Right About Now - Legendary Business Advice - TikTok Sensation and Authentic Male Dating Coach with Jen Larson

Episode Date: May 16, 2023

Welcome to the latest episode of The Radcast, featuring the power of social media and men's dating expert, the blunt and brilliant Jen Larson. Jen believes in honesty and directness as the best way to bring about change, and we couldn't agree more.In this episode, we'll delve into Jen's TikTok fame and popularity, and how she has harnessed the power of social media to build an impressive following. But what we love most about Jen is her unapologetic bluntness and fierce intelligence. She's the coach you need to take charge of your dating life, and we're thrilled to have her on the show.Don't miss out on her expert advice, as she shares how to be blunt and honest in changing the world.Key notes from the episode: Jen is a badass who has a lot of street smarts when it comes to dating. She advocates for people to ask the opposite gender for advice. She is strongly influenced by her brothers. (01:41) Ryan and Jen engaged in a discussion about confidence, ego, and being a "guy's girl", how women are able to get away with dishonesty and her journey to TikTok. (04:55) Ryan and Jen discussed the relationship between women's behavior on social media and cheating as this contributes to cheating. (09:07) Jen believes relationships can be successful if both parties treat one another like kings and queens, and that good communication is key in resolving conflicts. (12:55) Ryan and Jen discussed the universal issues when working with men in coaching contexts. Jen shared a personal story about getting divorced. (16:24) Jen noted that when people seek her services it usually signals the end of a relationship and causes her social media comments to explode. (21:00) They discussed the importance of leveraging social media for education and entertainment. (24:03) Ryan asked for advice on how men in relationships can improve with women and Jen’s suggestions about mindset shifts and discussions. (24:43) Jen is creating a course for men that details how to treat their partners in relationships and her content will mainly be posted on Instagram and TikTok but also YouTube. (26:31) To be successful on social media, it is important to have a niche topic/theme and maintain consistency in terms of content and style.(27:36) Jen shared that consistency, using searchable questions and captions, and having three "Avatars" are essential for standing out on the platform. (31:01) This episode is packed with energy, wisdom, and passion and we know you will get a ton of value from this.To keep up with Jen Larson, follow her on Instagram and TikTokSubscribe to our YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/c/RadicalHomeofTheRadcastIf you enjoyed this episode of The Radcast, Like, Share, and leave us a review! 6dcDqyBSdeVqE1BLA2S0 If you enjoyed this episode and want to learn more, join Ryan’s newsletter https://ryanalford.com/newsletter/ to get Ferrari level advice daily for FREE.  Learn how to build a 7 figure business from your personal brand by signing up for a FREE introduction to personal branding https://ryanalford.com/personalbranding.  Learn more by visiting our website at www.ryanisright.comSubscribe to our YouTube channel  www.youtube.com/@RightAboutNowwithRyanAlford. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You're listening to The Radcast, a top 25 worldwide business podcast. If it's radical, we cover it. Here's your host, Ryan Alford. Hey guys, what's up? Welcome to the latest edition of the Radcast. I'm Ryan Alford, your host. We like to say if it's radical, we cover it. This is pretty fucking radical if I say so myself.

It's the power of social media, the power of TikTok, and it's the power of men's dating expert and blunt. Know it all. Jen Larson, what's up? Hey, that's a compliment. You do know it all dating. Yeah, and men's dating. You're the truth.

That's right. I think the best way and the quickest way to change is to be blunt and honest with people. Yes. And that's why I like you. You caught my eye on TikTok like everyone else's. We'll get to that. TikTok fame and popularity. The world we live in.

I was like, I like this woman. She speaks her mind, which I, some men get uncomfortable with that. I like it. I like your brashness, your boldness, and you're fucking smart. After all, sometimes there's that sheen of toughness. But I go, I see through it. I'm like, oh, she's tough or he's tough. But there's not like an intelligence behind it.

