Sex With Emily - Getting Into Jenna Haze

Episode Date: April 2, 2014

Her first interview in 3 years, award-winning pornstar, Jenna Haze comes into the studio to give you an inside look on the makings of the porn legend. Emily gets into the past and personal parts of Jenna's life. Jenna tells the story of how she lost her virginity. Have you ever wanted to experience Jenna? Fleshlight molded Jenna's intimate parts and Jenna's excited to share it with you! Emily and Jenna take calls from listeners asking about what Jenna's up to now, Jenna's new website, how to get your girl into getting oral, how she kept up relationships while doing porn, what Jenna considers great sex. Jenna talks about what working in porn is like when the camera's not rolling. How to give a woman give oral is explored and Jenna gives her personal tips. Jenna gets into the details of how she gives her best blowjob and how she keeps things interesting in relationships. Listen to the show to find out how to win Jenna's famous Fleshlight! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I miss you. I miss you too, and you have great haircuts. Super sexy. Thanks, kid. You know what, the people that I work with every day don't even notice. That's why I love you. Really? That's why I love you. That's why I love you. That's why I love you.

It's true love. I have another wonderful guest, lovely guest here in the studio. It's Miss Jenna Hayes. Hi, Jenna. Hi. Jenna is an American director, model, and former porn pornographic actress. She's won numerous adult industry awards.

Like, OK, your list of awards is two pages right now on my screen. That's actually not all of them. But I mean, seriously, like, OK, like, okay, your list of awards is two pages right now on my screen. That's actually not all of them, but seriously, like, okay, like 2003, where the A.B.N. were best star, like goes on and on, female performer of the year. I mean, we people went crazy today when I was like posting social media, Jenna Hayes, Jenna Hayes. What do you attribute your success to? Why? There's a lot of girls out there. I know you've retired now. We're going to get into what she's doing next. But what do you think it is that made you such a success? I don't know.

I think that I have a very, very specific look that it's like the girl next door, natural. I have no tattoos, no pair of things, no plastic surgery. Everything from my nails to my hair is all real. There's nothing fake at all. I've never had lip injections, nothing like that. You don't need it. lip injections, nothing like that. That's right. So you're more the innocence. I think so too. I think that I you know I came in the industry, I went pretty uh you know all out right away. Like how do I say this? Nice. Yeah I went into it pretty you know quickly. I didn't just start with solo you know

shoots and then move on. I just went right into it. Like I was reading that your first scene was pretty intense, that you would just do one thing and then it ended up being something else. Is that it? Yes. So it was kind of, you know, it was kind of unexpected. It was great.

I kind of threw myself into it. I was a adult film fan before I got in the industry. As a teenager, I'd watched them with boyfriends. Really? Yeah. I knew a lot about the industry. I knew stars, I was fans of certain stars and stuff. So it was who was your biggest fan? Who was your biggest fan of? I like to girl named Skylope as who most people would never even know.

She used to be on the Shane's World ones. I really like the Shane's World. I don't know if you, the old Shane's World, which actual Shane in them. Okay. Okay. And she had like a group of girls that were really good in all of her movies. The Skyloat has and like I think Halle Astins, the Redhead girl author, so hot. Oh wow.

So you were so. And there's their movies were so real. Like they would just be a bunch of people who go up and go like snowboarding and they would just like, you know, like, they're all. It was like the, it was like the beginning of reality porn. Right. But now it's like big. Right now it's everything.

Right now everything's about amateur porn and all right. So you like, it was much, it was much more real and like just fun. And, you know it's like big. Right now it's everything right now everything's about amateur porn and all right so you like it was much it was much more real and like just fun and you know I like that. So that's cool so your boy friends was it their idea or your idea to watch when you were well it was their idea I was very young right. So you were like okay and then you were in shirt now where you attracted to women. Yes you've always been track jumping. I was with a woman before I was ever with a guy. Oh wow okay yeah. So when did you first have your first feelings that you might be into women? I was pretty young I was probably like I don't know

a lot of say this one. I was in my like pre-teens. Okay. You started to track it to women. Yeah. I was obsessed with Madonna. Right. I was like so I mean it was 80s and the 90s you know 80s. Oh gosh. I'm making myself older than I am. Don't even get me started. Okay, yeah. I mean, there was the 90s. That was when Madonna was very like, I was her erotic stage.

Right. You were like, turn on by that. Yes, very much. I was very turned on by her sexual empowerment too, how she was not afraid to be, you know, in charge of her sexuality on such a huge scale. Right, exactly. And so do you feel that you, like how was your first formative, like your formative sexual experiences?

Like with the woman, for example, that was your first, was that your first sexual experience? Yes. Was it like making out or was it more than that? Like it was more than that. And how was that? Like how did you know what to do?

It's just, I'm not. No, watching for now. Well, not then, I hadn't watched it yet. Oh, okay. Yeah, I was before that ever happened I don't know like as like I don't know as young little girls like in my preteens We would like act out like oh well you pretend to be the guy and all pretend to be the girl and like well like you know Right like flirt and like it was like practice. I'm doing that too with the price. Yeah Totally I'm really grabbing her hand in my boob and I'm like that kind of feels good

Yeah, I remember that but I I knew that I with the price. It was almost like practice. Yeah, totally. I remember like grabbing her and my boob and I'm like, that kind of feels good. Yeah, I remember that. But I knew that I was still attracted to, you know, that I was already attracted to women. And it just kind of came naturally. And then when I was, you know, in my little bit later teens, I, when I actually started, like, you know, kissing girls and not just like trying to act out. Right now like at the bar, like at your era,

or at our late at, to to impress me you really attracted to me I'm saying there's so many women like I kissed a girl because it was like fun and my boyfriend wanted me to be your I like girls before I like guys but now I'm definitely want guys for relationships and girls for just fun See right that's totally fine. I totally get it so you do both then that's yes Yes, so in your okay, so how about your Experiences like like sexually with a guy? So the first time that you had sex with them, like do you remember was that terrible? Terrible, oh he is right.

I'm so terrible. I'm so terrible. I gotta tell you people live, some people in this show are like, it sounds like it's supposed to be great the first time, so I don't even stress about it, right? It was terrible. And like the reason the guy I picked and like the reason I did it was just so stupid and childish. Like, why, who was he?

What happened? It was because the guy that I was all like, I was just about to be a freshman in high school. And I really liked the sky. It was the summer before I started my first year, my ninth year. And I really liked him. I dated him all summer and then I went to sleep with him.

