Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 111: Revealing Our Secret Single Behaviours

Episode Date: September 2, 2024

Today, we're revealing some of our secret single behaviours and how long it would take us to show them to who we're dating?! We hear all about Ana's manspreading and Saff's surprising way of disposing of her contacts lenses. Also, has Ana recently been love bombed or should we have a little faith in this potential love interest? Let us know your thoughts in the comments or on our socials @sexliespodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Visit connectsontario.ca. let's go hi guys and welcome back to another episode of sex slides and dm slides with me saffron barker and me anastasia kingsnorth so we are back for another episode and back for another opportunity to deep dive into all things sex and relationships first of all how was your weekend what did you do it's so funny because i feel like that is our that is just the opening sentence i hear you say that every episode and i love it and i can't wait for it it sounds the exact same every single time it comes out of my mouth like the exact same and this isn't a script guys you just that is the exact words and it's every time and i love it um yeah it's it's really weird having the bank holiday monday has made it not feel like a weekend i don't know what day well i do know what day of the week it is but it doesn't feel like it's a

tuesday as i'm filming this right now it's really throwing me off like yesterday all day i was adamant it was sunday and then when i woke up this morning i was like it's not monday i was like oh this feels really annoying that it's tuesday do you think yeah because it just feels like such like yesterday felt like such a Sunday to me but it's because I went out on Sunday that's why because you went to gay pride in Manchester right went to pride I took it a bit far on the first night that I couldn't actually make it the second day so I stayed in bed the whole day Saturday and then we went again on Sunday and it was my first pride actually so I think that's why everyone was drinking so much but it was so much fun no I feel

like that's not honestly that won't be your like every year you'll find an excuse as to why you drink so much of pride well when you went to Brighton pride is that one day or is it two days or three days no so it is the whole weekend but I just went on the one day oh right okay and i go to the street parties rather than actual pride but it's so good but again yeah that's what we do extremely drunk oh my god yeah we were all on the street just like partying outside all the places and it was just like oh my i can't even explain how good it was yeah it was literally amazing but then yeah i i wanted to die yesterday and then i had a gender reveal and i was like how am i doing this so then this morning i hate that when you go to like

somebody's party or something and you're so hungover and you you have to hide it because if not it's so rude and you can't be like oh i'm so hungover oh no i was like their big day i just took it so emotionally like the minute I found out the gender, I could not look at them in the eye because I had tears coming down my face. So I'm filming it and I'm just turning my head away. I literally can't look at you guys right now because it was just too much. Like the hangover and finally what they were having,

it was just too much. Wow, I feel like you've had a good weekend though. Babe, I've had a very good weekend. You've had lots of plans. What have you done this weekend? I've had a very wholesome weekend actually. It's actually been so nice. I feel like it's been very needed so i'm pretty sure i had covid um the past coming week and i've been so unwell um however the one good thing to come out of it is actually allowed me to

have days in bed and actually stop because i never ever stop i honestly even when I was so ill I felt so much guilt from lying in bed genuinely I just get so I don't know I just feel so much guilt for not being productive and not doing things like all of my friends know this about me they're like you just need to stop for a minute but I can't I just feel too much guilt for doing it so yeah I had quite a wholesome weekend I started to feel better I've still like got a sore throat now but I'm feel too much guilt for doing it. So yeah, I had quite a wholesome weekend. I started to feel better. I've still like got a sore throat now, but I'm obviously so much better. You feel better, yeah.

But yeah, but yeah, all I've really done is I've been, well, the last few days I managed to go to the gym, which has been nice. Okay, that's good. I've been dog sitting. My parents are away, so I've had the puppy and I actually feel like a proper dog mom now. The way that I talk to her is like how you talk to a two-year-old child I talk to her like she's my entire world she's and I'm just obsessed with her oh she's adorable she's the best little

dog when you were on FaceTime to your mom when we were in Ibiza and her head was shaking like looking for you where she was that was the cutest thing I've ever seen i tell you what they're cute but let me tell you it's made me realize i cannot have a dog yet as much as i love her no one understands how much hard work a puppy is it's like having a baby it's tougher than having a baby because the baby can't move you put them somewhere they stay puppies don't stay i feel they just move and they eat everything they shit everywhere. Doesn't she always get the zoomies as well?

Oh, she gets the zoomies. All the time? All the time. Oh my God, if I could show you this video from yesterday, you'd actually die. She just was sprinting around

in a circle just constantly for honestly about 10 minutes. And she's probably still not tired after. She'll just carry on after. Yeah. It's wild. She's actually nuts. But she's so cute and I love her She'll just carry on after. Yeah. It's wild.

