REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 639. Q&AF: Documenting Your Journey, Choosing The Right Business Partner & Chip On Shoulder

Episode Date: January 27, 2024

In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on what's the best way to document your business journey on social media, how to choose the right partner to go into business with, and the best way to navigate building your business going against conventional wisdom with a chip on your shoulder.

What is up guys, it's Andy for Selling, this is the show for the realest thing about the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society. And welcome to Motherfucking Reality, guys. Today we have a special Saturday edition of QNAF. We're just going to get right into it, man. What's up? What's going on, man? Not much. I guess I should tell people how they can submit their questions. Or just not to be hoes.

Yeah, don't be a hoe, first of all. But second of all, if you want to submit your questions for the show, you can do show. You can do show. You can do show show. One of a couple different ways the first way is guys email your questions into ask andy at andy forsella.com or you go on youtube in the comment section on the q and a f episodes and ask your questions there and we'll answer some now these questions could be about anything guys they can be about what's going on in the world that could be about how to win how to be better how to uh you know, make more money.

Most of them around personal development, entrepreneurship, but we'll answer some pretty much about anything. And yeah, so let's get into it. Let's get into it. Got three good ones for you guys. Andy, guys, question number one. Andy, I'm 22 years old, trying to document my journey in business on Instagram and LinkedIn because my idols,

Hermosi, yourself, Mylet, etc., are always saying how they wish they would have documented the hard and the good. But every time I make a video of the hard, I feel like I'm projecting onto others and I get sympathy messages from people. I fucking hate sympathy and pity. It's part of the reason why I didn't document any of my 75 hard because those 3 a.m. running videos felt like a cry for attention. I am doing this for myself, but I'm also trying to build a following that will support me through all of my future endeavors and I can see my growth. How do you recommend I get around this? What's your thoughts on this? You just got to do it, bro.

You know what I'm saying? Like, you just got to document what you do and say the way it is and how people feel about it or how it makes you feel is what it is. You know, there's millions and millions and millions and millions of people playing the Internet game. Why not you? You see what I'm saying? You deserve to have a brand. You deserve to play the game as long as you do play the game. And the reality of it is I understand what you're saying.

You know, I say things, you know, i try to keep it pretty transparent with everybody uh you know i really only do my instagram story but i did social media for 10 you know fuck for a decade half your life dude yeah that's yeah no shit that's what i'm saying so like now i just kind of do the story and even when i do keep it transparent and i keep it uh real with people I do get a lot of messages that are like oh man you'll get through it no shit I'll get through it bro I get fucking through everything so I understand that I hate that shit too um but you got to remember these people are just trying to be nice and they're trying to support you and you know uh ultimately once I get past a little bit of the frustration with it I feel grateful that people actually give a fuck about what I'm doing and what I'm going through

And I think that's just our own, you know our own positioning on the topic, you know, we don't want sympathy We don't want extra attention But we're also trying to show the journey so that other people will see what it looks like and Then when it comes in it makes us feel a little weird like dude people just care man they're trying to be supportive and they're trying to be cool and you know the truth of the matter is people are a lot cooler than what you think um than what you think they are you know most people are good people most people want to support most people recognize that you're out here trying to start something new do something cool and they just want to give you a little word of encouragement, bro. Just like you want to give them a word of

encouragement. So it's exactly what you're asking for. Yeah. And so like, dude, just let it go, you know, get over that part of it and just keep going and sharing it. And bro, the cool thing is, and what you're not going to know is that there's going to be a lot of people who are inspired by that, who are going to come back years and years and years from now and say, man, you know, because of you, I did this, or because of you showing this, I did that. You know, that's one of the biggest things from the MFCEO project that I'm grateful for, um, is that there's so many people who hit me up now, you know, 10 years later, basically, and say, God, dude, you know, when I was listening to you on that, you know, it made me inspire to start this. Now I have this and i'm i've got this many employees i'm doing this i'm i live in this kind

of like bro that's incredibly cool yeah and that would not have come from the fact of um that wouldn't have come around had i not shared the journey you know so i think it's important for people like you and also you should recognize the opportunity because you're one of the first people in the in the world ever that's able to document their journey from the beginning. And you're going to be glad you did when you start getting somewhere and you can go back and say, see, you know what I did? You know, one of the cool things, you know, one of my favorite content creators that I consume who's younger than me is Matt Graham, not Matt Graham. He's been on the show a couple of times, but one of the coolest things about Matt Graham is is that he documented his when he was like 12 13 14

