RAWTALK - THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING IN 2022? W/ FRESH & FIT

Episode Date: June 14, 2022

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All right, guys, welcome back to another episode of Raw Talk. As you can see, I'm at a different studio. I'm in Miami. I'm at the Fresh and Fit podcast studio, which, by the way, I'm very impressed. And I like what you guys are doing on the internet. My question for you, just first and foremost, and we'll get more into this, obviously, as the whole thing goes on. But first off, how did you guys meet? Quick interruption for one of our sponsors, prize picks.

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That's it. Don't lose all your money. Let's get back in this podcast. Secondly, how did you guys both align in the fact where you're like, okay, let's kind of challenge the status quo in the sense of what is acceptable and not acceptable to talk about or to speak about or to share on the internet because today and today's society is like, there are a lot of of things you can say you can't say certain people are okay to say other people aren't okay to say and you guys are definitely challenging these like social norms and and what made you guys

feel like this is what i wanted to do or this is what you're comfortable doing and you guys could however you want to so first how we met yeah man legendary till so i was working at a tech company right back in a day a couple years ago and um also doing youtube as well they're prank videos like go digger pranks you know Walmart pranks and it's with lambos and shit yeah Yeah, rent it, by the way. Nice. And it was cool, you know. I got a little buzz.

I was on World Star a couple of times, but I didn't hit like I wanted to, it to really hit, right? And then I went on a podcast with a friend of mine, SolTV 84 on YouTube. It was like a dating podcast, right? And he's like, yo, I know a guy in your city, Myron Games, which is Myron. Like, yo, you guys should do a collab. I'm like, I don't know, man. You know, I never met him before. I don't know him that well, but, you know, I'll look into it.

So I got a DM from him. He's like, yo, bro. soul told me to hit you up let's talk on the phone for like, you know, a little bit, let's catch up. So we for like an hour on the phone, back and forth and he's like, yo, bro. So similar mindset, similar dating style. I said, you know what? Damn.

We align a lot of values in a lot of ways. And then after that, we said, let's have like a dinner. We sat on for dinner, you know, at top 42. Talked a little bit with me and my roommate. And then from there, we did a podcast and I started it. Who paid for the dinner? Was you? Oh, shit.

It might have been me, actually. He wanted the points, that's why. Yeah, I had, yeah, I had my, I had my Amex for me, so I wanted the points. Yeah, so, yeah, so basically, man, yeah, we met through Solo TV 84. There's not many guys that think the way we do or, like, you know, we call it, like, Red Pillow Wear in general. So if you find a guy, like, in your city that's, like, aware of, like, these types of things, you're like, oh, shit, you, you smash girls, too, oh, be too, oh, shit. Oh, oh, you think this, oh, shit. So it's like, it was kind of like those things where it was, like, an instant click.

Because, like, I hit them up. We're talking on Instagram. and then the conversation ended up lasting for like an hour like yo what are you doing tonight pause and then we just went in so you're relating you're relating red pill you're talking about so we'll get into this concept in a little bit the red pill blue pill thing but you're relating that to smashing chicks yeah like just being aware of female nature yeah like that's so we kind of have the same ideology when it comes to like how to navigate you know the current dating marketplace and how to move so like when we were talking like I'm you know at the time I was you know womanizing he was womanizing so we're like oh shit so we had that kind of similarity and we were able we were you're able to kind of like, oh, you do this too? Oh, I do that too, blah, blah, blah. Because, like, we're both, like, known for, like, using, like, sugar sites, Tinder, bumble, leveraging everything to get chicks, social media. Like, we talk all the time about how, like, getting girls is kind of like sales

and you have to put your, you have to put yourself out there in all different types of avenue, whether it's cold approach, right, traditionally, or online dating, using Tinder bumble, whatever, or using even sugar sites, you know, with, like the sugar daddy frame or whatever. We've been talking about this shit. Like, like, 20, 20. Like a numbers game. Pretty much.

Yeah. So, like, we, like, so that's kind of like something that we, um, so eye to eye on and it's not many guys that think that way. Because most dudes are probably, are sims, bro, to be honest with you, or suckers. And they like pedestalized women and we kind of don't, we don't do that. It's like a tool belt. You have all your tools in your belt to get what you want. Yeah. So when you meet someone that thinks this way, it's rare.

So you're like, oh, shit, you immediately, like, gravitate towards that. So, okay, when you say think this way, what do you think are like the main principles of this type of thing? And I'm assuming we're talking about red pill. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I guess you could, you could use that as a kind of like a, I just call it aware, hyper awareness of female nature.

You know, some people call it red pill awareness. Some people call it being, you know, aware, whatever may be, whatever terminology you want to use for it. But it's just understanding uncomfortable truths and unflattering truths about female nature and just understanding that they're human too and they're not sugar and spice and everything nice that society has told you. They do a bunch of fuck shit too, just like we do. Yeah.

So it's about kind of taking those, uh, the rose glasses off and understanding that, many women are different and women have some tendencies that might they're hypergamous and a lot of guys don't don't like that uncomfortable truth I think having the free it gives you the freedom to navigate the data market and not be finesse not be played but understand what women really want

and give it to them in the right way it allows you to understand them without being pissed off I think that's a big thing is like a lot of guys don't understand women so they get like pissed off and like kind of mad at the reality versus like if you understand them then you can't hate them for what they're not right which is like ideal lovers so this is like obviously like an outward where perspective we're looking at the women as like our relationship to them and dating what about our our our inward perspective of our stuff what do you think the worst things

that men do like internally like what we're doing in these situations that are fucking up our chances when it comes to getting girls so that's great question I would say a couple things number one not self-improving thinking that girls are going to like you just for you like that's that's not how it goes like girls by default want someone who's at least on their level if not better so when you come in and deal with a chick you ought you have to bring value to some degree like girls don't love idealistically like we do they like you opportunistically so what do you provide what uh what's your status what kind of money do you make what's your confidence what your ambition are you taller than or are you stronger than her so guys have to become if they want to come in the future so that's

number one and the second thing is thinking that men and women are equal and that she's going to like you the same way that you like her like we like girls for themselves typically like oh you're okay cool I don't really care about anything else and then you'll figure out the other redeeming trade she has later but with women it's like they're not gonna fuck with you unless you offer value upfront yeah so once guys like kind of understand this uncomfortable truth that we're different and we look at each other for different things

it'll help them navigate the day marketplace better and get less frustrated yeah I would just say like in that aspect you gotta understand that like men for the most part don't know how to do with women you know we get girlfriends whatever or we don't even get girlfriends you know

some guys are versions and like they go life with bad experiences and they're like, why is this happening to me? I'm not improving. I'm not confident. I don't know who I am. And as a result, if you don't know who you are, you get with somebody, it's never going to work. And if you don't know what you want from a woman as well, that's a problem because you've made a woman for the first time, she already knows on some level, okay, you know what? Either I want money, I want his lifestyle or may want him for his vibe or energy. The point is that like, they know what they know what they want. But most guys don't know what they actually want from a woman and as a result, they go through it blindly and

they either get divorced, scraped, they get, you know, finessed. And then from there it's like trouble. So we're saying, hey, understand to my nature. Know what you want. Know what you're about. Have a goal outside of women because the purpose is to be on your passion, your purpose and have kind of like a guiding force where like you know where you're going in life. You know what you want. And as a result, once you're a leader, once you're a leader and you know where you're going, they're going to follow your lead. Yeah. So that's the biggest thing. So how old are you guys? I'm 32. 29. Okay. when did you decide when did you understand for yourself what you wanted with women like

because i look back on my life when i'm like 21 22 like when i was that age yeah i didn't give a fuck about anything i only wanted pussy i didn't care if they had anything going on i didn't care if like they they had any passion or they care and when i did your podcast the other day the live on with all the girls i remember saying i'm at a way different part of my life where now i i see that, you know, because I guess maybe the things that I have or the, I don't know, the following, the money, the notoriety, I, I don't go for just pussy anymore. So when, like, where did it start to change your life? You start to realize how you needed to approach a woman in order to really get it.

And then also, and I'm talking about sex when I say get it, but then how, like, at your age now, did you ever get to a point? And when did that point come where you're like, okay, I want more? And do you guys see yourself wanting more than just pussy? You know what I'm saying? That's a good one. Yeah. So for me, honestly, it came when I moved to Miami. So what happened was I was in Barbados, doing pretty well for myself in terms of like, you know, family-wise, school-wise, and then like, even dating-wise, because over there it's a tourist destination.

So girls come to us for, you know, son, San, and, you know what? I go to the beach, go to tourist spots, is there for me. However, when I came to America, nobody knew who I was, what I'm about, and I'm a skinny guy from the islands here in America. Whoopty-do? So I have to actually. getting value for myself as in terms of like make money, you know, learn how to invest or how to become a better man. And that taught me, you know what? Cool. If I want to start caliber of girl, because I was getting like maybe like threes and fours when I first came here. Yeah. And it's tough because like that's not what I wanted. But that's what I could actually get at that point of time. But I knew if I improved myself mentally, physically and

monetarily, I can actually get access to, you know, better quality girls, better quality environments. And as a result, let me say, you know what? Cool. If I want a better life and better goes in my life, I have to improve on myself in that aspect. And over time, like, you know, me saving money, investing, learning how to become a better man, my quality of chicks went up. Yeah. For me nowadays, so, you know, since we're entrepreneurs now, because I transferred from the government before this, I was especially as a Homeland Security.

So like, when I was working for the government, I was less busy. So, you know, I'll go out on dates, whatever. I don't really care about girls offering value outside of sex because I would just like, you know, move on to an extra and whatever it was because I was just so focused on my job. But like now they were doing a podcast, whatever, and you know also as an entrepreneur, like it's a 24-7 thing. So like maintaining the studio, making sure the equipment is good, making sure the studio is always clean, researching topics, whatever. So like now when I deal with the girl, she's got to add value outside of sex. Otherwise, you know, she's just recreational use and I don't really talk to her again.

So now anytime I'm dealing with a girl, I typically have them help out whether it's like when we're doing a show or when we're passing out drinks or helping us out with maintaining the studio, whatever it is. So my thing is I always try to also get some kind of value where they, assist me before i didn't care as much but now it's like you know it's you you got to delegate some of that uh some of that a responsibility to girls that and if they don't want to do that that's actually one of my vetting tools is like if a girl doesn't want to offer value and help then it's like you'll get the fuck out of here because especially when you make money and you know this too from being yeah you know a lot of girls come in just trying to be you know just trying to leach and there a lot of girls are liabilities you got to identify the girls that are

actually assets yeah yeah how do you identify the ones that are the ones that help is that the only way so funny story um what happens is right a lot of times you know i at this level, girls come to us all the time, either for like cloud, you know, for the spotlight or for maybe a fun time. And to vet girls properly, you got to know what the angle is and what you want. So like I said before, once you know what you want from, from girls, it's easier to navigate. So I would just say regarding adding value, it could be even as simple as like, you know what, hey, I see in your room is dirty. I'll clean up for you. That's like a simple sign. Or for for example, let's say you have a business

and you need somebody to help you, maybe fill a slot for a couple of hours. So, you know what, babe? I see you need some help here, I got you. Just having your back and helping you with your purpose of passion to me means a lot. And that's adding value, man. That's simple. My coach, I used to row in college, and I wrote Division I was very competitive at Northeastern.

And my coaches used to say, I don't hands do the devil's work. And it kind of goes the same thing for women that you deal with. Like, if a girl's not coming in and, like, you're not putting her to work, she's, she's going to think, okay, well, me just being here is good enough, you know, and the thing also is that when you put her to work, when you, when you deal with her, she's going to start to invest in you more because when she's investing in you and helping you out, she's naturally going to start to build a bond and attachment because she's like,

damn, I'm a part of something now, you know, and I'd be, you'd be amazed at, like, how many girls, like, don't do shit with their lives or don't do anything with their free time. Like, all these pretty girls, quite frankly, you could call me a massage, it's like, a lot of them don't have any, you know, or, sorry, not habits, they don't have any hobbies. They don't do anything. So when you bring a girl in and you're like, hey, I need you to do this or whatever, you put her to work. She's going to start to invest at an even more rapid level.

And she's going to like you more because she's like, damn, I'm like helping him out, whatever. So it works both ways. You get help and on top that you're putting it to work. And also you're assimilating the leadership position, which makes you inherently attractive to him. They want a guy who's a leader. So when you're telling them new things and stuff like that, it puts you in a certain frame where you're almost kind of like a boss and employee relationship, which that's why

girls, a lot of times when they're a secretary for a powerful guy or they work for a guy, there's, you know, these scandals or whatever. and it happens because the guy has that, there's that power dynamic, you know what I mean? So that's kind of how you want to have your girl kind of come in and help you out with what you got going on. For sure. So I have a question then personally,

like when did you really start to develop the mindset, like for you? You specifically, when were you like, wait, okay, these are the things that I need to work on because I completely agree. These are the things that I should focus on or this is how I should treat this relationship or if it's not like this,

then it's probably a fucking wash. When did you start to develop like the know-how? So I guess to go all the, so I was like, I started to really understand female nature when I went to college. I saw that like guys that were on sports teams or guys that were like on fraternies, whatever may be, like social status meant a lot, right, in college. And that's when I started to become like aware of female nature because the guys at the top of the totem pole were getting all the girls, like a small minority of the guys on college campus. Then when I got out into the real world, I was like, okay, well, what's going on in college is a microcosm of really what's going on in the real world where girls pretty much want to be with the top. 10 to 20% of guys. So that made me realize, okay, female nature even more so.

And not just status matters, but also your income level, your confidence, your ambition is basically you took the training wheels off and now you're in the real world. So once I figured this stuff out, I was like using it to my advantage, dating girls, whatever may be when I was working for the government. But I don't really start putting girls to work like I do now when I deal with them until we started the podcast and started the entrepreneurship because, as you know, being an entrepreneur, you need a lot of help, a lot of shit going on. So it's like, if a girl's going to come in, it's like, yo, you.

you got to be an asset, you can't just be a liability. So I would say once the entrepreneurship stuff started, that's when I started pointing girls to work and help me out more. Yeah, I will say just after that point as well, not that at this level, because you know what it is game of certain levels. When you're like nobody, you're doing anything, you're just living life, is the level of game towards girls. For example, if you're like going to work every day, average Joe,

it doesn't matter that much. When you're an entrepreneur with a business, bro, you have to add value because, listen, time is very important. For us guys, bro, if we're wasting time with chicks all day, We can't get shit done. It's the worst thing you could do. Exactly. It's just wasting time.

And I did that a lot too back in the day. But the point is that like nowadays, bro, when it comes to girls, if you're not adding value to us in terms of business wise or coming on a podcast or doing something like that, it's like, why are you here? And for the guys that are like listening, like, you don't have to like be an entrepreneur to pull girls to work. Like it could be something simple like, hey, do you make me a sandwich? No, I'm just kidding.

But like you got to have. But I do love a sandwich made for me though. Yeah, exactly. I'm like, I ain't going to fucking lie. Yeah, because it's like the thing is that guys don't understand is that like with a lot of modern-day women, they don't have certain habits, and a lot of them aren't traditional. So you're going to have to kind of, like, build your chick up or any girl that you're dealing with and tell her what you like and tell her what to do.

