Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - Ep 1157 | What’s God’s Will for Me? Here’s How You Know | Guest: Costi Hinn
Episode Date: March 17, 2025In today's episode, we sit down with Costi Hinn, teaching pastor at Shepherd’s House Bible Church in Chandler, Arizona, about his new book, "Walking in God's Will: Demystify God's Plan for Your Life... and Make Decisions with Confidence," and how to discern God's will in your life. Costi goes over his upbringing in the prosperity gospel movement, and we discuss how the reformed and charismatic crowd often misunderstand the gospel. Costi breaks down how to seek God's will for your life through prayer and how to find peace in that process. After all, our sole purpose in this world is to enjoy and serve the Lord. Share the Arrows 2025 is on October 11 in Dallas, Texas! Go to sharethearrows.com for tickets now! Buy Costi Hinn's book, "Walking in God's Will: Demystify God's Plan for Your Life and Make Decisions with Confidence": https://a.co/d/8Zi0b9u Buy Allie's new book, "Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion": https://a.co/d/4COtBxy --- Today's Sponsors: America's Christian Credit Union — Switch to America's Christian Credit Union today for faith-aligned banking with exceptional rates and nationwide access. Visit https://www.americaschristiancu.com/allie to get started! Good Ranchers — Go to GoodRanchers.com and subscribe to any of their boxes (but preferably the Allie Beth Stuckey Box) and get free bacon, ground beef, seed oil free chicken nuggets, or salmon in every order for a year. Plus, you’ll get $40 off when you use my code ALLIE at checkout. Jase Medical — Go to Jase.com and enter code “ALLIE” at checkout for a discount on your order. Patriot Mobile — go to PatriotMobile.com/ALLIE or call 972-PATRIOT and use promo code 'ALLIE' for a free month of service! --- Related Episodes: Ep 257 | Leaving the Prosperity Gospel Behind and the Deconversion of Christians | Guest: Costi Hinn https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-257-leaving-the-prosperity-gospel-behind/id1359249098?i=1000476404583 Ep 528 | What Progressive Christianity & Prosperity Gospel Get Wrong About Jesus | Guest: Costi Hinn https://podcasts.apple.com/at/podcast/ep-528-what-progressive-christianity-prosperity-gospel/id1359249098?i=1000542874144 Ep 1008 | Dr. John MacArthur on Preparing Our Kids for Battle https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-1008-dr-john-macarthur-on-preparing-our-kids-for-battle/id1359249098?i=1000656550362 --- Buy Allie's book, You're Not Enough (& That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love: https://alliebethstuckey.com/book Relatable merchandise – use promo code 'ALLIE10' for a discount: https://shop.blazemedia.com/collections/allie-stuckey
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How do we know God's will for our life? Is it just a feeling? Are we supposed to hear audibly from God? How do we discern not just between right and wrong, but between good and best? Costi Hinn is here today. He is a pastor from Arizona. He's been on the show before talking about his last book, God, greed, and the prosperity gospel. And now he has a new book called Walking in God's Will.
It's about demystifying God's plan and purpose for your life.
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Costi, thanks so much for taking the time to join us. I think the last time you were on was
2021. Yeah, it's been a minute. Thanks for having me. I like your studio. Thank you so much.
I know last time you were on it was virtual and gosh, that's four years ago. You've added at least a
couple kids, a church. Two kids. You have six kids now. Yes.
All two years apart.
Yeah.
Amazing.
Yeah.
And tell me about the church that you've planted in the past few years.
Okay.
So we talked in 2021.
Yes.
And we're in planning mode for a church.
The church's name is called Shepherd's House.
And we planted in the Phoenix, Arizona area.
And right around February 2020.
And so when you were just out hanging out with all of us, that was our, actually,
I didn't tell you this, but our three-year anniversary that weekend.
No way.
Of the church plant.
And so God's blessed it.
It's been neat.
area is full of people that are hungry for the truth and they want to grow. They need a spiritual
community. And then a lot of young families have moved into the Phoenix area, like cities like Gilbert
and Chandler. And so, yeah, it's thriving. We're thankful. Lots of work, but rewarding work.
Okay. So a lot of people watching and listening, they already know your story, but there are some out there
that don't. Give us a recap. Last time we talked, it was about your book, God greed and the prosperity
gospel, right? That's right. Yeah. And so we talked a lot of
lot about your testimony then your upbringing, but give us a summary. All right. So grew up in sort of the
center of what's called the prosperity gospel and the Word of Faith movement. You just had a friend of
ours on yesterday, Melissa, who deals with new thought and a lot of mysticism, Joel Osteen stuff.
So I was thick in the center of that, mainly because I grew up in it. My uncle, his name is Benny Hinn,
and a lot of people even around here know who he is and just his legacy of 50-something years of a lot
a faith healing. So I grew up in it. I worked for him. And over time, and I believed it, bought the thing,
took it, hook, line, and sinker. But over time, I would ask questions just in my inner mind thinking,
that's not right. The Bible says this, that seems pretty crooked. Or I saw things behind the scenes
that were really fake or really staged. And I thought, that doesn't seem like we're supposed to do it.
And when I would bring it up privately, a lot of times my family members would say,
there are always going to be things that aren't necessarily true or right, but our job is to give people hope and we give people faith.
Or if people maybe like you or others would say things about us or criticize or like Dateline NBC inside edition,
CBC and Canada Canadian Broadcasting Corporation would do hit pieces on my uncle, my father,
and a number of things going on with the ministries that they were involved with, we would say we're being persecuted.
like Paul and like Jesus. And so I grew up with this chip on my shoulder and Baptists and like non-denominational
Christians or people like you who will speak truth on things. You are all dead Christians. You don't
have the spirit. You don't have the power in the anointing like us. And the Lord's not going to
bless you. And you're just jealous of our special spiritual status. And so that was the way I grew up.
