Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 93. Hot Girl Summer Is Finally Here!

Episode Date: July 2, 2024

It's finalllly the summer - the weather is weathering, England are doing well in the Euros and things are looking up. AND hot girl summer is upon us! Today we reminisce about our previous hot girl summers, holiday we've taken together and our plans for this summer too. Plus, we talk about if our holiday romances and give our tips on how to have a hot girl summer.Got a hot girl summer story? DM us @sexsliespodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

let's go hello everyone welcome back to another episode of sex lies and dm slides with me anastasia kingsnorth and me saffron barker we are back for another week and back for another opportunity to deep dive into all things sex and relationships how are you well i'm good how are you? We are. I'm good. How are you? Yeah, I'm good. Thank you. I'm enjoying, I was going to say enjoying the LA sun, although actually it's not being that sunny. Has it not? How warm has it been? The thing is, it's not cold. It's never never cold it's just not sunny i honestly think i'll go

home to the uk and i and i will feel like the weather is nicer even if it's colder yeah because it's just very gray here but maybe that's gonna change it's getting a bit better so i hope so i mean manchester weather is absolutely shocking it's pissing it down with rain right now. But it's like that rain where it's like mixed in with the wind, like drizzly rain. That is the worst weather. The worst sort of rain because it's so deceiving because you go outside and you come back actually drenched.

So that's the weather here, which is awful. But how's LA? So at least it's not that. No. Yeah, it's good. Thank you. I've been very busy, working hard. So can't complain.

I actually haven't got much longer here left now, which is weird. It's going by really fast. I come back in on Friday. On Friday, it's two weeks. So I really haven't got very long. Oh, my God. And you know what's crazy is my mom was going to come back out here when she left I thought I'm gonna be really lonely because yeah so initially before I came out here I felt like I really needed this time by myself to work on myself and I had this whole

I don't even know what you call it this whole new like an epiphany just like that's exactly the word I'm looking for and I was like I need this I need this and then because my mum came because she wanted to like settle me in and make sure I was okay and my apartment and stuff was okay when she left I thought actually I can't do this now even though I live by myself at home but I thought I can't do this now and I very quickly managed to find my feet and I actually easily could do this now and my mum was going to come back out and i'm glad she isn't just because she would be honestly by herself i'm so busy out here and i'm starting to make friends which is making me so happy like i'm actually going to a party this weekend oh my god i told you you would oh finally yeah but it's taking four weeks so it could be better than ever true and i feel like i'm gonna be so many friends now that i'm gonna be going home

but oh yeah yeah but at least you'll be going back though yeah that's true and i have got some amazing news that my visa is actually going through oh my god is it yeah which i'm very very excited i haven't got it yet so don't get too excited but it's actually but it's good the process is moving it's a it's moving it's moving and there is no more steps on my end that I need to do so I'm very very excited for that oh my god that is so exciting yeah everything's just going in the right direction yeah there's you know yeah there's a lot of there's a little bit of self-doubt throughout the way but you know what as long as we're moving one percent better every day it's fine it's fine exactly babe we love to

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suitcase with all my outfits I have no idea what I'm wearing I've left it way too last minute um because shock horror I went out on the weekend when she said she wasn't going to yeah because I went out to celebrate the book like we went out for dinner we went out to like some drinks and stuff and then it ended up being a 5m one in gay village rolling back in at that time and then waking up well going to bed when it's still light outside and i was like oh this is amazing that's when you know you had a you had a good night if you get home and it's outside yeah and we need to go when you next come to manchester to die cast i think i've mentioned it briefly to you before but it's like a better version of albert schloss and it is so good like i really yeah we went there like i hadn't been for ages

but since i've like said i last been they've done it all up and it was i can't even say it was so good it was giving my hinge page in real life i was about to say that are you saying that because of the men that is there well i didn't actually speak to anybody but there was some really good looking men like there was some really good people i was just recognizing people i was like oh gosh i've seen you on hinge so it was giving the vibes no way gorgeous yeah the vibes okay okay i'm down we definitely do need to plan a good night out when we next see each other. We need a really good night out. Because also this year we haven't even planned a summer holiday and we need that.

