Sex With Emily - Best of: Sausage Wraps, Pleasure Tunnels & Other Pickle-Pleasing Tips

Episode Date: August 5, 2015

Today, we’re throwing it back to 2013 with this old school podcast, straight from the Sex With Emily vault. Emily welcomes a special guest, fellow sexpert and author of “Tickle His Pickle,” Dr. Sadie Allison. The two offer adept advice about sex, relationships and how to make your partner’s “pickle” feel amazing. Dr. Sadie shares different grips, tips and techniques to employ while giving your man the old rub & tug, from the “Sausage Wrap” to the “Pleasure Tunnel” and more. She and Emily also share tips on clitoral stimulation, prostate massages and other sexually creative ways to use your hands. Plus, Emily takes calls from listeners who share their “best sex ever” stories. If your oral work has been feeling a little lackluster or your tug-of-love could use some work, this throwback podcast is for you! Get step-by-step guidance from two bonafide sex and dating experts in this Best Of podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mock our sacred institutions. Betrubized, they call them in a bygone way. Hey, Aveline, you got a boyfriend? Cause my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute. The girls got everything. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common, Mollie? What do you mean, like, laundry? It shrinks? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?

Oh my god, I'm so proud. Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. Hello and welcome to Sex with Emily. We are changing the world one orgasm at a time. It's Saturday night and we are live in San Francisco and we're on till 2am. And for more information about our show, if you're just checking us out tonight, it's sexwithamily.com. You can listen to our podcasts and our mailing lists and our blog, and we got videos we're putting up, which is very exciting.

So check it out. So tonight, I'm sorry, I was out of town last week. And thanks for everyone who wrote and missed the show in the podcast, but I'm back. And it was good. I hadn't been gone in a while. So it feels good to be back here with everybody on Saturday night.

And I was thinking tonight, I was excited because I realized that this is our one year anniversary on Free FM. We started the podcast about two years ago and Free FM asked us to come do a live show about a year ago. So I was thinking about it. And I'm like, wow, a year of live sex, sex talk. And I want to know, are we all happier, smarter, wiser, thinner, fatter, skinnier, longer, shorter? What's your sex life? What's your life like this year? So all night long tonight, we've got special guests and we've got special giveaways. But what you have to do is call and tell me the best sex you had the last year. I need to know what was the best sex you had

in the last 12 months. And here's a thing. I always am confused by this question, by this answer and this question, when I say, what's the best sex you had? And then someone's someone say, oh God, she was the best because the way she talked dirty to me

and I'm wondering, would I think that was hot? If I had sex with the same person you're talking about, would I think that was good? And what is good sex? So when you call me up and you're talking about, what I think that was good and what is good sex? So when you call me up and you tell me about your best sex this year, I need to know why it was good. Because we all have those stories out people like, oh, he was the best ever, she was the best

ever. I need to know what that means. So call me and tell me and we're going to give you some presents tonight. We are giving away an Oh my God, which is the iPod vibrator and some other things. So pay attention tonight. Another thing is we have Dr. Sadie Allison here, which is a big thing. Hi Sadie.

Sadie wrote a very, she's a bestselling author, and she wrote an award-winning and bestselling book, Tickle His Pickle. She wrote, Tickle, Your Fancy, and Toygasms. So the thing about Tickle is Pickle. I didn't know Sadie. She's another San Francisco woman talking about sex. And I have a friend and he was like, Emily, there's this book. I had this woman and she never got creative with my penis.

Let's just say that. So I bought her this book, Tickle is Pickle. So I thought, what else? You know, what can she do? I'm saying I need some help. Tickle is Pickle. And it was just sitting there on her counter. She never opened it.

And he was like, you know what? Every time I go to our house, Tickle is Pickle. It's menacing. It's sitting there and staring. I mean, she wouldn't read it because she just never wanted to tickle is Pickle. So she had to break up with her. But it's an amazing, it's sitting there and staring, I mean she wouldn't read it because she just never wanted to, uh, tickle his pickle. So she had to break up with her, but it's an amazing book. I read it all. There's lots of tips. So Sadie's here talking about sex tips for the next hour. And Elizabeth's here, the original producer of Sex with Emily,

the ongoing long time. Hi, Elizabeth, so glad to see you. It's our one year. I know I can't believe it. How does it, it's very exciting. It is. Congratulations, you guys. Thank you. That's really cool. I know it feels good. And Menace, you're here, right?

