Sex With Emily - Cougar Catching

Episode Date: October 26, 2011

Emily's obsession with the Fyre Tv porn box, what should Emily name her new dog?, what's got Emily smiling so big, women who advertise their break-ups online, Emily's almost nip-slip, a celeb mom catches crabs, why to stay friends with your exes, a "Cross-Legged Strike," do men like the reverse cowgirl position?, how long should sex should last?, how to make a woman feel special, tips for approaching older women, dominating your partner in bed, the right way to turn a date down, the most sensitive part of the penis and taking advantage of foreskin. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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which I think is totally worth it. And it's like your daily sex and newspaper. There's a lot of information every single day, like changing. Exactly. It's not like, you know, how the, you know, website was this basically a place where they're for the podcast. It was. like, you know, how the, you know, let's say it was this basically a place where the forecast now there's news polls. Like you said, a lot of polls going on. Let's polls. We'll discuss the polls in the mid. Let's contest going on. You get to see, we're going to be doing webinars. That's another thing they're adding in. So we're going to do just

with friends of its members can do live chats with me and we're going to do interactive stuff. It's me super fun. Hi, Matt. I miss you. know. Totally missed you this weekend and Friday's show, which was, it was kind of awesome. It was like, girls gone wild in here. Friday show was insane. It was so much fun. Like, my interns were like, this was the best day we've had all summer. Like, they were just crazy because my friend, the people on the show, we were talking about sex. They're very, very open. They're bisexual. They've hooked up together. One of them was my friend from class who you met Sarah, Dr. Sarah Miller, she's now a doctor. And they were just really open about like oral sex tips

and the threesomes and orgies they've had. And they were just hilarious. Like they just broke down. Like there was one moment when she was talking about like going down in a woman and the important things you need to do and she was like making noises. And like she was like, I just want it really wet and you guys are like, I can't, I can't, I know that when we went back

to my house and watched it, it was just as funny the second time we were laughing because there's things with me, we missed you. How many times did you get flagged over the weekend? I did not get flagged. Liar! I didn't get flagged, I didn't end up with them, nothing like that.

Unless you knew I'd talk with them, but they at least spanked you a couple times. They didn't spank me. No, no, no, no, she spanked me earlier in the week when a couple of times. They didn't spank me. Not one. No way. She spanked me earlier in the week when we were out. Uh-huh. But she did not spank me this weekend when she was staying with me. What's wrong with you, though?

I don't know. I missed out on some good vlogging. So also explain, there was a lot of tweets going on over the weekend. Okay, so my intern, so one of my interns went on a two blind dates this weekend. So she was doing live tweet updates, live intern updates from her her date, which was something about like some guy wanted to dress up and the old didn't times like kings and things kind of stuff. Yeah, it's the Renaissance fair. I'm sure you got. So we're going to get into that. We're going to talk about that actually on the next one of our shows. We're doing an online dating this week.

Uh-huh. And she's good. They're all going to give their play by plays of what are the right things to do online, what's not, like this guy showed up. She's like, he was older than he looked in this picture and he wasn't dress cute. She didn't like what he was wearing and she broke it down and did some things she regrets and she's gonna talk about that in the show.

Ooh, regrets. So live intern updates, that was really fun. And then I played a lot with my new porn box. I know, I set it up. I know. The first thing that happened is we, you start scrolling through it and it's just like, girl and girl, like sex toys, anal,

analingus, analingus crazy stuff. Facials, hand jobs. There's a whole hand jobs up category. So we'll talk about it. I know you sent me the picture. Did I? I sent you a message back and you didn't,

I don't think you got it. I never got it. You didn't? What'd you say? I said now if only the thing can give me hand jobs you didn't, I don't think you got it. I never got it. You didn't? What'd you say? I said now if only the thing can give me hand, Josh. I know, you wouldn't even want it though. I know, but I, wait, wait, wait, wait, you liked Cazaro.

I might have liked it because it, maybe it's a robot and I wouldn't talk back to you. Exactly. So what I'm talking about is fire TV. There are a new sponsor, FYRETV. It's the ultimate adult video experience. And it really is. They gave me a set top box but you can watch it.

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And it's just, I can't believe it. I don't even think I need cable now. Like I just have porn. It is pretty legit. Like me from the technical side of it, it is really good quality top, like they have this thing down. I think they pretty much have it down more than Netflix. Yeah, because all the movies they load

really fast and you're on a wireless connection. Right. And and it's like high quality. It's not like pixelated or anything like that. It's really it's done really well. It's done really well also because you can sort by different categories and they have like 100 categories like we were just saying like you could pick out like they have a subcategory just on hand jobs. Like you can just watch hand jobs. You could just watch oral sex you could just watch girl and girl you could just mean facials facials there's facials which we talk about what you were talking about orgasming on the face a lot we had a debate going for a while if it was good or bad not that it's good or bad that men should ask permission

first and some women might be down for it and some women might be offended by it and those people that are offended by it then you don't want to be with them you don't want to date them exactly yeah you have to be like you don't want to be with them. You don't want to date them. Exactly. You have to be like, you don't want me to jack the interface, we're over. Yeah, done. Everywhere you got to have your bottom line issues that you want to deal with. And, menace, I have to tell you I know you're going to be really upset, but I got a dog. What?

No. I did. I got the dog last night. So my friend rescued the dog from me. Oh my god, I just had a conversation about you over the weekend about the dog. Would you say, yeah, go. Go. Me and my buddies, we were at work and we're getting ready to go to a club because we're

throwing a party. And one of them says, oh my god, menace, I feel you so much because you just got off the phone with a girl. He's like, I feel you so much about the dog thing. He goes, the dog thinks sucks so bad. He goes, we can't do anything. We can't go anywhere for a certain amount of hours. She can't just come over and spend the night at my house and we can just, you know, hang out for the night. We have to go back to

her house because of the dog. No, but this is a big old dog that I can't forget. No, no, no, no, no. And then I said, then I said, oh, yeah, I go, Emily was trying to get a dog forever. And I go, thank God I talked her out of it. And now and now the dog arrived. I have a goddamn dog. We have to name it though because I named her Scarlet because she's from the south but now I think it doesn't match with her so I'm thinking Dixie. She's really cute. She's Jack Russell. Honey it's gonna be good. And she's I can bring her everywhere. There is hair everywhere. I already have hair on me like she sheds a little bit. But she's so cute. She slept with me last night and I might never need a man again

Like she was super cuddly like we didn't have sex or anything obviously that sounds sort of wrong for me to say There was no peanut butter. There was nothing but we cuddled and she was sweet and adorable And I've never had a dog and I think it's good for me I think it's good for me to commit to something like that. I'm sorry, but she's adorable and Yeah, it's really fun. I can't wait till she sniffs your butt while you have insects. I'm going to laugh. No, I'll lock her out of the room when I'm having sex. How are you going to do that?

What are you going to put her in? You're supposed to. Anyways. Well, I know because dogs like to watch checks, but some dogs like when I used to dog sit for my friends dog who got me this dog, like the dog just, they just kind of sit there and they don't really pay attention. Is there like a, you can turn, return in 30 days? Yes, so here's the deal.

I got to be honest with you. Yes. So my friend Charlotte, who's my best is one of my best friends, she just became a vet. And she just, she found this dog at a rescue shelter in Louisiana, drove across country with her yesterday with four dogs in her car to give out to all my friends. There's dogs here. I know, but these are really really interesting. She was working in the shelter.