And, you know, some girls might balk at her, be like, oh, whatever, fuck this shit. You don't want to deal with that chick anyway. She's useless. But when you put a girl to work, she's going to respect you more, you're going to benefit from it. And then everybody wins because you're assuming that leadership role by telling me what you want and making her an asset. A girl that's into you will follow your lead 100%. Yeah.

I think a lot of this, though, when I'm hearing you guys speak, a lot of this to everyone listening it comes down to confidence like yeah because yeah to have the confidence to to build a business to have the confidence to even step forward in a relationship and say hey these are the things that I need and not feel like oh am I gonna step on the toes or not like that is the most important cornerstone of this type of stuff is being like I can do this and I and I'm also deserving of this yeah so there's two things I think that men tend to fuck up and it's being confident enough in yourself and your abilities and where you want to go yeah and then also fear of failure yeah and I want to talk about that a little bit with you

guys because I think obviously those are hand in hand but somewhat separate because you could have confidence in like oh the thing that I'm doing and you could have the fear of rejection when it comes to women so it's like how do you bridge the gap between the fear of failure and confidence and being able to like you know overcome that because I think the fear of failure is the most detrimental thing for everyone period but specifically when it comes to getting women into building a business and to everything I'll take it a step further fear of failure is the root cause of most guys' problems with women. And I'll explain why.

So to get girls, I mean, you know, we know this, but a lot of guys might not know this, or even some of the ladies that are listening, like, you got to talk to a lot of women to get women. Like, you have to, you know, the best guys in the world that this stuff close maybe 10% of their leads. So if you talk to 100 girls, the best guys in the world that are world class that are teaching guys how to do this shit, close only 10. So knowing that you have to work an insane amount of volume to get girls, a lot of guys

don't want to do that because they're scared of being rejected. It's a number of game. But you need to get rejected so that you can, look at it like you're screening out the girls that aren't DTF or the girls that don't like you to find the girl that is every girl that rejects you is bringing you closer to a girl that does like you but a lot of guys don't want to feel that rejection this is why so many guys end up in the friend zone when guys end up in a friend zone nine out of ten times is because they're scared of rejection because they don't want to fucking you know put their foot out there and say listen I like you from a man's woman perspective what's the deal they don't want to take that rejection so or even worse a lot of guys have issues with girls because they don't talk to enough but they don't talk to enough because they're scared of rejection they're scared to approach a girl out with the bar they're scared to maybe talk to a girl, even on dating apps or to scare to put themselves out there. And that's what's going to cause issues because nine out of ten times when guys

have problems with girls, it's because they're not sourcing enough. And that comes from that fear of rejection. And in confidence as well, just to tie into this as well. So regarding confidence, if you're confident in who you are and what you're about, isn't going to bleed into dating as well. So for example, in this case here, we talked about having

women come to you and come the right way. So if you're a guy out there, right, and you want to get girls, you have to have an abundance mindset, which means if one check says no to me, cool. Someone may say yes. So it's a numbers game, literally. It literally is you're going out there and with confidence, you put your best foot forward. So if you're looking like a bum, you're not dressing well, you don't shower, you don't have proper hygiene, when your post girls are going to say no to you. But if you're well-dress, you know, you speak well, you know, come in with confidence and you're approaching

girls, the likely that are saying yes to you will increase. So it's important to be mentally stable, one, being shaped like you and Myron R for sure. I'm on the way there. You're working on it. Working on it. And then have confidence and you know what? Either have a business or have a great job where I can have income for myself. And if I want to take a goal on a date, I can. So confidence

comes and it leads into other things as well. Yeah, I want to take this a step further. I was just going to say one more thing. Go ahead. Because you mentioned the abundance mindset. Like with guys, I always say women naturally have an abundance mindset just because they're women and guys are always going to hit on them and then men have to earn their abundance mindset. And for a guy, for you to earn that abundance mindset, you

have to go on and talk to a lot of girls. And the thing is that when you're talking to a lot of girls, you're going to start to invest less in each girl that you talk to. And that's inevitably going to make you more attractive because you're not going to be overinvested. So she's like, oh, he probably talks to other girls because he's not trying that hard with me. And that actually makes you more attractive to women as crazy as that sounds. Yeah. I think something else is really important to make note here for everyone listening is these things that we're working on is also relative to our own ability to take inventory of ourselves. Because like we're talking about the numbers game talking trying the same thing with business same thing with everything in

your life the more you try it the more you go okay now without being like fuck i failed i didn't get the girl i'm down on myself or the business fuck this didn't work out i'm down to myself it's like okay what did i fucking learn yeah and i think take an inventory obviously going full force and going for the numbers and trying trying everything your power to be a successful business person whatever that your lanes are that you're going down because we're kind of talking about two things here at least what i'm trying to do um not just getting girls but also success in life, right? You have to be able to, like, be comfortable with taking those Ls,

instead of just taking the Ls and being like, fuck, that suck. Let me try again. Fuck that suck. Let me try again. More like, fuck, that sucked. How could I do better? Yeah, like talking to yourself. I know it's like not necessarily like out in the fucking world, but it's fucking taking

notes. Like, where did you fuck up? What could I do better? Where did I feel like I could improve here so that you could actually start to become better instead of just like confidence and I'm just going to talk to more girls? I think it's important for people to know that it is about taking inventory enough yourself and being like, where am I like falling over myself? Where am I fucking up at?

It's like knowing where you're at. So, for example, Myron, right? He's in shape, tall, can speak well. However, he may say to himself, you know what? Damn, my teeth aren't the whitest. No, no, no, I'm saying, it's an example, right? Yeah, yeah, I go yourself. So if you notice, he's seen for super white.

Yeah, I wind him a lot. That happened by accident. He said, you know what? I need to improve my teeth And he did So him knowing where he's at Taking an inventory Exactly

Yeah Me personally I'm not the fittest guy out here Right I love 30 pounds recently Shout to Mara games It's go baby Yeah that's amazing

But I have to say You know what damn Where am I lacking And for us guys We have no excuse bro Yeah We gotta be excellent in all areas Fitness mindset and money

So we all have to know where we're at I work towards that But as a result Well guys are you know what Oh it's too hard I give up I'm gonna eat chitos And smoke weed all day

bro, how are you going to get a bad bitch if you're doing that shit? You're not going to. I've always said it. Mediocrity is only accepted if you're a woman, bro. Yeah. Like, if you're a man and you're mediocre, like, society's going to punish you for being a loser. But if you're a woman and you're a loser, you'll still be able to get some benefit out of it. You know what I mean? Like, think about it.

If a chick is bad, I can't tell you how many times I've met a girl that's like 21, hasn't done shit with her life, but she's attractive. She's in rooms with A-less celebrities. As a dude, you will never get that at 21. You have to build yourself up to a certain point to even get the opportunity. You know, like, I look at it like, the other day we were at a club right uh because we were meeting up with some supporters we we we're doing a meet up uh we we i personally hate clubs but like fresh is there to network

i'm there whatever may be yeah i just want to say that i hate them but but it kind of hit me like we we you know we've you know we the podcast has been doing well we're blessed we've met a lot of like you know uh other high value guys like yourself you know music artists whatever may be ste will do it steve will do it et cetera you know fresh uh friends with a bunch of people and it hit me like damn we're just getting access to these kinds of guys now because we built ourselves up and got to a certain point whereas like there's a bunch of like 21 year olds in this section that have never accomplished anything in life and they're just here because they're beautiful so like with men you have to create your value with women you're born with your value and that's when it hit me like

you know mediocrity really is only accepted if you're a woman but have you ever been okay at least now at this point in my life like i said earlier uh i would back in the day when i'm 21 22 23 i would fuck a girl who had like zero value other than like physically yeah now i just wouldn't though so you don't think at some point like that kind of shifts i mean i guess it depends on the guy if the guy's like if he's at a point where he's like i don't give a fuck i just want her to be a dime and that's my focus then i'm speaking more along the lines of like they're going to have certain opportunities given to them that you would never get as a guy that's what i'm trying to say absolutely like a girl right she could be like a loser but she could be in a room full of winners uh that are guys just because

she's uh just because she's an attractive woman versus as a guy you ain't getting in that room unless or somebody. The opportunity. Yeah. Like men don't have nearly as many opportunities as women do when it comes to, like, networking or putting yourself in the room with, like, really successful guys. As a man, you have to earn your spot in that room versus a woman. It's just given to you because you're attractive and young.

Yeah. Yeah, I see what you know, because a lot of guys, they'll be like, you know, a hot girl, I'll just smash. But at a certain level, it's kind of like, yo, what do we really want out of this? Because I'm not going to lie, bro. You find a chick, it's attractive. You smash. What's the next? Not much.

So I'll take it to say further. Most hot girls are useless because they've never had to be useful. There, there you go. That's a good point, bro. Yeah. Keeping it's kind of like, what are you getting out of this? Like, for example, Pimp game, right? What do Pimp's do?

Pimp's fine girls. I'm not saying that Pimp is good. I'm just saying the mentality, I understand why they do it. They find girls, right? And they put them to work. They don't fuck them, though. Why is that? Because they want the money.

yes, but they have a purpose in mind before they meet the girl. For example, some guys are like, you know, oh, you know what, she's hot? I'm just going to smash. But wait, when you smash, what's next? I don't know. A pit knows, okay, you know what? Here's a long-term game. I'm going to put her to work. We can fall in love with me.

And then, when she asked all the line, I may fuck her. The point is that, like, they're coming with a purpose and with a drive. Yeah. So they didn't know what they want all the women versus like, willing to, oh, you know what? She's about looking to fuck her. What's the value in that? So that's what I'm saying. So we're talking about purpose.

for guys how that's this is the thing that I've because as we have listeners I'm assuming you guys have your age range is probably like 18 to fucking 24 34 like what's your range like uh all the way up into the 50s man it's crazy yeah so like finding your purpose uh in the dating game as a man how hard do you think that is though nowadays because like I just feel like the internet has changed we kind of talked about this in the podcast that we did the internet has changed it so fucking drastically oh bro we've we've had deep talks about this and I can kind of explain it so do you want to take it first fresh before i go into this just go ahead nigga okay uh so basically this is what happened this is what's happened and this

will probably connect a lot of dots for guys in uh in your audience so with the advent of the internet what's happened is we have a dating marketplace now that's globalized with instagram online dating sugar sites whatever may be so a girl like in the middle of nowhere let's say in i don't kansas or idaho or some shit right in a rural area she now where she like 20 30 years ago she would have been limited to the men and her immediate geographic area as potential suitors. Now that woman has a whole world globe of guys from all over the place that it could be potential suitors. So women, we know are hypergamous and hypergamy is nothing more than one in the data man that is better than themselves. So if a

girl lives in the middle of nowhere and a guy from Miami, New York City, California, L.A., whatever it may be, these big cities where the higher value men tend to live hits her up. Well, she's going to take that opportunity because he's higher status than the guys that are in her immediate location. So what people don't get is that this has a profound effect on the dating marketplace because if you leave women's own devices, they're always going to want to date and fuck up. And this is why such a small minority of guys are getting most of the fucking chicks because of the internet, because women have more access now than ever before. A girl now can literally DM an A-list celebrity and she might get a response, whereas that was unheard of 20, 30 years

ago. So since you're leaving women to their own devices where they pretty much can hit up guys and they have access to these guys, they're going to take that opportunity. And a lot of guys are kind of getting left out in the dust because of the sheer competitiveness with the internet. So funny story, I think I'll tell you about this too as well. Yeah.

Here in Miami, right? There's girls that go all the time, clubs or whatever. And his celebrity came into town, the RB singer. And this girl was like, yo, I want him so bad. When I was a teenager, I really wanted him. She made a whole story post about it, right? On her Instagram. She said, hey, when I was 14 years old,

I've also wanted to meet so-and-so. Did she tag him? She did tag him. Okay. I see what this is going. And she's in the club. She's like one of these girls where she's like very bougie. She's been talked to a lot of guys.

She's like to herself, whatever. Low-key, you know, might be a hole. But we don't know. Fun fact, though. She's in the club, right? He's in the club as well in this section. She's literally there on her phone, right? She's tags him in the story, DMing him in the club.

Before you know it, he leaves the club, who she would she's with him yeah and that would not be possible but on Instagram because he saw the attack earlier yep right open it up

she sent him a damn hey I see you heard the picture he responded and she went home with him yeah but think about it back in the day that wasn't possible

yeah but this is the thing like I feel like it's made it unless you're up there in a sense I guess we're saying blue check popular celebrity whatever the fuck it's also made

the thing that we're talking about earlier is so much more relevant the fear the fear of failure the fear of like if I'm if I'm engaging with this person who else are they engaging with like it's created it's it's just catch 22 obviously like if we can get ourselves to that position where we're high value right which is our goal on all of our goals I think is men yeah then that's amazing and we have these opportunities but what about for everyone else that's like on the fucking climb there yeah I mean what what's basically what's happened is with with the advent of the internet as it's made it more competitive and guys have to just become better nowadays like the thing of making like being an average guy making 5 foot 8 being 5 foot 8 5 4 9 making like 40 50k per year like that used to be attractive before but nowadays like girls if you ask them what do you want

or what do you want it or what kind of guys you date every girl's looking for pretty much the same fucking guy 100 k per year 6 feet tall at least he's got to be attractive you got to be in shape blah blah to some degree so you don't really have a choice anymore as a guy and the thing is is that we know that like one in three men right now is either a virgin or hasn't had sex in year well well the women aren't stopping fucking it's just just that a lot of regular guys are guys that are. Is that a real? That's a real. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Like one in three guys. This study came out a couple years ago where the guys between 18 and 30. One and three pretty much self-reported that they haven't had sex and or is a virgin for the past year versus for women. It's not that way. And then if you look at the other like dating statistics, it makes sense because women find like 90% of the men on Tinder and bummore is unattractive. You know, and a lot of guys, more and more guys are virgin. So it's like, what it started basically what's happening is like guys are starting to realize that women have all the options and they're enacting upon it and they're picking the best guys so average guys nowadays are kind of in a rocket a hard place because you got the lower portion of men fighting for a small minority of women versus like a majority of women are chasing a small minority of men at the top yeah so the numbers don't work this is why so many girls end up single can't find a guy because a lot of them quite frankly are a bit delusional and this is something we talk about on our podcast all the time where where girls don't necessarily have the sexual market value to retain a high value guy.

They might get fucked by a high value guy, but they don't necessarily have the value to keep them and retain them as a boyfriend. Here's a problem, right? If a girl gets a taste of the lifestyle from one dude that's maybe verified, successful celebrity athlete, guess what?

Her brain is like, you know what? Damn, I was able to get this guy on his level. Maybe that's a smash, but I was there. So the average guy on the street, man, I don't know if I should give him a chance because he's not on that level. So it does mess up the dating market that way. However, I will say, if you're confident if you have on some level some game, you can't get girls.

But to retain them now, it's a different story. And if you take a very attractive girl, I guarantee you, at some point in her life, she hooked up with someone that was famous or had money or some shit like that. So their perceptions already skewed because the way girls operate is if they fuck a guy or they see a guy, even for a temporary period of time where he's success, whatever, they think that this is the type of guy that I deserve.

