Reddit Stories - Sibling ATTEMPTED to sabotage my RELATIONSHIP by alleging that my spouse IMPREGNATED her
Episode Date: November 25, 2025#redditstories #askreddit #aita #relationships #sabotage #familydrama #falseaccusations #dramaalertSummary: A sibling attempted to sabotage my relationship by falsely claiming my spouse impregnated he...r. The situation led to intense family drama and false accusations, causing turmoil and strain within the family dynamic.Tags: redditstories, askreddit, reddit, aita, tifu, relationships, sabotage, familydrama, falseaccusations, dramaalert, siblingrivalry, relationshipissues, impregnationaccusation, familyconflict, relationshipdrama, siblingdrama, familyrelationships, falseallegations, familytension, familybetrayalBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/reddit-stories--6237355/support.
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I hope you enjoy this story.
Sibling attempted to sabotage my relationship by alleging that my spouse impregnated her
during our celebration, but I was already aware of her deception and revealed the true
father of her child.
Front of everyone.
I never thought I'd be sharing a story like this, but I am so lost right now and I could
use some perspective.
I'm a 32-year-old woman, happily married to my husband Jake, 34, for five years now.
Our relationship has always been one of mutual respect, trust, and a deep emotional connection.
We've built a life together that I cherish, filled with plans for the future.
However, everything came dangerously close to falling apart when my younger sister, Kelly, 29, decided to throw a wrench into our lives.
Kelly and I have always had a complicated relationship.
Growing up, she was the outgoing, social butterfly in the family, seemingly getting all the attention for her beautiful.
beauty and charisma. I, on the other hand, was more introverted and focused on my studies and
career goals. Our parents treated us equally, but it always seemed like Kelly craved more
whether it was attention, praise, or later, material things, and my parents catered to her
every whim. As we got older, the divide between us became clearer. I found success as a software
engineer and built a solid career for myself. Kelly, meanwhile, struggled to find direction.
bouncing between jobs and getting involved in relationships that seemed fleeting or unstable.
Three years ago, Kelly married Tom, a seemingly kind and generous man who came from a wealthy family.
I hoped that marriage would help her settle down, but instead, it only highlighted how
dependent she had become on the financial support of others specifically, Tom's parents.
I had heard through the family grapevine that Kelly and Tom's marriage was less than perfect.
Tom's family, while supportive, was growing tired of her lack of contribution to the household.
In fact, Kelly had been receiving a monthly allowance from Tom's parents to stay in the marriage
and maintain appearances. She would often complain to me about how controlling they were,
expecting her to hold down a steady job and contribute financially, but I never thought much of it.
I didn't realize at the time just how deep her resentment ran, or how far she was willing to go to
maintain her lifestyle. Fast forward to this year, as Jake and I prepared for our fifth
wedding anniversary. We decided to throw a large celebration, complete with a vow renewal ceremony,
inviting our closest family and friends. It was meant to be a joyous occasion, but leading
up to I had a growing sense of unease regarding Kelly. She had been acting increasingly erratic,
making odd comments about Jake, asking strange, probing questions about our relationship. At the time,
I brushed it off as just Kelly being Kelly jealous, perhaps, but harmless.
About a week before the party, I received a call that changed everything.
It was Tom, and his voice was filled with concern.
He asked if we could meet, saying there was something important he needed to share.
From his tone, I knew it wasn't going to be good.
When we sat down over coffee, Tom got straight to the point.
He explained that he had overheard Kelly talking on the phone with a friend,
casually bragging about a plan she had been working on for months.
According to Tom, Kelly had been planting seeds of doubt making subtle remarks about my marriage
to Jake and trying to cause tension. Her plan was to stir up trouble at our anniversary party,
hoping to create chaos that would humiliate me and cause a rift between Jake and me.
As Tom continued, my shock turned into cold realization.
Kelly wasn't just being manipulative she was actively trying to wreck my life,
all to preserve the comfortable lifestyle she'd become accustomed to. Tom was clearly torn,
but he didn't want to see her succeed in her scheme. Leaving that meeting, I was angry beyond measure,
but I also knew that I wouldn't let my sister get away with her schemes. I wasn't going to let
Kelly get away with this. But instead of confronting her directly, Jake and I decided to play it
smart. I confided in him, and his reaction was exactly what I needed. He was horrified,
just like I was, and we agreed that going head to head with Kelly wouldn't work.
