Reddit Stories - BETRAYED by Love_ ABANDONED by a WEALTHY Partner with a Cruel Marital Pact_

Episode Date: August 15, 2025

#redditstories #askreddit #aita #betrayed #abandoned #wealthy #cruelpactSummary:A heart-wrenching tale unfolds as a person is betrayed by their love and abandoned by a wealthy partner with a cruel marital pact. The narrative delves into the emotional turmoil and struggles faced in such a situation.Tags:redditstories, askreddit, reddit, aita, tifu, betrayed, abandoned, wealthy, cruelpact, relationships, love, marriage, heartbreak, emotionalpain, betrayalstory, wealthypartner, emotionalstruggles, painfuljourney, copingwithloss, movingonBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/reddit-stories--6237355/support.

I hope you enjoy this story. I ended my relationship with my wealthy partner due to his unjust marital agreement that left me with nothing. I was surprised when his family proposed to give me properties and funds that he declined to share. I am a 34-year-old woman, and I am ending the relationship. Up with my boyfriend, 34M, because of a pre-up I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. Everything is going well and we love each other. We've been discussing marriage, and he mentioned he would not marry me without a pre-up. We discussed this in detail, and I did not like what he proposed.

His family owns a lot of property, land, and has lots of savings. After marriage, he was wants me to move into one of the houses his parents own. I told him I am uncomfortable building a life and a family in a house I have no ownership in, and he didn't understand. I told him I'd prefer to rent a place together, or we can live temporarily in one of his parents' houses and look at property together, but he refused. He said he liked the houses his parents and he already owned. He said he would not buy other property, he said he would not sell any of his property to buy one with me. He told me if I wanted to own property, I could save up money by living in one of these properties and invest in one myself. Problem is, he would be entitled to half if we devour. since my purchase would happen after marriage. He told me I could pay his parents' rent if I feel like I don't belong on the property. He told me I could buy half of the house we live in from his parents. Problem is, I don't like the houses that him or his parents own. They also have a lot of stuff,

and I feel like there's no space for me. I want to look at houses, I want to pick the place I live in, and I want to do it with my partner. I've made this clear to him over and over, but he won't He earns more than me, and he has more assets than me for sure. He made it clear he was afraid I was a gold digger, and he wants to protect himself and his family's assets from me, which I can understand. This whole thing has made me feel very weird. This topic has come up before, and it has always made me feel very small. It makes me feel like all he cares about are his assets.

It makes me feel like he wants me as long as I fit into the life he already built. and doesn't care to build one with me. It makes me feel like a gold digger. He has enough money to retire right now and live comfortably. I don't. He basically told me that whatever money he earns now, he can spend, so he won't be investing in too much anymore. He expects our earnings and our savings after marriage to be split,

which I feel off about. I'm sure this is normal for some people. I'm sure other people would be happy. to be with someone who is well off. I am not. I want someone beside me building a life with me, not someone who has built a life with his parents and wants me as long as I behave and fits into his life, which is how he's been making me feel. So I'm leaving him. I welcome opinions on this. But yeah, it's been too long that this has made me feel off about our relationship. I'm protecting my peace and leaving him with all his houses and money. Comments.

OOP adds context to the pre-up talk during their relationship. No. He mentioned pre-nup very early, and I would keep asking him about the details, but he would keep it very vague, and assure me we would work it out when the time came. I never asked him about his assets, and I never actually knew how much assets his family had. The only things I knew were from some of his one-off comments about certain assets, if he mentioned this tenant or that tenant, or this thing they have to report. pair, etc., etc. I had also initiated these conversations. He mentioned wanting to live with me and work towards marriage. I figured then that time had come. This is when I sat him down and asked him what he expected from me, what he wanted, and to clarify the conditions of any prenups he wanted to

propose. He still tried to dodge my inquiry. It took so long for me to pull this information out of him. I guess I did wait two years, but marriage talk seemed like the right time to push him to discuss it. Update, so many things have happened. This is a bit of a rant and I know I'm missing parts, but I'll try to cover the important bits. Before I start, here's some important context. I have a stable and rewarding career, and though I don't earn as much as him, I am very happy with what I can afford. My parents have always taught me that women should be independent, and I've taken that to heart. I live below my means, which has allowed me to put aside money for savings and investments.