She's actually not. But she's so cute and I love her. So yeah, I feel like I've had a very wholesome weekend. Let's go. This episode is brought to you by CIBC. From closing that first sale to opening a second store, as a business owner, you've hustled to accomplish a lot. But the rewards don't stop there.

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after the dog um I thought one day when I woke up there oh I'm gonna go to this gym by my parents house and I've gone there two days in a row well the two days that I've gone there I've been asked my number at the gym and it's really weird because I, I don't know, like it's, it's weird because this used to be the gym I went to every day. So I feel like previously, nobody would have asked me for my number because everyone would have known that I would have been there every day. Whereas this time I look like a girl that's like out of town, if that makes sense. I don't look like I'm from Brighton because no one's seen me at this gym before and I just thought it was so strange that two days in a row two different people asked my number but it was funny because as I was working out this first time I was literally I don't know

if this is so sad this is going through my head these are my thoughts but as I'm working out I was thinking I was looking at this guy and I was thinking first of all he's so fit second of all I was thinking this is maybe where I need to meet first of all, he's so fit. Second of all, I was thinking, this is maybe where I need to meet someone. And this is going through my head. I was thinking to myself, I need somebody to come up to me at the gym because therefore they like working out. I love working out.

These people look older. They look a bit more mature. I'm more likely going to meet someone here than at a club, but nobody ever comes over. And then two days in a row. Was it the guy you thought was fit? The guy that i thought was fit came over yeah i know have you been messaging him huh have you been messaging him yeah well both of them have asked me to go on a date oh my god are you gonna go yeah but this is okay i want to However, my other thing is, if I don't like them,

I'd have to constantly see them at the gym. Because now I'm back into the gym. And I like going to this gym because it has a sauna and a pool. Whereas my gym at home obviously doesn't have that. But also, if you don't go on this date, you're still going to see them all the time in the gym. So then what are you like? Yeah, but I feel like just like, oh, oh hi it's just like i don't know i could make up an excuse that i'm really busy at

the moment i'm going away oh i don't know no but i don't think you should make an excuse i think you should go especially with the one you thought was fit yeah but what if i would you not yeah but what if what if i don't like him and then i actually have to see him all the time at the gym you can just really politely let him down be like look i'm so sorry like I just don't think this is gonna work for me but like I'm sure we'll see each other around yeah and then we do see each other around at the gym and then yeah and but that's because when you're in the gym you're in the zone like just walking with your headphones on you don't even need to look you're just doing you and you can leave but it could be something

really good because everyone seems to be meeting their partners at fucking run clubs or yeah you know i'm getting dms about it like you have to come to the same i woke up this morning and some girl messaged me she was like i met my boyfriend running the marathon by the way so it does work and i was like okay like i get it i i'm not running a marathon anytime soon but clearly that is where we need to be. A boyfriend, so maybe that is the equivalent of the gym for you. Yeah, okay.

It's just weird though, because I never thought I'd meet someone from Brighton either and that kind of puts me off. As you know, that's very close. That's too close. That's a bit too close for me. London would be screaming close. So Brighton is on my doorstep.

I'm a bit like, ah. But maybe that's what you need this time. Maybe we need to do like a full switch and fuck off the long distance. Yeah, true. Okay, fine. I will go. I will go.

Please, will you? Please. I will go. Okay. But if it ends, not badly, but if I don't like him and I have to see him at the gym and it's awkward, I don't want to go to the gym, it's really going to upset me.

Okay, but let's not think negatively about it. Let's think positively about it. Okay. And think, you know what, it's actually going to go really well. Okay, but people listen to this right now. Have you ever gone on a date with somebody at the gym and then had to see them? That's what I just want to know because i feel like yeah okay i'll stop thinking negatively about it i will

go on this date it's probably the same as like if you went on a date with somebody in like the same office that you work in and it doesn't work they're gonna have to eat through every day like i know we've heard that on the podcast before but at least in the gym like you don't really think about it though do you imagine that it actually would be so awkward i think it's more awkward if you're letting somebody down and like one person likes i don't know why i'm saying this might even like me but you know there we go i think go on the date because why not and do it for the plot if nothing else okay please okay i need to tell you about my date actually because i didn't tell you did i in the last pod i was gonna say i'll say in the next one oh my god you did go on a day yeah it's a bit mad though

because i spoke about it in my youtube video and all the comments were a bit like opposite to what i thought they were gonna be so basically guys i went on this day hang on can i just quickly say something are people saying you've been love bombed? Yeah. That's crazy. Like, everybody. Because, hang on, I react to this, to Anna, and I said to her, oh my God, like, don't settle. Like, we need guys like this. But this is my problem,

