Sex With Emily - Couples and Toys: Tales From the Intern Sex Drawer

Episode Date: July 30, 2014

It’s that magical time of year again, INTERN SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! But first, Emily shares hilarious adventures from her LA kitchen. Spoiler alert: This one ends with a smoke alarm and a honey bee.Then we move on to talk about sex and interns! Along with her assistant Lauren, Emily’s newest intern Madison is in the studio to tell tales from her sex drawer, including the story of how her boyfriend accidentally stumbled upon her first vibrator (it’s funny one!), and how it opened up their already scintillating sex life.Now her sex drawer runneth over, and she has found a new toy that knocks her Magic Bullet right off the shelf: the G-Twist SmartVibe from GoodVibesToys. From external use to internal use to mounting the damn thing, Madison explains her time with the toy that she rates as “Expert Level”. Her advice: start off slow, use A LOT of lube, and when it comes to the “Turbo Boost”, proceed with caution!Between dishing about penis length and oral sex, Emily talks the benefits of using sex toys with a partner. In all her time as a sexpert, she has never heard a couple regret using toys together. Although if you’ve got one, we definitely want to hear it!This Podcast is filled with fun stories, Fleshlights and tips to conquer vaginal insecurity! Don’t miss out on the newest Intern Sex Toy Review! In the words of Emily: “Dude, this is gonna rock your world!” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Okay now is Eve's drop me for the program began and did I hear you say that you burned something but yet it was still frozen and Fire alarms were going off in your apartment. Did I hear that correctly? How do you burn something and it's still frozen? You have one of those days good I can't even talk okay Okay. She's having a day. Today's just been a little crazy. I was in San Francisco for the day yesterday, which wasn't saying I was prepping for this meeting I had in San Francisco the entire weekend. So I didn't have any downtime, right?

And then I got back late midnight and today was crazy. So yeah, we were they're all busy, but I knew I was coming to the show And I'm so excited about the show tonight, but I have to eat right there. I have no food amounts I've been talked about this in a while because men is in the show, but you still he's I've never cooked anything in my life You don't know this about me Anderson now What no like no no no seriously like if you were like Emily Here's a piece of chicken cook it and you ready gun to my head and you said if you can't cook this piece of chicken you will die I would have to take the bullet cuz I wouldn't know what to do with it like that's I don't know enough And actually in my heart. What are you just eat like from fast food chain?

Well, yeah whole food not fast food whole foods m cafe next to me again Okay, the point is I have no food, but I'm starving right and I had to go home after the show And all I have is work after work. Yeah for for I have 10 minutes before I have to get here. I know I was getting frantic text from you on the way to the studio. I have to eat a freaking out. I get it. Lo but you would be here. So I go home and there's one in my freezer frozen veggie burger from like Ralph's from

like months ago, probably months ago. But I need protein I know and it's all I've to eat I have no time to stop so I put down the I do have a stove top and not an oven and I put the stuff in it I let it cook for a second and you put it in a pot and in a pan they're called frying pans you know I just say a little naludio that's I'm usually like three times even the stove top in my house so I'm making it but I'm trying to, I'm trying to get writing and get my stuff. And then all of a sudden the fire alarm says going off because I'd been in the room and I forgot about

it because it's smoking, right? It's smoking and it's burning. I put oil in there and it's teriyaki sauce. So the fire alarm is like after Emily. No, are you sure? You don't cook with teriyaki sauce, Emily. It just seemed easier. I didn't have applesauce in there. Don't have applesauce. I would have eaten apple sauce in there. I don't have apple sauce. I would have eaten apple sauce if I had it. So the alarm's going off and I'm like, I gotta go and then a bee flew in my house. You hear that part?

And it starts buzzing around my head. And there's a bee. And so there's a bee. And I never can't for a raid. And I was afraid. If I killed them, I've never gotten stunned by a bee. I'm afraid of it. But if I spray the bee, it'll stomp they sting you.

Like, you're the guys. They're the guys. Yeah. So that's OK. I choose not to do but if I spray the bee, it'll don't they sting you like you're the, not guys. Yeah, yeah. So that okay, I choose not to do that. I put the raid down. I go, I take off the veggie burger, which is burnt, I think, because the fire left is going off. So I start eating it and it still froze in the middle.

Yeah, so you burnt it and yet you still, I eat the whole thing, even the frozen part. But I feel better, I'm not hungry at all anymore. Was that a honey bee? I don't know. It was a little bit. I was like, I learned it. I thought it was a sexual fact. A sexual fact about honeybees just today. What? The wife told me, when they have, when male honeybees have sex, their testicles explode and they die.

