Sex With Emily - Best Of: Adventurous Sex You Can Have Tonight

Episode Date: November 26, 2016

Today’s throwback podcast from 2015 answers the question on every couples’ minds: How can we spice up our sex life? With the help of Anderson and Producer Madison, Emily provides easy-to-use tips to help you get adventurous in bed and try new things with your partner, from switching up sex locations to swapping sexy bucket lists and the lost art of phone sex. Emily breaks down those little ways to keep things spicy, long after that new relationship smell wears off. So if you missed it the first time, don’t miss out on this classic Sex With Emily episode! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily! Tonight's episode. This is the one you want to hear. It's the question I get asked all the time. Emily, how do I spice up my sex life? It used to be so good and now it's just kind of blah. The answer, well, we're going to cover that today, but you kind of get adventurous.

You got to do something a little bit different. It doesn't have to be a huge gesture. You don't have to buy a sex jungle gym. Like I have, you really don't have to. But I'm gonna tell you some little things you can do that will rock your sex life. Today's show answering your emails on adventure sex and giving tips to help you expand your sexual repertoire. There's just something about the fall that makes me feel like cuddling up with an

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Why can't I talk about both of them? They're both equally amazing. Oh, I thank you very much. We've never gotten drunk together. I just feel like it's a right-of-passage. To get drunk with me? Yeah, it is. Why haven't we been drunk in a time? Where was your like, oh, stress? No, no, I'm drunk most of the time. So it's pretty easy. No. Sooner than I do here. Yeah, I'm drunk. Like in the car on my home. I, you know, I see you way to get home. I like yeah little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more little bit more first, but I just want to say that, you know, I, I've been trying to change a lot. I've been going through a lot lately, like in a really good way.

Yeah, you seem very clear. I do. Yeah. Well, you did last week. Oh, and this week, not so much. You slip. Well, because I couldn't, you know, get the lights off in my rental car. She comes in.

She's like, I need a man's help. How do you turn off lights in a car? No, she said, I need help. I need a man. And then I was like, those are two. I walked in. You're sorry to interrupt your Pac-Man game, but I was like, I need a man's help. How do you turn off lights in a car? No, she said I need help. I need a man. And I was like, those are too strong. I walked in, you're sorry to interrupt your Pac-Man game, but I was like, I need a man. I was playing Gallagher.

Dude, I love Gallagher. Can we play, I kick your ass down to be whatever, but no, no, no, I had it in my house growing up. Did you really? So listen, so what I think my uncle, I can actually cabinet games. No, let me tell you something. My uncle.

You ever banged the joystick? Sorry. No, but it's not a bad idea. I didn't know what a bang till I was like 20. I didn't know what a bang teller's like 20. I didn't know what a rob against anything in orgasm. Don't get me started. So my uncle, I'm going to get back to this, what the show's about. But he, this was kind of major as a kid to have an uncle who owned pinball parlors.

So we need extra ones. We had four pinball machines. Listen to this. In the 80s, I had full size Pac-Man, full size Gallagher or Galaxi. No wonder you didn't discover sex. Guys were probably coming over. Yeah. in the 80s, I had full-size Pac-Man, full-size Gallagher or Galaxi. No wonder you didn't discover sex. Guys were probably coming over. Yeah, I thought they liked me.

Yeah, I sit over there, I'm gonna go play these games. Level 22 Pac-Man. You don't need to put corners in. It's the greatest. Yeah, it's free. That was the only good part of my childhood. So I've been thinking though lately because I've been doing a lot of just, you know, I went to with my family for two weeks. It was a spiritual trip. I went to Tony Robbins seminar. If anyone knows

about Tony Robbins, Love and Marhedom, whatever you're, however you find trying to make change in your life, I've been trying some things and it's hard. I tried to meditate. You know, we talked about this. Just we came in because Anderson actually looks amazing. He's lost how many pounds? It's five. Do you not thought about this either? He's lost a lot of weight. I'll go up and down, up and down.

I'm down by 20. He's very disciplined and he's very healthy. He's got the fit bit, the whole thing. And I was thinking about change is hard. And like I've been trying every day to just little things like meditate twice a day. I try to, right every day. Yeah, I'm afraid of meditation

because I'm afraid I'm gonna fall asleep. Well, you might, but it's better. I'm always worried about being tired, you know what I mean? So the meditation thing seems like I'm gonna, it's gonna make me sleepy. Do you know that meditation actually gives you energy? And so the reason why the kind I do, I do it twice a day for 20 minutes.

The first time I wake up in the morning and then I do it like two or three is because it actually gives you energy. Okay. So it's been great for me and I've been on and off for years, but this is the most consistent I've been, but I just think it's just every day, just a little change is right. You do one thing like some days I don't do it. I don't beat myself up, but I'm trying to change and just different things.

And so I think people listen to the show a lot. It's like, it's whole self-help thing. A lot of times you just, you know, you're listening and you're like, yeah, I'm here having a good advice. I'm going to try that. And then there's like this gap. They're like, I hear what you're saying about tying my wife up, but like I don't really know that that would be art. So I thought, let's really try to help people tonight.

I wanna give you tips that you can actually use, now that you can't use other ones, but that'll be like, kind of like, oh, I get this. Like I could go home and try this one, two, three, we're gonna be a lot of tips tonight. To kind of just make it different, be more adventurous, do something different, because let's be honest with sex.

We all know the pattern. Amazing at the beginning. What it is about you, but I think that they're pretty decent ideas. And I seem to always get these fresh new ideas when I'm doing a show with you. Yeah. And I just thought of something that you could maybe do. That would be good.

