REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 213. Q&AF: #75HARD While Traveling, Advice For Young Adults & Arete For Intrapreneurs

Episode Date: January 13, 2022

In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on how to handle the #75HARD tasks while traveling, the mindset young adults should have to excel in life during these uncertain times, and the advantages of joining the Arete Syndicate as an intrapreneur.

What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realest, say goodbye to the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys i apologize for the lack of shows um i actually work for a living there's things i have to do and when things get hot sometimes other things don't get done so uh we're back and we're gonna bring it today we got q and af with my man dj what's been going on what's going on man i thought you're gonna say it's dj's it's with my man dj what's been going on what's going on man i thought you're gonna say it's dj's it's black guy's fault no shows yeah you know me that white supremacy's gonna come out no man all is good man day one 75 hard yeah we both just started over we both had to restart because uh i was a little bitch this past weekend but you had

some real real shit going on but yeah i don't know what happened, dude. I got some 24-hour stomach bug or some shit. Dude, I actually think it was peanut butter. I had a little bit of peanut butter to add calories into my shit, and I'm kind of allergic to it, and I think it just fucked me up because I hadn't had it in a while. Yeah. That shit happens with me. It burned me up, though.

Dude, real acid-y, know bad things all day yeah that's how i am with fucking dairy products i'm officially fucking lactose intolerant well don't you read the data bro and my says not uncommon for for you know the african-american community but you know but my dumb ass will still eat fucking ice cream and then here i am shitting my guts out three days later fucking yeah you know what's going on but i blame white supremacy anyway so it's fine 100 bro what color was ice cream this fucking white oh man oh dude these people make it too easy anyhow we're gonna we're gonna do some q and a f you guys i hope you got some good shit man we got some good shit for you guys and as always you can email your questions into

ask andy at andy for seller.com email those questions and they can be about anything guys uh this is i mean whatever you got on your mind business politics fucking anything um so with that being said let's knock these out man yeah so the first question i got for you andy is uh andy i travel a lot for work okay and i know that you do you know speaking engagements you travel quite a bit as well how do you plan ahead and get the workouts in for 75 hard at the same time dude you know what that's just that as you do 75 hard as we've talked on pretty much every 75 hard versus episode and anybody who's done the program

the right way understands that one of the elements that you're going to experience on 75 hard is learning how to manage your time properly. And when you learn how to manage your time properly, you actually have a lot more time than what you think you do. And 75 hard really exposes that. Um, so you look at it and you say, Oh my God, I'm not gonna be able to do this because I'm so fucking busy. But in reality, once you start doing it, you're like, what do I have all this extra time? And it's, it's a really like, it's like an inverse effect of what you expect. But really all it is, is teaching you that you have to fucking get your shit together to execute on the day.

Right. So for me in the beginning, it was really hard to travel and go do those things and plan it. But what I started realizing is, you know, on the days I like the travel days are the hard days, right? Like the day you have to travel, um, like the actual day you're like, they get on a plane, go somewhere. Those are the hard days. Cause they're split up. Right. And so usually on those days, uh, I just, what I do is I do cardio twice on those days. I'll do one indoor 45 minute session on my treadmill, uh, up here at the gym or at home or wherever I got to do it.

Or maybe I'll do it outside in the morning. And then once I get there, I might do another outside one just around the hotel or in their gym or whatever. But I think when you have two cardio sessions on the same day when you travel, that's usually what I do. Now, if the hotel I'm going to or if i'm going to like somewhere where i'm visiting a friend who has like a gym or whatever i'll use their gym and i go lift right but at the bare minimum i want to get the movement in and get those workouts done so do one before you fly now if you're flying at 3 a.m or 4 a.m you know that's probably not possible maybe you can get your 45 minutes in

the airport when you're waiting for the two hours before the flight, right? There's all kinds of solutions here, guys. The point is, is it gets done no matter what, and that's it. And if you adopt that mentality that it gets done no matter what, it will get done. You will find a way. Will it always be easy? No. Will it always be comfortable? No, it never will be. But if you make it a non-negotiable, this is what the fuck I got to do, there won't be any problems will it always be comfortable no it never will be but um if you make it a non-negotiable this is what the fuck i gotta do there won't be any problems with it's a real easy solution yeah yeah man we've been and i've been traveling with you quite a bit so i mean we've always got it in one of the first things we usually do when we get to wherever we're going it's hitting outdoor workup because it's usually like you know uh it's usually time to do it and we just fucking get it done right

away before we settle into the room or whatever and then it's done for the day right you know yeah yeah i think that that's always a good plan you can knock it out before you got shit to do you're good yeah you want to be waiting till fucking 11 but the main thing is like that i want people to understand is that once you get control of your time management like in a real way um you have a lot more time than what you think you do and anybody who's done the 75 hard program uh the right way not the fucking bullshit they're made their own shit or whatever uh they all you it's an undeniable benefit yeah Yeah. That's fucking awesome. All right. Question number two, Andy, what would you say to a high school student that's planning the future? No planning their mindset,

their college, just life, right? What would you say to them? Like with the way that things are right now in the world, what, what are you telling a high school student? It's so funny.

