SERIALously - 386: 18 Year Old Dies Months After 4 Hour Assault by Her Own Father | Justice for Makayla Settles
Episode Date: April 16, 2026When Makayla Settles took her own life, the circumstances surrounding her death raised immediate red flags, including unanswered questions and behavior from those close to her that did not quite add ...up. Join Annie Elise and Dr Leslie Dobson as they break down the case, examine the psychological dynamics at play, and uncover the troubling inconsistencies that continue to leave this case unresolved..If you’re new here, don’t forget to follow the show for weekly deep dives into the darkest true crime cases! To watch the video version of this episode, head over to youtube.com/@annieelise. .🔎Join Our True Crime Club & Get Exclusive Content & Perks..🎧 Need More to Binge? Listen to both of my weekly true crime series 10 to Life & Serialously with Annie Elise wherever you get your podcasts on the Annie Elise Channel!🍎 Apple Podcasts | Where you can also unlock access to 100+ and growing extra exclusive deep dives.💚 Spotify🔴 YouTube🎙️ All Other Platforms.📸 Follow Annie on Socials Instagram: @_annieeliseTikTok: @_annieeliseSubstack: @annieeliseFacebook: @10toLife.⭐SponsorsWillie’s Remedy: Order now at http://drinkwillies.com and use code SERIALOUSLY for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95.Knix: Head to http://Knix.com and use code ANNIE for 15% off your order..👗 Shop Annie’s Must-Haves! ShopMY: bit.ly/AnnieElise_ShopMy Amazon: bit.ly/AnnieElise_Amazon.🫵🏻 Get Involved or Recommend a CaseAbout Annie: www.annieelise.comFor Business Inquiries: 10toLife@WMEAgency.com••••••••••••••••••🚨Disclaimers1️⃣ Some links may be affiliate links, they do not cost you anything, but I make a small percentage from the sale. Thank you so much for watching and supporting me. 2️⃣ Sources used to collect this information include various public news sites, interviews, court documents, FB groups dedicated to the case, and various news channel segments. When quoting statements made by others, they are strictly alleged until confirmed otherwise. Please remember my videos are my independent opinion and to always do your own research. 3️⃣ The views and opinions expressed in this video are personal and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any other agency, organization, employer, or company. Assumptions made in the analysis are not reflective of the position of any entity other than the creator(s). These views are subject to change, revision, and rethinking at any time and are not to be held in perpetuity. We make no representations as to the accuracy, completeness, correctness, suitability, or validity of any information on this video and will not be liable for any errors, omissions, or delays in this information or any losses, injuries, or damages arising from its display or use. All information is provided on an as-is basis. It is the reader’s responsibility to verify their own facts.
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Hey, true crime besties, welcome back to an all new episode of Serialessly.
Hello, hello, and welcome back to an all new episode of Serialessly with me, Annie Elyce.
And today, we're going to be diving into a case that's happening right now, one that many of you have probably seen on your social media, whether on TikTok, on Instagram, you've seen people post about it, people calling for justice, people outraged.
And so what I wanted to do is take today as an operational.
opportunity to highlight this case, not only discuss everything involved and what's been going on,
but also a very important call to action where so many of you can actually directly get involved,
because I know once you hear this case, you are going to be just as irate and disgusted as I am.
And so for today's case, I also am joined by Dr. Leslie Dobson, who I know is a familiar name and face to many of you.
She's been on here in the past when we've done some deep dives into the Epstein files.
She was on here about a year ago when we were talking about family vlogging and some of the dangers there.
She's a forensic psychologist and she has been covering this case very, very closely, speaking with family members, speaking with lawyers and really getting into what the truth is and how this happened.
So welcome.
Thanks for coming back, Dr. Leslie.
Thanks for having me.
Thank you for coming.
I want the world to be aware of this case.
I know.
And so you first started talking about this case on social media.
And for those who don't know, it is the Michaela Settles case.
She is a young girl who moved from North Carolina to California.
And I'm not going to get ahead of it.
We're going to walk you through everything.
But you first put this on TikTok.
It blew up overnight.
People could not believe what they were watching.
I've seen your video too.
I'm like, how is this even real?
And now it's starting to take flight with a lot of people talking about it.
But still for some reason, at least at the time of the same.
recording, not many mass media outlets have picked up this story, which is insane. Right. And so
frustrating. So why don't you walk us through? Let's start at the very beginning. Okay.
Who Michaela was her age, when she moved, why she moved, and let's slowly start going through it.
Sure. So Michaela was 18, just turned 18. And she was living in North Carolina with her mom.
I don't think her mom and dad were ever, her biological parents were ever married. But,
she wanted to live the California life. And her father was living in Moore Park, California. He works as an
electrician. And she wanted to come over to Moore Park and go to Moore Park College. She had future dreams
and plans. California life. Yeah, graduate from high school, move across the country to California,
start your life as a young adult, go to school and live, you know, I guess I would say the dream.
But I guess living in California isn't exactly the dream all the time. Yeah. Okay. So she moved.
She moves to Moore Park.
So she moves and it's July 2025 and within two days.
Two days of arriving to California.
Correct.
Okay.
Allegedly experiences the most horrific sexual act by her biological father from 2 to 6 a.m. in the morning in this house.
For four hours.
Now, okay.
And we definitely need to talk about all of that because I think the details of this and the aftermath
is what's so upsetting.
But what was the real, you've talked with Michaela's cousin, her mother.
You've talked with so many people close to Michaela and involved in this investigation and case.
What was Michaela's relationship like with her father prior to moving?