When they climax. I do that. I actually knew that. That's a great one. It's so true. I wish I'd have it into a lot of men. All right. So let's talk about sex and interact. Especially some of them that I've just kidding. Okay, so really excited today's show, Madison is here. Hi, Madison. Hi. How are you, Madison? Is my sex, you lovely smart, like super smart intern. Because it's easy to get a hot chick in LA to work for you,

like an intern, something that sucks in the heart. Yeah, dude, interns, but Madison is actually really smart. She's amazing writer. You have to check out her blogs everyone loves them and We have intern sex to review day. We've been doing this for years now and Lauren who's my assistant she was my forb and turns She's also been part of intern sex right review doing it for years and Madison hadn't you true that you had not used a toy before with your boyfriend? Yes, that is absolutely true during During my time in my internship,

my boyfriend stumbled across my sex toy and it was an experience for everyone. Exactly, so okay, what? Okay, back up. We need details. Okay. How long have you been with your boyfriend? We have been dating for about two years. Okay.

Yeah, so on and off, just kind of getting into things. And had you used sex twice before? I mean, had you on your own, you had? Oh, yeah, I had been having, it wasn't quite a drawer. I had a magic bullet, one of those cute little like, one of her covert numbers where you could just kind of like stash it somewhere. Is it the bullet?

Just a little bullet, not the bullet, the cord, okay? It literally, oh no, it's attached to a cord to fill it over a little more. I know that with a round bullet, right? Exactly. That's like a starter for a lot of people, okay. Exactly, I got it at some passion party when I was like 18 and I've just been like, No, it's attached to a cord full of room. I know that with a round bullet, right? Exactly. That's like a starter for a lot of people. Exactly. I got it at some passion party when I was like 18.

Right. And I've just been like carrying it with me. Oh my God, I'm so glad you were. Now we even need to be told that. You do college too? Yeah. You got it for like seven years? Oh no, I mean, I went to college in like 2012.

Okay, so we got it. That's a bad. Okay, got it. Yeah. It's fine if you did. I just, it upsets me. I want everyone who works for me at new toys all the time. Yeah, that sucks that you have that's your

Sex toy drawer I actually have to like shove mine shut something no I Have a story how I need a furniture. I use sex toys my house like I'm a house of sex toys But no, but anyways you've the drawer the toy. Yes, and then what else was in there? Um that was it pretty much in Oh even that I was a little bit hesitant talking about like I hadn't actually brought it up to anyone Me and my friends don't talk about sex toys. Yeah, I just not at all It's like not really a thing with my group of friends So it was just kind of one of those hush hush things and my boyfriend's a super sexual guy

And he'd always asked me about masturbating and I never really felt like comfortable talking to him about it Okay, he would say to you see say so, well, because he masturbates all the time. So he'd be like, come on. Like, you don't masturbate. Tell me, like, duh, duh, duh, how often? When you do it, how do you do it? And I just be like, yeah, no. Like, I'm just not a sexual person.

And I don't know why. Well, okay, two years, this whole time you're saying it. Yeah, exactly. Well, I'm not a sexual person, but do you guys have sex a lot? Oh, yeah, no, we have sex a lot. But when I met him, I wasn't really like having a lot of sex. I was kinda holding on to it, saving it for some things that I thought was cool.

Was he your first? No, definitely not my first, but I had gone on like a six month hiatus when I started dating him and I made him wait three months. Wow, that's good. Yeah, I mean, they worked out. Three months is good, that's okay. So then you started having sex,

and then your sex life is good. My sex life is great. I'm not gonna lie the best sex I've ever had. Okay, yeah, so you're 24 24. Okay So best sex your head. What what makes you say that? The fact that the first time we ever had sex I or got in like three times. Oh my god, and that's unusual That is really unusual. Yeah, it was kind of incredible People know that's unusual because if they do I want to say this But typically a woman does orgasm the first time she's faking. Okay, go ahead. Yeah, no, and it was like it was genuinely real and I hadn't really had that kind of an explosive experience with anyone before him. I'd had maybe one or two intercourse orgasms in my entire life.

And was it a gspot? Was it an angel? Yeah, it was both actually. Oh my God. I know. God, that is really good. So I was gonna be like whatever. It's not good. But that no, that's pretty good. Okay. So that's great. Wait, I picture something going on here. So you tell your boyfriend you're gonna be talking about the sex toy with him, right? Yeah. Today. And he's like, okay, you can do that under one condition. You explained to everyone what a great sex animal I am. He made you. Yeah. Oh no. How big is his penis? How big is penis? It's average. Average?

Yeah, we talk about it a lot, like the fact that it's average. What does that mean? It's not even secure. It's literally like middle, middle. Six, six, six inches? I know it's not a tape measure, but I know. I'm sure he has. Yeah, I know, I'm sure he has, but.

