Sex With Emily - Go Down On Her Like You Mean It

Episode Date: February 25, 2015

In this episode, Emily answers listener emails and dives into one of your favorite topics: Oral sex! Plus she shares what she really thought of the Fifty Shades of Grey film, discusses some kinky sex in the news and recounts her latest near-death experience.. And no, it wasn’t from eating her first meal at Carl’s Jr. Whether you hate doing it, you’re not great at doing it, or you think you’re doing it well but you could still use some guidance, Emily breaks through your oral barriers and teaches you how to go down on a woman! She also gives advice on lubricant etiquette for single guys - Is it okay to bust out your trusty lube with a new partner?Want to know what a vagina and a car engine have in common? Or how Fifty Shades can actually change your sex life, for the better? This podcast has the answers and so much more.. Check it out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Tonight I'm answering your emails. I'm talking about your favorite topic, oral sex. And how to please a woman, because I know you want that also. 50 shades of gray. No, not the boring stuff everyone's talking about, but how it actually is going to make a difference in your life.

And how can improve your sex life. I swear to God it will. Thanks for listening. Betrubized, they called them with a bike on me. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute. The girls got everything. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage.

Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean, like laundry? It's shrink? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god, I'm off here. I'm so, I'm gone. Being bad feels pretty good.

You know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information. Go to sexwithemely.com. Check out everything going on there. God, there's a lot going on there. You can check out our blogs, our podcasts. If you could easily subscribe to our podcast,

just download an app. Any of them, podcast one, stitcher, people still don't understand how it looks in a podcast. And you can subscribe on iTunes or Revver, and then you get it every day on your phone twice a week. Not every day, but twice a week. Let's into the show. Our music's going for a really long time, Anderson.

Is that because you don't want me to talk? I'm here with Anderson. It occurred to me that you're such a crazy bitch. And I know a lot of them. You're like top of the pile. The queen of the crazy basis. Why bitch though? Why not just crazy? It's endearing. Am I in my in my in my in my bitchy? No, not at all. The word bitch is that thrown around. No, but no, I can see like you're just like crazy chick. But crazy bitch makes it seem like I'm a me. Crazy bitch seems more affirmative. No, crazy bitch is like a mean person.

Crazy like chick or crazy weirdo or crazy. Why do you say that? Because you're insane. Because you're a hundred miles an hour and you got like nine things going on and you know what? You're not dropping anything but you got a lot of things in the air It's impressive. I dropped a notebook, but it's what do you mean a lot of things in there like like metaphysically? I mean you literally told me about 40 yards from where we stand right now You're about five yards behind me trailing and I could hear like all sorts of things jangling and jangling

And you're like I have like a thing is going on right now Anderson and I'm like that's very strange That's happening. I am my car. I am my carls junior that's that's gonna okay, so you know what? And before that you're like I almost died twice within the last hour. That's crazy bitch status Okay, so here's the thing I Last week Valentine's Day really busy. You loved it. I love hearing you say it. Why just Valentine's day Malatons Oh, right. You do you know that you're the second person that pointed out

I'm wishing an accent seems to emit from those words. Malatons. Yeah, I'm glad that one. So what happened? What would you do? No, it's my big week. I feel like it's like Santa Claus. You know, like when he's like, oh, I'm at the North Pole. It's crazy. Like December 20th. What's going to happen? That's how I feel. I'd like 38 pres interviews, which is amazing. Like I love giving advice about sex relationships, but that's my busy time of year, right? So, and then before that, I remember we had this three conference.

It's been insane, the office, everything, but finally it's going to be like back to normal, but it's not yet. So today was the first day it was kind of normal, but then there's all this like, oh my God, the deptious of like what we haven't done with. So I'm driving here, I'm starving. I haven't had time to eat yet.

We're in a new studio, which I should mention, because that's gonna be your main to the story in the moment. Got it, your main. So yeah, so the studio is confusing to me a little bit. I have to need to go places like six or seven times where I can find them right away. The studio is confusing to you.

The studio, getting here. And the traffic. Yeah, no, not only that, getting in the grot and then getting in the studio, okay, stop. You know what, yeah, you to use a little key card to get in this day. You got to swipe six times Yeah, I don't know about six. I usually do one swipe swipe swipe swipe Oh my god, I'm like so anxious. What am I gonna lose the card? Hey, you one of those girls who I didn't say bitch. It's a girl who goes to the mall and like you're in a store You're like in forever 21 or whatever

Yeah, okay there. Yeah, and then you walk out and you're like which way is my car? Which way did I come in from? Where the hell are you? No, because I have cars. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, because that's actually happened to me so many times that I've lost my car to the point of like, tragedy like, call 911 that I actually now do focus where my car is.

I mean, no, I still lose it sometimes, but I'm quicker at finding it. Like I'm like, oh, it was the second car. But no, you're not, you get lost in the mall. No, I get lost in the mall. No, I'm not on a mall. No, no, no, no, no, I'm not on a mall. I'm not on a mall. But this is a new thing, and not going to get lost in the mall. No, no, no, no, no, I'm not going to get lost in the mall. I'm not going to get lost in the mall.

No, I'm not going to get lost in the mall. No, I'm not going to get lost in the mall. I'm not going to get lost in the mall. No, I'm not going to get lost in the mall. No, I'm not going to get lost in the mall. No, I'm not going to get lost in the mall. No on her and there's no storms and that's electricity. So I was so hungry and I'm driving here because it's been a busy day

and I wanna make sure we got here on time. She should have texted me, I was having dinner with my mom. And then you're 20 minutes late, what else? I was five. And you're never late. So I'm driving here and my mom calls me.

Where have you been? I haven't heard of cheese really mad when I know a car once a week. I'm just so, I forget. She's in Florida three hours ahead. Mom, hi, she's like, we don't call. I'm okay mom, I'm driving, but I can't talk now because I have to stop and get food.

