Serialously with Annie Elise - 203: Abandoned House of Terror: Mom Lured Daughters to Their Deaths
Episode Date: October 14, 2024On June 5th, 2009, Debra Jeter picked up her daughters and drove them to an abandoned house in rural Texas. After brutally attacking them, she made the most chilling 911 call EVER. We're going on TOU...R!! Come see one of our episodes LIVE in a city near you! Head to https://annieelise.com/blogs/events for dates and ticket info! Simpli Safe: Get an exclusive 20% off any new SimpliSafe system when you sign up for Fast Protect Monitoring. Just visit https://www.simplisafe.com/serialously Ollie Pet Head to https://www.Ollie.com and use code AE and you’ll get 60% off your first box of meals Better Help Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/ae today to get 10% off your first month. Zoc Doc Go to https://www.Zocdoc.com/ANNIEELISE and download the Zocdoc app for FREE.  Shop the Merch: www.annieelise.com  Follow the podcast on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@serialouslypodcast  Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/serialouslypod/    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/annieelise   All Social Media Links: https://www.flowcode.com/page/annieelise_  SERIALously FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/SERIALouslyAnnieElise/  About Me: https://annieelise.com/  For Business Inquiries: 10toLife@WMEAgency.com Sources: CNN CBS News The Hillsboro Reporter Italy Neotribune Audio Sources: The Hillsboro Reporter
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Hey, true crime besties, welcome back to an all- new episode of Serialistly with me, Annie Elise.
I hope you guys are having a good start to your week.
We have got a very interesting and wild case to talk about today.
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you can get your tickets at annieelise.com on the events tab. So today's case, it takes us back to 2009.
And it is one of the more haunting and harrowing cases that I think I've ever talked about,
not only just on the podcast, but even on my YouTube channel, 10 to Life.
It's a really difficult one, not only because of the depravity and the brutality of it,
but also because there's still so many questions.
And you'll understand that as we go.
So this takes us to 2009, as I said, and on June 5th, 2009, a 911 operator got a call that was
something straight out of a nightmare. The caller didn't want to give this dispatcher her real name
or her exact address of where she was, but she did say on this call that her two daughters,
12-year-old Kelsey and 13-year-old
Kirsten, had been brutally attacked. One of the little girls was unfortunately already dead,
but the other one needed medical help right away. One of them's still alive for real. She's asking to be saved, and I couldn't handle that. And so now she's in an abandoned house.
It's been a long time.
She might already die.
So she's flat out lost.
Hold on.
What, baby?
What did you say?
What did you say?
She said, please come to her. the woman that you hear on that call is 32 year old deborah jeter deborah had long brown hair
light skin she was somebody who just kind of truly had like a natural beauty to her
but that day she didn't look like herself not all. She had these deep circles underneath her eyes like she hadn't slept in a while.
She looked very, very stressed, which of course we know makes sense given the situation and
that 911 call, right?
But even setting all of that aside, Debra was under a lot of stress in her life.
See, she was in the process of going through a pretty tumultuous divorce with her husband.
Her husband's name is Lester Jeter.
He was a local car dealer, and he also went by Lee for short. Now, earlier that day, before she
called the police, she had a scheduled, unsupervised visit with her two daughters, and it apparently
had started off really well. This visit was, you know, happy, good, exciting, and, you know, all of
the things. She even promised the girls that she had a really big surprise for them. And Kelsey and Kirsten seemed really excited when they jumped into their mom's
car and drove off to see what this surprise was. Nobody had expected that this day was going to
add incomplete bloodshed. Well, kind of. See, maybe nobody knew exactly what would go down on
that specific afternoon, but the idea that De Deborah's children were in danger absolutely had occurred
to lots of people in their lives. Now, to understand everything, we need to backtrack
a little bit. Until super recently, Deborah had lived with her husband and with her two daughters
in Hillsboro, Texas. And think of Hillsboro as kind of like this perfect place that's a compromise
between small town living and big city life, the big city hustle and bustle, but then you have like
this small farm country type living. Hillsboro is about 60 miles away from Waco, Dallas, and Fort
Worth, so it really was the perfect place for people to settle down if they wanted to work in
the busy city, but then also have that feeling of safety, community, all of the things that come with
farm country and small town living. However, Deborah's life
really was anything but peaceful or quiet. See, in 2004, about five years before this 911 call
went through, Deborah was accused of physically abusing her children. I don't know the full
details on exactly what she supposedly did to them or who even accused her, mostly because
the charges were dropped pretty soon after the accusation was made, but regardless, it's hard to say much about the incident.
But whether or not it was true, this was just the very first red flag
that something wasn't right in Deborah and Lee's household.
However, you wouldn't know it from the outside looking in.
They not only looked like a happy family, a loving family,
but their two daughters appeared like normal, happy preteen girls.
Kelsey, the younger daughter, had long, bright red hair.
She wore glasses, and she was very active in Girl Scouts.
She also did well in school.
She loved to read.
Anytime that she had downtime in the classroom,
she seemed more interested in finishing whatever she was reading
rather than, like, going out to recess or break or gossiping with her friends.