No, which is quite terrifying. So for August or whatever, we need a holiday booked. Do you know what we actually really do? I think we need to book to go somewhere, Marbella. We need to book somewhere. I would love to go to Marbella because everyone is flocking there on my Instagram and I've never been I actually am going on a girl's trip to Marbella but I was that way you're doing a holiday yeah we're going to Marbella because I just felt like I wanted to do something different

to Ibiza I do an Ibiza trip every year so and I'm not very big into house music so for me it just isn't always the vibe I feel like there's two different sides to Ibiza you can either do like all the heavy clubs or you just go to like old town and do like a really chilled trip there's not really like an in-between so yeah I feel like well obviously we did Ibiza last year and I did love it but yeah I did it twice last year so I feel like this year might give it a miss yeah I'm going to no do you know what we can't even say this because I'm actually going to be embarrassed because I know for a fact mean you're going to end up in ibiza so everyone listening right now we're definitely and we will probably end up in ibiza even if we did maybe like

a long weekend in ibiza like four nights okay so it's the first week of july and hot girl summer is well on its way and Anna keeps Anna actually said to me you know not even that long ago she's like you don't want to get into a relationship again because we haven't had hot girl summer yet and honestly I was laughing so much because have we have we ever had a hot girl summer well last summer last year yeah because summer at the same time yeah yeah because I'd come out of a relationship and that was my first summer being single and you were single as well so we're like right this is the first time and we were like globetrotters last year we went to so many places and i feel like we

did have like we did have fun we did we did have a bit of a hot girl summer last year and it was really good and i just feel like i've got one more left in me one more is that it I've just got to execute no maybe a couple more maybe a couple more I love you could still have a hot girl summer I feel like you can still you can still have that in a relationship you can still be hot feel hot the thing is last summer 100% I remember hot girl summer me and you were thriving because we felt so I remember my acne had cleared up and I got such a good tan and I felt so good about myself and I know it sounds the tan it probably sounds quite shallow but because I felt good within myself I felt like I had a way better summer because I actually felt confident I felt like I had good way better summer because I actually felt confident. I felt like I had good skin, I had a tan.

We'd traveled to so many places. That was probably one of the best summers I've had. But that to me like is a hot girl summer. Because I feel like sometimes, first of all, by the way, the tan last year was the only time, the first time that me and Saf had actually tanned. It was insane. Like before that, we would actually come back looking like a strawberry. It was at Cruise.

That Cruise made us tanned. the cruise sorted us right out but I feel like some people think like a hot girl summer just has to be like you going out sleeping with loads of guys having a one-night stand like that there's like that version of a hot girl summer but then there's your version what you just said like you feel good you're with your friends you're just having fun like that's my idea of like a hot girl summer also didn't actually know that Megan Thee Stallion created hot girl summer wait this term came from her yeah it says Megan Thee Stallion was a creator of hot girl summer and she said it's about just being you just having fun turning up driving the boat and not giving a damn about what anybody's saying that genuinely was us last year on the boat in ibiza dreadfully hung over didn't sleep okay that was no that was terrible we were so oh my god guys it was actually the boat day was my birth

uh was the boat day my birthday or was it the night that we went out yeah it was yeah so we went on a big night out to celebrate my birthday but it was the day before we went to leo's and then we went out clubbing and then anyways long story short didn't get into early early hours of the morning actually late hours of the morning and we got back and we were all like oh my god we have an hour until we have to be on this boat and imagine being that hungover on a boat that that was hard and it was the fact that the sea was so choppy in one of the places that he parked the boat so we were literally nearly on our side and we were all just laid on the front of this boat like trying not to be sick but it was such a fun day but yeah we just took it a little bit too far we did but we were celebrating my birthday so i did feel like it was go big or go home

that's true and leo's was so good that might actually be my favorite place in ibiza that was incredible yeah that was good and i i actually ended up i had met this guy in a club which i never do do i i never I never meet people in a club. No, this was like a one-off. This is a one-off. Like I don't, honestly, I don't even speak to guys in a club.