Hello. Hi, Menace. Hi, how you doing? So here's what I need to know, Menace. In the last year since you've been listening to the show and been on the show, have you had better sex? What was the best sex of your life this year? The best sex of my life this year?

Well this year just started, but... In the last 12 months, and sex with Emily Years. Which is a 12 months. I think I had actually a lot of sex this year. Right, but what was the best? The best? Oh, that's a hard one. Come on, menace, there's nothing we taught you.

No, you taught me a lot. I mean, I had different different variations of sex I just can't pinpoint what would be the best. Okay, so what have you learned? I've heard a lot of different terms that I haven't heard before in other like what anything that you can say The dirty Sanchez I'm like, what, anything that you can say? The dirty Sanchez. Right. We won't describe that.

We won't describe that. Yeah, but then, and then. Go ask somebody. Yeah. And, yeah. OK, good minutes. You can think about that. Yeah, I'm going to have to be ours.

Yeah, I need to go take a break. I didn't want to spring that on you. But anyway, so all night long, your best in the last 12 months, I want to hear. When you say, oh my God, Emily, he was the best I ever had. It was the best night of our life. I need to know what that means. You got to answer some questions. We're going to give away a tickle with pickle too. And Sadie Allison's here to answer any sex questions we have, right? But we're going to focus on, we're going to focus on men

right now. Because we love men and we love their penis and the penis and tickle his pickle is an award-winning book It's all about pleasing the guy pleasing the guy Yeah, and so we're gonna get into that in a minute and the fun toys for men We talk a lot about toys for women and you've got I've got some self-pleasureizers for the guys Okay, so people couldn't do they can you they can have a Ask you anything tonight. They can ask me anything for the next hour. Dr. Sadie Allison, you can find her at ticklekitty.com But but first Dr. Sadie. How do you doctor Sadie?

Tell me how did you get into the sex business? What's your I kind of fell into it? Because it was a hobby of mine to give advice all through high school and college. I was called the little Dr. Ruth and I taught my girlfriends how to orgasm over and over by telling them just some basic things like this is what the clitoris is about, this how it works, here's some lube, here's how you can touch it, go home and try all this. And so time after time, I changed all my friends' lives and they were like, wow, it worked, it worked. And I said, you know, I should just write a little pamphlet and give it away for fun. And who knows, maybe it'll grow into something, but I want to help more women.

And so that idea evolved. Three years later, I came out with Tickle your fancy. Okay. And now... And that's like the men's, the playbook for the other team. We're going to talk about that too. Yeah. Tickle your fancy, a woman's guide to sexual self pleasure.

So it's for, it's an empowerment book for women that teaches them, it's okay to touch yourself. You know, women who grew up thinking it's wrong and it's bad and, you know, it's for it's an empowerment book for women that teaches them. It's okay to touch yourself You know women who grew up thinking it's wrong and it's bad and you know it's a taboo. That's all done in past We're in the new millennium now and it's it's okay and it's part of our natural birthright. We're born with the parts It's pleasure. It's okay to touch yourself and it shows you how to do it. I read it I actually I masturbated twice today. I read your book today. I did actually I masturbated twice today. I read your book today. I did. Well, I was trapping for the show. I know. I don't need to show that. I never, never. That's the most. Well, because that's a sign of a good book, because it was new tips. And I like it there. So you're trying to

I because of Sadie's book. It's because of me that she was prepping for the show. I read tickle his pickle. I didn't have a chance to practice tickle his pickle yet because I didn't have a pickle around and he'll be happy when she does. But tickle your fancy. I read Tickle has pickle. I didn't have a chance to practice Tickle as pickle yet because I didn't have a pickle around. And he'll be happy when she does. But Tickle, you're fancy. I was like, oh, there's some really good ideas. It's like pocket-sized book. So it keeps you right in the purse. Everyone should read this book. Because I, okay, so you were the doctor Ruth, because I had friends, I didn't have the easiest time in the world. Having orgasms either in college and I had friends like you that would kind of, there's always that girl in the click that talks about sex

out loud and that's why I was the one I was uninhibited I wasn't shy I was sexually explorative I didn't have boyfriends much so that led me to just thank you. I always I just was going for the wrong kind you know looking for live in other wrong places but maybe, boyfriends that you look serious. I like that. And you live in the Bay Area as well. Yeah, yeah. San Francisco.

