rSlash - r/Entitledpeople "TAKE MY DAUGHTER ON VACATION!"

Episode Date: December 21, 2022

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to our slash entitled people where OP gets spoiled kids arrested. Our next reddit post is from Yamthrowway. Last week when I came home from work, I noticed my shed door was open and the padlock that I used to keep it shut was broken. I had a lot of bags full of soda cans in there. Me and my friends tend to drink a lot of soda, so I've built up a lot of cans over the course of a year. I was gonna cash them in at the bottle drop soon because I like big payouts. We get paid 10 cents a can where I live. But there was more than just my bags of cans missing
Starting point is 00:00:31 from the shed. They took my gardening shears, a steel rake, two shovels, and a bunch of other stuff. I guess they figured they could sell them or something. I checked my camera footage and I found my three nephews, ages 16, 15 and 14 breaking into my shed with one of their dad's large claw hammers. It only took them a few hits to smash that cheap lock. After they broke into my shed, they took
Starting point is 00:00:55 everything they could. Then they came back with some shopping cards that I'm guessing they also stole. It took them a few trips to get all the cans. And afterwards, they didn't even bother to try to close the door. My sister and brother-in-law first denied that their kids stole anything from me. So I went to their house and showed them the security footage from my cameras. They didn't know that I had cameras installed. The reason I had cameras installed was because of prior thefts from my nephews. It started with food and snacks and then moved on to DVDs and video games. Then pretty much anything they thought they could smuggle out after that.
Starting point is 00:01:33 And anytime I made them return stuff they'd stolen from me, I was treated like the bad guy and I got the fakes to apologies I'd ever heard. My nephews never got much trouble from their parents either. The final straw happened last year when my nephews broke into my house and stole three six packs of my favorite blood-armed beer from my fridge. They used my hidden spare key to get in, and also took a huge dump in one of my bathrooms and not only didn't flush, but also peed all over the floor. I'm pretty sure it was intentional. I confronted my sister and brother-in-law about them stealing my beer, and I was basically given an equivalent of, boys will be boys!
Starting point is 00:02:14 So I had the cameras put in and told no one, which was a smart move. When my sister and brother-in-law saw the camera footage of my nephew stealing from me, they seemed furious, but they were actually mad that camera footage of my nephew stealing from me, they seemed furious. But they were actually mad that their boy skipped school to steal from me. They'd spent all day making repeated trips to the bottle drop and caching the cans by machine. Then, they bought video games and junk food with that money. That money actually amounted to nearly $200.
Starting point is 00:02:43 Between that and the destroyed padlock, I told my sister and brother-in-law that they now owed me $200. My sister and brother-in-law went from being angry at their kids to making excuses for them, and then being angry at me for wanting that money back when I know they have three kids and a mortgage. I said it was either that, or I go to the cops and press charges. They told me to get out, and I said they have two days to decide how to pay me back before I go to the cops. I got back everything from the shed that my nephew stole, including my machete and gas can. But over the next couple of days, my sister and brother-in-law were blowing up my phone
Starting point is 00:03:21 with a ton of messages, both verbal and text. At first, they were calling me heartless because it was right after the holidays and they have three kids in a mortgage. Then they started gaslighting me, they even threatened me, and all of this would go in a repeating cycle. My nephews chimed in from another cell phone and were sending me lots of messages of their own. It was more fake apologies and gaslighting.
Starting point is 00:03:45 My oldest nephew even sent me a picture of himself holding up one of my soda cans and giving me a middle finger. So I guess they weren't taking my threats of going to the cops seriously because we're family. When I last spoke with my sister and brother-in-law, they refused to negotiate any sort of method of repayment for what my nephews did. Even when I suggested they just sell the video games that were purchased with the money from the cans.
