Red Scare - Summertime Loveline Tracks

Episode Date: June 6, 2022

We were just getting our files in order I actually don't even think that's the right one but look at your cute folder I know mine's like work research there's some really good stuff in there whatever we'll just do yeah oh we're back we're back happy pride and happy pride Dasha I was at blooming dales today from from one fag hag to another happy pride would you get it blooming dales I got two candles two asop bodies scrubs hmm one I'm gonna give to my boyfriend he's not gonna appreciate it at all what else did I get some dry shampoo like just some random yeah I tried on three different sizes of a

maje dress decide I didn't like the way any of them right yeah and I didn't need it but there was all this pride stuff there was a sign that said like here at blooming dales we're celebrating pride this month and every other month and I was like I was like what just the notion of pride was really great on me like I was like such a symptom of social decay that we have a decline in decadence to celebrate proud what are people so proud of proclivity to getting monkey pox people's disgusting sex lives I'm so proud of my sexuality anyway it'll be it'll be a fun month can you yeah no it won't but you'll be out of here do they

have pride in New Zealand they probably do yeah over there probably all those mish tank tops it'll be winter there but yeah but what does that mean for New Zealand does it actually get cold up in there it gets they were like 60s 50s 50s maybe I think it gets like cold yeah but they were really telling me like I'm not in New York you know I was like don't worry they were like it's winter like don't worry about it but yeah I think it'll be on the colder and so people won't be acting out as much yeah you know I mean it seems like they're always doing like a Mad Max stuff in the Thunderdome in New Zealand yeah New

Zealand feels more pastoral and kind of melancholic than Australia which is a little more like extreme and like playa as you know Bondi Beach I tried on a dress from a brand called Bondi Beach and immediately like felt like I needed a rape show where we're where you don't know I went down to the the 9-11 memorial today oh because as I said Eli you left me forever you went to Nebraska Omaha Nebraska to play a show for like one night and yeah and when he's gone I get very emotional and sensitive sure not because he's gone but just because it's like my time to to girl out and really lean into

menstruation yeah without alienating him yeah and so I like walk around like publicly crying and shopping totally you were crying at the 9-11 memorial yeah for sure and I went up in like century 21 in H&M century 21 I thought they went bankrupt now they're still there wow yeah okay you want some portal on cashmere gloves in June I was at the Bloomy's uptown oh really well that one's my fate I was having a day you know and I almost didn't go because I was tired after my blowout after my high at my cool Japanese haircut yeah oh yeah your hair looks nice thank you yeah I got some low lights yeah what's the difference

what's the difference between a low light and a high light lightens your hair and like a low light puts makes it kind of darker I want to put more of like a medium honey tone uh-huh finally brought in the right picture of Lea say dude to my hairdresser the one where she's wearing a suit and tie and looks like a lesbian happy pride oh I know I know she's so gorgeous too she really should be debasing herself like that no she shouldn't be dressing like fucking but the hair Nathan Fielder and Nathan for you that's my job stole your can you were gonna wear that big suit then you found out she did it

first so you got some low lights and a blowout hair cut hair cut yeah and then I went then I was like oh you know Bloomy's is right there just go I was like just do yourself a favor yeah some retail therapy mm-hmm and it worked yeah mm-hmm make me feel better yeah replace the the second hand shame of witnessing others celebrate pride with the first hand shame of buying two body scrubs yeah buying some stupid ass bullshit totals be a total bullshit you can't afford but shouldn't bought a small dipty can just an idiot there's a stupid thing to buy yeah yeah oh man yeah we're doing a love line yeah but there's a major breaking

news event today oh yeah another mass shooting oh another mess yeah literally yeah there oh did you get pulled a question about the shooting actually no but should we maybe we can end on that I just thought it was funny because I was like wow that's not a love related awesome girl called in asking yeah what we thought about the what the police did and mm-hmm Uvalde mm-hmm and that she it seems like they did a pretty bad job but she wanted to hear our nuanced take yeah I don't have a nuanced take I guess we could get it out of the way they seem like they messed up yeah really bad mm-hmm yeah but I still think we should

you know refund the police so we can train them better to handle those six kind of situations that makes sense to me yeah I have no spicy or humorous takes no about this well now there's another one in Tulsa yeah and Johnny Depp and Amber heard both guilty what how is that possible no like how is that legally possible because it's somebody suing and somebody else's counter suing or they found her guilty of defamation and him of one count in her countersuit or something so they both like both guilty of BPD love I actually think there's only one BPD person in that relationship and that's Johnny Depp I don't know Amber heard as a stone

cold narcissist she ain't BPD she's just lorping I was I was listening to an audio recording of one of their arguments where he claims she punched him and she was I wasn't punching you I was hitting you I was hitting you it's you are not getting punched babe like I was hitting you and I was like she you know hitting isn't punching punching is hitting but hitting isn't yeah you know when I was like I kind of get where she's coming from but she did sound super BPD yeah on on in that recording for sure but he's yeah also a total like drug addict moral void you know yeah so what like what are you gonna do he seems

like such a Russian guy yeah he does actually well then did you see his statement that was like he's giving fatherless he's giving dad dead in the snow yeah wait did I what did I read what he I didn't even read his statement I just saw that he like it was written on like Titan typewriter font yeah I thought was so him to use it for like a hunter as Thompson kind of moment because he's kind of like a Lovecraftian steampunk minus all of the racism which is what actually makes it redeeming he's like vintage yeah yeah like vaguely Edwardian mm-hmm it's I think some of the roles he's taken on like maybe Captain

Jack Sparrow sort of fractured his psyche in some ways but you know manifest like that this and with those sorts of aesthetics you know yeah and the pills you know when you're high on pills you just think like everything looks great and you're so cool you know you really feel so cool when you're like high on pills even when you're really not well yeah I always knew my ex-boyfriend was back on on drugs when he would post pictures of him wearing a bucket hat yeah when he started identifying as a hunter as Thompson which is what Johnny Depp has been doing his whole life he was like I didn't want to be an actor man I wanted

to play the guitar and what are you talking about faggot you you jumped at the first opportunity to have a big break which like why wouldn't you like you would I would anybody would in that position yeah I would have banned in music so quickly and he was so young yeah you know he really just he and I don't really know Amber Heard story but mmm just a gorgeous blonde yeah trying to make it in Hollywood I think she's like one of those like classic American blondes that comes from money but is but seems like white trash because she's like culturally and emotionally impoverished yeah she has kind of like

vaguely Anna Nicole Smith vibe so I'm probably flattering her too much it's a little bit too charitable yeah I think Anna Nicole Smith was you know a very sweet person yeah more of an angel mm-hmm definitely yeah Amber Heard's no angel that's no she's a straight-up demon you know Johnny Depp's not not without fault here yeah but I haven't really been following the trial no I haven't either I've been enjoying it no you know who has been enjoying it is Glenn Greenwald and our group chat yeah that we haven't been participating because we're not watching mm-hmm Glenn's a fan yeah some people think this is

kind of a death knell on the Me Too movement yeah certainly feels that way and in general with like the climate has soured on girl bossery mm-hmm due to our tireless efforts on our misogynistic podcast to raise it yet again to raise awareness about how women are horrible well as as horrible and as devious and as conniving as men for sure yeah but unofficially so which makes them more dangerous yeah and they also have a chip on their shoulder from them losing the sexual dimorphism battle or they think they lost it what do you mean like they think they're like resentful of the fact that they're like smaller and less