Well, I end up playing baseball at Dallas Baptist University. It was a really form.
experience. I had already worked for my uncle. And so I roll up on the DBU campus in a black
H-2 Hummer and had like a $10,000 brightling watch. And my Baptist coach, who literally is like one of the
best hitting coaches in college baseball, one of the best coaches, period, but one of the best
hitting coaches in all baseball anywhere is sitting there. At the time he drives this white
Camry, super mellow guy, like biblical, simple. And he's talking about God's sovereignty. And he's
saying like, guys, don't worry about scouts and getting drafted. Proverbs 21-1 says,
the heart of the king is like channels of water in the hand of the Lord. He turns it wherever he wishes.
He controls kings, scouts, leaders, the world, don't worry, God's sovereign. You just control what you can
control and play hard and trust the Lord. And I always used to make fun of him in my head like this
Baptist dude or this white Camry. Like, I know how to control God and get him to do what I want.
And like, what does this guy even know? But that seed of God,
God being sovereign and a biblical understanding of the gospel was planted.
And so years later, I was a pastor at a church that wasn't very rooted in biblical teaching at
the time.
It was just sort of a popularity contest, very like seeker-driven, get them in as long as it's cool.
And one day, the team there, the pastor, a number of us, we went through this season where
like, we should probably preach the Bible more, which is really shocking.
It was like, what?
This won't attract people.
So we start preaching through books of the Bible and we get to the gospel of John and I'm studying John 5 and the healing that takes place at Bethesda.
And I grabbed this commentary that someone had given to me.
I never used one before.
And I start studying and it just wrecks my world that Jesus heals one man out of a multitude.
He heals them immediately.
So there's no offering and special seed of faith.
There's no white jacket getting waived, no music, no buildup, no shenanigans at all.
He just heals them.
And the person's not limping.
I would see people limp across the stage.
And my uncle or a faith healer would say,
oh, I know they're limping,
but your legs would be limping and stiff too.
If you had been crippled for 30 years in a wheelchair,
let's give God a hand a praise.
He'll finish the healing as you believe.
And you're just like, oh, yeah, sure.
Like, I'd be limping too.
They're probably just stiff.
Yeah.
Read the Bible.
Ain't nobody stiff.
Pick up your palate and walk.
They're walking.
So I'm like, that's different.
And then the last big kicker for me in that point of,
My study was the Pharisees said, who told you you can pick up your palate and walk?
The man said, well, the man who healed me did.
And John records that the man didn't know who Jesus was because Jesus had slipped away.
And so that messed me up because I went, how did you get your healing if you didn't know who Jesus was?
Because you have to have enough faith to get healed.
I used to believe that.
If you don't get healed, if you're like Johnny Eric Sentata and you're still quadriplegic,
if you're broke, if you're infertile, if your kids are prodigal, you just,
just don't have enough faith. Oh, Allie, you must not be giving enough money to the church.
And I see that, and I'm like, how did he have enough faith? And then he complained that he didn't
get to the pool. Like what in the world? So I grabbed this commentary. And it's by a pastor,
I didn't really know him at the time named John MacArthur. And in this section, he goes off
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Do you still have a relationship with your uncle Benny?
No, he doesn't want to talk to me. He's pretty upset.
Still, my family is a very tight-knit Middle Eastern cultured family where no matter what
you don't go against the family. We'd say blood is thicker than water.
So I've described the way I grew up as a hybrid between the royal family and the mafia.
Royal family because the lavish wealth and we flew on Gulfstream jets and lived just the high life,
the highest life.
And the mafia because the loyalty is very enforced.
And so when we left, we were cut off, no money, no safety.
We got death threats and all sorts of things way back then.
And over time, some family members have had the courage to pull away and others kind of live in the middle of like,
You know, one family member called me one time.
I was like, just know that I'm saying in the background, go Kosti Go.
But I can't say anything because I don't want trouble.
And so that encourages me.
But yeah, and then the reason that we started for the gospel with like media and podcasting is because it turns out a lot of people deal with this.
And they get gas lit and they're in hiding or they have questions and they have nowhere to go.
And I'm thankful God helped me because I ended up with a commentary randomly.
but I know there's a lot of people out there who have questions.
They need biblical teachings.
So it started with, let's talk about the gospel,
and now it's led to God's will, healing, the Holy Spirit.
I'm a pastor, so I preach the whole Bible and want to help people grow in the Lord.
And there was, maybe it was a headline.
I don't want to say a rumor.
I think that he might have said something.
Benihin said something about repenting from some of the things that he had done in the past.
did that end up being true?
Did he repent of some of the false teachings that he had propagated for a long time?
Well, not fully or not truly.
And one thing that's happened over the years, it's happened since the 90s.
And I did a bunch of research on this afterwards as well.
Some of it I personally experienced.
And then other things I realized there were wise people watching too,
is he would repent throughout these intervals in history.
Like in the 90s, he said, when he said that God was going to burn all homosexuals,
sexuals in America with fire. I don't know if you've ever.
No, I don't think I need that. So that got him on the news. He said Jesus was going to physically
show up in Africa. He settled, and he would apologize later because he would just get
raked over the cold by a lot of wise, faithful pastors. He apologized, said, I'll never do it
again. Then he would falsely prophesy again. And then again, when he repented the first time,
the big one that like hit everywhere, my aunt sadly had filed for divorce and he was losing
a lot of donors and a lot of headway, and I was still around in those days, that was pretty devastating.
And so he ends up repenting, kind of going back, they get remarried.
Then there was, and I don't take credit for this, I think there were a lot of people putting pressure.
American Gospel came out, that documentary.
It was right after my first book, God Green the Prosperity Gospel.
And I was having a lot of conversations behind the scenes with some of his inner circle,
who could talk to him because he wouldn't talk to me, and saying,
like, why don't you just repent?
