Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Scheana Spills On Trust Issues, Timeline Gymnastics & Messy Men

Episode Date: May 29, 2026

This week Scheana is flying solo and answering your wildest, messiest, and most unfiltered listener questions before jetting off to London with the band. She opens up about navigating betraya...l in her marriage, why “100% perfect trust” isn’t always a realistic end goal, and the emotional work that actually goes into rebuilding a relationship after hurt. Elsewhere, Scheana dives headfirst into the Marciano/Jessi drama: did she actually tell him to lie for her, why she’s reconsidering close friendships with straight men after all this chaos, and the new revelation that completely shakes up the narrative. She also reflects on her own cringe-but-relatable post-divorce dating era, the unique nightmare that is dating while on reality TV, and why she avoided dating apps altogether when she was single. Plus, Scheana weighs in on Ally’s messy-yet-iconic Perfect Match era, Summer House reunion timeline gymnastics, handling nonstop online hate, and whether her new music may or may not contain a few familiar inspirations. There’s also a sweet Stassi mom moment, a mini rant about slut shaming, and a reminder that women are allowed to be messy, complicated, and human. Grab your gold hoops and beverage of choice — because this episode has a little bit of everything. Follow us: @scheana @scheananigans  Purchase your very own copy of the NYT Best-selling book/audiobook MY GOOD SIDE at www.mygoodsidebook.com! Signed copies available here:  https://rb.gy/v4y22t!Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 The following podcast is a dear media production. From Vanderpump Rules to Motherhood and everywhere in between. Warm up the kettle. It's time to spill some tea. Let's get into some shenanigans with Shea Shea. Okay. Hello, everyone. Doing a little solo shenanigans before I head off to London.
Starting point is 00:00:46 I haven't even fully unpacked from the family trip to Hawaii. And now I need to get home, finish laundry, unpack, repack, and head to London tomorrow. But I wanted to just take a moment, answer a bunch of your questions because I haven't had a solo moment here for a minute. So I will be honest. I screenshot all of the questions and sent them in and then did not look at them. So I'm seeing these for the first time. I did get a lot of questions asking why Brock was not in Hawaii with us. If we broke up, if I was done, like all of these things, I remember seeing.
Starting point is 00:01:28 And that's not true at all. It was a girl's trip with Opa. But someone had to stay home with the kitties. You know, we just got three kittens, as we know. And we're leaving now for like five, six days to go to Lop. London and he was more than happy to stay home with the kitties. So coming back, though, from Hawaii, I will say it was my second solo flight with summer. First from New York, then from Hawaii, equally as long. I don't know what happened when we were in Hawaii,
Starting point is 00:02:06 but right when we got there, she has the dry cough. It was off and on the whole time we were there, but it really amps up the second we get to the airport. No fever, nothing else, but this cough. And so we're in Starbucks. I tried to get her medicine ball, which it's like off the menu. But if you ask them for it, it's so good. It's like two different kinds of teas, lemonade, honey, whatever. It's magic.