Every guy measures their penis, right, Anderson? I've heard that. Yeah, Anderson, you've measured your penis. I'm two big lighters. Yeah. I was going to say some people measure mini pics Of course that's my men like a perspective shot, you know like compared to a role of quarters bigger smaller definitely bigger Okay, okay got it. Yeah, sorry. I didn't mean to get your weapons. I thought we wouldn't get into too much of your back

I can't help it. Okay, so I'm kidding so You like his penis and you like having sex with him. Yeah, it's good. You've orgasms and does he? Now when you say, but you said I'm not a sexual person, but yet you're having good sex with him. Yeah. Did he think she was sexual person? Right? If you honestly, he didn't, I think he thought that I was like a sexual retard before I met him. We don't really talk about it all that much. Okay. Or we didn't talk about it all that much. That's what I'll get around to. Okay. Got it. okay, what about oral sex? Is it before my oral sex? Yes, that's another fun thing And I mean we didn't talk about this beforehand Anderson. I swear But I don't mean tell ours gonna ask for our I was like keep it to the toy, but now I can't yeah

No, it's already open bag of worms, you know everywhere Can of worms Yeah, I didn't like oral sex like I did never let guys go down on me. If they started to head over there, I was like, because I had a couple of really bad experiences with it. One actually resulted in me having some kind of like a situation where I had to go to the doctor. I had been like hurt by someone who had been performing Oral Sex on me.

Oh my God, what are you doing? Bite you, would you be like, light a bit? I mean, we're gonna get real graphic in here, but there is a part of me that was swollen much bigger than it should have been. So, Oral Sex. Yeah, he's like, I don't know if he like, and we're gonna get real graphic in here, but there is a part of me that was swollen much bigger than it should have been. And it was more sex. Yeah, he was like, I don't know if he, I don't know if he like bit it or he like,

I don't know what he did. He did, he might have, I have no idea. All I know, it was rough. And so after that, like I had a couple experiences with the guys being like, I'm gonna be the best you ever had, and then instead just like giving me road burn. And, oh my God. Yeah, so I just got. I road burn and oh my god yeah so I just

thought people listen to my oral sex tips shows go on and I'm also like I used to be really self-conscious about my lady situation and I thought it was ugly I still kind of wonder if it is I think all girls kind of question if maybe their vagina is ugly yeah so I definitely thought that mine was okay really yeah so yeah Lauren do you question do you have a question if yours is ugly? I spent my college years in a sororial. So I got to see other girls often. And then did you compare? I never, I don't ever pay attention.

I guess I'm so, I always thought that was fine. And I've already played. So that's what I thought no one complained. I never cared until someone gave me a compliment and then I started caring. What? You said what? So when? No, so when they meet you.

I'm nice, man, you got that girl in. No, so, oh my god, this is so bad. This is Lauren, my sister anyway. Yeah. I got a text message that said, oh, I can't wait until I see that beautiful pussy. Beautiful pussy. I know what it said. Yeah, exactly.

And I was like, oh, that's when I have a weird thing to say. Oh. Like, oh, okay. And then I was like, oh, that's when I have a weird thing to say. Yeah. Oh. Like, oh, okay. And then I was like, oh, no. I'm going to do other people think that my post is not beautiful. Yeah. Right, right.

Exactly. Oh, God. Well, okay. Yeah. I'm telling you that it, I think that women, a lot of women are, do have those insecurities about it. And I'm telling you, if you have that, I always tell women, like put a mirror up to it, like touch yourself,

look at yourself, I wrote that, what was that blog that was it, Glamour? How to master B. Yeah, but what was the Glamour one when I was, yeah. Glamour, okay, so I have a new column at Glamour.com, Glamour magazine, something every Sunday night. And I did wrote specifically tips in there for women about like how you should like learn to love it.

I mean, no, you've heard me say this, you wrote about truly read it because it was a homework It was how to do your what was it right like tips like not homework, but like sexual homework Restoration so the point is a lot of women do have like insecurities and men Yeah, and maybe men do judges like we were talking about men's painstances It's not like we won't sleep with a big one or small. We don't really care But guys we go it was hard. It's not but they like you there I mean women just learn to love your bodies. It's how it is

We all everyone looks different. That's the thing. There is no perfect way that your vagina should look. But anyway, I get it. And when you're younger, 20s, I understand. And also the truth is, women are at that counter with men performing all sex on them, as well as guys. I know what the hell they're doing in their 20s, typically.

