Raging Moderates with Scott Galloway and Jessica Tarlov - MAGA’s Cultural Moment (feat. Wesley Morris)
Episode Date: June 6, 2025Pulitzer Prize-winning critic Wesley Morris joins Jessica for a sharp, funny, and deeply thoughtful conversation about the intersection of politics and culture. They unpack the rise of right-wing aest...hetics, why the left feels adrift, those weird rings that adult men suddenly started wearing, and how trans rights became a political flashpoint. Follow Jessica Tarlov, @JessicaTarlov. Follow Prof G, @profgalloway. Follow Raging Moderates, @RagingModeratesPod. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Welcome to Region Moderates.
I'm Jessica Charlov.
Scott and I talk a lot about politics, of course,
and tangentially the impact it has on culture
and vice versa. Today I'm joined by Wesley Morris, who's politics, of course, and tangentially the impact it has on culture and vice versa.
Today I'm joined by Wesley Morris,
who's been thinking, writing, and podcasting
about culture for decades.
He's a Pulitzer Prize-winning critic at the New York Times,
and in fact, he's the only person
to have ever won the Pulitzer Prize for criticism twice.
He's also a great friend, and I'm thrilled to have him here.
And just to be clear, we recorded this conversation
on Tuesday of last week.
Thank you for joining me, Wesley.
I cannot believe I'm on this show.
Is it like career achievement better than the Pulitzer or?
It's just like I'm sitting in your living room one minute
and now I'm sitting in my kitchen talking to you on your show.
Yeah, it's great. Thank you for doing it.
It's an honor, a pleasure.
Thank you.
No, the honor is all mine and our listeners.
And I have so many directions that I wanted to go,
but I was re-listening to your episode of Still Processing
from after the 2016 election.
Oh, no.
Oh, yes.
Well, oh, no for the world, but oh, yes, for our conversation. And you and
your co-host, Jenna Wertham, are crying in this episode. And it's so raw and it's so
emotional. I was curious to know how you felt recording it. And it was widely shared and
what the aftermath of that looked like. And then I want to bring it to Trump's reelection, which felt so markedly different, right?
There was almost no emotionality to it at all.
We all just said like, oh, that sucks.
And got on with the rest of our Tuesday.
I mean, it was declared Tuesday night and then Wednesday just happened.
It wasn't a day where people were crying in their offices.
So could you, could you take me through it all?
Uh...
Um...
We had just launched that show.
I think that might have been our sixth episode,
our fifth episode.
And, you know, I'll just speak for me.
Jay probably would agree with me,
but I had, like, two qualifications for president
for a long time and they were
what happens when this person gets off a plane in somebody else's country.
And are they a racist?
Low bar.
This person failed both those tests, right?
You know, a unique kind of racist, I must say, but like the thing that he brought
with him that he was going to bring with him to the White House was going to be, you know,
an assortment of racisms, right? Like Trump is kind of like, he's always got plausible
deniability with everything. There's always a veil over the way he talks about non-white
people. Whereas, you know, some of the people that came with him
were almost certainly not gonna have a veil.
And I think the thing that really brought the tears was
it was a proof of a thing that, you know,
as black people, as gay people, you know,
you just know is true about this place
and to have it entering the highest
office in the land.
And again, like bringing with it to the agencies, to these staff positions, all of these sort
of dark forces that are really hard to undo.
I don't know, it was just really is upsetting.
And I also think that it wasn't really just about Donald Trump in that moment.
It was really about the entire, the whole stress of that campaign. Like, I mean, I don't
know, were you, you were probably, it's probably stressful for you too.
Yeah, it was my first rodeo working in conservative media and Hillary was, I loved her and I fit the perfect demo who
would love her like an over-educated white woman but people disliked her in a
way that I didn't fathom until she lost like I knew she wasn't like quote unquote
likable but I did not know that she was so unlikable that Donald Trump could
become president yeah I mean yes so you were going through the same thing that we were going through, right?
Yeah.
Which was, okay, these are your options.
These are your options.
Totally.
And when I think of what a president is, can be, should be,
could possibly do once they get elected,
there's never been a more presidential presidential candidate
than Hillary Clinton, right? Like, Hillary Clinton would
be president in every single action movie that needed a president to do something. So I think
what was wild to me was I wasn't surprised that he won. I mean, there was a moral equivalency that
also seemed to have taken hold and it made it really hard to see the reality of what the stakes were.
There was just like a, this was the moment in which everything changed and you could no longer pretend that
conventional political coverage was going to cut it for this person.
I don't know, we were crying for a lot of shit that day.
Part of it was Hillary, part of it was him, part of it was 400 years,
part of it was what the future was gonna look like,
part of it was that there are enough people
who did not want to live in the reality of 2016.
That was also kind of demoralizing.
I mean, I was just thinking about going through the airport.
