Sex With Emily - Best Of: For the Love of Oral

Episode Date: December 28, 2016

Oral sex. Everyone loves getting it, but how good are you at giving it? Do you know how to eat from her honey pot? Do you give homerun head? Whether you’re a man or a woman, an expert or a novice, everyone could get better at going down, and in this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily is here to help! She tackles your most pressing sex questions, from oral sex insecurities to tips for sensitive gag reflexes to A to V etiquette, and gives her #1 oral sex tip for both men and women. This show is your one stop, all inclusive, need-to-know guide for going down like a champ. From cunnilingus, to fellatio, and everywhere in between, Emily dishes the knowledge you need on today’s classic Sex With Emily podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to the show and you're gonna love this one because we are talking about everyone's favorite topic Oral sex. I know you love it and you want to be better at it and you want to understand it So in this show, I'm giving you what you want from how to give to how to get to the tips you need to below your partner's mind Men and women. I'm answering your emails and all things oral to help you get better at going down So things everyone for listening enjoy the show I to help you get better at going down. So things everyone for listening, enjoy the show. I just returned from an amazing trip to Europe where I had the honor of helping to launch the latest innovation for my good friends at Wevibe,

the all new sink. And let me tell you, it was the buzz of the show. Get it? The buzz of the show? Okay, anyway, the sink is the latest evolution of the Wevibe, the world's best is the latest evolution of the Wevibe, the world's best couples toy. For those that aren't familiar, let me back up.

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ability to adjust and lock into position, meaning one size truly fits all. I mean, it will hit all your hotspots. If you haven't tried a Wevi before, you need to try the new sync. Trust me, you will love it, and you can thank me later. To order yours today, simply click on the Sync banner on my website or visit Wevibe. That's w-e-v-i-b-e.com and use code Emily at checkout. It's a throwback! Look into his eyes! They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex! Eyes that mock our secret institutions! Bet through eyes they call them in a bygone way! Hey, Avelina, you got a boyfriend?

Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute. The girls got a hair stand. Oh my! The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean, like laundry? It's shrink? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?

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We don't spam you or anything, but people really like them. And we send you good interesting information. If you miss the shows, we do two a week. We wrap them up in there or we send blog posts or check that out and videos, all that fun stuff. And I'm here with Menace. Hello.

Hello, darling. I am excited to be here with you. I swear. I swear. I swear I actually really really like me today Yeah, now you like me lollily because we don't see each other as much We used to do so five days a week. It was like I'm yeah too much. I know this shows about oral sex Yeah, I'm excited quick. Yeah, okay. Where do you think is the craziest place you've given a blowjob? Can you remember?

Um, gosh. That is such a good question. Uh, yeah, I know I've given some crazy blow jobs in some crazy weird places that are sort of precarious. I remember it a wedding once, like in the Hamptons. Really? There was like a super fancy outside tent and everything and we, I took a boyfriend at the time and we went like,

not too far off the tent. That's the wedding's going on, or is it reception? Well, they were already walked on the aisle. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. All the boring stuff is done. And it was like outside and I believe

that people walked by and there might have been some kind of embarrassment. They saw you. I know, they saw you. Giving for like a show. I mean, I'm kind to a movie in place. You know, oh, I know like in my house recently, like visiting my parents in Michigan,

thank God they don't listen, but I remember giving one like on the back porch and then I wound up in Wilcoach and lights off. That was embarrassing at this age still. And then also you remember my family's Coachella experience when I had sex at Coachella outside, funny enough that guy from years ago, I haven't talked to him in years,

but he lives in LA and we ran into each other. Now we're like, oh speaking of me, you men as always have them best friends with my exes, which I am really good friends, we're super good friends now. I'm like, remember that time we banged at Coachella? I talked about that all the time. I'm ruled.

Yeah, what's the crazy place you've ever received, Felicia? Well, probably backstage at a concert. I don't know, nothing too insane. Yeah, we got a red car road head. Yeah, we at a concert. I don't know, nothing to insane. Yeah. You got a red car roadhead. Yeah, we got a safe, I don't recommend it. We got a borrow, somebody's private jet, and dislike.