In fact, even when she would walk down the halls from class to
class, she would just have her head buried in a book, not even worried about who she might bump
into, run into, knock over, nothing like that. So much so that she actually got it down pat to open
up her locker with only one hand. She'd have one book in one hand, looking at it, her face just
buried in the pages, and then one hand unlocking her lock
without even looking at it. I mean, she was truly a bookworm through and through. And in addition to
books, Kelsey love, love, loved theater. I mentioned before that she had this bright red hair that was
long, and according to somebody who went to school with her, Kelsey got cast in the lead of the school
play, which with that red hair, you can only imagine what that play was, right? I'll give you a hint. The sun will come out tomorrow. Okay, I can't sing,
but you get what I'm saying? It's Annie. Annie, guys, Annie. So she was overall just a really
good kid, a good student, somebody who had these extracurricular hobbies, and just a happy
middle school girl. Kelsey was also very, very proud of her mom and bragged to her teachers
about her mom all the time. Because, you see, very proud of her mom and bragged to her teachers about her mom
all the time. Because you see, Deborah was enrolled in nursing school while Kelsey was also in middle
school. So she liked that they were both students at the same time. Even though, yeah, like I said,
Kelsey was only in middle school, not nursing school. She felt like this is something that
bonded them together. They were both in school together and she bragged to her teachers all the
time about it. She was super stoked on it. Now, whenever the girls were out of school, whether it was after school or on the weekend,
Kelsey and her sister Kirsten loved riding their bikes. They would ride all throughout the
neighborhood. They would ride past the school. They would just laugh, have fun. They would smile
and wave at anybody who they passed. It was just like innocent fun, something that we don't really
see much of these days, especially with social media being so
many kids' priorities, right? But here you had two sisters who were not only close in age, just 12 and
13 years old, but close in spirit, in friendship, in everything. Basically, they were what any parent
hopes that sisters will become. They weren't just family members, they were best friends. And that
dynamic actually ended up being better for them than anybody could
have ever imagined. Because the truth was, they didn't have many other people that they could
rely on or trust. And that's because right around the same time as those abuse allegations surfaced,
their parents Deborah and Lee started fighting all the time. It ended up becoming a pretty toxic
and tumultuous household. The neighbors could actually hear the sound of their constant fighting
and arguing all the way up and down the street.
People were calling the police over and over again,
either to complain about the noise,
or because they thought that there was a serious domestic disturbance going on.
However, it doesn't sound like the police were able to do much of anything
to make things calm or quiet in any sort of long-term way,
because the fights, they just kept happening.
And before long, it became super obvious to everyone, including Lee and Debra,
that their marriage just was not working. And the stress of all of this really affected Debra. I
mean, I think it's worth keeping in mind that she had gotten together with Lee when she was super
young. She was only 19 years old when their first daughter Kirsten was born, and then Kelsey came the year after that. So it's not like she and Lee had spent much time being independent,
single adults, you know, apart from one another, building their own independent lives, having the
confidence and everything that comes with that. So now it seemed like she might be losing her
husband, and that she was going to be alone for the very first time ever. So that reality caused
Deborah to begin having some serious mental health issues. Despite all of this, though, Deborah remained hopeful.
She was thinking about the future. She was thinking about when things would get a little
less dark, a little less sad. She was still in nursing school, and she was doing very well.
She even got accepted into a very good program. However, she ultimately turned the program down
because that program wouldn't end up with her being a registered nurse, and that was her goal. She wanted to be an RN. So as bad as things were
now going with her marriage, and with everything else feeling like it was falling apart in the
house, she was still working to achieve her dreams. It was like she could see the light at the end of
a very dark tunnel, and if she could just get through to the other side. But before she could
reach that light,
things got bad enough that in May of 2009, Debra tried to take her own life. Even worse than that,
she did it at her home, right in front of her two daughters. Which, let me just repeat that,
her daughters were watching as she tried to kill herself. Which, what a horrific thing to witness,
right? I can only imagine what kind of trauma those girls
would have carried with them if they actually had seen her succeed in taking her own life but even
the fact that she survived and the fact that she tried it in the first place i'm sure that left
them with some pretty serious damage but thank goodness they didn't actually witness their mother
die right before their eyes the good news was in all of this that as i said deborah survived this
attempt she also got medical help.
First for her physical injuries, and then for her mental state.
She ended up checking into a mental health facility in Waco, Texas.
She stayed in that facility from May 22nd to May 26th, 2009.
So it wasn't a super long amount of time, just four days, but at least it was something, right?
Now, even though it was only four days, it was apparently long enough for her husband Lee to decide that things were not getting any better.
This was his sign that the marriage, it was over for real, truly this time. So he officially filed
for divorce right after she was admitted. Now, around that same time, Lee also took out a
restraining order against Debra. He said that it was because he was worried that she was unwell
enough to try to hurt their daughters, since she had also tried to hurt herself in front
of their daughters. Now, I don't know if this solely was just his reaction to her trying to
harm herself in front of them, or if that past history of alleged abuse was also a factor in
this, but I do know that he seemed to really not trust her by this point. And I also understand
his fear for wanting to protect his children, not only for their own safety, but for witnessing something that horrific.
