Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - Ep 1327 | She Stood Up for Women’s Soccer. Her Team Called Her Racist | Elizabeth Eddy

Episode Date: April 3, 2026

Former professional soccer player Elizabeth Eddy joins Allie to discuss her explosive New York Post op-ed calling for clear biological sex eligibility standards in the NWSL to protect the fairness of women’s soccer. She details the intense backlash from her Angel City FC teammates, who publicly accused the piece of being harmful, transphobic, and racially motivated during a press conference. Elizabeth shares the personal experiences that led her to speak out, the pressure players face to stay silent, and her vision for creating separate competitive pathways while preserving opportunities for female athletes. This candid interview also highlights Eddy’s life after pro soccer, including speaking on the Supreme Court steps and a pro surfing career! Share the Arrows 2026 is on October 10 in Dallas, Texas! Tickets are on sale now at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://sharethearrows.com⁠⁠⁠ Share the Arrows is sponsored by: A'del Natural Cosmetics: AdelNaturalCosmetics.com Range Leather: RangeLeather.com/ALLIE We Heart Nutrition: WeHeartNutrition.com Buy Allie's book "Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion": ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.toxicempathy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Time Codes 0:00 0:42 How Politics Eroded Women’s Soccer 8:30 Elizabeth’s NY Post Op-Ed & the Backlash 19:47 Why the Y Chromosome Matters in Sports 24:09 End of Pro Soccer Career 29:02 Surfing with Christ 36:52 Her Life After Soccer – We Heart Nutrition | Check out We Heart Nutrition at ⁠⁠⁠WeHeartNutrition.com⁠⁠⁠ and use the code ALLIE for 20% off. Good Ranchers | If you go to ⁠⁠⁠GoodRanchers.com⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe to any of their boxes of 100% American meat, you’ll save up to $500 a year! Plus, if you use code ALLIE, you’ll get an additional $25 off your first order. Patriot Mobile | Go to PatriotMobile.com/ALLIE or call 972-PATRIOT. Use promo code ALLIE for a free month of service. Geviti | Go to gogeviti.com/allie and use code ALLIE for 20% off. Alliance Defending Freedom | Your gift to ADF will be used to fight for religious freedom around the world, including in Turkey. And for a limited time, all gifts will be MATCHED thanks to a special grant — only while funds last. Go to JOINADF.com/ALLIE or text ALLIE to 83848 to give today.

Former professional soccer player Elizabeth Eddie caught so much backlash last year when she released an op-ed in the New York Post, urging the National Women's Soccer League to define what a woman is to protect women's sports. Her friends and teammates publicly called her a racist and accused her of bigotry, but she did not back down. And here she is today to tell us her story and where her courage and clarity comes from. You are going to love this testimony and be inspired by it so much. It's brought to you by our friends at Good Ranchers. Go to Good Ranchers.com. Use Code Alley at checkout. That's good ranchers.com, code Alley.

Elizabeth, thanks so much for joining us. Tell us a little bit about who you are and why you were in the headlines last year. First of all, thank you so much for having me. I chose to write an article October 27th in the New York Post, and it was basically asking my league. to put a policy in place that would protect the woman's soccer for women. And I didn't realize how controversial that would be. I knew it would definitely be controversial,

but I didn't realize the gravity or the depth that would go. And that's, I would say, what got the headlines. And it's funny because I had like, I really didn't want that. I kind of knew what that a little bit of like, this is gnarly, this gets intense. This is like a lot. But I remember when Charlie Kirk got assassinated, I went to church with my fiancé at the time, who was now my husband. And the pastor was really clear.

he was like, this is actually a tack on free speech. And if people are in positions to speak truth and they choose not to, we'll continue to lose that right. And at that point, I was like, oh, I know I need to do this. And backstory, I hadn't, I had brought up to Archer like, hey, like, this is going on our league. And he's like, you should probably write an article. And I was like, oh, that's your fiancee or your husband now.

Yeah. And so I, for a couple months, he's like, oh, are you going to write this? And I'm like, oh, maybe back and forth, like totally waffling. And then eventually I was like, no, I'm not. I want to keep playing. which was objectively like a selfish move slash out of fear. And then when that happened with Charlie, I was like, oh, this, we're at a point in culture where this actually matters a lot more than my selfish desire to play a sport.

So it kind of made my vision get wider and bigger in my perspective. And then it kind of fast forwarded to like the article coming out. And then thankfully, I really appreciate that you like made a post to like share arrows with this girl because I remember being like, this is really gnarly. And then all of a sudden I was like, oh, some people are like kind. This is crazy. And then it totally kind of exposed that like, wow, like this is a huge topic, huge a divide and very big controversial issue in America right now. Okay, let's go back to why you even felt the need in the first place to write this article.

Some people have no idea what's been going on in the women's soccer league. Are you saying that there have been men playing? So that's a great question. I would say landscape, there's like kind of three points. First, last year, we'd scrimmage the U-14 LIFC boys team. And they beat us. And then, but it's also interesting. What age?

You 14. So like a 14 year old boys team, like Academy about to be pro in like three years, they play us at like full grown women, professional sports. They beat us, which is like relatively normal. But we keep scheduling these games because it's really good for our training. And then what all? So you don't do it for the entertainment factor. It's really just to make you better athletes.

