Radiolab - Inheritance

Episode Date: April 1, 2022

Once a kid is born, their genetic fate is pretty much sealed. Or is it? In this episode, originally aired in 2012, we put nature and nurture on a collision course and discover how outside forces can... find a way inside us, and change not just our hearts and minds, but the basic biological blueprint that we pass on to future generations.Support Radiolab by becoming a member of The Lab today.     Radiolab is on YouTube! Catch up with new episodes and hear classics from our archive. Plus, find other cool things we did in the past — like miniseries, music videos, short films and animations, behind-the-scenes features, Radiolab live shows, and more. Take a look, explore and subscribe!

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Wait, you're listening to Radio Lab from WNYC. Hey, it's Latif. Lulu. This is Radio Lab. In a very real way, we've been thinking a lot about inheritance. We inherited this beloved show that we first fell in love with as listeners. And as of 11.01 AM on Tuesday, when we're recording this, we have not broken the show so far. Still, still standing. And we're trying to think about how do we keep it the same in a lot of ways, but how do
Starting point is 00:00:41 we also let it grow into something beyond what it was originally built to be? Well, you said it's so much more diplomatically, like I'd be like, we got the keys, we're gonna trash the house. Well, I mean, you know, yeah. Artfully trash. Artfully trash the house. Anyway, we think about that all the time,
Starting point is 00:00:56 and I was just talking a little about that, and then she's like, you know, there's the radio lab about this. A really good radio lab about this. Called inheritance, I won't say too much more, except it includes one of my favorite kind of scientific parables that like I've ever heard is something
Starting point is 00:01:11 I still think about all the time. It's so good that it makes you not want to trash the house, you know what I mean? Yeah, that's it. Yeah, there you go. And we'll just let the old Yahoo's from whom we inherited, inherited it, take it away.
Starting point is 00:01:27 Enjoy. Oh, actually, real thing. Before we go, Latif. Yeah. Did you know there is, a part of this show is gonna be like crazy breaking news like happened yesterday and we already have a deep take on it?
Starting point is 00:01:41 No, I did not know that. April falls. Oh, great. All right, Kay. Yeah. I want to start with a parental daydream for a second. It's an idea that's been kicking around for me since my kids were born.
Starting point is 00:01:57 OK. Actually, the idea itself is pretty old. It goes back to the 1800s. Right around Napoleon's time to a fellow by the name of Jean-Baptiste Pierre Antoine Monit-Svoit-Vagier de Lamar. fellow by the name of Jean-Baptiste Pierre Antoine Monit-Svoitier de Lamar. Yep. Lamar, Jean-Baptiste Lamar, who, according to writer Sam Keen, he was really one of the first grand theorists in biology. He actually coined the word biology too. Really? Yep. His big idea, as you might know, is that what a person does in their lifetime could be directly passed to their kids.
Starting point is 00:02:25 Very easily. His famous example was giraffes. Lamarck said, you want to know how a giraffe got its long neck? One day this giraffe, mother giraffe, let's say, was looking up into tree and saw some fruit and had to stretch. Her neck and stretch again. Whole lifetime is stretching and then when she had a baby, stretching got into the baby. And then that baby would stretch and stretch and stretch and give a little more stretching to its baby. And eventually over the millennia what you'd get is a
Starting point is 00:02:51 creature with a very long neck. Because they're reaching for the tops of trees, it makes a kind of common sense. Really. It does. It does make kind of a folk sense. He thought it worked with humans too. His example with humans was a blacksmith. He thought that because they're swinging hammers all day, they got big bulky muscles and then they would pass the muscles to their children. The sneaky idea here is that the blacksmiths, the giraffes, they made it happen. They will the neck to get longer, the muscles to get bigger. And the key point is that it wasn't something inborn in them. It was something they acquired during their lifetime, which they passed to their kids. Right. And that's
Starting point is 00:03:34 wrong. That's not how it works. We're told. We now know that that's not the case. But wouldn't be nice if that's how it worked? Lesson? Well, let's read the book first. Read this. Yeah, let's read this. Because, you know, now that I've got these two kids, right? Yeah. You see that now? Yeah, right there.
Starting point is 00:03:53 I find myself thinking like, okay, I know these kids have their genes, have for me, have for my wife. And I know I can't change those genes. Right. And I know fate is going to give them a couple of random mutations in those genes. That's the thing. That I have no control over. That's just a cold logic of Darwinian evolution.
Starting point is 00:04:10 Yeah. What's offensive? I mean, the idea that they could be constrained by their DNA, that maybe one of us gave them a bit of DNA that's gonna hold them back? It's a terrible thought. Just let her right here. Oh.
Starting point is 00:04:23 I let this one. And so what you do, I think all parents do this is that you slip into this Lamarkey and delusion that what you do with your kids can somehow rewrite all that. That you can somehow, by just being nice to them reading them stories or whatever, that you can somehow break them free of all that. If you write their blueprint, like,
Starting point is 00:04:42 I don't know, you don't really say it to yourself that way, but yeah. You can make a deep difference. Yeah, like you can help them overcome you I know no you can't I know that's what Darwin says you can I know I know Once they're born their genes are fixed and Change does not happen in a generation or two, it happens really, really, really slowly, gradually, achingly, slowly. One parent's stretching isn't going to do anything. See, that's the bummer of Darwinian evolution.
Starting point is 00:05:16 As a parent, you are a tiny blip in a very, very long story. But... this hour we're gonna fight this sort of sad, sacfilling of inevitability and impotence. And rewrite the so-called rules of genetics. That's right. Today on Radio Lab... We're gonna lick some rats, starve some Swedes, haze some people to change destiny. I mean, we're not gonna do that ourselves. No, but we're gonna play you stories where
Starting point is 00:05:47 these things actually happen. Yes. I'm Chad Abumrod. I'm Robert Krollwich. This is Radio Lab, stick around. It's gonna get messy. Okay, so let's get going and stick with your boy, Lamarck, just for a second. Because we were talking to Science writer Carl Zimmer, and he told us that back in the
Starting point is 00:06:14 early 1900s, this tension between Lamarck and Darwin got extra tense. Yeah. In a sort of fascinating way. Right. And it all started in Vienna. At this really marvelous place called the Viverium. The Viverium. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:33 This was a really radical place at the time because you have to remember that people studying animals up till now, they were basically studying preserved specimens and so on. At the Viverium, as the name suggests, they had... BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! BLEEP! B Oh, three. But luckily for the Vivarium and for our story, they had a guy. Paul Cameron. Who was he? So he and one was he. He was born in 1880 in Vienna, Jewish family.