is these are the guys I've had my entire life, guys like what Anna's about to explain. And all the fucking time I get like so love bombed. It's actually ridiculous. See, I don't think I've ever been love bombed, but maybe I've just read the situations wrong. You have been, we've seen it with you. But there's a fine line between being love bombed

and somebody just being obsessed with you. Being nice. And this is the problem. Sorry, we will move on to the topic but i have to tell you this sorry this is the problem with dating in 2024 i don't know if i'm being love bombed or if he's just a nice guy you literally like you can think like something can happen you can twist it a completely other way because of all the horror stories that you hear so honestly i don't even know what this is anymore but anyway to us i'm not even thinking about it too deep because i don't really want a boyfriend right now it was more just you know met him for a day it was

fun whatever so he lives in London he drove up to see me stayed in a hotel which was really respectful took me out for dinner and we had a really lovely night and then he messaged me once I got back to mine and he was like I've got something for you am I okay to drop it off to you in the morning so I was like yeah of course that's fine I thank you so much you really don't have to do that so I wake up the next morning and he's outside and he's bought me a massive bouquet of flowers and he knows where he asked me like I can't remember when it was he asked me what my favorite flowers were and I said peonies and he get and he was like what are your second favorite and I said oh white roses and then he gave me the white roses and he was like I asked for peonies but they're out of season so I had to get your second favorite so I was like oh that's really nice like he listened

and then I'm not joking he goes into the back of the car and I'd mentioned that I wanted to get a Stanley cup in like the white color genuinely as a passing comment like we were just talking about like things that girls have in cars so I was like oh i need to get a stanley cup he bought me a fucking stanley cup he bought me the cream stanley cup and i sent saf a picture of it and i was like you are not gonna believe what this boy has just bought me but then i put it in my video and i was like guys i thought this is really sweet oh my god all the comments are baby you've been love bombed literally red flag you've been love bombed every single comment and i was like like don't get me wrong i'd kind of i i think maybe like the little toxic part of my brain had thought that because of all the things that we've spoken

about on the podcast see my brain won't even go to that my brain is are they being really nice because genuinely had in my heart even if i had met somebody once and they had mentioned something and like said what okay maybe i wouldn't go out my way to buy them something that i knew they wanted because i'd probably think they'd think it's weird but if i'd walk past it like said walk past the sandy cup i think oh my god he said he really wanted one of those i'll buy him one of and i would just buy it so like that is something I would do so because of that I just look at it as someone being nice and thoughtful you didn't say anything about it none of my other friends said anything about it it was just people in the comments so I'm like are these people who listen to our podcast and are like very well known

that we've heard this stuff before or I honestly I have absolutely no idea but I'm trying not to think too much into it like to like I said I'm not really taking like dating seriously or anything like that right now it was just like a nice evening but I just was a bit gobsmacked because no one's ever I mean I don't know anybody who's bought a Stanley Cup on a first date no that's definitely a first that is definitely on a first day is yeah kind of crazy but then i don't i don't think it's that we i genuinely don't think it's that weird i looked at it and said like oh that is really sweet that he listened to like the little things i said i think it's nice so yeah maybe we're just thinking i don't know yeah i don't know can people let us know what is actually the line between being kind and generous and thoughtful and getting love bombed because i just i don't i clearly don't

know the difference i'm not a professional in this area because i just think oh they're being lovely that's the way i don't either because i genuinely didn't think that much into it i was just like oh this is a lovely gesture but maybe you know what no it's a good thing because we're being very positive about the situation but just was very shocked to read the comments that night on my video I was like oh shit maybe I am being love-bombed but like I said I'm not really thinking that much into it but Saf and I are both still single as you could probably tell by these conversations so today we're going to be talking about secret single behavior which i do feel like i have a few little things that i do okay they're a bit like more like on the embarrassing side

that probably wouldn't show somebody that i'm dating until we're a couple of but instead you're going to talk about it on the podcast but i'm gonna tell you and just forget that there's lots of other people listening do you have anything first of all before i admit my embarrassing ones i mean yeah there's there's probably lots i'm trying to think of things that okay can you give yours first and i feel like i'm gonna run mine off yours because i don't know if i'm going down the right there's one that i do that like i genuinely didn't even realize i did it until people came over to my house to sleep over like byron was the first one to notice it and i was like oh shit so when i get into bed i get into bed with my socks on but then i don't