physically powerful yeah not necessarily but but yeah there's definitely a resentment yeah I think I think women in hunter-gatherer societies for example or you know maybe some more classic patriarchal societies weren't as weren't so uppity no definitely not because patriarchy is kind of you know there's a it's a contract you know well and men haven't really held up their end of the bargain no no they haven't and now everything's falling apart so well that's why I chimp every time I see one of these like right-wing guys sounding off about how women are to blame women specifically not like the kind of

ambient feminization or emasculation of culture but women specifically are to blame for the decline of Western civilization because they go on only fans and like take selfies it's like no you're the one that's supposed to provide the leadership where women have the upper hand and the final vote is that they choose who's they elect who is worthy of respect among the leaders they choose the leadership that's worthy of respect yes which is why they're ultimately more powerful than men exactly and if women really understood that they'd be better off but but come on now you can't be mad at a gaggle of hose

for doing what they do best throughout time what's lindy which is objectifying themselves and being exhibitionistic yeah you can only be mad at yourself for not being a male guard or male guardian I mean you know yeah this is this is true where are these chicks male guardians mm-hmm why is nobody stepping up to the plate I read the Wikipedia for Dagestan at the hair salon today the land of the turn I was shocking mm-hmm were they from Dagestan I know they were Chechens I think they I think that the boundary the ethno boundary is a little I didn't make it to the notable Dagestani people though of course

hostile as was why I was even reading it and did you know there was a war there in the 1999 oh yeah I had no idea oh I I know a little bit about this because as the person who's linear tails from the Caucasus they have like a minor curiosity yeah yeah I'm also very much into a Lyarmontov and Vruvid in that whole like demon what's that it's pretty hot I also love a Nat Geovest with like multiple pockets they look great yeah this was in the war of Dagestan yeah that looks cooler than really based on the auger show yeah I know then I learned about those apartment and stuff yeah yeah and then I was just getting a

little too scared so I saw the first inside job if you thought 9-11 with an inside job mm-hmm yeah it's crazy how much of an inside job it was yeah that's why I had to go to blue me's to let off steam by the mini to tea candle cuz you're reading a red-headed muslims red-headed white muslims yeah they are beautiful over there yeah well I'm just thinking about yeah he's he's dodgastani huh yeah oh yeah he's like the most notable dodge a tiny huge ambassador for raising awareness about dog what's it called dad just I call it doggies doggies doggies it's all dusty and it seems like they're all just

dosh a stand dogs over there yeah they they like those big hounds yeah that seemed really like violent when I get over there and baptize has below they're gonna start calling it dosh a stand convert and mass to Byzantine they were they will literally put you in a pit and stone you I know they put me in a cage and they put a GoPro in the cage yeah like literally what they do it in a second I know man I know no amount of 21st century it girl charm will get you out of that situation like she has evil gene I couldn't even overpower Haas below honestly no he's

definitely stronger in the heart yeah he would stab you in the leg and then you would go down and then he'd stab you in the neck you could get me though you know you could and you know there's that like Russian proverb that about people from the caucus it's like um you know they shake your hand with one hand and stab you in the back with the other not not wrong not no yeah there's like a Russian anecdote about like Ukrainian guy sits on attack and like and then he like he goes like ow and then he's like then he looks at the tack and he takes it to like pedal like to sell or something and like a Polish guy sits on attack and

does things stupid and then a Belarusian guy sits on attack and he just keeps sitting on it because he thinks he's supposed to suffer because he likes anal stimulation just getting um yeah you should you should I don't know a lot about the the Quran I don't know a lot about the caucuses but I know a lot about the Polish Lithuanian Commonwealth yeah which is just as well you should read um Haji Marat by Tolstoy it's a very slim nice volume but it's about the stagestani warlord who like infiltrates the world of the west wow meaning Russia Europe or America Eurasia yeah and makes a Faustian

bargain hmm yeah it's about basically about the incompatibility of western dominant Islam right and is there maybe like a man who looks like a baby who wields a knife like nobody's business yeah possible actually he sounds like a bull gawk of character like he marches into the city wielding a tiny knife should we get yeah we've already done like an hour and a half well did you know do you think possible is the one on the binary do you and the warren dog is someone on for a long time an age-gap question but kind of different I don't know I just was thinking about it

and that's the folks said the hotline number so I was like okay so I've been kind of starting texting this guy and calling and we plan to meet up and go for like dinner a bit ago but I like just refined from him and now we're kind of relinking but he's like a grown man and we're kind of high up in like our government and I'm 16 and he thinks that I'm legal so this I don't know it's a fun situation and I think I should just stop talking to him I don't think I want to tell him because I would make past growth but I just I don't know should I just like fucking stop thank you it doesn't sound like you want to stop

first of all our quote our government he sounds Canadian so it's Justin Trudeau yeah who could it be hunter hunter Biden again bisexual vibes oh big time gay vibes not even gay but like gay for attention the worst kind not even gay not even gay I can't believe this 16 year old is squandering a perfectly good opportunity to become like the next post headline political scandal yeah he could end up sex murdered I know well tread carefully because you know politicians are very powerful mm-hmm but luckily you've called into this show so there's a record of the fact that a highly placed government official is actually gay

pedophile shocking yeah I wish we could whittle it down to like I know it there's it could be anyone two or three good candidates but it's literally there's dozens of options yeah I'd say you know listen to your heart intrigue addiction is something to maybe watch out for when you get older but you know mm-hmm you don't don't have the faculties yet to guard yourself against it so yeah just be careful and have fun you do you yeah Yolo no if I was a lot of teens call selfish and dramatic person yeah I would say go for it you know just out of our collective interest sure to see you sex murder and he's not gonna get sex murder but I personally would self-adject from the situation I would

avoid it all yeah of course the power should yeah mm-hmm you know you should be very careful around people with power I'm gonna take my sweater off I'm so yeah cute sweater I got it on the real real nice it's Ralph Lauren nice I would have guessed that yeah make sense all right shall we roll the next one yeah hey girls I was just wondering if you could live in any city that wasn't New York what would it be I feel like this is in the black and why and Moscow is not a valid answer thank you if you could live in any city that was in New York I like how she says Moscow isn't valid answer because I definitely would

not choose Moscow is I haven't really been to Moscow but I don't that's not the city I would choose to live in I would I would live in Dagestan wherever husband is from yeah that's no um that's a tough one I don't know like live live like you couldn't live in New York right presumably you could travel here mm-hmm I don't know London like just cuz it's so similar to New York okay this is gonna be very cliched and trite but I would go to Paris wow Paris because I you like feeling humiliated by French people we're not speaking yeah speaking French and also I think it's it's the only city where the men are as beautiful

as the women mm-hmm and I as much as I love beautiful women they're really a dime a dozen in major metropolitan cities but a truly beautiful man is like a rare sight I think the women are exceptionally beautiful in New York mm-hmm I will say um maybe I would live in Rome yeah but like they're a good one I don't know not forever I don't have any friends in Rome I get bored working on the Vatican you know I'd only get so far into trying to get in the Vatican secrets and then I'd probably get really bored the Da Vinci code yeah I do my Da Vinci code stuff over there okay it's only gonna have so much some so many

legs you know Constantinople maybe some Minsk Belarus you know what I'd go back I'd go back to Belarus because the Kushenko might be a dictator but least he's not gay remember when he said that yeah so funny again not no maybe I would go back to Bella if I couldn't live in New York you'd go back to Bella maybe I just go back to not LA I don't I hate it out it'd be interesting you know to see how things shake out there for me okay well so I don't know my I don't know my life was pretty tethered to New York so it's kind of a shattering question you know I'm like well who would I be what would I do I guess I just go back to