So he broke up with me. And so then I got mad because he broke up with me because I went and I slept with his worst enemy. I know how mean, right? And I didn't even like him. But you just had with the one. And it was terrible. Yeah. Just once it was horrible. And I was like that sucked. That's a bad way to lose my virginity. Exactly. Not very good. Now what we all do, we are things like that. Right. Then what but we all do weird things like that, right? Right. Then did you, what about you growing up, exactly, did you have orgasms? Like, would you remember the first time you masturbated?

Oh, I was always from a young age like, I'm being stuffed out of a chastise. So, how does a woman like you? I never had a problem with that, with orgasming or anything. You always were good at it and you could do it and you knew about it. I've always been a very sexual person.

I mean, as a little kid in a, you know, I would take like my clothes off all the time and run around naked. I like, you know, stole my mom's laundry and like dressed up in it. Pretend I was Madonna in video. Oh my God. Did you have a video?

Did you have a video that goes down the floor? No, thank God. I think it probably won't work. No way. That'd be cute though. Throw back. Oh my God. I don't even want to think about that.

What bad thoughts that would inspire people. No, you're right. Wait, we don't want to do that. You're right. No. I would just I think it's cute. Okay, but so you would think it's cool. I would think it's cool too. And so if you always been comfortable that when you when you've been after that terrible experience, when you're with men that get sort of women expressing what you need and so important. Yeah, I was very natural to me. Sex was always very natural to me from a, you know, young age, I feel like that's why when I got approached to be an adult, I kind of went for it.

Yeah, because you were like, I mean, there's a whole bunch more to it. Sorry, but, you know, yeah. Okay, that's why I think that I like, you know, that first scene you were talking about, it was just like, I was exploring my sexuality, you know. With like two different people in it or something. Yeah. But why do you make me feel like it's so fine? It's like, you want all these award, all these awards, you are doing something right.

And you liked it for a while when you were in it. And now you are done directing. And now I am in a different place. Okay, that is a good place. Okay, we have some callers coming in. So we should take on these. Awesome. Number to take line two.

Okay, Reggie, hi, Reggie. Hey, how are you doing? He is in Illinois. Hi. Thanks for Consex, Illinois. Hi, thanks for Colin's ex-family. Yes, yes. I've been listening to your podcast of your show, and it's really amazing.

Thank you. You're a really great interviewer, and I'm a fan of Gina Hayes. Well, we are both here for you. Thank you. Well, thank you so much for listening to the show, and calling in. It's great talk to you.

How can we help you tonight? Well, thank you. I was just just had a quick question. I just wanted to know what I can have been up to since she's retired a while back. Do you have any projects that I can check out? Or are you doing any mainstream work? Yes, that's awesome. I actually am just about to come out with two indie movies that I have cameos in. One is a horror movie and it's called Raised by Wolves by the Butcher Brothers. And then the other one is another indie movie called Pocket Listing.

Pocket Listing. Thank you. Pocket Rare. You get right out of my mouth. Pocket Listing. And I make a little cameo in that one too. And they're coming out soon. Pocket Listing has Rob Llo and Bert Reynolds in it. The other one is a more underground indie movie. It doesn't have any celebrities in it. Okay. Except for you. Except for me.

But it's cool. It's really short. Yeah, definitely. Yeah, and I like horror movies so I'll definitely be my favorite. Yeah, it's my favorite. It's what I want to be. I want to be like a scream queen. Yeah, that's pretty cool. And then like I said, I definitely appreciate your previous review of Amazing Performer and you always brought it. You know, so this is my first time ever really. You didn't just talk to me, but I know that you did busy and everything, directing and everything like that. And doing all wonderful things is just cool to finally be able to talk to you and show my appreciation.

Aww, this Reggie love you. You're awesome. I know. That's so great. You've just made her night. No problem. Have a good one. Thanks Reggie.

Of course. You're wonderful. You've such fantastic people are so like I'm Twitter and everything. We can find you on Twitter as the real, what are you on Twitter? Twitter I'm at Jenna Hayes. At Jenna Hayes Twitter? I'm at Jenna Hayes at Jenna Hayes Instagram. I'm at Jenna Hayes and then Facebook. I'm the real Jenna Hayes. Okay, and I'm a sexual Family on Twitter Facebook Instagram and all that stuff Okay, so you've got the okay, so we were going back to I wanted to hear about you. Okay. We have to read your masturbation

orgasms and jealous about that I just have to say no really because I believe because this is my first like interview or anything in like three years. She's not okay. She came in and she's like I haven't done an interview in three years I'm like wow I'm so honored that you're here like really like that's really cool. It's been two or three years at least I think. I'm not anything. I mean you know that's I'm very very honored and so I heard about like I mean I've Everyone heard about you but I also want to know about, so flashlight. Let's just talk about flashlight for a minute.

It is the best, the number one male sex story, which a lot of, you know, I talk a lot about we're going to get into this later. A lot of talk a lot about sex ways for women, how couples can use each other, but this is like especially for men. And they actually have a gena haze flashlight. You were the first flashlight girl, but how would you explain, I know we don't have penises, like sometimes I wish I did,

so I could like feel it, because it seems like it's amazing. It's like, it's a masturbation sleeve. It stimulates the feel of real sex. It's body safe. It provides variety for men who want to experiment. It's clean, durable. If you go to my website, sexe-me.com

and click on the flashlight band, and you'll learn more about it. But which pin your, because have you ever used it with a guy or no one has used it the flashlight? Well, well, the flashlight, I actually am not the very first girl, I believe the first girl was Tara Patrick. Okay. And then came me, but I was the first girl to have all three of them.

Oh, not just the, not all three. So what are this? Well, there's the vagina, right? There's the, you know, the back door, back door. And then there's the vagina. Right. There's the, you know, the backdoor, backdoor. And then there's the mouth. Amazing. And the mouth bone is definitely the weirdest mold. They actually come in and they stick like they stick it. How does it always? I think they did it at a jeep. They did it at the convention at avn. They molded my mouth in front of everybody. Oh my god. I'm serious. And yeah, I'm like wearing this like,

or a Vlaje dress and like like and they're like molding my mouth It was it was start with all these people like a crowd of people I think they had G4 like recording it. It was crazy. That is crazy But it's hard because you have to keep your mouth like slightly open right but like puckered very And and not laugh you can't move you can't laugh And they have the molding in like five minutes how long do you use a molding in your vagina? It's about the same. Okay.

