Scamanda - Crime Story: Charlie Webster on Amanda C. Riley’s Web of Lies
Episode Date: April 22, 2024In this special bonus conversation, Charlie Webster sits down with Crime Story host Kathleen Goldhar to discuss why she believes Amanda was not only able to lie about having cancer, but steal from tho...se closest to her. It's a fascinating conversation you don't want to miss that offers new insights and updates on the case. You can listen to more incredible tales of true crime every week on Crime Story. Find more Crime Story episodes in your podcast app, or here: https://link.chtbl.com/ElKMSt6q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I'm Kathleen Goldtar.
This is Crime Story. Every week, a new crime with the storyteller
who knows it best.
One of the biggest podcasts of the year followed the cancer journey of a young woman named
Amanda C. Reilly. In 2012, Amanda's life was turned upside down
when she was diagnosed with stage four cancer.
And for nearly 10 years, Amanda fought hard,
braving several relapses with the help of friends
and family and a community of online strangers.
But there was just one problem.
Amanda never had cancer.
Host and producer, Charlie Webster,
spent years digging into Amanda's web of lies
and created the hit podcast, Scamanda.
Charlie, welcome to Crime Story.
Hi, Kathleen and everyone, listeners.
Thank you so much for having me on.
I'm excited to talk through
Scamanda because there's so many nitty-gritty nuanced details behind the scenes that I think
we can discuss. And before we discuss, and I have such a joy every time I get to say this,
because there's been more than one, but we can disclose that we have worked together before.
So that's something that I always want people to know, that I actually know you on a more personal level
than just the woman who produced a massive hit podcast.
I love that.
You actually, we actually know each other.
We actually do.
We worked on The Shermans together,
something I'm really proud of.
And you did a brilliant job bringing that to justice.
So yeah, it was great to work with you.
And I'm glad that we can carry on talking about different stories as well and hopefully work together again.
That would be awesome. But let's talk about Amanda because she is quite the character.
Tell me who Amanda was. Is she still alive? Despite her diagnosis?
Despite having cancer many times at stage four and then recovering, relapsing, recovering, relapsing.
You gave a great introduction because Amanda started a blog in 2012, which you talked about
called Lymphoma Can Suck It, and she detailed her cancer journey so intimately, so many
people connected to it, and she gave hope to a lot of people. You've got to think about the time as well.
You know, now we've got everything under the sun.
We've got TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, you name it.
You know, the world is small.
And in 2012, it wasn't necessarily like that.
Everybody was on Twitter and everybody was blogging.
So, it was the time of, like, the fitness blog, the cooking blog, the mommy blog.
So she hit that blogosphere moment.
And she, it's such a convoluted story
because there's so much more to it.
But she originally was part of this family
because she came into this family as a 17 year old
where she taught Chia
because the eldest of the two girls had, guess what?
Lymphoma, Hodgkin's lymphoma.
And so Amanda was 17 and she was helping
with this person's non-curricular activities.
But she basically ends up marrying the husband of that family.
Then the couple, Alita and Corey, who were the parents of the two young girls,
and Amanda ended up marrying Corey down the line and who was 12 years her senior.
So if you kind of think, oh, well, you know, maybe there's lots of different plays
of where this might have come from, you know,
and the fact that she spent a long time with a young girl
who had Hodgkin's lymphoma,
and then later she had Hodgkin's lymphoma.
But going back to the story,
and because it is,
it's not just about this woman who faked cancer,
it's about a story about psychological manipulation.
It's about a family about psychological manipulation. It's about a family and what lies can do to a family,
as well as a wider community,
as well as to the many, many thousands of people
that she afforded.
But this went on for years and years and years and years,
and she became part of a church,
and a massive mega church.
The churches that you're kind of seeing
on the TV where you've got so many people
in the crowd and the energy.
And, you know, she was part of that.
She ended up calling herself the anointed one.
You know, people thought she was a miracle.
But the key thing really to it is a lot of people like,
how can people have been duped by her?
And I don't know, I always think, well,
you would never question somebody who has cancer.
She had the best disguise ever,
because you're not gonna question anybody
that's got cancer.
And so many of us have been touched by cancer in our lives,
but she was so good.