Bella listen I I would say go to Paris with me to hang out with our lovely and wonderful friend Thomas Chatterton Williams I'll show you the ropes that would be yeah okay yeah maybe yeah I do like that I like the churches there love to have one black friend who happens to live in Paris I have one peresian friend who happens to be black next next girls just wanted to get some advice regarding me and my girlfriend so I'm a straight guy and but I want to have a threesome with my girlfriend whether that be with a guy or a girl but here's the thing I'm kind of a

jealous person but I think my boner might overpower my heart and mind so just wanted to know what would be more worth it having a threesome with a dude which I'm totally for having a threesome with another girl which I'm also totally for which one do you think would lower my chances of the relationship ending thanks for your help love you okay sure you're equally into the idea of a threesome with another guy versus the girl seems like he's leaning kind of towards the guy yeah that's he brought that one up right away yeah usually that's not the one I think he's gay and is trying to end his relationship at all yeah yeah

you're a jealous person you're gonna be so jealous of watching your girlfriend get reamed by some guy yeah yeah I mean I've known I've had friends who've sought out threesome's in this kind of debauched way and it was always I think a not-so-subtle like move towards sabotaging their relationship you know just gives them something to be upset about and so yeah I'm with you it sounds like he's a gay guy people love giving themselves stuff to be upset about they love they love inventing new ways to be upset I sure I sure do yeah yeah yeah now obviously if you're gonna have a threesome and you insist upon it

you should do it with a girl because men are very seldom jealous of their girlfriend same-sex entanglements yeah it's a very different thing you know sexual gratification isn't all just about like kind of technique no there's some psychological kind of things factors no there's a lot of those the shame and self-hate exactly yeah yeah just because they're correct disposition so to close I would say you should interrogate your true desires mm-hmm always always by interrogate your true desires if you're not gay maybe do the MFF but don't do it the three-way at all because it's wrong and twisted three

ways yeah my hot take about three ways isn't even that they're wrong and twisted it's just that they're much like sixty-nining or yeah a decadent idea that doesn't really there yeah less impressive than they appear to be mm-hmm and like more like logistically annoying unless you're like blackout drunk in which yes you won't you won't recall anyway that's true which is probably the best way to do it it's the best way to have all sex remember it in the morning the shame doesn't get you hi Dasha and Anna so I'm newly an adult I turned 18 last June and since I turned 18 I've recently connected with a side of my

family that I hadn't spoken to my whole life it's my dad's side and we've been getting along great for the most part like I've been to a few weddings and birthdays but one of my family one of the members that I've recently actually met was my half-brother my dad's son she's like older than me he's I think he was born in 93 I know he's 28 and we were immediately like flirty with each other and like when we met I don't know if it's like tension and we hooked up a few times and I would usually just like dismiss it as just something weird or like horrors but something I would do the thing is though I think I'm in love

with him like every time he has sex it's very passionate and loving and we often like tell each other that we love each other so yeah my question is do I pursue this do I go on with this or if I do pursue him like do I hide it from my family or am I open about it because we're not I mean he's my half-brother but yeah thank you wait what's wrong with you why are you having sex with someone whose age you don't know what's a half-brother it's like somebody who's half your brother like one of your parents is the same I share a father so this is like they're literally I was complaining to you earlier that the

questions we got this time around are kind of like milk toast and then remarkable but I was clearly wrong yes wow so she's asking if she should like pursue a love connection not merely a sexual relationship with her half-brother not her step-brother I hope she's I hope this how is trolling but something I would do she's like yeah we tell each other that we love each other and we're really passionate together it's like yeah cuz you're related oh no y'all that's your family so y'all have the same dad that's shocking your dad keep it all in the family's candy getting close to your dad's side of the and you've been to a

few weddings and you're having sex with your half-brother that is shocking I know that's who listens to this podcast yeah yeah you have to stop doing that people who are incels people who do incest incest got it wow did no did who raised you who raised you your dad more data yeah yeah I want to know more about your father and what's going on is he single yeah is there a curse on is there a curse on your family or something sweetie I that sounds um wow yeah I mean you can't have being a relationship with your brother it's the oldest tax with your brother yeah it's taboo that's why there's a whole porn category about it

because it's taboo and even there they you know had to have the step the step thing yeah even there even Drake is talking about fucking stepsisters not twins not half sisters stepsisters because he can't go there nobody can go there no one should go there man I mean yeah wow can't you just do what normal people do and find a guy that looks like your dad acts like your dad I bet he does look like her dad son it's like that riddle or your your own grandma okay I don't know Dasha big fan of the pod I'm calling because I was curious about your guys's thoughts on addictive personality do you

guys think that would you consider yourself to have addictive personality if so are they like is there certain ways you found how to channel your impulses or any effective strategies that you have encountered thanks mm-hmm are you an addictive personality Dasha I really don't think I mean I'm not an addict yeah but maybe I have an addictive personality but I think I have a tremendous amount of will mm-hmm but maybe I am addicted to like the void or something you know I'm addicted to something like despair or something you know but there are many things one can be addicted to

that are not like drugs or alcohol such as trauma or exactly intrigue yeah as I mentioned earlier drama of course some of those things you know worse even than a drug addiction yeah for some people but no I don't think I really actually have an addictive personality I don't think I have the kind of libido or like stamina commitment yeah exactly it's like a full-time job to be an addict and panhandling yeah I'm ultimately too like kind of melancholic and like you know yeah sometimes I see like real addicts out in the street like panhandling for money and I'm just like you are so kind of like impressively devoted and

creative of only channel that energy into like doing something actually good for yourself but I think I also have the same problem which is like I'm actually unfortunately too mentally stable and dependable as like a parentalized child who has like low blood pressure and I never like act out when I'm having a crisis if anything I like turn it inward because I like hate the thought of like inflicting myself on other people and being like a drag and a drain yeah like in private relationships sure so I shitpost on Twitter that's a good way to cut it out yeah but I think like yeah I probably have also like some problem a

chain smoker and like a functional alcoholic but I don't think that's an addiction thing I think that's probably an anxiety and neurosis thing well what's the diff I mean yeah there's a difference yeah but I don't not like chemically devoted to yeah you're not gonna like like I could quit cold turkey as my parents did many times before me you know what I'm saying mm-hmm for sure like I don't chemical dependence on anything well that's what I learned during lent yeah I was like oh I can just not drink it's actually remarkably easy easy to just not or it's actually not easy if you're used to it I think

we're addicted to like habit and routine more than we are to any chemicals yeah like people are very like acclimated like set in their old ways yeah well that's yeah it really kind of made me mindful of how much I drank just habitually yeah you know and then when you actually think about you know how often you're just kind of like having three drinks or you know cuz like you're at dinner or something you know and you're like oh I could just like have like a glass of wine or like go to a bar and drink like some water yeah and then you're like and then I'm like alcohol really is poison yeah so now I just have

more mindfulness around like when I do it and like do it with more intention that prior I think yeah it wasn't an addiction now I sound like I'm coping but I'm not addicted to it no but really yeah I was like it's kind of a mindless sort of habit yeah well you become addicted to the routine because it creates meaning and purpose in your life even if it's like unproductive but as far as his like the second part of his question which is like how you channel addictive tendencies into something yeah creative or productive I don't know I think that that's a myth oh yeah you're probably right I was gonna say like

acting I was like it's I'm I think as a person who is sort of drawn to intensity I am I do like having you know acting as like a way of like I think New Zealand will be you know really productive for me psychologically yeah but what I'm saying is like I think those things may stem from the same impulse or want but it's a way of sublimating yeah yeah but I don't think that you can necessarily carry one over into another I think that they exist in like parallel lanes yeah I hear you yeah and like the people who are successful at channeling their creativity or their productivity are going to be successful at that

