REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 343. Q&AF: Family Asking For Money, Making An Employee Partner & Fighting Wokeness In School

Episode Date: July 25, 2022

In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on how to deal with certain family members who ask you for money once you achieve some financial success, if you should ever consider making one of your top employees a partner, and the best way to revolt against the woke school system.

What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realest, saying goodbye to the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society, and welcome to motherfucking reality. Guys, today, we have Q and AF. Q means questions, and AF means answers as fuck, all right, or Andy Fursella, or whatever. I don't know. You figure it the fuck out and let me know, okay? It's Q and AF. That's the name of the show, okay?

You submit your questions, and I answer them. You can submit your questions at askandy at and andy forsella.com please make them not stupid uh sometimes when you tune in we have a different format okay sometimes it's uh it's q and af uh sometimes it's cti which is cruise the internet and that's where dj and i throw up uh all about all over the headlines wait i meant we throw up headlines and then we make fun of them and uh we talk about the lessons that to be learned for society and then the q and a f kind of fits together like a puzzle with that right we identify the problems in the world and then we teach you how to be better individually and then you go out and fix the world it's genius okay and

then we have real talk uh which i do have one off simmering in my mind and heart that i'm going to get into um we could maybe record that after this show because uh it's bothering me bro it's about it's about entitlement and it's not about entitlement of material goods or help it's about entitlement of people's attention so it's interesting and i've never talked about it you know big i'll talk about on the next one anyhow then sometimes we have full length and full length is uh where i bring on my interesting guests uh friends uh they're successful interesting done hard shit have opinions that i agree with and sometimes don't agree with and we have conversations uh to find that common ground and the solutions of what we need to help to make the world a better place, because that is really

the underlying theme of what I'm about. Okay. And what the show's about. All right. Everything I do for the most part makes people better. All right. My companies, my show, my overall attitude, 75 hard, live hard, all these things. I want you to be strong. I want you to be better. I want you to be someone who is ungovernable. Okay. And you can only do that by becoming super, super, super self-reliant and independent. And that's what we're going to do here. And the more important thing is, is that if you live an excellent life, your children are more likely to live an excellent life. If you live an excellent life, your neighbors are more likely. If you live an excellent life, your children are more likely to live an excellent life. If you live an excellent life, your neighbors are more likely. If you live an excellent life, your friends are more likely. It's on us. And we have lost that here in America.

We have started to look around and think that it's someone else is coming in to do the part. And guys, the reason nothing's happening is because none of us are really doing the shit. Okay. And I say us because I'm doing my shit. Uh, but you know, I can only do so much and I can't do that much without you guys doing yours as well. And so that's what we're trying to do. That's what I'm about. Uh, if you heard anything else, I'm sure it's all lies. Let's be real. Uh, I curse a lot. Some people think I'm angry, but I'm just very passionate. Sometimes angry. I fucking love you. Yeah, that's right. That's right.

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with with people that need it okay whether they're like-minded or not. Right. So what do we got? Q and A, Q and A F, right? Q and A F, man. Bro, I'm still trying to figure out what the fuck is going on. We've been in it. We've been traveling.

I'm fucking trying to do all this shit. Like, fuck. I don't even know where the fuck I am. We're getting there, though. Yeah. We're moving. Yeah. So, dude, I just saw this video.

And I was going to ask you. I started to ask you this before we started the show, but there was a cool video online about interviewing Jay-Z and Jay-Z was talking about how intelligence is not connected. Intelligence and character are not a representative of someone's race. And the, the, the point he was trying to make was, is that all of us have the potential to learn and be great, and there's no shame in that. And the example that he used was that people used to tell him that he talked white. You ever heard that?

Okay, let me ask you an honest question. Who'd you hear that from black people you didn't hear that from like trump republicans no you didn't hear that from white supremacy no man no no it was mainly a school grew up in the hood yeah it was all black kids man yeah interesting yeah you know because like the only people that i see contributing that mentality these days anymore are the far left white liberals in these schools yeah teaching kids that you're naturally oppressed because you're black or you're naturally a racist because you're white yeah you see what i'm saying no that's real man i mean there's there's definitely like there's definitely a dichotomy

there right because like i've always had that growing up that I've always felt, at least, that I was always too white for the black kids, too black for the white kids, right? And it was weird, though, because I guess now, especially now, looking back, yeah, the black people, that's one side. But then all the white people that I've been surrounded by my entire life leading up to this they've all none of them not one is republican or conservative you know what i'm saying so it's like you know you really looking back i mean there's definitely some stuff there man but um i think it's point two on like you know the intelligence and uh intelligence and character are not like attached to one certain color that should be

obvious bro that's very apparent right of course we get that right like it's it's bizarre to this is what i'm trying to say like we've yeah i'm gonna let you go but it's bizarre to me that a man like jay-z who has built himself into a literal cultural icon a billionaire you don't have to watch him for but fucking two minutes to realize the guy's a fucking genius right okay for him to have to say that in our world doesn't make any fucking sense to me no you know what i mean no like shouldn't that be obvious like isn't it obvious that we're all the same on the fucking inside like isn't it obvious like when we all fall off a bike or fucking scrape our knee that the shit comes out it's the same right like what the fuck are we doing like how how have we regressed this far