So, Kason point, you're in the emergency room. So, this guy is blowing your mind. Yeah, so he is already doing a great job and when he would ask me about masturbation and sex toys and things of that nature, I just kind of like dodged the question, I'd be really vague, just, I wasn't really ready to share that part of myself with him. Also, I was kind of worried that if I brought up the fact that I'd a vibrator, he would either A be intimidated or B be like, I love this sex is so much better with this toy. Let's never have regular sex again. I was gonna thought you would think it's interesting. Yeah, I mean, because like I said, he's a really sexual person. I wasn't really sure what to expect with it and it's just like I

wanted to talk about it. How often did you bring your masterbiting on your own though with the boyfriend? Honestly, not that often. Like it was like a once in a while kind of thing, especially when I was living in the dorms. Right, yeah, anyone who's living a dorm knows that masturbation is just like does not go hand in hand with. The dorm room. Right, and pretend it. Yeah, hand in hand.

So, okay, so you did that much, and then we'll head then we have to go with the boyfriend. Okay, so also you guys, she details this amazingly in the blog at smh.com, but let's talk about the story. Okay, so I had been pleasureing myself. I, my favorite time in masturbate is in the late afternoon. Well, that's the best time, right?

I don't know, I even though my roommates. Yeah, even though my roommates are home, I don't really care. I just, you know, gulp my room, do my thing. And so I had masturbated before he was coming over. And he came over and I'm like, pre-game? Yeah, exactly. And so he comes over and I'm like getting ready and everything. And he starts kind of like looking suspicious, looking around my room. And I'm like, pregame? Yeah, exactly. And so he comes over and I'm getting ready and everything.

And he starts kind of like looking suspicious, looking around my room. And I'm like, what are you doing? He's like, I think I hear something. And he's following this sound straight to my goody drawer where my little bullet is in there, just a buzz in a way, no big deal. I had like, it got jostled in there, something,

and it turned itself back on. And he immediately goes, is this a vibrator? And I just like froze, during the headlights was like, is this a vibrator? And I just froze, during the headlights was like, okay, I have two choices. I can either lie to him and be like, oh my god, it was a gag gif. Don't look at it, just look away and throw it in the corner.

Or I could just be honest and see what happened. Right. So I just was like, yeah, that's a vibrator. And all these questions came up, but he was so excited. I mean, like, eyes bright and bubbly, like, new version of Grand Theft Auto excited. And I was like, yeah, I was like, oh, okay, it's gonna be all right.

So then did you use it together that moment? Yeah, not right then. We were about to go somewhere. So it was kind of like, Art and War. Yeah, I know. So he didn't let it go. Let's just say, I wouldn't have gotten away

with us not using it after that. And so, yeah, we brought it in maybe like that night. It could have been a day later. And it was really fun. I like let him, I first I showed him how I use it by myself. Okay. And then I let him try it on me. And then we had sex and used it the whole time.

And it was awesome. It was great. And he likes it because he enjoyed it. He never used a toy with a woman before. Yeah, I don't think he had. And what did he like about it? He basically liked the fact that I was enjoying myself so thoroughly.

And he just adds it. Now, here's a year of multi-orgazza woman. But yet, adding the toy was like, it was extra. I was like, I always used like a three-some, but it's like not awkward after. And you just kicked the person on a bat. It was, yeah, I was essentially like, I leave the first one to leave, whatever, however whatever however goes it was that whole thing where it's like

He you know he can have an orgasm every time guaranteed and it takes me a little bit longer So essentially all of a sudden with like most women on the planet. Yeah with my little friend all of a sudden I was like lapping him I was getting multiple orgasms out of it before he was even close to done and he loved that Like he loved seeing what it could do. Because he didn't have to think about his like, yeah, Martha or something, so he wouldn't know. Or he has them. Exactly. Because you already come.

Right, so it helped. Yeah, it was awesome. So it was a good experience overall. I'm so happy for you. It was fantastic. And then it also opened up the conversation for other things. So like now that he knew that I obviously masturbated,

I had a toy, I was more ahead of the game than he thought that I was. All of a sudden, he starts asking me other questions of other things that I want to try and things I might be into and things he's into and sex toys that he might want to get for me. And all of a sudden it was literally just like everywhere, it totally opened up our sex life. Okay, so this was just the last few months then. Yeah, this happened right around the same time I started.

How about that? Well, you also took a job at Sex of Them. Yeah, I took two, three months. So did that. I mean, he must have thought that if you took a job, it wasn't just because like, you like, you know, I don't know why. She's a freak. Yeah, she's a freak.

No, I mean, you gotta think something. Yeah, that not that we're freaks. We're all nice, very nice girls. But yeah, so just, you're a little bit. You did go to Lou Bresling, right? What's being it was like? Lauren, oh, Lauren, our first business trip, business trip to Vegas, which we do go to a year.