Like, what's it gonna be like to go through an airport now
and see all these MAGA hats? Because MAGA at that time was still like to me
Those hats were scary
For the energy that they kicked up and like the swagger of the people who wore them
It wasn't rappers at that time, right? It was like it was January 6th
There's or what will become January 6th
Yeah, and I want to talk about the change
in kind of the way that culture looks
now that MAGA is so mainstreamed.
Totally different.
Yeah.
Totally different.
I mean, you walk around, we both live in New York city.
You walk around the West Village.
You see MAGA hats now on 28 year old dudes, right?
That are going to pick up girls at dune or whatever.
Or whatever. And...
Or whatever.
Or whatever.
You know, whatever they're doing.
But before we get to that, I've been overwhelmed and not in the I'm going to start crying sense,
but just deeply unsettled and sad that politics doesn't seem to mean as much to people as
it did in 2016.
Like something has been broken in us.
And I mean, maybe we won't get a Barack Obama again,
generally, but you will not get that outpouring of emotion,
not only here in the United States, but worldwide,
if you elect somebody like that again,
because something has been cauterized almost inside of us, so
we won't allow ourselves to feel as deeply anymore. And I felt that for the 2024 election.
A lot of that was that the win was predicted and, you know, the Biden stuff and the Kamala
stuff. But what do you make of that as kind of a statement about where culture is, that
politics is now something for the folks that engage in politics, but it's not mainstream on the left anymore.
You know, it's funny, you you mentioned the mega hats in the West Village. And I have
been thinking about these other hats that I know you've seen, which are basically those hunting and fishing caps, right?
It's got that hunting, fishing camo,
not military, military colors,
but so you're able to hide yourself
when you're playing for deer or whatever.
That design scheme is on so many different things,
worn by so many different people,
and nobody's really thinking about what it signifies.
But it is a proof to me of a cultural shift
that nobody's really acknowledging as even having shifted.
Previously, if you were to see somebody
wearing one of those hunter-fisher caps in New York City,
you would have instantly assumed this person
was visiting from somewhere else.
But now that that's now just a fashion item,
it's not even a statement.
It is almost axiomatic that if you're gonna put on a hat,
it's gonna be one of three things,
and that design is one of the three things.
I think that politics is now popular culture.
I mean, I understand your question 100% inside and out.
It does seem that an aspect of our appetite for politics
has been diminished, mostly through fatigue, I think.
Mostly because of this thing that I'm also identifying,
which is looking at this
particular person in Donald Trump and the drama that he brings with him
everywhere he goes, and like the sort of barrage in our attention, you know, in our
willingness to give our attention to it, or its ability to sort of seize our
attention is maybe the better way to put it. You know, we're talking about a person who is very good at turning politics into entertainment. And I mean, I'm not really
answering your question, but I'm kind of answering your question. But I don't know. I mean, there's
a way there's a conventional way of thinking about how to recapture people's
interest.
I think that because the rate has done such an effective job of changing the lingua franca's
of how candidates get their messages out, how people consume information and get information
that there has to be a tap for their tit on the left.
But you know, people have like pointed to somebody like Hassan Piker as being an answer to
to Joe Rogan. I don't know if it I think things are so broken to your point and so cauterized that
there is going to be no precedent for the antidote to whatever we're currently in,
is going to be no precedent for the antidote to whatever we're currently in.
Unless it's a war.
Unless it's like a world war or a civil war. But that's the only normal thing I can think
that can address in an even way that we previously have understood what is going on right now.
Does that seem plausible to you?
Totally. And I feel like we've actually probably talked about this, but I certainly have with other
democratic leaning people that it feels as if there is a war coming.
And the problem is we don't know how to use guns as liberals.
We're going to be walking around with like nice handbags or whatever and a cell phone
and saying, you know back off and
That's concerning to me. I had my first
Close friend who lives in New York City has two young children who said that he would feel safer if he
had a gun at home and
That stunned me and what's done me even more is that I completely understood the sentiment.
Mm-hmm.
I mean, I should say like I am here
as neither a Democrat nor a Republican,
but as a person who is just looking at this stuff
and having feelings and thoughts about it.
And you say this about this person
that I think I might know.
And I think about all the data that came out in the last maybe two or three years, maybe
it was during the pandemic even, where people, all kinds of different people and, you know,
black women were who stood out to me as people going to go get trained to use guns.
Firearms sales went up a lot. There are
lots of these photos of people going to these shooting ranges to get trained and
how to use firearms. And I just really, they were all living in the suburbs. You
know, a lot of these people, they weren't living in cities and they just, it
created this sense that something cataclysmic
was about to happen. And my memory of when this was is a little fuzzy, but it was definitely
sometime between the pandemic and Biden's election. Yeah, it totally tracks. I know about the bump in
the data, but it was end of times feeling like you thought that you were in a show, right? That there are mobile morgues.
Oh my God, the mobile morgues.
Right.
Nurses from all over the country are showing up.
It reminded me growing up in the city during 9-11 when we had firefighters that descended
upon the city from every corner of the country to come and help.
