Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - Ep 1346 | Moms.gov: Trump’s New Website Has One Flaw

Starting point is 00:00:00 The Trump administration has launched an awesome initiative to help expect it moms. Unfortunately, there are parts of it that I just cannot get on board with. In fact, there are two things when it comes to life inside the wound that the Trump administration is doing right now that I'm very concerned about. We are going to get into all of this and more on today's episode of Relatable. It's brought to you by our friends at the last stand. It's going to be an epic pro-life conference in Denver, Colorado, June 5th through 6th. I will be there. Frank Turk will be there.

Starting point is 00:00:30 Seth Gruber. So many more speakers. Go to the last stand.com. If you use code Alley, you'll get a discount on your ticket. Thelastan.com code Alley. Hey guys, welcome to relatable. Happy Wednesday. Hope everyone is having a wonderful week so far. Okay, a couple of things that I want to say before we get into today's episode. Got quite the response to Monday's episode about this trend of going no contact or cutting off your parents. And the stories that I heard on both sides of this issue, you were heartbreaking for a lot of reasons. So on the one hand, I got a lot of people saying that they have siblings, they have parents, they have children, they have cousins that have cut them

Starting point is 00:01:20 off really for no good reason because of a disagreement or because they just didn't like their tone, very arbitrary surface level reasons. And in some cases, it was just mysterious. Someone super close to you, blood related even, cut you off. You have no contact with them with their children for reasons that you may never know. And for that set of people, the episode that I put out really hit home and kind of helped them understand where this is coming from, why this has become a trend. The psychologizing of difficulties in relationships has made this worse. And then there was another set of people who really did not feel represented properly

Starting point is 00:02:01 by my message. And while I do feel like I put in caveats and some nuances there, I think that I could have been more clear and could have gotten to the point more quickly that there are reasons, could be good reasons to no longer have a relationship with someone that you have in your family. And that for many of you, that decision did not come easily. It did not come because of politics. It did not come arbitrarily.

Starting point is 00:02:30 But that it was actually a very difficult decision for you to make for the well-being of your family and the well-being. of your children. So I understand that and maybe I'll do a part two as I was listening back to it. I felt like I could have gotten to a resolution or a solution more quickly. I think I could have been a little bit more clear that, hey, there are actually abusive patterns of behaviors, whether it's physical abuse or, and we could get into this whole terminology, but true emotional abuse, that could justify for a season of time, no communication with a particular person. And then I also could have gotten to that, hey, here's what the Bible actually has to say

Starting point is 00:03:12 about our parental relationships. It's not a covenant relationship. It is an obligation to honor our father and mother. But honoring father and mother and having a spirit of reconciliation and forgiveness is not the same thing as access. It's not the same thing as a physical presence with you or a physical presence, especially with your children. And so I still think it's a very important episode for you to listen to and to watch. There were people who reached out to me and said that they have had these very, very troubling and traumatic relationships and they found the episode to be accurate and helpful and all of that. We're always going to have a variety of opinions and a variety of perspectives, especially on a hot topic. But it is important for me to listen to you and to weigh

Starting point is 00:03:58 the things that you have to say, especially those of you who are coming to me in a spirit of understanding and trying to help me understand. And so I think at the very least that episode needs a part two. But everything that we said in there is true. And there is certainly the spirit of TikTokification of our relationships that I do think is very damaging. And the mentality that we focused on of, hey, I have to do what's best for me, even if it hurts my parents or even if it hurts this very important relationship in my life is not the spirit of Christianity. But there could be good biblical reasons, unfortunately, why you have to have a cessation of a relationship for a period of time. So anyway, I just wanted to kind of say that because I know there was a lot of conversation

Starting point is 00:04:51 on my social media and on YouTube about the different points that were made in that episode. If you haven't listened to it, if you haven't watched it yet, go back to it. Give me your honest feedback and what you think about it. Try to make it through the entire thing, though, because we do try to give as many caveats as we can while still making a clear point about the importance of honoring our parents and maintaining those relationships. All right. One more thing, get your Share the Arrows tickets. ShareThe Arrows.com October 10th, Share the Arrows is brought to you by Range Leather. It's our Christian Women's Conference. Shane and Shane will also be leading worship. It's going to be amazing. Cannot wait to see you there. The testimonials from the last two years have

Starting point is 00:05:29 just been incredible. Such a blessing to me. Go to share the arrows.com for more information and to get your tickets. All right. Now we are going to get into today's episode, which is also a controversial topic, because we will be talking about IVF and the Trump administration, some of the goods they have done on the pro-life front that I, as a pro-lifer, am very excited about. And then some of the things that Trump is very morally confused about. And some efforts that the Trump administration has made that are simply not pro-life, not only when it comes to the pushing of the subsidizing of in vitro fertilization, which we'll get into, but also their stance on the abortion pill and how they have gotten in the way of pro-life efforts to make it more difficult to access this murderous medication,

Starting point is 00:06:17 which is now responsible for the majority of abortion. So let's get into the good first and then we'll get into the complicated and we'll get into the straight up bad. So moms.gov is, is a good and new initiative by the Trump administration. And it's a website that supports mothers and families on Mother's Day, the White House, launched this new website, and they announced this. And it helps expectant moms find nearby pregnancy care centers. You guys know that these pregnancy centers are near and dear to my heart. This is the majority of the speaking engagements that I do.

Starting point is 00:06:52 I go to these pro-life banquets and fundraisers where they invite me to just give a message of encouragement. but really it's an encouragement to me because I see how God is working through the mostly unseen and unsung work of these pregnancy centers, of these pro-life Christians all across the nation and the deepest blue cities and rural areas in the south, in the north, everywhere. God is working through these pregnancy care centers to give women truth, to give them resources, to connect them to believers, and to lead them to the gospel. It's amazing what God is doing through these pregnancy centers. and I am so glad that the Trump administration is shining a light on that.