This is the caliber guy that I can get like that check that fuck that R&B artist. She's probably going to be on a higher plane now and think, well, you know what? These average guys, I fuck this kind of guy so I deserve this kind of guy. A lot of girls conflate sexual attraction with relationship attraction

and it's not the same. Oh, well, look at all these guys in my DMs. Look all these guys that are hitting me up on dating apps. What they don't realize is that they just want to smash, bro. They don't want to take you serious. But girls tend to think, oh these are all options for me so like women have kind of like a paradox of choice and they

think that they have all these options and the reality is no they have an abundance mindset to a detriment versus men have a scarcity mindset they don't think there's enough girls out there which is why they're sitting here simping on chicks that don't deserve it yeah so the question is what does the average guy do yeah exactly that's what we're trying to figure out that's what I'm trying to like try to to to dive into I mean when I think about it it's it's it's like you have to focus on improving and it's dude it's it's it's at least at least trying to find some form of success yeah because do you think i mean you don't have to be well let me ask you this actually before we get into that part sure it's kind of in relationship to the question um where you guys

are at where you see yourself like uh in the the status right do you ever fear or worry that like not necessarily let's just call it that you're not good enough that someone else can come and take your girl if you have a girl Do you ever worry about that? It's possible. However, here's my thing, right? All I can do is improve. I can't control what she does outside of, you know, when I'm not there, when I'm, you know, not wetter.

I can't control what I can do. So this is my secret to retain girls, right? I get them the best experience that I can't possible. I make sure I have that connection with them. We're like, you know what? We vibe. You know, we go out. We have a one-on-one.

We sit and talk. And I'll kind of pick their brain to see where they're at. And mentally, if we can, on that level, that's one. thing. But secondly, it's like, okay, cool. If I'm always improving and becoming better, guess what? Most guys aren't. So as a result, if I improve on myself, once again, mentally, physically, monetarily, it's like, yo, this guy's ambitious. He's going up and up and up. Why am I going to look for somebody else? I mean, truthfully, that's all we can do. You know what I'm saying? Like,

at any level, whether you're at this level, yeah, the ground floor, the top, like, that's all you truly can do, right? Like, that's the thing I'm trying to get people to listen to and understand here is you have to focus on that and I think sometimes it's hard because we focus so much on the external like the feedback either from like a girl or from what your friends are saying or giving you advice but like we to be truly successful to get the girl I think really to and to get them to look at you a certain way is you need to be so invested in the things that like you genuinely care about the things that you're genuinely working on in yourself in your business etc and I think that's the focus because because like

I want to try to figure this out right there's like but I realize there's no answer the answer is literally what you just said yeah and like focusing on that and And then they'll see and be like, oh, shit, I can appreciate this at whatever level. Because you can't tell the guy right now who's got no followers, he's got the whatever job, he's working here. Like, he's not going to just be able to go, okay, from here to here, right? Like, we're talking about how a girl can, like, show up just because she's hot. She's in that room. Yeah, exactly.

Right. The guy's going to have to just focus on his shit. Yeah. And it's tough because it's like that same guy probably wants to get some pussy along the way. Yeah. But it's like sometimes you just got to just fucking, I don't know, grinding it out for a few years and just focus on your shit. So you're like, I guess you have something more of substance that you're offering. now to opposite sex.

One last point. I feel like every guy has to, and I repeat, has to take a period of time where to focus on themselves and the purpose. For example, I did this.

I took literally, bro, two years of my life. And it's short, but two years to say, you know what? I'm focusing on making money, investing, or not how to become a better man

and being alone. That period of time, bro, I didn't smash a lot of tricks. I wasn't really getting laid. I focused on work overtime at my job, learning about real estate, state, going on YouTube, or not how to become a better man.

And as a result, that two-year period I took, bro, changed my entire life. Because basically, bro, just to make a long story short, I came from a pretty good family, pretty affluent. I was cuddled the whole time.

I was exposed. So I was never really able to, like, grow, become a man for myself. I had to leave that environment where I was cuddled, come to the state by myself, and become a man.

And as a result, doing it after two years, bro, dude, that changed my entire life. And then after that fact, right, when I improved, They got my money.

I was by myself. I was being kind of like a, you know, a nomad. I found out, cool. Who am I? What do I want? Yeah. And after that fact, bro, getting girls was easy. You know why?

I knew who I was. Yeah. And this, like, how to put this? I call it G game. G game means you're a G. You know who you are. You know where you're about. A lot guys with money and status and success, they don't know who they are.

They're just aimously going around doing random shit. Yeah, they got money, but they're lost. even though you are on what you're about bro gross for the energy and that's your game to me. It's like Taye, this reminds me of Tate, right? You didn't get him. Yeah, that's our guy. Is he on camera? Is he the same off camera? Yes. Yeah.

You know what I was about Tate? Tate knows who the fuck he is, bro. That, I'm telling you, that right there, bro, turn girls on like nothing else, bro. So going back to your question before you asked like, hey, what's your thoughts on like, you know, if you're with a girl, she could always like, you know, some other guy can come in and snatcher

or whatever. Yes, yeah. I've already pretty much like made peace with that and that comes into the part where it's so why it's so important to understand female nature that girls are always going to inevitably want to date and fuck up so i've already made peace with it and i've accepted the fact that like it's a lot of time it's not she's not yours it's just your turn and i know that's like a you know a quote that they say all this all the time on this side of the internet but once you understand that is going to make you accept things and not make you mad i think the thing is that a lot of guys resent women because they think women should act like men and they're going to have the same sense of loyalty

and I'm here to tell the guys right now, like, bro, women are not loyal. You know, Chris Brown said it years ago, these hoes ain't loyal. And the reason why is because it's actually against their biology to be loyal. And I'll explain what I mean by that. So women are hardwired to get their needs met through men, right, from a biological sense. Like, there's a reason why they look for a guy that's tall, has money, status, strong, et cetera. They look for survival traits in a man that they can go ahead and align themselves with. Because before, you know, the advent of the internet and all these modern technologies,

like a woman really couldn't fend for herself and more importantly fend for herself while having children. She needed a guy who had excess resources to go out there and kill the dragon and bring the food home. And I know the modern feminists would oh, well, 2022, times have changed. It doesn't fucking matter because we've

been programmed like that for a millennia. So even though we might say, we have these modern conveniences, whatever I always say, social constructs don't adhere to reality. Women are still hardwired to look for these things in men. This is why a girl that's like a millionaire is going to want a guy that still makes more money

than herself, a girl that's still able to provide own security. He's still going to want a man that provides more security than herself. And it's because they're hardwired to look for that. So once guys understand that women want the best and the brightest, it'll make sense why they will jump. That's why they get over breakups faster. That's why they date up. That's why they have more options. That's why women are okay with, you know, moving on to the next guy if he's able to satisfy that security to some degree. And once guys understand this, that women don't look at loyalty the same way we do, men are taught do what's right. Women are taught do what's right for you, even if that means doing what's right at your detriment. This is why a lot of guys when

they get, you know, divorce, raped or whatever else like that is because the girl's looking at it like, okay, this guy is feeling in some kind of degree. I'm going to take his resources, go to the next guy, I'm going to get resources from him because people look at it like, oh, women are selfish and evil. No, no, no. They have to be that way for their children. That's why they're that way. That's why no one gives a fuck about men. It's always children and women first. Yeah. And once guys understand that, it's going to be a lot easier to accept that bitter pill. Do you think that all women are like that? There's no exceptions to these rules you think?

All women are hypergamous. Yeah. It's just that some girls are a little bit more overt about it and some girls a little bit more covert about it. But the different, and it's up, oh, well, you just need to get an educated woman. Educated women that have careers and make money are the most hypergamous. Because if she makes, let's say she makes a million dollars a year. Well, her security's taking care of. She doesn't really need a guy's money.

But guess what? She still wants a guy that makes more money than she does, if not at least equal because women are not capable of providing long-term security to a man. However, a man is definitely capable of providing long-term security to a woman. For all the girls, I say, well, I've supported a guy, blah, blah, blah. My always my follow-up question is, how long does that last? And it never lasts long because if she makes more money than him and she's kind of the more dominant one in the relationship, the most masculine women still want a masculine man. That's the thing.

But the problem is that a lot of time, there's not enough for these guys to go around that make that kind of money they're going to be masculine and sit there and tolerate your bullshit of you being an A-type personality. Yeah, I would say a woman are capable of doing it, but not all do it. that may sense. So they can be that way, but not all may act on it. Like women can't provide men long-term security. Like what I've come to realize

is if a girl's in a breadwinner position with her guy, the likelihood of them breaking up increases dramatically. And as a matter of fact, it's one of the, it's one of a big divorce trigger actually too is like money when a girl like gets promoted or whatever and she gets a new job or she makes more money than her husband or she outclasses him socioeconomically,

she'll start to look for better options. Whereas like for men, it doesn't operate that way. Relationships last longer if the guy has, is the breadwinner right damn bro yeah i mean it's it's just it's like you want to you want to be able to hope for the best but it's yeah and this is why i always say like yo your biology rules you because it's like they'll say oh well i'm you know well no that's not true not all women are like that that's true not all women are necessarily like that but all women are hypergamous so women

are not built leaders it's in their biology to want to always get security from the best guy that they can get yeah i think once you understand reality and understand you know what you have to improve, bro. And the world isn't here to make you safe and happy. It's like, this is what it is. Once you understand that, you can maneuver the right way. Because why I was these guys believe, you know, I watch movies. Maybe I can find my sweetheart one day. Oh, yeah. Girls are same shit. And I'm like, it's possible, but it's likely, probably not. So. And that goes back to what I said before. Women love ideal, uh, they love opportunistically. We talk about this shot to Roll Tomasi all the time when we bring them on is that women love you for what you

provide. Yeah. You know, that's just what it is. That's the uncomfortable reality. I think once guys can learn and accept and understand that is going to make them less frustrated with things because a lot of guys tend to look at women through a male lens where,

well, she just left me. She didn't explain to me why or what the fuck happened or whatever. And the problem why they're so frustrated is because they think that women have this sense of honor that men do. They don't, bro. Women are only honorable to themselves and to satisfy their own hypergamy. And they have to be that way,

not because they're bad people, but because their self-interest is in themselves because they understand that they carry the next generation of human beings. They got to worry about themselves and the children. So if the man is just the utility to provide for them and the child, so be it. But the child comes first. And they have to inherently be selfish to be able to do that. Yeah.

So let's talk about some. I'll tell you guys a story in my earlier 20s. And it's actually part of the thing that led to a lot of my success, but also a lot of my um, fuck, issues with dating further. And it's, it reminds me of this. So I had, I had a girl who she was much. better off than I was financially because of her family situation. She was dating some other guy and then I started dating her and I guess she

get back and forth with this guy. And anyway, she, it ended in a, without giving so much detail, because it's unnecessary. It ended in a really negative way where I felt like she just like hurt me so much. I was so hurt because I had this, um, this idea of love. I'm in love with her. But it was more so looking back in hindsight, I know now it was a, it was just a, I needed this connection. I felt like it was love. It was the idea that like I wanted it to be this thing because I always had a hard time, which is letting go because I dealt with loss in my life with my father

when I was very young and I had this hard connection with letting love in my life. And then I finally did. And then I felt like it was like dragged away from me and I was so, so hurt. Right. And it, it really fucked me up. I might call my mom crying. Like, oh, I don't understand why, why it's happened to me. Like all this shit, right? And it was, it was a turning point in my life. this is before I had my success. And I'll get into why it's like interesting and how it affected the rest of my life afterwards, even after I had my success in relationship to dating.

I was so hurt that I remember being like, I remember one day I snapped and I was like, fuck this shit, fuck this bitch, fuck everyone. I felt so hurt, I'm going to take advantage of everyone and everything. Right. So then every single situation moving forward, business, guy, girl, doesn't matter like any sort of relationship, friendship, everything. It was so like, what can I get? What can I get? I'm only here for me.

You know, we were talking about earlier, talking about people only doing things when it benefits them, like, whether it be like a collab or whatever the fuck. I won't get into that right now. But I had that mindset. And it's interesting because ironically enough at the time, it benefited me so much because I was so like, like, so focused that nothing else mattered. I was here. If I didn't get something good out of it, I was gone. If I didn't get something good out, I was gone. And it got me really far. But at the same time, it started to, because this was like, it must have lasted for

fucking three, four years. Wow. And I met a girl, like my ex of eight years. I met a girl like, I don't know, two, three months after that, right? And the reason why this complicated the rest of my life was because I was so now frozen to opening up my heart again for love. I was so frozen to like, oh, now fuck that. Like, I'm going to get hurt.

So when I met this girl, I was like, always one foot in one foot. foot out because I was like I'm not going to let her hurt me right so I try to keep these other options all this other stuff and I like and I wasn't necessarily cheating I wasn't doing that fucked up but I was keeping it open because I wanted to make sure like I was good because I didn't want to get hurt again but it's weird because the thing that I I battle with now in dating is is because of that moment in my life um I'm very I'm very hesitant and almost afraid to allow myself fully to be with someone like to like really open up and to allow myself to be solid in a relationship because I instilled that like that that that you know that habitual

that the habit of thinking that oh I'm going to get fucked I'm going to get fucked absolutely yeah and it just and it also it delved into other areas of my life like business and and all that other kind of shit where I was like hesitant in these situations because I was like fuck I'm going to get fucked over I'm going to get hurt so that idea of fear and I just think it's interesting because it did so much for me to like push me to where I'm at but then at the same time it's now like involved itself in so much more of my life and other situations and other relationships that it's it's hindered my growth in some areas and I would just want to share that story because I think you know probably some people can listen and be like fuck I know

what that's like right but I'm wondering if you guys have had any experiences in your life where it's a you know it was a blessing at the same side of a curse and how did you deal with it because I'm still dealing with it I'm still trying to figure out how to move past that because I think it was interesting the thing that you said um earlier and I about like this how do you say it the idea of um when we're moving forward i i can't help but think that when we're talking about relationships and girls and getting all this stuff and having all this stuff and i guess the thing that i'm kind of realizing right now and i've been realizing is in order to really move forward and and fully grow as a as a human is to really understand

that everything is temporary yeah like everything in our life is temporary the relationships the girls this because when you were talking about you know the girl she has the money and then she's looking for this because like imagine let's say for example the guy listening or I I date a girl and let's say my status is here and I have all this and let's say her status is here

and like maybe I teach her a bunch of stuff and then she goes like this and maybe something happens in my life and I fall down now she's up here and she's like oh I got to go somewhere else now and like fuck it happens a lot yes so so I just I want to say it that I think it's really important for people to hear this is that everything

in our lives, everything that happens to us. Season and a reason. Yeah. And it's a part of it. Like, this is all a part of our journey. And it's the corny thing to say, but it's true. Like, I think the thing that I'm realizing is accepting, no matter what happens, we have to just keep going forward. And when we don't have another choice, like it's like, time's not stopping. We know this, right? And we just have to keep going despite the fears, despite like where it might go, where it might not go, et cetera. And that's the thing that I try to remind myself and I try to convince myself of because I have a

hard time with like letting that go, you know, because it's just letting go for me is one of the hardest things and just being vulnerable in it. Like, it's hard for me to do that because of my past, because of my situations. But I know that that is the most important thing in growth and fully getting what we want, success, business, relationships, all this shit. So I have a secret I never really shared just after your point because that was a lot, bro. That's a whole lot. You sharing your story. That's awesome, bro. You overcame it. It's still in your life, though. So it does have an impact on you. So it's healthy, but also unhealthy. So this is my secret, right? This is how I stay calm, happy all the time, for the most part.