Like, just say sorry, admit it, turn.
Like, like, Zekees, let's go the other way.
And well, what does he have to repent for?
And there was a lot of that.
And then a few months later, he had this public repentance.
And he said, I'm sick of it.
Or he said, the Holy Spirit is sick of it.
He's had enough.
I'm like, wow, like, without being too cheeky, just going,
well, I'm glad the Holy Spirit, who is God, has finally had enough.
Like, wow, he didn't have enough before.
Yeah.
Now he's hit the tipping point.
So he repents.
They get a flood of donors.
a lot of momentum back.
Everyone's like, he's repented.
It's all good.
I'm like, okay, let's watch and see.
And I remember calling a family member and saying, what's going on?
Is this like true?
Because I'll fly there, all show up, I'll drive to his front door.
I'll be louder for his repentance than I ever was about his false teaching.
And the family member in Arabic said, just shui-shu-sh-sh-sh-way.
And shui-shu-shu-i-means.
Take it easy.
Just slow down.
Shui-shu-shu-i.
like, I was like, what's going on? And they said, he's going through a lot of fear right now
and his exact words were, I'm scared to meet the Lord. And he was like, I'm scared to meet God.
And he said, well, great. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Now just take the next step
and repent of your sin. Don't just be scared. Judas had remorse, not repentance. But come on,
like, don't be Judas. Be Peter. Be Zechias. And then went back to it again. And then even just
recently kind of cycled back. So when we look at the Bible,
Bible and what true repentance is. Second Corinthians chapter 7 is one that I think every Christian,
even people who have been hurt by someone or abused or harmed or betrayed, and they go,
how do I know if they're really sorry? You go to 2 Corinthians chapter 7 and Paul uses all of these
descriptive adjectives to describe the way the Corinthians were sorry, real sorry. He says it's godly sorrow,
not worldly. It's not just remorse. But he says, what indignation, what zeal? In other words,
they're so mad about their sin. They hate it now. And they're like, whatever it takes, I want to make this
right. I want to be right with you. Paul, we're clearing our name. We're going to walk away from this.
We're not going to tolerate it. And there's a picture of true repentance. It's not, hey, I'm so
sorry. You got your feelings hurt, Allie. I'm sorry you're sensitive. I'm sorry you felt that way.
No, it's, I'm sorry that I did this. Please forgive me. Full stop. No but. And that's really what
it's been for him, and it's a play for donors and for traction, because his ministry is dying,
and his life is sort of just continuing to go in the same direction. But I'll say this to close
in that. He's breathing, and so there's chance for change. I pray for him often, and my hope is he'll
just lay it all out there before the end. Yes, amen. A homework of that movement, I'm sure,
of Benihin's ministry, but Word of Faith, Prosperity, Gospel, is claims to hear directly from God,
especially those who might call themselves apostles, like the NAR New Apostolic Reformation Movement.
There's some within that movement that called themselves apostles claim to hear directly from God,
but a lot of the charismatic language is that that is how you know the will of God.
You hear directly from him. They might say, you know, well, Jesus said, my sheep know my voice.
And they take that to mean all Christians need to be hearing audibly from God or maybe through
dreams, maybe through emotions, feelings, manifestations, different things like that.
You wrote a book about demystifying God's plan.
And I love that word because especially I think in the reformed crowd, because we don't take on
that charismatic understanding of the revelation of God's will, it can feel mystifying.
And so break that down for us.
How do we hear from God? Should we be listening audibly for his voice? Should we be interpreting dreams? How do we know his will?
It's such a good question. I believe strongly that it all starts with the Word of God. If you, Colossians 316, saturate, let the Word of God dwell within you richly.
Everything that comes out of that is going to be informed and directed by God's Word. Often people will now ask me questions like, okay, so Kosti, I know, like I get it. God's will is God's Word.
God's word is God's well. I agree with you. I agree with you. But what do I do with that thought?
I had that thought about that person. And like, what do you call that? Like, didn't God speak to me?
And or I really felt like God spoke to my heart. And I think a lot of people, I would be careful
just a blanket statement. Like, oh, what a bunch of mystics. I think a lot of people just don't think
about the language they're using. And we could lobby for a language change instead of saying,
I feel like God's telling me, well, why don't we just say, I have such a strong conviction?
Or instead of saying, God spoke to my heart, just say, I was meditating on this verse this morning,
and a thought came to mind, and I just have the strongest urge and desire now in light of that truth.
Or I was praying, and I thought of this individual, and it was such a strong feeling of conviction to reach out to them.
why don't we just say that? Because you hear with your ears, you feel with your emotions, you think with your mind.
We don't need to say, I feel like God spoke to me. In the Bible, when God spoke, you weren't like,
I feel like, I feel like, I feel like, and so if you go to the word of God, you'll have a lot of
conviction about things. And 1st Corinthians too talks about the mind of Christ. Paul says, we have the mind of
Christ. Okay, so think about this. If you're filling up your heart,
your mind with the Word of Christ, you now have a mind that's infiltrated in a good way by the Word
of Christ, which means your actions are going to be guided by Christ. So of course you're going to
think about people in a certain way. Of course you're going to be praying and someone will come
to mind. Of course you're going to want to obey God. And of course you're going to have strong
convictions about things because you're reading God's word. So we tend to mystify it for a couple
the reasons. I've done these. Number one, we're trying to prop ourselves up and make it look like we've got a real
spiritual in with God. We just need to admit that's pride and humbly come to people and not say,
hey, God told me. You know, God spoke to me. No, just say, yeah, I was reading the word and here's the
conviction. Another is insecurity. We want to have a definitive plan in a way that we know that this is
true. And so we psych ourselves up. We're like, you know, this has got to be God.
I'm pretty sure God told me that, and we convince ourselves.
And then a third is manipulation.