Because I remember hearing about this that the women's team had played like UC15 boys at some point a long time ago and they lost. So this happens regularly. Correct, yeah. So the teams try to schedule it because it's good, but they do close scrimmage, like private, trying to make sure it's not a public thing because what we're going to learn and talk more about is this kind of topic. And so this happens, like, we get better. We watch the film. And then in the warm-up line, which a lot of conversations happen in the war-up lines on a pro sports team because you're there 30 minutes every single day. And one of our captains was like, oh, I don't think we should do it. The risk too high. And I was like, oh, I don't think we should do it. The risk. And she was like, oh, well, if the parents record it and posted on TikTok, it looks bad for us. And at that point, I was like, whoa, news flash. with, this is like, if we're worried about looking bad but not worried about perfecting our craft, like we lost the plot. Like this isn't about competitive sports anymore. Pro sports.

There's something else happening here. And it kind of was like, oh, like, dig a little deeper. And then you realize, like, wait, if we're going to hide the fact of why women's category is important, like, why do we even have women's sports categories to begin with? And kind of that was like a core of this, like logic framing, I'd say. And then a few other experiences in the past, I was roommates with a player on a team. both on loan in another country, but during an off-season. And this player had started growing facial hair. And I was like, that doesn't make sense. And so I was kind of confused. And there's like,

like, a lot more stuff coming out where it's like, oh, like changing pronouns. And like, we need to change the rules in America. And I was kind of like, what's going on? And this is like a handful of years ago. So I'm like a little confused at this point. But like still not fully grasping. And also like, where's this going? And then the next kind of thing is there's some players that like have joined teams in the next two to three years. The team's dead last. The player joins. They go from dead last to like winning the championship and that player is like leading goals for by like many goals. And you're like, wait, this doesn't fully make sense. And so there's basically questions being asked. But like because at the end of the day, our league in 2021 took away policy to

define and protect the category of being NWSL for women, now you're kind of in this like gray area of like case by case exception. Like you don't know if those players. are trans. Yeah. Like, is that what you're saying? Trans or like, partly not women. Yeah. Because like, you don't really know what the definition is because there's no clarity of what

the, what, who this is for. And what's interesting is like, you're kind of stuck in this like, well, then if that's where we're actually at, then we need to just talk about defining it. So then we can actually like live in like the clarity and reality of like this is a fair competition, which we don't really have at the moment. Yeah. Okay. So the first thing was you all played the boys.

U-14, L-A-FC. Boise. U-14. Y-14. all lost, which you said is pretty typical. You started hearing people saying, well, I don't want to post about this because it could look bad because it kind of fuels the whole trans conversation. And women are not as athletic as men biologically. It forces that fact to be very highlighted, which people don't want that be out there. People don't want to show that. When it used to just be,

everyone knows that. And that's okay. That's why we have different categories. And then when you were over in Europe, you realized there seems to be some push. I've got this player over here that's growing a beard. I don't really know why. People are talking about changing rules. And then you see these players in the league, the third thing, that suddenly are really, really good, like better than everyone else. So you don't really know what their biology is. It reminds me of a main caliph, that person, the boxer, and people debated whether or not he was a woman, but it really turns out like he has X, Y, chromosomes. And that's the importance of defining it in women's boxing. And that's what you're saying needed to happen in soccer. Correct. And it hasn't

happened in our league or the women's national team. But I think what's interesting, as I've kind of kept a pulse on this topic is that the IOC, like the International Olympic Committee, new chair is made, this is like her number one running point of like, we need to define the category of women sports. And they're spending like months of like talking to like biologists, scientists, chemist of like what's actually happening here and how do we like take all things and consider them and then make the most fair decision, which I think will over a bigger picture will correct everything because the Olympics is kind of a top down approach, like fix it at the top and then the rest of it will shake down. Quick pause to tell you about we heart nutrition. This is a pre-execision. This is a

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Because currently we have and now we're kind of in this mess. You said something earlier. You said when you were talking to your fiancé, this is before you decided to write it. You said, no, I'm not going to write the article. I want to keep playing. So you knew that that was maybe a choice that you were going to have to make between the two.

How did you know that? It's a really good question. I would say there's like a pretty strong cultural current that operates in like a pro sporting sphere, specifically the NWSL. and as a kid when you're growing up playing sports, you're kind of raised of like do everything you can to play to make that contract to get on the next team

if it's to make the high school team or the college team or the pro team. So you're in this mentality of like, I'll do anything to get there. The danger on the other side of that thinking is that I'll go along to get along. I won't speak about things that are true. And I would say what's happened on a macro scale for the NWL is I'd say there's pretty strong, extreme political agendas that have built the whole thing.

And so they're kind of in tandem with like, women's sports and then a lot of strong political agendas. And I guess what I realized is that this topic specifically and multiple others that in the past I hadn't spoken about, but this will go against the group and there was like no tolerance for a different opinion, no tolerance for even a question. Because I like worked really hard to write the article with the people that helped me of like, how do we do it in a way that brings everybody together? We need to sit the same table. And that was unfortunately not received at all in that fashion. I will say also something I learned that was like kind of a tough reality is like when you write and it goes into the press, you don't have control

over the pictures. And that was like really, really disheartening because I was like, wait, these people are using what I'm trying to say for their agenda. I'm just trying to like actually have a conversation so we can like work together to move women's sports where it needs to go for women. Like this started in the 60s, it started with 109. We're so lucky to have a chance to play sports for our job. But like it's almost getting hijacked and changed into these other really extreme topics. And so that's what was disheartening. And so then, And that was what was really hard for my teammates. So like, you let this picture be posted.

And I'm like, it's not like the whole league should be tested. Don't single out one person that's so cruel. And so that's kind of where it was like the really sad, tough part. But it's like despite that picture being posted, I stand by every word I wrote. And I think it's still important to have this conversation. Yeah. So you felt like you went to great pains to not be inflammatory, to not try to make this a culture war, to really just about make it about protecting women's sports, even create.

like you said, a different category, possibly. You want everyone to be able to play soccer, but you want the competition to be fair. And you were probably really hoping that people would read the article in the spirit of how you meant it. But you got a lot of backlash. So talk about that.