Native. And you've been on a million television shows and books and you've written books and you've been on radio shows. So you're proud. Thank you for joining us. I get out there. I want to start with them. I love this.

Tickle his pickle, okay? I can't say that enough. Your hands on guide to penis pleasing. So why do you think that women need a book like this? Well, because we're never really taught how to have good sex. When you go to school, you know, high school college, you learn about birth control and STDs and maybe a little bit about the anatomy,

but they don't teach you how to have an orgasm, how to give pleasure to a partner, how to receive pleasure and feel comfortable being naked and just a lot of the common issues, no one ever addresses that and your parents certainly aren't teaching you. And your friends might be giving you tips and the guys don't know what they're doing, they're fumbling in the dark. So where do you ever really learn how to give pleasure to where someone can really enjoy it? And also everybody's so different

what works on one woman or man won't work on the next. Exactly. So you really have to be coached. And you never run out of examples here in tickles, but there's like, I've never done that. And there's so ton more that didn't even make it in this book. This is what I, okay, so I understand that too, because I think, and I've talked about this before,

is that we do, we all get set in our ways. We're like, I do the same thing, you know, this, every time I maybe touch a penis or a mere one, I might do the same thing over and over again, men the same thing, but you've got to mix it up, and there's actually what I like is the manual stimulation part in here. Using your hands. But women using their hands, she's got like diagrams like eight different kinds of Just the grip alone just the grip to sausage wrap The upside down. Okay. I was like grabbing my I was like, okay, wait the sausage wrap and the

What are some other ones in here that I like the basic groups the old faithful the twister the pumper the car roller Pleasure tunnel. I like this. They all, they love this. So how did you know, though, what men liked? How did you know? Well, a lot of it's based on personal experience. I practiced what I preach. So like I said, I was single for a long time and I got to explore and was uninhibited.

So that allowed me to learn a lot. And then I also do a lot of research. I mean, I talk to hundreds and thousands of people throughout the years, and I do surveys, and I give seminars, so I get a lot of research. I mean, I talk to hundreds and thousands of people throughout the years, and I do surveys, and I give seminars, so I get a lot of feedback from people. So I'm really hands-on, if you will. Hands-on. That's good.

I mean, I want to know, OK. So what do you think the biggest complaints that men have about women when they're tickling? When they're tickling is pickle? Yeah. What do they do? How do women, how do we mess up? OK, well, number one, the most important thing

over everything and over any technique that men really want the woman to have is enthusiasm. Believe it or not, guys would much rather have a woman who's not so great at it, but's really into it, doing it, then a woman who can knock it out in two minutes flat, but she's just like doing the deed and then's finished. That's not as fun than someone who's really into it out in two minutes flat, but she's just like, you know, doing the deed, you know, and then it's finished. That's not as fun than someone who's really into it.

So they want you to- How can they tell if you're into it? You gotta express yourself. Oh, okay. You reticle his pickle and you learn all my tricks, but I just off the top of my head, I can tell you that they like to hear sounds. Men love hearing things and men love visual things. So just right off the bat, you want to make those little noises, you know, the sucking sounds and the spitt and the little mums and us and all that

little stuff. And you want to position your body in ways where he can look at you and get off on that. Because you want to see it. You want to see it. You want to see it. So maybe if you're on your hands and knees, you can lift your butt up and kind of like show parts of your body that you think is more attractive and kind of flaunt yourself and let them see your curves because women are beautiful with our curves. So all of these things together, along with what he's feeling, really enhances it and makes it a really good experience.

Do you think that some women then don't, they're more covered up with their... Oh, I don't want to see me. Oh yeah, they won't even turn on the lights. There's so many people still that like to do it in the dark because they're so shy and insecure about their bodies. They're not sure if they're doing it right. So just the whole thing is frightening to begin with. So it's really good to get some of that.