Starting point is 00:04:09 They had the audacity to say that I had actually tempted my nephews by having the cans in my shed to begin with. Oh yes, I'm the devil snake that tempted my nephews with a shed full of cans that just screamed, money, money, money. So that was it. I went to the police station that morning and filed the reports. I gave them a copy of the video footage of my nephew stealing from my shed. I gave them the broken lock they smashed.
Starting point is 00:04:35 I showed them all the text which were screen-shotted and also given as evidence. Hell, I even gave them a copy of the photo that my oldest nephew sent me flipping me off. And indeed, my nephew's got arrested. The cops came to their house, and my sister and brother-in-law were forced to let them in because they had a warrant. Apparently, all three of my nephews went from being cocky little turds to crying like babies when they were being put in cups. I know this because one of their neighbors is a friend of mine and he was there to see it. Shortly after the arrest, my sister and brother-in-law
Starting point is 00:05:09 were blowing up my phone again. They weren't able to get their kids out of jail until Monday morning. Now, the boys are being charged with larceny, willful destruction of property, vandalism, and harassment. The police took this whole case pretty seriously because there's been complaints about my nephews for some time now. But until now, nothing was actually proven. The past few months, bags of cans have been going missing all over the area. I don't know if it was my nephews or not, but they're likely suspects. And with words spreading of their arrest, let's hope that other neighbors with security cameras will come forward with more footage. My sister and brother-in-law showed up at my house, too.
Starting point is 00:05:50 I refused to open the door and told them that this happened because they're enablers who refused to hold their kids accountable for their actions. That just made them scream and pound on my door more until I threaten to call the cops on them, too. And since I've done it once already, they know that I mean it now. They left without any more trouble, but they went back to blowing up my phone. I didn't block them. Instead, I just saved all the messages because I've decided to take them to a small claims
Starting point is 00:06:18 court over this. I don't really need or want the money. However, the kids aren't the only ones who need to be taught a lesson. In the end, I hope that I put them in enough of a hole that they learn not to screw with me ever again. I also have the full support of my family on this. My parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. They're all supporting me in this because my nephews have stolen from them too. And after I banned my nephews from my house, some of them did the same. I'm gonna push for my nephews to get community service because I know they'll hate that the most. Whenever they're made to do any kind of work they don't want to do,
Starting point is 00:06:55 they just stand around griping, acting like the whole world is against them. So hardly anything ever gets done. Perhaps a few hundred hours of unpaid work will teach them some manners. They've been spoiled for far too long. Man OP, I know that from their perspective they don't feel like you're doing them a favor, they feel attack, they feel like victims, but honestly you're doing them a favor. Their parents may have already destroyed their lives. It's very possible that they're so like mentally screwed up by being just spoiled and
Starting point is 00:07:27 entitled that their entire features are ruined. Hopefully, they'll learn a lesson from this, but I'd be surprised if they do. Our next reddit post is from Demon Master. Karen complained about having to pay for her pizza after answering her door naked. This story happened to me in 2004. I was working for Pizza Hut. Mind you, at this point, I was in a six-month relationship, so I was appalled that a customer would answer the door in her birthday suit. I, choosing to remain professional, told her the price
Starting point is 00:07:58 of the orders so she could pay me and take her pizza. Karen said, I gave you a free show. I went my pizza for free. I told her, I am not at liberty to give you the pizza for free. I am not a manager. She, she called my manager and asked to get the pizza for free for giving me a free full body show. The manager called my phone and said, bring the pizza back and call the cops for indecent exposure. I called the cops in front of Karen who tried to tell the cops that I sexually assaulted her. I left and the cops came to the restaurant asking for a sworn statement on my side, which I gave. After Karen heard that I gave a sworn statement, she admitted to purging herself when she gave her statement. What's so
Starting point is 00:08:40 weird about this story is that she called OP's manager, like, Why would OP's manager care that OP saw the girl naked? The manager didn't get to see the girl naked, so why would he be tempted to give the pizza for free? Even if he wasn't inclined to be like, Ooh, boobies, I'll give you the pizza for free, he wasn't there! He didn't see it, so why would he care? Man, this caring is stupid. Our next reddit posted from a confused person. Some years ago, this caring is stupid. Our next reddit post is from a confused person. Some years ago I dated a girl.