And then it pulls out and it's like, do you look at it, you're like, that's really my vagina. Yeah. It's kind of interesting. Well, the flesh-hide's too, and kind of, you know, it's kind of amazing though. It's amazing that like people like millions of men

have bought your vagina, but it's good. Right? Like everyone's like, I'm not the real one. Not the real one, no. No, no, no. She's not the real vagina, but you could also buy a flashlight that aren't like a vagina as well, but just because it's good for men for stamina, it is.

And I know a lot of couples that use it together. I have it personally, but I know a lot that do. And I also know a lot of guys who I have a friend, a girlfriend who's amazing, gorgeous model, and she travels a lot. And her husband has to be home alone a lot. And I hook them up with ones from my friends.

Right. Me too. I give them to friends. Yeah. But you guys have to think of variation because we've got toys. Men if you want to make you know, mass make masturbation. A little variety to it or you want to ask it feels like I gave it to my friends and he's like I'd leave my wife if it could cook.

I mean you love the flashlight. Well I don't give them. I don't give my friends mine. No. But I give my friends. I'm like here's my vagina. Take this to the regular cook. I mean, you love the flashlight. So I don't give them mine. I don't give my friends mine. No, but I give my friends mine. Let me give my friends mine. You're my vagina. I'll take this to the regular flashlight. I give them other girls'.

Right, exactly. Her husband was like, can you get me a sewing so-and-so and I was like, oh yeah, I'll get you a sewing so I just, you know. That's okay, that's, I guess it'd be kind of weird to get a gift your friend. Yeah, that's a little awkward. Unless they were like a boyfriend or girlfriend or something.

Okay, I got it. Okay, so if you go to the sex with the Emily.com slash flashlight or just click on the flashlight banner and text it on the link and you can check check them out because that's a great gift and it's great. Thank for couples. No, it's a number one male I think like guys They first out first a lot of times they think it's ridiculous to the kind of and they feel awkward and feel kind of like You know, I have a hand like right. Why do I need that and you know feel kind of silly probably using like a side But I've had so many guys tell me that it's so much better than there. I know it's so much better than there.

It's easier to put to lube in it. I mean, it's not as good as the real thing, they say, obviously. But it is a really good variation from the regular stroke. You know, and it a lot of guys like it better. Right. Exactly. And there's with all these different girls, we all have, there's the lotus texture, which is the basic vage texture. Right. And then there's the basic backdoor. Right. Back one. Right. Am I allowed to say anything? I want to say anything you want.

Okay. I just want to make sure I'm so used to doing radio stations. I know me too. After this, I do love line and we can't swear. So I'm like, I don't do that. Let me say whatever you want. Okay. Good. Well, the bum one. I'm still being, I'm still being all PC No, do you want to say whatever you want? Okay, good. Well, the bum one. Right. I'm still being all PC. Right, that's fine too. That one has its own special texture too. And like, then each girl individually, that there's also the mouth one is called the

swallow. They're, each girl has their own signature textures as well. Oh, that's so amazing. And so each one feels different. So there's a lot of guys who will, you know, buy them because it's different textures that feels different each one. Exactly. Right. It's like different sex.

Like it says, like different sex toys. Like sometimes I want the rabbit or I want the clitoral vibrator. And that's the cool thing about, you know, flashlight is that they designed a special texture for each different type of sex that you can have. You know, which is cool. Each one is totally different. So that they make it more titer.

Yes, and they make it feel. They try to make the textures really feel like the real thing, which is amazing. Yeah, it's pretty amazing. The texture is like body-safe materials, you use lube. I want some guys, and I'm going to give one away tonight. So if you want to email me at feedbackstext.com, I'm going to send you a flashlight. And then you can put, but you have to email me after and tell me about it. Okay, you can even be anonymous, but I want to hear how much you loved it.

So yeah, that's a check it out, flashlight on my website. So anyway, going back to that, I guess we have more calls. Let's talk to, let's talk to Michael, online one. Hey, Michael, thanks for calling Sex with Emily. Hello, hey.

Hey, what's going on? Tonight, how are you? How can I help you? I'm here with Jenna Hayes. Oh, hi. I am. I was listening to your show. I love your show. We talked a little. I just found your app for my phone. It's pretty cool. Oh, thank you. You're welcome. Hello, Jenna Hayes. Hi. How are you? I'm good. Thanks for calling in. You're welcome. I'm so nervous. Just calling in to hear your voice. Oh, just breathe. It's okay. We're just having a good time here, not a Thursday.

That's pretty cool. Just to hear your voice, I can't believe I hear you after all these years. Oh, thank you. Oh, you're making me blush. Like I said, it's my first interview. I haven't had any interaction with fans. I know. This is so good. You have to come back all the time. It me blush. I'm like it's my first interview. I haven't had any interaction with fans.

Like that's a long time. I know, this is so good. You have to come back all the time. It's flattering. I know. So Michael, how can we help you? Any questions? I've got a question.

What made you decide to change? I mean, you're not dancing anymore either. At the moment, I am not doing any of that. I'm focusing on some other projects. I actually just built myself. I built a new website, www.jennahase.com. And it's going to be a merch site. Jenna Hase. It's going to be the first time you're going to be able to buy t-shirts. Like everything t-shirts, posters, I'm going do art prints, like I'm gonna do all these things, calendars, everything you can imagine, so. That's amazing.

I've been working on that for a while, I've designed it myself, so. Oh my god, that's great, I don't wanna check it out, jennies.com supporter, she's amazing. So that's what I've been doing recently since I, I mean I danced last about six months ago. Okay. So I haven't retired from that officially or anything. So you dancing tours? Yeah, well, I do it. I did it for eight years and I would do it almost every other weekend to every weekend. And I would just fly out, do a gig at a show or a gig at a club and for a few days and

then go back. Wow. So it was like stripping dancing or dancing? It's feature dancing, which means that you put on a bigger show. You have costumes, like crazy costumes and stuff. You give away stuff. Okay. It means that you put on a bigger show, you have costume like crazy costumes and stuff. You give away stuff. You, yeah. You have a finding and stuff after. Oh my god, you have to go to our next one. Where's your next? Is it coming up? I haven't booked anything right now because I'm so focused on getting this site launched within the next couple weeks. I'm so

excited. I don't know. I'm gonna say a project that I want to, I totally got it. Yeah. I'm gonna run it myself. No, good thing. Everything's. I got it. I'm going to be like, everything's going to be autographed. Is it WordPress? No, it's actually. I built it on a different website. OK. We'll talk about it. We after.

OK. Well, thanks, Michael, for calling in. You're welcome. Have a great night. Are you too? Bye. Bye. Oh, he loved you.