Show your body, make noises. OK. So what else? What are some other of the main tips that women, how do we mess up? No teeth, no, I know that. Oh, those, no, some guys like teeth. They do?

Oh, yes. That's the one cool thing about sex is that there's never a nobody likes this type of thing. There's always going to be someone that likes this and someone that doesn't. So it's all about finding out what your partner really wants. Okay. I know guys that like teeth. It's, yeah. How do you figure that out?

Well, you got to talk. That's the other. How do you figure that out? Well, you gotta talk. That's the other thing that you gotta do is you have to communicate. You can learn by their reactions and you can kind of guess it looks like he likes that. I think he's getting, but if you just ask or hey, baby, does this feel good or do you like it when I do this?

Or do you like when I do this? And try to, you know, and- And you think most men are honest enough. They'll say, yeah, I won't say. Well, yeah, I like it. Even if they don't just apply it. I think that if you exude that energy that you really want to know and you're trying, I'm going to say, she just goes, did anything if they like it? They just look like, oh yes, honey. I don't know. Especially if you're enthusiastic, they don't want to burst your bubble, right?

Well, there could be those guys that don't want to burst your bubble, right? Well, there could be those guys that don't want to hurt your feelings. But I think most guys, if they see that you genuinely want to know and you want to care, and it's all about what's going to feel best for you, oh, they'll jump right on and tell you what they want. How come on here? That's good.

See, how do you want your pickle, tickle? We're talking to Dr. Sadie Allison. And we're talking, she wrote this book for men, I mean, for women, and men, how they could learn different ways they could ask their partner what they want. So I want to hear from women, what have you, how did you have you found that the pickle legs

to be tickled, and men, you know what we're talking about. I'm going to talk about your penis again for a minute. I'm going to tell you about promising. Oh. Yeah. So I, some men, your penis size is totally fine, but sometimes you want to last a little bit longer in bed.

Maybe you last a minute and you want to last two. Maybe you last five minutes and you want to last ten. And also one in three men actually suffers from premature ejaculation whereas they can't control their ejaculation. So promessant is a quickly absorbing delay spray. It allows you to have the sex that you want so you don't have to focus on baseball

or whatever it is that you think about. And then you're not in the moment and then you're not enjoying sex. But permescent closes the arousal gap between men and women. And so, women take longer to orgasm. If you haven't figured that out yet, we just do. So, you'll last longer and everyone goes home happy.

So try and promise it, pr-o-m-e-s-c-e-n-t, fuck off. You're listening to Sex with Emily. Hello, it's Saturday night, and we are having fun. Just a few girls here sitting around talking about the penis, if you're driving around in your car. Men, women, we've got to hear your tips. What do you like?

We have Dr. Sadie Allison here. She's the author of several best-selling award-winning books, but right now we are focusing on tickle, his pickle. So any calls that you have or any comments, she's a sexpert, train so tickle his pickle, as you can imagine. Here's what she says in her opening here. I'll show and tell exactly what most guys want, hope and dream you'll do, and a few things they pray you don't.

And then she goes on to say, what if the centerpiece, what if you start dazzling him with exotic new strokes, touches and licks that render him speechless with mind-blowing orgasms? Would you get his attention? Do I even have to ask? Because here's the thing, we do give lots of tips on this show.

We have experts, but we all get set. We do the same things over and over again. And I actually read several of her books this week and I'm armed with some new information. I've learned a lot in the last 20 minutes. Elizabeth, producer, Elizabeth, what'd you learn, baby? Well, you're gonna give options to your boyfriend, maybe. Yeah, I mean, this is lubricant.

We're just talking at the break about the slippery kitty. Slippery kitty. Lubricant, which is specifically for oral sex. It's for sex in general. It's water-based. It's actually a lube that I put together. Tickle kitty. Yeah, ticklekitty.com.

And it's strawberry lust flavored. So what that means is that you can drill a big basket of strawberries when you're doing your thing. And it's especially good for women who are hesitant to do that because of the taste down there. Oh wow. That's one of the number one reasons women don't like to do it. Because of the taste?

Because of the taste and the other ones because of the smell. So shower and shave. Shower and shave. Shower and shave. Shower and shave. Hey guys, if you want a shower and shave, hello. Because them in there. Show them in there. Show them in there. Show them in there. Show them in there.