She did go, she did on the first night came to a Lou Bresling match and one, right? Did you win? Yes, she kicked out. And she broke her toe though. That was a bummer. But it was a good trip. So, yeah, welcome to the scene.

I'm so glad. This is your start, it's like, because this is what I would say. It's funny because this was our short day, but last was a good trip. So yeah, welcome to see I'm so glad this year So I was like, yeah, because this is what I would say it's funny because this was our short day But last night I was texting with a guy friend and he was like, oh, I was dating this girl Emily and she had a rabbit She talked about her rabbit and it made me think of you I'm like and this all through tax or someone knowing because it was like taking I mean Can we just talk about this for five minutes? It took me like an hour to get the story out of him and he was like Well, I said we'll have you use it together.. We never, he just broke up with her actually. They were the other three months.

Why didn't you ever use it? I don't know. I was nervous to bring it up because I thought maybe she wouldn't want to show me and, but then she would bring it up and then I would, but whatever. And he was like, I just, I didn't want, you know, and so here's my point. And so he's never used to it with a girl. And he was like, I'm not a bum because I thought it'd be hot. And he goes, I think it's so sexy to watch a woman masturbate and to get off.

It's so hot. And, and I was like's so sexy to watch a woman masturbate and to get off, it's so hot. And I was like, yeah, why don't women understand that? It's mutual masturbation. And so I think your story is a great example. Why I'm always like, it's not like sex, it's like you get them, it's like I'm a pusher or something. It's because whatever it is, it could be like a bondage tape, it could be a massage candle,

it could be anything, and it could be blindfolding each other. It's just a little extra something that you're normally doing that will keep it interesting and it opens a floodgates And I've never once so so it's not a space of like people really don't like women do have insecurities But like oh, he's gonna see my organ I'm gonna make that crazy face with an orgasm like I don't want to watch you Me my ugly vagina whatever things are going through head and I don't know Anderson you guys think oh she's gonna see me touching my penis and my masturbation face when I come. Some guys might, yeah. But you know, once that game on, yeah, when you're like, exactly, but women, the women, yeah, the women can't help thinking about it. So, so what I'm saying is this is, this is like the thing is that

women are mentioned and it's not only like going to make things interesting, but it, again, it opens the door for new things for conversations. So now it's like this whole gateway thing. So I said to him, last time, I was like, oh, yeah, you know, you should, next time, whatever, so I said that's all I thought. So I thought, yes, I love this. Is the point that women have to understand that mutual massuation is also, yeah, a great way to learn for couples. So you know, you guys don't give it, you're, you're, you're self-enough credit is what it

is. Like, you don't really like, you think like, why would this be sexy? Me touching myself and doing this. This is what I'm i think you think like why would this be sexy me touching myself and doing this this is what i'm saying that's my point there's websites that many of them that are devoted to that mean that gets that guys like to see that a lot here is my bottom line sort of thank you and i was having like a mind against it's the it's the frozen veggie burgers making me i brain i didn't mean to it knows frozen was burned

right side what is she gonna get like salmonella from the vet's brain? Yeah, I'm probably going to die. I'm about to die. I'm like, not I literally am seeing spots. No, but I was going to say is that that masturbation with the toys with the boyfriend is that I've never once in all these years I've been doing this. I've never gotten an email from people like, oh, why did you tell me to blindfold my husband was a worst idea or what? You know, so it's like it's always it's never bad. It's always people were like afraid of it and whatever, but there's never, there's never been, it was like,

it ruined our sex life. She dumped me and married her vibrator. Like, never happened, you know, and no women. And if you are were the guy who's like, oh, it's gross or why can't I please you? It might not be your person. So I think this is a great example of that. But if those things do happen,

you should probably email us because that would be hilarious. Oh yeah, if they do email me at feedbackatesex we have feedback and text and we got some things happen when you pulled out a vibrator that is a great idea because I've never heard of here and this is my thinking our event at Hustle last week there was a bunch who said oh no it was the new intern today that I was interviewing she's not replacing mad as him he said to me oh and like I heard about your podcast from my ex boyfriend like six months ago and he told me to listen to it and it totally opened up my sex life and then we started buying all these toys and we

start cock rings and all this stuff and she was just like excited that too. But then she said they broke up before they used the cock ring and she was really bonding like well, you got like hundreds of them in the office. Okay, so now you use a toy. Now now where what other things did open up for you? Okay, well, so you gave me a G twist smart vibes from good vibes right? Oh, this is the intern sex story of you hunts the intern sex story. How do you like it? Um, I say that it's the okay. It is the G twist smart vibe from good vibes toys It came highly recommended on good vibes calm friendly.com, friendly, non-threatening, it's pink, and it shaped like a penis,

which I actually was like gravitating toward because I've never had an internal story. Oh, you just had the bullet. Yeah, so I'm never gonna. So interesting because you have G-Spot orgasms very easily but you never had a, yeah, I guess you need only, can you give them with, can you give yourself a G-Spot orgasm with your fingers?