And I'm actually, I'm having a blood sugar drop. So let me go after, well, then she's talking to me. So I passed wherever I was gonna go, like some stupid deli. So I keep driving and driving and she starts talking. So what's going on? And I tell her something. And then she goes, I don't want to hear about that.

And then she gets... What's about a pup, plug? No, it wasn't about sex. There's something going on in my life. She says, you've been through this before. Really? And then she doesn't want to listen. And then I'm like, I can't believe you know whatever. And then I get angry.

And then I realize, oh, I'm just really hungry. So I realize the hang of my mom, it's fine. She doesn't really want to care. She doesn't want to hear anything bad. Just good stuff and whatever. She's crazy. So that, she's crazy bitch. You should just start lying. She's crazy. So that, she's a crazy bitch. You should just start lying.

And we're like, yeah, it's great, mom. No, but I can tell. She only wants to hear what things are good. Second baby comes away. Like if I call her with bad news, she's like, oh God, that's really bummer. I gotta go and then she'll call me like a month later. Like is everything okay?

When you're trying to find this. She's like not the nurturing type. When you're trying to find this deli, you just hit her with really bad news and she'll let you go. Right, so I passed a deli and then driving'm driving. I also, when I passed the station, I'm like, oh, maybe there's something down Venice to eat, like, because I have to. Which way you go. And this is true. This way, that way, towards old studio. Towards the old. There is stuff down that way. If you go the other way, there's so much traffic to the best. Make it right. Then I just make a weird

right. And then I'm on La Santa. And those are Carl's Jr. I know the one. I've never been to Carl's Jr. my entire life. It's a hardy's on Carl's Jr. I know the one. I've never been to Carl's Jr. my entire life. It's a hardies on the use coast for those yeas. Right. Hardies on the East coast. And so I've never been and actually probably I probably have fast food. I'd say maybe

once a year all that in an outburst maybe every two years. Like once a month. Yeah, exactly. Right. So and then if you get factor that in, you know, it's not that often. So I'm like, I fit. I'm going to Carl's Jr. So I I pull, never been, drive through.

And I get right there, and then all the sun, the guy's like, man, I help you, man. And there's this huge blank menu, right? I'm like, this huge menu, I've never seen before. A big menu, yeah. And I'm like, hi, sir, yes, hello. I'm American, I've actually lived here for a really long time, but I've never been

a Carl's Jr. And so I actually am really hungry, and I'm in a hurry. And can you just tell me what's good on the menu that's healthy? Is there something you don't have to curve all? They don't know how to deal with that. That's not training. You should try the fried chicken with bacon. I'm like, that's not healthy.

Like, what do you mean? Is it chicken? And then he says to me, number 13 is chicken. And I'm not okay with chicken I can do. I look at the numbers on the board, they stop at eight. And I think I'm insane. I'm like, don't eat glasses. There's no more numbers. He's like 13. I'm like sir. There's no 13 There's no 14 saying to get the chicken salmon

No, no, no the numbers fell off. Oh, they just fell off there was no numbers. I swear to God So then I said okay, I see the chicken salmon all the chicken so they pull up I get the chicken and I'm thinking He's probably like oh, I got a French fries. I'm like well not that healthy like I thought he was gonna judge me But he wasn't even being ironic or funny. Like, he was like, okay, both through 726, some waiting, waiting, waiting forever. And I'm getting hungry and upset. And he keeps asking me, you're having the full meal?

Would you like the fries? Yeah. He asked me, yeah. So then I get it and I race out and I'm like, oh my god, I'm on F in Venice again. Oh. I thought you were on As such. Right now?

Sorry, no, go ahead. You're on F in Venice again. Yeah, it gets you were an ass. Right now. Sorry, no, go ahead. You're on F from Venice again. Yeah, it gets very confusing right around these parts. So I turn all of a sudden a car swoops in front. I mean, actually, not my fault. And I would admit if it was my fault, because it usually is. And so I stopped at my brakes. And my entire meal goes hitting the dashboard, flies backwards onto the floor of my car, which is disgusting. The French fries, the chicken sandwich, the barbecue sauce. And I'm sorry. And so I'm eating it and I just catch up all over and I'm driving station and then I

go the wrong way. Whatever. And I'm in traffic for another 15 minutes getting here. Yeah. And you still beat me somehow. You look lovely. There's no catch up on you. You look fantastic.

You don't look fan-ished. And let me say this. What? you're always a little like as I say crazy bitch off air as soon as these mics crack open you get it together. You just I just now you're just recounting the crazy times, but no you bring it you can focus when you need to. This is the only time I can focus. Okay, that's why I like right now. So we just need to get a little microphone in front of your face. We've had you like it. I'll get you a new mic. It's a now. Okay, get a little microphone in front of your face We thought you might get you I'll get you a necklace It's a new mic. It's in the studio. Okay, but first What do you think of that? Oh my god, and it's amazing a vibrator necklace. Yeah, that's a microphone a microphone Yeah, dude, we can totally do that I remember to turn it off before you use it cuz I be gross. I know I hate when they mic you like gonna

I was doing my reality show. I will get to the store. I you guys okay listen It's a big show it's a big show a lot of this show. I am breaking to the store. You guys, okay, listen. Just for the show. It's a big show. A lot of fun. This show, I am breaking down for you. Orals, how to perform, or all sex correctly on a woman. Now, this is like one of the top things I get asked and I think it's the number one thing that guys eat help with because either you don't like doing it and it's probably because you don't know what you're doing

or you really don't like it. That's a whole other story or you think you know what you're doing and you're kind of halfway there or you're afraid of it or maybe you're doing it and I'm gonna give you don't know what you're doing, or you really don't like it, and that's a whole other story, or you think you know what you're doing, and you're kind of halfway there, or you're afraid of it, or maybe you're doing it, and I'm gonna give you 10 ways to make a better, so just chill out for a minute while I tell you this one story that when I was used to you,

Mike Delatine, when I did this reality show, I would always forget and then get screwed. So you're right. If I had a vibrator, Mike, thing, you'd be listening to me and everyone else. But everyone, thanks for listening to the show. This is what I have to tell you. It was Valentine's Day, week, last week,

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Are there really 10 tips? Or do you throw that out as like a number? You give 10, like a- No, we're all sex to, oh, I'll give them more than that. But like really quickly, people. Oh, so we did this survey. Oh, everyone go fill out the survey. It's on my website, sextoome.com.