Is I have a series of shows that can be standalone shows. They'd be sex with Emily shows, but they could stand alone. And they would be geared towards a guy like who has a wife who he wants to do certain things with, but he's not sure how to broach it. And there'd be like a code like you listen to this show with her. You just pop it on like, you know, casually and you would gear the show towards talking about that and bring them together or vice versa. I've a woman.

The exercises, but it would be almost like a trick. Like, you know, like, well, a lot of couples listen to my show together, because they always email me and say, oh, we listen together. Because I think it's, I'm sort of the third party. Like Emily says, so we should probably, you know, but if they're not open to that, maybe like have like, you know, a show in the title would be like giraffe, like, or something, or something. Something strange.

Like, I think they're watching the wildlife challenge. And you tell the guys to listen to this one with your girlfriend or if you want to like get into anal play or tie in her up or something because I really talk a lot about that on that program and it might get her. Right, that's good. Yeah, and I could talk about like what the fears

she might be having around it kind of debunk those. Yeah, I like it. Especially the ladies. I think when they hear another like a normal saying that smart woman, especially somebody like you, powerful and a strong woman, strong voice, talking about something. And like a way they can break it down.

I like it. We'll do that. Let's do a whole series like Humbin' Knuckle who will do like 50 of them. OK. But at the beginning of the relationship, we know it's like you have almost like 100% like if there was money involved,

back guarantee that you will have great sex the first six to 12 months relationship and then you know you might even say like oh this is the best sex in my life and then eventually you know you're having sex all the time at the beginning like rabbits and then there's always that night Madison's you have this in your relationship where you just you watch the movie you know because you always watch movie and you never finish the beginning, like, you start dating. And one night, you just finish the movie. And you're like, yeah, it's okay.

We still like each other, we're having sex, but tonight we watch the movie. What's really funny is like, I still go to that all the time. Like, that guy who made the spreadsheet of all of his wife's excuses, and one of them, my favorite one was like, I wanna watch an episode of, I wanna finish watching the episode of Friends. And everyone's like, it's a rerun.

How dare you? And it's like, I'm sorry. Sometimes I would really rather just watch a show without being potted. Like, I just want to watch my show. I know. And it doesn't mean that I don't find you attractive. It doesn't mean I don't want to have sex with you. It just means like, tonight, maybe I just want to watch a show and not be treated like a piece of meat. Exactly. And yes, we experienced that maybe about like seven months into actually being in a relationship. Right. That's about... That's about the time limit. You're like, okay, now we got to negotiate because at the beginning, like I said, you always want to sex. Then you realize some people,

someone wants it more, someone wants it less, it can even switch at certain times. But no matter what, even if you don't feel like having, and that's fine, of course, for you to say, not to my honey, I'm watching, you know, Rachel's new haircut, I'm friends. And I totally got it. I had her haircut, by the way. They're Rachel.

Rachel's haircut, you had that? I had the Rachel. I could see that. I wanted the Rachel. I wanted the Rachel. Like, just five. Oh my God, no, do that to me. I had the Rachel, it wasn't cute.

And then I had it again by mistake a few years ago. I was like, what did I tell you to cut the Rachel? It was terrible haircut. But so I was just thinking that, yeah, you know, right. And then you got a course like compromise, because if you said no every time, that would be a problem. But here are just some little things, you know, that we're gonna get you that you can do to spice it up.

We're gonna give you like things that you can like tangible. And I like to hear that Anderson's actually is learning a lot from the show. I do. I think I just want to make it up more to give you like things that you can like tangible and I like to hear that Anderson's actually is learning a lot from the show. I do. But sometimes I think I just want to make it easy. I don't want to be like, oh god, I got to buy a red room like, you know, a red room of pain. I know what I just say. A red room of pain. Yeah, it's a 50 shades reference. They think they got about stuff. So we're gonna get back to the second. I didn't get to the end of that one. Did you even go?

No. I had a girlfriend in high school. I remember she's a real pain in the ass. And she liked to watch cartoons at her school. And when you're in high school and you get a girlfriend who lets you do things to her, it's pretty exciting. Yeah. And I wanted to do things to her. And she's like, I want to watch the show.

And I'm like, okay, can you just watch the show and I'll do things to you? Right. And I remember she was just sitting there like watching this car. It was so creepy. She was watching a cartoon on the couch. And I would just have his ex with her.

Like, she was almost like her arm underneath her head, just kind of like relaxing watching TV. This is what you're pounding away, or how I appreciate it. You don't even care when you're like 17, right? Yeah, I was like 16, she was like 15, 16. You don't even care, you're like, it's an arface, it's a whole, I'm in.

I'm in. I don't need anything, yeah. I felt very shameful afterwards up. This is creepy, I've actually had sex with her. And then we watched team in. You did? I've had this experience recently, where I was like, you're gonna have sex with me, like I'm gonna be doing this. Yeah, like I'm just a fish on my own. You're like, crossword puzzlers or something? No, I was watching, I think maybe they just put CSI a lot bigger than who the plus.

Okay, got it. So she told me it was extra month. Yeah, that's strange. I would rather just say no, but you know, you know what, you know, when I do that, to be honest, is the morning sex. When you wake over with the dick in your back, and you're like, okay, I got it. Like you wanna have sex, I'm tired.

If you just do it from behind, I'm fine. Like I don't, I don't know how to hate it. I'm probably not gonna have an orgasm in the morning because I'm tired. But yeah, you have a bone already. Let's get that to do it. Fine, and I lay there, but it's not like I'm sitting there reading or texting,

although I have been known to you. Yeah, I was gonna say, you check your emails. So that's a check in my email. Okay. That, I was gonna say you check your emails. Sometimes I check my emails. Oh, you know, that's when you should send out your mass email. What? Your new flutter. I have sex. Sex with Emily's actually happening right now.

Yeah, right this moment. Right that's on. You know, like some typos. I mean, you have no idea. Like it'll be happening. Yeah, you have no idea. See, that's happened before. I know, I've never had sex during the show.