And I said to many, many of her victims who I spoke to, she was just that good.
It wasn't your fault.
She was that good.
She, you know, fainted in church.
She wet herself in church.
An ambulance came to get her in church.
People went to hospital to visit her in hospital having treatment.
She emulated every step of the way of somebody who had cancer.
So it wasn't just like she faint ate cancer behind a keyboard and stole money.
And when you say victims, I want to ask you to explain how did somebody become a victim of hers?
What are you talking about when you say a victim?
It's a good question. So it wasn't just financial.
You know, there was people that looked after her children.
She did have two children
during cancer and one of them was called a miracle baby that actually she said reversed the cancer.
But that's another story. And you know, there was there was financials involved,
but a lot of people didn't really care about the money. It was the fact that they were betrayed
so deeply by Amanda. And it was people that raised money for her.
They did like rallies for her.
She went on the pitch in different NFL games and stood there with other survivors.
So she betrayed all those people.
They're all victims of her lies because they're sat there really having to deal with something that
I can only imagine. I've been through some of my own illnesses and traumas myself and I know how
isolating it is and lonely and how horrifically painful it is, you know, not just physically but
mentally. And she sat there fine with those people that were struggling, saying she had what they had.
So the victimization is so deep.
And she lied to her family too, right?
So you include her family as her victims.
Yeah.
She had a stepdaughter, which was not
the daughter who had cancer, but the younger
sister of the girl that had cancer.
So it was Corey's daughter. Amanda called her her bonus daughter.
And you know, she was part of it.
She didn't realise but Amanda ended up using her cancer with Corey in a custody battle
to get Jessa, who's the youngest daughter, away from her mom and she ended up living
with Amanda and Corey and she was taken away from her
her own mother and you know never mind what that did to her mother Alita but the fact that she was
part of these lies and she started to question it after a while and she felt you know she was
just a young girl what was she supposed to do you, it's so deep in terms of victimization,
so it was a really good question.
And then also people raised money for her
and people gave her money,
the least painful part of it.
Right, exactly.
Because that feels just like a cut.
Like it's like, okay, this is what happened,
it was for the money.
I get that.
It's the victimization part of the more emotional
and manipulation that you start to question why
somebody would want to do that to somebody else.
So thousands of people, decades or at least a decade of scamming these people, she is like full in
this is her identity,
but it does start to fall apart. How does that happen? How do cracks start to appear
that at least other people start to now think that maybe these people who are waving a red
flag might have been right?
Yeah, so I think it's important to break that down because actually not many people did
think that. That became something that I had to really sensitively step around when I was
making this because a lot of people still believed her when I got involved because I
got involved at a stage where we weren't quite sure whether she had 100% lied.
Well, I wasn't, the other person was,
which I'll explain who she is,
but how it started was Nancy.
Who's Nancy?
Yeah.
Nancy's a hardcore crime producer.
That's probably the best way to put her.
And a very different personality to me,
which I think worked very, very well.
And she's really dogged and like a dog with a bone.
And she got an anonymous tip.
I'm talking years ago, I'm talking like back in 2015
and said, you know, look at these blog posts.
I think this woman's lying.
And it became very, very personal for Nancy
and Nancy sadly lost a sister to cancer.
So again, I think that really gave her
that extra motivation.
But then she started to speak to Alita,
who is Corey's ex-wife and the mother of Jessa,
who's the bonus daughter.
And I use that word because that's how
Amanda termed her, of Amanda, who we're who's the bonus daughter. And I use that word because that's how Amanda termed her
of Amanda, who we're talking about the custody battle. And Nancy could see like, you know,
the pain that Amanda was causing. And so she pursued and pursued and pursued Amanda,
and really looked into everything and didn't believe her. And so it was Nancy who actually handed it over to the police
and then in the end to the IRS, which is how Amanda got caught.
Because again, something we should talk about
is it was really hard to catch Amanda legally
because it's not a legal to lie.
And the thing about these kind of crimes
is they're very, very behavioral and psychological.
So, you know, our justice system is,
no matter where we live, pretty much adversarial,
where it's about, you know, this piece of evidence,
you know, you stole this, I can prove it.
Whereas behavioral crimes are much harder,
and coercive control is much harder to prove
because of our justice system.
