REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 101. Full Throttle Or No Champagne Bottle

Episode Date: March 10, 2021

If you don't go full throttle, don't expect to get the champagne bottles. On today's episode, Andy talks about why playing a victim online won't get you far in life, why nobody is going to give you handouts and why focusing on the small details will build crucial skills needed to be successful.

I told my teacher, dumb bitch, I'm going to get millions. Watch this. In a project living. Damn. Spoke it till existence. Voila. Mode changed to 50. What up?

Got more cars than did. I only weigh 180, but my watch cost 250. What up? What is up, guys? It's Andy Purcell, and this is the show for the realest sake about the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society. Welcome to motherfucking reality. Guys, today we have a real talk. It's going to be pretty

short because the topic is very simple. Before I get into that, I'd like to remind you that we do not run ads on this show. You will not have 20 minutes of your ear of me telling you where to buy your shit. We also don't run ads for the show. We rely 100% on value trading. I'm going to do a good job and you're going to share it. And that's how we work here. If I don't run ads for the show. We rely 100% on value trading. I'm going to do a good job and you're going to share it. And that's how we work here. If I don't do a good job, don't fucking share it. If I do, please do. So that's the little fee that we have and we always have for the show. Guys, look, this podcast is, I already recorded this once, okay? And we all decided that I went way too fucking hard and it would probably melt your fucking brains out. So I'm going to record it in a more civilized way.

So just remember, if I go too hard here, it's much less harder than I went there. Some of you people don't fucking get it, okay? And I'm talking specifically to you young people. And I want you to think about something. I want you to think about something. I want you to think about some of the greatest accomplishments that have ever happened in the world. Okay.

I'm talking about the Wright brothers inventing an airplane. Talking about, you know, Usain Bolt running a hundred meter dash setting a world record. Talking about four minute mile. Okay. Talking about some of the greatest achievements in human history. Do you think that any of these people, any single one of them got where they want to go or accomplish what it is they set out to accomplish by going half ass, by going half throttle? Okay. Lewis Hamilton isn't the Formula One champion because he goes around the motherfucking racetrack at half throttle.

Okay. The Buccaneers aren't the Super Bowl champions because they play the Super Bowl half throttle. All right. But everywhere I look around, I see young people. When I say young people, normally I mean young in entrepreneurship. But right now I mean fucking young. I mean 16 to 25. Okay. If you guys don't wake the fuck up and understand what the world's really about, you're going to lose. And not only are you going to lose, your kids are going to lose and their kids are going to lose and their kids' kids are going to lose because you guys have been indoctrinated

by the education system, by your parents, by your teachers, by social trends to believe that everything is just going to happen for you. Okay. And what I see now is a big group of our population who are young beating on this victim drum and trying to identify what victim group they belong to. And I'm going to tell you guys, you guys can beat on that drum as long and as loud as you want to. You can do it your whole life. And a lot of people do, and you will never win with that ever. So you have a question to ask yourself. Do you actually want a fulfilling good life? Or do you want to just beat this fucking drum your whole life? Because the people that you listen to in your school, your parents, your fucking, the people on TV and the

media, they're all telling you the same shit. Oh, take it easy on yourself. Oh, you know, it, it's okay to get 17th place. Oh, you know, everything matters. And, and, you know, you're special guys. You're not special. Fucking 17th place doesn't mean shit. It ain't ever going to mean shit. And if you think it means shit, that's what you're going to get Fucking 17th place doesn't mean shit. It ain't ever going to mean shit. And if you think it means shit, that's what you're going to get. You're going to get shit your whole fucking life. Okay. And I'm so tired of seeing people who can't recognize the obvious of that. You have a choice. You have a choice. Your choice is to either Join this group over here Of nobodies and nothings

And celebrate nothing with them Every fucking weekend And bitch and moan and cry About how everybody fucked you And society fucked you And your job fucked you And your upbringing fucked you And your race fucked you

And the government fucked you And you're going to fucking go over there And you're going to be fucking miserable Or You can come over here and you can understand that the only thing noble about victimhood is overcoming it. You can understand that the only thing noble about your life is going to be what you show people is actually possible. Okay. We're all put here for a fucking reason. And it's not to go over here and beat on this drum about what should be and what's not fair. The world will

never be fair. The world will never, ever be fucking fair. Someone will always have an easier path than you. Someone will always have a more difficult path than you, regardless of how difficult you think your path is. There's lots of people out there who have had that same path and actually won huge with that path. You're just choosing not to. And guys, if you can't understand that you have to make this decision, you are going to be in deep shit come your 30s and your 40s and your 50s. And if you don't believe me, go look at the people in the 30s, 40s, and 50s that you know, and listen to what they say. And I guarantee you, you're going to hear a whole bunch of shit about how the world's unfair,

