Right About Now with Ryan Alford - Undoing Urgency and Appreciating the Journey with CEO and Author Matt Reynolds

Episode Date: July 2, 2024

TAKEAWAYSInterview with Matt Reynolds, founder and CEO of Barbell LogicTransition from in-person to online coachingBusiness model of Barbell LogicLeveraging AI in coaching businessImportance of mainta...ining genuine relationships with clientsEmbracing voluntary hardship in fitness and lifeImpact of convenience and urgency in modern lifeReclaiming time for what truly mattersFinding joy in life's journeyTIMESTAMPSThe introduction (00:00:00) Introducing the Rad Cast Network and its show "Harder Than Life" with Kelly Siegel.Building a Culture (00:00:51) Discussion on building a culture within a business and the influence of core values.Show Introduction (00:01:08) Introduction to the "Right About Now" show and its host, Ryan Alford.Introducing Matt Reynolds (00:01:31) Introduction to Matt Reynolds, the founder and CEO of Barbell Logic, and setting the stage for the interview.Matt Reynolds' Background (00:03:01) Matt Reynolds discusses his background in sports, powerlifting, and transitioning to strongman competitions.Starting a Gym Business (00:04:23) Matt Reynolds shares the journey of opening and growing a gym business, focusing on customer service and training quality.Transition to Online Coaching (00:05:14) Matt Reynolds explains the transition from in-person coaching to online coaching and the challenges of traditional personal training.Redesigning Online Coaching (00:07:01) Matt Reynolds discusses the approach to online coaching, emphasizing the importance of building relationships and personalized coaching.Clientele and Business Expansion (00:10:44) Discussion on the ideal clientele for Barbell Logic and the expansion of the business into the B2B market.Coaching Approach and Technology (00:14:18) Exploration of the coaching approach, the role of technology in facilitating relationships, and the concept of "turnkey coach."Revenue Streams (00:16:42) Insight into the revenue split between B2C, B2B, and government contracts, and the utilization of the Barbell Academy in government contracts.The roadmap for fitness (00:18:10) Discussion on the expansion of the software to include fitness and physical therapy coaching, and the potential for white labeling to other industries.Transitioning to CEO (00:19:12) Matt Reynolds discusses his transition from being a competitor to a CEO, emphasizing the insatiable pursuit of knowledge and the balance between work and personal life.Growth of the online business (00:21:39) The development and expansion of the online coaching business, including challenges and successes, and the emotional impact of initial success.Becoming a CEO (00:23:12) Matt Reynolds' experience as a CEO, focusing on building a culture, core values, and the execution of business plans.Content production and customer acquisition (00:29:04) The role of high-quality content in customer acquisition and the training and support provided to coaches for client acquisition.Professional differentiation (00:33:12) The emphasis on professionalism and category design in the online coaching industry, aiming to change the perception of online coaching as solely template-based programs.Leveraging AI (00:35:38) Discussion of using AI to automate and delegate tasks while emphasizing the irreplaceable value of human relationships.Voluntary Hardship in Fitness (00:37:07) The parallels between working out and life, emphasizing the importance of choosing voluntary hardship and the role of a coach.Involuntary vs. Voluntary Hardship (00:39:13) Exploring the refinement through voluntary hardship and the impact of involuntary hardship on personal growth.Convenience vs. Discomfort (00:40:03) The impact of modern conveniences on preparing individuals for discomfort and the realities of life.Urgency and Time Management (00:45:21) Discussing the book "Undoing Urgency" and reclaiming time for important aspects of life, emphasizing the need to prioritize and focus.Enjoying the Process (00:50:25) The importance of finding joy in the process and being focused on what matters, rather than fixating on destinations.The Ten Years Leading Up (00:53:28) Matt reflects on the past ten years and his hopes for the future, emphasizing the importance of consistency and personal growth.Book Release (00:54:24) Matt discusses the upcoming release of his book, sharing details about the timeline and the printing process.Keeping Up with Matt Reynolds (00:54:46) Matt provides information on where to find him, including his personal website, social media platforms, and Barbell Logic for coaching. If you enjoyed this episode and want to learn more, join Ryan’s newsletter https://ryanalford.com/newsletter/ to get Ferrari level advice daily for FREE.  Learn how to build a 7 figure business from your personal brand by signing up for a FREE introduction to personal branding https://ryanalford.com/personalbranding.  Learn more by visiting our website at www.ryanisright.comSubscribe to our YouTube channel  www.youtube.com/@RightAboutNowwithRyanAlford. 

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey guys, Ryan Alford here, host of Right About Now. Want to tell you about another show on our network, the Radcast Network, Harder Than Life with Kelly Siegel. Kelly's a personal friend, but let me tell you, even if he wasn't, I'd be listening to his show. This is about self-improvement. This is about telling you life stories and practices and principles that are good for business, good for life, and just good for your overall well-being. Kelly, energy is through the roof. The dude can bench press like a thousand pounds, and look,
Starting point is 00:00:31 you'll want to bench press a thousand pounds after you listen to this show. All the motivation and insights that you want about getting ahead in life, working out, lots of tips and tricks that you don't hear anyone else, and he's got an amazing platform, Harder Than Life. The book, the story, it is Kelly Siegel. And it is on the Radcast Network. Check it out today. I love being surrounded with great people. And our personalities are different, right?
Starting point is 00:00:55 So where one is strong, others are weak or vice versa. And so we have a great culture. And again, I think the business is very culture driven and kind of core values based. Those core values always stem from the founder. They always do. This is Right About Now with Ryan Alford, a Radcast Network production. We are the number one business show on the planet with over 1 million downloads a month. Taking the BS out of business for over six years and over 400 episodes.
Starting point is 00:01:24 You ready to start snapping necks and cashing checks? Well, it starts right about now. Hey guys, what's up? Welcome to Right About Now. We like to say we're always getting right. We're always talking about what's now. I don't know if there's much more now than the business of coaching and fitness and everything that's been happening with the
Starting point is 00:01:45 online space. That's why I'm pumped literally to have Matt Reynolds on. He's the founder and CEO of Barbell Logic. What's up, Matt? Hey, man. Thanks for having me on the show. Hey. Did you come straight from the gym? I mean, you've got one in the building. Yeah. Well, I did gym home then here. Okay, perfect. That's exactly. I felt like if I'm going to have the, you know, the founder and CEO of barbell logic, I needed to get, you know, pumped up on some level. That's right. I get, I see it beyond my, my energy drinks. That's good. I had an energy drink on the way here.
Starting point is 00:02:15 So no, thanks for having me. It's a, it's a big honor. I'm excited to come and talk. I'm, I am excited. And Hey man, you're breaking in the new studio, dude. You told me that you said we're breaking the seal. I didn't. So I'm excited for that., man, you're breaking in the new studio, dude. Yeah, you told me that. You said we're breaking the seal. I didn't. So I'm excited for that. So I don't know.
Starting point is 00:02:29 Does that mean we're going to pee in the corner after a while? Or is that what that means? We don't have to leave your mark. We don't have to literally break the seal. Exactly. No, it's great. The studio setup's great. Looks good in here.
