Sex With Emily - Amateur Anal, Sex Myths and Swinging

Episode Date: May 6, 2017

We here at Sex With Emily are noticing a trend: you love to talk about threesomes and swinging! We fully support an adventurous sex life, but there are some dos and don’ts to the ins and outs of bringing a stranger into the mix. On today’s show, Emily is joined by show-favorite, Menace, and the two are setting the record straight on all things sex, dating, and masturbation by answering your emails and taking your calls! How do you find a third for your threesome when you live in a small town? Are you ready for anal, but don’t know how to get started? Do you really need to disclose if your penis is uncut? Emily and Menace shed light on these quandaries and more. Plus, they reveal eight bold-faced lies about sex you really need to stop listening to. You may think you know, but you’ll have to tune in and find out! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Sportsheets, System JO, Adam & Eve and Womanizer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily and today's show we're tackling your sex and dating questions and everything in between. Topics include how to find a third for your first threesome, moving your relationship from the friend zone to a for real relationship, getting started with the anal sex and so much more. Thanks everyone for listening. Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mock our sacred institutions. Betrubized, they call them in a bag on day. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken,

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We love and you subscribe to the show right menace. I'm here with menace today Menace hi honey. Hi. How you doing? I'm great. How are you? I'm looking up something because I know you're Spugging me okay, the thing is So we had this girl on the show. I don't know I know and sexually yeah like a baby a year ago, right? Okay, and I had this girl on the show, I don't know. And sex, yeah, like a maybe a year ago, right? Okay. And now I see her on TV all the time. She was in Jurassic Park.

She's part of a podcast, like a female comedian group. Oh, oh, yeah. But now she's on this HBO show that I've been watching called crashing and Wild horses, she's from the wild horses. Yeah, wild horses. That's it. Yes. Lauren lapkins lapkins. Yeah, she's amazing. She's so talented. She's so great. Check it out. Okay, crashing on HBO. Right. You were right. I was just thinking about that right now as we're starting. Sorry. Right. Exactly. I was like who was it was called wild horse I think it was the sex with wild horses or something called it. I don't know. I called. Yeah, like wild. was, it was called Wild Horse. I think it was the sex with Wild Horses, or something called it. I don't know, it was like called, yeah, like wild, yeah.

But that's the name of their comedy thing here at the, at the improv, but they also, not at the improv at the, they had a podcast, yeah. Yeah, a Bright Citizens Brigade, and they also had podcasts, you see, but I keep on seeing her on TV. I know, she's amazing.

She's such a good actress. She was in Orange's New Black. Oh, really? She's one of the prison guards, yeah. She's crazy. Crazy, that's cool, man. So That's what you were doing. Yes. Before the show, well, I'm just happy to see you here. And I'm just getting on with telling everybody here that we, I love

when they subscribe when they review us, when they review reviews and iTunes. I mean, there's so many new podcasts now, which is amazing. Yes. But it helps when people subscribe to the podcast, that's what helps us so people can see our ranking on iTunes and all that. But also if you review the show, also helpful. Do all that. Yeah. And follow us on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, it's all that sex with Emily. And also on my observation month. Write a nice review because if you don't Emily gets sad. I just sat. Yeah.

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So how is your masturbation month been going? Anything new? It's been going great. It's, how about this? Because so, you know, I've been traveling a lot in masturbation month. Do you have any recommendations? I mean, other than the bullet, is there anything like that compact size out there that, you know, if people want to change it up other than the bullet that people want to use?

A clever, like a literal vibe? Oh, yeah, I'm obsessed with the jeering. The jeering, I never heard of this one. Oh yeah, I'm obsessed with the G-ring. The G-ring, I never heard of this one. I know, I'm so glad you asked. It goes around your finger and your finger becomes a vibrator. It looks like a ring. Like it literally does.

I heard it's like, you've talked about stuff like this. I didn't know it was called the G-ring. The G-ring, yeah, you can check out our web, F-T London. I think we sell them on our website. And it is so cool. And it's just like if you want to touch your partner newer or touch yourself, everywhere you put it, put any any finger, get your breast, touch your partner's breast

as penis, your clitoris, it freaking goes everywhere, like giving the partner a little neck massage, it is so cool. I love that. That's a great one. And it's also, it's like a bullet in the sense of bullet vibes, which you're referring to. I love that you know all the names of all the, all the, all the, all the, all the, all the reminder groups.

Yes. Very sweet. So, yeah, it's like, all the, all the, all the terms. Yes. Very sweet. So, yeah, it's like a bullet vibe, but it's even better because it like wraps around your figure and stays with you. No one even needs to know. It can be kind of fancy. And the big, I mean, I know it's,

It's a remote control for the FT London butt plug. Oh, wow. Yep. Now, I know you've brought out the bullet many times before, and I've, I've shared the story a couple of times, but we get new listeners all the time. We do. and I've shared the story a couple of times, but we get new listeners all the time. So a big funny bullet story is that my coworker and I, we lived in the same building in San Francisco, right?

And she was getting a new bed, like a new mattress or something like that. So it was helping her move her mattress and then this like metal thing dropped on the ground that had like a rubber tip on it. And I had no idea what it was. It looked like a bullet. And I picked it up off the ground.

And there was like a little button on the back of it. And I hit the button and she almost died because I'm like looking at like trying to figure out what this thing is, right? Right, we all have this. It's almost died. It's a looking at like trying to figure out what this thing is right right? We all have this yeah, it's a funny story that is a funny story Yeah, I feel like that's a good story. My friend has a as a cock ring It looks like kind of looks like a fit bit. Yeah, because it's um, it's one of those sleek I think it was um, I can't bring who makes it, but I gave it to her. But it was like a really cool penis ring. It's kind of flat. Goes around the penis, but it's like

very sleek. And her house cure picked up and said, Oh, is this your, I found your fit bit? And she was holding it. She's like, Oh, yeah, I'll take that. But actually, it was a penis ring. So there's a lot of mislegged. What is this thing? That's why that's the other thing. Vibrators have come a long way in the last 12 years. They, you can't even tell it there anymore. Yeah. So they're on the down low, they're have come a long way in the last 12 years. They, you can't even tell with air anymore. Yeah, so. They're on the down low. They're on the down low.

