rSlash - r/Bestof My Boyfriend's Festish

Episode Date: June 10, 2025

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and this is one of them. Back to normal soon. Welcome to r slash best of Redditor updates where OP's boyfriend is trying to pressure her into his extremely dangerous fetish. Our next Reddit post comes from r slash relationship advice. So my boyfriend is 31 and I'm 29. I have a less traditional relationship.

We have been dating almost 3 years. When we were first talking, he told me about his fetish and we had an open conversation about it. When we got more serious, he and I decided that he should see a professional for his fetish. We did some research and met a sex worker that was experienced in his fetish and others. I've met her quite a few times, and it's understood that this is a business relationship and my boyfriend is her client. With that scratch being itched for him, our relationship was perfect.

The intercourse was amazing, he's loving and caring towards me, and I really see myself spending my life with him. Things changed during the pandemic. The sex worker decided for safety reasons for both her and her clients that she would stop seeing them in person and only focus on her online content. At first we were fine, but in December, he got really pushy trying to persuade and bargain with me into doing his fetish. I can't. It makes me physically ill to where I feel nauseous. I've told him no and that he needs to figure out another way to get himself off that way. He got upset at me and said that it's impossible unless he has a partner. I've been sleeping in the guest room for the last few nights because he tried initiating

it while we were already intimate. I'm setting my boundaries, but it's frustrating he's not respecting them and that he's no longer respecting them because his need to get off in a certain way is more important than my feelings. I kinda wanna break up over this, but he's been perfect up until this. I'm so lost on what to do.

Down in the comments, predictably someone asks, "'Okay, what's the fetish?' "'I can't come up with any solutions without knowing this. OP says, The speculation is kind of funny, to be honest. It's nothing like scat or water play. He's into blood play and knife play, which is a no-go for me, because seeing blood makes me so sick.

Someone asks, So, just curious, did he try to get you to use a knife on him and draw his blood or did he try to do it to you? Because I would run out of that house with my clothes off my back if a partner tried to cut me during intimacy knowing it wasn't something I wanted. OP says no knife was used in that instance. He was kissing my neck and he bit down which made me freak out on him. I don't know what I'd do if he pulled out a knife without saying something first.

Then we have this story in the comments. A close friend of mine, also my roommate, was dating a guy who was really into this fetish. He wanted to cut people with knives and razors during the act. He was kind of obsessed with it. She did some very light stuff with him, but it wasn't enough, so he started pushing her to get drunk, like super drunk, and would do it to her without her consent after he was also denied access to former partners or sex workers when they started dating each other exclusively. Eventually, I had an intervention after a horrifying incident. She came home late and fell into bed.

In the morning, I was behind her in the hallway and the back of her robe was sheer. It was covered in cuts. Like he had made an effing design on her back with razor cuts. They can be pretty painless, so all she ever knew was that her back felt kind of tight and weird. She took off her robe and he had cut her all over. I've seen some stuff in my life but watching a woman realize, with growing surprise, that her body had been mutilated was one of the worst.

She was so deep into that relationship that she didn't even leave him after that. And because she now had so much experience with razors and so much humiliation and numbness, she started self-harming. It continued for about 10 years, though she got out of the relationship about a year after the incident. For what it's worth,

I have some friends who are sex workers and most of them absolutely hate and refuse to work with biters, even if they do more extreme or simulated stuff. They say biters tend to be violent and dangerous and don't respect boundaries. They often get blacklisted after pushing it. Then eight days later, OP posted an update. So a lot happened since I made the post.

My boyfriend saw it the same day I posted it and immediately knew that it was me because I wasn't exactly secretive about the details. He confronted me and we had a long conversation. I expressed that I wasn't able to trust him enough to be intimate with him anymore. He apologized and told me that he took some bad advice from a friend in his fetish community who did something similar to his girlfriend to make her be into it and think that it was my kink too. I was disgusted and said that I can't believe he took that advice and I couldn't even look at him. We started yelling at each other and he ended up leaving while I cried in the guest room.

While he was gone, I left to my best friend's place and told her everything. She didn't know about his kink, the sex worker or anything, so she was pretty shocked. She sat me down and told me this wasn't okay. It was a bit of a shock to the system, but it was true. And this wasn't even the only secret I was keeping from her about my relationship either. There are so many instances where what I described as perfect would be abusive and manipulative to others. I made myself think that our weird relationship was just a quirky, normal one for us. I was so blind and stupid.

Long story short, I left him. My best friend took me back to get my stuff and he still wasn't home. It wasn't until the next day that he was blowing up my phone. I texted him that it was done and not to talk to me again. That was followed by strings of text apologies and voicemails him that it was done and not to talk to me again. That was followed by strings of text apologies and voicemails, but it was all BS. As of now, I'm staying with my best friend and renting out our guest room. I've blocked him on everything and haven't heard from him since. Hopefully that's it for now. I'm gonna read this interaction down in the comments.