regardless regardless of whether or not they're addicted yeah other stuff yeah yeah yeah yeah that's just my a drunken two cents I actually don't know if I'm right about that or not it sounds it sounds plausible it sounds like I'm although I don't know I really think though but no so many actors are so I can't even say that because actors are some of the most damaged people so obviously there isn't yeah the catharsis ain't isn't hitting or whatever but yeah well actors I think like they have no integrity of identity I don't mean integrity in like the moral right no they're very but they had like I mean like

in the kind of functional sense of not having like a set a complete whole sense of oneself right which is what makes them so good at exactly they're like vessels yeah yeah totally anyway anyway it's that had nothing to do with anything so I'm kind of not so politically correct question but I know Josh has talked about this in past episodes so how do you take someone's boyfriend and now I don't want to hear about how it's bad or the logistics of what happened after because it's retarded but yeah how would you feel some boyfriend asking for a friend okay but before you give her your life hack I

just have to preface it with like I was really into that question because she was like don't give me the moral or logistical bullshit I just want to know how which made me inclined to want to answer a question and not moralize or logisticized she has a technical question about how to steal someone's boyfriend the Machiavellian in other words yeah but I'm a Machiavellian too bitch and you know what I'm not gonna tell you because then you'll steal my boyfriend you know karmically you're not gonna equip her with that I'm not gonna hand that kind of information out when it could be weaponized against me

what kind of Machiavellian would I be yeah but I thought you had your that's my answer is that I can't I can't I can't help you but you probably know how that's what that's what I'll say yeah every woman knows how to steal someone's boyfriend yeah and it's it is yeah you shouldn't do it because karmically it's very bad for you yeah yeah but I am okay okay I it's this isn't this doesn't totally pertain to stealing someone's boyfriend but I am gonna give the listeners a little piece of Machiavellian advice okay and that is turn red receipts on for your boyfriend really or yeah someone that you are aspiring to court

or have your friend well just I just I think it gives you a you know Machiavellian kind of upper upper hand to hit them with the with the red receipt mm-hmm that's all do with that you know what you will yeah but feel I feel like that's I'm not saying nobody would want to steal your boyfriend but what I'm saying would he know if he was being stolen it might not even occur I don't actually mean my literal way you know I'm just talking in the abstract would he know if he was being stolen well no of course not no because he'd be so you know in trance to be which don't have you know I think he'd be too busy thinking about math and

stuff math and Catholicism oh you mean my yeah yeah yeah um yeah maybe it wouldn't even work ladies it maybe yeah don't even try stay away from my boyfriend okay because he's got a lot on his mind already do you have you do you have any technical advice for stealing someone's boyfriend like a Belarusian jewel thief there's no like I it's not like pick-up artistry or something it's like there's not like one easy trick it's it's exactly like female pick-up artistry in the sense that we don't have to be explicit or write a tome about it mm-hmm like it just happens yeah but there's very there's variables you know that you

have to be my advice I don't mean to be also crass as a mother but be better at sucking dick the girlfriend it's so easy but I would never ever steal anybody's boyfriend you wouldn't no well not now but not now yeah like ever I I was 23 it's fine Dasha that's so forgivable when I egregiously stole someone's boyfriend yeah like being completely but I feel bad about it like anything it was wrong is forgivable at 23 outside of like shooting up a school full of kids mm-hmm yeah BPD being a drug addict being like aimless in direction totally stealing boyfriends anyway yeah I will all also you

know to end on a more virtuous note I think that no man like they're not worth stealing if you can still them you know exactly yeah and that's the real truth this is like cuz that's if you're if you're stealing your man's you know that ain't your man's mm-hmm that's true hey girls I've always had this weird superstition where it's like if I jerk off or leave the house I go to meet I meet somebody like a woman feel like when you're like shake hands and like look one of an eye they might tell that I you know jerked off recently so I was just wondering if like women have this ability where they can just tell the guy

jerked off recently or if like they watch too much porn aside from you know being an obvious weirdo or a creep just like a regular guy they can just like look somebody in the eye and fell anyway thanks see you in hell yeah just a normal guy total normal guy oh no someone's calling now should we pick up hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hi hi wow we're on red scare do this live yeah we're actually recording the podcast right now you just called yeah yeah no we're literally recording yeah so you're live bitch you're on you're live on the podcast okay do you want to ask your

question or okay so okay so I guess my problem is is that I cheated on my boyfriend and I just can't like he said he's like some Mexican I because I'm Mexican from Monterey and I really really love him but he's gonna leave Matty so I guess I'll just be stuck with my boyfriend but he treats me so well and I just like oh what is your advice like I can't go to Mexico my family's here um but I guess like what would be your advice to like you know we just do when do you settle that's a heavy question to ask live you're a very brave yeah I feel like I need someone that doesn't love me a lot but he was so hot oh no no hold on you have to you have to really separate your feelings about him from your feelings about yourself like you have to be honest with yourself and you know do a searching moral inventory and ask yourself if you really love him and if you can see yourself spending your life

with him versus this kind of like negative self-talk about whether or not you deserve to be loved you capiche yeah that's that's solid yeah you're worth you're worth loving yeah for sure like that's a promise that's a baseline and if you if you do the searching moral inventory and decide that you want to stay with him then do both him and yourself a favor and do not tell him that you cheated on him deny till you die yeah but I'm so well I'm happy with another list of rescues but I literally said my

name and if he heard this we can edit it out yeah we'll cut your name out and he probably doesn't listen okay thank you so much yeah thanks have a god god bless have a good god bless y'all I love y'all you love you to thank you you know God bless y'all okay bye wow another powerful moment oh my god red scare history I love Mexicans I was gonna that was amazing are you a real Mexican do like Selena or Morrissey better there's only one answer mm-hmm and it's not Selena mm-hmm we'll follow up we'll follow up with her that's crazy well we could do it live but it would be such a shit yeah I like it really like dawned

on me that we could just take calls we could take calls but we have to get someone to screen them yeah beforehand or something like a real radio show we can't just unleash these on the air so many whispering yeah voice memos this time I'm 17 years old in texas let me take take another call yeah another voice do we do we have an answer for the guy who asked if women can tell oh right of course I completely forgot sorry yeah women can definitely tell your life essence is being drained out of you and you're totally poor and sick and you think you're just a normal

guy but women can definitely tell that you've been fapping to slaves all afternoon long I was gonna say that you know I can't tell if you've jerked off you know immediately before talking to me but that's also not true because you totally can based on someone's like clammy and sweaty and nervous energy and also I just assume that all men have like dick particles and fecal particles on their hands at all times sure yeah like they're always adjusting the junk you think he jacked off before he called in to the pod or immediately after not both because that's physically impossible either way I'd

recommend the note the nofap movement which there's a great subreddit called nofap where you can read all about the great success stories of men who use their will to stop fapping and have found you know great success but hey guess what you don't even need the nofap movement because if you just get into it and find that you are like busy and occupied it literally won't occur to you to fap yeah that's how it be yeah but sometimes you have to set the prohibition to like reap the rewards you know that's true yeah you said otherwise you'll fall into the same sort of habits yeah but you have to set prohibitions as Bap says

in in service of worthy goals rather than right in service of merely like prohibiting or limiting yourself yes you have a greater I gotta read that I'm gonna read that book I'm abroad I got a I got a long list New Zealand's the perfect place hello ladies so my ex-boyfriend who's British for context randomly texted me trying to suck a dick and then like less than 30 seconds later sorry wrong person I always thought he might be gay or bi but it also seems like a really weird message to send to your ex who you do not speak to anymore who you broke up with like a year ago I guess so I'm just wondering

