Sex With Emily - Best Of: Kinky Sex, Squirting & Bedroom Insecurities

Episode Date: June 21, 2016

Today’s throwback podcast comes at you straight from the Sex With Emily vault to address one of your favorite sex subjects. It was a mystery in 2015...and still is today. That’s right, we’re tal...king female ejaculation!   Emily and Anderson hammer out the details of this hot topic with the help of a less-than-scientific study and answer an email about a conscientious squirter. Plus, find out what sex position may just leave you with more pain than pleasure, how porn may be affecting your sex life, and how an innovative purse design is promoting safe sex. Whether you’ve already chosen a side on the age old debate: to squirt or not to squirt, or you haven’t quite decided, this classic podcast is one you won’t want to miss. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Tonight's show is all about everyone's latest obsession. I'm talking about female ejaculation. Does it exist? I'm also answering your emails about getting into Kinky, a range of penicillist issues, and is porn affecting your sex life. All this more on this episode of Sex with Emily,
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Starting point is 00:02:35 Sex with Emily you're like the young you're the young hot Dr. Ruth getting that yeah, I mean that's nice is The young hot thin non-accented Dr. Ruth. I can do her accent. You put the penis in the mouth. No, that's, she kind of talks that way. It's pretty close to that. I matter one. She's like 410.
Starting point is 00:02:53 I interview her. What did she say to you when you met her? She was sweet because she's like really into the Jewish whatever. Oh, she Jewish? Yeah. Dr. All Jewish, all, okay. Most of the sex educators are Jewish. For some. I don't know we have to like this fonts
Starting point is 00:03:08 I've tried to explain like what they like the sponsors over there. I don't know what it is I think that we don't have a lot of hang ups around it like the Schmechma the What are you talking about like I'm just trying to think of Yiddish words that I We're just open. I don't know. I do know Yiddish words, but nothing like what else you know what else you got? I've got oh my god. I've got a slap. They like to slap the penis into the vagina. It's like for you. You got to slap them in the
Starting point is 00:03:31 house and then okay. What else do I know? I heard a really funny one other day that was so my friend used it as like, Oh, kibbuting. So do you know kibbuting? Yeah. You got a kibbuting. That's what you guys were all doing five minutes ago.
Starting point is 00:03:42 I love it. I know they're the best. So we were I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little girl. I'm not going to be a little
Starting point is 00:04:00 little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little little girl. I'm not going to be a little girl. I'm not going to be a little girl. I'm not going to be a little girl. I'm not going to be a little girl. I'm not going to say is, so when my legs, like, when I was a little girl, and I'd be sitting on the couch, and my legs would be spread open, like not like the naked spread open, but not like, like a lady, like, with my legs together across, my mom would say, look at you, your English sprites. And that means your legs are wide open. So what's the English and what's the sprites?
Starting point is 00:04:20 I don't know. I can't break it down for you word for word, but it's like some kind of Yiddish iteration. And she might even be off about that. So how are you? Anderson? It's great to see you. Because you weren't here last week because I was attending a series of them. Yes, but before I move on from the Yiddish. So when you're receiving for what when a female is receiving the schwarz, the English spritz must be English spritz spritz. I was saying I wasn't lady saying that your legs were a Kimber.
Starting point is 00:04:43 Yeah. Okay. She was saying I wasn't late. She was saying that your legs were a Kimber. Yeah, I know else. This is my other favorite one if you waste money on something Like money down the drain. She says ice cuffar for the gelt And gelt is money. I know but it's like you don't know the first part. I should cuffar for the gelt to something like that I don't like that. That's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's that's It's very un-Jewish. Okay, go. Okay, so Anderson. Oh, yeah, you're at sheavers or avians or what? Oh my God. So last, it was friggin insane. The last like 12, I realized that the last 14 days I've had sex-related conferences every night. And I know that sounds super exciting.
Starting point is 00:05:17 And some of them are at the porn awards. But I have to tell you, it was non-stop every night because some of it was like business. So I'll tell you I'll tell you how it all broke down, okay? So because January is the big month, right? For like sex conferences and porn awards. And when I say sex conferences, it's like all the toys and the products. And so I had first thing I had X-Bizz, which is the X-Bizz.com. They're like the trade journal for all the second industry.
Starting point is 00:05:42 They had a big dinner, right? So the dinner, they had dinner for a lot of executives in the sex world, which is my son. I'm an executive. Do they get cute with the menu, or do they just serve straight chicken and beef? These are chicken and beef. But, so guests who hosted the after party,
Starting point is 00:05:57 were on Jeremy. He was there, our buddy, Mr. Skin. Oh yeah, awesome. So usually I go to these things, I'm like, I have a huge week. I've got, you know, not only did I have a conference two days before that which I don't even want to tell you about because there's too much to talk about tonight but I had my she conference. So anyway I'm like I'm not going to stay you know I want to see Mr. Skin say hi and since these parties seem
Starting point is 00:06:17 like they're going to be at the Anda's Hotel rooftop it's like in Bess Hollywood. It's on sunset. Yeah and so it's like after the dinner it's like people are going, you know, a lot of people are kind of, you think people in the industry, everyone's kind of crazy while, but people are executives like selling toys and doing their things. And then all of a sudden, Mr. Skin thing starts. And there's like naked women like, you know, he'll make a new. Wait a minute, I'll go back. What's the Mr. Skin thing starts?
Starting point is 00:06:40 So it's after party. So we have a dinner from seven to nine. It was like a very formal dinner. And then it's a Mr. after party. So we have a dinner from seven to nine. It was like a very formal dinner. And then it's a Mr. Skin Party. And he shows up. It was great to see him. And then they put up all these posters and all these movie posters of like,
Starting point is 00:06:55 but really it was like Mr. Skin's face in it. And you could pose next to different celebrities. And then there's a whole outdoor area where there was all these, by the pool, but there were all these covered up lounges so you could could easily like tuck in there and like people were like, there was porn stars. So people started coming in and droves. For people banging around the floor. People were having sex with girls going down each other with bondage. There was porn,
Starting point is 00:07:16 there was male porn stars, female porn stars. A lot of guests that have been in the show like me. It is a ballad. Do you remember her? She's like transgender porn star. Male porn know mael porn stars like let's see if he's really that big she like grabbed his penis I mean it was so they're on an after party yes and they decided to all go to work that be like going a little plumber big you know plumber bash and then they get to the party and they're all in the bathroom like working on the pipes exactly right would because you think that why? Because why would they come to a sex? Because you think they do that all the time? Because it's like, why do they have to do work stuff?