She would just deny it and twist the narrative.
We had to be strategic.
That's when I made the decision to call Tom's parents.
They had always been wary of Kelly, and I had a strong feeling they needed to know what was going on.
But instead of telling them about her scheme for the party, I shared something else something
that I had only recently discovered myself.
I had recently got to know that Kelly had been recklessly spending large amounts of
of money money she was receiving from Tom's parents. Lavish purchases, designer clothes,
spa days, luxury getaways it was all there in black and white. Kelly had been burning
through their finances without a second thought. Some of you might say that maybe Kelly was
earning that money, but no. Kelly didn't have a job, and according to my own parents, she was
living off of her in-law's charity. When I told Tom's parents about the spending, they were
understandably shocked. I could hear the disappointment in their voices. They had been generous,
thinking they were helping their son and his family, but it was clear Kelly had taken advantage
of their kindness. They agreed to attend the anniversary party but decided to keep their
presence a surprise. If Kelly wanted to make a scene, they would be ready. The day of the party
arrived, and I knew Kelly was planning to make her move, but she had no idea that I was ready
to counteract it. The evening started off smoothly enough. Jake and I mingled with our guests,
exchanged loving glances, and tried to enjoy ourselves despite the storm brewing just beneath
the surface. I kept an eye on Kelly throughout the night. She seemed to be biding her time,
waiting for the perfect moment to drop her bombshell. That moment came as Jake and I prepared to renew
our vows. We stood at the front of the room, about to speak our heartfelt promises to one another,
when Kelly stood up and cleared her throat, loudly calling for everyone's attention.
The room fell silent as all eyes turned toward her.
With a smug smile, she announced that she was pregnant and that Jake was the father.
For a split second, you could literally hear a pin drop.
The weight of her words hung in the air.
Some of the guests gasped, others looked at Jake and me with wide-eyed confusion,
waiting to see how we would respond.
But instead of crumbling under the weight of her lie,
I calmly turned to Tom's parents and invited them to step forward.
There was a collective confusion in the room as Tom's parents stepped forward.
They looked somber but determined, clearly not happy about the situation, but resolute in what they
had to do. The guests were confused, wondering why I had called them up in the middle of this
dramatic moment. And then, in a calm and steady voice, Tom's father began to speak.
He explained that they had grown suspicious of Kelly's behavior over the past few months.
She had been acting strangely coming home late, avoiding direct questions about her whereabouts,
and becoming defensive whenever money or her responsibilities in the marriage were brought up.
They hadn't wanted to believe the worst, but after hearing enough troubling stories, they decided
to quietly look into what was really going on.
A trusted friend in their social circle had started noticing Kelly frequently meeting up with
another man, someone they all knew.
This was no innocent friendship Kelly had been seeing with him multiple times, in very private
and intimate settings.
Tom's father paused for a moment, clearly reluctant to continue but determined to reveal the truth.
He said that the man Kelly had been seeing was not Jake, as she had planned to claim in front
of everyone.
The baby she was carrying wasn't Jake's either.
The father of her child was this other man, the one she had been secretly involved with
for months.
The room went dead silent again.
You could almost hear the collective breath being held as everyone processed what had just
been said.
I glanced at Kelly and saw her face turn an unnatural shade of white, her eyes wide in shock.
For the first time, it seemed like she hadn't anticipated this outcome she was utterly
unprepared for the truth to come out like this.
She tried to stammer out some sort of denial, but the words wouldn't form.
Her mouth moved, but nothing meaningful came out.
It didn't matter, though.
The damage was done, and everyone in that room now knew the truth.
As the initial shock wore off, the whispers started.
People murmured to each other, exchanging confused and astonished glances, all of them
no doubt struggling to reconcile the dramatic twist with the person they thought they knew.
Tom's parents didn't stop there.
They went on to announce, in no uncertain terms, that they would be cutting Kelly off financially.
No more allowance, no more support from their family.
Kelly had betrayed their trust, and now she would have to face the consequences on her own.
I stood there, watching it all unfold, feeling a strange mix of emotions.
Part of me felt relieved this plan of Kelly's, designed to destroy my marriage and humiliate
me, had completely backfired.