Starting point is 00:07:14 By all accounts, a pretty good looking guy. And in pictures he has that, you know, that crazy Einstein fuzzy hair thing. Maginius cut. He's 22, 23, and you already have this reputation for being amazing at keeping animals alive that otherwise would just die. His reputation was that he could get inside the mind of, say, a salamander.
Starting point is 00:07:36 And no just what it wanted to eat. Or how much humidity it preferred. He was a born, nurturer, and he adored animals. He actually named his daughter, Lasserta, which is a genus of lizard. That's the kind of guy he is. So, of course, the folks of the Varian asked him to build these terrariums and aquariums
Starting point is 00:07:56 and stock them with animals. Including a particular amphibian that plays a very big part in the story. The Midwife Toad. The Midwife Toad. The Midwife Toad. Right. Yeah, it's writer Sam Keenigan, and here's, he says what you need to know about the Midwife Toad.
Starting point is 00:08:11 Basically, the Midwife Toad has a strange habit for Toads. Most Toads, he says, love to stay in the water. They like to hang out in the water, and the females like to lay eggs in the water. But with the Midwife Toad, the female lays her eggs on land, and then the male Midwife Toad comes along, grabs the water, but with midwife toad, the female lays her eggs on land, and then the male midwife toad comes along, grabs the eggs, and actually kind of sticks them to his back legs, like a bunch of whitish grapes, and then hops around with them basically until they hatch. So he's got to live his life as a toad with all this baggage on him?
Starting point is 00:08:42 Just until they hatch and then until they go off. Still, that's a burden. He's carrying a big burden there. Is your wife gonna hear this? She cares your kids for nine months and you're like, that poor male toad. Anyhow, so you got this guy, Paul Cameron, who's good with animals, he got these toads who hate water.
Starting point is 00:08:59 And in one day, we can imagine, he gets curious. As he's doing his rounds, He stops by the midwife toad gerarium. He looks down at that little male toad with a grape stuck to his legs and he wonders How adaptable is that little guy? I mean he hates water. The females seem to hate laying eggs in the water But is that the end of the story? What would happen if I made them go in the water? Could they adapt? I know what I'll do. I'm gonna set up a gerarium for them and I'm gonna make it hot If I made them go in the water, could they adapt? I know what I'll do.
Starting point is 00:09:26 I'm going to set up a terrarium for them, and I'm going to make it hot. Really uncomfortably hot. But I'm going to give them a basin of water. Nice cool water. And he would basically turn the heat way, way up in these aquariums until they had to go underwater. You can imagine these toads were like, damn it. Fine, all right, I'll get in the water.
Starting point is 00:09:47 Maybe they'd try and jump back out, but it was still hot, so they'd have to jump back in. And since camera kept the heat up, toads basically had to stay there. In this watery place that they had not evolved for. Darwin's theory would have said, 90% of the toads are gonna die. There's gonna be this massacre of toads,
Starting point is 00:10:07 and only a few lucky ones are going to survive. And those lucky ones, according to Darwin's theory, they would have had to have been born with some random mutation in their gene. That gave them an advantage in this situation. And that advantage, whatever it was, because it starts with one individual, I'm gonna get passed on to the kids.
Starting point is 00:10:26 I'm going to their kids. It would take a long, long, long time to spread through the whole population, because generally, that's how evolution works. It takes a while. But, according to camera, here's what happened when he heated up the toads little cage. They had spent more time in the water, as expected. And when it came time to mate, the males and the females, they would mate in the water. And at first, didn't go so well. Because you know if you're a Lanto and you're trying to have sex in the water, it's kind of hard.
Starting point is 00:10:59 You're slippery, partner slippery. You just have it evolve for this and there's no way you can. At least not quickly. But, according to camera, shortly after these toads got into the water, Partner slippery, you just have it evolve for this and there's no way you can at least not quickly but According to camera shortly after these toads got into the water they did begin to evolve fast They began to grow these little puffy things on their hands these these kind of rough scratchy pads what's known as a nupshul pad Nupshul pad right was just what the males needed so they they can grab onto the female and hold tight while they're mating.
Starting point is 00:11:26 And they didn't have these on land? No, they did not have them on land. They just appeared in the water. Yep. And how long did it take? Right away. Really? In just two generations, these toads seemed to have done something that should have taken.
Starting point is 00:11:41 I don't know, 50 or 100 generations? Maybe more. The camera thought, wow! They can respond to the environment. They were revealing it with experiments. They're not trapped by their genes. Around 1908, he starts publishing all of these results. And it's big news.
Starting point is 00:11:57 And he grabs his toads and he hit the road. He hit the lecture circuit and he hit it big. He was known for going around and giving what he called his big show lectures, where he would wow whole audiences of people. And in 1923, he actually comes to England. There was a newspaper called The Daily Express and they have these headlines that come out. It says, Race of Superman. That's the headline for his talk.
Starting point is 00:12:23 And then below the right-blow headlines, it says, Scientist Great Discovery, which may change us all. What's he talking about? We. And then below the right-blow the headline it says, Scientist Great Discovery, which may change us all. What's he talking about? We're just talking about Toad, I thought. He's not just talking about Toads anymore. He's going way beyond Toads. He extended this idea to people.
Starting point is 00:12:36 He thought that you could kind of engineer societies by changing the environment. I just have to read this to you. The result make it probable that our descendants will learn more quickly what we know well. We'll execute more easily what we have accomplished with great effort. We'll be able to withstand what injured us almost to the point of death where we saw they will find where we began they will accomplish. And this idea won him a lot of fans including not surprisingly the
Starting point is 00:13:05 Soviets. Yeah it was a very attractive theory to them in Moscow. Because the Soviets may believe in Karl Marx's idea that human beings were an improvable species. If you can change the conditions around people you change the people. Here, Cameraw is saying you know you can do this even on a physical level. But you know there are a lot of skeptics. And there were from the beginning, when camera published his results initially, a bunch of scientists immediately began to say, Wait a minute.
Starting point is 00:13:34 Hold on here. It would be nice if life was like that, but life isn't like that. Life is hard. People can't just wheel themselves into a more perfect form. According to Darwin, life and changes are ruled by chance and fate. And to believe anything else, that's naive. So this whole toad thing to Darwinian faction,
Starting point is 00:13:53 it didn't scan really. So some scientists began to ask Camer if they could look at his toads. They would just take a little peek for themselves and every time. Camerar said, no, they were his specimens. Get your own. There was kind of this struggle for a few years.
Starting point is 00:14:08 Then World War I came and that kind of disrupted everything. Camerar for one was sent off to work as a censor for the Austrian military. And his lab ended up getting destroyed, including all his totes. Except he had one. He had one remaining midwife toad. So this whole debate, two totally different ways of seeing life.