But you're smart as hell, Jen. I'll give you credit. Thank you. And I really appreciate you coming on. Jen Larson, she's a men's dating coach. The bluntest of dating coaches. which hopefully we're going to force her to be blunt. She's going to be nice because we get her on the show,

but you've got to be blunt now, Jen. Oh, I won't be. I don't know. I'll just be more blunt. We just keep escalating it. But it's so interesting. Known in an ad agency, be knee deep in social media.

People like you come across my radar. And not only like I respect like what they're doing, that they've embraced these things, that maybe they didn't have an ad agency like coaching them, but they embraced the opportunity was there. And, but it just shows you how powerful. it is with the following you've built and all that. So, congrats on that. But let's back up a bit, Jen. Let's set the table for who is Jen Larson and what made her such a badass.

I think I have a lot of street smarts when it comes to dating. I have four older brothers. We talk about anything and everything. I could call. I've always called him for advice when I was dating because it's talking to someone who's trying to pitch. The fisherman had to catch a fish. Ask the fish. He always told me, he said, Jen, if you need advice about a guy, ask a guy. And so that's where I feel like coming. Guys, you want advice about a woman? Ask a woman. Don't ask another guy.

It's two different brains. So it all came from your brothers. All from my brothers, all very my experiences, friends experiences. Even my daughter, when she was younger, she would tell her friends, just ask my mom about dating advice. They'd say, oh, I'm dating this person. And she said, just go sit down with my mom. So I was in the interim coaching high schoolers on dating. So I wasn't as blunt then, but I am kind of blunt with people.

Because like I said, I think that saves you a lot of time. And sometimes people don't see a mistake that they're doing in dating. And it could be a small tweak that will just change the inherent trajectory of your dating life. Like when you were 16 or 20, and I know you went to some of the experiences, and we can go down that road or not go down that road. But were you, did that mold you? Like, we're in the same age category. You had kids a little younger.

But did that have anything to do? Or was it just, were you at 10 years old, were you just direct as hell? I was direct as hell, always. I would always just tell people I'm going to be as president. I'm going to be in States. My mom, every time I was done eating, she'd say, that's impossible.

When I look at her, I say, you're not possible. I had a daughter at 16 immediately knew I'm going to be a mom, get out all my friends, put out all my bad habits at the time. A couple years prior to that, my brother died had an accident. And so our family imploded. And on my own,

how I then got into bad things, had a daughter, and that's when my life changed. It means destiny, actually, because that was supposed to happen for me. And that just changed my life. I went to college. I went to Purdue.

She never spent, to a minute in daycare and I'm proud of that and I understand some people have to do that. No shame in that. But I would be 19 going to college away from my family. And I just always, if I get knocked down, I get right back up. You know, sometimes you've got to lick your wounds, but always in life got to get back up. My brothers taught me that. They're all entrepreneurs.

I've never worked for anybody. It's just you've got to always get back up. You can't stay down. You have a confidence about you. I think, I hear you, I think anyone that says they're going to be the president, it's got to be some confidence. You might have a little ego, come, too. Yes.

You're just secretly a guy's girl, a guy's girl, like, you got to be. Yeah. All the girls, the guys liked you probably both for your looks and your approach. You have the best of both worlds. Yeah, because they feel comfortable talking to me. And that's pretty much how it's always been in. When I was younger, it just people talked to me. I would become best friends with guys pretty easily.

And it was really no filters. And we could just talk and be respectful of each other. So that's how it's always been. What was the journey to TikTok? So talk to me about that path of maybe taking your persona and your personality. And I don't say it's not a character because I could tell it's, but what was that path to that? Was it a tip?

Was it just watching what was happening? What channeled that? I wish I could say I was hard enough to think about that on my own. I was started on Instagram influencing. So I was doing hair, makeup, and clothes. It was not sustainable. I'm usually like yoga pants running around or not wearing makeup. So it just wasn't sustainable.

