#RolandMartinUnfiltered - Will Smith's Slap, Fla. Hotel Worker Attacked, Arrested & Fired, BNC's Downfall, Oral Health
Episode Date: March 29, 20223.28.2022 #RolandMartinUnfiltered: Will Smith's Slap, Fla. Hotel Worker Attacked, Arrested & Fired, BNC's Downfall, Oral Health It's the day after the slap seen and heard by millions. The academy ...has launched a formal review of the incident. We have two professionals to break down the Will Smith - Chris Rock Oscar drama that shocked everyone around the world. Trenton, New Jersey police department releases body cam video of the shooting that left Jajuan Henderson paralyzed from the chest down. A Florida hotel employee gets attacked by a guest. He defends himself, ends up arrested unemployed. A white Maryland delegate is back peddling for her response about the dislike of a judge's ruling on the state's congressional district. Plus, I'll have more on the dissolution of the Black News Channel that left hundreds scrambling to find employment and internships. And dentist Dr. Lucia Johnson is back to talk about oral health in this week's Fit, Live Win segment. #RolandMartinUnfiltered partner: Nissan | Check out the ALL NEW 2022 Nissan Frontier! As Efficient As It Is Powerful! 👉🏾 https://bit.ly/3FqR7bP Support #RolandMartinUnfiltered and #BlackStarNetwork via the Cash App ☛ https://cash.app/$rmunfiltered PayPal ☛ https://www.paypal.me/rmartinunfiltered Venmo ☛https://venmo.com/rmunfiltered Zelle ☛ roland@rolandsmartin.com Annual or monthly recurring #BringTheFunk Fan Club membership via paypal ☛ https://rolandsmartin.com/rmu-paypal/ Download the #BlackStarNetwork app on iOS, AppleTV, Android, Android TV, Roku, FireTV, SamsungTV and XBox 👉🏾 http://www.blackstarnetwork.com #RolandMartinUnfiltered and the #BlackStarNetwork are news reporting platforms covered under Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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coming up on Roland Martin Unfiltered,
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the slap seen and heard around the world.
We're going to break down what happened last night
at the 94th annual Oscar ceremony
where Will Smith took offense to a joke that Chris Rock
made about his wife, Jada Pinkett Smith,
and he actually walked up
and smacked Chris Rock
in his mouth.
The Academy says they're now investigating.
They are looking at taking action
against Will Smith.
We'll break it all down.
You've got sisters talking about
black women need to be protected.
You've got brothers talking about toxic masculinity. You've got sisters talking about black women need to be protected.
You've got brothers talking about toxic masculinity.
You've got others talking about black on black violence.
And the notion of role models and how we behave
to solve our differences when it comes to violence.
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Macbeth Loved it I love the part where it said,
King Lando got nothing on me.
Y'all gotta see it.
It's really good.
You know who's got the hardest job tonight?
Javier Bardem and his wife are both nominated.
Now, if she loses,
he can't win!
He is praying
that Will Smith wins,
please, Lord!
Jada,
I love you. G.I. Jane 2,
can't wait to see it. All right?
That was a nice one. Okay.
I'm out here. Uh-oh.
Richard?
Oh, wow.
Wow.
Will Smith just smacked the shit out of me.
Keep my wife's name out your fucking mouth.
Wow, dude.
Yes.
It was a G.I. Jane joke.
Keep my wife's name
out your fucking mouth.
I'm going to, okay?
Oh, okay. That was the greatest night in the history of television. Okay. Okay. So we are here to give a documentary out, to give an Oscar
out for best documentary.
Now, the beauty of documentaries, because they make you, when you watch one, you feel smart, like you watched them, like, you know, like you read a book or something.
But all you really did was get high and watch Netflix.
So here we go.
Here we go.
Chris Rock said, wow.
I think all across the world, people were saying, wow.
That's exactly what I was saying when we saw what took place when Will Smith walked on stage and hit Chris Rock in the mouth.
Now, many people thought what took place was a part of the act, thought it was staged.
In the United States, what we saw was we actually saw there was a delay,
and all of a sudden there was a skipping point.
The audio dropped out.
Well, the video you just saw was the international feed,
because remember, the Oscars is a worldwide telecast,
and so that was the Australian feed.
Then you had the Japanese feed, where you did not have a delay
like you had in the United States.
And so, and then, as the night went on,
then they went to a commercial break.
And then someone who was at the event
put this video on social media,
and you will see Denzel Washington.
I'm sorry, not Denzel, Denzel.
Remember when we talked about it, his name was Denzel.
Denzel Washington and Tyler Perry and Bradley Cooper,
you see them consoling Will Smith
and then you see Denzel walking over to Jada,
consoling her, roll it. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. And we are 30 seconds away.
We need to clear down front, please.
We're going to come into the audience
at the beginning of this act.
Please take your seats.
Thank you.
25 seconds. Please clear your seats. Thank you. 25 seconds.
Please clear the aisles down front.
15.
Please clear the front, please.
Clear, thank you.
10 seconds.
Five, four, three.
Now, again, folks, absolutely shocked by this.
After it happened, Will Smith returns to his seat.
Now, what you did not see there, because a lot of people are saying that people were there to console Will Smith and not Chris Rock, not true.
Denzel Washington went up to the stage, and actually there was a photo that circulated where he actually was talking to Chris Rock, calming the situation down.
Completely unexpected.
And trust me, the producers had no idea.
Last night when it happened, I text a number of people who were in the room, including the folks involved.
Yes, Will, Chris, and others sent various text messages to them.
And so that wasn't planned.
I know people are saying, oh, that looked fake.
That was not fake.
That actually happened.
That was real.
Folks have been saying all kind of stuff today. Oh, my goodness, what was this all about?
In a moment, we're gonna show you what Chris Rock said,
cracked a joke about Jada six years ago,
but a few later, after this all...
all this all happened, they awarded Best Actor.
And Will Smith actually went up and accepted.
He won. He's been winning that, uh, for King Richard
in all of the award shows.
And he addressed what happened.
And he apologized, but not to everybody.
Richard Williams was a fierce defender of his family.
In this time in my life, in this moment,
I am overwhelmed by what God is calling on me to do and be in this world.
Making this film, I got to protect Anjanue Ellis,
who was one of the most strongest, most delicate people I've ever met.
I got to protect Sanaya and Demi, the two actresses that played Venus and Serena. I'm being called on in my life
to love people
and to protect people
and to be a river to my people.
And I know to do what we do, you got to be able to take abuse.
You got to be able to have people talk crazy about you.
In this business, you got to be able to have people
disrespecting you. And you got to smile and you got to pretend like that's okay.
But Richard Williams, and what I loved, thank you, D, Denzel said to me a few minutes ago, he said, at your highest moment, be careful, that's when the to lie to you. I'm not going to lie to you. I'm not going to lie to you.
It's like, I want to be a vessel for love.
I want to say thank you to Venus and Serena.
I just spit.
I hope they didn't see that on TV. I want to say thank you to Venus and Serena and the entire Williams family for entrusting me with your story.
That's what I want to do.
I want to be an ambassador of that kind of love and care and concern.
I want to apologize to the Academy.
I want to apologize to all my fellow nominees.
This is a beautiful moment, and I'm not crying for winning an award.
It's not about winning an award
for me.
It's about being able to shine
light on all of the people, Tim
and Trevor and Zach and Sanaya
and Demi and the entire cast and
crew of king Richard and Venus
and Serena, the entire cast and crew of King Richard and Venus
and Serena, the entire Williams family.
Now, remember, people don't realize there's history here.
We're talking about Chris Rock at the Oscar ceremony and Jada and Will. This is
when Chris was hosting the Oscars six years ago in 2016.
Spike got mad and Jonathan got mad and Jada went mad and Will went mad. Everybody went
mad. You know, it's quite like Jada got mad Jada says she's not coming
Protests
Jada's gonna boycott the Oscars Jada boycott in the Oscars is like me boycottin Rihanna's panties. I
Wasn't invited Oh, that's not an invitation I would turn down.
All right.
I want to unpack this.
Dr. Jeffrey Gardier joins us.
He's a board-certified clinical psychologist from Weston, Connecticut.
Glad to have him back on the show.
Robin May, a licensed professional counselor from Decatur, Georgia. Glad to have you here. Also on my panel is Dr. Julian Malveaux,
Dean, College of Ethnic Studies, California State University, Los Angeles. Dr. Amakongo
Dabinga, Professorial Lecturer, School of International Service, American University.
Dr. Avis Jones-DeWeaver, political analyst. So, Robin, I want to start with you.
Last night was real difficult. It was difficult because I know Will, I know Jada, I know Chris,
I know many of the people who were there last night. I saw a lot of people,
sisters who I know,
talking about protect black women,
defend black women,
Jada dealing with alopecia,
losing her hair.
There were people who were talking about toxic masculinity and they they were saying, uh, Team Will and Team Chris,
and Chris should not have been doing those jokes.
Others who were saying, look, man, it's a joke.
You got to take a joke.
They were hitting other people in the room as well.
What we're not going to do tonight
is try to go deep into, oh, why did Will do this?
Oh, was it entertainment? Was it this?
Was it this? He should have done this to the other person.
What we need to focus on and what I want to focus on
is the fact that a grown black man
on an international stage
walked up and smacked another grown Black man in his face.
And Robin, we have to deal with the issue
how we handle situations
that does not involve violence.
Absolutely. You know...
Roland, I literally was speechless last night.
My husband had to keep rewinding it
because I refused to watch it.
And I believe what we saw last night
was a display of what happens
when we don't consistently do the work.
I don't know them the way you do.
I don't know them at all. And so it's very easy for me
to be on the outside looking in. But I believe what we saw was this. The truth is that was just
10% of what's going on. Anybody who's done therapy or psychology one-on-one knows that
that's just 10% of what is really going on. That was a lot happening in that moment.
And to your point, trying to dissect that is fruitless at this point. What we do need to
identify though, is that what we saw is when you don't consistently deal with your stuff,
when you stuff, when you ignore, when you put it on the shelf, it will come out,
and it will come out in ways that you may never have expected.
And so I think the issue has been convoluted.
Of course we must protect Black women.