Was he involved?
Was he a good co-parent?
Did they spend time together, talk to each other?
What was that like?
They had casual interactions where she would come out and visit for a while and then go back
to North Carolina.
But it doesn't sound to me like he was ever a primary caretaker.
And when she would return to North Carolina, did she ever raise any sort of red flags about his behavior or concerns that she had to her mother or to anybody else?
No. And also, she was a very youthful 18-year-old, as many are right now because of COVID and all of the setbacks we've had.
So she was very youthful. And you can see in her videos, she would dance. She called her mom, mommy up until the day she lost her life.
And so she didn't talk. She didn't, I don't even know that she would.
realize what was happening if negative things happened during these visits.
If she had been grooming or trying to feel things out or being inappropriate,
she was so innocent that she looked at encounters as innocent or would have or could have,
perhaps. And that's how her friends describe her and her family. And you'll see in the videos,
she looks very innocent and young. So she moves here in July. She's with her dad,
living with her biological father in Moore Park for two days. Correct. And then he
violently sexually assaults her for four hours from 2 a.m. to 6 a.m. She told her mom this immediately.
She called her. Her mom was in town. Her mom was in California, but not staying there, of course,
because they weren't together. So did she call her at what, 6 a.m. right after? Did she wait?
Yeah, it was around 6.30, I believe. And then immediately... How did her mom say that she sounded when she called?
Absolutely horrified. Distraught. Distraught. In her...
Her mom's words, she said, oh, my God, he killed my daughter.
Oh, my God.
And she was still alive at that point.
And when, from what we know, before we keep going further, was this something where the father was just infatued with his daughter?
Where we've unfortunately seen cases like that where he was a predator, a petto, was he intoxicated?
What was that, what was those four hours like from his mental state?
Well, he engaged in text messages back and forth with the mother for a while after this.
After this all took place.
Okay, so maybe that's where we should rewind and start.
So, Michaela calls her mom immediately after this happens, just distraught and horrified and beside herself.
And then what happens?
They go to the hospital to get a formal rape kit done.
She can't even walk.
And did her father just let her leave the house?
Right.
She ran out or?
I don't know.
Okay.
I don't know if she got, I think she.
got picked up, but I'm not sure.
Okay.
But the mother gets to the uncle and who's the father's brother?
No, who is the mother's brother.
Okay.
And he has to carry her into the hospital because she can't even walk.
Because that's how brutal this assault was.
Yeah.
So she's going to the hospital with her family to get a sane exam.
Yes.
And because there was so much damage inflicted and it was so forceful he had to carry her.
Right.
And then once she's in the hospital,
gown, which you get, you take off everything. You're in a gown. They don't want to mess up any DNA.
It's so, I mean, if you watch the recent episode of the Pit, they did one of these kits and they
really, really, really, it's very thorough. It's thorough. And they did a really good job explaining
it on the, on the fictional TV show. It's good because I feel like you need to be informed and
educated on that, especially, God forbid, if you're ever a victim of a situation like that,
they are incredibly thorough to the point where it can be traumatizing, uncomfortable, and awful
for a victim to have to then experience a second violation of sorts. Yeah. And it takes hours. It takes
hours. Yeah. So what they determined was that she had been assaulted. And you said they put her in the
hospital gown? Put her in the hospital gown and it became saturated by blood. Oh my gosh.
And she's 98 pounds. So they do the same exam. What's happening with the father at this point?
They are also filing a police report, and the police during around the same time arrest him.
Okay.
And what do you know what they exactly charged him with?
Initially, they charged him with manipulating.
I have it.
Incest.
Oh, they charged him with incest.
Initially.
Initially.
Okay.
And so guys, while Dr. Leslie pulls this up, this was all happening right around.
the time when Michaela goes to the hospital, they're filing this police report. Simultaneously,
he's being investigated, he's being arrested, we'll see what those initial charges were,
and it appears as though it's at least taking a step in the right direction for receiving
some sort of justice or accountability, not that that makes anything go away or makes it okay,
obviously, but that people were believing her, they were seeing the evidence, and they were now
going to hold this monster accountable and try to figure out what the hell happened.
Because also, too, we don't know obviously what the dynamic was like prior to her moving there.
We don't know if there were moments where she wasn't able to identify him potentially trying to groom her or being inappropriate.
But this is a very stark difference from moving for two days and then something like this so violently happening.
Right.
Okay. So it looks like you pulled up the charges.
Right. So initially arrested on a, let's see, three felony counts and one moment.
misdemeanor. So felony PC 285, which I believe is incest. Let me see if I have it spelled out a little
more clear. If you have the things, I can pull it up on my phone as well, the exact breakout.
But I know you have like so many screenshots and documents. So yeah, this is PC285 is incest.
Incest. Okay. And then we have a felony count related to taking advantage of a position of trust. So let's start with incest he pled not guilty. With taking advantage of a position of trust, he denied. Okay. Or the court denied. I'm not exactly sure. They may have just said we're not moving forward with that. There was a felony of victimizing a vulnerable person, which was denied.
again, could be the court or him.
And then a misdemeanor of alcohol to a minor, and he pled not guilty.
Okay, so at this point with those charges, and you tell me, because I know you obviously
have been talking with her family, he allegedly supplied Michaela with alcohol.
Then there was, she, there was some sort of exchange and assault on her from him.
When they did the same exam, did they recover anything?
Yes.
What did they recover?
His semen.
What's inside of her?
So even though he's denying and pleading not guilty to the PC285 charge, there is DNA evidence that was collected that would obviously prove that wrong completely because how else would that have gotten inside her body?