Starting point is 00:09:07 The relationship was bad. She was very controlling and abusive. It ended up really bad and we broke up. I kept going on with my life and after some years I got a decent job enough to cover all of my needs, have a comfortable life and make some savings. The thing is, a couple of months after getting my job, my ex contacted me. She first asked me to talk, and I believe that she might want to reconnect or something, but she showed up with a 5 year old child claiming that he was my son and demanding child
Starting point is 00:09:39 support. I didn't believe her, but the child age did match the time that we cut contact. I got advice from a lawyer friend of mine to try to solve this out of court. I offered to take responsibility, pay child support, and be an active part of the kid's life, only after taking a DNA test. Everyone was okay with this, except for my ex. She acted offended and demanded that I just give her the money that she deserved. She used all the excuses she could, and even contacted my family to tell them that I was trying to avoid taking responsibility of our child.
Starting point is 00:10:12 When she ran out of excuses, we finally did the DNA test. And surprise, I am NOT the father. She was so mad with the result and cried about the money, saying that it was unfair and she deserved it, but she didn't accomplish anything with me. Moving on to last week, there was a little party at my parents' house. I was talking with my brother and a friend, and my brother started to joke about the situation with my ex. My friend and I started to joke about it too, and some of our comments were a little dark and bad, but we were far away from the rest of the people and nobody else could hear us. started to joke about it too, and some of our comments were a little dark and bad, but
Starting point is 00:10:45 we were far away from the rest of the people and nobody else could hear us. At least, that's what we thought. We were laughing when my sister appeared very angry and pushed me against the wall. She had been spying on us and she heard our conversation and she was really mad. She started to yell at us for being horrible people for mocking a poor woman. A few hours later, when the party ended, she asked me to go to the kitchen with our parents, and she started to say how awful I was for what I did. Apparently, my ex had been in contact with my sister, and my sister believed my ex, and the whole point of this party was to have an intervention.
Starting point is 00:11:23 My brother and I were like, are you serious? My sister started going on about how I forced my X to be a single mother, and that I have a moral obligation to help her. My dad only said that maybe we're being too cruel for making jokes about her, but that I wasn't responsible for that kid. My mom then surprised all of us when she said, even if the kid isn't yours, you're making more than enough money to support that child. You should have helped her. Since then, I've been receiving texts that my dad and my brother are on my side, saying that I'm not responsible for my ex. But my sister is telling me how horrible I am for not
Starting point is 00:11:59 being responsible. My mom only said, it's your decision and I respect it. I'm just very disappointed that you ended up being so selfish. I know that my ex doesn't deserve my money and I'm not planning on giving her any, but the constant harassment from my sister and my mom is just exhausting. OP, I don't know what's going on with your sister and your mom. If they're so concerned about your ex's kid, then they can start paying child support. And then OP post it an update. After my last post, I read all the comments, and I decided to show them to my mother. We had to talk about the situation. Again, she started off on my ex's side, but after reading the post and all the comments and opinions,
Starting point is 00:12:42 she realized that she was wrong. I think the thing that heard her the most was everyone doubting if she cheated on my dad and that I wasn't his son, and if that's the reason that she was on her side. We had a very long conversation. She told me that she believed my ex because she was always so nice and kind with her, so she decided to not believe me when I told her all the things that she did to me during the relationship. Because a good girl like her could never do something like that, so she decided to not believe me when I told her all the things that she did to me during the relationship. Because a good girl like her could never do something like that, so I must be lying. After that, she apologized to me, and we're good now. On the other hand, we have my sister.