And we've gotten a lot of responses, which are amazing. Probably like five or six hundred so far. It's pretty good. But we want a lot because it's helpful. And I'd say I've read through a lot of the responses. It's detailed. I so appreciate for you back.

And you can tell me that you hate too, because I'm cool with that. Everyone's like, I love how many of you, which talks too fast. You're just slow down. What'd you say? Can I hear you? Exactly.

So when you said 10 tips, I thought, well, you know me, like, anyone else's 10 tips will be three tips for me, because I'm so fast. So I know I talk fast, everyone. 10 tips. 10 tips. There's going to tips for me, because I'm so fast. I know I talk fast, everyone. 10 tips. 10 tips. There's going to be a lot of tips and anal sex and what else? Lou, we're talking about, because you all emailed me feedback

at sex.com and I love hearing from you. So back to Valentine's Day. What do people want to hear more about the most? Okay, so that's really interesting. So this is why you guys got to chime in, because you might disagree. So most people want to hear about sex tips. Well, we have like 20 questions.

And then like, of course, like sex tips is like number one, which is a lot, right? Madison, do you ever see it was like sex tip? Actually, I have it right here if you really want to know. And then oral sex, ironically, is what we're doing is was like number two, like the most common thing that people want to know about. This is funny, actually, I can share this with you all.

So then sex type, oh, sex type products is number two, most common thing, which is good because thank God I talk about that a lot. Oral sex is number three, relationship advice. People want video, do you think they want me to make a naked video or sex addiction and then the number, another top one is sex positions. Are these like multiple choice or at least? These are, no, no, no. Okay, you guys, it'll take you two minutes take this test

Can you pull the test the survey you can put it? No, we give you like the 20 10 choices like is anyone to say like Had a rain or something that just doesn't fit. Oh, you know I'm trying to think of anything else that in here I'd like to learn more about the polo the sport polo. No, no man scoping. Okay, listen But then I ask you like what would you change or what's your feedback? And it's interesting for people You know, but you can be like mean to, what would you change or what's your feedback? And it's interesting, but people, you know, but you can be like mean too, but people like it. And then people said that they like you.

Anderson is always entertaining. So check it. That was the one I filled out. I filled out. I haven't done it. So anyway, that helps us. We love it. Okay, so Valentine's Day, my week, I'm going back to this

because I need to tell you about, I mean, I could go on about how I almost died twice, but to me, it's like, people probably want to hear more, I have 50 shades of gray maybe, or they think of it because people, I saw the movie. That'd be like almost dying to me. What?

Right. How did you watch that? That's how a lot of people felt, and it's gotten, it's actually 80 million. Yeah, but 20% of my tomatoes, this is all that I pay, 20% of my tomatoes. I know, and it's like every day it's going down. Yeah But this book is a phenomenon and you really can't even if you hated it you read one page through in the ocean

You're like I never read it or you read the whole thing you were disappointed by the movie You cannot deny that it is having an impact right now Let's like I want to get into this. I went to the premiere. I see all sorts of movies and I'm not First movie I've seen in three years. I will not see it unless, so you're probably going to like it more than normal people because you never see movies. So I know that it's going to be entertaining. You know what I mean? Oh, you're a movie guy, right?

Yeah, a movie guy. But he has a podcast. More importantly, I have a wife. She's a very strong-minded woman. She's a social worker. She's in school and working full time. And she's got an opinion about things. in school and working full time and she's, she's got an opinion about things she's smarter than I am, she's great. She's, I want to say offended by this 50 shades of gray, but she's very upset and annoyed with the masses

being drawn to it. And her take on it is this is like deviant behavior, this man is stalking her. He's victimizing this woman and they're making it sexy now I don't know I've never read the book did she read the book these are the bullet points that are apparently have been thrusted the book no she would never let allow that to I would allow that to and she way off base yeah I mean people believe if they don't really know much about bondage, discipline, st.omaskism, power play, relationships, that it is, it could seem abusive, and that, you know, but it's only done with consent. When people are in these behaviors, you call it abusive,

but people get a lot of pleasure from paying. Pleasure and pain are very closely connected. I get that. Does she think it's like perpetuating this kind of violence towards women or something? For those of us, she needs to like, you got a lot of guys. And we just go to dinner one night and we'll talk. That'd be fun. I love that. Your wife's awesome. There's a lot of guys that are listening who are in the same boat as I am who don't know, you know, they don't, they

just got the broad strokes of it. Right. That's why I want to. And what my wife has told me is like, he's much older than the antagonist, I guess, in this movie. Yeah, much older than the antagonist, I guess, in this movie. Yeah. Much older than the protagonist, the woman, and he takes advantage of her. And he's like watching her from afar for a long time. That's stalking. No, not at all.

He's like six years older than her. That's a lot. Jamie Dornan, who's terrible at it. He's the lead. So not so no, he doesn't promote anything, not sexy at all. But you're saying that he, what he stalks her? No, I mean, that's what I'm here for. Okay, so that's not what it's about.