And it's kind of like, I understand that things are temporary, like you said. It's for a season and for a reason. So for me, along this relationship has been like a year, I was married to a chick. So I understand pretty early. By the way, my relationship was eight years. Wow. God damn. God damn.

God damn. So I realize, right, in his life, it's short. You got one life to live. As a result, the choices you make will determine. how your life goes. However, at the same time, people come into your life for a reason and for a season. So, for example, there's a book in the Bible called Equalacities, right? It talks about, you know, what life is really about, you know, how you should live life. And it says in the book, basically, in a nutshell, that you're here for a period of time and everything under the sun is

meaningless, which means that like me working super hard at work, me getting money, me having all these things. It's nice. But when I die, it's over. That taught me, you know what? I'm here for a period of time, like dust in the wind, here today, gone tomorrow. So I'm going to enjoy it how I can, but I know that it's not forever. And as a result, relationships, you know, my family, you know, business, people I meet on an intern, is like, cool. Let me see how the vibe, it's how the energy is because I know for a matter of fact, no matter how cool we are, how happy we are, is going to end someday. So even when it comes to girls, because I met, bro, I have an understanding of the girls. So it's kind of like

We vibe, we connect We have fun But I know if you ever get serious Hey, it's not gonna last forever So that mindset that I have right now Has seen me from a lot of heartbreak Same me from a lot of like You know depending on somebody

Or like you put in all my trust Because I know for a matter of fact I if I put all my trust in somebody It's going to end eventually So to me is like you know what I'm going to believe you I'm going to give you that You know I want to say acceptance

But I'm not going to put everything into you Because Don't you think that perpetuates your own fear, though, like of being, of it working? No, but, you know, it is expectations, because if I expect her to be a certain way, if she's not, then I lose. But if I expect, you know what, it's going to end someday, then I'm free. Because it's true freedom.

Because now I know, for a matter of facts, if I put all my eggs in one basket, guess what? I'm at lose. But if I leave it open, then who will lose this? I might have a controversial take on this. Your strategy is fantastic. And the thing is, is that, um, And the reason why I say that is because you're always better off as a guy having multiple girls, right? And not really committing to any.

And I know people might say, that's toxic one foot in, one foot out. You're emotionally unavailable, whatever. That's what makes you the most attractive. Well, that's what keeps you sharp. Because girls only get in line when you have other women in line. You know, I always quote, you know, listen to the song, my future. Bitch don't get too comfortable. And the way you keep women uncomfortable is by having other girls.

I love people quote future, dude. Yeah. I just want to say he set a bar in one of these songs. He's like, fuck dinner, her ass made her pee. and I thought I was the craziest shit I'd ever heard. I was like, what the f I tweeted this? It was so funny to me. But sorry, go ahead.

Yeah, no. We didn't even on the show. Yeah, so like, the thing is, is that guys need to keep multiple options and have multiple girls because the thing is is that when you have multiple women, you have this air of confidence, you have this abundance mindset, and you just move differently where women can instantly notice it and makes them more attracted to you. Girls want guys that have other girls. You look at someone like Dan Blazerian, Whohafner, et cetera. These guys have a bunch of chicks in their pictures.

They look like womanizers. they look like toxic fuck boys but guess what they have all the girls why because women know deep down that they're not independent thinkers and they know that might be like controversial whatever but when it comes to a selection they're really fucking not there's a reason why when you go to a VIP all the girls are congregated around one guy is because they see other girls there oh okay this guy has some social status this guy has social proof if these girls sign off on it I want to be here too women need a co-sign from other people so with guys the reason why having multiple girls makes you so attractive is because you're inadvertently allowing the girl to see that you're pre-selected

by other women, which makes you more attractive. No girl wants a guy that no other girl wants. That's just how women are. That's why since the beginning of time, the kings, the sultans, etc., they've had all the women and everybody else struggled. So I think having multiple girls is the best way to go because it keeps all the girls on their toes. Because once a girl gets comfortable, that's when the disrespect and all the craziness starts to happen. And I know that might be considered toxic or whatever may be, but that's how you really keep girls in line is by having other girls in line. And I would just say

just after that point like I said earlier, why am I going to put all my eggs in one basket? However, I don't understand some guys just want one girl to be cool with,

have a vibe with, and connect with. However, having an understanding is better. So let me explain. I got a relationship with one girl.

You know, she's my only one we're together. Things are great. But it could end up where we break up or it could last forever. Who knows

in terms of that aspect. However, if I have multiple girls we have understanding, guess what? who loses there nobody and we tell guys to be honest about that yeah like that you're not going to be monogamous the understanding is hey i fuck with you you fuck with me we're on that level we're gonna have fun enjoy life but there's no like title like you're my girl you're just and you're that

we're just going through life enjoying it and that freedom bro i'm telling you bro if most people embrace that they'd be much happier because putting that expectation or the title it kind of like makes it so you're like chains versus like we're free having fun we're enjoying life understanding And one other thing, too, I want to say, there is a pluses and negatives to doing this. The pluses is that you're going to get the best from the girls that you do deal with because they don't feel like their spot is secure. So they're going to be competing for your affection to become the number one girl, which is that's when you get the best behavior from women. But the negative is maintaining girls is a pain in the ass. We all know this.

You know what I mean? And the other thing, too, that a lot of people aren't prepared for when you deal with a lot of girls is that you're going to lose chicks too because you're going to lose your girl to like, you're going to lose girls that you deal with to whether it's like other guys, simps, suckers, guys that are willing to trick off. on them, maybe another guy that's willing to give a relationship and be exclusive to her. So you are going to lose a lot of girls doing this. So it comes down to what you want to do. But having a roster girls or having multiple women will inevitably make you more attractive and make it easier for you to get other girls. It's like once you, it's much easier to get girls when you already have girls.

It's like passive income, right? Like when you invest money into real estate or whatever, when you have capital, right, and you invest it into something, it allows you to get some cash flow back. Having girls makes it easier to get other girls because now you, have that social proof and women need a cosign. Like women aren't like, I think another mistake guys make is like they think that women think like we do, they really don't like with us, right? Like let's say you see a baddie, you see a baddie, I see a baddie.

We don't, I don't need to go like, hey, fresh, Bradley, what do you guys think? Like, if I like her, I'm just going to leave the club with her. Well, girls, though, it's like, oh, okay, so what do you think? Like, you know, they go to the fucking bathroom after they meet and they do a little huddle. What do you think, girl, what do you think? And they need their girlfriends to co-sign before they leave you, before they leave you or if they want to fuck with you. Like, girls need a cosine, whereas men don't.

So, okay, so what do you, in that sense, we're talking about, like, having multiple girls, right? So if you're doing that, then you have to open yourself up for girls having multiple men. Nah, we don't negotiate with terrorists over here. Like, like, like, see, and girls always say that we had this discussion yesterday. Yeah. Well, well, can I, can't, what can't I do it? If you're doing it, what can't do it?

Fuck no, bitch, you can't, because we're not the same. Listen, I'm, I'm not, I'm trying to play the devil's advocate. I got to play it. I got to play it. So these, but there's going to be girls who are going to be like, Yeah, okay, well, then I'm just going to do that. And then you're just, so then you're just done with them. Is that what you're saying?

Well, here's the thing, right? She's a record. She's only because now we're talking about being hypocritical. Because here's what happens. You're right. When you saw a girl, hey, there's your understanding here. We're just doing our thing. She's probably going to see other guys, probably.

However, here's a matter of facts. If she wants to be taken seriously, here's the prime murders. Hey, I'm doing my thing. But if you want me to take it seriously, you can't do your thing. And as a result, it's kind of like a, I want to say, a revolving door because what happens is sometimes like you know what I want to take you serious they'll probably shut off most guys and only deal with you and then they don't believe you know fuck it I don't I don't like this anymore I'm gonna go back out

other to the streets so it's kind of like I want to say revolving door but at the same time it's like I don't know how to let me break this down because I was talking with the girls they they throw this dumb shit at me all the time right when we have as you guys know we do our show Monday Wednesday Wednesday guys if you want to yeah we get it to these and we get into these conversations but one of the things that always comes up is, well, if you can have multiple girls, why can't I have multiple guys? And my thing to that is always this. I was used this analogy. So, like, there's two people, right? They grew up on different ends of the road. One guy grows, one family, you know,

one side grows up rich, like, we'll say me and you, right? Like, let's say, you grow up poor, I grew up rich, right? Um, 18, we, uh, we both hit 18 years old. I get a $2 million inheritance. You on the other hand, go off to college, work your ass off, scale up a couple businesses, whatever, and then you become a multimillioner as well, but it takes you some time. Ten years later, we're at a high school reunion. And I'm there, and I've pretty much spent all my money on hookers, booze, flights to Vegas, gambling, a bunch of other degenerative shit. You, on the other hand, saved your money, invested, whatever, and you made your money through hard sweat equity, right? Now, I go ahead and tell you, hey, bro, you should start

investing in, you know, Dogecoin, and you should start doing this, and I start giving you financial advice and telling you, oh, you should do this, you should do that, blah, blah. Are you going to take my financial advice seriously? I see you're going with this. No. No, right? No. Exactly.

And that's because I inherited my money. I'm a trust fund baby. You're a self-made millionaire. So I always say that. That's the equivalent to like men and women where women are trust fund babies when it comes to sexual market value and their dating options. So therefore, they're not in a position to tell you as a man, a self-made millionaire how to spend your money.

We're not the same. We're not cut from the same cloth. But women want to go ahead and use male parameters when it benefits them, but they also want to use female parameters when it benefits them. And I'm here to say, that's not how the world works. So men, right, if you bust your ass and work really hard and you become high value, you get this beautiful thing called supply and demand on your side, which is basically there's more beautiful women than there are high value men.

So since the supply of high value men is less, now you have the leverage. The key is that you have to earn that ability to become high value so that you can have that leverage. But women is just given to them. So I never let women try to dictate my sexuality. when I busted my ass to get here and women get mad when I say that but it's the truth it's like yo y'all are fucking trust fund babies when it comes to dating and relationships you cannot tell a self-made millionaire how to move we don't play by the same set of rules so I look at it like you know women are born with their value men have to create their value so if I bust my eyes to get to a certain point

I'm going to enjoy the fruits of my labor and guess what I can do that because I have the leverage there's less than there is you I could replace you fast and you can replace me yeah this is why girls that are married to celebrities or athletes or whatever else it is they accept the fact that that guy's going to step out on them every now and then to fuck other chicks. But as long, but a man can have sex with a girl and still love his wife the same. Women can't, however. So when girls say this dumb shit about,

well, why can I have multiple guys? Because you're not biologically capable of doing it, bitch. That's why. You don't think at all? No. If a girl truly loves and Myers respects her guy, she ain't going to fuck nobody else.

Every other guy is invisible. Whereas if a man truly loves and Myers respects his girl, he's going to still look at other girls and want to fuck them. It's just that most guys are monogamous by necessity, not because they want to be. Right. And I guarantee you, guy is monogamous, shout to the minorities, he's probably jerking off to port anyway

because he wants other girls, but he just doesn't want to do it actively. And the other thing, too, is that like, this is another bomb drop. I always drop on the chicks is like, yo, you're never going to sexually satisfy your guy by yourself as a chick. And girls get so mad when I say that because their ego can't fathom it because girls, what I've come to realize, bro, like a lot of these chicks, man, they grew up in a Disney fairy tale. They've been told their entire life, they're special.

They're beautiful no matter how they act, no matter how big they get, you know, they're sugar and spice, everything nice. I sometimes have to bring it back to reality like, bro, you're not that fucking special. Guys want variety. So you can either accept the reality that he's going to want to fuck other chicks and you just be the main one, right? Or you can go ahead and get with a lower level guy that can't necessarily replace you. He doesn't have the option to cheat and he'll be monogamous to you. But what most girls want is they want, they'd rather share a winner than have a loser all to himself.

Yeah, that makes sense. Would you ever settle down? Fuck no. Never. I'll never be a managist. Personally, to me, I think being monogamous to one girl is the dumbest thing you'd do, especially if you're a higher earn. guy. But so that's why I'm just honest about it. Because it's like

every guy if you left him to his own devices he would just fuck baddies until he died. It's just that I'm honest about it and I'm vocal and I tell chicks I'm not going to be monogamous to you. Like I didn't bust my ass to fuck one chick. That's dumb. I think I can be. Yeah. Eventually because like, bro, I've been doing this for a minute bro. It's fun and I enjoy

it but it's more like eventually I kind of want to be like on the island. Me and a shorty. My dog maybe. But, Nicky cat, bro. You're going to smash another chick every now and then. No, because I think there are guys out there who genuinely, like, just want to, like, fucking chill. Dude.

Yeah, but you're not saying never. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're going to want to smash a chick every now and then. Yes, yeah. That's what I'm trying. Like, that's why I tell girls, like, yo, just prepare for it. If you're the winner, you're going to have to share him sexually at some point. But as long as you're the main chick, just, you just be happy with that. But, like, female hubris and, like, 2022 is outrageous.

Like, they really think, like, well, I should get a high-value guy all to myself. when they don't fucking realize that bro you're just another hot chick like you're fucking common that's the truth are we saying the best girls are the ones that are down for threesomes possibly yeah like and here's a thing honestly I wouldn't even do a threesome

of my main chick because I know that's going to probably fuck her up emotionally I will say threthums are not as hyped as they are planned on to be so for example people are oh yeah I love threesome is like bro really because you're your main girl bro let's say you stroke that girl too good you give her the best back she ever had her life. Like, wait, hold on.

You don't do that with me. It can cause friction, bro. So, like, to me, like, yeah, that's what you're going to mess with really badly. So I, I prefer not do it. Yeah, I would just do my thing on the side

and just not even involve her in so her feelings don't get involved. But it's like... I'll tell you the best scenario I girls want. Girls want a guy that's high value, successful, good looking, can take care of her, but does his business

so that she doesn't see it or get embarrassed by it. So if the guy is doing his thing on the side, she doesn't know about it? Perfect. But the moment you tell her, oh hell no I want to be out

so it's kind of like a double-led sword yeah people talk about guys having egos I think women have way bigger egos and tell them bro way fucking bigger because think about it and here's a thing too like I want guys to understand

so I so I didn't experiment right yeah and this was back like two years ago when the pandemic first hit right and as you know dating apps for the thing you couldn't really go out

and talk to chicks or whatever so I made a dating course with a friend of mine John from my life dating show to him right and we basically what we had to do is do a bunch of split testing on this on this dating app and i basically made a tinder profile profile whatever and i had multiple profiles using different pictures boost here boost here so see which profile does the best to get most of the most matches so i did all my swiping had boost

on some whatever may be and then turned i had like two phones at the time and i was doing this experiment turned them off for 24 hours and then came back and logged in the next day right to see how what organically would do the best as a part of the split testing open up both phones and i'm like holy shit there's a bunch of notifications on all of them I'm like oh fuck then it like I was like you know this kind of lit like I got all these chicks giving me this attention is fucking awesome right and then it hit me right there

imagine getting this type of attention every single day for nothing more than the fact that you fucking exist it would make you a shitty fucking person bro and that's what I want guys to understand attractive girls deal with this every

single day this is why they think their shit don't stink this is why they flake on dates this is why most women don't respect most men that's why so many girls are delusional nowadays because they get attention simply for existing and most girls think that they're better than you. This is an uncomfortable truth nobody wants to talk about. If you take a regular

chick, she's going to think she's worth more and more important than a regular guy. So knowing that, dudes need to move differently. You can't pedestize these girls because they're already getting pedicized by everyone else. As a matter of fact, it's refreshing when you don't pedicize them because they get so much attention for nothing more than the fact of their life.