15 16 years old he has these videos and it's really cool like going back like when he posts them and you could see like what he was trying to do and where he come from before the testosterone guy yeah but the cool thing yet but the cool thing about Matt is he's so good at the way he presents information and his delivery so strong. And people look at him and they're like, God, how's that guy deliver? Well, fuck, he's been doing it since he was fucking 14. You know what I'm saying?

So I think that stuff's super cool. And I think you might just be reading into it a little bit too much because it's you, right? We're always our own harshest critic. But I would highly encourage you to keep up on that, brother. And when people do step in and they're not giving you sympathy, man, they're, they're encouraging you. They think it's cool. You know, getting out there, doing, getting it done. A young person out here, hustling, grinding, that's inspiring. It's inspiring to me too. I'll be real with you because, you know, I look around and I see a lot of complacency and a lot of laziness and a lot of bullshit from the younger generations. And so when people like you are showing that you're actually out here trying really hard,

that gives me hope. It makes me keep going. It makes me say, fuck dude. All right. What I'm doing fucking matters. And I know that's true for Ed and Alex too, because we all talk about this. So just don't, you guys probably don't even realize that like you guys getting out and documenting your messages and documenting what you do actually helps inspire us as well. It helps us keep going because there's a lot of times where we're trying to make all this content. And even though we get a lot of views and those and credit and things like

that, we still wonder, we're like, fuck, does this really matter? Are people really listening? Like, are people really doing? And so people like you are the reason that we do this shit. So dude, of course show it and you know, keep going, man. I think it's awesome. I love it. Yeah, he's young, man, 22. Yeah.

Yeah. Guys, Andy, question number two. Hey, Andy, I'm 24. All right. And three years into my landscaping business, and I've been doing great. The business is growing, and I found a way to be very active in the winter months, which a lot of others in my niche just take off. Saying this to say, I have been approached by three other business owners, and they all want me to consider the possibility of merging with them in a partnership.

Like I have to choose one of them to merge with. Outside of the obvious things like the books, the financials and the basics, when it comes to choosing the best partner, what are some things that I should look for? I know I'm young. They know I'm young, but I don't go head over heels for the sweet talking razzle dazzle. I just don't want to be blindsided. You don't know shit yet, bro. What the fuck are you offering? Okay. Like, I'll be real with you. All right? You're 24 years old. You don't know a goddamn thing. All right? So unless you have a whole list of fucking everything that you're bringing to the table, you should be worried about what you bring to the table, not what the fuck they bring to the table.

Like, if you came to me with that attitude, I'd tell you to get the fuck out of here. I'm being real. Okay? So you don't want to be blindsided or fall for the sweet talk. No one's sweet talking you. You're sweet talking them. Let's just be real. Okay? blindsided or fall for the sweet talk uh no one's sweet talking you you're sweet talking them let's just be real okay and also when it comes to forming a business let me give you the golden

rule of forming a business uh number one you shouldn't be partners with anybody who doesn't bring something that you don't have okay a lot of you guys go out and try to build these businesses with your friends because you want to just be friends in business that's not an effective partnership you also go out and partner with someone who wants to be the CEO when you want to be the CEO and wants to be the face when you want to be the face. And you guys partner for all the same fucking reasons. All right. Which are the wrong ones. Here's the deal when it comes to getting a partner. What do they bring to the table? What do you bring to the table? Are those things complimentary? Sometimes you bring the talent, the knowledge, the, the the knowledge, the voice, and then other

people bring the back end and the money. And you're able to put that together and work together. But the problem is, is people don't look at it like that up front. They look at it like it's going to be this fun, exciting, amazing journey that is just going to be good all the time. And they end up partnering with the wrong people who compete over attention, who compete over the who are doing it for the wrong reasons and that's why you hear this thing don't ever be partners with somebody that you're friends with i don't know i'm partners with my fucking best friend in the whole world and my and my brother and i mean it works yeah because you know why because they're skilled in things that i'm not skilled at and they all work together so like you know but dude this this thing of like that

you're saying about i don't want to be sweet talked bro you need to learn to speak a little bit differently because if i even i would just tell you get the fuck out i don't want to deal with that ego i don't want to deal you're 20 fucking four you haven't done shit what have you done what's to say he's done uh he said he found a niche uh he found a way to be very active in the winter months. Oh, really? Everybody else takes that. That sounds fucking great. Yeah. It sounds super fucking amazing.