I remember time and time again to get what I wanted out of whether it's parents
or to convince authorities, anyone in my life, that what I needed to do is what they should approve.
I'd say, you know, I had a dream last night.
God showed me.
And all the, whoa, like, no way.
Okay, we can't, we can't come against that.
And so it's the ultimate gag order or filibuster moment or, or, you know,
or hostage takeover when you just say, God told me and God said. And in that, I think there is a lot
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and our thoughts, emotions, and actions are going to be controlled by that. And that's a good thing.
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When it comes to the discernment that's required in figuring out not just right from wrong,
because the Bible does graciously, pretty clearly speak on what is sin and what is good.
But sometimes our decisions are between good and best, where it's not obvious that something is a sin.
Say you're trying to pick between two colleges, two jobs, something.
One is not overtly simple or obviously in the bad direction, but you want to do what best glorifies God.
a lot of people are crippled with anxiety over those decisions. When we're asking God for wisdom
in those things, what does it feel like or what does it look like to have wisdom to go a certain
direction? Great question. Okay, I'll share personally from my own life briefly. When we planted
the church in Arizona, it started with a move to Arizona to serve at a church for a couple of years
and they wanted to plant churches and so to be planted there, which means moving from Orange
County, California. And I remember in the process, my wife kept saying, well, I have Christine,
you know, her, you guys were just out. But Christine's like, Kosti, are you sure? She's a California
girl. And I kept giving her first down. Like every time we talked, she's like, are you sure,
babe, you're moving me to Phoenix, Arizona, like to the desert. You're sure? And I was going like,
first down every time. She's like, you're that confident. I was like, yep. The reason I was
confident was not because of some mystified pie in the sky vision, not some inner cockiness like a
dude like, no, I know. And I'm like, oh, God, I hope this works out. Please Lord, make it work.
No, I had by that time refined a process that I would walk through and I had learned it from older,
wiser men. And I now, in the book, I call it the fundamentals for every fork in the road.
That's the chapter. And I call it the seven peas for no regret decisions. And I had gone through all of
these and I thought, yeah, it is absolutely the right decision. It was the desert. It wasn't glamorous.
And I chose Phoenix. Why? The reason is I went through this process. Number one, there was a process.
That's my first P. Like an architect, like a builder, like a G.C., a general contractor,
we're going to lay out a process. We're not just going to run into it and go, yeah, we'll figure it out.
What's our process? Who are we going to talk to? What is our reasoning? What are the opportunities?
is you've got to lay it out and slow down.
Number two is have we prayed?
James 1-5 says that we can ask God for wisdom.
It's the ultimate, not prosperity gospel,
but it is the ultimate ask in faith and you'll get it.
Promise.
It's not money.
It's not a house.
It's wisdom.
James 1-5 says that we can ask for wisdom with faith and God will give it.
And it says actually, let the one who doubts not expect anything from God.
It's as though God is saying, look, don't you dare doubt?
you should have enough faith.
You should believe that I'm the God that will pour out wisdom.
So come to me and believe in who I am and what I can give.
So have we prayed?
And when you pray, it's Luke 2242.
Lord, these are two really good decisions.
Not my will, but yours be done.
This one seems good for these reasons.
This one for this.
Guide the direction and providentially open doors and make it clear.
Now let's say it's still, they still kind of are both sitting there.
There's a third P, and it said, have we sought wise counsel with prudence?
Prudence is kind of the unsung hero nowadays.
It's the ability to rationalize, slow down, and think through things without emotion
or your heart or materialism or ego or pride.
You're just going, what should we do?
And you seek wise counsel from the wise.
Proverbs says, I always tell this to my kids and they go to school every day.
If you want to be wise, walk with the wise.
seek wise counsel with prudence.
And then there's another one, and it's, what are our priorities?
I lay out four priorities.
Spiritual, it's got to be top.
Too many people move places and take jobs, and they think about the money first.
You've got to think about the local church.
You've got to think about discipleship.
You've got to think about your soul biblically.
Hebrews 1317 speaks about those who oversee and care for our souls.
That's what we do.
So if you're out on a walk in the plank,
spiritually, but you've got a huge salary offer, flip those. Pick a church. Identify. Don't just buy a home
because it's gorgeous, and you're like, oh, this will be the best one. Well, where's a church
nearby that you can grow with? You have a community. Well, no, no, we'll figure that out. And you're
now an hour and 10 minutes detached from people, but you're like, oh, but look at my, you know,
magnolia level home. That's awesome. But have we thought about spiritual? And if you want to drive an hour,
great. But have you thought about it? So spiritual, financial, I talk about those priorities. It is important.
It is good to think about provision. Which one will be most advantageous in that way? Relational.
Are you on an island? Who are your friends? Are you going to be around a community? We're meant to be in
community as Christians. That's part of God's will for us. And then fourth, I say eternal.
What's the long-term play here? How will this help you achieve your eternal purpose? Bobby
Bowden, the famous Florida State coach, was asked once, what's your legacy? And is it the national
champion? Is it the undefeated season? What is it? And all these reporters wanted to know.
And he was like, I don't look at it that way. I asked the question, did I fulfill God's purpose
for my life on earth? And that's a man who, with all of his earthly accolades, was thinking,
did I achieve the eternal purpose? You could decide, should I do relatable? Should I have a studio?
Should I this? Should I have a show? Should I that? Should I that? And in all of those priorities,
eternal, what you're doing here, every recording, every book you write, every effort, every time you
push a button that's just, I'm like, okay, Allie Best Stucky, sister, you are, you want to be controversial
this week. I'm thankful for it. You talk about things that I'm like, no, you're actually going to
lose followers, but go go, go, because it's truth. You're deciding to pick something that's
eternal. Those four priorities will guide you. Another quick one has God given us permission.
Christian liberty. I think a lot of people get crippled by this.