Like I genuinely just don't. And I remember I've met this guy and then from this night where I was speaking to him, I ended up going on a date with him. When was it? Was it like two nights after? Yeah, maybe like two nights after. maybe like two nights after he changed his

flight to stay in Ibiza and he was from I do I feel like I've spoken about this on the pub before he was from Greece that was he was from Greece wasn't he and I ended up going on a date with this guy and it all came yeah so we ended up meeting loads of people that night it was so fun that see I just think that was the best summer it was so good everything about it yeah I loved it I would love to redo last summer I feel like we just started summer early though we started summer in April that's what the time was I mean that's like three weeks yeah oh that was when the tan was good I need my tan back I'm so painfully pale right now but i do go to

bali next week yeah you're gonna be so i feel like you're gonna be so i thought everyone i was gonna come back with a tan honestly i'm getting more pasty by the day but as the days go on i'm getting more and more and more pasty but to be fair though have you sunbathed because i feel like it's hard to catch a tan when you're just walking around honestly it's grey skies yeah so la is not giving me the la i wanted right now but it's fine um but just going back to the whole club thing going on a date with this guy i still didn't i still didn't still wouldn't say he was a summer fling i don't really think i've ever had a summer fling like i fancied this guy went on a date with him whatever i honestly never really spoke to him again like

that was that so for me that wasn't a summer thing. Yeah, you didn't. Oh my God, though. Do you remember when he sent you the photo of you two on from the disposable camera? Like days after. Oh my God, yeah. Yeah. And it was actually a really cute photo.

Yeah, but he was weird. He was... Honestly, it was great for the few days that it was. And then I realized actually he's yeah he was he was not anyways he was not a summer fling and it really made me think like have i had a summer fling because i feel like everybody's had a summer fling i don't think i have i genuinely can't think of one person i'm like oh that was a summer fling yeah i don't know if i don't think you have either you've gone on like you've had

like holiday flings that will last like two days or like somewhere you're gonna date somebody that's good but not like a summer flick no do you mean no but you're gonna date abroad yeah i mean but like not like a summer fling that lasts from like just the summer i think i i have had a summer thing once before many years ago right um which was actually it was very much staff knows her one about definitely not naming names it was very fun I think it was just like I think it was just more exciting because probably shouldn't have been doing it but it was just fun going away, doing whatever with them, coming back, doing whatever with them. And then just comes to a swift end when summer's over.

And then you're ready for winter. Like it is fun having a summer fling. How does it happen like that, that it just ends in the summer? See, if I'm spending that much time with somebody, I've got to really like them. And if I really like them, I'm attached to them. So I think that's why summer fling would never last for me I feel like people have yeah personalities it's like

their personality in the summer personality in the winter I don't feel like I have that as a such I definitely don't I might like my mind doesn't change depending on like what time of year it is but I think like in in that case that ended because like the person who it was probably shouldn't have done it in the first place and then we decided we can't do it it's getting too complicated and then they actually got a partner so it was kind of like right okay well it obviously has to stop and it just happened to be at the end of summer that this oh wow so I guess that was a summer fling i had i don't think you could count anything else what i had as like a summer fling when i went to australia actually

when i went to australia yeah i'm sorry you definitely lived life when you was in australia i lived my fucking best life when i was in australia and i did meet somebody actually on a boat trip um and he was really lovely and like we spoke for ages after about like him wanting to like me to fly back out and we'll go traveling together um and I just feel like that just is how people meet people in Australia like you meet someone the next thing you know you moved in with them they're your boyfriend and you've traveled the world together three years like that it's like genuinely every every person that I met that tell me that story why do you think I don't think it was that uncommon I don't know I think it's like genuinely every every person that I met that tell me that story why do you think it was that uncommon I don't know I think it's because so many people go out there like

solo traveling and solely to meet people and everyone has the same mindset like they need to find somewhere to live they need to find like a job like I think everyone just goes out there with that same mindset of I'm gonna find someone I don't know right maybe they don't but like that's just what it gave me when I went there. So I kind of had that, but then that also came to a swift end. And then other than that, I've only really had like holiday flings when I was like 18 in Cabos,