She was the one left humiliated, and I had made sure that she couldn't weasel her way out
of the truth.
But there was also a sense of finality that hit me hard.
Kelly wasn't just exposed, she was cut off, with no support left.
The relationship between us, strained as it had always been, was probably beyond repair now.
Kelly stormed out of the party in a fit of rage, hurling insults and accusations at anyone
who dared look her way, but it didn't matter. Her dramatic exit couldn't undo the damage.
For Jake and me, the moment that was supposed to be filled with anxiety had instead given way
to an odd sense of peace. Our guests, after the initial shock, rallied around us, offering support,
kind words, and quiet reassurances. We decided to go ahead with renewing our vows,
but this time it felt more intimate, more meaningful. Despite all the chaos, I could feel the
bond between Jake and me solidifying even more. We had made it through the storm together,
and our love had never felt stronger. In the days that followed, the fallout was intense.
Kelly tried to do damage control, reaching out to people with her side of the story, trying
to paint herself as the victim.
But the truth was out, and there was no going back.
Tom immediately filed for divorce, and his parents stuck to their word they completely cut
Kelly off.
Without their financial support, she had no way to continue living the lavish lifestyle she
had grown so accustomed to.
From what I've heard, she's been scrambling ever since, trying to figure out what to do next.
As for me, I've been dealing with a whirlwind of emotions.
On one hand, I feel a deep sense of relief that her plot was exposed before it could cause real damage to my marriage.
On the other hand, I can't shake the sadness of knowing that my relationship with my sister is likely beyond repair.
The jealousy and resentment she had harbored for so long finally came to a head,
and now I feel like I've been freed from that toxic shadow she cast over my life.
But there's something else and nagging question in the back of my mind.
Did I take things too far?
I keep replaying the events in my head, wondering if there was a different way I could have handled
it.
Some people have told me I went to an extreme by inviting Tom's parents and allowing everything
to come out so publicly.
They've said that family matters like these should be kept private, that I didn't need
to humiliate Kelly in front of everyone.
And part of me wonders if they're right.
Maybe I could have stopped things before they reached that point.
I could have confronted Kelly privately, given her a chance to come clean before everything
spiraled out of control. But then I remember the lengths she was willing to go to destroy my life.
She was going to stand up in front of everyone I love and lie, just to tear my marriage apart for
her own gain. If I hadn't been prepared, who knows what damage she could have done.
In the end, I chose to protect myself and my marriage. And while I'm left questioning whether
my actions were too harsh, I know that the truth needed to come out. What Kelly did was
unforgivable, and maybe this was the only way to truly break free from the hold she had on my
life. So here I am, torn between feeling justified and wondering if I went too far.
Please let me know what you guys think. Update 1, it's been an absolutely overwhelming
48 hours since my last post, and to say things have escalated would be an understatement.
After the dramatic blowout at our anniversary party, the fallout has been swift, intense,
and far-reaching, leaving us all reeling.
The most significant update is that Tom, my sister Kelly's now estranged husband, has officially
filed for divorce.
He called me the day after the party, sounding like a man caught between relief and devastation.
He admitted that while he had suspected Kelly's infidelity for some time, he had no idea
about the depths of her betrayal, let alone her sickening plan to publicly accuse Jake,
my husband, of fathering her child.
Tom's parents, who were as blindsided as the rest of us, are fully backing him through this.
In fact, they've already connected him with one of the best divorce attorneys they could find
to make sure this separation goes as smoothly as possible for their son.
Kelly, meanwhile, has gone into full-blown damage control mode.
She's been calling and texting family members non-stop, desperately trying to spit.
the situation in her favor. Her story has changed so many times that even people who used to give
her the benefit of the doubt are now questioning everything. At first, she claimed she was
just joking when she made the announcement at the party, as though accusing Jake of cheating on me
and fathering her child was some kind of sick prank. Then, she started saying she was coerced
into making the announcement though she never quite explained by whom. Finally, she settled on painting
herself as the victim of some grand conspiracy, blaming everyone but herself for what happened.
It's been surreal to watch her scramble to save face, but it's also infuriating.