A lot of comments have mentioned that I should take the free rent, and that it would somehow set me forward in life, but for me, giving up my sense of autonomy and control over my home, my safe space, is not worth the potential savings. I lived with my parents and saved aggressively until I was 30, so I am likely. lucky enough to be in a position where I can comfortably afford rent or a mortgage by myself. Plus, he expected the living situation to be permanent. I would not move into a house owned by someone else just to save on rent. Would it be nice to save 2K a month? Sure. But most people pay rent, and I am not an exception. If I really wanted that, I could move back in with my parents.

But again, autonomy is very important to me. Also, if he's this stubborn now, I don't see how this situation could be improved later after I already moved in. I could also counter the pre-nup and make it so all my accumulated assets stay mine, or put in a clause that I'll be compensated for any children we have, or put that I'd get alimony or at least have a roof over my head in case we divorce. But for me, that feels overly transactional. It also gives me the vibes that I'm going to be living with a roommate who I sleep with and might have babies with, not a partner. I prefer to feel like we're in it together. He can keep what was his, but I want to build up what is ours. Also, if everything is completely split, it'll open up a new can of worms.

How will our expenses be split if I'm working and he's just chilling? What happens when we have children? He has money saved for them, but will I get a save? and how we spend that money? I know these can be worked out. But, this is not the type of marriage I want. I can't predict everything that will happen, and I don't think I can capture it in a contract.

And it's already been so heartbreaking for me, I don't want to go through more. Anyways, yada, yada, yada, I'll just say that it felt like I was being stripped of my autonomy, stonewalled, and treated like a hostel. Okay, on to updates. So, I told him I needed to end this relationship. I appreciated and truly enjoyed my time with him, but our financial values and the preferred married lifestyle just don't match.

It was a quick and easy conversation, TBAH. I expected the breakup to be a bit of a process, not a one-and-done thing, since our lives overlap a lot. I'm also in contact with a lot of his family, so OFC, during this whole time, a lot of them got involved. But blah blah. Not super relevant to updates. Talk with his parents.

Okay. I love his parents. I had a great relationship with them. I would go over to their house, we would have food, chat, watch TV, sometimes I would go to the parties they host without my ex if he was busy. A few days after my talk with my ex, I went over to say goodbye. I didn't know if the pre-nup was family and four. or not, so I kept it very general and mainly focused on how the situation made me feel and what I was looking for in a relationship. His parents were shocked Pukachu face when I told them why I was leaving.

I'm going to bullet point the rest, his parents really want grandbabies. However, ex's younger brother and still do not want kids. They were so happy when I came into their lives and she found out I wanted kids, his parents had created their wealth together, with his dad being the major breadwinner for most of the relationship. His mom was shocked at what he was offering me, saying these aren't the values he was raised with. She had been effectively retired since almost 15 years ago, and she said ex's dad never made her feel uncomfortable because of the difference in earning potential. They told me that they built their assets for themselves and their children. They said that includes whoever their children decided to share their lives with, they have many properties.

However, they also have enough investments that they can live off of those. They told me their plan was to sign over a house of our choosing as a wedding gift, or sell a house and give us cash so we could buy a house we both wanted. As they got older, they planned to evenly divide their properties between my ex and his brother, since they wouldn't want to manage the properties anymore, and live off investments. Ex's mom said she would have made sure my name was on my ex's portion, especially since we were wanting kids, they mentioned investments will go directly into funds for grandkids after their passing.

Maybe this is what my ex was referring to when he said his children would be set. Bit morbid though, exa's mom told me that the mother of her grandbabies would be taken care of, and she wanted us to be on equal footing while raising a family. Tbh, this conversation was kind of like a weight off my chest. I always loved his family and never felt excluded, but the pre-nup talk. left me confused and hurt. What they said fit with what I knew for my ex and them before. It'd be lying if I said I didn't start imagining this life I talked to my ex again. I'll bullet point this too. Basically, he told me, his dad had joked before about how he hoped him and his