Starting point is 00:02:39 Yeah, man. Flew in and, you know, got a lot of business going on, a lot of exciting things. And I know we're going to get into it. You got a book coming out. We're going to talk about all that. But let's at least we'll set the table with who is Matt Reynolds. And then let's get into some meaty stuff with what's happening in kind of in your space. Yeah, sure. So, man, I love sports. I'm a super competitive guy. I was not a very good athlete. I was a painfully average athlete, I would say, in high school. Played everything, loved it, and competitive to a fault. And when I got in college, I wasn't good enough to play
Starting point is 00:03:16 college sports. And so I needed that outlet. And I discovered the sport of powerlifting, which is just where you squat, bench, and deadlift, and eat a lot of pizza, and drink beer, and put on a bunch of weight. And I thought, this sounds great. Let's do this. Let's get strong. Sign me up. And so, yeah, late 90s, early 2000s, did that, and did well, ended up totaling elite in four different weight classes in powerlifting, which is kind of the top level in powerlifting. In 2005, transitioned to strongman, and won my pro card in Strongman in 2006. Competed on the World's Strongest Man Circuit from 06 to 10. Was never good enough to be in the World's Strongest Man.
Starting point is 00:03:52 You got to be kind of top three. 12th was the highest I ever got. In 2008, I opened my first business. It was called Strong Gym. And it was a kind of a black iron barbell based gym. But in a really nice setting, excellent customer service. We try to take the best of both worlds of what we saw in boutique gyms, which had great customer service, but the training was usually terrible. And hardcore powerlifting gyms are what was just
Starting point is 00:04:16 starting as CrossFit gyms, which maybe the training was great, but they were often in like these dank, dirty, you know, industrial buildings. What is it about that? They're always in the worst locations. Well, cause they need a bunch of square footage and square footage is expensive. Right. And so, and so we started small and then we grew and we grew and we grew. And so we moved four or five times. We eventually ended up in a 15,000 square foot building downtown in the gentrified area of Springfield, Missouri, where I'm from in the Ozarks. And, uh, and I, I, at the time I was, I had
Starting point is 00:04:45 gone to school to be a teacher. I was a teacher and had finished my master's to be a high school principal. By the time I finished that, I realized I probably wasn't going to stay in the public school system. And the gym had blown up. And so in 2012, I left teaching and ran the gym full-time, sold it at the end of 2015 and, and transitioned into the online coaching sphere. And there were a couple reasons for that. And we can talk about this one. I mean, I really kind of got pushed out of my own gym by one of my partners, which was tough. And I've had several times in my life that were difficult. But I look back now and say, like, this is one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. And because we would never have been able to build what we built here. But the other thing
Starting point is 00:05:21 I saw in the in-person kind of antiquated personal training world was that it was very inflexible for both the client and the coach. I had developed a name for myself as a coach and obviously had some street cred as the, as a professional strongman and that kind of stuff. And, but it's prohibitively expensive. Number one, in-person training, it's, you're locked into a schedule. You're locked into a location. You know, the coach, maybe you're charging 50 bucks an hour, a hundred dollars an hour. But when you really do the math about the commute and the putting on the purple polo with the name tag, this is trainer and the hours at the gym where there isn't a client. And then you do the math. I'm making 17 bucks an hour or whatever. And so I thought there has to be a better way. And on top
Starting point is 00:06:05 of that, I'm in Springfield, Missouri. How big is my client pool? And for the clients, how big is their coach pool? Expert coaches are hard to find. And so I thought, surely there is a way to combine the kind of issues or the challenges with in-person coaching and take that into the online sphere. Online coaching at the time was sell me a program for 50 bucks. And I would argue that's not coaching, that's programming. And with the oncoming slot of AI, that market is about to be commoditized and killed if all you do is sell programs because AI can already do that as well as we can do that. And so if you don't invest in the relationships, so for us, from the very beginning, I started doing online coaching. My focus was I wanted to actually coach. So my clients would video all their lifts every single day. They would upload them to, at the
Starting point is 00:06:54 time in the olden days to YouTube. I would break those down via typed feedback and send them back within 24 hours. Over that time, since 2016, we've now grown to a multi-multi, deep in the eight-figure business, 100 employees, and have our own app, our own software, integrated screen recorder, all that kind of stuff. And so really, we've been able to just transition. And we were talking a little bit about really kind of redesigning the category of online coaching. We're trying to reset people's mind on what online coaching is. It's not hiring an Instagram influencer who likes to take pictures of their butt or their abs and post it on Instagram and sell you a $50 template because the types of people that can pay for this, one, they usually don't work. And two, even if you have say personal training or high level,
Starting point is 00:07:40 or it's expensive, when you just get a program, that type of person travels for business. They travel on vacation. When they leave, if you're an in-person coach, you don't get paid. You know, if they travel or they go on vacation, they don't train. With really high quality professional online coaching, you get all of the best of the in-person high, like high touch white glove service, but you get it from anywhere in the world, anytime on your own schedule with the equipment you have, whether that's your home gym, which we love big box gyms, hotel gyms, resort gyms, you can do it. And even body weight stuff we do. And so that was really the transition for us. And so I've gone from athlete to coach
Starting point is 00:08:19 to business owner now to business owners to really CEO. And they have a, you know, a full C-suite and a board of directors and all that kind of stuff. And so that's really as my, as that's, I still love to train. I still love to coach, but man, I love being a CEO. And I mean, I do. It's a blast. Sweet. I've been, I've got my, I'm loaded here with questions. I let's stick because we were just there, the coaching and the aspect of this, the online, is it live? It's not live. So it's not live. Yeah. Great question. So it's asynchronous. And I think this is actually a major issue too, uh, that you see with some, some of the major companies that are out there that, you know, sell bikes or, you know, a big screen on a TV
Starting point is 00:09:01 or something that they connect you to a coach who's doing this live. Well, I'm in Missouri. I don't want to coach somebody in Singapore live. That's, that's in the middle of the night. And the other problem is it doesn't get out of that locking you into a schedule. If it's live, like you've got to connect with your coach at the same time. So asynchronously you get your personalized programming. So the first thing you do is when you sign up for coaching, you fill out a pretty intense questionnaire about you and your goals and your injuries and all that sort of equipment you've got. And then we spend an inordinate amount of time making sure you're connected with the right coach for you. Somebody that you want to go have a beer with or a coffee with, or you'd be friends with, even if they weren't your coach, that person then does a,
Starting point is 00:09:39 an intro zoom call with you, that expert coach, and you guys may be on the opposite side of the world. And then you'll start to receive personalized programming from them on your app. We call it turnkey coach. So directly on the app, you perform the workouts, you video yourself lifting, you upload those videos super fast. And then within 24 hours, we have an integrated screen recorder where your coach will fully break down your technique. So you'll watch yourself squad or deadlift or whatever. You'll hear your coach's voiceover and often see them picture in picture. And so that asynchronous piece, again, it's all about freedom. So it's freedom for the client. It costs about, if it were live, it would cost the same thing as in-person
Starting point is 00:10:19 coaching. So the cost for the client is like a third of what personal training costs. But a coach can break down probably 20 to 25 clients per hour as opposed to one client per hour. So the dollar per hour for the coach is $200, $300, $400 plus per hour, which is unheard of in the personal training industry. And so it's really giving both the client and the coach freedom for both ends of the spectrum. It's really giving both the client and the coach freedom for both ends of the spectrum. So is it the ideal customer? You know, you've got, you know, barbell logic. Your mind gets in this strength place. Sure.
