RAWTALK - I'M DATING SOMMER RAY!

Episode Date: April 23, 2020

Had the pleasure of having Sommer Ray on the podcast where she shares some of her love life history as well as some tips on dating her and her goals for the future! You won't want to miss this podcast!

So I'm here with the one and only. You got to, yeah, you got to, yeah, talking to that. Hello. Perfect. I'm here with the one and only Miss Summer, right? What's up? And we have known each other for a long time. Yeah, it's been like, what, like five years almost?

I think so. Did I meet you when you were 18? Yeah, and then. I'm 23, so maybe like four, yeah, four, five years, I guess. Fuck. So first off, what do you do? How would you describe what you do? I mean, I feel like it's kind of.

evolved you know I'm like to evolve but honestly obviously like when I was younger I was just really passionate about working out yeah and that was my like whole thing and then now like now I'm more into like building I like obviously work out love to work out but now I like I'm a business woman building my empire so yeah what what businesses that you do like have you created from social that you're currently working on I have my clothing line my athletic wear and I have the subscription box called something this is actually a Not it, but this is it. This is my, it's a bikini top.

It's bikini, but I wear it as a top. So there's a bottom to it though, too. Yeah, there's like a bikini bottom, but. Bikini bottom. Buccaney bottom. I know. So how would you describe? Because I've always, you know, because people would be like, oh, Summer Ray, she's an Instagram

model or a butt model, right? Yeah. Like, I'm sure you've heard that. Oh, every day. It's like my identity. So what, how would you describe, like, what you are? Um, I, because I, I thought about this when I was thinking about these questions. I'm sorry.

And I know I interrupted. up there, everyone's going to be like, shut the fuck up and let her talk. But the reason why I'm asking you is because I have a hard time sometimes class of like saying what I do as well because I do so many different things. I mean, I honestly don't really know. Obviously I don't like to be called a butt model. That's just like not like my, but it's just like I don't really care how people perceive me because I perceive myself and I know what I do and I know my journey and like what I've

put into like what I do and I'm not just a butt model to myself. So I don't really care how other people think of me. It's like their opinions really don't matter and I just know what I do and like who I am and I'm true to myself and so how how would you describe what you do like um like I feel like I'm going I feel like I inspire girls to like work for their own stuff like I've never like never been handed anything like I've built my own empire like and um if I did it off my butt that's very inspiring for girls because look at the empire look at the empire I can respect it I've built it. I've built it. by myself not dating famous guys not like nothing like has helped me other than the fact that I put in hard work and I built my butt and I worked hard for it and now I'm building an empire off of it so that's what I can so I'm assuming you probably get a lot of that like oh you're you're this because of your butt right oh yeah it's like oh you got famous off your butt I'm like that's more than you've gotten famous off like okay do people think do people think you've gotten famous

from dating popular people no no one I mean okay because you can't think yeah because I'm like I'm not linked to anyone and people like I was already popular but like people like think me and rice gum dated and we didn't we're just best friends we're just like best friends he was dating Abby right yeah but this is like way before like me and him were like best friends and like we did content and he would say like me and my girlfriend but then in the description it would say she's my girl I mean she's a girl and she's my friend so I get it internet like and it was like cool like whatever let people think what they want but um well listen I've never anytime I've done any sort of content on the internet

with girls everyone automatically is like i'm having sex with a girl i'm dating this it doesn't matter you can literally be like with like people how many times that people thought me and you are doing it so it's just like we go at the gym they're like oh she he clapped those cheeks yeah you see the comments but it's like partly like i know that they're gonna say that it's just life it's like almost like they want it it's like their own little fantasy so it's like go have fun with that it's what think what you want that's like my thing is like whatever yeah does it ever really bother you did it ever really bother you at some point like comments that hateful shit or?

No, I don't know. I feel like in high school I got really bullied and stuff. I mean, I was only there for like a few months, but I was really bullied and like, those are people that knew me personally and actually like knew me and stuff. So like that kind of hurt. But like these people don't know me. They've never had a conversation with me. Because, okay, so by the way.

I mean, I was really hated. When I first got on social media, I don't know why, but I was so hated. Everyone hated me. And it's like the hate kind of has gone away a little bit. But so I need to get some new haters, honestly. Yeah, I do remember that You blew up quick, very, very quick Everyone hated me

I don't know, just the comments and stuff People just didn't understand me I was like one of the first girls To be doing those videos And like really like capitalizing on the butt There's other girls obviously But like I definitely took it to the next level Yeah, you did

I think the first girl I remember on the Instagram At least because from the fitness industry Is Jen I remember Jen And then she was like the Just in that industry And then you came And I remember you did some shoots With Live Ridge

Yeah, our content went Super viral Is that the shit That took you off It blew you up And I used to work With a photographer Name Ryan

And our photos They were going viral And then I started The little like set up my phone Did little butt jiggle Videos and stuff Showing that it was real Yeah

And I was just like Well girls were like Posting pictures In their butt Not really videos You know So I came in I was like

Doing all the video stuff I noticed that You were you Because butts were always Like I think this goes back to I don't know when butts became popular,

but they've been popular. And then you came in, obviously with the nice butt photos, and then you started doing videos. And I think that's what really took you off, though. Yeah, because no one was really posting videos and stuff, yeah,

of their butt stuff. They were just editing. And a lot of girls didn't have like nice butts in their life, so they couldn't do the videos. So I kind of capitalizing on it. So I saw something you posted the other day. I got to bring this up. It's fucking,

it's funny, kind of. You posted like a few throwbacks. Uh-huh. And that, I don't know, what they're obviously they were spread apart in time but you feel like you've you've lost some of your gains yeah I mean it's because before when I was I started competing in bodybuilding and stuff at

16 so that was my whole life that was my job like in Colorado there's nothing to do but work out I worked out twice a day like I ate good and worked out that's my whole life now I have a million other things going on I have a business to run I have other things I'm trying to pursue so it's like working out is kind of low low on my list nowadays so it's like obviously the gains are not going to be as crazy but like yeah I was looking at like old photos and like I always when I was like 16 17 18 19 I would be like I can't wait until I'm in my 20s my body because you're muscle matures and stuff I remember I remember you said this to me yeah I was excited I was like can't wait until like in my mid 20s like my muscle is going to be more matured I'm going to be more of a

woman like and now I look in the mirror I'm like damn so the work is important the work is super important. I mean, I genetically, I feel like working at like obviously muscles genetic like shapes and all that of course. And genetic. So I can like not work out and still like have a decently good body. But when I work out and actually put the effort in, I just feel like it looks a lot better. Oh no. That's a fact. I mean that's I can relate to this super hard. Like I know that there's like as I got like how I built everything was through the gym and then I got more involved with like businesses and having to grow this into more phone calls, more conversations, more meetings like more things in between that I never had because prior it was just like show up workout and then show up workout show up workout

and then eventually show up workout film content and then it started to get this traction and then now it's like show up workout come back do a podcast try and get some food in have a meeting go back film some other content for a different channel and then go to this other it so there's so much more now I totally relate to that and then the eating because for me I can I'm like my metabolism is so fast so like if I don't eat I can eat whatever I want at any moment and like I don't get fat so when I don't eat I get really skinny so like say I'm like all day doing stuff running around and then it's like five o'clock my having eaten all day that's when I really lose my muscle like it just sucks like the combination of like not working out not eating enough yeah my muscle and like my body just isn't the

same do you ever worry that at some point you won't be able to eat whatever you want um because i'll tell people people always tell me that and I am like oh they're like oh I'll catch up to you and then I'm like well my mom's 56 and your mom's crazy so I'm like I hope that I have her genetics Because my mom, she eats whatever. She's been like that her whole life to this day. She can eat whatever she wants. She does whatever she wants and she looks like that. It's just like some people are just genetically super blessed.

And that's her. So I'm not knowing if I'm just as blessed as her. But like I definitely see that me and her are very similar. Right, right. I know it's crazy because I remember being young thinking like, oh, it'll never happen. And I think when I hit 25, I was like, oh shit, I'm getting a little bit of a belly. Like it would stick a little bit longer. Oh, someone will wait until you're blah, blah.

I'm like, well, tell that to my mom. Because people try to say that still to my mom. My mom was like, okay, cool. So your mom, speaking of your mom, you were homeschool, right? Well, I was like, and I went to elementary school, like, for like a little bit of kindergarten. And then a little bit of third grade because my mom and dad would, like, fight if they wanted us to be homeschool or not. Because my dad didn't want us to be, but my mom did. So then I was homeschooled all the way until freshman year of high school because my parents got divorced.