Sometimes the trauma and the emotional effects of witnessing a tragedy like that can be just as
impactful as physical trauma being put onto you. So I get him wanting to be a good parent and shield
his children at all costs. So given that Lee was divorcing her and also took out this restraining order, you might be thinking to yourself, okay, well, by all indications, he
certainly does have some hesitations about leaving her alone with these girls again, right? I mean,
it only makes sense given that restraining order. But for some reason, Lee dropped the restraining
order almost right away after Debra got out of the hospital. And on June 4th, 2009, he agreed to
show up in court to talk about
whether or not she should be able to have unsupervised visits with her daughters, which,
surprising to everybody, he was absolutely in favor for. Which I want to mention, it wasn't
like Deborah had spent months recovering and proving that she was ready for the responsibility
that comes with being a parent, with being a mom. She had been away from her girls for an extended
period of time, yes, but that extended period of time, in total, was only 15 days. It had only been two weeks since she had
tried to take her own life right in front of her daughter's. So, is that really enough time to show
that you have made some sort of long-term, lasting progress? I don't know. But in any event, Lee told
the court that he was okay with letting Deborah have unsupervised visits. And
during that same hearing, as a precaution, Lee also formally requested a copy of the medical
records from her time at that mental facility, and the judge agreed to it. So the plan was that
Deborah was going to be reunited with her daughters the very next day, on June 5th. Now,
their dad, Lee, must have told the girls about the upcoming visit, because 12-year-old Kelsey
immediately jumped on Facebook, and she wrote, I get to see my mom today. Yay. Just so excited that she was
going to be reunited with her mom. It's not clear to me if either of the girls knew anything about
where their mom had been, or the fact that their dad Lee had been worried about their safety. I
mean, I'm assuming that he told them something, given what they witnessed and all, but they were
just excited to see their mom again. It had been two weeks, and they missed her. So that day, Lee drove the girls out to Debra's place,
because now she had been living on her own ever since he had filed for divorce in the beginning,
and ever since she had been discharged from that mental facility. When he dropped the girls off
around 6pm, Debra said that she had a surprise for Kirsten and Kelsey. Now these two young girls,
preteens and one teenager, were obviously really excited to see what this surprise was. But Deborah told him, sorry, the
surprise isn't here. We have to drive to it. We're going to have to go somewhere to see it. So Lee was
kind of basically like, okay, great, have fun. He didn't ask what the surprise was or where they
were going or anything like that. It was Deborah's time to have with her daughters. So Kelsey,
Kirsten, and Deborah all climbed into Deborah's car,
and they started driving to a town in Texas called Corsicana.
But then when it was time to head back home, Deborah made a detour.
She took Kirsten and Kelsey out to the middle of nowhere.
There were a ton of abandoned houses all along the way,
and each time she saw one, she sort of just slowed down and watched it as they drove past it,
almost like she was trying to find something specific, just creepily, slowly driving past
all of these scary, abandoned-looking houses. Now, I don't think that the girls had any idea
what she was looking for as they were driving. Maybe they were wondering if those houses had
anything to do with that surprise that she had planned and the one that she had promised.
Maybe they thought she was lost and she was looking for something familiar,
who knows? But I do think that it's interesting that Deborah was being so thoughtful about where
to go. It makes me think that everything that happened next was absolutely planned in advance.
It was all premeditated. At one point, when Deborah was driving down those rural roads in
Texas, all past those houses, she must have found a house that she liked.
Because she stopped in front of it, broke inside, and then told the girls to head inside and head to the bathroom.
But once they were inside that bathroom, that's when their mother, Deborah, picked up a knife and started stabbing her two daughters.
She started with her oldest daughter, 13-year-old Kirsten. And like any good, protective,
loving big sister, Kirsten's first thought in all of this was she needed to help keep Kelsey,
her younger sister, safe. So even while this knife was digging into her, stabbing her,
she screamed at her younger sister, run away, run, get out of here. So Kelsey did. She followed
direction and she just started running, which can
you imagine the amount of fear that both those two young girls had in that moment? Being in this
abandoned house in the middle of nowhere and then your mother coming at you with a knife? It is
horrifying to think about because think about it too. At their age, they can't jump in that car
and drive away. They don't know how to drive. They're stuck. They're trapped.
So as Kelsey started running away, fleeing from her mother, Deborah would not have it.
She left Kirsten alone, and then she ran after Kelsey.
When she caught up to Kelsey, Kirsten, still trying to be that protective older sister, she ran over and tried to protect Kelsey. She literally threw herself in between Kelsey and the knife, and
in the process of that, Deborah ended up stabbing her multiple times in the back. This was on top of
the already many stab wounds that she had from her mom, which this just absolutely breaks my heart
because Kirsten loved her sister so much. She was only 13 years old, but she was willing to die for her. She was doing everything
she could, literally shielding Kelsey with her body, but it still wasn't enough. Deborah finally
had stabbed Kirsten so many times to where she was hurt badly enough that she couldn't fight back.
And then, once Kirsten was out of her way and not trying to get in the middle of her and Kelsey,
she slit 12-year-old Kelsey's throat. However, it did not
instantly kill her. Now, I know I've mentioned this before, but cutting somebody's throat is not
like this immediate, instant death. Not the way that it sometimes looks in movies. It can take
somebody a while to suffocate or to choke on their own blood. So most likely, Kelsey spent five
minutes or so conscious, fighting for her life. And the whole time, she probably knew that she was going to die,
known that her own mother had done this to her,
and that there wasn't any clear reason as to why.
And she would have known that her sister Kirsten was also still in danger,
and might be next.
In fact, once Kelsey became still and stopped thrashing around,
fighting for her life,
Debra tried to finish what she started with Kirsten,
her 13-year-old daughter, and she cut her throat as well. However, just like with Kelsey, Kirsten
didn't die right away. She stayed alive and conscious. She stayed alive long enough to beg
her mom to call an ambulance because she didn't want to die. Now, for a moment, and I've talked
about this in some episodes that have a similar thread in the past, but for a moment, close your eyes, not if you're driving, and just think about knowing you're about to die or being
attacked. And it's by somebody you trust, somebody you love the most, somebody who is supposed to be
taking care of you, a parent figure, a partner, a child in some cases, against their own parent,
and you're being betrayed in the worst possible way
by somebody who is supposed to love you. And as much fear as there already is, knowing that you
most likely are going to die, there's the whole other added layer on top of that of the fact that
it's at the hands of somebody who you love and who you thought you could trust and who you thought
loved you. It's incredibly heartbreaking and, I mean, the level of betrayal,
it makes me sick to my stomach just thinking about the realization
in that moment of what was happening.
So Kirsten is fighting for her life, as I mentioned,
and she's begging her mom to call 911.
And this next part of the story is truly baffling.
I don't understand it at all.
I don't even understand how this happened.