To my surprise, most of our family isn't buying it. For years, Kelly has manipulated those closest
to her, especially our parents, who have always favored her and enabled her behavior but this time
it seems like the scales have finally fallen from their eyes. My mom called me yesterday,
absolutely devastated. She was in tears, apologizing for the way she and my dad have treated
me over the years, for constantly giving Kelly a pass while ignoring the strain it put on
our family. She said she couldn't believe how blind she had been to Kelly's true nature,
and it was the first time in a long time that we had a genuine, open conversation about the
dynamics in our family. It was cathartic, to say the least, and I hope this is the first step
toward healing the long-standing rift Kelly's behavior has caused between us.
Jake and I decided to take a few days off work to process everything.
Honestly, the emotional toll of this situation is something we weren't prepared for,
even though we saw it coming.
The outpouring of support from friends, family, and even colleagues has been overwhelming.
Some of our guests who witnessed the drama firsthand have reached out with kind words,
checking in on how we're doing.
Jake's boss even called to commend him for how he handled the situation,
praising his calmness during what could have easily turned into an explosive moment.
He was kind enough to offer Jake some extra-personal days if we needed them, which was a gesture
we really appreciated.
But the real eye-opener has been hearing from extended family members who are finally speaking
out about Kelly.
It turns out, the drama at our anniversary party was just the last straw for many of them.
Cousins, aunts, and even some old family friends have reached out to me, sharing their own
experiences of Kelly's manipulative behavior over the years.
Some of them have recounted incidents where she tried to drive wedges between people, or how she
had this tendency to lie when it suited her. I never realized how much Kelly had hurt others
until now. Hearing their stories has been both shocking and oddly comforting I'm not the only one
who's been subjected to her toxic behavior. As for Kelly, she's gone radio silence since the
initial flurry of frantic messages. Her social media accounts have been deactivated, and she isn't
responding to calls or texts, even from our parents. Part of me is worried about her well-being
after all, this is my sister, and despite everything, I don't want her to fall apart completely.
But another part of me knows that this is probably just another one of her manipulation tactics,
a way to control the narrative by making herself look like the victim again. She thrives on
drama, and this disappearing act feels like just another way to stay in control of the situation.
Tom's parents, who had been nothing but kind throughout this mess, sent Jake and me a beautiful
flower arrangement with a note that practically brought me to tears. In it, they apologized for any
role they may have played in enabling Kelly's behavior, saying that their financial support
might have contributed to her sense of entitlement and lack of accountability. They even offered
to help cover any costs we incurred from the party, which was incredibly thoughtful, though we
politely declined. Their focus now is helping Tom navigate the legal and emotional aspects of
the divorce, but they've made it clear that they want to stay connected with us, no matter how things
play out. Jake and I have been trying to focus on the positive, especially the way this ordeal
has strengthened our relationship. We've had some deep, honest conversations about trust,
communication, and what our future looks like now. If anything, this experience has only made
us more committed to each other and to building the kind of marriage that can weather any storm.
We're more in tune with each other than ever, and while this isn't how I imagine spending the
days after our anniversary, it's highlighted how strong we are together. Still, we're not naive.
Kelly's unpredictable behavior has left us feeling like we need to protect ourselves,
and after talking it over, we've decided to consult a lawyer of our own. We don't think Kelly
will let this go quietly, and we need to be prepared for any potential legal battles down
the road. Whether it's protecting our assets or making sure Kelly doesn't try to escalate
this situation even further, we want to be ready. It's a sad reality, but given everything
that's happened, we'd rather be safe than sorry. For now, we're just taking things one day at a
time. The shock of what happened is still settling in, and we're both emotionally drained,
but we're also leaning on each other and the support network we're fortunate to have.
I'll update again if there are any significant developments, but for now, we're hoping for a bit
of calm after the storm. Update 2. Thank you all for your incredible support and thoughtful
messages. The past week has been an emotional roller coaster, and having this space to process
everything means more than I can express. I wanted to share the latest updates because, as
expected, things have taken several more unexpected and complicated turns.
First, the biggest news, Kelly has checked herself into a mental health facility.
This came as a surprise to all of us, especially considering how adamantly she was trying to
defend her actions just a few days ago. Tom informed me that after realizing the full
impact of her behavior losing her marriage, her financial support, and the respect of our family
Kelly suffered what seemed to be a breakdown. According to Tom, who is still in contact with her
for legal reasons, she was admitted voluntarily and is currently undergoing treatment.