You're the first person ever to figure something out to do in the winter. Like, you're not even telling me what the fuck you do, man. You know what I'm saying? What is, what is the, I don't understand, I don't even understand the real question here. Yeah, just like, I mean, he understands he should be like, you know, asking about the books. He's been approached by three other businesses, I guess, landscaping businesses. Okay. And he's just saying like outside of the books of financials and the fundamental things to like talk about and discuss, what should he be looking for in a partner?

Someone who can do the shit that you can't do very well. Someone who could bring the resources that you don't have. Someone who can execute on things that you're not good at and you should partner with them but like walking around thinking that you got the keys of the castle bro you ain't the first motherfucker to figure out something to do in the winter we'll promise you that go talk to ricky they're right my guy all right who's the best fucking landscaper that i fucking know okay so yeah i didn't even know grass could get cut in November Hey listen when you guys submit questions submit some detailed questions, man, I'll help you I'll fucking give you the right answer But you just telling me some fucking summary bullshit

Yeah, I'm not gonna help you or anybody else make the questions as detailed as possible if we have to edit them down We'll edit them down. But the reality is is I can't help you if you don't tell me what the fuck you do. Okay. To me, I'm going to tell you this. Most, I get frustrated because I get asked this shit all the time. All right. No offense to you, dude, but I get asked this all the time. I get approached by these fucking young kids who are ambitious, who think that they're

really something. Motherfucker. Everybody thinks they are ambitious, who think that they're really something. Motherfucker, everybody thinks they're something. Everybody thinks that they're great. Everybody thinks they have a skill set nobody has. Everybody thinks that they have the ability to do things no one else can do. And it just isn't true. You're one of a gazillion motherfuckers that can do what the fuck you're doing. So what do you bring to the table?

What do you offer? And making that list compelling will allow you to find the best partner possible. And you should look at their list with the same scrutiny that you look at your list. All right. What do they bring? What do they offer? Maybe they bring the money. Maybe you don't have any money for equipment. Maybe they bring the money for equipment, but that doesn't mean that because you run the business and they brought the money that you get to fucking own 98% of the business because you're doing the work. That's not the way a partnership works. This dude brings the money, you bring the shit, and it's 50-50 or 49-51 or something that you agree upon. There's just all kinds of ridiculous misunderstandings about how partnerships should be formed. Most of them are fucked up because people are idealists in the beginning. In beginning of a relationship it's always the easiest it's always easy in the

beginning to say man we're gonna conquer the world we're gonna do bro when i opened something with super stores back in 1999 i thought we would be like on boats and hoes in like six months bro like i thought i'd be driving a fucking lamborghini and like fucking six months and that was without internet yeah and you know And you know what? You know what happened between the time that I actually got a Lamborghini, which was 12 years in? A lot of shit. It was hard.

And I got my ass beat and so did Chris. And good thing was is that Chris had skills that I didn't have and I had skills that he didn't have. And that's what created an effective partnership. And then, you know, when we started First Form, we brought in Sal. Sal fucking has skills that neither one of us have. You see what I'm saying? And we didn't just say, hey, man, I like you and let's be partners.

This is going to be fun because I promise you, bro, it ain't going to be fun. It's going to be much harder than you could fucking possibly imagine. It's going to take much longer than you could possibly comprehend. And these people that you partner with have to bring in skills that you don't have otherwise you're going to get beat by people who do have that like if you have like let's say we have a a quarterback all right and then we got another quarterback and then we got another quarterback which is usually the case when it comes to starting a small business everybody wants to be the ceo everybody wants to be the man bro being the ceo ain't fucking fun it fucking

sucks okay because you get fucking beat for everybody else's stupid motherfucking decisions and you guys all want that role but you only want it because you want the like shares the recognition for it when in reality bro it's the most brutal fucking role you could have i would much rather in hindsight have taken the role of back-end dude than fucking face guy. Much, much, much rather have done that. Chris has a good time. You know what? But Chris is good at what he does.

