Sex With Emily - Dating After Divorce

Episode Date: March 22, 2016

On this show, Emily and Anderson discuss the do’s and dont’s of dating, and explore how to meet the right person no matter what your experience level. Emily also helps a listener take her BJ skills to new heights with an imaginative oral sex hack.But first, the pair weigh the positives and negatives of dating people in the service industry and explain why visiting your hometown is like visiting your ex. Then it’s time to answer your dating questions: From relying a little too heavily on liquid courage to diving into the post-divorce dating scene, Emily gives the perfect tips to increase your odds of making a new love connection.Whether you want to spice up your oral sex routine or you’re revisiting romance after a long break, this show is sure to help your cause one way or another! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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They just show up wherever you listen to podcasts. Hi, Anderson. Hey. How are you? Is this working? Is it working? Are you working? Are you here? Yeah, there it is. What's going on? Looking good? How are you? I'm great. Welcome back. I missed you. I missed you too

And amazing to be in San Francisco. You're up in the side where you were a Castro district. You're with I was all over I did TV show I shot a TV show they don't shoot TV shows outside of Halloween The one TV show that they shoot and San Francisco and they invited me to be on what's it called? It's called hey hey. It's got hey. What's up? What's it called? It's called drinking with benefits Oh, and it's a new show and it was one of the pilot episodes are doing eight episodes and the whole promises that you come Someone they've a celebrity bartender. Oh Yeah, yeah, I remember hearing about this and you come on with a cause that you support and then you raised money for that charity and then you know, he taught me how to bartend. Who was a celebrity bartender? Me? I was. Oh, you were. That's why I laughed. I said that. I

do. I wait. After I said celebrity bartender, I paused because I knew you would make that joke and you waited too long. Did you know? I do, yes, because I don't think of myself as a celebrity, so for me, saying that. And when Mike Catherinewood is on Dancing with the Stars and he's the star, I'm like, oh, you can dance really good. You could be like one of the teachers. He's like, no, I'm the star. I'm like, what kind of a world are we living in?

Or exactly, too, and I get it. I mean, I don't think of myself, no, I do not think of myself. You don't, you don't have that air at all. I really don't, so that's why I think it's for me so my friends were even like, I'm like, come to this bar because it's an open party after. So they opened it up to everyone. It was like open to the city, opened my friends. And I'm like, well, I'm doing this bar,

I'm like, okay, it's celebrity, but I'm uncomfortable saying it. Yeah. Anyway, so it's for charity and I did pets in need. Oh. Because as I told you, I'm adopting a dog. And Pepe is probably not my dog. No.

No, he's awesome, but it turns out that he needs a little more time there on the shelter, but I looked at some other dogs. Okay. So the point is my friend runs pets in need funny enough, it's the only no-kill shelter. Wait, wait, what's your, you said a bunch of words. Pets in need. Are you friend Ron?

My best friend, Charlotte. Okay. She's the vet at the, She runs the whole organization. It's a no-kill shelter as you'd appreciate. I like that. However, I get my dogs from kill shelters. Because I know that they're gonna be killed.

Okay, that's even better. You know what I mean? God, you're right, I should do that instead. Yeah, it's tough though, because essentially, you're allowing a bunch to go to the death camps. You know what I mean? Like, you can only pick one probably. And like, every dog you don't pick,

I get a dog. But they take the animals, we think the shelters that are going to kill them. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So the one you went to, yeah. Yeah, so they curate. No, they don't. I cut out the middle, man.

I just grabbed my dog. That's not a bad idea. Maybe I'll just think that Stanley almost, like I can't even say it. Yes, Stanley was scheduled to be killed the morning after I picked him up. And I didn't know that until after I signed the paper. So it wasn't like they were trying to sell me on them.

They were just like, oh, look at this. He was, he was going to die. Oh, look, he was going to die. Yeah, this kills me. So Yeah, I mean, I can't wait a 23 million households a year acquired animal and like four to six million dies. So like we don't acquire it. Wait a minute. Wait what? That 20th they buy dogs or they buy cats 20 million houses. Yeah, yeah from a store. I got four animals in my house three dogs and all of them are were rescued from. Well one was bought from a store. I got four animals in my house. Three dogs. And all of them are were rescued from. Well,

one was bought from a store. His name is also Pepe, but he went to like a very troubled woman. And he rescued from that woman. Well, that's makes sense. That's so rescue is rescue is rescue. So that was fun. This is not sexy talk though. Well, I suppose I hear some sacksies talk. So I know I am an appropriate. You and Mike love talking Mike. I walked in on talk. So I know. I am inappropriate. You and Mike love talking at Mike Heather. I walked in on Mike. What I was in. What I was in.

Peanut butter with a dry. I don't put anything in your vagina, but leave it in a penis. What I was in. And you're high. My girlfriend at the time, her name was Jenny. She had a cousin who was a little bit off. She was very pretty, but she was a little bit off. And they had a great day.

And her cousin was over visiting Jenny's family. And I walked into the bathroom and the great day was going down on the cousin. I was gonna say no this is an urban legend. You really saw this. I saw it happening. It was very upset and I walked out and I didn't say a word to any legends. I said a word to no one. Not even Jenny. Oh my god. How old were you? 13 14. Yeah, that's isn't really sexy either though, to be honest. It kind of worked out for me because I had an issue with the hot cousin coming over all the time because I thought Jenny was hot

and she was my first real girlfriend, but the hot cousin was distractingly hot. And she instantly became way less hot. Right, okay, that's good. That's good. I'm glad I didn't turn you on. You didn't start getting like a dog hush. Oh, that's weird.

That didn't really work. Yeah, that's hilarious. No peanut butter. But okay, so then they interview me about like why, the shelter, I care for the shelter. And then the guy, Mark DeVito, he's awesome. He owns a bunch of bars and it's going to be, I had him eat a dog.