So what do you think are the most important things for a guy to do to increase his value? then besides obviously like getting money because that's the most basic one you have to you have to improve on all facets which is why like our podcast is so big on like self-improvement in general and then women you self-improve and then a byproduct of your self-improvement is the women come yeah not necessarily self-improve for the girls you self-approved for yourself and then the girls come so you have to get in a shape in 2022 you got to get a shape being fat is unacceptable nowadays uh you have to get your money on point right uh i tell guys yo you got to strive

to make six figures man that's going to give you a fighting chance in this hyper-competitive sexual marketplace you got to learn game you got to understand how well women think you got to understand female nature you got to know what hypergamy is you got to understand that girls date up and uh just except for women for what they are like get the fuck out your feelings and stop getting mad at women for what they'll never be to you they're never going to be ideal lovers they're always going to be opportunistic lovers all right quick interrupt you guys out to one of our sponsors tis hanley it's a men skincare line and would you say that men skincare is important like we should take care of us 100% important you take care of yourself that's

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become better and better. You know what you said earlier about what can guys do to improve? The biggest thing I just want to add to your point is putting themselves first. Yeah, so you have to be a little bit selfish. Because most guys think, you know what? I'll put everyone else first before me and then coming back to myself. wrong. If you put yourself first, bro, not only is your health probably going to be better, your mindset, your, your, your lifestyle, people are going to see, you know what, he's focused,

he's driven, he's ambitious, as a byproduct, I want to be around that energy. And as a result, most guys, right, what they'll do is, they'll find a girl, oh my God, she's a queen, a queen, put on a pedestal, and they'll give her the whole world. But then they lack in their business, their ambition and they're, and they're, and they're, and they're, wait, why's she leaving me? because you focus on her when a matter of fact she wants to focus on you and go on your journey

so it's kind of like if you're a guy out there self-belief isn't important and you get out from confidence and getting a small win so for example let's say this is what I did I had a goal board

in my room from Walmart I bought a driver's board I put up every morning to do list and then long-term goals my to-do list could be for example maybe

finishing a video you know making some money this day, getting a task done during the day, or simply just going to the gym. Once I ate those goals, I felt accomplished. Damn, small wins.

I won this day. I covered all my to-do lists, got it all checked off, great job. My confidence would go up each day. And I, over time, because, dude, I stuttered. I had a, a bad, act. You started right now. You're doing good, though. Yeah, see, I had a bad

acne problem, you feel me? And I had, like, a lot of things that I had to deal with, you know, physically. they felt kind of like embarrassed. Long story short, confidence went up from doing these small tasks and over time I felt better about myself

I started doing better things and bigger tasks as well but that confidence made me who I am today. So I'm just saying for most guys self-belief isn't important and look at me now bro

I fucking stutter you know I'm not that in shape I'm not that good looking per se but I'm at this point and as a result I get what I want I get girls

I get lifestyle get car it's like the self-belief goes a long way no matter who you are And last thing I want to say, too, is the girl needs to like you more than you like her. And I think a lot of guys make this mistake where they prioritize the girl and then they end up liking her more and they invest more and more into the girl. And then women is one of the females are one of the rare commodities where if you, the more you invest in it, the more you actually lose.

You're better off investing less. And the reason why, and that sounds crazy, is because women respect men that not only think, but behave as if they're better than themselves. because it satisfies that hypergamous filter we were talking about before. If a guy acts and demonstrates, I'm better than you by liking her less than she likes him, that's going to force her to chase his validation at all times.

That's how you keep women engaged. I always use this, you know, mystery talked about this in one of his books. Like women are kind of like cats. And you as the guy, you got a ball of yarn. You got to throw a ball of yarn and like, you know, continuously slowly retracted, retract it, retract it so that the cat continues to chase the ball of yarn.

But if you keep that ball yarn stagnant, it's going to play with it a little bit and then eventually get bored and walk away. And that's how women are. You have to always have them chasing your validation. The only way they're going to do that is if number one, you make yourself the priority and then number two, she likes you more than you like her. And that's how list ships last, because the girl always has to feel like she has the best guy that she can get.

You're the prize. You're the prize. And I think not enough guys by themselves to say, I'm the fucking prize. And they pedestize the girl. And that's a fucking recipe for disaster because women don't know how to act when they're in a leadership position where they're the fucking prize.

They really don't. And if you don't believe me, like look at the world that we're in now. The divorce rates are high. Women initiate 80% of divorces, over 50% of marriages end in divorce, girls initiate most of the breakups. It's because we got a bunch of guys out here

pedestizing these hoes. And the guys can't do that. You have to look at it like, yo, I'm the fucking prize. If you want to deal with me, this is how it's going to be. And when you put boundaries up and you make it where the girl acts

to compete for your affection and you have rules and standards so your relationship, Like, yo, I don't really date girls that do girls' nights out. She might be like, oh, what the fuck? But she's going to respect you. And respect is more important than anything else when it comes to girls. Like so many guys are concerned with the girl liking them.

Fuck that shit. She needs to respect you. Because if she respects you, then the love is inevitably going to come after that. Because when she respects you, that respect has come from something called fear. And that fear isn't necessarily you smack in the shadow of her. No, it's fear of loss. Because you've gotten yourself up to such a high point where she can't necessarily replace you. That's why I tell guys all the time

Your competence leads to accomplishments Which leads to confidence That confidence Echoes an attorney when you deal with the girl And then she could feel that Because a lot of guys don't have that And then she knows that she's like second third On your priority list

She likes you more than you like her She's going to constantly be chasing your validation And that's going to satisfy her filter Like okay, is this guy the best that I can do He probably is because I can lose him at any minute And that's why I think it's really good To have one foot in one foot out Now is that toxic

Is that kind of fucked up or misogynistic. Sure, you can say that, but it's not misogynistic, it's realistic. Women need to always feel like they get the, they got the best option to behave correctly. And unfortunately, these traits are what make guys attractive to women. This is why the bad boys always win and the nice guys lose. So where do you,

what you guys can answer to this individually? Where do you think you fuck up the most in this situation as a man? Like, speaking vulnerably, do you, are there, is there anything you do specifically where you're like, oh, hell yeah? I fuck up and like, I want to be better at it. I'm, I'm a little bit too direct. Like, like, and I have a little,

Too low tolerance. And what I mean? Yeah. Like, so if a girl says something stupid to me or she pisses me off, like I'll immediately, like, I'll give me an example. We had two chicks come from Texas, right, to hang out with us. Oh, God. Like, I haven't told the story yet, but.

It's the first time it's being told earlier. This is the first time, exclusive right here. And she came, and we had some downtime or whatever. So I brought her back and I was trying to, I made a move to smash. Right. And she was like, oh, no, you know, you, you. You seem like you get everything that you want. So I'm going to make you work or wait or work for it.

We'll do it at the end of the night. Fucking mistake. As soon as she did that shit. I got a story like this too. Yeah. So then she tries to get out of me and kiss me. I'm like, no, no, no, it's fine. It's cool.

You don't want to do it right now, no big deal. So I start hitting up other chicks immediately. So we go to the club with them and I just say, fuck it. And I leave. And then I go get another girl and I hook up with her and we're chilling whatever. Next day, she's like, I walk into the elevator with the guy hooked up with it. She's there with Fresh and her friend, right? his friend and it was just like fucking hilarious and I could tell she felt really

uncomfortable was awkward cringe yeah and I didn't get a fuck because I was like bro this is what you like yo I'm not fucking around like I don't chase I replace like if a girl tells me no fantastic I'm immediately going to cut attention off and move on to next girl now you know could have I sat there and like you know built more attraction and try again also the shit because she ended up telling him in private oh I just wanted him to throw me on the bed and know this extra shit nah bro like we got shit to lose I'm not gonna do all that extra shit fuck out of here if you say no it's no move on to next girl yeah that's that's that's that's real sketch yeah but that's what she wanted and like a lot of girls want that shit you know and it's

like nah man we're we're at a different point now where it's like we don't want to be around that shit but my thing is like I have very low patience with female fuckery so I kick girls to the curb immediately even if a girl says something dumb to me sometimes I should bite my tongue but I say well actually that was stupid and let me tell you why and a lot of girls don't like that because most girls haven't been challenged on their stupid ideologies and I tell them well actually you're wrong because X Y Z so that's That's not true and they'll get mad. Yeah.

Yeah. I would say mine is, I'm a little bit too nice. Just in general or just with women? With women. Okay. So, I hate talking about myself, bro. Who cares? This is about.

You know what it is? It's more like, I'm a type of guy that I'll be a gentleman. Yeah. Literally. Like, I'll literally go to a long way and I'll get the girl a great time, you know, be courteous, be there. And sometimes I care too much. in terms of like, I'll go to the extra amount. However, I'm on a point now where it's like,

when I invest so much like into a girl in terms of like, you know, being that type of guy, being nice, it kind of like fall in love. And the problem is that like, no, they fall in love. They do, okay. And man, I... He sells them a dream. Yeah, pretty much.

Oh, it's fucked. Which is fucked. I don't want to suppose that, but you got to be more straightforward. maybe that's what you know what is I lose a lot of girls though that's my like being like painfully honest like that and being so direct

like I lose a lot of like I tell guys on the pot all the time don't do the shit that I do I don't go fuck but like you should you know finesse a little bit more but genuinely I do care about the girl like I care about where she's going what she's about

and as a result it's kind of like I want to make it go further but if I do then she's going to suffer she's going to suffer so it's like I'm going to give girls so much time and it kind of puts me a position where I'm like

hey, what's the next step? Where are we going? It's like, damn, I can't go shorty because... Oh, yeah. So I'm always losing girls to that, to that level of, like, you know, relationship. And then it's kind of like, I'm always having to, like, re-initiate or, like, kind of make it up because I'm not going to be there physically. It's like a, once again, a revolving door where, like, I am too nice where, like, they think is going to be serious when it's not. Yeah, so you're kind of doing too much, like, in a sense of, like, making them think, oh, he's, like, really into me.

because maybe you're like having deeper conversation you're giving more advice. I don't talk a lot, bro. I kind of let them do what's talking. And it's like, wow, you guys, you listen to me. I'm like, oh, really? Oh, wow. That's crazy.

She did that? No way. So you, but, but I understand what women want and I act accordingly. And I get, I get what I want. But at the same time, I'm giving an experience. So they can't be mad because I'm giving you a fucking great experience.

Yeah, girls don't talk poorly about him after they deal with him. But they do talk poorly about me. understanding yeah so like that's why yeah like so i'm like the opposite to him yeah i'm like too nice he's like too direct yeah yeah because i like my thing is like if a chick don't want to smash a lot of time i just kick him on my spot all right well you got to go and i'll call like another girl in front of them see i don't know it's really funny so so tell me more wait what oh wow why you like that oh you're so sweet oh damn that's crazy before you know her panties are off you hit it but that's crazy That's crazy

But see, we know You had a story, right? Well, I had a story This was time ago I had a story where It's similar to like the girl Being like no Yeah

Well, it's exactly that story I had this girl We're in a hotel room We're basically like To the point where I have my dick out All right We're trying to have sex She's like no

And then I'm like, okay, cool, no problem No worries Of course, right And then the next day She's like hitting me up have you stuck with her for another day after that? No, no, no, I'm gone.

Oh, okay, you left. She's texting. Oh, no, I'm gone already. I'm gone. She's texting me like, oh, hey, like, now she wants to do it. Like, now she's, like, all about it. She's like, come over, let's, we're going to hang out all this. And I'm just like, man, don't give a fuck at all zero.

I don't know. I just think, like, I think, but that's hard for men to, like, develop that. Yeah. Yeah. Because it's, you know, they want that. You want that. I want that. We want that, right?

Yeah. I think it's hard to develop. that like that the that ice cold I think it's easier to do what you do not I'm not trying to not talk bad about you but I think more most guys do the the coddling and I think sometimes it could be to their detriment because I think a lot of guys they like you said that's your downfall is like they do too much of that and then they're wondering why like they keep finding themselves in these certain situations or like it's not as clear they deal with like maybe more issue with this with it not working out or it working out because they they feed more of the dream

without less of the reality behind it. So I think you have to find a balance between the two. Yeah. It's highly balanced but like honestly speaking I feel like we're total opposites and like it works in our favor. But it's like we could improve in some areas. What do you guys think about

women having male friends? This is one of my favorite. Yeah, yeah. I've we got this conversation yesterday. I genuinely do believe that platonic friendships between men and women don't really naturally exists like nine out of ten times

when a guy's friends with a girl that goes back to that rejection thing we talked about like fair failure like a lot of guys are in the friend zone simply because of fear of failure they don't want to they don't want to say yo I like you and like actually put it out there and then get rejected because they know like yo my chances are probably low so they'll sit there and wait or maybe they did and they was like no

and they wait around and they suck around yeah which is stupid like okay another controversial take there's no utility with having female friends they're fucking useless I mean listen bro I'm like I'm not I'm not I'm not and I'll tell you why, right? We talked about this shit with Andrew Tate.

Like, Tate makes jokes. He says they're not combat ready. Yeah. So they have no fucking hands. So if you get a fight, what's his memo? They're not going to back me up. Yeah. What's his Bimbo God?

Dude, you don't even suck my dick and I'm supposed to protect you? Fuck this shit. And, you know, obviously I'm not going to be as funny about as him. But they really do. When you break it down, like, female friends don't offer you a lot of utility as a man because they don't understand the male experience. Like, I've always said it like, men and women are very different. Like, men must be coming women just are.

So it's like, you know, they don't understand, like, your mask and burn a performance. They don't understand your masculine problem. So, like, confiding in a girl really isn't like, what the fuck? They're going to just, oh, it's okay, blah, blah, blah. They're going to, if anything, they're going to soften you up. They're not going to tell you what your guy friends are going to say, like, bro, you're just a fucking bum. You need to stop being a bitch.

You know what I'm saying? They're going to say, oh, well, that's just fucked up or whatever, because women lie to each other. Like, if their friend is a fucking whale, they're not going to tell her, hey, you need to lose weight. They're going to say, no, girl, you're fine the way you are. He doesn't fucking deserve you. And that's why these bitches are all huge is because they lie to each other. The average woman in the United States

is like 5 foot 3, 170 pounds. Fucking ridiculous. Walrus is running all over the place here. But it's because they lie to each other. You know what I'm saying? They don't tell each other the truth because feelings. You know, so that when they come on our podcast, I say, yeah, like being fat is unacceptable.

That's like a foreign language to them because no one's ever told them the cold art truth that, yo, being fat is unacceptable for real, whether man or woman. So you don't think there's any circumstances that they can be friends. Like, I think like maybe if, if, like, you are like my boy, and even in some cases it doesn't work out,

If you were like my boy and then like that was your girl, let's say you were married to her and then you guys broke up, like because we have such a close bond and this doesn't always work out. Exactly. Because you ain't chilling with her one-on-one without him there. Right. So that's why like when people try to say, well, that's my friend because that I'm like, no, no, you guys are associates because that's like a necessary evil that you have to tackle.