Starting point is 00:14:30 It all came down to this jar with this toad in it. And you have to bear in mind that at this point, it only had one hand left. The right hand had been cut off for microscopic slides. And so you could only see one nupchal pad and it all comes down to this. And all of it was just about to fall apart. What happened? Well, there was a expert on reptiles named G Kingsley Noble. Gladwin Kingsley Noble.
Starting point is 00:15:03 What a game. I got a like this guy. It sounds like trouble. He was for camera. He was mighty skeptical. So he actually went to Vienna. Visited Camer's lab when Camer wasn't there. And he makes a very careful study of this hand. And when he examined it, he noticed that there was a syringe hole there. And he says, this is an inupial pad. It looks darkened, but that's just ink. What?
Starting point is 00:15:36 What do you mean ink? Ink. Like the ink? Like you like ink? No, like India ink. What? No. Yes.
Starting point is 00:15:45 He doctored the toad. That was the implication. Except, camera tried to defend himself by saying, Do you think I'm a doom cop or an idiot? Because that's what I would have to be if I left a forgery with ink standing around openly in the laboratory where so many of my enemies would have entry. So how did he explain it?
Starting point is 00:16:03 Well, he thought it might have been an assistant trying to frame him because he was Jewish. And there was kind of anti-semitism growing at this time. So he thought that someone had framed him. And six weeks after Noble published his results in nature, camera sent a letter to Moscow. Turning down a job that they'd offered him, because it would reflect badly on the Soviet state. And then, following day, camera puts on a suit, and he walks off into the mountains.
Starting point is 00:16:37 Outside Vienna on a Rocky Mountain Trail. And... You shoot himself. Jeez. The Markism pretty much died there. So then over the next 70-some odd years, Lamarck basically became the poster boy for like the big dumb idea. The idea that you wanna believe in, but that you know isn't true. But, but, but, there's, but there's,
Starting point is 00:17:29 there's like some hope here because, um, okay, all right, this is interesting. Then, Carl told us about this research that showed that if, if a mother, really couldn't quite remember the details. Does what a mother, unusual for Carl? Mouse or rat, I'm sure you remember. Was it rats or mice?
Starting point is 00:17:47 No, it's rats. Rats. We ended up talking to the guy who did the work. Michael Meeney, I think? Yep. I'm a professor in the faculty of medicine at McGill University in Montreal. So here's the backstory. About 30 years ago.
Starting point is 00:18:00 I was an undergraduate student. Michael was in school and he got interested in a very, very basic question about how things get passed down. Like, have you ever had one of those moments where you suddenly are your dad and it catches you off guard? Oh, of course. I mean, it's pretty common.
Starting point is 00:18:12 But like, here's a, for instance, my dad, from my entire life, had this thing where if someone was whistling, he'd be like, they could be whistling six tables over in a restaurant and he would turn around and be like, stop that. Like, it was like it was scraping his very nerves. And the other day, someone was whistling and I was like, stop it. And it just hit me. I was like, stop that. Like it was like it was scraping his very nerves. And the other day, someone was whistling and I was like, stop it. And it just hit me.
Starting point is 00:18:28 I was like, oh God, that was it. It's never appeared until now. And you wanted like weird dead comfort. Is that a genetic hatred of whistling that I just had? Or did I somehow learn that? Like that in a sort of ass-backward way was Michael's question. How does that happen? How do these simple little traits get passed forward?
Starting point is 00:18:44 So. So we started looking at maternal care. question. How does that happen? How do these simple little traits get passed forward? So we started looking at maternal care. Many years later he and this woman, French champagne, who now works at Columbia University, they decided to explore this question in rats. So we have our rats in the lab and they thought let's just see if we can figure out how it is that rat mothers pass down their parenting skills That's right if you were a great rat mommy. What would you be doing with your rat baby? You would be licking them quite a lot That's what good rat mothers do. They lick their babies a lot But she says you can tell right away just by looking that some rat moms don't lick their kids a lot There's a normal distribution, right? You got your good parents and your bad parents
Starting point is 00:19:23 What they decided to do first was to try to figure out which rat was which, which meant, interestingly, counting all the licks. Putting this into context, you know, you have a rat mom and they have about 16 to 20 babies. All at once? At once. And we're watching 40 litters at a time. How do you count the licks at 40 at that time? That's too hard. You have to look at one cage.
Starting point is 00:19:45 Say, are they licking? Yes, no. Okay, move on to the next cage. Yes, no. Move on to the next cage. Yes, no. You have to do that for five hours a day, for six consecutive days. Move on to the next cage.
Starting point is 00:19:55 Yes, no. Move on to the next cage. Yes, no. See, this is the story of science that doesn't get told. It's just a mind-crushing tedium. Yes, yes. The next cage. Yes, no. It's an excite, yes, no? Yeah, it drifts into something like a shopping channel. In any case, what they saw at the end of all this counting was,
Starting point is 00:20:13 well, first of all, what they saw was this pattern that rat pubs who got licked a lot as babies when they grew up, they licked their babies a lot. And the rat pubs who didn't get licked a lot when they grew up, they didn't lick their babies a lot. So the great rat-naked mirror comes true with the females become their mothers. Okay. I think that makes a lot of sense. Actually, it's kind of obvious. Right.
Starting point is 00:20:38 Yeah. I mean, we all kind of know this, that there are cycles of abuse or whatever. You know, like if you're abused as a kid, you're more likely to abuse your kid. But still, you got to wonder. Why? Why would that happen? How do those cycles perpetuate? I mean, like with the licking, is it a teaching thing? Where, you know, the babies become good mothers because-
Starting point is 00:20:57 They've learned it. By watching their mothers. They've seen it and they've repeated the experience. Or does it get passed on such a deep level that it doesn't even require teaching. So that's the reason of course that we work with rats because we can get inside the brain. So Michael and Francis looked inside the brains of these rats and what they saw was that the rats who'd been licked a lot as babies, they had more stuff in their head. What do you mean more brains? More
Starting point is 00:21:23 what kind of stuff? No, not brains. I was more of this particular kind of protein. That activates maternal behavior. When rats have more of this protein, they will act more motherly and they had more. So... Well, think about what makes proteins. What's DNA? DNA.
Starting point is 00:21:40 Well, yes, genes and DNA. Don't you see somehow the mother's tongue is getting all the way down in there and going, boop, boop! And messing with the baby's DNA. Don't you see somehow the mother's tongue is getting all the way down in there and going, boop! And messing with the baby's DNA. Is that what you're saying? That the licking is changing the baby's DNA? That's what I...
Starting point is 00:21:52 No, you have quite saying that. Because you know, that's how it gets the rule. That's how it gets the rule. You can't change your DNA. Yeah, you can't touch that. It's off limits. But, that tongue is doing something to the DNA. So what is the licking doing there?