Sal's great at what he does. Chris fucking works. Everybody brings their fucking value. You know what I'm saying? But the point is, when people are young, they try to start these little organizations and these businesses for the reason of being cool and having credit and having a title and having a name on a business card. Dude, I call that playing business. And you know what happens to people who play business? They get their fucking ass beat by people who are actually doing business, who don't worry about things like title and don't worry about things like credit and worry more so about fucking kicking ass and putting out the best product.

That's the point yeah so when you decide who you're going to be partners with and who you're going to stick to you have to fucking look at it what does this person bring that i can't do and if they can't bring anything that you can't already do then you shouldn't partner with them no matter how much you like them partnership should be a true blending of a strategic tactical advantages not hey man we're just going to do this and split it like that's not how that'll never work because what'll end up happening is as the company grows if you're lucky enough for it to have it grow you'll be competing with this other person over the credit i don't give a fuck about the credit i think everybody in this room and in this building knows that now do i get a lot of the credit i do but the truth

of the matter is i don't care it's actually them those guys do all the work i do i do the organization and the the steering of the ship i'm i'm in the bucket at the top of the titanic saying steer left so we don't hit that fucking iceberg right okay that's my job at this point in time and and and dude i don't care about the awards and the accolades or any of that shit and i think that's what actually has made me uh and made our organizations all of them uh successful is because the the there's no real thirst or hunger for the credit like my brother doesn't give a fuck ch Chris doesn't give a fuck. I don't give a fuck.

We're just trying to win. Yeah. And we use our skill sets together to do that. Yeah. I'm reading over this question, and I'm wondering, like, do you think he, like, maybe he was saying that in the sense of, like, because he is so young that he doesn't want to get taken advantage of

by older sharks in the business? Well, how the fuck are you going to get taken advantage of when you don't have shit? Yeah. That's my point. Yeah. You think you got shit. You don't have shit yet, bro. So how are you going to be taken advantage of if you didn't bring nothing to the table?

Right. That's my point. Dude, listen. There's this fucking- The 50-person client. Listen, dude. There is a problem with ego with the younger generation of fucking operators these guys think they're much and by the way so did i so i'll give you that when i was fucking

24 i thought i was the shit i walked around like i had a 20 foot dick and i knew all this shit and i could fucking kick everybody's ass in business and you know what i was a fucking idiot so i'll give you that i i was the same way that's how i know you're like that all right so stop fucking overestimating your own skills be honest build your skill set and match it with someone who has a complimentary skill set i love it man yeah i love it guys andy question number three uh andy i'm 26 years old i'm a a man. I don't know why I put that. We went from 22 to 24, 26. We're at the latter here. It wasn't even intentional.

But yeah, he puts in parentheses male. So I guess he just wanted to clarify that. He him? Yeah. Here's a rule. If you put your fucking pronouns in the question, I'm not answering it. Oh, I don't get asked. No, I wouldn't even put it up there.

Andy, I'm not answering that. I wouldn't even put it up there. Eddie, I'm 26 years old and in what I would call my own stage of sleeping in the back of the supplement store. I have a very small construction company that I finally ventured on my own this year. My social circle is nearly non-existent. I'm humbly a pretty good looking guy. I'm in great shape, good money. I haven't been on a real date in two years. I have a hard time going out. I feel like I'm wasting my time. You are. I create enemies in my head out of the people just to drive me to surpass them. And when I do, I'm looking at the

next thing. I feel completely behind in life no matter what. Although I don't necessarily feel happy, this is the thing that brings me the most satisfaction, this mentality. I just feel like now is not the time to, quote unquote, live life. Did you feel like this or am I developing some unhealthy habits? I know to this day you still feel behind, but does the chip on your shoulder go away? Do you feel like your guard is down and it's not always a competition? What's your thoughts on this andy you you feel like you're creating unhealthy habits according to whom according to a bunch of people that are going to be in debt their whole life a bunch of people who are going to