Heyo Meatball says, This is such a dangerous kink to pressure a first timer into. Thank goodness she got out. Educational Tangelo says, She really buried the lead. I was thinking, Okay, foot fetish? Whipping? Maybe he wants to pee on her?

But he tried to surprise her into blood play? Oh my God. Zoen says, It's the biting thing that gets me. Human teeth aren't meant to pierce, they crush. The amount of sheer force needed to break the skin is insane. And the trauma to both skin and tissue would be significant. Not to mention that human bites often get infected because of all the bacteria the mouth harbors.

And I doubt he practiced proper sanitation or provided adequate aftercare. Bug-eyed bug replies, a kid in my suburb had to have his leg amputated after another kid bit him. Our next Reddit post is from r slash relationship advice. Let me start out by saying that I'm white and my lovely fiance is a black woman.

We have an amazing relationship and I don't want any other woman in my life. She's also the only black woman I've ever dated. My parents have always been supportive of me and I have an incredibly strong family relationship with them and my siblings, or at least I thought. When I was growing up in the Midwest, there weren't really black people around and the topic of racism never came up really. But I never suspected that my lovely, outgoing, and polite parents would be racist because they even donated money to an orphanage in Africa for like 20 years now through their church. My parents met my fiance a year ago.

But they didn't take it too seriously because I had a lot of girlfriends in the past, and they probably thought that it was just another girlfriend. Well last weekend, I announced to them that my girlfriend was now my fiance on a family Zoom meeting. My parents looked a little surprised because I didn't discuss it with them before, but were ultimately congratulating me. We wanted to have a dinner with them in person to sort of let them get to know their future daughter-in-law, and everything blew up.

My mom forgot something for the dinner, and my dad and I went to the store to get it. My fiance texted me about 10 minutes in asking me to come back right away because she needed me and my dad and I turned around. When I got back she was sitting in my car, I still had the keys, and she was crying asking me to take her to her house. Of course, I drove her home and I told my parents I was sorry. On the way back, my fiance told me what my mom said to her. Essentially, my fiance told me that my mom said that she wasn't supportive of us because she didn't want black grandchildren and a number of other things that she would surprise my fiance married up, even though I think my fiance is better looking than me, but I'm a bit more successful financially. When I confronted my mom and asked what she said,

my mom said that she said nothing even close to that, and that the only thing she said was that she was curious what country my wife was ethnically from and that my fiance mistook it. Well, I asked my fiance more probing questions, but she's adamant that my mom explicitly said these things. I've never known either of them to be liars, but the two people I trust most in this world are giving me completely conflicting stories. I went aside with my fiancee, but what if she's having some mental episode or something? Is it a possibility that no one is lying here? I need some help. Down below we have this comment. I'm a white guy from the deep south.

This isn't even a mystery to me. Your wife is not making anything up. Trust her. The ethnicity dodge is old hat and she's blaming your fiance for her own racism by saying she was misunderstood. Yeah, I don't know where this post is going, but that's my guess too. Four days later, OP posted an update. I was basically completely wrong about the whole situation. I decided to call my sisters. I told them it was an emergency and we hopped on Zoom together. Well, I explained the crazy story to them and one of them just let out a laugh but tried to hold it back. Then I went quiet and we had a few seconds of awkwardness until she let out, are you really asking this? Then she told me, of course mom is racist and my sisters agreed with

her. Then they led me on a 30 minute rant about how mom would tell them not to marry outside of their race, especially black people. Because these marriages won't work out and no decent man would want you after. Sorry, the reason why I'm laughing is it's so funny to me that she would basically rant about other races to the daughters for their entire life but never once to the son. Which leads me to believe she's probably not only racist, but sexist too. Rules for the daughters, but not for the sons. Apparently, she told them this regularly, and they all married white people anyways. The thing is, I'm nine years younger than the youngest of them,

so I guess I was never included in these talks. She never once mentioned to me about race or who I should or shouldn't date. I don't know why I never received these messages. Moreover, I guess I'm just blind because they also told me that I was the favorite child because I was the only boy. I assumed my parents paid for everyone's first car and college, but I guess it was just me. They were really mad at me for what I put my fiance through and not realizing things. But I feel like that's unfair because how am I supposed to know they were mistreated compared to me if I was just a child when they were in college? I guess the

close relationship I thought I had was just an illusion. I told my fiance that I was with her until the day that I die, and I don't care if they all cut me off and That I'm siding with her always I should have done this from the beginning because she's really not the kind of person to call people racist And I never knew her to be super political after talking with my sisters I hung up almost crying which I normally don't do but I went and told my fiance everything I'd learned and we just held each other for a while.

