REAL AF with Andy Frisella - Five Days In, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO118

Episode Date: January 5, 2017

It's already five days into the new year and some people who made grandiose resolutions have already compromised them. According to the MFCEO, that is exactly why they don't have the life they want - and that is entirely their fault. What is it going to take for people to understand that wanting success and being a real practitioner of success are two different things. Even if you've already screwed up your plan, stop being in love with the idea of success and start actually working toward it. Now.

Hey guys, what's up? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy, I'm your host, and I am the motherfucking CEO. Guys, if this is your first time listening, welcome. This podcast is probably going to be a punch right in the fucking teeth for you. It's going to be the shit that you need to hear versus what all your friends tell you and what you want to hear. Today is going to be no different. Today is going to be an extra special new year's version of the Thursday thunder. Okay. Here we are. It's the 5th of January. We're five days in. We have all these people who have set all these special resolutions, who decided they're going to do all these things and become all these great things over the next 12 months.

And that's great. I'm happy that at least you're setting goals, but let's be real. How many of you have already faltered? How many of you have already skipped a workout? How many of you have already fucked up on your diet? How many of you have already decided to not make those phone calls or send those emails or do the extra things that you said you were going to do? How many of you made a resolution to wake up earlier and you're already not doing it. How many of you made a resolution to do the extra 10 minutes or 10 pages of reading every day and already aren't doing it? Five days in.

See, I know for a fact that a lot of you listening, more than half statistically, have already done those things. You've already decided that these things were too hard for you to do. And then what you're going to do is the next 12 months, you're going to end up doing the same fucking shit you did for the last 12 months. And you're going to buy everybody's special business program and listen to these special podcasts and do these special focus groups, okay, the networking groups. Do you ever wonder why people go to networking groups? It's because they don't have anything to offer, and they fucking meet up with a lot of other people

who don't have anything to offer, and they talk about what the fuck they're going to do. You people who have already fallen off five days in need to seriously evaluate what the fuck it is you want from life. If you can't stick to something for five fucking days, you deserve to have a shitty life. You deserve to get your ass kicked.

You deserve to be miserable. We're talking about five fucking days. We're not talking about 50 years. We're not talking about the five years it probably takes to build something worthwhile. We're not talking about the five months it could take for you to lose a hundred pounds. We're talking about five fucking days and you can't even stick to it for that. So what the fuck do you think you deserve? You deserve exactly what you get. And that's the truth. That's the things your friends won't tell you when you're bitching and moaning basement playing fucking video games when you should be reading or improving or working out or fucking doing something I'll tell you right now I'm sick of hearing it I get fucking thousand emails a day on the MFCEO project and I don't doubt for a second that all of you love the idea of success, but the idea of success and actually executing and being a practitioner of success are two different

things. Who the fuck wouldn't like the idea of success? Everybody likes the idea of success. Everybody wants to be ripped. Everybody wants to be jacked. Everybody wants to look like a fucking model. Everybody wants to have millions of. Everybody wants to look like a fucking model. Everybody wants to have millions of fucking dollars in their bank account. And anybody who says they

don't want those things is full of fucking shit. But going out and doing those things, going out and building a plan backwards from that point that you want to be and going through the day to day to day actions of building that, you don't love that idea. That's not your main love. You like the idea of success as long as it's fucking easy, as long as it doesn't take dedication, as long as it doesn't take you having to do things that you don't feel like doing when you don't feel like doing them. See, you need to decide if you're in love with the idea of success or if you're in love with success.

Because those are two different things. Success is grind. Success is work. Success is hustle. And more than anything, success is executing on a day-by-day basis. Okay. You're not going to snap your fucking fingers when you're a certain age and be wealthy. It's not just going to fall out of the fucking sky. You're not going to have the success store come and drop a bunch of gold coins on your fucking melon. No, you are going to have to work. Think about all the people that say and comment and

email and talk like this, man, one day if I have this, I'm going to do this. What do you mean if you have this? What do you mean if you, why don't you go out and make it fucking happen? That's what successful people do. They don't talk about what if I have this maybe one day if the magic wand waves above my head that doesn't actually exist, but I believe it exists because I'm a fucking pussy and can't take control of my own life. And if I do those things and I'm lucky enough and the good Lord blesses me with enough and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, every single statement that takes control from their hands and puts it on somebody else's hands. If you're that person, you deserve what you fucking get, which is going to be nothing,

period. So you have a choice. We're five days in and maybe you have fucked up. Maybe you have made some mistakes. Maybe you have slipped off the wagon already, but we are five fucking days in and maybe you have fucked up. Maybe you have made some mistakes. Maybe you have slipped off the wagon already, but we are five fucking days in. We are not five months in. We're not fucking 10 months in. We're five days in. Pull your fucking pants up, put your big boy boots on and get to fucking work and quit being a goddamn pussy because pussies don't fucking make it. You could go back and find the tactical solution to this right now by going back and listening to the podcast win every day, win the day, whatever the fuck it's called. Go back and listen to it, figure out where it is you want to be.

Build a list of the daily tasks that you need to do to get there on a day-by-day basis. Do those tasks, and guess what's going to happen? Your little resolutions that you decided to make that you've already fucking slipped up on will start to come in focus, and you'll start to get closer, and those things will start to be more a part of

your life. But if you quit now, you might as well just fucking quit forever because I'm so sick and tired of seeing and hearing and listening to people who make up all these goals and do nothing about them. Five fucking days in. We're five days in. Five days in. Do you have what it takes? Do you love success or do you love the idea of success? Some of y'all need to do some soul searching to figure it out.