QAA Podcast - Looksmaxxing (Premium E243) Sample
Episode Date: May 9, 2024We dive into an online community hellbent on improving their physical appearance through bizarre techniques like pressing their tongue to the roof of their mouth, hitting themselves in the face, and t...aking experimental growth hormones. Originating in Pick Up Artist (PUA) and incel forums, "looksmaxxing" has since become a proper tiktok trend. Thanks for being a patreon subscriber! Subscribe for $5 a month to get the full episode. You'll also get an extra episode of QAA every week + access to ongoing series like Manclan, Trickle Down, Perverts and The Spectral Voyager: https://www.patreon.com/QAA Liv Agar: https://linktr.ee/livagar http://qaapodcast.com QAA was formerly known as the QAnon Anonymous podcast.
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POMAYOR.
If you're hearing this, well done.
You found a way to connect to the internet.
Welcome to the QAA podcast, Premium Episode 243, looks maxing.
As always, we are your host, Jake Rakitansky.
Liv Aker.
Julian Field.
And Travis View.
Today I have another Zoomer online brain rod episode for you all.
I know Julian especially is very fond of these.
He's very happy during the recordings.
Yeah.
live goes through cycles she goes into chrysalis stage in which she's in a tent on the
Columbia campus and then she emerges and just says one word and it's usually something like
looks maxing and I I go now that doesn't come on that doesn't exist she made it up this time
she never makes it up it's always it's like no a billion people say this every day
that's because a billion tents opened at the same moment and everyone emerged saying
the same word you're saying this is a Hezbollah conspiracy looks maxing
Yeah, I think Iran is paying Americans to looks max.
It's very possible.
They know it'll be the fall of our civilization.
It is on TikTok.
You know, who owns that?
The Chinese government.
It's not a secret at this point that a large portion of internet meme culture has its origins
in less than savory parts of the internet.
Many of these memes have gone on to be absorbed into the general public's consciousness.
Well, the younger part of it anyways.
As innocent and funny jokes they send to their friends on Instagram or TikTok.
This phenomenon goes back to even the early aughts, when impact font lolcat memes were popularized
by fortune, and probably further.
But it appears that this process is never ending, as we live in a hellish, Nietzschean eternal occurrence
where pickup artist sites and in-sale forums end up somehow continuing to be on the cutting edge
the various inside joke references that the youth used to talk to each other online.
On this episode, I'll be delving into the phenomena of looks maxing, a term that seems to have been
popularized on various in-cell-adjacent websites from 2015.
15 onward, that comes with its own ideological standpoint on the nature of beauty, relationships,
self-improvement, behavioral psychology, phrenology, and many more that has since evolved into a
shockingly ubiquitous set of phrases embraced by young TikTok zoomers. Yeah, I guess like doing too much
of anything is maxing or like focusing on something is maxing. Yeah, like if you abandon everything
to be funny to gain women, your gesture maxing. Like if you spend a bunch of time like, oh,
these are a bunch of funny lines. I'll repeat.
Yeah, this was like when I was in junior high and, like, not very athletic, you know, kind of chubby, like, couldn't afford good Stozy stuff.
And I put all of my skill points into Dave Matthew's guitar songs.
There you go.
You're a guitar, your music maxing.
I was, I was, yeah, I was, I was Dave maxing.
You were Matthew maxing.
I would like to bombs max this country.
Well, you're going to have to sacrifice some attributes from other areas.
You're terror maxing
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
As an anecdote about looks maxing's popularity with the young ins,
I can tell you that my sibling, who is in high school,
was supervising some grade-ates during lunch period,
and they were supposedly absolutely obsessed with looks-maxing memes.
It really does seem to be the main way they were communicating with each other.
And while the viral manifestations of looks-maxing
are certainly less insane and harmful than its protozoic manifestation
on obscure in-cell forms,
They still carry much of the, to use a zoomer term, brain rot of the original.
It's good, though.
It's like zoomers, they look out over the desolate landscape, the poisoned, horrible, desolate
landscape.
And they're like, we have to eat something.