Starting point is 00:22:05 That's our challenge. Do you have any theories for how this tongue is tickling the DNA or whatever it's doing? Um, well, so then... Michael just launched into this thing. What happens when moms lick their pups is that the puppy comes aroused. The reason they're more aroused is that the mom's licking activates the release of adrenaline and nor adrenaline in the pup. He says those two chemicals kick off certain hormonal systems and one of them is called the thyroid
Starting point is 00:22:41 system. The thyroid hormones then get into the brain and they turn on certain neurochemical signals and the neurochemical signal that gets activated during licking is serotonin. As in the mood chemical? Yep, so mom's licking activates serotonin and it's released onto brain cells in the hippocampus. You still with me? I think I'm with you.
Starting point is 00:23:06 Start with a tongue. Four or five steps later, we are in brain cells. So almost instantaneously, the mother's tongue has reached into the baby's brain cells. Huh. And now inside these cells in the center, coiled up little spools is the DNA. So we're getting close to the moment of truth,
Starting point is 00:23:23 because there it is. That's the stuff that makes you you, but that you, supposedly can't get to. But, here's what I did not know about DNA. According to Francis, it's not just sitting off there perfectly preserved. It's in the middle of the cell, it's crowded. You know, you've got all these chemicals around it. Racing by.
Starting point is 00:23:41 You know, in the cells. And very often, one of them will just go... Prashing into the DNA and it'll stick there like a like a barnacle or a glob of peanut butter Exactly peanut butter. There we go. What'll happens? It'll get stuck to one little part of the DNA And now that little bit of DNA is very difficult to get at. It's basically unusable because it's got the thing stuck to it Yeah, and these things are called, apparently, methyl groups. Methyl groups are pretty sticky. They're hard to get off.
Starting point is 00:24:10 So imagine the DNA in that brain cell. All these chemicals racing by, crashing into it, sticking in one of the bits that gets covered up. Is that little bit that makes the proteins that create a maternal instinct? The bit of DNA that will give this baby, when it grows up, the instinct to be nice to its baby and lick that baby. And you're saying that part of the DNA is covered up?
Starting point is 00:24:31 Yes. And when methyl groups stick to that part of the DNA, the maternal instinct is effectively turned off. But if you've got a mom who licks you, Mom's licking activates serotonin. Serotonin gets into the brain cells and, according to Michael, unleashes a whole series of molecular events inside the cell. The critical part of this is that all these changes wake up this little gang of proteins, known as transcription factors. If they see methyl groups sitting on that bit of DNA, they are pissed.
Starting point is 00:25:03 And so they bring water friends to the party. They all go down to the DNA, surround that methyl, and just... HELLO! Knock it right off the DNA. That's it. And then they're going to basically revel at that particular spot. And turn on that gene. So now the genes can make the proteins that make the rats a good mom?
Starting point is 00:25:24 Exactly. Exactly. That was awesome. Wow. That was amazing. Why are you so thrilled? Well, think about it. This is nature and nurture slamming into each other. Like, you know when people, smart people say,
Starting point is 00:25:38 you know, there's no such thing as nature and nurture it's only the interaction of the two. And you're like, what the hell does that mean? Well, this is it. But this is real physical, chemical interaction between what's going on in the environment and what's going on with the DNA. Because you begin with a mother's lick that ends up with a deep, deep change in the baby, not just a good warm fuzzy feeling, but a fundamental shift in who that baby is and who that
Starting point is 00:26:04 baby will be. You're now hearing Lamarck's name invoked these days because there are things beyond genes that we pass down to our children. Now, according to Carl, your genes are still fixed. We can't rewrite our genes. That is impossible so far as we know, but there seems to be this layer on top of the genes. This second channel of Threatity. If the genes are the bottom floor then this layer on top is sometimes called the epigenome
Starting point is 00:26:31 and that thing can change based on your experiences. Which when you think about it, it has a very lemarky and flavor. Yeah, I think that's where lemarks' ideas can be woven in and make some sense. So do you call yourself a Lamarcane? Not usually because it upsets people, and I'm Canadian, I don't like to accept it. Plus, you know, Lamarc didn't get all the biological details right. I had no idea about DNA. Or very many of them right at all.
Starting point is 00:26:57 But you know, his basic idea seems to be true. I mean, when you think of camera, there was a report in science, outlining a theory about how camera toads got these characteristics that invoked these epigenetic inheritance and imprinter genes, and it made it plausible. Oh, so redeeming him. Yeah. Maybe, or maybe not.
Starting point is 00:27:25 Thanks to Francis Champagne and Michael Meeney and Sam Kean, who writes about Paul Cameron in his book The Violinist Thumb, also thanks to Carl Zimmer, whose latest is evolution, making sense of life. And go! Hey, I'm Chad I'm Umrod. I'm Robert Kroich. This is Radio Lab and today it's inheritance today. Yeah, we're exploring questions of like, what can you pass down to your kids and their kids? What can't you? How much of you will echo into the future and how much of you won't? And I gotta say, I'm feeling pretty good about this show so far. Because if a mother, a rat mother, licking her baby can have such a profound effect,
Starting point is 00:28:29 basically change the expression of the genes in the baby. Well, that's so cool. So you think you can get deep down? Look, in the end, what do I know? But I take it that we have more control over our destinies and our kids' destinies and we would have thought. Well, let's not get too excited too fast because we have a story to tell.
Starting point is 00:28:50 And this one, this tale leaves me a little queasy. Oh, there was a contact. Hello, hello. Yep, it's me, Oleh. This is Oleh. Hi, Oleh Begrian. I'm in public health. He works at the Carolinska Institute in Sweden where he studies population data. Looking for patterns in
Starting point is 00:29:08 cardiovascular diseases, high blood pressure and such. But the story he told us begins around 25 years ago. Way up in Northern Sweden. That's Sam Keene again. He's the guy who told us about all his work. In a little community called over-calix. What does it look like? I can see the big town, a little village. It's a small forest area. Very beautiful. But this was a really, really tough place to grow up. Very isolated and very cold. Are you near the Arctic Circle? North of it. North of the Arctic Circle?
Starting point is 00:29:43 My home village was 10 miles north of the public circle. Oh so you grew up in over Calix? Yeah yeah. We had an expression here. Dig where you stand. And it just so happens this town is a perfect place to dig. Okay I'm here. Vix Akivet, Okay, I'm here. Vix Akivet, the Kingdom Archive. Because there is more data, more information about the people of Overcalix going farther back into the path than you could find almost anywhere else on Earth. Yeah, we are really day to day. This is the Overcalix Church Parish.