Anyway, so she's like, Emily, if you don't want to keep Scarlett, I will take her. So I'm kind of trying her out. So I don't have to fully commit, but I feel committed. I feel like I want her anyway. So I should tell you real quickly what we're going to be talking about on today's show. I think that's really important before and so menas can mull over the fact that I got a dog. Topics on today's show, will we reading your emails that you sent to feedback at sexorotherly.com?

As you know, if you become a premium friends with benefits member, your emails go to the top of the list and we answer them right away. That's another benefit. So anyway, okay, here's some of the topics. How long should sex last? Making a woman feel special, how to do that? Friends with benefits? For real.

Cougars, domination, warming up a four sex and multi orgasms. And we'll also be giving you tips for pledging an uncircumcized man and also a circumcised man today. But we're gonna talk about circumcision versus uncircumcision. All right. Are you like really excited today about something?

Why? You are talking really fast. Oh, I am? Yeah. You're like, I don't know. It seems faster than normal. Um. I'm a bit of a bit of a bit of a sex toys dog.

I don't know. What's going on? What's going on? Nothing. I'm sure. Yeah, I'm not more excited than usual to be here with you. Did you find a new weiner or something? Um, I did meet someone, but I didn't see his weiner. Okay. Um, I met, yeah, I did. I met a cool guy on Friday night at a party. Um, but Yeah, and I, I mean, I don't know. He likes you so you don't like him. No, I'm not that simple. I'm not that simple. I'm not that simple. I'm not that simple. But you want to commit so you're over. No, it's been five minutes. I just met him. I know. No, no, he wants to commit. So it's over. I'm not that easy. Madness. What's the Emily from years ago? I'm a different woman now. Totally. Totally dude. What about you? Did you hook up with any checks this weekend? Not that I can't remember. I got wasted. You get sick again. I didn't throw up this time. Oh good honey. I had so much fun. Did you? Yeah. Saturday night.

Saturday night was my party. I was okay. I don't drink when I have my party. So it was fun. Friday night. No Sunday yesterday. I there was that concert that always happens, I take you once in a while. Remember, it's in the Golden Gate Park. Okay. The Alice, that was it. Oh, I went when I was a bit of a summer. Right. It's awesome because there's open bar and open.

Oh, fun. Open food. And just all day? All day? Yeah. But it ends at like 4.30 and I had a dinner that had to go to at 7 with some of my friends. So there was that in between times. So we're like, oh, let's go to another bar and I was like So wasted right and this is the funny thing. So on Twitter. This is my most annoying

Thing that I hate that women do when they become single They like they pray like some women do and some don't, but I'm just saying this is a thing that bugs me a lot. This particular genre, man. When they break up that they have to announce it to the world, they're having a parade, they need to go to Vegas, they need to go do all these things and tell everybody that they're single, right?

And it's so happened, the person that was doing this, I was trying to get a hold of that day earlier before I even knew that was going on. And put the number was different, right? And then she sent out that message and I go, hey, I'm not responding to what you just said, but I'm just saying that I try to call you and your number wasn't the same.

So they all had a break. I had a break. Did you change your number? I had to change my number because it's all crazy, blah, blah. I'm like, and then I start because I'm drunk. So I start f-ing with her and I go, oh yeah, I get it. You know, you love bad boys, you know, the guy who loses and all this stuff. You need projects and all this stuff. And dude, she was like dying because I was dripping in an answer. She's laughing dying? Yeah.

And then she goes, are you done lecturing me? Right, right. I love that you're lecturing. That's so funny. But what do you mean these women? Like I know women who break up with guys and then they post all these sexy pictures of them on Facebook and stuff like that.

Yeah, just where they just go over the top to let people know that they're a single now. It's just like, dude, people break up every day. You know, it's like you don't want to feel we want to feel like they're having like a parade down the street And let everybody know like I don't like well That's why you can't even answer on Facebook either that you're with someone because then you got to explain that you're not with no I mean, that's the easiest way you just change your status and you're done Yeah, but you don't need to what happened? What happened? Oh, I saw that you have to single you know from our inner But you don't need it. What happened? What happened? Oh, I saw that you left to single from our inner relationship.

You don't need to go and tell her. Clearly, those are people that want to share that information. And maybe there's some other guy. I mean, women do crazy things on Facebook. Maybe she's like, maybe there's some guys she wanted to see that posting because she's really into someone else now. Yeah, or no. Maybe she wanted you to say.

Maybe she likes you. I don't know. I bet she does. So yeah, that's what we got. That's we could do some sex in the news. Yeah, no, how was your weekend though? My weekend was awesome. My weekend was so much fun.

I went to this really fun party in Friday night. My friends, it was at my friend's house in Paturra Hill as a neighborhood. What, it wasn't a bar, it was at my friend's house. It was a dinner. I was just making sure it was an arcade or a cabin somewhere. No, no, no, it was no cabin, no arcade. My friend is, it's, so I love this.

She was her due date, she's pregnant, and it was her due date that day, that Friday night, but it was also her birthday. So she was like, I'm having a party. So she had a huge party, she's about to pop, and she's about to have a baby any minute. And she's dating guy who's 10 years younger than her. And she is sexy, she's super hot, super hot,

10 years younger. So there was like, like people in their early 20s and 30s and four, I don't know, it was fun and cute, good looking crap. It was a, we all commented like it was a really good looking crowd. It was like good, cool, awesome people outside. There was a bonfire. It was really, really fun. And I did meet a cute guy. So that's all I'm going to say about that. And then I went to, uh, for now. And then I went to, I hung out with, um, I have a bunch of friends in town this weekend. So I did some friend stuff and then Saturday night I went to dinner. Oh, I was watching the Dyke some bike march because it was gay pride. Yeah, and it was crazy in

the city. Like, just like gay, lesbian, everyone all over the place costumes and naked nudity and fun. I did see so many topless or some chick. And she was hot. Yeah. She's just walking around. She just, yeah, she was just walking around. Cool. Yeah, there's like lots of hot, hot, naked chicks in the city, hot, naked men. It was like gay pride. So when I lived near the Castro, so it was really fun.

And then I went to, and then yesterday I got my dog, I hadn't met my dog. We'd skyped, but we hadn't met in person. And we totally hit it off. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on. You just try to go through that really fast. You skyped with the dog. and we totally hit it off. Wait, wait, wait dog through the computer? Yeah, why is that weird? You want to have sex through the computer? Why is it weird to have to be a dog?

It's a goddamn dog. I know, I was like, hi. It doesn't know what the hell's going on. Oh, baby, did you do it? Hello, hello. Oh, no. So then last night, she, but here's a new one. Okay, so then last night, we had a huge dinner party

at my friend's house, like 20 people, and a barbecue. I went to two barbecues yesterday. Super, I just like a beautiful day. Yeah, it was awesome. It was like barbecues to bar all these roof tops with stuff. I'm a little burnt too. And so we got there and so it was 20 of us sitting on the table and scarlet my dog who were changing her name.