Of course there is a real thing called toxic masculinity.
Of course there are times when jokes can go too far.
But I think we're convoluting the issue.
And to your very point, what we need to determine is, is there a standard of expectation of how we behave when we are triggered?
Because what we don't realize, one of my girlfriends is a teacher in Philly.
And she shared with us that this morning the news cameras were outside of her school because she her school is
right near an area where there's a mural of Will Smith and so these teachers were having to talk
to their students about what is that okay was that behavior okay and so I think the bigger question
the bigger idea is do we want to call for a standard of behavior? And what happens when you don't deal with your own triggers?
When you don't deal with your stuff consistently,
what are the ramifications of that?
Jeff, I'm going to do something here.
Guys, pull up the video that we started with.
Because I think it's important for people, Jeff,
to walk through and understand what we witnessed.
And so, folks, play the video and listen to my cue,
and I want you to stop it,
because I'm going to do this for a reason.
Press play.
Inzel McBeth loved it!
I love the part where it said,
King Lado got nothing on me.
Y'all got to see it.
It's really good.
You know who's got the hardest job tonight?
Javier Bardem and his wife are both nominated.
Now, if she loses, he can't win.
He is praying that Will Smith wins, but please, Lord!
Freeze.
Now, Chris tells the joke Jeff about Denzel,
then Javier, and Penelope.
Joke is over.
Then he transitions to the joke about Jada.
Press play.
Jada, I love you. G.I. Jane 2.
Can't wait to see it, all right?
Stop.
What you see right there...
No, go back to the...
What you see right there, Jeff,
Will laughs at the joke.
The room laughs at the joke. The room laughs at the joke.
You see the look on Jada's face.
Press play.
That was a nice one.
Okay.
I'm out here.
Freeze.
So Jeff, in between laughing, the room responds.
The room responds.
Then Will stands up.
You heard Robin say, trigger it.
Something happened between him laughing at the joke,
room responding, and then him standing up.
And it's in that moment where everything changed.
Yeah, what I think I saw, I'm not totally sure here,
but what I think I saw was that he was laughing at the joke,
whether he was nervously laughing,
just going along with the room.
But then when he sees the look on his wife's face, when he looks at Jada's face,
and she appears to be, she rolls her eyes, and she's not appreciating that joke.
And let's be aware here, Roland, that Chris Rock made jokes about other people more about perhaps their film roles or character or relationships. That joke made about
Jada was about her personal appearance, and therefore it was a more perhaps raw joke.
And so that's just an aside. But bottom line is, I believe that when Will saw Jada's face and saw how hurt she may have been
or how annoyed she was by that,
then felt perhaps some sort of obligation
to react in a way, certainly an overreaction,
but to protect her in some sort of way,
certainly not the right way, but the need to do something.
And many people have been saying,
you can't let somebody disrespect your wife.
You must protect your wife.
And I totally understand their point.
But when you are also the one
who then initiates the physical assault,
and folks, let me be real clear,
we witnessed a physical assault,
Will Smith against Chris Rock.
You put your hands on somebody else,
unprovoked, words are not, that ain't it.
That's not stand your ground, okay?
That's not self-defense.
That's a physical assault,
which is why the LAPD released their statement
saying that Chris Rock, they said, a person who was involved, chose not to pursue a police report, was not going to press charges. is that when Will makes that move to stand up,
that's also the moment when, for me,
your wife has to reach over, bae, hold up.
See, it's in those moments where husband has to know
when to let the wife know, hold up.
Wife, let husband know, hold up.
Because when you escalate a situation,
then it goes to a whole new level
as opposed to allowing something to pass.
You might be angry, you might be hurt,
you might be pissed off,
but when you then escalate it, then it goes to a whole new level, Robin.
Yeah, and I think, you know, people are often surprised when I share this with them, Roland,
when the reason why therapists like me, and I'm sure Dr. Jeff,
we often stress the importance of knowing your triggers,
because what happens is in our brains, once you get triggered,
I like to describe it like a roller coaster.
Have you ever been on a roller coaster
and it's going up and it gets to the top
and you feel like, wait a minute, wait a minute,
I'm ready to get off of this thing,
but now it's going down and you've lost control.
What happens when we are triggered
and our anger starts to rise?
Some psychologists have found that as your anger rises,
your IQ goes down.
And so that's why we stress the importance of getting in there and knowing what your triggers are and not only knowing what your triggers are.
So you're a point rolling, having people around you who can help you or having go to tools that you can pull from.
Because once that train gets up the track or once that roller coaster starts going up, it's very difficult to
pull it back. So that's why I continue to harp on the fact that several things can be true at the
same time. He absolutely could have been triggered. And it is absolutely true that there are
consequences from that type of behavior. And so I would love for all of us to continue like you're
doing, Roland, to elevate the conversation. Because here's the
bottom line. Joe at work tomorrow won't have the same luxuries that Will had. I won't have the
same luxuries that Will had. If I behave in that way, the consequences are going to be so much
different. So it's important for us to take this and elevate the conversation and encourage people,
figure out what your triggers are and understand how your brain works. Understand the importance of taking those three seconds
to do some deep breaths so that you can calm down that trigger
so that you can act more appropriately.
You know, Jeff, it's interesting, Jeff.
I was just sitting here looking, you know,
we've got thousands of people who are on our, um,
YouTube channel watching the Black Star Network app.
Uh, and there's this person on the app, who are on our YouTube channel, watching the Black Star Network app.
And there's this person on the app,
Queen something, I don't know what the hell,
Queen said, roller talk, all that shit,
but he's soft AF.
Now, his was interesting.
First of all, Queen, you can't trigger me.
The words don't mean nothing.
We all grew up and we were told, sticks and stones may break my bones, but words would ever hurt me.
See, Jeff, it was very interesting when I watched that.
I thought back to something when I was in high school.
We were at my brother's high school in Jones High School in Houston.
And we were, my dad was driving, my mom was in the driver's seat, and we're in the back seat.
And we were backing up.
And you had some brothers. They were hanging out, music playing, talking loud, and they sort of were blocking us, and then my dad reacted, he was like, damn it!
I mean, so, he, I mean, he was ticked at the guys.
My mom, Reginald, she really calms him Now Why is that important?
Because
In that split of a second
The decision is
I can fast forward
If you get out, confront them
It may lead to a fight
Somebody may get stabbed
Somebody may get shot
All of a sudden, if it goes horribly bad
I'm a widow with five kids
Flip side, Jeff, my parents were visiting me.
My dad came to the office with me.
We were leaving the office, and we were pulling out,
and these folks were sitting here blocking,
and I got upset at them.
I was like, damn it, move the hell away.
My dad was like, son, son, calm down.
And then he said, when's the last time you went to the doctor to get your blood pressure checked?
I was like, dad, my blood pressure's fine.
But it was interesting because I saw, I witnessed as a kid, my mom bring the situation down because it could escalate. And what I learned from that as a kid, Jeff,
is if I bumped into a bruh in the club,
I didn't immediately go to,
damn, what's wrong with you, punk?
Say, bruh, my bad, sorry about that.
How we react to a situation
then determines how the situation
either escalates
or de-escalates.
Well, I
agree with you. You had made a point
earlier about perhaps Jada
should have reached over and stopped him.
I hate to think
of this being about Jada or something
that Jada did wrong or could
not... Oh, he should have stopped himself.
Right. But I'm just saying that when you're with,
I've experienced that when somebody is about to go there,
to Robert's point, they ain't thinking right,
you need somebody else to say, hold up.
Right.
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You know, trying to figure out what happened,
but certainly this is something that could have happened
in a split second, not giving her enough time
or even understanding what was about to happen with
getting up in that way. But all of that being said, you know, I think we're all really, you know,
moving in the right track here. We can't go back and change what happened. But certainly this needs
to be a lesson to everyone that when you're in that fight and flight sort of situation and the adrenaline is pumping and you have that rage and you just don't know what to do with it, don't do anything with it unless you're saving someone's life, protecting someone's life.
These issues of using jokes or saying something that hurts someone, you have to have that social IQ.
You have to own that situation by saying, okay, we're going to stay calm, but we're having a
discussion about that later on. And that's something he could have done during the acceptance
speech, because I think we all knew that he was going to win, you know, this Oscar. That's
something that he could have had a conversation with Chris Rock later on. But what he... I believe he did,
and I feel badly for everyone involved,
I really believe that he dishonored himself.
He dishonored his family by behaving in that way,
by doing something like that in front of the whole world.
Um, and this is something that, you know,
that Will has to live with for the rest of his life.
And there you go.
The moment...
And this is...
He has been...
He has been waiting for this moment.
He has been...
He wanted to win it for Concussion,
for other movie roles,
and Mountaintop.
You at the Mountaintop.
This is the crowning achievement of your career,
winning Best Actor.
Only the fourth African-American in history.
Sidney Poitier, Denzel Washington,
Jamie Foxx, Forrest Whitaker.
I saw the fifth. Will becomes the fifth to win Best Actor.
On the 20th anniversary of Halle and Denzel winning.
Her becoming the first black woman to win best actress, Denzel winning his second one.
But the thing that, why this is important, Robin and Jeff, is because here are two rich
black men at the Oscars.
That same situation we've seen on the streets,
in clubs, on the basketball court.
We've seen it in the school hallway.
And what we, it is important for us to say that
even if you're Will Smith, even if you're Chris Rock,
even if you're Jada Pinkett Smith, if you're anybody else,
how you resolve a conflict and you cannot go to the violence piece. And trust me,
I got a wife, I got three sisters, I got nine nieces, a mama. I am absolutely there when it
comes to protecting black women. But part of protecting black women is also Black men protecting yourself
by not creating a situation
where you may not be around tomorrow.
You know, um, Roland, that's the reason why the response...
...or where that reputation may be harmed
and the reputation of others.
You know, unfortunately,
Will took a lot out of that situation, you know, really,
you know, sucked the air out of that room. There were so many people who were celebrating. There
were many firsts there, firsts for sexualities, firsts for, you know, many things. We saw it was
well integrated in a way that we really needed to see. And so let me share this with you. Very
super quick story. I was at a wedding with my wife about two years ago. Someone said something to her
and I was very offended by it. And it was very offensive. Look, I protect my wife. I protect
my children. But I knew that if I acted out at that wedding, it would destroy
the wedding for the people who are getting married. I would end up in jail. What is Dr.