how they got screwed, how their job screwed them, or their wife or husband screwed them, or they're going to have this long list of events that happened to them that have created the scenario that they live in now. And I don't buy that shit. I don't buy it. It's not true. Because what really happened was they gave the fuck up. They decided that instead of investing their time in skills like discipline and grit and fortitude and the ability to overcome and the ability to understand how to get shit done and the ability on how to understand how details actually create the skill set in your life. Okay. They don't, they don't do that. They just go over here and cry. So your choice is go over here and cry

or put the work in now to invest in these skills, okay? And what are these skills that you need? Well, I'm going to tell you the biggest one. The biggest one that you're going to need is learn to see the fucking details and to learn that they all matter. Because it doesn't matter if you're cooking fucking french fries or making decisions about billion dollar deals. Okay. How you do the job is what matters. And you might be sitting there at McDonald's right now thinking, well, fuck, nobody appreciates that I make these fries extra good every time. It doesn't matter if they appreciate it or not. What matters is if you do it or not, because the next opportunity you have, what you're doing is you're ingraining inside of yourself the ability to do a great fucking job.

And when you do a great fucking job and you take pride in your job and the outcome that it produces, guess what happens? You become more valuable. So now you're doing the fries. Next week, you're doing the fucking tacos and the burgers. Okay. And those are good too. Next thing after that, you're asked to manage a shift.

You do that. You take the same attention to detail. You put it in there all of a sudden you're you're on a track Okay, this is how it works But because you have surrounded yourself with a bunch of fucking losers who bitch and moan and cry about fucking everything You can't see that And so you don't do it And because you don't do it You don't develop the skills and because you don't develop the skills. And because you don't develop the skills, the opportunities never present themselves. And this, my friends, is the cycle

that most of you are in. So you have a decision to make. Your decision is go beat on the fucking victim drum or come over here and figure out what the fuck it takes to be successful. Because I'm going to tell you right now, there's not one motherfucker, not one on this motherfucking planet, not a single human who beats that fucking drum that has fucking won. Not a single one. Now you might say, oh, well, there's so-and-so, you know, so-and-so is a victim and he's a fucking, you know, a millionaire. Yeah. But I would say that getting donations to go speak about a cause and then siphoning those donations for your personal wealth isn't a very fucking great way to become successful. I think that's weak as fuck. Okay. What's strong as fuck is acknowledging your hardships,

acknowledging your setbacks, acknowledging your difficulties, acknowledging the things that you don't have in line and then fixing them and then teaching other people how to do the same. And you do that through your life. I'm not talking about getting on stage and going to a seminar, and you don't have to become a speaker or a fucking counselor or this or that or guru, like all these clowns on the internet. You don't have to do none of that shit. All you got to do is live your life that way, and the people around you will level up. The people around you will see what you're doing and they will begin to believe in themselves.

And when they believe in themselves, they fix themselves. And when they fix themselves, the other people around them begin to fix and the ripple effect is fucking endless. But it takes you making that decision. It takes you deciding that you're not going to go over here just because it's popular. You're not going to give an excuse

because it's an acceptable excuse. I don't give a fuck how acceptable your excuse is. It's still a fucking excuse. And that's how the world sees it too. The world does not care about your hardships. If it did, the people who have the most hardships would be the most successful. And that's just not the case. All right. Nobody's become great. Nobody's. And even if you don't become great, like, let's just say you're listening to this. You're like, yeah, Andy, I don't want to run a four minute mile. Well, you know what? I don't fucking want to run a four minute mile either. I have no desire to do so, but I want to be fucking good at what I do. And I want the people around me to be great at what they do. And I want the people around them to be great. And I know that starts with fucking me. And I know that starts with me honing in my personal skillset in every situation possible. I had a scenario in my own gym today where there

was some dirt on the mirrors and I got a little upset with the crew because that's their job. That's what they're paid to do. They're paid to keep the mirrors clean. Clearly, they weren't seeing the little spots on the mirrors. And I got upset about it. And they looked at me and I could tell they didn't really understand why I'm so upset. But why I'm so upset is very obvious if you think about it. Because if you could train yourself to see the details and take care of them, you're building a skill. Okay. And what I was upset about was not that the dirt was on the mirror, was that my staff was not taking the initiative to build the skill within themselves. And that tells me something about them. Now it could have been just a mistake or an oversight, but it's still, I still see it as that because that's how I see the world.

