REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 607. Q&AF: Dealing With Woke Schools, Building Business With A Private Life & Handling No-Call/No-Show Employees
Episode Date: December 4, 2023In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on how to approach woke schools who want to put their ideologies on your children, the best way to build a business while maintaining a private life, an...d how to handle employees who don't show up to crucial jobs.
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So what's up, dude?
What's going on?
Not much.
No?
Just ready to answer some questions for some people.
What's going on with you?
Nothing much, man.
We put up a Christmas tree over the weekend.
Yeah?
That was good.
How'd that go?
Terrible.
Yeah?
Yeah.
I told Alex, I'm like, let's just do it ourselves.
And Ryan wakes up and just sees it.
Yeah.
Because trying to do it with a little kid, it's difficult.
Yeah.
Because she makes it very hard yeah but uh we survived and getting ready for the christmas
spirit man cool yeah we put christmas lights on our house first time ever yeah first time i ever
did that it was wild seeing it yeah all right yeah i like it though it looks good yeah man you know
like the more the more i realize that they're trying to erode typical American customs and replace it with nothing and demoralize our country, the more important I realize it is to participate in our actual holidays.
And that's really like what made me say, dude, we need to do this.
You know, it's not happy holidays.
It's fucking Merry Christmas.
Merry fucking Christmas. You know what I'm saying? saying like i'm not playing around with these people no
more so i put up pretty good amount of christmas lights on my uh on my on my humble abode looks
like a fucking landing strip yeah yeah little clark griswold action like black hawks and shit
can see it when they come they come over come over anyway. Yeah. Shit, dude.
Every helicopter in St. Louis flies over my house, bro.
It's annoying as fuck.
Yeah.
I know they're doing it because it's like, it's a cool property.
Know that guy down there.
Well, no, it's a cool property.
I mean, it's a compound.
But like, bro, you helicopter pilots here in St. Louis flying over my house all the
fucking time gets old.
Like, stop doing it.
Assholes.
I remember looking into doing the faa blackout
thing on you we should do that it's difficult well we should do that it's fucking annoying
it happens a hundred times a day yeah anyway lights look good though yeah they do lights look
good so uh never mind what nothing man i got some good questions for you, though. Let's get into these guys. Andy,
question number one. Andy, I recently got an email about an ecology meeting in an alphabet club
and my daughter's school. She's in eighth grade and this is what they want to shove down her
throat. I want to handle it the right way. I have a bad temper, especially when it comes
to idiots, but how should I go
about approaching this situation? Personally,
I'd like to go down and slap the shit
out of everybody at the district, but I
know that that isn't going to help.
Any advice?
I don't know. What would you do? You're a parent.
I'm going to tell you this. If I had
kids, they wouldn't be going to school places like that
yeah they just wouldn't be i would do whatever i had to do to make sure that they're not in
that environment they're not being shoved down and having forced upon them political ideologies
or gender ideologies or any of this other shit that isn't true okay like when we this is the
problem with gender ideology that people do not talk about enough. All right. They say, oh, just be polite and cater to these people. Well, the problem with that is that what you're asking us to do is to deny what we know is fact and reality, we lose confidence and trust and belief in ourselves. It erodes away. So you're
asking us to play make-believe with this concept, which isn't actually true, which destroys our own
understanding of what truth is. And then on the flip side, when we cater to calling people a girl
when they're a boy and vice versa and telling them they can be whatever they want we're conditioning our kids to believe that the world will bend and and be manipulated to their
will at any given time and that's just not the way it works and so it actually hurts both sides
and it's not a bigoted thing it's an actual truth thing that we should come to terms with the reality of what it is. It's not being mean,
okay? Like if you want to be a cross-dresser or you want to pretend to be a woman and that's
your life, then cool. But like asking everybody else to pretend and asking everybody else to go
along with it is actually disrespectful because what you're doing is you're asking them to lie
to themselves, which destroys their own belief, their own confidence, and their own self-esteem.
So it's harmful in other ways.
And when we do this with little kids who are very young, they grow up with this.
So personally, if I had kids, there's zero fucking chance at all
that they would be in an environment like that ever.