want to sleep with my socks on so i just take them off with my feet but because I do it as I'm falling asleep I always forget that my socks are there so when I change my bed sheets I kid you not like when someone gets into my bed because I'm quite short so I don't see the end of my bed when you lift the bottom of my duvet up when i tell you there's like socks there's like a mountains of socks and i'm like oh shit that's where all my socks have gone so i collect socks at the bottom of my bed without even realizing i do it but when i have a boyfriend i would not be doing that because believe me i'll be fucking conscious that i've taken my socks off and i will pick them up the next morning because no one else is getting my bed i don don't think about it. I don't think that taking the socks off is embarrassing like when you were first starting with this story I was thinking I don't think that's bad

no but it's if they find the pile of socks babe because believe me it don't look cute at the end of my bed then that's not cute no and I just make my bed without even looking at them because I don't like when I get into bed at the bottom of the duvet doesn't come off the bed because it's quite a big bed and I'm small so I don't notice but it's like that and Byron said it to me once he was like what the hell is this and I was like what you want about see I couldn't even do that if I tried because I literally spread out like a starfish that the entire that the entire duvet is like over one side of the bed i'm the other side of the bed like there's no way i have to remake my entire bed yeah when you make your bed you lift the full duvet i lift i'm you know you're fanning it those sheets i'm fanning the head yes i couldn't even do that if i tried well that's just my little embarrassing secret habit that i don't think that's like that i mean

yeah to be fair but we're on a guy's house and there's a pile of like old yeah actually i would be like oh my god what is that but i literally can't talk but it's great though because when i find them all put them all in the wash and i've got a brand new full sock drawer it's amazing love that so actually maybe it's a hack rbc avion visa lets you get there your way whether you want to suit up for peak ski season or spring break with the whole fam and a whole lot of sunblock. Or even book last minute and go on a whim. Choose from over 130 airlines on last minute or peak season travel with no points hike.

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sunnybrook is special learn more at sunnybrook.ca special let's go i know what i do but to be fair would i probably do this with a guy yes because it's such it's a habit there's and everyone knows this about me and it probably is gross but like I don't even look at it as gross so Anna might find socks in her bed sheets but what you find in mine is I wear daily contacts oh so when I I can't see without the contacts so I want them in from the minute I'm going to sleep because if I'm sat watching tv in my bed I can't see the tv unless I have my contacts in so it's like oh I can take them out once I like wipe off my makeup and do my routine and everything else I can't take my contacts out then because then I can't

see the tv when I go to bed I can vouch for you with this one because the amount of times I have found SAF contacts in my bed so like on the floor right before I shut my eyes bang throw bang throw there are contacts when my friends wake up every time my friend wakes up someone has a contact stuck to them somewhere yeah on their arms on their arm on their head or i do even sometimes i'm out and i'm like oh tried contact but then if you were with a bad habit but if you're with a boy where would you take them out and still just fling them or would you take them out and put them in a little pile see this is where i'm embarrassed to say i still do the same thing but it's something i shouldn't do because it is slightly embarrassing

like imagine i think about my ex's house i'm doing the same thing well yeah imagine you wake up and he's like what the fuck is this yeah and he's like oh what the fuck's that and it's a contact would you play it off in the bed sheets would you say oh it's a contact would you be like oh my god i don't know what that is so sorry no i would say it's a contact okay that's yours yeah but then i do do that when i'm with someone but i shouldn't it's something i absolutely shouldn't do because it's not nice i do find them for a couple of days after i'll just come across this little thing i'm like oh my god what's that but the thing is guys no one understands how much i can't see so if i'm getting up to take them out then i can't get back when i can't see so like i had to take them out of bed what i should do is have like a little bin next to my bed that would be a really good but it's not giving the aesthetic or the vibe for my you could just

slide it underneath the bed though what's this a pile of i don't know if that's worse no just like a little bin like underneath the bed and you could just pull it out yeah no not the pile of contacts imagine then you just look under your bed you just got thousands of contacts even more gross i think yeah no genuinely they're either on the floor in the duvets on a friend on me yeah not good i can vouch for that yeah another thing actually this reminded me of i when we were in well just in ibiza but i don't necessarily well actually no i do kind of do this at home and some people don't understand how i do it but i can fall asleep with so much stuff on the bed but like if i was to have a boy stay around everyone's always so confused as to why I've got

a million bed pillows and a million throw cushions but when we were in Ibiza when I tell you Saf and I fell asleep with the entire hotel room on the bed yeah like we woke up and I genuinely could have got fully ready and dressed with just the stuff that was on my bed. Oh yeah. But I wouldn't, like I wouldn't do that. I've had a boyfriend. I think, Oh, this is gross.