It's awesome. I have the vibrator, necklaces, the vibrator. What else is a good, uh, that we could talk about that's a new fun toy this month that you don't know about? I like the, I like that we have, it's in the Smash duration month. We have a subscription box and it's actually people are loving and I keep, because there's so much going on in the show.

I forgot to mention it lately, but I love that you guys are fighting on the website. It's a box you can get every quarter. And this month, it's mutual masturbation. And I wrote a mutual masturbation guide for you. So we can actually, it's got a bunch of different things in it. I told you last time, when you did, Emily's box, you told me, well, now I have one, it's called Unbound Box.

And it comes with the sleeve, it comes with this well now I have one, it's called Unbound Box. And it comes with like the sleeve, it comes with this bullet, I mean, this G-ring, it comes with, Lou, except for mutual masturbation. So you said that is, you know, sex with someone you love is masturbation and mutual masturbation is a great way for you guys to learn about your partner. We already got that. Big turn on, you should try that this month, everyone.

Oh, and we're having a contest before we get into sex in the news. I would like you all, but you must all do this by the end of the month. If you'd like to win some special prizes, if you would, if you'd like that, we've got some things to give you. Make us happy, make you happy. Email me your favorite masturbation routine. How do you masturbate? How do you break it down?

I want to know what you think about what you do. Where you're sitting, where you're standing, what you're smelling, what you're not eating, what you're not eating at that moment. But you know, whatever you're doing, I want to know email me feedback at sexelmy.com or just use the Ask Emily tab. That's even easier on our website. We're going to give you prizes and stuff. All right. I just did a mission accent, prizes. Prices. We're going to do prizes. I just like to do that. I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm is that people are like, oh, do you do you forget tired of talking about it?

Do you ever feel like I had an Uber driver the day who I almost married until he started talking? But at first, he I got in the car and he picked me up at LAX and I was so tired. I was just flying back. I had a really quick trip back east. He's like, I got in the car and he says, hi, he's like, would you like some water? Would you like to do you need a charger? Like those, and like, you just filled every need that I had.

Like in that moment. And I was so happy. I was like, yes, I'm quite thirsty. Yes, I would. And he's like, so what do you do, right? And he's cute guy, we're driving him. I go, I've got, and a lot of times I just don't talk. I say I'm a producer.

I'm like, oh, I've got this some, you know, sex toy, I mean, sex toy, sex show, sex family. He's like, oh, wow, that's cool. And he's like, do you ever get tired of it? And I was like, what do you mean? He's like, do you, like, like not And I was like, what do you mean? He's like, do you, like, not want to have sex because you talk about it all day. And I was like, I thought he meant like,

first of all, he's meant like, do you get tired of talking about it? Or he said, is it ever weird for you? Like when you, something like that. I thought he was asking me what most people ask me is it weird for you to date people. Because that's like the top question I get asked is our guys in tamaritan day, you, is it weird?

But when I went off on that, he goes, no, I mean like you like do you forget how many I don't want to sex I'm like no, I actually don't I mean I talk so I talk about it all the time But it's very different. It's like I guess if you're a chef, right? You still want to eat right yourself hungry You can help me want to eat things, but I understand that question But what I but so that was kind of annoying because then you kept saying like what's the weirdest story you've ever heard Which I actually need a better answer to that because I don't have one after all these years. I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna like, I don't know, maybe nothing's weird to me or I don't really remember anything, but like, oh my God,

that's crazy. So where this is leading me to is that I realize that I'm never sick of it having sex or talking about it. And that lately, a lot of the things that I, some's in the show, you know, 12 years, I mean, thousands of episodes, I think, kind of, we talked about this, we said it, maybe people are tired of hearing about it, and then I realized, these were questions that come up all the time, and that people have it any age, and they're still the same questions that come up today

that came up 12 years ago in many sense. So, there was an article that came out that's like, the lies you need to stop believing, right? According to sex experts, including myself. So let me just take, these are like the myths and I loved debunking myths. And I found out like three of these myths came up in the last week by like adults,

people I know, they're like, oh, is that true? I'm like, really? So I'm gonna break them down for you guys. Okay. Here's myth number one, men should be ready to go anytime, anywhere. So I think that we... They should be ready to go. Yes, and that women...

Are they ready to go? That men should be ready to go. That we think that men should just be turned on and ready to turn, and that women, when the guys are not turned on or whoever the men's partners are like, he's not attracted to me, something's wrong, because we expect guys are like... They start over. They start over. Yeah. No, no but the truth is a lot of guys have stressed they've

anxiety there's not in the mood that happens so that's the first myth that guys aren't like sex machines all the time just because most time there doesn't mean all the time if you'd be here's another here's another myth if you don't orgasm it's not really sex and that orgasm, it's not really sex. And that's not true. It's not true. Sex is about connecting. It's about intimacy. It's about, you know, misage and hugging.

Like that's all of that can be intimate and can be sex even if you don't have an orgasm. Sex is oral stimulation, mannal stimulation, mutual masturbation, you know, it can be like talking dirty, reading a radical, watching porn together. All of this stuff can be a sex, and if you don't have an orgasm, it doesn't mean that you were engaging in intimacy and sexual activities. Not necessarily the end goal. Here's another one. It's going to pick a few of these out.

Oh, this is my favorite one, because I just can't. I'm shocked that this is still shocking to people. Vaginal orgasms are easy to come by. What? Are you serious? Yeah, well, you've heard, but I bet you when I first told you this 12 years ago, you're like, really?

But it's probably in lots of ways changed your life. But all the time that I think that people are surprised that women don't have orgasms. In fact, most women do not have orgasms during a curse. We just don't. It's not easy for us. Our clitoris does not typically get aroused by the positions that we have to be in for, you know, it's not about our clitoris the same way.

We need extra stimulation. We need to be turned on. We need to like a lot of women come through oral sex though. Where's all the oral sex happening in the world? There's not enough oral sex in the world. So, and I hear from women and men that't understand guys feel like a failure if their partner can't orgasm on their penis. Who cares of saying your penis? Who cares how it is with your hands, with your mouth, whatever. It's just not the norm, okay? Not everyone can. Here's another myth. Sex

should be off the charts and hot in the beginning. It should always be amazing in the beginning. I don't think that the reason why I have'm proud with this is because if it's like horrible the first month or two, you're like, oh, you're not going to say it with someone, but sex can get better over time. You know, the more you learn to communicate with someone and you understand what your partner likes and what they need and chemistry, that can actually develop over time and get better. It should be good at the beginning.