So you deal with them courteously because they're friends with someone that you're close to. Or they're with someone that you're close to. So that's an associate more relationship. But like actual friendship where you guys can hang out one-on-one and do activities. So be real, each party may have intentions of maybe being on some level platonic, but one party always wants more over time. Yeah, it's mostly the guy. And as a result, let's say, right, we do run a scenario where, let's say we're boys

and your girl is your girl and I'm your boy. Let's say we're friends, right? Dude, do you know if we spent time together alone and you're not there, feelings might arise and it may not happen the same day the same week or same month but over a period of time you know damn she's actually mad cool

Brad is lucky to have her but I want her too so it's kind of like you gotta put boundaries with your girl because you never know when feelings could a build up and then a lot of guys what'll do is they'll be like you know what damn she's with Brad right now

but I'll be her friend for right now and see a weak point or when he fucks up now's just like that's most most men do the cowardly like I'm a friend because I'm here because a lot of guys have a scared mindset. So in my opinion, he's not really a friend. He's a snake. Because now he's

waiting for a chance to just slip in there and it's like, bro, girls, that's not your friend. That's a guy waiting for a chance. So. And not only that, like, because you gave a perfect example. So like, are there exceptions to the rule? Yes. But what I've come to realize is that when a guy is friends with a girl and it's actually really just platonic, and nine out of ten times,

there's some kind of really bad social consequence that'll come if they were to hook up. Like, for the example you just gave where your friends with, your friends with a girl because her boyfriend is your guy. Or you guys might work together Or she's married to someone that you know And you're close with whether it's a relative or whatever

Like in those situations The friendship or what I would like to call an association May exist because they can't fuck with each other Because there would be dire social consequences if they were So those are the exceptions to the rule But in general, most of the time There's no such thing as a platonic friendship between men and women And people sell the time

You know what? It can work if the attraction isn't there But my friend Over time, Traction can build I've seen it where girls like Yeah, this is my friend. They get drunk after two, three years.

Things just happened. Oh, it didn't just happen. Traction builds up. That's how you really felt. You were drunk. You let it all out. And the same thing is circumstantial. Like, let's say you're going through an issue with the girl.

And then that guy's been waiting there. And it's like, oh, this is comfortable. This is like easy. Facts. Yeah. And he's already built up like some real estate equity with her. Right. Like, because she knows him.

He'd be like, I'll never do. I'll never do that to you. Oh, he did that. That's messed up. That's like, you know what? I'm here for you, girl. Oh, the same shit. Come on now.

And another thing we tell guys all the time, like, so we're giving, like, guys, like signs, like to, like, signs that a girl's for the streets. One of them, honestly, is when she, if she only has guy friends. Bro.

Like, that's actually, like, a big red flag if a girl only has guy friends. Like, that's something that you should watch out for as a dude. Because more than likely when a girl has only guy friends, she's done some,

some stupid shit that has ostracized her from women in general, whether she's out here, like, fucking their boyfriends or doing some other fuck shit, whatever it is else. Because, like, If a girl hangs out with enough guys, you best believe that she's going to smash some of them. So it's like,

that's a huge red flag to me if a girl has only guy friends. Here's something that you won't know unless you're in a current date and market. So nowadays, right, there's girls. We call them street walkers. We're like, they'll be in the streets because this one's new to me.

Yeah. So the streets is very cold. I started like terminology in the streets. Like, it's very cold. And that means that like your girls move icy. So what happens is, right? There'll be girls in a group that know

everybody all the guys know her yeah but they don't know what she does but each each of them so for example we're in a club this goes from uh i think she's from poland or whatever she moved over here to the states she's on some type of like program for like school and she's very quiet very nice very nonchalant she's just there in a cut chilling right and i don't want to give too much because people actually they're not going to know what she is is. Anyhow, lost one short. She's in the club. I meet for the first time, right? I want my boys. I meet her. She's violent with me talking with me. I leave with her. We do our thing. Next day, I'm like, yo, bro, I left for Shorty. She's pretty bad. He's like, oh, yeah, I did it yesterday. I was like, wait, what? Yeah. Mind you, right? She smashed the whole team. But what happened was, when she comes back around the, you know, last team circle, is like, nothing happened. It's like, oh, that's my friend John. They smashed him last night. But she keeps us so a nonchalant.

You never even know. So we call those. She was scary. Yeah. Heartless, bro. You and the thing, too, is, I think a lot of guys need to know this uncomfortable truth. Like, girls are way more promiscuous than you fucking think.

Bro. Like, these girls, like, are out here smashing. The thing is that, like, there's more anonymity. Raw talk. Oh, yeah, yeah, definitely raw. There's way more anonymity now because of the internet. So, like, what guys don't get is, like, chicks will trap. Like, if you see a chick, bro, like, if she's in, like, foreign places,

but that bitch works on CBS. oh my god you already know what time it is and it's like but guys will sit there and think like oh no she does save the buddy or she went out with a friend her so she was like top bro like these chicks are out here yeah like he's not going like like yeah bro like she's at five star restaurants all this extra shit's like bro what the fuck do you think

is paying for that shit or what do you think this was going on so it's like girls are way more promiscuous and devious than guys and I think a big thing that like pisses guys off is like they find this shit out and it like bothers them and it's like bro once you accept the fact that like I've always said if she belongs to the streets unless prove it otherwise.

Just assume that she's a hoe unless she proves you that she isn't. And when you go on with that mindset, oh my God, that's so toxic, that's so misogynistic. It's the fucking truth. These girls are here

are fucking way more than guys are. It's honestly a good perspective because it's like you're expecting the worst. Obviously you plan for the best, but I mean, that's the best way to go about everything because then you can set up

for what's going to happen next or where you need to go and move forward. And it's the same thing. Girls are aware. Start to go off. Aware of. how men operate. Of course.

TikTok. The hidden gem, right, that girls do? Hold on. I'll make a correlation here. TikTok is a breeding ground for girls to give examples of how to date men

and get what they want. So for example, we know some TikTokers where they pretty much talk to girls and say, hey, you know what? If you want money from a guy, do this. If you want to get a lifestyle,

do this, you want to get married to this. And as a result, what happens is that like, girls have this like, I want to say, mentality where it's like, entitlement.

They know if I move a certain way, guys are going to do this. And most guys are unaware because they don't have training. No one taught, no, you know, no one taught on this. And then they come into a blind and it's like, damn, why she broke my heart? She came with an agenda. So it's kind of, it's dangerous, bro. Female game is contingent upon you as a man not knowing your own value. Like, like, what girls do is like, if you boil down, like, dating and relationships and

dealing with girls in general, like, women leverage sex for compliance. And what I mean by that is like, oh, you need to take me on more dates. you need to hang out with me more, you need to do this, that, whatever. They kind of like make you jump through hoops a lot of time to get the sex. Your job is the guys to do the least to get the sex. But a lot of guys sit there and fucking like do all this extra shit. Like, pussy's like the club. Some people get in, have to pay VIP to get in.

Some people wait in line. This is so fucking. And then some fucking people get it for free. You know what I'm saying? And then some idiots go in there and shoot up the club and fuck it up for everybody else. But the point I'm trying to make is, right? Is that the point I'm trying to make is that like girls have, act differently depending on who you are.

You want to be the guy that gets in there for free. Which is ironic because you're definitely not getting in there for free because you're getting in there because of what you have and how you... Exactly. Yeah. Because it's like the potential of you as a customer is high because you have all these things. So they let you in for free because it's like, bro, we might not see this type of guest to get in in our club.

We're going to let them in for free. So much is like the tricks got to go in and fucking pay VIP because their sexual market values too low. So they have to compensate monetarily to make up for that discrepancy. But female game? is heavily contingent upon you as a guy not knowing your worth, which is why I tell guys, you need to get in the gym, need to take care yourself, et cetera,

because that's going to allow you the confidence to tell bitches no. And the most attractive thing you could do is tell girls no because they're used to hearing, yes. Yeah, okay. Long story, short, if you do the work up front, let's go to do on the back end. Yeah.

So these are the things they can work on, right? What are the things that if we're going into, like, some guys going into dating? What are the, we're talking about, you kind of said a few times? What are the biggest red flags of girls that do you think to stay away from? Mm.

You want me to... Yeah, you want me to do this one first of you. Oh, we don't have the sound effect? No, I don't have the sound effect, of course, right now. Chris, she belongs to the street. Oh, there you go. So, I'll say my top three. One, she's always, for the most part, in the club environment.

Bro. That one's easy. Yeah, but, like, it's funny because the guys that are, oh, I'm networking. Can we say club? We say going out as well, just like to parties and stuff? Going out. Okay. Goes nice out.

And it's funny because they'll be like, oh, I'm just partying with the girls having fun. What can't you do it at home? What can you do it in like a chill lounge area? What's that to be like a big club? And what happens is we go all the time. Well, I go all the time to network and I'm sober. So I'm watching the whole landscape to see how people move, you know, how people operate. And it's funny, bro.

Girls would be in their little huddle, right? So you know what? Yeah, we're going out with the girls getting lit, whatever. We're all about the girls. And what happens is a guy or promoter or somebody would be like, yo, come to our table. That's where the magic starts because now they're getting lit. They're getting free drinks.

They're having fun. Everyone's not judging for the most part. And it's kind of like, where's the accountability? Because now in that environment, guys are like, yo, we've got an after party at this spot. Come pull up on us. It's going to be a good vibe. Or they may even be a celebrity in that table. And like, oh, wow, so-and-so is here.

Girl, he's fucking sexy, whatever. Lots of story short, in the environment, you can never know what can happen. So if you're a guy with a girlfriend or a girl, that's an option. for you. He's out partying like that, but you never know. So it's a dangerous spot to be in because you don't know what's going to happen. So it's kind of like you're risking it because at that moment,

she might find a better option. She might have a chance for a celebrity. Or she's just my guy to have some game and some money. And before you know it, damn, one drunk night turned into like a string of like sticky links. So you never really know. I wrote down a list real quick. Okay.

All right on the fly. Yeah. Number two is her phone is a gateway to unlimited options. So if you see random Snapchat notifications, Instagram, Tinder, Bumble, her phone's on D&D all the time. When you're around her, bro, red flag. Or let's say you're on a date, right?

Let's say this is my phone right here. Every time you're on a date with her, her phone's facing down. Why is that? What are you trying to hide? It should be up like this. Oh, but wait a minute. You want me to be your boyfriend.

So guess what? You gotta want to be as pure as possible. So I'll just say the phone, how she asks for her phone, will determine what she's about. And then lastly, I would say, the third one, and what's important is,

I like to prepare it for this one. See, I don't want to say it. I'm saying, what the fuck, dude? Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. The last one is, she legit, and this is legit, drives a Nissan,

ultima. Yo. Oh. So I know this is, this is me making just whatever. I have a direct correlation between a hole that there's a Nissan Ultima. Honestimic. He's a personal story, bro.

No, it's not a... I don't know what it is, bro. But the Nissan Ultima, bro. What about a maxima? That too. Oh, shit. Bro. Red flag, bro.

Yo, God forbid you judge the Jetta. You're screwed, bro. It's a four-door Jetta. Yeah, four-d-d-d-d-old. Okay. But, no, I'll just say this. I find that girls that drive shitty cars

have a lot of dirty like they don't take care of their cars but it's full of like clothes random shit bro I'm telling you right now it's the reason why it's like that because they don't care but they don't care about their lives bro

they literally party every night on yachts random dinner parties you know going around to those house nika their lifestyle dictates how they move and she's dirty in her room and her car bro I guarantee you bro she's a dirty hell

keeping 100 so I wrote a little list here I'm giving it 1,000 Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, it's true. And I'll add to that. So, um, so I'm going to count this down from eight to one for y'all. Uh, so she has a cracked iPhone and or a dirty vehicle or dirty house. Like, cracked on the phone.

Cracked, uh, cracked iPhone, like fucked up and she never gets it fixed. Miami 101. Yeah. Like, that tells you that she's irresponsible. Okay. All right. And girls that are irresponsible, typically are hos. Uh, next, she was, uh, she was in a sorority at a big university and or in a sorority at all at some point.

Okay, right? Red flag. Yeah. And, uh, and then she's travels. alone. Okay. Next travels alone and if you can add a little part to this, she's always at luxurious spots boats, five star

restaurants, cool places, etc. Swanky areas that you're like, what the how the fuck are you there? And she's a server. Next next she has she's had or has sugar daddies Sheesh. Three, she has a lot of guy friends. Two, she parties

a lot. And then number one if she does drugs or alcohol and or abuses them at all. Big one. Like, and here's the thing. Each of these things isn't necessarily like an immediate disqualifier that she's a hoe. But I always say it like circumstantial evidence when put together paints a picture, baby. And if she has like a lot of these traits, if not all, bro, the likelihood, the more traits of these she has, the likelihood of her belong to the streets increases. But these are all like red flags that you need to look out for.

And here's the thing. Like a lot of girls have something in this problem more than likely. You know, is one thing means that she's a hoe? No. But if she has a bunch of them or a couple of them, you might want to think twice. Look, we're not saying to just say, hey, oh, I don't talk to her at all. We're just saying, hey, know what she's about. I understand that.

And adapt to it. Hey, have fun with her. Enjoy your time with her. But the wife's her up, bro. I'm telling you, bro, it would be a definite issue. And let me say that real quick, too. Because, like, people think that, oh, you guys hate hose. You guys, you guys, shame, hose, whatever.

No, we love hose. But what we tell guys is you don't commit to hose. Yeah. Because if you commit to promiscuous women, they will fucking ruin your life. Yeah. One more time, guys. If you commit to hoes, I promise you, they will fucking ruin your life. Okay.

One last day. Go ahead. Girls are for the most part, are never really single. What happens is she was talking to you, you and you and me and say, you know what? Who's the better option? And whoever has the most effort, the most convincing, I want to say game or lifestyle, you know what? I'll put them at the top of my priority list. Oh, for sure.

If you fuck up, oh, you're all the way back down. I'll go to Bradnecks. that's just how it works bro so okay if those are the red flags what are the what are the good things that we can look for what do you think the good things are in your opinion when you're like okay i know this is one that i could fuck with that i could spend time with that i could take a little bit more serious so one one she's willing to go with you anywhere so for example let's say coffee date she doesn't say oh why we're going for coffee let's go over here walking dogs going to the park you know simple stuff like that where it's one-on-one you can just talk to her on a calm chill level which is to y'all

perfect because that means she wants to get to know you on a deeper level one and she's actually into you. Yeah, I agree. Number two is she shows effort and interest with genuine desire. So, so I got roller Tomasi, he talks about this all the time. Yep. If girls really into you,

she will show genuine burning desire, which means, for example, she'll go out of her way to make it known that she's into you. Which means, let's say, you're your spot, right? And so, for example, I had a new spot that I just move into. and the floors were kind of full of heroes here. So I had a girl buy me... Your dog's hair.

Yeah. Yeah, okay. Shout the hero. He's in the back. I had a girl buying me the eye robot cleaner or whatever thing. Like, they cleans the house. Yeah. Because you saw it was dirty.

What is that? Effort, interest. She didn't have to. She ordered it. I didn't even know she ordered it. Hey, I got your present. Boom. So it's like, that's true effort.