Starting point is 00:07:29 So moms.gov provides information and nutrition on nutrition and wellness for healthy pregnancies. They've got information like dietary guidelines, breastfeeding education, mental health support. And so you hear so much. Yeah, there it is. If you're watching moms.gov resources information, help for new and expecting mothers. Love that so much. You hear so much for the pro-abortion site. You guys only care about being pro-birth.

Starting point is 00:07:53 You guys are just trying to control women's bodies. You don't care at all about what happens to women and what happens to their babies after birth. First of all, that's always been untrue. That's always been untrue. If you are worried about women not having the resources that they need when they're in a crisis pregnancy situation, I better see you at your local pregnancy center. Most people complaining, oh, these women don't have the resources that they need. They're not showing up on Saturdays to help these women at the pregnancy center.

Starting point is 00:08:23 get the baby supplies and the items that they need. They're not donating to their local pregnancy centers. Typically, what pro-choicers and pro-aborts mean by that is, in order to support these women, you have to outsource your compassion to the government. Typically, what they mean exclusively is that the government needs to step in and expand these programs that so often are actually counterproductive

Starting point is 00:08:45 and aren't actually helping moms have the resources that they need to survive. And by the way, government-funded resources for those who are below the poverty line are already abundant. So it's typically just an excuse to be pro-choice and be pro-abortion. But look, we have right here, we have the Trump administration is giving the options available to women to make sure that they have the support that they need to choose life and to raise their babies. If the left were really about supporting women and they were really about moms and babies,

Starting point is 00:09:19 it would have been the Biden administration who created. moms.gov. It would have been a Democrat-led effort to make sure that moms have the resources that they need. But oh, it's the just pro-birthers that are doing it. Now, the Biden administration, leading the charge for taking care of women and their babies, they created their own website in 2022, Reproductive Rights.gov. That connected pregnant women to abortion providers, such as Planned Parenthood. Their initiative provided answers for women and families, dealing with unexpected pregnancies. That's what they said.

Starting point is 00:09:56 Of course, that's euphemistic. All they mean is that, hey, we want it to be easier for you to kill your child. So on the one hand, we've got Democrats saying your solution to your problems, if you're in an unexpected pregnancy situation is to kill your baby. Here, we'll make it as easy as possible to do that. On the Republican side, you've got the Republicans, the Trump administration, saying, hey, we're going to help you figure this out. like we'll help you figure out the adoption process if that's what you want to do.

Starting point is 00:10:27 We'll help you figure out parenting if that's what you want to do. We're going to connect you to life-affirming resources. Okay, so when people say, oh, Republicans and Democrats, they're the same. They're equally evil. They're both pro-life and their own ways. No, one is pro-death. Like one is pro-murder of your babies. And one is trying imperfectly, by the way, but one is trying.

Starting point is 00:10:52 trying to make it more possible and make it more plausible for women to be able to choose life. In 2022, you might remember that after the leak of the Dobbs decision, the Roe v. Wade reversal decision, pro-abortion activists attacked more than 100 pregnancy centers across the country, including firebombings, arson, vandalism. We've got some pictures of that. It says if abortion isn't safe, their graffiti says, then neither are you. Jane's Revenge, they're a terrorist organization that tried to ruin these pregnancy centers, could have killed people if people had been inside. And just as a reminder, the Biden administration

Starting point is 00:11:34 sentenced these perpetrators of Jane's revenge to an average of 12 months in prison, while peaceful pro-lifers like Joan Bell, 74-year-old grandmother, she and others like her were sentenced to two plus years in prison. And so, of course, unequal wage. and measures there. You get rewarded if you are pro-abortion by Democrats, and you get punished if you are pro-life by Democrats. So again, I just want to say that both sides are not the same. Moms.gov also highlights the pregnancy care centers

Starting point is 00:12:08 and the specific work. They are providing like free ultrasounds, like parenting classes. They connect you to adoption resources. They'll help you with Medicaid, if that's something that you need. they provide free counseling. I have told many, many stories of the incredible testimonies of women who have walked into these pregnancy centers and their lives have been changed by the love and the help that they have received there. And so really the hate and the terrorism that pregnancy centers have received from the left, the lies that have been told about them in the media.

Starting point is 00:12:48 You've got people like Elizabeth Warren. We did like a citizen. satirical video several years ago about Elizabeth Warren because Elizabeth Warren said she was going to go into these pregnancy centers and she was going to show what's really going on. And so I put my Elizabeth Warren wig on and I went into a local pregnancy center to show you what's really going on. Oh no, they give free baby clothes away. Oh no. They're offering free ultrasounds. Oh no. They offer free pregnancy tests and prenatal vitamins. Oh no. They're so kind in there. and they might tell you that Jesus loves you and that he died for you. Oh, no, they might become your friends. Oh, no, the evils that are happening there. It truly is spiritual warfare. And I am just, I'm really, really thankful that the Trump administration is taking this seriously and that they are shining a light on what these clinics are doing. These clinics have been through so much, especially after the overturning of Roe v. Wade and more people need to know about them. And Christian, especially if you consider yourself, pro-choice. I mean, certainly if you consider yourself pro-life, but if you consider yourself

Starting point is 00:13:52 pro-choice or holistically pro-life from womb to tumor or whatever, and you believe that it should be legal to kill babies inside the womb because you think that there aren't enough resources for moms, you've got no excuse to be sitting on your couch on Saturday morning, get up, go to your local pregnancy center, you be a part of the solution. Or maybe search your heart and ask yourself, are you just looking for an excuse to be pro-abortion? Are you just looking for an excuse to take the convenient position of being personally pro-life, but legally against the right of babies to be protected from murder? Okay, that doesn't actually work, but it doesn't actually work logically. But if you actually look inside yourself and see if there's any consistency there,

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Starting point is 00:15:49 Okay, so that part of Moms.gov is really great. Excited about that. We would have never gotten that with Kamala Harris administration. The part of Moms.gov and really just the fight against the fertility crisis that the Trump administration is waging, the part of it that is really not good. And the reason that I can't say across the board, hey, if you're a part of a pregnancy clinic, you should be promoting Moms.gov or we should be sharing this indiscriminately is because on Moms.gov, the administration is promoting in vitro fertilization. Here's a third.