Hey guys, if you want to show them a shape, hello. Because, man, don't, I feel like, yeah, I guess that happens. Yeah, so you can use this during intercourse, but it's great for oral, because you put a little bit of this on it, and you can also use it with your hands. And that's where I know we're going to go into that pretty soon here, and that's a great. You've got this, I've never seen, I've read some books about, you know, the penis, all that stuff. She's got a whole things here about manual stimulation,

about women stimulating men with their hand. You know what I'm saying, okay? You know what I'm talking about, because they do it on their own. And why not have a woman help, but here's the thing. She's got like 10 different kinds of positions and hand moves, I mean, it's like, it's gonna keep you busy for years.

It's a science. You wanna think you can do so many different things to the penis to please it. That's the world of pleasure that we're talking about. And people just, because usually with a guy, he's pretty, usually he can climax. And it's not so hard. It's like, he wakes up and he's ready to go

with wind blows, he's done. So it's not so hard. It's like, he wakes up and he's ready to go with wind blows. He's done. So it's pretty simple to do. But we do get into a routine of doing the same thing for him. We're not granted. It feels good still. And he still finishes off. But when you come in on Valentine's Day

and maybe you red tickle his pickle and you start doing some new things that he never even thought you would ever do or never even thought of himself, that's when you're going to totally shine. What are some new things that you could just teach? I'm not that, I don't know, I'm a, I don't know about how, what's the word, I'm like I'm not that kind of clumsy sometimes, you know, I got to, what are some easy things

to me? Okay, well here's a huge, huge tip. Now a lot of women get this one already, but some never really thought of it like this. You've got to use your hands at the same time. He's your hands at the same time? Yes. A lot of people don't realize that our hands and our ten fingers are some of the best sex toys in the world and they're attached to our bodies. And they can do wonderful things. And when a guy is receiving pleasure from you in this way, the more feelings and pressures and touches he's getting at the same time, the better it feels.

Just like you, think about it on the receiving end. When a guy is doing the same thing too, he's giving you oral pleasure. You're feeling the main thing, of course, but then when his hands are all over your body or he's got his hand on your butt or your breast and he's doing all these other things and there's so much more enhancement around the whole thing. That really makes the whole experience better. So women we should employ because some of these things now of the upside down sausage wrap, the two-fist or the bumper, the twist or the turtle neck. What's the turtle neck?

What is the turtle neck? What's the turtle neck? Page 71 of your book here. No loop necessary. Okay. You can read it. You want me to read it? Yeah. I loop necessary. Okay. You can read it. You want me to read it? Yeah.

I'm still. Can we? Okay, I'll read it. You'll read the next one. Grab him. This is in St. Dr. Sady Allison's book, Tickles Pickle. No loop necessary. Grass Pim firmly just under the ridge and stretch his skicks.

So basically, traditionally, you would see a hand going up and down. And that's your basic technique. But this is different where you kind of hold onto it in one spot. And it's a firmer grip. And then you're just kind of like going up and down in many strokes and not really going through the whole extending of the whole penis. And there's a diagram here, too. And it's like it's such a simple little thing.

But you just try all these different variations with your hands and your mouth. And it's like it's such a simple little thing, but you just try all these different variations with your hands and your mouth, and it feels different for him. OK. And then women, do you feel that women don't really do this enough with their hands? No, no, no. These are complaints. And all you need to do is search.

Guys don't touch women enough in this way, either. Guys don't. That brings us to self pleasure and women self pleasure, but we've got to use our hands to pleasure each other. I even encourage couples to not have intercourse all night or anything else except manual stimulation for each other. And that includes all over your body too.

And your book, Tickle Your Fancy, you talk about. Yeah. How women... This is like a men's playbook. It's the other team's playbook, yeah, because it's a book written by a woman for women on how to touch themselves. So if you're a guy out there and you're looking for the new techniques on how women really like to be touched, read this book.