Starting point is 00:07:48 It's like they're off work. They're supposed to be party and they should be banging. They were partying. They were porn stars. They're banging. It's not work to them always. Apparently they do like sex. And it's funny that you so that was that first night.
Starting point is 00:07:59 And I ended up staying till 2 a.m. So every night I was going to go home early, but every night there was a fun party. So that was the first night. Mr. Skin, of course, I'm like, okay, crazy. I do love that guy. And I did invite my friend, who's kind of like straight up and never been to anything.
Starting point is 00:08:10 I'm like, I think, because I'm sitting there going, this is actually kind of a good party. And not just because people, but there's like you'd walk in one room like people have sex, but then not like it was a sex party and they were outside, it was private.
Starting point is 00:08:20 But then inside, there's like people doing bondage and just people dressed up crazy. It's just, you know, porn fun stuff. But then funny, you should mention that private, but then inside there's like people doing bondage and just people dressed up crazy. You know, porn fun stuff. But then funny you should mention that about the plumbers, because the next night was the ex-bus porn awards, right? And I was presenting, so those are like huge awards.
Starting point is 00:08:37 It was at the, some hotel downtown. And I was presenting some big, I think it was the Marriott or something. Some big hotel downtown, He said, okay. Some big hotel. And these are the awards for, you know, there must be a thousand people there. These are also the ex-bus porn awards. And so I was asked to present an award. What's your award?
Starting point is 00:08:56 I was presenting the award for best sex toy of the year and also like most innovative design of them. All that makes sense. And then I got to go up and stage with another porn star who's like the Milf of the year porn person. And it was just really funny and James Dean was the host. So I was backstage with him. He was surprisingly normal nice guy.
Starting point is 00:09:15 He's a nice Jewish guy from like the valley. He's super cool. Got a big giant shfans. And I have to say that, oh, oh, and then not the milk that I went up on stage to present with, but later on I was talking to this milk. She was nominated for like five awards with her husband and they were full on like, we're talking for a while. I was really interested because she was nominated for so many awards.
Starting point is 00:09:33 And then he starts rubbing my leg and I think they were trying to have a three some. But I was like, probably, no, into it. Got to get actually just rubbing someone's leg when you got to be in the like see you guys are swingers.
Starting point is 00:09:42 Okay, gotta go. What were these milk names? You know, I wish I could remember. I bet your listeners will know who they are. I had the blonde, you know, it wasn't even a real name. It wasn't the nail in panel and bitch, was it? No, no, no, no, God, you guys, I'm so sorry.
Starting point is 00:09:54 I'll tweet it out. Her name was, okay, so here's the thing though. Oh, but the best toys that was exciting on stage got to give more to best toy for that flashlight. I was honored because you know I love the flashlight and then the revel body, which is this really cool new toy that you know the sonic air toothbrush. Oh yeah. So it uses that technology and second orb and has like a suction and like you can put it under water and like sucks on your clit like providing you oral sucks, but you can
Starting point is 00:10:21 use it in all these different ways. And it was cool and it won. And that was fun. Retrieve golf balls if you're, you could train it. So that was, that was like super fun, but I had to go on early because I had a one. What do, what do these awards look like? What are the statues? Oh, you got like a big statue glass. Has your name on it? Is it classy looking?
Starting point is 00:10:36 I mean, you know, it's, it looks phallic, but that's appropriate. You could have used a flashlight on it. Could you have, you could have used a flashlight on it. Sure, you could have just a flashlight on anything. And I met Mr. flashlight. There is a Mr. flashlight. Yeah, his family started. I mean, I've know I met him once before, but it was just really cool to like meet all my like flashlight people and all the
Starting point is 00:10:53 vaginas that are molded as flashlights. But here's the best part. So it's this huge conference, right? And like you can tell, there's like people and meanwhile, the red carpet, it's every porn so you've ever heard of and it's like miles long to get on the red carpet. So afterwards I'm leaving because I really do have to rest for my big conference this weekend. I get down and going down the escalator, it's big escalator with my friend Michael from Crave, he makes those the vibrator necklace that I love, the Vesper. So we're going on the elevator and then he's like, well let's just go in here and talk real quick, get a drink. And there's a convention going on.
Starting point is 00:11:27 A bunch of dudes. It's called the beaver convention. And I saw the sign when I came in that said beaver convention. And I'm like, is that a play on porn convention? I don't know, but it turns out it's for contractors, like construction workers, contractors. And so they're all like from Dallas, like a bunch of white guys, like, like, and they thought I was a porn star because I was dressed kind of slutty and I came in there with my friend and not like they assumed like are you part of the we hear there's a convention going on and they were all freaking out and I gave them like my red
Starting point is 00:11:51 carpet and they co-op stairs and they were watching all the women they were like it was the best thing they'd ever seen because they're like at a freaking construction and convention called the beaver convention that to me was hilarious that's pretty great I've had a lot of people made a mistake and went into the beaver. Well, the beaver, at first, I literally, I was like, across roads, I'm like, beaver convention porn roads. I don't know what to do. But real quick, fuck all those guys.
Starting point is 00:12:10 How about that? They're all in their laughing and talking about how they rip everyone off. Oh yeah, and then I tell two weeks, but really, I know it's gonna be a month and double. How do you mean that? I mean, they're not the kind of guys I want. I do that too.
Starting point is 00:12:21 No, that was the guy talking to me. No, totally, but they were just, they were just saying it was like the best night of their life because there's an important mention. Okay. So then the big thing was the She conference. You know, I've been talking about it for months. She sexual health expo. How did go? So that was it was really cool because it was the first of its kind.