He's so happy. I don't know if he would get nervous. I'm like, it's cool. It's cool. We're all good. OK, so we can, let's keep going here. So we have some more calls coming in. Everyone, if you're gonna nervous. I'm like, it's cool, it's cool, we're all good. Okay, so we can, let's keep going here. So we have some more calls coming in. Everyone, if you're listening right,

you can always call in on Thursday nights from 839-30 at 1-800-LOVE-191, I believe it is, if I'm right about that. So I love that, because I do, I do love line after this. And also, I do do love line. If you guys wanna check out that podcast as well. It's awesome. I started listening to Love line at a very young age. Did you yeah? I remember being like 13 14 and listening to it Right, I did too and it's like it's a man to be sitting here doing it is iconic

It is iconic. Yes, 80s run for 30 30 year helped a lot of people It's almost as old as me. I know seriously. Can you imagine right? So you're your born. They started doing it So this is old with me. Seriously, can you imagine, right? So you're your born, they started doing it. It is amazing because there's so many questions. Do you get a lot of people asking you sex questions and advice and stuff like that? I definitely used to, yeah.

I mean, whenever I would go to, even when I'd be at signings or conventions through emails, I still get people who are like, you know, how do I get my girl to do this? Or, you know, like, the best is just when you get people that write you that just tell you how much like, you've like, especially when it's couples and they're like you you know you taught my wife this technique or she didn't think that she could you know ever like give oral rights you know and and she was never able

to like you know make me come to completion on it you know through that way and because I watched your movie like that kind of stuff. Oh my god. It makes you feel kind of bad. It does not exactly like I exactly those are the that's why I do when I get the emails like, oh my god, my sex life is improved. I never thought, okay, but tell me about your oral sex tip then. For men, well, if it made this man have an orgasm from his wife, you all have to hear about it. I have to hear about it. Well, that was kind of what I was known for.

Okay. For your oral sex? Good for you. Yes. Okay. Why? How'd you, what? I have a specific technique with my hands and my mouth.

Okay. I do. So, I mean, if you want me to check out with my hands and my mouth. Okay, I do so I mean You should check out some of my movies. I'll check out her movies. I'll send you some Okay, please please and explain it for people well, I guess my fans have called it like the corkscrew Okay, so it's a mouth and double hand up and down up and down bow. Okay, and twisting your hands the whole time yes, and so yeah. Lots of saliva. Lots of lots of saliva. I think the most important thing for girls, though, with any kind of sex act, though, is that they enjoy it.

Right. If you don't enjoy, if you don't be open-minded a little bit, even if you haven't done it before, and you're trying something new, try to enjoy it. Like, look forward to it. It's exploring your sexuality. It's a beautiful thing. It's awesome.

Exactly. I've always said that a lot of girls don't enjoy giving oral. That's why. Right. You know, but it can be so sexy and it can be so fulfilling for a woman too. Like, I, I very much enjoy. I know. I do. I know. I know. I know. I do too. I love it. I really don't want to go in and you would do that thing about it. I know I got married. She stopped giving me head. Right. Like that whole cliche of that. Like, no, no, it's true It's very a type now. Oh, he's not there I was gonna say I don't know he wouldn't answer though He never talks about sex life, but it's true like women just like they stop

It's like I get right because I feel like sex should always be expansive You should be constantly growing and doing things and I think that so many people have women and men have these messages That there's like they that from childhood or whatever they feel shame or shut down and and then they keep having sex the same way And then they get bored, but it's like, it can be such that you're right, be into it. Even if you're afraid of something, you can still talk to your partner about different things you wanna try.

And I think porn, I think you brought up a great point that people thank you for doing porn because porn can get such a bad rap and it's like, I get it, like if someone's addicted to it. But really, I feel like porn is a great tool that couples can use to watch together and learn things. You might want to do everything, but you could just at least either, it'll just turn you on, and you'll wake you guys around and sex, or you could learn a few tips, right?

Yes, and I think that sexuality is something that society tends to shun, and that porn gets the bad rap and everything, but it's something that should be celebrated more than, and healthy ways. Everything that's consensual, but it's something that should be celebrated more than, and healthy ways. You know, everything that's consensual, and you know, but it's. Right, exactly. It, you know, it should be explored and enjoyed by people, single men, single women, whatever.

And whatever, you know, some people don't maybe don't like videos, but they like toys. Exactly. Maybe some people don't like toys or videos, but they like to go to a strip club. Right. You know, I would ask. See what talked to your partner,

talked to the see what you like, like, can't, like, try something, not asking you do anything super crazy,, but like maybe there's a little something I always have to be like try one thing different this week like with your partner Right month even like I'm gonna do a strip T's or I'm gonna buy a new sex toy or I'm gonna Whatever it is doesn't it. We're not talking like you've just anything crazy But just to keep it interesting and you might let go you're right like don't People women men so in their head,

afraid they're going to be judged and couples just don't communicate about their sex life. I think judgment is one of the worst things in the world to be honest. And I think that it causes so many people to not feel good about themselves. They don't do what they want to do with their lives. They don't, you know, because they're so worried about,

you know, obviously I haven't ever given a shit about. I don't need it. I don't either. I really don't. It don't it's so funny I was gonna show in this woman called me to do mine that we said that I'm like what just like do I mean to cut it I was on someone else's podcast I was like no like what did I say I don't care you know but so many people are afraid especially women it's like she is slut-chaming or afraid to be like a guy's gonna think we're slutty if we if we say or do this certain thing and it's like

I mean, I respect a woman who owns her sexuality and who knows what she wants, who knows her body? Yes, and knows how to make herself orgasm like it's not his or her It's not anyone else's responsibility I always think the women have to take responsibility for it to figure out what they want and then communicate it or Sometimes it just happens, but if it doesn't and I think think that in the more recent years, women have been owning their sexuality more and expressing themselves in that way a lot more. And there's a lot more strong, I mean, look at Beyonce right now. Oh my God, bro.

Oh, she's amazing. Oh my God. That partition video. I didn't see it yet. I know, I heard, I heard. I need to catch up on everything. Wow. And that's just an example of a beautiful strong woman

who is a wife, a mother, and she is being very provocative and sexy, but still keeping it in a very classy manner. But showing women that you can be strong, you can be beautiful, and you can own your sexuality. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Exactly. Do not be ashamed for sexuality. So let's try to help Ben, because he's

got a question along these lines.'m line three hey Ben thanks for calling sex with Emily. Hey guys doing great. You're here dine Hayes. So how can we help you tonight? I just wanted to ask you guys a question I've been seeing this this one girl for a little while and it's just really to admit sexually with that sex couple times, I want to go down or one time and it's apparently the second time anyone has ever gone down. Wow. Okay. She tried to stop me and you know, and told me to have a door once and she didn't like

it and feel good and I was just like, you know, let me really, really try to make you change your mind. Right. And, you know, she said she felt really, really good as much better. Good. But I think she's just, she's nervous about it. Thank you so much. Yeah, exactly. We were just talking about that.