So what are the other, if we could say any points in here, we asked us about what women aren't really doing for men. What would you say that women want more for men? Well, aside from passion and romance and affection and all the normal stuff, I think women want to be touched more naturally because people forget all of the foreplay. The kissing? The kissing, all that normal stuff that they also forget to use their hands and hands feel

so good. I mean, when was the last time you really had a good manual stimulation experience from a lover? Where you said, wow, I don't even need to have in your course now, let's go to sleep. I can't answer the list of it. Can you answer that question? I can't see. See what I mean?

Where are the guys? Menace? No, any manual simulation from, no, I have to say that you do once you get, no. Because I think that they're nervous and they just want to have a rid of sex and we'll just jump to that. Why do I have to really use my hands and warm me up, baby, rather your engine?

So, forget those guys. So forget those guys, right? Another thing to say that, but they could say that. You know what, it's just correct to me, is they, I think a lot of women stay away from manual stimulation from men because that's what men do to pleasure themselves and they feel like it's hard to beat them or do any better. Oh yeah, you can't beat them, but they can beat them.

Oh, you're not trying to beat them, you're trying to join the party. Right. You're just one of the team members and believe me, when someone else is doing it for you, it's always going to be better than doing it yourself. So long as you're doing it relatively good. See, I have a few friends and they're like, whatever happened to that, when women just doing the manual job, why don't women do that enough? Because they do, it lives with your question, they do it themselves.

And I think that they really like it, but women just think, oh, I have to mimic exactly what you're doing. But men want it to be, I think, different. Yeah, be a rickshaw. They can do it one way. Like, you'd have two hands. You know, and you'd do it. You do it.

Yeah, oh, yeah. You could do it. Just the fact that you're doing it all, they have two hands. You can do it. You can do it. Yeah, oh yeah. You can do it. Just the fact that you're doing it all, they'll be grateful. They won't even be comparing it to themselves. It's not like that. Yeah. So what else do they complain about?

Okay, so these are tips for men now. Antico your fancy. Okay, so the women, they want to use the hands more. What are some of the specific things in this book that you have found women can show their partners to do that they wouldn't normally know as far as having women's, how can they get orgasms? Well, if you go to page 38 in tickle, you're fancy.

Okay. 38. I have clitoral stroking styles. So this whole chapter is dedicated to the clitoris, which I read this today. Yeah. Yeah. And let me just reiterate, there's still people out there that think that penetration is what makes a woman climax. And it's not.

Most of the time, it's direct stimulation of some sort of clitoris. And anatomically, our bodies aren't made. Some women can, of course, but most women don't. And so while a guy might be trying all night long and in missionary, that's not going to make her orgasm. You have to use your hands at the same time, honor clitoris, or provide oral pleasure before, during or after, and you have to do something, or even till your pelvis in a certain way

where it's putting pressure on her clitoris while you're doing your thing. So that's really important to keep in mind. And if you look on page 38, there's all these different ways that you can touch her. Yes. I read this and it was very. And it was very down side to side. Some women like the clitoris to actually be held between the index finger and the thumb and wiggled.

There's all kinds of fun little things you can do to that little girl. Right. And I think again, the men too, there might be one thing that they always thought worked. And I think that again, the men too, there might be one thing that they always thought worked. And this is some other inspirational. And here's a tip that's huge, guys gotta know. You've got to have her wet when you're doing this.

You can't touch her dry down there. Right. Doesn't feel good. It can hurt even. It's very sensitive. It's really difficult. It's very thin. Yeah.

Spit or start doing your thing and it's not wet. Right. Please. I'm speaking on behalf of all our ladies and girls. And so there's some insecurities to our men that are like, oh, she should be turned on and she's not. If she's not naturally wet, that means I'm doing something wrong. Some will think that.

And may buddies different. But it's OK to grab some tickle, kiddie loop. Oh, yeah. And another thing that I want to say. A bit more of the best. Talking about this again is that later in the show, we are going to be reading letters from listeners. And like we said, it's our anniversary show.

We've been on this station for a year. And we were trying to pull themes about a lot of the things that come up. And one of them is men asking, how do I please my partner? What can I do? What are some tips? Why can't she have orgasms?

So if you keep listening, we're going to be talking about that throughout the night. These are some good tips, your book. Really, you keep listening, we're going to be talking about that throughout the night. These are some good tips, your book. Really, I was like, I said I was inspired when I was touching myself. Right. So we're going to take a call right now. Marvin and San Jose.