Oh no. I took a picture of it and we woke up. There was snacks. There was lit. And I did. And the thing is in the night, I woke up so many times. I thought I literally can't move,

but I thought I can't be asked to get up. I don't know. I rolled the crisps into the bed when I sat up I was like oh my god I've slept on crisps like it was just horrendous I think clearly both of us have that habit then but the thing is yours is definitely worse because when I do stay at yours you do have pillows about 35 cushions that's not needed it's not needed but it looks pretty i've got six bed pillows three on each side i sleep with two so i've got four that i don't need and then i've got six throw cushions in front of those and then i've got three blankets on the end of the bed

but when i get into bed i just move them all to one side and just sleep on one side i swear you tuck your bed sheet in as well yeah well like yeah like it wouldn't it wouldn't come off no no but you have to really tug oh yeah i have you have to like tug you know when you go to a hotel and you have to tug the bed sheets and you think oh for fuck's sake why do they do this and it does that what can i say i'm good at making my bed clearly i'm gonna make my bed but then every every night you have to go through that well i don't pull it out which is why the socks get stuck this is the problem so basically all my secret like single behaviors are to do with my bed that's what i'm

learning but when i have a boyfriend none of that will happen i will really change you know when okay so say you got home from something it's like dinner time is there something you automatically do when you get through the door but also maybe you wouldn't do in front of a guy i mean like the thing is i would probably eventually end up doing this anyway with my partner but this is if we're talking like early dating stages i don't know the minute i get home i do tend to strip off do you do that or do you not like i will like if i'm like boiling i'll like take an item of clothing off i will sit on the sofa and manspread because i have a habit of sitting that is a thing you do a lot anna is

i manspread sorry to like out no it's fine but she's just naked a lot of the time like she genuinely is like if i open the door and anna was naked it would like baffle me but the thing is in my defense like my flat is so hot like it's true like an actual greenhouse because it's all glass and the sun comes in that way the whole day so the minute i get in i'm like oh my god i can't so like I will just you know just get undressed and then just there man spread naked I just man spread and just scroll through lots of neighbors oh I dread to think what the neighbors have seen like because the thing is my eyesight isn't great so I can't see into their apartment they can definitely see into mine and

it's funny how when you live somewhere as well you get used to now you're like oh well if they've seen it they've seen it you know yeah no is it really bad that I don't even think about it like I will literally just like yeah it probably is really bad isn't it I'll just get in and I'll just do whatever and think oh yeah nobody can see me no Anna everybody can see you because I'm surrounded by buildings well nothing's been leaked yet so you're fine no nothing's been leaked yet, so you're fine. No, nothing's been leaked yet, touch wood. So let's fingers crossed.

But yeah, I manspread a lot and I probably wouldn't do that with a boyfriend. No. Don't think that'd be really that attractive. I don't think that would, but it's actually funny because I've got a vision of Anna naked manspread like that. That's a horrendous picture. i'm picturing it now too

and i really don't like that even when i'm on holiday like you actually do no i do spread a lot when we cut like every time we come back in from sunbathing like not even i'll be in a bikini but i just envisioning you sat with your legs like this like yeah such a common thing but even how i sit and record this podcast if you saw my legs now it's bizarre like actually thank god I work from home because if I could not do this in an office that is so funny that is something you do do but I don't I think you're in such a bad habit I don't even know if you'd stop with a guy yeah it's really bad like I'm just so I guess really comfy in the most bizarre positions but like it's quite nice i feel

like you're somebody that gets comfortable around people very quickly yeah i wouldn't be able to sit like a lady that's not really me sometimes you do manspread though without realizing that you do it just not as much as me i probably do i always sit with my legs up like even now i'm sitting my legs up my legs are never on the floor like even if i sit at a cinema oh my yeah there's no way my legs can dangle like that's not a thing my legs have to be up it's so strange like a dinner table like not if i'm in a restaurant but same if like i'm in my house one of my legs will be up on the table on the chair yeah always like one of my legs up now my knees are same i've got

both my legs yeah my leg can touch the same my other leg is on the other chair like i just can't sit on a chair how you're meant to sit on a chair i can't i find it so uncomfy i actually can't do it so maybe that's like secret single girl behavior we just but then to be fair again though i'm doing it with a guy i don't know what i'm not doing with a guy that i would yeah like there's probably so many things okay let's talk girl dinner then because i feel like everybody has a girl dinner yeah what would yours be the thing with me is i i hate cooking i hate it so i wouldn't say i have like a girl dinner i just eat whatever's in my fridge and requires the least amount of effort so okay i feel like a girl dinner is when you have like lots of random things right or just some of this shouldn't really go together yeah which I probably do have a lot but I feel like I have lots of different meals so like I'll