because like we it is regression oh 100 because when i was growing up bro it was always we could be anything we want it didn't matter what the color you were it didn't matter where you came from everybody's supposed to get along and we had it there for a minute where it was where it was getting on the right track no no how the fuck do we get here well i mean that's all clearly defined in the agenda documentary 100 i think the agenda documentary the agenda one and agenda two the ones i've been blasting out of my social uh have been this isn't anything in there that that i don't know or didn't know before but i think the way they put it and the fact that they won agenda one was made 10 years ago and agenda two was made six years ago when people watch it it opens their eyes more than like them

thinking like i'm just like hyper emotionally crazy about yeah for sure you know what i'm saying for sure but like bro that's what happened yeah For sure. But like, bro, that's what happened. Yeah. You know what I mean? They took something that was on the right track, and they started dismantling it piece by piece by piece by piece. If you watch those two documentaries, it makes sense. Anytime that the people come to a point where there is this overwhelming sense of unity, they have to stop that. Like, you guys need to understand, like, the lengths that they will go to to prevent us from just being fucking unified.

Why do you think they assassinated JFK? Exactly. Why do you think they assassinated MLK? MLK, I mean, it's history, bro. That's right. Any great unifier is killed by our own fucking people. You know? To put us back in a state of misery,

back in a state of fucking fear, or back in a state of fucking anger. You know, to put it back in a state of misery, back in a state of fucking fear or back in the state of fucking anger. People say, Oh, JFK. Well, JFK got assassinated for a few things. He was telling the truth about the CIA. He wanted to dismantle it.

He wanted to put a new currency back into play with gold. People don't know this shit. But you know, the main thing was everybody loved him. Yeah. Everybody loved him. Yeah. Everybody loved him. Yeah. And I mean, I'll say this until the day I die, man.

It's like, you know, I will. The only people that care about race. Are racist. Are racist. You know what I'm saying? I think the moment we stop giving that stuff light and stop giving it attention, we'll be back quicker on the path of where we need to be going dude there's no question you know there's no i think everybody's realizing this now they are there you are because i mean

that's the thing i mean when it's been forced in your fucking face for the last you know however many years that you've been up from your nap you know i'm saying it's like when it's forced down your throat every single day in every fucking headline and fucking everything you get tired of it eventually. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. And you realize you look around in the real world and it's like, it's not really happening anywhere in front of me.

No. Except for on these fucking phones and TVs. And once you get someone, it's not like you got to get someone to go full like, oh, I see what's happening. Right. All you got to do is get them to look a little bit. And once they're aware of how hard it's pushed, they start to notice it, right? Like when you start to point out

some of the ways this shit is pushed and you point it out to someone, whether it doesn't matter if they're white or black, once they just take a look, you can't help but notice how hard they're trying to feed this shit to us. Yeah, yeah. It's like...

Bro, it's more than that too. It's not just the race shit. It's total... It's everything. It's degeneracy. Yeah, it's bro. It's more than that too. It's not just the race shit. It's total everything. It's degeneracy. Like, dude, look, I showed this to Emily the other day on my,

on my, on my Instagram. So on my Instagram, bro, I do not like pictures that are like, I don't know what you would call them. I guess like more scandalous type pictures of women. Provocative. Yeah. Whatever. I don't fucking, I don't like, like I don't hit what you would call them. I guess like more scandalous type pictures of women. Provocative.

Yeah. Whatever. I don't fucking, I don't like, like I don't hit like, you know what I'm saying? Um, you know,

the, the funny thing is, is they force like in my reels, like no matter what I like, like I only like cars and dogs. Right. But what they show in my reels is always like these women doing like this incredibly like uh lewd shit it's like like what they want you to yes like and bro and try it

yourself for those of you out there go like the shit you actually like and then pay attention to what they show you it is not based off what you like it's based off what they want you to fucking do you might see a couple of cars. Yes. Maybe a couple of dark. I never liked a picture of some girl with her fucking ass cheeks pulled apart. Right. You know, or like shaking her tits in a boomerang or some shit.

Like I never, not ever in the history of fucking time. Have I fucking liked one of those things? No. You know what I'm saying? No. By the way, some of y'all should stop liking that shit too you look fucking weirdo okay super creepy yeah but like the point is and the point i'm trying to make here is that uh you know they force feed these things to people these things that are bad for them you know what i mean the racial division uh the the the the over sexualization of literally fucking everything that they hide

in a in in like women empowerment's movement right and like i saw this video i i don't know if you sent it to me i think you sent it to me from td jakes where he was talking about how women yeah i posted on my story yeah bro how women are not appreciated for their femininity and their grace and their beauty and like their love and all these things anymore they're they're they're only judged on their sexuality or their savageness in terms of like i'm a strong independent woman i'll take no shit i'm a bad bitch and they turn into these fucking mean people right not attractive to me no dude and dude and then they sit there no it's not only not attractive to men men are like then women are like oh there's no good men no it's not that

there's no good men it's that you're not creating yourself into something that the good men are going to want exactly that's the truth that's the truth bro highly successful men that have their shit like the biggest lie that has been perpetrated on our culture in the last fucking 30 years is like this idea that women are supposed to find a rich man instead of finding a man and building a life with them right it's a totally different thing create the wealth that's right create the life yeah don't go find yourself a rich man like that shit dude there's a lot of women out there that have ruined their whole fucking lives because of that.