No, I was actually laughing about that for some reason. My hand can't go that way. I can't seem to finagle it, where I can get that angle. My boyfriend can do it very easily. Really like no effort at all. Yeah, I have no idea what it is. He has the touch and I don't, but I know it's possible. I get why you like this guy.

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20% off. Get your fun toys. Okay. Madison. Hi. So tell me about the lovely G-Twist. Okay. So, first things first, one of the best things about it that I discovered was that it has

8 function settings for vibrating and pulsating. And then also on top of that, it's got these little plus and minuses so you can control how intense vibrations are. It's like the sleep number bed. Exactly. Except the sleep number bed does not come with a turbo boost button at the bottom Which scared the bejesus out of me the first time I used it. Yeah, it was like all of a sudden It's just like errr like it's kicking. It's like in fast and the furious like kicking that car with the nitrous

So remember it just takes it off and it terrified me. Okay Okay, no it feels good when you're expecting it like it wasn't quite well It's like a new car. You were like test driving. Yeah, so that was one of my regina. Yeah, that was one of my points is that I wanted to be very clear on. Is that when you're trying on a sex toy for the first time, I would definitely recommend doing it solo. I tried the G-Twist for the first time with my boyfriend and my goodness, because he can't feel it.

He has no idea what's going on and it can get a little unheard of. He keeps pushing that. Exactly. He's the one who scared me with the turbo boost. So it was like coming inside of me and he hit the turbo boost and I was like, what is going on? Then I was like, please never do that ever again. So as far as a vibrator goes, can I just say this thing knocks my magic bullet totally off the shelf? It's gone. Yeah's chewed through the way. Yeah, I mean, I haven't even looked at it. And so long, sorry, magic bullet.

You were great for a while, but I've upgraded it. Oh, I was so loyal. Like, it would be college high school, the whole thing. Exactly, but I found something new, which is huge and pink and has eat function settings. So I've mentioned that I, you know, I'm able to have a G-spot orgasm. Unfortunately, I was not able to find it with this guy. Okay. I mean, I lubed it up to the maximum. Anyone who tries this toy, I'd recommend using as much lube as possible.

Lube is always important with it. Yeah. So it's great to use lube toys. Yeah. Absolutely. So I'd recommend lots of lube. One of the things about it, it's bridged. Like it's got like a, kind of like a spiral pattern on it, which is supposed to enhance pleasure But I found it to be a little bit too girthy. Okay, right off the bat. Maybe every woman's different, right? Yeah, maybe just because it's my first toy right in the first in general toy in used to penis because your boyfriend's average Yeah, well, maybe that's it

You know, I don't know if you got to bring up her boyfriend's penis again poor guy. Yeah, you know, okay It does its work. That's it's not it does it does I think your boyfriend's penis is like the proof He's always he's always like he nailed it for the first time it's actually nursing can you say that he nailed it? I get it, but I'm sure Okay, so and then you okay used it within the first time you use it was him. Okay, I got it Then okay good so there's other people on the other two spot toys to two that we could drive you But you've also used it I use it externally. Yeah, so I looked online actually because I was like not ready to give up on it. I was like, you know what? Other people gave it great reviews.

So I'm going to try it different ways. I tried like mounting it basically like I have tried it in all different ways. You mount it the G twist. Yes. We alone with it or was it? Yes, I was because I just couldn't bring myself to it. I just couldn't bring myself to mount the sex toy right in front of him I wait until I was alone So there's you on a way to you mount to it. I get it Yeah, but someone had for like set online that that's the way they do it Is they like lay on their stomach and use it that way because it like presses more on the G spot It does it's you cuz it has a little bendy tip right like that thing that we were talking about where you can like put your

Hand on your pelvis and that kind of like Like put more pressure on it. It's like if you land your stomach. You're doing that for your own purposes But I'm just clumsy and I trouble maneuvering it and it was just it was just kind of I think it's two Expert level for me personally. I think a more expert like expert toy user would get a lot more benefit out of it Yeah, so or yeah exactly and if you want every toy doesn't work for a person, but you, but you like it externally and it's strong. I know I love it. See, I love the G twist. I've used it. I get it. But every vagina is different. Like snowflakes. Yes. All different sizes, shapes. Absolutely. All those things. So I totally got it. It's just such thing as a sex game. Like the X games. Well, like chicks who are, because when she's talking about like how, yet

you got to be an advanced user, I'm just picturing like, chicken coming out on a stage going, I'm an advanced user of these toys. Sex games, gold medalist. I think I would be an advanced user of course. Yeah, I bet you would. I was about to say I was like, I probably at like, you ever make anyone wait three months like, um, Madison did here? I'm my first I'm in way to year. You're like 13, I was 17 have I ever made anyone wait three months? No I can't remember the first I mean maybe when in my 24 maybe I'd be maybe I would wait a month Yeah, that's reasonable three months is a long time. Yeah, no, but people do it. Good for you.