Yeah, the backlash was pretty brutal. What ended up happening is the article came out and then I was like, I think on the weekend, or beginning of a week, and then we have a game every weekend. So the weekend came up. And then before every game, our captains get sent out to, like, the press to, like, do media. And before they went to their questions, the PR lady announced, like, hey, they're going to address something in the news and there'll be no questions.

And so then they, like, did the press statement, basically. And the two captains shared their thoughts on the article, and they spoke on behalf of the team and the organization. And that was really, really hard to hear because I'd had conversations with both of them in the past. And I was really close with them to the point where they were both invited to our wedding. one of them helped my fiance I plan the proposal like they're like people that I was pretty close with And that's where I was like, I feel like I've sewed so much of these friendships. I would have hoped they could survive something like this, which I quickly realized, at least in the short term period that has not happened.

But I would say I still hope for reconciliation because I know that God is a god of reconciliation and he wants us to like find ways to come back together with compassion and love, not at all discrediting truth, but like slowly working through out in light of truth. Yeah. But I would say that that was, they basically, one of them read like the undertones of the article are racist and transphobic and then went on to say quite a few other things and went into topics about like where I grew up that just didn't really like have fully things to do with it and then it kind of the other one shared about like belonging inclusion and then some questions that I had were like

belonging for who and inclusion to what like it's belonging for some but not for like for the not for me situation so it was really tricky to be like how do you move forward when you're showing up every day with these people and you need to yeah I would say like what I learned I had a really hard experience a few years prior as well and I feel like I prayed a lot and I feel like I was like love on offense like these people can spit in your face at the other. theoretically they didn't do that. Hold the door, ask how they're doing, pick up their trash, like engage, because if you go quiet, Elizabeth, you're, like, losing the plot and you're, like, contributing to the divide. But if you continue offering the roller branch and, like,

making that effort, like, that's the right thing to do. No matter how hard it is, it's at least an action to focus on. So keep doing that. Yeah. We have a couple of those clips. Just in case people missed it. I was, you know, staying tuned to all of this at the time, but some might not have been. So let's just play a couple of those for context. Let's play Sot9 first. I've had a lot of combos with my teammates in the past few days and they are hurt and they are harmed by the article and also they are disgusted by some of the things that were said in the article and it's really important for me to say that and we don't agree with the things written for a plethora of reasons but mostly the undertones come across as transphobic and racist as well were you shocked to hear

that the racist harmful phobic uh i was 100 percent shocked because i was a hundred percent shocked because I was like the words I wrote, there's like no way that could be conceived. At least that was my strong opinion. I am aware, though, that the picture situation with the way the news works could make people think that. Because there were some black players that were depicted in the pictures. Yeah. That you did not choose. New York Post chose it. Yeah. And I'll also say the post wanted like add names. And I was like, you cannot add names. This is about like a bigger topic, not you can't single out players. So like it was definitely turned into like, I don't know, like I'm going to do the right thing of the best that I can and then I can't control everything.

But yeah, it was, I would say, like, heartbreaking and, like, really, I was really, really sad for, like, a couple days. Yeah, of course. And then I was like, God, what do you want me to do? Like, how do I engage? How do I respond? And how do I, like, love people the best of my ability with the current circumstance? And so then I ended up going on Fox News.

And I was, like, it felt like God was basically, like, reminding me, like, these are the two people that you invited to your wedding, like, offer the olive branch. Like, say, like, I hope you come. You've already said yes, please come. It's okay to disagree, but we can't resort to bowling and name calling, which I would say that clip shows. And so at the end of the day, it's like, what I realize, too, is when people try to bully your name call, they're trying to delegitimize a person or a topic because they don't want to deal with it. And so it's kind of this like, how could you ever bring that up?

It's like, well, because it's actually important. And just because you don't want to talk about it doesn't mean we're not going to talk about it. Yeah. Which is why I'm like happy to talk to you here and continue talking about this topic more because I'm like realizing this doesn't go away. Yeah. And if those of us that have a position or a chance to speak on something that's true, don't do it, we continue losing the rights for women that are weaker than men and a lot of other rights that we have in America today. Were you able to have a private conversation with them and you don't have to reveal anything that you're not comfortable talking about? But after they accused you, racist, transphobic, all of these things, were you able to have a reasonable discussion to be able to say, well, no, like, this is what I meant and this is why it's not racist or was that not able to happen?

The conversation with the teammates that went on the news didn't happen, but multiple other teammates came to me and said what our captains said, I don't stand by. I want you to know that, like, although I don't like the situation, like, I understand what you're doing and I like respect that. And then even other teammates that like really publicly don't agree generally on almost everything were like, I totally empathize with you. You're in a really hard spot. This is brutal. I respect this, what you're doing. I don't agree with what you're doing at all. I would counter you, but I still understand what it's like to be under attack from the approach.

press. Right. So that was like really cool to see I'd say silver linings where it's like and then there was also like I care about you but also you should do this. So there's interesting levels of like, I don't know, strategy happening. Yeah. Were you disappointed by any people who said I completely agree with you. I support you but I could never do that. Yeah, there's a part of me that's like come on because if you do the snowballs and this thing actually changes in a shorter time frame though not, but at the same time, I, like, can totally empathize with them because it was so hard for me to do this. Like, I was waffling for months about it and didn't really, I don't know, it wasn't the like I wanted to do it. It was more like I felt like I needed to do it. Yeah.