Starting point is 00:10:57 I mean, are your clientele lifters mainly? I mean, is it? Probably not the way your audience would be thinking about. They're not 25-year-old guys. Yeah. Our average are, so we're about 60% male, 40% female. Our average age is 45 to 47. So they're, they're middle-aged. We've, I mean, we've got clients in their sixties, seventies, eighties. We, Barbell Logic, which is our B2C company, where we specifically interact, our coaches who work for us interact with our clients. That is. That skews a little older,
Starting point is 00:11:26 a little higher socioeconomic status, which is a great, again, they don't get tired of strength training or doing it. And while it definitely is a strength training first sort of business, we do conditioning and nutrition and all the things. But they don't get tired after two years and go do CrossFit or hot yoga or what, and there's nothing wrong with any of those things. It's just that I don't want to churn. And so our churn is insane. I mean, our churn this last quarter was 1.4%. That's no contracts. I mean, so, so that, that B2C company really became that what is now we look at the alpha tester for the B2B company. When COVID hit, shut every gym down. We started to see like, look,
Starting point is 00:12:04 there's all these great coaches out there. They don't have any opportunity to interact with their clients. We should take the software that we've developed, white label it and be able to license that out to the B2B. So that same question that you just asked me for us, it's that middle-aged male business executive soccer mom. Like that's our average client at Barbellogic. But our coaches that utilize turnkey coach, I mean, they've got high school athletes, you know, they've got, and we have coaches that focus on, you know, females that do postpartum moms. I've got a surgeon that all he does is coach people over 50, usually who have artificial hips or knees. I mean,
Starting point is 00:12:40 we've got the perfect coach for you. And if Barbellogic doesn't have that, there's a turnkey coach that does. And so, so that's how we've kind of transitioned from B2C to B2 you. And if Barbellogic doesn't have that, there's a turnkey coach that does. And so that's how we've kind of transitioned from B2C to B2B. And so we kind of look at that B2C now as the alpha tester for the B2B product. It's got to be a fairly serious person that's into it. Because I don't know about you, like when I go to the gym and I see people with personal trainers live, you might as well call them personal counselors. That's right.
Starting point is 00:13:05 Because I'm like, I've been here for 45 minutes. I've gotten a major intense workout in. I think they've moved off two stations. That's right. And I'm not even judging. It's just more an observation. I'm like, I think this is a counselor. Yeah, no, for sure.
Starting point is 00:13:21 I mean, you end up playing kind of a part psychiatrist, obviously totally unlicensed. But you see these people three, four hours a week. And so sure enough, they open up and start telling stories. And so, and honestly, it's the worst part of the job. And so now here's the thing, because what we've done in the online sphere is we focus on absolutely personalized programming, technique breakdown. But we also spend a lot of time trying to build a relationship with the client. But because of the asynchronous piece of this, that's on our time. So if I were coaching you, I would send you your personalized programming. I would coach you on your technique.
Starting point is 00:14:01 And then I generally know what's going on in your life. I'll ask you a couple of questions about how's life going. And then you'll respond back to me the next day when you do your workout, but we don't end up with a 40 minute conversation where I'm like, Oh my gosh, that took, we literally just talked about what's going on at the business for 40 minutes. And you know, that he didn't even get a workout in. Is there any one to one, like, like true calls or anything like that, that happens live? Like not, I get the sessions aren't live. Yep. So the intro call always is. Okay. All of our nutrition coaches do at least a monthly call with our clients live because it's nutrition. If you think you need a lot of
Starting point is 00:14:36 psychology for lifting, nutrition's a whole nother deal. And so, yeah, we do, we do those calls. As I lift a chip to my face. That's right. So yeah, we, we do that for sure. And we think that's valuable. And then, you know, we don't force the coaches to do that. A lot of times the coaches want to do that and have a quick call. Maybe it's a 20 minute zoom call or even just an audio call with their clients just to connect. And again, continue to kind of build that relationship and trust. And so again, we we've, we've been able to take nine years of business and really distill it down and kind of see what the clients are looking for. And so again, we've, we've been able to take nine years of business and really distill it down and kind of see what the clients are looking for. And when we do that, what we've been able to do with the software is we started to be able to trim the fat and say like, what are
Starting point is 00:15:12 the things, those extra button clicks, the extra hand movements, the, all of that stuff that the clients, the clients paying for interaction with their coach. And so for us, the technology turnkey coach really is a thing that should fade into the background to just be the bridge between the client and the coach to help facilitate that relationship. And so I was thinking about this the other day, I was, I was on a business, seven of the last nine weeks I've been on business trips. So a couple of weeks ago, I was in Columbus. I was eating at this restaurant, this really nice restaurant, my executive assistant. It was the best service I've ever had in my life. Now, here's the thing. You don't go to restaurants for the
Starting point is 00:15:49 waitstaff. You go to restaurants for the food and for the atmosphere and for the people that you're going with and the conversation. But if the waitstaff does their job right, they have a tremendous impact on the meal. And the best waitstaff are very unobtrusive. They explain, especially if it's kind of a fancy place, they explain the dish, but quickly and let you know what you're going to eat. And they would do things like you get up and go to the bathroom, you'd come back and your napkin would be replaced and fully folded up and on a new, you know, or you would look and go, how did my water get filled? I don't even know how it got filled. That's what we're trying to do with the technology is so that it's so frictionless.
Starting point is 00:16:26 The UI is so clean and the user experience is so good that the technology fades into the background just becomes the bridge to help the client develop a relationship with the coach and vice versa, which is really what both are there to do. And so that's why we call it turnkey coach. We handle all this stuff in the background. That's the B2B business. turnkey coach. We handle all this stuff in the background. That's the B2B business. What's the, if you can share, like the revenue split versus, you know, the B2B side versus B2C? Yeah. So we're really close at this point. So B2C, we're about a third at this point.
Starting point is 00:16:55 B2B, we're about a third. And then we started landing government contracts last year and we're about a third government contracts as well, which is probably more on the B2B, but it's- I was about to say, is it for your coaches working with government? It's actually both. So sorry, interestingly enough. So we have a third product that we call the Barbell Academy. So one of the things, if we need expert coaches to coach more people, we've got to be able to make expert coaches. And so we've got a very intense and excellent academy. It's not a major moneymaker for us. It does several hundred thousand dollars a year, which is fine. But what it really does is it avoids the bottleneck of expert coaches. I don't want to run out of supply
Starting point is 00:17:34 and have all this demand and have to turn money away. Right. And so we've got that. When we go to the government, we use all three. So we take the officers and we train the officers at Barbell Logic Online Coaching. We train the trainers on the academy, and then we license out TKC, the software to the government. So we actually utilize all three of those typically in a government contract. Nice. It's pretty smart. Yeah. So we're pretty well, revenue streams are pretty well, you know, one third, one third, one third, all under the same company. And really, it's all the same business. It's just three different revenue streams.