I mean, we made a, like a salty dog, the name of the drink. It was like, Pepe goes to Poland or something. And he taught me how to, have you ever bartended? No. I was a cocktail waitress. Bartender. I've dated a lot of bartenders. Never bartended.ended? No. I was a cocktail waitress. Bartender. I've dated a lot of bartenders, never bartenders.

Really? What's that like? It's tough. Don't you think they're sleeping with everyone? It goes like, kind of like strippers, then. Brostitute, strippers, bartenders, hairdressers. That's kind of the worst. But I don't know, I heard, I really, really,

haven't worked late in the night. They what? Massus is the thing. That's who you always dated. Well, that's like the trouble categories. Like, you don't want to obviously date a prostitute. Stripper is right below that and then it goes bartender and then it goes hairdresser or masseurs.

What's wrong with hairdresser and bartender? What's up hairdresser? In all my friends, date masseurs. Yeah. I'm just saying a lot of hairdressers, no offense to anyone listening, but a lot of them like to play the field and they have,

I heard you live in LA. I've never had a hairdresser who I've never banked. Every single hairdresser I've ever had, except for like one of their short cuts. I don't get it really. I guess you're dude. Yeah. Right. That's no, you wouldn't, you wouldn't, you want a classier one.

Sometimes we find in them in a pinch. You want the classier, you want the classier non-desirable hair stylist. It's not the ones that I suppose. I still go back to some of my hair stylist, you know, for when I was a kid. And yeah, they're like, they're old bang flames. That's hilarious. Yeah, I know people, guys always sleep with their like, people who work with them.

Yeah, and I always drink my friend, I'm like, which woman from the service industry you're being now? He's like a successful internet. Right. And he's always like, I'm a suist, they're like, here, just right. The best is a bartender, a flat teacher.

Or a yoga teacher. What yoga teacher? They make you do work though. Come on, let's get a little ball and do some yoga. No, but I feel like all my guy president he makes his hair okay. So I'm a bart way who makes you a drink and then give you massage But I feel like the same way for guys like guys who work in bars too. I always think many college I was a cocktail waitress that's fine the bartenders, but they're just they're late to get numbers

Well, they're to get laid. I mean, I have to get there's a lot of opportunity guys in college anywhere that they are That they are I suffer the bartender I Boy from was the. Can I tell you something? Guys in college, anywhere that they are, that they're there to get laid. I suffer the bartender. That's why they're there. I'm a cocktail waitress. No, I'm not. Not to get laid, but I did get laid because of that. Would you say that in college, yeah.

Yeah, I mean, it exists to get laid. You see that they're there to get laid. Any guy in college, and in my word, I'm thinking about the DMV. I'm telling you, okay, I don't mean they're there to get laid. Okay, I should say that wrong. But in college, yes, when you work in that industry, you can't help but get laid or have opportunities. It was painful. When I say,

good bye honey, see you later and she go off to her job, I know that, you know, I'd see your low cut shirt and like. Gotta give me the tips buddy. Gotta bring home the big one. One girl, I dated and she was out bartender for a while. She wear a shirt that said I love and then I had a big chicken on it.

Like I love cock and that was a shirt she'd wear to work. Like, you date. I like it. I'm sure love cock and that was the shirt she'd wear to work. Like, hey, you date, you. I like it, I got to make the tips. I gotta make the tips. I gotta make the donuts. Oh my god, really? It was tough, because I feel like. It was so subtle.

Classic. Yeah, so I learned to make a drink, anyway. Dude, but I get no. How big goes to Poland? Did you drink it? Doesn't matter. Yeah, I got drunk. You get drunk?

So I'm not a huge drinker. No, you're a wafy little thing. And I was hungry and I just flown in from LA. And it got Sam's go. It was raining. You know what it is, San Francisco? It was, I've said this before when I go there, but it does feel like, but this time it was very different, like you're visiting an ex that you haven't seen.

And you just remember all the good feelings of like rushing back. It was like, oh my god, like that restaurant, like every corner there was like, it was like literally like a date. This like Sam's goes back. I was like, I remember like dating this guy and going at restaurant. We would spend an hour in that park. I'd sucks behind that building, you know, everything. And so, and then it is beautiful. Like every turn, like everywhere you turn, it's just that the architecture and the streets, it's the mountain to mean the, I got a lot of fond memories of that town. The lake, the lake, the ocean, the water.

And my friends, it's amazing. But then you get into it. Who goes the lake more sad? That's so funny, no lake more sad. That is a lake, but I was thinking of the ocean. It was freezing, it's always cold. It was raining, like 50 degrees raining coldest winter I ever spent with the summer in San Francisco. Everybody who comes there says that quote is Mark Twain Mark Twain

Mark Twain and it was freezing and I'm but I did I run I ran until like so but it was it was amazing to be there And I feel like it's um it's changed a lot too But here's the thing is that it's in the last three years since I moved you know my rent has tripled where I lived It's all packed so everything's built up. Even San Francisco City where you think, because it's so small. No parking. No parking.

And everything, I mean, it's just a whole new influx of people, like the dive bar, like the dive corner shop is now like, like bop.com or something like, exact the.com, like we're pretty good. But gentrified and further. Yes, everything's.com, it's thriving.

It's fun. I got drunk, I made a drink, and then they're filming me making the the drink and I'm like, you know, dropping shit and like trying to you drop stuff. Yeah, I dropped my okay. I Was a little late to the show tonight because tonight because it was a very busy day and I was rushing from the office because Madison My producer is going to town I'm busy and you changed the time of the show which is great. I risk Agile, but then I rushed I made a smoothie and I got here. You made it late. I made it That's impressive. Do you know how I have rushed? I was I didn't even make the goddamn smoothie I did the shaker smoothie because you just shook it on the way like the shake on the way

It was fine. I'm gonna go and drink when I get there and I pull up already seven minutes late nice And I get out of the car and I go to my trunk to get something and obviously there's white liquid coming down my leg. I put my entire smoothie in the purse. I also was in the purse but it came open. It came open. I don't think it was ever really closed. That's good. It's just throwing an open smoothie in the purse. So why? You got me off track with my bartending so I dropped things. So I was bartending and yeah, my learning, after I was really, really good at it.