Then it just became very personal for Nancy.
And the more Nancy went after Amanda,
the harder Amanda played.
And Amanda actually sued Nancy
and got a restraining order out against her
and cost Nancy a $200,000 lawsuit.
But what's interesting to your question
is when you said, you know, waving the red flag,
you know, did people come suspicious?
No, actually they thought Nancy was one of these
horrible press people that was like just going after
an innocent young mother, because Amanda's young,
you know, she's I think 37, 38 now,
but you know, she started doing this in her early 20s.
And so, you know, this poor woman
who is advocating for cancer, she's raising money,
she's a stand-up beacon in the community,
she's got cancer herself, she's fighting.
Stage four, she's a miracle, she's got children, she's,
you know, and this horrible, you know,
journalist is coming after her.
And that was the narrative right up until Amanda was sentenced.
Like, right up until the moment she was sentenced.
And even then, people were like,
mm, still not sure.
So that's how convincing she was.
And when, you know, when I started to speak to people, it was this
like, what? I just can't believe, like, what? You know, it's like, this is not the Amanda
I know. And it was so conflicting. Not one person. Well, I mean, a few people were like,
okay, you know, actually, like, there were a few things in hindsight. And, and, you know,
I spoke to people when Amanda was younger,
not in the podcast, this is after and they said that she used to lie a lot, but nobody
said to me, yeah, actually, she was this and she was that. But the majority of people,
like, don't, you know, don't want to don't understand, like, you know, so it was actually
Nancy that became the baddie.
And then I actually in the podcast,
tried to kind of use those, the two female characters
to see what you thought about either of them.
Because again, Amanda played into the innocent victim
because she's very charming.
You know, I spoke to her many times.
She's very, very polite, very charming, very endearing,
looks you in the eye, really, you know, empathetic.
And Nancy is a wonderful person,
and, but is far more like on the nose,
and in a very different manner.
So I think they played into each of those roles
just because of their natural mannerism.
So Amanda was so good at it and so many, like you said,
you couldn't find anybody for a long time
who was really ready, but who tipped off Nancy then?
Do you have any idea?
I do, but that's the million dollar question.
Can you tell me?
I can't because I agreed Do you have any idea? I do, but that's the million dollar question. Can you tell me?
I can't because I agreed that I wouldn't out this person.
Now the reason why is because they felt scared
over what Amanda might do,
but this person didn't want to be revealed.
Maybe down the line she will be
because like hint, hint hint we have
other projects building off of this one. But right now like out of my duty and confidentiality to her
like I can't say because that was part of the stipulation. Yeah of course no worries.
I know you've said Nancy was the one who started all this, but so how did you get involved? What point in the story were you brought in and why?
So I think Nancy and I were talking about a few other stories. And she told me about this Amanda.
So I was like, I can't believe somebody would do that.
Let me, you know, I'd be interested to have a look.
So I had to look at it and then Nancy was like,
well, do you think you could make it into a story
to like get the story out there?
And I was like, okay, let me have a look.
And I had to be really careful that,
look, Nancy absolutely hates Amanda
and Amanda absolutely hates Nancy, right?
So I had to step away from that and not have that opinion.
And some listeners might be like, yeah, but she,
this woman fake cancer.
Yes, in hindsight, we know that
and she's been sentenced to prison.
But also it's really important,
as you know, Kathleen, as a journalist,
that you don't, nothing's black and white.
I really don't believe it.
There's so many colors in between black and white.
There's so many reasons and complexities to our behavior
and why we do things.
It's not an excuse, but it was really important
that like I looked at it that way.
And to be honest, Scamander, the actual story and podcast
would never have been the podcast it was
if I'd have just gone in there bulldozing and gone,
this woman, fake cancer, this is the story.
Because what it is is a tale of psychological manipulation.
And I'll go back to your question,
but the reason why I made it like I did
is because I wanted the listener to feel
and understand that behavior,
because the behavior is actually more common.
It's very narcissistic behavior, gaslighting behavior,
which we hear a lot about in terms of
maybe a more intimate relationship,
but we hear less about in friendships
or in general community.
