rSlash - r/Offmychest Husband Cheated on me WITH MY NIECE!

Episode Date: November 17, 2025

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I played a big part in raising my niece, Anastasia, who's now 24. Her mother left with another man, and her father, my brother, was an alcoholic his whole life and neglected his daughter. Sometimes he even physically hurt her. I married my husband Ivan, who was my brother's opposite. From a poor child, my husband became a successful businessman, and last year, when this mess took place, his business had almost 50 employees. Over the past months, he grew it even more. He took care of himself, wore suits, was confident, slothed. and tall, and a good father to our seven-year-old daughter. My niece, Anastasia, adored him. She was

16 when I got married to him, and finally, we had a man in the family to control her father. He defended her. If she called in the middle of the night that her father's friends are over there and she scared, Ivan picked her up and drove her over to us. She was very vocal about how much she admired my husband. My husband and her father did not get along well. My husband was fed up picking him up from the hospital, paying for the liver issues he had. Ivan took care financially of my mother. Ivan cheated on me several times, but I felt secure in this marriage, and he controlled the chaos of a family. Fast forward, it was revealed to me that Ivan and Anastasia had been messing around behind my back for more than a year. It would happen after or before family

dinners and whenever I wasn't around. Anastasia changed a lot, or revealed her true face. She told me she wants my husband. She deserves him more than me. I divorced him and very quickly he and my niece started dating officially. We weren't even divorced yet, actually. Meanwhile, my brother died and before he did, he even tried to ask Ivan for money due to the mess. The relationship between my niece and my ex didn't last long. He started drinking too, cried in front of our daughter, and he blamed Anastasia for ruining our marriage. He turned violent with her. She was obsessed with him, but ended up leaving him. Anastasia was always out of this world beautiful, and she quickly found someone else. And my husband tried his best to get her back,

more than he ever tried to get me back. But their relationship was 90% a bedroom fantasy. She did everything he wanted her to do. So my therapist helped me understand this was the reason. I blamed myself. Now, one year later, all three of us are single. Elijah apologized to me, and even though I still love her, I couldn't forgive her and don't want her around me. She realized who Ivan really is, and it saddens me, but she's all alone. No friends, no family, nothing. She still reaches out from time to time. Ivan is dating around 20-something-year-old women, and I'm still in therapy, but have a good job and take care of my daughter, Maggie. I found out that my mother and brother knew

all along about the affair, but no one told me. They probably feared what happened anyway, that we would divorce, and they would get no more support from my husband. Yo, so, O.P.'s brother and mother effectively pimped out

Anastasia to Ivan to get money. This, oh, geez, this family is messed up. Our next Reddit post is from Okarina Determiner. My dad passed away a few months ago, and I learned yesterday that he left the whole roughly three million pound estate to my two younger brothers. I got nothing. The reason, I'm a woman and your future husband will provide for you.

I'm a 27-year-old woman who's single and nowhere near getting married. I worked hard to be independent and still got treated like I don't need support because someday a man might do it. My brothers aren't struggling, but they took it without a word. I feel gutted and angry. I feel gutted and angry, that even in 2025, my worth to my own family was tied to some sexist idea that my imaginary future husband will care for me. The weird thing to me about this story is you would think that the opposite would be true. If men are supposed to be the providers, then shouldn't the sons get nothing and shouldn't the women be provided for by the dad? Huh? It's actually backwards, isn't it? Our next Reddit post is from Choice Reply. When I was 14, I got my first girlfriend pregnant. We

were kids, completely in love, and completely over our heads. Her parents were ultra wealthy, controlling, and cared more about appearances than people. Mine were well off too, but they hated her family. It was a proper Romeo and Juliet mess. When she got pregnant, her parents gave her an ultimatum to cut me off completely, or they would throw her out on the street. I was 14. What was I supposed to do? I wanted to fight, but everyone around me made the decision for us. And that was it. One day, I was a kid with the girl I loved and a baby on the way. The next, I was just alone. My daughter was born, and I never got to meet her. They shut me out completely. No photos, no contact, nothing. I wrote letters for years that I never sent. Now my daughter is an adult.