Okay, little bit of sex in the news, because we found some good ones to speak a Bluetooth vibrating implants could be the next big thing in sex toys. You're ready for this. We've heard a Bluetooth vibrators, right like the The oh I got it. It's a you the new I actually plugged it in and charged it the new is the back door ones the do a Oh the do a do a do a do a do a do a do a and a new. The new is the back door ones, the doa. Oh, the doa. The doa is the really called a doa. Yeah, there's a doa and a new.

And the new is for couples, it's remote control and Bluetooth. What the doa is for couples. Yeah, the do is for couples, the new is for back door couples. Okay, it's really cool, Jay. It's a new thing. It's terrifying. Why?

The terrorists are going to hack our wives and girlfriends. No, we don't even worry the vibrators. Yeah, no, it's like, we're gonna lose the vibrator. Yeah, no, it's like we're gonna lose the entire country because our why it's actually one of the story. I'm just playing to it. We're gonna know they have to be wearing the vibrator. Oh, I thought I was like implanted. Oh, this is the power. Don't get here. I go. I just hitting me again. You're so right. We can totally like get all of the waves of all the all the pattern way. What is it? What would be all the frequencies of all of them wave, what is it, what is it? What would it be? All the frequencies of all of them

and make everyone an orgasm in America? At the same time. Dude, listen to this though, horny women can rejoice everywhere because sex toy implants are going to be a thing. Imagine the ability to have your clitoris stimulated anywhere you go forever. Jezebel reports Bluetooth controlled vibrating

clitoral implants will become a huge deal. Fun factory, and I love fun factory. They make, actually, I've been playing with their Amorino, which is a great G-Spot Vibrator. It's AMORI and now it's awesome. Anyway, they make amazing toys, love them. They are introducing the medical grade silicone implant called orgasmia,

imagine that, I wonder how many naming meanings they had, as a device that can be used on its own for hands-free orgasms. So just to go back to the earlier I was saying, this Bluetooth now, you can control someone's vibrator from your Bluetooth. This is like in your vagina, in your clitoris. So the orgasmia gives women control

over their arousal and pleasure. The motor nestles against the pelvis and users report that they stop noticing it after only three to four days of use. They're just in excruciating pain at first. Inspired by the design of thermal electric watches, the device automatically recharges using body heat. As with all fun factory products, it's in case in medical grade, silicone, weight, and it's in case in medical grade, silicone, while the implant can be synced to respond to remote commands from a number of electronic devices, including many smartphones.

So, and along with this thing that's implanted in you, they're also offering discrete remote control designed to look like rings, watches, necklaces more. So you could like control it through like your Fitbit watch. So every time now, what, what once this goes down, every time someone fiddles with an earring or something, I'm gonna think that they turn to themselves right now, literally. But here's the thing, it's only be done being done by Beverly Hills plastic surgeon.

Not cheap, 6500 plus the device, but it lasts a long time, a 20 year warranty for the motor and fun factory recovery. Have cover, have the cost upgrades. Okay, this is just concerned me from a medical purpose perspective. I mean, think about like IUDs. I mean, every night we get a call from someone on Loveline saying, I have an IUD right now, my body rejected it for like the first three months. It was like, it's a painful.

But an IUD is an implant that you put in, gives you birth control for three to five years, depending on the one. So it's a commitment. So, but why, like, first of all, if I had a thing in me that it was resting on my clitoris with a tw- I wouldn't go to work. I would just tell me work asms all day.

I mean, this doesn't sound, I mean, it doesn't say is it for women, if this was for women who are pre-orgasmic or couldn't experience pleasure and joy, but. For people who have money, who want to spend it on weird shit. I kind of want to do it just to try it, but I really don't know.

I'm afraid of the pain, I gotta talk to Drew about it. I think it's not gonna happen. It sounds really dangerous. So dangerous. I mean, getting the IUD, it put in, I feel the best, that doesn't even have a motor on it. I mean getting the IUD it put in really bad. That doesn't even have a motor on it. I mean the best mood all the time now. It's made by watch makers.

You get to win. No, no, no, it's made by amazing sex toy line. If you go to good vibes.com code Emily you get discounted all these toys. Now, but here's a problem. Certain waves, certain things are going to trigger it by mistake. You're like checking out at the supermarket and all of a sudden it starts humming, you're gonna be in trouble. Yeah, in trouble. Is it really trouble?

Like she scans your bananas in a bag. Oh yeah, what happens at TSA? Yeah, I honestly, I wouldn't trust my boyfriend to have like a control to my pleasure all the time. It'd be really mean. And then if you break up with someone and they have the code, we'd be like at dinner with my mom and he'd be like, let's see, that's the fun part. That's what I like the vibrating. So this is like, they already got

the underwear. I have no point. I've got some talking about. I've got the vibrating panties and that you put the thing in and I've done that boy friend went to a party and he had the remote and it's kind of hot. That's I'm saying you guys, you're going out with your partner. You've been together a long time. At that night, she's wearing the panties. You've got a little remote control in the pocket and everyone's smile. You know, you're standing on talking to your boring friends, you see all the time, you turn on the vibrator and then you go to sex and the bathroom or on the way home. It's hot. But this, I'm not implanting it anytime soon. Just saying. Okay, sexting stats show just how much Americans get freaky

with phones. A smart phone has now become the norm. S sexting is more happening all over the damn place. So who's doing it? How often are they doing it? And just what the hell are these people setting to each other? Well, now we have the answer to those and many other questions thanks to this brand new infographic. The NSA. Thank God for the exact NSA's.