She's not really mad at me, but just sad about the whole situation, and we talked a lot about whether to cut my parents out completely or not. I know for sure that we will not let them around our future children. Also, my sisters called me back, and they told me that they're sorry they were so harsh on me. But I really hope I don't lose all my family from this. I also found out that my dad has those internal rain cameras and I asked to see the videos from that day, but he told me they were already deleted or overwritten, but I would really

like to see it in person for closure. Overall, I'm sorry for the storm this caused on here, but I decided to update just because I keep seeing alerts and messages from people. Down in the comments, people are pointing out that Ring saves videos for 60 days and this is a, what, 4 day update? So dear old dad is definitely covering for mom. I think the cherry on top of this story is that OP's username is throwaway-confusedguy. He's really confused.

Huh? What? You mean racism really exists? This guy really plans on marrying a black woman and having biracial kids. He needs a crash course on racism. This dude is unbelievably clueless. Our next Reddit post comes from rsl relationship advice. I'm an 18 year old woman with an embarrassing condition. Should I tell the guy I like who's 18 or would it creep him out? So I recently

met this guy through mutual friends and I felt instantly attracted to him. Lately we started hanging out alone more and and he's just amazing. Cute, smart, and pretty shy. But I like it. Not sure if he feels the same way about me, but he always wants to hang out, so I hope that's a good sign. I only have one problem. My condition is that I sneeze when I'm aroused.

Yes, really. Whenever I have a sexual thought or get turned on, I get these sneezing fits. I use nasal sprays to keep things under control. Anyway, whenever I hang out with this guy, I start sneezing as soon as I see him. At the beginning, I told him that it's just a cold. It wasn't. And that I'm very sensitive during cold seasons. I see him. At the beginning, I told him that it's just a cold. It wasn't. And that I'm very sensitive during cold seasons. I'm not. I kept lying about it, and he probably thought that I'm just a sickly person. For a while, he encouraged me to go to

the doctor, but I told him that it's not a serious problem. The problem is that he's slowly putting the pieces together, but he's taking it the wrong way. He pointed out that I only sneeze when I'm around him, not others. For example, one time he saw me talk to a friend and I was fine. When I came up to him and we hugged, I sneezed. He joked that I am obviously allergic to him and that I should just be honest if I can't stand him So should I tell him the truth or would it be too creepy at this point? We're pretty comfortable around each other, but I don't want to make things weird when it freak him out. I'm

Laughing because finally a woman understands what it's like to be a 13 year old boy and get a boner the second you see an attractive woman. It is embarrassing and uncomfortable and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Just tuck it into the rim of your pants and hope no one notices. 12 days later OP posted an update. Something I haven't mentioned in the previous post is that he enjoys drawing and painting and he's very talented too.

We usually hang out at his place when he continues whatever piece he's working on and tries to teach me a bit. I'm quite bad at it though, so I normally end up watching him draw and mess around a bit. On a few occasions I sneezed and he said that I might be allergic to the paint or other materials. A few days after my original post I wanted to tell him about the sneezing thing. I definitely wanted to say that I sneeze when I'm excited, and not to directly tell him that it's because I'm turned on. I thought that would be too much information. However, I kept postponing it. I'm not sure why. I guess I was worried that it was too much too early, or maybe he didn't feel the same. About a week or so later, I was worried that it was too much too early or maybe he didn't feel the same.

About a week or so later I was over at his place and he revealed an amazing portrait that he made of me. I really didn't expect it at all and it touched my heart. Well we kissed and that caused him to have an accident. Woah. He was so mortified and immediately went to the bedroom. It was definitely awkward and I felt kind of bad because he was obviously very embarrassed. So to make him feel better, I told him the full truth about my sneezing condition. At first, he didn't

believe me at all. I told him that I sneezed several times while we were play wrestling earlier that day and that I don't react like this when I have physical contact with friends. He finally realized that I'm not BSing and his reaction was pretty funny. We're going on our first date soon and I can't wait. Thanks for all the words of encouragement because it really helped me." The comments are about what you'd expect. Achoo! Well alright babe if you insist. This guy says, you sneeze and then turn around and he's standing there, balls blowing in the breeze. Is it bad that I'm picturing a future argument where he screams, you don't even sneeze at

me anymore? Because I think that would be a hysterical end to any argument. Also, should he say bless you or thank you when you sneeze? Either that or you're out there sneezing at other people. Man, I love this story. Who thought a story about a woman sneezing in a guy's face and a guy jizzing his pants constantly would be so wholesome? There's also one person down in the comments saying that they also have no two people who

also have this condition. You know, allegedly it's Reddit, who knows. So I guess it's not that rare, maybe? Probably rarer than the guy's condition.