She doesn't know who I am. I see reunion videos on TikTok, dads meeting their daughters, and I cry myself to sleep like some pathetic fool. I imagine what her voice. voice sounds like. I imagine what kind of music she likes, if she has my smile, if she knows someone out there has loved her whole life without ever getting to say it. My wife doesn't know how bad it eats at me. We have a son together, and I love him more than anything. But there's a part of me that's stuck in 14-year-old me, still standing there, losing everything. I've built a good life, but some nights I just feel like a ghost haunting a life that could have been. Well, O.P., you know, you've got rights as a father. I don't think there's anything stopping you from seeking some kind

of custody rights now, or like visitation at least. So subpoena your ex-girlfriend and make it happen. They definitely can't stop you now. Our next Reddit post is from Throwaway. My wife and everyone else thinks that I got laid off. But really, I quit so I could make a go at being a Twitch streamer full time. My wife doesn't follow or know anything about Twitch or video games at all. She doesn't have any knowledge of or connection to the industry that I used to work in. She's a paramedic, so she works different shifts and doesn't know I stream at times when she's not home. Her salary is enough to cover our bills, although things will be a bit tighter until I start making money on my stream. I'm not going to tell anyone until I'm bringing in enough money that I can do it full time.

I've never been happier and as unstressed as I am now. It's easy for me to lock myself in my home office and say I'm networking and job hunting, when I'm really streaming if my wife and or my three-year-old is home. If my wife's not working or my daughter isn't a daycare, it's harder, but I make it work. I feel a bit guilty for lying, but I've wanted to do this for a long time. No one that I know in real life knows. Then, three years later, O.P. posted an update. I know I'll probably get flamed for it.

I understand that I'm the one who ruined my life and my marriage. My divorce was finalized a year ago. wife found out about six months after I posted. I understand that I was wrong and that I screwed up. I regret my stupidity so much. She left our flat with our daughter and went to live with her sister and hired a solicitor and that was it. Don't be stupid like me. We've been divorced for a year and I found out that she just started dating again. I'm gutted. I miss her. I miss my daughter because she only lives with me half the time. Whenever I see my wife's sister or other members of her family,

they give me the stink eye. I can't believe I was such a lazy douchebag while she was out there busting her butt as a paramedic. I understand why everyone hates me and sided with her. I know I'll get judged either way, but I'm posting in case anyone understands what I'm going through and being gutted when your ex starts dating again. Everyone in the comments of both of these threads

are talking about how stupid it is to quit your job, and pursue full-time streaming. And yeah, usually it is quite dumb. But the real problem here, let's not lose sight of this, is lying to your wife and living a double life so you can pursue a streaming career. No wonder she dumped you. Even if O.P. had been successful,

she still might have dumped you for the dishonesty. And to anyone out there thinking of becoming an influencer, take it from me, don't quit your day job. Build an audience first, then quit. Please, that's what I did. That's the way to do it. Our next Reddit post is from Extension Sale. About six months ago, I was walking home from work late at night and saw someone pulling stuff

out of a dumpster behind a furniture store. At first, I thought they were homeless, but then I saw them load everything into a nice SUV and drive off. I was curious, so I looked in the dumpster myself, and there was this perfectly good wooden chair just sitting there, like nothing wrong with it at all. I took it home, and now it's my favorite chair in my apartment. That started everything. Now, I go dumpster diving maybe three times a week, usually behind retail stores and grocery stores.

The amount of perfectly good stuff that gets thrown away is absolutely insane. I furnished half my apartment. I get most of my groceries this way, like sealed packages that are past the sell-by date, but still totally fine. I even found a working Nikon camera last month. But the thing is, I can't tell anyone. My family would be horrified. My coworkers would probably think I'm disgusting. My friends would look at me differently.

So I just lie about where I get the stuff. Oh, this lamp? I got it at a thrift store. And don't get me wrong, I have a stable job and I have money aside from steak. I just love the absolute thrill that I get from finding stuff. I just wish I could be open about it without people judging me. It makes me feel sad that I have to hide something that genuinely makes me happy and keep so much waste out of landfills. Sometimes I want to tell my mom about the cool stuff I find, but I know that she would freak out.