I'm going to write us know. I'm talking to. Exactly. They have an infographic, which you know are great because you just have to look at pictures. Here's a few more interesting details that you'll learn from it. More than 35% of Americans admit to sexting. 90, have you sexed? Have you sexed in medicine? Oh yeah. I was sexing before it was cool. But do you still sexed in a relationship? I mean, I usually don't insigate it, but yeah, like everyone smiled during the day. I'll get like a

random text message. And you're like, I'm here. Yeah. I'm like, all right, let's just save that. Spunk for home. How about you? I've been with my wife for a very long time. See, this is why you need to send her sexy text. But before sexy, now I used to send polar roads to people in the mail. Or does

I can't. Like a week later, I have a date. Like it with the pigeon that's cute I'm into their hand when you're like like bye. I was good seeing you just a little pull all right of your penis Actually, no, I did take pictures and I have them developed by a place once that's not smart back in the day That's what we have to do kids. We did they can actually take them like they can confiscate Newties that they process like they're a lot right, but now that's why you pull right? We'll digress a little bit here, but I had a friend who actually worked at one of these places and the first her first day working at the place, they said, all right, here's

the number one thing. If you get any newties, you make doubles and then you put them in this book back here and they had a massive book. Oh, just for fun. Like a writing. They double them. Yeah, they make do it. Just for fun.

And then keep it. It's really legal and corporate America. Absolutely. Absolutely. I love it. Thanks. You want to get a job at Walgreens. Okay. 95% sensual thoughts are ideas. 38% sense sexy selfies. 36% explicit images. 32% said they started sex scene

between ages of 19 and 29. And 56, though, percent say they who've done it admit that sex has improved sexing has improved the relationships And those who are dating are more likely to sex than those in the committed relationship And I think you people in your committed relationships here probably need to sex more than others And what I'm saying is not every day, but like I always say sex or Four-play starts after the last orgasm. So you could say babe last night

It was so hot, or you look so great this morning. I know you're like, Mary, whatever, but women always want to hear that you're thinking about it in seconds. Yeah, I'm defying sexting, because I think I probably do it every day. Oh, I think you're awesome.

Like last night's sex was really great, or you looked really beautiful this time. I can't wait for this weekend. I know I do. I know I do. Because my wife and my mom are right next to each other and my phone and twice I've sent something very inappropriate to my mom So I that's awesome wait. I think they're actually

Statistics about how many people have accidentally missed something. Yeah, it's called like um, where was it? Oh, oops sexting accidents Oh, that's funny 16% of men have mistakenly sent a sex to a family member The last one I sent to my mom. This is a true story It was it was a joke, but I just out of the blue sent I'll suck your dick for a dollar sent to my mom, this is a true story. It was, it was a joke, but I just, out of the blue, sent, uh, I'll suck your dick for a dollar. No. To my wife. Thank you, you know, make her laugh a little bit. And then my mom said, um, no, thank you.

That could be worse than that. That was hilarious. Actually, really fast before sexting, I have a really funny story. I just, I've never shared it before. I have to show you. Oh, go. I accidentally booty called my dad during a booty call. Like, back when your phone could like dial on its own.

You said on it. I snuck out of the house to have sex with the guy. And while we were having sex, I guess my phone engaged, it was like in my pocket in a jacket that had got under my like under my butt while we were like sex. And then we drove back to my house. Oh no. And as I'm driving up, I see that my front door is wide open.

And I can see the silhouette of my dad, who was a huge dude. My dad was like a football player. He's like a linebacker. Picking up the whole doorway, looking like just curious how. And I was like, oh my god, oh my god, I had to find my phone. And so I pull out my phone. We were probably like five minutes for my house, where we were having sex.

We'd like parked in a discrete location. And so that was good. Yeah, exactly. And so we're like pulling up. And I was like, how I need to find my phone and you to find out what's going on. So I pick up my phone. It says, call with dad 13 minutes.

And we had definitely been having sex about like 10 minutes ago. And so my dad is standing in the door way, holding the phone, just staring at all of you. I was like 18 maybe. Like so I was like, I was like legally allowed to have sex, but it was still awful. He had for sure heard me having at least four to allowed to have sex, but it was still awful. He had for sure heard me having at least four to five minutes

at times. Don't get over that what happened. It was awful. I made the guy drop me off down the block. I was like, he's gonna get the fuck out of it. He's gonna get the fuck out of it. And so he dropped me off down the block. I walked up and he's like, where the hell is this guy?

And he starts cussing. Oh my god, that's major. It was awful. But I booty called my dad during a booty call. That is epic. That's actually could be in Anderson's next movie That that would be too much of a sort of movie a big come on. No, I know most ads I think what the phone now he would have yeah, you would have hung up right but he

Maybe he thought I was in danger he had about biggest here to five minutes at least and then he probably heard me being like All right, we got to get back. Okay, do you think I got to go what do you think you heard though I mean he heard that guy climaxing this is before the orgasm okay what was that I have no idea I don't remember this guy at all but it was probably like really quiet and then I was like all right give me a cigarette because I was super classy is an 18 year old and you just smoke right that being right if your dad was like more pissed about the smoking than he was about the sex I told you not to smoke.

I was smoking cigarettes. That's crazy. How does this? We never spoke about it again. Like it didn't come up in the first place. So funny, people have all these like traumatic things with their parents that could get they walked. I mean, having sex, they walked on me, like giving a little job and then they like, we never talk, we never spoke. Yeah.

And then you know that your dad's like every time, you know, they get over it, they get over it. So my thing with this is I think that I am not gonna knock any way that you relate to your partner or anything sexual that's gonna get you turned on and have persex life, but I think phone sex dying art, that was fun because it's not just words, it's like you can hear the voice and it's real time. So sometimes if you're sexing, you're not really master,

I mean sometimes you can, but it's like how you're gonna masturbate in sex with one hand. The point of phone sex was that you'd both be getting off or sometimes you'd just be getting them off and I'd be lying, but doing dishes that were telling me I'm getting off. I mean, yeah babe, what's that noise? I'm like, oh nothing, just really wet here, you know?