But sadly, it is quite common. So I really wanted listeners to go along that journey and not have me
tell them what to think or me tell them what this woman did. You know, once I started to look in the
story, it really did intrigue me. I got into the stage where she was being investigated by the police.
Her house had been raided by the police.
Amanda didn't stop. She carried on posting.
She actually, you know, the more the police went after her,
the more she turned the heat up and doubled down.
And so I got involved in that stage.
And then Nancy and me went through
all the blog posts, but Nancy had done so much work beforehand. And then I separated
myself and started to do my own investigation.
So who did you talk to?
Nancy was close with Corey's ex-wife, again, reminder, that's Amanda's now husband, and that side of things.
So I was like, okay, I'm going to speak to more people that I know, Amanda, let's speak to the
church, let me speak to the pastor that she was very close to, let me speak to her closest friends.
And there's some people that aren't in the podcast, because again were they were slightly too fearful to go on tape on mic
and some actually you know sadly felt maybe ashamed about their as if they were complicit
even though they weren't and that's the funny thing about our behavior right and going back
to the conversation about victims, we sometimes blame
ourselves and few people I spoke to were like, I don't understand how I could have not seen it.
And part of my job was to also reassure them, you know, I've never been in that situation,
but I have been in situations of betrayal and narcissism on the other end of it and trauma myself. So I understand that you, you self blame.
It's like a really common symptom maybe,
should we say that of trauma.
But I think you particularly would be sensitive
that stuff because I don't know how much,
I think we should talk a little bit about you
because you have had trauma.
I mean, you've been very open about it.
So we're not going to like, you know, be talking about something that you don't put out there.
But I think your history does help who they see walking in the room to have that conversation.
And I think probably from your background, you have a particular way of approaching those
conversations that make people even
subconsciously understand that you know what it feels like to be confused and a victim
of something and unsure of how it got to that point. Am I saying that right?
Yeah, thank you for bringing that up because I do understand. Yeah, like, I've had a, um, just a very quick one and I don't want to trigger
anybody, but, um, I was raised in, uh, very severe domestic abuse. Um, I come from a very poor, uh,
background. My mom had me as a teenager. We were homeless twice when I was younger. Um, then when
I was a teenager, I was groomed
and sexually abused by my running coach.
So, you know, I had a lot of turmoil
before I even turned 18.
And then in my adult life, seven years ago,
I felt critically ill and I ended up in a coma.
And then that was another trauma and another fight.
And I've also gone through the battle of,
you know, feeling ashamed. And for a long time,
I felt ashamed about what happened to me and ashamed about my past. Even going into this
industry, I was like, well, if people knew, know that I'm from that, because, you know,
the industry is quite privileged. And it's hard to come from where I've come from, to even get to where the majority of people start. So, you know, I carried that, um, you know,
that shame even into starting media
and thought that, you know, I wasn't good enough.
And then after a while, I started to realize,
to your point, that, oh, the people I'm talking to
and I'm working with are people like me.
I even did a show called Survive in El Chapo recently
and I worked with Day and Pete Flores,
who are twins that turned Chapo in.
And I know we're here to talk about Escamander,
but people would think,
oh, they were the biggest drug traffickers in North America.
And then they turned on a dime
and they ended up turning Al Chapo in voluntarily,
it's unheard of, and put themselves at risk and people would think, you know, what have I,
what am I, I can't relate to these people but I can. We spoke for hours and hours about post
traumatic stress disorder, we talked about mental health, we talked about our chaotic backgrounds,
we talked about, you know, their dad was in prison.
We talked about they were groomed in behaviorally from a young age to drug traffic from the age of
like seven. And we talked about those learned behaviors and we had so much in common. So I
think, yeah, I soon realized that, you know, maybe I could help tell stories and help people see them on a different light, because
in ways I can relate to a lot, to a lot of the emotions that connect to them. And I could, in the
case of Scamander, in the story of Scamander, you know, even I even spoke to Amanda and
didn't go there shouting or judging or going, give me an answer, which is what,
and I know other people try to do with her.
You know, I'm not here to judge,
I'd just love to understand.
And with, again, victims,
and maybe some people wouldn't like being called that,
but you know, they were victims of a crime.
Let's just like hardline it.
It's no emotion or judgment around it.
They actually were.