You should have the basic chemistry. Yeah, I mean, the first one or second time it might not be that great, but after that you probably get an arrhythm. Right, you know? Yeah, it's true. I mean, you'll know if it's like really bad and while you'll probably email me and ask me,

but if it can get better, but typically it can get better over time. Here's another myth, having these lube means you aren't really aroused. You didn't answer that. I'm not doing that for years. Put that shit on my team stone. Lube is your best friend, you guys. Lube is your BFF.

Lube gets a bad rap. I don't know who was doing lube's PR when this all went down. That lube was, if you're dry or there's discomfort or there's a problem or she'd have to bring out the lube from under the ad in the attic or something. No. Lube enhances orgasm for men and for women every single time and for masturbation. Those are my favorite ones. I miss.

I decided to bunk some myth today before we carry on and just be males. Any myths you'd like to debunk? Uh. Just in general, in life. This is that I like to debunk. Is there anything that you've ever learned about sex that you're like, oh my god, I thought that this was true?

No, it's not. I don't want to put you in the spot. Uh, no, just the, I think that you've ever learned about sex that you're like, oh my God, I thought that this was true. No, it's not. I don't want to put you on the spot there. No, just a lot of myths that sometimes, you know, when people over things, things that sometimes when a guy is telling you, I've been preaching this for years. When a guy tells you something, that might be what he is saying.

He is telling you the truth. Like, you know, analyze and open the game. If you're over-analyzing, think it's five different things. Right, and what does he really mean by the fact that he'll see me later? Tomorrow. He maybe he's, that's what he means.

Do you have the problem with guys, though, and women, sometimes as you see later, or talk to you soon, when you're at the initial stages of dating, so I know what you're saying overall, but guy says, do I like you and I'd like you to be my girlfriend or whatever. It doesn't mean something different.

Don't know, but I'm saying in general, this is a separate topic when someone says, you're an early stage of relationship. They're like, see you soon or see you later. It's like dagger. It's like when? Like, let's, I just want to know, because this is gonna go,

so this is gonna end what's happening. Yeah. That's how I feel. Okay, so let's get into some calls That's how I feel. This kid. OK, so let's get into some calls and emails. All right. I'm very excited for this. And give a shout out to our sponsors.

Thanks everyone for supporting them. We love them. We love you. And we'll be right back. OK, we have Carly. She's 46 from Washington State, and her question is this, how does a happily married couple with a great sex life and a secure relationship have a safe threesome? How do they find a third?

The threesome question. Hey, Carly. I know. Right, threesome's are back. They're back. Hey, Carly, I'm here with Menace. Thanks for calling in. Absolutely.

Thanks for having me. I'm so excited. Oh thanks for having me and so excited oh my god we're so excited can you come on what can i ask what part of washington you live in if that's okay or you don't want to give it yeah i'm i might

not that in the middle of washington i i thought we call i call it on the on-camping but all right my my mom lives in spokane or spokane was a proper way of saying it? Spokane. Spokane? Spokane.

Okay, now I know. Okay, good. Even though she's lived there for like seven years ago. Spokane. Spokane. Yeah, I mean, what is, can I ask would, I mean, I'm just trying to get some info. What is the population of the area that you live in? Because I'm trying to see.

How to find a threesome there? How to find a threesome, yeah. It's about 30,000. Ooh, so that narrow is a down. Yeah, that does narrow down. So tell us what's going on with your threesome stitch. Potential. Well, like I said, my husband and I have

been married for almost seven years. We have a great sex life, not as often as we both would like, but at least from the same page. And it's great when we do have it, I'd say average twice a week. And we have talked lots of times about having the threesome, and we started to do a little search for somebody to join in with us, but then it was kind of like, oh, you know, I don't know. And the whole disease thing kind of creeps me out.

And I'm like, ah, we don't know how to go about finding somebody to bring in with us. Right. For the first part. And then when we do find somebody, I don't know if I could go down on them I wouldn't have a problem if I'm going down on me. Of course, how close is that? No, I think a lot of women should be that way. I mean, a lot of women have never been, no, no, I think as you've never been with the

woman before, I'm sure a lot of it, there's a lot of questions and there's a lot of things going on and you're like, I don't know, but let's start with the first one. First of all, I think that you guys, and one of the things you asked was like, you know, are you guys in a good place for it? And I think that you've been together a long time, what, seven, eight years, you said, you're married, and you've talked about it, and you guys have discussed like your boundaries

and, you know, hey, whatever that, did you just discuss your rules and your deal breakers, things that can happen and cannot? Absolutely. Okay, good. So yeah, so now it's finding a third now, where you're living, you know, might be harder like in a smaller town, but also there's a lot of great websites for it right now

where you can find a third like if you just want to start there, you can put like both your picture on. There's one called Cassidy, K-A-S-I-D-I-E group. Okay. Yeah, there's one called groupdesire.net. And then the one that's not on here is, what's the new, I can't just turn it up, the one that's the renderer,

but you told me it was the last week, great. So yeah, like the couple episodes ago, it's called field. Field, all right. I talked about it because some of my friends did a YouTube video on it, you gotta check it out. So youtube.com slash man Kim music and click on the Valentine's Day episode Okay, they have a whole video on it and like break it down on how it works and

Yeah, download that app and see if there's anybody in your area that happens to be on it Right, I mean there's there are so there's yeah, there's some of those like swingers club list.com Fat life if you guys are into working gear things. There's like swing or sites or you know if you don't want to you know try this out for the first time in your own area maybe like go to you know Seattle or something where it's heavily populated most likely there will be more you know about that you should I was thinking that you should just kind of get out of your town anyway for a weekend yeah you could start finding people even bumble, even some of the regular dating apps like Tinder, they even do have things like,

if you're looking for a third person, it's actually more common out than ever. So this is a great time to do it. And I feel like three sums, it's always been a top question, I guess. But lately we were getting so many more of them. I just feel like finding a third would be, I think you could set up,

go there a little bit earlier, you could start talking to someone on the phone, if you find your prospect, right, let's say you're going to Seattle and you guys could like FaceTime with her and see like okay how do we feel about it and then meet for coffee meet for drink and see if you guys are both into it and then go for beer. Or if you know if you just want to shoot fish in a barrel visit our old city and so for to go and you'll be fine.