Correct. And two things happened with that. One, the mother, he was denying it saying, I can't believe you called the police on me in text messages. And the mother, these are all published text messages.
text messages as well on social
medias. She said,
well, the DNA is back.
And his response was,
yeah, well, I'm sure she tells
the truth about a lot of things.
Okay, so just, okay,
hold the fuck on.
So just so I'm understanding this correctly,
they go and do the sane exam,
they file the police report, he then start,
they charge him and arrest him.
He then starts texting the biological
mother, gaslighting her, being like,
she lies about a bunch of stuff. I wouldn't do this.
Why would you even accuse me of this?
Like, what are you guys thinking?
To which she responds, like, well, they actually did the same kit and the DNA came back.
And then he still can continue to push the lie saying, well, yeah, I bet she's not honest about a lot of things.
Like, I'm sorry, you can't fake DNA inside semen that is in your body.
Or you, like, unlikely that an 18-year-old girl would do that and have the knowledge of how to orchestrate that.
Right.
And then he says, I was blackout drunk.
But then he says, but she never screamed or said no.
So he's trying to now argue they were both drunk or has he not said she was drunk.
Just that he was blackout drunk, but we know he had the charge of giving a minor alcohol.
And so then he's saying she didn't say no and she didn't scream.
Therefore trying to imply what?
That it was consensual.
But then he remembers.
Right.
So yeah.
So you're blackout drunk, but you remember enough that she consented.
So legally as a friend.
Forensic psychologist, that's an omission of guilt to me.
Yeah.
Well, and I mean, I'm just thinking once it gets to trial, which hopefully it gets there and
nothing happens, but in that moment, if this is all through text where he says, she didn't
scream, I was blackout drunk, but she didn't scream and she didn't say no or whatever
he had said.
It's like, then that not only is alluding to that it was a consensual act, but right there
with PC285, you're also admitting there was incest because you're admitting the act happened,
whether it was consensual or not.
Yes.
So, yeah, from a forensic psychologist angle, what do you make of his behavior, his reaction, and what he's now trying, what in this moment he was trying to do?
Darvo, right?
Deny reverse victim.
I'm sorry, deny attacked reverse victim.
So he knows he is wrong, and now he wants to become the victim so that he doesn't look like he is guilty.
And in one of the texts, he said.
to her, I'm now getting death threats every day. Fuck it. I'm so hurt. I will defend myself.
So now he's saying this, he's the scapegoat in this whole thing. Yes. That it didn't happen. So did he say
at any point, Michaela wasn't even here at this house? Like, if he's going to say it wasn't me,
then who the fuck was it? Who was she with? Was she at your house? Was she not at your house?
Did you have friends over? Like, explain how this 18-year-old girl had to be carried into a hospital.
Right.
Was bloody all over her gown and had semen inside of her.
is claiming it's you, but you're saying it's not.
Then how did that happen?
That is probably going to be the defense, right?
They're going to find these ways to get around it.
And he starts to say, you know, you're to the mother, like, you're a loud mouth.
The lawyers are going to take care of it.
She always told the truth, I'm sure, with three explanation points.
So trying to make Michaela look as though she's the liar.
And then the DNA is back and he writes, whatever.
Don't text me back.
During this, was he vocal anywhere else?
He was still, this was after he was arrested, but let's talk about the bail situation.
Yeah.
Because that is a point in this where when I first heard that, I can't even tell you I couldn't see straight.
I was so, yeah, upset.
And this is, this falls on the Ventura County Superior Court, District Attorneys and the Judge.
They are at fault for this.
1,000%.
So originally they set his bail at what?
A million dollars.
A million.
which then he would need to post 100 grand. Then they reduced it to 500.
Then they reduced it further. And he walked out at 25.
25 payment or 25 total. So he only had to post $2,500.
No, 25,000. Oh, he did. Okay. So they reduced it from what, 500 to 250 or whatever? Okay.
Something like that. Okay, because it's like the 3 to 10 percent, right? Something that you have to pay, depending.
But they let him walk who. Yeah. Now, you know, when he shows up, if he shows up, if he shows,
up to the hearing. He's a flight risk. The whole world is aware of this. Well, and not even the
flight risk piece of it, but obviously if he also had initial charges of, you know, taking advantage
of a vulnerable minor and all of these things, you know, the position of trust and exploiting
that, who's to say with this young 18-year-old girl, who's his daughter, that there's not
going to be witness intimidation, that there's not going to be trying to silence her or anything
like that because this is such a severe charge and situation.
Right. So they let him walk. And this is when he starts texting the mother. Right. Okay. So then what happens then?
So she immediately, well, when she is able to, because she was hospitalized for a while due to the injuries. How long was Michaela in the hospital?
I don't know the exact date. Okay. But a few days. I think over a few weeks. Oh, over a few weeks. Yeah. And then she returns back to North Carolina. And okay, I don't want to get.
overly graphic here, but if she's hospitalized for a few weeks, was it just internal injuries that they were?
Was there any other sort of physical injuries?
I don't know exactly.
There was an autopsy done, but everything is because it's an active criminal case, everything is...
What do you mean there was an autopsy done?
On her body.
Oh, well, okay, getting further ahead.
Got it. Got it.
Okay.
Sorry.
Okay.
I'm like, hold on.
What are you talking about?
Sorry.
Okay, sorry.
Yes, we're jumping ahead a little bit.
Okay. So she's in the hospital for potentially weeks and then goes back to North Carolina.