have a bowl of cereals and then I'll go and make a crumpet because there's one crumpet left or there's like half piece of bread so I have that with the leftover sausages in the fridge so you're really good that's really good actually because I don't do that leftover sausages in the fridge. See, you're really good. That's really good, actually, because I don't do that. Like, I'm the sort of person that I will fancy everything that I don't have. Like, I could have a full fridge, but I want something that's not in the fridge. Oh, see, I eat too, but then I just can't be bothered. Oh, see, I wish I could. I'm bad at ordering food, but if I was going to do, like,

if I was going to make a girl dinner or, like, have a snack that I generally wouldn't be able to eat this around like somebody else all the time because it stinks but i love pickled onions and onions yeah i've got to say that is my least favorite thing i reckon yeah i know not a lot of people like them but i feel like you can eat an onion hole i've never tried but i probably could like the thought doesn't like scare me of like if someone said eat a full onion i could be I've never tried, but I probably could. Like, the thought doesn't like scare me of like, if someone said eat a full onion,

I could be like, okay, like I could do that. That's actually crazy. But I like like jars of pickled onions, I like jars of pickles, or like things like that. Like if I could make a little plate,

I'd put those on it. So pickled onions, pickles, a bit of raw onion, some cheese. So this kind of goes together, no? It goes, but like, I would stink after I've eaten this plate of food. Okay, so what else are you having on the plate?

What else did I put on the plate? Oh, have you tried the dips from M&S? Like the chicken Caesar ones? Or the salmon one? The new ones? I can't say I have. I don't like the salmon, do I? Oh, but the chicken Caesar one you'd like, surely?

I don't even know if that's a bit of me either. I don't like Caesar salad. Oh, no? You like Mexican? You love the Mexican one. I'm just running through all the ones in my head. She's found something I like. I like Mexican. Love Mexican you would favor those dips are i can't even really and that's what you'd

have a pickled onion okay that is a girl dinner because that is wild yeah but then to me like i wouldn't do this but a lot of girls can have like pasta and tomato sauce. Like ketchup. Yeah, I could. Or see, there's no way. See, I can have ketchup with everything and anything. That's scary behavior. I can spoon ketchup. That's terrifying. Well, I do spoon ketchup.

Like it's my literal favorite thing on earth. There you go. That's your girl dinner. You'd go to the cupboard and you'd get a spoon and would you actually put ketchup on the spoon and swallow it yeah Heinz ketchup Heinz would actually sponsor me I think I eat more Heinz than I've ever eaten anything else in my life and I've been like that since I've been a little girl I am obsessed with tomatoes oh my I mean I love tomatoes but there's something about like would you put ketchup on a roast dinner no because my family told me it's rude to so i've always been okay i'm not allowed to and also if

you have a good roast dinner which i feel like i have such good roast dinners it doesn't need ketchup but could i easily yeah like what's something i do that people always think is really strange that i have ketchup with? I'm trying to think. I mean, pasta's pretty up there for me, but I know it's kind of common. Oh, like, I could easily, again, I wouldn't because I know it's wrong to. If I'm going to, like, a really nice, actually, I do do this quite a lot. If the steak isn't seasoned enough, I will have steak with ketchup.

Even if I'm at a restaurant, which I feel rude for doing but I'm like well you should have seasoned it more or the peppercorn should have been strung up because that one doesn't surprise me as much because I feel like that's really not normal no but like that I could probably do that also but like pasta and ketchup knocks me genuinely so well I don't know because it makes no sense because I'd have pasta with like a bolognese sauce which is still tomato but like I i don't know because it makes no sense because i'd have pasta with like a bolognese sauce which is still tomato but like i just don't really have ketchup that much but i know you have it with everything like i know you love ketchup then i mean that's quite a common girl dinner like people love ketchup with stuff well i feel like people love or hate it

i feel like it's i feel like it's a bit like Marmite. I don't, well, yeah, saying that, but I don't hate ketchup, but I just don't love it. Like, I like, you know when we were in Ibiza and we got those little pots? When you get the little pots in like a hotel, something about that ketchup hits real different. Like, it's so nice. That ketchup tastes banging.

It was so good. And I'd be like, yeah, I'm having this with the chips, but like, I don't own ketchup in the house. That is what, that's a big statement, right? Let's stop this here. That's a big statement. Let's move on. Let's go.