Starting point is 00:02:34 So I got her a medicine ball and then I ask for an extra side of honey. Apparently, I don't know if it's a Hawaii thing or a Starbucks. airport thing. They didn't have actual honey. They only had this like honey syrup, which is basically sugar water like hummingberg food. And so I was like, it's fine. I just need a little something to coat her throat right before she goes to sip it. She accidentally spills it all over herself. And it is sticky. Thankfully, I am very prepared when I'm flying solo, especially with her. I had an extra outfit, get her changed, wiped up, but the cough is just getting worse and people are starting to stare and I'm like, oh my God, what do I do? This is like my worst nightmare. And then gets even worse
Starting point is 00:03:21 when a girl goes, are you Sheena Shea? And I'm like, oh my God, yes, I am here with the hacking kid. Hi, thankfully she didn't like ask for a photo or anything. She was very nice. But I'm like getting summer situated. The T's too hot. I put some ice cubes in it and the T's too cold. I'm like, oh my God, it was like fucking Goldilocks and the three little bears. We just couldn't get it right. So finally, she drinks the tea. I get her a bite to eat. We then go and sit down at the gate and I'm like, honey, just lay down. Like we had an hour until our flight. It wasn't that long of the flight that she's going to get a full night sleep. So I want her to try and at least get this hour nap in at the gate. So I set her up. She's got her toothless,
Starting point is 00:04:04 pillow pet, whatever that thing's called. I put a blanket on her. She's good. until she's not. And any of you parents know when you're a kid in the middle of the night has a cough and they wake up and they're coughing so hard that they throw up, that's where we were at. She wakes up and she's coughing so hard. She like looks so frightened. She starts shaking. And I just like have my hand right there. I don't know like what else to do. Thankfully she didn't throw up. I'm like, it's okay, honey. Lay back down. Everyone at the gate is staring. at me and I'm just like, oh my God, I'm that person with the coughing kid at the airport. But like, I don't even think she's sick. She just has this dry cough. And this mom comes over to me. She was also
Starting point is 00:04:49 flying solo with her two sons, one a little younger, one a little older than summer. And she hands me this barf bag. And she was like, I know how it is. She goes in case she wakes up again. You might need this. And I was just like, oh, I had tears in my eyes. I'm like, nice people do exist. like these people probably aren't judging me. They just are like, damn, that sucks. Like, been there, done that. And so before we even get to the end of the podcast, that woman gets my flowers because she was just so kind when we got on the plane.
Starting point is 00:05:23 She's like, everything okay? I was like, yes, thank you. We had the travel gods on our side. The middle seat was open, laid her down, buckled her up. And it was a semi-smooth flight. She woke up a couple times coughing. but when she was asleep, it was much better. So, yeah, wish Brock was with me, but, you know, one of my biggest fears, again, I conquered.
Starting point is 00:05:46 And I was happy that someone was at the house with the kitties the entire time. So that's the only reason he didn't come. And it was just, it was a fun trip. It was nice to just have some mother-daughter time. We had our own room. It was right next to my mom and dad's room. And it was great. We took a boat ride.
Starting point is 00:06:06 for a wedding reception that we were out there for. We just got pummeled on the catamaran trampoline thing. I mean, she had the time of her life. And it was just, it was a really good trip. Definitely core memory, chickens running around, all of Kauai. And it was beautiful. So I read something on Instagram that said, vacations between the ages of 5 and 10 are like core memories
Starting point is 00:06:33 that kids really keep with them forever. and I truly hope that she doesn't forget this trip. Because when I talk about Holland, I get it. She wasn't even three yet, but I'm like, you don't remember? How do you don't remember that? And hopefully she'll remember London. I'm like, summer, how many kids get to go to Hawaii in London in the same week? Like, this is crazy.
Starting point is 00:06:49 You're living the rock star life. So, yeah, anyways, that's why Brock wasn't there. Long-winded answer. Another Brock question, have you been able to gain full trust with Brock, or is there still betrayal trauma there? I mean, I think when there's been a betrayal in your relationship, you can, of course, forgive. You're never going to fully forget. That experience just becomes part of your story, you know, part of your emotional memory.
Starting point is 00:07:20 And I will say, as time has passed, I think about it a hell of a lot less when we are intimate. it is not in the back of my mind anymore. Thank God. It's taken, you know, three years to get there. I think EMDR has helped a lot. But, you know, there are definitely moments where I do wish I could erase it completely and entirely and just get a lobotomy and take it out of my brain. But, you know, I look at our wedding photos. I look back at old blogs and I'm like, wow, that was a time when everything was great. And I thought I had my happily ever after. And I thought, I had my happily ever after. I had no idea, you know, what he had done. Just like, it does cross my mind.