All my friends showed up and we got it. I met some guys. Lots of cute guys in San Francisco too. That's another thing that changed. And they hit it, you know, they were not gay and they were, they talked, they asked me out. No, I'm telling you, guys in San Francisco never approach them. It was all in all a great event.

We raised a lot of money. They never knew but now they do. Now they do, there's all these new guys there. The dot comers maybe do. The tech guy. I'm bringing the tech guys. I don't care, talk to me, we're at a bar, it's fun The tech guy. I'm bringing the tech guys. I don't care. Talk to me. We're at a bar.

It's fun. So yes, I got a little buzz. I had some vodka. I had some. It was like vodka, grinding. Great fruit. I don't remember. You don't know much about drinks.

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It never looks like. It's okay, you don't know how to party, man. No, I can't, I physically can't drink enough to get very loose control. Uh-huh. So that's my story. You remember I got me outside the studio, much, heavy. I don't know why, because I'm really fine when I'm drunk.

Right. Can we, can we please do that? No, I'm really fine. You remember how I got me outside the studio, much heavier. I don't know why, because I'm really fun when I'm dry. Like can we, can we please do that? No, I'm really fun. Here's what I picture. And we'll go to a bar. Obviously now I want out of the bar and you will say, I'll go after the bath and I'll go right back and then you'll be gone for like 20 minutes and then I'll see you at the end of the bar digging

through your purse and go, oh my God, I'm so sorry. I gotta go though, something happened. No dude, I'm legend. I'm legend. I am legend. I am legend. I'm legend for my fun. Like that's why people like me. We'll make that happen. We'll make that happen.

I can't believe that you think that I'm not like this when I'm not here. I'm super fun. Okay, so I have more to say about that in scope but I think that people, you know, I'm not upset. I did not have sex. What bar was it at?

It was called the Woodbury bar. Down in the like mission to say. You know, it was down by the ballpark. So much happening by the ballpark Yeah, so much happening. Yeah, even though it's raining yeah ballpark so much happening No, the ballpark was built like yeah, off the freeway the in Berkardero It's a thriving city and I missed it a lot, but I was very glad to you back in LA and it was at a mistake Dude since Amber says go to any other city by far. Yes, but well

Yes, you've been you Detroit I felt like I slept with every restaurant in the city. That's how I felt, but I slept with a lot of guys slept with the restaurant. Well, I was like going, I went, I had, when David there, there, this, yeah. Oh, so you did went on a little a lot of dates that ended with sex behind the restaurants, but I was in all of them. I dated a lot of guys. Most of the guys I've dated slept with were probably in San Francisco, yes. Okay. And I saw a few of them. Did you ran into a few? No, I came to the party.

I have a lot of, I saw, you know, I'm friends with all my access. Yeah, pretty much. Eventually. What's the term, all my access or driving Lexus? Yeah. Are all my exes are living Texas? Yeah. I got no exes.

One wife, bang. I know. Nice and clean. Nice and clean. She's awesome too. Okay, would you like to... What? Here's some sex in the news. I love my sex in the news.

I mean, you know that. This is a good one. Okay. Swedish Health Minister officially endorses loud sex. This is the same country that also said that masturbating in public is not a problem as long as you're not making eye contact. I'm moving to Sweden.

If Trump becomes president, yes, as long as you're exactly. As long as you're making eye contact, you can beatating in public is not a problem as long as you're not making eye contact I'm moving to Sweden if Trump becomes president. Yes, as long as you're exactly as long as you're making eye contact You can beat off in public says Sweden you can jack off with the word yeah, exactly. Just don't look at them If you're wearing sunglasses, you can't move it. We can just stare at the boobs Just don't look when the eyes. What you're in glasses. How would they know how would they know where dark glasses and masturbate to wherever the hell you want? I'm dude. Just have it. I think I just whip it out. Oh my god I didn't know I was doing exactly what I live there. So they're very liberal sexually, as we know, from all these legislation last year.

Super attractive, too. Well, here's a thing. Beautiful. This is beautiful, right? You think they're beautiful. They're sitting around. Except for Pippi. Pippi Long-Cow, can that be so hot?

Listen to this story. So it's not to disturb the neighbors. Many apartment dwellers in Sweden are banned from noisy activities like vacuuming or drilling after 10 p.m. One activity that is allowed, however, is loud sex. And that's just the way it should be said. Help Minister Gabriel Wilkstrom, check this out. My neighbors are once again having noisy sex. You're my only hope. Could you ban, risk a exercises after 10 p.m. a sweet tweeted weekstrom on Wednesday? To you to say a sweet tweeted. Yeah, a sweet tweeted the health minister. The 31 year old's health minister's response. 31. 31. Sounds nice for them. I think good for their well-being and thus

public health as well. Here's why. The government's endorsement of noisy sex when viral. And he said his real message didn't come across, but here's the problem. He thinks that sex gets a bad rap and it's often related to sexual abuse, STI's, unwanted pregnancy, but here's a fact that- He must have been in love, when you were shocking back? Yes. In 2013, a poll showed the average suite has 3.8 encounters a month, which is down from five in 1996.

That's a 24% decline, and they're concerned that they're not having enough sex in Sweden. So he's saying, if it's going to be loud, you know, I want him to do it. I'm sure there's a lot of our neighbors that annoy us, but if they want to, if they've managed to get down to business, he got to be forgiving. Like I'm surprised that this, why aren't the Swedes having as much sex? Who does this study? Right. Like, I picture them being like blonde and happy and eating meatballs and like banging.