Yeah just be in a more. I'm sure flights are cheap these days. Yeah. You can just go there. And we thought about doing the Seattle thing. We kind of looked at some of the sex parties that happen around there. Unfortunately, it seems like a lot of them

are like on weeknights. And I really know. I say you go there on a weekend. You download one of these apps like Field and you know, any of it. I know there's going to be a lot of potential hookups, partners, I don't know what you would call them. And you would say, in that time, that's kind of how you do it,

because I don't know if where you live, you'd find people or you go to a local sex shop, if you have one like a sex toy store that's like, kind of friendly, like, you know, like the ones that are like, you know, like a pleasure to have some good vibrations. Or like a, yeah, and also it's like, you know, this is something you find out. You know what, we're not really into this.

You can leave in Seattle and it's not hanging around your hometown. That's the thing too. You could just kind of experiment. You guys already have that out of town feeling, we're on vacation and we're doing our thing. You're crazy. Yeah, going crazy.

And also if you don't want to be here to think, you also absolutely need to be honest that you haven't been with the world mood for. I don't think you've just pretend that you know everything. And so whoever you're with, the unicorn, as they call it, the third woman. Yeah. Just like the Starbucks drink now, right? That's how it's called, the unicorn?

The unicorn. Correct. Right. I know. I watch TV, pop culture. I know, do it. So I'm saying, is it cool in my mind? Usually typically the unicorn or the third woman, she might, you know, she might be like,

that's cool. I'm into it. Or I have an either, who knows? So I just think you've got to be honest and don't. It's a, you might in the moment, who knows? You might, I thought that too.. I'm into it or I have an either who knows I just think you got to be honest and don't it's a you might in the moment you know I thought that too. I hooked up with the chick a few times. I thought I couldn't do it There it was doing it. You never know and you're like oh, I have one of these I kind of know what to do see figured out if you're into it and if you're not no pressure

I'm thinking you know, I know what I like right would probably be good at it Yeah, can I actually do it? And the kissing and the boobs and things, that doesn't bother me. Right. I'm just not so sure I can, I mean, I'm not a little bit. I'm not a baby.

Do you drink tequila? Because definitely if you have a couple of those. Couple drinks. A couple of shots. It's going to happen in a new year. I might have a bright. You're going to be all about it. Yeah, no, I think that I'll.

You can't love it. Don't do anything you don't want to do, but just be open to how you feel in the moment. It's not too many shots. And be honest about what you're at. And just be yourself. You guys will go out, you'll flirt, you'll see you're attracted to. You could even set up a few dates if you're there for two nights. I would try to do some prescreening because you only got a few nights there.

But just go for it. And also protection. Use protection. You can use dental dams, you know, stuff like like that I would definitely be safe. I thought about that you know when we know about condoms and female condoms and dental dams and things and you know you got to bring them with you. Absolutely just do it you got to be safe okay I want to hear how this goes we got to know you follow up. I have one more part to this question. Oh, okay.

And that would be my husband wants to give me a third, he wants another man to join us, because I read a lot of Mommy Poir and we watch Poir and together and we talk about it. And I told him, you know, I think he's just incredible for even wanting the best. Yeah. Open to that. But I think it's reality. Can reality ever be fantasy? I'm going to be a question.

Because my husband is the only one that's ever been in my ass. And so I don't know if that would happen. But then would I be able to be face-to-face with another guy when my husband's in the room and how weird is that? That is, I mean, no. Yeah. I mean, I think that again, is it something that, well, do you want to happen or it's more that he wants it to happen?

I get that you fantasize about it. But is he the one who's like, let's do it. I want to watch that because there's some guys that are into that. But if you don't think that you're like, when you're even thinking about it right now, you're not sure you can handle it, then you probably shouldn't. But if you, because there's, we have fantasies. It would be as much better. Yeah. Well, then, you shouldn't but if you have a fantasy it's so much better yeah well then you know what you have your answer right there

a lot because we can kind of discern you have to this is the thing about fantasies there's some that we just want to have in our head we don't want to ever happen we're like i never wanted that to happen or there's something like yeah i can't wait for that happen like the three some with your husband another woman but he's pushing for it and you're not so sure you're not ready yet or you might never be ready but don't don't put yourself in that situation

okay he doesn't push okay good you know if i was open to having a woman which i am and totally open to it and i'd love to make that happen for him and and everything and he's he wants to reciprocate and you know he won't take me down a vegas and get a

get a professional and well I think I would see it. Yeah no it sounds like he's awesome but if he's doing it for him or for you like you're it sounds like you're not so sure about it so if you're not so sure don't do it okay really until you're sure. If you go to Vegas do the Arya Hotel or Cosmopolitan. Have fun. Use protection. Let us know it goes. I need to hear how this goes down. Thanks for calling. We love our Joe Loub and I love my magic one.

Oh, yay! Carrie, I think you're so happy. Thank you. Bring it on those trips. Those travel well. Okay, bye. Thanks. Bye. Wow, so many layers. So many layers. So many layers. So many layers to that conversation.

You know, it's funny, though, but I do really feel like three sims are back. Like I even yesterday I was talking about my married friend, like, what is the value? He called me sick. Okay, got a question for you. We have these neighbors. We're all friends. There's a group of like 10 of us. And we're all friends, like 10 couples, seven says, and now we hear that this one couple,

you know, my wife is out for a girl's dinner, and they were all talking about how they are on some app, and they're having a threesome, like is that real? People do that, I'm like, yeah, and I keep getting all the, and not only that, our questions about threesome's have increased.

I don't know what it's about. What is going on? Aino's going on. We still have a lot of Aino questions. Yeah, it was just like, I don't know. What was it? I know, what was it? Aino's a on, we still have a lot of inner questions. Yeah, it was just like, I don't know. What was it? I know, what was it?