Starting point is 00:18:10 Is it all trained? Like, is the software is very specific? Because there's coaches in a lot of things. Is it? Have you thought about it? Is it all? Yeah, it's on the roadmap. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:18:22 So I think the first place we'll go is fitness is physical therapy. And so we have a ton of physical therapists. We have physical therapists on staff as coaches who this would be perfect for. And so obviously this doesn't work for chiropractors because the chiropractors got to put their hands on your back and you know, like that doesn't work, but for anybody, we've got tactical instructors that want to use it, you know, things like that, like any, anybody that could do coaching via a, say a zoom call or walk through, or again, think about concierge medicine and things like that. This would work for what we want to do. And what we've focused on is really crushing product market
Starting point is 00:18:55 fit in the fitness industry. First, getting it all right, making sure we clean up all those little bumps and making sure it really truly is frictionless. And then start to, because it's white labeled, it could be white labeled to physical therapy or anything, business coaching, marketing coaching, you know, any of that. Yeah. It's interesting. And, uh, talk with Matt Reynolds, founder and CEO of Barbell Logic. Uh, Matt, like, I don't know what you said. You love being a CEO. You know, like we have a lot of people that are budding founders. Yeah. Founder, you know, like what's it like transitioning from doing it to managing it?
Starting point is 00:19:36 You know, like from meathead to white collar. Yeah. At some point. And I mean, it's been, you know, it's I think I've heard you say the same thing. It's certainly it's not an overnight thing. I mean, I've owned business for 17 years and you know, it's, it's just a process. And I think for me, I'm just wired to have an insatiable pursuit of knowledge, which I don't think guarantees. I mean, I think there are people out there that are really, really smart, but haven't figured out how to apply that in the trenches. And so for me,
Starting point is 00:20:03 I'm just constantly learning and I'm trying to take that learning and that, that knowledge and turn into wisdom and figure out how to distill that down to wisdom and then take that wisdom and actually apply it in the trenches. And so for me, I'm laser focused on whatever I'm doing. When I was competing in strongman, that was what I was doing. It was strongman. I mean, I would even say in my younger days to the detriment of my family, I've been married. I'm actually going to be married 24 years here in just another couple of weeks. I married my high school sweetheart, two wonderful daughters, 19 and 13. And so I think I've been so laser focused at times. And I think a lot of guys, I'm going to paint with a broad brush, but I found very few men who are able to balance this
Starting point is 00:20:44 well. They either tend to skew on the lazy side or they ske men who are able to balance this. Well, they either tend to skew on the lazy side or they skew towards the workaholic side. Well, I'm definitely the latter. And so, and so then when I started to run the gym, I was all in on the gym. I don't know how to have this idea of let's just have a mom and pop gym. That's just generally profitable. It makes me a hundred thousand dollars a year or whatever. I'm just like, let's grow it to the biggest gym in the whole world. And then it grew to the biggest barbell gym in the world. And then we sell it in 2015 and let's go.
Starting point is 00:21:11 And then online was the same thing. And so we went through a major expansion of the online business. It took me about a year to figure out the systems and standard operating procedures in the online sphere in 2016, all through 2016. In December of 16, I hired 35 coaches and didn't have clients to give them. Wow. And so it scared me to death.
Starting point is 00:21:31 But we had built this big kind of grand opening launch, even though I had run this as a one-man show for the first year. And we did $47,000 on the first day. It opened up and I can remember, I had Stripe on my phone and it just starts going ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. And dude,
Starting point is 00:21:49 I started crying like a baby because I left, I'd left education. I had had my master's to be a president. I mean, I left all this for this world, you know, of course to my parents, weren't happy about it. They're like, just, you know, do the safe job. Parents are boomers. That's what they'd say. And all of a sudden, my parents love what I do. Right? And so it has been- Kind of this podcast.
Starting point is 00:22:11 My wife hated it. Yeah, right. Until she didn't. That's right. That's right. Yeah. Right up until it bought her car. And then you're like, yeah, it's not that bad, is it?
Starting point is 00:22:18 So, yeah, I mean, man, it's been really fun. So I think what you do in the beginning, when you're a one-man show, you're a one-man show. And then I was the owner and the CEO and the COO and the CXO and the CIO. You do everything. You do every job, except I also have these coaches. So now I've hired out some technicians. And as time goes on, you start to hire more and more really wonderful employees who do a much better job at their job than you could ever. In the beginning, they don't, right? They do it at 80%. And you've got to be okay with that and not be a micromanager and have good systems in place and hand them that system and say, this is your system now. You own it. You're going to find inefficiencies in this system that I wrote because I'm not as good at this job as you will
Starting point is 00:22:56 be. You might not be as good as me today, but your potential is far better than me. So my COO, he comes from lean manufacturing. I mean, and this is a fitness company, right? My CXO, she is incredible with people. My, my CMO is, I don't know what I'm doing. I mean, that's your world, right? And like, you know how complicated that is. So they are so much better at their job than I am. And so I just, I love being surrounded with great people and our personalities are different, right? So where one is strong, others are weak or vice versa. And so we have a great culture. And again, I think the business is very culture driven. And so we, we, we, and kind of core values based. We, those core values always stem from the founder. They always do. And those core values have derived, they flow down and they build out what our kind of core tenants are for the company and our primary goals every year and the actions to support those goals and the milestones or metrics or what most people call KPIs, but I hate corporate speech. And so we do that. So we have goals, actions, metrics, and the execution of that, which we call the game plan, which is a little bit cheesy, but it's a lot
Starting point is 00:23:59 better than OKRs and KPIs, you know, and it's like, we're not going to talk that way. And we're still a fitness company. And so I've really enjoyed becoming a CEO and being able to do that. And I really am a, get to act as a true CEO at this point. I get to, I get to have, you know, my, my C-suite report up to me. They've got great teams underneath them. We meet on a kind of rotating schedule throughout the month and we're not stuck doing meetings all days and TPS reports and all the crap that you see from office space. That's so true. If you've done corporate America, you know what that is. And so we've been able to avoid that. And then the other part of it is, man, my whole business is online. We don't have an HQ. I don't have anybody in mind. Like we're
Starting point is 00:24:38 everywhere, but we've always been everywhere. So whatever everyone was dealing with in 2020, we had started doing in early 2016. So we had a four-year headstart on everybody. It really built a moat for us. And on top of that, because we focused on the relationship and not just the programming, it would kind of give us a double moat. And so we have, we own the category. I mean, we, we designed the category of professional online coach. Online coaching is not professional. It's Instagram models. It's bro science. It's, you know, it's that, and it's like, and there are, you'll see in-person coaches or in-person trainers that are very professional. And then something happens online and the world standard
Starting point is 00:25:16 is not there yet. And so for us, it's about raising that standard of what you should expect as a client and as a coach in the professional online coaching world. And so we don't tell you how to teach a squat. We don't teach, I mean, we teach our clients how to squat, but if you're a coach for us, we don't tell you how to program or any of those things, but we say, Hey, we've got a system that you want to make 400 bucks an hour. And this is not like a Mary Kay pyramid scheme. I mean, it's not like only the, it's not, it's, this is the middle of the bell curve is making two, 300 bucks an hour. Like that's, that's the deal. And they're like, yeah. All right. So, so we get any coach we want,
Starting point is 00:25:47 which is great. I want to come back to the Instagram coach debacle, but sticking with the business model a little bit client. And let's talk B to C for a second. Sure. Cause I'm kind of fascinated. Like it really interests me because like I said to you, I see a lot of people that want this in-person trainer
Starting point is 00:26:10 because they just really want a counselor. Right. And your model's built differently. What's the client acquisition process for you guys? Yeah. How do you get, keep your, you're on platform, your company trainers busy. And do you, how do you help maybe other people that buy the platform? Sure. You coach them on
Starting point is 00:26:33 client acquisition. Yeah. Great, great question. So the two answers that question at the B2C level for us, um, we are a service business that makes an insane amount of high quality content and the content is always free. So we have, we have one of the top podcasts in strength and have since 2017 and put them out every week. And again, you know, this is a consistency game. I mean, we just, we churn them out all the time and they're good. They're excellent. Our, our YouTube videos, you can search how to anything in the gym and our videos are going to pop up at the top. And so we've got, and we've got our long form videos are like seven or eight minutes long,
Starting point is 00:27:09 teaching you how to squat or deadlift. But we also have what we call gym shorts. As you see, I like shorts, short, short, short shorts for dudes. If you're not watching the video, I'm going to do a plug for the YouTube channels, right? You know, Matt's got on the shortest pair of shorts I've seen in a while. And they're nice khakis. Yeah, they're nice khakis. They're not Sophie's or what? Is that what they're called? Silky's or whatever. You know, they're not like staring at your short shorts.