How about my brothers? Yeah, your brother's jet. And to say, hey, we need it for a second. I know, no, I mean, we'll see. Okay, so Felatio, but first we got a little sex in the news. You'll appreciate this, because it has to do with an Apple product. Okay. Which, yeah. That do with an Apple product. Okay. Which, yeah.

That's weird. Apple and sex together. That's interesting. That's interesting. Yeah, tell me more, please. Apple adds feature to iOS 9 that lets you track your sex life. You'll soon be able to track how active your sex life is using your phone, iPhone, thanks to a forthcoming update.

Apple's iOS 9 will let people track when and how often they have sex as well as letting women log their menstrual cycle. The company's privacy come under fire for ignoring the importance of female customers and this will be redressed when they revamped, health kit rolls out in autumn. Is the iOS 9 already out? No, I'm on 8 right now. Okay. I don't know. Users were able to track how much water they drink, so it's all like everyone's like becoming like the Fitbit, right? Like, everything's like that. So UV exposure, how long they sit still for. My wouldn't be like, you did not sit still once today. Yeah. And they're as well as their reproductive health, but they didn't provide further details.

They will be able to enter details as like when they had sex, when they use protection. But I want to know like, like who's really gonna do that? I like the thing, the reason why I love the Fitbit, you still have your zone, I lost it in months ago. Doesn't never fall off. I lost two of them. I'm done, I'm done. How come?

How come? You have like a small wrist, you probably. No, it just pops off. Really? Pissing me off, because I loved it. I was like, because the truth is about the Fitbit, if you all know, it does, I'm like, oh, I've only done 5,000 steps today.

You know, it makes me want to do more. But I think this is harder, because you've got to plug it in. Like, oh, I just had sex. Hold on, honey, let's write this down. Yeah, you don't want to write off this. But then if you're used to going to sex and you're straight about a mattress, where you hear when you're about mattresses

that measure your sex life, there's a mattress that's going to be able to measure how often you've been active and then it's going to send you text messages and be like, hey, you should take your partner on a date tonight because you guys haven't banged in a while, you guys should try the doggy style. Everyone wants to check you goddamn sex life. I think there's a crisis to people sex life, apparently. And I'm also kind of pissed about iPhones. Can I just talk about that's for a minute? Okay, what's wrong? I think since Steve Jobs died, the iPhone has just gone downhill, aproproducts in general, and then we're all true believers,

and we all love it, and everyone buys the iPhone, because it's cool, and we can eye message. But I think they look the Droid's, Android Samsung, they're first superior in a lot of ways. Wow, look at you. I know, you didn't know I knew what Android was, but I do. Yeah, that's cool.

You disagree? Yeah, I definitely disagree. I think it's good. I think it's good. Okay, and I know, man, because Android is not like tech with Amelie. Yeah, but Android users are so hardcore about Android, and I know they get upset with that.

And I have an Android also, and I've worked with tech startups. I worked out a startup before I moved to Los Angeles. And every single app is a subpar version of an iPhone app. It just is. But, Android's are great. They have amazing options that iPhone do not have. So I'll give them that.

Okay, like, like, like, HagleCam app, which is not on Android yet. I think with the camera wise, the newest Samsung is actually the best camera I've seen on the iPhone. You're all about your Instagram. Just menace me and AC. So props on that, but I mean, I went through the apps and the apps are okay, but they finally finally Andrew is there with the camera on that phone is.

So I mean, I'm not saying there's always like drawbacks, everything, there's pros and cons, but I did just get the six though, you'll be happy to know. Could I drop the five in the toilet? Did your brother get for you? No, my brother, my brother bought me an iPad once. And men's legs like, did your brother, no, it's always ever bought me. Oh, really?