Jeff doing in jail after an assault, right? And certainly, I would have to deal with the
repercussion of overreacting. If you talk the talk, you got to walk the walk.
As psychologists, we talk about impulse control.
That would have ruined me professionally.
And so I think that's what everyone needs to think about before they act out when they're in that rage,
the importance of breathing,
sitting back, and figuring out
how to use your social IQ
to work through that situation.
Robin?
Okay, and so here's the deal.
If I have a seven-year-old daughter,
if my seven-year-old daughter jumps in the pool,
she's gonna make a little wave.
But, honey, if I jump in the pool,
my wave is gonna be much bigger than Riley's.
What is my point?
Will carries a lot of power.
And so when he makes...
And the reality is that power has opened up doors
and opportunity for him. So the same way it's opened up doors and opportunity is the same way
it's important that how he responds and others with any type of platform, how they respond
to your point, Roland, will have long-term ramifications. If we celebrate this, if we minimize this, what we are teaching is that it is
okay to respond physically. Now, here is the point, exactly what Dr. Jeff said, but the challenge is
you can't learn the tools in the moment. You have to have the tools beforehand. You have to already
know how you choose to handle when you are triggered. You can't get in the moment and
say, somebody give me some tools. That's the importance of developing social IQ, emotional IQ
well before you're in that moment. And let me say this last thing that's important for us to
understand with the commentary that we are hearing. People view, human nature is that we view
situations through our own lived experiences. We view
situations through our lived experiences. And so when I'm scrolling through Facebook,
I can tell what people have been through based on how intense their response is.
And it takes great intention to step back and look at a situation objectively so that we can
pull back, hopefully, some of the long-term ramifications that can come from this.
Will still has an opportunity to course-correct.
He cannot fix, but he can course-correct,
and he can change the conversation
because, to everyone's point,
this was the first Oscar produced by, uh,
by Will Packer, by a Black man.
No, no, no, no, no. Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up.
It was an all-black production team.
It's not the first.
Quincy Jones produced the Oscars
the night when Whoopi Goldberg did it before.
Reggie Hutler's been one of the producers.
Jesse Collins was on the production team last year.
So, all right, people have been saying that.
Yeah, so just let everybody know,
the lead production team, all-black,
Will Packer, my frat brother, and Shayla.
But you've had Blacks leading the production team at the Oscars before.
Go ahead.
Okay, thank you for correcting that,
because I was over here with my poster board about it being the first time.
But still to that very point,
a Black production team with a Black male actor,
with a Black comedian, the reality is we cannot,
and this is just the conversation I want us to really have,
we cannot minimize the ripple effect.
And so this is an opportunity to, if you have a platform,
if you have 500 to 10,000 people on your Facebook,
on your Instagram, how you communicate about this
will be the game changer.
And I'm just hoping that we'll course correct and will communicate this in a way that can change the idea that physical response or violent response is appropriate.
Last question for you, Jeff, and then I'm going to go to the panel.
Do you believe that the next step, and again, the Academy, they're launching an investigation.
They may take action against Will.
Do you believe the next step should be
where Will Smith and Chris Rock sit down face-to-face
and Will apologizes for his actions?
Or do you believe Chris should apologize for the joke?
Um, what do you think should happen next, Jeff? Because
here's the deal. This is not going
away. People, my
social media feed has been this
all day long. It's not
going away.
I think certainly that
Will should sit down with
Chris Rock because that
will show how we can work out
our disagreements. This is along what
Robin is saying. Where do we take the narrative next? And it is about conflict resolution,
because friends or acquaintances or people you don't even know, sometimes you may get into
some sort of an issue or a conflict, but it's important to work it out because we grow from
one another. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with Chris Rock saying,
if he hasn't done it already, to say, Jada, I'm sorry.
I didn't mean to, you know, land that low blow.
I didn't realize that it was something that was so sensitive to you.
I was just making a joke.
But I hurt you, and I apologize.
But I think the bigger apology at this point needs to come from Will Smith
to not just
Chris Rock, but to everyone
at the Academy, to everyone
of color, to
everyone in America, to everyone in the
world, and then show his class
and be able to grow from that
and deal with whatever issues
that he still needs to deal with.
I believe that's where the narrative really needs to go.
Robin May, Dr. Jeff Gardia, I certainly appreciate it. Thanks a lot.
Thank you.
Thank you for having me.
Let's go to my panel. I want to start first with Julianne Malveaux.
Julianne, how did you look at this? How did you assess it?
But also, how do you look at the reaction of so many different people in the aftermath of this,
especially black men and black women?
Well, I think Sister Robin had a really good point
when she talked about triggers,
and the issue is who's triggered by what.
Now, I find Chris Rock to be extremely misogynistic,
and I think he crossed the line.
You know, I'm a little pugilistic, Roland,
so if I was a dude, I probably would have smacked him too.
And that's not the politically correct answer.
But he has talked under Jada's clothes more than once.
And Will probably is obviously sensitive about it.
And when I saw Jada roll her eyes,
I mean, she was like, I'm just not having this today.
Now, I don't know if she said something to Will,
because he did laugh at it at first, and then he kind of, you know, gathered
himself. But I think that Chris Rock needs to watch himself. And I think Will Smith also needs
to watch himself, because even though I said I would have slapped him, obviously I wouldn't have.
I could have got up on the stage. But it was wrong. Physical violence is always wrong, and we all know that.
Metaphoric violence, not so much. I was horrified by the whole thing because of everything everybody
has said. But at the same time, I'm looking at this misogynistic man who constantly says
ugly things about Black women. Not women, Black women. And we deserve to be lifted up, not dragged down by that kind of
thing. Alopecia is serious. As women, our attractiveness is seen in our hair. Even folks
like me, I mean, I can grow hair, but I don't have much. And folks, can you grow hair? I remember
when I was at Bennett College, a board member sent me a box of hair products so that I could
grow my hair out.
Didn't want to.
But our attractiveness as women
is connected to our crowning glory.
And so that was ugly and unnecessary.
We know the sisters, like Ayanna Pressley,
congresswoman, who has alopecia.
That was just ugly and unnecessary.
And while he didn't necessarily...
The whole encounter was ugly.
Chris Rock started it.
Avis? And while he didn't necessarily... The whole encounter was ugly, Chris Rock started it.
Avis?
Okay, so I'm gonna continue down the lane of perhaps being, uh, unpolitically correct.
Uh, I...
The show's called Unfiltered for a reason.
Wonderful.
So, when I...
When I look at this take in everything in terms of what happened and even the discussion that we just had, two quotes come to mind.
First, Malcolm X, black women are the most disrespected and the most unprotected.
Second is Zora Neale Houston, black women are the mules of the world.
And I put those two quotes together because of this.
What happened and the reason why I think you're seeing the differences, particularly among the sexes and generally, generally in terms of the interpretation of this,
is that as Black women, we understand that it is often that we are publicly disparaged
with regards to our physical appearance.
We understand that in this culture,
our beauty is not held up
as the quote-unquote beauty standard.
We also know that our hair is oftentimes,
even as little girls,
tends to often be the butt of our jokes, the butt of people's
jokes against us. And that is something that can literally last a lifetime. All right. Now,
I will say this also about Jada Pinkett Smith's autoimmune disease, which led to the alopecia.
Here's the thing. She spoke about this months ago and talked about how traumatic it was
being in the shower and having clumps of her hair falling out and at first not really even
understanding what was going on and how for so many years she enjoyed having hair and styling
it different ways and using that as part of an expression of her self-identity. And guess what? Will was there the entire time.
He likely wiped her tears.
He saw the trauma that she was going through
in terms of this health experience that she had,
which led to the loss of her hair.
And to sit there beside his wife and have,
who, by the way, is also an actress, so she's not just Will Smith's
wife, she's an actress. She was there not only being witnessed by the whole world in terms of
having this very personal and offensive joke specifically targeted at her appearance, that
happened to her in front of her professional peers. And we also know that in Hollywood,
particularly for women, your physical attractiveness
is connected... directly connected to your check
and whether or not you can get a chance to get the next job.
And so I find that to be a...
I found it to be a personal attack on her as a woman.
I found it to be a personal attack on her as a woman. I found it to be a personal attack on her specifically as a Black woman.
I found it to be a personal attack on her professional respect that she should have been given.
And I can't imagine, I saw a lot of people say, a lot of Black men saying,
oh, he wouldn't have done that if it was a white male comedian.
Well, I would venture to say that Chris Rock would not have
chastised a white female actress
on her appearance in that way.
I just found it to be
supremely offensive,
supremely misogynistic,
not only misogynistic,
misogynoir-like,
specifically attacking this black woman.
And quite frankly,
I understand why Will did what he did. I am completely team Will. Yes, he's going to have a blowback because of this. I'm waiting
for the apology from Chris Rock. And I specifically have to say really quickly, I find it offensive
that anyone would want to shift the responsibility for Will's behavior on Jada Pinkett Smith.
That's the part where the mule of the world comes in.
Okay, so black women, we're supposed to not only take abuse,
we're responsible for stopping people's behavior
before it happens.
No, okay?
But, Avis, let's stay right on that particular point there.
Because, again, if we take this example
outside of the Oscars,
and we take this in our communities,
we have the examples of individuals
where there have been differences,
where words were exchanged,
and folks ended up dead.
And when we've seen these things happen, we go, man, I can't believe that that thing went from that to that.
We've seen the stories of folks at a party, and then all of a sudden, something is said,
and words exchange, and it immediately goes to guns get pulled out, innocent bystanders getting killed.
So at what point in this conversation do we say we have to resolve differences
that does not involve violence?
I am not saying...
First of all, I just don't want us to conflate issues,
because I think what you're talking about
is a broader issue of community violence
that absolutely...
No, I'm not. No, I'm not.
I'm talking a very specific one.
I'm talking a very specific one.