We're like, women are sowing their heads during sex. Like, what's going to mean? Does he think that I taste bad or is he not really want to do it or am I gonna orgasm and women just have to get out of their heads and so I'm glad and another thing I want to point out is so many women have bad first-time experiences with things like for example anal sex some women I'm guy tried to shove it in with that Lou were mentioned I'll never do it again it's like or she had a guy with down in her and he didn't like it so I'm glad that you were like you know what this will be better but so she's a

little timid how old is she? 23 okay like, you know what, this will be better. But so she's a little timid. How old is she? 23. Okay. And do you know, she was like upbringing that was maybe particularly like oppressive in that way or shaming? Well, she's an Asian girl. So there's actually a couple of things I wanted to ask you to do, but I don't know if she's an Asian girl, I don't know if it has anything.

No, Not necessarily. But you wanted to be more adventurous then. What would you suggest, Jenna? I would probably start, you know, I mean, she sounds like she is self-conscious about herself very much. So I think it's important that you make her feel beautiful and that you make her feel comfortable about and confident about herself. Usually, I've found that girls that don't really like to be gone down or really insecure.

Exactly. In a way, they aren't very comfortable with their sexuality, they aren't comfortable with their body. I think it's important that you really build her confidence and then maybe start you know Trying little things here. I'm telling her she's be do you do that already? Do tell her she's beautiful in your track All the time and she just kind of like makes this like like She's in the carol, right? Drugs your shoulders and yeah, she's not used to the attention But I'm sure it feels good to her, but she doesn't know it except it. So do you know if she's ever had an orgasm?

I don't know that. Okay. So that might be a good place to start. Maybe she's never had one. Maybe she's never masturbated. So maybe maybe you could start with your fingers and be like, to start playing around there like her first ask her like, you know, if you feel comfortable, be like, what makes you feel good?

She might not even know. I mean, she might, she might not. There's so many women who have never even yeah I don't know how to you know exactly. I mean they don't even they don't even maybe maybe in her home growing up It was like shamed and she was told not to touch herself I mean I know that for whatever reason I grew up in a very liberal home and my mom was talking about it But I never never could be masturbate. They heard about it until I was 19. I know which is weird I mean I didn't even think about it. I know that she's in her eyes are like about to roll out of her head

So what I'm saying Ben is that even me I've lived my mom's like, if you want to I don't know why I was a very horny I know what's my love women like you but then what I'm saying is you might just have to kind of roll this whole thing back And in a very way they just say we're beautiful. Say you know, baby I think sex could be amazing like I want to make you feel good, do you know? Maybe you just start kissing her or kissing her breast. Maybe we just scale it all back. I also think that it's important that when she does anything to you or makes you feel good that you really show her how much you appreciate it and how good she is at making you.

She's never even once gone down. I think she doesn't have a lot of experience. I think you did have sex. You might be the teacher. You did have sex though. Yes. Did I think you did have sex. Yeah, you might be the teacher. So you did have sex though. Yes. Yeah. Did she seem to be into it? It was painful for her. Loose. Like kind of long and thick and long. Okay. You're big. You're a large male, Ben.

And I'm very, very, very, very, very wet. Right. But you still should use the loop. You should add the loop into it. But here's the thing. Let's back this whole thing up. So I think you need to start turning her on just by like kissing, kissing, or not, like, seductively teasing her.

Yes. I love that you said kissing on that because that is like, why don't guys do this? They. They don't do it. We women. We want our neck kiss. We really do it. Every time. Yeah, please. Yes, just do it. Like don't even ask like kiss the neck kiss the ear kiss her breasts kiss her slowly down her body Spend time on her breasts like I feel like men just like jump right down that. Yes. They want to go right into the into the inner course Or the world they want to go right into it. I want to tell you guys that it's totally what I've been doing. It's like, I love, you know, like kissing all the way down the body, down the thigh, up the thigh, teasing, you know, not going right out. Good, good for you Ben.

So, and does she seem how long have you guys been seeing each other? How new is this relationship? Almost two months. It's not very long, I guess. Not very long, not very long. So yeah, I would say so. But it sounds like does she seem into that? Like is she able to lie back when you're kissing her

and doing all this stuff? I mean, she gets so wet. So I know she likes it. Right, well that's good. But that's really good. You know, a light's off. Don't look at me type check is. It's very, it's very, very different than what I'm used to.

Right, no, I'm sure. So it sounds like you just have to maybe have some talks with her. Like, in a very non-threatening, not like something's wrong with you. But like, hey, baby, I just want to make you feel, I want to make you feel good. Do you know what makes you feel good? Or, you know, do you master a baby at, like, what's the best way that you orgasm? I think that's okay to ask. How do you orgasm? Is it clitorally? Like how do you orgasm is a clitorally like you know

She might be like I've never had one and then you guys could work on that together sex story together, too Yeah, by sex toy like a pocket rocket is very into it. Yeah, we're non-threatening to a woman at the beginning That was my five-grader my my my first toy was a pocket rocket Yeah, I've never used toys with a woman I have yes actually first toy was a packer rocket too. Yeah, it was a pocket rocket. Have you ever used toys with a woman? I have, yes. Actually, this is like a little side front gen. Thank you for your videos because a girlfriend

in mine a few years back. She asked me how I like to get my dick stuck. And I showed her one of your videos. Oh my god! We've sent me a video. I want to suck dick like Jen and I. I'd say it's a videos. Oh my God! I got... We've sent me a video. I want to suck dicks like Jen and I'd say to do everyone's talking about it. Oh, I want to sound bite of that right now.

You were called a corkscrew, but I called them the pepper cracker. Oh, okay. Go ahead, whatever it is. See, she's infamous for this. So maybe you guys can watch... I mean, I don't think you're going to rush into porn with this woman, but I think you know, go to sexthelmy.com slashgoodvives. Just click on the good vibes banner on the sex.

Let me say there's like special discount. You could check out like some good clitoral toys beginner. That's what maybe go to a store with her when they're having sex. It would relax her because she said she's so tight and stuff. And it's painful if she had like a pocket rocket on it. Right. The tutorial of our orgasm first, I think you just got to start talking to her. Yeah.