And we had this national moment that was rooted in something
completely frightening that none of us understood.
And in a weird way, there's all the scary stuff that's
associated with it as well.
But it did feel like we were one country for a little while.
That was a happy convergence.
That part of it was.
There was a nationalism that we could all agree upon,
which was a good thing.
Okay, let's take a quick break. Stay with us.
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Welcome back.
We already dipped into the caps and it's interesting about the
hunting and fishing caps.
And I find this change, I guess MAGA beauty standards is maybe the
right way to talk about it, but I don't have it, whatever it is.
Well, you're not blonde for one thing.
No, I'm not.
I'm continuing to fight as the dark haired representation
on Fox News.
But it's heavy makeup, the big cross
that a lot of these women wear, certainly
the White House officials.
And you're seeing it also all over TikTok, obviously,
Instagram, et cetera.
What do you make of this shift? Because I feel like a lot of trends were usually happening on the left.
And it feels at this moment that the right is just having so much cultural dominance.
Like we're receding from the culture challenge or we're doing it ourselves.
And I read your piece about sinners and the Kendrick Lamar Super Bowl halftime show
and Beyonce and these are all people or artists
that are making a political statement,
but they're not doing it in the political arena, right?
Like they wouldn't be caught dead doing that necessarily
at a Kamala rally or something like that.
They're going their own way
because culture and formal politics has detached.
But what do you make of the fact that the right is having this cultural Renaissance moment
while we're kind of adrift?
I mean, well, I mean, wait,
can we talk about the beauty standard for a second?
Yeah, sorry, that was like 80 questions in one,
but everything is linked somehow in my head.
I, you know, one of the things that's really striking to me,
I don't know exactly what I mean when I say this.
I mean, I know what I mean, but I don't exactly know
how it's gonna sound when I articulate it.
It's gonna sound great.
There is this masculine energy that everybody has access to.
Because there's something to me about the trad wife phenomenon, the idea that women
are supposed to serve men, right?
I mean, there's no other real way to understand this conception that women have a very specific
purpose and it is not to go to work, it's to do this other thing, which is to like propagate to keep the race alive. And
I mean, you know, the white race. And so there's this sort of masculinist energy that like has made
its way into these health considerations, into this obsession with fitness, into this aggressive
stance that people in the administration and around the administration have taken
that they've basically absorbed from outside the culture.
I mean, outside political culture.
And this is what I'm saying about this, like,
convergence of these two arenas.
I mean, the first thing, one of the first things Trump did
after the election was go to an MMA fight, right?
Right.
There are people going to UFC fights.
Cash Patel is a big UFC person.
Dan Bongino is in the FBI.
Like there is so much, you know, you're going to laugh when I say this, I'm thinking about
all the bellwethers for this too.
People like Michael Grimm, who, you know, is, I mean, he's not in politics, I think, for corruption-oriented reasons, but he, like,
got aggressive with a reporter, I think, in the Capitol. Like, he didn't get in trouble for that,
but he definitely had to apologize for it. But this was, there was this mastulant energy around
conservative politics, you know, it's not all the energy.
But now it's sort of in charge of everything.
And I think that in the same way that Rambo
has kind of been misunderstood as this
sort of masculine American symbol,
and now that Stallone has essentially renounced
what Rambo stood for by aligning himself with Trump,
I mean, you've got all these old action stars
in his orbit.
There's something about like everybody's wanting to be fit
that sort of just very conventional ideas of maleness.
Well, RFK Jr. doing workout competitions, right?
During the campaign even wearing jeans, but topless
and having a very nice physique, certainly for a man of 70.
Yeah, and I think that there is,
and all the memes of Trump,
like having RFK's body, essentially.
You know, having Schwarzenegger's body.
I also feel like, and we've never talked about this,
but like, I do feel like, I mean, wait,
I'm just gonna ask you this.
What do you think about those rings,
those like, those steel, those carbon rings,
those black, you know, wedding bands?
As wedding bands or the aura ring?
As wedding bands.
Oh, I'm very anti.
Sorry to any listeners I'm offending with that.
But I do not enjoy it as a trend.
I'm not saying it has to be a plain gold band.
No, you can do whatever you want.
Totally, but it's weird how it seemed like
you just woke up one day and everyone kind of,
let's say 30 to 45, 30, 45 year old men were wearing that
as their band, which to me doesn't signify
in the traditional sense,
I'm married and want to wear a band.
It looks like this is either cool,
maybe it's telling me about my REM cycle,
and I'm not doing the conventional thing.
This is not my dad's marriage,
or this is not my grandfather's marriage.
So you agree a little bit with me.
I think I would go a step further and say, I'm glad you noticed it.
You always go a step further. Yes, I noticed that a lot.
I feel like it is such a rejection of the presumption of gold as an effeminate signifier.
Oh, this is why you're a critic at the New York Times and I host this podcast.