Okay. We think, he's bought me dinners, trips. Did he get you a laptop? Your brother's amazing, I love him. Dude, you got me an iPad, it was a small with him. I know. He's in town right now. You're coming out, but you don't want to. And he loves you too. Dude, how waste did we get at the Ritz Carlton differences? Go that night. Okay. So there's a quick story. Emily's brother was staying at the Ritz Carlton in San Francisco. And he's

like, he was on like some special, her brother's like a baller. He's like, amazing. So he was on some VIP floor where they have like a free open bar. Oh, he's open food. All you can eat is crazy. I've never seen anything like this before. So we go there and we're just getting hammered wasted

And there's all these classy people dressed up and you know, of course, you know, we were not one of them Yeah, we're into you know, like I'm dressed like a bum and I'm in there and we're just laughing so hard in there And I just couldn't I'm like I'm stopping for a second I'm realizing that everyone is just staring at us because we're just rowdy and I that everyone is just staring at us because we're just rowdy and I love your brother. I know that's why I want you to come with us tonight, but no pressure. I know because I know if I go out with your brother, then I'm just going to be out all night. And I have on Friday, the next day, I have a 22 hour day of straight work. That's unhealthy.

It isn't healthy, but I have to do it. You look good though. Did you lose weight? I've actually been working out every single day for the past month. Are you? Men, it's okay. We you've never done that in your life. I mean I have not every day. I'm you look great. I meant to say that when you walked in. Yeah, I'm seriously I'm really proud of you. Yeah, I have a I'm training for a marathon. I know you have to prepare me for this. Yeah, well it sucks because I'm running. Yeah, I'm running and stuff. Every day running.

Yeah, every day, every day for the past like month. Like I don't even know, like I need a moment. I don't think I just want to get back to where I was. 10 years ago when I met you. 10 years ago. I know you can talk about that. I mean, that I would do it. Yeah, but it's just sucks because, okay, so.

I'm done. I got kid in even speak. I'll tell you what, so I'm moving. I got kid named in speed. I'll tell you what happened. I'm moving. I remember when you ate McDonald's every day for a month or whatever. You were a star boxer, really, yeah? It was really easy, okay, when I was living in San Francisco and I was doing radio. I didn't really do that many events where I'd be out in public and people would see me.

So, you know, whatever. Now I'm a bit Los Angeles and I'm part of it. He's famous, he's on Billboard. I'm part of a morning radio show called The Woody Show. You can park your seat. Not about boners. It's not about boners or sex, so don't download it and think you're gonna hear

about weeners and boobies is not gonna happen. But the thing is, it's getting a really hardcore fan base, and then so I go out all the time, and people wanna take photos with me, and you know how I like to control the photos? Well, I'm not gonna say, hey, let me take the photos or none of me look at the photo. I'm like, oh yeah, it's cool, we can take a pic.

And then people take a pic and then put the social media out there and all that stuff. And then I look at them, like, oh my God, it looks so bad. Look terrible. This is what happens to celebrity. This is what happens. And then you get anorexic. Don't get anorexic.

I'm not gonna get anorexic. I'm still eating what I wanna eat. Look at my Instagram. I'm still not holding back, but I'm definitely healthy for your longevity. Yeah, so I definitely want to just like least, you know, do something about it. Okay. And then I actually feel way better. So that's cool. Okay, awesome menace. I'm really proud of you. I'm really warm, the cause of my heart. Anybody that feels like. I'm gonna get to email it right now. Yeah, we're gonna get to know each other. Once I come, I know. I know, I know.

We'll talk about talking to the leaders in this thing. No, Ann, but I just want to talk about inspiring people. If you feel the same way, just get up and do it. Every day I know it's hard, there's days that I don't want to get in the gym and do it, I just do it. And you just start off, so don't go from zero to a thousand. Just start off from 10 minutes a day. Like Michael do a Michael Moore the filmmaker is like he started a whole walking thing He's like just walk for 10 minutes and that's yeah, so I'm just really proud of you because this has been a 10-year thing

Thank you. All right. Let's talk about weeners. Okay, everyone. Thank you for emailing me feedback at sex with Emily.com and Faginus This and people's you can yeah feedback at sex with Emily.com I love hearing from you and I also love even more when you include your name you can we can change your name but where you are where you live and how old you are and yeah how you listen is cool too we'd soon naive listen but really it's how old you are okay ready and near where you live all right dear Emily I came across your website recently and I listened to a handful of your podcasts while on a long drive needless to say I fall in love with your podcast.