I tried to it. That's the hard thing Is she just won't say anything? Yeah, you got to keep working out. Yeah I think you like it. I think you really like the patient if you really like her if you know if it becomes a problem then I'm sorry. She's not the right person compatible Yeah, because she's not might never open up. She might need some therapy. There might be some trauma Right. I don't want to make assumptions But if you try you're doing all the things that you're saying bent, it seems like you're doing all the right things, then she just might not

be the girl for you. But I would give it a try. Thanks for calling Ben. I appreciate it. Thank you. Have a great night. Okay. Another thing that guys can do to really turn a woman on is I like, okay.

I like receiving flowers from a guy. Okay. I do do and nobody does it enough. But why not? Why don't they? I think you and nobody does it and not. Why not? Why don't they? I think they think it's so old fashioned or something, but it lights up your world. You get flowers from a guy.

You're like, especially if it's out of the blue. Right. Okay, well I have to tell you that sending online flowers can sometimes suck. We've all been burned. It's like 1999 and then it becomes 74 or 50. There was like, oh, here's the 1999 bouquet and then it's like $74. And always what shows up isn't when you order it and she might get some bad flowers which is worse than sending flowers in the first place. It's mostly dead and then

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Okay, anyway, yeah, so this guy just sent me flowers, I'm dating Lillie's, which smell amazing, and I literally had five minutes at home today. I was so busy, but I went home and I trimmed them and made them look pretty because I just love caring for them. And it's just nice gift. It's very nice. And I like sex toys too. But I get, obviously, do you get them sent to you all the time? What sex toys? I do, just because I review them. No, do not. No, I'm in my favorite. My favorite brand of vibrators are

anything like that is Lilo. Oh,ilo, yeah they make it this one. It was my absolute favorite. I have every single one they make. I know, I love them. Okay, what's your favorite one? Do you like the Leia? Have you had the Leia? I don't know the name.

You know the name. I don't know the name. There's a little one, the black one that has flowers on it. Yes, I have that one. It's a great Clitoral one for sexiness. It really is. It's awesome. It fits in the palm of your hand.

And there's like, you just plug them into the walls. There's no batteries. You never have to worry about that. Exactly. Like they last so long. They're so well made. I love them too So again, I know I do I do it so go to good vibe go to um sex them yet come click on the good vibes and check out Lilo L.E. L.O. I I love everything they make to and I'm going to a sex toy conference in Vegas next week So I'll get you some some of the latest and greatest Well, we'll hook up. That's very awesome. I know I love everything they make to and I'm going to a sex toy conference in Vegas next week. So I'll get you some of the latest and greatest. We'll hook up. That's very awesome.

I know I love their stuff. So yeah, should we take another call here? Elizabeth, online four. Hi Elizabeth. Hi how are you? Good, how are you? Thanks for calling sex with Emily. You're on with Emily and Jenna.

Hey Emily, I love your podcast. I love some podcast. Thank you. I've had a question for her. Is there any kind of like safety thing or when you're in a contract, when you do your movies and everything to prevent all the parties from like catching activities? Is there any other safety that others and just condoms or I mean we would have a relationship was you got understanding why you're able to do a review question I'm sure you like it as a lot like how do you view you when you did porn yeah well that was a big question

that's awesome well in the porn industry we have as SDD testing that has to be that's mandatory that has to be done every so often very in the last two years, they've tightened up on it even more. Now there's a condom thing in place where before some company shot without condoms that companies did. When I was under contract, I used condoms because it was a company that was really big on that at the time. It was Jill Kelly's company. I had a boyfriend, I think this is what she's kind of referring to.

I had a boyfriend when I was under contract and I did quit doing men for him. Okay. He was the cameraman for the company. So he asked you to or you decided not to? I decided not to. Because you really came really weird awkward and like it just, yeah, it just didn't work. Then my other relationships in the business, I dated a guy who was a director in the business and he performed and I performed.

So it worked. Okay, it was fine. You guys have sex on camera on top? Yes, okay, got it. So we had sex with other people, it was fine for what we were agreeing on, it was cool for us. But I do know a lot of couples have problems. It's harder for people in the industry, whether they're a stripper or a nude model or a porn star, or an escor, or whatever, to have a relationship with somebody that's not in their kind of industry. That's why you see so many porn people be, you know, industry people be with people that are in the industry because... How do they understand? Because how do they understand? Because it just hard, like I think a lot of men, and we're never hard time thinking about,

they don't understand. Most people can't detach sex from emotions. And so I think that they just don't understand it. If you're in love with me, how can you go sex to someone else? Right. I feel like I would have made a good porn star because I feel like I can do that.

I can have sexes for sex, they can enjoy it and not get attached. But there are, yes, but there are. Exactly, yes. but there are exactly. I obviously was able to do that too. As I get older, I have a harder time. OK, it feels like it's separating that. But I think it's also because I had so much casualty.

Right, exactly. But there are couples too who I do know some who are fine with it, who have a spouse who is not in the industry. And they work at fine. I think it just depends on the individual and the understanding. Right. Exactly. But it's very difficult.

I'm sure it can be. And like I said, there's testing that's full in place. Once I started my company, I made sure that everybody got tested the day before I worked with them. I paid for it out of pocket. I was always very late. Right. So what happens if someone gets tested?

I'm not. So Elizabeth is still in the field and hold. Can she hear us though still? Yeah. Okay. Well, thanks for calling Elizabeth. I think that by answered your question. I appreciate you call hey Elizabeth did I answer your question? Yes, thanks. Okay sure have a great night. Thanks so much for calling section Emily Okay, so so tie out the testing so what if someone does have like her b say can they not be it important? No They can no they can they can there's people who there's people who in the

business who do have that and there's people who don't. I'm sure. So then they are they taking so they're taking like a daily pill or they're from what I know. Yeah. Okay. I don't know. I don't know. I'm just wondering what happens. No, because if you are tested, you come up positive or something. Does it mean you can't work again? Or it means like I just never know this. I was well, if I mean, if you come up positive, say you come up positive for Climidia or something like that, which this doesn't happen very often in the business. But when you, you know, STDs, a lot of people in the industry just have sex with people

in the industry, like I said, so it doesn't, there's not a lot of STDs that really come in. But if you do, they call you, they tell you that you're tested, you know, then you go and you get, you know, pills or whatever and you can't, you're not allowed to work, you're not cleared in there on a database or whatever. From what I know, I, you have to remember also, I haven't performed in three years. So the whole testing procedure may be a little bit different.