In the dark. Yeah. Because it gets dark really, really. But I like that there's, you know, casual about sex, but I don't know why they're not banging. My dad was like, what's the problem there? I think everyone's happy. There's no stress in your banging all the time. They actually have the highest rate of suicide.

I think I'm a planet. Sweden? Yeah. I do. I've heard that. My dad was a very odd fellow. Just makes sense then. Yeah. He was.

Very strange man. I loved him, but he was a very odd dude. He was a psychologist, PhD, and administered all sorts. He did a lot of sexual therapy as well with his clients and a long story short. He didn't give me much advice as a kid. But one thing that he repeated over and over again was before I got married i

had to go to stock home sweeten in the summertime because he banged his way across europe when he was in the military and sweeten was his favorite place and he said that they he always told me andy they think of sex like chocolate it gets not like a taboo over there it's like chocolate i remember i had sex with a girl and then i woke up in the morning and her parents were downstairs i didn't know that we were at her parents house and they were they were making me pancakes There are so pleased to have me in the house. She's dad told you the story all these stories

Yeah, he's to talk about getting crabs from hookers and Germany. Yeah, he tells all sorts of inappropriate stories He called you Andy. Yeah, he did He's like you got to go to Stockholm Wait, I can't believe that I just have seared it. So that's how I only advice I like did he repeat these stories? I was like one time. No, no, the sock home in Sweden. I could told my sister had a fiance.

And he was telling her fiance before he get married. She'd go, oh, fuck off. Shut up, that's so messed up. I know. He told your sister. What's your sister's wife? Yeah, two sisters. What did he tell them?

He told them. Like, he told her fiance. What was it equal opportunity being? Was he like, Hey, go sleep. Did they all all mail all my he get furious if my sister's had a boy over. But if I had a girl upstairs, we didn't tell your sisters to go sleep around. No, yeah, exactly double standards success. Yeah. Did you ever go to Sweden? Never went. Still got to get over there.

Well, wait until I get to know if they need you after you get divorced. Okay. 3.8 encounters. That's not enough. Less with multiples. Right. Exactly. I don't know what's going on there, but probably because of depressed, some like the whole story is very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, most Republicans lie about their party on dating sites. Really? More than half Republicans prefer to keep their political affiliation on the down low while courting a potential mate. Not sexy. No, I know. Well, I don't think it's actually but just eighteen percent of democrats say they had their party affiliation and fifty seven of our

public and supply they would or have lied about their leanings um... and eighty two percent democrats compared to forty three republicans that they would never dream of keeping their political viewpoints at shashwant now i always said that i am would not like that would be, I always try thinking my deal breakers if I saw something in a profile.

Right. And I'm not a big, you know me, like I'm open, I like most people, I'll give a chance, but Republican I would, especially now, like I'm voting for Trump, like I can't have that conversation over dinner. To now the things,

no, I don't know, I just like if he's someone's like trying to talk to me about how much he likes Donald Trump. Contrary is very divided, yes. But, but I think that man now is interesting, because now is interesting because you know the other of the number one thing they lie about besides this. No, we're not on the profile height. So they're lying about their height and they're lying about their party.

So it's just horrible. Don't go online. I've never asked you this question. What's Emily's biggest turn off? On a profile? On a profile or I could throw. What's the big question? What's the biggest, what's Emily's biggest turn off? On a profile, on a profile or I could say, what's the question? What's the difference profile? Well, because it's funny, I've often thought about it, like, if I saw something,

what would it have to be? And I often said, like, if he was really like, right, wing, like that would, that's your biggest? Honestly, like, I, you are kind of a political person, you don't bring it into the show, you know, it's smart, because you talk about sex, sex is, I know, I was so bad saying like, I don't want to lose a lot of listeners right now. And here's the thing, I would be best friends with you. I just don't wanna date you.

So if you were probably killing your listener, like, I love you and here's the thing. If we were to party and like, George Bush was there and like, Al Gore, like, I, you think Bush? I know, I'd rather sit next to George Bush because I think he's probably a really good time. Right.

You know, Al Gore, I love Al Gore, I was a little boring, whatever he's that's okay. So I'm saying like, George Bush is like, we might not be the brightest person, like, you know, he's probably a good time. Nice guy. Says nothing though. up to. So I'm saying like, George Bush is like, we might not be in the brightest person, like, you know, he's probably a good time, nice guy. That's nothing though. No, but what I'm saying is,

you're political beliefs, what I'm saying is, I have nothing against any of my listeners. I'm saying about sitting in a room, sharing a room with George Bush and talking politics and having to bang him, that wouldn't turn me on. But having friends or Republicans, or listeners or you or Quintan's, that's fine.

But for a relationship, that might be hard. It might be hard. But, you know, maybe- People forget that M comes from politics. I mean, she made a documentary about politics. I did, I know, it's that way. That's so different. But here's the other deal breaker,

like I'm trying to think people- Bad breath. But he's not gonna tell you, okay, so in person? Yeah. Okay, so forget the dating profile because I think that would be like, maybe if he doesn't have a job. The profile.

Well, I think what I would see in the profile that would turn me off. Right. Jobless would be bad, lives with mom bad. But I wouldn't say that. To the point is, I always thought that was something, but now I'm like, okay, so in real life, I'm on a date. And he wears, you don't know, he wears what? Ed Harder, a lot of Cologne.

A lot of Cologne. You were not a bit happy a couple nights ago when we had Dr. Ray, 90210 in here and the love line studios. Ah, yeah. Bad. He just wore a lot of, he's a Brazilian man and there's a lot of people.

Oh, you know, Europeans, you can let a lot of slide. Really? Yeah. What about B.O.? That'd be a big turn off. Yeah, I would say like, you know, being cheap, not to be in the waitress, not tipping well. You got those friends?