Yeah. Because of that misunderstanding, you know, and that's what's perpetrated and pushed and and and indoctrinated into our system. And bro, it's just not good for culture. I mean, it goes with every point on everything. It's not just race. It's not just this men-women dynamic. It's the delusion of culture in general.

It's division along every potential contentious line. If there's a possibility for us to fucking have difference, they want to amplify that point so that we have a thing to argue about and see differences in each other, when in reality, most of us are the fucking same. You know what I'm saying? That's real. I used to say all the time, like, oh, man, all these, you know, all the narratives on the left, man, it's all hypocrisy.

But then you look at what these fucking conservative influencers are doing. Like, bro, we're just as divided, too, and fucking confused. And these people are saying this over here. And they're advocating. Conservative influencers are no different than the far left influencers they've told now they just look better i know bro but like now in the last two years that's the truth but now in the last two years um the momentum has completely flipped because of the amount of shit that they've created in society that even the traditional Democrats

are now like, man, you know what? I feel politically homeless. And they're realizing that the choices they made for social, for social beliefs have created this scenario where it's literally costing them money and costing them quality of life. And they are no longer willing. They are understanding the below the line issue and above the line issue. And for that reason, they're starting to migrate over, right?

Which is great because what's happening is we're having a unification. But now you have all the conservative side influencers making fun of all these fucks. Like, bro, if these people want to join up with your cause, why are you attacking them why are you making them feel less than why are you still holding against them decisions they might have made a year ago or two years ago or things they might have thought five years ago

that's not right either especially when a lot of the conservative influences like that's the reason they even became fucking conservatives because of the welcoming that they got. That's it. It wasn't what they got. I know. And then some of these dudes and some of the women into the same shit, dude, they're using the same tactics and it grosses me the fuck out. You know, two years ago when cancel culture was against conservatives, uh, you know, it was, it was a different thing. Now, now those same, those sick, that same attitude of like just annihilating people on the other side has come full circle.

And like I've said on the show before, it needs to come full circle to reset the path for a temporary point. But I think that's already happened. I mean, bro. I don't know, man. Maybe my heart's too big or something. I don't know. But we don't, I maybe, maybe, I don't know. Maybe my heart's too big or something. I don't know. But like, we don't have a place in America for communist ideology. And I do agree with not supporting companies that support that. Um, because that's a, I think we're free to be anything we want in America except communist. No, that's the truth. And, um, so I don't know,

I'm torn on it though. You know i feel i feel sort of politically homeless because like i i don't feel that either side is truly representing what real america freedom and what the the founding fathers uh really intended for this to become yeah well i think i mean and i mean we both know that's intentional, right? That's on purpose. You know what I'm saying? Because that's one of the tenets of communism. If you can alienate literally everybody, because they did that through the all or nothing mentality, right?

Like, if you call yourself a conservative, it's all or nothing. You have to believe in all of this shit over here. That's a problem with the conservatives. Yeah, it's the same thing on the left. I it's a problem with all the with both these core groups you know like bro it's also what would make both fail yeah i know like that like that's i know but i also think we're at an opportunity where you know you guys think this is about we're gonna go back to 19 or i'm sorry 20 fucking 19, we're not going back, bro. It's not going to happen.

So the only options we have at this point is to give in and allow them to create this communist shit that they've been trying to create or to reject that 100% at every contact point. Like I told you guys, you have to do, okay, to stop and smash that and get it out of our system and then create something new, something, something that is real, real freedom. Like, you know, I keep saying real American freedom, but like, bro,

it's a different concept than what we had. You know, what we had in 2019 was still the same shit. It was still a bunch of elite people on both sides of the party getting paid to make decisions that were not in our interest okay it wasn't better just because trump was there i agree it was better when trump was there but that's because he reeled in all the fucking corruption as much as possible because he's an outsider all right um you say whatever you want about fucking trump but that's a fact and all of you guys understand it because you're paying you're paying for it now. Those mean tweets don't sound too bad now.

You're starting to see that he was actually right and that these people are corrupt as fuck. But when we come back to getting America going on the right path, shouldn't we kind of redesign it to be a little bit fucking better for for a free society you know a less oppressive society like i'm not a libertarian that says oh no no taxes fucking chaos like that's not what i'm saying yeah i'm saying small government i'm saying we pay reasonable taxes you know 15 percent yeah uh you know i'm saying

that you know uh trading when you're in congress shouldn't you shouldn't be able to profit like that like that's not or your husband or your friend the reason these motherfuckers all collude together is because they all trade together and that's what's the common bond is between all these motherfuckers right right they all trade together they make a fuck ton of money so they fucking don't they don't tell on each other yeah you can make money being vocal and silent that's how they do it yeah that is how they do it and then manipulate there's a lot of problems to correct man they're manipulating a lot of shit and uh we have to be smarter you know we have to take action you know i i outlined the three steps that we need to take

action both on my social media and in uh podcast a couple days ago but like dude it's real simple resist right to get active on the ground be proud american raise your fucking flag understand that flag doesn't represent our fucking government it represents us that is our motherfucking flag that is not the flag of tyrants that is not the flag of oppressors that is not the flag of eliterants that is not the flag of oppressors that is not the flag of elite people who profit off of the suffering of the citizens that they are supposed to protect that is our motherfucking flag it is nobody else's flag and it stands for motherfucking freedom and equal opportunity okay and that's what we have to get back to in a real way we can't as

americans just go back and say hey let's just go back to the way it was no dude the way it was was fucking wrong too right right you know so while everybody's riled up right now and they're ready to get rid of biden let's let's take a second and step back and say hey man maybe we can set this up to our benefit a little bit more than what we have in the past that's what i'm about and not just settling yeah when you guys hear me talk and you guys hear what i'm about you have to understand that i am i am here for a re a wreck and redo of the of the system right that that is not uh communism but is more free than what we even had before so anyway uh got a lot on my mind no No, I did it, man. Yeah, I just been thinking about it, dude. Yeah.