Anyway, I'm a 24-year-old woman and I'm pretty sure I'm a rarity when I say I love giving blowjob. As the main reason being, I get ridiculously turned on by hearing a guy breathe heavy and or moan. And I'm sure it's somehow subconsciously related to my own ego. I got some just curious if this is normal for women. I mean, I know guys really enjoy hearing women get off, but I've never really heard about it the other way around. Thanks Emily, sincerely be. I think that's really funny because first of all, I think that women do definitely, I love that you're saying this because I've actually been having a debate

lately with my friends. It just happened last week where my guy friend was like I don't think that women do women really like blowdubs? They're always saying I can't wait to have your cock in my mouth or whatever they text me that he's like but do they really like it? I'm like yeah some women do some don't but I think women like it and then my friend who's got all her married friends she texted them all and they all said no only has birth they I don't like it blah blah but I'm like I might I like it like I don't so I think it's split I don't think it's a 50 I don't like it, blah, blah, blah. But I'm like, I like it. Like I don't, so I think it's split. I don't think it's a 50. I don't even know what the split is.

But what is your perception? Do you think that women like it in your overall? Like do you think that they just do it? Or they just like, do they really enjoy it? Oh. That's what you think. I think I agree with you on the 50-50. Yeah.

I wasn't saying I don't know if it's 50-50. I want to hear from you guys, because I love it. I mean, I've never- I think some just do it's 50 50 I want to hear from you guys because I love it. I mean I've never just do just to do it though. I remember like remember Lynn that we here in Lynn that girl was on the show and she was like I've been with Adam for 20 years. I've never said no. Never say no to the BJ. I was like, why would you? It's like a 10 minute thing. It's like, I always say flowers for women. Okay, so be you're totally fine. You are in the zone. That's great and you realize the magic and the power of the blowjob.

I know, and you keep your man happy. It keeps me happy and it's great that you love it because it helps you get good at everything in life. I think that there's a lot of women who don't like it. They might say it's a taste or a comfortable but I think a lot of women and men say it with Conlinkus, they feel like they just don't know what they're doing or they're not confident.

But the only way you're gonna get better is that when you keep doing it and you get the positive moans and the feedback and that totally turned you on. I think that's awesome being that turned you on. So I want to be clear though, it's totally fine for women to enjoy sex as much or if not more than men. So you are not unusual, it'll be you are my hero. Yeah, love it.

It's funny, there was this famous actress I'm Trying to blank, but she would say in interviews just keep your man Drained and fed in your good and he'll never leave you Train you'll be like a puppy dog next to you. Yeah, it's all control. Yeah, it's true though I mean it's not that hard and I just build it up on the blowjob We'll take like 10, I can see, sometimes the oral sex with women maybe takes a long, or whatever, either way you should go down.

Okay, hey Emily, first and foremost, I want you to know how much I love and appreciate your show. You provide an invaluable service and it's such a pleasure to get insight on sex and relationships from such an intelligent, well-spoken, classy woman. I'm classy.

Anyway, onto my question. I love giving oral sex. It's so intimate and sexy. And there are a few things as beautiful. There are a few things as beautiful as women climaxing while I'm going down on our. But with the last few women I've slept with, it seems like it only goes on for a few minutes

before they want to have intercourse. I'm the type who likes taking his time. So it's making me wonder, would they be hurrying things along? Because are they they hurting things along because they're so turned on or because they aren't enjoying themselves and want me to move along. I'd appreciate your input. Thanks again. Sean. Oh, Sean, I love you. You are my dream man. They're a set it. I wish all men had these feelings about oral sex because there's a really complicated thing going out

with oral sex because I do believe that a lot of women, there's like different substance. They're like, he doesn't want to be doing it. Maybe I taste weird or smell funky and he doesn't want to be there and it's gonna take me a long time. So I'm just gonna say let's just have sex. And I think a lot of women can test that.

And the best thing that a guy should, if you're into it, the best thing that you can say to a woman, and I'm telling you, I've had guys say this to me, and it is like music to my ears when they say, I love doing this, and I could be here all night. Because then when he's going down to me, and he's like, listen, I love this,

I wanna do this, lay back, relax, chill. And you're like, oh, it takes all the crash off, because we're always thinking, does he want to, we're looking at the clock, 10 minutes, 15 minutes, 19 more out of this. But you know what I'm saying're like, ah, takes all the crash off because we're always thinking, does he want to? We're looking at the clock, 10 minutes, 15 minutes, we're nine more, but you know, I'm saying like, settle in, tell me you got some time and you're gonna be there and hopefully show relax more Sean.