Angel FC issued a statement, um, in support of Gordon's remarks. So the player that called this. I think we have a picture of that. Um, our captain spoke with courage and clarity. Well, that's disappointed. That's a phrase that I say on this show all of the time, but they mean it in the opposite way. Courage and clarity, no in our community should be questioned, harassed, or targeted because of their identity, which again, I'm sure is disappointing to you because that is not what you called for. You didn't call for anyone to be harassed. No, not at all. And what's funny is in light of that, I'm like, people of them being harassed, period, because of people's watching games and having opinions. I'm saying we have a policy so people stop getting harassed and end this, like,

ambiguity because the ambiguity is what's creating it. Yeah. So like, even though the captains may have spoke what they spoke. I'm like the league's choosing to not be clear. The league's choosing to absolve leadership and responsibility of like, if you just lead with integrity and say what things are and stand by it, you at least will be able to like not have this type of thing going on. And players won't be being harassed because there's no questions. Next sponsor is Javity.

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Can you talk about just physically what it is like to play against like a 14 year old boy in soccer? You're at the top of your game. You're super athletic. We were talking off camera. You have been your whole life. You come from a family of athletes, super competitive. Yet, you'll lost a 14 year old boys. Tell us why that is, why people out there may not know.

They might be thinking, well, really, what difference does it make? That's a great question. I would say at the bottom line, it's like a physiological difference and a biological difference that's rooted in chromosomes. And so when boys hit puberty, they get like their bone densities like grows, their muscle tissue grows, their lung capacity grows. And they're born with that. And then it just like matures as they grow. So even if somebody's like younger, they're still going to be an advantage just because that's how like the Y chromosome shift. And in my article I wrote like two options of the way to kind of solve this potentially.

one was doing people with overreasing play women sports, which is what England did. And I was speaking with Sharon Davies about it, how like she was spearheading that, I would say, thing to get done in England that the FA, which is a football association in England, protected women's soccer by that policy, which I would say didn't go over with the group that's kind of running the American side. But then what the other way is to do the SRY gene test. And that, as I like read a lot about that, it determines if the Y chromosome expresses. And once it expresses when those kind of, I would say, physiological different.

differences take place. And so then as a person that's like physically lived this and had the personal experience, when you're out there against a 14-year-old boy, if he's at all close to hitting puberty, they're like simply bigger, faster, stronger. So then it forces you to play quicker, which basically means you have to think faster and position yourself better. And that's where you kind of can kind of hang and we can sometimes think the 14-year-olds. I never thought about the mental aspect of having to think more quickly, not just move more quickly. Yeah. And so a lot of part, and soccer is like the most beautiful game ever because the more you play, the slower the game becomes because you're aware of the timing and then the

spacing and when to go into the time, when to do things spacing-wise, and then create spacing by your movement. Where 14-year-old boys, they're just like, let me run fast and try hard. So when we ever get in a physical battle, they crush us. If we can play the tactical game like a chest style, we can kind of win or hang. Once that's what we don't play over 14 or 15 because at that point, they're all bigger, faster, stronger. And they're so much bigger, faster, stronger that the tactics don't even help you.

Yeah. If you're spacing and timing's better, they'll still just overpower you. So that's, I'd say at the end of the day, like, from physical personal experience, I'm like, it doesn't matter. Like, boys will always be girls. It's not a bad thing. And there's educations where, like, a not athletic boy will get beat by an athletic girl. But that doesn't really help the conversation of, like, what is fair and what should leagues be based on. Yeah.

I remember this study from Duke University. And it was from several years ago, maybe even before all of it became just so hyper-polarized. And it was comparing track athletes. And it said something along the lines of, I've cited the exact study before. but like Allison Felix, the Olympian runner, that her world record has been beaten over 15,000 times by 15 year old boys. Yeah. And who were just, you know, high school, they might be good, but they're probably not the best

of the best. Oh, no. And they say in the study that the key differentiator, the only one is the existence of testes. Yeah. That is like that is what makes the difference in how long and fast you can run. that like you said, there are some exceptions, super strong athletic girl, maybe not a strong athletic guy, but that is the rare exception. And we're not talking about the exceptions. We're talking about the rules. Yeah. And if you're trying to govern a group or set a standard or set

precedent, it's like we're doing this for the majority and what are the majority statistics? And like you said, it's like, and it's even like more than testes. I'm like this is like your chromosomes when you're the egg and the sperm meat. Like this is super early on like once the riot chromosomes express, the white chromosomes expressed, some version of testes will be there. And at that point, that person is not able to compete in the female category is what the rule should be. Currently not. Hopefully we'll get there in the future.

Yeah. Identities don't compete. Biology competes. And that is the difference maker. When I'm like, people are free will in America to live whatever identity you want, you cannot enter a competitive competition that's based on like sex-based differences. Like it just isn't fair. Yeah.

And it's, I'm almost sometimes like, how are we here? How are we having this conversation? But then I'm like, well, Elizabeth, that attitude is not helpful. this is where you're at actually get in the arena. And you still play for the same team? I do not play for the same team anymore. You don't. They didn't re-sign me last year.

And now I'm just about to announce my retirement. And then I actually just started professional surfing. Okay. What in the world? Okay. Let's go back. They didn't resign you. You wanted to be resigned?