Right. With her mother. And she is what you would assume a victim to be. She is acting impulsively. She's randomly happy. It has energy then dips into these major, major depressive moments. And no one really knew how to help her. But the problem is that she was 18. So her mom could not step in. And so they were trying to get her from North Carolina to navigate these police charges.
And what, Michaela just didn't want to participate or?
She couldn't.
She psychologically couldn't.
Okay.
It is utterly ridiculous that they wouldn't let the mother speak for her.
Yeah, given the situation.
Allegedly a biological father rips you apart for four hours,
and then you're supposed to be talking to detectives and investigators and victim advocates.
And you have the mentality of what, a 14, 15-year-old?
Right, being treated as an adult.
And, mm-hmm.
Right.
Oh my gosh.
Extremely isolated life.
Just innocent, an innocent little girl.
Yeah.
So she's back in North Carolina.
Now with her mom, this is, what, August of 2025.
At this point, August, September, they're trying to figure out what's happening,
where this case is going.
It's incredibly a huge weight that she is carrying, of course.
And to your point, like psychologically ebbs and flows, peaks and valleys, just going
through all of these emotions and having very, very high highs.
very, very low lows. And so then where does it go? Very, very erratic. You know what? I don't actually
know how she ended her life, but she did. And when did she end her life? I don't think I know how.
It was December 2025, about five months after. And she took her life. Yes. And there's no question
about her physically taking her life, although I don't remember why. But if you think about the Michelle Carter case in
Massachusetts, she didn't take her life because she had planned to. She took her life because she couldn't
manage the trauma of what had happened to her. Michelle Carter. Michelle Carter texted her boyfriend.
No, she ended up taking her life? No, she's alive. She went to prison. Oh, I know. I thought, sorry,
I misheard. I thought you said she took her life too. No, yeah, where it was like coercion. And like,
she forced it. She backed him into a corner and like berated him until he took his life. Right. Yes. So you think
that there's a possibility that maybe her father,
did that with her?
Well, in her mind over that five-month period, you know, that is what took her life.
Mm-hmm.
Not actually her physically doing it.
Right.
No, it was the deterioration of her mental state and everything that she was going through in the trauma.
Right.
That's the responsibility.
So in other states, that is easily involuntary manslaughter.
Okay.
In California, for a conservative DA who's running in this election.
this year, that is not clearly involuntary manslaughter because you'd have to push very hard.
They look at the act itself who, for lack of a better from, pulled the trigger and that's the
responsible party. And I know you mentioned that you don't know the method in which she took her
life, which that's fine. We don't need to explore that. I don't think that that necessarily even
matters in the grand scheme of things. But you've spoken with her mother, of course. And do you know,
did she leave any sort of note behind? She did.
Well, she had been journaling throughout the five-month period.
She was very verbal to her friends.
She was texting.
She was journaling.
And she wrote notes to her mother, who she called Mommy.
And she said that this happened.
What else were, what was some of the contents of, like, her journal entries and to her, or the notes to her friends about where her mental state was and what she was thinking and what she was grappling with?
I think, I mean, a lot of it was, a lot of what she wrote was.
why, why, why, what did I do that made him do this to me? What did I do that made him think
that this was okay? So she's taking on the blame. Thinking it's something that she did. And
and actively trying to figure out how did this happen. How did this happen to me? What was my part?
Yeah. Oh my God. Was she receiving any sort of therapy or medical treatment in those five months
to your knowledge? I don't know. Okay. I didn't ask because
if I can help it all, I want to stay objective in this. So if I am able to be a part of this case
and obtain the records, then I'll objectively review them. Yeah. But it does sound like all hands
were on deck. Like friends, there are pictures. Everybody was trying to be there for her.
And what was happening within those five months? What was he doing? Working as an electrician,
entering people's homes. Who have children. And getting drunk. The neighbors have all seen him at
liquor stores, his exes have said that the whole family drinks heavy, heavy amounts all the time.
So there was arguably an alcohol problem before this, and then it's just continued.
That's what I've been told through people.
So it's all alleged, of course.
But yeah, people have been taking pictures of them going to the liquor store.
So December, I just want to go back to this for a moment.
Michaela takes her life.
And then what happens?
Nothing.
I mean, nobody does anything.
Her cousin works up the courage to make one single social media post.
And it took a lot of time, months for people to recognize that.
Is that what you first saw?
Somebody had sent it to me last week on Friday.
And I was so enraged.
I made a TikTok video and Instagram too.
But the TikTok rose to over three million views in three days.
Because I think it's upset anybody who views it and hears the details of
this case are going to be extremely upset. Right. So since then, you've been in touch with her mother,
her cousin, some attorneys, walk me through what's happening right now because we do have a very
important hearing coming up on the 21st. Right. And as you mentioned, some of those charges have
appeared to have fallen off a little bit. It doesn't appear he's going to be even held accountable
in the least bit for her death. There's also the problem, which I don't know, I'm not an attorney,
so I don't know how complex this can get,
but you might be able to shed some light on this.
If he's pleading not guilty to the incest charge,
and if he's also arguing that it was consensual,
even though that's so contradictory,
now she's not there to testify against him and have a voice.
And so it's his version of events versus the sane exam,
which still the sane exam,
depending on the injuries if she was in the hospital for weeks,
it could prove that this was not consensual
based on what was happening.
But that's obviously a big risk, I would imagine,
and then what's happening and a concern for her family.
Right.
And so where, and let's really quickly, before we go into the conversations you've had with
her mother and her cousin, talk to me about the autopsy a little bit because you were going,
you were going in that direction of what the autopsy showed.