like what would you make of that trying to suck a dick sorry wrong person thank you mm-hmm he gay sounds like that's not your ex-boyfriend that's your ex girl seems like a bpds how he's just being performative you think he texted her on accident for real yeah I don't care if he's gay or bi he I immediately thought of like Hugh Grant for some reason okay interesting association why cuz he solicited a prostitute once much like Eddie Murphy oh there's like a you know like a horseshoe where you get so straight you're so incredibly straight that maxed out okay yeah it's kind of like autogynophilia where like you're

you're you're such a man and you've maxed out all the accomplishments you're like a marine and like a fighter pilot so like the only thing left to do is to become a woman or just a British guy yeah or you're from the UK sometimes you're so aggressively and remarkably straight that you've maxed out all the women you could pop a couple with so you have to find a chick with a dick that's just how it be just spit-balling there yeah I mean there's definitely like you know mother problems and situations like that I'd probably say as well yeah but what do you make of the sky it's kind of giving fatherless

does he have an addictive personality more importantly fuck his social or sexual orientation hard to say yeah he seems yeah like he likes me it's good stirs some shut up you know he if you suspected that he was gay or by then I think your instincts are probably correct and now he's sinisterly mocking you for trying to relieve yourself responsibility but you should text him back I'm trying to suck a dick too that'd be the empowered thing yeah yeah next hey ladies what's happening listen I'm a teacher about to head on summer break I haven't been anywhere for the last two years because of COVID and

looking after my geriatric parents I'm a sinister homosexual and I'm looking for travel advice where should I go international not out of the question what should I do that's a fairly decent amount of money to burn I'm looking to have a hedonistic nihilistic romp let me know some advice bye televive you got to go to Israel baby that's you know that's the only place that televives got the vibrant nightlife you know it's got pomegranates it's got soda stream it's got hummus it's got the iron dome monkey pox you're gonna want to tell you're going to want to hit tell me first then maybe go to Jerusalem see what happens

there I don't know I've never been to Israel then I agree grease yeah but maybe Israel first Israel first for sure I was gonna say you should probably not identify as a quote teacher and quote homosexual in the same line in rick desantis is America number one number two if you have quote a decent amount of money you should put a down payment at home so you can bring teenage boys back to your crib and have your hedonistic romps there Anna I want to travel I know I agree with you go to Tel Aviv go to Tel Aviv you know the money he's got the money to burn baby he's Tel Aviv yeah I know I've said some

disparaging things about Israel before but it's the only place for one we love it there gorgeous and the gay guys there you know they're gonna be gorgeous yeah probably the hottest in the world then there's probably gonna be a lot of like Arabs represented among them mm-hmm yeah yep all right hi red scare podcast Hanan Dasha this is Connor from Los Angeles my question is about kind of dating with with men do you guys think that it's like a prerequisite prerequisite that men should have a knowledge of classic literature I know you guys seem to maybe not always reference classic literature but just literature in

general you seem really well-versed and I'm like I feel like I need to do more of it but every single time I get started with reading any you know classic literature book I'm like a quarter the way to paradise lost I just can't finish it what do you guys think is that is you think that's really important for women is that a question I should be asking on the hotline maybe not whatever you want to answer good if not here hey that's sweet you think we're well read I love when people think we're well we're making amazing literary references all the time that's that's great I'm trying to look up this tweet that I liked

recently yeah I think I retweeted it no with the wait maybe I'll just go to your it's like women claim they want a man who reads I think it might be gone oh no yeah every man who seriously engages with literature subscribe to some variety of frightening host-scaring political extremism from at laser boat 999 Donald boat Twitter user Donald boat really hit the nail on the head with that one that is very true yeah every man who likes books is a active shooter is a political or religious extremist of some kind but that's okay you know women do like that sort of thing we women do are you know are drawn to extremes I

think yeah and I certainly you know they're drawn to literacy in men because it codes for authority and expertise exactly which quotes for credibility so I do like yeah I do like when a guy's you know read some books and though I'm not well read maybe in the classical sense I feel like I have I do read randomly you read a lot it's a myth that we don't read books in the course like you know over the course of my life I feel like yeah they've definitely there's some stuff I've accumulated some knowledge from them and I do kind of you know I do read a lot because I like live alone and don't watch television yeah do

you even have a TV no okay not at all so like dog well that's how I knew I loved Eli mmm because he was like yo girl I got that Charles Murray the bell curve on audio book no so put down Paradise Lost don't bother finishing it pick up the bell curve that is a woman that is a book that women love for you to have read women love to hear about IQ differentials in general if you know a lot about crime statistics you're gonna want to be telling women that information because that's gonna you know get them excited get them to want to get to know you you

know do you think any major publisher would buy my book if I called it the bell curve B E L L E mm and it's actually about applying like whipping out the calipers to measure women's proportions rather than getting into that all the unpleasant IQ and race that we don't like around there physically smaller brains yeah and waist to hip ratio but also yeah something that's not talked about which is like arm to boob ratio yeah which I feel like is you know the beauty standard it's important doesn't get talked about it's not absolute it's relative values that count mm-hmm but I think it's perfect because you know curve

could mean about a racist parabola or I don't care if you have a 90 IQ and can't technically serve in the military my current girlfriend is very much like it's not like an annoying track but like so I can't smash and for a while it wasn't a problem but she's like also developing her sexuality it's like bro come on let's plow but I guess the question is more like how you guys navigate I guess more for Dasha since she's playing Catholic now how you guys navigate I guess trying to beat Catholic but also you know banging long-time fan love you guys so thank you mm-hmm how to navigate with also some sex so when he

said she's also developing her sexual her sexuality yeah what does that mean 15 or 16 she's coming my child bride is coming into yeah what do you mean to dodge a stone I think he just means she's horny but holds a certain yeah prohibitive view towards sexuality which is correct but you know people really get hung up on the premarital stuff with Catholicism but the reality is like we fail God in so many ways and as an Eastern Catholic you know we don't really distinguish between mortal and venial sin but sin is sin is sin is sin is sin and sin is anything that takes you away from God which does include sex

outside of you know a procreative union basically so what was this question oh yeah how do you navigate sex and cathol's yeah don't don't you can't you don't do it you can't have sex that's you know you and if you do you have to confess your sins to a priest to be back in the state of grace yeah wait you shouldn't be too scrupulous you know you can't I don't know you'll never win you'll never win that's the thing have mercy on me a sinner you know it's like there's not a person alive who is without sin wait Dasha I'm so incredibly unfathomably stupid yeah because it just occurred to me yeah that the cathol's is a perfect

system yeah no that's Judaism just kidding never but no it just occurred to me that the whole like no sex before marriage thing is in place because it's about procreation yeah you didn't realize that yeah but only like vaguely and unintuitively but then like why do you have to be married to procreate can't you just be like me and have a child I mean because marriage is like a sacrament yeah in which you enter into a union with another person in which God is also a part and that's like ideally if you're Catholic that's like you know how you should be having children and raising them Catholic exactly you your

spouse and the Holy Spirit God yeah the Holy Spirit that proceeds with the father and the son yeah no but that yeah I mean that's you know Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee blessed art thou among women blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus holy Mary mother am I living in sin yeah more importantly if I get married should I go on honeymoon in Tel Aviv I don't know if they take you to Tel Aviv for honeymoon it's called honeymoon Israel but yeah well that's for interfaith marriages they don't just give yeah but this is tech yeah though they'll take you know one look at you no you don't look too much actually no I