You know, he doesn't stalk her. It's a relationship where yeah, you know, she goes, he's a billionaire and she, you know, by mistake her roommate gets sick and says, we could go interview Christian Grey, who's the 28 year old wonder kid who has a huge corporation and flies like planes, trains, drives trains, automobiles, they're like buys our car, does the whole thing, has tons of money,

but he's focused on her and he's obsessed with her from the second he meets her and she's just kind of playing, you know, but she's actually really hot. And they, you know, but he's only into the dark, you know, but he's only into being indomitable. And she happens to be the only virgin in the entire state city, where is she, Seattle, like in Washington. There's only one virgin up there. Apparently in a turn.

So how little virgin, 22. So here's the thing about why people are attracted to Christian great is not because that women are reading this book. Let me, this is how I'm gonna break it down for guys first. They're not reading this book or going in this movie because they want you to have a dungeon or they want you to have handcuffs or they want you to beat them and they want to be

in pain after you have intercourse. That is probably maybe 1% of women. I'd say maybe 10% of women in one that they want like a spanking. Okay, so it's not even about that. It's about the fact that Christian, no, no, no, no one wants to be like hurt like crying that happens to me. Love slap on her. Spank, they want spanks. 40% wants to be hurt, like crying. That happens to me. We love slapping her. Spank, they want spanks.

40% want to spank on the ass, maybe. But I'm saying they want to be beaten in the room. But people get into this lifestyle and it's pleasure and pain, really. And it's emotional too, like, because he's dominating her, but he's getting pleasure from her submissiveness and the fact that he wants her and needs her so badly that women want to be adored. And they want to be made the center of someone's so badly that women want to be adored.

And they want to be made the center of someone's world. And they want to be cherished. And they want to feel like this man desires more than anything in the world. And she's the center of his universe. And that can be translated in many ways. And this way, it happens to be that, you know, he, but he also, you know, spankster, but she feels what Christian Grey has. It's not about the

money and the planes and the stuff of it, which helps trains and automobiles. It's that he is emotionally vulnerable because he's messed up. That's part that I don't like is they make it. He was sexually abused by an older woman, and so that's why he is the way he is. Are there like really cheesy flashbacks? No, not at all. I wish. I wish there was like a cheesy flashback to laugh at like seriously, there were, I didn't, you know, and, and he's wounded. He does make her the center of her universe. He's protective.

He's, you know, he's smart. He is, you know, he cares about her in ways. Like he does take care of her. He's reliable. He's, he's hot. He's what? Charisma free. Yeah, I don't know. So what you're saying? Charisma free. Well, in the movie, he's a disaster.

So the book's better than the books. Yeah, I'm here a lot in the office. But the book is horribly written. No, no, no. The book is not. Why do people flock into this fucking thing? Because the man, because, because first of all, it was the first book to come out like this on Kindle or wherever.

People, women could read it all, like, on the first time this book came out, that's why. It was the first one like this that became popular at the same time the Kindle was coming out, that's it. But also it is so simple and it is so poorly written. Like you think I was reading a review that you think it was her fourth language, this woman, like English.

And so it was hard to get through the book because she's like, oh my God, like things are like not correctly written. She repeats herself. But there's something about the simplicity of the way she writes it and the way she explains the power dynamic and the relationship that she actually develops the characters

and you really feel them in their background. And you can get into it and you can pass the bad writing. But I still thought the book was in gray and I've read other things. But what I do, like I thought it was poorly written But I understand the appeal because it's women Do a lot of women want to be submissive. It doesn't mean they want to be dominant a lot of women just want dominated They want a man to be decisive in the bedroom to take charge and in their day-to-day life

I'm not saying there aren't women or diamonds. Not just in that bedroom. You guys want us to go where to take you. Everything. I want you to make reservations. Dinner. Don't ask me what I want to do. Don't even ask me if I'm available. Like assume that we have plans. And that's the thing that you get married to.

He's a man. He's decisive. He makes the plan too. Like these are the other things all Christian Grey that he's just like, he's on it. Well, he's the billionaire. No, but how did you get there? Because he said so that these are the things that would be in my heart. So women, again, I'm not saying submissive people might equate that with like,

oh, she wants to be like serving meat. No, no, no, in the bedroom, I'm not saying everywhere, but they would like a man to be taking control of that situation. Those are the fantasy element. The fantasy element of it. And also, somebody's got all that, okay? So that is the, does that make more sense to you? Yeah, it makes a little say, I don't buy it because from what my own experience

we're gonna love line and around sexual things for so long now. I've found that, and I've had some friends that have actually been paid switches and they've done the dominant stuff and they've gone back and forth and been submissive as well and gotten paid for it and done calendars.

I mean, I've known. Oh yeah, I know Dominatrix is. I'm sure you do. Now, from what I've always heard is usually the ones, the clients that want to be dominated or the C.E.O. I'm sure you do. Now, from what I've always heard is usually the ones, the clients that want to be dominated, or the seat yo is a big powerful man. Exactly.

The ones that die first. The one that's like this Christian Grey guy. He want to want to continue dominating. He want to be dominated. So that's bullshit right there. Why? Because he was being dominated by this woman. No, is that what it turns out?

No, he was sexually dominated by an older woman. Oh, then he wants to become dominant. Now, he wants to be the dominant with her. I would think he would want to continue to like give up. No, he doesn't. He wants to somehow an older woman. Oh, then he wants to become dominant. Now he wants to be the dominant with her. I would think he would want to continue to like give up. No, he doesn't. He wants to somehow whatever it is. He's wounded. His mother was a crack addict and left him as a baby.

He was like an orphan. So he's the whole thing. You know what I'm saying? So no, it's not that he, no, seriously. Like so it's not that he wants to, what were you just saying? I'm just like, that he's that he continues to serve the dominant. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no that he continues to start on. No, no, so I was going to say, here's the thing, what I'm just

trying to say is, is that the dynamic in the bedroom that I'm going to break down is it's not that you need. It's like just a little restraint to put use a neck tie, like use your hands. And next time you're full around, they're like, put take her hands and put them above her head and hold them together. That's that's that's that's bond together. That's, that's, that's, that's bondage. I mean, that's, that's, that's, that's domination, okay? Right.