And then my mom was like, fuck that shit. So then. Your parents got divorced in high school. Yeah, like right before high school. So then I was a freshman. I went to high school. for the first time it was not a good experience at all I dropped out like two months before the school year ended and I was going to do cosmetology school but I had to be 17 or pregnant to get

like a GD because you think like Rance 17 or pregnant yeah they don't let you get a GD unless you're like 17 or pregnant so I wasn't pregnant and I wasn't 17 because I was only like 14 15 so then I just started getting really really into working out and competing and stuff so what got you into working out originally um I mean my dad's a bodybuilder my mom so So it's like they both have always lived. Like I've been working out with my dad since I was like, I could remember because we had a gym in the basement. He's like a for real bodybuilding. Yeah, like full full on.

Is he still do bodybuilding like that? Actually like like probably like five years ago is like his last competition. But like into his 40s he's like he's still trains and stuff. Oh yeah. He's crazy. So this is crazy right. I have a question about this because I've read about studies and I wonder if this is if this is you were a product of this. But I've read studies that if two people can.

conceive a baby like at the moment in which they're like you know getting the girl pregnant you know that depending on yeah i know it sounds like right in this moment right here when this is entering here and then it's like okay the baby's starting to be made um the two people's persons i don't know if i said that right um their athletic shape is it starts depending on like the baby's condition like own genetic structure i guess yeah i've actually heard about that because like the more the better shape the parents are in it actually goes into the genetics of the like the kids so like actually my parents were probably in the most genetically good shape of their life when they had me and then like not because my my sister me and my older sister have different

dads and like her dad is like not like worked out a day in his life and then my mom so like she's not like that but then me I was like the prime of theirs and then my other siblings aren't as much in their prime but like so I'm like so you have two other two other sisters I mean I have two other sisters and one brother one brother and what do they do that are they also in colorado yeah we're all so different like it's so crazy my brother's just like a little stoner he loved because we got legalized when we were four like when he was like 13 12 in colorado so it's like we grew up smoking and then um well that's something like people don't know but like so you i mean yeah it's super it's super legal you still smoke yeah yeah it's fuck man i mean i don't put but like this is mine but like yeah

On my page, like, I really don't, like, capitalize on doing it. I don't, look, I smoke too. I don't smoke as often. I went through moments where, like, I smoked a lot. But I, the reason why, like, I stopped smoking is because of, like, my fucking anxiety would be, it used to go to the roof. I don't, like, I'm, like, I don't know. I'm, like, I'm, like, I'm crazy.

We were, like, honestly talking about this, like, getting her to, like, try to smoke. She would destroy Steve, I think. Probably. I hate to say it. Mr. Steve will do it. I think it would get smashed by some array in a smoking competition. Yeah. And I need to do it.

chuck of beer chugging oh fuck you beat me in that too that's a little i hate i don't even want to admit this right now we were out one night okay i would tell you the story we were out one night with the boys and we went to what it was like saddle ranch this isn't like hollywood west hollywood and i don't drink beer like that

i got to say number one let me preface this i'm not a drinker like i'm not like oh i drink i'm taking me down just because i'm not no no no no i'm just saying like it's not my normal go-to okay and Kyle was like yeah Chuck dude chug like chug this one and everyone's gonna chug it and then like they had me like verse summer

I don't know why but I ended up versed in summer and she she fucking beat me chuggy was it Corona yeah Killed it yeah so like that was funny though because then I'm very competitive so I'm like yeah but like what the fuck why have you done that before you done it prior to that obviously

I guess but like not I mean that's not like my thing it's not your thing right I don't go around Hey, let's chuck this beer together. Not, not summer will do it. But I will. I'm up for a challenge. I'm like, yeah, me and Steve shouldn't hang out.

No, I'd be false. Yeah, it's a problem. Yeah, maybe not. Especially if I get drunk too. Like, I'm like, I'm not stupid. Let's be real. But like, I'm going to, but like little challenges like that. Like, really fun.

Yeah. Damn, I kind of, we should, comment below if we should make that happen, guys. I know you probably want to see that. Summer versus Steve. Summer would do it. So let's talk about like your childhood a little bit more. You were homeschooled. How many years of your schooling were you with other kids and not homeschool?

I mean, when I was homeschooled, like at our church, we had, like, Thursday, like, classes and stuff. So I would always be, like, around other people and, like, I don't know. I feel like from being homeschooled, I didn't grow up to be, like, that stereotypical, like, weird homeschool girl. I mean, this is what I want to talk about. I don't, I don't, it's like, you're, it's so funny you said that. So I want to talk about this because I was curious, like, you went from. not a ton of like you weren't in class with kids all your life you were homeschooled and then now you're like all over the fucking internet and you have all these people like talking to you

or trying to talk to you like that's got to be a little bit of a good because it happened early for you too it was like homeschooled most of your life and then like you're 18 and then you like blew up on the fucking internet like what is that like did you ever have like a weird moment of like how to react to it i don't know it's weird because my whole life i've always been a little bit like in high school and then after high school when I dropped out everyone bullied me on the internet like you know I'd get on Facebook and like whole homecoming groups would like be like posting pictures like who am I girl because I had this like hairdo like I was bleached blonde I like bleached my hair and then I like had this like kind of like email like

comb over type thing and like everyone wanted to make fun of it and then I had like this is like when I have always had like big brows so like I shaped them like I like and everyone called me Nike brows like I don't know I was I kind of just got used to the hate and from people that I've known personally so it kind of I it like made me like have really strong skin like because like it did hurt when those people were doing it but then I got used to it and just realized like people suck and then when on the internet when all these people are doing it I'm like I don't you don't even know me like you like you don't you can't even really have no real opinion about me you know I mean, it's so common.

The internet hate is like one of the craziest things. I mean, I'll have days. Don't get me wrong. Like if I'm on my period or something. I'm like, the MS. I'm like, oh,

something. Like, but like for the most part, it really doesn't bother me. Because I feel like what people say about you is a reflection of them. They're just like unhappy with their lives. Because like me, I'm not going to get on the internet.

Maybe if I really feel a certain way I'm going to send it to my friend, be like, look at this bit. You know, but like I'm not going to let them know that I'm talking shit about them. Right. You're not like going out and saying it. Yeah,

Because they're saying it to make us for hurt. They're not, because everyone's entitled to their opinions. They can see their, and send it in a group chat to their friends and talk shit all day. Do that. Cool.

I don't care. But to do it so I can see it and to hurt me, it's just kind of like, you're just a sucky person. I don't care about your opinion. Yeah, I can't, I can't remember the last time I did. The only time I think I do stuff like that

is if like I saw like a dog getting hurt and I was like fuck this person. Oh, well, yeah. Well, that's different. But no, I understand. What I'm trying to say is like, I've never, ever gone out of my way to like write a comment maybe it's different because i'm in a different situation on social media

to write a comment about someone else like saying like what they're doing sucks you're ugly or you're fat or you're this i just can't even imagine anyone that i'm friends with who isn't like popular on social media going to do that there's just like it's a certain type of person like you like what do they get out of that i just don't know like well that's the shitty thing i think that the thing that's for you guys listening if you have this something to say about someone else and it's just some negative shit the real question is like what why do you have to say that why are you why do you have that inside of you to let it out whatever send it to that's why i'm always like these like people who want to do it all my pictures i'm like you guys don't have to talk

about me on the comments just send it in the text message and then talk shit freely on your phone where i don't have to see it because we're all going to have our opinions about people there's going to be things we don't like or whatever but it's like it's not your job to make us feel shitty about it yeah and i think the real question is like why does that person feel the need Because I feel like a lot, it's like obviously jealousy and like other things and like they are unhappy with their own lives. Yeah, I just want to say this, guys, if you're one of those people, it's okay. But remember like that, that something is that, that negative that you want to put out, it lives inside of you. So if you're putting that out, you got to maybe go ahead, put it out if it's making you feel temporarily better.

But I would try to address like, why am I needing to do this to make someone else feel shit so I feel better? Also, what I think I wouldn't do that because I would not ever want someone to see that comment. Say their friends are like, like, what? Like, why did you say this? You looks, it doesn't make you look. It doesn't make the person that you're talking crap about look bad. It makes you look bad. But they killed the comment section.

You can't see that anymore unless you go and see it on someone's page. You know how the follow? Instagram took out the who someone else likes or who someone else comments on? Oh, the following page. Yeah. So they'd have to like, they'd have to go and see the same person. No, but when you follow people, it like is their top comment. You know how it shows two comments?