Being rude to the waitress, not being rude to hating his mom. If he's like, God, I haven't talked to my mom. She's such a bitch. What if she was a bitch? I don't know. Just if you hate any, okay, I understand like, if you hate anything, you hate women. No, just like the whole like, you know, bad or like, and here's the thing. You can hate your parents.

You can have something wrong with them. But if you have a good, yeah, like a little like she abused me but don't get into the first day anyway but if you just have a general like you can tell when a guy's like kind of a massage massage and doesn't respect men or women okay yeah the way treats the waiter right the waitress that's a big one that's a big one so you know like I hate everything and I hate everyone you know that right you see my anger all the time but I would never ever treat a waiter or waitress that's a totally different thing. Never.

You're talking about it. Yeah, exactly. And then the other thing is, see, I would say I'm so open that I give people the better of the doubt because I know that we're not, you know, first date so people say, well, if he doesn't ask any questions about me, well, a lot of times guys are nervous. And they talk to me, I'd say like, if you like them enough, you, if you think something like a deal breaker, I think some of these people are too harsh with their deal breakers. And you got to give someone bet and for the doubt.

So that's my lesson to everyone that think about what really, because I think people make all these rules, like, oh, he's didn't graduate from college, or he, you know, all these different things, you know, he doesn't make enough money, or I think that you just, you don't know everyone's situation right away, and I think people cut themselves off

and people that could actually be a really good match. So I'm a huge fan. Don't break it. Let me tell you this You're a alcoholic. I even dated alcoholics for years. I can't say that well. They're fun You say no to the Republican party over there. That's that's a pretty large chunk of the population And let me tell you this what about this? Yeah, you're dating a Republican. It'll help you see the world a little more open You're able to hear their ideals not you're gonna change, but you'll know where they're coming from. You know what I mean? I understand. And here's the thing. I'm not even saying that I haven't dated Republicans. Sure you have.

Yeah. So it's not even that I'm saying that that would even be, you know, but I don't want you to lie about it though. I don't think you have a deal for it. Have you called yourself a Democrat and you were a Republican? I'd be bad, but if you didn't say anything. Oh, that would be good. And I really liked you to get great chemistry, but we didn't talk about politics.

Okay. I don't know, it hasn't come up. It hasn't in years. The wife and I, very, very different politics and I just don't talk about them. See? We just make sure to steer clear of them. Look at James Carville and Mary-Mathlin, remember them?

Nope, no idea what you're talking about. They were both for, no. He was Bill Clinton's advisor. Uh-huh. James Carville. Oh, and the other one was, uh. Mary-M where he was Bill Clinton's advisor James Carville oh the other one was Mary mountain was bushes top advisor Top top top and they got married so That tells me that they were in cahoots and they were like so they really weren't but they're like hey, so that's what I'm saying I'm open. I you don't know when I end up with it's true Why don't we give a shout out to the people who help keep this show free?

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Okay, we have a new segment, Anderson. Well, I'm just gonna tell you about it because we're introducing it. Emily, please tell my partner. Oh. Yep. Okay, so sometimes it's really hard for people to approach their partner about something they want

in the bedroom. We hear this all the time. People email me like, what do I do with this? Like, you want to, you know, you try to bring it up, you don't know how to do it, and you guys are in the bedroom. We hear this all the time. People email me, like, what do I do with this? Like, you wanna, you try to bring it up, you don't know how to do it, and you guys are in the same conversation, and you're really sure, back and forth and back and forth, so I'm gonna do it for you.

I'm gonna call them. I'm gonna call them. Sex therapy on the show. Exactly, little free, I'm gonna call up. Are you gonna call them? Yep, I'm gonna deliver the advice. So, for example, I asked on Twitter, what do you wish you could tell your partner

about your sex life, but don't know how? And like, people were like, oh, I'm boyfriend to like shave his pubes, or like, I want my girlfriend ever to treat him. You're the meaty. Or what? You're like the meaty. I'm the meaty eater.

You know, this guy's like, I want my girlfriend to talk dirty to me. And like, if you're shy and you don't want to bring it up, I'm going to call them and walk them through it. But I'm totally professional and we do it in a really nice way. Yes. And I won't do breakups. But I'm thinking like I would do a proposal.

Right. Papa. How would you propose? I would do a proposal. Well, if someone was like, you propose, I might do that. But I'm not doing breakups. I'm not getting that. I'm not doing anything really super dirty,

like super harsh. Hard to break up. Yeah, you want to only do positive stuff. No, I'm going to help someone like free advice. And a really good way. Exactly. So if you've got something you want to bring up to your partner, and you don't know how, email me feedback at sexwithemily.com. Have you thought about the idea of doing

a singing telegram style, or you show up like if they're work or something? That would be amazing. And you do a little dance. I'm really good at writing jingles. That would be great. Do you know that's one of my skills? I did not have any clue about that. I could wear up with the Elf costume that I have. I have an Elf costume. I'm sure good at I'm writing jingles. That would be great. Do you know that's one of my skills? I did not have any clue. I can wear the elf costume that I have I have an elf costume. I'm sure he do

It was my first job in San Francisco. I Moved over Christmas. I had no money. No, I was like catering and I you make a great life We do I like I don't remember was like some some recruitment for it was like They call me like a perfect job for you I don't know like another crew. It was a time-pay to see. Yeah, they're like Will you be an elf? We have the perfect job for you. I don't know. Like another crew and it was a template to see. They're like, will you be an elf? We have the perfect job for you.

You be an elf at Toys for Tots. And I said, yes, I will. So you didn't use your, you didn't use your, Dildo was a little, no, I was 22 when I was a little elf. And I got paid like 150 bucks. That was the best ever. My kids happy, give them presents. And you still have the costume.

I don't, no, no, but I would like to. And you still have the costume. I don't. No. No, but I would like to be. You know, 90 seconds ago, you lied. I know, I'd say I would be an elf when I delivered the singing telegrams. You said you had a costume while you were looking at it. I had an elf costume. They didn't let me keep it.