What do I think I need a new dog. Okay. How old is a dog? Nine months. Oh, you can't cheat. It's already been called scarlet. No, no, no, she's a rescue dog. Okay. How old is dog nine months? Oh, you can't cheat. It's already been called Scarlett. No, no, no, she's a rescue dog. So, so my friend just named her Scarlett like a month ago when she got her. So we can change it. Oh, you are effing with this dog so much. I know. It's fine. But the dog could have chose anybody at the table. There was 20 of us

sitting around and she came over and sat next to me and put her head on my, on my lap. And I feel like she knew that I was her owner. Oh God. Sorry, honey, you'll meet her. We'll bring her in your fall. No, you're not allowed to bring dogs here. No, no, no, they're a bit the you don't like dogs. No, I love animals. Yeah, I just don't want the girl around that has a dog. Sorry, I'm around, but it won't impact your life in any way. Okay, good. Okay, we could do some. Why don't you and your weekend sounds like it was super fun. Yeah, it was amazing. I had a lot of fun,

got to hang out with cool friends and all that. I'm so glad to hear that. Yeah, mine was good too. Good friends and just some more time and happiness. And then you know I'm gonna be gone. We're gonna be pretty good friends. You just brought this on me like two minutes and four of the shows started.

I'm leaving, I'm going to Michigan. Oh, speaking of too much for the show started, that guy called me that I gave is I I didn't see my phone. I currently gave a phone number to a guy that I met at a party and he called me twice and he just called me again a week later and I answered because I didn't know the number and was right for the show. So I thought it could be like producers technical. How do you keep on giving?

You know, I have to random people. He was cute. But then he was met. He was cute. And then I was like, I don't know. I he was cute and then I was like I don't know I just I'm busy. I was busy. I forgot to call him back I don't know why I do that, but I'm not gonna do anymore So I'm not I'm not I think I changed my behavior. I'm not like for I'm not just a a a What's the word a stagnant creature? I evolve okay? Okay? Same-sex marriage sex in the news. Yeah.

FYI. This is big news. Same sex marriage legalized in New York. That is humongous. I'm sure everyone started over the weekend. The last Friday night, the New York Senate cleared the way for New York to become the sixth and largest state to grant gay and lesbian couples the right to be married. So I wonder what's going to happen. I'm sure that, you know, for it says here, four members of the Republican, four members of the Republican majority joined oboe and Democrat in the Senate supporting the measure.

That's amazing. So yeah, very exciting in New York, with largest city it's happening. Yeah, that's, I mean, I hope they don't turn it like they did here. That's gonna lead the way. Yeah, that's gonna lead the way. I hope so New York.

Seriously, for a lot, this New York is the hub of this country. Happening, it's really, really happening. It's so, so, so exciting, right? Before gay pride, it was very exciting. How many people do you think Gary got married? A lot. I'm sure when it happened San Francisco in our mayor Gavin Newsom when he was mayor He announced I mean people like hundreds of people got married over the week that first weekend that it happened hundreds of people were like lined up snaked around city hall led me in gaze to get married

So I don't know what happened here. I didn't follow it over the weekend I was totally unplugged all weekend like oh, oh speaking of unplugged My phone died my phone died. My phone broke, froze, and I literally felt like my arm was cut off. For four hour period on Saturday, I was able to receive text or phone calls, and I lost a bunch of text.

Why should reset it? I didn't know how. And then I had to go to Verizon. Why'd you email me? I already called you for another technical question that you didn't call me back about. That's where it was now, Friday. I called you Friday.

No. You know, remember, whatever. I left you a message, I'm like, I know you're not gonna listen to this, but I have a technical question for you. But anyway, this is just a side note that losing your phone, or break not having access to it,

I hated how much, how annoyed I was and how much it impacted me and that I lost a bunch of texts. People didn't get my texts. And you feel like I have no way of telling people that I didn't get their texts, they don't know. Yeah. My phone dies all the time.

So I go periods of time where I will not have it with me. And I feel naked. I just, I fiend for a place to plug it in and charge it. Yeah, me too. I know. It was bad. It's bad because it really affects relationships, too, because if you walk down the streets and you see a couple, one of the couples

is looking at their phone. Exactly, always. There's always, yeah, when you're out, it's on the phone. Especially here, it's like iPhone country, and it's either both the couples are both looking at their iPhones. Yep.

The entire time. The entire time they're on their date, or whatever, walking, yeah, that bumps me out. I don't want to do that. I don't want to go into dates when we're both on our phone. That would be a deal breaker. That's deal breaker on his phone the whole time, first date. We've talked about that. walking, yeah, that bumps me out. I don't wanna do that. I don't wanna do any dates when we're both on our phone. That'd be a deal breaker. That's deal breaker. On his phone the whole time, first date,

we've talked about that. Oh yeah, that's what I guess if you're whistening for a while, you get nothing else to say. You're not having sex anymore. You're like, what else? Let's get on the phone. Let's play words with friends or whatever people play. But love a TV mom caught crabs.

This is from you. Yeah, I sent that to you. I know. But love a TV mom. Why are you taking off your clothes and put the camera in the shower? It's dropped. It was dropped. It was dropped. the camera now drop you know what I'm gonna slip on camera I'm gonna slip nip slip okay that's what we should label the segment no Emily

wasn't as I did I don't know why but love a TV mom cop we didn't believe this was real you didn't when I sent it to you well with this morning I read it but love a TV mom cop crabs from old New York mayor yeah Brady Bunch matriarch star dancer and western pushing Florence Henderson reveals in her new memoir that back in the 1960s she had a thing with late New York City mayor John Lindsay and ended up with a case of little black things. Otherwise known as public life or crabs. Gets I learned the hard way that crabs do not discriminate but crossover all socioeconomic

strata Henderson writes, he must have had quite the act of life. What a way to put the cook the kai bosh on a relationship so uh... she was married at the time while people really reveal all their stuff when they get all the she knows the missus brady was the catch crabs anymore like they used to do that you never hear that anymore the dunginist kind of now you know what i mean the car like the little black things uh... i mean i don't think i don't want to think of Florence Henderson Brady Bunch mom with crabs. What a slower

Like seriously, that's a great word a slutty whore. Yeah, that's awesome. You never heard a slower Okay, slutty whore. Yeah. Yeah, that's awesome. I'm gonna use it every day just like SMD Yeah, so you're using SMD now? No, I forget, but I love it. SMD, everybody is suck my dick. I've been telling Emily, I'm like, just tell them SMD. Yeah, it's awesome.

I'm just like SMD. What else? It's so great. But I can't believe that is Mrs. Brady's cheating lines. You're not braiding. I know. They were all, she was hooking up with Greg Brady when they were doing the show.

Like he wrote a memoir. Like who would have thought? And I was obsessed with Brady Bunch when I was little. I was a TV obsessed person, up until I was like 19. I watched TV and then I stopped. But I would watch the Brady Bunch every chance. I've seen every single one of them a hundred times. Like I loved it.

Did you ever watch it? Oh yeah, I watched it. It was so good but it's so it seems just so silly now and simple but look what was happening behind the scene. She's doing it. Everybody was banging like no all the characters were hooking up with each other. I guess that happens. Yeah. And with you when you work with someone that closely you just hug up with them sometimes. Start banging. Yeah. Study the shape of your lips may indicate better sex. What? Here's a study that will have you examining a part of your body. You probably didn't even know existed.

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orgasms from vaginal intercourse. That's so interesting. Why would they think to examine this part of your lip? So it's bigger? It's supposed to be big. I guess so. It's more prominent. Mine's a little bit like off-color, like a little white because I burnt it on a pizza

that I cooked in the oven. Recently, or like a permanent dam, a star. It was like permanent dam, just like, like maybe 10 years ago. Okay. Because see, the thing is, I don't understand, you know, the pizza, when you get the pizza, deliver to your house, it's cool. But when you cook it in the oven at your own home, well, you don't know, but you don't know.