You asked this question cause I was going to do a real talk similar to this anyway. Um, so I'm just going to speak to you guys who who who are at you know you're seven sixteen seventeen eighteen nineteen twenty twenty-five whatever and you're just getting started right you want to have a big life and you want to have um you know financial freedom stability you want to make a lot of fucking money. You want to build a company. Guys, listen, I know you guys hear me say like how bad what's going on in the country is, but we are still way better than every other place in the world. And there's still tons of opportunity to build something here if you're truly dedicated to building it the the problem with with young entrepreneurs um who are you know right they're just coming out of high school right and they want to start is you've got all these people telling you different shit and most of those

people haven't done any of the shit that you've done so they're not going to understand what it is you want to do nor are they going to understand why you want to do it um they've all accepted a different life and that different path um is their normal so anytime you do something outside of that normal deviate from that yeah you're going to have people who don't understand it um they're going to criticize it and you have to understand that most of those people are not haters they're trying to protect you they're trying to protect you because they know that if they went out and did those things they would would fall on their fucking face and, and they don't want you to fall on your face. Right.

But what I am telling you is you shouldn't listen to those people because they haven't done it. And if you're willing to put yourself through a 10 year journey or a 15 year journey for real. Okay. Now I'm not talking about these e-com dudes who just start a little website on Amazon and start making a couple hundred grand and you know, they think they're rich and they fucking get themselves a fucking car and not talking about that i'm talking about building a actual company with employees listen i don't talk about that shit that's not my specialty i am a fucking company builder right all right so i am talking to people specifically who want that life,

go fucking do it, pay the price. And if you are willing to go through that and do two things, just two. All right. One, never quit. And two, don't repeat the same mistakes over again. If you are able to do that, if you are intelligent enough to do that, you will fucking get where you want to go. You will get there. A hundred percent. No question. It's a guaranteed path to success. Now people will say, how can you guarantee success?

Because I've lived this shit, dude. Listen, I am not a smart human. Okay. I'm an experienced human. All right. And I have come across every single obstacle that you could pretty much come across in business and push through with nobody backing, no money, no, no fucking bank behind me. No fucking daddy.

No, none of that shit behind me. And we've been able to overcome those things. And if I can do that, so can you. All right. Now I did have a dad growing up who knew business. But guess what? I've given all those things away for free for eight years now. So you get access to the exact same information, which is actually more information, because not only am I teaching you what I was taught, I'm teaching you what I learned along the way.

So don't listen to those motherfuckers who haven't done it. Surround yourself and get in with people who have done it and learn from them. And if you don't quit and you don't repeat your mistakes over and over again, you will get where the fuck you want to go. The problem is most people get distracted along the way. They either get with a girl or a boy or they get into fucking drugs. Like, dude, everybody knows I smoke weed, but I didn't smoke weed regularly until fucking I was already rich as fuck. Okay. So let me make that clear. All right.

And to be honest, if I hadn't a drink that first fucking 15 years, I would have got there in fucking seven. That's the truth. All right. So don't fucking do drugs. I'm not going to fucking like when you're a young man or a young woman and you think that you see Rogan or you hear me talking about it, realize we're already there, motherfucker. You ain't. All right. So it's a little bit of that. Do as I say, not as I do. But guess what? I like smoking fucking weed. I'm a fucking do it. And I'm rich as fuck. I'm going to keep doing it. And that's it. And in fact, it's part of my my business now so that's fucking for all you people

who hit me up on that fuck off with that shit yeah all right you're you i'm me i'm where the fuck i am now and i've earned it and that's what i'm gonna fucking do so if you get to be 42 years old and you fucking have all your shit together and all this fuck do whatever the fuck you want but if you're fucking young and you think that's cool and you think you're still gonna make it i promise you you fucking won't and here's why because other motherfuckers that don't do that shit Are gonna fucking beat you And that was me. All right, so That's what i'm talking about when it comes to like those kind of things when you come to but when you come to