It was part of the job. Okay, I've got some emails. Okay, let's do it. Okay, so thank you everyone. I love when you email me, feedback at sexofelmy.com And I love also when you include your name and where you're listening from and how you listen in the email on your age Age is helpful contact For example in this first one

very useful Emily my name is James. I'm 28 years old male from South Dakota, and I just started listening to your iTunes podcast I'm currently separated from my wife of five and a half years who lives in Texas with our two kids We've been separated since March of 2015 and are in the beginning stages of the divorce We're completely civil with each other and we just grew apart to the point where we don't love each other as a married couple anymore My question is once the divorce is finalized How do I put myself back in the dating scene? Thank you, you're awesome Emily.

So this is important, because when I was first, I was like, oh, I used 28. So, you know, if he was 45, it's a little different if you've married for 20 years, you've married for five, but it's still, so the age is helpful, as long as I'm saying. First of all, don't date to your body. It sounds like he is ready, James,

because he, you know, they've been separated for over a year. And they grew apart. It sounds like a fairly organic. It wasn't like somebody else got caught doing something. Right. And sometimes people jump in, they're like overall, like I was thinking, you know, too quickly, because they should. And they just want to get over it, they want to.

But it sounds like, you know, he's at some time to heal. But the kids. But he's got kids too. What do you mean? That's good to complicate things. Well, exactly. Having kids complicate things, that is true.

But I think that you'll find that, yeah, for a lot of people, that could be complicated. Yeah. But make sure, James, that you just have figured out like why it ended, what your part in it was. Because a lot of people have blame or anger. They don't heal from their relationship. And then like figure out, you know, and right now, just go out and start dating again and figure out, you know, what kind of people you like.

It's an important time to like date casual. And date around. Don't feel pressured to commit to anyone right away. And I was gonna say that people aren't judging. Here's another thing I found from a lot of divorce friends that they really thought that people were gonna judge them because they were divorced, like they were failures. And I think that we all know that 50% of marriages

and in divorce, and I think a lot of them will look at it as, you know, shows that you can commit. So I think that I, you know, don't let that intimidate you. I think a lot of people worry that that's going to be a judgment. Now the kids thing, that could be interesting for people who, you know, you might find someone who's divorced with kids or someone who wants more. If you want more kids, that's great. Right. They might think of his opponents, but don't I wouldn't worry about all that stuff. But what I would say is be open because you've been in a relationship for a long time.

And just look at it like you're trying to figure out, again, you married someone young and figure out what you like and what you don't like in a potential partner. Honestly, once you have your confidence and you've figured out why you got divorced, date online, everyone's dating online these days, but I would also say the real world.

This is a great time for you to reconnect, find your friends who are single, and just start going out, and say yes to every invitation you get, you know, you get all those Facebook invites, do you read those? I don't go on Facebook. Okay, but if you did.

Yeah, so I'm familiar with the content. So, I'm really like, oh, I can't do it, but now you can. And you never know who you're gonna meet when you're going out, tell all your friends at your. And you never know who you're going to meet when you're going out. Tell all your friends that you're single. Let them know that you're ready to date again. Because friends, great way to fix you up.

They might not know in the moment, but they'll be thinking about you and they'll be, you know, they meet someone and they'll invite you places. But just remember to be yourself. And be honest, you don't have to get into your entire relationship. Obviously, you can say that you're divorced. And I think it's great to keep it positive. It sounds like you already are in a positive place and The things that might have changed and let's see six years is texting I six years ago seven years ago wanted a guy to call me

I think texting is okay. No, I'm trying to think of what he needs to know Would this be bad if he if he lied and said that he was a widower? Because it's like that he lied and said that he was a widower. Because she's like that. They're full sorry for her. She totally dig you for that. No, he can't say. What are these like, she's dead to me,

but like he whispers to me. You know what I mean? Does it go without saying that like you don't introduce your kids to potentials? Does it go without saying? Well, yes, if you're my mother, she did not get that message or my father because they introduced me to

My dad was like oh, I had a date with her last night. She's gonna come out with us on Sunday like my dad So it's like the norm to you my mom got married six months after she divorced my mom So my parents messed up if you are if you are single I mean and your date again you have kids wait as long as possible until you know that it's a relationship with someone that you really love and that you're gonna be with until you drag the kids in and they become connected and then they never see that person again, even though you told them to love them,

like a parent and then they love them, like a parent and they were gone. And they're gone. I have no idea what you're doing. That must be brutal. No, it was fine though, because they did suck my parents made really bad choices. So you think you're glad to see these people leave?

Yes, I was like, thank God you divorced the asshole, mom. But my mom's, my stepdad, she's been with her 30 years. She had a little blip in the middle. That was a bad stepdad. So you should've been married three times? Yeah, my dad too. Your dad married three times too. Yeah, and then he died.

After he married 20 years ago, the third wife, he was with for a year. Well, just be- Like, way five years. That's my story, but yeah, don't introduce them to the kids yet until you're sure. Unless you got a daughter who you're really hoping becomes like a sex relationship therapist online. And I started the show.

Do you know why I started it? Because I have always been like, you know, I didn't have the best role models. I didn't have great relationships with my home. I'd like to find out the secrets and how people, you know, stay happy and say in a relationship for a long time. Very curious. And I have all the answers. So it's totally fine. home, I'd like to find out the secrets and how people, you know, stay happy and stay in the village for a long time. Very curious. And I have all the answers. So it's totally fine. There should also be like a re-batchler party like, so that this guy could go out there and have a big like coming out party like, hey, I'm available again. Yeah, exactly. I mean,

he's 20. I don't think it's going to have a hard time. 28. Yeah. That's why it's very different. What are you doing? 28. Exactly. He's got the kids. And I would just say, and again, don't beat yourself up. It's gonna feel awkward at first, perhaps. So going if you started it, it's just like you should take every job interview, ask some women out for coffee and another thing. Just start practice, start, practice talking to women wherever you go.