And whether that's emotionally or financially, hardline it, it's no emotion or judgment around it. They actually were.
And whether that's emotionally or financially
or their time, people gave so much time to Amanda
and their heart to Amanda.
And I think sitting with those people
and helping them understand that it wasn't their fault.
And every single person said to me
that they had a piece of the jigsaw in this story, right?
But they didn't know the rest of it.
And so, for so many people, I was helping them
put the pieces together of their own experience,
which helped them process it and move to the other side.
That was a very long thing.
I actually am gonna do a really little shameless plug.
As we're speaking now, Kathleen, I've not announced this,
but when this comes out, I will have announced it.
But I've got a book coming out on trauma in May
called Why It's OK to Talk About Trauma.
So you can tell.
That's awesome. That's awesome, Charlie. Good for you.
Because you're not busy enough,
because you don't spend enough time writing.
But whatever.
I know.
I need to get out more. Yeah, exactly. because you don't spend enough time writing, but whatever.
I need to get out more. Yeah, exactly.
What did you find out about why?
How far down that road did you get to figuring out
why she behaved this way? I know that, like you said, that far down that road did you get to figuring out why she behaved
this way? I know that, like you said, that's the one question everybody wants to know,
and you're not going to get the full answer, but I'm curious to know how far down the road
you got.
So I did go down the rabbit hole. Nancy would think differently. Nancy thinks that it was
financial. I really don't think so. I don't think it also premeditated con. And I was
really in two minds about calling it Scamander
because originally we were using Scamander
as a joke and working title.
And then I ended up calling it that.
And I was in two minds because of the word scam
because it's scam Amanda.
So Scamander.
And I didn't feel like it did it justice because of the why.
Because I don't think to me a scam is like,
I always think it's like a con,
it's something that's premeditated,
people scamming people out of money.
Whereas Amanda, I feel like it was something that she did
and she lied and then it just grew from there
and she got validation through it
and she got attention through it
and self-worth through what she was doing.
And then it just carried on and carried on and carried on.
So if you're in that situation, right, you can't,
when people start questioning you,
if you really think about it logically,
if you go, oh no, oh, I'm outed, I've lied,
then you've got to look in the mirror
and you're going to lose a lot.
So that's why a lot of people double down on their lies
because it's self-protection.
It's human self-protection going back to fight and flight
because it means that you can carry on,
not without losing face.
So it's actually quite a common behavior
for people like that.
And I honestly, to a point, think
she believed her own lies and what she was doing.
And if you think about it, and again,
I just want to caveat that this is not a justification.
It's just to understand her behavior.
You know, she was stood on stage,
and people were like in awe of her.
She became a local celebrity.
And you know, that's attractive to a lot of people.
It really is a lot of people,
a lot of young people, they go on TikTok,
they go on YouTube,
because they're trying to be known and a celebrity.
And I think that's what it was.
She got attention, she got free things.
I don't think it was about, you know, buying a Ferrari. It's interesting that she still holds it was. She got attention, she got free things. I don't think it was about,
you know, buying a Ferrari. It's interesting that she still holds it up. So in prison, she's obviously not being treated for a cancer and she's still alive. So how is she telling you
that that all makes sense? That's a really good question. I mean, she is in a medical facility, which is interesting. And she is saying that she is not very well.
I don't know what with, and I don't know whether that's true or not,
but that's what I know.
And that's what she's telling me.
And, you know, she does say that she is sorry about the people that she hurt.
And, but interestingly, when you listen to the podcast in the last episode, I
had like a creator's choice to make because I play out the court situation.
So I play out Amanda's whole statement and the judge's statement.
And a lot of creators would have just cut that out and said,
oh, she got sentenced to X amount of years.
She got sentenced to five years, by the way,
which was the first case of its kind.
And also the recommended sentence was 12 to 18 months
and she got five years federal.
And now this case is being used by police
all around different states in the U.S.
how to catch these people.
But the reason why I played that out
is because I wanted people to hear what it was like,
because I was in that courtroom
and I wanted to hear what Amanda said,
because she didn't actually say that she lied about it.
And she did, you know, she said sorry
about the people that she'd hurt,
but she's never actually said that she lied about cancer,
which I find really interesting.