I wasn't happy doing it. And I felt it was hair and shoes wasn't really important at the end of the day. So I myself prior to coach. and I just said, I don't like what I'm doing. And she said, think about what do people go to you for? Instantly, I'm like advice.

That's what it is. She said, okay, Instagram's very curating. I had the good lighting, you got the filters. There's a lot more goes into Instagram. And I'm busy.

I have got other side magic. I'm an entrepreneur. I look at other opportunities. Okay, hold up a camera, and just speak what's on your mind and you have your makeup on and your clothes up and just sit. I can do that.

So I started with making, and she said, do two videos a day for 15 days. And I went from a thousand followers to about $45,000 in a month for three weeks. I mean, it just meant pretty quick. And then I had a couple million and two million views. And it's just gotten, it takes quickly. So people obviously felt some connection there. I loved that. Like, I could be myself and people like me.

Go figure. There's nothing, yeah, there's nothing easier than just wake it up and being yourself. So what were we talking about? Give you some juicy gin talk of what really popped off for you to start, like, topic. And you may not remember exactly what you said, but let's go there. No, no, I think one of the biggest videos that got so much comments of people going back and forth, as I said women date for women cheat, far way more than that. And that is a fact.

That's the truth. but then you've got people saying, where's the data? You don't need the data. Sometimes in your street spots and things, data comes out later, right? Because data has to, someone's got to be interested in looking at at number one. And then they've got to study it, research, put it in paper and publish it. So people are like, where's the data? It's like, it ain't there yet.

I was even watching this walk the other day, one of those wind us. I mean, so the same thing. And I was sitting there as a friend, I was like, he said it too. Yeah. And he's been around, right? Chris Rock's been around sometimes. Chris Rock's been around. Yeah.

He's been in the industry. He's seen some things, and he said the same thing. And women do. They get away with it because they will, you know, what we say is die with a lie. They'll never tell anybody. Even if they tell, like I said, one of my friends, I picked her at the airport. And she said, I had an affair on my husband. You know, that's not good.

Like, then we talked about a couple months later. She said, I didn't say that. I'm like, yes, you did. You were in my car. You said that. So they even deny it. They get back in their heads where they will pretend and convince even themselves it never happened. So that's how they're able to just get in with it.

So guys have to talk about it so they get caught. That's right. And girls will just. They'll show their friends pictures, right? Yeah. This girl, right? So more girls cheat. So I like to call that, you know what I call that content.

That's called agitation content. You agitated the market, especially women, probably both sides for a different reason. And you agitated men in the way that in maybe a good, I know they do. I knew it. There's she so right. And then the women going, what's she talking?

Of course, that's probably all the comments were. It was crickets from women for a good few months. And there was guys commenting saying, where's the women? I think I had three women comment in a month or two months a time. They're like, oh, crap,

she's going to wear stuff. Shit. What? So they, so you think more women cheat because they can get away? with it and it's not known or what are the other factors? I think they do it be because of attention because women like attention. That's why I say social media,

women and foreign and land. And so women, you just go on any Instagram, I could look at my phone now and before I could find one of my friends at the beach and a bikini. Why did you have to post that? So it's just, it's these attention things that they're doing. Because I always say, if you're in genuinely great time where you're at,

you're really getting a phone home. So it's a lot of these. posed photos. My friends do it. They go all out and it's, I don't even talk to them at the end of the day. When you guys have fun with you, it's just getting that photo,

dressing up, getting that attention from a guy. It's pretty easy to sweet talk a girl. If she's willing to cheat. Yeah. To say that. Then it just comes down, I think you said this,

comes down to the morals, right? If they have morals, you're probably okay. But if they're loose or not there, then that's the biggest. Oh, yeah. And then I have my girlfriends who will just, they give off that.

energy, like, don't even approach me. And she doesn't get approached, ever. And she's gorgeous, but she never gets approached. So, well, it's a vibe, right. Yeah, exactly. What's some of your other, like, key nuggets of TikTokisms or instant? I know you're on both platforms big now, but what are some other? I think now because I get a lot of things and we're done or other dating teams and want to keep my

money and keep my peace. And so I think, I think, though, if someone who's perfect were to show up at their front door, they, of course, would date it again, right? They're just this modern-day thing. And feminism really destroyed a lot of stuff. And now they're on social media talking about how you should have three guys. Your first guy, your second guy, it's a rotation that pills are starting to have with these guys.

