Reddit Stories - BETRAYED by Love_ When His Mother's DECEPTION BACKFIRED_

Episode Date: September 17, 2025

#redditstories #askreddit #aita #betrayed #love #deception #family #relationshipsSummary:A gripping tale of betrayal unfolds when a man discovers his mother's deceit, leading to unexpected consequence...s. Love, trust, and family ties are put to the ultimate test in this emotional rollercoaster of deception and its repercussions.Tags:redditstories, askreddit, reddit, aita, tifu, betrayed, love, deception, family, relationships, mother, son, secrets, lies, consequences, emotional, trust, loyalty, drama, storytelling, truthBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/reddit-stories--6237355/support.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I hope you enjoy this story. Separated from my spouse following his infidelity. Subsequently, his mother attempted to deceive me, but I turned the tables by warning them about their deceitful familial enterprise defrauding former partners. I, a 26-year-old female, recently got divorced from my husband Caleb, 28M, who I'd been married to for a year. The divorce came through a couple of weeks ago and just last week, I found out that my ex-mother-in-law Fiona, 54F, was suing me for defaming her son. I had literally no clue what that was for at the time,
Starting point is 00:00:35 but then her lawyer told us that this was for the emotional damage that I'd caused to her son by telling everyone about his affair because now nobody wanted to speak to him and that was taking a toll on him. I wouldn't have taken it seriously at all, but her attorney was one of the most renowned ones and he just so happened to be her brother-in-law. That's the reason why I even entertained that lawsuit because otherwise, I knew for a fact that they didn't have a strong case against me. Had her attorney been someone else, to who she was not personally related, they probably wouldn't have even bothered to prepare and file a lawsuit against me because it would have been pointless. First of all, their grounds were baseless because it can't be called
Starting point is 00:01:12 defamation if it's true and secondly, I'd only told a couple of our close friends about his infidelity who were now not speaking to him. So it wasn't as though I'd publicly defamed him like Fiona was making it out to be. And most importantly, even if they did have their reasons, I really don't think they'd be able to prove that in court so a $50,000 lawsuit was a stretch just to get me worried. I wasn't too anxious about it though because once I had my lawyer look through it, I knew that their grounds were almost laughable. On top of that, I also had a lot of things that I could use against my ex-husband that if I posted, could land him in a lot more trouble than just emotional damage. So the day after I was served with the suit, I called
Starting point is 00:01:53 Fiona and at first, she was very curt with me. She said that pleading with her or begging wouldn't work anymore and I should have thought about what I was doing to her son before I talked crap about him to our friends but I stopped her before she could make an even bigger fool out of herself. I told her that that's not what I was calling about and said that if she didn't stop the legal proceedings, I'd expose both her and her son on social media and then things would turn very ugly for them once people knew what kind of a fraudulent, scammer family they came from. I was referring to Caleb's arrest at his past job, where he was fired for embezzlement. Only I and his family knew the truth about why he was let go from that job, but his family didn't
Starting point is 00:02:31 know that I was aware of the truth. He'd told everyone that he quit because he didn't see a future there but actually, he'd been caught trying to embezzle the company's money and it wasn't some insignificant amount either. It was almost $25,000. The only reason he didn't lose his reputation and the company didn't go public was because his uncle, the attorney I was talking about, had fought for him tooth and nail and prevented the case from going to court. He'd paid the settlement amount from his own pocket to prevent his nephew from ending up behind bars which is where he belonged. His uncle was the reason the news of his fraud was quashed before it got out of control and that's why he even has a job now.
Starting point is 00:03:09 Caleb's been working at one of his uncle's friends' firms for the past couple of years so that someone can keep an eye on him, but he can also have a respectable position, so everything worked out well for him in the end. All, thanks to his uncle. But I know about all of this because when the embezzlement incident had taken place, he and I had been living together and despite his family telling him not to talk about this, he had told me and I'd even consoled him like a fool. I was too much in love with him to see him for the slimy dishabag that we were so I kept my mouth shut about it as well and even used to reassure him that everything would be fine when he'd be crying to me about how tough life had become for him, how he regretted getting greedy and things like
Starting point is 00:03:46 that. I was his shoulder to cry on at his lowest and then he cheated on me after five years of being together with his high school ex, but that's all water under the bridge for me now. I've moved on and the reason I'm here is not for him but because of his mother. I'm sure the fraudulent genes were something Caleb had inherited from his mother because she was also quite the con woman herself. I knew about this from one of Caleb's sisters' exes. Caleb has two siblings, an older brother Kyle, and a younger sister Aria. All three of them have an age gap of two years. Arias college boyfriend, Marcus, is a co-worker of mine and a really good friend too.