What did the police actually charge her with? Can we talk about that?
You said it's the first time, which is fascinating, and that she got more.
So can you break down what they actually charged her with and like how they got her?
Yeah, I find this really interesting.
So the police went after her.
It was the San Jose police and it was a detective called Jose Martinez,
a really great guy, and he's in the podcast.
And he went after the case,
and he said that he had so much work on at the time.
Like, he was pretty much a one-man department,
and Nancy kept pushing him.
So it was Nancy that took the case to him.
And there was something about this
that made him carry it on and pick it up.
And I think it became personal for him.
And that was where... That was Amanda's downfall,
because I honestly think she'd have got away with it.
But it was the fact that a lot of people resonated with it
and were like, oh, that could be my family
that she's targeting and taking money off.
And actually, like, all of us know in some capacity
somebody that's been affected by cancer,
whether it's ourselves or a family member or a friend
or somebody that we're close to in our community.
So I think that was her best disguise,
but also was her downfall
because people emotionally connected to it
rather than just doing it as their job.
And that's what happened with Detective Martinez.
So, but he just kept getting stuck and going up against walls all the time because he couldn't
work out how to get her because she was protected by HIPAA laws.
So he was phoning up hospitals and hospitals and they were like, can't give you any information
about this patient.
And I think it's so interesting because I think the majority of us just think, oh, she's
doing something wrong. The police should get her. But it's so interesting because I think the majority of us just think, oh, she's doing something wrong.
The police should get her.
But it's actually not like that.
They need so much evidence to be able to bring a charge.
They don't tend to bring anything to court unless they think they can get a dead-on conviction.
HIPAA laws protect all our medical records, so if it's to do with anything medically,
then the police can't access it.
But he did manage after a long time, and I'm talking several years,
he spoke to a hospital and he describes it really well, far better than I'm doing.
And he said, OK, fine, just tell me, though, is this person a patient?
And then they said no. So it was only by the fact that he got that confirmation that she wasn't a patient, he could then take it to the IRS.
And then the IRS ended up charging her with wire fraud.
She was only convicted for the money that she took online.
So all the cash, I mean, I've got a picture of her
where there was cash thrown at her feet on stage in church.
None of that counted.
All the services in kind, like food and clothes
and babysitting and fundraising. And trips. And trips. Yeah. She went to New York several times.
That was funded and funded in business class, air flights as well. And that was all funded by
people. None of that counted. So it was only the money that you gave online
to donate to her cause that she was convicted of
because that was the only thing that they could prove
because it was through wire fraud.
That was the only way they could charge her.
So I think it's fascinating.
Just even the charge aspect of how this justice system works
with these kinds of cases.
And I know you asked this, this gets asked on the podcast,
but everybody's always curious about her husband, Corey.
He was never charged.
How, you know, what do you believe?
Do you think he didn't know? He insists he didn't know.
You're right.
This is the question people, a lot of people ask.
So he didn't get convicted.
So I found a key piece of evidence,
which was the audio from,
because they claimed bankruptcy twice
on Amanda's medical bills.
So again, it's not just the money that was taken offline
that she got convicted for.
There was also the money that they claim,
no, they claim bankruptcy twice.
They actually, Alita, the ex-wife of Corey,
was paying child custody to Alita and Corey because of Amanda's
medical situation. So there was a lot of money coming in from different directions that wasn't
part of the actual case. But it took me probably about six months, maybe even more, to get
the audio from the bankruptcy. But it's of Corey basically taking the oath.
And he says that he goes to every single appointment with Amanda.
Yeah.
So there's lots of different things.
If you listen carefully to anything where anybody's talking about Corey,
cause other people did speak about him and what he was like.
Um, and you know, the things that he did, I mean, he told people he was a fire.
Uh, man, and he was never a fireman.
There's lots of little things that really didn't add up.
So you can go and make your own mind up.
And if they involved him, they were worried that they would actually lose them both and
they wouldn't get a conviction.
So they had to choose.
And Amanda chose not to say anything about Corey, which I think is really, really interesting.
And he, the whole time, claimed that he didn't know.
But in court, I was there, and Corey, you know,
his daughter was giving a really emotional victim's testimony,
and it was really emotional.