But Deborah listened to Kirsten. Literally just a few minutes ago, she had been trying to kill
her own daughters, a precious 12-year-old and an innocent 13-year-old, both whom had never hurt
anybody. But now, when Kirsten said that she didn't want to die, Deborah decided to save her?
Now, obviously, I'm relieved that she did this, but I also don't
understand how anybody can go from this monstrous child killer in one second, then calling for
ambulances to try to save their life the next. Good and evil don't usually work like a light
switch in situations like this. It's all super confusing, but the important thing to know is
that she did get a hold of 911, and she told them everything that was going on.
I played a short clip of this call earlier, but I'm going to let you hear the entire thing now
because it is absolutely chilling. Hill County 911, what's your emergency?
I just killed my children. Excuse me? I just killed my children. Where are you?
I'm in the abandoned house on Highway 77 right after you go underneath the highway.
One of them's still alive.
Hurry.
Under what highway?
You're on Highway 77 where?
I'm on Highway 77 right after you go under 35 going towards Milford.
Get an ambulance out here to save the one that didn't die.
Come on.
Hurry up.
What's your name?
Fitz.
Call them. Have you already called them? Yes, ma'am, I have. come on what's your name call them have you already called them yes ma'am
i have okay i need your name i don't want to tell you my name
hello hello are you still there yes i'm still here are you in your car no i'm not in my car
i'm in the house walking around.
And whatever's still alive for real, she's asking to be saved, and I couldn't handle that.
She's in an abandoned house.
It's been a long time.
She might already die.
So she's flat out lost.
Hold on.
What, baby?
What did he say?
I don't know.
I don't know. I don't know.
She said, please come to her.
Okay.
Well, I've got, we've got people in route.
Can you tell me what happened?
Ma'am?
Hello? Ma'am? Hello?
Ma'am?
Can you tell me what happened?
I can't get the door open.
You can't get what door open, darling?
The front door, so y'all can come in when y'all get here.
Why won't it open?
I don't know.
Hold on. I don't know. Are you on the right-hand side of the road or the left-hand side of the road, sweetie?
They're coming.
They're coming.
I just want to try to clarify exactly where they are.
Can you tell me what happened?
I don't want to tell you.
I don't see any lights.
They're not coming.
Well, they're on their way.
My partner's getting them to you just as quickly as she can.
How many children do you have?
Two.
Huh?
Two.
Two?
One of them is dead.
She's dead, Dad.
But the other one, she wants to be safe.
And I don't see any life. Tell them to get down here. Honey, them is dead. She's dead, dead. But the other one, she wants to be safe. And she needs to be safe.
And I don't see any lights.
Tell them to get down here.
Honey, they're coming.
They're coming.
Do you have any weapons?
I do.
I have a knife.
She has a knife.
No, ma'am.
Just put it in.
She's got a knife.
Can you not tell me what your name is?
Huh?
What's your name, darling?
How old are your children?
Hold on.
Hurry up. They are coming.
They're on their way.
You should be hearing lights and sirens.
Seeing lights and hearing sirens.
Are you still with me?
Hello?
They're on their way, sweetheart. They had to come from different parts of the county. Hold on, kid. They're on their way, sweetheart.
They had to come from different parts of the county.
Hold on, kid. They're coming.
Tell them not to shoot me. I don't have a gun.
Okay.
She doesn't want to get shot because she doesn't have a gun.
We told her to shoot her knife, so...
Just when they get there, tell her.
Okay.
When they get there... Uh-huh. I want you to lay the knife down.
When you get the door open, I want you to lay the knife down so they can see that you don't have any weapons.
Okay.
Oh, my God. She's dead.
Oh, my God.
How old are the children?
I won't tell anyone.
I won't tell anyone. How old are the children? Honey, they are coming.
They're coming as fast as they can.
They're trying to be sure.
Do you see them?
They're coming.
Do you see them?
Do you see them?
No, I don't know they're coming. Hold on. Yeah, I don't know where they're coming from.
Hold on.
.
Can you see the lights?
No, I see something down at the end of the road.
She's calling us, but not calling us, not police watch.
She says they're at the end of the driveway.
She says they're at the end.
I hear them. Okay.
Okay, you need to... I know, I understand that.
I want...
She stayed...
She's got her hands up
except for the fact that
the one that she's on the phone with.
She said she's out in the yard. She said she's out for the fact that the one that she's on the phone with.
So she's out in the yard.
She said she's out in the yard beside the house.
Okay, goodbye.
I see them. They're right here. Goodbye.
All right, bye.
Now there is so much to unpack from this call, right?
But I want to start by talking about Deborah's tone of voice.
There's a lot of discussion out there about how calm she sounded in this call. And it does really stick out to me just how she opened this call up by saying, I just killed my children,
almost in the same tone where you might say, oh, it's raining outside, or oh, I just ordered food.
So I'm not going to pretend to be a psychologist or anything of the sorts, anything close to that,
but I did find an interesting conversation on Reddit. Not that Reddit is always the best place
for super
reliable information, I get it. But some people think that the calmness and her tone of voice
mean that she actually was freaked out. I know that that's not the way that it's supposed to
work. If you're panicking, you usually do not sound calm. But there's this theory that she was
so traumatized by what she had just done and so upset that she almost like disconnected from the
real world, disassociated, like she wasn't on earth anymore. I mean, mentally speaking. I'm not sure I
quite buy that theory, but I am curious to know what you guys think about it. Because then there
are a couple of minutes during that call where it sounded like Deborah's cool, calm collectedness
was kind of cracking a little bit. Like when she mentioned how Kirsten was still
alive and asking for help, and she said, I couldn't handle that. I don't know if that means that she
couldn't handle the guilt of her daughter begging for her life, or if maybe she just literally could
not handle the sounds of Kirsten struggling. Like maybe she thought so little of her daughter that
she was annoyed by the sound of her fighting for her life. And when Debra did try to step outside and she couldn't get the door open, again, I think she sounded a
bit freaked out then. It's not clear if it was because she was worried that she was going to
get in trouble or not, like the police were going to hurt her if she didn't cooperate and surrender,
or maybe if it was because the reality was actually settling in and she was realizing
what she had done. I mean, the longer that the call went on, the faster
Debra was talking, which does make it sound like she was getting more and more amped up. And that's
also when she started asking the operator why it was taking so long. Could the cops hurry? Why
aren't they here yet? You know, all of the things. So I think that the way that you interpret this
call really comes down to what you think was going on in Debra's head. Also, what her mental state
looked like, because there are a lot of different theories out there. Things that make this case even more
bizarre to understand. The police showed up right away, and they found everything just like how Deborah had described it.
