Saturn Returns with Caggie - Enroll in the Letters to Venus Course Today: Break Old Patterns, Build Deeper Connections, and Embody your Inner Venus

Episode Date: March 19, 2025

In this special solo episode, Caggie dives into the upcoming Letters to Venus course, exploring the powerful themes it will cover - from self-worth and attachment styles to breaking old patterns and building deeper connections. Key Themes: 💫 Understanding your attachment style and how it shapes your relationships. 💫 Breaking free from old patterns that keep you stuck in cycles of heartbreak or confusion. 💫 Reclaiming your Venusian power by embracing your self-worth, magnetism, and femininity. 💫 Learning to identify red flags, set boundaries, and date more consciously in today’s complex dating landscape. 💫 Exploring embodiment practices, intimacy dynamics, and building deeper emotional connections. The Letters to Venus course is designed to help you navigate these themes with clarity and intention. With expert-led webinars, practical tools, and a supportive community, this course will empower you to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships - both with yourself and others. What You'll Gain from the Course: ✨ Expert-led webinars featuring Noura Bourni, Kiana Reeves, Lisa Lister, Olivia Petter and Lalala Let Me Explain. ✨ Tools to navigate dating, relationships, and self-discovery. ✨ A supportive WhatsApp community for connection, reflection, and growth. ✨ Journal prompts and resources to guide your journey. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this course will help you deepen your self-awareness, break unhealthy cycles, and build a love life that aligns with your true desires. Enrollment closes this Saturday 22nd March at 9am - don't miss out! Sign up here and start your journey to deeper connection. If you have any questions, feel free to DM us: @caggiesworld / @saturnreturnsco

Hello everyone and welcome to a new spin-off show from Saturn Returns all around love, relationships and dating. This is Letters to Venus. Venus is the goddess of love, the celestial muse of beauty, desire and connection. She teaches us that love is not just something we seek, it is something we embody. Hello everyone and welcome back to Letters to Venus, our spin-off show from Saturn Returns. I hope you have been enjoying it so far. It has been such a joy to dive into this project. I have been thinking about it for a really long time and it feels the perfect moment to be doing it, especially as it is Venus retrograde. So the timing couldn't have been better. And I just wanted to talk to you today about something

that we have been developing to coincide with the series and that is the Letters to Venus course. You guys might have seen us talking about it on social media or heard it on the podcast and we have gathered some of the guests that are in this season. So we have Keanu Reeves, we have Nora Borney, we have Lisa Lister, who's coming on next week, and we have La La La, Let Me Explain. And the reason I wanted to do this is because I feel like the podcast kind of scratches the surface on these really massive topics. And they can be so profound and so eye-opening in what we discover about ourselves when we listen, or even when I have these conversations. But I wanted to create a space where we could come

together with a sense of intimacy and actually do the deeper work. I did a relationship course a number of years ago and it was one of the most transformative things I have ever done. I feel like it is the reason that I found the relationship that I have today. It is the reason that I began to understand my own patterns of behavior and so it's always been a dream of mine to create something like this for Saturn returns. So if you've been listening to this series so far, you know that Venus isn't just about love. It's about self-worth.

It's about connection. It's about how we show up in relationship, not just with others, but with ourselves. And right now, with Venus in retrograde, there couldn't be a better time to start doing this work because what Venus retrograde does is it has a way of stirring things up. Often old patterns can resurface, past relationships, exes can come back, things creep into your mind that have you questioning yourself and perhaps what you really want. And it can be incredibly uncomfortable because you're sort of like, where did this come from? Like, why am I feeling this way?

But it is the perfect invitation to really pause and reflect and reset. And so I really invite you guys to join me on this course because I know how hard relationships and dating can be, especially today because the modern dating landscape is so complex. Our expectations and demands for love and partnership have reached a point that they never really have in history before. And with that comes a huge amount of complexity because also the society we live in has changed so much. And so kind of going into relationship, being really crystal clear on what is your responsibility and how you show up and most crucially, what you actually want

from someone, what you want from a relationship, because I think we all have a tendency to not really give ourselves the moment to be honest. and if we're not fully honest with ourselves it's easy to get swept up into situationships and things that actually make you doubt yourself and make you feel less worthy. One of the biggest puzzle pieces when it comes to relationships that we are going to be diving into because it's been so important for my own work and my own relationship is attachment styles. Now, I'm sure you guys are familiar with the term whether you're anxious, whether you're avoidant, fearful avoidant that will go into the categories and what they represent.