Starting point is 00:27:31 Yeah, yeah. They're khakis. Yeah, yeah. I'm a big fan. Big fan of khaki shorts. No, so we have a series called Gym Shorts. And it's how-to videos. And they're all under 60 seconds.
Starting point is 00:27:40 So they're all shorts. And so that for us, also my editor in chief, man's an attorney. Like he's incredible. He's the best copy editor I've ever, he's, he's helped me write the manuscript for the Forbes book. I mean, so, so we've got lawyers can, you know, have, have a way with words. He is a wordsmith and he's worked with me and for me for 12 or 13 years. So he knows me, knows my voice. He knows my, he's not, he's not ghostwriting the book. I'm just a better speaker than I am a writer. And so we work through the outline together. I record the stories and the personal anecdotes and most of the manuscript,
Starting point is 00:28:15 and then he cleans it up and makes it look beautiful and send it back. And then we edit back and forth. So, so we have great written content, free eBooks, tons of videos, tons of podcasts, all that kind of stuff. That's all free. And that's how we get people on top of the funnel. And we just did several TV shows. So TV shows for national level TV shows, big ones that people will see. Um, and so just did those. And so for us, it's really about if we can get people into the top of the funnel, uh, then we can drive them down the funnel and convert pretty well. And a lot of that is, is a testament to my CMO who was my CIO. So CMO, CIO using, using a great CRM and driving people down the funnel, we do a great job. And it's so it's because that content has established us as experts in the marketplace. And so some percentage of those clients, some percentage of those
Starting point is 00:29:01 consumers of the content become paying clients for us. So that's really what customer acquisition costs looks like. It's really about content production for us. And then of course, you know, we, we occasionally do paid ads and play around with that. Some for sure. We're not experts in that field, but I think for us, it's, it's about putting out excellent content for free. Yeah. Is all under barbell logic, like the brand name? As far as content? Yeah, Barbell Logic for sure. I mean, certainly we have a lot of internal content we put out for Turnkey Coach. So for our Turnkey Coach licensees, we train them up.
Starting point is 00:29:41 So that's kind of second part of that answer is that we teach them how to run this system of online coaching. We teach them how to coach. We run them through the academy. We teach them, make sure they know really what they're doing and to do it well and to be efficient and be effective and all of those things that you need to be, to be a great coach and what you would want out of a great coach. Like you don't want to, you're a busy guy. You don't, if you've got a job to do, you want to get it done in the most efficient way. So simple, hard, effective, man, that's the deal. It doesn't need to be complex. It doesn't need, it doesn't, it's economy over excess, like all that kind of stuff. Those are the kind of things that we're teaching. So we don't just teach the licensees in the B2B industry, the kind of how
Starting point is 00:30:16 to coach. We also teach them how to business while at the same time offering a software that's called turnkey coach. So the idea is, by the way, we do want you to know how to do this, but we do all the backend work. We do all the customer service, credit card balances. We're going to deal with that. Like you get to do what you do best, which is coach. And the client gets to interact with you. But we also walk them through the business model and why it works this way
Starting point is 00:30:40 and how to effectively get more clients, how to do it on a low. That's kind of, I was going to say, if Barbell Logic is kind of feeding your coaches, all that content, what feeds the, the train, you know, the turn, the turnkey coach. Yeah. So we, we, we coach them and train them on the marketing side. One of the things that we've done. So we've got really two kind of types of coaches that license out our software. You have the up and coming coach who doesn't really have clients and we're teaching them how to go get clients, how to market themselves, how to put out content. And then we also have our enterprise clients, which we've brought over from other software platforms because we're just so much better. And so,
Starting point is 00:31:16 you know, you treat them a little different because there are times when you sell one client, one coach, you get 6,500 clients. And then there are other times you sell one coach and they start with zero or one. And you're like, let's put a demo client in for you and teach you how to do this thing. And so that changes a little bit too. And so, yeah, certainly the ones that have the big names already, they're using it, but it doesn't feel like turnkey coach. It feels like, you know, X brand, whatever their brand is. So it's pretty white labeled. Yeah. So it's their colors, their branding, all that stuff. So it feels like their app. It doesn't feel like Barbell Logics app or turnkey coach app. And then for the up and coming coaches, like that's,
Starting point is 00:31:51 that's where our Academy director really holds their hand and teaches them how to do this system. You've got a lot of guys that come in and they're accountants or they, and they hate their job. We're like, don't quit your accounting job yet. Let's just, you gotta, you got 18 months of working two shifts right now. Shift one is the accounting job, pay the bills at home. Shift two is the online coaching job. Don't spend $1 of that. Put that in because if you're making 80 grand as the accountant and you slowly build up the online coaching business to 60 or 70 or $80,000, like now you're making 160 and now you've got to quit one and cut it, cut your income in half. Don't right. So just let's learn how to do this. And then the day will come when you'll make enough income from the
Starting point is 00:32:29 second job, from the one you love to leave the first one. And that's, that's the goal point. And then it puts us where the rubber meets the road. It puts some pressure on you. Like, okay, now if the other one doesn't work, we starve, we lose the house. Yeah. Yeah. We all know that one. Yeah. Sometimes you just got the balls to do it yeah for sure but i'll say this you know i hear you speaking and talking about this there's one key word here that keeps coming to my mind and you said it when you know about the differentiation of the category is professional yeah everything sounds professional it just sounds like a pro you know like you're becoming whether you're training other
Starting point is 00:33:05 coaches whether the coach is on your platform your team it just sounds like a professional organization yeah well thank you i mean that means it's come through well when i think of personal trainer the average personal trainer i do not think professional no i don't either right it's i hate that and i have friends in the business that are entreated that professionally. For sure. If we're talking about as a whole. And that's the category design piece, right? We are trying to change not just what we do to own the category, right? You've talked about this before. Like it's 70% of category design. It's 30% of branding, right? Because if we own the category, then the brand is going to do just fine. So what does it mean to own the category? Well, for me, it means that
Starting point is 00:33:49 the world recognizes the standard of this category. And right now the world still thinks that online coaching is, I'm going to buy a $50 program. Like that's not online coaching. That's, you're just getting duped, right? Like that's, we're not doing that. And so, and really that's like, you're selling content. If you're selling a template, you're selling a cookie cutter template, but then what happens when the person gets sick? What happens when their kid threw up all night long the last two nights and they can't work out like, well, they have a template. So now they're behind. So now what do I do? Or what, what if they go on vacation for a week and they can't train and they come back and they can't hit the weights they're supposed to hit because they haven't
Starting point is 00:34:21 trained for a week. Well, that's why templates don't work. And so that's why for us that professional personalized online coaching is key. And it's about changing the perception of the world out there and probably first with fitness professionals, and then let that filter down to the client, to the B2C side. Yeah. The space is crowded, you know, the online coaching. Sure. And it's, you guys have carved out this niche and, you know, the pro. Yeah. I always wonder, I get asked, like, some of these genies,