Starting point is 00:13:16 At first, she decided that she wouldn't talk to me until I take responsibility, but after a few days, I talked with her. She's totally on my ex's side, even after I showed her all the proof, and she says none of that matters because a woman's word goes first, and that's all the proof anyone should need. Also, she said that, even if you aren't the biological father, you have an effective responsibility with her. So you must be man enough to take charge of them and start acting like a real man.
Starting point is 00:13:45 She's a lost cause. As for my ex, I did some research and I found out that shortly after we broke up she started dating another guy. Or maybe she was cheating on me with him before, I'm not sure. They broke up some weeks later and she went on multiple dates until she found out that she was pregnant. I also found out that she's been trying to find a father for her kid for the last two years, and I was just next on the list. But now it looks like she's desperate because she's never been that aggressive with anyone else before. Some days ago, my ex and my sister came to my workplace.
Starting point is 00:14:20 They made a big sign with my face that says, he abandoned his child and irresponsible father and started drama saying all their BS. Their intention was to shame me and use social pressure to force me to take charge of them. They literally admitted to it. Eventually, they were escorted out of my workplace. I got in trouble over that scandal, even after showing people all the proof and legal documents that proved they were lying. I was warned that this had better not happen again, or I'll be fired. After that, I contacted a lawyer, and were now creating a very long and detailed document against them. They went too far, so now I'm gonna take action.
Starting point is 00:15:01 Maybe legally, I can scare them enough to leave me alone. Our next reddit posted from eCAPISELP. My father and mother were never really together. I was, for lack of a better term, a one night stand baby. When I was born, my mother got primary custody and my father had visitation rights. A year after I was born, my mother got pregnant with twins from her then boyfriend. After my twin brother and sister were born, they became her first and sometimes only priority. I was always treated like her mistake child. My brother and sister were aware of this, and they would use that to tease me constantly. When I turned 13, I was given the chance
Starting point is 00:15:41 to choose who I wanted to live with and moved in with my father. The issue started with my sibling because my grandfather on my father's side was a wealthy man who liked to spoil his grandchildren. I always had a decent amount of spending money. I got a new car for my 16th birthday. I also had my college and university paid for. My siblings would throw fits when I got things and they didn't and they would say really I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had a lot of work to do, and I had gotten a good paying job and I didn't really need it. My father, who had also stopped taking his father's money after college, taught me that it was okay
Starting point is 00:16:29 to take help. But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't try hard yourself. My grandfather passed away a few years ago. My cousins and I inherited a good amount of money. I had put mine in savings because I had become someone who didn't really spend a lot of money. Now here's where the story begins. Last year, my husband's best friend died in a car accident, leaving his six-year-old daughter Chloe in my husband's custody. His daughter is understandably having a hard time with all this, so we made the decision to take the savings out to do something fun and make her happy.
Starting point is 00:17:03 Like a lot of little girls, she loves Disney. So we decided to dip into our savings and take her on one of those Disney cruises. She sees the ads on TV all the time and gets so excited about them. When we told her, she got so happy and frankly, I have never seen her this happy since her mother's passing. She hasn't stopped talking about it since we told her. My sister is mad at me because I'm taking my adopted daughter and not my eight-year-old niece, Terry. She thinks that I'm being a jerk for taking as she puts it, a kid that's not even your responsibility over a kid that's actually your family. This comment pissed me off and I told
Starting point is 00:17:42 her off for it. That just made her even matter. But now my brother is messaging me agreeing with her. I feel like I'm not doing anything wrong. My husband and I are now raising Chloe. So in a sense, I am taking on a father-like role and I just feel that it's not wrong to want to do something for her. And well, I love my knees, but she's just not very well-behaved. My sister rarely says no to her, and this is made her incredibly hard to deal with,
Starting point is 00:18:12 and I can just imagine how she would act on a Disney cruise. Man, at this point OP, I'm surprised you're talking to your family at all. Like, why? What's the point? They sound super toxic and obnoxious. That was our Slash Entitled People, and if you like this content, be sure to follow my podcast because I put out new Reddit podcast episodes every single day.

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