Starting point is 00:16:29 The moms.gov is it is one-stop shopping or IVF for prenatal care, for postnatal care, or nutrition for baby formula, and of course for Trump RX. Okay. IVF is something that is going to be promoted on this website. The White House hosted. That's what you're seeing. Their maternal health care event on Monday discussing the moms.gov launch. Trump announced that the Department of Labor has proposed a new rule that would create a new category of benefits to expand the ability of employers to offer fertility benefits to employees. So according to the Maven Clinic, employer-sponsored programs and services to support reproductive health benefits. Now, typically reproductive health benefits, has meant abortion. That is the euphemism that pro-abortion people use, so I'm already kind of not liking that terminology. It goes on to say they can include financial assistance for fertility treatments such as in vitro fertilization. I just want to say just the euphemisms again, IVF is not a fertility treatment. Like it doesn't solve infertility actually. It kind of tries to get around

Starting point is 00:17:40 the issue, but it doesn't solve the underlying cause of of infertility. Also says coverage for fertility medications and access to fertility specialists. Trump says that this is kind of like dental insurance, not too. This will be supplemental option available to those who need it, much like vision or dental insurance. So we'll bring it right down into the mainstream. By offering coverage for care at every step, the fertility journey is a very interesting one, Very complex it was, and we're making it much simpler. So this is not exactly new in October of 2025.

Starting point is 00:18:19 The White House announced that a medication for IVF and other medications would be available at a discount through Trump RX. That's the government website that allows people to purchase drugs directly for manufacturers. So you bypass the middleman and you cut costs. And so, again, easier to have access to IVF. Trump has answered questions about this from the perspective of those who are critical of IVF. And he said, I think this is very pro-life. You can't get more pro-life than this. So what is my issue with this?

Starting point is 00:18:53 If we're pro-life, aren't we pro-baby? Like, don't we want people to have more children? Don't we think that the fertility crisis is an issue? Yes, I love babies. I do want married moms and dads to have children. I do. I want you to have as many children as you possibly can, as God is calling you to. And the fertility crisis certainly does worry me.

Starting point is 00:19:17 There are a lot of practical problems with it. I think there are a lot of moral and spiritual problems that the choice to forego children points to. But there are, as we have talked about so many times in this podcast, many ethical considerations when it comes to in vitro fertilization. IVF almost always creates extra embryos. that are stored, that are thrown away, that are frozen forever, or use in experiments very often. This is a eugenic type process where a couple will create more embryos than they could possibly transfer.

Starting point is 00:19:52 So they might create a dozen embryos or sometimes it's only six embryos, but the couple really only wants two or three children. But you make as many embryos as possible to get the best chance at a quote unquote healthy embryo was possible. What very often happens that I'm saying caveats like very often because I know some of you out there are going to say no, that wasn't our process. But the vast majority of cases make as many embryos as you possibly can. Those embryos are then graded. If there is any kind of chromosomal abnormality. So for example, if it's found that one of the embryos has Down syndrome, those embryos are discarded. Sometimes the couple doesn't even know that those embryos are being discarded.

Starting point is 00:20:34 Or it is, the embryos are tested for their gender. And very often the couple will have the gender makeup that they have in mind. For example, Paris Hilton made lots and lots of embryos. And she just kept on making these boy embryos, but she really wanted a girl. And so, of course, she's going to bypass the eight other boy embryos that she has in a lab that she has frozen until she gets the girl. So what happens to all of those embryos who, are unwanted because they're the wrong gender, because they are, they have Down syndrome or they have some kind of like Trisomy 18 or 21, what happens to them? Well, typically they are thrown away.

Starting point is 00:21:16 And morally for us, this is no different than abortion because we've been saying in the pro-life movement for a very long time that Dr. Seuss line, a person is a person no matter how small. Of course, we believe that. We have been saying that life starts at conception, that human life scientifically, this is not a spiritual argument, starts at the moment of fertilization that is a unique human life. And all human life is made in God's image. All human life is therefore infinitely valuable. And therefore, what we do to him or her from that moment of conception really matters. How we treat those who don't look to us like people, who don't sound to us like people, who can contribute nothing. Even at the earliest moment of their humanity, it

Starting point is 00:22:02 matters to the God who says that we are made in his image. Now, that is a spiritual argument, but I'm speaking to Christians, and it's okay for us to say that. Far more embryos are discarded every year than result in a life birth. In fact, only 7% of IVF cases actually lead to a live birth. There's this article that I found, and this is just a few years old from NBC, talking about a fertility clinic in Fort Myers, in Fort Myers, Florida. Hundreds of embryos sit in a frozen state of limbo. This is at one clinic, abandoned in the center storage tanks by in vitro fertilization patients who once sought the help of sweets, that's the doctor's team and their journey to become parents,

Starting point is 00:22:47 then walked away. Sweet is one of thousands of fertility doctors throughout the country grappling with what to do with the embryos cast aside by former patients, many of whom work. for months, even years to conceive. It's an unanticipated dilemma. 21% this doctor says, 21% of our embryos have been abandoned. So we're talking about at just one clinic, almost one fourth, almost a quarter of the embryos have been abandoned. There are, it's estimated over a million. I bet it's closer to two million, but it's estimated that over a million embryos are on ice in America. There are all kinds of reasons for that.