Starting point is 00:12:39 Expo for individual. I go to these things that not open to the public, but this was for you know, I've talked with us for weeks. People're not open to the public, but this was for, you know, I've talked with us for weeks. People can come in off the street, learn about sex education taught by sex educators. It's going to be two days. It is. It was two
Starting point is 00:12:53 days at the Sophie tell. So they asked me amazing. Here's the thing. They expected like four to 500 tickets, 2000 people showed up. So if that doesn't show you how many people are like craving for sex education, shows you the power of them, I think of me. I did bring a lot of 2000 people showed up so if that doesn't show you how many people are like craving for
Starting point is 00:13:10 Sex education shows you the power of them. I think of me. I did bring a lot of them. It's true I was on Kevin and Bean morning show and talked about it the Okay, so anyway The best thing was that oh the seminars were packed the rooms. It was crazy people sweating I mean there was sex toy booths everywhere I mean, you know like cool things and people were like I want learn. I want to learn and it was very inspiring and powering because My favorite part of it was that I got to meet I don't often get to meet like remember your after disaster Live show. Yeah, I was so impressed at the improv you sold out people were like buying your t-shirts like You know, I mean you get a lot of autograph chefs. They're right. I don't I don't go out that much
Starting point is 00:13:44 I'm like in the radio. I don't go out that much. I'm like in the radio, I'm home working. It's not because I like to have so many things. It's really cool to meet the people that support you. So I met all these fans who were there because I had a meet and greet. It was just so cool. And there were so many people that came in just to meet me
Starting point is 00:13:57 and to go to the conference because they heard about it. And I must have met like five different women, which was interesting. Or like one woman was like, you know, I was driving the car license your show. And I thought I wanted to be a physical therapist always, but then I realized I want to be a sexologist. Like, how do I do what you do? There was like five women who were like,
Starting point is 00:14:12 I want to do what you do. And I think that's interesting to warn them and not to do it. I'm like, well, you won't make it enough. I said, yeah, go ahead. I'm not with the competition. Get out. You know what?
Starting point is 00:14:22 I'm so supportive of anyone who, the, we need more sex education in this world. So I feel like, you know what, good for them. And that was amazing to me. Good looking crowd over there. Really good looking crowd. Not sketchy crowd, not creepy crowd, like a high-end crowd who was just like, yeah, I want to learn about this stuff.
Starting point is 00:14:36 This is hot. And so, and then I had an Emily and Tony booth there. So people, oh, here was another thing. That was great. Oh, first backup. Got to meet my fans. It really cool I love them and then also it was funny because you realize they really listened to the details and Madison was there you know Madison since I'm pretty sure she was there you know Madison
Starting point is 00:14:55 she works for me she's sitting behind me yes and then people are like oh and Madison you told that great story about the flesh like they were so specific and they knew and it was it was a good time. So then we had Emily and Tony Booth and the best thing is I've been talking about my candles and my down-under-comfort for so long but until you experience it, you know, it's a kind of thing like I'm trying to explain to you guys. Very hands-on yeah. People freaked out, they loved it, we sold candles, the whole thing was amazing. People slept right out of it. And I have to say that my people's Madison and Kimber and my intern Julianne, like they, I have the best team ever and I rocked it. And I just have to say that it was very gratifying.
Starting point is 00:15:30 And it may be very inspired and have a renewed passion for what I do. Very nice. Thanks. Give me was two weeks, two months ago. What happened then? Well, no, you're just thanking the people around you like people do or holidays. But I love every I'm more. No, they're great. They're very, very pro-poll. I like people. Okay. Also. But I love every I'm more great. They're very, very proponious. I like people.
Starting point is 00:15:46 Okay. Also and Ruby as well. And Ruby. Ruby. Oh, the guy really kicked us. Ruby always kicks us, but she wasn't the conference, but she kicked us prior to the conference. She did everything. Do they like take one for the
Starting point is 00:15:56 team? Like if there's a, a stalker type, listen to her fan there that really wants to bang you do like, well, they take them away. What is a stalker there? Well, they, well, they take them away and they'll service. There was a stalker there when I first, well, they take them away. And they'll service.
Starting point is 00:16:05 There was a stalker there when I first walked in. And he was like, I was on CBS News. They did a big, they're doing a big piece on it. And he was like, your M like he was kind of stalker. I should then a few people pointed out that he'd been there like all morning waiting for M. Yeah. Uh, so we kicked him out. No, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:16:20 Was it Roon or video? I think it was Roon was there. Roon was there. Yeah, I didn't, I don't know. I feel like I've been talking about this for way. I could tell you guys so many more funny stories, but I had to give out the awards another award show. And we was there for that. What was the, what was the award
Starting point is 00:16:33 that you gave off of the other award show? It was the she awards. It was so they also had an award show. And I gave out the awards. I was presenting them all. All of so like what can be read out? Okay, so like the best again, sex toys, sex, per, like, best sex educator, best, um,
Starting point is 00:16:48 Lou, best new product, best technology, you know, all that stuff. But you know that the magic wand won for best toy, not as price. And J.J. you, you know, I love my meal. You love you, J.J. Neeman. Best design. So it was pretty cool. And then I got to, um, yeah, but I had to, what happened was a lot of, some of the people who won awards were. And then I got to, yeah, but I had to what happened was a lot of some of the people who won awards were there. So I had to be like, Oh, magic one, congratulations. And then I jumped in and they're like, how do you feel about it? We feel great. People all over
Starting point is 00:17:12 I was like playing two people. Oh, you're like actually, yeah, I was like pretending I was them accepting the awards. It was a good time. Did you take so you have like nine awards on your mantle at home? No, I didn't get any of them as the truth. But okay, now on to sex information because I know that's why you're all here and wow, I'm talking a lot. Okay, I mean I always talk a lot. Okay, women across the Internet defend their orgasms with hashtag not p. Have you heard about this whole squirting debacle debate? Yeah, here's squirting is like really big right at this moment.