Aino's a new blow job, squirtings a new anal, squirtings, and then there was paging, and now three sums are just coming back. It's like, they're main sites. Good though. It's like throwback. Throwback, it's crazy. It's crazy.

Okay, it was crazy, this fun. I love it. Okay, we have Kelly on the line. She's 27 from North Carolina, and she wants to know how to make the jump from a friend's with benefits relationship to a real relationship. Hey, Kelly, what's up?

You hear me? Hey Emily. I'm with Menace today as well. Hello. Both are here. Oh, I love Menace. Oh, hey, how you doing? How about that, right?

Let's up to North Carolina. I feel like North Carolina is always in the news now for good and bad stuff. I feel like a lot of people have moved to North Carolina. Yeah. Kelly, do you feel like that? There's been an influx of people from elsewhere more than other times.

I know a lot of people are moving away, so I guess it's probably me. Oh, no. They're coming in and out. But that's great. So what's going on with you? What's happening? So I'm not sure how much I'll read an email, but I basically have a

friends with benefit situation with someone who I've dated a couple times in the past. But we moving into this week, we talked to each other and we're like, we're never going to date again. This is just a physical thing and also friendship. It's been working out pretty well so far. But I also did just starting dating someone new who I'm really excited about and I feel like it could turn into something more serious. But he is a little slower in terms of getting physical with people, which is fine. I'm not in a rush, partly because I have my needs taking care of, right?

Yeah. Could you do the benefits now? Yeah. So I guess my question is, like, the ideal for me in this situation would be, if I could eventually transition to dating this new guy, seriously, but it would also be able to maintain actual funds, the funds with benefits. And I was unsure if there were really, like like the way that was the best to guarantee that moving into that or whether that were even possible.

I don't think you're not. Your question is how could you still stay just friends with your friends with benefits guy while moving into a relationship or someone else? Yeah, I talked to him about that explicitly and he said that he would be fine but you know people can say things and not. He's fine until he gets on a girlfriend. And the thing is, this is a tricky thing about friends with benefits is that

it is, the benefits are sometimes that you have, you have more emotions, you're more connected, it is a little bit more intimate. So it might be harder just to hang out, not of sex. I'm sure you have a real connection and a friendship in there, but I think you just have to like wait and see, but really right now, you know, it sounds like you want to look, you want a relationship. So you kind of might have to choose, but yeah, you know, some people just seem to see, move

into friends. What's going on with this guy? What do you think he's going so slow? I mean, and what have you done physically with him? Okay. Well, I think the way he explained it it to me is I asked him what pattern he comes to follow when he starts a new relationship. I noticed it was going more slowly than what I was used to. He is actually an international student. He's getting a master's and he's

here from India and he said that his experience is that of the cultural thing that he comes from a more traditional kind of culture and that folks don't tend at least in his community to move fast when they start dating someone new Okay, we have made out some Like how is this for us? Oh really? I think he wants to save sex for us because if you had

really. But is it the kind of thing that he wants to save sex for? Because if you had sex with them already, and he was telling you that, I was about to save full of shit. But if you guys haven't done anything other than making out, then I believe that he is telling the truth then, on taking it slow. Right. Do you say how slow is he like, we have to wait till we're committed or till we're married or, you know, what's the deal You'll see I mean I Have such a good feeling about it, but I don't feel like I necessarily need to ask

Yeah, then just why don't you just write out and see how it goes and if it's not when remember it's not working for your unclear Ask them how often do you hang out them? That once a week once a week that's a good Fair clip at the beginning. You can actually get moves to two, three days a week. I said I mentioned I'd probably move to two, three days a week. So it sounds like it's good. I think there's no problem here.

But I think if you still see the other guy, the friends benefit guy and this guy could get confusing. So I would kind of end that one if you really want to move into a real relationship. Sometimes it can be hard to balance both of those things. And maybe he's just, I believe we're not shy too, and he's afraid to make other moves. I mean, do you know, has he talked about any of his dating

history at all of past relationships? I know that's kind of, might be a weird discussion to have, or has he brought it up of any past girlfriends or anything like that? Maybe he's really new to it. I lost it at that. I was asking when the last time was, Any past girlfriends or anything like that? Maybe he's like really That's when the last time was that you had a big cement and it'd been a while So I thought maybe that's part of why I was going more silly But it was someone who was with for two years and that was like two years ago

So all right, I'll ever culture is a little bit different So you know, I think it's good that you already you already asked him what it was and so now you know But then if it continues to move slowly to gotta keep talking about it But I think you're in a good place. on what it was, and so now you know, but then if it continues to move slowly, you've got to keep talking about it. But I think you're in a good place. It sounds like it, you know, maybe going so would be good. I think actually people tend to go too fast sometimes. Get to know them, get to see if this someone you really like, rather than having to be all about sex.

Talking about going too fast. See here, like, how, I don't see, like, because, you know, I do two different radio shows, so I don't, I have no idea if I discussed this with Disgust is with you or if I discussed it with the Woody show, but they were saying how People are now just just straight up having sex now and then talking about maybe dating after you know because of the Because I mean like the actual the millennials are the options. The millennials are the younger crowd or whatever you want to call them these days,

is yeah, they're like, they're just like, just going for it and just hooking up and then like, maybe you don't want to date, you know? I've heard that, I've heard a lot of different things, so they just don't even want a relationship or they're like blacking out. And this sex isn't very good. There's a lot of things.

Research millennials, you know. Okay, let us know how it goes, Kelly. Yeah, keep on emailing. Thank you. Yeah, I think you sound like you've got to get ahead and show this about this. Of course, it's so fun. No problem.

You know how to contact us, but for the people that are listening and don't know, just go to sexletemely.com and click on ask Emily and all the contact information. Exactly, and you guys can send your questions like if you want to be called. We'll call you. We'll call you.

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They're not having sex necessarily any quicker either. So I don't know, I haven't heard that they're just having sex and sex and sex. Yeah, there was a recent, there's a, but see there's so many things that are I'm sure that they're probably true. There's always like counter studies of everything under the sun.