Like if your friend comment on someone's picture, you can see it because you follow them. So like the two top comments can be that person. You know what I mean? I didn't know that. I didn't know that. You're a fucking expert. You're an Instagram expert. Jesus Christ. I thought I knew it all. Okay. So let's change subjects a little bit. We're kind of talked about it briefly in the beginning, but dating. Dating summer. You were in a relationship for a long time. Yeah, like two years. A lot of people didn't really know about it because I always like to like date low key people. Like I've never like really back. I've never like been associated with like anyone because it's like I don't really. like to like I don't know I want private life you know so I met this guy I've never really told the story no one's ever heard it should I say it story time yes I can say it let's go so um how long ago this was two years ago okay this restaurant down um it where's Delilah's like

in Hollywood yeah I think so I'm not like that's some trendy shit that's like somewhere isn't Delilah a club no it's a restaurant oh see that shows how much I don't know shit about this I thought was a club no it's a restaurant I thought isn't Steve Delilah's no it's a restaurant Maybe it's a restaurant that turns into a club I mean it's kind of loungy I guess oh wait Delilah's is with all the wine

Does it have all the wine in the thing I don't know it has like a bar but Oh okay I don't know it's not like nice guy It's like what is that It's like the same owners it's like that Shit okay guys whatever It's a restaurant point is it's a fucking place It's a restaurant two years ago

So two years ago I saw this kid And I was like, oh, my God, he's so cute. I hope he's our, because we were waiting to get our table. And I was like, I hope he's our waiter, blah, blah, blah. He turns out that he does have our table. He's our waiter. It was me, my mom, and, like, two of my really good friends. And the whole time, I don't know, I was just like, I want to marry him, blah, blah, blah.

So then before we leave, I was like, I knew I want to give him my number. So then my mom had, like, a pack of, like, juicy fruit. Like solid fucking choice of gum. Yeah, she's amazing. mean and then she like rips off like the top and like I write my number on it whatever and like my mom like before me I like run out because I like you're nervous yeah I'm never like I mean honestly like girls are not usually the ones to do that have you ever done up before no yeah okay so then I run out to my car blah blah blah my mom gives it to him and like at first I think that

he's oh he said that he thought like something was wrong with the order or something that's why she came and talked to him but um she was like do you have a girlfriend he said not really whatever that meant so i thought it meant like he's like probably like seeing multiple girls but he doesn't really have a girlfriend type of him okay and then um she gives it to him whatever he texts me later um tells me his name i like looking him up on my followers he's he's following me like i could find him but then when we started talking he unfollowed me and he acted like he didn't know who i was i was like okay that's slick so oh my god we got asked this question this is so crazy so if someone was

following you would that like fuck their chances of dating you um no but if they lie about it i mean obviously he still didn't ruin his chances because i date him for two years that's crazy though yeah it is crazy so then so like when my mom i was like when my mom got in the car because i valeted and like i got in my car and my mom came out um i was like what's his name she's like i don't know if i really want to say his name so then she said his name and then i went to my followers and like searched his name and i found his page and then um yeah we talked blah blah blah I don't know we had a relationship I'm just saying like a lot of guys

always tweet at me and stuff and they're like oh when I'm rich I can date you and I'm famous I'm like now you don't have to be any of those things you see because like I don't care about dating people for that reason like he was my waiter I thought he was cute so that's why I dated him yeah so how did that how did it end um I don't know I feel like

he got fired from that place and then he worked for me and it's just like I don't think that you can have like both and like I thought I was okay with paying for a guy forever because I was like every like he was like my son and like I paid for every single thing. Fuck. Oh, that one hurts. I know.

That one fucking hurt. Oh, shit. So I think he's going to see it. Oh no. Yeah. No. Fuck. So then he.

Sorry, bro. No, he's a great person. Like I have so much love for him. But it just I kind of like outgrew the situation because it's like we were just weren't evolving. Like he got too. comfortable like he was living the best life traveled around the world lived in like my yeah i remember this because anytime i'd see you and we'd go do anything or film any content he was there oh no he he was by my side 24-7 like i was obsessed with this kid like literally like roar him on my arms so

proudly and i don't know it just got to the point where i just feel like he was taking me for granted and like he just got too comfortable and like i don't know i just i don't know it's just like we fell out of love with each other or like i don't even know if it was love i don't know do you think the separation occurred because of the work thing like the yeah i feel like he just got way too comfortable and it was making he was like an anchor and i was trying to grow but like he doesn't have any passion or ambition or anything because honestly a man a real man would not be leaching off a girl for two years like you know it comes to a point where it's like okay do something get a job do something help because even if he wasn't um helping me or helping me grow like because money

and stuff doesn't bother like i don't care like if he didn't never made a penny, whatever. I'm cool, like, if he's helping me even grow mentally or, like, there's just nothing. It wasn't physically, mentally anything. He was helping me evolve. So I'm just like, this is kind of helpless. And I don't want to be, like, 30 and be like, oh, I should have broke up with him.

It's like, I'm 23. I still have my whole life. Like, I should find someone where we're more compatible. Because it's never going to work long term. I'm going to play devil's advocate. Are you ready for this? Based on what I knew about the situation, do you think that maybe he felt because he was like working for you and working like with you to do things and I know he he maybe he

felt like he didn't have enough room to try and go do his own things that he couldn't really do them I mean he would say that like I would say that he can't get a job and all that stuff but like I would have conversation with him and like my business partner is like the most amazing like businessman and stuff and I would always like go intern with him go follow him around do something I don't know he I don't he doesn't have like goals or ambition you ask him what he wants to be or what he wants to do he doesn't know and like i don't know i think that that's an easy escape for him like to say that or be like that or i could think that but i don't i just think that he was comfortable and he i mean he was living his best life why would he want to do anything

and like he worked for me but like he took my photos but he would still make me feel like shit like i'd be like okay we just want and like he would make me feel like i can't ask for another photo you know like when you're like with your friends and you're like they just took photos of you and then you're i don't know if you can relate to this but then it's like you just want one more so you're like can you take one more yeah i would like feel like saying that to him but i'm like wait a minute i pay for your whole fucking life so you can just take a few photos i mean i would literally be like can you take i'm like oh just a few more he's like you said that like a hundred times ago i'm like you're gonna make that comment to me that's like it's one thing a boyfriend

in general shouldn't make that and especially that's your job like this is why you have food on the table like this so that's fucked i think like he just got too it just got too comfortable Like, it just, he forgot, like, he felt like I owed him something. I'm like, at the end of the day, I really don't owe you this. Like, yeah. I love you and I want, like, and I want this to work. But it's like, you have to like, he would like do the dishes and he would be like, like, like putting in the dish. And he would be like, I bet you forget how to do the dishes.

I'm like. Oh, shit. Oh. And he's dissing you. I'm like, oh. Well, I for, I think you forget how to fucking like do any, like, you don't even have a credit card. You know, like, I don't. forget you know how to fucking put your pin in to pay for something

yeah like i don't even know you know how to hand off your credit card to anyone like i don't like it's and it's fine like i don't like i was 100% cool with it but then i felt like i was not growing because of him and like you are the company and the energy you keep so if i'm gonna be around this person who doesn't want to wake up doesn't want to work out can't wake up because he was up watching movies all night and i'm like okay well get your ass up that's not my problem We have worked to do today, you know, so it's like, that's what kind of energy it was. So if I dated Summer Ray, if Bradley Martin dated Summer Ray, I would need to be good at taking photos. Yep.

I need to get up, no, but all jokes aside, like, what would it be like to date you? I feel like dating, like, because I know a lot of guys out there are like, oh, she's not with that guy. I got my chance. I feel like I have grown a lot from my other relationship. I like learned a lot because I am kind of the, I kind of like to take charge. I, because I will never be a girl that's with a guy because he's, he's taking care of me or he's, I have to be with him because he pays for me or like my, like, you know, I live in his, like, that's never going to happen. Have you ever been offered stuff like that? I mean, yeah, but like random, like foreign guys, you know, like, but I'm just saying, like, I'm never going to not be able to take care of myself. Like, I'm going to have my own house. Yeah. I'm my own sugar daddy forever. Like, I don't ever want to be in the situation where guys taking care of me paying for me. So. Oh, that kind of mentality. I'm like, oh, I'll be the sugar daddy.

Oh, you can come live with me. I'm your sugar daddy. And then I thought that was the kind of vibe I wanted to be on. And then I realized, I don't think that's the vibe I want to be on. Like, I think I need like a mutual, like a mutual thing where we're both successful. Like we're both. But like I never want to depend on anyone. I'm always going to make my own money, do my own thing.

And like, yeah. It sounds like what's important is to be able to grow somehow together. Yeah, that's what I wanted. Help each other. Yeah. Because then I feel like obviously not. relationship that like we just it wasn't you know it was just like like it was just like because it needs to be a given take yeah just a take a take take take take right it was take take take

take take and like how i said if he was even like fulfilling me mentally or like motivating me anything like summer let's fucking work out let's let's do this like no it was me doing that to him and i'm like and then doing everything else yeah it's just like take take take take take and then I'm like I'm like empty you know I'm giving him all my energy I'm like what have I gotten out of this you know so and I'm a giver and like I'm like I like like to fix people and stuff too so it's like I like give too much and then it's like I then I don't have anything left for myself you know yeah I get it so are you needed anyone now what did I think about you better cut this out don't think no I'm not cutting anything out

No, we're not good. There's nothing. You don't have to answer it. You don't have to answer it. It's fine. There's no, there's no, it's all good. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

It's fine. Next question. Next question. You gotta cut this out. I'll fucking love. No, we're not going to cut it. It's going to stay in here. It's perfect.