Hi, Marvin. Thanks for calling Marvin. Hey, Marvin. Marvin? Hey. Hey, thanks for calling a sexual temmily. Yeah, we're going. Good, how are you?

See, I'm okay. So how can we help you? We've got Dr. Citi Allison here. Well, actually, I heard the topic that you people were discussing for the last few minutes. Yeah. And it, yeah. So I'm going to call Ben. Your phone answer, you know, girl, this seemed to get a little nervous. She wants me to kind of try to clean this up.

Okay. So, you know, I'm fed a suggestion of a technique if anyone's interested out there. Okay, a technique just, yes, we are. Yeah. Let's see, that was, yeah, I'm spending time with my ex-girlfriend one time. She was interested in trying that. I was helping out, so I was doing it. Okay, Marv, we got to hurry it up real quickly.

What was the technique? She did like an external Prostatement Yeah, really really gentle actually. Wow that's good. It'll play okay. Thanks. Thanks Marvin That's good. We're gonna talk about that. Thanks for calling sex with Emily He was actually talking about external prostate simulation And there's a section on that in tickle his pickle as well It's similar to like the hidden G-spot type of thing. It's a pleasure spot inside there

that if you stimulate in the right way, he can actually orgasm from that. And, or you stimulate him there while you're doing other things, and he's just like, oh my god, because it provides so much extra stimulation. And the way to massage it from the outside, which is the taint, this, the taint that is right in the middle. And then, like, yeah.

Yeah, and all you can use, kind of like, the flat of a soft fist or the tips of your fingers, and you basically just push up a rather firm little. I'm kind of know what you're talking about. You can't miss it though, right? You know, you're not going to miss it. But if it is too slippery under there, you could end up in a dark place. On that note, how are you going to miss it. But if it is too slippery under there, you could end up in a dark place.

On that note, how are you going to tickles pickle and other accompanying areas? Okay, when we come back, we're going to talk to Dr. Sadie Allison. You're listening to Sex with Emily on 1-6-9-free F-M. We're going to talk about our sponsor, Emily and Tony, which is actually my candles that I make. I have a brand called Emily and Tony. You go to Emily.ittony.com. And if you've never heard of a massage candle or used one,

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How you doing this evening? Good. How are you? Thanks for calling. Thank you. Oh, I'm so excited. Okay, so My fiance and his crew from the kitchen are listening. Okay I wanted to call in because my story is I was deprived for three months without my honey Oh, and when he and I got hold of one another Oh my god and everything under the sun. Okay, so what happened? What made it different? What made it different was the passion we felt was like for three months, it was built up, and then it went cuboom.

It was fantastic. And it was, was it worth the wait then? I would and everyone would go three months without any around. Was there anything different that time besides the wait, was there any new moves or movement that made it we're talking about the best sex in the last anyone's had in the last 12 months tonight because we're given away gifts and things. Okay so I had never done anything before and it wasn't until I got with him that I experimented with roadside you know daylight roadside. Oh. As we're driving stuck in traffic, I pull a blanket or a coat over me and he puts his hand

over in the area. You know, and that was amazing. And it was such a rush because I had never experienced that. So to me, for someone who's very not so experimental, that made it amazing. Oh, because it was like, I don't know where. Thanks, Marcella. That's a good story. I'm gonna put you in hold.

I'm gonna get your information. Jenny Lee is gonna take your email address and we're gonna emailing winners at the end of the night. Thank you. Have a great night. Thanks for coming to the family. I wanna know tonight, because it's our one year we've been on the show.

We've been doing the show here. What's the best sex? It's one year we've been on the show we've been doing the show here. What? What's the best sex? It's one year of live sex in the radio. What's the best sex you had in the last 12 months? And why? That was a good story. Hey, Dr. Sadie Ellsson, thank you so much. Thank you for joining us tonight.

You're welcome. Thanks for having me. Yeah, this is so fun. Tigl is pickle award-winning author, TiglKitty.com. You're gonna have to come back because we got so many other things to talk about. I feel like we just started the Tigl and the iceberg. I know You're gonna have to come back because we got so many other things talked about. I feel like we just started the tip of the iceberg. I know. Yeah, we'll come back.

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