Starting point is 00:34:55 are they going back in the ball? You know, like, we're well removed from COVID and all that stuff. Sure. But it feels like the adoption, if we're on the adoption curve of this thing we're still going we're still like we're going up to the top of the curve right near it you know it feels that way to me because you know i think in a way the we're getting older boomers like the aging of america yep but you're also but that demographic is also getting more comfortable online. Yep. And so you've got a couple of these things going,
Starting point is 00:35:25 and I think the adoption rate is going to continue as the experiences get better. For sure. It feels that way. I would assume being in the business, you're high on that industry as a whole. Yeah, of course. I mean, and the thing that I don't want,
Starting point is 00:35:42 as AI comes out, I mean, we've leveraged AI since the day it came out. We can start to use it because to, to automate and delegate and cut, trim the fat. So places that we can get that great, we love AI, but AI can't replace the relationship, right? Relationship is the key. So if you've spent the last 10 or 20 years of your life as a coach selling programs, you're dead. Like you're not literally dead, but your business is dead, right? Because it's getting replaced. And so for us, like we're going to leverage that AI everywhere we can, and that's not going anywhere. Now, do I think there's a day when
Starting point is 00:36:11 AI will be able to actually replace the technique coaching portion of what we do? I do. Yeah. Dude, I don't want to be the steel industry of the seventies. It's like, it's going to come back. It ain't coming back. Yeah. Like when it goes, it goes. Yeah. But what cannot be replaced. Those DVDs aren't coming back blockbuster. That's right. That's right. You know? And so, but what cannot be replaced and what will never be replaced is relationship. Now, are you going to have certain people that develop not real relationships with some AI something like, sure, but that's not the demographic that we're after, right? Again, we're talking about people who are choosing voluntary hardship, and that often requires a coach to lead you to do. And so
Starting point is 00:36:49 we can automate everything we can that will drive the price down for the client. We can continue to make it more efficient for the coach that drives their dollar per hour up. And so you get a massive value proposition on both ends of the spectrum, which is rare. And it's, you know, Charlie Munger would love it if you were still here. So God rest his soul. I know. Hey, you brought up voluntary hardship. It's interesting. The fitness business kind of goes right at it. I've always seen the parallels of working out and life and business. Like, you know, just choosing to go to the gym to go work out at any level is choosing something that's not easy it's and and choosing something that no one else will make you do exactly you have to do it for yourself i mean you can't no one is going to like lift you up and throw i mean unless you're unless you're in the marines or something and then you know
Starting point is 00:37:41 you're playing division one football and then your strength coach or your football coach is going to make you do it but nobody's going to make you put a heavy bar on your back and squat. And it sucks, dude. That sucks. As a matter of fact. So you're right. And I'm not a coach that, that, you know, makes fun of people. If you, if you've been sedentary and watching Netflix all day and, or for years, and your first thing you do is walk around the neighborhood with your husband or wife, like get it it. Awesome. Like, that's a great first step. I think we can do even better. But like, I'm never gonna make fun of that person. If you don't know what you're doing, and you go to a big purple big box gym, and you and you do basic machine work, and you don't actually lift
Starting point is 00:38:20 the barbells, like, okay, like, a lot of that's ignorance. And that's why we put out the content, right. But ultimately, when you really dig deep, and you do hard things lift the barbells, like, okay, like a lot of that's ignorance. And that's why we put out the content, right? But ultimately when you really dig deep and you do hard things, and for us strength, we've seen strength is the foundation of all human movement. It's the way we interact with the world.
Starting point is 00:38:33 It's not the be all end all. It's not the most important thing in the world. It's not the only voluntary hardship thing in the world, right? There's a lot of things that are voluntarily hard, but squatting, deadlifting, lifting basic barbells, like that's voluntarily hard for everyone. And I believe that we're refined by voluntary hardship every single time. And I don't think that's the same with involuntary hardship. And we know this, right?
Starting point is 00:38:55 Cause guys go to prison and they don't usually get out better. Right. Or, or, you know, and sometimes you'll see those stories of sometimes people get cancer and they either die or they get cancer and it just makes them jaded the rest of their life. But we've also seen the stories of people getting cancer, beating it, and they're much more mentally tough. And so involuntary hardship is not guaranteed to refine. Voluntary hardship is. We all know we're going to experience involuntary hardship in our life. It's going to kick us in the nuts at some point. Somebody's going to get sick. Somebody is going to die. There's going to
Starting point is 00:39:26 be a tragedy. Somebody's going to get divorced, like whatever. And the more you expose yourself to hard things, the better prepared you are when life forces you to be exposed to a hard thing. And that's why we push voluntary hardship. That's why we do hard things. That's why we don't send our clients into the gym to just screw around on the you know on the weight stack machines and just and there's nothing wrong that we still do some of that but it's secondary yeah right and so the hard stuff comes first well we've been conditioned you know and you and i talked about this as a pre-episode a little bit but everything in life is becoming more convenient yep you. You know, the Amazon effect in a way.
Starting point is 00:40:06 Yep. You know, you can have everything immediately. Everything's the touch of a button. Yep. Instacart, Insta, it's Insta everything. And so, and it's great that we've had these technological. I love it. I use it all the time.
Starting point is 00:40:17 And our kids, you know, have had things that are at their fingertips that we didn't have, and I'm grateful for that. had things and that are at their fingertips that we didn't have and i'm grateful for that but in a way though it doesn't prepare us for the involuntary shit that happens for sure and it most certainly doesn't really condition us to want to choose discomfort that's right and you know i don't sit here on some perch and go, I choose discomfort all the time. I like to be uncomfortable. But I do sit on here and force myself to work out.
Starting point is 00:40:54 While also having a show that we have, I sense issue with the nation in what we're building without having to go through some of the struggle. And it just feels like we're not preparing the younger generations for the realities of life and business and everything else. Right, because you can't escape that, right? You can't. It's going to get you at some point. That's right. And so if you've conditioned everyone to convenience and getting what you want when you want it,
Starting point is 00:41:32 which are great things, you're not, it pushes them that much further from choosing discomfort. That's exactly right. And so this is, I would make an argument and say, I don't think there's ever been a time in history where it's more important to do things like go to the gym. I mean, look, most of our grandpas and great grandpas, they were farmers and they were mechanics and they were blue collar
Starting point is 00:41:52 guys and they worked hard all day and that calloused hands and all that. And like, that's not the average guy now. Right. And, or the average lady, I mean, my wife, she's here, she's beautiful. It's feminine as it gets. She's super strong. I mean, she's gotten super strong. She's deadlifted over 400 pounds. I mean, she's strong and in her mid forties. And so, but, and you know, she models it for our girls. I think voluntary hardship is great for everybody. I want to be clear not to like skew it so massively.