I would say I was open to whatever was the best case. The new coach, they have was fantastic. And as a player, I'd say the most fun part, the longer I've played is like playing for good coaches because they, like, build a system. of an organization, have a theory, have a process to go through, and then you grow, and the team's crushing it. I watched their last, for sure, their first game. I haven't watched the second game, but I'm like, they're playing great football and they're winning, which is like fun to be a part of. So playing underneath that coach, he's amazing, would have been really cool. But I was like,

there's a lot of moving pieces I'm having to move on to the next season in my career. And I talked to like pro teams like locally state, state side and internationally. And after like considering that, talking with my now husband, it was like, it's best to retire and move on and like kind be settled and have like build a life where you're not living out of a suitcase for the last 11 years. Do you think they didn't resign you because of your article? I wouldn't be so quick to say that. I would say that's for sure a piece of it. Because I just know from a pro-sport standpoint,

they consider all options, like how old you are, what their goals are as a club, where they're trying to go. I know for sure what I wrote criticizing the league was not helpful in any capacity. And whether or not Angel City, it's like every other team's like, yeah, you might be a good old, wise, really competent player, but probably not worth shaking the boat, rocking the boat.

Yeah, because they might think that you're on some kind of activist terror and they don't want negative press, even though they should be, yes, we love this champion of truth and the protection of women sports because the existence of the league depends upon the biological category of women. So you think that they would be like totally supportive, but obviously we know. That's not always the case. Which is what's sad to me because I'm like, even if you're so bent to be inclusive, build a second division that's for open. Like you can do that. You built the league. You worked hard. You built something. Like it's possible. Like why are we saying no?

It's almost just like there's not enough in the world mentality versus like we can build more. Especially in this country of America, we have a freedom to build more whatever we want. It's like the best blessing ever. And I'm like the internet flattened the varied entry. Come on, guys, we can do this. Like we can't work together. We do need to protect women's category. You're free will to build what you want.

Has it surprised you? Other like, you know, professional soccer players like Megan Rapino have not only not said anything about protecting women's sports but have been very outright and say, no. We want everyone who identifies as a woman to play women's sports. And I mean, you've got to think, like, gosh, how would that have affected your ability to become a professional athlete if that had been the case 20 years ago? Yeah, I would say like two things for sure limits the ability to play pro sports because now you're competing not with just with girls, but with whoever else that wants to or is working through their identity or is born with different chromosome expressions. But what I would say is what's interesting is that you have like the LGTPQ plus situation at the moment. and half of that are people, like, it crosses a line from, like, biology to identity, where it's trying to, like, continue with this, like, intersectionality of the oppressed group.

And once you kind of get there, like, Megan Rapino is, like, now, like, I would say whether or not she's, like, thinking fully through, like, has to continue on this path. Right. Versus being, like, wait, what's real here? And where if you even pull people that were, like, originally in that people group before it added all these extra letters, then they're like, wait, I don't want this. This isn't right. This isn't fair. And even like I've spoken with people in the trans community and some very much want to be playing sports. Some are like to stop using us as political footballs. So it's what's really interesting is people are struggling and they don't need to be targeted harassed. They need to be supported. But they also don't need to go, I would say, take away from women who are weaker than men and weaker than people that take testosterone or have white chromosomes. So to me it's like it's a little bit messy, but it's still really clear. Like it's just hard to enact and people aren't really willing to deal with like, I would say, physical reality.

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Professional surfing has the same issue. We've had Bethany Hamilton. I said we haven't had a female athlete. We've had Bethany Hamilton on. Nice, that's awesome. And, you know, she spoke up about the same issue. And so are you worried at all or thinking about how this issue will also affect professional surfing?

I definitely thought across my mind because I'd like read a little bit about her in that topic. But again, I'm like, I think competing in sports are really fun. And it's like a really good thing to do if I'm able to speak on it or share about it, I happily will. But I'm also like, I think it'll be good to compete and talk about it because I think people talk about it and leave something where I'm like, oh, I'll start to try a new sport and see how it goes. But the topic definitely is not going anywhere. But again, I think with the Olympic situation and how that leadership is, I would say,

trying to lead well with strength and get clarity on this issue will, like, really trickle down well. Yeah. Okay. I'm so curious how you even got these convictions in the first place. Most people in any industry of any background would say, I don't want to rock the boat. I know you talked about Charlie Kirk, but obviously the conviction was before Charlie. So just that might be a really long answer of telling your entire life story. but just tell me of how you shaped your beliefs

and got the courage that you have. That's a great question. Growing up, we would go to church every Sunday. And then I would say, I went to a private Christian middle school called Calvert Chapel, and we had a Tuesday chapel, and this guy spoke and shared his testimony. And his name was Joy Brand.

And he shares that he was the best surfer in the world, went to Hawaii, won the pipe masters, got a perfect 10, shot out of the barrel. Like the crowd comes down, carries him on the shoulders, runs to the podium. He gets the trophy, and that starts to rain.

and he's like, this was it. I did all this work for this moment, and now it's over. And then he tried to commit suicide, woke up three days later in the hospital bed and was like, God, you must be real and what do you have for me? So he shared that story, and I'm 12 or 13, and I'm like, well, I'm going to be good at sports. I don't want to end up being totally depressed when I get the goal I thought was going to bring any amount of satisfaction.