struggle their whole life a bunch of people who are going to get married and have fucking kids and get divorced and fuck up their whole entire existence because they rushed into it. Is that, is that who you're talking about? Because I would ignore those people. All right. And if I'm being completely honest, it sounds to me like you have all the fucking markings of being someone who is going to be highly driven and highly successful. And what I have to tell you is that it is going to be lonely and it is going to be frustrating and you are going to feel like an outcast and you are going to feel like no one gets it and one understands and that's because you're a rare and the rare person is the one who builds greatness all right if everybody else thought like you

we it wouldn't be rare okay um so let's think about this for a second. First of all, I want to talk about the dating thing. Your value as a man in reality, whether people want to admit this or not, whether people get upset about this or not, I don't fucking care, is not going to come until you're like probably in your mid thirties. All right. That's reality. Because when women are young, they will date older men who are making more money, who are doing, you know, things with their life and they're going to shit on you. And that's the reality of being young, ambitious man.

You're probably going to get told by a bunch of girls like I did, you know, hey, you know, when are you going to get serious? You know, this is this is a pipe dream. You know, this is never going to work out. When are you going to start taking your life serious and get to get your shit together and all this shit and you're gonna you're gonna have women tell you that um who are you know trying to chase older men who are in their 30s who have a little bit more life underneath their belt right and uh and what you don't want to have happen i'm not saying you shouldn't date but what you don't want to have happen is you to get locked up with some woman who is less than your potential because you did it when you didn't have shit and you were you were broke and you were

struggling and you just took what you could get because you didn't want to be alone all right so that's something to think about I'm not gonna sit here and say you should do this or should do that but I will tell you this when you're when you have your a little bit more momentum you have your, a little bit more momentum going and you have a little bit more going for your life and you're doing a little bit better in your life, you're going to get a better selection of potential partners in a relationship. And it's important that you know that that, that will eventually come. Um, and you don't, I don't think anybody wants to settle down with someone who's less than what their potential is.

Um, but a lot of people get mad when I say this or when anybody says this because people make other decisions. But I'm just telling you, your value as a man, you will have better selection of possible partners a little bit further down the road from where you are at 26. As far as feeling like an outcast you're gonna feel like an outcast bro anybody who's driven like you are anybody who's wanting to win as bad as you are anybody who's putting in the work the way that you are they're going to be looked at as some sort of weirdo uh that's how i was my whole life i was looked at as i had my priorities out of whack um i was not living you know i got told that i i needed to have more balance i needed to have more balance. I needed to

have more fun. I need to take it easy. I need to not care as much. I need to not be as intense. I need to not blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I got told that by a bunch of people who quite frankly at this point in their life at the same age as me are struggling very hard. Okay. And I have my struggles too. I'm not saying I don't. Uh, and that's another thing. I think we got to recognize that, you know, we trade struggles, you know, what's, what problems do you want to have? Do you want to have the problems of not being able to afford to do shit? Do you want to have the problems of being stuck with a woman who's, you know, not the quality of the woman that you could potentially get later on? Do you want to, like, do you want to regret not doing what you could have done with your life?

Or do you want to have the problems of, you know, maybe you can't afford shit. Maybe you can't. And maybe you look back and you say, man, you know what? I missed out on a couple things. You know what I mean? But here's the cool thing. At least when you miss out on a couple things back then, you got something to show for it. The other way around, you don't got nothing to show for it.

So that's how I've always looked at it. And yes, I'll be real. Like there's things that I look at when I examine my life and I say, man, you know, I wish I would have done a little bit more traveling or I wish I would have done a little bit more because in hindsight, I would have been the same place that I'm at. I'm just keeping it real with you guys. But also at the same time, I get satisfaction out of doing what I do. I like what I do.