But I say, do a pre-up. If you're worried about losing money because you have a divorce, do a pre-up because there's no better time to split your assets when you like each other. And it's almost like we get insurance for our car in case something happens. We have house insurance in case there's a flood. You should have marriage insurance, which is a pre-nob. And it shouldn't be an unloving thing. It should be like, hey, it should almost be looked at as a loving thing.

Listen, if this doesn't work out when we become enemies, they're going to be okay. I'm going to be okay. One of us are going to walk away broke and having to start life all over at 40 or 50. But you're talking rational when all the endorphins and the I like you so much things. going off. So it's like the rational stuff goes out the door, right? It does. And I've heard people that say, you know what?

We get, my husband's only like, my mom and I take donies just so we can get it done. Because sometimes you might be doing a little lucid to just write it out. Because no one wants to truly sit in those feelings of this isn't going to work. It's not a fun thing to do, but it's not also fun to fill out your driver's license. It would be an organ donor if you die.

It's not fun. It's, things happen. So I say, we want to pre-nup. We want to bring up. How many times have you been married? Have you been married more than once? I have. So that's also how I got into the day coaching coaching is I decided I was thinking the wrong people.

I was finding projects. I was putting my hard hat on. And so now I'm like, you know what, I have this energy and this gift to help people. I'm no longer going to date with people that need help. I want to find some stable and healthy and has already worked through their stuff. But, yeah, I picked a fraudulent. So my first husband, ex-husband, is really great. He's the one of my children with.

We get along very well. I always say it's Courtney Kardashian's got sick. We just get along. We did mediation. We don't have a, we didn't want to judge deciding custody. So we decided it ourselves. We roll however we want. The second marriage is.

Pretty gnarly, pretty of you. So that was short-lived. And I'll just never get myself into a situation like that. So through all that, I learned that the, I just, when it takes to the tail, I had to go through, like, why was I picking these people? Yeah. Because that's part my fault, too. Yep.

You had to eat your own dog food, so to speak. That's the same, yeah, pick your own advice. That's right. That's right. But things people talk me about, ask me about, we talk about, it's a lot of it. I've been, you know, revolving through. like heartbreak, breakups, the awkwardness of meeting, seeing each other. There's a lot, not knowing whether you should have the relationship.

We've all pretty much done. At the end of the day, does it, does it boil down to the whole men or, is it men are Venus and women or Mars? Is that, is it like, and I don't even, I don't even, I don't even, I've never read that book, but I assume the premise is like, just saying. Men are simple. They truly are. that women are not difficult, but women try to make men more difficult, and they're really not.

That's right. They just, I was talking to this one day, and he said, I was talking to a group of friends, and he said, we all agree, looks don't even matter to us. We just want some people. We just want some to be nice to us. And that's true. It's like, treat him like a king. He treat you like a queen and work out problems as they come, nurse the soil, pull the weeds,

and you could have a really great life with somebody. And I think picking a partner is one of the most important decisions you're ever going to have in life. We're either going to direct you forward in your dreams and what you want to do or they're going to completely hold you back. And with me having free kids, I worry about that. So thank you coaching. They get free coaching for me. It's true about women do when I'm like, I think my wife wants me to be more complicated than I am. But it's like not all the time.

But I think she's figured it out now. I'm on my second verdict, too. And I think it's true, though. I'm like, it's not that complicated. It's not more. It's less. Whatever you think is being thought. And it's why I think we just, the wheels start to spin.