Yeah. I mean, it's still along the lines of personal excellence, bro. Well, I mean, dude, that's that's part of that is you have to be aware of where you are. You know what I'm saying? Like, that's what people got to be be understanding. Well, this is. But yeah, dude, but you got to understand. Right.

Like when I was growing up, when it came to success, okay, it was cool to be successful. Like you had, if you, if you had a company and a big house and fucking were successful and did all these things that was like celebrated. Okay. And it was celebrated because American excellence was a priority in our culture because, and people are like, well, that's oppressive to your workers. No, it's not. Do you want anybody working for you that fucking isn't inspired to be successful? I don't want losers working for me. I want people that

want to fucking win and want to do great shit. And the reality is a business, especially in today's environment is the more people you help, the more problems you solve and more money you make. So when you think of a status symbol like success, it's actually representative of the amount of problems that you solve and the amount of good that you create for other people. And people have lost that understanding. And the reason they've lost that understanding is because the media and culture have now villainized success for anyone that isn't fucking lebron james or isn't a pro athlete or isn't a fucking superstar it's okay for lebron james to be worth a billion dollars shooting a motherfucking basketball into a fucking ring right okay but it's not okay for me to be worth a billion

dollars or more and to provide thousands of fucking jobs nobody's selling lebron that's what i'm saying and so, this is all bullshit. And it's all manipulation of your understanding of how they want you to be. And when you truly come to understand how vile and evil and destructive the manipulation is and why it is, you're going to see things really different. Yeah. And, dude, it's evident, bro. Like, you even look back 60 years ago. Well,

dude, you, do you know why they shame it? Well, yeah, cause they don't want people to fucking do it. That's right. They shame it because they understand that if people see it,

they will aspire to it. And, and people that have aspirations of success are harder to keep down. That's the thing. And it's evident to bro. like you look back 60 70 years ago 70 of americans were entrepreneurs 70 had had some type of business where there was i mean i'm not talking mega fucking yeah a shot but just no it might have been a store might have been a fucking whatever 70 of americans bro and now today it's it's less than 20%. No, no, no.

It's 8%. Yeah, it's insane. Yeah, but my point, like, I agree with you, dude. But my point here on all of this is that you have to be aware of why they want you to think certain ways about certain things. Like if you, like when I sit here and I tell you, yes, they shame you for being, why do they shame you for, why do they shame business people, but not fucking athletes? Right. Why do they shame business people, but not fucking performers? Right. Why do they shame me, but they don't shame the fucking rock? Let me tell you why, because i am something that you can aspire to be in reality being a superstar nba player is so far out of the realm of most people's even capabilities that it does not

inspire them the same way so when lebron james shows his 70 million dollar house it's okay right but if i show a fucking thing the do-gooders fucking hate it but let me tell you something the american spirit is alive and well because when i post my success that is the most engaged shit that i post it is the by a lot probably by 10 times like when i fucking post a picture of a car success or tell a story about how i got wherever bro versus let's say like a little speech of mine or a slide or something i'm saying about what's going on in the world okay because that's really what i do i get probably a hundred times the engagement on just the fucking car or just the fucking win yeah so dude don't believe the bullshit right winning is cool and humans know

it's cool, especially Americans. All right. So you guys out there who listen to this show, because we have a deep base in the successful vein of America, do not be afraid to show and tell. Show your wins. Tell how you got there. Show your wins. Tell how you got there.

Show your wins. Tell how you got there show your wins tell how you got there because it's an obligation for you to show people who are coming behind you what it looks like to fucking win and the reason they shame you the reason they make fun of you the reason they say you're materialistic or you're selfish or you're this or you're that or you're this is because that all comes from that far left politically correct fucking bullshit communist fucking tactic of shaming the things that they know will empower americans that's the truth anyway bro i think we released that right there just fucking dj and andy and dj just talk bro let's keep going let's do the show like we said that's

fucking real man don't even edit that leave that part in there let's get into it bro let's keep going let's do the show like we said that's fucking real man don't even edit that leave that part in there let's get into it bro let's get into it look man that's real shit bro well that's real shit let's let's we got questions yeah we got some questions uh andy question number one um speaking of wins i recently had uh some success and became worth a little over a million dollars i'm only 26 that's amazing um i've noticed that people view me differently and i've had members of my family expecting massive handouts uh i'm sure you have experienced this as well and how do you handle it well first of all um you can't afford to give massive handouts if you only got a million bucks all right let me be real with you. When you think a million dollars, a lot of money, your perspective is fucking wrong. I had to correct one of my friends about this who said, you know, I get paid well, how much?