And so then I really kind of like started reading the Bible studying it. And in high school, my mom and I, like, started reading the Bible together in a year. And that time, like, just reading the word and slowly trying to figure out what it's actually saying and seeing like the through. line story of God's redemptive grace, but also who is like uncompromising truth, where he actually holds those two tensions. Like, Jesus is like, this is wrong, but I still love you. Like, you can't throw the first stone, but go and send no more. Like, he actually holds it so perfectly. And so getting to like study that through high school and then through college, and I'd say up to this

point, I've probably read the about through 10 times and just trying to like slowly pour truth in is where I was like, okay, this is true, not compromising. But then what was always kind of a bit of a tricky navigation throughout like my pro career was cool how does it relate now that i'm in playing a sport for my job now that like i'm somewhat expected to speak on things or have to make decisions on things really publicly that unfortunately or fortunately like get over it that's the job are like in the news in the press and you're going to like take heat for it or you're going to get praise for it but you're in the arena and so like figuring out how to navigate that's been really i would say tricky and difficult but i feel like i'm slowly coming into like you need to just speak the truth

and don't hide about it anymore where in the past i was like more willing to like go along to get along and I would say my faith's grown stronger as I've seen God be faithful he like he always provides he always sustains and I'm like at the end of the day I'm going to answer to God not to anybody else here on this earth and I think that conviction and that like focus has grown so much that I now I'm like I would almost say feel strong enough or like God speak through me I'm willing to like be the interior holy spirit so it's been like a long long slow journey but I would say it's like just reading the word and like genuinely being like God what's true and like help me understand tell me how that helped you in the couple days after seeing your teammates say you know basically she's a racist

um i would say the most important piece was just remembering when jesus is like you're going to have persecution you're going to have trials like it's going to be worse now that i'm leaving but i'm going to leave you the holy spirit and just remembering certain truths like that was like this is expected and then almost in a weird way like this is good because you're actually doing something that matters because if you were unbothered then you're probably not making much of a difference and if you're you have a position to do that and you do make the difference, then you will have backlash, which is like, should be expected almost. So I'd almost say it was like encouraging and then also weirdly like confidence building. Yeah. So you're becoming a professional surfer after being a professional

soccer player for so long. Tell me what went into that decision. I actually grew up wanting to surf that was my favorite sport, hands down. I liked it so much that at 12, I begged my mom to homeschool me and I was like, please mom homeschool me. Draw me off at the beach every day. It's going to be amazing. And she's like, sure. I have the younger siblings. So it didn't really go quite as plan I'd wake up early, get all my work done by like 10 a.m. I'd be like, hey, mom, I'm ready to be dropped off at the beach. And she'd be like, well,

your three younger siblings are still sleeping. But here's a lot of laundry to fold. So after three months of like that experience, I was like, please send you back to school. I'd rather be social and like hang out friends. So that like didn't go to a pro surfing at the young age, but what it did happen is like I still loved surfing. And then I ended up joining

the surf team in high school. And I went to a public high school called Newport Harbor. And I won states for like the JV level, which was like pretty cool, like surfing here and there. And the girl, two girls ahead of me went pro. And then what I remember happening is the guy, Joey Brand, who like spoke when I became a Christian, he watched him play high school girls basketball freshman year and was like, hey, when you're done with pro soccer, save up 20 grand, two years ago, get you on the world tour. And I was like, oh, cool. So I just finished soccer. I went and met with him a couple months ago.

And like, hey, like I'm looking. And he saw you play basketball? Yeah, like 12 or 13 or 14. Okay. And he was like, you're just athletic enough. And like, if you love this a lot, I'm happily going to help you out. And like since then, like he's coached the English national team for surfing, the U.S. national team, a couple other countries. And he's like coached them to the Olympic gold and stuff. And so he's like, hey, this is who you should work with. He's like, the landscape's changed a bit. So like go for it if you want. So I would say I'm pursuing it now. But I would say what's the biggest change is that in soccer and a lot of team sports, it's like push, push, push. And you're like combatively competing where surfing is a totally different

chain, like experience where you can't surf well and notice you're in flow state. Because you're writing the wave. Like it's you and the wave and doing art together. And if you don't do that well, like, there's no one else on the wave with you. So I would say I'm learning a whole new way of approaching sport in a competitive space, which has been so rewarding and also like freeing and in a weird way, way less stressful because there's like no other people involved. Yeah. And then I found like a coach. So he's starting to coach me and he's probably going to shape me a surfboard. And so kind of getting into like that art and finding out like what's the right dimensions and shape and and size for my size, height and weight and like kind of building out like, I would say like my tools to

go like play in the ocean better. Yeah. I think, I don't know how old you are. We're probably around. 34. Okay, we're around the same age. I had to think of what AJ is. So I am sure that that's like a little unconventional for starting a new professional sport to be 34. Yeah, totally unconventional. And I would say it's very much something I'm holding Lucy of like, God, I would love to do this.

But like if you open doors, I'll go. And if you close doors, it was like, cool, I'm happy for whatever else. But three weeks ago, I did just get back from Barbados, my first pro surfing contest ever. And I surfed in the, I think it was a Btemi, Barbados open. and it was for the WSL, which stands for World Surf League and the qualifying series. I, like, lost in the first round, but it was like, I got to put the jersey on. I got a paddle out. And I was like, this is the coolest thing ever.

And then I made some friends in the heat who I've surfed together with at Tressels, which is, or Uppers, Beach in Trussles, which is like one of the best. So just getting to start surfing and be around people doing it at a high level. I'm like, this is so much fun. And I would say I'm almost approaching it from like, this is fun, enjoyed as much as you can versus I have to do it and be the best. I think the energy you approach things with, like totally transforms experience. And I'm learning to really trust God in the how versus in soccer world for 11 years. And my whole life was like optimize and be the best, which quickly becomes like very like striving and like effortful where I feel like God's like, my yoke is easy. My burden is light.

Like that is not the way to approach it. And then when I've been in states of that, I'm like, oh, this is right. And then all of a sudden I slip out and do it by and way. Yeah. But surfing will require that. That is so cool. Yeah. You just got married.