So I think you got to let him know how much you really wanna be there between our legs, pleasing her. I actually never asked you this in the past 10 years and you've always promoted oral sex. Is it your favorite thing that guys do to you? If they know how to do it? Is it your all-time favorite?

I think it's, yeah, I'd say it's top. Top? How many things in there? What is your top three? Then what is your favorite? I mean, I guess I like inner course. I like being spanked. No, I like during time.

No, I mean, I really have to say oral sex is probably like one of my top things. I feel like it is, you've promoted so much. I hate to, you know what it is? It's like choosing between like children or something. Like for me sex is like, can I say oral sex? But yeah, I love some really good warm up with oral sex. If a guy knows how to do it or I, you know, and he's into it, because that's when I'm

going to tell you to come up, that's when I'm going to say, oh, it's cool to have sex, because I know you're not into it. It's just like blowjumps. You don't want to blowjump from a woman who's like gagging and like rolling her eyes and like making it. Or just, it's just so like no pressure to it at all. They're just doing it to do it. That is the absolute worst.

Right. The number one tip I always give about oral sex across the board for men and for women is to be enthusiastic and it to do it. That is the absolute worst. The number one tip I always give our oral sex across the board for men and for women is to be enthusiastic and to be into it. And if you're not, you've got to just gotta fake it. They might still not even do it. Don't even know there. Don't even try it.

Just say I'm not into it. Exactly. And there are plenty. Because then he's just gonna go around and say, oh, she gives terrible blow jobs. Right, he might as well not even try that, right? So, and Bichon, it could be happening for a number of reasons. Like I said, how does has nothing to do with you.

She could be insecure. She might have trouble relaxing. So you could try to do that. She could be sensitive. There's a lot of women who actually are oversensitive. In fact, women who are very orgasmic, multi-urgasmic, tend to be women who actually don't like oral sex or doesn't feel good to them.

So, but I can't imagine the last three women you've been with are the best few that this is the case. So, it's normal to feel insecure that it's about your oral sex skills. Like, we all question ourselves when our partners say, notice something or turn away that we think it's us. But I think that you should just, you know, go slower. Every woman's different and ask her what she wants.

Again, it's always great sort of slow and just let her know that you are there and you're settling in. You're going to pinch your tent, hang out for a while. That's all I want. Okay. Hey Emily and staff ladies. That would be everyone here. I've been listening for a while and I've been listening for a while and now you know

it. Yeah. Okay. Hey Emily and staff ladies. I've been listening for a while now and always find the show entertaining and usually find it instructive. Thanks so much for everything. Each of you do. My wife of 20 years and I've used your valuable information

to enhance your sex life and grow even closer. This brings me to my question. A few nights ago, as I was washing the vomit off my genitals, I realized that my wife might need some help learning to give a blowjob. That happened to my friend once, but I think it would be just because she was drunk. She threw up on us. That happens too. She only recently started trying to learn this skill and apparently has a fairly active gag reflex.

She's open to learning and I want to encourage her. We bought the tickle as pickle book you featured on the show and that helped, but she doesn't learn from books. Would any of you, would any of you have a beginner-friendly video recommendation towards learning this womanly art? Thanks so much. Have a happy season. Holiday season everyone. Nate from Austin. Okay Nate, I love this question and I'm going to get right back to it, but we're going gonna take a quick break and we'll be right back So back in August our friends at Vibratex set me a new toy to try out which you know is one of the best perks of my job However, it can also be challenging because let's be honest not all toys are created equal

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Okay, let's go back to this oral sex gagging vomit on the penis thing. Okay, Nate, here's the thing. I love this question. We have had some feedback in the past that we don't do a lot of tips for women. How do I give a good BJ? I mean, I know we have, but whatever. We have done a lot. Do you think she's this gagging because she's like just going?