Yes, true. I had a guy recently say, Pastor, you think it's sin if I want to move to Nashville,
Tennessee? I said, why do you want to move to Nashville, Tennessee? He's in Arizona.
He said, well, I'll just be honest with you. It's not a need. It's a greed. I said, what greed is it?
He said, I just want a couple acres. I want grass. I want a chicken, or I want chickens and I want a cow. He said
that. And I said, no, it's only sin if you don't invite me to come hang out. But he was wrestling through,
He felt like it was sin to do that.
And I said, let's talk through the four priorities.
And he said, I've already found a church.
There's a Bible study that we could plug into.
Financially, it would be okay for our family.
We just want to be in the South.
And I said, it's not sin.
And he was like, oh, I just, and he grew up in kind of a cult-like church environment
where the pastor would hold it over everyone's head.
You couldn't move far away.
Couldn't own a home.
Look, God's given us permission for things.
And so if someone says this school will not derail me spiritually, but it will affect my future and help me get a better job or it's got a better medical program. It's got a better nursing program. Think about your spiritual priorities first and do those. And so there's a couple others, but that will help people, I think.
No, that was an incredible memory because even, I mean, as someone who has also written a couple books, whenever an interviewer asks me to list like five things I listed listed in the book, I always have a moment.
moment of panic. I'm like, can I remember the things that I came up with? So that was incredible.
I don't think you listed all seven, but we did get permission. Was the second one prayer?
So what is our process? Yes, process. Pray. What are our priorities? And we sought wise counsel
with prudence. Has God given us permission? Have we considered the long-term perspective?
And I include that more than just eternal. We want to be thinking about our marriages, our kids,
our families, our homes, our future. You don't just make decisions on a
whim, but also I've told people before, maybe it is wise to take that job for two years.
Like I have a friend who became a, she was from our church, traveling nurse. And it was a
short-term thing, but it paid really well. She was single. And she said, this will actually
be helpful down the road. You've had seasons where, think about this, moms choose to leave the
workforce, sacrifice that extra salary, or do things a certain way, to do what? Consider the long-term
perspective. This is a short season. I'll go back to work down the road. We'll get the lakehouse with my
salary later, but for now, I'm staying home and we'll live on one income. That's long term. And then
finally, do we have peace? And if it'll allow me to lay this out for folks, subjective and objective
peace. We don't just say, Allie Beth, I don't care what you say, I feel peace about this.
We're back to the manipulative God told me type of thing. It's okay to feel peace. You should, but
there's an objective piece that comes when you walk through a biblical process and you've got
people in your life who are wise counselors, now you can say, if I get a cancer diagnosis in this
place, if a child goes prodigal, if I go through a tough time, if the market crashes, whatever,
I don't need to second guess and say, well, if we would have chosen California, or if we wouldn't
have stayed in California, or if I would have chosen Texas, if you would have chose Florida,
we shoulda-cuda-wo-to-we ourselves into anxiety, and we get crippled with fear and doubt.
Now the next time we go to make a decision, the devil's holding that over our head.
Well, maybe this wouldn't happen if you wouldn't have this.
When you've been through a process, you can say, whether like a Moses in Midian or Egypt,
whether like a Joshua staring at Jericho, whether like our Lord Jesus himself,
enduring, suffering in the cross, you're never second-guessing like Paul when you're sitting
in prison with Silas and Philippi.
And you're like, hey, and like, well, God's really up there going, man, I didn't see that one coming.
Right.
Shouldn't have come here.
Paul's like, no, we're writing God's will.
Let's sing.
And they burst the doors off the prison.
And Lydia gets saved and the jailer get in the church at Philippi starts.
And now we have the book of Philippians.
You can know you're in God's will no matter what.
Why?
Because you've assessed your motives.
You've considered all the perspectives you should.
Now you have objective piece.
And then I'll speak to subjective as well.
In the book, I lay this out.
there are times where a husband is being a dominator and he's just saying, I'm just doing this and we're
going to do this and we're all, and this is what I'm the head of this home. And the wife doesn't have
peace. No one is peace. And there's like a war going on. I'm not saying that it's not the right
decision. If someone feels passionate and they're like, no, this is true. It's logical. And now you have
a fight and there's conflict. Maybe you're not going about it the right way. And the Holy Spirit is causing some
conflict so that you can visit those issues before moving forward or vice versa. There's a decision
in which a wife says, well, I want to do this. And the husband says, I'm just not there. And maybe
she's got other motives or perhaps a couple together is being super materialistic. And all of a sudden,
though, there's conflict in different places or one spouse is being a little pushy. If we don't have
subjective peace in our relationships, the ones that matter. Those wise counselors are saying
Kosti or Mark or Ali Beth, you should slow down. This seems a little impulsive. Oh, you're just
trying to hold me back. No, maybe that person is sent from the Lord to slow you down for the right
reasons. And so I speak about the kind of peace that will flood your relationships. And I share the
story of us moving to Arizona. My wife, yes, there was some trepidation of, like,
Like, it's surreal. It's Arizona. Are you sure? But in the end, we laughed our way down the freeway.
I was driving a giant U-Haul, and she was in the family car, and we were having a blast,
and I once in a while pull up next to her and give her a first down again, and she's laughing,
that kids are having memories. And now, no matter what, we know we're in God's will because
we've been through a process. And we feel peace, even when it's 115 degrees in the summer,
I'm going, we're in God's will.
So those are some processes people should walk through.
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Gosh, I remember when Timothy wanted to move from Georgia, and I did not. And I had a timeline,
like a specific timeline in my head. I was, and my reasons weren't bad for.
wanting to stay in Georgia. I was working, but I was leading this Bible study of girls and I really
wanted to see them graduate college. And to me, I was like, well, that's a really good reason.
Obviously, this is God indicating to me that we should stay. But Timothy was convicted strongly that
we needed to move and he got a job elsewhere. And while I didn't initially agree and I didn't see
his perspective, I totally understand what you're talking about with Christine's reaction.