Right, but no, it's the same, I get the gist of it. Okay, that's good to know. Okay, so I'm not exactly completely up to date on all of this stuff. No, that's just true. Because it means that you're out forever, because like, I don't know, I didn't know how it works, but that's I was just curious. So, and so it was Elizabeth. So, thanks for calling Elizabeth.

Okay, so he's doing the question. So, when you were dating the cameraman, you decided just to do the women scenes. Yeah, so do you, I always ask you about this, but like what, I feel like the female, like the vagina, the female orgasm is like the Rubik's Cube of Life for so many men and they don't understand.

Or maybe you can put that. What are your best, like you gave us your great blowjob tips, or what are your great oral sex tips for performing oral sex on a woman that you think people would get some tips from from you that they might not know? Well, because everyone's different, I know it's a hard one. Everyone is so different with those kinds of things, even with like my oral technique, there are guys that don't like that. You know, there are ones in a while, they're like, how do you not like the Jenny Hayes Gorks glue? Yeah, which one would you have penis? Yeah.

But you know, everyone that's like you said, everybody's body is different. Some people can, you know, come from the most random thing. Some people like their belly button bleed with for about six. You know, like there's different things that turn different people on, you know, and that's amazing that there's so much diversity in it. But when it comes to, especially women are even more varied than men. Exactly. Some women really like you to, you know, put your tongue like inside the vagina, and some are very clitorial. I think it's, you know,

important to figure out which those your girl is, you know, when you're going to do that, because that's like the most important part. I'm a very clitorial person. Right. So I'm like, because that's like the most important part. I'm a very clitorial person. Right. So I'm like, right on that. Right, exactly. And don't be afraid to like suck. Don't be afraid to lose.

Use your teeth a little bit. Right, makes it up. Don't be afraid to have fun. And don't also just be focused on the clip and you know the actual vaginal opening. Also enjoy like all around like the inner thighs. Yes. That feels amazing.

It does. That goes down with the kissing the nap. Why don't men just play with teas? We need more for play men. For play. I know. It's like, OK, they've heard me say it 8,000 times, but thank you.

Yes, we do. It's important. We need more for play. And there's nothing getting us hot and bothered. Like if you just kiss around like our thighs at area and don't go right in for it. And then when you go in for it, you go in for it. That's fine.

But there has to be something to do. Yes. for it, you're going for it. That's fine. But there has to be something to, yes. Yeah, because we're going to have to tie that. It's already said for teasing and for making it linger, making it build up to where you were just like, please put your time on. Right, exactly. Oh, please.

T-T-T's. I mean, really, I just think I should do like a whole 10 shows about like how to tease. So for women, before you like, you would do a scene with them every year with them. And do I just like talk ahead of time? Like, what do you like or do you? Yes. I would always, before every scene with them, or you're with them, do I just talk ahead of time? Like, what do you like? Or do you just... Yes, I would always, before every scene with any performer,

I mean, usually I would work with the same group of performers over and over and over again, because it's much safer that way. Right. And because those are the guys that I liked, the girls that I liked, and those are the people that I liked, you know. Totally.

But you go up before you start, I would be like, hi, you know. So and so, like, if it's a new person you haven't worked with or whatever, you talk about what you're doing and your don't saw. It's kind of a basic porn thing. Right. If it's a new partnership, you do it and, you know, say, what do you like? What do you don't like? Okay, I won't do that. Okay, I won't do this. Okay, I do like this. Right. You know. And then so, and then so for women, it women, it's such a business. It is. People don't understand that porn is very business like. Right.

It's very, is there a question here that you feel like? I always have to be great for couples when you first are dating someone like what do you like? What don't you like? What do you try? Or is there a digital or a G-spot? So for the women when you're like, so performing roles that would you find but there's anything that is really like special moves.

Like I think you're right. Like you use teeth, nibble, fingers, toys. I have, I mean, I'm, you know, part Spanish and Mexican. So I have a, I have that tongue roll thing. Oh, and if you can do that tongue, like how you roll your arms, you can do that. I can roll the arm. Well, I do it. Do it. What do you mean? I actually, I don't think I can do it right. Oh, I don't know. It's like a, then you could like vibrate your tongue on it. Like a, like a, like a, likerate your tongue on it. It's like a vibrating tongue thing. Oh my god, your tongue vibrate.

Yeah, it's amazing. They love that. If you're like a Spanish or Mexican or you can usually say like, you know, like you can roll your arms really good. And if you can do that, like that's one of my tips. That's what you can do that right on the clip. It feels good. It's like you're on a vibrator. That's such a wetest vibrator in the world. That's amazing. Oh my god, I love it. That's hot. I'm like just got a little bit turned on. So because the oral sex is true and then someone

wants fingers or g-spot orgasms. So do you have g-spot internal orgasms? Yes. Okay, but usually you need a Clitoral one first. I am very Clitoral. Right, right, right. I know. Just a period. It's just, I mean, that's the spot for me. Right, right.

But the G-Spot can happen. It can. But I definitely prefer. Well, I definitely prefer. I can, and it's easy for me with an actual penis. Right. Then with like fingers. Right, exactly.

Like fingers sometimes, unless a guy really knows what he's doing right girl really knows what they're doing with the fingers fingers can hurt they kind of hurt they poking in the wrong place and a girl's got nail oh god nails or guys of nails you're like really get our like hanging cuticles guys you should get manicures too you don't have to tell us about it you go to some place off the beaten track but you're off why are you looking at me Anderson you want a hang nail I'm still the hang nail thing is just so disgusting it's you but guys do that and you're like really you're touching your hanging nails it's great I can't even talk about it actually you know what I was

having lunch with a girl about like 10 years ago and she was looking at my nails and she goes you know whenever a girl looks at your nails she's just thinking about how much that would hurt if you ever fingered her no way it's true did you finger after lunch no she's a plant okay got it that would hurt if you ever fingered no way It's true. Did you finger after lunch? No, she's a plant. Oh, okay, got it That's kind of true kind of says a lot. I don't remember looking guy But I do look at guys hands if I'm you know Gonna get intimate with them right because I want to make sure that their hands are clean So that's another thing. Thank you that I hate when you hear like this is so bad

You hear a man go to the bathroom and he comes out you're out of the house You know you're gonna say and he doesn't wash his hands. You're like, I didn't hear the water. Yeah, is that what you say? Do you say something? Oh, I say something. I'm like, did you not just wash her? Did you just not wash her hands? Two because she's going on.