Starting point is 00:17:47 Well, squirting is a new anal. I've been saying that that people have been in sex. Squirting has been around for a long time. No, it's been around for a long time, but porn has made it this thing that 10 years ago when I started the show, I was all about anal sex, and now it's all about squirting. However, listen to this study. A recent study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that there's a difference between female, ejaculate, and squirting.
Starting point is 00:18:07 Female ejaculate comes from the skin gland and the vagina while squirting is just pee. Women, women all over the internet have been outraged and have started the hashtag, hashtag not pee. They feel this study is embarrassing women who squirt. These women are afraid to let go and orgasm because they think they are urinating. The study is not helping them and the study was done with only seven women so it's us back. Here's the thing. Seven women does not a study make. That's like me talking to like seven my girlfriends at dinner and like publishing like a journal and something in the journal. Oh, you guys all at sex that's like that means that seven out of seven women have sex on a Tuesday night. Stupid. Okay. So the story is
Starting point is 00:18:40 I'm blowing up the internet because everyone's talking about it and you know it's controversial and there's always been a debate about it. There might be traces of urine in it but it is different. There are, it's like the male prostate gland, it's the skin gland, what you know people are just like and my thing is, well I'm going to get into my thing in a minute because we actually have an email about it, coincidentally, that I'm going to tie into this. Watch this. Hi, Emily. Just wanted to say I love your podcast. I listen to iTunes all the way in New Zealand. My question is when I climax, a large amount of liquid comes out and I feel anxious about
Starting point is 00:19:19 it when having sex. And although the sex is good, I won't let myself climax because of it. I recently read an article that it is urine. And now I feel even worse about it. Please help me. Is this normal thanks slightly embarrassed female? Okay, so this is the concern that women are now like, oh, it's hot.
Starting point is 00:19:38 My boyfriend, I think it's hot. You know, no, it's, there's nothing wrong with some liquid coming out. You know, you have to be with someone who's comfortable with it, who finds it to turn on as well. If there's someone that you're with and you're like, oh, he doesn't like it, the sheets, he thought, then don't be with that person. If it's something, because it feels different,
Starting point is 00:19:55 it's not like we're like, oh, I'm pissing on this guy. I mean, just because there's traces of it, there's no reason why everyone's gonna be like, oh, I'm not into squirting anymore, right? And so I feel like don't stress on this, my friend from New Zealand because if it feels good to you again, you got to be with a partner that supports you. And here's what you got to say, ready? Women should not feel so conscious about it if you're like, and like 10 to 54% of women
Starting point is 00:20:19 squirt, okay? So tell your partner next time, hey, you know, if you're embarrassed or you're like, oh, God, I'm worried about it now, just, hey, guess what? This is something that happens to me from time to time, and it's, you know what it means? It means that our sex is that amazing. And so let's throw down some towels and throw down.
Starting point is 00:20:38 But no one actually has been upset with her, right? She's just speculated. She's now, she's worried, yeah, but I mean. Yeah, this is so funny, because we hear this all the time on Love Line as well, and it's, it's, if women only could, I guess you guys have heard it, but just believe us that if the more you produce the better,
Starting point is 00:20:52 there's not a guy out there, except for the occasional like freak germaphoed foe, most guys are looking for squirters. They want you guys to do it, but all of you across the board think that it's a bad thing. Well, because this, well, first of all, people already were concerned about it, but now this study, this, this, this study that I, I think as no validity is that it's about this because this will first of all people are ready we're concerned about it but now this study this this this study that I
Starting point is 00:21:06 think is no validity is saying it's well there's seven full people yeah seven full women said partially it was urine so you know even if it was urine you're not gonna die no one's gonna die from being you're in sterile and it's true and it's always you know been known to have partial urine in the female jacket so it's a lame I'm sure that's your that's Se to have partial urine in the female jacket. So it's a lame guy. I'm sure that Seaman has partial urine, you know? Exactly. Well, I don't think so. I'm sure it does.
Starting point is 00:21:29 But why is there a debate about female sexuality by men is what I want to know? Like, you know, they always want to know, like, is the G spot exist? You know, is it a literal orgasm? Are we really squirting or not? I mean, who cares? We don't sit around and go, was that really pre-com?
Starting point is 00:21:41 We should study. Maybe that wasn't pre-com. Maybe it was P. Who was P? But, but seeing these are, it just pisses me off. Let us just take care. If we're all having a good time, why the hell do people care? Let's spend your money like, carrying cancer. Thanks. That's how I feel about that. Okay, back to sex. The news. What, how do you feel about it? No, I think it's ridiculous. I think the fact that there's so much time and energy and money has spent on it. I mean, Dr. Drew talked about it on HLN. I think the fact that there's so much time and energy and money is spent.
Starting point is 00:22:05 I mean, Dr. Drew talked about it on HLN. I'm going on show tomorrow on his radio show to talk about it. Like, people are freaking out. It's just the way that the news is set up. It's just the flavor of the day. And everyone's going to talk about it for a week. They're going to forget. They're going to move on and talk about something else. That's going to keep on squirting on, squirting on. Keep on keeping on. Pisses you off. I get it. It does. I get it. pisses you off. I get it. It does I get it Okay, so you off I get it. Okay, it pisses me off people. We had a squirt her in here who she squirted all over my Children angel let me tell you about that. She it was I was in that room and I was shooting the video and I heard her say to her friend I think I'd I have to pee right before that's hilarious That means that was P Joanna angel wants to come back on and do it again
Starting point is 00:22:43 Come like the squirt of thaw or something and Mike was wearing this was a few years ago Mike was wearing like goggles. It was like radio, but then Drew was like, oh my god. We can't put them ready. I need to leave But then right but then Joanna I saw so Joanna angel has a new line of toys By King collab, I think oh, I'm gonna get this right can someone look this up Joanna angels and toys a little fact I believe she gave me The coolest like she's this bondage gear. It's up? Join Angels and Toys. The little fact actually. She gave me the coolest, like, she's this bondage gear. It's got like a whip and like,
Starting point is 00:23:09 it's really high end, beautiful, bond it like, um, restraints, a whip, a paddle, a blindfold, and she gets it. So, it was so sweet. So, everyone, if you like, join Angels, she's been on the show bunch and go buy her toys, because they're cool.