And that was great. So things are, now I want to hear more about how you think it's expanded. Because you said once you bought the toy and it opened up all these things to tell me where it's gone. So now we have moved on to one. He just keeps buying Loube, and I don't understand. I know by things with my, I have Loube in the office,

when you stop buying Loube. He does this. It's not even me. I haven't purchased Lou I know by things with my, I have Lube in the office when you stop buying Lube. He does this. It's not even me. I haven't purchased Lube in my entire life. He just thought, you know that Lube is awesome. Everyone check out the, if you go to my good vibes page, there's the please meet, the please Lube is great by good vibes.

All my favorite Lubs are there, but it enhances the acts, right? Yeah, I also brought him home the flashlight Lube and I brought him home the Max for men masturbation cream and he went nuts like he went totally bananas over it and it's your face. Like what do I need? Yeah, I have a hand.

But like why not try something else? We've got a million things to try. So try some freaking loop. Yeah, it's not that it's not the dark ages anymore. You do not need a tube sock. Master baby, some cream big fucking deal. Like do something different.

Next stop flashlight Emily just took me up with a flashlight. I get to bring it home to my boyfriend is anymore, you do not need a tube sock. Master, maybe some cream, big fucking deal. Like, do something different. Next stop, flashlight. Emily just took me up with a flashlight. I get to bring it home to my boyfriend and be the hero. Does he know? Does he want one? He's been asking, like, I brought it up to him possibly

and he's been asking about it, you know, like, kind of like that little kid waiting on the door, just like, so is my flashlight. Right, I'm like, yeah, no, you keep waiting. You take forever, but now they're on your desk. Yeah, I'm walking to him, like, how are you working? You see, this is Madison's desk in the office. She's got this big desk and the entire thing is

digging up with flesh lights and then Madison's like, working up, what, we can move the box? The flesh lights off your desk. I make do. You're good, you like that. You're spunky like that, you're cool. You can adapt, you're adaptor. So you're gonna bring it home?

Will you come back on? Absolutely. Well, he come back on. I don't know if he will. Can he call in anonymously? He can call in probably. Talk about it or the flashlight is a male masturbation. See, if you've heard me talk about it before and you're gonna use it So this is a great met a mutual masturbation thing. Absolutely. You could get him out with the flashlight and then we'll give you another toy

Whatever you want. Yeah, I'm taking on the doll. Yeah, the doll. Yeah, the vibratex. I'm really excited You were gonna love the vibratex doll. Yeah, because that is also a g-spot toy, but it's very differently shaped. Smooth. It's smooth and it has different functions. So use it first. Powerful, but it's also got the lot of clitoral stimulation. It's completely different. You're really excited. This is going to rock your world. You've never had like, it's like a rabbit. It's like a version of the rabbit, but it's has the little. Yeah, it's got a little butterfly. It's got little butterfly with the clitorises and then it's got the thing that the things that go never done that

I'll use it tonight and come in tomorrow. I will I'm coming in on Thursday. Okay. I will like a blender Yeah, the rabbit have it actually the pearls was the blender goes around and around but this one doesn't just has the top So it goes it looks like a rat like the rabbit by one of these ones like kind of rotates Oh like a rabbit, the rabbit by the way. Is it one of these ones that like kind of rotates like all of the rabbit's fingers? So it internally goes in every giant, I know, you see where on the rail. I can see some. It goes in every giant, huh?

And then there's a little thing at the top that spins around and it's like, hello, G-spot, hello, G-spot, if you want, but you could also separately control it. And then it's got this little flutter and you can see it outside, like a little butterfly that goes under clitoris. It's dallya, like a flower.