No, I think they're women. Yeah, she's probably going too far. She sees it important. She thinks that that's what men don't really want. But you don't have to deep thout every time to please him. If you have a sense of get reflux, here's a thing. Is that you can use your hands. You can like put it in your mouth.

But like if as long as you have enough pressure on the penis, you don't have to go all the way back there. Plus the nerve endings that bring the most pleasure is the tip of the penis, the frenul lung, which is on the underside of the penis. So if you just like, if you like, keep your mouth around the head so your lips hit the area where the head meets the shafts, that gently on the tip, and you use your tongue to place pressure on the underside of the frendy lung. So like the underside of the penis works. You're a rack, you know what I'm talking about. The point that's

pointing down towards your balls, that little area beneath the tip is the frenulum. It's your best friend. It feels really, really good when a woman sucks on it. So she could do that. I mean, I don't know if you're forcing her head in there or if she just thinks she has to, but clearly it's not her thing. And if she's vomiting on you, just tell her to like,

like really, she could use her hand job, blow job combination. Those two sensations together, I mean, you ever gonna turn down like a blow with a, they use hand, when we use their hand, the ball's the whole thing. They need to. They need to.

Yeah, you wanna have more pressure. So I think she should just like, step away from the deep throat. Although, if you do want tips and you're listening and you don't actually vomit, but you wanna know more, the best thing is to just relax your throat. And to breathe before you do it, and you relax't actually vomit, but you wanna know more, the best thing is to just relax your throat. And to breathe before you do it,

and you relax your throat, and you like, got your tongue fall back, and you just like take deep breaths, and you can learn to relax it. But it sounds like that's just not her thing. In this situation, you know better what feels good for you. So if you teach your partner how to please you,

you know, maybe you guys can do mutual masturbation, she knows how you wanna be touched, but no more gag reflex for you. So if you teach your partner how to please you, maybe you guys can do mutual masturbation, she knows how you want to be touched, but no more gag reflex for her. Antickles Pickle is a great book for anyone who wants to learn about the pickle. Sweet. Yeah, okay. Okay, A to V legging.

All right. Hi, I'm 36 years old. I'm writing from Omaha, Nebraska. Is it safe for a man to lick my A and then my V? That would be anis and vagina for those of you who aren't. Sorry, I'm just laughing because there's a song out right now. Called A to V? No.

Oh, chaffle butter. Well, not even that, too. There's another one that says eat the booty like grocery. Oh, yeah. There's Nicki Minaj eat your ass like a cupcake also. Oh yeah, it's very popular right now. So trendy. It's last night.

Not that I don't love sex, but right now it's a lie. I think you go astamouth all the time because you never denied that you didn't. Every time I call you, every time I bring it up, you should never go astamouth. All right. That's bacteria, that's bad for you. You can't go asthmount all right that's bacteria That's bad for you can't go. Okay, you can go. No, I don't know I see like Just go to the mouth. Do I ever want a mouth on an ass? Yeah, I was thinking

China's an ass. Yeah, yeah, but I'm just starting now. I don't do that very I know I don't I actually honest can I be honest? I don't okay. I don't all right and I should and I will finally you made a statement about it because every time I bring it up you kind of give a giggle like that that is something going on in your daily life I I probably should what should admit it or just do it. Let's answer our project list. No, I'm not. I wouldn't have done that much to be honest. Oh, see, you have done the same.

I mean, I can't remember the last. All right. I'm just saying. You're at the point. See, I knew it. Can I get a room to see you? Jess, okay. She wants to know.

Oh, no, I didn't finish it because you fucked. You know. She wants to know. The same question goes for me licking him and then going back to a blowjob Is it risky for me can it transmit bacteria? Thanks for the great advice, Jess. Yes, Jess It can transmit vector anytime you go from anal to vagina or anal to penis or anal to friggin your turkey sandwich It is a bad idea. Because then your eating bacteria with your mayo, the whole thing is not good, okay? Anal and then you go to the bathroom, you have a problem.