Starting point is 00:23:24 I have to find someone to, uh, to use it with, but it's on my list. Okay. Whim, sex, the news. Women on top is the most dangerous sex position science, to more scientists conclude. Seriously, can we cure other things here? Scientists claim the cow, cow grow position is responsible for half of the penile fractures during sex.
Starting point is 00:23:46 Not next most dangerous is doggy style, a 29% of penis fractures, the least dangerous, of course, is the boring missionary. No, it's kidding, it doesn't have to be boring. With 20% of boner breakers, men on top helps the man control the movement during sex and minimizes the risk of breakage. Women on top has women with all their force on the penis
Starting point is 00:24:04 making more likely for more breaking. What abs? How many penis they're really getting break broken a year? And a lot of women are more likely to have an orgasm with their on top. Does this mean that people are gonna stop having sex on top? Now, really?
Starting point is 00:24:16 I'm knocking on the wood, as I say this. What? But yeah, most people who are breaking their penises over there, they don't know how to do it. They're being too vigorous and you just gotta calm down. That being said, I really hope I don't break mine. I've heard it's incredibly painful and I can see how it has.
Starting point is 00:24:30 I hope you don't break yours, dude. I have no one listening. But most people that break it, I think they're just getting way too into it and they're trusting their jackhammering, you know what I mean? Yeah. And then it pops out and then it pops in in a weird angle or hits something else and next thing, you know, broken.
Starting point is 00:24:44 Yeah. But it's not, and a lot of people, you'd be surprised. I mean, how many people think there's actually a bone in the weener? Right. There's not. No, but you can. Most animals have a bone in their penis, but not the human man. And it's funny because we call it boner, which is my favorite. It gets hard as a bone, but it does get hard as a bone sometimes.
Starting point is 00:25:02 We hope. Okay. Condom purses promote safe sex and breakdown stereotypes. So, okay, this reminds me of funny stories. So, those are these condom purses, right? So, remember we've been talking for a few months about how like, do women carry condoms? Do they not? Why don't they? Like, you know, you know, you're gonna have sex with someone, but women don't want to be seen as, you know, whatever, forward. But I think women, I think this is brilliant. Like why not have condoms with you?
Starting point is 00:25:27 Because you know you're going to get in the moment and you're like, oh, I don't have one. Oh, I don't know. I'm going to either. Let's just do it in your drunk or whatever. You should always use protection. People, I feel like they just, they don't use enough protection. And I feel like condoms are an easy thing to throw in your purse.
Starting point is 00:25:40 And now there are condoms purses. But the funny thing was the other night after she, Kimber Madison, who worked with me, my loves came to my house and we were having dinner and I was going to have sex with someone. And I was like, oh God, I don't have condoms. I was, after dinner. Wait a minute, wait a minute.
Starting point is 00:25:56 This guy that I have sex with sometimes. Okay, so was that a scheduled sex date? Well, it was more of like, let's hang out. Cause it sounded like it was gonna be either Kimber Madison the way that you set the I was going to sex with all my house we're having dinner I'm about to have sex outside. Oh God I'm jumping around. No we were all talking we're hanging out for a few hours we had dinner we were laughing having a good time and then this guy that I knew I was going to hang out with. What time did he out?
Starting point is 00:26:17 It wasn't like 8 30 11 o'clock and he started texting. No no we're friends like I knew we had plans FWBs and I knew that he was out of condoms because I like, I provided, so I love these condoms, they're called skin, SKYN. And they're not latex, they're polyisoprene. And they, like if you have latex allergy, but they're super thin. And their whole thing is like next to wearing nothing,
Starting point is 00:26:40 but it really does feel that way, but it's strong, it's not gonna break. So anyway, I was like, you guys, I don't know many condoms. And they're like, what do you mean you don't know any condoms? I'm like, because they did lifestyles, who won't say lifestyles and skin, set me like, I literally, I have a thousand condoms in my house, in my office, but none of my house.
Starting point is 00:26:58 I'm scavenging around, I don't have condoms. So I have to bring someone home from the office. And now they're in the front seat of my car. I thought it was funny story, what? Are you confused that I have condoms so I have bring someone home from the office and now they're in the front seat of my car I thought it was funny story what you confused it out of condoms. Yeah, I don't know why you Know because I think because I did and then I brought them all because when I moved to my new office I brought them all there I just He's what you got to do your front door at your house. Yeah with your Russian landlord You got a like guy just plaster condoms like all over your front door like your house. Yeah. With your Russian landlord, you got a guy just plastered condoms all over your front door.
Starting point is 00:27:27 Like decorate it, like wallpaper. That's not a bad idea. It'd be kind of cute. You used condoms? No, not used condoms, Emily. OK, so this is the thing about the condom purse is that you're about to get lucky. Are you covered world's A Day, Aids Day, which happened
Starting point is 00:27:43 on December 1st, or as a reminder that caring Day, AIDS Day, which happened on December 1st. That's a terrible day. As a reminder that caring and of course using condoms can be a life-saving decision. So fashion designer Maggie Curvik and lifestyle condoms want to show you that being protected can be fashionable too. So they teamed up for a line of vinyl bags made to look like skin condom wrappers, part of the I'm Covered Skin. See they love them? I'm Covered Campaign. So I they love I'm Covered Campaign. So I'm just saying it's a great conversation piece
Starting point is 00:28:07 and women you should carry your goddamn condoms. And so should guys. Okay, when we come back, we're gonna dive right into your emails because I love hearing from you at feedback at sexwithm.a.com, but first a word from my amazing sponsors. Okay, everyone. If you've listened to the show the last couple months,
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Starting point is 00:29:37 I love it. Deer Emily, my wife of seven years, has always been very conservative in the bedroom. Recently, I brought a vibrating penis ring to spice things up a little. She had never used a vibrator any kind before and she loved it. Now, I think she's addicted to it and suggests using it every time, which is fine by me, I love the increased pleasure she gets from it. Also, you discussed a penis extension toy that you gave as a gift in a recent episode that I've been thinking of getting one.