And for me, understanding that I fall into the fearful avoidant, which essentially means you crave closeness, but when you get it, you sort of feel a sense of suffocation and panic. So it's this horrible dichotomy where the thing that you really, really want is the same thing that makes you feel afraid. And having done the work on this myself, I'm able to have much more compassion when I am sort of triggered, so to speak,

and I have the tools and the practices that allow me to create space and know that that is okay, like nothing's going to go wrong because historically I had a tendency to just not know how to communicate my needs and just end things prematurely because I didn't know what else to do. I didn't think that the other person could handle my expression of my needs.

And if that would upset them, then I couldn't handle it basically. And so I have a lot of compassion for people that are navigating their own attachment styles. Perhaps you have a lot of clarity on how you operate, and that's fantastic, but I always think it's something that we can learn even

more about because the more that I've gone into this, the more it blows my mind because it's like someone looking into my head and repeating the way that I think and the way that my mind sort of deducts things on situations. And the horrible thing is we can end up losing the very thing that we desire the most. And this is why relationships and doing the work is so important and also something that we need to know that is tough stuff. Because if we don't have the tools and the resources and the community to speak to about it, how are we supposed to know? Because our brain is wired for safety. And sometimes that means sabotaging or abandoning

the thing that actually can make you grow and expand. So that's one topic that I'm really excited to get into. We've kind of touched on it a little bit this season and Keanu Reeves, who, I mean, I just adore her work. She's gonna be doing a session for us on like embodiment and sexuality, which it really starts our sexual force, our life force energy.

It starts with the self. And often as women, we are brought up in this way that we need to be seeking the male gaze and that our sexuality is only seen when it's reflected through the male gaze. And what I really hope to accomplish through this session, and hopefully it will be something that you bring into your day to day is recognizing that it is your own and that it is something sacred and to be valued. And when you start really working on it in yourself and getting in tune with that energy, you realize how powerful you are and you don't give it away so freely. And her work has been really transformative to me. Every time I see anything she puts off, I'm like, this woman is just incredible. I love the stuff that she does with her partner

on how to kind of maintain intimacy. And a couple of you have messaged me about whether this course is for people that are single or in a relationship. It's honestly for everyone because the work does not stop when you are in relationship. It just, it goes into a different place where your wounds and your triggers and the mind's trickery come up in these very perplexing ways. And in a way, it's kind of, I think people talk a lot about dating and struggling with that. And that's fantastic. And I think it's amazing that people can and that there's such an openness. But there's a little bit less openness when it comes to actually being in a relationship and what it takes to maintain intimacy and closeness and also create that necessary distance for tension

and for adventure and for passion to stay alive. And that is the sort of intricate dance that we have to maintain and we have to find a balance with when it comes to long-term partnership. I believe that the more aware we can become of our own trauma, our own attachment styles, our own wounding, and this may come from childhood, it may come from early dating experiences, the more equipped we are going into partnership.

This is not to say that I believe we have to be completely healed. I believe we heal in relationship to another. But we're far more likely to attract a partner that is going to be able to provide a container for that healing if we are aware. A lot of the time people equate a sense of butterflies and almost anxiety with a measure of how much they like someone and how much they want to invest in that person. And I always encourage people to be wary of that because it doesn't really account for reciprocity. You need to have a give and take. You need to know that that person

is willing and is going to show up just like you are. If someone is just taking from you, then that is not a sign to keep pouring more of yourself into the situation in the hope that they may suddenly turn around and choose you. In fact, it is a call to kind of go back into the self and really reflect on what it's bringing up for you. What is that person setting off in you that remains unhealed? Because trauma bonds are the most intoxicating thing,

but they are not the foundations of a healthy relationship. So that is also something that we're going to be exploring. So I really created this course to help you guys navigate relationships and dating with more clarity and intention because let's be honest, love today is very complex and it's layered and we all come with our own stuff and we need to take radical responsibility for that. And we need to be more in tune with what is a match for us energetically. And if we're not doing the work, if we're not noticing the cues in our body, the signals that tell us something is off, the signals that tell us something is worth pursuing,

then we're going to of course be going round and round in circles questioning ourselves, wondering why we keep dating the same person in different forms. So if this sounds familiar and something that you want to work on, I hope that you join us. It is starting this Saturday and Nora is our first session. So we're really going to be delving into Venus in our charts because I always find that looking at our astrology is like our blueprint for existence. It's how we came into this world and it allows us to have more compassion for our own behavior and to notice, okay, this is how I will show up in relationship.