And then she cleaned the whole house, bro. Clean, clean my room, tidied up. Amazing. I didn't ask that, bro. Yeah. That's your effort. And I was it thirdly. she um what's the word

she gives you the sense of peace and she follows your lead so this means for example she's not a headache saying oh you know why don't you do it this way that way like do it this way it's like you know babe you know what I think if you did this way it might be better she's giving you suggestions not telling you what to do

and then for example let's say all right babe get dressed with going here okay babe I'll be ready there's no hesitation there's no like second thoughts It's like, you know what? You're the man. You're leading. I'll follow your lead.

Very important. So some of the same points. So I'll start with, she adds value immediately, preferably unprompted, you know, which I'll be honest. Most girls aren't going to do it unprompted because a lot of women nowadays, you got to train them to be better girlfriends. Oh, my God, so fucked up. But is the truth.

You got to build your girl up to be the best version of herself so that she could serve you the best. At least also in relationship to yourself, too, right? Because, I mean, sometimes, like, they might not know what's best for you until you let know. Yeah. kind of show on. It's like,

but here's the thing that I've come to realize. Like a lot of modern day women expect you to be a traditional man while they're not traditional themselves. So like they want you to be like, you know,

strong, masculine, whatever may be. But they want to absolve themselves of certain responsibilities. Like if you say some shit like, yo, make me some food or rub my back,

whatever, she might bulk at that. She might like, like a lot of girls be like, what the fuck? Like, what is this is 1951? But at the same time,

they expect you to be a fucking gentleman. I mean, I wouldn't even deal with that. Yeah. Like, That's what I'm saying, which is great. But a lot of guys, unfortunately, like, it's very difficult for them and gets submissive women that want to do that shit.

So they have to, like, that's why so many guys go foreign. You know, they go to Colombia. They go to, you know, Brazil because it goes just do that more naturally because they're more feminine in general. So number one, adds value immediately, preferably unprompted if possible. Because that means she has good morals. And she understands men and women are different. She understands that her job is a woman is to retain you through acts of service.

Second is she goes anywhere that you want to go. She doesn't really give you a headache about it. she follows your lead she doesn't make things difficult and then also a little thing if you're talking to a girl for a while if you notice that she like pulls back on her social media or she takes down her thoughty pictures or even deactivates her instagram that's a very high indicator of interest in today's day and age especially because we've interviewed well over a thousand women at this point on on on our podcast and one thing i've noticed that women really have a point of contention with is if you challenge their ability to have access to other men they're always

going to meet you with some kind of shaming language. So if I say, you know, yo, having Instagram, right? Sorry, I love this dog. I'm going crazy at the back. I've been playing with him. Sorry. No, that's all good. He's so dope.

Like, if you say some shit, like, I went viral on TikTok for saying like, yo, having sexy pictures of yourself while in a committed relationship is cheating, that went viral. Why? Because I'm challenging a woman's ability to maintain certain avenues so that she can get other suitors. Or if I say, well, I'm not going to commit to a girl that goes out on girls trips or girls nights out.

Well, why? Are you insecure? blah, blah, blah. No, bitch, I'm not insecure. I'm actually very secure in myself. That's why I'm able to put my foot down and say, I'm not going to tolerate this shit. The reality is, when you let your girl walk all over you and you allow her to do certain things because she's shaming

you and saying, you're insecure and the last thing you want to do is come off as insecure. You actually are insecure because you are letting her run all over you, even though deep down in your heart, you don't like that she's doing it, but you're allowing her to do this shit because you don't want to come off as insecure and you're too scared to lose her. But ultimately you're going to lose her

from doing so. Exactly. Yeah. So you're better off staying 10 toes down and holding your nuts and saying, I don't commit to girls that do this shit and have a respect to you or walk away, then you know where she stands. Then saying, no, girl, it's okay. I trust you, blah, blah, blah. Because this conversation came up also yesterday. Well, where's the trust?

The only thing I trust about a woman is to be a fucking woman, which is what? An emotional, erratic individual that is extremely influenced by their friends. If your girl goes on a gross trip and there's alcohol involved and her friends are thawdies or whatever, even if she likes you a lot, she might do some stupid shit. Then my compromised relationship. Girl code. So why are you going to, why are you even going to allow that to happen? My thing is, yo, if you want to be single, be single.

But you're not going to sit there, go on girl strips and do all this other fuck shit and make me look stupid because not enough guys carry a sense of respect for their last name. Because when a girl acts crazy, no one ever says, oh, bro, this girl was acting crazy. They'll say, yo, this dude's girl was acting crazy. Look at like, like, and if you guys don't believe me, look at Will Smith right now. Will Smith is the embodiment of what happens when. you let your girl go crazy for decades on end, they start to lose respect for you. They start to say stupid shit like, I got an entanglement, can't even take accountability for their fuck shit, embarrassing you on live air a bunch of times.

And this is what happens when you don't put your foot down with women and you let them go ahead and do whatever they want for the fear of being called insecure. No, you need to be very secure in who the fuck you are and what you're willing to tolerate and what you're not. You tell, listen, if you want to do that, that's fantastic. But I'm not committing to you. You're not going to get my last name in a relationship with me where you could put the relationship in a compromising position because if you cheat.

or anything like that, you embarrass me, you embarrass my legacy. Now Will Smith, his legacy is tarnished because of some fucking hoe that quite frankly doesn't deserve his fucking last name. Jada Pickett Smith is a fucking loser. Wack actress, never really accomplished anything in her career, but now she's tarnished a man

who's done great movies like Ali, Fresh Prince of Bel-A. I've done everything. Image tarnished over a dumb bitch. Will Smith is a perfect example of what happens when you don't have your woman in check. She will ruin your life. Just like I said before.

promiscuous women will fuck your life up and will smith is a perfect example of that it's just that it took so long for people to fucking finally realize this is what happens you know put your foot down with women but do you think there can be balance or do you think it has to be it's all or nothing like you have to be you got to be militant bro like like you because the thing is is that like the indoctrination for um for modern day women is so powerful that you have to basically the only way that you're going to negate that is by having like iron frame like this is These are my standards. These are my boundaries.

If you want to relate to me, this is what it takes. But think about it, the music, the culture, the friends, what they say on TV, college. It's all geared towards making them say, you know what? Oh, if you could do it, I can do it too. Equality. I'm independent. Bro, really?

All this, like all the conventions that we have, whether it's college indoctrination, social media, the music, et cetera, it all tells women to be promiscuous and do whatever the fuck you want to do, et cetera, and fuck men. And this is why so many women, there's like a lack of research. for male authority nowadays, you know? So the only way that you're going to counteract that is you have to be super fucking strong on your boundaries. And again, I'm not telling guys, be a fucking dictator, whatever.

But when it comes to a relationship, like, bro, she's going to have to give up certain things to get in a relationship with you. And I want guys to carry that same fucking level of respect for themselves. Because if you don't, then you end up like Will Smith. And my thing is like, don't accept girls, however they fucking come. Because girls are selective on who they pick. Why can't guys be selective? But when I say that, yo, you need to have standards on girls.

That's discrimination. Like men can't have standards Anything that a guy says I want to grow It's considered discrimination But girls are I want them this tall I want them this much money

Blah blah blah Like you have to be A high value guy to even get in the fucking door a lot of the times You're telling me that you can't have boundaries And I'm here to tell guys Yo you need to take your last name Seriously and make these girls

You need that commitment 100% I agree You know and it's like this bullshit with Oh well you're just insecure Because you don't want to let her go on girls nights Or whatever No fuck that shit I'm not going to put myself

In a compromising position If I got a Lamborghini With the best lock system I'm still not going to park it in the fucking hood That's stupid because I'm just setting myself for for failure. Why is your girl who's supposed to love and my respect you and potentially be the mother of your children?

Why the fuck is she had a club to work in her ass at two in the morning? No, I mean, there's no answer for that. We know what the answer is. Yeah. There's no good answer for them. It's crazy to me to how girls will fight tooth and nail to protect that privilege. And my thing is like, no, you can't double dip. You're either going to be a traditional woman and get my traditional, you know, companionship.

Right. I'll be a gentleman for you. Or I'm going to treat you recreational use. only and not take you serious. You can't have both. Do you know how many fiancés, married women, girlfriends are in the club every night and are reeled? I have no idea and I mean it sounds like a terrible thing, man. Bro and like people say oh it's only in Miami. No my friend. There's social media too as well. They can have flown out sometimes too. Yeah. Oh we're going to

a girl's trip. Who's paying for the trip? You know who knows paying for the trip? We live in a world now where if you put your foot down and say I don't accept this, you're called insecure, but if you're a fucking cuck, they're going to sit there and say, man, he's really securing himself. He's really strong. Like, no, like, guys got to get out of this fucking brainwashing where, like, the mainstream media, right? They're trying to emasculate men and tell them, like,

you know, I agree. You know, I'm here to tell the guys, do not accept. There's a reason why guys have like this innate, like, when a girl acts like a hoe, whatever, you're like, oh, God, what the fuck? I can't take her seriously. It's your fucking biological hardwiring saying, yo, alert, alert, alert, this girl,

don't commit to her, because if you get this bitch pregnant more than likely the kid is they going to be yours. Like men have this natural instinct to be repulsed by girls that are hosed from a relationship standpoint because you can't ensure paternity. Like these are God-given things in you as a man that's like just like with a woman like if a guy's short, she gets turned off or a guy can't make money she's turned off or he's not in shape she's turned off. Those are her biological hardwiring to be triggered like this is a lower value male. Don't align with him because you won't be able to provide you long-term security. Same thing with guys. Yo, this girl's out here smashing every dude. This is an alert, alert trigger system in your

body to let you know that this girl's probably not going to be a good long-term companion recreation news only and guys need to start listening to their intuition and accepting it because i'll tell you this women will sit there and disqualify you for anything you need to be able to disqualify chicks too yeah why do you think it why do you think it's like getting more towards that or society like this like almost emasculating men because women are the predominant consumers women women are 80% of the consumer base so i always say when you lie women buy because women are far more impressionable than men are. It's easier to sell it to women than it is for men.

So, like, if we go off of the female narrative and we empower women and we tell them that they're the best and they can do no wrong, they're going to spend more money than us. A perfect example of this is the Gillette commercial back from 2019. Gillette, a historically male company, right, that makes razors predominantly for men, went ahead and did this dumbass, like, fucking toxic masculinity ad campaign where they had a bunch of the guys looking like bumbling idiots in it and making championing women as like the superior gender and the fuck is this bro yeah it's it's uh yeah it's it's a commercial it went like it was very controversial because like it went to show like how we live in a gyno-sictional

society where we have a brand designed for men attacking their own target demographic for sales because it seems like the right thing to do that's how indoctrinated we are what was in this video so like long story short they were like saying like um they're they're depicting men as like of like bumbling idiots and toxic toxic masculine and you know got like oh like toxic masculinity is bad and it's just like one of the one of the scenes was like a guy sees a hot girl walk

by and he literally is like oh shit and he goes to try to like approach her to like you know spit some game and another guy comes up to shave her back or something not even it's like nothing to do a razor is there like some fucking dude comes in right he's like hey bro hey bro cool chill out cool like approaching girls now is like toxic and mask razors

though I'm so concerned that's what I'm trying to say that's how much of a woke world We live in, where the need to pander to women is so fucking strong that even traditionally masculine businesses are starting to try to adopt that motto. Now, thankfully, they lost a lot of money with that ad campaign. So guys started voting with their wallets. But that just goes to show the crazy woke world that we're in right now. And think about it.

If you go against the female agenda, you'd be canceled. Yeah, there's a, I mean, there's so much shit. It's crazy to me because it's like, like, I get like these fucking girls coming on my Instagram, DMing me, oh, you're a fucking asshole. blah, blah, blah, or, like, they'll leave comments in our video. And in my head, I'm like, bro, I would never go over to, like, some angry feminist channel, comment on their shit, report, message her on Instagram, whatever. It's like, it's insane to me how they go way out of their fucking way to try to, like,

get you canceled, but we don't give a fuck about what y'all are doing. They come over to our space. Like, men can't even have their own spaces anymore. Like, girls want to invade that. And so report these guys misogyny. No, bitch, we're not misogynistic. We're realistic. We understand the world for what it is and we understand men and women are different and need to

navigate it accordingly, you know, but we live in such a woke world now where the female way of thinking is considered the correct way of thinking. Yeah, so weird time, man. Crazy, bro. It's a fucking clown world, bro. It's literally a fucking clown world. But when you look at the money, right, you always follow the money. When I was an agent, right, we always used to have this saying, follow the money and it'll get you to the main crooks. Same shit here. Why does everyone pander women so much? Because women are the predominant spenders in the U.S. economy. Yeah, I mean, even through men, like they spent. Yeah. It's a wealth transfer. I was happening is I don't know if you believe in like, you know, the newer order, but it's kind of like we're turning

everything upside down. So women want to be in power. They want to be ones to run things. And we all know what happens, but women lead to the end of the relationship. So it's crazy out there, bro. Tough times. Women are not capable of leading like men are really, really tough times. And people are hoping to go back to like normal, bro, there's no going back now. Well, there's no such thing as going back. Yeah. That's not how many of stuff works. And I've said that before too. Like guys are like, yo, well, how do we get back to like, you know, men being men and women being women. And I tell guys it's never fucking happening, bro.

Because the thing is that what guys don't get is that women fought really hard to get to this point. So hard. Right. And women are not going to concede the decided advantage that they have now in the dating marketplace and then in society in general. Like right now, if you're a girl, like, life is awesome. And like they're not going to concede that. Even traditional women that like think like men should be men and women should be women, they're not going to concede on that either.

Because women always want to be able to like enjoy certain benefits even if they don't necessarily use them. And I'll give you an example of this. So like we brought girls on before that are like married or might be in a serious relationship or whatever. And most of them will say, well, you know, girls should be able to be empowered and do what they want and, you know, be hoes if they want to be or whatever. Even though she doesn't necessarily agree with or want that type of lifestyle for herself because it's the sisterhood. Like they're going to align with each other and take each other's side even if they know what the other chick is doing isn't necessarily. good for herself or for society because women always want to reserve the right to be

able to jump back on like the cock carousel and do whatever fuck they want to do. And if they go ahead and downplay and say, well, being a hoe isn't good, they know deep down they might be shooting themselves in a foot if they want to ever go through a whole phase and later on in their life. So they'll go ahead and protect certain rights and privileges, right?

Even if they don't necessarily agree with it. And I'm not saying like, oh, women shouldn't have rights or privileges, but it's very interesting to me how they don't necessarily want conflict with other like with other women in their in the in the circle i mean it's kind of the same thing is like almost i don't want to get too much into this but like even government it's like taking power and pushing power in a certain direction it's like you're never going to they're never going to undo it you know like the mass

all the stuff that they've done it's like it's just they kind of see how far they can go and if they can go further than they go further but they're never going to like all right we're going to forget about this stuff and go back it's always like a forward thing so i don't sound funny though go ahead you know who wins with all this with this with like with like you know us pushing like this you know, femme-centric propaganda and everything, you know, who really wins? Go ahead. The men in the top 10%.