I don't have the details of it and a lot is going to be a part of the case.
But I think the biggest part for me was that she was not pregnant.
Okay.
All right, that was a big question because statistically when there are victims of incest,
ending your life when the pregnancy is revealed is the highest reason and risk.
I could have been misremembering this from a different case, but isn't it an option that they provide during the same exam to give you the morning after pill or like a termination?
So it's possible that she took something, but we don't know, obviously.
I would say in California, definitely, we still allow it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But I don't know, actually.
Okay.
But she wasn't pregnant at the time of her.
death. So it wasn't that she found out she was pregnant and that that pushed her over the edge.
It was something that she had just been dealing with for months trying to come to terms with
and figure out and ultimately could not bear it anymore. Right. And so, I mean, the biggest
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According to her family, had she ever had any suicidal ideations in the past in her life?
No, never.
Never.
She was a happy kid.
Did she ever get into any trouble or hang with the wrong crowds?
Not that excuses or justifies anything.
Obviously, just thinking like what the argument could be from the defense of her mental state of,
oh, well, she had a history of she had been on antidepressants at one point or she dropped out
of school or she would lie to her parents.
She would run away to where it's like you can start to paint this picture.
But she didn't have anything like that in her background.
Not that I'm aware of.
I mean, it was just a, you know, run-of-the-mill teen.
posting happy, sometimes thirst trap pictures like every teen does, you know, because teenagers
are really skinny and they like to get attention on social media.
Yeah.
But she wanted to go to college.
She had good grades.
She wanted to live a future-oriented life.
And has the mother had any more contact with her biological father since that last text message?
No.
Not since that last message.
And she's tried very hard to work with the Ventura County DA and the victim advocate.
She's really gotten the runaround.
And she's at the point where she is aware that the hearing is going to be on the 21st.
And it's going to be the state's attorney and then the defendant's attorney.
And I'm not sure if Chavez even has to be there.
But it's where the judge will decide if this is going to move forward as an actual case.
So it's very possible that in a week's time, this guy could walk scot-free.
Yes.
Well, his daughter was brutalized for over four hours and then took her life because of it.
Yes.
So walk me through some of your conversations you've had with the family and what that's been like and what they've shared with you.
They're horrified.
They're still in shock.
Like when they talk about her, they talk about her like she's alive.
Yeah.
Like they have to actively remember and remind themselves she's not alive.
Oh, my God.
They're in a complete state of shock.
What a nightmare.
And to navigate, you know, moms back in North Carolina,
to navigate all of this from, you know, a fractured family,
like they're seeking advice.
People are trying to mooch off them to get,
clickbait material money lawyers are going to want to engage in civil lawsuits just to try and
get fame yeah um and so what i asked her to do was to just you know make sure you trust people
that are giving you advice she can trust me um i told her i would tell her if i saw any videos that
came up because bigger content creators have been posting people with millions and millions
Right.
But is that great?
I think it's great because you have a district attorney running for re-election in a conservative
area.
And to the people of Ventura County, this is fucking horrifying.
Yeah.
And even smaller.
All over the country, hello.
It's horrifying.
Right.
But who do they care about?
Yeah.
Who's going to vote for them, right?
Mm-hmm.
You know, they want to keep their jobs.
Yeah.
So what I've seen actually through all my followers and attention.
ton of people have just emailed and emailed and called the superior court and the DAs.
And it's not just one DA. There's a head DA and then there's a ton of other DAs, right?
And every time they get a reply, it's a template reply that we plan to attempt to move forward
with prosecution, something like that. But the person that's replying keeps becoming a superior.
So it was a superior, now it's the deputy, then it's a chief.
Okay.
So as we push, they are taking this to hire.
levels of authoritative figures to respond to people.
What does that indicate to you?
That they're getting nervous?
That they're getting scared.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And no one has replied to me.
No.
Well, I'm sure they don't want to, at least until at minimum after the hearing,
because they don't want to jeopardize anything, is my guess.
I don't know.
Or I might, you know, let everyone know, right?
I mean, no, people can post emails they've received, but it's not, they're not going to go viral.
And what's Michaela's cousin?
We've spoken with her on the side as well.
We're going to be doing a way larger deep dive into this case, guys.
But I know you've had so many conversations with her.
You spoke with her mother for two hours the other night.
So what have some of those conversations been like?
Obviously, they're still trying to understand how all of this happened.
They're living in a state of shock.
But what are they?
I don't want to say, like, what are they trying to do?
But, like, what is the forward motion here and, like, what can help them?
A lot of the questions were so innocent.
Like all of these cases where the families, they've never experienced anything like this.
Yeah, it's like you don't even know where to navigate.
Right.
And so I said, you know, what I don't want is to have a target on your back.
You know, the cousin is still in the area.
And we don't.
In a more park area.
If this man is capable of doing something like this, what is he capable of doing to the cousin?
So there's a real threat to safety.
Do you know, based on your conversations with the cousin and the mother, after he posted bond and he bailed out, and after she returned home to North Carolina, was he ever in communication with Michaela?
Did he text her?
Did he try to silence her?
Did he try to intimidate her?
I believe there was communication.
I haven't seen it.
Okay.
But I think there was a part of everyone trying to figure out what was happening, what had happened.
Like was, I guess I'm curious, did she ever text him anything?
Like, why did you do this to me?
What, like, or him texting her being like, why are you doing this to me?
What just what kind of dynamic was between the two of them?
That sounds familiar to me.
Okay.
But I don't know what the source was and I haven't seen it.
Okay.