The awkwardness is so good. Look at it. Oh my God. Okay, seriously, listen. Okay, listen. Fuck that question. That question was stupid. It was a loaded question.

I did that just to mess with it. you. I know. If you want, we could really cut it out. We'll see what it looks like. It's kind of funny, though. It was like a funny pause. Um, more importantly, more importantly, um, where do you want to go with everything you're doing now? Like, because you know, you talked about him, your ex and it, it, you kind of like, where, where he didn't really want to go anywhere? It kind of affected how you, you didn't want to, like, it didn't motivate you, right? Yeah. So, like, where do you want to go? Because you're still young as fuck. You're fucking, like, 23? Like, Jesus Christ. It's crazy how long ago I met you, but so you're 23 years old. I just turn, I'm going to turn 31 next month. Where do you like, I guess I hate this fucking question though when I ask this. Are you asking what my five year plan is? I fucking hate it. No, I know.

Okay, so I'm not asking five year plan because I hate that question. I hate it because that's not realistic sometimes, right? Just straight up not. Like where do you want to like, I guess when it's not all said and done, but like as you get further on your life, like what do you want to accomplish more of or what you want to accomplish? I'm just going to be. business mogul like that's what i mean i want to be the person i can just do whatever you want you know you have like a like a name that's just like she can do whatever she wants she's build her empire

yeah what do you what do you want to do so what's the next thing you want to work on like obviously you got the clothing stuff you have everything you do like ig i don't know if you do brand deals and stuff like this whatever but you obviously have a tic talk i've seen that because i've had i've been forced to me on ticot lately um because i'm trying to learn how to fucking use it and i don't know how to do it um obviously the cringy dances yeah TikTok is cringed me. I can't take it seriously. And like if people,

I don't feel like I take anything seriously on there, right? Like no one's being serious. Like, I don't know. Yeah. Is anyone being serious? I hope not. No,

I think it's all just for fun. It's fun, right? Yeah. So all these things, right? What, like, where do you want to be? Fuck,

in a, in more than one year. In multiple years. Like, we're like, if you look back, like, what do you want to leave behind?

Like, what do you want to work towards leaving behind? Yeah, I mean, I'm like trying to, like, what I'm trying to do too is like change the narrative like I've always been the the hawk girl or whatever that the guys like and the girl girlfriends hate or the girls hate and like yeah I just want girls to know that I'm for them you know like everything I do is it may

look like there are certain girls who look to me and they find me inspiring and they're like the booty pictures anything is like you inspire because it is inspiring it's like I worked hard for this body like it should inspire you to go to the gym and work out and stuff too but instead they think oh she's posting this to my boyfriend and plus after her and it's like that's not really like obviously i'm a girl too and i want guy like you know people think i'm hot whatever but it also is for the girls and like i just want like to really like grow my like empire of girls too that like really look up to me and respect me and like that i can empower and um so that's like a goal of mine yeah no that's dope that's awesome i mean that's why i love doing everything

i've done to this point has been the the messages that i receive about like content about maybe even stuff just like this in particular with someone else with anyone with you and people learning like oh i want to do more with my life or maybe i want to be in that situation or i appreciate the thing that that person said so on that like what what do you think have you you done or what do you want to do more of that'll that'll allow you to do more of that like to give more of that yeah i mean right now what i'm excited about is like i'm going to like really like focus on my youtube channel like showing girls how to work out and like because i've always like do the workouts but i don't like ever like teach and like a formative so i'm going to do that and like i have this thing called summer's camp

that i'm going to do like go around the world as like a boot camp type thing and like certain things like that to really like and like really get involved with like the workout because i kind of like dabble in it you know yeah i know i notice that i'm like really known for fitness but i'm like i kind of just like i like put my toe and then i'm like uh you know because it was such my life for so long that's like it's i'm kind i was kind of burnt out on it for a while i was just like ugh you know so it's like I really just want to get in it and really help girls and feel beautiful and like because I am like a girl's girl like people like don't know that about me but like I love girls and I love empowering them and I just think that a lot of young girls don't have like a really

good person to look up to because they're like I've always stayed true to myself like I know so many girls and like me everyone does like they come to LA they get popular they start getting their lips done their but everything's fake all of a sudden within like a year of living here and I've I've been in the game for like five years now and I've never touched anything. I've never changed who I am. I've always stayed true to myself. And I think that that's a good message for girls.

And like, there's not many girls like that that girls can look up to and really be like, because I don't want girls to like want to look like me. Like, you know, it's like I just want to like inspire them to like stay true themselves and be themselves. You know what I mean? Yeah. So that's like my goal is like I really just want to be impactful.

And like girls, people's life. And guys too. Like, you know, I love guys to feel. that same way too so that's like my goal is just like for a long time i've just been a picture on the internet you know like oh like summer ray it's like no one knows what i sound like no one knows anything about me they don't know my personality all they're like oh she has a nice ass like you know like that's been my story for so long and like it's hard it's like been kind of like difficult to change it because people put you in a box and they don't want to see anything else like no that's all

like you can't have a voice you can't have an opinion you just turn around that's all we want to see from you. Like, we don't want to see you. I'm sure you've seen comments like that when you do something outside of that. Yeah, no, everyone just wants that. So I have to like do it slowly. You know, you get like cold turkey and just be a different person. And I work hard for my body. So it's like, that's not something I'm not not going to do because it's like I also believe that like I can post what I want and I can show my body on my consent. It doesn't have anything. That doesn't make me a hoe. That doesn't make it. I'm not a hoe. I'm like the most unhoa ho ever. Like I literally could not be more of a prude girl so it's like when people call me a ho and I'm like okay like where's your

evidence of this it's just it's just a perception it's a perception so like the perception of who I am versus who I really am I just need to show like yeah more of but then even when I do that people are so people are always gonna fit I know girls who post nothing but fully clothed photos always and they're like do porn it's like it's all it's just like being females we're just like screwed over in that way even just being a dude doesn't matter who you are being someone in the in a public eye people are going to be like this is who you are no matter what i've talked about this on other podcasts i've talked about this tons of times there's no way to avoid that the only thing you can do is focus on being yourself the thing that i noticed the thing that i know

that's really hard for girls who initially start like like you're talking about as oh this is a girl with the butt or just a guy who's like this is what the person does and then they try to do something else um anything it could be like a guy like for example me right all i did was fitness stuff my whole life and then I just started making another channel where it's just life of Bradley Martin and she's like comedy skits and it's just like jokes and stuff with with the boys you know the no guys and when I first started doing it a lot of people like oh just post your fitness videos like this is stupid and now it's like they love it like the kind of like the views the comments people love it because people don't like change right and afterwards they get used to it they're

like oh this is you like this I've never known a different you yeah well this the thing it's like I could speak from a certain perspective and say I love fitness I absolutely love it I'll never stop doing it. But at some point, as you get older and as you grow and you're like, I want to do other things. I want to try other things. No, there's more to life. And so, yeah. And so the thing I wanted to tell you, I think it's really important. Um, but it is kind of hard to dance that, that line, especially sometimes with like Instagram and the way people respond to it and maybe with the algorithm and like engagement, all this other factors of like posts and it doing well or not doing well. I know that like, because I've had this conversation with other girls who are like, oh,

I want to do X, Y, Z. I want to do this. But it's like they post sexy photos all the time. I know it's a fact that if all you post the sexy photos all the time, though the people you're going to get are people who are there for the sexy photos and they put you in that box. If you don't make content that's like, hey girls, like this is what I'm doing today for my workout. Because obviously guys when they hear that, they're like, shut up, I'm just going to go to the next thing, right? That's what that's what if. I'm sorry, I shouldn't say obviously because that's, that's kind of rude. I don't mean obviously in the sense of like that's the natural default for guys. But if you film the content, if you post the content that was only, you know, I look sexy, I look

hot and you did that for years and you're the sexy hot girl and all of a sudden you start trying to teach girls how to work out the guys who already follow you because they've been following you for that are going to be like what is this what is she talking about just turn around to show me your butt so it's like you have to slowly start to put in content yeah you can't just like one day just be like oh it's like I delete all my butt photos and it's like guys I'm a none now yeah like they'll be like what like that's when you're going to get a lot of the but there has to be a phase of you start to include more and more and more of it and obviously if you want to post pictures of yourself and your butt like it's your fucking live do it what the

fuck you want with it and own it right but you have to understand that as you start to do that more more of the teaching you're going to get you're probably going to get more comments with like people talking shit maybe a little less engagement even because it's not going to use many people there that's not 100% true and like girls it's like why we get in this like oh only sexy photos is because of only obviously obviously that those it doesn't matter who you are It doesn't matter what girl you are. It doesn't matter if you're known for having a nice body or not. If you post a face picture versus a butt picture,

the butt picture, no matter who you are gets more likes. That's just life. That's the internet. That's the internet. So they post face pictures and like, oh, this isn't getting love.