Yeah, that's a deeper thinking.
I've just been thinking about it and also what it says to me, because you'll notice that, I mean, I have never seen
a heterosexual, I've seen two women have
those rings. I've never seen a woman married to a man. Like if you just do a study of people walking through airports,
every person I see with one of those rings is a man, like if you just do a study of people walking through airports, every person I see
with one of those rings is a man. And you never see a corresponding ring on his spouse.
No. And so what, you know, as a gay man who is frequently looking to see like who's married
and who's not married, I can only deduce that these men are all married to each other.
Right?
This is like a club that you are part of whether you think you're joining a club or not.
You're definitely choosing to make a statement whether you know it or not by having one of
those rings.
Because it's not like I actually have never surveyed women about this, but I don't know
that they were necessary.
Were they given the option to not wear one?
I think that you're right that this is a
trend that took off just for half the species and did not take the other half with it.
And I think at the same time if you want to go deep, because I
really enjoy talking about diamonds and mine diamonds versus lab diamonds like as
talking about diamonds and mine diamonds versus lab diamonds like as lab diamonds have become more of a thing and the cost coming down so much that you see the women who would be accompanying
these men with bigger and bigger and bigger bling right no one is actually wearing their engagement
ring they're wearing the i've been married for 18 months ring and i wanted to go out
and buy this insane lab monstrosity that I also kind of covet
as well myself. But those carbon rings are also many orders of magnitude less expensive
than gold in case we want to bring economic anxiety into the conversation.
Okay, great. They're cheaper. Sure. Yeah. But I'll okay fine. But mostly they're more
masculine. I think that that's correct. I just think that there are more masculine option
that also happens to be cheaper, right?
I think they're probably cheaper
to stay competitive with gold, right?
To keep gold out of the competition.
But I also think there's something military about them.
Like there's something-
Like your caps?
Yeah, a little bit.
Because we've been watching since 9-11, the military sort of creep into most
of our culture at this point, right?
I mean, from Beyonce's Super Bowl halftime performance, well, it wasn't even hers.
She stole Coldplay's.
You know, but that moment when formation happened and she showed up basically as a Black Panther,
I feel like it's been all over the culture
in one way or another,
and it's only gotten more enhanced and more subtle,
I would say, in these 25 years or 24 years.
And there's something about those rings to me
that just really, they kind of say a lot about men
and men's relationships to each other, men's relationship
or non-relationship to women.
I have this theory that you may or may not know about,
about, you know, men cursed to be straight.
Where-
I don't know about that one.
Well, you know, men love men so much,
but they're just not gay.
And they would really, really really really probably prefer if they were gay in some way because
It just means you don't have to deal with women in the same way
It's like the it's the purest form of misogyny
Where you know you have the curse of being attracted to women sexually, but you abhor them socially
You don't want to talk to them. You don't want to listen to them So you have the curse of being attracted to women sexually, but you abhor them socially.
You don't want to talk to them.
You don't want to listen to them.
You don't want to share mind space with them.
They are not your equals.
They are just a receptacle for your penis.
I think that cadre of man is very apparent in our culture right now.
And those rings to me, fairly or unfairly, are such a signifier of that.
I mean, it's funny because so much of women's participation in this movement, I mean, because
it's dominated by these very performatively masculine men, wind up serving, you know,
in this wing of the culture anyway.
I mean, they wind up, like, working at the behest of them, right?
Um, I mean, I'm just thinking about, like, the subcession against trans people
and this, like, need to declare that we have two genders and two genders only
and then to actively work to eliminate these people from all walks of our lives. That is a sort of psychotic insecurity to me.
I don't know.
I mean, like we are working out in real time
with very little science to help us
how we feel about our own gender
while displacing that insecurity on
to an oppressed group of people who
are just trying to live their lives. It's all sort of bound up in these
displays of, in these what I would call gender displays essentially. Do you think
that there's any truth to the thesis or do you see any validity in the argument
that trans people who are undoubtedly a persecuted minority,
and when you get down to the numbers of people,
especially trans athletes in competitive sports,
the head of the NCAA testifying, and we're
talking about like 10 people, but that the left elevated
the concerns of such a tiny group to an outsized proportion, and then the right,
you know, the pendulum is always swinging, right?
Between these overreactions.
And I know that there are a lot of people
who are on the left and very supportive of trans rights,
who feel that we actually were to some degree responsible
for shining a spotlight on a group that just wanted to, as you said, like go about their business, right?
Like live their lives, find themselves, find same thing as us that want a good
job, want to find love, have a family.
I think what you're identifying though, is that elevation probably, you know,
that was at a time when the culture was different, right?
Um, I mean, just thinking back to the arrival of Laverne Cox and
Caitlyn Jenner's coming out.
Yeah.
Things were just different then.
And I think, you know, what I mean, I can't speak for the trans community, but I
would say that like an important part of that elevation and that prominence was
about the securing of rights, like protective rights, human rights,
civil rights, you know, to make sure that they had jobs they could keep.