70 grand? That's not well. You should aspire to much more than that. Okay, so you have to understand that your thermometer of what you think is good, bad, or below needs to be set real high because the universe will deliver that back to you. So when you think of like, oh man, a hundred grand is a lot of money. What you really should be saying is, all right, well, that's the bare minimum I can make to even fucking live. Like I have to make this, right? So you have to understand where your standards are and how they affect your actual income uh first of all second of all uh so before you give away a fucking dollar bro uh you need to make a lot more money yeah all right second of all um look man that's just not

real that doesn't work like that i don't give my fucking family anything uh they don't ask me for anything either i don't have a lot of people coming and ask me and that. I don't give my fucking family anything. They don't ask me for anything either. I don't have a lot of people come in and ask me. And I assume they don't ask me because the first couple of times I ever got asked, I said, fuck no. Yeah. Right. And like, bro, because like, dude, when I was in business and I was starving for fucking

the first 10 years, dude, you got to remember a 10 years in, I had fucking six stores. We had a new company. We had all the shit. So people assumed I fucking was making all kinds of money, but dude, I was broke as fuck. Like I could barely fucking eat because I was putting everything back into this thing. And I had people come to me. I remember at one time I had a family member come to me for 500 bucks. And, and, and, uh, this is a guy from out of town. Like I never really even see. You know what I'm saying? Not that it matters, but still, family member. And I said, dude, I don't have it.

And he got super fucking pissed, called me a liar, say this, that, this. It's like, bro, I didn't have the money, okay? Because I was putting the money. So you guys out there who are listening, who think your rich uncle or your rich parents or your rich friend who's doing well should isn't is required to like give you a something you have no idea what their cash position even is right they they could be leveraged to the hilt trying to get this company to go and you from the outside are judging it thinking oh man like bro i know guys that run 100 million dollar companies that don't pay

themselves a fucking salary because they're trying to grow a $10 billion company. All right. So you have to understand you have no fucking idea. Second part, you are not entitled to that at all. At fucking all, bro. Listen, family don't mean fucking family. Family is people who align with you, who treat you right, who care for you, who have your back, who fucking show up when it's needed. It's not the same last name.

It's not the same fucking blood. It ain't any of that shit, in my opinion. Yeah. So, like, and I've learned that over 23 years. You know what I'm saying? So, you know, the truth of it is, is like, you know, it's uncomfortable at first in the beginning, but, but to this, this person, I would say, no, just start saying no right now.

And then later when it, when you do have money, no one will come and fucking ask you for it. Right. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, people, people like, I know when there's a real need, like I see when there's a real need, when there's a real fucking need, what do I do, bro? Every fucking time. What do I do? You're with me every day. What do I do? You fucking, you do the right thing. You fix the need. That's right. When there's a real fucking need. What do I do, bro? Every fucking time. What do I do? You're with me every day.

What do I do? You fucking, you fix the need. Do I do the right thing? You fix the need. That's right. When there's a real need. Right. But this bullshit need, like, hey, throw me a couple, you know, a couple, a couple bucks.

You know, it's no big deal to you, bro. That's so fucking disrespectful. Yeah. You have no fucking idea how much people sacrifice to be in that position. Like, bro, there's a lot of times when I'm sitting at home and I'm wondering, fuck dude, like, was it worth me sacrificing all I did to get here? But then, you know, I I'm reminded of the good things too, right? Like I come here and see all the young people hustling, doing well, see all the lives were changing. I see all the,

you know, I step back and look at the bigger picture, but like, you know, you guys have to understand your entrepreneur family member, bro, they've gone through a lot and they go through a lot. And like to think that, you know, just because maybe they're worth a million dollars that they can throw you a thousand bucks and no big deal or whatever the fuck. Like now people are so entitled. It's like, give me 20 grand. It's like, bro, suck on my fucking nuts like what are you gonna do for it right you know what i'm saying so well you said too like and especially if you ain't fucking did nothing for them to even fucking support which is never the case bro that's what i'm saying the people you want to help you're gonna want to help right you know like like like that dude or woman or whoever asked that that that person there are

going to be people in your life that contribute and see this is a big lesson right here coming up you should fucking really listen what i'm about to say okay the people in your life that contribute to you okay those are the people that you should be looking actively to help all All right. The people who come in out of the blue and out of the fucking woodwork and ask for shit, that's an automatic no. Okay. And most people spend, they, they, they spend more time dealing with people that don't support them and, and, and, and fighting with people or arguing with people or struggling with people or remote, letting people emotionally drain them that don't really support them. And they look past and take for granted the motherfuckers that are there every fucking day.

So when you look at, you know, when you think about like, because we all want to help, right? Especially when you start making money. One of the coolest things ever is change people's lives. But you've got to be conscious about changing people's lives because you can also ruin lives just as quickly okay like if someone's about to learn a fucking hard lesson that let's say uh you know you can snap your fingers and save them from you just did them a tremendous injustice all right because that hard lesson that they were about to learn they won't learn now. And now what will happen is they'll continue to get themselves in the same position over and over and over again.