And I do feel like I'm wasting time when I'm not doing it. And I can totally relate to someone with that mentality. And I think that, you know, we have to be very careful not to take society's judgments and criticisms at whatever point we're on because most those people are not on the same path as you and they're not gonna be and of course those people are gonna judge you because when they judge you they're trying to affirm that they made the right choice and you made the wrong choice when they see you going out and trying to become something build something uh create things live a more profitable you know bigger quote-unquote fruitful life more successful life they will judge you automatically because they have chosen

differently so people like to be right you know look at the look at the politics in the world people people are literally arguing over what's going on watching the president of the united states dismantle this country because they wanted to be right about donald trump that you know people will ride being right into the dirt yeah so you have to be fucking smart not to fucking fall into that like these people who are telling you that you you know you take it too serious you're too intense you're too you're too into what you do uh you're too focused you're this you're that those people are always going to say that to you and then whenever their life is in

shambles when they're 40 something years old and they don't have shit to show for it you know what they're going to say they're going to say well at least i live some life yeah you know and i like at least i had that van when i was 20 right bro you're not going to care you're going to say well at least i live some life yeah you know and i like at least i had that van when i was 20 right bro you're not going to care you're going to be like cool man like i can do whatever i want and so you know there's a trade you're trading the comforts and conveniences of a normal life right now for an exceptional life later and then people will like to say stuff stuff like this too well what happens if you get sick and die? Well, then you fucking get sick and die, man. I mean, what do you think Kobe Bryant says? You think Kobe Bryant fucking, if you called him up on the phone right now and

say, Hey Kobe, do you regret your life? He's going to say, fuck no. He's like, I went hard as fuck, bro. I did everything I could. I worked my ass off and I did the best that I could with the time that I got. And nobody could take that away from me. He's a fucking legend because of it. But people will say, Ooh, you know, you, he needed to live his life or you need to do this or that You see what i'm saying? So like bro, it's the peanut gallery and we don't listen to the peanut gallery We don't fucking take what they have to stay serious. Those people are on a different path than you um

You have to do what's best for you and I would do it with intensity because i'll be real with you All the things that this person asked, those are all things I felt the whole entire time, every single time. So I think you have a lot of the markings of someone who is obsessively, who will be obsessively great at what they do. And people are going to judge you for that, bro. bro i mean i get judged constantly for that i mean just look at some of the comments on some of the videos that are posted about me on the internet that people post in short form this guy's fucking crazy this guy got mental health problem no motherfucker i don't have mental health problems i have the fucking problems that you wish you fucking had and that's why you're talking that shit you see what i'm saying so it So it's, you know, oh, it sounds like some unhealed trauma. Yeah, I got some unhealed trauma with a big-ass fat wallet right here, baby. You know what I'm saying?

Like, fucking what the fuck? I'm just saying. Like, everybody wants to knock for every fucking thing, you know? Like, at least if you're dedicated, you walk out with a prize. You don't walk out with a life that's in fucking shambles. This idea of a perfect life, of perfect happiness, and perfect family, and perfect balance, it's fucking bullshit. We got to pick and choose what things we want.

And we got to go after those things. And we shouldn't judge each other for those things because not everybody's built for the path that you're trying to go on. When I was younger, I used to judge the people that didn't go on the path as like quote unquote losers. Right. But now I don't do that anymore because I realized that like, dude, that's just their path and that's okay. And we just call them liberals. Yeah. I mean, look, man, I, I, I respect and value anybody's decision. Here's where I don't value it. What I can't stand. That's a huge pet peeve of mine that we see in society right now is this idea that some people's lives are in this like shitty spot right they don't have any money they got very little possessions they

can't really pay for their shit and then they pretend like that's what they wanted the whole time that's what I don That's what I don't like. What I don't like is people adopting their life and then lying about how they got there. Like, bro, just say, hey, man, it didn't go the way I wanted, but now I'm doing the best I can. You see what I'm saying? Trying to fool us that there's shit. Yeah, bro, I hate that shit.