And I understand that's hard,
and I understand some of you guys might have financial limitations but that's why it's important to become financially
successful that's why it's important to make a lot of money so you have fucking options
okay so i would i would say like i mean my question would be is how many other parents
in that school do you know where where's the parent community at? Because I would be willing to put money that you're probably not the only parent
who has concerns about this.
So I don't know, maybe at pick up or drop off,
go start talking to some other parents.
Get a little community going because there's going to be strength in numbers.
If you go by yourself, they'll probably laugh you out the fuck out of it.
There are strength in numbers,
but that's why they've bullied people into submission and made
them believe that being part of the quote-unquote silent majority is some sort of noble thing yeah
the reality is is that they have very intelligently stifled any sort of resistance through bullying and shame.
So they have culturally conditioned people to not speak up.
So you have grown adult parents where the vast majority of them agree with you
and me and what we're saying,
not saying anything because they're afraid to rock the boat.
But if they go just talk to the other parents,
they figure out that they're all on the same team and they could actually get something done but ultimately bro this comes
down to courage this comes down to not being a fucking bitch this comes down to standing up and
saying i don't care what you guys think call me whatever name you want say whatever you want but
i'm not going along with this shit and neither should you and we should all work together to do
that that's how you handle those situations but that takes courage and right now there's a lot of
people that don't have courage because they've been bullied for the last 10 years and you know
how many people do we hear from that say you know oh man i love the show i wish i could say that
stuff but i don't want to rock the boat bro if you don't start rocking the boat there's going to be
no boat left to ride in that's the that's the reality that we have to come to reality man yeah i think people also need to realize too it's like
you know you talk about you know this is why cancel culture in reality doesn't really work
because the people who are trying to cancel don't have the pying power right and the same thing goes
to schools bro like if you look in if you look at the data the the the percentage of or the number
of of kids being homeschooled's
gone up private schools going up right like schools that are not going with this stuff and so
these schools they're going to be faced with no choice but to respect the wishes
of parents because when those parents start taking them kids out of the schools
those schools shut down right and so like i mean i don't know i would say get get with your parents
man like like get a community maybe you know if you're afraid of going in by yourself try with
five of the parents be afraid of what are you afraid of that's what i'm saying like hold on
i'm trying to understand this what are you afraid of what are you what are you afraid of you're
afraid of someone who you don't respect who you disagree with who you don't want to be who you don't admire in any way shape
or form calling you a name right you're afraid of that's it yes that's it just a name you're afraid
of someone who completely is interfering in your ability to raise your child the way that you want
to raise it and they feel entitled to do so and you have zero respect for these people and what they do and how
they do it but you're afraid to speak up against them that means you're the problem not them yeah
you're the problem if you're if you're looking for permission grant it go do it it's not about
needing permission dude it's about understanding like if you don't speak up if you don't stand up
for your kids they're gonna get indoctrinated into this shit and then what who failed them then yeah you did so this is something that you have to take
responsibility for and start to understand and be a grown-up like if you have kids you have a duty
to stand up for what you believe is right and wrong whether that be in the grocery store whether
that be on the playground whether that be in the school system, wherever it is.
And we have a bunch of people who are afraid to be called something because whatever.
I don't know why.
Dude, it's so funny.
I was taking Ryan to school yesterday morning or last week.
It was a couple of days ago.
I was taking her to school, and we're walking out the door.
And she's at this age where she knows girl, boy.
She got it, right? And she knows that she's a girl. this age where like she knows like girl boy she got it
right and she knows that she's a girl she knows daddy's a boy right she got it and we're walking
out the house she's like daddy i'm a girl i'm like yep you sure are and you will always be
yeah and like it's it's like and i said it like it happened i said it so quickly and then i'm like
that's it like why am i even having to say this right now? Because you have a bunch of people that shouldn't even be educators who feel somehow entitled
to teach people's children things that the parents don't want taught.
And then when confronted on it, they say, those are our children.
We have a right to teach them that.
No, the fuck you don't.
And so, dude dude until we get some
some real parent pushback this is going to continue to all those people that do that
gender ideology and this pushing of sexual they should be fucking eliminated from the school
system yeah a hundred percent they should not be educators no no we our educators should be
preparing our kids to go out in the real world and be able to survive.