I mean, she talked about how this affected her mental health,
and she was really upset.
And, as you can imagine, like, she's 19 now, and Corey just didn't even react.
I'm assuming the couple, they're still together, and he's just waiting for his wife to come
home?
Yeah, they're still together.
He has the two, they've got two little boys, which the grandparents of both sides look
after the little boys as well.
And Corey's got the boys and they're still together,
you know, and it was interesting
because when I first got the story
and you were talking about how you look at a story
and how I personally look at something,
I was like, well, hang on,
there's like a 12 year age difference.
Is there some kind,
is in Corey's 12 years older than Amanda,
you know, is there some kind of, and Corey's 12 years older than Amanda,
is there some kind of, and I'm not saying this, this is just the way that I looked at it.
I wonder if there's like some kind of coercive control here.
I wonder if he's pulling the strings behind the scenes.
That's what I looked at to start with,
but everything I found was that it was her
that started doing this.
And there was, when she was in college, I found out that she said her that started doing this. And there was, you know, when she was in college,
I found out that she said she got lupus
and there was things that she did in college
to get out of doing certain tasks
and to get attention where she lied.
You know, I spoke to people when she was younger
that said that she would lie about silly things.
So I think this is something that's a learned behavior
from very young.
And I just think that Corey and her were the perfect storm, because I think that my own
opinion is that he's got his own things as well, and that this just happened and carried
on and then they got stuck in that situation.
I think I say in my intro, it's one of the most successful podcasts of the year, but
I think it was the most successful podcast of the year.
Can you tell me lastly, sort of the response that you've had since this thing blew up?
Yeah, the response has been phenomenal.
And it's been so fascinating reading people's comments.
They ask a lot about Corey.
A lot of people said, why didn't I
talk about a diagnosis of Amanda?
Did she have Munchausen syndrome or some kind of disorder?
And the reason why I didn't was because that was never mentioned in her court case,
it was never mentioned in her defense,
it was never mentioned in anything,
by the police, any records, any medical stuff.
It was not mentioned.
And I thought it was really important
that I didn't decide to give her a diagnosis.
Even if I brought a psychologist in,
you know, I've said I've done a lot
of psychology work myself, you know, I've said I've done a lot of psychology work myself,
um, you know, that person's just making a judgment
based on the podcast.
Um, and I thought it was important not to take that away
from the victims as well.
Um, and it's a story of psychological manipulation.
So that was one of the comments.
And also, like, the decisions that I made,
some people said, oh, you know,
or you could have made it shorter. And I was like, no, because And also like the decisions that I made, some people said, oh, you know,
or you could have made it shorter.
And I was like, no, because it's not about the end result.
It's about how she did it.
And it's about taking you on that journey.
It's about immersive storytelling as well.
Like I used Amanda's blog,
for people that haven't listened to it,
you know, Amanda's blog posts are wiped from the internet now.
And, you know, I used her blog post to help tell the journey
from her point of view, how she did it and what she did.
So it's also, it's just fascinating storytelling,
not let's get to the point.
And also, you know, one of the other things
is like the repetition of, oh, now she's got cancer,
now she hasn't, now she's got stage four,
now she's relapsed, now she hasn't, now she's back.
And the reason why there's that repetition
isn't because I'm repeating things, because that's relapsed, now she hasn't, now she's back. And the reason why there's that repetition isn't because I'm repeating things,
because that's what she did. So it's important to show that.
If I just go, oh, you know, she's got cancer, she had it, you know, four times
and relapsed four times. Then that's boring.
And you need to feel how she did it to understand the complexity of what she did and how, I'm
talking like not just hundreds, thousands of people were along for the ride and believed
her right up until that there was people that stepped into that court that still believed
her.
Yeah, I think that's the incredible part is that you showed just how long it lasted and
how good she was at
it to maintain that lie for so long. She really had to be good at it to make you believe that
somebody could relapse four times.
Exactly.
Yeah. And still be alive. Yeah.
Exactly. But it's, you know, again, it's not, I think it's not as obvious. There's hindsight,
right? You can look back and go, no, no. oh, if you look, I feel like I could talk about it for ages. So. Thank you so much for
joining us. It's really nice to see you and it's nice to hear from you again. Thank you for having
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