Starting point is 00:23:27 the parents end up getting the children that they want. They have two or three children. They can't bear to throw their other embryos away. And so those embryos just wait, just frozen on ice. Or sometimes there's divorce. There's relationship problems. Sometimes the parents die. There are all kinds of unforeseen consequences to creating children outside of the sexual act,

Starting point is 00:23:52 creating them in a lab, putting them on ice. And I know a lot of you out there, I've talked to you. you didn't intend that when you went through IVF, but now you've got six to seven embryos on ice and you're not sure what to do. And there is something called snowflake adoption where you could allow a Christian family to adopt these embryos, but at the very least, this situation puts you in a moral conundrum, in a moral quandary. It is very difficult, I think, to navigate this. And so for Christians, IVF should never be encouraged because right away, we are asking the children to sacrifice and to risk on our behalf. Having children is a good desire, but it is not an ins justify

Starting point is 00:24:38 all means desire. It is not a, I'm going to do this at whatever cost desire. There are still moral and ethical parameters. And so the first part is how it treats embryos and the risk to the embryos and the risk of death, the risk of eugenics that goes on, especially if we're going to subsidize it and make it even more accessible to people, the embryonic death toll is just going to keep rising. I can't support that. I can't be a part of that. Even if sometimes there are happy results for people, it's not worth risking the lives of children. If I'm against abortion, I have to be against IVF. I do. I do. Those two things just cannot go hand in hand. But then also, IVF is used to create children for two men and two women.

Starting point is 00:25:26 It is a necessary step unless they are adopting. But to create a genetic child for two men or two women, you have to use either a sperm or an egg cellar. In the men's case, you have to use a surrogate, and they have to go through the embryonic grading process, the discarding of embryos, the transferring of embryos, and the very risky to the baby and the woman surrogacy, process, at least among two men, in order to have a child. And so I am assuming that these subsidies

Starting point is 00:25:59 and this program is also going to assist in helping surrogacy and helping IVF and the procurement of children to be forced into a motherless or fatherless situation by LGBTQ couples. And I just cannot be a part of that. I just cannot support that. I actually think that it's very evil that we are using our tax dollars to support motherless and fatherless children, forced motherless and fatherless children, and to pay for additional excess deaths of embryos via IVF. And so I'm very happy, on the one hand, about what Trump is supporting when it comes to pregnancy centers. But I am very disappointed, on the other hand, when it comes to the support of IVF. and Katie Britt, who is standing behind him there, Republican senator from Alabama, like,

Starting point is 00:26:54 I think that she should know better. I don't really expect Trump to understand the moral intricacies of this issue, but I do expect a smart woman to know better. And it's not a lack of compassion for people who can't have children. It is a compassion for these small children who don't have a voice and who don't have any capital. They don't have people sticking up for them because people. don't think you're a person unless you look like a fully developed baby. That's the battle we've

Starting point is 00:27:22 been fighting when it comes to abortion. It's the battle we've got to fight when it comes to IVF too. And I know that hurts feelings and I don't want to hurt feelings. I'm not trying to be vitriolic or divisive or whatever, but all of those names that someone could call me, it's worth it for the sake of the babies on ice. It just is. All right. Let me pause and tell you about our next sponsor for the day. And that is Legacy Box. Okay. All of those pictures, all of those VHS tapes, those home videos that you have or your mom has or your grandmother has in their attic, you've got to take care of that. You can't just let them collect us forever. You don't even know if you're going to be able to maintain their quality and you don't want

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Starting point is 00:28:47 fertility crisis. Katie Faust, she is the, uh, She founded them before us, which is a child's rights organization. She said the places that have subsidized IVF don't actually see an increase in birth rates. It simply means women further postpone childbearing rather than prioritizing it. This is not a solution to the fertility crisis, but it does result in massive loss of human life. She's absolutely right about that. If you look at Singapore, they've had a 40-year push of subsidized IVF. they subsidize up to 75% of reproductive technology costs.

Starting point is 00:29:25 However, Singapore's fertility rate dropped to 0.87 children per woman in 2025. If you look at that chart, it's actually gone down since they started subsidizing IVF. Because a lot of people, I'm not saying everyone, but a lot of people are going through IVF because they have waited sometimes by choice when they're in their 40s to have children. and that is past the window of your prying. That is past the window of when it is most likely to be able to have children. And that makes it difficult. That, again, is not solving the fertility crisis. There are root cause problems to the fertility crisis that we have been talking about for a long time on the show.