And hopefully one day y'all have a family, have kids. And, yeah, little athletic kids. Do you think at all about what the future of girls' sports will look like if you have a daughter one day? I do think about the future of women's sports, and I'm hoping to have many daughters. And that doesn't, they won't have opportunities I had unless I do choose to speak up and then ask my other peers to speak up and ask anybody in women's sports to speak up. Ask fathers to speak up. Like, ask anyone that cares, like share what's going on and stand for what you believe is true. And even if you don't believe the same as me, have the dialogue and get out there.

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I watched this young man and gosh, his name is escaping me, but I was recently at a banquet and he was giving his testimony. He actually gave a speech for Trump, and he's this little 12-year-old boy, and he lives in California, and he spoke up because they had a reading buddy program. and one of the books that he was required to read to his kindergarten buddy was about transgenderism and about, you know, being able to identify however you want to. And this sweet Christian boy was like, well, I don't want to do this.

Like, I feel so guilty reading this to this kid. And he very kindly and respectfully spoke up to the teacher. The parents went to the school. It turned into this whole big controversy where the entire school had a pink out day to protest him and protest this little boy standing up for the truth and standing up for this impressionable mind that he was reading to. His friends turned against him. Parents turned against him.

And anyway, they ended up transferring to a different school. And I was just listening to him. I was sobbing my eyes out as a mom because it just challenged me. I was like, I want to raise brave kids, not just safe kids. Yes, we want our kids to be safe. But I want to raise that kind of child. The kind of child who is willing to stand up even whenever you're, turns against them. I'm sure you think about that a lot as I have all girls. And so is it like a mom of

daughters? It's hard because there's so much coming after our girls. But like, gosh, I want them to have the courage like you have to be able to speak up when it's really hard. Yeah. And I would say, I feel like to your point, what's super important is like the parenting and the parent's ability to like create a safe loving place for the kid to learn and grow and like be able to speak up at 12 to be like, I don't want to do this or I feel uncomfortable and share that. Yeah. Take so much courage. And And then what's really interesting is the other side of the conversation saying it takes courage. And it's like, yeah, but where's the truth? Because at the end of the day, unless we seek the truth, we're going to get lost pretty far off.

Yeah, totally. How did you meet your husband? We met on Hinge, dating apps work. Really? Yeah. Okay. Do you hear that? Yeah.

Do you hear that? Because, yes, my assistant. Yeah. Anyway, we've had a conversation about dating apps. I won't get into the details. But we were just talking about how sometimes, like, the unconventional things really do work. God can use them. I would prefer in person as would he, but you're like, hey, this is where everybody that is in the psychographic to want to date spends their time when they're looking to

date. So they're just trying it out and then I tried it out and it worked. Yeah. But I have heard a lot of bad stories. So, you know, there's both experiences out there. Of course. You can't say it works for everyone, but it only takes one. Yeah. You're looking for one. God can use any pathway. Why would we like in pride say, I won't do that? Yeah. Yeah. And you'll have been married for just a few months now. Yeah, two and a half months. Oh my goodness. Congratulations. I didn't actually realize it had been that recent. And y'all are still in California navigating the craziness there. Yes.

We're in California, but we're in Newport Beach, which is, I would say, a city that's a lot more protective towards, like, I would say common sense. Yeah. Put it simply. Yeah. Do you feel a call at all to kind of stay there and be a light in the darkness? Not saying that all of California is dark, but it's very progressive. Oh, 100%. I would say since I was young, I was like, I would love to move back to Newport and, like, help even this city be better.

and also our whole state because I genuinely think California is one of the best places of land in the world. And it's got so much going for it. And then the current leadership is just running in a direction that I think is very bad. And so it's like, how can you get involved in help? And I do not think running away is a good idea. Although a lot of our family friends have moved. And I'm like, I understand, but like come back. Like it's worth it. If we come back together in our uniform and actually choose to show up to like school board meetings and city council meetings and just participate, I think that would really go a long way. Yeah. You spoke on the steps of the Supreme Court earlier this year. I think it was like during the week that we were at the same event for Alliance defending freedom. And this was about a case over Girl Sports and protecting Title IX. Tell me about that experience. That was totally like not on the radar. And I would say really cool and was really empowering. And it was the biggest thing that was changed for me is that it made me realize how far or how bad the situation is. I didn't realize that the policies are so fragile that protect women's sports. And like hearing the at the, the gala thing, when the people that argued the case came and shared what was actually going on

and realizing that, I think it was this, this case is to set precedent. So 34 of the states in America are able to protect women's sports, which then tells you wait right now that can't. And so the fact that the policies are so bad and so unprotective of women and women sports made me realize, oh, there's a long way to go and like, oh, I should probably keep going and share and help and try to get involved because this is a whole lot bigger than me or soccer. And so I would say that was like a huge pivotal moment for me of like, oh, time to get in the game. Yeah. Okay. If anyone out there, no matter what industry they're in, sports or not, is kind of in the position that you were before Charlie died. They know that they have something to say. They know that something around them

is wrong, but they're scared to lose their job, lose opportunities, lose safety, friends or whatever. What encouragement would you give someone in that situation? If anyone's struggling with fear of loss, if it's loss of job or friends or safety even, I would say remember who you're living for and remember that at the end of the day you're going to stand before God and answer for your actions. And that will give you the courage to push through. And then also remember the God that you do serve. He's faithful. He sustains and he provides. And he works a whole lot bigger and better than any of us can think or conceive. And so like trusting in that, knowing that. And then doing the and doing the best you can. You're going to mess up. You're going to say silly things. You're going to

step on your toes. Like it's going to not be perfect. And so, and doing the best. And then doing the best you can. And but you're obedient and God rewards obedience and God's like, I just ask you to follow me. You don't have to become or do all this stuff. Just be obedient to me. That's so important. We always talk about doing the next right thing, which obviously I didn't come up with that quote, but doing the next right thing in faith with excellence and for the glory of God. That's really all we're asked to do. Like, God didn't ask you when you wrote the article to speak on the steps of Supreme Court. You didn't know that. And maybe if he had showed you, okay, like, are you willing to lose his friend and do all of that? Maybe you would have said no, but he doesn't reveal the entire path at once.