I wouldn't know. But when you cook it at your, the oven oven at your own home And you still leave it out for a long time the sauce is like a million effing degrees It burns your mouth and the crust is hard as a rock. I think you're doing something wrong. I hate it No, this is like every like everyone would say this who makes pizza home. I've never done it But it sucked because you get a delicious pizza delivered to you And then you try to make one at home and it's just it's just I'm actually going to a friend's house to make pizza tonight. That's funny that you mentioned that who's your friend my friend Denise Girl, Denise We're we have a friend in town who has a bunch of kids and so you're gonna watch your make pizza. Yeah

Yeah, I'm not I'm not having I do the dishes sometimes. That's right. That's what I contribute to this group because last night We had this huge feast too, and I didn't look anything Have you brought up that conversation about how I said do you contribute anything to the relationship to your girlfriends? No, but I should have asked my ex boyfriend because he was there last night and said asked him that what do I contribute to the relationship? They would have loved that because they rip on me all the time. Yeah, and this is group of friends He was so you hanging out with your ex boyfriend again all the time I hang out with him like once a week from like six years ago He's the one who is the cabin that I always go to so this is that group of friends. So this is like orgy friends

We don't have orgies or geez. We don't who's banging who? Nobody's being anybody. I mean, there's a married couple I mean, I think that I could still bang my ex and I have like in over the years But we just really are better friends. Yeah. But he would be happy to trash me and answer anything about dating me. Like he dees the one who said Emily is the worst girlfriend or something,

but that was years ago when he just says it as a joke because it wasn't really true that I was a bad girlfriend. Totally not. I was a really good girlfriend. I think I just, I'm not as, I think guys, I'm not as, you know, into it. Into the whole relationship thing. I'm not as uh, you know, into it. Into the whole relationship thing. I'm not as like the girlfriend that's like trying to make it like girlfriend boyfriend.

Yeah. I've just into my own thing, whatever. We're still good close. But he, my ex, every woman there, he's up like he, whatever he has parties, it's like eight girls in the room, he's up with. They're all his really good friends. So he always keeps friends. He was raised Mormons.

I think it doesn't do it that no He just likes to keep them around just in case Excess in case you just like girls do with guys. They call it the The dildo in a case, you know, you got to break that glass case to get the dildo out You never heard of that. No, that's when you date your ex. No, that's when you keep them around. Oh, yeah Okay, you know, you break the glass like the fire. There's like a fire hydrant. I got a few of those.

Yeah. Yeah. Right, right. Don't you, people that you go to, sex people? My go to sex people. People that you can go to. No, I'm like cool with almost every ex girlfriend in my hat, but I don't try to have sex with them.

Right. No, me neither. Okay. Jada Pigg and Smith has revealed that she and Will Smith have an interest to have sex and interesting places in quotes to keep their love life exciting. The actress in her Hollywood superstar husband liked to experiment when it comes to love making so they don't get stuck in the same old routine. She said, we make love in some interesting places.

I feel like you have to keep spontaneity. You have to keep your partner on their toes because once you know it starts getting into routine, it's like it gets very boring. You commit, you give your life to someone. Jada Pinkett Smith keeps it. She doesn't mind watching Will shoot sex scenes with other actresses, but worries he will show her up with his fictional performance in the bedroom. So they've two children, da da da da, and they like fun to sex. She didn't listen to any places because I can imagine because Will Smith.

I know. Why do you think this is interesting places? Probably has. I can imagine because Wilson's in places, like what does that mean? Ridiculous money. And they could probably go to most interesting places in the world if they wanted to, you know? I think she needs like- I think she needs like- I think she needs like- I think she needs like- I think she needs like-

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I think she needs like- I think she needs like- I think she needs like- I think she isn't. I was just thinking they have sex like outdoors or something, or I don't know. She didn't get into it. But she mode up probably the most important thing about keeping sex hot is keeping the spontaneity because that's what happens when you get to routine. Routine means that you're no longer spontaneous, right? But the key to great sex is having some spontaneity still there. And so she knows this and that's what's so important. Love their couple. You always see them in the news. I got their sex life

So I think that's important. I like that comment that she knows that Canada's gynecologist create Facebook sex ed game. What yep sex sex education in a modern format But inspired by the age of civil re was an introduced Friday by the Society of obstetricians and gynecologists of Canada It's a Facebook game called sex quest and, and it's aimed at helping Canadians learn about healthy sexuality contraception and sexually transmitted infections. It's a trivia game, a trivia game, a topic of anything, but a trivial game about a topic that is anything,

but trivia, am I still talking fast? No. Anything to trivia. Sex can and should be a positive experience. So it's a narrative game. Because the reason why they did this is from Canada 60% of the teens couldn't identify candidates age of sexual consent Which is which is 16 and almost 40%

Overestimate how effective male condoms are when they're used as a sole method of birth control And then 40% also said the internet is more useful than their parents and giving them information about sex So they were like we got to do a game Again, I wonder how they want to do a sex game. I don't know a game. Like, gang, I wonder how they wanna do a sex game. I don't know, but they're, I think it'd be fun to do a sex game. And let's try his Facebook, let's do that. I mean, it's probably, it's sex education, so it's not like, oh, it's probably,

it's probably geolocated to Canada. Sorry, it's me geeking out right here. Geolocated, that's not how I'm like, how do they market it? How do they just keep it in Canada? But that's really cool though It's very important. Okay was Bristol, Palin date raped. Oh, I saw this Sarah Palin's daughter said she was too drunk if I laugh

She was too drunk to remember having sex with Levi Johnson on the fateful light five years ago raising questions about consent Because she was got she was got pregnant from pregnant from her new memoir not afraid of life Bristol Payton writes at Levi Johnson her ex-boyfriend and father of her son trip stole her virginity in a wine cooler induced wine cooler I love the script and like I we all know what that wine cooler high school buzz did you drink wine colors in high school hell no and I know they're not drinking wine cooler she said it was wine coolers

she said even though she wanted to wait till she had sex to wait till she was married to have sex she said she's not accusing of date rate but under last galah man who sex has sexual the woman who is in cat incapacitated or unaware of what's happening is committing second-degree sexual assault yeah i thought by date rate but you, why would she even wear, isn't she still with him or maybe she's not? No, she's not.

Okay. And she looks amazing. She had some work done. She did? Yeah, she had a, But she's like 18. Yeah, but she had like her jaw realligned. How do you know this?

It's in the paper. It's on TV. It's on TV. And she looks good. She looks really good. Because she's not hot. For what I've seen. No, you should see the four and after pictures.

I'll pull it up and get her. Oh, I love the four and after pictures. They're my fav. You should really check it out. She looks hot. But you can go on to the next thing. But why would she, yeah, date rape? Okay, anyway, I don't.

No, but like wine coolers? Like how many wine coolers do you need to get drunk? Four. No. I mean, I was in high school. I could drink three. And then if I ever had a fourth, I was really drunk. think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think I think strike in a bid to get a dangerous road fixed. The women of Barbacos, Barbara Coas, believe that they carry on with a crossed leg strike, which started on Thursday, their sex star partners will be driven to lobby the government to fix

the road that leads from their town of 40,000 people to the rest of the country. So it's like this really bad road, and so these women decides since the men of more power there, they're going to, they're going to hold back on sex from their partners, unless in getting them to protest the road because the women don't have as much power there. So they're like, we're going to keep sex from our husband. That's not good. Two hundred women.

We'll see how that goes. I have to follow that. I got it. I'll pull that up. Before and after. That's her before and that's her after. Oh, okay. She looks good. Yeah, what she get done? She's just her jaw real after. Oh, okay. She looks good. Yeah, what she get done?