All right. So when you see, if you're absorbed, observe me and you see me pick up trash or pick up a penny or pick up fucking somebody else's mess, I'm not trying to show you a fucking thing. This ain't about me trying to show you shit. And this is where a lot of you guys get off. You get off track with it. It's not about what you think of me. I don't give a fuck what you think. I care about what I think and what skills I build. And the reason I'm picking up that trash or picking up that penny or cleaning up someone else's mess is because I'm building the skills within myself to win. And see, once you can flip that switch, once you can understand that it's not about what people see, it's not about what people think, it's not about somebody else know, somebody, it's not somebody else's responsibility. And you start

to understand all this and that it's really about you investing in yourself to build your skills so that long-term you could fucking win. It changes the fucking game, dude. And I'm telling you guys, you young people who are listening to all this victim shit, the popularity of victimhood has never been like this in my entire life. It's like people are in competition for who the fuck the biggest victim is, which is a competition for who the biggest fucking loser is going to be. And I've been a real victim. I got stabbed in the fucking face. Okay. My face is permanently disfigured. I got fucking, my face is paralyzed. Like, dude, I've been, I know what fucking a victim is. You motherfuckers don't know nothing about being a victim. You just haven't fucking tried.

And you don't understand what it's going to take. And guys, back to what I was saying, when I, when, you know, some of you guys saying, oh, I don't want to be, I don't want to run a four minute mile, blah, blah, blah. Well, let me tell you something for you to be functional, for you to have a decent career, for you to have a decent house with a decent bank account and a decent car and a decent fucking life where you could travel and have some sort of fucking freedom, you are going to have to learn what I'm talking about. This is not just about being great. This is about being effective and functional in today's society. The competition is high, bro. It's high. So if you want that half a million dollar house and that fucking Range Rover and the shit that you guys want, maybe that's what you want.

That's not what I want. I want to own Range Rover to fucking company. Okay. But we all got different fucking goals. You guys think because just that your goal is smaller, you can half throttle it and you can't. You can't. Okay. So get this idea out of your head and make the decision now when you're young. Don't go over here and beat this victim drum and be like every other fucking clown. Those people will be in the same fucking spot 10 years from now, 20 years from now,

30 years from now as they are now. And if you don't believe me, go fucking look at the people you know that are those ages and listen to them real carefully. Are they empowered? Are they confident? Are they proud? Are they fulfilled? Or are they bitter? Do they have regrets? Are they hiding those regrets with heavy alcohol use and fucking abusing their bodies and all this other shit and then pretending it's normal. The answer is fucking obvious, guys. And my whole point of this whole entire little rant is for you to understand it now before it's too late. Okay? I want you guys to win. This isn't about hating the narrative, which I fucking do with a passion because it's

lies, but it's not about that. It's not about me taking a position. This is about me making you, no matter who the fuck you are, whether you're white, black, gay, straight, fucking yellow, red, brown, I don't give a fuck. No matter who you are and where the fuck you're from, this is about me getting you to go over here and start investing in yourself as opposed to joining the rest of the fucking clown parade and being nothing forever. Okay. So you can get mad at me all you want. You can say I'm a jerk and you can say all this shit, but dude, I'm going to tell you right now, I've been down this fucking path. I've done this shit. My first 10 years in business, I made $58,000 total. I made $695 a month. The first three years I made $0, three years.

The next seven years I made $695 a month for a total of about $58,000 my first 10 years in business. All right. I've struggled. I know what the fucking struggle is. I've been stabbed in the fucking face. I've had a gazillion things that I can't even fucking talk about to you because I'm not going to tell you my family business. Okay. But trust me when I tell you, I know a thing or two about overcoming shit. And I promise no matter who you are, no matter where you come from, no matter what your race is, no matter who your fucking parents are, no matter what city you live in, no matter what. If you can understand to put the work in and develop the skills at the little things that you are doing now and understand that those skills are going to create skills within you that you will then carry on from here to there to there

to your ultimate path, you will win. You will fucking win as long as you don't quit. As long as you don't let all the fucking nobodies and the negative Nancy's and the fucking, you know, oh, they would have put me in the game in 1987. I would have won the state championships. You know, all those people we fucking know, you put those out of your brain, you'll fucking win. All right. I love you guys. I care about you guys. I don't do this shit for fucking any other reason than I prayed to God when I was broke. I told God every night, I said, hey, help me out, dude. You help me, I'll help other people. So I'm fulfilling an obligation that I made a promise to a long time ago. I don't fucking get

paid to do this show. I don't charge money to do this show. I do this show out of an obligation to you. So fucking listen to what I'm saying and go do it. Otherwise, don't listen to the show. This show is not for victims. It's not for weak people. It's not for people that are going to fucking settle. This is for people that are going to fucking win. And listen, remember you heard this shit first. It's full throttle or no champagne bottle, motherfuckers. All right. That's the show. Love you guys. Appreciate you guys. And I'll see you next time.