look fully Jewish but I'm technically a sheikh so jokes on them hey Anna and Dasha I love the pod so I've been dating this guy for like over a year and a half two years now and things have been just kind of weird in our sex life lately so recently I had suggested to him that I wanted to have him it's been like something I've been wanting to try for a while now but I thought I would ask and when I asked him he just seemed super like offended and just mad that I even asked him to do that but what made me just weird that he got so mad was the fact that he's told me that he's bisexual and that he's like

bottomed for other guys and enjoyed it a lot so I kind of thought it would be something that he was open to at least but he just seems so upset about it for some reason so I'm just wondering if you have advice on a way that I can like make him more comfortable with this or if like you have an idea of maybe other ways that we can like make things more fun because I think I've just been kind of not excited by the sex recently so let me know you guys think love you wait can I play another one yeah immediately after cuz I think they're trolling us yeah that's the one thank God I know you guys said not be disgusting or nothing

so I'm not gonna get too graphic but basically my girlfriend of two years thinks I'm bi you know I told her a few months ago that I made out with a dude one time and and now she thinks I'm fucking bi which I'm not and she keeps asking me if she can peg me kind of started off as a joke but it's become more serious and she's pretty she's pretty persistent about it and it's really fucking unnerving to be honest with I'm not okay with it honestly thinking about leaving her over it just kind of crossing the boundary for me I don't know I don't know if you guys have any advice as far as what I

could say to her I should just fucking break up with her what I should do yeah any advice would be appreciated huge fan of the pod thanks okay I'm so drunk but I had yeah insight yes the Edison bulb to look at the area codes to see if they were oh trolling us okay seven one four and seven eight one I don't know I don't know I don't I think my area code certainly sound aligned mm-hmm there was a couple like this motherfucker sounds like he's from Boston or retarded by or nothing like that I just do math problems whatever I just do for it wasn't my fault okay yeah it's they'd certainly seem seem linked in spirit should we should we let's just see yeah hello hello hello hello

hi you're live you're live on Red Scare pod oh well I was gonna ask a question about do you speak alone do you speak alone male jiggler the movie do you speak alone male jiggler uh yeah um I haven't seen it I saw it but like 10 years ago what's your question damn it's kind of it wasn't really anticipating sorry we just we weren't either we just figured this out we just figured out we could take calls on the air okay well I hope you guys get an actual question then good luck all right thanks thank you Rob Schneider is a conservative so I really love him so we

approve he's maga and talented mm-hmm so wait oh the pegging whatever they seem coordinated and like a sigh yeah sigh up summer nice try hi my boyfriend gets super offended when I say he is a golden retriever boyfriend so would you say that's a derogatory term or do you think it's acceptable I think I know what you mean and you mean it in a nice and flattering way but I can see how it comes off as derogatory when I met Eli I told him that he had a cheap and sleazy smile which is true he has that you love you said that on the last time I love that which he's not a cheap or seazy guy at all he's very absolutely not the

whole sand world yeah but he has you know a gap tooth and dimples which makes him look in certain angles and lights like a piece of shit and I personally find that attractive yeah but he was very offended and he thought that I was insulting him but I we had it out and he came around to it and he loves it now so you have to reframe it as a yeah that's up to you yeah I think it's how you kind of frame your boyfriend being your being your dog to kind of put it in a positive positive light I I like to act like my boyfriend's dog when he makes a pound of ground beef for me to eat and I found men like that sort of thing you

know yeah if you want to keep a man around maybe try acting like his dog for a change you know I just watched the history of violence for the first time to gear up for the new crone film oh right yeah and there's that scene where Maria bellow comes out wearing the cheerleader uniform just a deuce of ego warrenson mm-hmm and like that made me think of that of being like an abject little dog and cheerleader for your boyfriend yeah it's horrible I think so many women good I think okay I'll put it this way I think it's good to have a golden retriever boyfriend but you probably shouldn't

inform him of it yeah it's like we were saying earlier you know it's like you women have the upper hand just be quiet about it don't be you know just don't you sub sublimate that that's literally the problem that's the Machiavellian femininity and feminism is that women insist on revealing disclosing their upper hand mm-hmm when you should just wait it out it's the long game that counts you stupid bitch it's not Machiavellian at all women are very short-sighted and they've seldom read James Burnham which is why we're not like other girls you know that's their bottom I thought that I and I huge fan

of the pod this is my question about three months ago my boyfriend and I broke up we were together for about six months towards the beginning of our relationship he one day when I was over pulled this Louis Vuitton bag out of his closet and told me to try it on and said it was the worst impulse purchase of his life and said I could take it with me when I left and I did and it was heavily inspired that he gave me the bag and that's just what I thought he did in a moment and it was never brought up again I kept it for the whole time we were together and yeah it was never mentioned again flash forward to about a

month after we broke up I ended up selling the bag because I didn't want to see it anymore and I sold it to the real real they gave me just under a thousand dollars for it and they're selling it now for fifteen hundred dollars so a few days ago we ex-boyfriend and I met up for his request to exchange our clothes and things that we left at each other's places while we were together and he asked about the bag and I told him I thought he gave it to me and that I sold it to the real real and really upset and said he never technically gave me the bag and that it was unfair and that I can't go selling his shit and I said I wouldn't

have sold it if I didn't I didn't think it was his shit to sell and I feel really bad but basically he wants the bag back which would mean that I'd have to pay fifteen hundred dollars to get it back so I'm just wondering what you would do in this situation if I'm the asshole or if there's just miscommunication and if I should pay to get the bag back or just take my money and go yeah I know yeah don't have you pride yeah don't get me started on the real world's you know egregious consignment policies and the bags you can't return what if you buy a bag off the real world you can't return it oh I see wait no hold on you have to

be co-sign it a bunch of shit they didn't take the bags yeah but this chick who was like the buyer was like by the way if you want anything back you can request it back no hassle hmm so there might be an update to their policy so I'll be a little that if you want to be an honest person but I think they're both full of shit don't get rid of that mnz bag no that's not a bag no mm-hmm I love that bag but I'll give you $1,200 I'm just kidding great bag though you can literally I might borrow you can literally borrow at any time okay I would I'm very unsentimental with material objects same and if I ever see

another one I will literally snap it up for you thank you yes but I think they're both full of shit and they're both liars this the boyfriend 75% gave him a bag yeah and this guy 75% like pretended like not to understand that he wasn't fully giving the bag put it on the real real as like an act of like subconscious revenge he didn't want to see the bag yeah but he could have given it just like giving it back I know but but he was trying to and he made you know I get it it's a thousand dollars that's not nothing so what I propose is that he doesn't owe him the full price back he owes him what he sold it for half of that

half of that so not 1500 that is very judicious and fair mm-hmm very litigious very yeah totally ten percent Ashkenazi Jews that is popping out and yeah I that's really that's great actually I think that's exactly right doesn't owe his ex-boyfriend they have to split hundred dollars he has to split the profits off the bag he knows the bag was basically given to him but he shouldn't have profited off of it because it was you know so give him 500 give him 500 bucks we'll call it a day and this is why I love faggots because they're even worse at math than we are this should be an LSAT problem if the

real real sell it for 1500 dollars well okay what if he can get the bag back from the real real should he give it back to his BF then I personally would you would yeah I just handed over yeah I'm I'm more Middle Eastern at the end of the day than I am a woman and mm-hmm you know that you should never be in debt to anybody else spiritual debt because they will get you that's why I'm mad that teleblock me because I think we could talk a lot about this and we wouldn't have to have Paul scholars on the pod if we could get to lab but he's not have us this both block he's never gonna come on he's never gonna come on and right

before he blocked me I was like talking to Matthew about we were gonna get one and he said he'll never he'll never come on of course no I was 23 years old and he he not only sent it back but he cooked up some like fake like ghetto ass excuse about how somebody at his table had allergies can you imagine the seam yeah that's so that's so actually Scandinavian and not Middle Eastern what about yeah accepting the block a lot with grace there's like a literally a table like a gaggle of 23 year old girls are you kidding me it wasn't like some like died with like a pinky ring come on the seam yeah why did you get

blocked what did you do oh because he was tweeting because Jordan Petersen tweeted about how the sports illustrated cover girl was fat and then and didn't look good and then the seam was like actually attractor is this blah blah devolves you know there's factors blah blah I really thought just saw this you know whatever woman was hot and I said come on you know she doesn't look that good and I said why don't you boys talk this out of my body positive podcast red scare and I I was begging for he blocks imbeciles it's nothing personal he says it all the time so I know it's not personal it's just that I was you know