But I'm pretty good at phone sex. I can get people off and I feel like you'd hear it. It's auditory and, but the thing is, so I think it's not, I mean, did you ever phone sex? No. Yes. Did you? Okay. Yeah. So I guess it's the same principle though and I think they're both effective. Here's why I like them both is because there's something about being removed from your partner and the reason why I think couples say it improves their sex life is because you can say those things that you can't say to your partner. Like I see you right now, I'll tie it up

with a ball gag in your mouth, roped from the ceiling, for example. And you might not wanna say that when you see them. But then she's thinking, that's hot too. Like, that's another way to express your sexual desires. So, that's what. I never got the phone six thing. Never, never, never got,

or like, call the nine seven six numbers. I never understand. You know what people I like. Yeah, I know. But like, the guys, I mean, that was a real market. People would call and it's just, I never understood it. call the nine six numbers. I mean, I'm getting with people I like. Yeah, I know But like the guys I mean that was a real market people would call it Oh my god, it's a huge mark. I used to phone six operators on the show and they actually taught me how to do it pretty good Well, what does this sound like? God you can do it with me

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You don't have to use your real name and your age and where you're from social Excuse me social security. Yeah, and your social security number and credit card cool and the number on the back I love your show heaps and it's totally eradicated much of my fears about sex that I gained from going to a Catholic school Anyway, I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and we've lived together for nearly two of those. We have a pretty great sex life and have experienced with a few things, including a massage candle and the form 2 Jimmy Jane vibrator. Love it! My question is whether you have any tips to keep the awesome sex and attraction going as I am worried that due to our young

age and that both of us were virgins and we met that it will be difficult to keep the fire live as we go forward. Any tips or advice? Cheers from the Southern Hemisphere, Rebecca. So this, I know, well, Rebecca is spawn this entire show because I'm going to lead into now some ways that not only Rebecca and a longer term relationship, but even if you're in a relationship for a month or you've just slept with someone, these are things that you can

use across the board. Because desire in life is kind of fickle. Like lust is fickle, desire changes in a relationship, sometimes like we were saying you want it more than your partner. And you know, at the very beginning, you have want it more than your partner. And you know, it's a very beginning. You have the best sex of your life. Or so you can think and then the next month or 10 years, you might get bored. It's like same old same old.

And so the deal is is think about, we think we were talking about this, right, Madison? Like your favorite meal. Yes. What's your favorite meal? Oh, you're asking me. Besides pink. I do love a good cox sandwich, but um, no, I'm a vegetarian. So probably my favorite meal would be like, you have good veggie. Oh, a black bean burger. Black bean burger. You love that, right? And you'd

be like, if I was like, Madison, look what I brought for you tonight. Are you vegan? So excited. Black bean burger. I'm actually a pescatarian. Oh, you think I made it up. No one eats anything in my outfit. They don't eat everything I got. It's pretty old since she's a porn star and she's vegan. But she swallows a lot of semen, so I think that she's not vegan. You know what I mean? Yeah, that's got to have some dairy in it. Guys, my friend, okay, can we go back to semen and we remind me I have a really funny

thing. Yeah, see, sorry. Okay, so we often use this analogy, okay, well first of all, what if I said to you, okay, Madison, but that's what you're going gonna eat for the next six years for dinner and lunch? Probably cry myself. Right, exactly. Everyone's talking about you. You know what, I miss cheese puffs.

Yeah. Or I miss chocolate. So she needs to get a new boyfriend. Yeah, no, what I'm saying is when it comes to monogamous sex, it's like having an insane meal every day for the rest of your life. So no matter how great sex it is, it can feel like a routine, long term,

short term, all of it. So that's what we're doing, the show to help you with love and romance. And so a lot of times, this is what I was saying earlier, is that when you hear me say adventurous or new things of bed, you ought to, if you're me or like a lot of people who are trying to get help, they think that's a lot of work

or Emily's gonna do it by a butt plug, I know it. This is gonna be real hard. It's gonna be real hard. Exactly. And they're like, I'll listen to it, but I'm not gonna do it. So I'm giving you, this is stuff that can actually, and I want you to do. Like one of them this week, can you pledge to me that one of these things, it's like ripping a bandie down for like, how do I do this for you?

Just do it. Okay. So, and it's a great way to get started trying new things, exploring new desires. I'm getting to it, dude. Baby steps. You're excited. Baby steps. So, here's the other thing.

Why I'm breaking it down for you? Because you know, like when you're in yoga class or your exercise class Madison and they're like, you could modify this. They say like, okay, you could do it on your hands or you could go down your knees. Like these are all going to these are like modifications. So I'm going to tell you some things. You could be like, well, I don't want to be, you know, I don't want to do knife play and have her learn knives. My face, but it might be nice to have my hair pulled. Okay. So when I say like think outside the bedroom, oftentimes in a relationship, you've sex in the same place

all the time. Public sex. Public sex is great. So move outside the norm, even if it's like, so I'm going to tell you hotel sex, amazing, switching up location, so much, so great. So first I had a Cosmo cosmopolitan magazine email me this week and for a press request, they're like, Hey, why is hotel sex so great? I was like, it is my favorite thing in the whole world. I wish I could live in hotel. Why is it so great? And I thought about it. I was like, well, you can be as loud as you want as messy as you want. It's like you're it's like your new sheets.