Starting point is 00:30:07 The thought of her experiencing something bigger is exciting to me and I think she'll enjoy it as well. My only concern is that she may like it so much that going back to just my penis will be less than satisfying. Do you think I'm opening a can of worms by introducing her to a bigger experience? Thanks, Mike. Okay, Mike, here's a deal. I love to hear that you and your wife have seven years. You're opening it up, you're trying new things, and she's been conservative.
Starting point is 00:30:33 This is great. She's not a dick into the penis ring. Okay. And the thing is that I really hope we've come this far that again, 10 years ago when I started, I always had a preface every talk about the sex toys are like like no guys don't worry she's not going to leave you for her vibrator you know it's fine it is an enhancement it adds to the experience so well she likes having sex with you it's like it's like putting sprinkles on your sunday or something it's like why you you can just have the whipped cream and the chocolate sauce but you're like oh that that's really good so it's not that your penis wasn't doing it for it. It's just a different experience and great sex is all about variety
Starting point is 00:31:12 Switching things up, which is exactly what you're doing So I think Mike you're doing everything right how amazing that after seven years together Seven-year-its a lot of couples are like when I'm having sex anymore It's over that she's trying a penis rain good for her A lot of couples are like, eh, we're not having sex anymore. It's over. That she's trying a penis ring, good for her. They're really fun because they go on your penis and they vibrate like the Mio, the Jeziumio is one of my favorites.
Starting point is 00:31:31 And makes it even more orgasmic because it hits her clitoris and I'm sure the vibrations feel good for you. So if you're really worried about it, I say go sex toi shopping, go to a store near you, go to good vibes and get some more toys. So you can add in some diversity. Maybe you get her like a G spot toy that you can insert or you get like one of these wearable vibes, which is like there's all these new technology now where you can actually control them remote control via Bluetooth.
Starting point is 00:31:56 Like the oh my bod makes it and J.J. is coming out with one. So they try new things. I think it's amazing and don't stress on this. The next thing, penis extenders. Okay. He's talking about the big black penis extender that I gave as a joke to my cathartic word on love line. You remember that Anderson? So my. Yeah, because they floated around from studio to studio. He like carries it with them to like parties and stuff. So it was a joke because he sort of has an obsession with black penises, like googling them online. But so I became a one, and it is a penis excender that slides over your penis,
Starting point is 00:32:27 and it can make your penis larger, like a big dildo, like it's silicone, but with more girth. Again, if you want to try one of those, I actually never, I've never tried it. I mean, you might want to just, I mean, maybe if you could, she'll like that, and you could try it.
Starting point is 00:32:41 You could also just try using like a vibrator, like a, you know, like a G-spot insertible one. Like if you go to good vibes, and you put like that, you could try it. You could also just try using a vibrator like a G-spot insertable one. If you go to good vibes and you put the inserting into it and see how that feels, but again, just because this penis extender that you put on felt different to her, we're talking different, not better, variety you could try one. But let me just be clear here that when I say penis extender, there's other things, there are these penis extenders that are like stretchers and you go online and they're like, oh, extender penis, you know, it's like, you know, lame thing girth and it's safe and it's natural and non-invasive. It's like, and the closest thing to penis are, it's basically says that you're going to,
Starting point is 00:33:17 oh, that your penis is going to grow. That stuff is BS. So I think you're talking about the one that's sides of your penis, but, you know, you're already tripping on, see, here's the thing, Mike, I feel like you're too concerned that she's going to like leave you for all this stuff. You guys are together seven years and she's having better sex. I feel like all, like I'm giving you a thumbs up and all roads point to your sex life exploding even more.
Starting point is 00:33:37 So keep on doing what you're doing. Okay, dear Emily, I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. Things are going great and I love her. I recently found out how freaky she's willing to get in bed and I love it. The thing is, I know some things she's done that I haven't experienced it and I would like to try them with her. But she now has been there done that attitude. How can I talk to her to let her know I'd like to try these things.
Starting point is 00:34:05 Signed-Ave. Like what does she, does he give examples? Well, he does and this is why we have to start taking call or like, I feel like a lot of, but this is the other thing. Okay, if you email me, feedback at sex. Theelme.com with your questions. Tell me your age, always, and where you're from.
Starting point is 00:34:19 I would just, that would help me. And also, the kinky things, like if you give more details, but don't make it longer, just give me some details that would help me. And then what I think we're going to start doing is actually scheduling some of these people to call into the show and ask the questions, or we'll start taking colors again if we have. Yeah, I think the new studio in my building, but anyway, here's a deal. Good for you. Also Dave trying to try new things with your girlfriend. I love that she's
Starting point is 00:34:44 willing to take share experiences with you and you're not judging her because think about it Anderson. A lot of couples can't handle hearing about their partner's past. Yeah, we always say on love line more mystery less history. Exactly. And I actually typically advise against it because you know, guys are never going to forget. It's also the number conversation. Like if you said you had sex with 12 guys, all these thinking is like those 12 penises were inside the vagina. I don't think girls have any idea. A guy used to obsess about it.
Starting point is 00:35:11 Like I knew way too much about every single guy with some of these girls. It was disgusting. They told you too much without asking. I'm ashamed of myself. No, usually like, and then it would be like a tooth that I kept, like, you know, messing like I saw a tooth and I kept going back and asking more details and looking for stuff. I was like, it's like watching a train ride. I was like, you know, messing like I saw her too, then I kept going back and asking more details and looking for stuff. I was like, it's like watching a train ride.
Starting point is 00:35:26 I was like, a sexual, uh, uh, yeah. Like I was detective. It was bad and for no reason. It didn't know good, but I would just ask that. What do they say? Like watching like a trade like I was going to say a sexual assure lot of homes. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:35:37 No, I get it. So why do we all, we all want to know? I mean, I get, I understand if you're in a healthy relationship with someone who can handle it, you know, that's great. He's actually inspired by it, but there's a lot of people who I just think Sex is that's the thing you want to talk about on the first or second day like I did. Well, he didn't say that necessarily. He just said they've been together. No, they're good over a year now. Yeah, but like she knows she's been down some kinky roads. So obviously he probably heard about it.