To make sure they could start families the same way that everybody else can, you know,
with a variety of federal support and state-backed support.
I think that there was a real determination
to make sure the system was positively responsive to them
and their needs.
I think that the reaction against that
is to me not dissimilar from the reactions
against all things that are in favor of
or benefiting exclusively cis, heterosexual, white-aligned people, because
I'm just going to say parenthetically, whiteness is both a race and a feeling.
You don't have to be white to be white.
I think that the rights reaction to or conservatives' reaction to the inscription of rights for trans people was
somehow just like unfathomable to them because they never had a say and I will say that you
know never had a say in terms of being able to give rights or or consecrate rights for
trans people but I will also say that know, to your point about the numbers,
I think the thing that made gay marriage possible
was that at some point there were enough gay people
and enough different people's lives
to make empathy a real factor here.
Well, and to also make it not politically toxic
to jump on board.
Like that's how Barack Obama got swung over by Biden,
frankly. Right, frankly.
Right.
I think that numbers are a huge part of this.
And I'd like to see where we are in five years.
I'm not saying this is not in any way
to say stop fighting for trans rights.
I'm just saying I wonder how much harder or easier
that fight's going to look like with more out trans people.
Hopefully better.
Hopefully better.
Yeah.
And that folks learn how to manage such an important issue more strategically.
And that doesn't mean anything about diminishing the rights of people.
What does that mean to you though, the managing it more strategically?
I think from a political strategist point of view,
I think that when you look back at the election
and you see the Charlemagne the God ad,
where he is talking about how Kamala
is for transgender surgeries for undocumented people
in prison, and that is the most persuasive ad
from the cycle bar none.
Seen by the most people, every football game, right? You're going to see
it multiple times. And the level of impact and I should note, well, two things. One,
it was inaccurate. I mean, that comes from an ACLU survey that she signed and that there were
transgender, there was gender affirming care that went on in the prison system under Donald Trump.
But of course, no one bothers to know anything about that.
It wouldn't even matter now if that were made explicitly clear.
I've tried multiple times.
Nobody cares.
But what mattered the most about that ad
is it was actually about the economy, right?
Because it was about your tax dollars
are being spent on this thing that you don't care about.
Yeah, that's smart.
That's smart.
Right.
And going back to the North Carolina bathroom bill,
we saw how little people do care about it.
Just like, go about your business.
Go to the bathroom. I'm not thinking about it.
And the right was able to seize on a culture war issue
that was important to everyone
because it became an economic issue.
And then to my mind, they always elevate these tiny bits
of truth or this tiny kernel of bad feelings or hate,
whatever it is, and then they make it the most
important issue.
And you see that even in the data that's coming in today,
focus groups that are happening about, you know,
what Kamala Harris stood for.
And she actually had the most ads about the economy.
She had the most important ads about the economy
talking about price gouging.
Donald Trump sounds like Kamala Harris today.
The way he's saying to Walmart, don't you dare do that,
or talking about building, housing, et cetera.
But no one cares, because they were watching NFL football,
and they saw Charlemagne kind of losing his mind about this.
And I'm curious. I actually don't know if he's spoken about the impact of it. That would be interesting
to talk to him about.
I've never heard him bring it up. He's on to some other things now.
Yes, he's, he's definitely on to other things, but you know, it's weird. We all play a role,
right, in the overarching narrative of what happened but to be
the central figure in the most pivotal ad
Mm-hmm of a national election in the wrong in the direction
You don't want it to go in because Charlamagne wanted Kamala to win that must be intense
I don't know. This is actually a great you should I mean we had him on early on I'll ask him to come back
just get him to come back because I feel like
this is a great subject for the two of you and Scott,
when, hi Scott, when Scott's back, to ask him about it.
I just think that, I don't know,
I hadn't thought about it that way, how he might be feeling.
And I'm sorry about that Charlamagne,
but you've made me wonder now Jesse how this man might be feeling about
his role
But it was effective. It was it was right and that's the problem with how fast
Culture moves is that it just getting it out there like you see this
I don't know if you're on Twitter or X or you've absconded to Bluer Pastures or you just don't care.
I don't do anything anymore.
Nothing.
Nothing.
So I still hang out on X because I need to for work.
Like the news cycle is driven on there and this is an administration.
I'm an Elon Musk.
Reconnaissance.
Yes.
I'm on a reconnaissance mission, but not wearing a camo hat as I do it.
But I see blatant clickbait, blatant lies all the time.
And once the impressions are made,
and you see that count,
you know, a million views, two million views, three million,
I saw one the other day that had 14 million views.
That was completely inaccurate.
It just doesn't matter.
And there are also no repercussions
for when that happens.
I mean, and now there never will be because, well, part of, you know,
earlier, and I didn't respond to this because it's just too true to warrant response, which is that
you observe that we were kind of numb come Inauguration Day 2025 versus how, like, the day
after the election in 2016, where there was a lot of emotional outpouring and upheaval.