She walked out of the house as they were pulling up, and she surrendered right away with both of
her arms right there straight up in the air. The phone was even still in her hand because she had
literally just hung up with 911 a few seconds before. So the police arrested her on the spot.
Then they decided to search the area, probably figuring that they shouldn't take anything that Deborah said at face value, which, fair enough, she didn't sound like the most honest
person with a ton of integrity or anything like that. So when they were searching, they ended up
finding a knife that was sitting on top of a car that was parked outside of this house. It's not
clear to me if this was the same knife that she used to kill her daughters, but if it was, that
begs the question that she
must have gone outside sometime between when she stabbed them and slit their throats and when she
surrendered to the police. Like, maybe she was trying to clean up the scene of the crime, maybe
she was trying to leave and then changed her mind and decided to save Kirsten. It's just an
interesting detail. There's also the possibility that maybe this was just a backup weapon. Again,
I'm not super sure what the deal was with the knife, and the news coverage doesn't really get
into it in a very detailed, in-depth sort of way. I do know that when the detectives went inside,
they found Deborah's youngest daughter, 12-year-old Kelsey, dead in the bathroom of that abandoned
house. Too much time had passed from when her throat was cut and when help got there. She was beyond saving.
Kirsten, however, the 13-year-old, she was still alive.
So a life flight helicopter showed up, picked her up,
and then rushed her off to a hospital for emergency surgery.
Now, in the meantime, the police had to notify the girl's father, Lee.
Remember, he had told his daughters goodbye just three hours earlier.
And even though he hadn't heard a peep from Debra since then,
he didn't think that he had any reason to worry, right?
They were all together.
They hadn't seen each other in weeks.
She had this amazing surprise planned for her daughters.
I mean, for whatever reason, he trusted Debra.
So Lee was hanging out in front of his house with his cousin
when all of the sudden, all of these squad cars just came speeding up.
The police jumped out.
They told Lee there was an emergency. up. The police jumped out. They told
Lee there was an emergency. They needed to speak with him. They said he had to get to the hospital
right away because Kirsten was badly hurt. Now, of course, Lee's first thought after he got over
the shock of hearing this news was, okay, well, what about Kelsey? What about Deborah? What
actually happened to Kirsten? Was this some sort of car accident? Was this something else? Like,
tell me more. So when he asked the police about it, they said that Deborah was under arrest and that she had
something to do with what happened to Kirsten. However, they wouldn't even say Kelsey's name.
Now, the reason why they didn't say her name is because they wanted to be able to break the news
to him and not have Lee too freaked out before he even made it to the hospital to see what was
going on with Kirsten. However,
Lee was savvy and smart enough to know that if Kelsey really was okay, somebody would have said so. The police wouldn't have been so evasive unless the news was absolutely devastating.
So the fact that they said nothing at all about her actually spoke volumes. He ended up figuring
out the news by the time that they pulled up to the emergency room. Deep in his gut, Lee understood that his youngest daughter was dead.
But before he even had time to begin to process her death,
Lee wanted to talk to the surgeon who had operated on Kirsten.
The good news was, Kirsten had survived her surgery.
She was also recovering well, which truly is incredible when you realize just how badly she was hurt.
The surgeon told Lee that when Kirsten's throat was slit, Debra had cut one major artery and also her trachea. Basically,
she shouldn't have been able to breathe or get any blood to her brain, so it truly was a complete
miracle that she didn't die in that abandoned house beside her sister. And in a very harrowing
and haunting detail, but I do want to share it with you so that you understand just how much of a miracle this truly was. In order to save her life, the ER surgeons had to
sew her neck back together. Sew it back together. It is just so incredibly horrific and gruesome.
Now, in spite of how much of a horror show all of this was, the doctors thought that Kirsten was
going to make a complete recovery.
In fact, while she was in the hospital, slowly gaining her strength back, Kirsten did everything
that she could to be upbeat and positive for the rest of her family, still trying to be the strong
one. Given everything that she had been through, I don't think that anybody would have blamed Kirsten
at all if she became closed off, quiet, depressed, I mean, just feeling and grieving
all of the things. But instead, she tried to remind everybody else to be optimistic. One family
friend even told a reporter, quote, Kirsten is very strong. She is comforting everyone and telling
them that it will be okay, end quote. Now through all of this, given how close she was with her
sister, understandably, nobody wanted to have a funeral without her being able to be attend, be there
present, be there by her sister's side. So it took close to 10 days from when Kirsten was attacked
until she could be released from the hospital. And as soon as she got out, the first thing that
Kirsten did was go to Kelsey's memorial. So did 400 other people. It was a massive turnout. The community
really came together to honor this girl who had died in such a truly senseless and horrific way.
Her gravestone had an inscription on the back of it which read, quote, fly, fly little wings,
to where only concrete angels sing. Where you are hidden up above, just know that you will always have our love, end quote.