And guys, just talk. It's a muscle. You meet them everywhere, the gym. I'm so not worried about them at all. Super market. I remember, nothing's working. You can say, my wife is dead Women love death they love comforting

Okay, Emily I was listening to you in love line tonight This is how I found out about you and I already love it you I already love you and I'm a fan So tonight I heard you speaking about a girl with a girl about holding a vibrator on a guy's penis while giving oral. Unfortunately, I didn't catch exactly what you were saying. I was probably saying it really fast. How would you do this? Where and how would you hold it? And is there a certain kind of vibrator that's better to use? Thank you so much, looking forward to hearing back Amanda.

This is a great question. I don't remember hearing you say this, and I was obviously sitting right there. Exactly. Anderson's on the line as well. So, it's a great point because I think this is a little known secret, and you know, it's funny, because I feel like I talk about this all the time, on my show, but maybe on the line,

not enough clearly, do I mention the fact that vibrators don't just feel good on women. They feel amazing on men. Men love a little vibrator, little vibration on their balls on their shaft They're taint They don't know it though A lot of guys don't know it a lot of women don't try it and I'm telling you okay, and he might let me I'm not gonna say that every single man on the planet is gonna want a vibrator on his testicles

I can imagine say that super homophobic dudes being like, get that takeaway from me. Okay, but she wants to know what kind to use. A little, no, you're not using your big, you know, dildos shaped vibrator. You're using a tiny bullet vibe, like a pocket rocket, one like an egg, like the Mimi, or the Wevibe touch, or the Wevibe tango is this perfectly, the most perfectly built bullet on the planet. And I would say that. It's very powerful, it's a mergeable water, that's a point, but you don't have to take a shower with them. But here's the thing. You start by, you know, playing

with it. You can just use it on yourself, let them know you have a vibrate. You don't want to whip it out if you never had a vibrate or play. But maybe, you know, you've already had that conversation that's there, you say, look what I've got. And you show them how you use it, rub it on yourself. And then you take it again this and this not on the high vibe not on the highest vibration level Which you might use when you're masturbating But you want to start on the lowest level because you don't want to freak him out or his balls What is that? Um rub it on his shaft his balls like on the low setting and some guys are sensitive

So again really light touch like you're not going like, like you would, you know, on yourself. So you can even do it over as an underwear. Yeah, you kind of, kind of when you're like getting in there, you're like, but no, I like light touches too, but again, you're like a tease over as an underwear. First to start, then you can trace it all over as body.

You can actually use it during a blowjob. You can put it against your mouth or under your chin, and he feels it and turns your entire mouth into a vibrator So I would say great ways again like lightly lightly his balls a shaft like I don't think he's gonna stop you just suggested she like take them both down Like she puts it like right next to it and then like takes it both of them in her mouth That we suggested no, I will I was saying she could be giving them a blowjob Uh-huh, and the, what, whilst the penis?

Whilst too, you're British now. Penis is in her mouth. Yes. She takes the vibrator. Oh, on the outside. And puts in her cheek or under her chin. Uh-huh. And then her mouth turns into a vibrator.

Right. And her teeth start chattering. Exactly. It's like it's freezing, but it's not. But don't bite his penis. Don't do that. So that feels good. Right.

Have you never had a vibrator on your penis? I don't talk about such things. I think you have it. I think I gave you one. I gave you a vibrator. Republican man. And my sexual. Listen guys, I'm not saying what I'm saying that if your guys opened, you might like it. He doesn't. And guess what? Just give him a blowjob without the vibrator. And he's gonna be happy. End of story. Trump. I bet Trump would like a happy. End of story. Trump. I bet Trump would like a ball. I think he needs one. It was a really good documentary called You Got Trump.

And it's all about what a dick Trump is. Really? Did you just come out? Oh. And it's all about him trying to like take over the Scottish land that like people have been living on for years and he wants to turn it into a best co-hosts in the world, you know, and he's saying we need to get this

come out of here. It's really shows you the true side of it. I think everybody should watch the document. Do you talk about it in your show? No, I think you should have you cared long before he's running for president. I think you should talk about it right now. And so you see, I did you see the throwback, even though cinematics, Anderson's amazing podcast.

I'll see if it's streaming. It's all about upcoming shows and I also do, I also do top my, my best streaming pick of the week a great movie that's streaming yeah that you can watch right now in Netflix or or Amazon which is weak I want to watch movies this week I picked one called the Barclay Marathons which was phenomenal to documentary all about this crazy marathon that is crazy old coot but together down in Tennessee and it's a hundred miles and 60 hours. Wow. You got to run a hundred miles 60 hours And not just running it's through like the Tennessee backwoods. It's amazing. That's amazing

phenomenal documentary called the Barclay the Barclay Marathons. Okay, got it And you talk about the Trump one too because it would be good political mess. There's a Trump like a 40 minute movie on Netflix as well I've not seen it yet, but Johnny thatpp plays Trump or something. It's supposed to be very funny. It was like a parody of that book that he wrote, the art of business or whatever. I'm speaking out of terms. I'm not seeing it. Okay. Well, I'm me there. Trump's there. Yeah. Yeah. I got cold. Settle down. I spilled a smoothie. I've wet. I've got wet all over me. Will you inside your purse when it spilled? No, it was dirty dripping down my leg out of my purse. Out of your, it's just. This is why I gave you many, you're like,

you're a stranger. You're a stranger to me. I dumped it on the ground when I walked in. Okay. We have time for one more evening. Hi, Emily. I'm going. My name is Jamie.

My name is Jamie. I'm from Minnesota and I'm 25. I've recently found you and loved what I'm learning. What I'd like to ask is, when I drink, I'm a very charismatic person. Fun, very outgoing towards everyone. Yet sober me is very shy, reserved, and quiet at first. That's so weird.