which I don't think helps at all. That was just me being silly on a girl's holiday. Yeah. Cause the summer. Yeah. That's yeah. That's yeah. I definitely have not had something that's just lasted in the summer like I'm really really trying to think but I do think that's fun and I yeah you're so lucky that

yours ended the way that it ended oh 100% it could have ended in like a very like messy way and it just didn't at all which was nice I mean to be honest it probably could have happened in the winter it just happened to be over summer and we happened to be going on holidays and stuff which made it more exciting um but I wouldn't be opposed to having a summer fling but like also like I don't want a summer fling now like I'd rather like I'd rather actually it continue into the winter I don't just want to break up at the end of August and be like bye yeah and it's weird isn't it really because the idea of having a relationship in winter sounds more appealing to me than summer same because I still want that winter wonderland exactly I've never been on a date to winter wonderland I know which is crazy but having a relationship in the winter it's just the best

thing I feel like because right in the summer I feel as if it's so much easier and I'm sure you would agree to go out and to meet people because you're out way more so you're meeting so many more people and it's just fun there's parties all the time barbecues the weather's nice you're in a good mood the winter it's it's just depressing it's cold it's not sunny to be in a relationship is more appealing in the winter in my opinion I mean I'd rather just be in a relationship all year round but I'm saying if I had to choose I would probably choose the winter because it just is I don't know it's more lonely it's it just yeah so I find it crazy how people

just like my friends say to me all the time oh my god i just really hope i get a summer fling and i'm thinking this is the time where you just go out have fun with your friends rather than having a summer fling why don't you have a winter thing a winter fling would be better it's a new day how can you make the most of it with your membership rewards points? Earn points on everyday purchases. Use them for that long-awaited vacation. You can earn points almost anywhere, and they never expire. Treat your friends or spoil your family.

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just more sociable things because the weather's nice everywhere's busy it's just fun to be like especially in manchester i freaking love summer in manchester like there's people everywhere but yeah like in the winter obviously there's still people everywhere but it is just a completely different it's a completely different vibe and so yeah i feel like i definitely would prefer a hot what yeah hot girl winter i guess is that even a thing i don't know i don't know if i've ever heard anybody there was this one time when anna and i we went to barbados and we wanted to have this hot girl summer and let me tell you this was the actually i say we wanted to have this hot girl summer it wasn't the summer it actually wasn't the summer it was winter it was actually summer. It was winter. It was actually winter. But we wanted to go on this holiday and have this hot girl,

I guess we can't say summer, but this hot girl moment. Okay? We wanted this glow up. We wanted this hot girl part of our life to come through. Anyways, this was years and years and years ago when I tell you this is how a lot of my summers go I have this idea of something being so amazing we get to this hotel in Barbados right we're like this is the glow up time we're gonna party we're gonna do this we're gonna do that how old are we could we just drink we were yeah i think we were 18 19

yes i think we can drink we just go out so we just had this whole idea and i'm hoping that none of our summers ever go like this because it was oh it was it was tragic to look back on now it's funny to look back on it is hilarious but at the time right we get there first of all when i look back at the pictures i've never i look transparent we both look transparent we look see-through we didn't catch one bit of tan and i would like to consider i would like to say i've had a major glow up since that time in my life because. Oh, we've had a big glow up. Some of these pictures, honestly, guys, if you saw them now, are absolutely. Anyways, aside from what we look like, you know, let's just talk about the experience that we had.

We, I don't even remember what night this was on. It was the first night. Maybe like two or three. Was it the first night? what night it was the first night maybe like it was the first night no it was the second so we got that we got there didn't it happen twice we got there in the evening and then it was the next day so we got there in the evening and then we had we went to bed that night we'd unpacked and then we went to the pool or whatever i had hair extensions you cannot leave chlorine in hair extensions you can't even leave your hair where you have to blow dry your hair anyways we get back to the room there's a full power cut across the whole island so we couldn't wash our hair we had no phones we