I'm talking examples of brothers
who bump each other in a club
or someone steps on a shoe,
words escalate, as opposed to saying,
say, bro, my bad,
then all of a sudden there's a shooting.
What I'm saying is, last night was a perfect example.
Something is said,
you feel disrespected,
and Will's response was to walk up and slap him in the face.
You take that very
situation outside the Oscars
and anywhere else
and things are going to escalate.
We do have to isolate that
and say, how do we,
when you're faced with a conflict,
how do you resolve it that doesn't entail you punching somebody in the face?
Well, once again, I do, honestly, I see that as apples and oranges.
I certainly think it is horrible and there needs to be a better way of resolving minor infractions on people,
stepping on people's shoes, all of that stuff.
We know that has happened.
When I'm thinking about this from a thousand-foot level
in terms of how Black women are commonly disrespected,
and I'm thinking about it from a historic standpoint
in terms of, by contrast, how white womanhood
has always been overly protected,
which also has led to the death of Black men.
Let's be real about that, okay?
And so what I'm saying right now, though, is we have to have some real, very specific
conversations about all the things that may have been going on with Will to trigger him.
And I'll just quickly say, because I get mad every time I see another meme
around August and entanglements, okay?
Because here's an example of my take on toxic masculinity.
This is not how people oftentimes have been talking
about this in relation to this.
But I find it very interesting that a couple
who have said that they had a period
in which they were apart,
in which it seems like they had somewhat
of an open marriage arrangement.
But when it became public that the female of that couple had a relationship,
all of a sudden, not only is she very much attacked,
but Will is very much attacked for staying with her.
Now, contrast that against Chris Rock,
who has been very open about his multiple infidelities against his wife,
which ultimately led to his divorce, which is why he don't have a wife right now to protect.
All right. Yet I have yet to see one meme about that behavior.
Yet I have yet to see one person criticize him around doing something to destroy his family, rather seeing all of this criticism against both
Will and Jada, who have chosen to maintain their family. You know, I think there's a lot
that we need to unpack here about how we are treating people differently in ways that puts
Black women at the center of a bullseye in terms of being bullied, in terms of being shamed,
in terms of being disrespected in multiple ways.
And I think that night, that night,
Will had had enough.
And as... I can't remember who...
It was a comedian who said this once.
And I remember he said,
it may not have been right, but I understand.
And I have to... Yeah, Avis.
Avis, the comedian you're quoting is Chris Rock.
Oh! Well, then...
I'm a Congo.
You're quoting Chris...
You're actually quoting Chris Rock.
But you're... But...
But you're quoting a comedic routine.
So, hold up. You're not... No, no.
You're not quoting a speech or a keynote.
You're quoting a comedic routine,
which was done talking about O.J. Simpson
and Nicole Simpson, which also was a joke.
And that's the issue right there on Macongo
that people are raising that, hey, at these award shows,
they have comedians there, they make jokes.
The show opened with a joke about Will,
Regina Hall saying, yeah, Will, come on up.
Y'all thing is open.
I know you're married, but come on up here.
She laughed, he laughed.
And so what people are also saying is like, hold up.
Now, you laugh at the joke at the top Regina made,
but then you get mad at the joke that Chris made.
Now, if we're going to sit here and say,
well, you know, don't make jokes about the entanglement,
Regina did, both laughed.
These are the things that we're dealing with here,
but the point that I'm still making, Omicongo,
people also are looking at this.
It's how we resolve differences, and I'm still making on the Congo, people also are looking at this. It's how we resolve differences.
And I'm just simply saying,
the way to resolve it is not
slapping somebody in the mouth
because Chris Rock, actually,
if he responded,
and we got to be honest here,
Chris Rock was the ultimate professional
with how he responded.
Chris could have swung on a wheel.
Chris could have fired back and lit off a litany of jokes,
Robin Harris style.
But Chris didn't.
Gathered himself, moved forward, presented the award.
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Omokongo, your thoughts?
You know, this hurts.
I'm going to start there.
This really, really hurts in terms of community.
You know, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith
have been role models for me since day one.
I've been rolling with them since the 80s and the 90s.
As someone who was involved, I still rap. I do spoken word, acting and stuff. But I was trying,
when I was looking at going hard in it, those guys were my role models.
So, any affection any of y'all have for any celebrity, like strong affection,
those two are for me. So, and then Chris Rock a little bit later on.
And today I taught my class on Jay-Z at American University
and our subject today was actually the Jay-Z beef
between Jay-Z and Nas.
And so I'm gonna quote a Jay-Z line
as I give my response to this.
And one of his songs, he says,
"'Check out my swag, yo, I walk like a ball player.
No matter where you go, you are what you are, player.
And you can try and change, but that's just the top layer. Man, you was who you was when you got before you got here.
My issue is this. I feel like there's an overarching idea of misogyny that encompasses
what Will Smith did and what Chris Rock did. Because the fact of the matter is that I don't
hear people talk that much about Jada, but I'm wondering if Will Smith was defending Jada
or if he was defending his wife.
When you read his book, Will,
which was a very powerful book and motivational for me
because I love what he has done so much,
he talks about a situation where his girlfriend at the time
was going out and he was with his boys,
and he was like, no, I think you should go upstairs.
And she's like, no, I'm going out.
Now you should stay. But she leaves.
He takes all of her stuff and burns it.
Okay? He talks about that.
He also talks about coming from an abusive household
where he felt that his, he couldn't protect his mother
from his father's abuse.
And then we talk about situations at NBC
with the Fresh Prince when he almost gets into fights
with producers there,
and he talks about how his old mentality comes out.
And I feel like that was a situation there.
And I feel like given that he was laughing when the joke was first given
and saw her response, there was more about protecting what's mine
than protecting Jada.
Don't keep my wife name out of your mouth.
And that's where I find it to be problematic.
I think that what Chris Rock did was wrong.
I feel like Will Smith might not have responded as much if it was like The Rock as opposed to Chris Rock.
But I feel like ultimately Will Smith has to take the full blame for what happened because you can't do that,
especially when you work to build your career as a role model. And for those who defend him, you know, we can't condone violence between us and then condemn violence against us.
It's wrong. We can't do that, period, bottom line. And so I'm saying that we need to figure out how
they can work this thing out. He crafted his whole career about being a role model for the people,
and he let our people down in that moment, and it needs to be recognized.
And but it just hurts all the way around.
I hate the way Jada's being tossed around
as some type of football in this situation is wrong.
And we just need to do better in our community.
And the last thing, Roland, like you said,
us defending our wives does not have to lead to violence.
And it's very easy for us to be taken from our community,
incarcerated, lose our job, lose our children,
and all of that other type of stuff.
And whether you're at the Oscars
or whether you're in the hood or whether you're on a job,
we have to be mindful of that.
There's lots of ways to protect your family
without resorting to physical violence,
especially public violence.
Will Smith has a larger platform than Chris Rock.
There's a lot of ways he could get back at him.
He can get his revenge, he can get his payback,
and he can defend his wife.
There's lots of ways he could do it.
Violence can't be part of it.
You know, um...
as I said last night on Instagram,
as I said when I started this,
um, this...
I... Just like you said, I'm a Congo.
It was painful.
It was difficult because I know the players involved.
I often, this whole awards season, every time Will won an award,
I would send him a text, congratulations.
And I actually sent him a text before the award show, I often, I frequently communicate
with Tyler Perry and Denzel's wife, Pauletta, and others, people who were in there.
So yeah.
Matter of fact, I didn't go to bed until 5.30 because I was on the phone last night.
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Tonight with other comedians, other folks in Hollywood, folks were like, I mean, this,
this was traumatic for a lot of people because it was complete.
No one in their right mind would have said on their bingo card,
Will Smith's going to smack Chris Rock at the Oscars.
Nobody.
If somebody told you that, you'd be like, you've got to be high.
But I will say this. Sorry.
And I know this is hard for some brothers to hear.
And I know it's hard for some sisters to hear.
But I'm saying this from the vantage point of being a son of my daddy and mama,
of being a grandson of my daddy and mama, of being a grandson,
of my grandparents, of being an uncle,
strength is also in walking away.
Strength is also reacting in a way that does not escalate.
Imagine if Will Smith, who I love dearly and respect.
Imagine if Will Smith had walked to that stage and said,
Chris, you my man, we ain't making jokes about alopecia, bro.
That's a major issue affecting my wife.
That's a major issue affecting women all across this world. Now, I know you make
jokes, but there's some things we don't joke about. So, Chris, you did a documentary called Good Hair.
So, you know what the hair thing means to black women and women all across the world.
So, Chris, I say we show some respect for women. Let's not make jokes about their hair.
If Will had done that,
the room would have erupted.
The country
would have erupted.
And folks would be praising
Will today
for defending
his wife
and speaking to the same issue as opposed to throwing a punch.
It's all a matter of how you resolve the situation and deal with the situation.
And I'm going to close on this.
And I was looking for the video. if y'all find the video,
please y'all can go ahead and play it.
That was a party, and I think it was after
the BET Awards or whatever.
And Diddy was on stage.
And Diddy got Serac.
And so Diddy, y'all, I know y'all don't have it,
but I'm describing it for y'all can look it up.
Look up T.I., Diddy, party, Ciroc.
Trust me, it's going to come up.
Diddy's on stage.
Diddy is shouting Ciroc.
Somebody in the audience said, damn that gray goose.
Diddy starts yelling and screaming at the brother in the audience said, damn that, Grey Goose. Diddy starts yelling and screaming at the brother in the audience.
And voices begin to rise.
And it begins to get heated.
And Diddy is cussing him out.
Dude is cussing him out.
Damn that, F this, Sirat, no, Grey Goose.
And then T.I. walks over and says, hey, hey, hey, damn that.
Man, we ain't about to sit here and go to jail over some alcohol.
T.I. says, man, I just got out of prison.
So we going to chill out, play the music, enjoy ourselves, and have a good time.
If T.I. had not done, see again, if T.I. had not done that,
that back and forth over alcohol could have escalated to a whole different situation.
All I'm saying is, is when something goes down,
you get to determine what the outcome is
going to be based upon
your actions.
Me, as a black
man,
my mama and daddy taught me
that. My
grandparents taught me that.