Starting point is 00:30:05 You can go back and listen to some of those episodes. Again, IVF doesn't treat that. It doesn't solve that. We've got moral spiritual issues going on. A lot of it is because men and women just aren't getting married. the vast majority of people are not getting married even by the time they're 30. So again, that fertility window just gets smaller and smaller. And the reason that they're not getting married, I think for a lot of people,

Starting point is 00:30:30 maybe they don't find the right person. But I also think it's just a lack of desire for commitment. Of course, as Christianity fades, which has been the driver of monogamy and fruitfulness in having children, primarily for a very long time, as that influence wanes, people's desire. desire to sacrifice of themselves and get married and have children is going to wane. I know for a lot of you, you are not child free by choice. You would love to have children. You are not marriage free by choice. You would love to get married. But I don't think that is true for a lot of the people who are not getting married and not having kids. And then when you turn 38, you finally decide you want to do these

Starting point is 00:31:07 things. Then it gets a lot harder. That is contributing to our fertility crisis. I think it has a lot to do with a matter of priorities and choices and morals than it has to do with some of these other factors and it's certainly not going to be solved by IVF. Of course, we know what the Bible says about the value of life inside the womb. The same verses that we use to speak out against abortion as believers, as Christians, they're the same verses that we use to be against IVF. Jeremiah 1-5, before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I consecrated you. I appointed you a prophet to the nations. He is talking to the prophet Jeremiah there, but it shows us a principle that God knows us when we are in the womb, that our lives matter then. Psalm 139, 13 through 14, for you

Starting point is 00:31:52 formed my inward parts. You knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works. My soul knows it very well. And actually we didn't include the most important verse in that passage that your eyes saw my unformed substance, my unformed substance. So before I looked like a person, when I was just what the left called a clump of cells, you saw me, you formed me, you were knitting me. And then of course, Exodus 2013, you shall not murder. And I do believe that discarding embryos is murder. And I do believe that allowing your children, who are your children, those embryos, to be indefinitely frozen on ice is not a way to treat a child. I think we have to have a much more biblical, but just a much more

Starting point is 00:32:43 moral and human look on IVF and not only prioritize adult desires, but also what are children's rights. All right, we've got another bad that we have to talk about when it comes to the state of abortion in America and what the Trump administration is doing that is not good on this when it comes to the abortion pill. All right, let me pause and tell you about another fitting sponsor, and that is Every Life. I'm so thankful for Every Life. They are a pro-life diaper company. We use Every Life diapers and wipes in our home, and they work really well.

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Starting point is 00:34:09 of the abortions that are occurring are happening in those first few weeks of pregnancy. And that is because of the rise and the prevalence of the abortion pill. Under the Biden administration a few years ago, they removed the rule that said that you had to see a doctor or abortion provider in person before you could take the abortion pill. It's a two-part abortion pill, Misa Pristol and Mifapristone. And she would go home after confirming how far along you were and take a take these and take these pills to abort your child, which of course is awful. But at least when you see

Starting point is 00:34:44 a doctor, there is a safeguard in place to know actually how far along you are and if it's going to be safe. Well, the Biden administration, after the Dobbs decision allowed states to pass more pro-life laws, wanted to make it as easy as possible for women in Texas and these more pro-life states to be able to skirt those laws and to still be able to murder their babies no matter how far along they were. And so now you go online and you order these abortion pills and you can kill your child and it's very detrimental as well to, um, to the woman. And unfortunately, the Trump administration has not reversed that rule. The Trump administration is over the FDA and they have decided to actually push back against the states like Louisiana, like Texas, like Florida,

Starting point is 00:35:26 who are trying very hard to ensure that that that rule that the FDA has in place is reversed. So that these women have to see a doctor and have to confirm how far along they are in their pregnancy before they can get the abortion pill. And of course we want the abortion pill off the market. We don't want it to be sold at all, but you definitely should not have, should not be able to sell it online. And unfortunately, because of this, because of the prevalence of the abortion pill, we have seen, we have this according to the Goopmacher Institute, that's Planned Parenthood, Planned Parenthood's research arm, you can see that over the past couple of years, this chart shows that abortion actually has risen. Now, it was rising before that.

Starting point is 00:36:13 It looks like it was rising about 2015, started rising, rising, rising. And then it's just continued to rise. It's actually plateaued over the past year or so. And so lots of reasons for that, but certainly the circulation of the abortion pill and now the mail order abortions made possible first by the Biden administration, but continued to be allowed by the Trump administration for reasons we do not fully understand. That is probably the reason for that increase there. Today we are talking to Dr. Christina Francis, and she is an OBGYN of, I think, almost 20 years now. She is awesome. I've known her for a while. She is the head of Aplog, and that is the American Association of pro-life obstetricians and gynecologists. She's going to tell us about, unfortunately,

Starting point is 00:37:07 where the Trump administration has failed when it comes to this, but also what she did to go undercover to show us just how easy it is to legally get abortion pills sent to your house without parental consent, even if you are as young as 13. So she's going to fill us in on exactly what all of this means, why this matters, and what we can do as pro-lifers to push this administration in the right direction. That is one silver lining. I do think this administration can be pushed in the right direction, unlike the Kamala Harris administration. So we've got to do what we can to raise a respectful ruckus for the things that matter. All right, without further ado, here is Dr. Francis. Dr. Francis, thanks so much for taking the time to join us. Okay, tell us

Starting point is 00:37:58 about this ruling by the Fifth Circuit of Appeals that has to do with Mipha Pris. Stone. Yes, well, Allie, thank you for having me back on again. It's so great to be with you. Yeah, on May 1st, we were really excited to hear the ruling from the Fifth Circuit that while this case out of Louisiana over Mifapristone is working its way through the court, that the in-person dispensing requirement for Mifapristone, the abortion drug, should be put back into place immediately because of the harm of it not being there, because of the harm that that's causing to, States like Louisiana and also to women like Rosalie Marquezich, who's one of the co-plaintiffs in this case, who was coerced into a chemical abortion by her boyfriend who was able to order these drugs online, get a mailed to him, and then sat in the car with her. And really, it sounds like verbally threatened her. She was afraid of physical harm if she didn't take these drugs. And so was forced into an abortion that ended the life of her child.