So what do you do about that? This is what you do. All right. If you go anal, then you go and you wash it off. Like you don't go back and forth. You brush your teeth, you wash your hands, you change the condom. If it's like you're having anal sex,

then you're going back to vaginal sex. So it's really important. So you and your partner should both be showered and totally clean down there before any mouth to aynis action, not that I would know. I don't know, I'm kidding, I've done it. I just can't realize time, I'm super busy. No, I know, I know, I need you to tell me the last time

just that you've done it before. I need to do iOS 9 so I can start tracking my anal activity. You haven't looked at any anus recently. Do you mind? Is it going to text me and be like anal activity? You haven't had any anal activity in 14 days. I know. But you know what's also crazy?

One of my old co-workers said that he had an X-Corpher that was super into it. Like she wanted to do it all the time. There's some people, there's guys who are super into it. Everyone, everything's good, you guys. It's all normal, it's all fine. We're skiggling because obviously it's funny, but we're not judging you.

No, you guys, people freaking love me. Yeah, don't be a tight saying that we're judging. No, yeah, don't emailing angry. Everyone wants to be offended. I'm telling you this. I know, right? Do you know how to get pissed? Oh my God, try being,

you, on the air every day. Because you also are more offensive in nature. Well, yeah, and then people just, just being over-analyzed, everything, Jesus Christ, you think that like being offended is people's like full-time jobs. I know, seriously. Well, they have some freaking fun. I know. We don't we love

you all. Can't we tell? Of course. Okay, so here's a thing, Jess, you and your partner should both be showered. Like I said, be showered for any mouth to ines, any ines, anything. Please just do it in the shower. That's a great way to do it. And you're instantly you can wash it off. Right. It's not a good idea to switch from anal enigis to oral because bacteria, she's totally right. So if you want to engage in backdoor play during oral, whether it's like a BJ or while he's going down and you can explore using a finger too,

so don't use your mouth and always, always, always, always, always use lube and wash your hands. And these days with like sanitizer and all those wipes, like have some wipes by your bed. Like I have wipes by my bed. I have a lot of things, but I'm good. What kind of wipes? I have like, like those, like sex twig cleaners.

I don't know, they're just regular wipes I got with the grocery store. It's your nightstand is full of. Dude, my stuff. Just like, loobs and legs. I believe I would love to ask my intern Lori here to come and clean it. I was like, I was starting to not going to,

because she'd have to research her gloves and it's like really very simple. It has bad to. Here's the problem. There's like, I was trying to, but I'm not going to. Because she had to research her gloves and it's like really embarrassing. It has bad suit. Here's the problem. There's probably, and no joke in my bedroom, 200 vibrators. And the problem is they're all recharging, but they're tucked away. Oh, okay. You're a little bit like Trizzy Bill must be.

They're not all charged, but the problem is these vibrators, these things, they don't come with like, this is a fun factory vibrator. This is a vibrator, then you go to match the chords with the, I don't fucking know which goes with which. I didn't have a label maker out when I was masturbating charging it. What I realized of the problem is, I'm gonna get back to Inelink at a minute. Is it, my house is not only not kid proof,

it's not date proof. So I had this date come over a few weeks ago. Nice, it's kinda dildo. Literally. Yeah. I'm like, oh my god, I forgot those ones charging in the bathroom. I mean, I need like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm your girlfriend can come here. I just want to see what it looks like. It's awesome. I mean, it's got 500 heads to it. When you guys are going to die,

we're going to do some videos on it. All right. Okay. So anyway, back to our play, tears are deal. The lining of your in-lectivity is very thin and so it does not provide enough lubrication. That's why I'm always saying whenever you are having anal sex, even if you're using your fingers,

you want to use leave, not your saliva. So all that spitting you see in porn stuff, that's also bacteria that's not safe. So nothing should go near your back door, toys, fingers, penis, anything should go back there and then on your vagina, on your vagina, any of that. So keep wipes, all that stuff, by the way, like I do. I can never find them, those are bare-down toys.

All right, we've got some more sex. We've got some more things about rural sex. Are we good here? People? We're having a good time here. Okay, dear Emily, I love the show. Okay, here's Sitch. I love performing rural sex on my lady friends.

Here's the caveat. My orgasms are not as intense without it. And I recently started sleeping with someone who insists that I gargle after going down in her and it completely takes me out of the mood. I'm not opposed to the taste. She really is clean. So why must I gargle after it? She goes down to her and she's like, don't make out with me. Wow. We never hear about that. I know you always hear the guy who's like, you just found my giz.