They just kind of make things up in their head. And it's just, it gets really out of control. You're like, I was just making pizza. Nothing much to it. So it's interesting. Dynamics, yes, we're women. But that's kind of why I decided. I'm just going to coach men because sometimes in an argument,

it doesn't even take one person. and end it. Women have asked me and coaching, I would do take some people on, but mostly it's been men. What are the universal issues probably touched on some of them, but what's the most common thing

you're solving when you're working with men and coaching them? It's been a lot. So this is I would say that I've done most is also the most

pressure for me when they're right, should I say it's right though. Yeah, because then you're, you feel like you're not liable or like of breaking up a relationship. So they'll say, and I get it.

They're like, my friends feel this way because they're protecting their buddy. And then their family, so they're getting advice from all these people. And so sometimes they just want to call in front of me and ask me and say,

here's what's happening. Here's what's happening. What do you think? And, luckily that's why some people try to DM me and ask me for advice and I might just say always be on the calendar because there was this one guy in particular

within the first five minutes I'm thinking yeah this girl's horrible by the end of our conversation he said married a unicorn this is we've got a great relationship good for you guys so that's why it's important to talk to people it's like doing a job interview

of the text you don't get that you got to so there's some people who do try to slide into my DM that free advice, but it's a disservice to them, honestly. Yeah. Because I would have this guy getting divorced. I'm like, yeah. So I think the hard thing with relationships is, look, it's a compromise, right?

No one, you don't want to compromise too much because then you're unhappy. That's the balance. And it's no one's going to be perfect. And men and women are different. But the hard, I think the hard thing in relationships is knowing like, what is compromise versus giving up who you really are? Yeah. And some level like knowing what those boundaries are.

And I don't know even the right person is clear. Most things I think could be worked out. What is the problem if there's something that you have to compromise? Like, why do I need to compromise? And if it makes sense, then you'll want to compromise it. If she says, I just want to tell you to stick your phone. Why? Because I feel insecure to it.

All right, go ahead, check it. I don't really care. You know, then you don't look at it as controlling. You just look at us, okay, I'm doing nothing. she can look at it. Any time they could take my phone and look at it. I just always say, don't look at my text. Or if you look at my text, don't come on it.

Why did you tell your brother this or that? Or do you guys like, don't comment on it. It's a private conversation. But you can look at it. I don't want to be comments about it. Is it dirty? Are we talking dirty? You got my peak my interest.

Okay. Oh, me and my brother talk about everything. Okay. Yeah, he'll just say, oh, you know, talk about his wife for all. It's crazy. There was this one time I texted him. This was, I was in a really bad situation. I was a divorce

single, and I text and I said, I just slept with this guy. I said, I got really drunk, and I regret it, and I feel like crap, and I want to go home. And like, he just wrote out and here's how to get the hell out of here's what to do and block him on everything. Don't let him to the guy again. And so I blocked him on everything

and then, oh my gosh, but it was just a huge mistake. After, like, we were divorced, you're just out there in a wild and end up drinking too much because they pour you shots, and I'm just like, oh, Lordy. So, yeah, we can talk about anything. Like, it's one of my brothers in particular. We talk about pretty much everything. But I like that.

I like to do all have his blunt advice, and he's kind of the one that helped me understand how much it's needed. Because when I was in relationships, going through a breakup. We would say, for instance, there was this one breakup that I went through, the guy cheated on me. Then he broke up with me.

He said, Jen, not call this guy. If you ever want to, he said, don't do what I did. Because I was begging it back. I looked like it. I just lost all my priorities. If you ever feel like calling him, you call me, you call your friend.

He's like, you don't call it. You don't text him. And we just told me what to do after that. Because I don't, like I said, I don't really like the therapy. route. I think therapy is good for healing and trauma and all that stuff. Getting over breakup, I want that 10 minutes.