I was begging for it basically we can make him into coming on probably not no I don't think I think it's gonna work fickle and insecure than we are powerful women's minds are not are no match for for Greek guy who is worth we could talk about we we have a lot to talk about because he's also a Greek orthodox hey if we insist that he's not Arab he might come on we're ready to do that I'm ready to call you Nick the whole time Nick to lab every Nikki Nikki come on okay uh next next question hi I was just wondering if you guys ever have like tunes or intuitions like a deep gut feeling and if it has ever come true

in relation to dating I feel like I know exactly what's gonna happen and how the whole play out and I don't know I'm just literally playing out what I think or if it happens because I thought that maybe I'm just so smart hey babe you're a woman you can't be that intuitive intelligence is a kind of intelligence that is impossible to measure sure yeah which is why I agree with Naseem Nichols to lab about Charles Murray and the bell curve he's he's not into that whole like quantitative analysis of IQs because he holds like a partial liberal yes like at the end of the day you can't measure certain

things certain intelligences which actually he's correct about that is true yeah I think that there isn't there is not this a reliable way to measure what people refer to as intelligence and so much submit everything to standardized testing yes yeah and so much of intelligence I think really is does have to do with kind of social graces making people feel seen and understood and then tearing it away from them in an opportune moment kicking them when they're down but very subtly various mock it sure yes um yeah there's just it's intelligence is dynamic and you can't flatten it into like a category I think really from

which you can draw super meaningful takeaways which is why black people are funnier than white people with the exception of the Irish well the generalization implies the exemption that's something that he said to me today as if I was stupid four years on Twitter and the podcast and that I completely like woman style yeah stole it from to lab mm-hmm yeah the generalization always implies the exception because it wouldn't be a generalization if there wasn't a potential for exemption right or your I'm struggling I'm struggling to understand but like if you're generalizing if you're speaking generally yeah

there are always specific cases that defy the generalization right the black swan yeah yeah yeah you when you say something like men or trash or men or dogs yeah the which is a gross generalization that permits the existence of exceptions such as you know certain men are not trash or dogs not that I agree with those generalizations at all whatsoever mm-hmm as a classic pick me yeah but this is like one of the most like definitely frustrating things that you have to deal with when you're like on twitter.ru encountering liberalism yeah and people in anesthetics women are deceitful women can't have always is

above obviously some women were clearly autistic yeah but they're not on tiktok showing their tits and doing the weird little finger movements right right like little monkey hands or whatever it's called stimming like it makes sense yes of course there's an exception to every generalization anyway this is what I want until up on the pod but he'll never what was the question I don't remember intuition oh yes I have tons of yet intuitive prophetic feelings yes and they some of them have come come to the right and like what 98 99% of the time yeah like this is like a very vivid classic and yet I'm low IQ

well what just happened no I don't know my IQ it's probably reasonable it's probably relatively high but when you where does it land on the belgur I really like you know we messed up so bad well we what oh no I don't know as I don't look at it as I don't wait and we had three whoa okay we have three more but no but you were right remember when you had that like intuition to not hop on the plane to Rome at the start of the pandemic were you not right absolutely yeah yeah I think like oh a female intuition is like the most important thing you can have in this world I agree you were nothing without

it which is why it's so sad that you know liberalism has sold women this bill of lies because it causes them to deny their feminine intuition yeah in pursuit of a kind of perverted masculine integration into civilized society or whatever which which has only led them astray as the kind of masculine platonic ideal because women are simply not as good they just can't do and vice versa yeah damn it we're getting a call should we I guess we should we gotta do that one okay I think that's beautiful the first one is like really yeah we won't answer any one was like kind of weird we have three more okay I think

right that's what I thought I hope hi my name is Jack I'm from which talk Kansas and I just found out that my boyfriend is feeling with my boss and I'm not really sure if I should bring up with my boss my boyfriend first I'm just like kind of curious what y'all would do if y'all are in the situation and just like kind of lost right now love you guys love the pod see that's a great example of Machiavellian intuition mmm because chances are his boyfriend probably also listens to the pod so when he doxxed himself as Jack from which to talk Kansas right right I'm just whatever whatever we're wilding to the

hang up okay now we're just getting humiliated and trolled it's whatever no we don't have to we don't see him okay um sorry his boyfriend or his boss who should he tell first mmm yeah his boyfriend's functionally found out and he should tell depends on whether if you want to keep your job or not probably not oh god this freak keeps I'm gonna try one more time I'm sorry I have this like scream I know the call is coming from inside though hello hi you're live on red on red scare no it's not it wasn't supposed to you but we just we just figured it out we're really drunk all right are you ready I don't know

you can answer that and you recently got a girlfriend and all of our friend group like really doesn't like her she's completely controlling and just like bosses him around like he's a little bitch and we don't know how to like get him to break up with her is she fat yeah our feminine intuition I don't know man it's not up up to you to break them up yeah it's gonna run its course yeah he has to come to that realization on his own every time but every time we hang out with him now it's just like he just controls the conversation like we can't even have our friend back anymore like he just is like not himself anymore have

you tried talking over her I mean she's very loud but yeah she's gonna loud booming booming voice I'm sure yeah it's just he's gonna have I don't know maybe he's in in some kind of abusive cycle as depersonalizing him and if you think he's truly vulnerable maybe you should you know take some precautions but I think it's within the normal range of human human experience for the most part yeah I just feel like you can't teach anyone anything they must learn for themselves yeah what's that expression about teaching a man to fish I don't think that something about bringing a man to water and he'll find a fat wife

controlling hijack's conversations I think that you have to be as supportive as possible and just like let him do his thing and believe you me he will get disenchanted sooner rather later yeah are you sure you're not in love with your guy friend and no no I'm not okay okay we believe you kind of like talk shit about her behind her back and I feel kind of bad about it but we just want our old friend back you know totally and you know part of you know statistically a way to predict the longevity of relationships is how well they integrate into your into your life no but I mean typically if your family and your

friends don't get along with someone it's just not gonna last very long that's just that's just the facts yeah we're hoping it works about this in like a year now how old are you yeah that's a long time for whatever yeah how old is he yeah how old is your the average I'm 30 he's like 27 okay so he might marry this this big fat bitch oh that's why well she'll probably maul him rip his heart out leave him you know if she's being so controlling I don't think they're happy yeah yeah yeah you got you got a nothing you can do really you got to play it as it lays exactly this Joan did inside yeah I hope that was