I've tried to teach, I've taught that to my
nieces and nephews. Our reaction
leads to a counter reaction.
And our reaction can very well
determine what then happens
and when something escalates.
And so all I'm saying, you can protect sisters,
you can protect brothers.
And what I also desire of my sisters is that if you are in a
situation and you see your man about to go left, grab him.
Say, bro, get you to chill.
But to brothers, I want you not to have to put your woman in a situation
where she grabs you.
I want you to take a pause and quickly assess,
is this how I want this thing to go?
Because like Jeff and Robin said,
and this really is a sad piece,
for the rest of Will Smith's life,
when they talk about March 27, 2022,
when he won Best Actor,
they will always associate that epic night,
not with his speech, not with the adulation from the crowd.
They will always associate it with him slapping Chris Rock. And people will not be talking about how
he won the best actor for King Richard. They'll be talking about how he struck
Chris Rock and that folks is what's most unfortunate. Pray for all the folks involved. I hope Chris and Will sit down
because we as brothers
and I'm talking right now, I'm not talking to sisters.
I'm talking to black men.
We as black men have got to learn
to sit down across from one another
at the table of brotherhood
and learn to communicate with each other
to resolve our differences
because you cannot resolve differences
with these or with a gun.
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On Friday, I did a full deconstruction
of Black News Channel
and them going down, closing.
Y'all can kill the music.
Going down, closing, and explaining why they closed.
Explaining what happened.
And a lot of y'all were like, man, I had no idea that's how media actually works.
And people need to understand in terms of how do you keep going?
How do you keep doing this?
How do you keep going? How do you keep doing this? How do you keep advancing forward? And it was very interesting because these are some of thePA, and you had CNN did stories,
and all of these other outlets, they did all of these stories.
Y'all didn't pull Los Angeles Times story up?
The LA Times in November just did a large story about BNC
and what they were doing, and the Atlanta Journal-Constitution
actually had stories as well
talking about what they were doing
and how they were thriving
and how they were growing
and what was going on.
And so it goes on and on and on
what was actually happening
in terms of them.
In fact, here is the LA Times story right
here. Black News Channel wants to give a
voice to an underserved audience.
This was in November, y'all.
This story right here.
But here
are the headlines that then dropped when
they shut down on Friday.
Here are the headlines right here.
And you saw them. They were in The Wrap.
They were in USA Today.
They were in The Wall Street Journal.
They were in all of these different outlets showing, again, them shutting down.
Now, why am I walking you through all of that because it's real easy, y'all, for you to get attention when you're
starting something, but the real question is, are you still here later?
Now, why am I showing those stories?
Because do y'all realize that in three and a half years of us launching this show, I've
had three publicists try to get stories done on us
in the same outlets.
We've even pitched the stories to mainstream media outlets
that black people are the editors of.
Nobody has bitten.
Wall Street Journal, L.A. Times, New York Times,
USA Today, Broadcasting Cable, Multichannel News,
The Wrap, Deadline, Variety, Media Ike.
I mean, we can go on and on and on.
On all of these outlets, nothing done.
Now, see, some of y'all probably would get discouraged by, man, we out here doing this work and we building something and we're not getting any attention and nobody's showing us any love and nobody's covering us.
Yet, when that was happening, I didn't get mad.
I didn't get frustrated. All we did was
keep building. And there were folks who were sitting here saying, man, y'all should be doing
this and rolling. Why aren't you over here? And why aren't you, you should be trying to get your
show on a network. And I'm sitting there going, don't you understand that if I tried to get a show on a network, they own the
show and I'm an employee?
See, a lot of us have been raised
to get jobs.
We were not raised to give jobs.
A lot of us were raised to deposit checks.
A lot of us were not raised to make direct posits of the checks of others.
See, if you get so locked in, and I'm going to go there for white validation.
See, white validation is, man, we had a story in the Wall Street Journal.
But two years later, you got another type of story in the Wall Street Journal.
See, white validation is when you get so caught up
you get so caught up in
other folk
examining what you're doing that you lose sight of what you're
trying to build. I had somebody, I had some folks
this weekend. It was very interesting.
They were telling me, oh, one particular person,
I ain't gonna even waste your time giving her name
because she ain't deserving of any of that level of attention.
Oh, you're toxic.
No network wants to work with you.
But it's amazing that a network emailed to me today
about being on one of their news panels.
It's amazing that I was in New York
sitting down with Spike Lee for his documentary on Colin Kaepernick.
It's amazing I sat down with Kyle Mubell for his documentary on Showtime.
It's amazing, prior to sitting down with Kyle Mubell for his documentary on Showtime. It's amazing. Prior to sitting down with Kamu Bell for his documentary on Showtime,
I sat down with the Discovery Network
for a documentary they're doing on space.
Did they call you?
See, again, you don't waste your time
when folks are running their mouths hating
because all you got to do is keep building.
Now, see, I know somebody is sitting here saying,
yeah, man, but that's easier to say than do
because, you know, we got a lot going on.
No, no, no, no, it's not.
No, it's not.
Because I just need y'all to understand something.
You're going to always have haters.
But one of the biggest mistakes that we make,
and let's just go ahead and put it out there.
One of the biggest mistakes that we make as black people,
we have been conditioned to floss.
Oh, I'm wearing some Sam Smith Adidas.
I don't know how much these damn things cost
because I ain't buying them.
They were gifts to the VIPs
in a city that entertained a golf tournament.
Y'all done heard me say it before.
I ain't never,
Spike was joking with me about Air Jordans.
I said Spike
I had on some Adidas y'all
I had on some
What I had on
Yes I had on some
No I had on some
Yeah I had on some Adidas shoes
And Spike said
Man you came up here in Adidas
I said Mike ain't never brought me a check
He said I'm gonna have to
I said Mike ain't never sent me some Jordans He said man He said what size you wearing He said, I'm going to have to, I said, Mike ended up sending me some Jordans.
He said, man, I'm, he said, what size you wearing?
I said, 10 and a half.
How Mike send them?
I said, but I don't owe Mike shit.
I said, and the Adidas I'm wearing, I ain't buy.
So Mike got a big laugh out of that.
He said, I'll make sure Mike see this.
I said, well, you do that.
See, why am I saying that, y'all?
Because when you are trying to build something that's bigger than you,
what you cannot do is get yourself caught up in trying to floss
and be shot called a big baller.
Y'all, that's why BNC not here.
If I pull up the Atlanta Journal-Constitution store on them,
they're talking about, oh, man, we talking about moving and going to
and moving to Atlanta and doing this and doing that.
Man, all these plans, they had plans on what they were going to do in the future
and now their future is over.
See, so you might be saying, well, yeah, but
don't you have to think big? Yeah, yeah, you do.
But you got to keep building. And see, I told y'all about
the people who was sitting here Running their mouths and talking this nonsense
And they were saying all kind of stuff
And I love it when my haters talk
Because they real good at that
And they oh this that and the other
And you ain't this you ain't that you irrelevant
And I even told one of them
I said you know maybe I ought to invite you to my induction ceremony
For the NABJ Hall of Fame.
Since I ain't done nothing important.
See, sometimes you got to flex on.
And see, when I talk about keep building, I was walking y'all through this last week because I need you to understand what I'm talking about.
So do y'all see these three cameras
that are sitting right here?
Y'all see three cameras sitting right here?
These are three Canon cameras that are sitting right here.
This camera right here is the Canon C300.
This is an amazing camera, it's gorgeous, it's beautiful.
But I need you to understand that the body right here alone
is $9,000.
The body alone is $9,000.
When you throw the lenses on here, this particular lens is a 16 by 35.
You do the 7200.
You do other lenses.
Basically, you're going to spend another $11,000 on lenses.
So basically, one whole camera.
We ain't talking about the monitor.
So basically, you're talking about $20,000, $22,000.
But see, right here is the Canon XF405.
This one right here.
This one right here.
4K camera.
That run you about $3,500, $4,000.
This one right here is the Canon XA25.
Now, give me this camera right here.
So I know some of y'all are looking at this right now.
And y'all say, oh, man, look. This little bitty little camera right here. So I know some of y'all looking at this right now. And y'all say, oh, man, look.
This little bitty little camera right here.
This little bitty little camera.
This little bitty little camera.
This one, oh, my God, but look at this one.
Look at this one right here.
This one right here.
Beautiful.
Gorgeous.
But y'all got to understand something.
When we started this show, we couldn't afford this damn camera.
It's $20,000 by itself.
We couldn't afford this camera because it's $4,000 by itself.
We bought three of these for $6,000.
Why? Because we needed a three-camera setup.
As we grew, as we got bigger,
we went here. we went here.
We went here.
Grew it.
As we got bigger, we could afford this right here.
When I'm talking about how you got to keep building,
you cannot grow a business by trying to floss
and then by trying to live way above your means because you're not
going to be in business. You are going to be a casualty. 90% of all restaurants shut down inside
of a year. Bars shut down. We can go on and on and on. And so the most important thing for you,
if you are sitting here, you've got to learn how not to get so caught up in the Joneses and running
around trying to be with everybody else and understand how you're going to be able to adjust
your resources in order to build and grow. It is to be able to sustain, it's to be able to adjust your resources in order to build and grow. It is to be able to sustain,
it's to be able to go to the next level. And too many of us, let me say it because I ain't talking
about white people, I ain't talking about Latino people, I'm not talking about Asian people,
I'm talking about black people. Too many of us are caught up in the floss game. Too many of us
are caught up in wanting folks to know what we driving, what we wearing. A whole bunch of folk
throw Oscar parties and then trying to figure out how they're going to pay their rent the next month.
What I'm trying to get you to understand is
We've got to readjust this
If we want to be able to keep building
To be able to keep growing
Now some of y'all might say
Well okay
Where did you even get this idea
In terms of not worrying about
What other people say
Well actually y'all that's actually biblical
It's biblical
I've talked about all the time Nehemiah Well, actually, y'all, that's actually biblical. It's biblical.
I've talked about all the time Nehemiah.
When Nehemiah had a vision to rebuild the wall of Jerusalem,
there were people who was, he then came with a vision,
and he went to the people, and he said,
the people said, let us rebuild.