Here's what you do. And then I call again with another problem. And it's just, I want to know the steps. I want this work. That's the right thing to do. Honestly, I think we all do. What percentage of the guys you work with does it, even if you don't tell them, like, it's hopeless. Is it, it do, like, when you work with guys, Like what person, is it more or less that I would think that you're sitting there listening,

you're going, this relationship's hopeless? Or is it, are most of them fixable? Honestly, like it feels like they're already content because they're on the way out. And they don't know that other source that's not in their life, that's not have a biased opinion that needs that clarification. Because that's what I was saying. Like anytime someone folks a call with me, they're always going to walk away with more clarity, regardless of what their question is.

So I think that's a lot what people are looking for with that clarity. Yep. And sometimes it takes a few calls. Sometimes it's a woman doing phone call. What's some of your other agitational comments on social media? Mean girls on their own. Like, women are mean, which is, that's kind of what I'm talking about in there. You guys are an asshole.

And you're like complaining you can't. Oh, no, they're not complaining. You can't find a guy. They don't want to that. Like, sure, you don't. So, yeah, I get called like a picnic girl. It's just ridiculous. Or someone will do it my video.

I'll always go look at that video and let these girls will start commenting. These are certain insecurities. I commented below. I said, yeah, she's crazy as hell. Don't listen to her. Yeah, I always appreciate it to do at her stitch. I always try to get into my comment section and respond.

But some of these videos, just taking off. I can't keep up. A lot of people are just fighting. And I'm like, it's almost like a divorce. It's like, I'm getting, you know. People are fighting in the comments of your videos. Men and women are fighting. Yeah. I love it. It's just they get really nasty to each other. And I don't like that negativity. So I will just ignore it all. But when there's those other videos that I post, my guys reached onto and I'll talk back and forth. One of the coolest situations happened that was when I talked about how women cheat more than men, this guy came on there.

And I know he said he was saying that's really good guy to talk about. He said, I just hung up. My wife was cheating on me. We have a 12-year-old. I'm devastated. He doesn't know that I know. And I just, oh, we got comments just flooding in like poor guy and get all the money now and this and that. And I ended up reaching out to him when I just said, actually I was.

tell my brother about him. And my brother's like, I'd love to talk to him. So they started talking. We come to find out that this guy lives in Illinois. Her brother's an attorney in Illinois. So he gives him all this free advice on like attorneys and divorce. He said, I'm done. There's no way I'm going to be he wanted a divorce.

But I just think that's how cool, like the power of social media. Like suddenly he's got a attorney he could talk to. And the guy that was given him great advice. My brother gives great advice. That's crazy. That's what, and that's, we were talking pre-episode, like social media now is, it's the social version of television and because you've got education and entertainment going on. But it's what people are paying attention to and leveraging. And then they're building community like you're talking about, like within the platform, power is incredible.

What, tell me, let's give some value. We have a lot of men that listen. Okay. I know it's hard. I know you would be specific to a guy if you were working with them. but maybe give me a couple of nuggets of guy tips for girls, like how to get ahead in your relationship. What are maybe like a couple things that maybe aren't,

sometimes there's things that you know you should do and they're obvious, but you don't do them or whatever. But are there things that might surprise that could help guys generally in a relationship with a woman? Yeah, I think a lot of it has to do with mindset. and then strategy. I would get your hands on, if you don't want to do a coach, I would get your hands on some of the books where, you know, because happy people, make other people happy. So I think it's, a lot of it starts with internally and it starts to lead out.

Taking care of yourself, I always tell people with fresh air. I know this seems easy and small, but it's, making care of yourself is very important to take care of someone else. And always, like they say, you attack the problem, not the person. And every fight is look at it as an opportunity to learn more about the other person. But there's something who are just toxic. So when they get into a fight, it's yelling and screaming. And there is no communication. Like I said, my private marriage, I didn't hear a thing he said when he was screaming and yelling.