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So why buy ordinary furniture when you can come home to King? Sale on now. Shop online or visit a King Living showroom today. Let's go. Okay, so question how long because there's definitely so many more single behaviors that we do that we've not mentioned that we just can't think about our head and it's annoying because i know i'll see my friends and they'll be like oh my god when you do this when you do that when you do this there'll be so many things and I know when I first see a guy listen I'm not acting the same as how

I'm acting six months down the line nobody is no of course not but at what point do you start to do those single behaviors what like how long do you think it would take you the thing is like i do get comfortable with people really quickly you do how do you know like i really just can like be myself like straight away which is such a great thing by the way thanks babe yeah it's quite good thing to do but only if they're giving me that energy back like if they're really like reserved and they're not giving me that back i'm not going to start being, like, my complete self because... Yeah. But I could probably do it, like...

Like a month or two in. Is that too soon, though? No, I wouldn't say that's too soon. I think it's better at the end of the day because you're going to do it at some point. But I think it's different because, like, if you're seeing somebody long distance and they're having to stay at your house,'re more than likely to see these behaviors quicker than

what they're going to see if like you live in the same city and you're going to go on like seven eight dates before you start saying everything to this house yeah so I think it can really depend on the situation but like I've never I don't know like i've never had like i've never been in long distance so for me it's always it has always been a while since they've seen me do these pretty weird fucking things yeah it makes sense i'm just thinking of another thing that my mom would say if she was here my mom would go i know what you do you leave your dirty knickers on the floor and that is something i do is i leave my underwear on the floor all the time so do i that's that is just every girl does that and if you say you don't do it as well i have a freaking shoe that i should just yeah it doesn't require much effort to pick

it up and put it down the shoe and it's next to your bathroom sink yeah but i still do it and i think i always will and that is something I think I wouldn't start showing in a relationship until I've been in that relationship for a very long time. I'm not leaving my dirty underwear on the floor. No, I definitely wouldn't. That is something I would be hyper aware of. Whereas like the contact, I'm kind of like, it's not great. But underwear is a bit more like.

Yeah, need to stop doing it. Well, it's funny as well because even like talking about single behaviors I know this isn't really like a single behavior but even I think we probably spoke about this before but going to the toilet with somebody when you're in a relationship with them at what point do you do that because I've so one of my best friends was with her boyfriend for about well they were together for seven years and they and she never ever gone to the toilet with him ever in the whole seven years and I thought that was crazy because I always had but in her new relationship that she's now in she always goes to the toilet with her boyfriend and the reason being is is because when they first got together that was

just something he did from the get-go and because he did it from the get-go she then just got comfortable doing it and it's funny like with my ex he was somebody who was just like very comfortable like that as well so I remember like the first time we'd like been together and like he'd slept over he was just going to the toilet with me whilst I'm just there and I'm just and i don't know i think it's one of those things it depends what the other person's like yeah because for me like it wouldn't bother me at all having to go to the toilet whilst they're in the bathroom or like with the door open like if we're a year down the line babe i'm talking to you whilst i'm on the

toilet but like if they aren't like if you don't do that from day door i don't think you will get to that i think that's kind of where i'm going with it so what you're saying is on the first day i've got to go to the toilet i have to say no no we'll go to the disabled we can go together no but i know what you're saying like maybe yeah i mean the thing is like with my ex-boyfriend we did get to that stage but like I did yeah I didn't really think about it and it just happened but it did happen quite early on. You are a very comfortable person I think you don't actually realize you are like no maybe not you get more comfortable than any friend I've ever had. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing. No it's a good it's a really great thing because you feel

confident within your own skin and even if you don't, you're good at like. Good at faking it. Faking it, either way. But no, I think it's a really, really great thing. But even for an example, like I know. God, make it out if you don't wear clothes. But I know like say you just like, a new friend of mine, and we were going out.

And I would, and again, this is a really great thing. You would just get changed there and there. You'd just strip naked, get changed. And you'd start talking to this friend that you've just met. You're like, yeah, babe, and she's naked. Yeah, babe, and oh, my God, yeah, I was telling him how. And I'm like, what? The confidence.

And me and Anna would do that together yeah yeah and do you know what I'm quite like that too but not how you are like how you are that confident is amazing so I don't think you realize how quickly you can get comfortable with somebody yeah but you know what like it's for me it's easier with girls and friends because I like hopefully they'll do it too. If they were fully clothed, I wouldn't just stand there butt naked. If we both get changed, we both get changed.