brother would not find gold diggers, and that's where that comment came from. He felt responsibility to protect his parents' assets, since he didn't feel entitled to them, so by extension, I wasn't entitled either. In his culture, sons carry on the family line, so he felt he had to keep his assets in the family line, which I'm not part of, but any sons we had would be, most of the assets he's worried about are under his parents' name, and he had never asked for their opinion on what to do. He just did what he thought he should be, he also said he isn't that well off. And that his assets shouldn't come between us. This is still confusing to me. Isn't this whole thing because he was well off, and wanted to hold on to what he had and not create a shared lifestyle. I think maybe he meant

he didn't own much, and most things actually were under his parents' name. He felt he was punching above his weight with me, and was scared I would leave him, he was afraid I was with him because of his finances, since that was the only thing he had more of, whereas he said I am intelligent, hardworking, beautiful. Blah, blah, he was scared about moving forward with the relationship, but instead of communicating, he became defensive, to me, it seems like he said and did things because he was feeling deeply insecure. He had made a couple passing comments before about me being more beautiful than him, or how I'm more hardworking, etc., etc., but I had always taken them as compliments, not self-deprecating comments towards himself. He's such a caring,

funny, and intelligent person, just in a different way than me. Also, I know he's not as confident as he comes across, but I had no idea that his insecurities ran this deep. He also apologized over and over about how he didn't mean to make me feel like an outsider to him and his parents, and insisted that he wanted to share a life with me. He said his insecurities and fear got the best of him, and he didn't handle it well. He had taken advantage of my patience and lashed out because he felt inadequate and scared. It broke my heart, because I think all this could have been avoided. We've been through this song and dance before many times, where he would feel some sort of way, then act out as he's processing it. Until now, I always stay through it and we move on. But it's never gone on for so long.

But I guess the issues we've faced before were smaller compared to mapping out our whole lives. I've pushed him to seek individual counseling and we've attended couples counseling together, but I can't force him to sit and identify his emotions or employ the tools we were taught. The pre-nup conversation happened over a long period of time. He had so many chances to pump the brakes and reflect on what he was saying, and simply just Tilda listened to me. But he didn't. He then sat in front me saying that everything he said before was not what he meant. He said he would be happy to take care of me and our future kids, we could buy a house together, or rent if I wanted to, because now he wasn't scared about

creating a life together. Completely opposite to everything he had been saying. But how unsettling is it that he seemed so completely comfortable and confident in the hurtful words he previously said, and was okay with placing me in a very unequal position in the relationship. Despite me continuously trying to articulate what I wanted, and how he was making me feel, he didn't even consider my side, over months. I know I have a good deal with what his parents are offering, and I know him and I get along super well. But I'm not marrying his parents. I can't have his mom with us during every argument or life decision we take. Thinking back, I can count on one hand where we've run into issues, and he was able to address it without acting up. He's such a nice guy, but I can't be his

garbage bin every time he needs to sort out his feelings. It's already worn me down. It's already worn me down. He's a grown man, he's intelligent and intuitive, he's had two years to learn how to communicate with me, and he's not. I honestly can't tell if what he said to me is genuine, or coming from his parents, or coming from a fear of losing me. I could give him the benefit of the doubt again, and move forward with the relationship, as I've done in a past, but... I'm tired. I think this is a fixable problem, but I also have not seen any improvement since we started dating. If anything, this prolonged experience has made me feel it's gotten worse. I will not make the mistake of investing in a man because of what he could be, instead of who he is.

If the last few months are a testament to how he handles stressful situations, I can only take things as they are and assume they won't change. This whole thing has left me sour. I don't need too much, but I do expect to be treated with love and support, even during times of disagreement. I cannot just forget the feelings and words I've felt and heard over the last couple of months. I can't just unhear and unknow that he is afraid I'm a gold digger. That was just one of many comments that really hurt me. I think life will have a lot more ups and downs, and I cannot imagine what kind of difficulties

will face if this is how we communicate, even after identifying it and working on it in therapy. For these reasons, I'm still choosing to walk away. Very dear from leaving because of pre-nup, but it is leaving nonetheless. And T.B.H, this hurts more. I know it will hurt for a while, but I pray I'll be avoiding heartache and complications in the future. Who knows? If it was meant to be, maybe we'll find our way back. For now, I've told him and his family I need space and time. I know that it seems like I'm giving up a lot, but OFC there are things I can't put in a post.