Because you know what I mean? Like a new bed and new sheets. It all feels good. It's like your new sheets, because you know what I mean? Like a new bed, a new sheet, it all feels good, it's fresh, and it's just you're looking at new things, you're not looking at your dirty dishes, and you're away, and it's different, and you can have amazing socks. It can completely get you out of any rug. It might be, yeah. Totally, everything's new, but if you're like, we can't afford it, well, like maybe you should have sex in your living room

in your backyard. Do it just anywhere different. So this is just the point that switching up location is key to just making things different. So like having sex on the washing machine during the spin cycle. I ever tried that. You've done that. I have done that.

It's in my book actually too, so I had to try it. And the reason why it's, because when you do something spontaneous and you're like, hey babe, let's meet me in the kitchen. That increases the lust factor and adrenaline because it's something new and it demonstrates that you know, you want to have them right there right now. And it falls into her court. I mean, she needs to kind of take, because she's the one who's worried about it and chances are the guy will follow whatever she's into. Right. Well, I'm actually not answering Rebecca's email specifically because this entire, but that thank you for

bringing it back to her. But that's, well, okay, we should go back to this. She's saying that she, well, she should share this with them, you know, yeah, she, it's not in her court. It's in both their courts because if it's only in her court, she'll be the one making all the, you know, but it's not like she's the one who's up in her head about it. Yeah, which is great that she's thinking ahead of time.

It's, I haven't even been there yet. They're both origins though. I know, and they're not like she's the one who's up in her head about it. Yeah, which is great that she's thinking ahead of time I have to see them. They're both virgins though. I know they're Two young. What are you guys doing? Well, see I don't want to say that but they are very young to be together Speaking from a guy's point of view He's gonna want to say other people yeah cuz he's not gonna have anything this roller dex to sink back to except for her You know every do you think that's your Gai with every guy? Absolutely got to go out and fill those banks. It's got to get some strange. Yeah. Need some strange. Add it to the memory banks.

I just think you're I think you're right. I you know that I think that you shouldn't get married before 30. Back in the 20s when we died at 40, it was cool. Yeah. Yeah, totally. Get married 25. You got good 15 strong years. Yeah. Deadwood days.

Yeah. But not anymore. Not anymore. Now we're together. You can have multiple, you know, whatever. I just think it's a, I think you don't really know yourself in your 20s. I think 4.5 years and what happens is you get addicted to these relationships because you really grew up in them. Yeah. You know each other's families. Yeah, I didn't kind of change at that point in your life.

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We're having amazing sex. Does he want me to be blonde with big boobs? Do you have that? What? Oh, no, it's just funny because my boyfriend is such a horn dog. One time he was like at class and I had his laptop and I was going to torrent something. And so I looked at pirate bay and I typed in PI.

And his search history pulled down the first thing. And he would kill me if I told anybody this, but whatever. Tell me that we won't tell you about. It was pink teen pussy. I was like the first thing. He would kill me if I told anybody this, but whatever. Tell me that we won't tell you. It was pink teen pussy. I was like the first thing that I saw. But that's what he actually typed that in. He typed in, I was like, he's so specific. I have a picture on my phone.

And it was like, I want to type in PI for pirate bay. And the first thing that popped up, this computer was like, you mean pink teen pussy? And I was like, what? Pirate. I texted it to him. It's a torrenting, an online torrent. I have a thing. Oh, so it's two steel things.? I texted it to him. It's a torrenting online torrent. I was like, oh, it's two or two steel things.

Because I don't steal things. Oh, and you got to like this, because you say I never give you anything. Here's something. Well, when the wife and I first moved in together, she was doing it. It was before I was like, savvy on the computer and I'm learning Cognito mode

and all this things that everything. Right, clear in the browser. I mean, there should be a class in high school in Africa. Totally absolutely. But before all that, and we were sharing a computer, and she actually, she was laughing about it. She thought it was quite funny, but I looked up amateur facials.

I was drinking. That was what I was into. She saw that and her initial thought was, oh, how sweet. He's learning how to do, I got, she's facial for me. She got like a cute cover for me. Yeah, she thought that's what it was for. And then she realized what a wisehuse to stir for a second. Then she started laughing about how ridiculous it was.

Oh my God, that's hilarious. I thought it was so funny, because it was so specific. I was like, you really, you went right for it. And he was like, it's because I'd seen like a, I'd seen like a porno that was titled that was I wanted to re-find it. Oh, yeah, sure. Are you sure that's kind of redundant?

Most teams. I know. I know. But I want teens. Yeah, but I what I wanted to refund it. Oh yeah, sure. Are you sure that that's the biggest taste? I know. I know. But I want teens. Yeah, but I sent them a picture of it. I took a picture of it on my phone and sent it to them. I was like, hey, so um, you're a computer and he was like, oh my god, he was so worried that it was going to be freaked out, but I thought it was really funny.

Because I know that guys watch porn. Like, it's just a normal thing. You're okay with it. Yeah, and it doesn't bother me. Maybe that's a generational thing. Maybe people like a little bit older than me. No, it's not a normal thing. You're okay with it. Yeah, and it doesn't bother me. Maybe that's a generational thing. Maybe people like a little bit older than me. No, it's not a traditional thing. It's not a traditional thing.