He just looked like a child having a tantrum. You can't communicate with that. There's nothing to work with. So sometimes you have to step out for 10 minutes, but I like to always hear this. Listen, if you're heated and you can't talk. right now just say, I need 10 minutes, I need 30 minutes, I need an hour, but then set that time where you're going to say, right, we're going to come back and talk about this. That way, her anxiety isn't increasing like, when are we going to talk? Is this going to ruin our plan tomorrow?

Like, the wheels start spinning for women. So I always like to give that advice, is have a time where you will talk. And it's okay if you like, I'm still pissed. Give me 30 minutes. So I think just having a period to the end of that argument is a good thing to do. Yeah, women are definitely the wheels are spent. I just think about it. But the women are like, they've created 17 scenarios in their head 14, like.

Exactly right. My wife does that. Overthink things. I'm like, I do it too. That's why in a relationship that's like the rules. And then I underthink things and I don't like maybe give as much

value or significance to something that probably should have had more value or significance. So it's like it's double-sided. What you're talking about is that's what I'm going to be working on soon as creating a course for men where you just download it. You have it and it breaks down how it's like if you are in a release. You want it to work and you're thinking about, hey, Mother's Day. Like what do women want? So it's almost like you don't have to think about it. But it looks great. Having a woman telling you how to create a woman. Like I said, fish, ask a fish. So I am creating a program that I could just

email out and then you have it. You're good and I love that. And I know we'll hit it again at the end. But if you look up Jen Larson on TikTok, give everybody the handles, that's a good point to, so that people know when those things come out. I'm sure that they're following your channel.

Yeah. So most of my content comes out on, it would be on Instagram. It's Jen Larson official on Instagram. It's also being official on TikTok. YouTube is coming, clapper, all the social media outlets. If you never know what's going on TikTok.

days it's going to be gone some days this and that. So I try to filter everyone into Instagram because it's more protected there. Yeah. And I don't want to like lose touch with people because I actually got cut off of a lot of the day on TikTok and I've been banned for a week. Not being able to talk to people. It's just a while that someone could complain and cut off my contact with my followers. It's a bad thing. It's the world west and with that kind of stuff. That's right. Again, back to a little more values we as we wind down here like Jen, like talking with Jen Larson, TikTok, famous dating coach. How do you know, a lot of people go, I could do that.

I could pop off on social media. I've got ideas. But they're like functionally don't know how to get started or how to come up with regular content. Maybe share some of your tips or tricks with just how you plan things out or how you come up with ideas and maybe just some of the functional ability. Obviously someone, anyone listening, if they're not interesting and they don't aren't as blunt as Jen, they probably won't pop off, but you still need a process and a system with which to do these things. Of course. That's switching everything as I have to posting twice a day, posting content that you can keep up with.

If I'm always posting at a desk, I always have to post it at a desk. If I am always posting in my hair and makeup is done, I always have to continue that. There was this one guy, I know he started making TikToks where he's walking down the street and he's holding the phone up and he's saying, And here's three points. If you want to make money, you know, it's a investor. Guess what he has to do every day? Walk down the street and hold a freaking phone on the same. Because whatever you start, that's got to be how you do it from now on.

You can't suddenly be walking on the street. Then you're in a chair. Then you're standing up in front of the mirror. Do that, yes, maybe once in a while, kind of doing the makeup while you're talking. You're doing something, you know, what you would naturally do. But for the most part, the algorithm is going to see that box. and that's important. So doing something you can maintain. If you're not someone who can do the hair and makeup every single way, don't do that. Roll a filter on. Who cares? Also, you've got to really figure out a niche. I could have started with, I'm just not forgetting. That's not even down good enough for me. Like, I had to go, do I want to do coach men or women? You've got to find a very fine niche. And how you find out is ask yourself, what do you keep to call me about?

was it asking about makeup? Is it asking about finances? Is it asking about cars? Is it asking about the newest and hottest shoes? Whatever, your passion. There's a lot of other things that thing happened. So bless you. Thank you.