And so they're farming on it, you know, they're growing things.
They're growing crops on the rotten land.
And we're all receiving culture.
It's nice.
It's like in Chernobyl, where, like, plants have developed that absorb radiation as energy.
That's kind of the zoomer brain.
Yes, yes.
I see it more as like the zoomers have democratized body dysmorphia, you know?
This is something that the neuroses are spread amongst all the people, you know.
Exactly.
Now it's not just like weird obscure in-cell sub-forms.
Now it's everyone.
Looksmaxing developed out of what's called the PSL community, which was born from three in-sill-adjason websites.
PUAHate.com, slut hate.com, and then lookism.net.
Jesus Christ.
Oh yeah. I mean, it's the change from the first to the second as well, just on its surface.
Yeah, that's like when you had a sentence earlier where phrenology just came up in the middle of other normal words.
It's a very common theme, I think, in the looks maxing community.
Each website on this acronym gained popularity among vaguely the same community following the previous site being taken down for various reasons.
While the specific details of which ideas developed on which of them is essentially hearsay, as they all don't accept.
anymore and were fairly poorly archived, it's nevertheless possible to achieve a general overview
of how looks maxing developed here. And some of this should be taken with a grain of salt,
because a lot of my research comes, again, from stories by people who are insane enough to browse
these forums in their hayday. The first site, PUA hate, sounds completely reasonable on its
surface, given that PUA stands for pickup artistry. This website was founded in 2009, and initially
was focused on exposing the many pickup artist influencers running grifts and multi-level marketing
schemes to scam people. Given that much of the forum was filled with disgruntled pickup artists,
they continued to hold many of the same misogynistic beliefs they had beforehand, only now coming
to the conclusion that grifting pickup gurus were wrong when they continually asserted that any man
who is good enough at following their method could have sex with women. Oh, this is good. This is like
when Jordan Saither started debunking other QAnon people. Exactly. Exactly. Many on the forum,
therefore, came to the conclusion that game, or the ability to hit on women successfully, wasn't actually
all that important of a determining factor for how much pussy a man could get.
One subform on the site, which would eventually essentially take over the whole website,
called shitty advice, was dedicated to giving other four members tips on how to pick up women.
Members of the shitty advice subform would come to generally follow the LMS theory,
which is created by a member of the board, or the belief that looks, money, and status,
are the only components of attracting women, denying that any amount of pickup artistry or game
or confidence in general can compensate if one does not have,
one of these three things.
Wow. So they basically came to like the cultural conclusions that men were coming to when we all
wore hats outdoors. Was this a moment in culture, the hat moment?
Yeah, 40s, 50s.
Given that it's pretty hard to give people advice and how to gain money or status over a
forum thread, the board subsequently became focused on critiquing each other's looks.
Form users became obsessed with tentative studies that attempted to empirically quantify facial
beauty, which emphasize things like one's mid-faced ratio, or the distance between the eyes and the
lips, or one's facial width to height ratio, as essential components of beauty.
Okay, so we're doing the Bethesda slider thing. Yes, exactly. That's cool.
This weird obsession with quantifying facial beauty is something that will stay with looks
maxing into its virality. If you're a women on the internet who posts themselves and you see
weirders talking about your canthal tilt or mid-face, it's basically because of these guys.
Mid face
God damn that's cursed
Form husers rated each other using this rigid
and unforgiving definition of physical beauty
often emphasizing parts of the face
like the midface ratio that cannot be altered
particularly well even by cosmetic surgeries
because it's just the distance between your mouth and your eyes
like you can't really surgery that
it's insane
thus the site became a low self-esteem factory
with users being told that their canthal tilt is off
and therefore they aren't getting women
because they are ontologically hideous
and they should just rop-max
or maybe take a vow of celibacy.
That's a word.
Ro-maxing is a phrase, yes.
No, no, no, no, no.
No, this is what happens.
It's like the TikTok thing
where it's like you start saying pew-pue for guns
and like before you know it,
rope max is a thing, you know?
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The part about be crying, not me
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Oh, oh, oh.