She's just her jaw realigned, some chin thing. She looks good. Yeah. Yeah, you do her, huh? I would do her. I don't know if I would like my mother-in-law if I married her. Sarah Palin, yeah, that one's crazy. Crazy. But, yeah, that's it for the section news. Are we gonna do the emails? We are going to do emails. I have my favorite part. I love the emails.

It's so cute. I'm really interested. I'm going to go back and listen to the intern show. Yeah, I'm fired. Yeah, it was really good. I'm sure you could get a lot of emails over. We had intern toy review day, and then Kelsey reviewed her. You just listened to it.

She reviewed her sex toy toy and she wore it on Bart. And she talked about that experience. Oh, did she explain? I said who was using the remote control? Yeah, she did. She used the own. She didn't give it to somebody. No, she didn't give it. You can't disconnect it. It's not a remote control, but it's you have to use the remote. Oh, you give it your partner if you're having sex and he's lying next to you, but you can't get to a guy at barter. Oh. Oh. She's not saying that's the funny side.

Hey, can you hold this for me? So do you want to hold this for me? And turn it on. Really, really, really, really, really on, really fast? No, it was really funny. So every week we're going to have interns review sex toys. Cool. Okay, today's poll.

This is last week's poll. Here's the results. What's your favorite sex position? Four percent said reverse cowgirl. Nineteen percent. And you love the reverse cowgirl. No, 4% said reverse cowgirl. 19%. And you love the reverse cowgirl. No, men love the reverse cowgirl. India, but you talk about it.

Because men love it. I have a reason. I just forgot about it. And then men like it because they can see, because it's, you know, it's when it's woman on top but she's turned around so men can see their, her butt like going up and down on their penis. And I think that men like that visual.

I don't know, I never hear about it. Never? I've never done it. I've never done it. Or you've never turned around. No, I'm not into it, but I never hear anybody talk about it except for you. So that's probably why it explains the 4%.

You probably think a lot of people are into it. I think men are into it when they see it and they're experiencing it, I think they're into it. I think men are into it when they're into it, when they see it and they're experiencing it, I think they're into it. I don't know. 19% I do know. 19% said missionary. Not only 19% said missionary is their favorite sex mission.

37% said doggy style and 40% said women on top. Yeah, that's the best. You don't have to work. That's not why. Nobody can last longer. But it is true that you don't do work. You can men can last longer and you get to see their boobs and bouncing up and down. You can do that and yeah, and then she like she pretty much does what she wants too.

Right, like she can control the motion. Yeah, so you know that you're not really messing up because she's like taking control. Exactly. And a lot of women, that's how they orgasm is on top. I'd say more women than not than's even there on top, typically. So okay, the new poll, whichever one you go vote never right now, or go poll. Sex with Emily.com. Sex with Emily.com. Have you ever thought about a sexual act with a person of the same sex?

I'm gay, so yes, is one answer. Number two, I'm straight, but I fantasize about the same sex. Number three, I only fantasize about the same sex during masturbation. Number four, no, I never think about same sex partners. Yeah. So go answer that. High on Lee and Menace after participating in your poll about how long we like sex to last by boyfriend and I timed our sex. From four play to the finale, it was 28 minutes and it was seamy. Thanks for always giving us something to think about and new things to try. Thanks Michelle from Baltimore.

P.S. I'm a friends with benefits member. It would be great to see menace on the video as well, contrary to what he might think. Okay, so menace is going to be, we just need to get more friends with benefits members so we can bike another camera and have it in the studio on menace. So just join right now if you want to see menace, we're going to get another. Right? What? Yeah. That's a deal, right? We have the company has to do it. Yeah gotta get other cameras we need we need more you know we need more equipment more equipment we just got a cd player the other day so can put the intro back on i know remember intro that you all

loved or hated we're gonna put that back on yeah uh... so uh... yeah menace is not on because he doesn't want to be right i mean do you know what you would be on no i mean i because i also like send out the link to all my fans from, from my other radio show. From your life. From your life. From my other radio shows.

From the menace fans. And they probably come here and go like, what the hell's going on? I know, I know. Well, we just have to do that soon. Thanks, Michelle. And then thanks for becoming a Friends with Benefits member. We totally appreciate it. Okay, Emily, friends with Benefits is awesome.

Keep up with the great work. Here is my question. Friends with Benefits is awesome. Keep up with the great work. Here is my question. Friends with Benefits is our Sex Family Program. I hear all the time that the key to a girl's heart is to make her laugh and make her feel special. However, I do not know exactly what it means to make a girl feel special. What should I be doing both in a group setting

and a loan to accomplish this, Billy from Vancouver, Canada? Okay, so I would say that to make a woman's feel special, it's the little things. It's not like the big grand like, bringing her flowers or buying her jewelry or making her dinner. It's really the little and it's more subtle. Like, you know, we always talk about compliments, like complimenting her on like specific things, like saying, like I really like, you know, you look great today. Like I was going out to this guy and he

was like, you look really beautiful tonight. Like you look, like he was like very specific about like your hair, you know, if they come in her hair or you come in her on something specific, that's like you look hot. So I would think if you notice, remember specific, specific things about her and what she likes. Like if she, you know she likes certain ice cream flavor and she's sleeping in her house and you get that ice cream

or you get chocolate at your house. So just those little things. Remembering things, she loves. I would be loved when you remember. I was dating the sky for a while and he knew that in the morning you'd make coffee and I love cream in my coffee and he was like, always, he never had cream in his house but then like after we were dating for a while he had cream. Well kind of cream wasn't there.

I knew you were going to say something about that, half and half, whatever. And then, and you got to listen. I think a big part about women feeling special is that, again, it's the same thing. But listening to what she says and remembering, how was that big meeting you had with your boss today? How did it go well? Because a lot of times we feel like we're talking to men and it goes wherever they had them. Like, how did you not ask me about that?

Or if I tell you what I'm doing something, you know, just remember it or ask me about how my sick mom is or my, or just, it's little tiny things, you know, and you're saying in a group how do you do it? I think it's just by, you know, putting your arm around her, asking her what she wants to drink, making sure she's cool, checking in with her, like some women don't like to be like, if you're maybe with a bunch of your friends, Billy, and, you know, just making sure she's safe. I retain so much when I'm into somebody, I retain, I don't say anything, I just take it

in and I make a mental note. Well, why don't you ever say anything and use it to your bed? I do. I do. You just said you don't ever say anything. No, I'm in the moment. I don't say like, oh, you like that. Oh, right. But you remember it later. I just remember it. Awesome. I just take it. That's a great thing to do. So women, I think that's how she feels special because we were all talking this morning. Like, what makes you feel special that a guy doesn't? So this is what we think, I think. And we all think, okay, this is an interesting one. Okay, dear Emily, I've always been in a long-term relationship

and last year was engaged, but decided to call it off. After six months, I started sleeping with someone entirely different from my ex-fiancite. He was amazing and bad, and I never had someone made me feel as good as he did sexually. The sex was great, but he never asked me to sleep over and put his clothes on immediately after we had sex. Yup.