I did end up agreeing with him.
And we did have peace.
We did have peace.
It was like that was really one of the first like leadership tests of our marriage.
And because it was obviously not sin that he wanted to move us somewhere else, I was like,
okay, this isn't really exactly what I had in mind.
But he feels strongly this is where we're going.
I don't know if we had necessarily the specifically seven peas in our process.
But he was certainly following that kind of like in principle.
and we did have peace and obviously God has worked that together for our good and His glory and I'm so thankful for that.
So it's so important for people to realize that peace doesn't necessarily mean, especially you as a wife, that you are going to 100% at the onset, agree with everything that your husband is proposing or whatever opportunity God is putting in front of you.
It might be a process of God working that out in your heart as a means of sanctification or whatever.
Yeah.
You'll never be forcing in the sense that one person is being dominated or dragged, but more so,
I think God uses those processes to grow us closer to one another, to be sanctified, to be humbled,
to also build trust in a marriage or those relationships.
So everything, yeah, what you're talking about is awesome because it's so helpful for people
to not just jump to conclusions.
Yeah.
And then presume motives too and accuse.
Sometimes we do that.
We ascribe motives in marriage.
like, well, you're just trying to hold me back, or you're just, you're just insecure, or you just
want what, it's like, no, hold on, there's something bigger here. And what's interesting is both of
your desires, neither one was sin. Yeah. And yours was spiritual and his could have been and could
be spiritual as a man providing and a door opens up. And working that out, I think God strengthens
our relationships. So my encouragement to folks is to have some sort of process in place. And maybe
they cherry pick one of the peas at any given moment or work through those things. But our relationships
are going to be stronger, healthier, and our confidence won't wane. One story that comes to mind is when
our kind of stand for truth coincided with a cancer diagnosis. Our son Timothy was diagnosed with a rare
form of cancer. And it's why I wrote the book more than a healer, because I know people are out there
going like, well, Jesus is a healer. I mean, but he's so much more. And there's so many.
aspects to what he does that minister to our hearts. And there was a family member that said,
are you sure? Are you a thousand percent sure? You're telling me that you have a son who gets
diagnosed with a rare form of cancer three months old and no part of you believes that's God
judging him and your home because you touched the Lord's anointed. You came against Uncle Benny.
You spoke against this. You're sure, like absolutely sure, because that's
like, man. And it almost seems like God, instead of touching, because I was, it was prophesied that God
was going to kill me and things were going to happen to me and because of what I had done. And they,
one person suggested even more than touching me, the Lord's chosen to strike my son. So now I have to
suffer by watching him. And I remember this calm came over me because there can be like a righteous
anger. Yes. And like you've touched the kid now and you're going after that. And it's so,
wrong and it's spiritually abusive. But this calm flooded over me and I said, I am absolutely sure.
And they looked at me dumbfounded. Like they couldn't believe it. That piece came from the fact that I knew
I was on the side of truth. I knew I was siding with the true gospel. I knew that my decisions were
in line with scripture, never been perfect, haven't done it all right. Probably came out a little hot and
burned some bridges. I blew the whole city apart when I did it and was like, we're going to get them all.
And I was like, maybe I should be a little more gracious and open up conversation.
But that's the way.
I came out hot.
I call it cage stage.
You've heard of it.
It's like, you should be caged for a little while, unless you just hurt people for the
first year or two of your conversion.
But I knew I had followed scripture.
And so I didn't have to second guess.
And I know there's people out there listening or watching who you made that move.
You took that job.
You went to that school.
And you walked through a biblical process.
and then something bad happened.
Maybe you got injured.
Maybe you've been wrestling with infertility.
Maybe the house didn't happen like you thought it would and it foreclosed.
Or maybe you missed some thing and you thought, man, if I wouldn't have done this, I wouldn't have.
Let me tell you, if you go through a process, you don't have to be crippled by fear, paralysis by analysis, shame, perfectionism.
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done that, then even come a cancer diagnosis. You don't have to second guess if you're in God's will.
Yeah. You know, even those of us who are not in the prosperity gospel camp, it can be so easy to look
at bad things that happen and think, wow, is this the result of me making the wrong decision
and I didn't realize it? I mean, prosperity gospel says the same thing. If you sow the seat of faith,
tithe, do this, whatever, then God will reward you for your obedience. He will punish you for
your disobedience. And I think all of us can kind of think that without realizing it that,
wow, are these bad circumstances a punishment for something that I didn't realize? Or conversely,
am I getting these blessings because I'm doing something right? And I'm sure, like growing up in the
ministry that you were raised, I'm sure that was a mentality of,
well, if we were really sinning, would God be blessing us with this Gulfstream?
Oh, totally.
Would we have this many people following us?
Of course, God is on our side because he's given us all these things.
It's easy for us on a smaller scale to also kind of get stuck in that mentality.
Yeah, I call it Prosperity Gospel Light or the diet version.
Yeah.
I don't believe like Joel Osteen, and I'm not following this crazy Benny Hin guy.
I ain't driving Bentley's and believe in that, but we have this mentality that if I
obey God and do all the right things, then God will give me this. And it works in First World America
because generally speaking, if you work hard and you're a good person, dependable, hard work,
life can get better fiscally every year and things could go well for you. And pretty soon you get in
the pattern of like, well, I do all things the right way. And so that's why God's blessing me.
And I think it's a slippery slope because pretty soon when trial does hit, and we know it will,
suffering and trials are a part of the Christian life. When it does, we get disillusioned if we've attached our
blessings to just our obedience, then we tend to by default, prosperity gospel light version, even though we say
we're not Osteen. We've attached our trials then to disobedience. Now God must be mad and I must not
be doing enough. And that really cripples people. There's a passage in the Psalms, Psalm 37, verse 4.
and I used to think that it meant if I delight myself in the Lord, he's going to give me whatever I want.