But I know that there was this, like, Michaela was on a private journey to figuring this out.
She was shutting down.
And in doing that, she was reaching out to people to try and understand as well.
And you know, when someone wants to end their life, they, near the end, they get quite happy because they know they don't have to live with the pain anymore.
So around the end of that fifth month, she was, she was happy.
And nobody, yeah, nobody would have seen any sort of warning signs or any indication that she was in such a dark place she was going to take her life.
Which leads everyone in the family to blame themselves.
Yeah, but that's such a...
I mean, I understand that,
but that's such a tough spot to be in
to try to take on that burden.
And then you both also have, you know,
the dynamic of the family and culturally,
and...
Are they from El Salvador?
It's just...
They are from a culture
that doesn't talk about this kind of stuff.
And so they're not all talking about it together.
They're not all aligned.
The people in Moore Park
say that
they are utterly shocked that these allegations are coming across to the father,
that people, that some of his best friends are shocked by it.
Like they think he's an upstanding guy?
No one has said that.
No.
They're just more horrified and shocked by everything.
Yeah.
Okay.
Not like, I can't imagine he's such a great guy.
I'm shocked that these allegations are out there casting doubt more of like a holy,
like what the hell is even happening?
But nobody has, nobody has come to a side.
Yeah.
at all.
I mean, how could you?
Right.
I think people have witnessed, I think, like, drunken parties of the family, but I don't
know the timeline if it was, because, you know, I purposely boosted the videos directly
to Moore Park.
So everyone in that town, if you open up Instagram, you're getting a paid ad from
Dr. Leslie about this.
Good.
Good.
As it should be.
I mean, I get it.
Innocent, until proven guilty, but like, hello.
Like.
Right.
Okay.
So now what's happening at the hearing?
So it's a closed-door hearing, but hundreds of people plan to go and protests at 8am on the 21st, outside Ventura, Superior Court.
To make sure that this does move forward.
To show the judge that we're outside.
Yeah.
And it's a small courthouse.
You can hear, you can see.
And what does her family want in all of this?
I mean, I would imagine, of course they want justice, but that's the easy answer, right?
So it's like they wish that this nightmare never even existed and they didn't have to be dealing with this.
But what is it in this moment that they would want other people to help with aside from just showing up at the hearing?
I think a few things.
They have a go fund me.
Okay.
You know, that will help for potential civil litigation should they go down that avenue.
And her mother's expenses to be here when things happen.
Right.
Okay.
She's flying from North Carolina.
It adds up.
Yeah.
Yeah.
They want the attorney to force him to register as a sex offender because he won't be able to work as an electrician any longer.
Oh, I never even thought about that.
But yeah, you can't be entering people's homes.
Yeah.
Okay.
So that's something the district attorney has to put forward and demand.
And if they did that, I mean, I'm just asking you based on you've been an expert on so many cases, expert witness during trials.
Based on your knowledge and what you've been exposed to, given that they performed a sane exam and collected DNA evidence, does this guy even have a shot in hell of getting out of this?
Yeah, he has a big shot.
How?
Plausible deniability.
There's no longer a victim.
Would mom testify on her behalf?
Is it believable?
Even if it's clear cut through DNA that there was an act of incest that took place, which they could obviously
plead that down 1,000 percent. We've seen it done a million times.
I think the main question is going to be because this is his biological father. She's
already going to carry his DNA. So now we need to take it to a level of where did the DNA come
from? And it needs to be extremely specific. So there needs to be experts involved that can break that down.
DNA is way different than like what's in your blood or your tissue or your hair versus what is
external and collected inside of you. But police and lawyers are lazy and they don't do anything
and they won't do anything until they feel the pressure of the public. And so unless we push,
they're not going to do anything with that kit. And then his lawyer will say, well, it's just
DNA. And then you've got an old judge who's like, eh, it's just, I guess, the same DNA. It literally is
that's stupid. Even though they see the police report, the hospital records, everything. Yes,
that is enraging. It is lazy stupidity in most police departments and with most lawyers. And I tell you this
as lawyers hate lawyers because lawyers are lazy. Police hate other police departments because they're
lazy. Firemen fight with police because they're always passing the buck on who has to deal with
the erratic homeless person. Yeah. Right? Like they,
They don't want to work.
And I say this as, like, well over 10-year government employee.
You fall into what can I do that is the least amount of my energy.
No, certainly that's just, like, a trope for, like, certain people.
I mean, I personally know lots of officers and attorneys who are hardworking and, like, want justice and, like, believe in the badge and everything they're doing.
But what you're saying, just to be clear, I just want to make sure I'm hearing, right?
It's more of these like segmented peaceful who it's like overall in something that's tough to pursue, they aren't going to push through the toughness in most cases.
Right.
And that's true.
I see a lot of police and firemen in therapy who are heroic and amazing individuals.
But I also see them over time give up because the fight to get charges and prosecution is so hard.
There's so much pushback.
And so when a lot of people start with a lot of people.
start with a lot of energy and then they get faced with so much pushback because people care
about themselves and their jobs or, you know, working in the state hospital system, everyone
told me, don't report being assaulted by a patient unless there's three assaults because no
DA is going to help you or pick that up, no matter the severity. Now, I think, do you think it's
two reasons for that they don't want to push through the hardness and they get just so beaten down
that they lose the will to fight? But do you think, do you think it's two reasons for that they're going to,
But do you also think for some of these elected positions that it comes down to, what is my conviction rate likely going to be?
If I don't think that this is a slam dunk, I'm not going to take it because when I'm up for re-election, I want a 98% conviction rate.