Dash, I actually wrote the above quite early. But I didn't post because it didn't feel like it was over. But now after this time, I know it is. It's been tough, and it's only been a couple months, but I'm sure I made the right call. It's tough watching everyone coupled up and having children, but it is what it is. I'm proud of myself for leaving, and I'm slowly healing. Thank you everyone for your comments and DMs. Sorry I couldn't get back to everyone.

But I appreciate you all. Now on to the next story. Story 2. Secret DNA test revealed the baby wasn't mine. So when I confronted my wife, she admitted to cheating in a way I never expected. Hello all. I am 38 and my wife F-26. I've been married to my wife for three years and together for five.

Our son just turned two in early June and to put it bluntly he looks biracial. His skin is darker than I thought it would have been, he has curly hair when we most certainly don't and his features just don't look like the standard white people which we are. He's a beautiful boy, he just doesn't look 100% white. I asked my wife a few days after his birthday if she thought our son looked white. She said yes and asked if I'm accusing her of something. I said no because I genuinely wasn't, I just was wondering. I know genetics can be weird sometimes. We fought and I apologized but I wasn't able to shake the feeling so I did the shitty thing and got a test done behind my wife's back.

The results came in a few days ago and I'm not my son's dad. I feel conflicted about my son. I love him, but knowing that he isn't mine is leaving a sour taste in my mouth. Our son definitely prefers me and he's my world, but he's just not biologically mine. I don't know what to make of my feelings. I'm a mix of emotions about my wife. I don't know how to talk to her. I'm angry, confused and feeling very, very betrayed.

I'm heartbroken too. I still love her. She's working at the moment and I don't want to disturb her at her office, but I feel like I'm going to explode. This is all very difficult for me to process and I can't. I can't think of when my wife cheated. We always hit each other's locations for safety purposes and I can't think of any suspicious friends that she has or had.

We go on regular dates and our bedroom isn't dead. We were also trying for a baby around that time so I don't know when she cheated on me or why. Ever since we married she's been over the moon constantly showing off her ring and talking about me. She's like a teenager in love. How do I tell her that I know? Or get that ball rolling. I don't know what I want to do yet as stupid as that sounds.

I've been stewing on it for a few days but I still love her so much. Maybe someone can knock some sense into me. I need help. Edit, I'm becoming overwhelmed with the comments, I'm sorry. I wanted to reply to a few but I can't. I just wanted to say thank you for commenting and that I also hope our baby was just swapped as terrible as that sounds. Our baby didn't look biracial at birth. As he got older, he started developing features that didn't look entirely like ours.

If our sun's skin didn't darken over time, I don't think I ever would have questioned anything. The other features can be explained as a fun little surprise or a few generation hops maybe. I know that genetics can be weird. Update, I don't know if anyone will see this as the subreddit I posted to doesn't allow updates after 48 hours, but, if you do. Getting the bad news out the way first, my son isn't mine. I feel devastated and will be divorcing my wife. My wife and I had talked about our son a few days after my post and my wife cracked under the pressure. She admitted to cheating on me without me even mentioning the test I had gotten done. All I asked was if she really thought out son looked white. I mean it

when I say that if his skin never got darker I wouldn't have known. She cried a lot of and begged for forgiveness and told me that we can all still be a happy family, but my image of her shattered right then and there. I'm going through heartbreak, so forgive any mistakes. I'm currently living with my parents. I asked her when she even found the time to cheat on me and she told me that she would leave her phone in a location and use another. She told me that cheating was a mistake in an accident, but how was it a mistake if you had it so planned out? We were trying for a baby around then and she told me that she couldn't handle the pressure of it all and just wanted to escape. She didn't escape very well as she still got pregnant and acted like we were perfect.

Thank you again to everyone. My wife will now be known as my ex-wife. I apologize to anyone who had hoped and thought it was a baby switched at birth situation. I'm somewhat happy it wasn't because that would be terrible, but extremely disappointed because that means he really isn't. mine. There won't be any more DNA tests because she admitted to everything and showed me some text messages. There won't be any more updates from me either because I just want to move on with my life. I'll get everything sorted and figure out the whole custody thing. Thanks again, everyone.