fucking Actually getting there It's it's it's a lot easier than what people think. People think it's this mystical thing. Like, I used to think like this. Like, I used to really think, like, there was an element of, like, dude, this is where the success fairy thing comes from

that I talk about. I used to think there was, like, a little fucking magic, and you guys are going to, like, roll your eyes at this shit. This is just how I used to think there was like a little fucking magic and you guys are gonna like roll your eyes at this shit this is how i used to think about it i used to think like certain people got to be successful and certain people didn't and i didn't think it was up to my fucking choice like i thought like we were predestined or selected by god or the universe or your dna or yeah or somebody comes along and says like, Hey man, I really see something in you. You know, let me take you under my wing. I always thought that's how it happened. And that's not how it happens at all. How it happens is you're going to spend a whole

lot of time, stress the fuck out. You're going to feel like you're losing. You're going to feel like you suck. You're going to, you're going to keep going at it and you're going to feel like you're wasting your life and people are going to tell you you're wasting your life. And then one day, you're going to figure something out because of all the shit that you learned from getting your ass beat for that long, right? And that first little thing is going to make you a little bit of money, and you're going to be like, fuck. And then you're going to take that money, and this is where the e-com guys that I was talking about a minute ago need to fucking listen to what I'm saying.

Then you take that money and invest it into more infrastructure and a real business. You know, if you want to start your seed money selling on Amazon, cool, take that money and build a real company. That's worth something. Cause like these e-com businesses that these people are fucking doing, that's like, you gotta, you, you have to, you have to hunt for your fucking dinner. Right. You know what I'm saying? When you build a real company, your dinner just shows the fuck up. All right. So that's what you want. And that's where you want to be. You want to be the person who takes the time to build something real. And here's the best part about it. You're going to learn so much along the way that you're going to eventually get to a point where, where any, when people can't fuck with you because you know what the fuck's up. Yeah. You know what I'm saying?

Like, you know, the way the world works, you know, the real laws of shit and dude what's going to happen when you get to that point and this is just reality is you're going to distance yourself from all these fucking people who are criticizing you anyway because you can't even tolerate listening to their dumb shit it's just the truth yeah this is why i don't fuck with that many people yeah because like i cannot fucking tolerate anymore listening to bullshit yeah you know i'm saying like i can't listen to bullshitters in business i can't listen i can't listen to it like it it makes you just smell it as soon as they were oh i hate it yeah and you know me like i fucking i fucking sneak away every time you know and um so don't be like that you know be someone who builds something real and

and if you don't quit and you learn from your mistakes i i i don't see how the fuck you can't get there i really don't yeah yeah so that's my advice man you know go out and build something real you know start fucking be prepared to start at the ground if you got to go door to door to fucking talk to people do it that's what i, you know, it's not for everybody. And that's why I say being an entrepreneur, a great entrepreneur is actually much quicker and more rewarding than being an entrepreneur. You know, a lot of people think being an entrepreneur is this fun, glamorous thing. Well, it is if you enjoy getting your nuts kicked in every fucking day, you know what I'm saying? And everybody sees like, like today i posted the car post and everybody sees all that shit but what they don't understand is like i don't do

nothing else and i haven't done nothing else no you know i'm saying and like that ain't for everybody yeah well they don't get the three phone conversations you had before you posted that because it's fucking fires you have to put yeah yeah before eight o'clock in the morning you know i'm saying like dude how many days do I come out of the house? I'm already fucking fired up. Yeah, or exhausted. Yeah. Yeah. So, like, you know, being a good entrepreneur is a great thing, man.

Build skills. Fucking get in with somebody who knows how to fucking win. It's committed to winning long term where you can build a real career, dude. That way you can make a lot of money and have a life. Yeah. You know? That's real. That's real.

Now, I'm not saying you can't have a life as an entrepreneur, but any entrepreneur that tells you that you get to have balance and all this shit is fucking lying. They're fucking lying. So just be prepared. That's the truth. That's real. All right, Andy, so our third and final question, okay?

I've heard, Andy, I've heard you speak of Arte Syndicate. I'm not an entrepreneur, okay? Do you think that there is massive benefits you speak of Arte Syndicate. I'm not an entrepreneur. Okay. Do you think that there is massive benefits for entrepreneurs joining Arte as well? Yeah, I do. Because the concepts of being an entrepreneur, being an entrepreneur are virtually the same, except for you're not going to actually own the company if you're an entrepreneur. So the concepts that you're going to learn about branding is still going to be able to allow you to add value Uh branding how to run how to manage how to lead how to do all these things. Um