But part of it is I think we just now accept
that we don't live in a world where
there can be a kind of extra legal,
extra jurisprudential justice,
which is I think why people are so excited, it's
not the right word, but like passionately relieved that the courts for now are
working, you know, in terms of issuing these injunctions and like in these
dissents and in issuing these judgments really sort of calling the Trump administration out for, you know, any number of things that would never have flown before him.
I mean, they didn't have standing before and they really don't have standing now, but now these judges are being like, come on, I mean, what are we doing here?
This is an insult to the entire history of the system.
And to me, as the person who has now got to make this decision.
I think that like civilian truth telling,
civilian mind changing, civilian empathy,
individual people's ability to sort of say to a neighbor,
you know, I got 12 spreadsheets right here,
and none of what you are saying,
I read your Facebook post earlier,
it's just not true. I mean, can we can, can you correct it? Can you like,
but that's the fatigue I was talking about? Because I mean, I love being a Tracy flick.
And I, I'm kind of done with the spreadsheets. Like I do it at work. And then I just want to
have a cocktail, right. And it's not that fun to have to sit there and say,
no, that's not actually what happened.
But Jesse, Jesse, but you do it every day.
Yeah, but it's- I mean,
that is part of what you're drawn into, right?
100%, but I think what you're speaking to,
and this is reflected in the voting patterns,
is that our circle got a lot more politically diverse
than it used to be.
Even if it's just our communities that we're part of
because of immutable characteristics.
I'm not necessarily like your close friend.
You're saying New York is a lot redder than,
and Chicago's a lot redder than,
and Philadelphia's a lot redder.
Or just there are a lot more Latinos
voting for Donald Trump. There are lot more Latinos voting for Donald Trump.
There are more black men voting for Donald Trump.
There are even more white women voting for Donald Trump.
There are even more women of color.
I mean, you've seen the charts out of the times, right?
With the red arrows going in one direction
and blue arrows going in the other direction.
And there are only like 12 blue arrows
and they're all in the Atlanta metro area.
So yay, John Ossoff.
I hope you can...
All 12 of them?
No, but like half of them.
But millions of them.
Yeah. It's tiny pockets, right, that this is happening in.
And I think that liberally minded people are doing a good job of acknowledging that this has
happened, but the full reckoning of what this means
is going to take years. And I'm worried, at least from a political standpoint, that Democrats
could do well in the midterms because historically that's what happens, right? And it's a referendum
of the party in power and we'll bandaid over the real wounds that we have
by saying, well, the midterms went well.
And that's kind of what happened with the 2022 midterms
as well, we had the Dobbs decision
and everybody turned out, right?
Cause that's something very difficult to grapple with,
you know, that your daughter has less rights
than your mother had, like that, you know,
that's a real mind bender.
But from the political strategy point of view, that's a real mind bender. But from the political strategy point of view,
that's something that really concerns me.
I have a question for you.
Well, first I wanna respond to midterm,
midtermitis, which I have no patience for.
I'll vote in the midterm.
But they don't, like, on your way
to bringing up the midterms, you mentioned that we
aren't really dealing with the actual thing that we need to be dealing with. And we have not been
dealing with the actual thing this whole time. predisposed to keep moving on even as we
endorse the policies, politics, and culture of a person who really is just interested in
dragging us back. And I really, I mean, I find it really fascinating this turn to the midterms every time something
goes wrong for somebody in this country politically, you know, with respect to the election, the
presidential election.
Because it tells me that we are never really going to be able to sit with and reckon with
what is actually happening to us as a people, as a nation.
What has been happening to us, you know, for several centuries, right?
We need not reckoning, but reconciliation.
And it can take any number of forms.
It can involve any number of constituencies.
But we've never really sat down.
And the Democrats, you can see the Democrats doing this right
now as they dip a toe into reconciliation, as they consider what might have gone wrong
in the 2024 presidential election.
Which by the way, I think history is actually going to look back on in a somewhat favorable way with respect to Harris because I
Think that the facts are what they were but culture is what changes right?
You'll always be able to look back on her saying democracy is at stake. You know also
No tax on tips
Here's my affordable housing plan we're gonna build build build
I mean she was doing I don't know what she could have done that would have been different Here's my affordable housing plan. We're gonna build, build, build.
I mean, she was doing,
I don't know what she could have done
that would have been different,
but we have hung it on a cultural issue, right?
What are people saying that Kamala Harris did wrong?
She didn't go on Joe Rogan.
That's, that is, I mean, I don't know if that's ultimately
what people are gonna say tanked it for,
but that is the, that is a realm, that is't know if that's ultimately what people are going to say tanked it for but that is the
That is a realm that is a zone in which it gets boiled down to she just didn't want to do roguing
Right and she went on the view and said she wouldn't do anything different than joe biden
Also didn't help those are the two but another cultural zone, right? 100 percent
I just don't know that we are really ready
to sit in our shit, to look at all of the things that have led us to any number of points throughout the history of this country and
say, whoa, we might want to reconsider what got us to this new precipice.