Starting point is 00:04:26 When I told him about my relationship with Caleb at first, he'd been really happy for me but then a few months later, when I showed him a photo of me with Caleb's family at Thanksgiving, he seemed a little shocked. That's when he warned me about Fiona and her tendency to go after her kids' exes just to rip them off of a ton of money because she thinks they're all naive and stupid and she can get away with it. After Aria and Marcus had broken up, she'd called him and screamed at him for breaking area's heart so bad that she'd apparently ended up in the hospital after binge drinking and she demanded that he paid the bill for it. Marcus was not some wealthy guy, he was just a college student but he still sent her all the
Starting point is 00:05:03 money he could manage at the time because he felt guilty about whatever was happening to Aria. Two days later, though, he saw her back on campus and she was doing just fine. He did try to question Fiona about the truthfulness of what she'd claimed, but she lashed out and sent him photos of Aria in a hospital bed. He felt guilty for questioning her so he didn't push it but months later, he realized that those photos were not from the same time as their breakup because at the time, Aria had a couple of pink streaks in her hair but in the hospital photos, she had no streaks at all.
Starting point is 00:05:35 But by the time he realized it, It had been months since their breakup and he didn't want to drag it all back up and stir the pot, so he just let it go. He was the first to warn me about Fiona but I didn't listen because to me, Caleb was the perfect guy and I was going to get married to him come what may. Then there was another instance at Kyle's birthday dinner party where I was sitting with Caleb's family and his brother, Kyle, told us all that his ex had wished him a happy birthday, at which everyone had laughed really loudly.
Starting point is 00:06:03 Then Caleb said something like a joke about her having to pay for her sins in the past and then his mother said literally, and they all laughed again. It felt like an inside joke that I wasn't an on. I didn't understand what was so funny, so I'd asked about it on the way home and Caleb had said that it was just an inside joke, so I didn't need to worry about it. Now I know that they must have pulled some similar crap with his ex as well, so this was their family's pattern,
Starting point is 00:06:27 to harass and rip off their exes with Fiona's help after each and every breakup to take advantage of their naivete. It was only after our divorce that I realized what all this was really about and that I should have listened to Marcus and taken those jokes a lot more seriously than I did back then. But anyway, this was what I meant when I told Fiona that if she didn't take back the lawsuit, then I'd be exposing her and her son online and that wouldn't be pretty. It wasn't because I was afraid of having to go against them, but I just really didn't want the hassle of going through the trouble of negotiations again, so soon after my divorce had been
Starting point is 00:07:00 finalized. I was exhausted and it was mostly because of Caleb and his family since they'd been absolutely horrible to me throughout the divorce and didn't leave any opportunity to make cryptic posts to insult me, which I never said a word about because it wasn't worth it, but even that could be considered defamation if it really came down to it. So on the phone call, I told Fiona that if she didn't take back that lawsuit, then I'd tell the world about her and her family's cons. She got all huffy and nervous and then disconnected the call after calling me some names, but a few days later, she did take back the lawsuit. I thought that that would be the end and I wouldn't have to hear from her or her son again afterward,
Starting point is 00:07:37 but yesterday, Caleb showed up at my door and was furious with how I'd treated his mother. He told me that me threatening him was a disgusting move and that it just showed that he'd been right to dump me for a better woman. I was already pissed off, so I told him to shove off and slam the door in his face, but he continued to scream at me loudly from right outside the door. I would have called the cops on him, but I thought it was going to backfire because he was actually accusing me of blackmailing his mother. He said that if I was so sure of myself and knew that I had no fault in this, then I should have gone ahead with the lawsuit and duped it out
Starting point is 00:08:10 legally. But instead, I called her and threatened to expose them all, which is the phrase I'd used, and he told me that it sounded a lot like blackmail and that if that's what I was intending to do, then I should probably just give up on the idea that I'm better than them somehow because I'm not. He said this to taunt me and then said some more things about how his mother had always looked out for her kids unlike my parents, so I wasn't used to this. He was referring to my strained relationship with my own parents since we're not very close after a couple of bad fights and that was a low blow so I told him to go away. Then he went off topic and started yelling at me about how I'd taken everything away from him, referring to the house, which I got to
Starting point is 00:08:48 keep in the divorce, and also the car. I tuned out at that point because these things I'd already heard over a thousand times over the course of the divorce but the thing he said about blackmail kind of stayed with me even after he left. I guess I hadn't thought of it that way, but when he put it like that, I suppose that's what it really was. I don't know now what I'm supposed to do because I was just trying to protect myself and it seems like it's backfired. I don't understand how to go about this. I'd offer telling my ex-mother-in-law that if she didn't take back her defamation suit, then I'd expose her and her family's cons to everyone online. Update 1. Hello, you guys. Thanks for all the help and advice. It means a lot to me that so many of you commented on my post and stuff.