And sometimes it's permanent because it worked out the first time because you stepped in. Expecting to snap your fingers. And then on top of it, bro, there's a karmic reaction to it, a universal reaction. Okay? Sometimes when you step in and you save someone let's just say the fucking universe is like you know getting ready to really fucking hammer someone because

they did some fucked up shit and you step in and fucking protect them from it guess who takes the motherfucking blow you so you have to understand that that's this energy is going to ebb and flow regardless it's not yeah bro fuck man that they say that's why i'm me bro well they said all the time it's like no energy can't be created to destroy it gotta go somewhere right that's right so you have to understand these things i'm not saying never save someone but what i am saying is you have to be conscious about what the possible outcome could be if you do it the wrong way. Yeah. And that's, that's dude, listen, this is no bullshit. I've helped people, you know, when I was that person, this person here, I'm talking from experience when I was that person. And I was my, I was a new millionaire worth $1 million. Okay. Which by the way, you did it faster

than me. Congratulations. Um, there was times where like I stepped in and help people with shit that I shouldn't have helped them with. And now, you know, 12, 13 years later, they're, they're, they're, they're struggling because I, I didn't allow them to learn that lesson they should have learned. Right. So it's a really, it's a, with, with wealth and success comes a lot of responsibility, but I believe that the responsibility of wealth and success, um, and the rewards of that and the, and the,

the, the positive things that you can do for people should be, uh, focused in on the people who have helped you, not on these random people from the outside who might have, you know, you know what I'm saying? Yeah.

Would you say to that? Most of the time, the people that are on the inside that help you they how often they people those people even ask they don't ask that's why you have to look yeah right so our our fucking our fucking desire to contribute and improve people's lives which we all have once we have the ability to yeah okay should be focused on the people that that really help push you forward that's where it should be that's what i'm trying to say because that teaches people the right way right like i fuck dude if you're with me i fucking

handle shit for you i work with you i help it i'm you've got a problem let's talk it through let's make it let's find a solution yeah you know uh but but when joe comes out of the fucking woodwork you know that i haven't talked to in fucking three years it's like hey man i really need 2,500 bucks even though i'm who i am and 2,500 bucks is not a lot of money to me i'm not giving it to you bro you're not helping me you're not with me you're not standing you're not standing next to me you didn't fucking ever call me and say hey how you doing how what's going on right bro like when was the last time you know what i'm saying no christmas car right when i got fucking 400 motherfuckers in here that are fucking you know check on your rv8 and don't ask for shit

right that's real bro you see what i'm saying so focus that need focus that need to contribute on people who have real needs you know like like spent, we sent a lot of money to Haiti. Yeah. You know? Yeah. Well, those people have real needs. Okay. Or put it into the, you know, the funnel of the people who are your true family.

Yeah. Which are the people that help you progress your life. Yeah. That's real, bro. I love it. Andy, question number two, I'm considering making an employee of mine, a partner. They have been extremely crucial in the growth and operations of the company. They have shown interest in wanting to have more stake in the business. And I feel as though they have earned that. How do I know if it's the right

move and how do i navigate this conversation properly do how do i talk uh properly about percentages is there a buy-in can you just help me walk through this a little bit i don't like that idea ever that here's the problem okay i've had employees that have been with me for a fucking decade that somehow get into a situation and it changes their whole fucking life. Maybe they started doing drugs or too many drugs or whatever, right? Or their wife left them or whatever. I think the proper way, if you want to do that, is to, again, create a deal, create

an agreement. You know what I'm saying? Put that shit in writing too, okay? You stick with me for the next, you stick with me, you help me build this company i exit the company i give you this percent of what we exit you see what i'm saying yeah but like getting into this equity share thing that i'm not a fan of that i know other people do it but it seems to cause them problems every time they do it because what happens is is people they you give them five percent ownership and then they start feeling like they have a say in like how to run the company when they never ran the company, you know,

like, bro, I'm not like, bro, I gave you that. You don't, you don't get to fucking speak to me for that. But the problem is, is that legally they do. Right. Right. And so now you're putting, you got to respect that. That's right. And so I'm a big, I'm a proponent of not that, um, you know, I'm the majority owner in every fucking proponent of not that, um, you know, I'm the majority owner and every fucking thing that I fucking do. Um, so, so that that way, if there's a, if there's a disagreement, I can have the final

say, because not everybody handles that kind of stuff properly, bro. A lot of people, you know, when they get money, they get weird, you know, they forget who they are. They start thinking that, you know, um, I made it. Yeah. you know they forget who they are they start thinking that you know um i made it yeah or or or if you give them five percent and let's say you built the whole company for 25 fucking years and they've been here for eight and you give them that all of a sudden they'll be telling you that you fucking owe them this and they built this whole thing and all this weird

bro let's push you out yeah dude it's just not good and it's just not my preferred method i i think a better i think a better agreement to make is a, is a, and by the way, you have to fulfill those agreements. Okay. But, and you can put those in writing, maybe do it like that. You know what I'm saying? But like, dude, I'm not, I'm not into this. I'm giving you a share right now.

Shit. Because what happens is what happens if you have a falling out with this employee and they say, well, fuck, I'll fucking leave. You buy me out. Right. I'm not buying you out, motherfucker. Right. I didn't fucking gave you that.

I'm buying you. I'm paying you shit. Right. You know, I'll pay you shit now if we sell this shit. You see what I'm saying? Right. Shit like that. That's real.

I like that. Dude, that's, listen, man. I've just seen it go bad. I've seen that scenario go sideways so many motherfucking times that to me it's not even something I would consider. Yeah. Andy, question number three, our third and final question, guys. Andy, I'm a high school student trying to be a voice

for those who don't agree with the woke school system. What can I and other students do to try and reverse this woke agenda they're pushing in my school? Just live it, dude. Live an authentic life of resistance. When people say woke shit around you, like when your teacher says woke shit, raise your hand and say that's not true. You don't have to be angry.