Yeah, okay, this might be the most important sex about ever again, because there can be bacteria, their hands are going inside you. Hands are very like wash your hands before you get any sort of intimate with a girl. Before you do anything, really lunch. It's your, if you're in the hamburger, like wash your hands before you get any sort of intimate with a girl. Before you do anything really lunch Like it's your severe in the hamburger like wash your hands Maybe I'm a little bit more CD cuz I wash my hands like I know I like that

I've like the in the I have the you know the what's it called pure out pure all over my life like literally I like three in my bag right now Okay, so that's that might be the best sex sex to remember cuz I feel like I've never brought that up But men should just in women wash your hands. And also if you go to dinner with a guy and you come home and they don't even, like you had dinner and it was like drinking or edge. I hate the taste like fresh or tea. It's just good to be clean.

And sometimes it's just really drunk and it's fine. But you know, okay, let's just, yes, exactly. Okay, let's take the top. Let's talk to Thomas and Tulsa. Hey Thomas, thanks for calling sex with Emily. You're out with Emily and Jenna Hayes. What is going on with you? Well, I'm really impressed with Jenna Hayes and I sure like to know what her definition of real good sex is.

Me too. The definition of real good sex. My definition or like a general term? Yes, like to you, what would be like wow, that was amazing sex last night? Well to you, what would be like, wow, that was amazing sex last night. Well. Well, that was my definition too. Well, that was a great sex last night. Yeah, I mean, I, I mean, there's so much to sex and there's so many different, like, I've had amazing worlds, like I've had amazingly every kind of sex. Right.

That's such a broad question that I'm just kind of like, are there any elements then that are like, okay, whenever it's, I know, I just think chemistry, chemistry between people is so important and passion and lots of kissing. Lots of poor play. I know, kiss your time. Take your time. Right, slow it down.

That's a great definition. Yeah, right, Thomas, it's just like you have this great orgasm. And lose yourself in the other person's body and the other person. Yeah, that's a great answer. There you go, Thomas. Yeah, that's right on, that's perfect. Yeah, good.

Yeah. Go do that, go take that good sex definition, give it to another woman or whoever you're with. Yeah, I think I will. Okay, we love kissing, we love foreplay. Yeah, I mean, that's wonderful. Yeah, well, thanks for calling, Thomas. Yes, you're welcome. Have a great night.

Okay, bye. Okay, bye. Okay, Jenna, so where can people check you most yourself out what you're doing? I know you've got the two films coming up, raised by wolves and pocket listing. Those are indie films. Yes.

And then what about your other, your favorite, what's the favorite films you've done if you want to hone in your films? Well, my company is called Generation X. Generation X up to this is J-E-N-N-A-R-A-T-I-O-N, because I was the new generation adult media. Got it. Love it. I've upgraded media so Generation X.

We'll put that on my website in the podcast. Thank you. It's distributed by JewelsDroid in video, and I've put out a total of 13 movies that I've directed, produced, and I've starred in 11 of them. Oh wow. So there's a lot of material there. Okay. And there are a lot of my best work because of course it was my stuff.

Right. So that's like a lot of the best work. I also have my website which is genxstudios.com that has all the stuff I've directed of me, all the stuff I've directed of other girls. Gen X studios. So J-E-N-X studios. Okay. We'll have that on the site.

Okay. And it's got all kinds of girls from Lisa and to Alexis Texas Christina wrote like all the girls all the tops. Good diamond to everybody. I'm sorry. I'm in duty. She was on the feet. I love her. I love her too. She's amazing. She taught me how to twerk. No, we fun. She was. I know. No, we had a fun show. But then you guys did like a video together or something recently? I didn't do a video with her, but I have directed her twice. Okay, I thought she's so great. She was here too. So I think twice. I'm sorry or something recently. I didn't do a video with her, but I have directed her twice. Okay, kind of. She's so great.

She was here too. I think twice. I'm sorry, maybe I don't know. I think that she rocks you rock too. Thank you so much for coming on the show. I appreciate that. You've done it for years. You've done it for you and here I am.

I feel honored. You got to come back and then first we're going to go to my car and I got to give you a little present. I got to give you my candles. You have to pick out which one you used. Have you used a massage candle before? I have not used one. I bought one, but I never used it for a massage. You're going to freak out.

Okay, so blow one of those out right now. Okay, so that's the vanilla. And then you wait two seconds and it's not hot or sticky. And then just smell it. You rub in your hands, it's coconut oil. It's like the most moisturizing. We've had these lovely candles lit the whole time. It smells very nice. Yeah, it's very romantic in here. Right. It's like the most moisturizing. We've had these lovely candles lit the whole time. It smells very romantic in here. It is romantic. You can like pour it on your partner,

you can have a massage or eye just use it as moisturizers. It's so silky and it's not sticky or like heavy or anything like that. It's not waxy, it's not sticky, it's not hot, it's actually moisturizing. So I'm going to give you one of those and everyone else can, if you love this show and you want to support what I'm doing in my life, it's Emily and Tony.com. You just keep on going. And you can always, my new site is gena-gena-hase.com. Just my name is Anastasia. And that's gonna be a merch site

where you can get the posters, autographs, everything like that. Okay. So yeah, you can see me 24 hours a day on Twitter. I'm at Gena-hase, Instagram. I'm at Gena-hase Facebook. I'm the real Gena-hase. Okay, got it.

Got it. Awesome. Thanks for being a show. We're doing a little video after this too, Just like a two-minute thing that you guys can check out on the site too If you want to see what's really going on here Anderson you rock. How's your week? You're very quiet tonight I'm sicky. Oh you're sick. I'm a little sick. I'm having a lot of fun with you. I'm like you're trying to hear about like sex and sex industry and some sick guys like Yeah Okay, well usually you know I get it. I get it. I hope you feel better. But how was your podcast this week?

What we do about it? I'm not gonna discuss it. It it one of the reasons why I'm sick is we did top five Characters from films we'd like to have a beer with oh, okay, I did a lot of research What's your number one in my corner and thinking by myself? I could what I like to be drinking this beer with all week long. Wow. Did you talk about it? Which we have a way my number one A lot of David Lynch characters come okay. What happened to, how can they find a podcast? That's called a film vault. The film vault. If you're into films, it's everything film.

Okay, thanks, Anderson. And thank you, Jenna Hayes. And thank you, everyone, for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you? Email me feedback at sexwithemily.com. CrazyVill products carry unique, fair-moan-infused products that scientifically make you hotter and feel more confident. I love their new after-dark line, especially their lip-nip tingle.

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