And what they're doing is the opposite of that.
They're creating a scenario where our kids think that if they go out and they throw enough of a tantrum, the world will bend around to them.
And then we wonder why these kids go out in the world today.
We have so many young people that are of the age around 19, 20, 21 who are ineffective in the real world and then what do
those people do and you have to think about the bigger agendas or why they want that why why would
they want an entire generation of people who cannot fucking be effective in real life well
because if they're not effective in real life that means they have to be dependent on the government
and this is how they maintain control and you guys think it's about being polite or inclusive
it has nothing to do with that's what they tell you it or inclusive. It has nothing to do with that. They tell you it's about yes
It has nothing to do with that. It has to do with them state and the people teaching it
They believe it's about being inclusive. They believe it's but they're called useful idiots. If you read any book about communism
That's what these people are called
So the worst part about it is like, you know, they yell at you. Oh, you know be inclusive be tolerant
But yet we get zero tolerance or inclusivity on the back end.
So it's like at that point, it's over.
Yeah.
It's over.
This is supposed to be a win-win situation.
It's not about that.
If you say anything to them, it's bullying.
But they have no problem bullying you.
At all.
They'll call you every single name.
They'll try to cancel you with their Facebook groups.
They'll try to put you on blast.
They'll bully the fuck out of you as long as you stay quiet.
So it's time to bully them the fuck back.
That's where the fuck we are.
That's real shit.
It is time to bully the people back.
That's where we are.
And I'm not apologizing for it because I've warned about this for almost 10 years.
Like, we have to stand our ground.
And we cannot give an inch of fucking ground
to these people anymore.
That's the answer.
So your answer is be a responsible parent,
be a leader for the children,
stand the fuck up like a grown adult like you are,
and stop being a pussy.
Love it.
That's the answer.
That is the answer, man.
That's it, man.
Guys, Andy, question number two.
Andy, how do you build sales and a customer base in today's world via social media while living a private life? A lot of famous
and successful people online have everything online for everyone to see their house, their
wife, their kids, cars, property. You are the only one that I know who has really kept people away
from the intricate
details of your life. I currently have built a successful business and I want to go further,
but it just seems all business owners are just sharing their whole life to gain a customer.
I'm a very private man with a wife and daughter who's never posted on the internet.
I want to push further and harder on social this year. I just don't want to lose my privacy.
So how do you build social media without letting the internet fully expose every aspect of your life? Privacy is the cost that you
pay to get where you're trying to go on social media. You are the product. Your life is the
product. And yes, while I have been able to be more private the last few years, there has also been a cost to that.
Because my Instagram page could be at 10 million followers or 15 million followers.
And my YouTube could be at multi-million followers.
Have I been showing my life the whole time?
So we have to understand the reality.
I started in this in 2012 on social media.
All right?
So that means I've been doing it for 12 years.
What is that?
11 years.
12 years in a month.
Okay.
I only stopped posting in 2020.
So that means for eight years, I did all the shit that you're saying you don't want to do,
which built my brand to a point where I have a loyal following.
And now my content comes from what I have to say and how I think, not people observing my life.
But if you've noticed, I have started to do a little bit more showing my life.
Why do you think I've done that?
Do you think I'm doing that because it's bad for my brand?
I'm not doing that because I think i'm doing that because it's bad for my brand i'm not doing that because i
think it's fun and cool it's not listen here's real talk i am having fun doing it and i do think
it's fun and cool but getting me to the point to do it i did not think that okay i had a lot of
friends around me who convinced me that that was something that was probably a good idea. And one of the friends,
we talk about the Hermoses a lot. They're great people, but Alex and Layla came, they were here
visiting. Um, and we were in a locker room and Layla said to me, Hey, look, dude, I love your
content. I've been listening to your content since 2015 when you started it. She's like,
the reason I think you should show more of your life is twofold one
because when i was consuming your content and you're talking about going hard and working hard
and paying the price and all these things that you talk about i felt like that was all you did
and when i couldn't live to that life i felt like i was failing so that was the first thing that
made me realize man i need to show people a little bit more right and and the second thing was is that i have a number of younger people who come to me
and they say uh you know dude like anytime i post like cars or my success or anything like that
like that's not i'm i don't that's not my cup of tea bro i like i like that
stuff because it's me i don't like that stuff because i'm trying to get more clout and that's
why i have one of the nicest car collections on the planet that never gets seen nobody's ever seen
yeah so um but i realized that when i do show those things i get a lot of feedback from like
the younger generation where they're saying man like dude i'm so glad you show this stuff because it makes me believe that what i'm doing
now will be worth it and so what i've started to realize is that i have a responsibility
i used to believe this i i you and i know this is true that i have a responsibility to show my success because of the inspiration that it
provides okay but then the internet got so douchey all right where i felt like i was one of
them when i was showing my life so i stopped doing it but what i realize now is that all that's left
is a bunch of fake ass and no real so why do you think i'm doing day in the life so you
guys can see what it looks like.