We started sexing each other intermittently and continued to sleep together often on for a year. Eventually, I could not stop thinking about him and how good he made me feel. Often, he would not text me back for weeks or months and randomly a text, what you doing. We've all gotten less sex. I started to feel like he did not respect me

and the friends with benefits was just benefits. It was just benefits when he was bored or it was convenient for him. So I eventually asked him in person, why have you never asked me to see Bover or touched me after you have sex? He said because we don't have a relationship. He said his last relationship hurt

and when it ended, he didn't want to go through that again. Oh, that's bull. But that's a good cover-up. That was it, and I called the next day, no response. Three weeks later, he texted me to let me know he was back from Brazil. I still want to have sex with him, but I was hurt badly because it made me feel

and worthy of that little amount of respect. What happened? I date lots of other men, but I can't stop thinking about him because the sex was that good. I'm wondering if he even enjoyed as much as I did. He said he had fun, but did not want to touch me afterwards. In Vice, why did I like it so much despite the lack of tenderness

afterwards, single in New York City? Every single woman's story ever is such the story. It's like, you want the ones because he doesn't want you back. I mean, there's a lot of that, but there's also the, you know, we like the chase, we like it. But also when you connect, you bond with someone when you have sex. So women have the oxytocin hormone that spikes and you get attached to someone sexually.

But I don't know why single in New York City, it sounds like he's not tender, he's not giving you what you need. And he texts you every three weeks and you're asking me why you keep thinking about it. I mean, you can probably just need to start, you got to get under to get over, as I always say. And it sounds like you need to bring someone new into the rotation because you're thinking about this guy who's obviously not very healthy for you right now. I mean, it's not cool. If you want to be like someone to be tender after sex and doesn't just put their clothes on like

He's not the guy like there's nothing he's done just because you've had great sex There's nothing in here. He's done that shown that he could be Relationship worthy or that he respects what you need. It's just about him Yeah, and why are you thinking about it because we do this we tend to think about situations and people in our life so we know aren't good for us We know they're not great for us, but we can make choices too. You can make a healthy choice that you're not going to return to texts. Because obviously this is going on for a while.

It sounds like because you said six weeks later, six months, it's just he's shown his colors and it sounds like he's not he's not going to give you what you want. Yeah. So I don't fall for it. Don't fall for it. He's not. He doesn't sound like your guy. She's not going to listen to it.

He doesn't respond to your texts. And then three excited. She says, what are you doing at 12, 30 in the morning? You didn't say that it was 12, 30 in the morning, but I assume that it was. And whenever you get those texts, I mean, he's just, he's not your guy. She's not going to listen to us. He doesn't respond to your tax and then three excited. She says, what are you doing at 12 30 in the morning? You didn't say that it was 12 30 in the morning, but I assume that it was. And whenever you get those tax, I mean, he's just, he's not your guy. So just listen to me. It's just, you can save yourself months or years of just obsessing. And you'll have amazing sex again. I promise you with someone that is treating you the way you want to be treated. I can't believe that women do that.

They know the answer to the question. And then they're going to ask us for advice and not changing anything about it. You know, you know, it would tell a single in New York change it. Don't don't respond to these texts. He's down. I mean, I'd be so bombative a guy like didn't touch me after sex. I think that women, the whole cuddling thing is not just because we, I don't know, we're like narcissists or we just need to be calm. It's like it's like we, you actually like physically kind of need to connect with someone and that even if it's for five minutes, what do you do minutes? Like top three minutes with girls cuddling. What do you do? Oh, that would be dumb. Oh, you don't cuddle. Right. So it's too hot. It's too hot. It's too sweaty and hot. It's dirty. I want to shower. Right. Right. So, um, right. So don't day, menace andace and no so so yeah, that's I mean

That's a really important thing for so so please listen to us. We're just gave you great advice. Just move on He's not the guy New York. I'm gonna go there in October. You are already booked awesome. Yeah, you have been or you have been I've been there in a long time Awesome. I love New York love it. I should be living there now, but I'm not okay Dear Emily being a younger man, I become nervous about older women. How would you suggest approaching an older woman slash kouger? Koug? Also I am from a small town in Alabama where nobody branches out in experiences sexually. Everyone just sticks to their so-called traditional practices.

How would you suggest approaching a woman who is very conservative about either me dominating her or her dominating me? And shout out to Emily and menace for both responding to me in Twitter. It's good to see professionals that actually care about their fans. That's one saying Joe. Joe? Joe. Oh, and I do have a Facebook thing that I want to talk about after this. Okay. So Joe, like you would any other woman approaching any other woman, I think it's with confidence. I don't think the age matters. I think that you have

to approach her with confidence and knowing, you know, just being yourself and being comfortable and being in your own skin and not being too nervous. I think that you have to approach her with confidence and knowing, you know, just being yourself and being comfortable and being in your own skin and not being too nervous. I don't know. I don't think that there's a difference between, I don't know what the age of they say, Cougars are 35 and over or 40 and over. And I don't think there's anything different. But if you're talking about the Cougar, women say that Cougars just want if you are a Cougar that they're just out for sex and they're not really after. They are. The Cougars are out for sex sex man. It's so easy to talk to you. Just talk to her and give her a time to go and buy her a drink and tell her

she's hot and get her in bed. But I don't know that all women are like that. So I don't think there's any like, oh, if I'm hitting on a woman in her 20, she's like this. Do you do you think Cougars are different? Have you? Cougars are just they want to get laid, man. They're out on the hunt. Right. Cougars are just they want to get laid man. They're out on the hunt right my buddy. Oh, I remember when we're 21 He we're at a bar and there was like no one else around so he's like oh, I'm just gonna hit on this chick. She ends up being 50 years old and has a daughter it's the same age as you you hooked up with her. Yeah, a 50-year woman Yeah, oh my god. That's crazy. Yeah, that happens And he's like man Yeah, a 50-year-old woman. Yeah. Oh my God. That's crazy. Yeah, that happens.

And he's like, man, maybe I should date the daughter after. Exactly. That stuff is happening. That's what was happening. That stuff is totally happened. But I would say a part of the conference, and as for dominating her, like learning how to dominate, I would start holding her hands back. Like when you're having sex, just do like little aggressive things, like put her hands

back and see if she likes to be like restrained. You could blindfold her. You could just do like little, you know, things to see how she responds at. Someone might be totally turned to be like restrained. You could blindfold her. You could just do like little, you know, things to see how she responds at. Someone might be totally turned on by being restrained. Or you can get fire TV and see some crazy issue I saw in there when I was over at Emily's house. I know.

Oh my God, you could watch the bondage section on fire TV, FYRETV. And yeah, it's my new thing. That's right, it made my house. So anyways, going to Facebook. Facebook. Talk to Facebook. Facebook. Talked to me.

I got a chat message sent to me, but I wasn't by the computer, so they logged off before I could respond. It's one of our listeners, and she's like, I love the show, but I hate that you guys promote telling a guy that you have a boyfriend instead of just telling him that you're not interested. I don't promote that.

I do. I promote it to help guys. So there you go. She doesn't like that. Well, it's not honest. It's really not honest. It's not honest, but man, you know, why do you just need to kill some guys feeling like you?

Well, I know. I mix on it too because I feel like every time a guy asks you out, you should, like, I've done this, guys, I mean, like, can I get your number? And I'm like, no, but thanks for asking. And this is not a rejection. It's just that I don't think I see a connection. But you want to look at it. That's like a dagger through the guy's heart right there.