So I'm just going to stick to the. So that's also, but like for me is like, I've been on the internet for so long. I've been, and it's like, I'm more just focused on like building my empire and like getting. So it's like even if I'm posting like stuff that isn't getting as many likes,

it's like the likes aren't making you money like really it's crazy to think you's like you've been on the internet for so long and you're just fucking so damn young it's fucking wow i mean i got i blew i was on the internet like do trying to do my because like people don't see your come up before the blow up so fast i'm like i guess but it's like they don't see the work that you're putting in yeah you've been on for a while which is so crazy because you're so so so young because i like blew up when i was like 18 i just turned 19 and then we had the 19 and all natural like for a while because this is when girls were doing like shoutouts with other girls. The internet's changed so much.

It's a different place. It's not the same at all. Now when kids blow up, they are huge because back when I blew up on the internet, having a million followers was like unhurt. Like when you have a million. Oh my gosh. That was like the first person who got a million followers.

It was like, wow, what the hell? So now the internet is so saturated and there's so many more people. So now the blowup is crazier because now there's more people to see your blow up. I'm like, I'm always like, up now today in this like world of the internet I would be mega mega because it's just so many more people on the internet so it's like we think these kids it's like the kids now who are blowing up they're not that many users are on instagram when we blew up you know so it's like it's a whole

different world now but what's what's hard now is like staying relevant you know like you can blow up you can have all the attention in the world everyone's like oh my god because like you see like the new little kids who are blowing up and they got but it's like how can you stand that for five years let's see what uh because everyone's going to be a having the likes and love when the hype is happening but what happens when the hype is gone because it only lasts for a little bit it always slows down it always slows down it always for sure i think then it's about it's about like kind of reinventing yourself and what you do and how you do it yeah and that's kind of what i'm doing now and also like really really figuring out like what the fuck your purpose is like what's the

purpose of you making content like yeah like for example i can i can i can only speak from my myself and I'll ask you the question right after, but it's like I know that through my years of making content and seeing the way people would react to certain content, that the thing that I really wanted to help people with was basically feeling like, number one, like you can do anything that you put your mind to no matter what. Secondly, no matter what you've gone through. Because I share a lot of like what I've been through in my past. I used to share a lot more of it on my come up. So a lot of people would be engaged with my story where I came from a lot of the things that I went through as a young, young fucking kid and then grew up through, become to where I'm at now. So the idea is like, I just want to be able to inspire and still hoping someone. And the biggest thing for me was to try and be a father figure that I didn't have. Right. Right. So to be able to give that to other men or young adults, right? Right.

That's the biggest thing that matters to me is to do that. So once you define what your real purpose is, because a lot of people say, oh, I want to help people and I want to inspire people, right? But I don't think that's enough to sustain it long term because if I could say for a fact that the thing I want to give back is the father figure that I didn't have, that's that'll never change right right so knowing that that's where i come from and then so the content that i make needs to somewhat reflect that not always because i know at some point like for example me in the beginning i did a bunch of crazy lifting videos and lifting

girls and i did all this shit now that like people people do now right you've been there right we've done it yeah we've done videos together so that would get people in because like i did a video where summer was on my back and she and we're jumping onto this thing and obviously she got a nice butt so i knew people were going to like oh i want to click on this because it's a guy with the girl with the nice butt they come in they see it and then you try to get them to learn about your other content which sometimes didn't get as many views but it's the stuff that I really want to do like when you talk about helping women and helping girls that content's never going to be like the viral shit of like the butt shake video but that's the stuff that's really going to make a difference

in people's life so it's like you have to start doing more of that and I'm not saying this just to you to you to you but if you're listening you want to make content to help someone like yes you got to get people in whether it's the butt or the physique or the strength or whatever this thing is but you have to have something like real intangible. Like substance when they come in. Exactly. And to try and give it to them. Because only so many people are going to be there to want to listen to it.

It might be come in and they may be like, uh, like I'm not ready for that. Like that 10,000 or 100,000 people are not ready for that, but 5,000 or 500 people are. And that's what really counts. That's how you build. And some people are just like scared of the substance.

For sure. Because like look at the viral music nowadays. It's nothing of substance. It's shake your head. Those are the club songs. But then you listen. Can you do it? Can you bust?

Can you do it? I don't know. No, I'm sure you fucking, you don't act like you didn't fucking try it, you TikToker. Don't call me that big. I will fight you. That's not me. Okay, she's not a TikToker. I just know you do it a TikTok a lot.

You're doing a lot of TikTok. No, I was doing it for a second. Are you going to lie to me and tell me you didn't try the slide? I mean, I should. You didn't try it yet. Let's do it now. Just tell the truth. Tell the truth.

I didn't really try it that good. Did you try it for real, though? I mean. Fuck you. You fucker. Fuck you. I knew it. First time that shit came out,

you were like, let me try this shit. I'm not gonna lie. I tried it too. No, but like not with like a video like just like and like. Yeah, but I'm saying you tried it like on not on not on TikTok. I tried it too.

My time like in my house. And like the shower like by myself. Yeah. Okay. All right. All right. That's exactly it. Hmm.

And then you just, but then you got out of the shower and you kept trying it and trying it. And then I set up my phone and I'm. And I'm, fuck no okay so literally later tomorrow i post my video you're like i fucking knew it no i mean it's a good idea it's fucking viral that's the thing right

but okay so what i was getting to say besides all this stuff um what do you think the message that you that you have or you want to give that can resonate with women so that moving forward you could start making bits of content that can that can relate that to them you know what i mean you said a little bit of a earlier but I just want to like being true to yourself and like I don't know I feel like I just want to be I feel like a lot of the times I see myself being like a positive like person in

people's lives just like the way I like get common like because I am a positive like you know I'm a positive person I know that for sure like like you know my summer I'm like you know I want to be like a sunlight in people's lives like and I really do feel like I've probably helped people out of dark times or something because like if you people who really actually watch my content and my YouTube videos and stuff, I have shown, like, my personality and, like, different things. And I think those people, those true fans are, like, actually know who I am and stuff. Yeah. I just need to do more of it because I, like, kind of do it.

And then I kind of, like, stop. And then I'm like, because it's easier just to be like, oh, here's a hot photo. Because I like to do photo shoots and stuff. Like, it's like my first love of, like, I like doing modeling and stuff. So it's like, that's like an easy, like, oh, here, I need to post some content. So when I get lazy, I'm like, oh, here. But I do need to devote more. into like being that like how my mom is to me and stuff some girls don't have that you know like

a powerful impact in their life that motivates them inspires them and stuff so and my story is kind of you know it's like a relatable story and like it's just yeah yeah I think the biggest thing is speaking speaking more yeah because the many you speak on especially I know this from your from your from if you speak people are going to be like what like but you got to do it more yeah I sometimes I I have a I need to. You have a one. I know.

It's just like sometimes I've gotten into the like, oh, people don't want to hear me talk. So then I don't. But this is like I need to just. I mean, I have a podcast, but. See? So this is the crazy thing, right? You just said sometimes you know people don't want to hear you talk. So then you don't.

And the crazy thing is though like you got to remember this too. If your purpose is to help inspire women to like just be yourself, you have to fucking own that shit. Yeah. You're right. Yeah. And I know. that you can and I know that sometimes you do. And the thing is, is that in my everyday life, like I wish I just have like a video camera

following me because I do live, everything I preach, I live on a daily basis every day in my real life. Yeah. But sometimes I preach this and then people will go to my page and be like, well, I'm not seeing this person that you're trying to say that you are, but it is really me. So I know that. Here's a beautiful thing, right? That, like what you just said though and you overcoming that and going through that is literally

the epitome of like, if your goal is to help. inspire other women you going through that and getting better and going past that is all you need to do that's part of your story i think you should just do more of it obviously like you know instagram needs to be a certain way like maybe you try to get more people to more of long format content like if you did a podcast more like you said you got it but you should do it more or the the youtube more speaking yeah and IGTV's and i hear they're about to monetize that so that'd be lit but like doing stuff like that more despite what people are going to say that alone is going to inspire more people because otherwise then again you just have the girls who are like this the chick with the butt like oh she my boyfriend likes

the photos fuck this chick I just need to change the narrative I get so many DMs from girls being like hey can you block my boyfriend I'm like holy fuck I'm like oh or I always like I just blocked you off my boyfriend's account and he keeps unblocking you so can you go block him I'm like that's my narrative I get on TikTok and I see so many videos of like girls like like all the videos are like girls like hating me and you know it's like they put me in this box you put you in a And they like hate on you well it's because oh god it's because like what my boyfriend really wants and it's like a picture of me is like versus what they are I got it stuff like that And it's like that's not me that's I don't want that to be my story. Yeah like I that's not who that's not

You just got to start writing it I'm never yeah and I'm never the girl who's like oh I'm better than you like I there's a lot of girls I know that like our Instagram girls that have that like I'm better than you I'm the show name name them name like I'm the shit name them name them. I'll steal your boyfriend type vibe name one can you name one please name no name a hat name just the first letter oh fuck you i'm not an instagram girl kind of is he not though what are you talking about you are how am i an instagram girl the dick wait what what do you do that's different than us i mean i look i'm not i do a lot of different content okay like i'm doing podcast and shit i'm not an i g model god damn it i'm a you're a butt model i'm a fucking business man business you know like when j z said i'm a business Yeah, I'm actually a business man. Exactly.