100%.
So rather than even putting the victim first and what's right, they care more about the perception and their longevity and their career.
Wow.
And that's, that's disheartening.
I don't know how it is around the world, but it's very American.
Yeah, that's true.
So as of right now, the hearing is only for the charges that we know of.
There's obviously, it would be great, but there's been no mention of any sort of manslaughter charges or anything like that.
But there's the possibility of a civil suit for wrongful death or something to that.
You know, they could come forward with more charges on April 21st.
Okay.
They could bring more.
I mean, I don't think they expected the.
the infamy of this.
I don't think they...
Do you think that there's enough evidence to have some sort of manslaughter charge attached?
I mean, I know we probably all wish it, but what's realistic?
I think that if you got this in front of a jury, yes.
Definitely.
And what the lawyers need to educate themselves on coercive control bills, and they need to be savvy
with using other cases to their benefit, which is going to take a lot of work.
They have to work on the case, and I don't think they expected to.
So where, I mean, I don't even want to say, like, where do we go from here?
But where, besides the hearing, where do we go from here?
Is there anything else that her family has wanted to be made public that, and I know I mentioned
we'll do the deep dive where we go way more into the family dynamics, the text messages,
interviews, all of that, but I wanted to at least get this case out there
ahead of the hearing so people can hear. But what are the next steps?
I mean, ideally what we would do is pass a law, pass a bill, or change the way this goes, right?
For five months, we could have saved this girl.
But because she was 18, we couldn't access so much. Her mom couldn't access so much.
So we have this high up standard of we need to change the system.
Right? But what we have right now for the family is we need to get loud. We need to show up. We need to share this with everyone. We need to put the pressure on. We need to contact. Let's see. I love that you have all your notes here. I know. We need to contact the DA Tessa McCarty, the DA Aaron Meister, the DA, Eric. I don't even know how you say his last name. And locals, of course, can show up to the courthouse on the 21st.
Yes. Eric Nasserenko is the DA for Ventura, the top-notch guy, who is a white male. So, I mean, there's a lot of, maybe there's corruption involved. Who knows? But unless we put pressure on.
The point is, somebody needs to be held accountable for what this girl not only experienced, but the aftermath of what she then did to herself because of this experience.
And as we've seen in a lot of cases, and your audience is so savvy, putting forward suggestions to attorneys works. It does. It really works. They can use it. Absolutely. I will say this, the true crime community, although there are occasionally some bad apples and sometimes tip lines get flooded with bogus tips and it shouldn't be that way and it can deter things. It is, to your point, a savvy community who have the same shared goal of bringing, holding people accountable, bringing justice,
to people. And a lot of them, to your point, do think outside of the box and think through like,
well, what about this? Or not even like, have you consider this, but what if we took this approach?
And so it's scary sometimes. And it can be reckless to be like, if you guys know anything,
say anything, because then that's when like tip lines get flooded and people see a lead or a
rumor on Facebook and they think it is a tip when it's evidence and they report it. So it's like,
it's not that piece of it. It's more of the, what can we do to evoke change and real
change. I think we need to, the reality of the situation is that career lawyers don't always know new
stuff. We do. Right. We're on TikTok. We're on Instagram. We're learning. We know of other cases that you can
cite and reference and as you build things in. I think we need to educate them. And we can do that in
emails. They're reading them and replying. We can send letters. We can go to the courthouse. We can talk to
the clerks, we can call. Yeah. But I really think it comes down to we need to put our brains together
because they are probably not aware of the things that your audience will come up with. Absolutely.
You see, you guys hear that. You guys are also smart and savvy. I've been saying it for years,
but it's nice to hear somebody else say it. It's very true. And I've seen it play out in cases
over and over. And it's simply because one, DAs are, they just have too many cases. They have
so, they're flooded. They are just kind of used as bodies in the government. Well, and for something like
this where the girl, where she's no longer alive, the victim is no longer alive, not only does it
become more challenging to try, but then it becomes more complicated. So that would, I would imagine,
get pushed to the back of the stack regardless because of just, unfortunately, the reality of it.
But how are we going to stop this from happening to other girls again in the future without
pushing forward with this case and making this a new case law that California follows? Absolutely.
So, okay, so what I would love to do if you're open to it is I know you're obviously, as we said, following this so closely and speaking with people as well.
When we do have the deep dive come out soon, I would love to have you back on and we can talk through it.
We will have, I believe, some of the family members on as well.
And we'll just have a conversation about what happened at the hearing, where things are going.
Hopefully they're not at a standstill at that point.
So that hopefully not only is some real change going to happen, but that this alleged monster is held accountable.
I mean, somebody who could do that to their own daughter after living with him for two days and four hours.
I spoke to a lawyer the other day and I was just like, what the hell is going on here?
And he said, you know, I'm not a criminal lawyer.
I'm a civil lawyer.
But, man, wouldn't it be interesting to file civil litigation against the guy and have to depose the district attorney?
That's a fabulous idea.
Yeah.
I didn't think of that.
To your point, get creative.
and figuring this out.
To get information to re-open the case if this doesn't go our way on the 21st.
There's always ways to bring things back.
Yeah.
Well, let's hope that this guy gets more charges even on the 21st and that they don't dismiss this because that would be awful.
And that he's deemed a flight risk and just taken in immediately.
Yeah, there's no reason he should be walking around because not only the flight risk piece of it,
I know the witness intimidation element is taken off the table, but this guy is clearly a predator.