While I want to believe that Kelly is genuinely seeking help, I can't help but feel a twinge
of skepticism about the timing. It feels convenient that she sought treatment just as the legal
consequences of her actions are closing in on her. Part of me wonders if this is yet another
attempt to manipulate the situation. But at the same time, I truly hope that this is a turning
point for her. The facility she's in has a solid reputation for treating complex cases, and if she's
serious about making changes, this could be the step she's needed for years. On the legal front,
things are progressing rapidly. Tom has officially filed for divorce, and his lawyer is pushing
for him to seek full custody of their two-year-old son, James. Given Kelly's mental state and her
recent erratic behavior, it seems like the best course of action. Tom's primary concern is the
well-being of James, and he's heartbroken at the thought of his son being caught up in this
mess. From what Tom has shared, his lawyer has already laid out a solid case to demonstrate
why Kelly is currently unfit to have primary custody. It's heartbreaking to see how their son
is going to be affected by this. Jake and I have been pulled into the legal proceedings as well.
We've been subpoenaed to provide statements for Tom's divorce case. While neither of us wants
to get involved in the legal mess more than we already are, we understand the importance of
of supporting Tom and telling the truth.
Our lawyer has advised us to keep our statements factual and straightforward,
avoiding speculation or emotional commentary,
especially when it comes to Kelly's mental state and actions.
It's going to be hard, but we'll get through it together.
As expected, the ripple effects from Kelly's actions are still hitting our family hard.
My parents, in particular, are struggling to cope with the situation.
My dad has thrown himself into work, barely saying a word about what
happening, and when I've tried to talk to him, he just brushes it off. My mom, on the other hand,
is all over the place emotionally. One minute she's defending Kelly, blaming her behavior on
stress or mental health issues, and the next she's racked with guilt for having enabled her for so many
years. I've suggested family therapy to help us all process this, but so far, they've both
resisted the idea. I'm holding on to the hope that they'll come around eventually because I don't
think any of us can heal from this without some serious conversations. On a brighter note, this
ordeal has strengthened my relationship with Jake in ways I hadn't anticipated. We've been
spending a lot of time talking about our future, what we want, and how to protect what we've
built together. We've even started discussing the possibility of starting a family, which is
something we'd always talked about in vague terms but are now thinking more seriously about.
This whole experience has shown us how important trust, communication, and mutual support are
in a relationship, and we're more committed than ever to making sure we never take that
for granted. Our friends have also been amazing. We've had a few small gatherings over the past
couple of days, and it's been such a relief to spend time with people who love and support
us without the weight of the drama hanging over our heads. Last night, we had a game night
with a few close friends, and for the first time in days, I was able to laugh without feeling the
heaviness of everything that had happened. It was exactly what we needed. Work has been another
surprising source of support. After confiding in my manager about what's going on, she's been
incredibly understanding and flexible, allowing me to adjust my schedule if I need time for legal
meetings or just to clear my head. Jake's company has been equally supportive, offering him personal
days and checking in regularly. Knowing we don't have to worry about work has been such a relief
during this overwhelming time.
One of the more unexpected outcomes of this whole situation has been reconnecting with my cousin
Emma.
We were really close as kids, but over the years, we drifted apart, mostly because of Kelly's
influence and the way she tended to monopolize family relationships.
After hearing about everything, Emma reached out, and we've been talking more and more.
It's been eye-opening to hear her perspective on things, especially the family dynamics I didn't
fully understand growing up. Rebuilding this bond with Emma has been one of the few silver
linings in all of this. As for Kelly's pregnancy, we've learned through Tom that it's still
in the early stages. Given her mental state and the legal complications, nobody knows what her
plans are moving forward. Tom's parents, understandably concerned about the unborn child's welfare,
are already exploring options to ensure its safety. It's a sensitive, complicated situation,
and right now, nobody knows how it's going to unfold.