Starting point is 00:30:21 Yes, it is. Because here's the thing, the churches up and over-calix kept incredibly detailed records. We actually sent our friend, Pike Malanovski, to the archives and Stockholm to check it out. Says register, register. In those books, you can read everything about the citizens of over-calix,
Starting point is 00:30:37 going back hundreds of years. What's his name? You know their names? Jons, Jonsulof, Anna, Keisa, Henry van Bay. What year they were born? 1814, 1881. She was born 1904 and this is... Everything happening in the family. Is in these books.
Starting point is 00:30:54 Neilson, he was an idiot. He was an idiot. I'm sorry. What does that mean? He was an idiot. I guess... Yeah, he was retarded. Yeah. Eerlendig at Skoda, he was miserable to look at.
Starting point is 00:31:08 It's not very politically correct. In any case, these books tell you, when each of these folks died, how they died? From disease, from pneumonia. Accidents. To drown. Oh my God. A lot of diagnosis, actually. Influences. Cancer,
Starting point is 00:31:25 heart disease, brain disease. Interestingly, the church has also kept track of the farmer's crops, crops and livestock. How much they were growing each year. Which turned out to be kind of an interesting thing to look at because the people in overcalix who were farming? Trying to equal living out of the soil. Then here we have how much they harvest it. They would experience these wild changes from harvest to harvest. What you see in the records is that one year, potatoes, crops to do great. 100 liters. Wow, that's a lot of potatoes. A few years later, there'd be a harsh winter.
Starting point is 00:32:03 The crops failed. And when the crops failed. Famines. Yeah. So sad. They basically starve. I mean, when you look at the records, you don't see huge spikes in mortality.
Starting point is 00:32:14 So they didn't starve to death. But they suddenly had to get by on a tiny fraction of the food that they were used to. They didn't have grains. I mean, they didn't have the porridge. And so they just had to hold on for the entire winter. But then a few years would pass. Perhaps wood?
Starting point is 00:32:30 Bounce back. But we have a lot more grain here. And suddenly plenty of food. I could eat twice, three times as much. But then? Oh no. Total crop failure. Famine again.
Starting point is 00:32:40 And these changes would just bounce back and forth. Feast. Famine. Feast. Famine. So famine again, and these changes would just bounce back and forth. These... Famine. These... Famine. These again. And looking at these swings and fortune, Ula realized what he had here was a nice natural
Starting point is 00:32:58 experiment. Because with all this data, he and his team could follow families forward in time through the generations. So if they saw somebody who was starving as a kid in 1820, they could then see, well, when those people had children and grandchildren, did anything change? Were there any consequences? They wanted to see basically the effects of starvation on multiple generations. Would it you discover? Well, it was very interesting discovery.
Starting point is 00:33:31 What's a little odd, actually. Here's what Ula says he found in the data. If you were a boy in overcalix, between the ages of 9 and 12 years old, so that's the window, 9 to 12, you're a boy, and then we have one of those terribly rough winters, and you're eating much less than normal. Assuming that you can survive the ordeal and you grow up and you have kids of your own, the data seems to say that your kids will benefit from your suffering.
Starting point is 00:34:00 They'll do better. If you have a starving daddy, it turns out that the baby actually gets some sort of health benefit. Really? Yeah. And these effects, in fact, were so strong that you could trace it to the grandfather. The grandfather? Two generations? It seemed to have been passed down from multiple generations. I mean, if you had a starving grandfather, you would be a healthier,
Starting point is 00:34:24 a boy for that because you had a starving grandfather, you would be a healthier boy for that because you had a starving grandfather. You got a health boost if you had a starving grandfather. What sort of health boost? Well, um, who looked at us, take heart disease. You're asking to disease. He said, if you were a boy and you starve between the ages of nine and twelve and then you went on to become a father, then a grandfather.
Starting point is 00:34:46 You're grandkids? They were protected. Meaning that they had less incidence of heart disease? Much less. How much less? Well it's one fourth then can we say. One fourth? Let me say this again, if you're a starving boy between 9 to 12 years old now doesn't matter
Starting point is 00:35:03 a whole lot what happens to you after this. Your grandchildren will have one quarter of the risk of heart disease. And if you were eating a whole lot between nine and 12, one quarter. Not only that, apparently those grandkids were less prone to diabetes. They lived longer lives, something like 30 years on average. This was a really big effect. Instead of dying at 40, I'd live to 70. That kind of 30 years on average. This was a really big effect. Instead of dying at 40, I'd live to 70. That kind of 30 years?
Starting point is 00:35:28 Yes, exactly. Ha ha. And I just don't, I wonder, it's such a surprising result. I wonder how much you believe in it. There are results out there. It's only the mechanisms are not so clear. But the results are very clear. The results are obvious to you.
Starting point is 00:35:44 There are, the results are very clear. The results are obvious to you. The results are quite obvious. Just to be sure, we asked Francis Champagne, which he thinks of this data. I believe it. What you do. And Michael Meeney as well. I think the sweeter data are really, really strong and very reliable. Everybody we talk to seems to think there's something really interesting going on here, but what exactly...
Starting point is 00:36:02 Maybe you can explain this to me, Robert. What exactly happens between 9 to 12 that makes this big difference? Well, so here's the thing. How old are your boys right now? Three and eight months. Okay, so here's what you're going to notice. Your boys will first grow taller and taller for the next few years. And when they get to be about nine, ten years old, they're going to stop growing just for a few years. This is what's called the slow growth period.
Starting point is 00:36:31 Just for those years, that's 9-10-11. Just before puberty, they won't grow much on the outside, but on the inside? That is the time where the spums are developing. What's happening during this time is that you're setting aside the stock of cells that you're going to draw on in the future to make sperm cells. So they are pre-spums. So the thought is when those little boys and over-caliks were really, really hungry. Their hunger started a chemical process that reached all the way down to the DNA inside the boy's sperm.
Starting point is 00:37:13 Something happens on the molecular level. What exactly? Well, the DNA, the RNA, the microRNA, histone. Wait, that's, that you're just renaming it. Metulations, phosphorylation, and so on. It's just this is just judo, that's all this is. Because we don't know precisely how this happens, but somehow the experience of starvation marks the DNA.
Starting point is 00:37:38 Maybe like those methyl things we were telling you about with the rats, telling some genes to turn off now, other genes to turn on, and the incredible thing is, those marks stick around. The sperm carries these marks to the next generation. And then the next one after that? Right.
Starting point is 00:37:59 So somehow, by some kind of chemical mechanism, starving grandpa, back when he was about nine to 12 years old, turned out to be a good thing. So it's like grandpa's struggle is sort of jumping forward and giving me a leg up. Well, that's the good news, but unfortunately, there's, there is some bad news here. If you're a grandpa, didn't starve. Instead, he lived through great times. He stuffed himself silly, 9, 10, 11 years old. So he's a happy grandpa. You the grandson?