I love that we have this thing called the debt ceiling, right?
Because we always seem to find some new,
some new jack to like, get it to go even higher. Wouldn't it be great for our apartments if we
actually could all have 14 foot ceilings? Like, where is this ceiling? Nowhere. Like,
who's ceiling is this? What a house does this ceiling like go in? I don't understand.
When I hit a ceiling, I really hit a ceiling. I have to put some ice on my head.
These people, they just burst through it.
They don't care.
I mean, it's just, all of this stuff is so imaginary
and so conceptual that there never seemed
to really be repercussions for the ways
in which the norms are flouted
or the things that should make sense to do,
like fix the debt.
Also politicians and consultants
have more than nine lives, right?
Like they've got better than cats.
And I'm noticing this, there's a flood of write-ups
of what the democratic apparatus is doing to fix it.
And we're spending $20 million to code switch to man or whatever.
However, we're supposed to be talking to men.
Wait, what?
This write-up of all of the consultants,
a lot of them that advise the Biden campaign,
the Harris campaign, the Hillary campaign.
Because we rarely see a new face unless it's coming in with kind of a renegade representative, right?
Who's from a different place or, you know, whoever Bernie Sanders has in his orbit, right, is an outlier to all of this.
But we're spending tens of millions of dollars in consultant cash to figure out if it was really about not going on Joe Rogan
and who the Joe Rogan of the left is going to be
Oh, right. So we continue to flush money when the answer is always could you please be a normal human being?
right like just think about the things that matter to you and even if your delivery is a little strange or
You've got something weird about you. People generally are okay with that. I mean if you listen to Donald Trump
It's the strangest delivery you will ever encounter.
No one could even script it, right?
It's that bonkers.
Those sentences do not diagram at all.
No, you know, we are all over the map there
and people figure out what he's saying.
Actually they figure out multiple versions
of what he's saying, which makes it palatable
to multiple groups.
But yeah, the hard work, the reconciliation of it, it has not begun in earnest.
And part of that is the fear, the midtermitis, that this is coming and we have to be ready
for that day.
And we know that talking about tax cuts for the rich versus Medicaid cuts for those that really need their health care is the winning message.
Republicans have been out to take away health care for decades.
That never changes.
They lose on it.
They continue to go for it.
But does that change the calculus of where we're going as political parties or as a country?
Absolutely not.
I don't think it changed.
No, I don't think so.
or as a country? Absolutely not. I don't think it changed. No, I don't think so.
But I also think that, like, people really want
the thing that Donald Trump is offering up to a point, right?
You know, I mean, I think a lot about
the opportunity that he had during the pandemic.
And the thing that I was most fascinated to see
was the way he just does not understand people. Like he understands
audiences, but he doesn't understand people. And I think people didn't want to be an audience
during the pandemic. They wanted to feel like people and they wanted a leader who was going
to talk to them like people. And I think that if he had just come out
and been Bill Clinton or Jimmy Carter,
somebody who's just really good at empathizing
and just said, look, I mean, you guys,
I got this thing too and it sucks.
And it almost killed me.
Right, it sucks, it's really terrible.
But instead he turned it into an infomercial
for Ivermectin, right?
And I think the reason that he lost that election
is because he couldn't do that during the pandemic, right?
If he had just been Andrew Cuomo,
if he had been Andrew Cuomo.
He would have won.
Just twice.
He would have won that election pretty soundly, I think.
100%. Because at the end of the day, He would have won that election pretty soundly, I think. A hundred percent.
Because at the end of the day, I don't care what people say about the economy is important
and you got it, the pocketbook issues, yeah, sure, they're important.
But we are now so thoroughly in a culture zone that it's really about like touching
people in these intangible places that
aren't their wallets or their bank accounts. It really is about these
personality oriented and like interpersonal relationships. I mean
because that's a thing that Kamala Harris you know theoretically lacked as
a candidate right? A human touch and And in lieu of that, Donald Trump had his ability
to sort of communicate with mass audiences,
which is as important as being able to like,
look a person in their eye and like,
tell them that they feel their pain.
She did that a few times,
and it was very powerful when it worked,
but it just never caught on as a skill that she had.
She was nervous. She was
never not nervous and he's he's nerve-less. Never nervous. He has no, yeah, he's nerve-less.
Um, I want to ask you, so we've been talking for an hour, which doesn't surprise me because I enjoy
talking to you for an hour, but we always ask at the end of interviews, what's one issue that makes
you rage and one thing you think we should all calm down about? I was prepared for this. You did
research? I mean, I know how the show works. Okay, I appreciate that because a
lot of people just stare at me and they're like, what the fuck are you
talking about? And I'm like, you don't have a press person that told you that I
asked this? No, I'm just, I have a press person called My Podcast App. Yeah. I mean,
this isn't really an issue, but you know, I'm a press person called My Podcast App. Yeah. I mean, this isn't really an issue,
but you know, I'm a big etiquette person
and I live in New York City,
which is a great zone to experience clashes in etiquette.