No, but I think you would. I think you would. I think you wouldn't think about it. But also, we grew up the same in the sense of I would always get changed around my friends. Clearly, so would you. Whereas some girls never got changed around my friends clearly so would you whereas some girls never got changed around their friends like even Imogen who's my brother's yeah girlfriend um most people

know that on the podcast but in case you didn't even Imogen when I first started getting changed around her she didn't know where to look and she was like this is so weird and we've had the conversation she's like it's so strange. Even when I haven't hung out with you for ages. And like, we're getting changed. Like, she'll almost like go off into the other room to get changed. And I'm like, we've literally seen each other naked so many times. Like, doesn't even like bits.

Because she's not used to it. But then, yeah, when she has time away, her other friends don't do that. Whereas, yeah, if you grow up around you and the girls always doing that, it kind of just, like, stays with you. So clearly you've just done the same. Yeah, when I was younger, yeah, me and Tanisha would just do it all the time. I wouldn't even think about it at all. So I think it just kind of, like, stayed with me.

But, like, if it was a guy, guys, I'm very open, but I do have some dignity about myself as well. Also, I'm making out just Anna does this. I would do that too. Yeah, I just, I do happen to do it a lot. I don't know why, but I do have dignity, I promise. But if it was the guy, I was like, I wouldn't just like invite the man to strip naked. And like, we'll go like, come on, we'll leave a bit of mystery.

Like we'll build it up a bit. Do you know what I mean? Like you're not getting that lucky just yet. But like in a relationship, eventually I feel yeah like of course like that just happened but just maybe with a guy it wouldn't be as straight away as it would be if you were my friend when you start dating a guy now people are gonna start DM you so what like third day did you get naked oh my god no guys like I promise I actually wear clothes i've got a thick jumper on today like no no she does she does my point was sorry the reason i was saying that is because

going to the toilet i don't feel like it would take a lot for you to get there if that makes sense no it probably i'm trying to think back to when it happens before but then when i think when i like someone i can get quite embarrassed like when I really like somebody and like yeah so maybe it's just more around friends yeah because IBS girlies unite it ain't cute sometimes do you know what I mean

sometimes I'm like babe actually you probably don't want to come in but eventually yeah I mean you're really open that like you can go to the toilet in front of a boyfriend because you've done it loads. You've definitely done that more than me, actually. Well, yeah, but I've had longer term boyfriends.

That is true. That's the only reason why. That is true. Yeah, but I know I wouldn't start if they hadn't started, if that makes sense. So it all leans on the boy. It does. So guys out there listening listening if you go to the

toilet in front of us we were going to toilet in front of you but they probably don't want that i don't think guys necessarily want us to go to the toilet with them i think they'd actually probably rather not yeah i don't know if they find it attractive like sometimes you know i want a bit of alone time in the toilet do i mean like yeah just sit on my phone to scroll well I remember one time I hadn't been with this guy well he ended up being my boyfriend for years but I hadn't been with him very long and we'd gone away and the freaking I hate hotel rooms that the toilet is literally attached like so attached there isn't a separate like door yeah oh i actually wanted to die i literally thought this is this is not okay but why did they do that the hotel we were just in in ibiza

guys the shower was all glass the entire in the middle of the room couldn't block anything in the room if you just met somebody or you just go on your first holiday you ain't having no privacy let me tell you because you you could see everything. Everything. And to make it worse, there's a big long mirror in front of the shower that's completely glass. So you have to stare at your own body while she's showering, which I don't want to do that. We've just risen from a couple of deathly nights out. And I'm looking at myself in this mirror like, this is hell. but I'm also looking at Anna because there's no other way and she's also looking at me so it's just basically it was just hell but yeah those hotel rooms are the worst but to kind of

round this episode up how do you feel then about your exes knowing some of your secret single behavior does it bother you that they've seen like they know all of these things about you no i don't feel like anything's that bad if i say so myself no i don't think it's awful i don't think there's anything awful that i do i honestly think it's things that a lot of people do but people wouldn't admit yeah so i'm not embarrassed about it i mean i've said on the podcast now i can't be bad i don't think i do anything that gross no i'm leaving my dirty underwear on the floor but but every i'm sorry everyone has done that

at some stage in their life yeah and we live on our own also yes there probably is when i go to bed tonight or even just going around the house i probably will notice more things that i do yeah there will probably be things that i'm now going to notice more so i'm like that's disgusting why did you do that okay so when we have a catch-up in our next episode on tuesday you can let me know if there's any more or we're just perfect we'll see or we're just amazing and all these things are actually quirks about our personality anyway that is all for today everyone make sure to go and check us out on socials and subscribe to the pod on spotify so you don't miss out on all of the future goss

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