But what's the boyfriend? I've done that. I've done the I have a boyfriend thing. Because you don't want it because no one likes confrontation. Okay. Everyone hates confrontation. And so no one ever wants it, even if it's in a work situation or a personal situation We all would rather take the easy route so the easy route is saying I have a boyfriend or I have a girlfriend

And as a woman you wouldn't go crazy if a guy goes, oh, no, I'm sorry I'm not interested and then you're you're gonna analyze yourself right there at the moments Think why am I not good enough for this person right and guys? Why is it not? Well, I mean why is it necessary to do that? Why is it necessary to be honest? I'm not going to say to be, no, yeah, I mean, why is it necessary to be honest, say, I, oh, yeah, I just don't see connection. Because I just think it's just, I know it's the right thing to do. I'm not into, like, lying to people, but I'm also into, I'm not into hurting people's feelings.

Right, right. I think that there's ways to do and be like, you know, I'm just, not, just don't see a connection. And never lie in the club, ladies, that you're there with your girlfriend, like you're pretending to be lesbian. Oh, who does that? 20-year-olds. 20-year-olds, really?

Yeah, I don't. That doesn't work. No, okay, good to know. But I don't promote, I never promote lying. I promote telling the truth all the time, but I sometimes have failed at that too. And just been like, well, I've got a boyfriend because it's easy, but it's really not the right thing to do.

I haven't figured it's hard. You're right, because you're like, you're never gonna see this guy again. He asked you out, you're gonna say no, you're gonna crush him, but you can say it in a really nice way that doesn't question him. Next time I'm just gonna say no, I think you're a hag. And I don't wanna hang out.

I mean, when you lose 15 pounds, that's the message. Yeah, the arch. That's what I should do. Facebook lady that hit me up. Exactly, no, no, no, no, but we just all want the truth, don't we? Don't we want the truth?

I know. No, I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember.

I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I can't remember. I would support a guy. What would a guy say to me like, I'm sorry, or they just don't call back or they just don't. And then you know, but you always want to know why, but no one's

up to tell you why. So it this is whole breaking up thing and rejection. We should do it. Show on that. Just how to break up. How to break up. Okay. It's topic. Okay, let's get into some sex tips. What you got for me, circumcised versus uncircum size penises. Circus size is amazing. That's all you know, baby. The simple difference between a circumcise and uncircumcised penis is the thin layer of skin, the foreskin, which is highly sensitive and surrounds the end of the uncircumcised penis like a sleeve. We're just giving you the basics here to warm you up, a little foreplay. When erect and uncircumcised man's foreskin retracts over the shaft,osing the head of the penis and looking very similar to a circumcised penis. Why laughing? I'm laughing because I had a dream that I was looking at my penis last night and

This is funny today. Is it always funny to do when you look at your penis? No, it was just funny I recalled it because you know I got drunk and Then the day before and I was apparently that I would over sleep and miss my radio show. So I kept on waking up so I kept on remembering my dreams and I had a dream last night that first off I was on Marcus Street in San Francisco and I go into the Walgreens and I see Lady Gaga and I'm talking with Lady Gaga about some t-shirt that I like that she was wearing right. It was really weird and she goes which t-shirt that I like that she was wearing right it was really weird and she goes which t-shirt and I go I don't know I go I'll eat I'll sarcastically said I'll

email you and tell you okay thinking that she gets a bunch of emails and then I flashed to I'm outside a W hotel that's like 50 miles away from where I was before and then I had to go pee so then I go into the W hotel where I've been into a million times and then suddenly I'm in a bathroom. Okay. And I'm peeing in the floor is slanted. And I just keep on peeing. And then the pee, it was like super clear.

You know when you go pee sometimes it just looks like water. So it keeps on filling up and up and up. And it's just like pouring over the tiles into the hallway of the hotel. And I'm looking down at my weener, and I'm like, why aren't you stop being? Why can't you stop being? Oh my God, that sounds,

you was a nightmare. That sounds a good nightmare. But your penis looked okay. My penis did look okay. And it was circumcised in my dream. Oh, but, which I am circumcised. Okay, good. Yeah, most American men are circumcised.

I thought I'd just share that. It's good to know. Good to know that you're circumcised. I love that story. I love it. Even in my dreams I'm circumcised. Right. But I have friends that it's good to know good to know that your circumcised I love that story I love it even in my dreams I'm circumcised right but I have friends that are not circumcised do you what they say but you guys ever talk about it? Yeah, we you know, I kind of know a joke with him, you know calling it an eater and stuff like that, but he He like endorses it. He's like. Oh, yeah Braces it but I think the sex is like can't, you can't really know the difference.

Really? Because you'll never know. Yeah. You will never know if he's saying exactly. It's just like, what kind of orgasm is better? Like, do I have a better orgasm? She is orgasm. Like, we'll never know. I can't explain to you my orgasm to your orgasm or whatever. So that's sort of what the debate is about. But during intercourse, oral sex and masturbation, the retracted foreskin acts like a lubricant or a sleeve. So it's like a built in lubricant. As a penis, thoracic glides on its own bedding of movable skin, which minimizes the friction.

A circumcised penis may need additional lubrication for both partners to experience pleasure. So that's just a bonus of all circumcised penis. Benefits of circumcision. One bonus of circumcision is a lower risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases removing the foreskin skin removing the foreskin shrinks the surface area of

Mucosal skin vulnerable to viruses decreasing the chance of transmission you better hygiene circumcised men don't have to worry about cleaning under the skin where I cheese like secretion Collapse with men circumcised penises like secretion collects with men with circumcised penises. Sex facts about circumcised men. For the circumcised male, the most sensitive spot is a scar on the underneath called the freinulum. So we've talked about that before. Do you remember the freinulum on the penis?

Do you know where your most sensitive part of your penis is? The most sensitive, ah, no. You don't? Like there's not like a particular part of your, they say it's the freinulum, which is where the scarring is when where you remove where they remove the foreskin, and it's like on the underneath part It looks like a little it looks like kind of like

The bottom of a a chicken the chickens like you know, what's that skin? Yeah, it's called you know They're Throat area, I don't know, but um, so we would you just say just now what I say the bottom part that I didn't know which the most sensitive Oh, right. How do you know the most sensitive part of penis? I'm the middle part. I don't know I don't know with a frenel on it's in most men Okay, as your part okay, so if you're circumcised you may need more friction to reach orgasm Ask your partner to do keg exercises and squeeze your pelvic floor muscles, which will pull more friction on the head of your penis If you pull more friction on the head of your penis.

If you need more friction, if you're circumcised. Facts about uncircumcised men that extra skin adds some surprised value. The first time you insipis pants, but that's about it. A penis is a penis and they're all plenty sensitive. Worldwide, about 75% of all adult men are uncircumcised. This varies from country to country. However, over 85% of Americans are cut. Circumcised. However, over 85% of Americans are caught circumcised. 85%?

85% of Americans. So it's Americans, and the middle east, because it's Muslims and Jewish people, it's part of their religion to be circumcised. So it's like a realist. I think. Yeah, I mean, we just been around for a long time. It's like in the Jewish religion, like, be a brist is.

Do you know what that is? When a male child is like in the Jewish religion, like, be a brisket. You know what that is when a, when a male child is born in the Jewish religion, like a week or two later, the oil comes over. There's a party. There's a party, like with bagels and cream cheese. And, and then they cut the, this like a party where you go there and then the, the oil comes in and like slices of the penis, like you go to the brisks. Yeah, you watch it and the baby boy cries and it's a whole thing.

So they're trying to ban circumstances and circumstances and San Francisco right now it's going to be on the ballot and whatever. So benefits of being on circumcised. Well okay the facts about it is okay I touch it benefits of being on circumcised. Well circumcised penis has become desensitized after years of rubbing and it's closed and on circumcised head may be more sensitive to touch because it's protected by the skin. The main difference in having sex with an on-circised penis is that the four skin acts as a glider of sorts, and it stays in place when the glands and shaft

continue to thrust. This leads to less friction on the vagina unless a more pleasure experience for the female, they say. If you're uncircumcized, make sure your partner is comfortable. When many women get freaked out by foreskin, talk to her, let her know it's an area that responds to stimulation. All right.