had no way to contact anyone we were in pitch black we was in pitch black bear in mind this wasn't something that went on for like an hour this went on for the whole 24 hours a full 24 hours our phone side we had nothing we had nothing and we were meant to be going to these parties and we actually we were looking like we can't even go out like this like we look so bad i had this wet i don't know what like we didn't have any curling nothing anyways then it gets resolved 24 hours later it only happens again for another 24 hours we've got no power no way to contact anyone it was just it was so tragic but when i tell you this was just one of many things that went wrong and i think this might have been one of our first holidays together

it was i think before this we've done we did paris and which was awful which was also it was tragic guys i'm sorry but when i tell you it was coming out of both ends for me i was so ill i was so ill on this trip it was and that was the night we went to moulin rouge as well so it was just giving hell i remember going to the pharmacy after moulin rouge and just stocking up on all these different things and it was just a lot and the funny thing is we stayed in the most bougie hotel like i would never spend that much money on a hotel again like i bougie hotel like i would never spend that money on a hotel again like it's more than i would spend now on a hotel i cannot believe how much money we on that hotel we had it was like a it looked like a room for a king or a queen it was giving that

like a suite with like eiffel tower view it gave the penthouse of the Beverly Wiltshire Hotel it gave pretty woman penthouse it was we had like a walking wardrobe like this grand bathroom it was just and then next thing you know we're TMI coming out from both ends it was just a lot and then we were meant to when we meant to we went to go have like lunch at the Eiffel Tower and we missed it like how did we miss it well because I also nearly got mugged well I did get mugged I got mugged on that trip well nearly yeah that was we were walking tragic when we have one good trip it's going to be amazing but when we were walking up the Champs Elysees and these people these guys like with clipboards like just suddenly just circled us like all around and

were trying to get us to sign this petition and then someone like screamed to us be like run run run they're trying to take your stuff so thank god that person said something otherwise we would have had all of our stuff yeah well they were unzipping our backpacks they literally yeah when we ran away yeah i had a no- a little backpack so the zip was really thick and sturdy in my backpack so i was fine but they opened the entire of anna's bag your whole backpack was yeah the full thing but you want to know something both it was these trips that went horribly wrong we're never in the summer and actually our summers have always been good thinking about it so summer trips actually our summers have always been good. Thinking about it.

Yeah, the summer trips. The summer trips have always been amazing. So maybe we just need to take trips in the summer and not winter. Maybe that's what we've learned from this. Yeah, absolutely. But saying that though, New York was fun.

New York was really good when we went in December. Yeah. So basically, Wynonna and I have just gone on trips the two of us. They've never gone successfully. We had another hot girl summer story, actually.

This is when we went to LA. When? Last year? Honestly. Yeah. And I don't even know. It just kind of like happened. It was really weird. We were in a club.

Oh, wait, hang on. Can we just say something though? People thought Anna and I were together. So we went along with it for the night together so we went along with it oh yeah the night yeah we literally went along with it so how we ended up going you about to say the fact we went on a double day which i'm not even you keep going yeah it's not a double day because i didn't i didn't know it would say yes to this just letting you know well i also didn't like the guy i was it was just so but anyway it was so weird. Yeah, start the story.

Start the story. So from my memory, what I remember is we were in the club. And I don't remember what the guys looked like. No, no, I remember. Well, it's in the club. And I knew loads of people there. And then we ended up getting introduced to the owner. And the owner thought that Anna and I

were together I don't know why he thought that or I don't even know if he thought we were together but he just thought we'd be up for doing it together so anyways he was basically saying to us you know like two for the price of one can't like let's do a threesome and he was adamant on us doing a threesome like that was that and it just weird. So we wanted to get out of this club. So we left the club, didn't we? Do you remember? We left this club and went to another club. Oh my God, we did.

And then this is where the double date thing happened. This is where the double date thing happened. Yeah, and then we ended up in this like restaurant that sold pizza but there was nobody else in this restaurant it was just us at like four in the morning and they've ordered this pizza wasn't there something going on with the ketchup how he was like like you having ketchup with pizza and that was wrong yeah but and them saying like why you can't order ketchup or something like that which is also for some context. So we had gone to another club.