The inscription was signed by Lee, Kirsten, and then other family friends, but I think it goes
without saying that Deborah did not get her name on that inscription. But still, there were so many
unanswered questions. Was this just a case of familicide? Was this mental health? Was there
something else that nobody knew
about from all of that tumultuous time in the household leading up to this? What was the truth?
By this point, she had been charged with Kelsey's murder and with attempted capital murder for her
attack on Kirsten. When the judge set bail for her, they put it at 1.5 million dollars, and I guess
that that was because everybody wanted to make sure that she definitely
would not get out and wouldn't have the chance to hurt anybody else, which was great. They needed
to protect Kirsten and also the public, right? Now, as I'm sure you can imagine, everybody involved
in this case at every single level was beyond disturbed by what had happened. In fact, a district
attorney actually went to that abandoned house where the attacks took place.
Afterward, he described it as, quote,
either one of the worst or the worst case that I have ever seen.
There was no question whatsoever that Deborah had done this.
She had committed this murder and this attempted murder.
I mean, also, she basically confessed right there on that 911 call, right?
Weirdly, though, she still gave a not guilty plea
when she had to go to her arraignment on September 21st. Not that anybody thought that this was a
sign that she was actually innocent, but it was interesting nevertheless. The only real big
question leading up to Debra's trial now was, why did she do it? It's pretty clear that Debra had
some pretty major mental health problems, and there isn't much
debate on that. Between the earlier suicide attempts and her time in the facility, it sounds
like she was kind of waving every red flag she could to show that something wasn't quite right
in her brain or in her thinking. But it's not clear to me how her mental state led to her decision
to murder her own children. Or, more than that, how everyone around her seemed to miss these
warning signs. So let's revisit the mental facility just for a minute. They kept Debra there for four
days, right? All while they tried to figure out if she was a threat to herself or to anybody else.
Ultimately, they said that she was fine, and they discharged her. Now, I know that mental health
isn't an exact science, so you can't
always blame the doctors when somebody goes into treatment and doesn't totally get better,
but you've also got to wonder whether Deborah's doctors and nurses dropped the ball at all here,
because they let her out in just four days and without any precautionary measures in place.
In fact, not long after the attacks, a reporter talked to a bunch of different employees and
administrators at the hospital.
She asked them all the same thing.
How did you let this happen?
But they all basically just gave the same answer.
Mental health care isn't always predictable.
You can't read anybody's mind and know what they're going to do once they get out.
Which, yes, fair enough.
But people were wondering if the hospital really did everything that they could do to make sure that Deborah was safe enough to be released.
Is four days really enough time to clear somebody who has been accused of abusing their kids?
Who has tried to take their own life right in front of their children?
What if somebody had stepped in and said, you know, let's hold on just a little bit longer, just in case.
And I don't want to make it sound like Deborah gets a pass for any of this and for what she did. Absolutely not at all. It's not like the doctors were more to blame than she was.
She had blood on her hands. She always will. But it is crazy to me that there were so many other
people who could have potentially stepped in and perhaps stopped this from happening. And also,
remember, just a few days before the murder, Lee had filed a restraining order against Debra,
where he literally said, quote, I am concerned about her possible actions regarding the children,
end quote. So he knew that she might be a danger to them, and he said so explicitly,
and he said he needed it to protect the safety and well-being of the children and any other
person who has been a victim of family violence committed by Deborah. Yet then, just a few days
later, he showed up in court and said that he was okay with her seeing his daughters unsupervised.
Maybe when Lee showed up to testify, he didn't quite understand how sick Debra truly was,
even though he was aware of that suicide attempt by that point.
Maybe he was hopeful that she was better.
Although at the very least, it's my opinion that Lee probably should
have read those medical records first, then decided whether or not he was still okay to leave his
girls with their mother unsupervised. That's not to victim blame Lee in this, he certainly is a victim,
it's just again another educational red flag that I think everybody should know,
god forbid you're ever in a situation like this. Maybe don't be so trusting. Maybe take a pause,
let that person prove that they're not a safety threat. Maybe that could have been the difference
between life and death. But in fact, at one point, he ended up telling some reporters that he thought
that Deborah had killed Kelsey and tried to murder Kirsten because he thought that she was trying to
quote, help them in some type of super warped, messed up way. The idea,
according to Lee, was that Deborah was very mentally ill. She was miserable, she was unhappy,
and her life was so bad that she thought that death was the only way out. It's part of the
reason why she apparently tried to take her own life, according to him. So if Deborah was that
miserable, she might have had a hard time imagining how anybody else could ever be happy.
Almost like the idea that other people didn't want to die and be done with life never even occurred to her.
Yeah, she, I actually spoke with her right after they sentenced her to prison, which was the first time in almost a year.
And she told me that she was heartbroken and was hurting that bad.
And she felt that if she was hurting so badly,
then me and the girls must have been hurting so badly.
So she was going to take away all of our pain.
So in some twisted way, Deborah thought she was helping her girls when she stabbed them.
And if she really wanted them
dead, she wouldn't have called 911 after she slit Kirsten's throat, right? I mean, I could see a
situation where she somehow thought Kelsey and Kirsten wanted to die, maybe if she was like
that mentally unstable. And then when Kirsten kept fighting for her life and started begging
for help, it was sort of like this light bulb going off in Deborah's head, like, oh geez, I made a mistake. I better try and save her life now.
But that being said, I can't imagine being so calm on the phone if that really was the case.
From her tone of voice, Deborah didn't sound like she cared whether or not her daughter lived or
died. Even when she was getting more panicky and asking why the police were taking so long,
she didn't come across as loving at all.