That's where all these fucking moral warriors on the internet come from. Their life sucks. They can't afford shit. They live in a shitty house. They got a shitty partner. They drive a shitty shit. They live in a shitty house. They got a shitty partner. They drive a shitty car. They go to a job they hate. And then they pretend like this is what the fuck they wanted. Fuck you, man. You think I'm fucking stupid? And then they get on the internet and say all kinds of ignorant shit about anybody who's doing anything. I mean,

dude, look at anybody successful on the internet and then read the comments about them. And you have all these fucking losers saying, yeah, but you know it's blah blah blah blah blah you don't fucking know any of that you're just talking shit because they got something you ain't got you chose not to do yeah and you chose it dude and that's okay i don't fucking care that's what you chose but like don't sit here and try to villainize everybody who's either doing something because they don't have a life that you have because you fucked up your own life. By the way, you could change it today if you would just get out of that victim mentality. You know what I'm saying? Absolutely.

Like, bro, do you not notice this? Do you know what I'm talking about? This moral warrior culture that exists on the internet that judges every single person that does anything outside of the norm as some sort of fucked up person? That's how they justify their excuse of not doing it. Get the fuck out of here, dude. No one's buying it. You're not fooling me, bro. Yeah, you're not fooling anybody,

and you just look like a little pussy bitch in the comments. Like, real talk. I'm eating Vienna sausages because they're so good. Yeah, I fucking love it. I chose it. You're eating a tree, bro? Yeah. I'm eating Vienna sausages because I chose to be humble.

Shut the fuck up, bro. I don't give a fuck how humble you are. You ain't eating that. Dude. bro yeah i mean i'm eating vienna sausages because i chose to be humble shut the up bro i don't give a how home you are you ain't eating that dude that's called it's a bunch of fake humility it's a it's a misunderstanding of humility the truth of the matter is you can't even be humble unless you're great okay because to be humble you have to be great that means you have to say oh this is i'm doing this but this doesn't make me any better than anybody else right right so you have to be doing big to even be humble so you can't just be a loser and be humble that's automatic yeah that that's like you're that's automatic default that's the opposite of humbler yeah right like i'm i'm i'm and by the way people don't even know the difference between meek and humble you know know, meek and modest and humble.

There's three different fucking things. You know what I mean? Oh, humble much? No, not really. I'm the fucking MSCEO, bitch. I'm not very humble. But you can do it too. Yeah.

Sign up for my course, $9.99. Yeah. Fuck, bro. Anybody who runs around with a license plate on his fucking car and says msceo probably ain't that humble you're correct it's on a couple of them too yeah yeah well they gave me two plates i want everybody to know my point is is that bro it's not about that yeah you know what i'm saying it's a humility really isn't about any of that. It's about understanding this. You're not as great as the results that you're producing.

You're no different than anybody else. That person over there, they could do the exact same things that you're doing if they did the exact same actions. That's what humility is. It's not thinking less of yourself. It's thinking more of others and just understanding that the reason you are where you are

is because you took certain actions, not because you're gifted or you're great or you're better than right so most people don't even understand the true thinking of what humble really means but then they try to weaponize it on the internet oh you're successful so you're not humble yeah you're right man fuck off whatever you say yeah right you know but you're even vienna wieners and i'm eating fucking steak right you know is vienna weeners how them wieners bro i'm just being real man i love it dude we should just start dude we should start a segment you know how we have cruised the comments yeah in cti you go cruise the no go find we'll go find the you're gonna do this zeeshan we're gonna go find the asshole comments on the going to do this, Zeeshan. We're going to go find the fucking asshole comments

on the success, the, the, the success posts. Yeah, yeah, and we're going to fucking put them on the internet

right here and we're going to tear them up. No, I love it. Yeah, so we're going to find all the little fucking humble warriors

and then we're going to put them on the screen and we're going to make fun of them. I'm down with that. Yeah. I'm down. Sounds like a good time. Fucking call them out

for their bullshit. I'm so tired of it, dude It's so discouraging like to the like these are three young people we answered on this on this I'm gonna win all trying to win all trying to create greatness and everybody they know in their lives trying to take it away from You know I'm saying like bro. That's fucked up Like and you know wonder why people don't win you know it's because they don't root for winning Yeah, it's a crabs in a bucket, bro. Yeah, bro.

We got an episode on that, don't we? Crabs in a bucket. I'm just tired of seeing it, dude. Like, we should be encouraging young people to win. What is it? Episode 59 of Real AF. Go listen to that shit. For real.

Stop right now because the show is over and go listen to episode 59. All right. Peace out. Peace right, peace out.