The passage is, delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
So he used to say, I'm going to delight myself in the Lord, and he's going to give me all my blessings,
give me whatever I want.
Years later, I'm reading that passage, and it strikes me biblically proper hermeneutics,
which is the process of interpretation.
I look at it, and I saw it with new eyes, and I thought, delight yourself.
in the Lord. So you're delighting in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart,
meaning you are delighting yourself in the Lord and he will put in your heart the desires he wants
for you. And so if you read it the way that it's properly written and conveyed biblically is
delight yourselves in the Lord and he will place in you. He'll give you the desires that are
in your heart, meaning he put them there. Too many people are delighting in other things.
But if you delight yourself in the Lord, your steps will be ordered.
And when you have the desire to take the step of faith in some area, when you have the desire to
reach out to that person, when you have the desire to take a sacrificial step in some other way,
whatever that looks like, and good desires, the desire for a job, the desire for a certain
career, the desire for a family, if you can't necessarily have your own children biologically,
the desire to adopt, the desire to minister to the poor, the desire to reach out to the
hurting person or start a Bible study for young women. If you're delighting in the Lord,
he will have put those desires in you. And so the main question people should ask,
you should ask about God's will is, am I delighting in the Lord? Is Jesus my everything?
Do I have eyes for him? Am I focused on him? If you are, I'm convinced biblically.
Everything else flows into the wake of that, like a boat, just pulls it in behind eyes on Jesus.
It really gets simple when you think about your sole purpose in life is to enjoy God.
And if you're enjoying God, you're obeying Him.
If you're obeying Him, you're glorifying Him.
That doesn't mean that everything is easy, but it does simplify it.
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and I never heard it exactly like that, but it reminds me, I remember I had a conversation with a
friend, gosh, maybe in college or maybe in high school, and we were talking about it.
about, you know, this relationship with this guy that we both knew. It just, it wasn't good. And, you know, she was someone who professed to be a Christian. And, you know, maybe she really was at the time. But I remember she told me, well, I just don't feel convicted about that. So it's like, I don't feel convicted about that. And we've probably all been there, just that callousness. If I don't feel it in my heart, then this must not be bad. And I was thinking about the verse in Philippians
for the peace that God will give us the peace that surpasses understanding.
But I wonder if sometimes we misinterpret that to mean the peace that defies understanding.
That's a good word.
The peace that denies understanding and is denying the wisdom of the Lord.
And so if it's a peace apart from what the word of God says, then it's not a peace that comes
from God.
It's actually like a callousness.
And there's a difference in peace and having Holy Spirit-filled assurance and not
being able to feel conviction altogether because your heart is just hard. So there's a difference there.
The piece that surpasses understanding, it's going even beyond what we read in God's word, right?
It's not contradicting it. No, and it's beyond your feelings. So when you have a piece that
surpasses all understanding, it would be as though you're going through something, you and Timothy,
and I come along and I'm going, you guys, how are you so calm? How are you so full of joy right now?
How are you so stable?
And you say, Kosti, our anxiousness was given over to the Lord.
Our hearts are full of gratitude.
We know we're in his will.
We're delighting in him.
And we've just been overwhelmed with this sense of peace,
even in the midst of all that's going on.
And I'm going, but what about this?
What about that?
What about this?
What about this?
What about this?
And you say, we're leaving all those in the Lord's capable hands and trusting him.
But what we're going to do is control what we can.
can, and that's our next step of obedience. And so we're trusting him. We're in prayer, and we're
staying low and submitted before him, knowing that he's the sovereign over all sovereigns,
and so we trust him. Well, yeah, but Timothy, Ali Beth, if you don't make moves, and if you
don't this, and if you don't, that's how so much of the world operates. I've got to force it. I've got to
make it happen. And people lose their minds because they're not rooted in the Lord Jesus Christ.
And so that passage in Philippians 4, where it starts in verse 6 and goes all the way to verse 9,
when it talks about what you dwell on, dwell on what is about whatever is right, true,
noble, lovely, of good repute. Why? Because what you think about, what you dwell on will consume you,
and what you're consumed by will control you. And that's where your destination is going to lead to.
And so I think you're spot on. You don't say, well, I just don't feel convicted about that.
You may not feel convicted about something because you are not full of God's word. It's impossible
to be convicted by something that you don't know.
And so it's important to find that elsewhere.
But it is to be a witness.
When we're confident about God's will, it's not to be cocky,
say, yeah, we know what we're doing.
Look at us.
It's to say, hey, I'm confident and I have such peace in the will of God because I'm rooted
in His Word.
Did you know you could have that too?
And that was the goal of the book, the mystify God's plan for your life and make decisions
with confidence.
The reason I wrote it, there were two book ideas.
I walked into the office of my co-planter, Brett McIntosh, one of our pastors, and the man who leads
our prayer ministry, his name is Tom at the church. And I kind of bolted into the office. I interrupt
their meeting before I wrote the book. I said, hey, I got two book ideas with Zondervin,
this one and this one, and they both immediately were like, the book on God's will, the book on
God's will. And I said, why? And Tom said literally every week, it's like clockwork. People have
questions about God's will. They're nervous. They're scared. They wonder. Our church could use this.
And Brett was like literally, dude, all the people we counsel so much that we deal with is
how do we make great decisions and how do I not second guess everything? How do I have peace in the
midst of good versus good, great versus great? What seems to be not sin and what seems to be not
sin? What do I do? And my pastoral heart is just going, what if there's a resource and what if
there's just biblical guidance that could help people say, we feel biblical peace.
And someone goes, I want that, and we can point them to the Lord.
Yeah.
Gosh, I remember two things growing up that help demystify God's will for me.