Starting point is 00:39:01 And so thankfully, the Fifth Circuit recognized that this is a real active danger to state pro-life laws, but also to individual women who are being harmed and, of course, pre-born children who are being harmed by these drugs. And so the Fifth Circuit said, while this case is making its way through the court, we need that in-person dispensing requirement back immediately. Right, right. But then what happened at the Supreme Court? Yes. Well, so keeping in mind, I am not an attorney, but I have lots of friends who are.

Starting point is 00:39:32 They have given me the wording to recap this. So what happened was then that Fifth Circuit decision was immediately appealed to the Supreme Court by the abortion drug manufacturer. So Dancoe and GenBiopro, whose sole financial product, I know for Danco, but I believe for GenBioPro as well, is the abortion drug Biffa Pristone. So they immediately appealed to the Supreme Court. And then earlier this week, Justice Alito, because he makes decisions on any appeals that come through the Fifth Circuit, Justice Alito just said, we're going to put a pause for a few days on what the Fifth Circuit said. And we want to hear from all of the parties involved. We want to get briefs from all of the parties involved. And then it seems like because the Supreme Court's stay on the Fifth Circuit's decision is set to go through this coming. Monday, May 11th, it seems that they just want to hear all the information and then the Supreme Court will actually rule as to whether the Fifth Circuit decision can stand. And tell me why it is so important to require this in-person visit. Obviously, we don't want any babies to be killed with the abortion pill at all. But this in-person visit requirements is a really important, not only deterrent, possibly.

Starting point is 00:40:53 but also just to preserve the safety of the women who are seeking to use this abortion pill, right? Yes, absolutely. So we know at its baseline this abortion drug Mithopristone is inherently dangerous. It's four times more dangerous than surgical abortions. But that's when it's being dispensed in person, when a woman has an in-person evaluation by a medical professional who ensures they know how far long she is in her pregnancy, ensures that she does not have an ectopic pregnancy, which is life-threatening to her, and ensures that she is actually the one who wants the abortion, that it's not someone forcing

Starting point is 00:41:30 her into that. You know, if we take sort of a 30,000-foot view, one of the reasons that this in-person dispensing requirement is important is because without it, abortion is essentially legal in all 50 states right now. This is a federal mandate that is overriding all state pro-life laws right now. In fact, the state of Louisiana, the main plaintiff in this case, has documented that they, even though abortion is illegal, a thousand abortions a month are happening in just the state of Louisiana because of these drugs. So on a macro level, in order to respect state pro-life laws, this in-person dispensing requirement needs to be put back into place. But on an individual level, as you said, women getting these drugs through the male is extremely dangerous without that evaluation.

Starting point is 00:42:16 we know that for every week beyond really about eight weeks of pregnancy that a woman takes these drugs, her risks increase exponentially of hemorrhage or massive bleeding, infection, the need for emergency surgery, and even just a few weeks can make a huge difference. So at 10 weeks of pregnancy, her risk of needing a surgical completion of her abortion is about 1 in 10. If she takes them just three weeks later at 13 weeks of pregnancy, that jumps to 1 in 3. So that's a really significant difference in her risk. And we know even the American College of OBGYNs, who's very pro-abortion, and by the way,

Starting point is 00:42:54 filed an amicus brief in this case, going, siding with the abortion industry. But even they say that up to 50% of women will be wrong about how far long they are in their pregnancy just based on going off of their last period without an ultrasound, without an in-person exam. And of course, Rosalie's story and many others like hers. highlight the fact that abusers are getting these drugs online, men are getting these drugs who obviously are not pregnant, and they're forcing them on their wives, on their girlfriends. And so, you know, I think even somebody who may say that they support a woman's quote-unquote right to an abortion should certainly be opposed to abortion being forced on a woman that doesn't

Starting point is 00:43:38 want them or doesn't want an abortion. And then finally, as you said, we know that the reinstatement of this in-person dispensing requirement would also lead to saving more lives of pre-born children. We would see the abortion numbers go down, which we have seen go up significantly since the Dobbs decision, in particular because of the lack of an in-person dispensing requirement. Quick pause from that conversation to tell you about good ranchers. Y'all, good ranchers will make your meal prepping journey so much easier because you'll always have a freezer full of a wide variety of all-American meat. that you can access at any time.

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Starting point is 00:44:39 We rely on Good Ranchers to have the protein that we need at every meal. And it just makes our life so much easier. All I had to do was take out the bags of chicken in the morning, make sure they were thawed. Everything is good to go. I don't have to go to the grocery store and pick out meat and wonder where it's from. I can get all of my meat from an America-loving, godly, family-owned America First Meat Company. Good Ranchers. Go to Good Ranchers.com. Use code Alley and you'll get $40 off your first order. That's good ranchers.com code alley. If you think about in a non-abortion terms, everyone knows that it's easier to spend money when you buy something on Amazon versus going in person. Like if you have to go buy something in person and try it on or buy a piece of furniture in person, most people aren't going to do it. They're going to think twice about it. And then they go in person and they think, well, you know what?

Starting point is 00:45:36 I don't even know if I want to go through with this. I don't know if I have the money for it. I don't know if I have the space for it. There are all kinds of things that you think about when you're in person. person that you don't think about when you're just clicking a couple times online. Well, I think you multiply that when it comes to abortion, especially if you have a woman who is pressured, especially if you have someone in a crisis situation, really easy to make that click, to take those pills, not even know how far along you are. And of course, as you said, I think it just exacerbates

Starting point is 00:46:02 trafficking, abuse, all kinds of things. Now, I'm seeing that the CEO of reproductive freedom for all, obviously euphemism for abortion, she is saying that some, abortion providers are saying that they might use, is it misoprostol? Is that how you pronounce it? Mesoprostol. Mesa, Mesaprostal, that they might be using that by itself without using Mifapristone if Mifopristone is not available. That also is very dangerous for women, right? It is. It is. And this is not something new. It's something that the abortion industry has done internationally for many, many years is Misa Prostol only abortions.