It was super late. And when we were standing outside, you know, that's when everyone just starts mingling and starts talking. So anyways, these guys start speaking to us. And we thought they were very normal at this point. Didn't remotely find them one bit attractive. But anyways, was very drunk. And they were like, we're going to go get food. We're like, nowhere's open. This guy was like, oh, was very drunk. And they were like, we're going to go get food. We're like, nowhere's open.

This guy was like, oh, we know somewhere. So this is very irresponsible of us. Don't know why we did this. We got in the back of their car. Yeah, do not do this. Which is just not recommended to anyone to ever do. Got in the back of their car. Could have taken us anywhere, by the way. It was so weird.

Do you remember as well, this guy had this obsession with my feet. Yes, the feet and the music in the car hang on i think i don't want i definitely i'm sure i filmed something in the back very much this guy had an obsession with my feet like kept touching my feet in the back of the car so i was in no i was in the front of the car and i was in the back kept touching my feet they were just so strange but at this point we're already in the car and quite frankly i wanted to get there and i wanted to go home but also we needed to eat because we were very drunk so we get out and they actually do take us to this restaurant but there's no one in it and i think their friend owns it and we ended up having pizza and they kept talking about oh this is such

a nice double date and i'm thinking i've not signed up for a double date it's like 4 a.m in the morning we're so heavily drunk right i found the video he kept playing boys to men in the car there's a that's what yeah i've got a video i've got the video boys to men there's i can see i can see the time it says 3 43 in the morning and i'm zooming in on his phone and it's boys to men he's got the lyrics up on the phone they kept playing boys to men he kept touching my feet the whole thing was so not okay babe in any way i have a video on my snapchat he's saying he's giving me a massage on my feet this is just not okay in the club in the club he got my feet out my heels and started rubbing my feet

so the fact that we met them and we still went to the pizza with them after he's done that in the club that that's where i think i've grown up and that's not happening again well actually that would never happen again just so drunk and and just do not get in the back of people's cars just do not get in a stranger's car at four in the morning because yeah i would never ever do that now like that was so irresponsible and and in a different we were just yeah wow crazy girls yeah but then anyways we had a pizza with them and they were they it was just the fact they kept calling it a double date and i'm thinking this is not you just said we know where to get food and we said okay and that was uh just take us that we could have been

taken anywhere so yeah very irresponsible but that was probably yeah one of the maybe the best hot girl summer stories we've had like as a pair but yeah it was so weird that everyone thought we were together that night because it was like not just one person it was a lot of people well it's funny to look back on yeah okay i feel like this one is maybe more for you then because i've had a hot girl like fling summer fling whatever but have you had a holiday romance because i think you have but would you not say that's the same thing no because the summer fling lasts like over the summer like no matter if you're on holiday at home whatever but i feel like you've more had

holiday romances that have just lasted whilst we're on holiday yeah to be fair that's definitely happened to me probably a few times yeah I have my favorite one of yours wait who what fluffy hat fluffy hat that is no that's not a holiday romance that's not no that's not okay right the reason Anna's saying this the reason she's like you definitely have well first of all I just described that guy that I went on a date with and that I'd seen and I'd seen him a few days before and I was texting him and blah blah blah but my thing is is because I'd only ever been in long-distance relationships the idea of being with somebody that lives far away doesn't really bother me because it's kind of all I've ever known and so whereas most girls would meet somebody abroad and be like oh but it's never going to be a thing because he lives in wherever I'm like oh

it's fine I can make it work so I'm never like against it and for some reason I never fancy British boys just for some reason I always fancy the ones I think you're just destined to be yeah you're destined to be with somebody from like America you just are apparently well I was yeah probably honestly probably definitely not in the same country as me anyways everyone's learned that at this point it's not even like I deliberately choose that but so I think in my head if somebody lives far away it's not I'm not against it so against it. So I'm, everyone else will be like, well, what's the point? And I'm like, you know, I can make it work. I think I'm just too optimistic in that sense.