I knew that they don't want to get in relationships, a lot of millennia, and they're just, they are just doing whatever. But I'm here. I'm here. Black out sex. the recent study whatever wherever Wherever we got it from it was saying that They're just hooking up on these apps tinder example or bumble they're hooking up and then figuring out later if they want to like date or not

That tells you nothing if you have sex with them and like the first five minutes you know them like that look I don't say I'm not saying it makes sense, but that's what people are saying. I mean, to cut, there's people like, I slept with my husband on the first night, even in the early days. I don't even know what the F is going on with younger people because they don't wanna, I don't know what their drive is,

and I'm not like making a Blake in statement about every single young person because I know there's a lot of people that are listening that don't live this life, but there are some out there that have no passion to move out of their parents' house, like get a license or do anything like, what the hell is going on?

I think maybe more coddled, more taken care of, not really feeling like they have to go out and... I know like 30 something years old, that go back to their parents' house house that have their mom do their laundry Like what the hell is that about? You think that's more than before? I feel like I used to hear those stories, but I have I've heard this now, but I don't know, I can't imagine I just felt like my like I know all my friends they wanted to

Their goals were to get a car so they can go out and take women out on dates and like, just, you know, just be out dating as much as possible. But now it's like, people want to stay at their house and talk over the internet. And they feel like they're actually having a relationship. They're not doing anything. They're not doing anything. They're living in home or that's the other thing is it's more about being online. They're not out socializing. Yeah, but they feel like they're so sweet. They feel like it. They they've got all these friends because they're like us sitting on their couch and they've just contacted a thousand people on the phone. Yeah. But it's not real. It's not connections. And you're

right. Living in hell. I read a job since I was 14 just so I could move to like California, which I did the day I graduated from college. So I don't understand. Sorry to go on a tangent. It's okay. It's okay. Stuff's about stuff that people already know, but it's like. Not everybody knows everything, for example. But if you are one of those people I'm talking about, like come on, wake up. Get out there, do stuff.

There's been a lot more calls actually, a lot more emails and calls for people who are saying they live with their parents, they're not sure where to act, so they live with their parents, and it's like, well, maybe you should get a job. Just get out. Get everyone can get a job. I know there's gonna be a part where you struggle.

I know like you're living awesome. You don't have any worries. And we were talking about before the show, I know before the show started. And it's just such a great representation of like what we went through in our 20s is that so we're watching a girl boss on Netflix, which is awesome because it's all about San Francisco, which where you and I came up and about like being broke and struggling and dating

and stuff like that and highly recommend it. It's so good and it's such a flashback. Yeah, but it's true to life. I've worked out, yeah it is. So like hey, if you like hustle and you work, it will work out on the end, but you just gotta take that leap. And struggle for a while.

It's a good, not only is the struggle real, but the struggle is, I would never be here if I didn't struggle. I would be back in those times and the days of try. I watched this because it's about Sophia Amoroso, who started NastyGal, if you haven't seen it yet, which is a clothing company that actually just went bankrupt. But she's still a lot of success.

Oh, she's such a stroller. I thought the whole company. I don't know, but she's still worth hundreds of millions of dollars. But the point is that she had this passion, and that's all she cared, she was doing her business, she had this idea, and she stuck to it,

and she did it, and she made it happen. And I think, and I kind of remember looking at that, I was, that's all I talked about, was actually that way, that's all I cared about. It was the same year, 2006, I started, it was like this obsession, I would sit up all night with my people all over my house and my mom came to town

and said, this is kind of scary, look like a beautiful mind with all the business plan all over the wall. And she thought I was insane, I should get a job at Starbucks because they have health plan, which I never did get a job at Starbucks, but sometimes you just gotta follow your dreams,

you do, it's gonna be hard, but I look back on those times of the struggles. Oh my God, that was, I wouldn't be who I am, where I am now, if I didn't have that. Thing is, I know as- Sell my juicer and everything else downed. As a band and like all my guy friends, I know that we do all these things,

that the end goal, at least a large majority of us is to find a partner to share all that stuff with. So like, oh, why are we talking about like growing to business and things like that? It's like where you feel good about yourself and you build the confidence where you project that out there and you find somebody that you wanna be with.

Yeah, that's right. So at least that's what, at least that amongst the people that I hang out with, that's their goal, you know. Hold on, I missed this. You're saying that they're goal. They're goal to do all these things in life. It's just to find a partner and get married.

Well, no, the helps, helps, how do I get the partner? Gives them the confidence for men. For a lot of men, they're talking to work in that way because they're like, then I could find someone to be more attractive and be the provider. Yes. Right, of course. And course and women but I think that yeah women maybe aren't socialized in the same way But I do believe it. It's a different. I think that Sophia is a great example of that

I will want to kind of just take care of herself and saying you know, I'm gonna I'm gonna make this happen So it's great. We love it. Okay, okay Probalt Netflix. Okay. It's awesome. Our next call we've got Nisha. She's 34 from Toronto and Nisha and our partner are interested in Adel, but she's a little scared. I don't want to know where to start. Oh, no. And then she'll be, how do you get the party started? Hi, Nisha. You're out with Emily.

Hi, this is how you're doing. Hi, Nisha. I have a quick question. Is it dumb question? Okay. When I call Toronto, is it just a regular area code or do I have to call like a bunch of funky numbers? No, you just have to put one. Oh, that's it? Why does you want to like, yeah, text or anything?

No, I just want to know like, I don't know. That's a good question, that's. All I know is about America. I'm not really well-traveled. The only place I've been outside of America's Mexico and Ireland. That's it. Yeah, but I want to go to Toronto. I heard it's great. I used to get all the time. I heard it's great for hooking up. Is that true or not? Oh, I don't know. You don't know? Sure. Well, you're asking about anal. I'm sure there would be. She's just a boyfriend.

My partner. I know, but I'm sure he had some dating history in Toronto. All right, well let's talk about anal then. My dumb question is out of the way. Great. Hi, Nisha. Tell me about, okay, tell me about the anal, anal questions exploration where we're at. Tell me everything. Okay, so we were interested. We went to a seminar. He was a little bit scared. I'm scared. So I got the guts to like we went to the store and we got an IDEN.

I bought one of those little anal beads. Okay. So we were trying a little bit, but we're not sure because first I'm thinking, I listen to you a lot and you were saying blue, blue, blue, but blue that I got, it's a little bit itchy. I'm not sure if it helped when I try to use it. And after we just like, okay, forget it. And then I'm talking about this podcast and he's like, just call her.