Starting point is 00:38:30 You then would have. Hi, frequencies of heart attacks. As to diabetes, it was a fourfold risk. Four, fourfold? Four hundred percent greater. Yeah Yeah. I gotta say this is spooky. This is spooky because it's like- It does get, yeah. It's like, what if grandpa has a bad day suddenly you're marked? Yeah. Frankly, this makes being 9, 10, 11, 12, a rather crucial- And at a time when you're not making the best decisions anyway.
Starting point is 00:38:58 Yeah, because grandpa is just 9. I should add too. They have found very similar effects for smoking, for instance. If you start smoking when you're, you know, 10-11 something like that, you end up having children with more problems. I initially felt very hopeful and excited about this research because it seems to suggest that a body, one body, can respond to an environment and change and be flexible in a way we didn't think was possible. But this stuff you're telling me about Sweden feels very to an environment and change and be flexible in a way we didn't think was possible. But this stuff you're telling me about Sweden
Starting point is 00:39:26 feels very grim in a certain way. Although, you know, sometimes your grandpa this suffering helps you. Even if it helps, it's horrifying. Klin makes me claustrophobic. You feel kind of hemmed in by what your grandfather did? A little bit. I guess the way I would look at it is that
Starting point is 00:39:44 you can change your environment a lot more easily than you can change your genes. I think it's what's weird here is that we started trying to make a difference in our children and now we're surprised at act by our grandparents. I'll tell you what I'm gonna do though. When Emil gets to be eight, I'm cutting him off. He's not eating it at all. This may hurt you, my son, but I'm doing it for my grandchildren. Thanks to Ula Beegrian, reporter Pike Melonovsky and... Karin Borykvist Jung and I'm a senior archivist at the National Archive in Maria Bay in Stockholm.
Starting point is 00:40:58 Hey, I'm Chad Abumrod. I'm Robert Krolwicz. This is Radio Lab and today, inheritance, what you can move on to the next generation and what you can't Now the Sweden story from our last segment left us both Fill in a little strange. Yeah, cuz while you might have a lot of influence You know genetically speaking over your kids and their kids. You don't seem to have a lot of control Oh, so we're gonna leave you with a story from our producer Pat Walters about one woman's radical even troubling Attempt to regain that control.
Starting point is 00:41:27 A few months ago, Pat made his way down to North Carolina to a small suburb outside of Charlotte to visit this family. Mehma is the one I'd come to see. She and I stuck away from the children in her office. This is nice and quiet. Well I guess I was thinking we could just start it before we left. What year was it? Where were you?
Starting point is 00:41:51 Okay. 1989. So this is Barbara. Barbara Harris, the founder and director of Project Prevention. And in 1989, when the story we're telling now started she was living in California in Orange County. And I was a waitress I worked for I hopped for over 30 years. And she was a mom too. Six sons. She and her husband. It's a busy hours. What do you do for a living? A surgical technician. Six boys is a lot of boys. But at that point just two of the six boys were
Starting point is 00:42:20 living at home, Brian and Rodney. They were seven and eight at the time. And Barbara found herself returning to a thought she'd kind of always had. She started to wish again that she could have a daughter. Yeah. And by this point, she's 37 years old. And I knew the only way I was going to get a daughter was if I went and became a foster parent and asked for one. So. She did.
Starting point is 00:42:43 She filled out the forms went through all the training that we had to do and first day and finger printed and had a background check done. And then they waited for the call. I already knew that if I ever got a little girl I was going to name her destiny. And that summer it was July. They got the call. I had asked for a newborn so when the social worker called me she said I have this Cute little baby girl for you, but she's eight months old is that too old and I said no, no, that's okay. She said well she's just
Starting point is 00:43:16 Beautiful and she has lips that like a baby doll. That's what I remember her saying so Barbara and her son got in the car and drove across town To the foster home where Destiny had been living for the past eight months. Since birth, we went to the foster home and went in, the lady knew why we were there, and Destiny was in the other room, might sleeping or something, I'm not sure. So we talked to her for a little while and at a certain point, the social worker pulls out a stack of papers. With a child they give you a whole folder full of information tells you all about them. And she told Barbara, there's something you need to know about this baby. She's born and tested positive for PCP crack in heroin.
Starting point is 00:43:57 And um... Doctors would later explain to Barbara that Destiny's mom had been addicted to drugs while she was pregnant. And the psychologist who gave Destiny her first checkup told Barbara that she was delayed and she was always going to be delayed because of her prenatal neglect. That scare you at all as like I mean that would seems like a thing that would be kind of frightening. No it didn't scare me. Because she says as soon as she saw Destiny and sat her in my lap
Starting point is 00:44:25 with her little dress on and her little curly hair. She just knew This is my daughter a couple of days later. I had already bonded with her so much It was as if I gave birth to her honestly. I think it never seemed like she was anything but my real mom if that makes sense This of course is destiny. She's 22 now and she's never even met her birth mom. No. No. Barbara says they've reached out to her many times, but they never heard back.
Starting point is 00:44:53 And Destiny says she doesn't really care. I mean, at all. I got these jeans from somewhere, but I kind of feel like she was a surrogate. Like she carried me for my real mom. That's how I've always looked at it. You know, my mom needed a girl and, boop, she got one. It's just, that's just how I've always looked at it.
Starting point is 00:45:15 And even though they look basically nothing alike, I mean, from one thing, Barber's White and Destiny's Black, they both say that they actually often forget that they're not biologically related. They told me a bunch of these stories. One of them involving, well, so I don't have the biggest boobies in the world. You can't see that on the radio, but it's the fact of life.
Starting point is 00:45:39 And Destiny says one day, she and her mom were in the car and her mom said, she said, I don't know, you know, maybe. I mean, maybe they'll grow bigger like mine are bigger, you know. And then she goes, oh wait. I didn't give birth to you, that doesn't matter. Never mind, you're stuck with small boobies. Okay, now I just had to accept it. But we're getting ahead of ourselves here because the event that really sets this story
Starting point is 00:46:04 in motion, the set of events happened a few months after Barbara had brought Destiny home. When they got another call from a social worker saying that same mother, Destiny's birth mother, had given birth to another child. Yeah, the social worker called and told me the mother had given birth, birth mother's name was actually the same as me. So Barbara, really? Yeah, she has the same name as me. So she told me Barbara had another baby. A boy. Did we want it?