You don't have to do what they do. You don't have to scream and yell. You don't have to throw a fit. You don't have to be angry you don't have to do what they do you don't have to scream and yell you don't have to throw a fit you don't gotta fucking protest all you gotta do is just call it out every time it shows up and you're gonna be called a problem and you probably be called difficult especially in high school because the schools are super fucking woke yeah but bro the more more and more and more kids are waking up to what's been happening and they're like dude we get tons and tons of emails from high school students who are like in that exact same exact same scenario and you're not alone there's lots of that's even actually great verification right there dude we get hundreds of

fucking emails from kids that say the same fucking thing all you guys have to do is be polite and say well actually that's not true right this is what's true right or question them why would you say that when when it could be like this and this and this right right and like dude engage these people these people these people because they have no true logical or statistical data to really make sense of whatever they believe, the minute you call them, they will go to fucking names. Emotionally. Okay, so when they go to, well, that's racist, or that's misogynistic, or that is fucking sexist, or that's patriarchy, or that's white supremacy.

You just don't know what you're talking about. Listen, you just don't know. All of those things those are things that people do when they cannot argue the point at hand okay right like when i'm sitting in a meeting and i'm talking to let's say another company and i say this this and this and then that guy says well that that and that we start to talk and we engage and we have conversations and i don't really agree with everything this person wants to do. And he don't agree with everything I want to do.

But at the end of the day, I don't turn around and say, well, just because you think that you're a fucking idiot. Right. Right. Right. You know, like that's your racist. Yes. Like when they go to name calling, you have to understand that you want,

you, you win when they go to name call. If they can't attack what you say they attack who's saying that's right so like dude that's another thing we don't talk about enough is like who fucking cares what they call you bro right like 15 years ago when you were called a racist on the internet it meant something like people would literally be like damn dude i don't know if i want to fucking be friends with that dude ain't fucking with dj no more like oh my god you follow dj he's such a racist i'll follow him right right that's where it was in 2010 now it's everybody who disagrees with fucking anything especially if they're fucking white is a racist

so fuck if i'm a racist okay i'm a racist but still on this point you're an idiot yeah like like just own the shit they call you and just laugh about it because dude once you laugh about it it loses its power right so like okay i know you think i'm a racist i got it let's put that over here now back to the original question exactly okay and that's how you beat these people in arguments because they never have an answer ever, ever, ever. The only reason they go to names, the only reason anyone goes to names is because they lost. Okay.

And if you can engage people to a point where they call you names in public, and let's say there's 15 people watching, three of those motherfuckers are going to be like, damn, dude, you just schooled that lady. Yeah. You see what I'm saying? I think that's an important part and that's a that helps people start to come around so dude what's happening in society is that too many people uh one think that someone else is going to come in and do this for them there's no law that's going to do this this is a cultural revolution guys this is not uh you know we're riding a horseback with fucking guns and like that's not what this is and that's the mistake that people

are making especially like the the patriots yeah you guys think that there's some sort of battle getting right the battle is happening you're just not in it right and the battle right now is with fucking words and ideas and if you don't open your mouth and resist those, and I'm not talking about one time. I'm not talking about making a post one time. I'm talking about any fucking time that someone brings this shit around you, all right? You're at fucking Thanksgiving dinner and your fucking Aunt Mary says some dumb shit.

You got to fucking call it out. Because dude, the 10 other people at that dinner are going to like, at least two or three of them are going to be like, damn dude, he's right. And right now what you're going to find out is eight of them think you're right. Exactly. People are tired of it. So when you resist it at every single point, people start to see you as a resistance piece and they say, fuck dude, if that guy can do it, I can do it. The problem that's happening now on the ground level is that people are letting some things through

and fighting on other things. And that can't happen. You have to resist it every time, dude. Every time you hear someone saying some fucked up shit and you're like, nah, dude, I don't think so. You have to speak it. You have to put it out there. The whole idea of the silent majority was part of this op.

It was part of the communist insurgency. It was a term that was coined by the media to instill the idea in the masses that it was virtuous to be silent and take the high road. And while you were all silent and took the high road, they came in and took all your shit. You have to understand there's no rules to this war and war. There's no like, oh my God, the war police. No, bro. It's fucking win or fucking die. And this is a different kind of war. It's a war of ideology,

which means it's a war of ideas. It's a war of language. It's a war of silence and action. And whoever takes the action wins and whoever is silent loses. Okay? And they've tricked 80% of the country into thinking that silent majority is some sort of virtuous thing when it's actually the opposite. Yeah. The virtuous thing, if you love America, is to let everyone know how much you love it, to talk about why you love it, to talk about what you love about it, to talk about how great it can be from here every single time you have an opportunity.

That's your obligation as an American. It also comes with the obligation of living your best life, raising your standards, doing the real best that you can. You know, do you have to be, uh, does that mean you have to be worth a certain amount of money or certain famous or Albert Einstein? No. But what it means is, is that you should be giving your all to the things that you choose to do and understand that the level of standard that you set, uh, dictates the amount of success or lack of success that everybody around you is going

to have. And so by being personally excellent and just the pursuit of the excellence is enough to inspire other people to join in. And we're not doing that. It's a cultural thing. Okay. So we have to resist on every contact point. And then we also have to do our best and be our loudest and be our proudest about what it is that we stand for at all times. Those things will fix the country. And that's why no matter how much I come on here and try to expose, no matter how much I come on here and try to get passionate or get you guys in the game, it will never change until you join in because I can only do so much. Even with this massive platform, Joe Rogan can only do so much if he fuck. Listen, it's like I said on my Instagram post the other day. Knowing you're fat will not fix the problem of you being fat.