Just not hard. Don't hurt her. But like, do that's the kind of take charge things that women are getting turned on and that the book goes to the extreme. But they, sometimes they want a man to like put his knee in between her legs and rip them open because he has to, you know what I mean? Like, we want every time I throw us against the wall like in a way that doesn't hurt. You know what I'm saying?

Just, this is a common fantasy and I think that a lot of women, maybe they've married, they're reading this book and they're thinking, when was the last time my husband threw me down on the bed and just ravished me and gave me all this attention and made me feel special and the son of it made me feel beautiful. Not so much anymore. Doesn't happen. And same thing for guys, they're like, why I want women to initiate sex?

Like you guys, so don't get upset. Like yes, women should initiate sex more. I'm just saying that this is what the book is about. So I think that the good news about Fifty Shades of Grey is hopefully people get beyond all the, you know, things that they think it's about, like abusive, whatever, and think, oh, my partner was turned on by this. Maybe there's something to learn here,

and we can spice up our relationship in a way by applying some of these elements, or, you know, buying some like bondage tape, or just, you know, spanking on the butt every once in a while. Maybe he wants to spank. So that's a deal. Does that, do you think that helps explain it, Madison? What do you think you're just a near-mezis.

That might explain to people. The dynamic, I mean, you know, I'm just, I could go on, but I went to the premiere. Was it weird? The movie, okay, so I was hosting it for your host, the premiere. Racked LA. It was a premiere. Pre-premier, day before. A premiere. Pre-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-prem-Permir. Pre-Permir, Pre-Permir. And I was hosting it and I, it was for Racta-lai,

which is the Grove. I mean, Racta-lai is the Mag is the online thing. Racta-lai. Racta-lai was Racta-lai. It's awesome. It's really cool, like fashion and all the cool stuff happening in LA. Oh, like Nortzons Rack.

Yeah, exactly. Racta. They wake Ract San Francisco, Rack Mami. And then it was like this woman's group. It's like an art, like moms who are also like, you know, artists and really cool. Any protesters out there? No protesters. Really?

I got to, I used to go to the Grammys every year. They'd be protesters out in front of the Grammys. 52 is a grade. What are they protesting? I don't know, sex and the, I don't know. I would think they were protestors. Handcuffs? No, not yet, but they probably well.

So it was fun. So your questions, get off your ass. Protest. Okay, so I went this party. It was fun. I can invite a few, I can invite a few friends, but I was well. So it was fun. Press you get off your ass. Protest. OK, so I went this party was fun. I can invite a few, I can invite a few friends, but I was going to get into this. I'm not going to talk about the world. The women told me because you know,

every part I go to these women come up to me and they're like, because I was the host. And so I got there and the other woman who was amazing Natalie. And she was like, oh, you know, what do you want to just talk to people? I said, sure. So women were coming up to me and they were all had like, you know, I just met them and they each won. And these were a bit of snippet of conversations.

This was like an hour long, little, you know, party before the movie. Woman said to me, she goes, you know, I never want, I never want sex and I avoid my husband all the time. And then her friend like cuts her off and says, she goes, I avoid my husband all the time and I don't know what her off and says, she was I avoided my husband all the time, and I don't know what to do because I never want sex.

That was just like, of course, we hear this a lot, but this other woman grabs her and says, she was, how can I spice it up? And she said, how can I spice it up? What are your tips? What are your best tips? I said, well, do you ever try toys, pointers?

Okay, no, no, I don't mean tips. I mean, I have no problem. I orgasm, he cannot orgasm. Why can't he ejaculate little? I'm gonna do like retarded. It's called retarded ejaculation or delayed ejaculation in the middle of this party. She takes forever and it's so annoying. Then the other one I said, oh wait, are these people on Mike? These are people. No, we're in a cocktail party. I'm okay. Let me set them. Let me set the stage. Swanky restaurant. I'm sorry. No.

This is just like a party. In fact, there's no mics. People are having shrimp and having chocolate and having drinks and it's a swanky restaurant. No, mics. That makes you crazy. This is what I'm saying. It's cocktail conversation. Right. No mics. It makes me crazy. No, we talked earlier, but if you don't have a microphone on or front of you, you're all over the place. But as soon as you have a mic, so you might have been all over the place at this party. But I was listening to these women. Okay.

Gotcha. Each one had a different issue with their husbands, sexuality, that they were asking me advice about. This movie actually brought that out of them. So the movie, I go to next, is that what you're trying to move me on? So I go to the movie 50 shades in here 50 shades Okay Not a good movie. He's not attractive at all Jamie Dornin. Maybe you said he was hot not hot at all She said he Christian Gray

Hot in the book. Oh, oh, he's not hot. I don't think there's a great attraction. Who should have played him? I don't forget know you I mean honestly you'd be sexier than he is. No, not that. I mean, that's a good way. That was that me. Even you would be sexier than him. And honestly, like, my best part was like, I ran to like Susan Pinsky in the bathroom, like in the middle of it. And she's like, he's not cute.

I'm like, he's so not cute. I'm like, what do you think about it? We're like, yeah, we were like laughing about whatever. But people, again, if it's Bicep Your Relationship, go see it with your partner. If she loved the book, maybe you'll go home and have great sex. But the New York Review was awesome because it said that Jamie Dornan is no stranger in

wickedness. He's in this fall in this BBC show in Netflix and it said he plays a serial killer in that and that he's 10 times sexier than that than he is in 50 Shades. That's just bad direction. Okay. Hey, here's something else, though. I'm done. If you're a woman, and you're sitting there, you find yourself in the movie theater watching 50 Shades of Grey,

and your boyfriend or husband or some guy you're dating and sitting next to you, you got them by the balls. When it why? Because he's there. You think the guy who can sense the goal? I don't have to allow, yeah, not a, I shouldn't say allow, but a guy that would allow himself to go sit through that tight bullshit because his lady wants to, hey, that means he really cares about you in a good way. No you think that you think that a guy shouldn't go in. I think men should read this book. What? Yeah you know why?

