REAL AF with Andy Frisella - Quit Playing Yourself, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO37

Episode Date: January 7, 2016

"Quit playing yourself," Andy Frisella says. What does that mean?  Stop buying the get rich quick lie. Your success is going to take time and the experience you will gain will be invaluable.

All I do is work, work, work Never run the sidelines, I only Hustle, hustle, hustle Never take a day off, I only Work, work, work I don't mess around, kid, I only Can't, can't, can't Lord, he never seems to get you

All I do is work, all I do is work All I do is work, all I do is work Hey, what's up, guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project Thursday Thunder. I'm Andy, and I am the motherfucking CEO. Gotta apologize for my voice, I got a little DJ Khaled, a little raspiness, I don't even know what it is, a little tone loke, but I've lost my voice for a couple weeks, which is why the podcasts have been in and out for the last couple weeks. But, you know, I want to talk about something today, and I'm not going to

take up a lot of your time. I'm going to talk real quick, real fast. I'm going to get to the point, and I'm going to let you go on with your day because I know you're out there killing it. Here's the fucking reality, guys. And like I just mentioned, DJ Khaled, dude, he always says, don't play yourself. All right. Quit playing yourself. That's what we're going to talk about today. All right. Every time I turn on the computer, every time I turn on my phone, every time I cruise social media, I see multiple, multiple get rich quick schemes by Buy my program Join my system Make X amount of dollars a year

Boom, boom, boom That's all I see Stacks of cash on a fucking mattress Stacks of cash on an airplane By the way guys You go on eBay and buy your fucking stacks of fucking cash You want to see stacks of cash? Go on eBay and Google your fucking stacks of fucking cash. You want to see stacks of cash? Go on eBay

and Google prop money or movie money. You'll see where the fuck this money comes from that people are posting all over the place. All right. Quit buying in to the idea of overnight success. Everybody out there who can rent a hot car or live in a nice house or shoot a video at their buddy's house with their buddy's cars is trying to capitalize on the hot thing right now. And the hot thing right now is be an entrepreneur, be successful. Okay. And the sad thing is, is you guys are fucking buying it. I don't know what disgusts me more, that people would actually sell this shit or that people would actually buy this shit. But here's the reality. Stop playing yourself.

All right? You're never going to be great always looking for the shortest possible way to where you want to go. You're never going to be great looking for the easy way. You're never going to be a billionaire in 12 months. You're never going to be a fucking millionaire in 12 months. Okay. Quit believing the hype. Quit looking for every single new path every three months that is going to get you where you want to go. Because here's the thing, guys, three months isn't shit. Okay?

You have to dedicate yourself for five years, ten years to a goal. And then when you let that time pass and you're aggressively patient during that time, and what I mean by that is you are doing as much as you can with the time you have, but you're also understanding that success takes time. And you do that work and you're honest with that work and you focus on creating value and you focus on doing things the right way, success will happen. But if you're one of these people who's going to bounce around from idea to idea, to idea, to idea, to idea, when in reality, the only people getting rich are the people selling you this shit. Look, you deserve what you get. Okay. I've been the guy who's bought the programs. I've been the

guy who's believed the shit from other people. I've bought them all. You know, when I was 17, 18, 19 years old, I was buying all this programs and buying all these things because I believe people. And here's the thing that bothers me about these get rich quickers is that they prey on people's desperation. All right. They know that people have to pay their bills. They know that people could barely survive. They know that people are struggling and that they're desperate. And what they try to do is craft a message that is, you know, so appealing to that person that that person will pay their last 100 or 200 or $300 to fucking join this program as their last hope. And dude, that's not right. That's not ethical. I hate that shit, okay? I do not stand for it.

I don't like it. It bothers me on a personal level. It bothers me on a moral level. And anybody you see out there doing that, dude, run as fast as you can, okay? Being successful, achieving your goals is going to take work. It's going to take work. It's going to take focus. It's going to take commitment and doing something else every three months. Isn't

going to get you anywhere, but where you are right now with less money in your pocket and more money in that other guy's pocket. So guys, I want to hit you up with this. Quit playing yourself. All right. You have to dedicate the proper amount of work The proper amount of thought The proper amount of focus The proper amount of dedication The proper amount of discipline To get where you want to be

There is no easy road And anybody who's telling you there's an easy road I would run from that person as fast as you fucking can Because they're trying to stick their hand in your pocket And pull that money out Alright Now with that being said Because I know we're going to have some people here

They're going to be like Well so and so's got a program What about so and so First of all don't email me And ask about so and so's program Alright Do your research You know

Check the person out Are they legitimate Are they legitimately in business? Have they legitimately built businesses or is their business simply selling you information? Because the guys who just sell you information, those aren't the guys you want to buy from. You want to buy from the guys. Let's say we've got a guy who has a program who's built $100 or $200 or $300 million real estate portfolio. He's done it in real life. That's the guy you want to buy from. A guy who's built seven companies and he talks about how to build companies and how to become successful entrepreneur. That's the guy you want to buy from. The guy you don't want to buy from is the guy who

is, you know, his only business is selling you something of information, which there's a lot of them out there. All right. So do your research, do your homework, be smart, use your brain and do some research on what these guys are all about, who they are, what they're about. And, and quit giving these people who don't deserve your attention, your attention and your money because dude, they're fake as fuck. And that's the bottom line. All right. Plenty of people out there trying to sell you a dream. Not many people out there trying to sell you the truth. And the truth is there is no easy way. You're going to have to fucking dig in. You're going to have to become a wild fucking animal and you're going to have to do the work. All right. Now, are you going to have programs

that are going to help you? Yes. Okay. But there's no replacement for experience. There's no replacement for going out there and doing work, failing work, learning a lesson and moving forward. All right. There's nothing that's going to replace that. So you can look for all the information you want. You can read all the books you want. You could do everything you want, but if you don't go out and do something and are willing to fail on a daily fucking basis, you're never going to truly learn what entrepreneurship and success is about. Okay. Now people are gonna say, well, what about college for entrepreneurship? College is fucking worthless for entrepreneurship. It's a fucking joke. Save your money, right? Go start a fucking

popsicle stand. That'd be more effective would be more effective Are there programs on entrepreneurship out there That are worth buying? Sure there are But you have to buy them from people who are true entrepreneurs Okay And stop buying these fucking Ideas and dreams and hopes With stacks of cash on a fucking private jet And start listening to people who have really done shit

Alright so that's my message for today Don't fucking play yourself cash on a fucking private jet and start listening to people who have really done shit. All right. So that's my message for today. Don't fucking play yourself.