And I guarantee you, and I can say this without a hesitant of a doubt,
there's not a single motherfucking social media influencer on the fucking planet
that has the life that I have.
Not a single one.
There's a lot of guys that pretend to have a cool life.
They might have a decent house and they might got a car or two
or maybe they're doing this or that
but they don't they don't have it all bro they don't have companies they run like let's see some
of that from these influencers right it's like there's a lot of bullshit out there my point
and so i've i've started a bit become more aware that i have an obligation to show what it really
looks like which is far cooler than what
any of these guru dumb asses are showing you anyway yeah cool you got you got one car that
you financed out your ass for buy my shit right like you guys don't even know what real baller
shit looks like because none of these motherfuckers that you follow are real ballers can't do it
no that makes sense that makes sense let me so let me ask you this
i'm gonna follow up to this so what does that look like what's the relationship between the
personal authentic andy brand when it comes to business like how do those is that like a
symbiotic relationship right because if you're having to increase the eyeballs on you what what
should this person be expecting you have to realize, dude, you have a lot of different options.
There's plenty of business owners that aren't public, but they use their marketing budget properly to use influencers to leverage their following and their privacy onto their brand.
But the reality is, is if you don't have a big budget and you don't have cash flow, you've got to kind of make yourself into that to get leads in the beginning, or you're going to have to come up with a creative way to, you know, figure out
how you're going to get business. And there's a number of ways that you can do that, but social
media is free and it takes, you know, a little effort, but less effort than what it would take,
less money than what it would take for you to go out and try to work with all these influencers so having a
strong personal brand is a huge advantage because of that but it's also a huge advantage because if
you can build a good one then other influencers traditionally want to work with you like they
will look at this your personal brand and say yeah i want to be associated with that right and so now
especially now with so many faceless yes corpse yes it's easier to get the
the most influential people to associate with you when you're strong your brand is strong sure so
like having a strong personal brand is a big deal and like yeah you could say i love my privacy and
i love this i do too but here's the real i could continue to be private and just be fine you
probably can't that's reality reality. And if you can,
and you want to go ahead, but that's going to take cashflow. That's going to take money invested in
other social media influencers. That's going to take a different kind of marketing and advertising.
But the reality is, is there's very few situations. In fact, I can't think of any
where a strong personal brand isn't extremely valuable to what you're trying to do so the idea that you know i
can empathize with that like i don't like showing a lot of my life like i i really like i would love
to but like i feel like i get tossed in with all these goobers right and they're just not my it's
just not like it makes me feel gross yeah and um so i't do it, but I'm starting to do it in a different way, you know, because I feel obligated.
And it's actually pretty fun.
So I think, you know, another upside to what you're saying is, like, I think if you actually stepped out and started doing it, you might have some fun.
But, like, real talk, dude, you know, you haven't even started yet.
And you, like, think, like, your first three years are going to suck, dude.
Like, you're going to get fucking two likes.
You're going to get five views.
Nobody's going to comment on your shit.
And you're going to have to keep doing it over and over and over and over and over.
Like that happened to me.
Like if you go back process.
Yeah.
Like you have to put in all this time.
Like people think they can become a social media celebrity overnight.
But the reality is, is that doesn't put asses in seats.
Okay.