Starting point is 00:08:05 But, you know, healing, it takes time. And it's not pretending that it never happened. It's learning how to move forward and not let it define every part of your relationship. So it has taken time. But I do think one of the biggest lessons I've learned is just, you know, that like making the end goal 100% perfect trust all the time is not realistic after a betrayal. Some days I feel very grounded, super secure. And other days, there is something random that triggers me or I look at one of my pregnancy photos and I'm like, oh my God, I can't
Starting point is 00:08:50 believe that as we took these photos, he knew what he did. And that happens, you know, but sometimes those feelings resurface and I think that's normal. I think that's always going to to happen, but it does happen so much less. And I'm so thankful for that. I've had to learn, you know, not to shame myself when feelings do resurface. It doesn't mean that I'm weak. It doesn't mean our relationship is failing. It just means I'm human. And trauma doesn't heal in just like a straight line. You know, it comes, it goes. It. It. ebbs, it flows. And I think what matters the most to me now isn't pretending those feelings never happen. It's how we navigate them together when they do. I vocalize it with Brock. I'm
Starting point is 00:09:42 very honest. And I no longer expect perfection from myself. I don't expect perfection from him. I expect faithfulness from him moving forward. You know, I expect honesty, consistency, accountability, emotional safety, all of those things. But I think rebuilding trust is really less about reaching some magical finish line. And it's kind of more about creating a relationship where both people continually show up for each other. And that's one thing that Brock has done time after time, even just missing out on a family vacation and staying back because we chose to get three cats.
Starting point is 00:10:25 And I'm like, okay, I mean, yeah, we could pay someone to like stay at the house and be there. Like, we're already having to do that for London. He goes, I don't need to come to Hawaii. You just go with your family. And I mean, you know how Brock and my mom are anyways, it was probably for the best. But, you know, so to go back to answering the question, yes, there are still moments of hurt and insecurity at times. I think that's always going to happen. But I also think that there's been so much growth, communication and really just a deeper
Starting point is 00:10:53 understanding between us now that maybe didn't even exist before. So, yeah, okay. I also saw Lala's name a lot in the questions that I sent in. Ashley Markley, 89. What do you think about what Luke said on Watch What Happens Live about your beef with Lala? What made you hit your brinkie point with her to the point that you didn't want to mend it? What happened with Lala? Can you re-explain why you and Lala aren't friends? Tell us what actually happened with Lala. Was she jealous over you making the New York Times list? What did you think about Lala's comments on Watch What Happens Live? What happened with you?
Starting point is 00:11:31 Oh my God. She bought a house next to you because you were close besties. What happened with our friendship? I feel like I have gone in depth about this with Kiki here on the podcast back in October. So I don't want to rehash all of that because it is something I have already talked about. Yeah, I think all of your questions will be answered there. So feel free to go back to that episode to get the full rundown. But since you're all asking here and wanting to know, you know, let me just say this.
Starting point is 00:12:04 Okay. Now that we're at the end of May, which is also Mental Health Awareness Month, I just want to take a quick moment to specifically shine a light on maternal mental health because it's something so many women struggle with quietly and don't always feel safe talking about openly. I feel like things like this on the podcast are more important to talk about than past drama that I have already said. I don't want to take the time to rehash all of that because there are more important things to cover here today. And there's just so much pressure on moms to be everything for everyone while still appearing happy and grateful and put together all of the time,
Starting point is 00:12:51 you know, but it's like things like postpartum depression, anxiety, burnout, intrusive thoughts, loneliness. I mean, those experiences are far more common than people realize and struggling doesn't make someone a bad mom. It makes them human. And even though at times when we are struggling, we feel like we're a bad mom, we're just human. And we are doing. And we are doing the best we can. And I just want to remind all of you parents out there because I think it's really important that women know they're not alone. Asking for help is not weakness. I think that's actually something that takes a lot of strength to admit and to ask for help. And I just think maternal mental health, I mean, it deserves so much more conversation, support, compassion, than
Starting point is 00:13:44 it often gets. And, you know, if you guys want to know how I feel about another mom, I just want to tell you how I feel about all the moms. And leave it at that. All right. Lots of questions about me coming back to TV. How long do you plan on being away from reality TV? We need you back on TV. What's the plan? Any plans to come back to TV soon? I just miss you so much on my screen. Podcasts not enough. Oh, okay. Well, But let's just say it's in the works. So stay tuned. And I hate when people say that. And here I am saying it. But it's just not time for me to go into that in more depth yet. When was the last time you spoke to Marciano? That would be the last night of BravoCon. And he rudely came to the bar that I was at. at and tried to give me this attitude like, yeah, when you're ready to talk, I'll be over there. And I was just like, honey, handle you boy.
