly admitted to creating and still controlling the network.
Arrested April 22nd, 2025.
He is charged with operating international and international child exploitation enterprises.
Co-defendant Leonitis, Varagianis, known as war, was arrested in Greece.
Can you look that guy?
So wait a minute.
This is international.
So they're all over the world working together to get kids.
What a mess.
Grooming and extortion.
The group allegedly targets vulnerable minors, including those with depression or
mental illness and groomed them to produce sexual explicit and self-harm content guidebook.
The defendants are accused of creating a guide for aspiring 764 members, coercion and violence,
Nepal, and Varaginas allegedly ordered victims to perform acts of self-mutilation,
online sexual acts, and harm to animals, often live streamed for the group's content and as form of discipline.
Wow.
What do you tell parents?
what do you because you know this whole new thing 6-7 this whole thing that they're doing i don't know
if you heard about the 6-7 are you following it or no i can't see you going like 6-7 or whatever they do
but these kids are doing this thing called 6-7 right what do you tell parents like you know that
are uh seeing their kids behave a little bit weird what what feedback do you give to parents
well i think that uh that parents have to be vigilant that they have to understand where is my kid
going at online and they may want to track where they're going online and look where they're going
online and they may even want to restrict their use of the internet and their and and their access
to technology that puts them on the internet until they're old enough to better understand
what's involved you know there's nothing wrong with video games per se but we have to recognize
that they can be used in a negative way by cults to recruit people, which they have been,
and that people are being young children, minor children, are being recruited online.
So if you're a parent, this is very challenging, it's very dawning,
but you're going to have to, you know, be hands-on and understand exactly what's going on
in your child's life. Who are they visiting? What websites? What videos are they watching on YouTube?
what's going on. And if you see a change in behavior, they seem to become, they seem to
become more isolated. They're moving away from you. They're becoming sullen. They're
staying in their room for long periods of time. That these kind of changes may signal outside
influence online. And you need to be vigilant as a parent.
Yeah, it's a strange time right now because
kids are being targeted and if you're not too careful
The other day I'm talking to my kids and I said
So by what age you think we should get you guys social media
What age you think I'll approve
And I'm just kind of trying to see what they'll say
And my youngest says, I think you'll probably let us use social media at 16
And then my other one says
I don't know if I need it till 18, just give it to us at 18
I manage all their Instagram accounts
so I'm creating an Instagram account for all of them
that I'm going to hand it to them at 18 years old
and you know
from there on you're an adult but you get a head start
and that is your social media manager for now
I think it's so important to be involved
so important
if you're not
the other guys are watching
a famous pedophile interview
came out I don't know if you saw this guy or not
in a yellow shirt
and they asked him
who do you target
he says I target any kid whose father is not involved
that guy right there this guy right here
he flat out says I target kids who don't have a strong father
and don't have certain values faith values in their lives
Rob let's finish up with this clip here
I would check out their family situation
I would check out their...
He gathered 15 years, I believe.
You know, financially, I would check out their social interaction with other kids.
You know, when they were on the ballparks or on the gym floor, you know,
I would make sure which ones I wanted to molest, I would give them special attention,
congratulate them, talk to them, and I know that I would never be allowed to talk to anybody else.
you know, aside from everybody.
I would give them the attention that an official is not supposed to give anybody.
And it made them feel like, wow, he's paying the attention.
You know, it is a direct form of grooming.
Were there certain characteristics that you looked for in children before molesting them?
In children, yes, but more I also looked at their families.
If I thought the father was a threat.
bingo.
I would not approach the child.
If I thought that the child had friends that he would tell, I would not approach him.
If I thought the child had friends that were in the same capacity he was, I would approach
him.
For the simple fact, that if I could molest him, I could lure him into believing,
bringing him into believing that he will enjoy it.
And therefore, I can manipulate him into having his other friends come.
You know what it made me just think about, Rob?
It just made me think about Epstein's business model.
If you think about it.
Because Epstein got the girls to recruit other girls to his facility.
I'm sure you've seen the documentary with Epstein.
Yeah.
But who do people say you look like?
Did they tell you you look like somebody or no?
That I look like the rapper, Rick Ross.
I don't think so.
You're the third most famous Rick Ross in the world.
Is that fair?
Maybe.
But I will say this.
I was always Rick Ross.
I didn't change my name.
So they took your name.
These guys.
You know, you know what's interesting?
Ricky Ross is my legal name on my birth certificate, R-C-K-Y, Alan Ross.
And so Freeway Ricky Ross became the first person that used the same name as me.
And then subsequently, of course, Rick Ross was not thinking of me.
He was thinking of Freeway Ricky Ross.
And then he took the name Rick Ross, which was not his given name.
But all I can say is what a successful guy he is.
And he's quite the entrepreneur.
And sometimes I wish I was that Rick Ross because he's so.
He's so successful.
But let me just say this, the consistent narrative that pulls through all the people that I talk to.
that are cult victims, survivors of destructive cults,
is similar to what that man just said, that pedophile,
which is that they were at a vulnerable point in their life.
Things were not going well,
and they were looking for someone to help them,
someone to make them feel better about their situation,
about themselves.
And at that point, an authority figure
or a seeming authority figure
or someone they trusted, it could be a co-worker, a friend, a relative, who was involved in the
group, came to them and said, hey, come to this meeting, do this.
And they didn't know what the group was really all about, but they trusted the person that
approached them.
And at the same time, they were hurting.
And so that made them vulnerable.
And what I'm going to say is that all of us go through periods of time in our lives where we are
vulnerable where things are not going well and when that happens be careful be careful not to
trust someone too much that they have all the answers i'm assuming you run a consulting firm you run a
firm where people pay for you to help out with these types of things yes okay fantastic well we'll put
the book here uh cults inside out rick allen ross how people get in and can get out we'll put the
link below. Rick, this has been a pleasure having you on. I've really enjoyed learning more about
you. Thank you. Thank you. Take care, everybody. Bye, bye, bye, bye. Hi, I'm Rick Allen Ross,
cult expert, intervention specialist, author of the book Cults Inside Out. You can find me
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