Because you're going to figure out what turns a woman on in the way her mind works. Like it's kind of like porn. You know you guys just want to turn it on for two minutes and you want the like comp shot and then you turn it off. No I go for a third. This thing is like four play for two. It's a 500 page book. The first 250 pages they don't even have sex like and then you turn it off. No, I go for a third. This thing is like four play for two, it's a 500 page book. The first 250 pages they don't even have sex like,

and it's like four play. You'd go insane, but it works, turns around. There's not even a lot of sex in the movie. That's the story. Got you, got you. I'm saying it could be useful, but you could forget hate the movie. Okay, so sex in the news funny enough.

Fifty shades of gray, sex injuries in the US have doubled. That is what Goddamn book. Yep, in the last seven years it says, okay, I think people have also started using sex toys more, sex injuries in the US have doubled, and they think it's because of 50 shades, what's even scarier is that 83% of those injuries,

they deemed, they needed foreign body removals. And it's mostly men over the age 40, getting hurt in hospitals. And then, you know what, I'm just gonna skip. I'm gonna do a quick word, quick read. Quick, yeah. Quick, quick, little love of the sponsor. Because I have so much more to say now,

but I just think I want to answer emails. Because- You're double-sexy. Sexon news, no more like I have other news and funny things. If the show could be six hours, but I just think I want to answer emails. Because- You're done with the two. Section news. No, but I have other news and funny things. If the show could be six hours, but since it can't be, and I know you all- It does feel like that. You know what's interesting, Anderson?

A lot of people on the survey cutting to that, they want longer shows. They want what? Longer shows. Yeah, you know what longer shows would be good. And this does feel like one of those ones where we can go on for hours and hours. Dude, I used to do a three hour radio show,

and I had no problem filling the space. It's CBS and San Francisco. That's why you're a professional, it's why you're a professional. No, I'm not. I would know if it was very interesting, but I could talk to you. You're literally a professional. Literally. Really? Say, this is a nice feel. But no, it's true. I mean, you get paid to this. You're like, right. Right, but I always feel like, oh, I'm so.

No, you're really good. Filling airspace with anything interesting is very hard to do. You're great at it, and you like, you always leave me wanting more. I'm always a little bit sad when the very hard to do. You're great at it and you always leave me wanting more. I'm always a little bit sad when the show has to end. It's like, even you who like hates everyone, that's sweet. No, you know I love you, come on, let's go. I know, I love you. Let's talk. Give some love to the sponsors, we can get back to it.

Okay, you guys, and oh, people like less ads, but you get, I have to make a living, okay, so then you should just go buy that in flashlight. If there was no ads, she's not a professional. If there was no ads like five years ago, and no one pay me, I was a homeless, okay, living in a friend's couch. So I love you all for listening and supporting my show,

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There is not enough Loub in this world, especially for you and your fleshlight. Okay, oh, funny enough, my first question is about Loub. Because I love hearing from the people, I'm going back to the email. I'm sorry, I talk about fleshlight real quick. Yeah, fleshlight.com, use coupon code Emily. You know what'd be pretty cool

if that company- Flushlight microphone? Flushlight, no,com, use coupon code Emily. You know it'd be pretty cool. If that company, flashlight, microphone. Flashlight, no, no, off the microphone. If they actually figured out, and I'm being 100% serious, if you could actually like load a condom in there and then put on a condom with the flashlight as a little like prepper, that'd be pretty good.

Because putting condoms on it's a pain in the ass. You could actually load one kind of like in there, like half on a road, like getting an easy way and then just jam it on. No, but they should have an automatic cond kind of look like a joint roller thing build gates I think Bill Gates actually offered up a hundred grand if anyone could actually come up with a better condom or a condom You just have to look at it and hold the tip and make sure the thing But it's hard time you're in the dark and you're going upside down if you could have it like in a fleshlight already preloaded and this like

Hold on a second. Boom. That would be awesome. Let's go. Let's talk to him about that. Okay, so, um, Lou Betacot. Hi, Emily. I'm a big fan. My question is about using Lou. I have been single for the past two years and have a fair minus sexual partners. I love using Lou, but I was wondering if it's a turn off for women if I pull out.

Oh, okay. I wonder if it's turn off for women if I pull out a bottle of half empty lube during my first encounter with a new partner. Yeah, I never thought of that. Does it make me seem like a player? Or is she wondering about the cleanliness of the bottle or what other vagina I've been touching while holding that bottle? Should I just invest in a bunch of bottles of lube and pull out a brand new one every time with a new partner? I'd be interested to get a female perspective

on this issue. Thank you, Mike. Another invention, you create a bottle that always looks like it's cool. Like it has like a trick wall, so it's always like in the front, so it always looks like it's full. I have one for you guys.

This is what I got for you. First of all, you cannot, it cannot be gross and goopy with like the cap torn off and the side of an old condom wrapper sticking to it when you pull it out of the goddamn drawer, okay? That's a no-no. Like don't get the stuff from the drug store that's all crinkly and stuff like that.

If it's a nice bottle of loop, for example, system Joe makes great loop and pure PJ UR. You make a loop. I make, well, I can't sell it yet. My Emily and Tony loop because it's amazing, by the way. It's a great loop, I know. But it was the whole FDA thing that's so expensive and whatever and they don't prove it yet, my Emily and Tony Lube, because it's amazing, by the way. It's a great Lube, I know, but it was the whole FDA thing that's so expensive and whatever, and they don't prove it's a long thing.

