REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 123. Becoming Undeniable

Episode Date: July 27, 2021

Everybody wants the hack to guarantee their success, but they don't understand this basic concept behind real success. On today's episode, Andy talks about the number one skill you MUST develop to become an unstoppable freight train and achieve all your biggest goals in life. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Book Andy to Be on Your Podcast Follow Andy on Instagram Follow Andy on Facebook Take complete control of your life - 75 HARD Get my raw & uncensored advice about success & life delivered to you daily!

What's up guys, it's Andy Purcella and you're listening to the show for the realest, say goodbye to the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society. And welcome to motherfucking reality. Just one to add that. I'll take it. Guys, today we're going to have a Tuesday thunder. I guess that's what we're going to call it. And it's very basic. And I'm going to get to it in just a second.

But here's the thing, guys. Before I get into it, I'd like to, first off, thank you guys for sharing the show, putting your friends on the show, and spreading the good word. I know that nothing I say is going to please everybody, but I appreciate that you guys appreciate the authenticity and the realness of the show. All right. So thank you. Secondly, we do have a fee on this show. The fee is very simple. If you learn something, if you gain something, if this show or this content, this episode made you think, made you come to a realization, made you laugh, share it. Just tell somebody. I don't run ads on the show. I don't like that shit. Nobody likes

listening to 15 minutes ads. And all I ask for in return is that you do that for me. So that's that. Today, we have a very basic principle that will solve all of your problems. I had a meeting, which I have every Monday with the entire company and Sal and I run the meeting and it's mainly Sal and I come in and say a couple of things. And you know, today I was listening to some of the things that were being said and I started to reflect on some of the things that I get asked because we get asked a lot of things. And I started thinking, you know, why is it so hard for people to understand this really basic concept that I'm about to explain? If you want to win and you want to guarantee success and you want to guarantee that you are

going to get where you want to get. Because that's what everybody wants. Everybody wants the guarantee. That's why they ask so many questions. You know, they say, how long is it going to take? What's the best way to get here? What's this? What's that? And they analyze all these different things and they try to come up with this, you know, college auditorium size blackboard for whiteboard. It was blackboard when I was in school, man. Full of formulas and graphs and all these things that are going to make us more successful. They're going to make us more money. They're going to get us the respect that we're looking for, the recognition that we look for. They're going to help us build the lives that we want. We try to plan all of these things out. And the problem is for most people,

as they come to a point where they are overwhelmed by the information. And every once in a while, you've just got a bottom line shit. And you've got to say, what's the fucking bottom line here? The bottom line for you and the bottom line for me and the bottom line for every other motherfucker on this planet is really simple. If you want to be great, if you want to get the recognition, if you want to get fucking paid, if you want all of the things that you dream about, there is only one way to guarantee that you will have those things. Only one. And that is becoming so fucking good at what you do, no matter what it is you do, that it is undeniable that other people recognize how great you are.

And the great thing about this concept is not limited to having to do something that everybody thinks is worthy. Okay. If you're cooking motherfucking French fries right now, and you're like, well, you know, all I do is cook French fries, blah, blah, blah. You don't get it because becoming undeniable is not something that sticks with you in a certain role. It's a character trait that you fucking develop. That means any place that you are put, you will put in the work, you will learn the skills. You will improve your arsenal to become the undeniable best in that role. And if you have that attitude to where it doesn't matter if you're cooking French fries or you're making $10 billion business deals, you are going to be the absolute best that you can fucking be. And there's nothing that can stop you. Okay. It doesn't matter where

you come from. It doesn't matter what your background is. It doesn't matter what race you are, what gender you are. It doesn't matter who your fucking parents are. Okay. Dude, we can make every excuse in the book, but I promise you for every excuse you can make, there are literally thousands of people who had it harder than you that have done what the fuck you want to do. There is nothing that can fucking stop you when you become so skilled that every single person around you sees that and it recognizes that. And that is a habit. That is not a gift. That is something that you can

create. It's a skill you can learn. So develop the skill of becoming undeniable. If you really want to guarantee your success, stop thinking about this formula or that formula or this formula over here or what this guy says or what that guy says, because the truth is what they're really saying is some sort of complicated version of what the fuck I'm telling you here. Okay. Be fucking great. Put the time in to learn the skills, put the skills into practice and make a commitment to becoming so good that all your peers say, that's the motherfucker. that's the best. And if you can do that, no matter where you are, no matter if you're cooking French fries, no matter if you're managing the restaurant, no matter if you own a thousand restaurants,

no matter if you created the fucking brand, you cannot be stopped. Becoming undeniable is the only skill you need to remember. Fuck all this other shit. Okay. You're confusing your brain. You're creating something that's called paralysis by analysis. All right. You're consuming, consuming, consuming, consuming, consuming, consuming. All the shit is going to come back to this bottom line. You got to be great. You got to have skills and you got to put those skills into place. And if you do that and you commit to that, all the other motherfuckers that you compete with, they're all going to be still doing the big whiteboard. And they'll be trying to figure out the hack while you'll be doing the actual hack, which is becoming great because that is

the motherfucking hack. So if you never listened to another podcast, if you never listened to another guru person, if you never fucking read another book, if you remember this concept and put it in play, you cannot ever fucking lose. Box froze, fuck a bowl, fuck a stole Counted millions in a cold Bad bitch, booted swole Got her on bankroll, can't fold Just a note, headshot, case closed