In the sense I always believe that it's going to work out and it's going to be fine. So I think that's where I very easily fall into holiday bromances. it really sounds as if i've been on loads of dates and i would say i was never a dater until this podcast until i promised the podcast i was like i'll go on dates and so i decided to be more open-minded and actually go on dates with people because the only way I'd meet them was holiday romances but anyways I signed myself up to this date in LA and this sounds this actually sounds really mean but when I tell you guys you've never seen anything like it in your life so this guy was beautiful he was so good looking insane but i remember before i met him i saw that he posted on his story this

picture of him with this huge huge fluffy bucket hat and i thought to myself this is like an hour before i'm seeing him i thought to myself can i be wearing that right because i thought to myself this is like an hour before i'm seeing him i thought to myself can i be wearing that right because i thought there's but i also thought there's no way and it's like oh let me see pictures of this guy that you're going on a date with obviously i'm not sharing the story of the fluffy hat because i knew they should piss herself because i'm all about expressing yourself but when i tell you it didn't it didn't look good it didn't suit him in any it didn't look cool it was just it looked like you genuinely put a mop on your head it was it was it was absolutely bizarre it was bizarre and I'm all for experimenting with the

fashion everything but this was just not it so I didn't show Anna this picture, but I honestly thought to myself, I fucking hope he isn't wearing that. Guys, I get to this date. He's fucking wearing the hat. He's wearing the fluffy. You could see him from a mile away. I mean, he was tall anyways. And then on top of that,

do you know what? He looked like a guard outside the Queen's Palace. Yes, that's what the hat looked like it was that tall and he's already like six foot i don't even know he was tall like six foot five and then he's wearing this huge hat on top of it and i thought surely not but then as the date went on he obviously took the hat off anyways he offers so we're in an uber on the way back home and then he offers to well he gets out the the Uber to walk me back to, because they parked further down the hill or whatever.

So he walks me to the house and I couldn't get in so he's standing there. He puts the hat back on. I thought, oh no, no, no, no, no, no. Because I can't open the door and now Anna's going to come up and she's going to see him with the fluffy hat. Anyways, she opens the door and when I tell you she couldn't even hide she couldn't even hide it and I thought to myself I don't I don't actually know what to say anyways we say goodbye to this guy he was well we didn't say

goodbye I was about to say goodbye to the guy said goodbye but then he ended up coming in didn't say goodbye. I was about to say goodbye to the guy. Said goodbye, but then he ended up coming in, didn't he? And speaking to everybody. Yeah, he came in. But originally, he went to say goodbye. And then he ended up coming in because he couldn't get an Uber or whatever. So Anna and I are walking downstairs. And there was no conversation. It was like dead silence.

And we both knew. It was just silence. I knew that she was about to say, what the fuck? And I didn't have anything to say. I had nothing to say for this guy. Anyways, you definitely had to be there. It was. No, honestly, I can't even explain.

Just for those 30 seconds of me opening the door and just getting the pure shock of it like it sounds so bad because like he was gorgeous but yeah the hat was just a really questionable outfit decision but i think it was just the fact that yeah he was stood at the door with the hat on i just and i knew i think what made me laugh was immediately i knew saff would hate the hat i think that's what was making me laugh because i knew that you hated the hat so I was like anyone honestly it was that big it was just insane I've never seen a bucket hat that big in my life but when he left I just said something the hat it was it was one of those moments where i wish there was a camera recording

the initial just reaction of me opening the door imagine turning up that was quite an iconic anna imagine i know i i i would i i mean obviously i still would have gone on the date like the hat could come off but yeah he just loved also though the day was tragic like he was nice but what the fuck we went to the fucking cinema that's how we do like 12 yeah in my opinion there was so many options yeah you know you got so many options what you could do in la i'm actually embarrassed to even say what this was even worse what we watched is even worse i'm actually embarrassed to even say that i i had agreed to go on this date that he asked to be honest maybe he wore the hat because it

matched the film maybe do you know what the film was yeah super mario i thought it was angry birds it was Super Mario oh god Angry Birds oh god it was Super Mario and I remember thinking to myself that's a really interesting film to go and watch for a first date and then he had that hat on we sat and watched a kids movie which I like Super Mario

but we sat around the kids on this day it was just weird don't even yeah don't even talk to each other do you it was just bizarre so it was genuinely bizarre did he wear the hat in the cinema by the way no he took it off in the cinema well no one would be able to see behind him if we wore the hat so we had to take the hat off oh yeah because it was so tall oh my god i didn't think about that so yeah so we've had our fair share of holiday flings