And I'm like, yeah, call her. Awesome. See, we can break this down so easily. So the thing is, I would say, so it's really a general anal sex question. I know you got the anal beads and all that, but if you, I mean, here's the thing about anal sex is that you have to go slow and use lots of lube, but really you want to be turned on first. So it's not like you're just, he's slipping you over or just like starting to play with

your butt and then you're going like. You should have sex, like normal. I have an orgasm, play with your clitoris, oral sex. However you get there, use some toys, because once you're turned on, like once you've already had an orgasm, like you'll be more aroused. And then with the thing about analis,

that you really have to like, you gotta breathe, because what happens is we're all nervous with analis, right, minus every time he's gonna be back to get pegged, you get so scared. Yeah, when I get pegged, I just clench up with the craziness. But it's like you're your nervous with anal, right? Man, every time he's going to be back to get pagged, he gets so scared. Yeah, when I get pagged, I just clench up with the crazy. But it's like you're your shfink, like seriously, you hold your,

we do all the things that make it worse. So we hold our breath and we tense our butt cheeks. That's like the shfink, the muscles. So you actually, they have to breathe, like really when you breathe, it like oh, it's happening, you relax. So even when, you know, so I would, first of all,

besides anal, I would start with like a finger, like I would first of all, besides analbeats, I would start with like a finger. Like I would have him take like his pinky finger with some lube on it. When these fingers are clean and his nails are trim, and he should just start like tracing his finger around the opening, around the outside of your butt, because that's where all there's a lot of sense of nerve ratings just at the opening that can actually feel really, really good. And then, you know, you're comfortable, you're breathing, you can start to stick a finger inside. And I would just play with that for a few times

and see how that feels before you rush into anal anal beads, all that stuff. And then just make sure that you feel good. And also, if you're like a little skimish about it, you could do it during masturbation on your own. You can be like, I wanna see what it feels like. Cause think about anal be anal be just when you get there, when you graduate to the anal beads,

because I do tell people like try about blood first, or try a finger, but anal beads work as well. They're a little more advanced, because when you're inside of you, that's pretty, that's pretty quick. It's pretty advanced. Yeah, okay.

And beads, just in the sense of you put them inside you, they don't feel anything. It's about pulling them out. So when you pull them out, the beads run over like you're the two ring, the sphincter muscles actually, they run over them and you feel all these sensations. But I would just start with seeing if you actually like it and how it feels.

Make sure that you're turned on first. Like I said, do foreplay, all that stuff. And be clean, shower, and again, we also have a ton of this stuff, anal sex preparedness. A preparedness pattern website. Another dumb question, Do you know Drake? You know funny story. Yeah.

And I swear when I was in high school, he was at my high school for a little bit. No way. I swear to God. I could wait older than him. He was a fellow Trumpian little kid. Because he was famous because he was in this program. Yeah, to grassy, right? It did right. So everybody was like, oh, whatever his name is, Aubrey, I'm like, okay, he's ugly. He's not cute. But now, now they act like they're all they were all friends with them back then, huh?

Exactly. Yeah, I wish I was talking to him, because now I'll get tickets to go to his show. Yeah. Okay, whatever. Exactly. Well, see, you never know. You've got to be nice to everybody. Exactly.

Be nice to everybody. Shout out to Drizzy. I use lots of lube. Oh, you already know that. Lisa, you're awesome. Yes. So good talk to you. Good luck.

Go slow. No pressure on yourself. Okay. Good luck. Bye. Bye. Bye. What a great show. Aino's Blow Jaws. What else?

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Yeah, that was really fun. And now we're on to your emails. Hey, Emily, I just started listening to you. And so far, I really enjoy all the knowledge that you bring to the audience. I especially enjoyed the episode when you brought a bunch of ladies to the show. It really gave a perspective of how different everyone is. My question is, I really have had a hard time approaching women in Canada because I am uncircumcised. From previous experiences and just listening to people talk about the subject, without them knowing that I am uncircumcised, they respond oh, it's disgusting, or I just can't go through with it, types of

answers. I also experienced a girl walking out of me as we were about to have sex because she realized I was uncut. I want to know what your opinion is on the topic. Should I be telling women that I'm on circumcised before starting to date them or before starting to have sex so they're not surprised? Thanks, Josh. Josh, age 27, Canada.

Oh, I'm so glad you asked this, Josh, because I think that the woman you're with, I'm, she did not deserve to be with you, the fact that she walked out. I think that there's not enough education around this, and I don't, it's, it's seriously like no big deal at all. And you said you've overheard these conversations and you're in Canada. Canada is lovely people in Canada. Canadians are like the nicest people in the world. But really, I think that a lot of the world is on circumcised, sure a young woman who's never seen one

might be like, oh, I'm not sure what that is. But as far as someone leaving, so she was a bitch and she was gonna leave anyway. I get really upset about this, like guys being made fun of about their penises. There's no, it's in fact, you don't have to tell them anything. I think it's healthy to have an uncircumcised penis. I think that the women are uneducated about it,

which is why I'm here to help them understand that it's really not a big deal, and it shouldn't affect, it doesn't affect the woman's pleasure at all. You just want to make sure that it's clean, like I'm sure you already do, because just like any, you know, body part that has not been washed, it can contain bacteria.

And I just think that, you know, when you guys also can be more sensitive, women can actually have more pleasure from uncircumcised penises. So, I really don't think that you need to be like, oh, by the way, I'm uncircumcised, like you're disclosing that you have an STD. Like it's totally like,

to be saying, oh, I have, you know, small breasts or big breasts or whatever. I don't know, I just think, I think that it's just not a big deal. I understand that it can be an issue, but you don't, it's not like you need to disclose it. You're gonna be okay. You're fine.

It's all good. She's with you, she's warm, but yeah, it's all good. But if you're together and she's like, oh, I've never, if she says, oh, that's so cool, I've never been with an uncircumcised penis, then Josh, feel free to like, you go on, educate her, tell her how you like it. You know, tell her how you like it, touch.