Starting point is 00:09:34 I'm very grateful that a lot of you supported me. I mean, I guess what I did technically falls under the general category of blackmailish behavior, but it's not like I'm in the wrong anyhow. The only reason she even took back the suit was because she knew she'd get screwed over if she went ahead with it. I can sue her. I can get Marcus to sue her and talk to all the other exes about this, but I don't want to. It would be the right thing to do and a lot of you have suggested that I do exactly this, talk to all the other exes and then together file a petition against Fiona and her kids, but that's a lot of work to put in for something I just want to forget and move on from.
Starting point is 00:10:09 I don't know if it makes me a bad person or whatever, but I'm not a vigilante and neither am I interested in being one at the moment. Maybe sometime in the future if they try to mess with me again, then I might go ahead and do it but not right now. I'm just recovering from a very hectic, tense and stressful phase of my life right now and what I need is to relax and unwind. I don't want to get caught up in Caleb and Fiona's drama all over again, so I hope you guys understand where I'm coming from. I haven't heard back from Caleb yet, even though it's been three days since his last visit
Starting point is 00:10:41 where he threw his temper tantrum right outside my door. So it's either that he's forgotten or chosen to let this thing go or maybe he's planning something. I think the first is very unlikely because he and his family are clearly suckers for any sort of drama and will do everything in their power to create some even if it's themselves that they're making a total and complete fool out of. I already saw that petty side of theirs during the divorce, so I'm expecting something bigger and better this time since I've picked a fight with the biggest goon of the lot, my mother-in-law. She's not going to let this go and I know it. I've really insulted her by threatening her and now that their teeny tiny egos are hurt, they'll do everything in their power to hurt me or humiliate me.
Starting point is 00:11:22 I've kept my lawyer on hold in case things get out of hand, even though I'm planning to avoid suing them as far as I can because I don't have that sort of time and energy and frankly, I don't want to spend a ton of money again on this. I'm just praying for the best right now because there's nothing else I can do. Update 2. Okay, so I was right about them having something worse for me in mind than just letting me off the hook with a phone call or some half-hearted lawsuit that they'll know they're going to lose. They decided to drag my parents into this and it was a disgustingly low move since I've already
Starting point is 00:11:54 mentioned that my relationship with my parents is not the best. I've mentioned in my original post that Caleb was already picking on me about it and trying to make me feel bad about it the last time we interacted and this time, they doubled down on it. It's sickening and I still can't believe they did so. For context, my parents and I have never been on the best terms anyway. Right from when I was a kid, I knew that they weren't exactly. ready to have me and were mostly taking care of myself. I wasn't neglected but it wasn't as if my parents were constantly hovering around me to check how I was doing. They did the
Starting point is 00:12:29 bare minimum and called it a day and I suppose they thought it was okay since they were young when they had me. Then as I grew up, the less they spoke to me. All my bills would be paid, I'd have nice clothes and was well fed but I didn't really have a relationship with my parents. They were just there, they were alive and they were there so I didn't feel too bad leaving for college, and neither did we have some tearful, emotional goodbye. I think all of us were kind of relieved that we wouldn't have to live under the same roof and make each other awkward and uncomfortable while crossing paths or sitting in the same room without talking. So that's how it was. During college, I barely spoke to my parents
Starting point is 00:13:08 because I was busy with my new life and new friends. They didn't check on me either so we just stopped calling. I didn't even go back for the holidays since I didn't think they'd appreciate or even want me there and from whatever I saw on social media, I didn't think they missed me at all. They'd post photos of them traveling, hanging out with their friends, attending parties and stuff and they seemed happy. I was a little upset that they didn't seem like they cared at all and wouldn't call me but that just made me get mad because if they weren't going to call me, then I wasn't going to be the weaker one and call them. It was a weird, bad, and unhealthy space for all of us, I guess, because when I finally contacted them a couple of weeks before graduation,
Starting point is 00:13:49 to invite them to the ceremony, they were very cold. They weren't cold usually before, but on that call in particular, they sounded mad so I couldn't help but asked them why. That's when they told me that they actually were upset that throughout my years at college, I'd barely bothered to put in any effort to keep in touch with them. Now that pissed me off because I could say the same about them as well. So that's what led to a lot of fighting and they didn't even attend my graduation ceremony because of it. But afterward, they did reach out to me and I turned them down. This went on for a couple of years until a while ago, before my wedding, I told them about it because I wanted to let the past be in the past and start afresh. Things haven't been