But the thing is, that's funny, that's so stupid about stereotype, like, you know, double standards. It's like a guy, you can, like, be posting a picture with your, like, bulging dick and be like, but no one says anything. And a second, a girl does anything. It's like, so they might say some shit about that. Okay, maybe, but I'm just saying, like, for the most part, you don't get, like, slut shamed. Yeah. It's, it's definitely, there's definitely a little bit of a double standard. Yeah.

For sure. but so yeah i mean the thing is people but that's every even though i'm not a ho and i've not like been with like anyone i my like reputation i bet guys around the world have said oh i fucks him array i fuck my body count is probably so fucking i people bullshitting yeah bullshitting like obviously like think about it think about anyone who's met me they've probably been like oh i fuck some of ray like i'm probably like like my body count is probably so high from like fake people that they've said i found damn super fucking high highest fake body count possible wait so okay so that this leads me to another question you said something about the

dms earlier and then what are the what are like the most fucking why does everyone always want to ask me this and the thing is me and my friend jennel were talking about it the other day because back when i first got on the instagram i first got on instagram my dms were crazy like the biggest celebrities you can think of dm me and nowadays they don't they don't do it And we were thinking maybe because they're, like, doing it to, like, the other girls or they don't DM girls anymore. I'm, like, wondering. But I never replied to anyone. So that's probably the way.

I had Kinsey on here. I had Kinsey on here the other day. And she was telling me how, like, they'll send, like, pictures that delete. Oh, no. Send a picture that delete. Oh, yeah. Also, what they do is they send a message and you don't reply within the couple, whatever, they unsend it. Oh, yeah.

Well, that's a classic move. Yeah. That's a classic. But also, I never replied to, and I've, like, never. I never used to ever respond to anyone so they probably just feel like he's not winning who's the biggest one I'm not gonna name name damn it people have always wanted me I've always gotten podcasts and they always want me to do that I'm like nah I just can't I just want you to say it because I know I we had a conversation in the car and I fucking know and I can't because I can't

give her info like my my my oh my gosh I feel like they just got the vibe they're like because guys probably talk to each other and they're probably like summer ain't with it like summer's not gonna come fuck us like she's not Maybe that's why they don't get the DMs no more. Yeah, because I don't put out that energy. Because I've seen some DMs, I see some DMs in there. That's great. I wish I could just fucking, I won't say it, I know.

My DMs used to be insane. I seen some DMs in it like, you'd be like, what? Oh my God, right? Yeah. Oh my God. This is so fucked. Out of pocket shit where you're just like, this person being this thirsty, like, wow, it's crazy.

What? You wouldn't expect it, but it's like they are. And, yeah, but I definitely put that like, don't, fuck with me energy out there so I think that they get it because the thing is is like I know what they want they want to fuck me and I'm not fucking them so why entertain it like they don't want to be my friend we're not going to meet up for coffee and be best friends yeah so it's like I'm not like I have no reason to reply and I'm the type person where I'm cool with being cool with people like that in person you come up to me introduce yourself we have like an in-person

relationship type like oh hi like I fuck with that person but like in the DMs I feel like nothing nothing good comes out of DMs yeah I mean what if they're like go get some coffee and get to know each other. I mean, but still came from the DMs. So I know, like, I want to like organically meet.

Like, oh, here's my friend. So don't, if you want to date some array, you don't DMer. You got to,

you got to, don't slide in the DMs. That's not the move. That's not the move. So I guess stalk me and then. Stock you, bro, you said this.

You brought it up. It's perfect. So you have a stalker now. Maybe he knew. Maybe he's like, I can't slide in the DMs. Because then people gives people ideas. Fuck.

After this, I'll tell you. Okay. I know stalking is not fucking cool by the way that's fucking strange dude I literally is like fucking up my whole life yeah that's not cool that's not cool I wonder if it's the same stalker anyways let's just not talk about that one I understand fuck dude I mean someone was yours a dude it wasn't mine it was some other girls who was like trying to be like fuck you and I was like I don't know what the

fuck you're talking about bro like imagine like a dude you did a video with or yeah dude you did a video with and then your stalker's like attacking trying to attack that dude you already told me this oh yeah okay so they internet didn't know but anyways I did a video with the girl we just have our inside jokes the audience is like I did a video with a girl and next you know this guy was like you how dare you fuck you I'm gonna come kill you and all this crazy shit I'm like what are you talking about dude I just did a fucking YouTube video like I don't know this person like that and they're crazy like they must have these crazy like no dude people are like really crazy and it's so weird that this whole stalker stuff happened and

I just started watching the show you oh no that's fucked so I'm at my I was watching this shit like oh my god this fucked up oh my god fuck yeah you're good you're good you don't got to worry about it you'll be fine oh I'm gonna be good I think I'm gonna hire some security up at my house yeah hell yeah you'll be late um okay so anything else you want to say anything else you want to add any questions for me um what's your five year plan Bradley fuck I hate this fucking question no um I honestly I don't really have one this is something I kind of touched on in the podcast with Mike I've never really been good at being like in five years i'm going to have this i've never done legit never done

that i always had a big picture like a big uh i want more out of my life feeling and i was going to ask you this and i'll finish what i'm saying first and i'll ask you uh i always had this feeling like there was more for me and i've always had this feeling like i want to work towards something bigger so i guess i could say if i if i think about five years from now i know i started doing the podcast right now which you guys are watching and listening to i want to be posting one every thursday at 10 a m that's my goal right so subscribe right now I'll leave a comment on iTunes wherever you guys are listening from but I like this format of content because it allows me to do what I really really enjoy which is like speaking because I know the speaking content the speaking format is how people really learn

because I know from my past again I did tons of crazy videos to get people to engage but when people really were like yo you really helped me it's because I did a video that didn't get as many views it got 100,000 views instead of a million and I was talking about my life and what I've been through and what I'm going through and how I learned and how I'm getting better And sharing that. But it's almost like that 100,000 views is more better and special than a million of people who just watched it. It is. Those are people who are actually like, that's what I want to do is like really grow my fan base of people who really fuck with me.

It's not because of how I look. I could like look different tomorrow and they still fuck with me because they like me as a person. It's all about speaking then. You have to get better and more comfortable with like sharing like what you've gone through, who you are, what you've learned, your experiences so that someone else. can benefit from them can learn can get better that's all it's about that's all i was able to do back in a day and that's what got the people really involved with me and anything that i was selling my clothing stuff the being figure that's now called raw gear but all these things that i'm working on when people got engaged with it is because of that yeah i did a ton of shit they got people engaged

overall to see me and then some would learn a little bit more when they wanted to because everyone's got to be ready to get to that point so my five year is to do more of this kind of content do more speaking kind of content do more i would i like to do i would like to do like to do like speaking in public i would like to do more events more things where i i just get to talk to people thank you thank you thank you um i just really i love it i i i do i enjoy it um but i do really just enjoy this format because i think especially podcast it's strictly this kind of like there's nothing hurrah about this content right now it's like except the things we're saying and the the the messages that we can give to them like there's no like besides that light that's like the craziest thing in the

shot right now in your pants and your top right lit so like having those things um having it be like this format so if people are engaged watching it at this point then they're really interested to find out more right so that's that's why i mean you should do more shit like this because you could share more and obviously i think you sharing more about um your exercise routine your tutorial and what you've done what you're doing now what you've done in the past to get where you are because then obviously a lot of girls are like i want that so you could share because i know you fucking train like a crazy person back in the day like you said maybe not as much now but you still know how to do it i i've known you long enough right so yeah i actually work out

instead of just like here's the product right yeah that's what i'm always doing i'm always like doing it but i'm not so like okay what are you doing you know so i need to like be more informative and like help like because i there's really nothing like i'm like oh girls love me but then there's nothing that they what's to love like there's no connect like there's nothing that they can connect to you know so I need to, and I am that person that I feel like connects to girls really well. And like, because I am just your like normal like girl who just wants to. You are for sure. I can tell from someone who like I know you and I've known you for years, you're and I'm not.