He just says, just like, take the next step and trust me. And then sometimes we look back and we're like, oh, my gosh, I had no idea that I was going to run that far or go all of those places. Totally. And he takes care of it. Oh, and even like, sometimes it's a place that I don't really want to go. Right. But then he's like, no, I'm going to lead you.

Then you're like, wait, this is actually really purposeful and way more important than things that I wouldn't have even conceived of. So it's like, I would say a lot more like grounding and has a deeper purpose than a lot times we like to think. I saw this analogy the other day on X, and it was Tim Keller. I don't know if you ever, like, read any Tim Keller stuff, but he was talking about when he was a young pastor speaking to an older woman in his church who had gone through a lot, a lot of hardship and betrayal in her life, and he would always try to talk with her through the hard things that she went through, but she would always answer with, well, God's going to do this. Jesus is coming back. One day,

God is going to take care of everything that has ever been done wrong, always would point back to Christ and what she'll get in heaven. And he thought of, you know, she really had this kind of watchtower approach that when you're in the midst of battle and it looks like the enemy is winning and around you, it just looks bloody. But if you could go up to the watchtower and you see like the Lord's Army or the other army, like coming over the horizon and you know that victory is on its way, you're going to have a very different perspective of the pain and the bloodiness that's right before you. It seems like we're losing down here. But if you can climb up to the watch tower and see that, okay, God's got it. I don't know how, but he's got it. It really changes

her perspective. I don't know that I always have that perspective. Yeah. But it's comforting. I'm, I totally agree. I feel like whatever kind of you focus on grows and the more I focus on like reading the word and just praying in that asking God for guidance direction, the more I'm getting clarity of like, make this call to this person, say yes to this, go to this. And then I'm like, this is like kind of crazy. It doesn't make sense. And I feel like I'm just like saying yes without fully understanding, and then it just gets better and better. It still gets, I would say, more painful at times, but it's like, I know that I have peace that like I'm doing what God wants me to do.

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took backpacks, Bibles and journals and spent like eight hours just in nature, like praying and journaling separately. And then I came back and I felt like God was like, just study my word and like know me more. So every morning I get up and do that for a few hours. And then one of the days, Angel City had had their first game and I like watched it. And then I texted one of the friends who said that stuff. And I was like, great second assist, great job. Like I just had no like bitterness. And I feel like that was totally a gift from God because it is so. easy to be like they hurt me. I'm mad at them. Yeah. And then then I'm like angry and then all this energy is going towards this like terrible emotion that like no one's getting hurt but me. And I'm like,

this is just silly. But I can't get rid of it. And then I have to beg God, please purify, burn this out of me. Like I can't change it. And then he does. But it's like I have to be able to call it what it is. And like it's something, a spirit in me that I can't change. Like please God take the spirit of bitterness. Like remove it from me. And then he does. And I'm like, I'm free again. And I feel like our whole life is this like dance where you're like, totally submitted to God. And like, I think it's Romans 12, 1 through 2. It's like, you're a living sacrifice at his feet. And then all the time, since we're still living, we get up and walk away. And he's like, come on back. It's way better here. And then you're

like in this whole attention. But I would say I've forgiven them. And I'm like, I hope that we can reconcile. And I'm like excited for whenever that day will be. Yeah. I mean, has it happened yet. Has it not happen yet. And might not ever happen. And that's okay. But like trusting that like God can ordain that if he wants. And if he doesn't like, he'll still work in his powerful ways to do what's good. Amen. Are you optimistic about the future of women's sports. Yeah, I really am optimistic about the future women sports. I think that just speaking and learning to speak, because I even think I struggle with, I swam in this pool for 11 years. Like, I would be like, I feel bad to say these things. And it's like, I was told in like group think to like, you can't talk like this

because you're from this background or you're this skin color. And I'm like, wait, what? And now I'm like, slowly learning to articulate myself and use words of like, no, that's not true. This is what's true. And I'm okay for you to be upset with me. And I think just being able to have that confidence to do that and ask like God reveal in me the things I've agreed to that aren't biblical and like help me refine that so I can stand on what's true. Yeah. And so I would say like as I start to do that more, like I know that it would do that somebody said at that gala, courage is contagious. Yeah. And the more you speak up, the more you speak truth, the more like people will also be emboldened to speak truth. And that's like the only way forward. Yeah. Amen. We say that on the show a lot.

Okay. Final thing. Someone's listening and they're like, gosh, I just want to support her. Like I just want to support her voice. I want her voice to be even louder. Is there a way that they can do that, even if it's just through prayer? I would say prayer is for sure the most important. And like, I guess, I guess follow along and like see what happens. And I'm not fully sure where that goes, but it's like wherever God you lead, I want to follow. And I would, yeah, just say mainly prayer.

And like, and then I would even say the best way to support is to like join. Like go to your city council meetings, go to your school board meetings. Like pay attention to like topics you care about. And if you don't care, don't go. But like, if you care, go and speak up and actually help the poem. so move into more positive direction. Praise God. Well, thank you so much to Elizabeth. I really appreciate it. Yeah, thank you.