Starting point is 00:46:44 One of the reasons why Mithopristone was developed was because of the incomplete abortion rate or where all of the baby and all of the pregnancy tissues don't pass out of the woman's uterus. That rate for mesoprostol alone abortions is significantly higher than when you add Mithopristone. So it is more dangerous to women. It will lead to more complications. And I think the fact that the abortion industry is already pivoting to that shows that all they care about are more. abortions. They couldn't care less about women's health and women's safety. They obviously don't care about the health and safety of pre-born children. And I think this, they really have shown their hand in this, in that they care about their profits. They don't care about patients, which is

Starting point is 00:47:29 exactly the opposite of what health care is meant to be and to do. And Ali, if I can just return real quickly to something that you mentioned right before that, in that, you know, we think a little less when we go on Amazon, for instance, to buy something online. I want to highlight the fact, because I think that there's a lot of people, even on the pro-life side, that don't fully understand this, that when women or whomever is going online to buy these pills to be shipped through the mail to them, it truly is like an Amazon experience. So oftentimes they're called telehealth or telemedicine abortions, but telehealth or telemedicine means a patient is talking to a medical professional through like a Zoom call. That is not what's happening on these websites. And in fact,

Starting point is 00:48:13 Applog put out an expose video recently where I got online onto one of these sites. And I put in every medical reason why someone should not be given these pills, things that make them very much life-threatening. In the end, I was a 13-year-old with three previous C-sections, an IUD in place on blood thinners in the state of Indiana where abortion is illegal. And, after I submitted my request, which they said would be reviewed by a health care professional before I received the payment link. Within a minute and a half, I got the payment link. So obviously, no medical professional is reviewing this. And in two days, they were in my mailbox in the state of Indiana. And it should be noted that the pills came from, or the pills were pills that were

Starting point is 00:48:58 made by Gen Biopro, who is one of the abortion drug companies involved in this lawsuit. And they came from a random address in Los Angeles, California. So I legitimately, as a 13-year-old, could have died had I taken those pills and actually been pregnant. So I think it's really, really important. One of my big things that I'm trying to convince people of is don't call these telehealth or telemedicine abortions. They are not. There is no health care whatsoever involved. There's no medical oversight. These truly are male order abortions, like a shopping, online shopping experience. That is all that's happening. Women are not getting informed consent, and they're having no medical oversight whatsoever. Would it be accurate to say that abortion is more

Starting point is 00:49:41 accessible than ever because of this? Oh, 100%. And this was the abortion industry's plan all along. They saw the overturn of Roe coming. They started laying the groundwork for this all the way back in 2000 when this drug was originally approved in the U.S. Their goal was to always make it accessible. like this and ultimately to make it over the counter, which is their next move. Now, I would argue it's essentially over the counter right now, the way it's available online. But there are already studies coming out in major medical journals from abortionists about why it would be safe for this to be dispensed over the counter. That is ultimately their goal that every person who wants to get their hands on abortion drugs will be able to do so with no medical evaluation, no follow-up,

Starting point is 00:50:25 and just abandoning women to their local emergency rooms and obviously ending the lives of hundreds of thousands of pre-born children in this country every year. And by the way, no parental knowledge. I mean, forget about consent. You were a 13-year-old in your undercover operation. And the parents didn't have to sign off or say anything. And so, like, your little girl, I mean, your teenage daughter could walk into, their plan is to walk into a CVS, potentially die, not to mention her child die gruesomely because of this. Now, we know that this comes from a Biden-era FDA rule that said you don't have to have this in-person requirement, but the Trump administration, FDA, has not done what we need them to do, correct, and reversing this rule. No, they haven't. In fact, it's been a huge

Starting point is 00:51:18 disappointment that not only because this is an administration who claims to be the most pro-life administration in history, but also because it just is good medicine and good science to reverse the Biden-era decision to remove that in-person dispensing requirement. And in fact, the Trump, DOJ, and FDA are actively fighting the state of Louisiana in this lawsuit and asking for it to be dismissed while they do their their supposed safety review that they've supposedly been doing since last year. It should have been done by now. And many groups like Applog, the group that I represent, have been demanding to see results and see results soon of the safety review and for full transparency of what data they used in their safety review. They have claimed that the in-person

Starting point is 00:52:09 dispensing requirement should not be put back into place while this safety review is being done. There is no medical or scientific reason why they couldn't simultaneously put back into place the pre-20203 in-person dispensing requirement and continue to do their safety review. And I think most disappointingly for me recently, there was an article in the Wall Street Journal that had a quote from FDA Commissioner Marty McCarrie who said essentially that he doesn't even really think about abortion pills. That was a punch in the gut for me. Because you know, again, even if it's not somebody who claims to be pro-life, the FDA's job is to ensure that any drug that is approved in the United States is safe for people to take and is being dispensed

Starting point is 00:52:56 in a safe way. And that is not what's happening with Mipipristone. I've had Dr. McCarrie on this show appreciate, you know, some of the things that he did in COVID. But as you said, this is not only a moral issue, obviously, but this is a health issue. And this is something the HHS, the FDA is supposed to really care about. Also, it has environmental impacts too, RFK Jr. So there's a lot going on here. Thank you so much. I am so thankful for you, Dr. Francis, and for Applog, all the advocacy that you guys do. You might not be an attorney, but she did an excellent job at explaining what's going on in the court. So thank you so much, Dr. Francis. Encourage everyone to check out Applog. That's AAPL-O-G. See what they're up to. See how you can support them. Thank you so much. Absolutely. Thank you, Alibeth.