Starting point is 00:36:01 No, she told them. So I think it's great. She's willing to share experiences and they excite them. So I think that's cool. He's not judging and freaking out. But just because she's been there, done that, doesn't mean that like she's done with it. And she's insecure, like she's, oh, she's been, I don't even know, I had kinky sex. She's been tied up in a dungeon.
Starting point is 00:36:20 And he says that she's giving him that vibe. Like she doesn't want to. But I don't think it's true. I think that's his men and women are very insecure about sex. As we can see, you're insecure that you're not going to, you're already insecure that you're not going to perform that you're not going to say hard that you're going to ejaculate too quickly. Now you're concerned that she's like, oh yeah, been there done that. But I can tell you if she been there done that and she enjoyed it, she definitely wants to try with you. So continue the
Starting point is 00:36:43 discussion because the discussion, because this is such a good way for couples to like expand their sexual bucket list. So say, hey, you tried that. And then I think that you, Dave, should tell her some things that you've been wanting to try and just open up the conversation. Are there things that you haven't done
Starting point is 00:36:58 that you want to try together so you can experience new things together? And then regarding the things she's already done, you can let her know that God, you know, when you told me about being tied up in that dungeon or whatever, you being tied up and blindfolded, that sounds so hot. I'm totally doing that to you Saturday night. I don't know though. Do you want to like take her back because now she's going to be thinking about the last time she did it with that other guy? Exclusive. Just because one guy did say, he doesn't mean you can't do it again. And it's different with every partner. Right. Every time you've done that, every time you've done that,
Starting point is 00:37:25 every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that,
Starting point is 00:37:33 every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that,
Starting point is 00:37:41 every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you've done that, every time you's Emily Stasneyland, Mexico. Exactly. So if she's already done, you know, I believe she and they know like, okay, no two sexual experiences are alike. So I think if you want to educate on some more kinky stuff, you know, watch porn together, go shopping, listen to my podcast, buy my book, okay, hot sex, over 200 things you can try tonight, which I never talk about anymore, but it's a really beautiful book that and I say beautiful because the illustrations is a book, but it's not intimidating.
Starting point is 00:38:07 And you can just loop. Oh, I keep saying literally what's the word on love line that we basically, okay, literally use open to any page and be like, we should have that position tonight. Hey, you stole that from me. What? I told you that's what I've done with that book. Oh, you did do that. No, but I've been saying that but what it works.
Starting point is 00:38:24 It works. I'm not getting any details there, Ems. With that book oh you did do that no, but I've been saying that but what what we were so paid to do open to get in the details There M's but what you do is you have the book on your cove table you're like all right who wants to cut the deck tonight Yeah, it's right and pictures are made we took like the pictures are people illustrations. Yeah, they're central But they're not creepy and maybe creepy if they're framed on your wall. I should frame my mom on my wall my office If I went to a guy's house and like yeah, he had those frame on his wall, I'd want to leave his house pretty soon. Yeah, well, it's a very inviting book. And if you buy it, it's like 13 bucks.
Starting point is 00:38:51 I love that book. It's a great book. I'm so glad. Buy it for my website. Click on the banner on my website, because then I get like five cents, maybe. Just help me support doing what I'm doing. OK, so I think you're all good.
Starting point is 00:39:01 So I'm secure. No, no, no. Buy it on your website, because it helps support. I have support. I mean, you can buy it on Amazon, but you can also buy it on my website. Yeah, I do want you're all good. You're so insecure. No, no. I did. Buy it on your website, because it helps support. I have support for my show. I mean, you can buy it on Amazon, but you can also buy it on my website. Yeah, and I do want to make another book, and people do love it, because we had it at the show on our My Table, and people were like, oh my God. And it's just like, you know, you write it when you don't know, but you write a book,
Starting point is 00:39:16 and your publisher promotes it, but, you know, they move on, but the book has been very successful and it's beautiful. Okay. That's why I got a Slayer about my book. Dave, you're all good. This is interesting because the last two people are insecure about what their partners are going to think about their performance. And I just have to say that, you know, they're with you because they're turned on by you. And sex, again, should be expensive and you guys could learn this
Starting point is 00:39:40 together and no woman is saying they're going, God, you guys won't let me down tonight. He's really letting me just thinking, I'm turned on. And so don't worry about it. Sex is fun. Sex is fun. Hashtag. Sex is fun. Okay.
Starting point is 00:39:52 Another email? Fun email. Let's do another email. You get time for another email. Do I really? That's so awesome. Okay. Hello, Emily.
Starting point is 00:40:01 I'm an older man. And porn really gets me in the mood. I love my wife. We've been married for 20 years, but the sex isn't as good with her as it is with myself when I watch porn. So I'm wondering if I should stop watching it. I view it once a day and I use it to masturbate. When I have sex, the climaxes are not as intense as my masturbation orgasms. During intercourse, it takes me more than 20 minutes to orgasm and my erection lasts for up to an hour after sex. Thank you, well, well, you just presented the other thing on everyone's mind besides wording,
Starting point is 00:40:34 and that's this, you know, the impact that porn is having on men right now who are, you know, we've always had porn since the beginning of time. And now it's everywhere. And there's so much of it that people keep raising the bar and that your brains are actually getting rewired to like the images that you're seeing, the graphic images that you can never replicate your sex life because there's not going to be 18 hot women with amazing makeup and fake boobs giving you a blowjob at once. Probably just not going to happen or whatever it is that you're into. So it's a great question. And so I just think that what you got to do is
Starting point is 00:41:06 how was the sex with your wife before the porn? And so was it good then? Because you asked me if he should ask if he should stop watching it. And I want to know which she'd be interested in watching it together. Because I often suggest that for couples that there is female- you know, there is female
Starting point is 00:41:25 friendly porn, there's lots of different sites that she might be into and you could watch it together. And also, what if you introduce some new things? Because a lot of the porn is like the adrenaline and the excitement of watching new things that you're getting stimulated by. And so that's turning you on. I'm aware about what if you, you know, tried some toys in the bedroom or tried a massage candle or tried talking dirty. I mean, I know you're like 20 years to get over the part that it's awkward and that you've had sex the same way over and over again because it's not going to get any better than it. I mean, it's not going to get worse than where you're at now. It can only get better.