Down in the comments, we have a similar story from Papa Smurf. My college girlfriend lived in the same building as most of the wealthy Chinese foreign students. At the end of the first semester, we were shocked at all the new and unused textbooks overflowing. So I went inside a dumpster and we grabbed about 100. We took them up to her room, Googled the prices, and then flipped them for a few thousand, and paid for a trip to Mexico. At the end of the year, we came prepared. All the rich Chinese kids just leave their belongings

and fly home with just a suitcase. New raybans and cases, expensive scuba gear, I don't know why, unused, thousands of dollars of textbooks, cameras, luxury purses, a watch, Patagonia jackets with the price tags. It was amazing. I collected everything. My girlfriend sorted and sold them,

and then we went to. to the Dominican Republic only having to spend like a hundred bucks of our own money. It was sick. Our next Reddit post is from Tempani Noor. My wife, who's 56, hid massive debt, and now my retirement dreams are ruined. I'm a 52-year-old guy, and I feel like I just got sucker-punched by life. But there's no one coming to save me, so I'm just going to get on with it. I'm 52, and I thought that I was about five years away from retiring. I've worked hard to I was 18, saved what I could, kept things simple, no fancy cars or stupid toys. A couple of weeks ago, I found out that my wife has been hiding a huge amount of credit

card debt for years, like six figures worth. All in her name, but the banks don't care. It's ours now. She was terrified to tell me, and I get that, but it doesn't change the fact that the dream I had of being done at 57 is gone. I did the math, and unless I'm want to live on beans and sleep in the car, I'll have to keep working another 10, maybe 12 years. I'm sorry, but I don't even have the energy to yell about it anymore. We're selling some stuff, cutting back hard, and I've already told my boss I'll stay on past when I plan to leave. I'm not leaving her. We've been through too much, and this isn't something I'm going to throw the marriage away over. But I won't lie. Something in me feels like it just broke, and I don't think

it's coming back. Here's what I don't understand O.P. Why are you the one working for another 12 years? Why doesn't she work for another 12 years? And I know with this to come off as victim blame me because I have full sympathy for your O.P. But how is it even possible to spend that much money and blow hundreds of thousands of dollars in credit card debt without noticing? What is this woman buying? So, you know, I'm not being critical of you O.P., but there had to be some warning signs, right? Unless it was like gambling debts, just money just vanishes into nothing. Yep, down in the comments, OP confirms that his wife has been out of work for a long time. So she expects him to bail her out. Our next Reddit post is from Disasterous Norwal. After going

through my wife's phone, I found out that she's been cheating on me for almost a year already with multiple partners. It sucks to be me, but I have most things settled, as I'm already in touch with a couple of lawyers. The thing I need to get off my chest is that I'm planning a petty revenge to at least get her punished. Since this opportunity window is so good, I'd say that karma itself is giving me a chance to get her. Our kids have the flu and allergies, so they currently can't smell anything. Also, we just send the couch to clean, and it'll only come back tomorrow. So me and my wife will end up having to sleep in the same bed, and that's how I'm planning my revenge. I'm going to abuse that, as for the last 36 hours, I changed my whole diet,

eating over a dozen eggs, cabbage, bean stew, chili, steamy, steamed sweet potatoes, and tons of red meat, and other stuff. Foods I enjoy, but I do consume in moderation, as all of them gives me gas issues. They make me fart a lot, and they sometimes carry a stench that even I find mildly unbearable. My future ex, however, is quite sensitive to the smell. She even puked once after a barbecue left me with bad gas. She's currently working right now, so she has no idea what awaits her as I'm eating without telling her. And I can already feel my stomach twitching.

So it looks like it'll be a very toxic night for a very toxic partner. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'll have a burrito as well, since I plan on binge eating as much as possible to get the worst possible karma smell for her. That was R slash off my chest. And if you like this content, be sure to follow my podcast because I put out new Reddit podcast episodes every single day.