All my friends say I'm a very funny person and I love to get together with me. My question is, how should I approach a woman? Should it be timid, me, slightly drunk me who is all fun? Yikes. Jamie. Sign Jamie. What do you think? What do you, you can't do it with a liquid courage unless you're looking for like a little one night fun. I know. He cannot rely on the liquid courage as a crotch. And you probably think you're extra smooth and cool but I bet you guys, especially if she's not

drinking you're gonna come off like a sloppy drunk. Right. I'm sure all your alcoholic friends think that you're really funny too. Here's what I've learned about drunks. The ones that think that they're really fun in life of the party when they're drunk? No, those are the ones that are obnoxious and you can't wait for them to leave. Exactly, because if I really am phone when I'm drunk, but I know you're saying, I think that that's

where the trouble starts off. For a lot of you will get into addiction because it's social anxiety and they use it to quell that and they rely on drugs and alcohol and all this stuff and they become too dependent. So what you got to do Jamie is during the daytime. Daytime when you're sober, no, when you're sober, practice talking to women like I just told that I just said it's like The reason why you're so afraid of approaching women a lot of people and talking and you think you need to drink is because you're not used to it You know, you don't have that experience like learning how to talk to to children. Until I had a niece, I did not talk to kids.

And then I love her and I got her and I understand now I can talk to anyone. Like, it's practice if you have always made women this uncomfortable thing, you won't get it. But when you're out, doesn't it be someone you want? Anyone you want, bang, or sleep with, just anybody. Strike up a conversation. And there's tricks that I've used them.

As a man. Go. Oh my God. Being nervous, I have pretended that they're dudes. Right? I got got just I'm imagine they're very a feminine guy like do imagine their penis No, no, I just imagine like this. It's a dude who has long hair and it kind of has feminine features and like what I still like what they're saying if they're a dude What I still want to hang out with them or and I don't know if this come up on this show here before but like I'll pretend that it's like my sister's friend I'll do that sometime. You literally like, so you're like,

hot girl, hot girl. That channel. I'm like, no, she's my sister's friend. So it's like, we have something in common, or it's like my really good friend's girlfriend. I'll try and psych myself out, so I believe that I'm talking to like my really good friend's girlfriend. You can do that, that's that.

Yeah, I can trick myself. I remember I told you I tricked myself that the person's dead so that I wouldn't say I was gonna say to you different than their dead But I think I think it's like themselves out and kind of set themselves up to think that way I think that is great I mean because I always tell guys like channel like think about you are like when you're with your friends You'll be that guy yeah to think actually picture that this is your best guy friend or yeah It's his girlfriend

So I want to be put moves on because a lot of the time the awkwardness that comes from guys is I don't know I can't speak for all guys but for myself is like I the idea that they know that I want to bang put moves on, because a lot of the time the awkwardness that comes from guys is, I don't know, I can't speak for all guys, but for myself, is like, the idea that they know that I want to bang them and everything I'm saying is just trying to get into their pants makes me feel like such a dirty person. Right. You're already thinking, right? And we'll see. And it's just so funny because as a woman, yeah, you mean, if you just start talking, we're

like in the middle of the day and the boss or whatever. Why would you come up and just start talking to me, you know, out in public? It's because you want to get my pants and everyone knows that including me and you. That makes it feel very uncomfortable and dirty. But there's ways as to casually if you're just like hanging out in a crowd, you know, you're waiting in line, you're like, you know, I always say like a picture if you're waiting in line and you're just like looking around or like, you always think of the line. Yeah.

Well, we're also people in crowds. That's why I get a percentage because I would sit there and I'd have something to talk to them about. And I actually wanted something besides over China. They didn't know that at the time. They thought I just wanted a drink, but I actually wanted more than a drink. Right. This way you don't like bartender.

And then would you get the bartender? And then I would end up like, you know, dating the bartender, but, you know, I build a rapport, but there was already a transaction that kind of in between us. So there's a point to talking to them. Right. But girls want to get laid too. They want to meet guys. Exactly. So there's, you shouldn't be thinking that.

I never thought when a guy was talking to me, you just had to be because he wants to sleep with me. I know no girl ever thinks that, but that's the way guys think. I got that. Especially when I was younger, I totally thought that. And what you guys are really thinking is,

yeah, I'm hot. And he knows it. Right, it feels really good about myself. Yeah, it feels really good about it. When guys don't hit out, and you're like, why is no one hitting on me? Yeah. Right, as a woman.

But as a guy, you're really worried that you're like, you're not thinking that. We're not thinking that. But for all out at a party or somewhere and we're single, like, we want to talk to people. Right. We do. It doesn't mean you're going to go home with them,

but you do want to talk to them. Deppie, it's a practice. Right, and you're going to get better at it, and I love what you just said. And that was great advice. And Jamie, drunk you is not attractive to women. So, you know, I'm sure, unless you're attracted to drunk sloppy women.

It's a slippery slope, because you're a successful person. I think we just saved them. If you're successful with that, you're gonna rely even heavier on the drinks. And the next thing you know, you're drinking every night. Exactly, and I have a lot of friends who would watch get sober. And when they're sober, like that first year,

two effort dating, they're like, I can't, I can't talk to anyone. You don't wanna do that. So we saved them. Saved saving lives here Anderson. Thank you so much. And so cinematics. Cinematics. And the film cinematics and the film vault and the after disaster. Just plug those right into your phone now because you're already listening to your

pie. I get that. It's a lot of Anderson. But you can never have too much Anderson. Oh, that's so sweet. And you can never. Jamie real quick. We're assuming it's a dude. Good morning girl. Never once said he was a dude He probably could be a lesbian woman named Jamie. No, you never know Can't be sure I just like to you know hate every possibility You know, you're right all the information that we give you the same sports are woman, but you're right could be a lasboh Is that just for Apple say little show? I

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