And as they were rebuilding the wall of Jerusalem,
guess what?
The haters began to say, oh, man, y'all can't do that.
Y'all don't know what y'all doing.
Y'all, it ain't going to work. It's right there in Scripture. Y'all can pull it up.
It's right there in Nehemiah chapter 4. See, this is really the model in which Christians operate. See, every time I got haters who run
their mouths, who say, oh, your views are not real,
or ain't nobody watching y'all, ain't nobody listening to y'all,
then y'all stuff ain't nobody listening to y'all, then y'all stuff ain't legit.
I say, we good. We good. I don't really care what y'all have to say. Oh, there were some folks who
got my number and were texting me today saying, y'all not legitimate. I was like, I said, well,
you know what? If I'm so irrelevant, why y'all so worried about what I do? I ain't worried about what y'all do. See, somebody who's
watching right now, you have gotten caught up in the same game. You've gotten caught up in worrying
about what other people are thinking, and then you've gotten caught up sitting here tripping
in somebody else's game, and you forgot to really get involved.
But you forgot to also learn how to fight.
See, I love this piece right here where it says,
from that day on, half of my men did the work
while the other half were equipped with spears,
shields, bows, and armor.
Come on, quit, you're too slow, switch.
I love it here where they said that they had a weapon
in one hand and they built in the other.
Because your haters are going to do that. You got to keep building. See, I told y'all last week,
we couldn't afford a set, so this glass table was our set until we can afford a table. We couldn't
afford this actually set piece. We couldn't afford the art peace, but we had to keep building.
Where we are today as Black Star Network is not where we were three and a half years ago.
And that is because the philosophy that I've always maintained was keep building.
Don't worry about flossing. Don't worry about trying to get people to like you who don't like you any damn way.
I never believe in wearing clothes for folk who already don't like me trying to impress them.
I don't give a damn what any of these folk think.
I really don't.
Because see what you have to say is when you are doing the right thing, when you are building, then you are able to help folk who need your help.
You are able to provide jobs to other folk and then be able to help their families.
And then when you are employing them and you're funding them and then then they're sending their kids to college, and they're sending their kids to school.
And then when I told you when we had TV One, Sharon, who was one of the makeup people, came up to me when the show ended.
She said, Roland, thank you so much because working on your show allowed me to buy a house.
That's because we said we kept building.
She picked up other assignments outside of the show.
She said, I will be eternally grateful
because you helped me buy a house.
See, when y'all get again focused on the rest of these people,
you lose sight of how
you can help others. We're just not using
Nehemiah as an example because the wall of Jerusalem protected the people on the inside
from the folks on the outside. And when you create a situation where you are able to help those,
you are providing and paving the way for them moving forward. And that really is something
that too many of us lose sight of. We don't think about that. We get caught up in what
everybody else is thinking. And so we're not always focused on keep building,
keeping your eye on the prize, being able to help,
being able to stand in the gap,
being able to assist somebody else,
being able to touch them in a very unique way.
See, that to me right there is one of our biggest problems, is how do we stay focused
on building our businesses? Over the weekend, matter of fact, I'm gonna see if I can find it.
I had this fool who I forgot he was an alpha. Yeah, I forgot he was an alpha.
But he had the
audacity
to tweet me
and question me
about what black
folks need to be doing.
And so he decided,
he a black Republican,
and I told y'all
I don't mind black Republicans.
Because, you know, I mean, it's all good.
I don't mind them.
I know a lot of black Republicans.
I know black Republicans who do some very good things.
But you always got folk who love to run their mouths trying to tell you what you should be doing.
So check this here out. trying to tell you what you should be doing. So,
check this here out.
This brother posted
this tweet.
And he said, translation, white-splanation,
BNC didn't spout enough
white supremacist rhetoric to attract
Agent Orange, MAGA crowd,
and the companies that support that bullshit.
For reference, he's CNN, MSNBC.
So, the black Republican responded this way.
John Burnett.
This is what he said.
He said, your mentality is the reason
why BNC and Roland aren't on air now.
This is what he said, Julianne Avis in Omicongo.
He said, we need to talk about real black empowerment,
business ownership, diverse education, option outside of public schools, financial literacy and investment, not just race 24-7.
Now, y'all, it was a Sunday and I was trying to rest and relax.
But, you know, I can't have stuck on stupid fools just sit here and just say dumb stuff.
So I just then had to unleash on this whole fool because I had to break it down to him.
I said, it's interesting.
You first of all said I'm no longer on the air.
I said, I've been on the air for three and a half years.
Five days a week.
Live.
I said, it's interesting that we launched Black Star Network in September 2021,
and we launched four new shows in February.
I said, it's interesting that you said that we should be focused on business,
black businesses, when you literally are ridiculing a black business.
I said, I find it interesting that you said that we should be, as black folks, when you literally are ridiculing a black business.
I said, I find it interesting that you said that we should be, as black folks,
focused on financial literacy
when we launched Deborah Owens' show, Wealthy You.
I said, I find it interesting that you said
that we should be focusing on options
outside of public school
when my wife and I co-founded
School Choice is the Black Choice,
and we have a segment called Education Matters
every single Friday.
I say it is interesting.
You say you should be focused on business empowerment
when we have a Marketplace segment
every single Tuesday called Marketplace.
We feature black-owned businesses.
I said, I find it interesting.
You say we should be focused on black empowerment
and business when every Wednesday
we have a segment called Tech Talk
where we focus on black folks in tech.
I said, so literally everything that you say we should be doing as black people, we're actually doing.
Oh, but when you said I'm no longer on the air, what you were really saying is that white validation part.
You ain't got one of those networks.
I said, brother, you can pull the app on
your TV. That still means we're on the air. On the air has changed. See, y'all, some of y'all tweet
me and they say, well, man, you ain't got to say nothing. No, no, no. Sometimes you got to let folk know that you're still building
because the haters are always coming after you.
That's also in Nehemiah 4.
The haters were telling them,
y'all can't rebuild the wall.
Now, mind y'all, if you keep reading Nehemiah 4,
after they show progress
That's when the haters say oh we gotta stop them from building
Why am I saying that because you gonna have some haters who are trying to stop you from building?
Whether you trying to build your business whether you trying to build your organization whether you trying to build your your your
Department in college you could have some haters and let me be college, you're going to have some haters.
And let me be real clear,
you're going to have some haters who look like you.
You're going to have some haters who call themselves black power,
but they are actually evil.
You're going to find some folks who use the same language
as the oppressor against you,
but then claiming they
riding with you. But just so y'all understand what happens when you are able to look your Haters In the eye And show them
Show them
That you really don't care
What they think
I wanted to
Bring on
Someone
Because I wanted to ask her
A couple of questions
About what This whole issue in terms of,
because, you know, HBCU students also go through this, where they deal with, you know, haters,
folks who say, you know, you don't really go to a real school and stuff like that.
So Sidney Ross is a student at North Carolina A&T, and I'm rocking
A&T's stuff today. And so, Sidney, have you ever heard that people who question you going to an
HBCU, who question why you don't go, you should go into a white school, saying that if you went
to a PWI versus A&T, you probably have a better shot at a real good job.
Yes, most definitely.
I remember back in high school, like on the last day of our senior year, we had this, what they call, like all the seniors come in
and they're dressed in their college attire or college paraphernalia.
And I remember wearing this A&T baseball cap and an A&T t-shirt.
And one of the teachers at my high school saying, okay, so don't be surprised when you come back
here during fall break. And you tell me that you've dropped out of school. And it was kind
of like disheartening because for one, you're basically like disvaluing my education.
So disvaluing your education.
Very interesting.
So Julianne, Avis, and Omokongo,
I want to show people
what black power,
what black ownership actually looks like.
Sidney,
Sidney, you had gotten,
didn't you win a contest?
Yes.
Tell everybody what happened.
You won what, a national contest with Black News Channel? Yes. Tell everybody what happened. You won, what, a national contest with Black News Channel?
Yes.
So, um, the competition was, uh, with HBCU journalism programs across the country.
And of the 30-something HBCUs that have journalism programs,
only four students were selected from each of these universities,
and I was one of the four that students were selected from each of these universities
and I was one of the four that had been selected
from North Carolina A&T.
And so y'all was supposed to,
y'all was supposed to, what,
have a paid intern with Black News Channel this summer, right?
Right, right.
And so what's up with that? What's the status of that?
I had reached out to some of the BNC staff, and I haven't been able to hear anything back. However,
I have talked with some of my professors who have been communicating back and forth
with some of the staff at BNC who have pretty much said, yeah, it's in your best interest.
Let's start looking at other options
just in case this one just happens to fall through.
Well, one of the people who's been helping you
is David Squires.
He's at North Carolina A&T.
And that's how I heard about you.
I heard about this internship program.
And so, Sidney, this is what's gonna happen. You are being offered right now a paid internship
on the Black Star Network for the ten weeks this summer
to work with this show and this staff since...
That's the real reason why you're on the show.
It ain't had nothing to do with no HBCU student. I've worked with this show and this staff since... That's the real reason why you're on the show.
It ain't had nothing to do with no HBCU student.
Uh...
So...
So I hit David, and he said, he said,
A&T, they said they will assist with housing.
I said, look, I said,
I said, if y'all can help her out, get her here.
I said, she can work with this show
for ten weeks this summer on this show,
uh, to be able to fulfill your
internship? Oh my goodness. Oh my gosh.
Thank you so much. So he hit me this weekend
and
he sent me your resume.
He told me you're a multimedia broadcast
student. And he told me
about the internship. And I said,
alright, not a problem.
I said, now,
we don't have, we ain't gonna get a dorm or anything.
I said, I don't know if she has family or friends
here. He said, hey, we're gonna help her with the housing. I said, you get her here. She'll have a 10-week
paid internship with the Black Star Network. Oh, my God. Oh, my goodness. Wow. I don't know
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Can't hear your parents. You can tell your parents to come up. We can put them on as well.
But I need everybody watching to understand this doesn't happen if you don't own.
This doesn't happen if you're not in business.
And so when David reached out,
I serve on the board of NABJ with David
back when I was a national student representative.
So we go back to 1989.