And I am just gonna be an old man
and complain about people on escalators.
Okay.
It's very simple, everybody.
Move over.
There is a side to walk and a side to stand.
And if you're standing in the walking side of the escalator,
somebody is gonna say something to you.
And every once in a while that person is gonna be me.
So just, I just don't know how you don't notice
that people are like walking around you.
Some people are on their phones
They don't really see not a great excuse. But yes, yeah, I mean I
experienced great rage at
basic public cell phone use in general I
Pull over when I need to use my phone. I'm not having a great relationship with my phone
I I use it as little as humanly possible
But when I do use it and I'm out in public,
I just step aside, just get out of people's way.
I can't walk and text, because there's like phone speed.
You can tell when somebody in front of you is on the phone.
They're just walking at an incomprehensible.
And they stop.
Right.
It's like, what are we doing?
What speed is this?
This is not fast and it's not slow. It's just it's just phone speed
So yeah, that's that's one I like it and then I don't know what do I
Should we just calm down about everything I think
Yeah, well no, I mean I
Think the Knicks people have to calm down a little bit.
Oh, good. Because I had wanted to talk about the NBA with you.
I think that it's going to be fine one way or the other. I think we're learning something
about everybody in New York City right now. I think we're learning something about this
team, which is that they don't have the baggage that like 75 year old Knicks fans do you know when they
basically gave game one to Indiana and in record time too I just like you know
just one of the most an incredible night of sports honestly in all the ways that
sports are great psychologically fascinating culturally interesting
there was drama there was, hip-hop swag.
There was history.
There was just, there was so much awesomeness in that.
And it was an MSG.
Yeah.
I mean, Reggie Miller on the call,
Halliburton doing the choke a little prematurely
and pulling it out in overtime.
Yeah, it was...
It was...
An unbelievable sports night.
Well, it was an unbelievable sports night.
Well, it was amazing that he did it when he did it
and they, because he just knew.
I think when you're a player, I'm a big tennis person.
I watch, I mean, I am missing two tennis matches right now.
I'm missing minutes as tennis matches talking.
That's a real commitment.
Roll on Garrow's, it started two days ago,
but it's still the first round. Anyway, as a tennis fan,
you get very used to opponents figuring out that the person they're playing, especially if you are
playing a rival or you're playing a great player just having a bad day, and you have figured out
a way. Daniil Medvedev is the king of this, right? He would get in players like great players heads and like kind of unravel them a little bit.
And I think Halliburton knew when they even that they even got to it over time.
It was proof that that's a wrap. We got this game.
The calm down part is just like, even if they lose this series,
The calm down part is just like, even if they lose this series, this has been by far the grittiest, most impressive, most inspiring group of Knicks that this city has seen in
a long time.
And I know y'all want to go all the way, because you know, I'm from Philadelphia.
I don't really, I have a lot of Knicks fans in my life and they live in my heart and they are like giving me cardiac arrest most nights of the week. But I just
feel like this is such an important moment for the city's sports teams. I mean, the Yankees
and the Mets are, I don't know. I mean, this, they look, looks like the world series to
me. I feel like these Knicks are, if you know,
God willing, inshallah, keep the team together.
Like, they're gonna win a championship.
If you can keep everybody together and bring,
you know, bring in three more people.
I don't know, this team can last.
I think that it's gonna be, every,
New York is gonna be fine.
So one way or the other is gonna be fine.
Yeah.
It's uplifting.
And what was that?
It was from decades ago when Jerry Seinfeld
was saying something like New York was finished
for something. And he said, New York has never
finished.
New York has never finished.
Oh, never.
But we are finished.
Sadly, Wesley.
Oh, my God.
Thank you so much for joining me.
And you have a new podcast coming out.
Do you want to plug that at all?
Yeah, I mean, it's called Cannonball.
It's a culture show where I talk to people
about art and culture and stuff.
Like, you know, I'd like to talk to my friend Eric,
for instance, about Yankees facial hair,
which is probably gonna happen at some point pretty soon.
I think you're definitely the only person
to want a Pulitzer for a piece about a mustache, right?
So facial hair is important.
It's important.
Yeah, no, I was convinced that he advanced is going to shave his beard off, by the way.
He didn't do it.
Oh, I didn't. I wasn't even in on thinking that.
But I just I'm going to real beard watch with him.
Not that is not on everybody. just I'm just watching his actual beard
Awesome. Well, thank you so much for your time. I'm deeply appreciative and
Come see the girls soon. What an honor. Thank you. You're so good at your job. Stop it. Oh go on
I'll text you. All right. It was great to see you. Thank you. Great to see you, too