Starting point is 00:14:53 And he did. And then he left. I haven't talked to him since. What are your thoughts on Jesse Marciano going red carpet official this week? Okay. I mean, I saw the interview. She did say, you know, she's still single. She was just there with him as her date.
Starting point is 00:15:08 And look, first of all, I fully support a woman's right to be imperfect. to be messy because she's still human, you know, especially in situations where she's navigating heartbreak, change, you know, a major life transition going through a divorce, you have kids. I mean, there's a lot in it. I mean, the way I feel like is men in entertainment, they have been allowed to be messy for decades, you know, they don't nearly get judged as much as women. And I mean, just look at how many opportunities someone like Tom Sandval continues to receive publicly versus the backlash Raquel faced. I mean, the double standard is very real.
Starting point is 00:15:56 But with that said, of course I want more for Jessie. She is in a vulnerable place right now. She's coming out of a separation, going through a divorce, trying to rebuild her life emotionally, personally. and I think she deserves stability. Honesty, someone who genuinely protects her peace isn't just chasing the spotlight. But at the end of the day, you know, I support her regardless of who she chooses to let into her life.
Starting point is 00:16:28 That is, that is on her. But honestly, I can really empathize more than people may realize. Anyone who watched season six of Annapum Pum Prules I mean, you guys saw me jump from almost immediately. Like, the ink wasn't even dry on the divorce into another relationship. And looking back, like, it was toxic. It wasn't the best. It was, I deserved so much more at that time and I deserved to give myself more time.
Starting point is 00:17:00 But at that time, I was searching for validation, for comfort, for distraction. Like, all of these things I was looking for. in a person who felt safe. It was someone that I knew that I had a history with. And there were so many cringe moments, you guys. As you know, I don't have to remind you. But I also learned a lot from that experience about myself and my patterns and what I do genuinely deserve in relationships.
Starting point is 00:17:28 I also think people underestimate how difficult dating is when you're on a reality show. I can't imagine how the Kardashians, when they date someone new, it's just like, it's a lot. And most like emotionally healthy people, you know, normal people don't exactly dream of having their private lives dissected on national TV, especially when they aren't even getting paid for it. So on the flip side, if someone does want to date you while you're on a show, you naturally start questioning their intentions. you know, are they here for you? Are they here for exposure? Attention, the opportunity. These are all reasons why I never got on a dating app because I'm like, people are just going to oh, Sheena Shea, like I can get on a show. And I think a lot of times people end up dating within their
Starting point is 00:18:25 own reality, TV or entertainment circles because they're the only people who understand that lifestyle and what it comes with. I know in my single days, I was there too. You know, I had to, you know, I had my share of the Southern Charmed Summerhouse. That also creates this very small, incestual dating pool where boundaries can get blurry and history just gets complicated really fast. So, I don't know. It's messy, but I just want the best for her. Did you actually tell Marciano to lie about sleeping with Jessie to make Demi look better?
Starting point is 00:19:04 Oh, no, no, no. Okay, so I haven't even watched very much. Pinterpump Villa, but trust me, enough people have sent me that clip. I get the gist. No, absolutely not. And honestly, I don't even think Marciano believed the story he was telling. So, like, I'll just say this. Scripted television may not be his calling, okay?
Starting point is 00:19:25 The only reason I was ever even aware of anything with Marciano and Jesse in the first place is because Marciano himself told me they slept together. He told Brock they slept together. came back to my house that morning after we both knew where he went. He showed us the text from Jesse saying Jordan was cool with it. Come to my room. Like, so then of course we're going to ask when he gets back in the morning. He's like, yeah, tells us everything that happened.
Starting point is 00:19:54 And we have talked about this on the podcast before. I've also discussed this privately with Jesse. But Marciano, he claimed it happened. Jesse denied it. Then later, all of a sudden Marciano, changed his story. But also, I want to point out that Marciano called me and told me that he lied about kissing to me at Vanderpump Villa because he was trying to protect Jesse.
Starting point is 00:20:21 And on that phone call with him, I said I was beyond disappointed with him that he could do that to a woman, a mother, a husband. I was so disappointed in him. I pulled the mom card and was like, what does your mother think? and he was like, you know, she's not happy with me. And I'm like, that's just that for me was it. Like I didn't need another duplicitous Tom Sandoval in my life. I don't think I should have straight men as close friends.