And so when he told me that, I said,
hey, we can make this thing happen.
And so we are happy to do so.
I've already called your chancellor,
my frat brother, Chancellor Martin, Harold Martin.
I told him, I made him aware of this last night,
as well as Congresswoman Alma Adams,
that we were doing this.
So everybody kept the secret.
So yeah, it's, so what, that's your mama?
That's my mom.
My dad are coming around. Let me see.
So,
Mama and Daddy Ross, your
daughter has an internship
at this show this summer.
Thank you so much.
Absolutely.
Well, look, we are happy to make it happen.
When I heard about it and I saw
her resume, I said, we can put her to work.
Now, Sydney, understand, we grind here.
We put it, we work, we work hard.
I think you're going to learn a whole lot.
I think it'll be an exciting experience.
And look, I remember when I was in college,
I had a non-paid internship at CBS News in Dallas.
I couldn't do it, but it was great
because I ended up working at the Houston Defender,
a black-owned newspaper,
and that set me on the path.
And so I think it's about creating opportunities, and this is why our people support us.
This is why we fight for advertising dollars so we can be able to provide economic opportunities for folks like you.
Oh, my gosh.
Thank you so much.
All right.
So, Carol, I'll be reaching out to you.
My producer will be working things out, figuring out start dating everything.
So you can rest easy.
You now have a paid internship for this summer.
Oh, Lord.
Oh, thank you so much.
All right.
Looking forward to seeing you in the office.
Thank you.
All right.
Thanks a bunch.
Y'all take care Bye bye
Julianne, this is why I keep telling people
This is what black ownership means
And Roland, I will reach out to you
You know I'm in and out of D.C.
When I come back this summer
I would like to take the young lady to lunch and just get an opportunity to get to know her. As you know, I used to be the
president of the little school across the street that would be better college. But I am so proud
of you, Roland, for doing that. Thank you. These are the kind of opportunities our young people
need. I was about to start crying. You know, I don't cry that much. Me too. But, I mean, just thank you, Roland.
I mean, it's so important for our young people,
especially in journalism,
where doors are being slammed,
to have somebody like you open them up.
You have been, you know what they say,
you have been a good and faithful servant.
You love the Lord.
You lift us up.
You know, I'm not going to blow too much smoke up you
because your head is already too big.
But I really...
Thank you, Roland.
The thing, the thing, Avis...
Um...
And people come at me,
man, you be going off on these folks about advertising.
I'm like, look, CNN gonna have 5,000 people apply for internships.
Fox News and MSNBC.
And the reality is, those are not real internships.
The opportunity to actually learn.
What people don't understand, it was a non-paid internship at CBS News.
But what I learned that summer,
and I think I probably got $250 a month.
I can't remember how much Sonny Masai Giles paid me.
Maybe in 250, I don't think it's 250 a week.
But, because I also worked at Wendy's when I was in college.
But what I was able to learn and what I was writing
actually set me on the path that I was going on.
And so if you never have a shot, you can't get it, I was writing actually set me on the path that I was going on.
And so if you never have a shot, you can't get it, which is why I'm trying to say to
our black businesses, if you don't stay in business, you can't give nobody a shot.
Absolutely.
It's so, so important.
And I have to say, as a second generation entrepreneur, I understand the importance of having a business and maintaining a business.
My dad had his business for over 40 years. Right. And employed not only all of his brothers, but employed dozens from within the community at a time in which it was, you know, 50 times more challenging right now. And the Jim Crow South is when he started his business, to be perfectly honest.
And, you know, it's important that we are there as the anchor for our communities.
You know, BNC, as you know, was black facing, but it was not black owned.
And this is why this type of work that you do is so important.
And I would have to just add, you know, I could use an intern this summer.
I know that there are three other young, there are three other people that were supposed to have
that. So if that's one of you, I would love to take on an intern for a paid internship this
summer with my company. Please send your resume to concierge at media to Millions, and I will have.com, concierge at Media to Millions.com,
and I'll have one of my team members to reach out to you because we need to do this. And just as
you mentioned, they need to be paid internships. So many of our brilliant young people get
opportunities just like you had, but can't take them because they're unpaid. Personally, I've never missed a payroll.
I don't plan on it.
I would love to
be able to provide that opportunity
to one of the three that remain
because if we're not there for us,
nobody's going to be there for us.
That right there, Omicongo,
is why
I wanted to encourage people
on the importance of managing your resources,
not living above your means,
not trying to floss,
because when you're able to then manage your money,
you can provide the opportunities.
This is why we, this is why when I ask people to give,
I'm like, yo, this is what I'm talking about.
When I'm talking about when we're going after these advertising dollars with these companies, this is why.
The vision that I have, folks, is unlimited.
I can tell you right now, if we hit $5 million in revenue this year, I can absolutely add 30 people.
Reporters, editors, producers.
Now, you just had 250 people lose their job
at Black News Channel.
So if we're able to get the revenue,
we can literally build a black-owned media company
and literally hire those 250.
But if we don't get the dollars, it doesn't happen.
And so this is why this is so vital and important.
I'm going to go ahead.
Well, man, first of all,
your segment last week on BNC was a master class.
You broke it down.
And what you're rolling, it's never personal.
It's all about the business and how we can build better, build black better, period, bottom line. And would love to talk to one of them. If they don't even make it here,
they could do that stuff at home. But lastly,
you know, I can't have, you know,
Julianne offering to, Dr. Julianne
offering to hook up with them and take
them out. Dr. Avis, you know,
taking them on, other interns, and then I not
do anything. So I'm just saying, you bring
them down here, Roland, they get, you know,
free yoga, Pilates, and all of that for their
entire time here, because we own our
own business, too, and they can come exercise
for free. All right. We'll do
that. And I did, so I've
just sent a text message to Gary Wordlaw.
I've known him for 30 years through NABJ.
He was one of the people at BNC
asking him to send me
those four students who won
BNC scholarships
so we can place them if they've not gotten placed.
And so we're gonna do that.
And so to everybody who's watching again,
this is why when I asked y'all for support,
you understand now what I'm talking about.
Some of you understand,
cause I get people hitting, man, you be up that big.
Yo, that's a paid internship.
It's gonna be more than $6,000, $8,000.
And so when I'm asking you to give, when I'm asking you to stand
with us and we're going after the Biden administration to force
these agencies and the ad agencies that they hire to spend
with black-owned media, that's what I'm talking about.
Billion dollars the federal
government spends every single year on advertising, and black-owned media gets 1%.
No, we ain't satisfied. But we want y'all to support us in what we do. So some of y'all
already hit me up, PO Box 57196. You want to send a check or a cash, a check or a money order to P.O. Box 57196 Washington, D.C. 20037.
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We're gonna come back with our Fit Live Win segment.
Also, some breaking news.
Will Smith has apologized.
I'll show you that next
on Roland Martin Unfiltered on the Black Star Network. I'm sorry. What's up, what's up?
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...news here.
Actor Will Smith has apologized to Chris Rock
for what took place last night at the Academy Award.
This is what he posted 38 minutes ago on his Instagram page. Go to my computer, please. I would like to publicly apologize to Chris Rock for what took place last night at the Academy Awards.
This is what he posted 38 minutes ago
on his Instagram page.
Go to my computer, please.
Violence in all its forms is poisonous and destructive.
My behavior at last night's Academy Awards
was unacceptable and inexcusable.
Jokes at my expense are a part of the job,
but a joke about Jada's medical condition
was too much for me to bear and I reacted emotionally.
I would like to publicly apologize to you, Chris. I was out of line and I was wrong. I am embarrassed and my actions were not indicative of the man I want to be. There is no place for violence in a
world of love and kindness. I would also like to apologize to the Academy, the producers of the
show, all the attendees, and everyone watching around the world. I would like to apologize to the Academy, the producers of the show, all the attendees,
and everyone watching around the world.
I would like to apologize to the Williams family
and my King Richard family.
I deeply regret that my behavior has stained
what has been an otherwise gorgeous journey for all of us.
I am a work in progress, sincerely, Will."
Omokongo, your thoughts. and the work in progress sincerely, Will."
Omokongo, your thoughts.
This is why I, as I said before,
this is why I love Will and Jada.
Class act, class personified.
And this is how men handle situations.
And I'm just so happy that that happened.
And I think Chris Rock should come out and apologize as well,
because I believe that when you target the alopecia part of it,
that was over the top. But yes, Will Smith just shows why I've been so in love
with what they've done for over 30 years.
Davis?
Yes, that was a very well done apology.
And I appreciate that because we have all heard apologies
that weren't really really apologies, right?
So I do appreciate the fact that he, as a man, took responsibilities for his actions, but also explained, hey, I was emotional because my wife was attacked because of her medical condition, as many of us assumed. And so I, too, am hoping here that Chris Rock steps up to the plate
and reciprocates so that the two of them
can not only mend this publicly,
but hopefully they can mend it privately
and move forward from there.
Julianne?
It was very classy.
It was classic Will Smith, actually.
I'm very happy and very heartened to hear it.
I heard what Oba Congo said in the previous segment about this being painful.
And it really is painful for black America to see two of our best and brightest brawling on a stage.
So I'm just happy for that. I'm happy that he mentioned the Williams family and Venus and Serena are two
of the most peaceful people I know. And so to, uh, put Luke in that, I think is really good.
Um, I, what I would like to see out of this though, Roland is that these two black men
could have a conversation about black women, about who we are, and why Chris Rock is so misogynistic,
why perhaps also will, I think we all talked about,
how he acted on behalf of his wife.
I need to hear more brothers.
You know, we have all this stuff for Black men,
and we also have all this stuff for Black women,
but I think we need to be much more intersectional.
So I'd like to see them lead a conversation, maybe that you moderated, talking about black women and about many ways that, as Avis said earlier, we're the mules.
We're at the bottom of the totem pole.
Why?
And what are our brothers prepared to do to lift us up?
Give me one second, because it looks like Chris Rock has issued an apology. Give me one second because it looks like Chris Rock has issued an apology.
Give me one second.
I was just sent it.
I'm trying to pull it up.
It wasn't on his Instagram page.
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It may be on his...
Okay.
Right.