But quite honestly like dude if you go back and listen to my mfceo project And go through 300 episodes, um, and you're willing to do that You're going to find a lot of the shit you need right there. So I love arte. It's a great group Um, it's an elite group. Uh, typically these are people who are trying to get better in all areas of life. Um, but by no means do you have to join? You know, I'm not going to be one of these guys who sit here and said, Oh, if you don't join, you're going to fucking get your ass kicked. That's not true. But here's the benefit of RTA that people don't really talk about is the connections and the people that you meet

inside of it. So you're going to meet all these people that are already doing all this shit. They're already, a lot of them are already doing exactly what you do. And guess what? They're going to be willing to help you. They're going to be willing to share information with you. They're going to be willing to help guide you along the way. And that's invaluable. Having a network of like-minded people that you can call upon,

that can not only give you advice, but also possibly do business together. I can't tell you how many companies have formed out of that group that have been successful and are becoming great greatly successful um so you know it's definitely not for everybody but if you're somebody that truly wants to win uh and can afford it because it's not cheap um you know it's a great thing to try to get into now if you can't afford it and you're in the beginning where you just have zero dollars bro there's tons of free content out there they're mine there's ed's there's fucking you know some other guys you know what i'm saying yeah yeah but uh yeah i mean the main thing is is that if you can't afford it it's an investment that will pay off so uh but man mainly it comes down to you know like we didn't have

these groups and shit when i was coming up yeah you know like there wasn't like like i had to read books and i had to like listen to fucking like tapes and shit and like we we didn't have like it almost makes me a little bit bitter because of how many excuses people still make when they have all these resources. Like sometimes I just get mad and I'm like, God, you guys are being fucking weak, dude.

Like we, we have Google, right? You know what I'm saying? Like I couldn't get on a fucking call with, I don't know, you know, Tony Robbins and listen to them and watch them and ask them questions.

I couldn't do that. Yeah. And now everywhere you look, they're successful people to learn from. And so the fact that there's so many people that have access to all this shit and still making excuses, it just irritates the fuck out of me. Yeah. Cause like I didn't have that and I still didn't make excuses. You see what I'm saying?

Yeah. I can see that. Yeah. It's fucking irritating. So like if you're going to be one of these people that jumps around i call them success zombies that jumps around from group to group to group to group to group thinking you're going to learn a fucking secret i'll tell you the secret right now the secret is dig in for next fucking 10 years don't fucking quit and learn everything you fucking can don't repeat the same mistakes and you'll get somewhere that's it but you think you're going to get some hack by joining some group i'm going to tell you right now i'm not giving you

any motherfucking hacks because there ain't any but i will tell you all the actual techniques and all the actual things and the perspectives and the lessons i've learned etc etc etc you see what i'm saying yeah so a lot of people pretend like they got they're gonna tell you the secret yeah i think i'm a fucking secrets there's no secrets. The secret is there ain't no secret. That is it. You know what the shortcut is, bro? The shortcut is doing the motherfucking work. That is the shortest way to get there.

The quickest way to get there is do the fucking work. And people do not want to hear that. You know what I'm saying? They want to hear some other shit. And they spend so much time looking for that thing that they think is the secret that they never get anywhere because they're not doing the work. And then you have other motherfuckers that are just head down doing the fucking work who don't belong to any of these motherfucking groups who get somewhere.

And you wonder why? Well, the answer is should be right there in your face. They're fucking executing. It's execution. What do you do? Not what do you fucking, not what do you learn? Not what do you listen to? Not what do you think you know? What did you do? What did you do? And that's what it comes down to. It's always going to come down to that.

No matter who the president is, no matter who's in office, no matter what fucking regime we got, it doesn't matter. It's fucking nature. If you fucking do the work, the result will come. It's just that it is that simple. It is that simple. And until you get to a point, and I know people are like listening to me and they're thinking like, yeah, it's fucking easy for you to say, motherfucker, it's my 23rd year doing what I'm doing. 23rd year. Okay. What have you done for 23 years besides fucking eat shit

and breathe? Most of you can't even come up with something you've done for 23 years consistently. You haven't been with a significant other for 23 years. You haven't done shit for 23 years. So until you can come to me and look me in the eye and say, hey, I put in fucking 15 years and nothing happened, you're full of shit. Fuck, that's fire. Yeah.

That's fire. Well, Andy, that's three, man. So guys, go pay the fee. Yeah, the fee. I didn't guys go pay the fee yeah the fee i didn't cover that in the beginning of the show if this is your first time listening it's real simple if you notice we didn't run ads on the show we don't run ads on the show and i don't run ads for the show we operate entirely on word of mouth so when you see that number one motherfucking ranking that's because you guys share the show and you value the content if we go to number

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