hot girl summers we've had it all so right tips on having a hot girl summer then first of all if it's genuinely just going to be a summer fling hot girl summer like with a guy girl whatever try maybe not to catch feelings because if it's going to end on august 31st i really would not recommend catching feelings that's not fun for anybody no but that is a lot easier said than done yes it is this is my problem i think this is why i haven't had a summer fling because if i'm with somebody throughout the summer i end up just being with them because i know that i get too attached i think you have to go into it you have to go

into it with that mindset of like right this isn't anything like this isn't going to become anything it's like it's a hot a fucking summer fling it's like a situation that's what it ends up being and then one person ends up liking the other person the person doesn't so i think you need to err on the side of caution with that one um two stay safe because as you've probably heard some part of staff stories we didn't particularly listen to that one but now we've adapted that so we're going to stay very safe in our hot girl summer this year number three have fun live your best life live your best life jings go out there live your best life yeah live your best life have fun have the best summer with your friends as well although actually being i prefer being in a relationship that's i feel like

it's very clear i like being in a relationship but i do think being single in the summer is by far the best time of the year if you're going to be single any time of the year it's the summer it is you meet so many people it's such good vibes i am genuinely so excited for this summer i can't even tell you i think this summer's gonna be amazing i've got a really really really good feeling about it as soon as i've got my tan back she's gonna be thriving she's back she's we actually she's gonna be back honestly give me a week we need to book holiday yeah maybe it is gonna be a longer weekend in ibiza but i'm so down for that because then we just need that that like wild four days we'll go back to leo's we'll do that again we'll go to some nice day like so good clubs yeah i'm

down that will be our yeah okay that will be our hot girl summer trip of the year. But yeah, overall, if you are having a hot girl summer, even if you're not, stay safe, have fun, live your best life. I feel like summer is just the best time of the year. And I mean, I was going to say now the weather's getting better. It's actually not. Right outside now it's awful. But hopefully when the weather's getting better in the next like few weeks or whatever, you just feel happier. It's going to be amazing. I've got a really good feeling about this summer.

To everyone that's listening right now, i hope you actually thrive this summer i really hope you thrive this summer i feel like everyone who's listening get excited because summer is coming it's gonna be good i can't wait i want to hear all your stories as well if you go if you guys have some crazy hot girl summers or some summer flings yeah this is what we need to know about or holiday romances we need to we need to react to people's hot girl summer stories or like summer things like the wildest because we love reacting to your story that's definitely our favorite episodes and i feel like this could be good even if i could tell you some of my friends which i wish i could we would genuinely be like doubled over laughing.

If not, we need to get our friendship groups on the podcast because my friendship group would honestly be hilarious. That'd be fun. That'd be really fun. Yeah, because I want to hear other people's stories. I feel like now we've told you ours. We've spilled all of our dirty secrets. We need to hear yours.

So make sure to send them in on a sex live podcast on instagram oh go on one of my friends i can't name who well she probably wouldn't even care but i'm just gonna tell you one of my friends in my friendship group two years ago when we went to ibiza we was outside wait i don't even know why we're out you know what it's like you get drunk you're suddenly outside with everyone i don't know how this happened yeah anyways she's beautiful we come out she's got a line of guys queuing queuing for her that they you told me about this every time we go on holiday she ended up having a kissing booth like guys were in a line to kiss her and i swear to god I'm not even making it up it's the funniest story we have it all on video it's so funny we were doubled over laughing and now every time we go on holiday it's like I can't say her name but it's like so it's like it's a kissing booth open and it's like a thing

that happens on every single holiday and I feel like every friendship group must have something that just reminds them of a summer holiday so yeah any stories please send them our way yeah we want to hear them send them into sex lives podcast on instagram and we'll definitely do an episode reacting to all of them but that is everything for today be sure to check us out on socials and subscribe to the pod on spotify so you don't miss out on any of the future gossip. And we will see you on Thursday for our bonus episode. See you guys then. Bye. Sex Size and DM Size is a Spotify original podcast.

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