Starting point is 00:41:56 So I think if you really believe that the porn watching is becoming a problem, you're no longer as hard that you should try to masturbate without porn and also cut back on your masturbation time so you can get back to that feeling of craving sex with your wife, which is what you want and so you know, it's like mixing things up. It's um It's like people ask me that about sex toys or when they masturbate like is it okay that I use this toy? I mean sure it's fine if you get off that way, but It's like cross-training. You're not even cross you cross train with the gym, you're like, Oh, one day I'm going to work on my shoulders and I want to work.
Starting point is 00:42:28 You got to work different muscles, different exercises. Like don't drive you run every day. You won't be in good shape. So if you only master rate the same way, I mean, you'll solve an orgasm, but try, like, tempering down the porn and then with your wife bringing some of that into the bedroom. So cross train sexually, that should be my next book. Like left hand on this. Damn, I just gave it away. Um, so yeah, right hand
Starting point is 00:42:50 left hand. What do you think? I mean, upside down all the clouds. That's why we take with the flesh. It's like, dude, you guys do the same goddamn thing all the time with your masturbation. No, when you get the flesh
Starting point is 00:43:00 light out there, I know. Always different. Exactly. Hey, it's going to get worse to this whole porn thing. I know what are we going to do about it? I mean, they got the virtual reality things. It's like right around the corner. I saw some things at the show. Yeah. There was a movie from the 80s that freaked me out. It was supposed to be the future. And it was a
Starting point is 00:43:16 Christopher walk and was in it. And this guy actually died because he was doing the virtual reality thing. He just had it on a loop like for the part where he actually climaxed and it killed them. And it freaked me out. It scared me. No, I was before the internet too. Exactly. Well, now it's just like on a loop like for the part where he actually climaxed and it killed him and it freaked me out It scared me. No, I was before the internet I was like, well now it's just like it's just that the levels guys like god I could never watch this and then they write and then it keeps suggesting more and then you keep watching more more porn and your brain Changes what turns you on I think it might be kind of good though no longer
Starting point is 00:43:39 Might then they heard a little bit people might stop having so much sex and you know populate in the earth Dude just use protection. Are you serious? That is so everything I'm against. I know. I know. But still. It's gonna true. It's not true at all. If people work out in protection, okay, I'm sorry. No, but I think that yeah, you're worried about the population. It's already is dying. I think people are having your children than they used to. If that's really your concern. But the porn thing is not going to die down. And my concern about porn too is that, you know, that, that is how a lot of young people are learning to have sex now. That's like where they're first seeing sex. I mean, I'm, that's why I'm older. That's the first time I ever saw sex was porn. Right. And that's how
Starting point is 00:44:20 you thought you should have sex. And I, I think I should just say this every show. That technically because of what you see in porn which is mostly geared towards men is made to visually stimulate what guys want to see. So the way he's pounding on or doing it, if you look closely it's like nowhere near her her clitoris or her hotspots. It's it's it's not way the way you should technically learn to do anything. I mean, you might be inspired by some things, but it's like, how is she screaming orgasm when his penis is like 10 feet away from her clutter? I'd be like, if there was a basketball channel and it was like people just running
Starting point is 00:44:57 with the ball and smashing into each other and like, it was like tackle basketball and no one dribbled. It's like, that's not how you play. I might be exciting to watch that way, but don't learn to play basketball. That's when I'm so conflicted. That's why I feel like kids, you know, and also Scarletine is a great website. If you want to learn technical,
Starting point is 00:45:10 a sex education, or listen to my show, but I'm not gonna go off on point, anti-porn. Hey, let me ask you a question. Sure, go ahead and understand. The first time you ever saw sex, was it your vagina, or was it somebody else's? I don't even remember. I was very repressed.
Starting point is 00:45:25 The first time I saw it was, I think, important. Yeah. See, I've never thought about this before, but I was born and raised in Southern California, so I can't remember the first time I saw the ocean, but I talked to people that moved out here in their teens and they talk about how it was such an amazing experience. I can't remember.
Starting point is 00:45:39 It would be really cool if the first time I ever saw sex was like me, but it wasn't. It was strangers on a two-dimensional screen. Exactly. I don't remember the first time I ever saw sex was like me. But it wasn't. It was strangers on a two-dimensional screen. Exactly. I don't remember the first time I saw. I think it was some kind of sketchy. It was one of those when they used to have an HBO and it was those like a manual films where they were like fuzzy. You couldn't really get that. Yeah, where it's like wavy porn and then you wait like a freeze frame for like half a second. Yeah. I'm excited. I'm like, another thing I want to say about that, we were something that you just brought up
Starting point is 00:46:07 was porn and then. See, oh, the first time I saw the ocean, I was in Florida when I was seven, and I remember, and it was a very moving experience. And I love the ocean. Just get back to that. Okay, everyone, I love you. Anderson, how's your podcast this week? Film Vault, anything that we need to know about it?
Starting point is 00:46:24 Oh, yeah, it was a really good one. We did a little preview for Sundance every year. We talk about Sundance and Sundance is going on actually right now this weekend and we kind of highlight some of the bigger films that are showing up. They're more interesting films that are showing up. It's on. Yeah, cool. That's a good one. Okay, and pretty odd cast Roon K.
Starting point is 00:46:40 Do also is working the youth the youth stream here. You got to check out his up podcast and That's a good for you everyone. Follow me. Yeah, I think that his last one was actually about the sexual health Okay, yeah, that's why he and Lindsey were there. It was not only to try and get it on with each other or other people But I just wish they don't sex already. Maybe that should be the next podcast Okay, everyone so please if you if you want more sex information or just want to like Laughter in the day and have a good time, follow me on Facebook, and Twitter, and Instagram, which is all sex with Emily.
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