And I can't sell you my Lubs, but actually I've given it to several people around here and they're like, it's my favorite Lube, but I can't talk about that, but these Lubs, like pure, they come in these beautiful bottles, they're a little more expensive, but they're worth it, because the ingredients are safe for women, water-based.

ingredients are safer women, water-based, maybe to run you, you know, 18, 22 dollars for something about 15, but or liquid silk, although liquid silk you pump. So anyway, if you get one of these, it's in a black dark bottle and it has a flip top and you pour it, you can't tell how much is in there and how much is gone. Just make sure what noise.

Yeah, make sure it doesn't go like the end of the catch up. Yeah. Yeah, that's a buzz kill. So make sure that you actually just go cost-combed by like 10 bottles. No, but, and so those that you flip cap, it looks like a bottle shampoo thing is nice. It can tell how much is in there.

Right. So don't buy the girls kind and make sure you throw out the old con and wrappers and all that stuff. You know, guys don't do that sometimes. We just have con and blame in the house. Yeah. I was a guy. I don't get it. Okay, don't do that sometimes. Just have condoms laying in the house. I was a guy. I don't get it.

Okay, any other hand here to, I'll tell you this in a minute. What? I got a quick actual really stupid question about loops, but I always hear you saying water-based. What is the difference between water-based? Water-based? Yeah, there is oil-based.

Oil-based is bad. We're not talking about the sheets. That fucks up your condoms, but I make, well, my candles are misogile. You can't actually use those, they're not messy in their massage Oh, no, I see you're saying though the loob's oil bases like you please vegetable No, don't use that but this is so why water's better because it has all body safe ingredients for women

So women's vaginas can become really really sensitive to Different chemicals that are uncertain. Well, they're made sensitive. Yeah, we're sensitive. And our pH balance can get upset a lot from different loops. So silicone loop, for example, which is silicone and it is much slipper, let's slipper, slipper, it lasts longer, slipper, more slipper. More slipper. Last longer.

And if you're with a partner and you don't use condoms because you guys are protected and you've tested, then you really might like silicone loop. And actually, it's not, there's some, if you buy one of these high quality brands, I'm talking about SlickWid, go to goodvibes.com, or my website, click on the banner, use code Emily, any loops I recommend there are good.

So anyway. Don't cheap out. Don't cheap out of the loop. Yeah, like there's certain things that you could cheap out on. I'm not trying to even think of what, buy lifestyle is condoms too or skin, those are amazing, but what could you cheap out on? That you can't. So don't cheap out of the loop.

It guys cheap out like KY, I want to leave. I'm like, I just lost my bowener if you were about KY, and this is so bad because a lot of guys are going to, you know, whatever. But throw out your KY and don't get the warming one because that hurts our vagina. So water-based, safe. Silicone, if you're with a protected partner, it feels really good last longer. That's about it. Those are the two to choose from and also they break down sex toys silicone does. So if you use a lube with sex toys as a lot of people do you don't want to use a silicone lube with your toys.

So silicone lube, no good with toys, but good with just a vagina and the penis. Exactly. Water based, good with everything. Exactly, so do so. Oil based, nothing. Oil based, nothing. So Mike, since you're a player and you're with lots of women, I would say get one of these organic water loobs that look nice that have a don't have a clear bottle so you can't see what's gone. Or if you have a clear bottle, put duct tape around.

Yeah, exactly. Just keep filling with water or something so she doesn't know. That's a good, that was a thorough and a good question. Oh, here's the thing. If you have sex toys that are used, that is a no-no. Never cycle those bad boys ever. Unless you're in the mood to break up, don't recycle a sex toy.

She fucking should have. Unless you're like, you know what? I hope she dumps her right now. I'm gonna pull out this literal vibe here for my last girlfriend. No, in fact, I had a friend who was dating one of my really good friends in San Francisco 10 years ago and she, he's still to say what my I really still to this good friend and I go shocked that he she said

We're exactly pulled out some vibrator from his drawer like and she was like horrified. Yeah, obviously unless you went out Unless it was smart though. If you went to Stanford like how does you know guys don't know maybe he uses it on He was actually trying to be sweet and loving. Okay. Any butt play in that 50-six. Oral sex. No, no butt play. So oral sex pointers.

Okay, here we go. This is the best part. This is what you're all waiting for. Oh, and everyone, thanks for emailing me feedback at sexwithemily.com. Hi, Emily. I love your show and I listen all the time. You have so much good advice and great insight. Thanks for all you do.

My girlfriend and I are starting to experiment orally and I'm not terribly comfortable with my performance of going down in her. I've never really gotten down in a woman before. Do you have any pointers or advice to offer me as I begin learning the skill? Is there a prior podcast or article you could point me in the direction of? Thanks again Emily. Keep on doing what you're doing, Jay. interaction of. Thanks again Emily, keep on doing what you're doing, Jay. He's a male. Okay Jay, yes, full. I have tons. If you go to my website and you search for oralsacks. That's Emily.com. You'll see podcasts and tips and blogs and all that stuff. But I decided that tonight I'm going to really break it down because sometimes you just need to explain to you. Some of you could read it and I'm just gonna explain this to you

in the way that you all understand. Because oral sacs and the vagina is the Rubik's cube of life, it's difficult for men, it's a challenge because every vagina is different. Every woman is gonna want something different when it comes to oral sacs, someone comes to everything. So make sure that when you are doing it,

you are giving it your all, you're into it, you're committed and you're there. Because a guy who is like, yeah, I'll go down there for two seconds and then go back up. That doesn't work. Like, I'm like, you could have gotten me a glass of water or on the hot, like you wasted my time with one minute down there. So if you're not into it, don't do it. Commit to it.