You know, it's all, I think it'll be awesome. So don't trip on it, man. Hey, Emily, I'm Sarah. I'm 23 from Massachusetts. I have two questions that may seem like totally different ends of the spectrum. My boyfriend is 33 and we've been together about a year and a half.

We have an awesome relationship. And when we have sex, I have no complaints. But I want it more than he does. And ironically, I have the worst time initiating. I can't get out of my head and just jump into it. Sometimes I later thinking, I wanna have sex, just say it, and I can't get out of my mouth. How do I get over this?

It's so weird because I've never been shut down. I don't think I'm scared of that. I don't know my problem is, but it's really frustrating. But lately we have sex. We've also wanted to try toys, and I'm really excited about that. So what do you suggest for great internal external toy for us to start with? Thanks so much. Love this show.

Okay. Sarah, age 33, Massachusetts. Okay, Sarah. So it's like, I love this because the only problem here, which is a good news, is you and your mind. You're tripping yourself out, and I get it, because you think you're afraid of rejection, but I think it just seems awkward. I think if we don't have the practice to be like, hey babe, I want to have sex that you're

nervous. So the more that you do it, it's going to get easier. And really just some of the easy tips for this are like, first of all, if you're not sure how to do it, you can send a sexy text. Like, babe, when you get home, I just want to bang you or something more graphic or more intimate between the two of you, like whatever, whatever. I want to get it on.

I want to get it on. Let's get it on. I would like to make love to you. I would like to make sweet sweet love to you. I think you just got to say it. You can send a text. You can just do actions. What if you just start making out with them?

Don't you think that with guys, like make out with them? Grab his pants, like grab, you know, for women, you don't want to be grabbing our boobs or our giant tell you. But for guys, grab them, kiss them, start kissing his neck. Be aggressive, at least I support that. Right. So guys might get weird out by that,

but you know what, they're a plus. You just got to say it. And also, we have a great blog that just came out, which is so perfect. The initiation game, four tips for taking the lead. You can check that out on the website. Take the lead all day. Yeah, all day.

And then you won't even remember that you never took the lead. It's just like everything else in life. It's a new skill. Toy recommendations. I, oh my god. Okay. So hard. It's like picking my favorite child.

Internal, external toy for us to start with. Together, I think that that, you know, I love that the Wevibe, the wish is my new favorite. It's like an internal external toy that's just a great toy to use during intercourse stage. You've been obsessed with the way. It's like a squishy and soft and it vibrates as all these really cool patterns and you could use it like, it's really easy to use during intercourse. I love the G ring that you put on your finger

like I was saying earlier. I think that for couples toy, you could also use the Wevibe Sink. That's a great couple toy to wear during intercourse. If you like penetration and you want, I think the rave or the Nova, these are all Wevibe toys. I do love Wevibe.

The rave or the Nova are great toys for G-Spot stimulation and you can control them on an app. They're really cool and they're great. I think you're both like them. Cock rings are also great. Oh God, Weve-I has a new cock ring coming out. My lad say that, but it's not unique.

It's amazing. You're leaking information. Sorry, don't tell anyone. But penis rings are great. You can go by that because there are also, here's the thing about penis rings that you wear them. You can use them as a literal vibe. You can use them as a fitbit. Just kidding. You could. Yeah, you both, he's wearing it. It vibrates. You get on top with your clitoris. Like you ride to top or bottom. It's a great toy. You use lots of lube and I think you initiate because

he comes home and you've got like a, you've got all your toys laid out or something. What should she do? Just, I was thinking about what toy would be great to greet him at the door. Oh, I know. Here's the thing. You guys could, if you get one of these Wevibe toys that are connected to the app, you could like, send them, you can message and text through the apps.

You can let them know that you're starting to use the toy. When he gets home, you're already using the rave of the nobah. That's a fun thing to do. There we go, we just sell the whole thing at once. Okay, thank you, Sarah. Thank you. Thank you, Menace. Thank you.

Hold, I had a... Dude, what? Quick story before I... You have a story? Tell me. I have a story. So I was, I was going to Coachella and in, in Burbank, California, they have a,

they have a jet service called JetSuiteX and it's like these little private jets, right? But it doesn't cost a lot of money. It's actually like cheaper than Southwest sometimes. So it's like sometimes $79. So I get on this jet and I'm flying a Coachella and I go to go sit down and there's a girl sitting in my seat and I look at her and it's Ashley Tisdale,

who is the producer of Miss Advise, with the show. We did a show on Bravo, yeah. Bravo, right? And then she's like, oh, sorry, can I have this seat with my husband? And I said, sure, no problem, Ashley. And she was like, was surprised. And even though she's like pretty famous, I was like, she was surprised that I knew who she was.

And I go, oh, by the way, I got to be on a couple episodes of Misadvised. And I just want to thank you for the opportunity. And she was like totally shocked. Did you remember you from the... I mean, I was totally different. Right. Oh, I'm. Did you remember you from the, did you watch it? That's totally different. Right. Oh, I'm sure she watches.

She put a bunch of money on it. She was like, right, let's triple thing to say, right. So, but yeah, so I got to think her for the opportunity. That was pretty cool. Oh, that's such a small world. And then I saw it again out of party. Really? Did we show the yoga?

This was up. No, no, no, but I was just like, but she was really, really cool. Yeah, that's awesome. That was a fun show. Yeah, so it was it was funny It is funny. It is funny. You texted me that and I Like I'm on a plane. I'm on a plane But it was so random that she was sitting in my seat that is random. That's funny. It was meant to be meant to be

I was gonna say it's cool people want to ever check out miss advice and see what we did there There's still clips online on the Apple. Yeah, and you can also get it on um itunes for like 499 It came out like 2013 12 Good times doing television with you, but that's a good story. I'm glad you're you're here safe and sound For masturbation month. Yes, the plane you know all that stuff. Okay, everyone Thank you, menace find him at menace and listen to him on the woody show The woody show the plane, you know, all that stuff. Okay, everyone, thank you, Madness, find him at Madness and listen to him on the Woody show. The Woody show? Thanks everybody.

Thank you to my amazing team. Thank you to Ken, Haleena, producer, Lark, Jamie, and Michael. And thank you to all my listeners, and all of our new listeners and new subscribers. Yeah. Just been taking off the show. So thanks for telling your friends and your family

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