Starting point is 00:46:33 So I went to the hospital and picked them up. You picked them up right from the hospital? Yeah. And as soon as she got there to pick them up, she could tell that something was wrong. It wasn't a little happy baby. Because when a woman uses heroin while she's pregnant, the fetus gets hooked on it too.
Starting point is 00:46:49 Until Frizea being born was like just being cut off. And he was going through withdrawal. Light bothered him, noise bothered him. Eyes that beat it out. This is smiddy again. Projectile, vomiting. Because he couldn't hold formula down. He'd fall asleep and just wake up screaming and.
Starting point is 00:47:05 He was just never, you know, most babies are kind of peaceful. He was never really peaceful. And day after day. Literally for months. Isaiah would sleep and he would scream. That was it. It was just, no baby should have to come into the world like that. And nobody has a right to do that to a baby.
Starting point is 00:47:25 But a year later, the social worker called again. Sand the mother had given birth to a baby girl. Did we want her? This is the same birth mother. Yeah. And again, Barbara thinks, come on. But this little girl is here. She should be with her brother and sister.
Starting point is 00:47:40 And so she should be with me. And I called my husband again at work and said, they want to know if we want to take the baby and he's a barber, I'm not buying a school bus because we had already had to upgrade from a car to a van, from a condo to a home. And so I said, okay, well, this will be the last one. We'll just get one more.
Starting point is 00:47:57 But a year later, she gets another call, another little boy. That's how we ended up with four of them. These are four kids from the same birth mother. Yeah. Wow. So by now it's 1994 and Barber is thinking, I just don't get it. You know, like how did this happen? How was this woman allowed? To walk into the hospital and drop off a damaged baby and just walk away with no consequences. Over and over again. How dare you do this? The way she sought the state, the federal government, somebody should say you're not doing this.
Starting point is 00:48:29 You're not leaving this hospital unless you have long-term birth control. Barbara tried to get a law passed requiring just that, but it failed. And when I found out the bill didn't pass, I just thought I have to come up with something else I have to be creative. And she says one day this idea just came to her.
Starting point is 00:48:45 She was thinking, everybody's motivated by money. So can I offer these women money to use birth control? In other words, could I pay women who have drug problems to stop having babies? I decided to have a press conference in my front yard to announce what I was doing. And my naive mind, I didn't have a clue what a big deal this was. The story exploded.
Starting point is 00:49:12 Barbara Harris' solution is simpler than anything else out there. Insanely, she's offering $200. $200. $200, it's $300 now. To any drug addicted woman who will agree to have no more babies. I'm going to go out into the streets and offer addicted women money to use birth control. This could mean sterilization,
Starting point is 00:49:30 it could mean getting an IUD. Like she gives the woman a choice. If you've already had a kid, you can be sterilized. And if you haven't, you can choose to have an IUD or an implant put in, which will last for several years. Wait, when you say they can choose to be sterilized, you mean permanent? Yeah, permanent, like tubes tied. Whoa. Sounds bizarre, but it's a solution.
Starting point is 00:49:49 Harris says her program children requiring a caring community or crack, crack, can prevent thousands of unwanted births to drug-addicted women. I'd like to everybody to meet please Barbara Harris, please work with Barbara. As Barbara made the rounds on the daytime talk shows the reaction was split right down the middle in one hand she says immediately check started arriving this is 25 this is 50 from all over the country this is 750 and this is 200 all over the political spectrum from Hollywood lefties to social conservatives together pledged more than 150150,000 to her program. And that number, by the way, has grown a lot. Is that one million? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:30 Yeah, over the past five years, if you look at her tax return. Wow. But along with the support came attacks, particularly as drug addicted women began to sign up. Barbara Harris says she's convinced more than it does in women. 14 women. 45 women have accepted her offer to be sterilized and returned for money.
Starting point is 00:50:46 Right away, people accused her of targeting women at their weakest moment and enabling their drug abuse. You know what they're going to go do with that money. You get them $200 each, which they can spend on crack. That's their choice, but the babies don't have a choice. Barbara started finding herself on panels with women who'd use drugs during their pregnancies. And that's when things would start to get out of control.
Starting point is 00:51:07 I feel that they should all be sterilized. Sterilized, like you said, like you said when you were in your addiction, like she is, I didn't say I'm God, she asked my opinion, that's what I'm living. This lady right here is still taking drugs and she could be pregnant again next month. When you first hear about this, what goes through your mind? I think I was really horrified and terrified. That's Lynn Paltrow. I'm Executive Director and Founder of National Advocates
Starting point is 00:51:33 for Pregnant Women. Lynn has become one of Barbara's fiercest critics and full disclosure, she's Robert Sisters partner. Well, her explanation is that these women are having in her terms, litters of damaged babies and society forever will be responsible for them. She said litters. In this magazine article Barbara even said, quote, we don't allow dogs to breathe.
Starting point is 00:51:58 We spay them. We neuter them. I'm not saying that these women are dogs, but they're not acting anymore responsible in a dog in heat. Are there people whose drug use is so out of control they can't parent yes? But creating an assumption that there is a class of people who don't deserve to procreate, who aren't worthy of procreating the human race leads you down a path that is we should have great concern about.
Starting point is 00:52:24 That path is basically called. Eugenics? Well, I mean, Hitler thought that if you would Jewish that you had given up the right to be mother and he sterilized people as well. Well, I just want to eliminate drug addict babies from being born. I mean, I don't think that puts me in the same category as Hitler. What's the worst thing you've been called by one of your critics? Probably racist.
Starting point is 00:52:44 I mean, I'm married to a black man, so that was just funny to me. And according to Barbara, the majority of the women she pays are white. Do you think, like, put a asked Barbara about some of the things that she said because, to be totally honest, they kind of turned my stomach? I like you. I get the sense that, like, there's a lot of warmth in you, you're obviously a great mom, but that feels cold to me. I was just pissed at what they had done to my children.
Starting point is 00:53:13 All the babies I had seen and all the people that have called me and told me about their babies that were damaged, I had everybody's abuse on my back and I didn't care how we said it or how we did it, just don't have any more anymore children because at that point I didn't really know any of them. So I didn't see them as people. I just saw them as child abusers. It might be a mixture. But she says she doesn't feel that way anymore. After I've gotten to know so many of the women.