Starting point is 00:53:45 All right. We only have a few minutes left, but I wanted to say, save some time for some lifestyle pitter pattern, mostly just because I like seeing the image of Hillary Clinton and me cooking together. So we're going to talk about The Odyssey in just a second. Let me pause and tell you about our next sponsor. Our last sponsor for the day, and that is Concerned Women for America. Concerned Women for America is America's largest Christian public policy organization. They recently released a report showing that 41% of Netflix's G-rated, G-rated. And children-friendly content contains LGBT themes, storylines, characters.

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Starting point is 00:55:08 So participate before the May 22nd deadline. Go to Concerned Women. org slash Allie be a part of this sign their petition concernedwomen.org slash alley. Okay, there's Hillary and me. I wonder what we're making. We're probably making like, I don't know, sourdough bread or something like that. Okay, lifestyle pitter-patter for you. We're going to talk about The Odyssey. Now, people are really excited or they were really excited about The Odyssey, the movie that's supposed to come out in July, directed by Christopher Nolan. This is the person who is very famous for directing things like Interstellar, Oppenheimer.

Starting point is 00:55:50 So he's got a good repertoire of work. But people are very disappointed by this because it doesn't seem at all like he is trying to match the characters of the Odyssey and how they were described in the book to the actors and actresses that he chose for this movie. So, for example, we have got Helen of Troy. Helen of Troy is reportedly being played by Lupita Niyango. Okay, very, very beautiful woman. Nothing against her. She's probably a wonderful actress. The problem here is that this seems to be blackwashing, a character who clearly was supposed to be white and blonde.

Starting point is 00:56:27 She is described by Homer as white-armed, emphasizing pale, smooth arms, fair-haired. So, blonde, and the person who played her in Troy, this was in the early 2000s, looked like that. You know, she had blonde hair, blue eyes, was fair-skinned, and so it seemed like they were trying to match how Homer actually described Helen, the face that launched a thousand ships. And then we've got Achilles. Achilles is being played by Juno. Okay? Being played.

Starting point is 00:57:02 You can't even tell who that is right there. But that is Ellen Page, who now goes by Elliot Page, who is a very sad story of someone who thinks that she is a man. And then we think from the trailer that she is playing Achilles. Now, Homer describes Achilles as the ideal heroic warrior, youthful, powerful, imposing. Now, you'll remember that Brad Pitt, maybe you'll remember this, played Achilles in the 2004 iteration of Troy. That is probably what we picture when we are reading the description of him and the

Starting point is 00:57:40 Iliad, for example, like he has light, golden, fair hair, so probably like Brad Pitt. I just am not picturing 5-2 Ellen Page as playing Achilles. But we'll see. Also, we'll see if that's actually true, if it's actually Achilles. But I can't imagine it being a good casting if she is playing a man at all. Rapper Travis Scott, okay, is playing a bard. And I don't know if he has any acting experience. Maybe he has a ton of acting chops and he's like going to be awesome at this.

Starting point is 00:58:13 I don't know. This is like a Hamiltonification of history. Now we're just doing this. I actually really enjoyed Hamilton like musically. I thought it was really good and creative and fun. I still listen to it. But now we're just doing this to every piece of literature and history. So Christopher Nolan defended this decision of casting Travis Scott,

Starting point is 00:58:34 stating I cast him because I wanted to nod towards the idea that this story has been handed down as oral poetry, which is analogous to rap. Okay. That's a choice. That is certainly a choice. And then apparently there's modern language used in this book. SOT 7. They're pining me for a daddy.

Starting point is 00:58:54 You didn't even know like some sniveling bastard. My dad is coming home. Weird. Just a little weird. I mean, I guess they always use modern language because they're probably not doing just exactly the lines from the original books. but they're trying to ginsify it with the like daddy language. Okay, and then people are also pointing out Anne Hathaway, who is an incredible actress, by the way.

Starting point is 00:59:22 I know there's a lot of Anne Hathaway hate out there. She's an incredible actress. She was so good in lay miss, y'all. But anyway, they're talking about how she obviously has Botox, and so she can't express her face in the same way. This has been a topic of conversation a lot on movie X and how the Botox and the and everything is actually changing acting and is changing the sincerity, the genuineness of these portrayals that are supposed to be historic when obviously these things didn't exist.

Starting point is 00:59:56 You know where I first noticed this? And was it, is it 1884? Is that the follow up to Yellowstone? The one with the girl and the Tim McGraw and the Faith Hill? I think it's 1884. for. Anyway, I enjoyed it. I thought that Tim McGrath and Faith Hill did great, but Faith Hill, as beautiful as she is, she looks like a very modern woman. I'll say that. She is a product of our times, and I had a very hard time placing her, like, on the trail in the 19th century because of how

Starting point is 01:00:29 she looks, and that's just unfortunate. Also, you just can't show your emotions if you can't move your eyebrows, and I think that's very important for acting. It's okay to age in Hathaway. It I don't know. Maybe there are some weird people who don't think it is, but I think it's okay to age. And I love acting. Like, I love acting and I love watching great acting. And it actually makes me really, really sad that all of these incredible performers, that their face is frozen permanently and that they can't do their jobs well. And therefore, we're not served well. And so here you go. The patriarchy is winning again because only the men are going to be able to express their emotions well and they're going to be better actors than you. Are you going to let them win and have?

Starting point is 01:01:11 pathway, don't get Botox next time. Skip your next appointment. Let us see the disappointment in your eyebrows. All right. That's all you got time for today. I will be back here on Friday.

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