Brush your team. No, some guys do that. Yeah, it's a weird but whatever it's a little jizz is not like some other guys, you know, yeah, because that's really where yeah, okay, um, so you should just you know, so why must I gargle after is that a thing to do ask ask going downtown now to go and rinse them is that a thing to go downtown and rinse my, should I suck it up and mentally get back into the game? Like it's pissing them off. He's like, I just gave you an orgasm and now you're going to go to the bathroom and get

out of the moon, gargle. But it's, I guess it's not unusual because women are always self-conscious and men about their penis and about their taste of how they taste down there. I think for men, they're thinking like not even just like, I think for women that like, I think it's the same thing. They think that they're not going to taste good. Like, thank you for going down there, but I don't want anyone to do with it. For their hygiene, because we're always wondering if we're clean or not.

And I have to admit that there have been guys I've been with who, it's been a while since the guys were like, don't kiss me. But I also don't try to, I'm not like, I'm trying to like make out with them right after I swallow their semen. But I do understand this and obviously he's probably one of these guys who's okay with her kissing him after Flascio. But if it's a deal breaker, I would bring it up or just why doesn't he just put some of those breaths strips by your bed instead of having to get out of bed? Or just keep some mouthwashed by the bed important to a cop.

I mean, the thing is, I don't think that should trip about as much as it, I mean, I think we can put it into this. I think that you could like split the difference. If it freaks her out and you still want to make out, like put a breast tripping her mouth, or like drink some water. Because for me, like after, if I, let's say, I swallow, I'll drink some water,

and then, you know, it's all good. Like, we're all fine. Like, you're not gonna get sick from it, but he's offended, and it takes him around the mood. Has this ever happened to you with a girl? No. That's just weird. No.

I think. I always hear that with guys though. But why are guys so freaked out and girls typically aren't? I don't know. Because guys are weird too. It's hard to understand things like that. I think guys are like, I want to taste my taste. Or maybe- And then I called Uber, just like,

and I didn't. Oh, maybe also like, maybe she had a bad past experience. Something with her own, yeah, maybe she had a bacterial vaginosis or something and so on and on or that. So, yeast infection or, I don't know. I don't know. All it takes is really one guy to be like, that like you're disgusting down there.

Like, things are not so fresh, and it just, you're done. They're ruined a girl. As a matter of fact, yeah. Yeah, you are finished for life. It's true, or some guy tells you you got a small penis in the locker room, or a young age, I mean, if anyone in Salt your genitalia

across the board, it will stick with you for life. So that could be it as well. So Sean, nothing we were talking about, and saying, you know, is that Sean, right? Like, I think you should, Jason. Yeah, to say, hey, dude, I really need to go do that right now. Right. Like, I think it's great.

It's also the flowers. Sean, I also find it kind of weird that you're even Jason. Jason, it's Jason. Yeah, whatever. I thought you just said Sean. I did. I was in a state couple of ones ago. Correct.

My bad. Jason. I do come find it kind of weird like you're getting laid who cares your guy You know I'm saying I know but he's sensitive guys don't really care or sensitive or care about this kind of snow So you know if that's just something like something she had a bad experience in the past and that's what she really wants to do to get through it You know what you're still getting laid. There's a billion guys out there not getting laid. And that it would be happy to find gold. Do you have any money? They would go to the store. Why you dinner? They would walk 50 miles to their house to the chick's house. You know,

joke man. But yeah, at least talk to her at least once and if she says that's what she likes and just stick with it. There's a lot worse things that shouldn't make you do. Exactly. Thank you, Menace. It's been a wonderful show. And thank you everyone for listening. Here's the dealio. Thank you so much, Madison, producing for the show and thank you to Lori, my intern.

Thank you, Menace, as always for being here out of your busy day, your schedule. I know you're super famous and I'm building more stuff. But I love it and I love you, honey, so much. And also, yeah, reviews and iTunes, like you said, we love that. And one more thing, one more thing I'm gonna ask you, one more thing before I go. Follow this three.

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