Starting point is 00:53:41 Barbara has this drawer in her desk. Miss Harrison's staff. Filled with dozens of letters from women that she's paid. I want to thank you for your support and kindness as always. She said thank you so much for the gift. I bought my son an excavator truck remote control and some summer outfits. This is from 2002, I'm making sure and I have been doing very good. I just got custody of my eight year old son and I'm making concern. I have been doing very good. I just got custody of my eight-year-old son,
Starting point is 00:54:06 and I'm so proud, and I have four years clean. And I, anyways, God bless you, sincerely, Jennifer. Have you ever had someone call or write you and say that they regret their decision? No, I've only had somebody call and say they regret that they didn't stand birth control. Which I find kind of hard to believe. But then again, I must have read at least 100 news articles as I was reporting this story,
Starting point is 00:54:34 and I didn't find a single case of someone saying that they'd regretted what they'd done. How many women have you paid? We have paid. Um, 4,266. That's a lot of people. That's a lot of people. Yeah. She actually emailed me afterwards and adjusted that number down a couple hundred. Oh.
Starting point is 00:55:02 So in the end, I mean, where do you come down on this? I ended up finding myself really conflicted about it. But the... Like, I agree with Lynn that this program does perpetuate a stereotype. Tell me what your image of a drug using pregnant woman is. Who are they? It will be wrong to assume the women Barbara talks about on TV. And these women don't just have one in two babies.
Starting point is 00:55:24 They have six, seven, eight, ten, fourteen. All these women who have so many babies and never try to seek drug treatment, it would be wrong to think that they represent all women who use drugs while they're pregnant. The women who I've worked with who've had a history of drug problems aren't like the examples that she gives.
Starting point is 00:55:40 These are women who love their children, who sought help. And she says oftentimes the women who want help have a really hard time finding it. And Barbara's not offering that. She's not offering treatment, she's not offering counseling. And there are programs to do that. But I said this to Linda, despite all the things that trouble me about Barbara's program, I feel like what she's trying to do is to stop a kid from getting born into a childhood that's going to suck. The fact that you're motivated by a really beautiful, important value that we want healthy kids doesn't mean the mechanism you're using is end up helping those kids.
Starting point is 00:56:22 Because the truth is you have no idea how these kids are going to turn out. Nobody's arguing that women should do drugs when they're pregnant. That is a bad way to start a kid's life. But that's just the beginning of the kid's life. So much can happen after that. And for me, this whole story really shifted. When I started spending some time with Destiny, Barbara's 22 year old daughter. You know, as you can see, I like to talk. Even though Destiny's mom was doing all sorts of drugs during her pregnancy and the doctors
Starting point is 00:57:00 told Barbara that Destiny was going to be mentally and physically delayed. Not feeling the way I'm supposed to be. She just isn't. Could you just tell us like what you are doing now? You're finishing college, right? Yes. I'm almost done. I'm graduating in December.
Starting point is 00:57:15 It's exciting. And right now I'm student teaching. So that's fun. But the moment I really felt like, whoa, was when we started talking about the little baby that we keep hearing in the background of everything. That's my little girl. She's 20 months old.
Starting point is 00:57:30 She'll be two in January. And so her name's Kalea, and she's a complete nut. I don't know where she gets that from. Yeah, she keeps me busy. Were you planning to have Kalea? No, she was a newaps kid. She was totally a newaps kid. We'll just be honest.
Starting point is 00:57:48 We just didn't think, I just didn't think, you know. You know they say, it only takes one time, well, yep, that is so true, one time. And I'm one-fledder. So yeah, that's embarrassing, but I believe everything happens for a reason. And I think that No, I didn't plan on it, but I wouldn't take her back for anything because she made me
Starting point is 00:58:15 better I want her to be able to look back on her life one day. Maybe when she's getting interviewed I don't know and be able to say that Yes, my mom was there for me 100% without a doubt. And I mean, I'm straight A's, and I'm making it work. And I'm gonna graduate with honors. And one day I'm gonna be able to tell her,
Starting point is 00:58:37 look, I did this, you can do this, like, push yourself and you got it. That's really impressive. I mean, you're just, you're saying a lot of. That's really impressive. I mean, you're just saying a lot of things that are really impressive. To her, like I matter, like I make a difference to her. All right, we can stop. So we did stop.
Starting point is 00:58:59 And I packed up my stuff, it's pretty much done. And Barbara and Destiny walked me out to my car. Kalea came to. They had a little basketball for her. Oh my goodness. You should almost do this. I'll love this. Here.
Starting point is 00:59:14 At a certain point, I noticed like over my shoulder, Barbara is crouched down and she's got her phone out and she's taking a picture of this just perfect little scene. Can you kick it? You're training her already. You're gonna kick it? Yeah. And I just felt like I was in one of those moments that like contains everything that's good about us
Starting point is 00:59:37 as people. Kick it to him. Floating here. Watching this, I couldn't help but think that Destiny's very existence is probably the most interesting argument against what Barbara is doing. Because if Barbara had gotten to Destiny's birth mom, Destiny... I found you.
Starting point is 00:59:58 Clear. This moment. None of it would exist. And I told Destiny I was thinking about this, and asked her about it. My situation turned out positive. I mean, as far as, you know, positives can go, like I think I hit the jackpot. A lot of times that's not the case.
Starting point is 01:00:28 And you just kind of have to weigh it, like, is it worth it? Like, I could have turned out, like, some of the other kids. Destiny says before she was born, her mom had four other girls. These were kids that didn't end up with Barbara? Yeah, three of them ended up in other foster homes and seemed to have done pretty well. But one of them ended up in other foster homes and seemed to have done pretty well, but one of them. Okay, well one of them don't really know what happened to her. She's somewhere, but it's not good from what we've heard. Last they heard, she was living on the streets in LA.
Starting point is 01:00:56 And that could have very easily been one of us. I mean, yes, I might get a great family, but I might not. The question that was stuck in my head right then was like, if you could choose between being born knowing that your life might end up like that and not like it is now, or not been born at all, what would you have done? Um, not been born at all. I wouldn't want to put it up to chance.
Starting point is 01:01:29 Because what kind of life is that? You mean that? I do mean that. Yeah. I'll trick society. I've been joking a lot in this interview, but I mean it with all that I am. Oh, she wants to see it. He said never ever. No baby, be careful, just sing. Okay, you want to say bye? Bye.
Starting point is 01:02:09 Say bye. Say bye. Okay. Aw, you blew my kiss, that was nice. Okay, that was nice. Remind me, this destiny has, what, three brothers and sisters that also were raised with her. Yeah, two brothers and one sister. What happened to them?
Starting point is 01:02:37 Isaiah's in college and Taylor and Brandon, I met them at Barbara's house and they seemed to be fine. And what about the four kids that weren't raised with Barber? Do you know anything about the other four? Just a little. There were four girls. And Barber and Destiny told me that a few years ago they found three of them and they all either were in college or had finished college.
Starting point is 01:02:58 So then the one that's in trouble is just one of eight. Yeah, one of eight. So I guess you could say to yourself seven out of eight of these kids did all right. That's interesting. I mean, that's a different kind of odds, but it's. Yeah. MUSIC
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