It actually looks as precious as she's describing. It's pretty record. It's really cool. It sounds sounds very like a lot of moving parts adorable we'll see how it goes down and they do yet to crank up your vibrators these are all no there is an antique vibrator museum in San Francisco I have a video of it I should never need to go they look like tiny devices though I know I look like there's like you will have you seen like

masters of sex and so time like the big But anyway, we'll get into that but uh, Max and so you rock you've been awesome everyone to check out Max and stuff I'm a website and send her name, mazon sex family dot com and any less words and how do you like being in turn care? I love being an intern. I'm not just saying that because I know I know I have a state but no, but honestly I should have said that. I'm hate about it. I'm having so much fun the only thing I hate is living so far yeah you'll be so happy to change your life is your boyfriend come with you I that's up for the baby you can dump him no that would be really awkward don't ever think it always a thing so don't play it up with them I'm kidding don't be

both not after okay everyone Anderson you're awesome. Thank you. Thanks Anderson. Thank you, darling. And thanks everyone, follow me on Facebook and Twitter and Instagram, all that stuff is sex with Emily. Thanks so much for listening to the show. Was it good for you? Email me, feedback at sexwithemely.com.

Come on. Thanks so much for listening to the show. As you heard, we did talk about the flashlight and it really does. Madison, are you excited to get the flashlight for your boyfriend? Yes, I am so excited. I know. It's going to be awesome because it's actually you get to masturbate with it or you could use it on your own.

A lot of men use it. It simulates the sensations of real sex and it looks and feels like the real deal. You had them on your desk all day. Do you think there was a bunch of paintings? But it's hidden though. It's a flash. It's in a nice little, they call it a flesh light, because it looks like a flashlight. I'm getting the flight, getting in the flight too.

So it's super stealthy. You have no idea what's going on. Oh, the flight is real open it up. Yeah, exactly. And then even then you can't tell. And it's really cool. It's lightweight, the flight, all of this. And they also have the stamina training unit.

If you want to last longer and bad, you'll experience some of those mind-blowing orgasms if you have a penis and you use it, which I do not, but I wish I did. And if you wanna check any of these out, you should go to sexflashlight.com slash flashlight, or just click on the flashlight banner on my page, and you can see where it goes to all my favorite

flashlight, the most popular ones that I know you've all been buying, because you've been buying them like crazy. Madison's coming back and telling us about her experience. Again, go to sexfl emily.com slash flashlight. Check it out. You're kind of like a flashlight. Emily. What do you mean?

Because somebody, I, one of your friends said, if it could cook, I'd leave my wife. Yes, you're right. You can't cook. I can't cook. Oh my god. So if Emily could cook, he would leave this way. No, we even date me.

Jesus. OK, thanks, everybody. Sex definitely. Perhaps play a little game called just a tip. Just for a second, just as you have to. Hey, this is Jordan Harbinger, host of the Art of Charm Podcast, the number one dating and relationship advice podcast in iTunes. I'm Emily Morris, host of the Sex with Emily podcast, the number one sex and relationship

podcast on iTunes and it's sexwithemily.com. And this is just the tip. You know, a lot of guys are writing in and saying, as they get older, their libido is going up and down, but I'm actually hearing from a lot of young guys that are saying, you know, certain things are killing their sex drive as well. What are some of these things guys are doing that are just really screwing them up?

It's true. I've actually noticed as well that it's young men too and older men. So first of all, for anyone, alcohol. I know, we all want a little liquid courage. I've heard it before. There's nothing wrong with a little liquid courage, but when you go beyond one drink or two it can interfere with erection right. It drains the courage from your penis. Exactly. It's an elsewhere and it doesn't go back. Exactly. So unfortunately you might

have the courage to make the move, but your penis is having none of it. Also tobacco, even a few cigarettes. A lot of guys like, oh I only smoke when I drink how often you drink every day? Guess what, that can affect you too. It actually impairs the blood flow to your penis. Oh, no. It says a bummer. Yeah, that's a big problem.

Yeah, I've got a bad, a bad. You can smoke yourself impotent. Exactly. Oh, man. See, makes you never want to smoke again. Or any depressants, they also have a lot of sexual side effects, including loss of desire, difficulty reaching orgasm. So check with your doctor. That's ironic because that would make me presence. They also have a lot of sexual side effects, including loss of desire, difficulty

reaching orgasm, so check with your doctor. That's ironic because that would make me so depressed. Exactly. You're like, oh my god, I'm so depressed. Oh, no, I feel better. Can't have an orgasm. I'm going to kill myself again. No, no, it's true. It is a bummer. So there's these huge side effects in the marijuana. Very sexually unpredictable drug. Yeah, people say it enhances love-making. Well, many users say it makes them a troll or more anxious i mean people in college were like man i'm so warning i smoke pot i smoke pot i

curl up in a ball and go to sleep exactly that's why i don't do it after you do it exactly right so those are some things check when through diet your health and how do you are the health air sex life if you guys want to learn more from the art of charm about dating, relationships, and even networking for business, visit us at theartofcharmpodcast.com or check us out in iTunes and follow me on Twitter at the art of charm. And check out the second of the Emmy podcast at sexoftheemlee.com and in iTunes if you

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