Starting point is 00:20:50 After that, it just, it really hurt me because I also was building a close friendship with not only Jesse, but also to me. And for him to then go and lie about one of them because things with him getting on the show didn't work out the way he wanted to. He wanted to get on the show via to me. And then when that didn't work and she didn't want to do the show anymore, he's like, well, I guess I'll go back to Jesse and I'll lie about to me. He did this.
Starting point is 00:21:15 So, look, it's messy, it's gross. But he is just a liar. And that's why he's not in my life anymore. But yeah, look, at the end of the day, that's their situation to sort through, not mine. I'm sure people are here listening like, why are you talking? talking about everyone else and not yourself. I'm going to get back to myself, okay? But people are asking these questions. So here we are. And yeah, Marciano doesn't exactly have a ton of credibility with me at this point. Last thing I'll say about this, it is wild to me that if Jesse felt like
Starting point is 00:21:52 Marciano, I mean, he lied about her publicly and said that they slept together to let him back in in such an intimate way where I'm sure they are now currently sleeping together. It's like, it's just wild to me because I'm like, who was lying? Was Marciano lying or were you lying? And now I'm just either way, you know, between them, it's between them at this point. It's not my circus, not my monkeys, and wish her the best. I do. I want her to be happy. She deserves happiness. And yeah, did you talk to Stasi Schroeder at that Disney event? I did, actually. We had a nice conversation. and honestly I love seeing her in that kind of environment with her kids like fully in mom mode. That is my favorite version of Stasi.
Starting point is 00:22:43 And it is nice to see that chapter of her life in person on TV, just that softer, more grounded side of her. I love to see it. So, yeah. Have you ever seen Dark Side Danny in person? I was at that Halloween party. I'll say that. What did you think about Lala versus Danny's situation? on the valley. Not going to lie, y'all, I'm like three episodes behind. I've been traveling
Starting point is 00:23:12 and I've been trying to just keep up with Summer House and Rhode Island that I have been behind on the valley. So I think I have two or three episodes to catch up on so I don't have any input in that because I have not seen it yet. Are there any real storylines of Manor Pum Pools that were completely made up? Read the book. Favorite season? a VPR to film. Season 10, minus the scandal of all stuff. Obviously, we didn't know any of that was happening when we were filming. But season 10 with Brock and summer and Mexico and all of that was so fun.
Starting point is 00:23:47 Thoughts on Allie on Perfect Match. You know what? I do have thoughts on Allie on Perfect Match. And I just want to say she is a single 30-year-old woman out of an abusive, toxic relationship who is on a dating show, living her best life. and did nothing wrong. Okay? Were there cameras there?
Starting point is 00:24:10 Was drinking involved? Of course, sure. She knows she's being filmed. But also, she's also allowed to make mistakes. She's allowed to be messy. She's allowed to hook up with multiple people if that's what she wants to do on the dating show. I think that you're just seeing a different side of her that I have seen.
Starting point is 00:24:31 I love and adore. And I think she was having fun. She was living her best life. And I think it was a really shady of Hashim to call that out in front of everyone. That was beyond inappropriate. Whether that was production pushed for him to do or not, I think that was so uncalled for. It's one thing if it happened and the show shows it, you sign that away. You know things are going to be shown that maybe you're not going to be proud of in the edit.
Starting point is 00:25:01 That's one thing. But for a man to call out what he. and a woman privately did in a bedroom, I will never be okay with. The fact that e-news highlighted that on Instagram, not okay with. But you know what? I told Allie, I said, girl, lean in, okay? Sometimes you're a Charlotte, maybe sometimes you're more of a Samantha. So I thoroughly enjoyed watching her just live her single best life.
Starting point is 00:25:27 And I hope this just opens up the door to more opportunities for her. And the last thing I want to say on this is I am so proud of her to put herself out there on the biggest streaming platform there is. And to just go in and be the version of herself that she wanted to be, to learn from it, to make mistakes, to be vulnerable, to be open, to pack up her entire life in L.A. Move to Charleston. I mean, it takes a lot of guts to do. the things that she's done getting out of that toxic relationship. And as one of her closest friends, I could not be more proud of her. I know that certain things that have aired on the show, you know, they're not easy for
Starting point is 00:26:15 your family and people to watch. But I've just reassured her that she didn't do anything wrong. And anyone who wants to slut shame, shame on you. And before we even get to the jacks hole, it's you, Hashim. You are my jackshole of the week. Shame on you. Okay. Let's go to Summerhouse.