So bringing awareness does not fix the problem. Posting on Instagram, that's part of it, right? Because there's a lot of people. But bro, we're past the awareness stage. There's fucking, Joe Biden has a 1% approval rating with people between 20 and 30 years old on both sides. 1%, bro. Okay, you think, I would say that's a pretty good percentage

of everybody else being ready for something else. Yeah, right. Okay, right. You think I would say that's a pretty good percentage of everybody else being ready for something else. Yeah. Right. Okay. Right. So now is the best opportunity to step the fuck up and fulfill your obligation as an American. If you love America, if you don't love America, get the fuck out. That's it.

Canada is Canada is the exact opposite of what America is about at this point in time. And all you motherfuckers that don't like freedom and shit you are free to go there you know this shit that they're doing in california that's ruining the canada's doing the whole thing so like if you are still advocating for this shit move to canada bro they got fucking ocean up there too right okay like yeah just go up there maple syrup like motherfucker those motherfuckers are fucking communists full force right now. Oh, yeah. So, and that's the other thing. People are like, oh, dude, communists is almost, no, dude, communists is here.

It's here. They just never fucking stop calling it freedom. And they slid it in under the name of freedom. We've been living in a pretend freedom. Okay? Real American freedom, that is not what we've been having. We've been having bullshit freedom. And not just during biden it's been going on for a long time that's real the only other thing too i would add uh add for this high school student is when you are going to challenge those things make

sure you know what you're talking about and have your shit have substance and you know provided by fucking backed by data yeah bro it's like we were talking to the car ride today remember what i said in the car ride today where i was like dude there's probably a hundred people in front of us that we can see so we're sitting in traffic we're sitting in traffic dj's driving i'm riding and uh i'm like man there's probably what hundred people in front of us here that we can see i bet you that if we sat down and talked to them about all the data and all the shit going on in the world, all the shit we talk about, I bet there's only one or two that could actually even keep up because they have no clue of what's going on. And until you engage in the because this is a great point you bring up until you truly engage and dig in and understand what's going on, they'll beat you with these broad fucking generalizations of shit that's not

reality so you have to educate yourself yep where do i educate myself well let me tell you something cnn ain't it and fox news ain't it either yeah okay people don't the conservative fucking uh people think the fox news is somehow the like telling the truth bro fox news is just walking you into communism you don't fucking get it bro that that all they do is the same shit all the conservative influencers do they go like this holy shit did you see what happened today buy that shirt over there right holy shit did you see what happened today again man america first sale yeah like bro that's not that's not solving anything yeah like just screaming about the shit is not solving anything bro no we have to fucking resist at every point and the way you get most comfortable

resisting at every point is by actually doing some research into what the fuck is going on and those conspiracy people that you think are totally fucked and like crazy and no those people have just realized the fucking what the level of corruption there actually is right now they might not know exactly what's going to happen they might not be perfect but at the heart of the matter they have understood that these institutions and these concepts that we believed were good for us are inherently bad for us and they can show you and point you in a lot of different directions that show these things like bro how many americans have heard of fucking mk ultra right you know i'm saying how many legitimately yeah like maybe less than five i was less than five percent for sure i mean bro

like people don't know these things. Like they don't understand. You don't know your history because they didn't teach you history. Because if you knew your history, you would be much harder to go along with the shit they're trying to do now. You have to understand this. You weren't there 100 years ago. You don't know what happened 100 years ago. You are only told a story. And who are you told a story by? We have to start thinking about

where this information is coming from, who's putting this information out and what is the purpose of this information? Is this information meant to inform or is this information meant to push an agenda or a way of thinking or be in line with something? You know, I saw something, a commercial on TV where they were talking about the metaverse and it was like a metaverse PSA, like the metaverse is so awesome. And it showed these kids and it's like, they're, they're standing in front of like, uh, like, uh, you know, this Greek bill or this Roman building, right. Or Greek building. And they're like, you know, now you can hear what Socrates' conversation actually fucking sounded like

and he's and it shows like them in this virtual world with like the the philosophers they're talking and you know everybody's think oh that's so cool and then you know what i think when i watch it this is how they're going to rewrite history who knows what the conversation that motherfucker had and they're going to throw in some shit in there to get you to think a certain way about things that aren't even true that only serve them. Dude, this is a full court press on our minds, our hearts, and the truth. And until we understand that almost every bit of information, almost every single mainstream narrative, almost every single motherfucking movie, almost every single genre of songs, these big corporate companies, these people are all aligned to push an agenda of culture because they understand that culture wins. And until we start living a culture that is how we want America to actually be and we reject the culture they're serving us, we will lose. And these things will continue to deteriorate. And we will continue to regress into a society that has no morals,

no identity, no real history, no unity. We're all eating fucking crickets. Dude, united we stand, divided we fall. And you have to understand that when we are divided and we fell, they fucking won. Anyway, was that three? That was three, man. Go pay the fee. Yeah. And you have to understand that when we are divided and we fell, they fucking won. Anyway, was that three? That was three, man.

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