And asses in seats is
what really matters. What I mean by that is do people show up for shit that you do? Do people
respond to a call to action? Do people buy your stuff? Do people, you know, translate from your
brand into your, your actual business brand and actually convert into paying customers? And most
of these people that you see online
have a lot of fake shit,
and that's why they don't ever really convert, okay?
So there's a big difference.
Like, you know why when I show up to events,
there's fucking 7,500, 10,000 people
sitting there in a fucking arena?
Well, that's because I have a real fucking following
that I've invested in for 11 years now
so you can't do it overnight it's no different than starting a business it's no different than
starting um it's so different than starting up a company dude you have to look at your personal
brand as a real brand and that takes time it's just gonna it's gonna take time yeah i love that
man yeah i mean there's a lot of tips and tricks that you can use to do that you know you can you can start making some
decent content and you can shuttle it out to people who who also make similar content and
maybe they'll collab with you maybe you know like bro this takes effort this isn't just as simple as
you know and we see profile now i'm famous yeah man and we see this because so many so many there's
so much fake shit out there right so we see all these people doing all this stuff and they look
real successful on the outside and these motherfuckers don't have you know two grand to
rub together on the back side you know what i mean so we got to be real. Like social media, you know, you have to really like look into people to know if they're actually real or not.
And, you know, this is why I always tell you guys to vet people.
This is why I said, you know, like what companies do they own?
Can you buy their products?
Do they have employees?
How do they live?
How long have they been doing it?
What's their story?
You know, can you be a customer of theirs
like everybody else can you like evaluate how they do business like you know like look into this
like because there's a lot of people out here that are straight up lying they're straight
up lying about everything they got going on and they're selling you some bullshit
so you know and I love it.
I mean, it's just a matter.
Look, it's like anything else.
It takes time.
It's hard as fuck.
You're going to have to do it every single day,
and it's going to have to become a big part of your actual initiative.
And the privacy part, that's part of the price.
How much privacy would you give up to get where you're trying to go?
That should be the question that you're asking.
How important is it to you?
It's real, man. Guys, Andy, our third and final question. Andy, question number three.
Andy, I work in underground telecommunication construction.
Say that three times fast.
But installing fiber optic cable underground, and I run a small crew of about
two to four guys.
Often my younger guys just can't seem to show up for work on time.
If at all,
it's a regular occurrence when we have big jobs to do.
Every single man counts.
If one or multiple guys don't show up,
we oftentimes can't do the required work for the day.
And thus no one's making any money that day, myself included.
My standards of expectations, I have fired these kids.
But my boss says, quote, a warm body that shows up is better than having no one at all.
In my mind, there has to be consequences to their actions.
And if they can't hang with the standards I set, I'd rather not continually attempt to pull them along.
What advice can you offer or what would you do in my situation? Stand fast on your standards
of excellence to your own detriment or losing work altogether or just taking what you can get
since someone who mostly shows up is better than not having them at all. The fact that you,
the way you wrote the question is very insightful to what the problem actually is okay i can't seem to get them to show up what
do you mean it's not an option you're either fucking here you're fucking fired like it's
fucking real simple okay and here's the fact that you need to really answer is that you're being a
shitty motherfucking leader by allowing these motherfuckers to drag down the rest of the guys that you have to be responsible for. Okay. So when your boss and you,
and I encourage you to go play this fucking clip for him. When you guys fucking enable these people
by allowing them to show up late, allowing them to do bullshit work, what you're doing is you're
sacrificing the wellbeing of all the other people who are showing up every fucking day, working
their fucking asses off. So you have an obligation to the people that you actually care
about who are showing up there, getting their fucking hands dirty, getting in the fucking fight
to do what you have to do to make sure that you have other people show up and do the work.
So no, I wouldn't tolerate it. And the fact that you've tolerated it so long has only sent,
this is probably going to create a bigger problem for you that you haven't seen yet the fact is you've tolerated this and how long do
you think it is before your good guys are going to start realizing that they don't have to show up
okay not long no not long it doesn't take somebody to figure that out like if nothing's going to
happen to them then they don't have to do any work okay so eventually you got to start chopping
motherfucking heads off.
And this happens in every organization.
It happens usually in bursts.
Okay.