No, it's not a traditional thing. It's not a traditional thing. I hear it from my friends who are in the 30s. I hear it from friends in their 20s that it's confusing, but it can be a great way to spark a sense of adventure and a big turn on for both of you and get you both wrapped up. Because it's great to learn about

both of your sexual preferences. Now for example, Madison, your boyfriend might come home and you might say, you know what, babe? I know what pink teen pussy tonight Let's try to find something that works for both of us big black cock. Yeah. Yeah, I'm really scared that one That's exactly the first old black cock. Hey The difference I get big black. No, but it's like I mean I actually did this the other night with this guy that I'm dating I was like he was telling me about a porn that he watched. Oh, oh because I always talk about the magic wand

Oh because it's amazing about the magic wand. Oh, because it's amazing. And the magic wand vibrator that we know. And so he's like, oh, I was watching a porn the other day and I saw the magic wand. And I've been, we played with toys and I was like, cool, I want to show it to you. And he showed me that he looks it up

where my bad, we grabbed my computer and we watched it together. And it was super hot. It was one of those kink.com videos where it was like, she was all tied up. And then I was like, I wrote up some of that kink.com stuff. Yeah, it's bizarre. Yeah, it's awesome. I mean, I opened up with a castle thing. Is that castle? I had a party there once. I just got a guy Peter Acquire through started it. My hair cutter was telling she the girl

because my hair was really into all that stuff. Oh, yeah, it's pretty amazing. It's mostly hardcore BDSM a lot of public weird stuff like they just take a girl to a laundry mat and they start banging her like there's like people and they're washing their clothes. Yeah, but that's all on set there It's a really cool place, but the thing is is that what oh no, it's not real but afterwards they have the girls on and we're like No, I really enjoyed that like she looks like she's like about like she's a fixated, but they're all down and it's Concentral so this was cool because I saw what kind of porn turned him on and this one worked because it turned me on because I love my magic wand. We watched it together and then I plugged in my magic wand

and we had sex and like kind of did what we saw on screen. So you might just want to go to like good vibes after dark has a lot of great porn or just go to, and whatever site you go to, if you guys peruse together for a few minutes, I'm sure you could find something. Maybe she likes lesbian porn, which is common. And watch it together and it's a great tool because you learn new moves and tricks.

And it's a fun, something to do. What if you're going to uncomfortable with your significant other and you don't really know how to broach it? I think that if you're uncomfortable with it, and it's not never come up. Yeah, and I think you should say So I'm wondering I do you have any while this brings me to another point here, which would be a great I'm gonna bring you down to another tip here. That's gonna answer your question. Are you sure make a sexy bucket list I love this because oh, that's good. Yeah communication key key key key to exciting, you know Sex life and when you share your fantasies and

desires with your partner, it increases your intimacy. Don't lead with reason, because that'll let all of that go. No, I know. You guys, you use some discretion, okay? Like like your hot best friend coming over for the reason not gonna work. Jessica, get over it. And new sexual exploration. So couples find it daunting. So you can make a game out of it and say, sit down with your partner and you make up sexy bucket list. So you write down new things you want to try.

So like you each could like write down five and then change, change it, you know, like exchange it. So you'd be like, I wish we had rough or sex. Like I wish we made out more. I wish I could tie you up to the ceiling. I don't know why I keep saying that because I was watching King.com. Yeah. You could write them down on like little post-its or little like index cards to you.

And each index card has its own And then you could like do them one by one Yeah, pick a lot of a hat. Yeah, so you could say I want to watch porn together to see what turns you on right? That's a great way to do it. Thank you honey I told you I don't sometimes I don't go back around to the question, but I did I thought we're gonna back to giz too But I thought about it And I came up with it another decent thing you could do is like you could it's a little devious, but you could like slip like have a Netflix sleeve and then slip in like porn and we're

like, Hey, let's watch the movie. We got from Netflix and you pop it in and you go, Oh, I didn't. This is the wrong disc, but then it's on. This is never really deal. Honestly, just pick blue is the warmest color that movie. It's like filled with lesbian sex. Yeah, that's that on and be to be like brutal oh man like how did this happen what what do you think that's right exactly and that's a great

point because some women might have to be ready for porn so this is like this is how we modify this is how we modify look up like that the sexiest love scene movies like I'm it to mom atambian or not have weeks nine weeks you could start there. Why? And then move into hardcore porn. No, I mean, you know, see what it says. It's sexy bucket list.

Great way to do it. I mean my boyfriend watched Hollywood. And we found out that it was like both of us and we're younger. We saw Hollywood. And I thought it was really hot. That whole thing of him being visible. The naked raper. I mean, the invisible raper.

And his little blouse and everything. So that was like our code word. Like we'd be hanging out with friends. And I'd be like, do you want to go watch Hollywood? I'd be like, yeah, this is like when we first started ho do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that. I'm not gonna be able to do that.

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Yeah, that into it. No, I mean, it's not that we're not that into it. It's just that like, I don't know, our point is they're different. He likes point of view, like hardcore banging and I like more like, this is the, this is the end drum. This is the pink team pussy is what he is.

Yeah, exactly. And it's like, let's not mess around. Let's not beat around the bush. We know what bush he likes. Yeah, no bush. Girlbush. Girlbush the trick here. Girlbush, do you think the bush is coming back? I don't know. Okay, so here he likes. Yeah, no bush. Girlbush. That's the trick here.

Do you think the bush is coming back? I don't know. Okay, so here's one more thing. Boyrism. So you know we were talking earlier about video chatting. That's another thing we got sexting. We've got phone sex video chatting just using on your phone Skype G chat face time. It's not just for long distance. So couples like in the same Eric code or in the same house if you're feeling lazy, you know, you're downstairs watching TV. Um, it's really, it's really half a virtual sex. So because there's elements of like voyeurism and exhibitionism and a lot of women

get really turned on by that. It's a top fantasy for a lot of women. So you can watch her touch yourself, tell her what to do. She can watch you. And if you're not sure how to start, some women say it's hot when she's like watching porn, like if you guys are watching, she's like watching a little porn, so it makes her feel like less awkward. Like it's something to get you both in the mood and she's watching porn while you're watching her. But I also think just getting started, like telling her what to do or you guys both get in dress together. And that can lead to one of my favorite sex tips, mutual masturbation, because there's a lot of couples

who have been together for a long time, and they still are like, I don't know what the hell turned their partner on. And so if you're watching each other, touch yourself. You're like, oh, she goes up and down on the clitoris, or she never touches her clitoris, or he grabs his balls, and I've never touched his balls. I didn't know that.