Top to your men. Because what women don't realize is they've inadvertently given all the power and the leverage to the high-value men. Because when you leave women's own devices, like I discussed earlier, what do they do? They pick the best and the brightest, right? Now, if a guy has a bunch of options and all the girls are coming for them,

what are they going to do? They're not going to settle. So this is why so many women now are chronically single and can't find a guy. because this same access that they're benefiting from and getting these experiences from is also to their detriment because now they can't settle down

with a regular guy. And if they do, right? And they do find a guy and they settle down. They get a little older or whatever. This is why the divorce rates are so high because she's experienced guys that are better. So I was like, fuck, I'm with this fucking loser. You know, I'm just going to divorce him

and take half of his money and get back out of there in the marketplace. And that's why we have the most single women than ever before. Female happiness has been coming down since the 70s. As women have gained more rights and accesses, their overall happiness is actually. actually went down.

Yeah. And then some women say, oh, I don't need a man. So literally they become the men that they actually want. Basically, money is on point,

their lifestyle is on point. Why do we need a man? And they become cat women later on in life. And we sell women a lie. We tell them like, yo, get a career,

make money, become successful. That isn't like. I just thought of cat women when you said that. I just thought of the movie. Women derived the most, and this isn't all women,

but most women derive the most life satisfaction from having children and their family, not from having money and becoming successful. And unfortunately for women, they don't realize this until they're in their 30s. And by then it's too fucking late because they don't have the same ability to attract the high value men that they could

when they were in their 20s. So what do you have? You have a 32, 33 year old woman making 200K per year, super successful, A type personality, confident, ambitious, whatever it may be. She's essentially become the man that she wants. A guy that's on her level can date down, but she can't. So what she's basically

done is she's outpriced herself in a sexual marketplace. There was a bunch of articles that came out recently where women are complaining about there's not enough socioeconomically attractive men to go around. And the truth is that is what's going on. So I predict that we're going to see even more single women as they continue to make more money and become more successful. And what does that do? Gives the levers to guys like us that are higher earning that are successful because there's not, there's going to be less of us, more of them. And girls, we know, because their own hypergamy, are incapable of dating down long term most of the time. Yeah.

So get your fucking shit together. Yep. That's what it is. Bottom line. That's what it's all about. to improve and that's no one's talking about that it's actually like that's why like for me feminism is great for guys like us but it's terrible for women and regular guys yeah guys got to get your shit together it's a very serious thing i mean because it makes sense like like analytically

if you look at it it all makes sense yeah so it's just like we got the stats to show it like there's more single women than ever before like the divorces are the highest they've ever been 80% of divorce are initiated by women is because most guys can't measure up so that's what it is man and listen both gender's going to improve men and the women. Yeah. And the, you know,

it's the great part, women don't even know what the men that they want, want. So it's like, yeah, I want to hide by the guys. That's so true.

Well, it sounds like sometimes the men that they want are like, sometimes I don't know what I want. You know, I'd be honest. I know what I want,

like for myself personally in business. Yeah. But even relationship why sometimes I have a problem with that. Here's the problem, though. You may not know what you want,

but they want to get married. You control who gets married and who doesn't. For sure. So that's the problem. So they don't want to get marriage and kids, but they don't know how to keep a man long term. Like, like, girls make the fatal flaw of thinking like, oh, I can get a lot of guys. No stupid.

Your job is a woman is, can you retain the guy? Guy game is can you attain the girl? Girl game is can you retain the guy after you fuck him. And most girls can't. They can't retain. They might fuck the guy that they want, but they can't keep him. Yep. And this is what happens when you got higher status men that have options.

They're going to run around and fuck girls all the time because it's like, why settle down? I bust some, just like I said before, if you become a self-made millionaire, you're going to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Why the hell are you going to settle down? This is why I always laugh at like women that are growing and saying like, oh, well, don't you just want to settle down, blah, blah, blah, blah. No, that's what you fucking want to do. So you really don't think there's any women out there that want to, that want to like, sorry, not, no, excuse me, that can be the right ones like in our, are, I don't know, I'm not saying decent, that other ones aren't, but. Actually, good women out there. Yeah. Yeah, of course there are. There are, but let's be real here. Are they easy to find? Hell no. And if you do find them,

the fact that the laws are capable of giving them the option to actually mess you, mess you up, you got to be careful because you never know. For example, a take me love you right now. You piss her off in some direction. She could change instantly,

emotional. Yeah, but it's like what we were talking about earlier about like just going through it and knowing that like, hey, that's a reality in life. So as a man,

you have to know, here's the rules, here's reality. Yes, I may want to have, I put my trust in somebody all the way and give her the benefit of doubt. But if I do that,

I'm going up getting my ass kills because guess what in divorce court or even just regular court bro who has upper hand women do so it's you gotta be careful marriage is definitely not a man's best interest and marriage if you're a high net worth individuals pretty much out of the question if you live in the west like it's it's just not good it only benefits women so my my thing is are there good girls out there absolutely yeah like we're not here to say all women are bad don't don't fuck with them what I am saying is that most girls are not marriage material and most girls don't deserve your commitment long term. Most don't. Because what a lot of girls want is the ability to have you as their boyfriend while they simultaneously can act like a single girl. And your job is the man is to reel that bullshit in

and make sure that she becomes an asset to your life and not a liability. The problem is that a lot of guys let girls into their life that are liabilities and don't check that shit immediately. And the thing is that she's going to lose respect for you if you don't. So it's like, what are you going to do? Are you going to be ten toes down and say this is what I expect in my girl? and hold it to that standard, or are you going to sit there and be like, oh, I don't want to offend her or be called insecure or toxic, so I'm just going to let her do whatever the fuck she wants to do. No, that's bullshit female propaganda used to shame men for having standards.

And I'm here to tell you, man, there's nothing wrong with being unapologetically masculine and protecting your fucking girl from herself. Because the way the West is set up, it indoctrinates women to be hos. You have to protect it from herself a lot of time and the fuckery that's going on here. Yeah, I mean, and even creating your boundaries, and like, I would say in a sense called being alpha is like, women are attracted to that as well like the same thing we're talking about

yeah that is also what they want I think they don't want someone just like do whatever the fuck you want 100% they love a guy that can like that that house boundaries and is willing to walk away from her if she doesn't adhere to those boundaries because it makes her realize right then and there I got a fucking somebody

because he can replace me with someone else yeah all right so that's it I think we're gonna we gotta do another podcast legendary for sure so at the end of every podcast we do audience questions so I'm gonna go through three audience questions questions. If you guys want your questions answered, you can email Ask RawTalk at

Gmail.com. You can DM us on Instagram at Get Raw Talk. And I'll just go through some of these questions. I get these normally Natalie Reese's shit. So I'm going to raw talk, man. We're in the building, brother. I appreciate you guys for real. No, no, bro. And thanks for let me use the studio and coming on the show last week. Of course, man. You guys are awesome. Anytime, bro. Okay, so it says, hey, Brad and the guest, this question is for Brad since it's exercise related. Have you ever used I don't want to do this one. We're going to have to cut this out. Okay.

So we're going to cut that. Now that we cut that. Okay. Okay. So here's one of the questions. So hey, thanks for hearing this question out. How can one develop self-confidence ironic? I didn't know this. This was sent to me last minute to seriously not give a fuck. How do you

how do you be the type of guy who won't force anything but when put in natural situations of interest is a home run because he is himself through and through. The reason that this ideal is so complicated, is he answering this question?

What the fuck? I'm literally reading this where it's a fucking email, I swear. The reason that this ideal is so complicated is because natural occurrences that are also interesting aren't that common and because of that,

stimulating your social mind gets challenging. What the fuck? This is a crazy runner. You want to read this? I'm not making this up. I see it. Okay. Stimulating your social mind.

mind gets challenging, which in turn shatters your self-confidence because your charisma is poof, I guess, gone. It's complicated. It's a complicated paradox. I just can't wrap my head around. I'm not going to lie. I'm trying to wrap my head around this. I think I understand here. So it's a two-pronged approach here. So number one, like I said before, your competence leads to accomplishments, which then leads to confidence. That confidence is what you take out into the world. And when you have that confidence, you're going to have an abundance mindset. And when you have an abundance mindset, when you deal with the girls, you're not going to be as invested in each interaction, which actually makes you far more attractive. Yeah. Yeah.

So like what I said earlier, too, when I was telling you guys my story, my personal story, I think it's the thing that gave me so much of my self-confidence was that moment in my life. I'm not saying, say, fuck everyone, fuck girls, fuck this. But my, the key thing that I did during that moment in my life was only focus on myself. And then I started to after that, I was like, okay, well, I'm kind of getting further along this road where I wanted to be. Then I started looking around like, okay, I want to start to create more, you know, genuine relationships and friendships and situations with women, et cetera. But I focused on myself. self first, not trying to get the girls, not trying to necessarily even have confidence.

I was just like trying to do the things that were really important to me in my life. And then the confidence came from that because for me, it was like, okay, the gym I love, all these things that I love. And in doing those actions, it gave me confidence in who I was because it kind of created who I was. Yeah. So I mentioned two points earlier regarding small wins. So write your to do list down, have your goals in place, accomplish them, gives you

small wins, gives you better confidence. And secondly, having time for yourself to know who you are, what you want, and don't focus on girls. Don't focus on nothing else. Focus on your business yourself. And over time, you're going to have confidence in that way as well. So I'll say that. Okay. Let me go to the next one.

Hello, Brad and guests. My question is, what are your thoughts on fasting? Have you ever tried? Have you guys ever tried fasting? It's funny. I did it not on purpose, but what about you? Ramadan, but it sucks. I love it.

I feel like I've done it like almost just naturally, like, since I was a kid. Because I never was very hungry in the morning. I think I've answered this before. I know if on a podcast or just in a conversation or some sort of interview, but I've always naturally done what people call now intermittent fasting, which is like you eat in a certain time window and you don't eat in another. I don't follow it.

I don't hear to it as strictly as I did before. But for my whole, I would say like, man, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 until I was about 26. I just did it naturally because that's how my body functioned best,

which was like I didn't eat until I like eating in the morning either yeah I didn't like you in the morning I didn't eat and then I would I would I would break my quote unquote fast even though I didn't know it was at the time right after training and then I would eat my meals so I've just always been that way yeah for me it's it's a fantastic way to like control um calorie intake you know I mean like kind of on autopilot because if you just eat less hours of the days that propensity you overeat and I and I felt sharper yeah to be honest my mind feels sharper like during that full like beginning half of my day not that I don't feel sharp after I eat but sometimes you know you get you eat like if it's more carbohydrate dense meals you're like

I'm a little bit more tired or whatever yeah so I've always kind of done that fasting naturally and I think it's fucking amazing yeah I train fast a lot too I've only fascinated when like I want to hit a goal like for example let's say like I want to bite this or you know get this certain level I'll really work my ass off and not focus on eating food until that goals accomplished on some level yeah so and also too if I'm drinking I'm always I'm normally always fast I try not to mix drinking in food I think that's a key it also gets you get you get drunk or fast so you drink less, spend less money. And you're not just fucking up the whole calorie game because you don't want that.

You don't want those two things at the same time. Yeah, it's going to fuck you up. Okay, so this is, uh, we'll do this last question says, Hey, Brad and Guess, I recently lost my grandparent and was able to make it for the funeral because, sorry, this is a sad one,

because I'm currently active duty military. Appreciate you, by the way. I've found it tough to cope with her passing. Any advice would be amazing. Thank you. Um, yeah, it seems I get a lot of questions like this, because I talk about stuff like this on my podcast about my loss and my father.

Here's the deal. I think when it comes to loss in general and period is that this person, you're probably experiencing a loss. This might be the first loss in your life because it's a grandparent. I don't know your age, but I can assure you that you weren't going to get out of this without experiencing that ever. There's just no way around this kind of stuff. And I guess my best advice is take everything,

just like we're talking about earlier, is like take everything in your life as a learning moment and understand that like you being able to get through these moments and learning how to process it in a way that's beneficial for you is just a part of your journey it's just a part of your life and you have to accept it I know it's hard and you know it couldn't be a grandparent it could be a parent it could be a friend it could be a a loved one it doesn't matter like in any it could be anyone and you are still here so the only thing you could focus on now is moving forward what did you what can you learn from like that loss what can you learn from those feelings, trying to really, like I said earlier, we were talking about taking

inventory of yourself and almost reevaluate what's really, really important in your life, right? Because the hardest thing with loss that I can relate myself to is like the idea of loss is you go, oh man, this really, really sucks. This hurts. This hurts my heart. And you forget to go, okay, what is this highlighting in my life that maybe I can focus on or I can look at more to be a better person moving forward because if you just get stuck on the idea of loss because i did this for a very long time in relationship to my father my father took his life when i was six and i got stuck on like the idea of the relationship between my father and myself like i wasn't good enough this is like why me and i'm looking around seeing other people have their dads i'm like how come i don't have

that and i related like him leaving to me not being good enough so this may not have to do the same situation with like your grandparent but the point is it's allowing you it's an opening up an opportunity in your life for you to look at yourself what's in your heart who like what really makes you happy what do you want to do with your life what are you doing with your time here right because we're not guaranteed forever like we're talking about earlier this whole thing is about continuing to go to learn to move forward and then you die and it's being kind of like learning to be okay with that and learning to get as much as you can from all these experiences to just live better and be better and be happier today with what you do have you know that's a good point I think people need to understand like

Everyone you know is going to die. I know this sounds kind of dark and deep, but like your family, your friends, your girlfriend, your wife, your dog. Fuck, dude. That's going to be sad when that dog goes. Yeah, bro. He's over here.

Okay. And once you realize everyone's going to die, enjoy the moments because that's all you have, bro. Like, my grand I passed away recently as well. Rest in peace, he taught me how to become a better man, how to network. He told me everything.

He was my dad basically in a nutshell. And, man, it was easy, bro. But I had to realize, right, if you're still alive, he want me to do better and succeed. So at any day, guys, life is about experiences, enjoy people while they're here, showing me love and you care for them because they're not always going to be here. And once you know that, you're still here living, bro. So guess what?

Do the best for yourself and for them. What they want you to do? Cry and, you know, sit in a circle, you know, sorry, sit in a corner and do nothing. No, they want you to do better, improve, become a better person, enjoy your life because they probably raise you to have a great life as well. So just note that, for a matter of fact, Everyone's going to die. Enjoy the moments and understand that.

Look, listen, you have a period of time. Don't waste it. Yeah. Man, I couldn't have said a bit of myself. You guys killed it. Yeah. It was nothing else to say. Yeah.

I appreciate you guys so much. Thank you so much. You guys are fucking amazing. Of course, she'd be gone. Thank you so much. We got to run back another live podcast. Yeah, dude. That shit is fun, dude.

Yeah. Yeah. Let us know. We should do one in Mexico. He wants to go to Mexico so bad. We're going today. Shout out Steve. We're going, shout of steak, too, by the way.

We're going to Mexico, a little gambling. I'm out of here. Make sure you guys subscribe to the YouTube channel if you're there. If you're on iTunes, drop a nice review. If you're on Spotify, I don't know how you, I don't even use Spotify, but we are on there as well. Drop a comment, drop a like. I love you guys. I appreciate it.

And, you know, your audience is dope because I told you I was going through a security airport. And this guy was like, yeah, yeah, come here. Come here. And he was like one of the, not TSA, but customs guys. Oh, yeah. And he was like, yeah, come here. I want to show you to another buddy. We like, watch the podcast.

And he was like, oh, what the fuck the guy? Yeah, so he was real cool. So shout out your guys' audience is dope as fuck. Yeah, they're awesome, man. I hope you guys like the podcast. More coming soon, for sure. Absolutely. Wrong talk, man.

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