Tips for uncircumcized guys. Well, your first glance at foreskin may give you a bit of a jolt. It's nothing to panic over. Try experiment, try experimenting with this new situation you're in. So the spot where the foreskin meets the penis and the foreskin is self-removed during during circumcision both are packed with nerve endings. You can roll it back and forth to stimulate the frontulum, the foreskin, which is the most sensitive part, like we said. Using the tongue or the finger to stimulate the foreskin and the head is often extremely pleasurable for the man.

It looks like a bagel dog. You know, you know, those hot dogs, there's the bagel and then the hot dog is inside the bagel. Yeah, it looks like that. Kind of does look like that. You're right. Yeah, from what I'm saying. How many bagel dogs have you experienced in your life?

Not a ton. I mean, mostly when I was traveling How many bagel dogs have you experienced in your life? Yeah. You know, not a ton. I mean, mostly when I was traveling when I was living in back South of Asia backpacking and I met a lot of international men. International bagels? International. And I would say, not many a few, but then this one, I guess the first one I was with, he was from the UK

and he wasn't circumcised. Yeah. But we used to condom and so. How was that experience seen? The experience seen me. The visually, it's fine. It's not, it's just different. You're like, oh, at first you are a little like,

oh, I'm not quite sure what to do. That's why we're telling you what to do now. And then we used to condom and I, so I don't remember, I mean, this was a long time ago, but I don't remember it feeling particularly different because you have to always use condom. But it's a matter of when you're doing oral sex or hand jobs, you can play with the foreskin differently. You may be pleased to find that the foreskin offers a whole new dimension of pleasure, not only for

your partner, but for you as well. So if you still has foreskin, take advantage of it. And then we've got some more tips. What does your friends say about it? Do they like, do they say that? Do you think our arguments? No, not our arguments, but whatever. We just joke, we just joke about it. Do they like, do they, do they say that they do you know, he's proud of it. No, no, no. We don't know how to convince arguments, but whatever, you know, we just joke, joke about it all the time. Cause we say because have you seen it as he showed you his penis? Oh, yeah, he would bust it out once in a while. Really? Like when you're drinking or something? No, we, what was it?

Just having lunch because he also has a brother and a couple of brothers and they're all circumcised. He didn't have because sometimes, you know, babies they'll have when they're young They'll have like hard condition or something and they can't have it done early Oh, so either they they'll never have it done or they'll have it done later on in life Or they can actually remember it which that sucks that would hurt, you know, oh and But you decided not to you decided not to have. And so we would always joke about it. I mean, there is a whole, like whip it out. Right. That's so funny. I mean, there is a whole movement that we should ban it and that it shouldn't be part of

practice, but it's the religious groups who are really like, you know, it's part of our cultures. So yeah. So I mean, I don't know how, what side I'm going to take. When you have a son, I'm going to have sun, so. I know. I don't either. Four skin is very delicate. Has tons of nerve endings and should be handled carefully. You can ask your partner how far back to pull the four skin and how he likes to be touched. If your partner experiences any pain

when trying to retract the four skin then stop. So it's different with every man just like every man who circumcises different too, so that you should ask him what feels good, because it might not feel as good. Genly play with the foreskin with your tongue and fingers. Techniques like circling underneath the skin with your tongue and massaging the head with your fingers can feel great.

It's very, the tips are really sensitive. Their tips are more sensitive. They're very responsive to the tongue. But like they're more sensitive, they say that the tip of an uncircumcised man is more sensitive than the circumcised man's penis. Yeah, see that's the part that sucks that we'll never really truly know. Right. But is your tip sensitive?

What, the very tip? Yeah. I don't think so. No, I don't police so. Got it. Try pulling the skin all the way down and then all the way back up over the head to give them full stimulation. It's more the middle, the middle part of the shaft. It's probably the most sensitive.

Yeah, I would think. Okay. It's perfect. If I had to break down my own penis. Get a percent of your penis. You should really think about it next time hearing sex. Just for me, just if anything from my own notes, you could just let me know. I was like, okay.

I would just like to be would all like to know about your penis and your sensitive areas. I'll get a diagram of it. I'll maybe I'll use cl' willy and then all. Exactly. Oh yeah. Coming with a Europeanis in a mold. Here's my penis and I'll just take a little laser point. I love it.

Like in medical school classes. Yeah. Right. We'll just hang your penis from the ceiling and here and break it down. Remember some unsurpassed men find it too sensitive to the touch and they might want you to avoid that area altogether or try to take it personally. Oral can be even more enjoyable for them, they say. However, a woman who are used to performing oral on a circumcised guy are used to more

stronger and direct strokes. But when it comes to dealing with an unsurcomposed penis, she might have to be more careful about it. So just you have to be more sensitive and careful with the foreskin around. If you find that he's overly sensitive, let him direct the action. If he knows you are eager to pleasure him, he will just be eager to educate you. So it seems like you got to like just ask the questions, but these are just no, that it's more sensitive. So here's some funky facts about circumcision. Funky facts. At its peak in the 70s, 91% of American men were snipped at the tip. There has

been a sharp decline in our roughly 65% of boy babies born in the US are circumcised. So the number is dropping. Really? Mm-hmm. In 1422, the Catholic Church condemned circumcision as a mortal sin. So it used to be a sin. What? As a sin. Yeah. At this turn of the 20th century circumcision was seen as a way to prevent masturbation. Are you serious? Yeah, they thought men wouldn't masturbate. You can't do anything with men to get a stop masturbating. Oh, way, man. You'll stick to a wiener anywhere.

Nowadays, circumcision is the most common in the United States, Canada, and the Middle East. That's where it all happens. And then here's some quotes from guys who had to say about circumcision. Circumcision may reduce sensitivity, sensitivity, but I've never heard a man complain that he can't get off because he's circumcised. And then I can't imagine if I were even more sensitive, it already took me long enough to learn how to control a calculation of my current level of stimulation, I would have to cut short my love making just for a little extra pleasure. We have your situation to make the most of what you have.

I heard things about guys reversing their circumcision. Have you heard about that? Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I don't know how you do that exactly. Like the reverse of when they're older? Yeah. But you can't, like, you have to do a whole surgery to get the foreskin back out. We were gonna do something about that, but it just seems like.

You're like, do graphing off your ass or something and to get the extra skin. I don't know what to tell you. I don't really know how you do it, but we could, that could be a circumcision part too, shall. Maybe they use part of your earlobe or something. Maybe that's a little piece of extra skin you can use. Maybe, but you kind of want your earlobe.

Yeah, kind of. I don't know. Maybe I want my forescreen more. I don't know. You didn't have a choice. I was actually debating this with my sex school friends who are in town over the weekend and they were, because I was telling them about how we want to ban circumcision and say, we've been having meals last year in plastic bags.

So now we're banning circumcision. And they were just saying that they think it's a good idea because you know men Like what they don't have a choice they don't have a right to choose and all that stuff a little baby boys have no right to choose It's not that you should give them a choice later in life if they'd like to be circumcised Who's gonna choose that like yeah, I want to get my Hardy got a stick in a machine now. Oh, I don't know I don't want to know. Okay. Tomorrow's show, this is going to be your favorite show, Menace.

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