Starting point is 00:42:17 And again, we've got a ton of amazing female coaches and lifters, but the reality is, is that most of us sit at a computer all day. I sit at a computer all day. I run it. I'm a CEO that most of us sit at a computer all day. I sit at a computer all day. I run it. I'm a CEO of a tech company sitting at a computer all day. I'm there a lot. So I have to choose because I'm not out in the fields because I'm not cutting hay and bailing hay because I pay people to mow my lawn. I mean, like I literally don't do any of that stuff. Then like the thing I have to choose, it's physically hard. And I look, I was saying, I get up early every morning. I work my butt off.
Starting point is 00:42:48 I'm like, I'm a hard worker, but I still think we have to get into that realm of physical voluntary hardship to drive that thing. That's going to expose us to. So, you know, I know there's been a lot of stuff lately, like on cold plunges and stuff like I've got a cold plunge. I love it. I do. I think it actually does anything. I don't know. I don't care. It makes me feel good. Here's the thing. You know what it actually does? It's voluntary hardship. It is. I get in it. The first time I get in it, I'm like, I'm out in 10 seconds. And then you keep going and you, and then you ramp up the temperature a little bit. You're like, ah, 39 is crazy. Let's go 49 instead. And then you get in it for 30 seconds. And then the next day you get in it for a minute. And then you, you know, I keep hitting the Apple watch and then I'm like,
Starting point is 00:43:27 okay, a minute and a half. And then you get to the point where you can go three minutes and then you start dropping the temperature down. Well, that it's because you're being exposed to hard things. And so your body gets used to getting exposed to the hard thing and becomes adapted to the hard thing. So you can handle more heart. That's why we do voluntary hardship. Yeah, and fitness is it. I mean, like, you know, even my diet can be a little off, like do things, but if I'm not in the gym five or six days a week or a gym-like object, like it might be my yard doing pushups and my treadmill,
Starting point is 00:43:59 but I don't know. Do I want to do it? No, not really, but it makes me feel good. Yeah, I'm always happy that And I, do I want to do it? No, not really, but I, but it makes me feel good. Yeah. I'm always happy that I did it after I did it. Yeah. I always feel better afterwards. Dude, I never want to train, but I train and then I'm like, I'm really glad I trained. Yeah. I don't want to sit and I don't want to get in the cold plunge. I don't want to get in the sauna. I don't want to do any of that stuff. Uh, you know, I don't want to break down videos sometimes as a coach. I still love to coach, but I get up every morning, four in the morning. I'm like, you know, I don't want to break down videos sometimes as a coach. I still love to coach, but I get up every morning, four in the morning. I'm like, you know, what'd be more fun is like,
Starting point is 00:44:27 turn on Netflix right now that you just do the thing. And so that's what it's about. It is. So push the hardship, baby. That's right. But I will say this urgency is an interesting word for me. Yeah. Yeah. And, uh, touch a nerve. It touched, you know, like it's really strange. Like we just talked about this. We've got these convenience and we're comfortable. We do all that, but it does seem like everything's urgent.
Starting point is 00:44:52 Yeah. You know, because I think we're in a hurry to get to the non discomfort or the happiness or whatever. So it's like rush or we're rushing. We're I'm urgently, I gotta look, you know,
Starting point is 00:45:02 the addiction of the phone, like everything urgent tasks, you know, the addiction of the phone, like everything urgent tasks, you know, I know you're writing a book. It comes out. It might be written completely. I'm about 80, 85% down, done with the book. That's actually why I'm here and meeting with Forbes and Charleston. They're publishing the book. So yeah, I'm excited. Talk about it. Talk about urgency. Yeah. So the book is called Und called undoing urgency. It's about reclaiming your time for the things that matter most. Um, you know, we, we all have, I mean, time we've kind of alluded to this already, like time is extremely finite. Um, I talked about Munger, you know, ask, ask Warren Buffett, Warren Buffett, one of the richest men in the world,
Starting point is 00:45:39 asking right now how much of his wealth he would give away if he could go back to being 30, all of it, every bit of it, all of it. So the problem is, is that we're all drowning in urgency. So when someone came up and asked your dad 20 years ago, like, how's it going? Our dads would say, good. But now when we say, how's it going? We say, busy. Every time. Because we're drowning in urgency. And what happens is the urgent pushes out the important stuff. And what happens is the urgent pushes out the important stuff. And so what the book is really about is identifying what is really important to you, what your core values are. I mean, for me, it's, it's, it's faith and it's family and it's my community and it's my fitness, my health. Those are really the four big things,
Starting point is 00:46:19 right? And certainly my businesses and which is my part of my community. I so close to those guys, but if we get get, if we drown in the urgent, we never get to the important. And here's the thing, the most important stuff like family is never urgent. And so the urgent pushes out the important. And so what you have to do is you have to figure out how to, the things that are not urgent and not important, you've got to just purge them from your life, man. This is the, this is the doom scrolling and the, and the binge watching Netflix and the porn and the, what it like that's, that's gotta get that. You got to get rid of it. And then you take the stuff that's, that's urgent and not important. And you've got to delegate or automate it.
Starting point is 00:46:57 And then you've got to take the stuff that's urgent and important, and you better figure out how to do it really efficiently so that you can focus on the stuff that's the most important thing. Because ultimately what we're trying to do, I look forward at like the legacy that I want to leave. The jacked, wise old grandpa surrounded by my great grandkids, you know, and I want to work towards that goal. What I don't want to do is think back and think like I wasted my kid's childhood and then my grand my grandbabies I didn't get to enjoy, which I don't have any yet and don't want any anytime soon. But you know, I did that because I, I was so focused on the urgent that I lost sight of the important. And so that's really what the book is about. And it's really a game plan. It's a roadmap on how to get there and how we do that in, in fitness, business, and life. And we've got, you know, it starts 30,000 foot view and core values and works
Starting point is 00:47:44 all the way down into the trenches and gives lots of examples of exactly how we actually do that in our life and life of the business and so on and so forth. So, you know, hearing you say that it made me think of something. I think urgency favors the unfocused. Sure. And I think that's, I was distilling what you're saying and i'm like you know everything's urgent if you're not focused and if you're not organized chaos it's chaos it is chaos it derails but it's also but we're in this world the badge of honor i'm right i'm busy man rise and grind busy yeah you know like it's a badge yeah and i'm i'm guilty as shit of it like i like i'll say that and like i almost cringe when i say it well you have to i'm like i'm guilty as shit of it. Like, I like, I'll say that. And like, I almost cringe when I
Starting point is 00:48:25 say it. Well, you have to, I'm like, I'm busy and I am, but you know, I'm going to change that. I'm going to start saying I'm, I'm happy or something. I don't know. How are you doing? I'm happy. I think this is part of it too. And, and I said, one of the, one of the conversations we had pre-show is about, dude, I love my life. Not, not that I live a perfect life. I've gone, I've made all sorts of mistakes over the years, but the reality is, is that you start to realize is that the work is the goal. It's not, it's not the outcome. Like I'm, I'm building this business to sell the business. That's been the goal. Like we're going to sell the business in several years. Right. And does happiness come then? Happiness comes now. Right. Yeah. So that's the goal. So the goal, the work, if you do the work right and you focus on the important, you get it all.