This is the kind of person that I need in partnership. And also the most important thing I think is like, as women, we need to lean into our Venusian essence, which is magnetic. It allows things to come to us. We live in such a logical, linear, man-made world where we think we have to behave in this way to attract a partner. It's almost like being like a man and you can just see it's not working. And what I want to encourage from this course is really leaning into your femininity, knowing that when you are in flow and in tune with yourself and in harmony with yourself, things will just come to you. And it sounds abstract and it sounds mystical and it sounds

magic. And that is because it is all of those things and that's how love and life should flow. We have an episode coming out next week with Lisa Lister which is all around really getting into this Venetian energy and she is the living, breathing embodiment of it and she's also going to be taking part in this course. So I'm super excited for those two. And then we've got two major players in the dating landscape. We have La La La, let me explain, who has the most straightforward, no bullshit advice and really allows us to recognize red flags to set boundaries and stop settling for situationships or things that are not in alignment

with what we truly desire. She is super smart when she talks about this stuff. Whenever I watch her videos or listen to her podcasts and like, this is for me, I think she's one of the best in the game because it's just so direct and so considered at the same time and calls out all of the fuckboy behavior that we have to navigate. And I think it's just really, really important approach to have that in your locker that you

can be that, I guess for lack of a better term, kind of cutthroat, because you do need to be, because it's your time which is valuable and your energy and it's not to be taken for a ride. We also have Olivia Petter who has joined me on Saturn Returns Live. We have done like massive talks, her and I for sort of a thousand people on love and relationships. I love her take on modern dating. I feel like she's someone that's really out there experiencing it in real time. And so I love her perspective on how things have changed over the years and how people's behaviour has changed

and what we need to do to date more consciously when we're navigating things like ghosting, bread crumbing and the pressure with social media and this feeling like is there something better out there or like we could be replaced at the drop of a hat. So I'm really looking forward to those two joining me on a panel discussion, which will be happening later on in the course. And to support this whole experience, we have set up a WhatsApp group for everyone

that is taking part in the course, where we will be sharing resources, journal prompts, things that just help you throughout the week as we go from webinar to webinar so that you can really dive into your own patterns and build new, healthier dynamics. It's the support I think we all need. It's gonna be a very safe space

where people can be vulnerable, they can share their experiences. And I'm really looking forward to that component because I feel like the beauty of this podcast is that we have created a community of like-minded people. And so I think for us to be able to come together on a WhatsApp chat group where we can just share things with each other and experiences will be fantastic. So I hope this has helped anyone that has been thinking about doing the course. Perhaps this is the first time you're hearing about it.

If that is so and you have more questions, feel free to send me a DM or send one to Saturn Returns and we will pick it up. And for those that want to take part, I will put a link in the show notes so you guys can sign up. Like I said, we're going to have multiple webinars with experts and there's going to be a group going on throughout the course where we will be sharing lots more journal prompts and resources. And I hope that it is going to be soul nourishing and healing and help you guys get what you want when it comes to love and relationships. Because the truth is this work is hard but it's necessary. And healing your relationship patterns means looking at the parts of yourself that you've been avoiding. And it can be uncomfortable, but it's also incredibly

empowering because it allows you to understand why you do what you do. And if we don't have that awareness, we're just going to keep repeating the same cycles. So when you finally understand why you've been attracting certain dynamics, why you get triggered in certain ways, you finally have the power to change it. And that is what Letters to Venus is all about. It's about understanding yourself so you can create love from a place of alignment and not fear. So if you've been feeling stuck, if you keep repeating the same dynamics, this is for you. Venus retrograde is a perfect invitation to break those cycles. The astrology that's going on at the moment really invites this kind of work to stop searching for love in the wrong places and start building a foundation of love within yourself.

So if you're ready to understand your patterns, reclaim your worth and start building a foundation of love within yourself. So if you're ready to understand your patterns, reclaim your worth and start building the kind of love you actually desire, this is the time to do it. Letters to Venus is open for enrollment now, so if you just head to the link in the show notes, please sign up to join me on this journey. We will close the enrollment on Saturday. So you have a few more days to do this and I cannot wait to do this work with you. Thank you so much for listening and as always remember, you are not alone. Goodbye. you