It's a great way to learn. Okay, XM was that. I don't know. I didn't know. I touched your mom. way to learn. Okay, XM was that. I don't know. I didn't know that's tomorrow. I made it up. Role playing. She's role playing. Right. I'm role playing. Role playing is really hot too and I know that you think, okay, this is kind of weird. Well, I can't say this. Hey, you can't. No, it's too late.

But I did dress up. Okay, so another thing. I had a really fun weekend. So this guy I've been dating who never uses sex story in his life. Like before, he met me like nothing ever, ever, ever. We've now, I've had a wedge for a long time for a liberator like a really nice black Okay, so you know the wedges Sex what sex furniture and it's an amazing thing because it's a wedge and a lot of women in order to have Experience the most pleasure and to have orgasm They their bum needs to be lifted so it's like literally like a wedge, like a pillow.

And so your butt rises on it, and this one comes with cuffs too, like hand cuffs. Like they have so much stuff if you go to liberator.com. And so I've had this wedge in my garage, so we opened it up and we like used the wedge and it was hot because it was like your elevated and you had like cuffs and stuff like that. So it's been up from the ceiling?

I was not so it's been up from the ceiling, but I'm going to work on that soon, because I think that would be really, really fun. And I also tried to get out of that now. Oh my God, a Russian landlord. But now I don't know what to do with the wedge, because it's so big, not to mention my Sibian. I got a Sibian.

I was gonna bring up the Sibian right now. I don't know if I was gonna be stepping on the wedge. You gotta just get rid of like your lazy boy, if you have one. I don't like place it like I couch with it. I'm trying to figure out like if anyone's I'm not really great and terrorized. The Indians are expensive. I know I'm one of three people who've gotten a free one. I'm so honored it has a million touches. The other two are like a Barack Obama and who else? Yeah Barack Obama's in the

White House but he's got more room like. Yeah. The thing is if I had a separate room. I would have a sex room. I know, yeah, exactly. So I got that. And then one more tip I would say here is this is another thing that came up for me lately is giving her oral sex from behind. A lot of men do oral sex the same way when she's lying down. But if you only do that, it's time for twists. So next time you're going in for the oral as you should be doing, if she likes it, switch it up, get her on all fours and then perform oral from behind her. You could either do it just like licking behind her or you could lie underneath her on

your back with your legs like facing away from her body. And it's an unexpected sensation. It feels different actually because you're coming in from a different angle. You're sucking on the clitoris and using your tongue from different angles, which since the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, it feels a little different. So those are some tips, role playing is fun. What else do we have in here, little anal part? I think we covered a lot of it.

Yeah, we, we're not kind of bunch and stuff that we usually don't talk about. That's like the big thing is I feel like people expect us to say sorry. I thought we got to get through it. You want my ejaculation as a source? I got to get through it. I got to get through it. Okay, so I was on a podcast the other day called in in and it was funny it was called Detroit cast right And they're from Detroit it was funny enough the two guys who hosted their

Anominated for podcast awards sorry Anderson and so they called they're like hey I heard they know my brother or their Michigan I heard Tertrangers hosting the awards I get on their podcast the other day we both all went to the same high school Which is interesting because I went to a rando high school and one of the questions, we both all went to the same high school, which is interesting, because I went to a random high school. And one of the questions they had for me was a jacket, was basically a jackalation etiquette. When I want to come on a woman's face, do I ask her first or do I just do it?

I ask her. And I was like, you've got to ask her, you know? You've got to ask. It's like, if someone else wants to grab you and start like spraying like SPF on you or something, you're like, what are you doing? Like, I'm already having enough SPF, you know? Or like, if they're spraying, if you're putting anything in someone's body, I don't know why I thought like SPF on you or something. You're like, what are you doing? Like, I'm already having a SPF, you know,

or like if they're spraying, if you're putting anything in someone's body, I don't know why I thought of SPF, but because if someone started spraying me, it'd be weird. You got it, you got to ask them. Or if you're real smooth, bring it up like a dinner somehow.

Yeah, no. Angle it in. I'll be like, baby, I can't wait to blow your face in. Yeah, once you, you like that stuff flying in. I think in the moment, no, in the moment, it's big, hey, baby, can come here. So I was talking to my married friend last night about the same thing came up twice in a day.

So I figured it's newsworthy. And they bring together like 10 years. And I was like, she's like, yeah, and sometimes he just wants to come to my face. I was like, okay, well, what do you do? She's like, sometimes I say, yes, sometimes I say, no. I said, well, what is the deciding factor? Like, how do you know when?

She's like, I don't know. Sometimes you know, like, I just, we're about to go out and I know that it's gonna be on my face and then like, I do my makeup. And sometimes I just want to say,, we're about to go out and I know that it's gonna be on my face and then I do my makeup and sometimes I just want to say no because why should I say yes every time, mix it up. But most time I say yes, she says two or three times. Yeah. Just want to type out Jack Lachin etiquette, which is important to ask, don't just come on our face. Jack Lachin etiquette.

No, I mean, it's interesting. We have a show called Jack Lachin etiquette, it's like one formation. Oh, and then she said it's so fattening, isn't it? And I was like, no, it's good for you. And only that it's supposed to be really good for your skin. Like, if you have breakouts, they say like to dab a little bit on breakouts. They say.

No, I mean, actually, there have been studies coming out on two different ways. Take my jacket around your face. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Did somebody actually pay money for that study or women poor women poor people or just slathering cement on their face to people? Science, yeah.

It's science. And Heather Locklayer. Heather Locklayer. Mm-hmm. Heather Locklayer, easy to see. Yeah, her skin looks awesome. Okay, Anderson, check everybody check them out on the film. The film won the after that. Yes, check Madison out.

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