So, yeah, there's always other people out there that have that same passion. So it doesn't even need to be eye coach men. Obviously, there's a lot of men in the world. But you could be the expert of sneakers, talking about sneakers. And it's, and use your personality. Don't copy anybody else because it'll come off as disingenment. You've got to be. Is TikTok like the organic reach there for you still there?

Yeah. Hi. Yes. That's the most impressive thing about the platform is usually at this stage, it starts to quindle, but that still seems to, as long as you're being consistent and have good content, like it's that organic reach still gigantic. Yeah. Yeah.

So now I would post, I treated post once a day. I was doing the live, like I said, I'm in live mail right now. So it's working on another project for weeks. But yeah, you must stay consistent. That's very important. The algorithm loves that. You and I were talking about how 18 to 24, 25-year-olds are now using social media search entities.

Yeah. Make everything searchable. The question in your caption. It's the best sneaker to wear with our business suit. Just, or whatever, just making things up. So put that question new. Also, I would say have three avatars. Those are the three people you're talking to.

Write them down. Right? It's Jim. He just got divorced. He's got three kids. He's got a great job. And then talk to them. Solve their problems.

But get three avatars. Three people that you're basically talking about. And keep the hashtags. I think we're keeping like three or four is what TikTok wants. They don't want a bunch. What are yours? My avatars? Yeah.

like your hashtags. Oh, it's single man, divorce, man, dating advice, relationship advice. That's usually the main ones. Oh. Yeah. I'm reading one of your captions. Good women are like Lambos. Not many men qualify for one.

That's what you're in for, folks. And that's a thing. Like if guys want like a high quality of high time, go where they're at. Go to the country clubs. Go to wine tasting. Go to bring a book. to a wine bar. I know that sounds silly

and not many people don't want to do that, but go with your ass. Even if you can't read. Well, do your headphones in. Do an audio book. Audio book at the wine bar.

You got to hold the book. Yeah, no, you got to hold a bit. I've got an earpiece. I'm just listening. Yeah, I think, you know it also I love. I hope we have a minute. I tell people all the time, there's nothing more I love than getting hit on randomly

at the grocery store, at the baseball game, do that. That is the coolest thing, and that means you have so much confidence. Yeah. And also, I was telling someone the other day, if you walk up to a woman and she gives you a no, who cares? That no is so insignificant compared to someone you've been dating for two years, and they know everything about you.

your ins and outs about you and they say, I'm done with you. No, I don't want you. That no hurts. Walking up to a stranger and makes a decision in a second, two seconds and now, that's okay. You got to keep going. Be bold. Be bold. Be bold.

Be bold. Be bold. Be radical. Oh, man. I'm just verusing through your Instagram here. I love it. I love it. Jen, I know you got a lot of things cooking.

Let's hit those channels one more time for everybody where they can follow you on Instagram, TikTok. I know YouTube's coming. Tell them the channel. Yeah, so Instagram is Jen Larson official. That's also where you're going to coaching appointment if you want a one-on-one. Personal calls and call. All my handles, Dan Larson official.

TikTok, Klapper, YouTube's coming. But it's all set up. It's already all there. So you can start calling even though I'm not starting to load up content. there. I'm only, I'm just getting started. Yeah. No, you're early.

Hey, we're early. See, I want to get ahead of these things early. I know the stars when I see them. Oh, thank you. And you're going to be what I know. I want to stay in touch and follow your journey. And I really appreciate you coming on. Thanks for having me.

Yeah. Go follow Jen Larson. That's J-E-N-L-A-R-S-O-N official. We'll have all that in the show notes. You'll see that. If you're watching or listening to this, that's down there on the show, notes. You'll see it. And if you're watching, you see my hand pointing down. I do that sometimes. And I'm like, I'm on the audio. But no, we do have video. We're on YouTube and everything else.

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