Starting point is 00:26:35 Thoughts on Carl not being included on in the city. You know, I think the good thing about a show like in the city is it can create a landing pad for those stories from Summerhouse to evolve with the audience. And I think if there are more seasons, I'm sure we will see Carl's story expand there because it makes sense or maybe somewhere else. It's like the New York Valley. You know, there's three people that started on that show, and now there's more from Bannerpump rules. And TBD, where that goes, but I do think it would be weird to never see Carl on in the city. Then also, it's going to be weird to not see the OGs on Summerhouse. So I don't know what is going on with that.
Starting point is 00:27:18 I have not been able to watch the reunion yet. It was on last night. I was at a girls' dinner, and I need to watch it today on Peacock. So thoughts on Amanda telling Sierra to fuck off. Whoa. Okay. I don't know about that, but I have seen a couple clips online and based off some of those and just the discourse I've seen circulating. I definitely have thoughts and have questions. I mean, and the way, oh, the way it ended with Sierra saying what she said and West kind of sitting there nodding. Yeah, I cannot wait to watch it. But I'm also wondering what
Starting point is 00:27:58 exactly as ear stuff because I guess West tried to minimize things with Sierra by saying they only did ear stuff after Andy pointed out they were making out in the finale. I don't know. It came across very dismissive and kind of degrading if I'm being honest. Again, haven't seen the whole thing. These are just clips I've seen. But there's like this undertone where he continuously seems reluctant to fully claim or validate Sierra publicly. And I don't like it. It's just like he's trying to almost downplay the connection in a way that protects his image. And it just, it leaves her hanging out to dry. You know, I don't like it. And respectfully, West is just a regular guy from the Midwest, you know, Sierra is a literal supermodel. And in no universe should
Starting point is 00:28:49 this man be acting like he's the prize while like subtly diminishing her. Like, no, no, sir. So I can just add you to the jacksole list. Hashim, West, you're my jacksoles for the week. And also, okay, are people, another thing I did see a clip on TikTok, are people really buying the timeline that Wes and Amanda, like, I mean, genuinely, that they didn't sleep together until after the statement, because that just doesn't add up for me either. They said their first kiss happened sometime in March. Okay.
Starting point is 00:29:23 But then how did Dave Portnoy apparently know or speculate about? about them at the Super Bowl, which was in February. And are we supposed to believe he just suddenly morphed into Raven Baxter over there, you know, getting visions of the future? I don't think so. And, I mean, we're expected to believe they didn't sleep together until after the joint statement. Like, come on, please. The way Amanda immediately just, like, jumped in and was like after the statement, it just,
Starting point is 00:29:54 come on. I mean, people don't typically coordinate. and release those relationship type of statements together if there's absolutely nothing happening behind the scenes. Like, let's be real. So, I don't know. If this is the tone of the rest of the reunion, if that's like the way it's going to go,
Starting point is 00:30:14 a lot of technicalities and timeline gymnastics and selective storytelling, honestly, that's disappointing. Because you know, at a certain point, it just stops feeling like taking accountability and it just starts feeling like a spin. And viewers can tell the difference. You know, they're not dumb.
Starting point is 00:30:33 So, all right. A couple more things to wrap it up and I've got to pick up my kid from school. Advice for dealing with social anxiety or OCD. Honestly, talking about it. Being vocal about how you're feeling in the moment really does help because I promise you when you open up about these type of things,
Starting point is 00:30:53 nine times out of 10, you're going to get a me-to. response. Oh my God, me too. I feel that way. I go through this. So it really has helped me just opening up to family, to friends and to all of you, to people I don't even know. I have people stop me when I'm out in public and just say thank you for talking about it on this podcast in my book because it really helps people feel less alone. So my advice is to vocalize it as best you can. How do you handle getting so much hate. I usually just try and stay out of the comment section and pray for the people who hate me because if you knew me, you wouldn't hate me. How does it feel being in your 40s?