Looking ahead, Jake and I are trying to Fendi a way to move forward without letting the situation
consume us. We've decided to book a small getaway next month, just the two of us, to get away
from the stress and focus on reconnecting. It'll be a short break, but I think it's exactly
what we need to recharge and realign after everything that's happened. I'll continue to provide
updates as things progress, but for now, we're just taking it one day at a time, focusing
on healing and strengthening the positive relationships in our lives. I'm grateful for this community,
and I appreciate all the support more than I can say. Update 3, thank you all again for your
unwavering support. The past week has brought more unexpected turns, and while things are moving
forward, it feels like we're constantly on edge, waiting for the next wave to hit. Here's the
latest on what's happening with Kelly and our family. Kelly was released from the mental health
facility into outpatient care, and unfortunately, her behavior hasn't stabilized as we hoped it
would. A few nights ago, she showed up at our parents' house, demanding to see me. When they told her
I wasn't there, she lost her temper, accusing them of betraying her and choosing sides. It escalated
to the point where my father had to threaten to call the police before she finally stormed off.
Early the next morning, I woke up to a flood of texts from Kelly, ranging from apologies to
blaming me for her situation. It's clear she's still struggling, but her actions have left us
feeling increasingly unsafe. After a lot of difficult conversations with Jake, our lawyer,
and even a family therapist, we made the decision to file for a temporary restraining order
against Kelly. This wasn't something we wanted to do, but with her behavior becoming more
unpredictable and volatile, we felt like we didn't have another choice. It's a heartbreaking
move, but we have to prioritize our safety and mental well-being.
The legal system moves slowly, but the restraining order should give us some peace of mind as
we navigate the next steps. The divorce between Kelly and Tom has taken a nasty turn.
What started as a relatively straightforward case has spiraled into an all-out battle.
Kelly is now contesting the custody agreement, making all sorts of wild claims against Tom,
trying to paint him as an unfit father. She's also demanding a huge chunk of Tom's family's
wealth, claiming she deserves compensation for emotional damages and loss of status.
Tom's lawyer is confident that these accusations won't hold up, but the stress is wearing everyone
down. It's hard to see how far she's willing to go, especially knowing their son, James,
is caught in the middle of it all. The idea of their custody battle dragging on, with James's
collateral, is deeply upsetting to all of us. Our parents are finally starting to confront the reality
of Kelly's behavior. After years of denial and enabling, it's been a harsh wake-up call.
We had our first family therapy session, and while it was painful, it was also a step in the right
direction. Old wounds and long-buried resentments were brought to the surface, and while it was
tough to hear, it felt necessary. My mom is still struggling with guilt over how she handled
Kelly throughout the years, and my dad, who had been avoiding everything, finally broke down
during the session. It was raw, but cathartic. I'm cautiously hopeful that this could be the start
of some real healing for all of us. As for Jake and me, we've been focusing on rebuilding our
sense of normalcy and strengthening our relationship. Work has been a welcome distraction as well.
Getting back into my regular routine has helped me regain a sense of control. My team has been
incredibly understanding, giving me the space I need to take care of legal matters without adding
extra pressure. Our extended family and friends continue to be an incredible source of support.
My cousin Emma, especially, has been a lifeline. She's been stopping by regularly with homemade meals
and has become someone I can really lean on. Rebuilding that bond with her has been one of the few
silver linings in all of this, and I'm grateful for it. On the legal front, there's still a lot up
in the air, particularly when it comes to Kelly's pregnancy. Tom's parents have made it clear that they
intend to seek grandparents' rights once the baby is born. They're deeply concerned about
Kelly's ability to care for a newborn, especially given her erratic behavior and ongoing legal
battles. This is likely to lead to another round of legal drama, but I understand where they're
coming from. It's a sensitive situation, and we're all trying to balance concern for the unborn
child with the reality of Kelly's instability. As for Kelly herself, it's becoming harder and
harder to imagine any path for reconciliation. The trust between us has been shattered, and every
time I try to extend a hand, she lashes out or tries to manipulate the situation. I want to believe
that she'll eventually get the help she needs, but I've come to terms with the fact that,
for my own mental health and the health of my marriage, maintaining distance is necessary.
Jake and I are committed to moving forward, and part of that means setting firm boundaries
with Kelly, no matter how difficult it may be. Looking ahead,
Jake and I are continuing to focus on healing and rebuilding.
We're caught cautiously discussing the idea of starting our own family one day,
though we both agree that we need to wait until things settle down a bit more.
Thank you all once again for your support.
This community has been a source of strength for us during this difficult time,
and your advice and encouragement have been invaluable.
While I may not update as frequently moving forward,
please know that I deeply appreciate all the kindness and understanding you've shown us.