What do you think, Anderson? So far so good. Absolutely. There's a lot of guys who don't like, perform any of it, but we're not going to get, I'm going to do it, commit to it. What do you think, Anderson? So far so good. Absolutely. There's a lot of guys who don't like performing it, but we're not gonna get, I'm gonna tell you how to love it. What? If you don't like it, I mean, Catherine would, it says it best, when he says, you know, if a chef served you something

that tasted like that, you would want a punch in the face. It's not like, we're going down there for the taste. We're going down there because we like making you like something. We like getting you in. You fight. And I think you got to think of it as like a car engine. Like your car is giving you a little bit of idling problem, right?

So your hands are in there. You're doing some work on the engine and you're listening into the car idle. You're trying to figure out if it's working well. If you're getting the engine going better or worse, you got to be paying attention to the actual car that you're messing around with. You got to not only do the action, but you got to figure out how like the top half is reacting.

When I'm talking about like above the shoulders. I get it. So when you're saying, because this is one of my 10 tips, what I've seen. Your saying is what you, when you're, because when you're working in a car which I've never done,

I actually just learned how to put air in my tires the other day, it was really hard. So that you pay attention to the way your body's the other day. It was really hard. So, that you pay attention to the way your body is moving and how she's reacting to you. Yeah, like if it's idling well, you gotta like keep your eye on, you know, you gotta be focused. And it's true because a woman will show you exactly how you're doing. If you pay attention to her breath, quickens. Yeah, you gotta be thinking about what you're doing, but also paying attention. Right. And then you will hope, you know, it's, I love bringing other people pleasure.

That's why I don't understand, you know, a lot of women don't like oral sex, but I think that you can switch your mindset. If you love this person, it's an extension of their body, and you're giving them great pleasure, and that's what love is about, seeing your loved ones happy, giving them pleasure. And so if you can switch this mindset, and then I'm going to give you, you're going to kill it every time, because you may mind mind-blowing orgasms, you're going to love it. So here's the thing, you don't want to have acid, you want to make sure she's comfortable.

Women, the women are like, I don't want to, don't touch me, they're uncomfortable, they're insecure sometimes, they can be body conscious, self conscious about how long it takes them to orgasm. And if you give any hint, you have a look on your face that you don't wanna be there and you don't wanna do it, we will sense it and we will be uncomfortable. So the best thing you can do is make sure that she's relaxed and make sure that you just say, you know babe, I got relaxed, lay back,

I've got this, I could stay here all day. Women wanna hear that, okay? Position, best position, lying on her back, you could put a pillow under her, but this way you're lifting up and you've great leverage, it lifts up her pelvis. So you've great leverage there, she's lying on the bed. Teezer, okay? So it's all about slowing down and teasing.

You do not want to go right for a clitoris. You want to lick all around. I mean, you want to lick her thighs, you want to tease her thighs, you want to like kiss her stomach. Teezer and a thighs massage around the clitoris with her fingers. Don't touch it yet, because part of what is really going to turn her on and make the sex feel so amazing is the anticipation, is the anticipation of the pleasure of when you finally get there. So by denying us that touch to a region in our body that has so many nerve endings and that is so hot and feels so good, 8,000.

8,000. The more you prolong it and tease us, the much, much better it will feel. So do that and she'll be turned on and you will know it. You will feel it. Then the tongue, you're gonna make contact with the clitoris. When you do, start softly, and you just want to focus like on the clitoral hood, which is just above the clitoris. Clitoral hood sounds like something from the church. Okay, this is in my book, this is online

Google it. The clitoral hood, located, just okay. Yeah, so starting between, you want alternate between wide licks and small licks across the clitoris. Everyone is different. You do not want to violently flick your tongue at every dino. Because your new lover is gonna want to, you don't really like some other person. Oh, if your last girlfriend wanted you to violently lick it, which most women don't until the end,

this one's gonna want you to kiss it. In fact, think of the vagina, like you're making out with it softly. Like make out with her softly and kiss her. That's what you should do. Start very slow. Then if she likes it, how you're moving your tongue, you can go back and forth, go in circles,

side to side, you're gonna start to feel her again, paying attention to the rhythm, her moaning, her moving, if what you're doing makes her feel good. You'll see how she responds. Also, the clitoris starts to engorge, gets bigger. Do you have any notice that Anderson running down there? I don't like the word engorge, so I'm going to start to bite them. So just pay attention. You'll get feedback. And also fingers. You might want to use your fingers. Some women like to have like a finger to inside. She can also have a

G-spot orgasm and yeah, teaser with us. What about this? Pulling up, I don't how to explain it like you have your hand just below the belly. Oh yeah the pelvic muscle is right there that's exactly. And you kind of like pull over her stomach like so that like everything down there kind of moves up closer to your tongue. Exactly. You kind of like stretch the skin. I'm great. It sounds gross the way. I'm great. It sounds gross the way I'm describing it. No, you're talking about your one hand could be inside her

and one's on her stomach even pulling up. Like kind of, I mean, her pelvis region. And you like pull like you just push her skin up so make it, make it, make it taught. Yeah. So the growing area is more taught. And yeah, right. Because then you are also through her skin touching those nerves

there. And then you might also be your fingers. You're absolutely right. That works for a lot of women. Okay you guys I also have a lot more of this on my blog and my website which you can read. And you know what? Women have been taught for a long time to be ashamed of the Regina's and a lot of women don't feel that comfortable with it so the more you comfortable you get with it the more you tell you love it and you do it she will

love it. Okay so that's your old sex tips. I'm full of them. I got more, maybe next time we'll have to talk more. Next time I'll try and get here earlier. Oh yeah, we were a little late today. So, and again, fill out my survey, and I love everyone. So thank you for listening and giving me a job

and that I can live on and support myself. And Anderson. I'm a professional. Anderson, check out his podcast, The Film Volts. Yeah, you know what this week we do a top five Oscar locks. So if you got an office pool or something, it doesn't matter if it's Friday though. So it might be a little late for some of your office pools.

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