Even if we're defining love in this warped way where you, you know, mercy kill your own daughters
because of your depression, it didn't come across like that. So Lee had another explanation for why
Debra might have done what she did. He explained it in an interview that he did with CNN in June
of 2010, so this was almost exactly one year after Kelsey died and after Kirsten survived her
attack. During the interview, Lee said that Debra tried to kill both of their daughters in order to
hurt him, basically to punish him for filing for divorce and leaving her. To hear Lee tell it,
Debra never had any sort of mental health issues that were anything close to as serious as what
was reported in the news, which I do find interesting
because this is basically the complete opposite of what he said in those other interviews,
where he said that she tried to kill the girls because she was in pain, she figured that her
daughters were in pain as well. So I don't know if Lee changed his mind about Deborah's mental
state after he had more time to process the crime or what really transpired, but now he was saying
that she was way too logical and
way too careful about how she planned everything for it to be some sort of mental break from
reality. So instead, according to Lee, when Deborah tried to kill herself, she was doing it to teach
him a lesson. And the same thing was then going on when she tried to kill both of their girls.
It was all about Lee, putting him in his place because he tried to leave her. He
dared to divorce her and leave. So because of that, she wanted to get revenge by taking away
something that was precious to him, his two daughters. And Lee even thought and said that
if Kirsten hadn't survived and begged for her mom to call 911, Deborah's next step would have been
to try to kill him too. She even figured out how to do it.
She was going to wait until he fell asleep and couldn't fight back. Now get this, he based this
whole theory on a conversation that he had with Deborah. The conversation took place while she
was in jail. She admitted to all of that. She admitted that she had been meaning to murder
everybody right from the get-go, all because she was mad
at Lee because of the divorce. And in that conversation, she also told Lee that she hated him.
Which, I'm gonna be honest, I don't know about this theory. Even knowing Debra basically admitted
to all of it, I don't know if she's someone whose opinion we should just take at face value, right?
On the one hand, stuff like this does certainly happen, and I think Lee's whole
theory would be easier to accept if the genders maybe were swapped, because think about it. A
woman tries to leave her husband, and she takes the kids away with her. He gets angry, he gets
possessive, so he then threatens to kill himself to try to pressure her to stay. But when that
doesn't work, he kills the children and tries to kill the wife. It's a story that I personally have covered on this podcast multiple times. So was that the case in this situation?
Or was there something more at play?
So when Debra was charged with Kelsey's murder and with Kirsten's attempted murder,
she had to see a court psychologist to prove that she was mentally healthy enough to be held responsible for the crimes. And after she was examined and assessed
by the psychologist, their findings said, quote, it would appear that Deborah may have serious
mental health and stability issues, including unstable and or delusional behavior, end quote.
So basically, they figured that she was well enough to be held accountable
for what she did, but she also had delusions or other issues with her mental well-being.
And unfortunately, those things aren't mutually exclusive. You can be a controlling asshole and
also have delusions or mental problems. We have seen it, again, in many cases that we have covered.
But even that is all different from what Lee was saying,
that Deborah just calmly, coldly planned all of this, you know, to get back at him.
Which in my opinion, that could have possibly been part of it, but I don't necessarily think
that that is entirely the root of the issue. I certainly think medical issues are at play,
and again, this is just my opinion, but it seems almost that she did think that she was somehow protecting herself
and her daughters. And the only reason I even suggest that or say that is because I have seen
that with so many cases like this. The first one that's coming to mind is, what's his name,
Chad Dorman, I think, in Ohio, which he finally just pled guilty. He had been pleading not guilty
for so long, but he killed his sons. It's a horrific case. He chased after them, brutally killed them, all while the mother watched. It's
barbaric. But right after the arrest, he had started confiding in the police and the investigators
about these delusions and these voices that started creeping into his head almost a year prior,
these evil thoughts. And I can't recall at the moment if he had said like his kids were evil,
and that's what these voices were telling him, or if the evil voices were saying they were all
coming after his family. But we also saw this, and I'm not going to remember the guy's name off
the top of my head, but the surf coach from Santa Barbara who fled to Mexico, and I think he used a
machete on his child, and he had been suffering from hearing voices to where these people,
whether it's true or not, I don't know, but what they
allege and what they claim is that they hear these voices that to where they're truly convinced that
they are protecting their children, protecting them from some sort of evil spirit in the world,
or protecting them from the evil brutality of the other parent if they truly think that parent is
evil. There's a lot of cases like this, so given everything we know about this
one, that is where my mind kind of tends to lead me, but I'm interested to know what you think as
we go through the theories. That's kind of where I'm sitting, but if more information comes to
light, that may change. Now on the upside, Debra didn't fight the murder charges or try to come up
with some sort of wild over-the-top theory to try to convince anybody that she was innocent, even though she did initially plead not guilty. In 2010, she changed her stance. That's when she
pleaded guilty to murdering Kelsey and trying to kill Kirsten. She was sentenced to life in prison
with no chance of parole. As of right now, she's living in Gatesville Christina Melton Crane Unit,
in prison, incarcerated. Now, I'm not a therapist or anything, but part of me does
wonder if the sentence fits more with that idea that Debra did have a better handle on what she
was doing than you would expect if she had experienced some sort of mental break with
reality. So while I was just saying that it's my opinion maybe she did suffer from delusions,
the sentence kind of indicates that maybe that was not the case, and that's why there is so much division on this. Because think about it, she wasn't sentenced to spend time in any sort
of psychiatric facility. She also didn't try to say that she was not guilty by reason of insanity.
So what's the truth here? It makes you kind of wonder, was she in control of herself? Which then
actually makes her crime even more impossible to wrap your head around.
It was so senseless and so cruel, I mean, there's no explanation or justification for it,
but it makes you wonder, what was the root cause? What was the true reason and motive?
Now, as for Lee, technically, he and Debra were still married when she was arrested.