It's just so weird to say this. You're kind of like a bro. Yeah. Like you're just chill. Like you're, it's not like, you're not like a, oh, I got to do this. I got to fix my that. I got to. You're very, you're fucking normal.

You're super fucking normal. That's why I say like a bro. I don't mean like you're like a dude. I'm definitely a bro. I just mean you're like, that's why I'm also hard to be in relationships with because sometimes I feel like I'm very demasculating to my guys and I don't mean to be.

It's just like I'm very like of self independent, strong woman. And I also like just like sometimes over bro my dudes too much like my boyfriends where it's like, okay, I guess I am your girlfriend but like now I feel like you probably think I'm a bro. I don't know. Like I am so. But I think it came from. in high school I didn't have a lot of girlfriends

because girls didn't want to be my friend and I only had guy friends like all growing up like in high school in that little time it was and then after that I still stayed friends with those guys because like all I hung out was like was people from my mom's my mom was in cosmetology school

when I was in high school so I would go hang out with her like older friends and then hang out dudes only so it's like I never really have hung up because the girls in high school were like fuck this bitch oh they hated me and I didn't even do anything they just really hated me and they all like had their

clicks already because they you know in like school districts you go from like kindergarten elementary school like middle school all to each other to high school so they already had their cliques they had their friendships so i come in like hey guys homeschool little weirdo you know just wanted to have friends and stuff and they just weren't feeling it and then i would be friends with the guys and then like oh she's fucking all these guys i'd be friends with their boyfriends or whatever and they would like and i'm like dude no they couldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole i swear to you they're just my friends right you know what i mean and i was a virgin And I'm like, dude, what the fuck?

Here's the thing, though, like, this is the shit you got to talk more about. Because that's the shit that, like, that explains where you've come from and, like, kind of how you are, how you've been growing. Like, those are the things that people need to hear more of. Otherwise, people just know what they see. Yeah. So the more you can put yourself out there and tell your story, your true story. Yeah, I never tell my story.

And then I'm like, why don't people know me? I don't, why don't I? It's like, because I haven't voiced it, you know? I feel like people are mind readers. Yeah, they only see what you give them. And I could see, like, from your. perspective from your position it's hard to like open that up and maybe show that but i think if you do more of that it'll you'll fucking you'll transcend i've been scared of they like open up too much where i'm

too vulnerable you know because then it's like oh summer's just a little stupid normal bitch you know it's like now i don't even find but like who cares though yeah i think a lot of guys like that yeah i mean if you talk about just specifically guys and guys are like that's fucking cool like the part of part of like why i think a lot of guys end up liking girls like on the internet is it's not always like the hottest girl it's a girl that might feel like oh it's like like a girl next door like not someone who's like this giant fucking like trophy looking girl someone who's like more relatable obviously beautiful might have great figure whatever but someone who's a little bit more relatable and i think you have that you just got to you need to tell your story more i think i'm not

saying me don't say me like i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm not even trying to do that yeah i'm saying you sound like meaning like people tell me this like it's i know it too you got to start doing it then i need to just do it you know i need to do it because you have you have everything else right like i i had this conversation this is so funny actually i think i told you this i had this conversation with uh ashley no sarah did i tell you that oh yeah yeah she does like tick talk stuff she blew up i think she blew up i don't know she blew up on ig from doing like kind of like uh funny funny like skit stuff girl related stuff stuff that like people really loves they like they fell in love with her but i remember i had i i did a video with her once where i'm benched her

fucking old classic brad sorry instagram model brad lifting girls and she sat on the that it was a football bar so she sat on it so her butt's facing the camera I knew what I was doing yes I did her butt was facing the camera she was like basically sitting on top of the bar as I'm pressing it because there's enough space on this like football bar because it's like this big and I'm pressing it and I sit down I talk with her and her boyfriend who's really fun cool by the way so I'm having this conversation I think her dad was there too and I was like yo like people are you going to know and you too this is the same advice for you people are you going to know you're a hot chick with a nice body like you don't need to show them that anymore like you've shown them that

enough the thing is like you could still show that when you whatever the fuck you want to show that show it but you have to show what else you are because it's unniable like even if you're like a silly girl doing stuff you got a nice butt. I remember she was like the flip cup thing on her butt and all these different things like they're going to know that you have a nice body they're going to know that you're beautiful they're going to know that you're attracted but it's always like what else and I remember I had this conversation with her and then she went and started making different content along like more engaging with women more comedy stuff related to like oh we're talking about Ashley yes oh my friend like the girl who I hang out with with the long guys yes yes I love

them yes I had this conversation yes I had this conversation now just pop meed up I'm sorry I've had this conversation I thought you were talking about this other girl that you said that we either might we wear the same clothes no no this is the girl who you've done videos with her dude I hang out with her all the time I love her she's amazing yeah yeah but I had this conversation with it I want to get her on the podcast and talk about this she was killing it like she was doing all she but before that all she did was like fitness content like I'm sexy it's amazing and she but I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm not saying the reason for that i'm not actually if you're listening i'm not the reason for that i just had this conversation with

her and then she went and she just fucking blew up and i remember she sent me a text and was like yo i really appreciate you having this conversation with me so the point is like her boyfriend's awesome they're dope as fuck and i've done tons of content hopefully you could do more with them but um yeah same thing with you it's like you've rode that as far as you can you could see you can keep riding it but it's like at some point you got to be like what else you know and i think i think you really have that and you have like your story you just got to explain it more share it more Yeah, I don't know if you've been seeing my page lately, but I have been changing it a lot, so I haven't been stalking you, sorry, I haven't been stalking you.

Maybe I need to start stalking your page more. Yeah, maybe you should stalk me a little more. Oh, damn, my bad. I'll stalk you more. Thanks, maybe you could see. What if I was actually your stalker and you didn't know it? I think maybe you are. No, fuck no.

Oh, no, you're not because you're not even knowing what I'm doing on my page. Or do, is that what I want you to believe? Oh, you know everything. Damn, it's crazy. That's exactly it. Fucking weird. I'm not a stocker. I swear to God,

I didn't stock summary. Recently. No, I just never did. I never did. Okay, so is any other, because you had good questions. Any other question for me? I had good questions.

It was a good question. Well, we spawned like a whole bunch of conversation after that. That was your question. It was just a dumb question just to be mean. That's okay. I fucking hate that question. It's okay, guys,

if you don't have a five-year plan, focus on the shit that you are happiest when you do it. I'm not everyone always says oh jerking off watching port up that's not what I mean motherfucker I mean things that chick you do that like in life besides jerking off watching porn hub that make you happy that make you feel fulfilled focus on doing more of those things and you'll start to figure out your you'll start to figure out your plan right so yeah yeah is that how we end it and and I feel like on the internet like more substance like I want to see more substance and stuff yeah because we've everyone I feel like has played out

everything else like it's been what it's been like fucking eight years of like this whole it's like now it's like it's like now it's like girls cannot get famous for showing their butts on the internet anymore it's like played out it's over saturated everyone's done it so it's like always now I say the same thing to people too because they ask me how do I do this how do that you I do this and I do that it's like the biggest thing is always like okay you do a thing you show the butt you show the workout whatever like that's what I did now what else and I always just tried earlier on I tried to think about what else because I knew from the beginning if I'm just some dope guy who can like work out and do

cool shit and like have abs and like be strong and like do whatever then and I'm not going to be the last but I knew that my story although still not going to be the last story is going to be unique to me and the way that I could explain that or share that with people is always going to be unique to me and if someone can get engaged with that that will never change right like but obviously there's always going to be more so if you just do a thing doing a thing is always just that's just not enough right so yeah that's how I feel about it have to evolve that's life that's that's every single actress like movie star like um artists in the world they always evolve like watch them like you know the ones who don't evolve like if you're not evolving you're not going to ever yeah they

what's the saying that they say about the the the hard work something shit with like it's not or like success is earned it's like you not just get it and then i'm really bad at this right now normally i'm really good with quotes but it's basically like yeah he's butchering no i really i got you though i got you guys listen it goes it goes like this Success isn't like a... Fuck, I fucked it up again. Success isn't a thing that you get. It's a thing that you keep fucking working for, okay?

There's a fucking quote. Someone write the quote in the comment below. That better be the first comment. It's not because this is the end of the video. I'll pin it though when you write it. It's basically saying like you don't just get success and then it's done. It's like you need to keep fucking working every day for it. That's like working out.

People are like, oh, you're already in shape. Why are you still at the gym? I'm like, you know when people say that in movies and stuff? Like, oh, the hot. Oh, comments. So like, you got it. You won, bro. I'm like, okay, but then you stop, it goes away.

Like, you always, it's like working out. If you don't use it, you lose it. Yeah. Is that true? Yeah, you know what movie that's from. It's true. It's true. It is true.

Oh, fuck. Even your dick? It's from a movie. Anyway, sorry. Whoa. Pause. Maybe we have to end it there. Wait, wait.