And I don't care if he's leaning on the fact that he has an alcohol.
issue or he drinks a lot or he's blackout. You are a predator. The fact that you could do this to
your own daughter, who's to say you're not going to do it to anyone else who you walk into their
house to fix their electricity. The severity, the degree, the relationship all tells me this wasn't
the first time. Oh, the first time that you think he's assaulted someone. Definitely. This is not a first
time act. The brutality of it. You're right. You're right. The brutality of it. But even with that said,
we need justice.
We need justice.
This can't be pushed
because she's not alive.
This can't be pushed
to the back of the list.
Yeah.
If anything,
it needs to be at the forefront
so that we don't lose
children, even though I know
she was 18,
but young adults or children
to situations like this in the future,
if we don't do anything,
it's just going to be
Groundhog's day over and over.
Right.
Well, thank you.
I really appreciate you joining
and shedding some light on this.
Yeah.
So we will definitely keep following this closely.
Let us know too.
comments. If you guys have heard about this case, what you're hearing, what you think,
I will leave in the show notes, the hearing details, where you can get in touch, everything
like that. And let us know any questions you have, too, for the follow-up. And we can-
Yeah, and Stephen Chavez, you're welcome to reach out to me. There you go. Call to Action right
there. Well, thank you for joining. Can you let everybody know where they can find you?
My website's Dr.lesley-Dobson.com, and then Instagram and TikTok or Dr. Leslie Dobson.
And we will be making some TV shows coming up soon.
I know, that's great.
I'm so excited for you.
My face will be forced upon you all.
I'm telling you, you need the podcast I told you about because you are so knowledgeable when it comes to petos, unfortunately, because you've worked with so many.
Annie wants me to just be the petto doctor.
I do.
I mean, not just the petto doctor, but like how to catch a petto.
I'm telling you because not only have you worked with so many of them in the state hospitals and on cases and,
and as an expert witness on cases, but you know how their psyche works, you know why this happens.
So I think in turn, you could provide a lot of education and knowledge to parents, to people,
to myself of like, how can we protect our kids? What signs can we look for? I don't know the statistic
off the top of my head, but more times than not, the assault happens with somebody in close
proximity, someone you know, whether it's a family member, a family friend. So what are those signs
to look for of grooming, of too close of a relationship? And I know if you had something like that,
I would be listening all the time because as a parent, I want to protect my kids to the ends of
the earth. So I really think you should consider it because you've been exposed to them.
You've even shared with me offline some of the horrific things you've seen them do even once they're
taken into custody. And I think it's like expose it. Expose it all so that they don't get to
hide in this dark, disgusting, filthy corner anymore where it's like the thing people don't talk about.
It's like, no, it needs to be shared so it can be avoided. I mean, literally people don't know.
I mean, Google, I say this all the time, Google Coalinga State Hospital.
Yeah.
Google the hospital.
Look at where we place these predators.
Look at their crimes.
Well, and now, I forget what, is it a law?
Is it a bill?
What it is?
We're now in California, they are releasing offenders who age out of the program at 60 or 65
years old.
And even if they have had a string of assaults or statutory claim or whatever it is, they're
now releasing them because of their age, which, hi, I'm sorry, I see some very healthy 60-year-olds
out there who could absolutely be released on the street and go assault somebody again.
Right.
It is fucking wild to me.
And sexual assault is not about an orgasm.
No.
It's about power and authority and delusion and cognitive distortion.
And I've had guys blow their dicks off and still go sexually assault people.
Well, it's interesting you say that because...
Not a lot of guys blow their dicks with you.
I was speaking to somebody a professional, not long ago,
wasn't Matt Murphy, who was it?
I was talking to somebody offline about that because I was like, look,
I am all of the mentality of like if somebody is convicted, not just charged,
convicted of sexual assault or assaulting a minor or something like that.
I don't care if it's physical castration or chemical castrate the bastard.
And they told me they're like, that doesn't solve it because it's something embedded in their brain,
to your point, it's not about the release, it's about the power.
So then they would still do it just as a sodomy type way with an object or something like that.
It doesn't even have to do with the physical body.
It's everything mentally.
And look, I'm obviously not a doctor, but I'm just going to say, I don't think you can reprogram that.
I don't think you can rehabilitate those kinds of thoughts and desires and wishes.
So lock them up, throw away the key.
I don't care if they're 60.
I don't care if they're 80.
Keep that shit away.
Yeah.
That's where I'm at.
And the world can hate on California, and they should hate on California, because we treat these guys.
We put them in the category of patients, not criminals, which means they have access to the internet.
They have rights.
We're paying $250,000 a year to hospitalize one of these guys.
You're lying.
That's what it equates to.
It's probably more now, actually.
That's a little dated statistic.
It's probably way more.
No, that's how much we're paying.
And the hospital is 2,000 of them.
There's eight state hospitals in California.
Now, go somewhere like Idaho and you get the fucking firing squad.
Yeah. Amen.
That's what I'd like to see.
Policies in California are, they suck when it comes to sexual offenses.
I think they're horrible.
That's so awful.
And that's why I fight so hard to just try and get somebody locked up.
Yeah.
If we can get them locked up in any which way, even if it's welfare and institutions and patient,
at least they're away from vulnerable children and women.
Well, thank you.
I really appreciate you being on.
All right, guys.
We will be back and talk with you again very soon on this case.
Like I said, let me know your thoughts and what you are hearing or have heard about this case in the comments.
I will leave all of the resource links in the show notes.
And until the next one, be nice.
Don't kill people.
Don't be a creep.
And I don't even...
Keep your dick in your hands and your pants.
Thank you.
Amen.
Amen.
Hi.