Usually there's one person and they got some pretty good reason.
And then,
you know,
the,
the,
the peers know that they're full of shit and then they start coming up with
some good reasons.
And then all of a sudden it goes from having good reasons that not having
reasons and they're still not showing up. And now instead of one guy, you got 10 guys that are doing this and guess what you got to do with all of a sudden it goes from having good reasons to not having reasons. And they're still not showing up.
And now instead of one guy, you've got 10 guys that are doing this.
And guess what you've got to do with all of them?
Fucking cut them out.
It's what has to happen.
Because otherwise that culture infects everybody else and now you've got a real problem.
All right?
So my answer to this question is very simply, stop tolerating.
You get what you tolerate.
That's what you're going to get.
And when you sit here and say, my standards are standards of excellence, no, they fucking aren't. Because you're tolerating less get what you tolerate that's what you're going to get and when you sit here and say my standards are standards of excellence no they fucking aren't because
you're tolerating less than that this is a you problem this is not a them problem this is you
you are sitting here telling me on this show that you are a person of high excellence standards and
and you care about the people no you don't because if you did you wouldn't allow that
you wouldn't fucking allow it even one time.
It's not a standard of not being hated.
And like, dude, real talk.
Like a lot of you guys need to fucking realize this.
You have people in your company right now that are ruining your ability to run your company.
And I don't know if you guys looked around, but it's not getting any easier to run companies.
It's certainly getting a little more challenging.
Okay.
So you have these people and this is a great, this is the great thing about what's happening in the world right now. There's a lot of bad things, but this
is a great thing. There's a lot of companies laying off people who are highly skilled and
highly qualified, who are, who these people are good. They're the good workers who have to be in
a position where they don't have a place to work. Okay. So all of your people that you're tolerating
that don't do the work that don't fucking show up that don't really dig in and go to battle with you guys
You you can cut those people right now and find people who will there's a lot of people out there
That are looking to be a part of things that are that are going to you know work, you know, so
Um, it's a good opportunity
It's a necessity and if you don't do it your whole company's gonna crumble your whole little you know
Your boss who says oh just a lot. He's ruining his own shit. He doesn't even know yet
Yeah, he's just saying that because he don't have to deal with it right
Let me actually this any because I know you talked to you know
You've said this often of you know people come in and ask like man. Where'd you find all these people?
And your response is always we build them like we develop these people right so
i mean do you think that this could also be maybe an issue with like their hiring process or the
standards that they're setting up front or is it you know could it also be their their investments
into these young people bro because i mean a lot of young people i don't know if this i think this
is just a common issue with young people right now you know we talk about hold on this ties back into the first question yeah when you train people for their whole lives that they can do whatever they want
including decide to be a man or a woman at their own whim do you really think that they feel like
they have to be at a job at any given time or do you think that the job will just say it's okay
you know you're gonna get the check yeah exactly so this is what you're
dealing with yeah and this is what that listen this is our own fault as american citizens for
allowing this shit to creep in okay we allow it we've allowed it we've allowed it it's been
fucking years and years and years we've allowed it and now we're like well nobody wants to do
shit well no shit if you never taught anybody that they have to actually go out and hunt and kill to survive,
what do you think is going to happen when you tell them they got to go hunt and kill?
They're going to say, no, I don't.
I'll just eat some of yours.
Fuck you will.
That's what they say.
That's what they think.
And so you have to stop fucking feeding them.
That's funny.
I love it, man.
Like, bro, I don't know what to tell you guys.
You guys are
fucking hold the line say no cut them out do whatever you got to do let them say whatever
the fuck they're gonna say you'll continue on going and they'll go do something else
and they'll do the same thing they're doing to you somewhere else better over there than here
you know what i mean yeah absolutely man yeah dude guys, you know, you can't say you're a leader with high standards
if you're tolerating people not showing up to work,
and then you say the job can't get done without those two people.
So that means that the job can't get done for the other two guys
or the other three guys that are there counting on that
to feed their fucking families. And you're telling it's you think it's the the loser's fault no that's your
fault that's your fault you're a shitty leader you need to get better i love it man i fucking
love it man guys andy that was three yep go pay the fee Later, feet.