Starting point is 00:31:37 Feels good. One thing I say on a lot of cameos that I get for people entering a new decade of life, it's a lot of 30-year-old cameos I've gotten recently and I'm like, you guys, okay, 30s, best years of my life, the best decade. I feel like 40 is the new 30. And if 30s were that good, I mean, There was also, well, some hiccups, but like 40s are going to be that much better. So I love it. And yeah, living my best life. Any, oh my God, this is so funny. I swear to not see this before.
Starting point is 00:32:07 Any life advice is someone who just turned 30 married with two kids. How to thrive in your 30s. 30, flirty and what is it? And 30, 30, flirty and thriving. Thriving? Is it? 13 going on 30. 30, flirty and thriving.
Starting point is 00:32:23 Something like that. Any advice. Live it up. You know, you're already doing better than me. I was divorced with no kids when I turned 30. Just enjoy all of this time while you're young and you have energy with your kids. Travel if you can. So, congrats to you.
Starting point is 00:32:44 Last two questions are music related. Are your new tracks all about Lala? I can't tell. What is your music writing process? Well, I will say that every song I wrote was inspired by someone who you would know. The process for me writing is I have an idea about what I want to write a song about, like lessons. Obviously, I think it's pretty obvious where that inspiration came from.
Starting point is 00:33:18 So I sit down with the guys and I'm like, I want to do a song about learning lessons. I want to take accountability. I want to say, you know, that I know I'm one to blame for my mistakes. And I regret things that I said. And I give them ideas. And then we work on lyrics together. And then I'm like, ooh, what if I say it this way? And then Kevin and I, he plays guitar for me, but also produces all of the music that I do
Starting point is 00:33:43 with the 27s. We had a separate session, just the two of us with lessons. And there were a couple parts where I'm like, you know, this isn't sitting right with me. The way that the guys had part of the bridge was like, we won't be the way we were before. And I'm like, maybe we won't be. But I don't like having that negative connotation in the song. I'm like, how about we change it to can we be the way we were before? And that just changed so much of the vibe of the song for me. So it is a collaborative effort, but obviously I'm the final boss. I have final say. I just, I try to make everything rhyme.
Starting point is 00:34:22 at the end. I do like when it's cohesive in that way. I think that's for my OCD. So yeah. Oh, wait, one more. Is there still a way I can get an autographed copy of your book? Yes, I do believe there are still some available on Premiere. If you go to www.com.com. I can drop a link in my stories this week or in the description of this podcast because I signed thousands of them. So there's got to still be some available. But thank you all for listening. I'm off to London tomorrow to perform at Mighty Hoopla. I'm so excited. I might possibly be taking a break on the podcast, but I'm going to bring my stuff with me.
Starting point is 00:35:01 So it might be a break from YouTube, but we'll have something for audio. And I'm going to do a podcast with Summer soon. Before bed recently, she's been wanting to do 20 questions. And I said, can we do 20 questions but on Mommy's podcast? So I'm going to bring my equipment with me and see if Brock and I can do some fun London shenanigans. with summer. And if we are going to do that, I will post. If there's any questions, you want me to ask my daughter, I think that would be really cute and fun as well. And yeah, can't wait, festival. It's going to be so much fun. It's going to be good as gold. And I will say, I would
Starting point is 00:35:39 love to move out of my good as gold era after these performances. I have a new project that I'm working on. And I'm going to be sharing some more of that on the podcast soon. And one last thing I want to add to any of you who are in London and you're listening. If you can't make it to Mighty Hoopla, I know that sold out so quick. I'm doing a second show with Meredith Marks at Coco. It's a nightclub. I believe it's at 9 p.m. And that will be on June 2nd.
Starting point is 00:36:12 So if you can't make it to Hoopla, come and party with us at Coco. That's all for me. Just a reminder that my jacks holes of the week are Westin Hashim. Thanks for listening. Thanks for listening to shenanigans with Shea Shea. Tune in next time for juicy updates from the world of reality TV, pop culture, and more. Download new episodes every week on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you like to listen. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services.
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