satisfactory okay okay two more yeah let's hope nobody calls this I know because I just answered turns out I have a question I need to invite you in anything basically I'm turning on and I'm engaged and I don't want to get through it I want to get out of it but I'm too embarrassed to do anything about it so there's a part of me that just wants to like get on with it I just oh this is my life now I'll get over it but I feel like I'm missing out on being young and like degenerate but I also don't want to be just young and degenerate I don't know what do I do like I just do whatever you love tell me cuz yeah I think no

one's anything embarrassing you want me I don't know I don't know what what you should do right oh you're betrothed but yeah you don't want to go through with that oh my god she sounds so cute I know and engaged at 21 don't do it don't do it I mean you know you shouldn't do it we're like full on trads and conservatives here but even we can tell you don't do it yeah you know I mean you would know if you wanted to yeah and it seems like every fiber of your being is saying you don't yeah and it's much easier you're too retarded to know either way because you're literally 21 yeah so break up the engagement because

it'll be you spare yourself the you know the unhappy marriage or yeah and or divorce you know yeah get those abortions and come out the wrong side of your 30s no no you have time you'll be you sounds like your value you know you have you don't want to be a young degenerate person but that doesn't mean you have to be you know married with a person with someone you don't want to be there so you yeah you see most important things you be seen no matter what I'm just kidding I'm just kidding I mean seen you know you know by you know by your partner sure you heard at least the rest of the world maybe not seen but at least

hard okay this is the last one hi Anna and Dasha I'm calling from New Zealand I'm really interested to hear Dasha's review of this weird little place after she got here on the pod my question is is sex always attached to shame or just as vague with age I'm 23 and came with age online so I inevitably have a digital footprint and whenever I encounter these memories on my phone I feel deeply humiliated and I arose myself image a little bit and I didn't feel plagued with regret forever thank you memories I mean we see is this week's make you feel shamed yeah that's normal but I think that's normal I

think I really shame has less to do with sex and more to do with being on the phone like it's much more shameful to be a quote digital native yeah and just to have sex yeah I don't know I just don't know what that's what that's like what's what what growing up entirely I know y'all I know y'all have heard some stuff about my body count but I'm actually a very a virgin we're all virgins here look at the virgin podcast brandy Melville virgin olive oil yeah that was the it's in store I should have bought it I should have bought it I'm gonna go back and get it I don't care if it's just canola oil I'll try I'll drink it well cuz I

can't trust their kind of libertarian business model to provide me with adequately like liberalized olive oil that's like been run you know I want that you know I wanted to be some kind of mandate for the olive oil I don't just want some Italian pedophile businessman to sell me whatever you think olive oil is you know but what was the question oh sex sex like innately associated or shame is innately associated with sex or something that like you grow out of both yeah something you grow into maybe but I really I think she's mixing metaphors and I really don't think this question

is about sex it's about being well what do you think she's talking about when she's talking about digital nativity social media like being like doing gay shit online which is like every time you post yeah it's like the average and you say or whatever the indigenous whatever we call them these days like every time photos taken you lose a little piece of your soul every time you post every time you post a selfie every time you shit post it's all well it's all sin which takes you further away from God yeah yeah yeah and like the only way that you can reconcile that is to acknowledge that you are a weak and sinful person and

to be compassionate to compassion indulgence and there's like such a fine line mmm amen says yeah well we extend compassion towards others because we want mercy for ourselves because we know that we're basically like totally bratchage worms on this earth another thing that I've always said on this pod since it's inception is that like selfies for example have been like a total net negative for civilization and culture and especially women like they're evil law like the stuff the substrate of evil but like you will never get rid of them and there's no way of unplugging and so you have to like

accept in the Machiavellian sense the law that was dealt you and that you will fully engage in you can opt out I mean you can but none of us have the full strength to do it and that's really what real real freedom would be you know but I feel like when the pandemic happened I kind of I got this kind of like haunted look in my eyes that we may not want to take selfies is that much anymore like and at the time I think I think I talked about it on the pod but I was like I don't want because I was I felt so sort of tyrannically oppressed and kind of like I didn't want to take selfies because I didn't want to see

people I didn't want people to see like what a compliance individual I was or something but it I don't that feeling hasn't totally really dissipated and now I don't know sometimes I when I take selfies I'm like oh you just look like sad like well yeah but you've reached like a new level of maturity well sure yeah yeah yeah and like accomplishment and like so therefore I don't need to be mirrored in the literal like reflection of my but that's I think what she's really talking about and not the the shame associated with sex because I also think like I'm a total libtard in this regard and like if you're having

sex with someone who in your non-sexual life like sees you and understands you no matter what kind of deviancy you engage in as long as it's not like literally like molesting children or stomping kitten kittens yeah like there is no shame yeah like you that's just I think it adds up I don't know yeah yeah well Becky and like German nudist approach to sex well I think you know to think I think it's it's helpful to hold the idea of sex at the forefront of your mind as something that ought to be procreative at least you know and that like will prevent you from having sex with people that you would never

want to procreate with which I think is just like generally good like rule of thumb to like live by you know if you at least like have that principle sort of like moral paradigm as something that you're striving for which is like ultimately like a kind of yeah like a loving union and like procreative bond with another human being then you'll see how like how many of the other forms of sex that people engage in like fall short of that like tremendously you know yeah and I guess that's where the shame comes in yeah because you're falling short of sort of like you know procreative ideal but even like what

you're talking about just having someone that you like feel seen and loved by that we can't should we? Let's see one more. Hello. Hi. You're on Red Scare. It's not a record it's not a recording we're just doing the pot and we figured out how to answer phone calls and now we're doing it live. Wait. This is so funny I was just oh my god okay now I need to really think about what I'm going to say. Okay. Well hey. Well I'm wearing my granny mail going on right now. That's great we were just talking about the olive oil. Yeah is there olive oil?

For me I was just thinking about the olive oil. Okay but that's not... I have been thinking about the olive oil lately. Do you think it's real olive oil or do you think it's it's a sham? Well okay olive oil in general I think it's kind of a sham. Wow. Wow. Okay. You should have your own podcast. We should be asking you for advice. I feel like there's something in it. Like I don't know what but I don't know.

But anyways back to my main question. When in your formal grown opinion do you think that it is time to give up the kind of when she's single life? Yeah we were just talking basically about this. When I don't know it's something kind of you have to come to I think on your own. Yeah when you say when do you mean like temporarily spiritually? Maybe temporarily. I feel like the last year I lived my life a very single life that maybe I'm not into anymore but I don't know. When is the right time to make that jump? I don't really know.

Well how old are you? I'm 20. Oh my god. So it's not I mean whether or not you're 20 it's also really not up to you when you give up the single life right? Because certain external forces have to align. So that's true. Yeah I think a lot of it is like well I'm 20 so it's not that serious. So I think like just like having that vision in mind is already like important and useful.

And again like honestly this is going to sound so gay and cringe but like starting the day with a prayer. Wow I was going to say the same thing. And like literally visualizing what you want for yourself but also more importantly expressing gratitude to like the god, the cosmos, the heavens, whatever you subscribe to. Like Sam Harris slash Ben Shapirovsky. Can we all touch the fear with my spirituality as well? I think yeah you know when something isn't fulfilling and you should listen to your women's intuition which is often you know aligned with spirituality as well. So you kind of will know when something isn't right and when it's time to move on. And it sounds like you might be ready for a relationship.

Yeah that's so true. Well thank you guys. I can't believe you actually picked up. I can't believe we did either. I know. It's a miracle. It's literally a god sent miracle. Heaven sent.

Okay well thanks for calling. Thank you honor. Thank you Doshna. Love you guys. Love you too. Bye. Wow what a great way to end. Yeah that was nice. Okay thanks guys. Thank you. See you.