Oh, fuck. Maybe we can use this as clickbait. Only fans. Oh, the only fans? Would you do it? I made a tweet and like I got fucking buried for I had to do I should have said I should have had that I said what I said energy but also I don't want to like I'm not a hateful person like and when I say things and people take it hateful I didn't mean it in a hateful way I'm not hateful I understand some girls do stuff to like earn a living whatever that's fine I just like I'm entitled to my own opinion all day people can have opinions about me and no it's and the second that I voice my opinion it's like I'm like fucking devil so I just said something I tweeted like if you have a only fans link in your bio we can't be friends i'm entitled to my own opinion i don't want to be friends with girls who are doing porn on only fans and i get nowadays people are like oh it's not only

porn whatever my my thought of only fans when you said this at the time i think of girls on they're like playing with fucking vibrators on their pussy lips like that's what i think of and that's what i that's porn that's what i've seen i've seen girls like because like don't get me wrong like i post my body i do things but i feel like i always keep it very classy like girls are like on their fucking bed like grinding on it acting like they're hump in the air and like it just it just doesn't sit right with me because wait with dildos or you're just saying like no i mean instagram like say they're like oh go check out my only fans and they're on instagram on their bed air humping the air like i'm i'm like what are they doing on only fans you have to go pay for like

i don't know it just doesn't sit right with so there's no summer ray only fans no you know how much money one of my friends tweeted the other day he's like how much money he said if summer ray had If Summer Ray had Only fan, she'd be like a multi-millionaire. I really, I'm sitting on a, of like a load of cash and I'm just shit. Have you thought about this? No, no, no, I'm not ever doing it. I mean, I long-term, I'm the type of person where I'd like to, what about for $100 million?

No, that's not enough. Whoa. Summer's for real. But I wouldn't do anything. Even if I made one, I would still post the same pictures or whatever. But I'm just saying, I just feel like the whole perception of only fans is just not something that I want to hide to my name. $200 million.

Because I work hard to build my empire. I'm not going to sell out. I feel like it's kind of a sell out. I'm fucking with you. 300 though. Maybe a bill. If someone's willing to pay me a billion dollars, fine. I'll post one picture on Only fans.

And then you're like, fuck it. Because you could quit after that. I mean, yeah, I'm going to go buy a private island bitch, peace. Like, enjoy your life. But it's still nothing bad. Like, I've never ever, like my moral, like, even when people don't think my morals are right because even the stuff I post. My, I've very morally right.

So I'm never doing any, no one's ever seen my nipples. No one's ever seen my vagina. No, never. Like, and people, I always see, like, nude photos of me. People are getting so good at photoshopping, like, vaginas and nipples. I'll see, like, new photos. And I literally will be like, oh, my God. Like, I posted this new, like, how do they get this nude photo on me?

And they literally take photos of, like, my bikinis and stuff, and they photoshop nipples and, like, a vagina's what looks like, it's, like, but it's like a photo. Are you trying to, are you? Really doing this shit and you're trying to trick us right now. I'm not kidding. It's like photo like photo shoot pictures of mine like that I'm like in a bikini or underwear or something and they take it off and they like. Because this would be a really good cover if you were really doing it.

I'm fucking with you. I know you're not doing it. I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, guys, those are all photoshopped. But you should go check them out though. But I actually have my own app that we just made that's about to launch and like. Oh, lit.

Yeah. So it's going to be. It's just called summary. It's like the app. It's like connected to all my like my shop and my YouTube. all my like social media apps are like connected to it but also it's like I can post like never before seen content and stuff so it's my own it can be like my own only fans really it's basically a summer ray only fan yeah I'm like okay guys I got an only fans is this so because I can post like

never before seen like the same kind of stuff that I already post and then also have you ever heard of that app like cameo or whatever where like people go on and five shoutouts my app does that like they can buy shoutouts from me so happy birthday so and so or oh blah blah blah blah a video that I record. They tell me what they want me to write and I record. That's what cameo is. I didn't know that. I thought it was just like a thing.

I thought it was just like only fans you pay to see someone's content. It's like all the famous people and they have an account and you could we could right now go pay whatever their fee is and have like not Hallie Berry, but like if she was on the app, they hey, can you say happy, but you write out what you want her to say and she says it and sends it to you. So it's like an own personalized like video message. That's crazy. So on my app I can do that for people.

What the fuck? but a cameo they take a percentage and all this shit so on my app it's it's on me you develop i'm assuming you guys developed the thing yeah okay um anything else you have working on anything else special no not really i mean summer ray only fans coming soon yeah guys my only fans come to my app no i look people can say that's my only fans fuck it yeah i mean yeah i mean i feel like girls gotta do what they got to do i'm just saying i can't i'm not i'm saying i'm saying i'm not i'm saying i won't be friends with them but i'm not saying that i can't like appreciate their hustle whatever yeah it's all good it's all good no worries i love i like i'm a i'm a girl lover sometimes what i say

can sometimes rub girls the wrong way because usually girls are catty but i'm really not a catty girl do you think i am no i've known you long enough you're not okay thank you no like i paid him to say that i'm getting that bradley martin only fans i think you should make one yeah that'd be lit please make one no way i can't do it i can't do it i could do it what would i post like my dick like my fucking like see that's the way everyone perceives only fans right like yeah okay but then other people are like no that's not all you do i think it is though i just want to preface this i know that only fans is not just for porn it was originally intended for people to make content to like make money selling content that they

weren't posting somewhere else and it wasn't just like this is a porn thing but it'd be just perception now has become that because most people who use it it's become like a sexual and a porn thing I know it's not just a porn thing. Probably when it first started, it wasn't as bad. But now, you know, like, when you give a mouse a cookie, then, so these girls were probably posting pictures that they were posting on the internet, just different ones. And then the guy or people want more, then when money gets involved, and you're like, oh, well, if I send him a picture of my vagina or if I do this, I get more money. So it's like a snowball effect of, like, all of a sudden now it becomes like a full on, like, a whole porn site. And it's like, I like do not want to be associated with anything porn.

bro what would i what would i do if i steve what would i post on only fan what do dudes post on only fans do they post like them really like jerking it yeah i mean look i'm not saying that you watch that i don't know i guess how it's set up too is like you don't even have to like post that stuff people can like you can send stuff to them so say a girl or someone was like hey i want to pay 300 bucks to like get a jackoff video i don't know how it works i mean i've never even down no no no i know i know this is how it works yeah i know this is how it works i've i've since i've been I'm just saying like some girls are like some guys are home thinking out 300 bucks fuck it me I'm like dude even like for like I would be like hey well that's gonna be like

Steve Steve would you do an only fans no how much money I know he's like no fuck he found out he has not like an alias yo okay anything else you want to ask me you got some good fucking ending questions that it's like making it you know Did I really ask you? I think I asked him one. And I just, you know, we fucking talk a lot.

It's not just me. It's fucking us. We talk a lot. People are going to be like, oh my God. And I feel like I've been mumbling. I feel like that whole like story about my relationship. I was like my head was going,

I'm the type of person. Like when I talk, my brain is so scattered that I'll be talking about something. And then something else comes up and then I go there. And then I swear back to what I was doing. And then like you didn't answer the question. Like I never fully answer questions. Like I'll think about like what was my answer.

I'm like, I don't know, but like I said like way too much. It's called word vomit. I do that too sometimes. I tried. I just, I practice it so I got better at it. Yeah. Oh, well, I need a lot of practice. Yeah, just start doing more of it.

I need like a media kit class. No, just start doing more podcasts. Oh, can we? I just come over every single day and we just know. They would love that. They would love that. They'd be like, please have some of it. Just kidding.

No, I can't do anything live. My mouth is dirty. I'll be like, punch. That's okay. You could swear. Um, okay, I think that's it. Unless you have anything else you want to add. No, I think that's, only because I have to piss.

And I was like, fuck, I don't want to like put a weird pause in here and then go pee. Oh, well, that's all good. Fuck. Unless you have anything else you want to say. You know what? I think. Anything else you want the world to know. This is a very big podcast.

It's, it's mega. This is the next one. This is the next, it's the next banger. It's the next banger. Fuck you, you troll. Oh, I'm also making a men's clothing. really yeah it's going to be coming out soon so like i've been working on it for a long time all my all my guys are like when are we have clothes i'm like soon i get that a lot from girls and i'm like

i don't know i don't know i rest we have to do a broadly summer club for the girls that'd be lit dan it would be lit maybe we'll do that we'll talk about that okay um subscribe turn and post notifications on thank you guys for listening every fucking thursday at 10 a m come back uh if you guys like the podcast give it a thumbs up on you YouTube. It's on YouTube. We're live there. Also, we're trying to get on Spotify. Everyone's saying it. I know it. I'm working on that. And if you're on iTunes, please drop a review, drop the five star. And yeah, we appreciate that. That helps us out.