So this, what was sent is apparently a fake apology.
That's why we checked.
Somebody sent that out.
I'm looking on, because there's nothing on his Facebook page,
nothing on his Instagram page.
So, folks, if y'all are posting anything about Chris Rock apologizing,
it is not true.
I'm literally on his Facebook page
right now. The last post on his
Facebook page was on March 9th.
It's gone.
Nothing on his Instagram page, so no.
There's nothing from Chris Rock
apologizing for what happened last night.
If y'all are sitting around,
don't, because it's not real.
It's not real.
It's not real. Well,
first of all, remember, we'll just apologize.
So we don't know if Chris
is going to issue one. We don't know.
We don't know. So
if something is real, we'll definitely let y'all
know. All right, folks.
Fit, live, win.
We're always talking about dental health. We had a
conversation last month. Dr. Johnson is back again from this month. So, Doc, what you got for us this
time about our dental health? Good evening. How are you? Great. Good. Good. Shoot. I'm just here, ready to answer any questions that you have.
All right. So we talked last time. We were talking about your dental care. We were talking about
flossing. We were talking about brushing, all those different things along those lines.
The first question is, when it comes to children, what must we be doing when it comes to our kids and their dental health?
Is it once a year? Is it twice a year? Is it once every quarter?
How do we deal with their dental health?
At the age of two, we recommend that they're seen twice a year
by their dentist to have regular cleanings and checkups.
Typically, we won't do any x-rays at that age,
but we'd like to see them from two on, twice a year.
So twice a year also.
All right, so from a parental standpoint,
what are we looking for?
What must we be doing, saying what they can and cannot eat
or stuff along those lines when it comes to their, again, dental health.
So as a dentist, we'll look for patterns of like if they have early decay, we'll look at their hygiene, what the parent is doing while they're a toddler.
So we're instructing them on the correct way to brush
their teeth, making sure that they're eating healthy foods.
A lot of our pediatric patients
are overwhelmed with processed foods.
It's kind of like a trending thing, the chips,
cookies and just the access that our kids have to
process food.
It's hard as a dentist because you don't want to spend a lot of time lecturing, but nutrition
is really the key to having your children's teeth healthy and we got to remember as parents that our mouths
are the gateway to our body so if we're not feeding our kids healthy food if
we're just feeding our kids food for convenience those types of foods tend to
destroy the enamel on their teeth and then you're gonna have early
childhood decay and then these children are gonna have to have
treatment very early in life. I see a lot of pediatric patients in my practice
where we're removing baby teeth that have only been in their mouth for, you know, a few years.
So we have to do better beverage-wise.
We asked our parents to limit juice to a cup a day, not a bottle.
Wait, hold on. A cup a day?
So not even a whole Capri Sun?
Nah, that's terrible.
You know, what we're looking at,
look at the packaging on some of these beverages, right?
And so the consumption for an adult is like,
what, 20 to 30 grams of sugar a day?
Right.
But we're giving our kids that in one beverage.
It makes
no sense.
So, all right. So,
let's see here. We got some... I'm a Congo.
You got a question for Doc about
dental care.
First, Dr.
Johnson, whenever you're on, I feel like I kind of...
I try to mumble a little bit because it's like
your teeth are so perfect. I'm like, people can't see mine, see yours. You're just amazing in what
you do. And we really appreciate that. My daughter has braces and I want to know what your thoughts
are on braces for adults. I know like a decade ago, everybody was talking about Invisalign.
Is that still the thing? Are there other products out there that adults should consider if they don't have the patience for regular braces that kids get?
Yeah, so Invisalign would be the alternate to traditional braces. So you're not wearing trays every two weeks,
and you're able to still floss your teeth,
you know, you can take them out to eat. So in that way, it's a lot easier than traditional braces.
The downside to the Invisalign can be sometimes cost.
It's a little more expensive than traditional braces.
And then also people tend to not be as compliant where they don't have a choice to wear the traditional brace because they're glued to their teeth.
Sometimes we have patients that won't wear the trays.
So they don't.
Yeah.
They don't.
Well, I'll say this here.
Invisalign is great.
I did it.
You're absolutely right.
You've got to be very responsive.
I was at the Alamo Bowl,
and I'd actually taken
the Invisalign out to eat,
and I put them in my...
I didn't have my tray.
I put them in the napkin
on my tray. Then, of course, took the tray away and put it in my... I didn't have my tray. I put them in the napkin on my tray.
Then, of course, I took the tray away and put it in the trash.
I was like, oh, damn.
So I had to call my dentist in Chicago like,
Doc, I need a new tray.
So it actually happened a couple of times,
but I much prefer them than those metal damn braces
that were on all the time.
So, yes, I definitely endorse Invisalign.
Avis.
Hi, Doc.
So, to me, one of the things that, once again, with adults as well in dental care,
one of the things oftentimes we think about is how can we best whiten our teeth.
And there are a lot of different products out there that you can use at home.
But, you know, I often wonder how safe they really are
for our enamel, right, and for our teeth.
And so, do you have any suggestions about, uh,
teeth whitening at home, or does it just make sense
to go to a professional like you if you're interested
in-in getting some whitening done for you?
You mean like people would say, the charcoal,
brush your teeth with charcoal and all that kind of stuff?
Yeah. Go ahead, doc.
So I have the first part of the question. I have a lot of patients who can't really afford
to come in. Our whitening that we do in the office is probably expensive compared to some
of the over-the-counters. those are typically safe I can't recommend those
type of products because as a professional and we're not applying it
we're not teaching them how to use it but some of them work well hydrogen
peroxide is usually the component that will whiten your teeth so if you're
buying something over the
counter, you would want to look for more of like a hydrogen peroxide base. The higher concentration
whitenings, you're only going to be able to get prescriptions for, and that will be when you go
to see your dentist. So we do like zoom whitening in our office.
You won't be able to purchase that over the counter.
Home remedies, as far as just whitening your teeth on your own, it takes a longer time, but you could pretty much use baking soda, peroxide.
I have not experimented with the charcoal, so I can't recommend that. I personally
don't see me putting charcoal in my mouth, so that's not happening. I'm just not doing it.
So I think the way that we maintain our teeth also affects the whiteness. Sometimes people
overbrush their teeth and they don't realize that they're causing
the enamel to be thin and it will make your teeth appear darker. Enamel is the white part of your
teeth. When you brush too heavily, your teeth are going to appear yellow because now the dentin is
being exposed. The other thing that I noticed is people don't brush their teeth well.
There's usually buildup in things and stain on their teeth, and so their teeth appear
darker and they really just need to get their teeth professionally cleaned.
Also, you notice those dark fillings that people have in their teeth.
That will make your teeth
appear gray and dark.
You can get those removed to make your teeth appear whiter.
So I have a lot of patients I just tell them use baking soda and peroxide and you can whiten
your teeth naturally on your own, improve your hygiene, watch what you're eating and drinking.
Our diet over time stains our teeth.
So if you're drinking coffee every day,
if you're drinking tea every day,
cut back on those things
and you'll notice that your teeth will look whiter.
All right.
Now, if you're drinking tea, let's say it's an apple,
do you drink it out of the bottle or with a straw?
Well, there's, okay, if you're using a straw, typically you're bypassing your teeth, right?
Versus like drinking it, you're bathing your teeth each time.
So there's like this thing with the patients who still drink coffee, they'll, like, use one of those hard plastic
straws to bypass
their teeth so they don't
have to whiten their teeth as often.
Okay. All right.
Got it. Uh, Juliana, you last.
Uh, yes.
First of all, Doc, you are a perfect
advertisement for your
occupation. Thank you.
Your really big smile. I just love it.
We ain't even gonna show her hardcore fitness videos.
I'm not able to stand by you,
because, hey, you got it going on.
I... And I was laughing at you and Roland,
because, Roland, I had more Invisalign adventures
than you did.
Um, to the point of one time having someone
go in the garbage can and try to
find my tray.
You know what? Forget it. This just ain't
happening. But, Doc, I want to ask
you about mouthwash.
Should we be using it?
How often should we be using it?
Is it just to get us rid of bad breath?
Or is there a reason why
we should use mouthwash if we don't have bad breath?
Okay, so there's several types of mouthwash I personally do not recommend I don't recommend mouthwashes with alcohol in them because they tend
to dry your mouth out so the Listerine I don't recommend unless it's alcohol free. My favorite mouthwash has a xylitol product in it. I believe
Spry is the maker of it, but it naturally builds the enamel in your teeth. So I do believe you
should be using mouthwash. And in this sequence, I feel like you should brush your teeth using soft circles, okay?
I feel like you should floss and then rinse with mouthwash
because that helps to eliminate plaque and bacteria
and the germs with these mouthwashes.
So it's like kind of the the wash away right from all of
the plaque and debris that you're breaking off of your teeth when you're
brushing and you're flossing xylitol is a natural builder I am NOT a fan of
fluoride I still use it in my product my office because patients recommend it but
I don't personally use fluoride my children my office because patients recommend it but I don't
personally use fluoride my children have never used fluoride my kids have like no
cavities right so I would prefer xylitol mouthwash for my patients older or
younger it doesn't matter but yes before bedtime and it doesn't matter what time you're sleeping um i
would recommend brush floss and then um use mouthwash all right then all right doc tell
people how they can reach you all right you can reach us at vipsmilesinc.com that's our website. We're also on Instagram at VIPsmilesDDS.
You could reach us by phone.
That's 216-475-0080.
Okay.
All right then.
Always good to see you.
I appreciate it.
Be chatting with you soon.
Thanks a lot.
All right.
Thank you, Roland.
Thanks for having me.
All right.
See, I told you that was painless.
I told you.
All right. All right. Thanks a bunch. All right. Thank you, Roland. Thanks for having me. All right. See, I told you that was painless. I told you.
All right. All right. Thanks a bunch.
All right. Let me thank Macongo, Avis, and Julianne.
Thanks a bunch. We are awaiting.
I'm getting back and forth information with regarding Chris Rock's apology.
I was told that may have been posted prematurely.
It was up, it was down, so I'm just, we're working through it.
So if it comes through, we'll have, of course, tomorrow on tomorrow's show.
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