Starting point is 00:14:30 great but we're going to family counseling and trying to be better. We still end up fighting a lot like crazy sometimes but we're putting in a conscious effort to work on our relationships. And Caleb and his family just made a total mockery out of it all. They called my parents up three days ago, in the middle of the night, and then put them on blast about my pathetic behavior and how badly I'd been raised apparently. They even insinuated that I might have pushed Caleb to cheat because of how screwed up my own relationships had been all my life. It was just a total and complete crap fest and by the end of it, my parents were in shock. They'd never been dragged into any of this drama so this was a first but they had the good sense to call me as soon as
Starting point is 00:15:12 recovered from the shock and filled me in on what happened. I hadn't told them anything about Fiona's lawsuit and stuff after the divorce, but on the call, I kind of broke down and ended up telling them everything. Surprisingly, they were really there for me and were very supportive of me. In fact, my parents seemed furious that I'd been treated this way and were very protective of me, which felt new since I'd always felt like I never even needed them to protect me. So this was a nice change of pace for me where I could actually rely on my parents. I told them that I didn't want to take legal action, but they convinced me to go after them and said that if I felt mentally tired, then they'd be there for me to talk to and do their best to make it easy on me, but if I let
Starting point is 00:15:52 this slide then they'd just keep up and continue to harass me for as long as they could. So I had to set an example and make sure they don't have the opportunity to do this again. I'm already in talks with my lawyer and we're going to sue them for harassment, I think. Update 3, hey, guys. So I'm sorry I'm so late with this update, but with all the hassle of the lawsuit and stuff I'd forgotten to post here. And I'd also forgotten the password to this account since I'd created it as a throwaway one. I had posted an update separately, but now that I've finally managed to remember the details and log back in, I'll post one here too. I went ahead with the lawsuit like my parents told me to even though I'd said I didn't want to take any legal action because it'd be too much and about
Starting point is 00:16:36 two weeks ago, we finally settled out of court. They're the ones who had to pay me $10,000 for all the emotional distress they'd caused me and even my parents. This is not where their troubles end, though. Because once I'd told my parents everything and they'd supported me, I'd also told them about the scam Fiona had tried to poll by involving her lawyer-brother-in-law and sending me some bogus lawsuit just to force me to entertain it and then give them a ton of money for nothing. I told them about the past instances of my husband's dishonesty at work and Fiona's tendency to try and rip off her kids' exes as payback. It was pretty messed up and my parents told me that since I was going after them anyway, I should probably tell Marcus about it too, and see what he wants to do about it. I did do that and even though he didn't go after them legally because it had been such a long time, he made a post about it on social media and it blew up because apparently they'd been running this scam for ages and it had happened to all of their exes.
Starting point is 00:17:32 Fiona had been involved in ripping off all, and I mean every single one of her kids' exes, regardless of what financial background they came from or what their age was. This family didn't even spare their high school exes which was ridiculous to even think of and it was always the same tactics, emotional manipulation, lies, and then guilt-tripping. Sometimes it was a small amount but sometimes, like with Marcus, it was a substantial amount with the hospital bills that he'd been forced to cough up. It was crazy how long this had been going on and even crazier that all of us had tried to keep this quiet because that family had made us think we were somehow the bad guys here.
Starting point is 00:18:09 But long story short, they're getting a lot of hate on social media and it got to the point where they pretty much had to deactivate all their accounts because they couldn't defend themselves from all the trolling. It wasn't just the exes but their exes friends and stuff also who joined in and were actually demanding the money back from them. It's become a whole thing now and I love how nasty everyone's being to them because this is just like giving them a taste of their own medicine. I suppose when Fiona and Caleb tried to mess with me, they really overplayed their hand
Starting point is 00:18:38 and now they're regretting everything because not only did they have to pay me back but now it seems that they might have to return all the money they'd scam people out of. No wonder their family was so well off. I'm sure they've been just as dishonest in their jobs as well just like Caleb had been. There's not a decent bone in their body and this is just proof of it but at least I'm not part of that family anymore. I've managed to get a restraining order against them too, so I'm not worried about them bothering me after this either. And I'm glad that this gave my parents and me an excuse to kind of get back on better terms because ever since that phone call they made to harass
Starting point is 00:19:13 my mom and dad, we've all been a real unit and have dealt with this like a real family would, and I'm so proud of us for doing so. Life's good right now.

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