And this is just a reminder when you're giving your kids a Christian education, all those times
you're sending them to a Juana's in church camp and maybe moms and dads are thinking,
is this really doing anything?
There are these, you know, crazy teenagers.
You don't want to talk.
whatever it is. I talk to lots of parents with kids in all different directions spiritually,
but just know, again, like we always say, those are seeds planted that will blossom in eternity.
And I still remember little things told to me throughout my upbringing. And I remember this time
at church camp, this whatever pastor they brought it, I don't even remember his name,
but I remember him telling me that it was wrong to open up your Bible and pray that God would
show you the answer just by like moving your finger around, which I guess was something that we
were all doing. I'm sure that sounds like a very middle school thing to do. But that was how we were
trying to interpret God's will, that God is going to mysteriously show me. And I just remember him saying,
the Bible is organized like it is for a reason. Come on. Right. Read it like that. And that actually
took a huge burden off of me that I didn't have to be this, you know, basically this sorcerer
using this as like a magic eight ball or like a crystal ball. And then the second thing, and I would
be so curious to hear what you think about this as we close out, because I'm not sure it's really
the most theologically true thing. However, I do think it, again, relieved this burden of anxiety
for me and making decisions. Junior year Bible teacher, he said this. And he was kind of one to
just say something to shock you. But he said, God doesn't care what college you go to. I know.
Interesting, right? He said, as long as long as he said, as long as he said, he's going to, he said, as long as
as you, but he was kind of saying what you're saying. Go through this process of making the
decision. Neither one is sin. Both will be fine in light of like the sovereignty of God. I don't know
if the initial statement was correct, but I understand what he was trying to say. Was he a professor?
He was, no, he was, this was junior year of high school. Okay. So no, but I think he was like in
seminary. He was an interesting guy. Is he a teacher? Yes, he was a teacher. This is a teacher.
So, but those two things kind of helped me also, like, brought me to the understanding of the
sovereignty of God, but in less formal and sophisticated way helped me kind of understand that
this is not something that I'm searching out through my own emotions and feelings, because that is a
really big burden for people to carry. And the sovereignty of God, people see that as scary.
It's actually a huge relief for us, right?
It's a pillow. You lay your head on at night. And I go, oh, I can.
can sleep because you are in control. I'm so glad I'm not. Okay, two, two things as we've led the plane.
Yeah. So we used to, I call it now, the Bible thumb game. And I've done this in the pulpit at our church.
Like church, this is not how you hear from God. Lord, what do you want me to hear from you today on?
Boom, you open it up and it's like the curses of your forefought. You're like, yeah, not that.
Let's try again. They open it up again. It's like, I will bless you and pour out it. You're like,
that's the word from the Lord for me today. Oh, this is.
So Bible thumb game, not the way to do it.
But second, I would say our teacher friend was being provocative on purpose to get you guys to think.
That's why I asked, is he a pro for a teacher and these seminary guys?
So typically when guys have a good handle on this and gals, the way they'll come at the thing is go,
did you know that God doesn't necessarily, I would qualify a bit?
You know that God's not as interested in which house you buy as interested in.
other things? What are those? Or did you know that God doesn't necessarily care which state you move to?
There's other things that are higher on his priority list, like say more. Well, he cares about your heart.
He cares about your head, your mind, the mind of Christ. He cares about the process. He cares about your
priorities. He wants you not necessarily what you're after. He wants you. And in that I would say,
my premise in the book is, and not in some legalistic false form.
formula or false promises. If you do these things, if you walk through this, and really by do,
I mean get an understanding of the gospel, who Jesus is, what God's word says, who you are,
and then what God's word has for you by way of wisdom, then you can make whatever decision
is in front of you and trust that you're walking in his will. The final chapter, it's like
an epilogue, basically, on the book is encouragement for the road ahead.
And I basically tell people, you're not going to get it right all the time.
It's not going to be perfect.
It's not always going to be pretty.
You're going to make mistakes.
But guess what?
If you walk through that road or you take the directions and it's a biblical direction,
then you're going to be able to even course correct by going back to God's word.
So I would say if people walk closely with the Word of God, then, yeah, I believe strongly that
He will bless you and you're going there.
and he'll bless you and you're going there. He'll bless you and you're staying. He'll bless you
and you're changing if you follow a biblical process. I genuine believe you could have stayed and finished
the girl's Bible study until they're seeing you and done that you could have moved here.
I believe that I could have moved different places. I believe there are other options and yet
we chose to do something and we see it now and go, I can't imagine my life any other way.
God wants your heart. Most of all, he wants your eyes on him.
him. And in that, yeah, make your decision and he'll work it out. And I love what you said earlier,
that God is not sitting up there saying, gosh, I, you know, I didn't see that coming. Now the whole
plan has unraveled. You messed it up. Yeah, I remember a friend telling me that I got a bad grade on a
final in college and she said, do you really think this grade is going to be the thing that
thwarts God's will for your life? Like, thanks. Okay, I don't feel bad anymore. Relatable would have
never happened because you failed. I know. No, I didn't fail.
I'm sorry. I'm sorry. It's just mediocre. But it, I mean, it's beautiful to think of that. And this
really, this book really does. It's a perfect word, demystify God's will because God is not a God of
confusion. He's a God of peace. And he is so graciously revealed himself to us. Yes, through the
Holy Spirit, who's our helper through Jesus Christ, Word made flesh, but also through the Word of God.
And gosh, he's gone through, he's gone to a lot of lengths to make sure that we can know who he is and what to do.
It's clear and easy. The question is, are we,
eager or are we lazy? Yeah. And are we passionate to pursue everything else that will tangibly
give us what we want? Or have we paused and said, God, what do you want? Yeah. And what have you laid out?
That's so good. Okay, walking in God's will, demystify God's plan for your life and make decisions
with confidence. Kosti, thank you so much. Allie, Beth. Thank you.