Starting point is 00:49:22 I'm going to use one like the journey is everything. Right. But it is. It is. It's like, and I, and you, and I get this from younger people that follow me and, you know, like, what's it take to get, to be successful? Like, cause they all think of it as a destination. Like when I got a million dollars in my bank account, right. Where I could buy anything I want, I've reached success or whatever that is.
Starting point is 00:49:43 And don't, you're right. Don't get me wrong. It's nice to have financial comfort, but it's not like the destination. No, it's your happiness comes from doing what you love to do. That's right. That isn't always easy. That's right. And you take satisfaction from the journey and the process of getting there. That's exactly right. It's the happiness, the joy. Joy is a good word.
Starting point is 00:50:10 Happiness is fleeting, right? Joy is right. Joy is in the process, not in the outcome. And so that's what we do. You've got to enjoy the process. If you're drowning in urgency, you can't. That's the goal. Enjoy the process.
Starting point is 00:50:24 It took me a long time to, like, I heard that 15 years. You know, like, you'd hear it. Bro, I have this mastered now. No, it's a joke. I still, like, I'm preaching to the choir right in this book. Dude, I'm like, literally, it took me a long time. Like, I didn't, you can't quite, I don't know if it's maturity. You know, it's guys mature later than girls.
Starting point is 00:50:44 I don't know. I've matured when I was like 37, I don't know if it's maturity, you know, it's guys mature later than girls. I don't know. I've matured, but I was like 37. I think I didn't even have puberty till 17 for real. Yeah. It was, it was, it was a rough couple of years of high school. Yeah. But I don't know that guy, you know, like people say like, you know, when did you grow up? I was probably 36. Yeah. Like, I don't know know like an immaturity of understanding certain concepts in life because i was kind of always on that never-ending hamster wheel yeah you know chasing things the thing the thing yeah oh and i'm oh i'm gonna get there i'm urgent urgently gonna get there yep and i'm like then you go you don't get there no you gotta enjoy it and
Starting point is 00:51:22 be focused on what matters and what matters to you. And I don't know. And that can be different from person to person. So what matters to me, what are the most important things to me may not be for you. That doesn't, the book was still incredibly applicable. It's the book actually walks you through how to identify what your core values are and how to work towards those goals. Like, yes, I'll give my examples. And then I'm really clear about, you're not trying to be me. You're trying to be you. And so, yeah, enjoy the process, man, not the outcome. That's the deal. So we're not looking for destinations, but what, what will make you happy 10 years from now? You know, what, what will you be doing? If I, if I could live the life I choose
Starting point is 00:52:06 10 years ago, changing it from happy. Cause I, cause look, if 10 years from now, my wife gets cancer, I'm not, I'm not going to be happy, but can I still find joy? Like, I think I can, you know, knock on wood. Like I don't, you know, and so, um, man, I hope to have been able to, I've gone through all of these things in business. I've now raised capital. I've been in hard lawsuits. I've started a board. I know how to run a board of directors. I've been a CEO, all that kind of stuff. The only thing I really haven't done, big thing in business is be acquired and sell. I would like to be able to do that at some point. And then I would like to take that and give back to young entrepreneurs that are
Starting point is 00:52:45 learning how to do this. I wish someone would have taken me along. And I definitely am. If you listen to this, like I definitely have mentors and even my younger brother has been more successful than me earlier than me. So my younger brother is a bit of a mentor, but I would love to do that and give back. Like I can tell you this, I'm not going to start another, I'm not going to be a CEO or an operator in another business because I've been able to say like, okay, I did it. I succeeded or failed and I learned lessons from it. And now I want to teach others there. I mean, that's, that's where it would be. And 10 years, hopefully I'm surrounded by three or four grand babies and you know what Sunday lunches and Thanksgiving and Christmas. And that, that, that's the goal. Yeah. Girl, dad, right?
Starting point is 00:53:23 Girl, dad. Yeah. But, and they know four boys. So it's like, I don't even know what that that's the goal. Yeah. Girl, dad, right. Girl, dad. Yeah. But, and they know four boys. So it's like, I don't even know what that world's like. I wish we had had more, but we did ingrain in our two daughters. Like you got to give me like six to eight grandbabies at least. So we need lots of, lots of grandbabies, but yeah, man, that's what 10 years looks like for me. I think, and man, honestly, it's, it's, I hope I get to look back over the next 10 years from now and look back and said, I really enjoyed the 10 years leading up. right? It's not about, there is this idea in my head of who I want to be when I'm 85, but it's not about being who you want to be when you're 85. It's what you do the 60 years before that. It's the consistency every day of doing the thing of pouring into your kids and your family
Starting point is 00:54:01 and your community and your business and like giving them that wisdom and giving yourself that wisdom and learning those lessons and, you know, changing and correcting a course. I hope I do that and do that well. And so I wrote the book really for me first, because I need it and I've struggled with it. I've learned from those lessons. And I think, you know, my staff would tell you that I've come a long way there. And so these are lessons to be learned there for, for everybody. When's the book come out? Should be between Thanksgiving and Christmas, the holidays this year. So a lot of that is how backed up the printer is.
Starting point is 00:54:31 So the book's basically done. So once it ships off to printer, it's like, does it take them a month to get it printed or four months to get printed? So you'll have that on all your sites. Undoing urgency. Yes, sir. Matt, where can everybody keep up with you?
Starting point is 00:54:44 Barbell Logic, everything else you got going on. Yes, sir. Matt, where can everybody keep up with you? Barbell logic, everything else you got going on. Thanks, man. Uh, yeah. If you want to start the process of voluntary hardship, Barbell logic is a great place to start. So we're Barbell logic, Barbell logic.com online, uh, on all the social media platforms, my personal websites, Ryan, Matt Reynolds.com. I go by Matt. Uh, there is another Ryan Reynolds. I don't know if you ever heard of him. He's got pretty good SEO. Uh, And Matt Reynolds is an infielder for the Cincinnati Reds. And we're pretty much tied, but I don't want to fight with that guy. So Forbes is like, it's got to be Ryan Reynolds. So RyanMattReynolds.com, a personal site, or if you're a coach or a listener and you're interested
Starting point is 00:55:19 in that, turnkey.coach. You can go to any of those places. And of course they are all, you know, they link back to each other and stuff. And so, yeah, man, we love, and I always tell people, I'm not trying to make a hard sell. Watch the content, listen to the content, learn some stuff and do that for a while. And then if you want to coach and you get stuck,
Starting point is 00:55:36 like we're a great place to go. Really appreciate you coming in. Thanks, man. It's been a huge honor for real. Yeah, coming in. Really appreciate it. Hey guys, you know where to find us? Ryanisright.com.
Starting point is 00:55:48 We'll have links to everything here. We'll go back and add the link to his book. Once it's available online, we'll also drop some highlight clips later in the year from this episodes where you can get Nat's book. He's a real motivator. I like him. He's here. He's barbell logic.
Starting point is 00:56:02 You know where to find me at Ryan Ryan Alford on all the platforms. We'll see you next time on Right About Now. This has been Right About Now with Ryan Alford, a Radcast Network production. Visit RyanIsRight.com for full audio and video versions of the show or to inquire about sponsorship opportunities. Thanks for listening.

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