The divorce hadn't been finalized at that point yet, but Lee did eventually end their marriage, and I'm happy to say that he was able to move on, and in 2015, he married a new woman named Emily.
And even though Lee hasn't been a super public figure, he hasn't done a lot of interviews or
posted a ton publicly on social media, the little bit that is out there makes it seem like he and
Emily are looking ahead at the future and really just doing their best to move forward. They even
have a little girl. Not that you can ever replace a child that you've lost, not at all, but it does
sound like Lee is letting Kelsey's legacy live on a bit. He's trying to honor her and remember her,
but also embracing all of the love and all of the good things that he can still have in his life as
a survivor. Now as for Kirsten, I want to talk about Kirsten a bit because this is where it gets
kind of wild to me. Kirsten,
Lee's oldest daughter, the one who survived the attack of course, when she got out of the hospital
she promised her dad that she was not going to be defined by what happened to her. She didn't
want to let what her mom did ruin the rest of her life. She's my inspiration to keep going,
you know. I got to be strong for her. So she's actually doing really well. She
completed the whole school year. She's doing real good. She's always got a smile on her face.
She's living life. She said she wasn't going to let this run her life, and I believe she meant it.
So she kept going to school, kept getting good grades, and even did her best to stay positive
every single day. Deborah even told
Lee that she was happy for her. Well, she said she was proud that she's doing good. And of course,
she had told her that she was sorry and wanted her to know that she didn't want her dead,
didn't hate her. And she's real happy that she's able to move on. Now here's the interesting bizarre part
in all of this. As of this recording, Kirsten is 28 years old. She's mostly kept out of the limelight
and she's tried to have a private life, but unfortunately, not everybody wanted to let that
happen. Apparently, Kirsten used to have a couple of different social media accounts, and you know,
she was 13 years old in 2009. That's when Twitter, Facebook, MySpace were all kind of trendy,
some of those were new, and according to some online rumors, after Kelsey was murdered and
Kirsten was attacked, there was a lot of news coverage, and Kirsten's name was plastered all
over the internet and all over the TV. So with that, all of these strangers started coming out
of the woodwork and friend requesting her on all of those platforms. Which, I mean, I get it, you
see a news story, you feel for the person, maybe you want to connect with them, but Kirsten just
wanted to be left alone. So she kept rejecting all of these requests, and eventually she even posted
a status update that said she didn't want any requests from anybody unless they
knew her in real life. Kind of like, hey, if you're only looking me up because you heard about me on
the news, go away. I don't want the attention. I don't want this to be my whole life. Now again,
I don't know if all of that is exactly true, in part because if you look up Kirsten on Facebook
or Twitter or any of the places, nothing comes up. She either deleted all of those old accounts or
maybe used a fake name so that she would be harder to find. I don't know for sure, but obviously that's because she doesn't
want anybody to know. But there are also a bunch of rumors going around that Kirsten might have
created a TikTok account. And there are a whole bunch of accounts on TikTok that are claiming to
be her. Like, a lot, guys. So either she created a ton of accounts for some reason, which I don't think
is the case, or most of those accounts were all made by fakes and liars, which is such a bizarre
thing to do. To impersonate a victim is so incredibly bizarre. However, and I hate that
I always reference this as like, you know, the anchor case, a lot of people did that with the
Watts case too. They pretended to be Chris Watts. It was freaking weird. So I also think it's interesting that none of these TikTok accounts
actually show Kirsten's face. They're only people who are showing the same pictures which anybody
could find on Google or online or on all of these news sources, you know? So it looks to me like
people are pretending to be Kirsten just so that they can get these like clicks and views, get the attention.
Because think about it, if Kirsten was actually behind any of these accounts, even one of
these accounts, if she wanted to share her story, you would think that the story she
shared wouldn't be identical to what was in the news stories all the way back in 2009.
There'd be some different angle, some new detail, something like that. It's clear to me that
Kirsten doesn't want to be famous for this. She doesn't want her life to be under a microscope.
So it's kind of annoying that people are basically impersonating her online and almost like forcing
her back into this, even if it's only to say, hey, these accounts aren't me. It's weird and
disgusting. Kirsten deserves a quiet, safe, happy life. I mean, she didn't ask to be
attacked. And when she was in maybe the worst situation that a person could possibly ever
experience, she chose bravery. She tried to save her younger sister's life. And I'm reminding you,
she was only 13 years old when she did that. So even if we'll never understand the why of it all,
I do wish her all the best and all of the good
things that she deserves. Because truly, she is the kind of person that we can all aspire to be
if we're ever unlucky enough to find ourselves in a life-threatening situation like that. So if
you're one of those TikTok accounts and you're listening to this right now, leave her alone.
Delete your account and just quit being a freaking weirdo. It's weird. I can't imagine what it's like being her having to witness all of this
after it's now been literally 15 years since she's gone through all of this. Also still trying to
grapple with the fact that you don't have your sister who is your best friend and then you see
all these poser weirdos. It's just sick. So knock it off. Knock it off. And don't forget this
Thursday, come to Salt Lake City, see one of these episodes in person,
special guest, all the things free meet and greet after. I can't wait to meet so many of you.
All right, guys, thank you so much for tuning in to another episode with me today.
I will be back on the mic with you on Thursday on the podcast. As a reminder, that episode does not
get cross posted to YouTube. It is a podcast exclusive episode every single Thursday, where
we talk about all the breaking headlines going on this week, where we talk about case updates,
all the things, so you can gain access to that through the podcast. Other than that, I will be
back on the mic with you first thing next Monday with an all-new deep dive case. But until then,
guys, please stay safe, be nice, don't kill people, don't join a cult all the things protect yourself
all right thanks again guys and until the next one i'm signing off bye